1 00:00:01,160 --> 00:00:02,639 Speaker 1: It is the freend Show. Good morning. 2 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:04,560 Speaker 2: Thanks for having us on the radio, on the iHeart 3 00:00:04,600 --> 00:00:08,080 Speaker 2: app live and anytime search for The Fred Show on demand. Okay, well, 4 00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 2: here's an etiquete question about gifting, which is why I 5 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:12,920 Speaker 2: brought it up. And this is on Reddit, by the way, 6 00:00:13,400 --> 00:00:15,960 Speaker 2: because as Fred Hayter Lauren would say, that's the only 7 00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 2: place I can get content is Reddit, so it's a 8 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 2: great place to get content. At least I credited. I 9 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:22,880 Speaker 2: mean I never should have credited it. I should just say, 10 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 2: oh my god, this isn't another original idea from me. 11 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 3: I know people in. 12 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 4: The business who will read something on raddit and then 13 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:32,440 Speaker 4: make it as if it was their own story, which 14 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 4: I have a lot of respect for you, just being like, yo, 15 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:36,840 Speaker 4: this is from raddit last well, thank you of it. 16 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:40,199 Speaker 2: It is our jobs to scour the world for content 17 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:42,160 Speaker 2: and then give you what we think is the best 18 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 2: of it. Okay, And we don't always succeed at that, 19 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:45,960 Speaker 2: by the way. I'll be the first tupment that we 20 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:48,760 Speaker 2: don't always succeed at that, but that's what we're here 21 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:51,280 Speaker 2: to do. So we're here to entertain you. We read 22 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:54,080 Speaker 2: all kinds of stupid things one hundreds of pages of 23 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 2: crap every day, which is the hardest part of the 24 00:00:56,480 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 2: job is just have to use our eyes and read 25 00:00:58,960 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 2: and concentrate. 26 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 1: We don't do that very well either. Sometimes. 27 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:04,760 Speaker 2: A woman logged onto Reddit after spotting a three hundred 28 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 2: dollars charge on her joint credit card. She confronted her 29 00:01:08,240 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 2: husband and discovered that the money was for a wedding 30 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:13,959 Speaker 2: gift that he bought for a female coworker. The issue, though, 31 00:01:14,319 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 2: is it neither she nor her husband were invited to 32 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 2: the wedding. Her husband defended the gifts by saying the 33 00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 2: coworker had shared a wedding registry via the company slack channel, 34 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:28,480 Speaker 2: which that's bold. Whoa wowty? I mean, I don't know 35 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 2: if we have a company slack channel. I'm not a 36 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:33,760 Speaker 2: slack person. I haven't gone there to find content yet, 37 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 2: but I will, don't worry. If there's a place I 38 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:38,679 Speaker 2: can get content without having to do anything, I'll go. 39 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:40,759 Speaker 2: But can you imagine if you just sent you should 40 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 2: do it and see what happens. Send your wedding registry 41 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 2: to a company all email. 42 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:47,039 Speaker 3: Absolutely not. 43 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 2: And the funny thing is people would buy you stuff 44 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 2: they talk about you behind your back. But you'd get 45 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 2: more stuff. No, yeah, so he believed that that justified 46 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 2: the purchase. She disagreed, pointing out that at her own 47 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:01,760 Speaker 2: baby shower, their own baby shower, he was I guess 48 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 2: involved with that, the same coworker had given them a 49 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 2: modest twenty dollars gift. Many commentarys sided with the wife, 50 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 2: calling the coworkers registry post taxi and questioning the husband's 51 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 2: judgment in spending so much on someone he barely knows. 52 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:17,239 Speaker 1: Is there okay? 53 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:19,840 Speaker 2: Is there a difference between a wedding registry and a 54 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 2: baby registry? If I'm not invited to the baby shower, 55 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:26,080 Speaker 2: do you are you still expected to buy a baby gift? 56 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:28,600 Speaker 2: If I'm not invited to the wedding, but I know 57 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 2: the person and I want to be nice, can I 58 00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 2: send a wedding present? 59 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:32,680 Speaker 5: Now? 60 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 2: I think this could probably be used passive aggressively. I 61 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 2: could see someone sending a wedding gift to a wedding 62 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:39,919 Speaker 2: they weren't invited to as a reminder that they weren't invited. 63 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:42,399 Speaker 2: But let's just say you're not being petty for once, 64 00:02:43,480 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 2: and you just want to be a nice person. And 65 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 2: maybe someone's getting married in a destination, or it's a 66 00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 2: small wedding or a family wedding, or maybe I work 67 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:50,640 Speaker 2: with them, but I don't. 68 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 1: Know them all that well. 69 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 2: But I do want to do something nice because maybe 70 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:56,399 Speaker 2: I'm I don't know, I don't know the scenario here, 71 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 2: the demographics, but maybe he's an older, more established co 72 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:02,520 Speaker 2: worker and she younger and starting there, starting a life, 73 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 2: and he wanted to do something kind for her. I 74 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:08,080 Speaker 2: don't see this as that egregious. If they have the money, 75 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:10,800 Speaker 2: I don't know that they You have to be invited 76 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 2: to a wedding to buy somebody a wedding gift if 77 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 2: you want to be nice. In fact, I would almost 78 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 2: rather sometimes buy a wedding gift than not have to 79 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 2: go to the wedding. Oh that's almost a cheaper way 80 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:23,240 Speaker 2: out me, okay, noted. Yeah, No, I've already auctioned off. 81 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 2: I've already made money on my plus one for you, 82 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 2: So don't be there, don't worry. No, we got we gotta. 83 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 2: It's like the stock market right now. The price is 84 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:33,519 Speaker 2: going up. Yeah, people are. It's on eBay right now. 85 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 2: It's win a date with me Takiki's wedding. Yeah, and 86 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:39,840 Speaker 2: currently it's hit seventeen dollars, but it wasn't ten, so 87 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 2: it's going up very quickly. 88 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 1: Yeah no, I think we could probably get close to thirty. 89 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah. Did anyone buy you a gift who wasn't 90 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 2: invited to the wedding? 91 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:51,440 Speaker 6: Yeah no, no, no, not that didn't happen. People that 92 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 6: I even invited, that didn't even RSVP or saiden a gift. 93 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 6: You guys know, I don't really care about the gift, 94 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 6: but I still think that's a little weird. 95 00:03:57,360 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 1: People showed up who didn't do our VP. 96 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 6: No, no, no, an invitation to someone that we work 97 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 6: with very closely, and he didn't even r s v 98 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:06,560 Speaker 6: P yes or no, didn't give a gift, but I no. 99 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 6: He gave gifts to another coworker that got married, if 100 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:09,800 Speaker 6: that makes sense. 101 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 3: That was a male. Very interesting. Not the point of 102 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 3: the story. My point is. 103 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 6: That I've been waiting this moment to be honest yet, yes, 104 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:24,080 Speaker 6: finally waited to say something. But for my baby shower, 105 00:04:24,480 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 6: my dear dear coworker, writer, coworker Beyonce Fox, who's on 106 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 6: the one of the throwing legend, he said a gift 107 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:33,240 Speaker 6: with another coworker who was at my baby shower and 108 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 6: that that was the sweetest thing. It was like the 109 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 6: cutest little outfit and and that moment, don't, if I 110 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 6: could be honest, I felt guilty. Like that made me 111 00:04:40,240 --> 00:04:41,960 Speaker 6: feel guilt because I was like, oh, I should have 112 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:44,320 Speaker 6: invited you, and she didn't. I don't think she wanted 113 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:45,720 Speaker 6: the invite, but I think she just wanted to be 114 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 6: sweet in that moment. 115 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 3: And she is the sweetest woman ever. Yes, but I 116 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:50,479 Speaker 3: was like, to me, I felt like, oh, I felt 117 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:51,080 Speaker 3: really bad. 118 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 7: You know. 119 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:53,359 Speaker 3: That's how I took it. I was like, oh, like, 120 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:55,960 Speaker 3: you're sweet, but I feel bad. That's why she did. 121 00:04:55,880 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 2: It, because there's no way you could possibly invite everybody, right, 122 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 2: everybody in your orbit, we really fit. 123 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:04,280 Speaker 3: And maybe be sure you have to fit the drag queens. 124 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:04,840 Speaker 1: You know. 125 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 2: I think I've sent I think I've sent gifts to 126 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 2: baby registries before for showers I wasn't invited to because 127 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:13,080 Speaker 2: I'm a guy, and a lot of times guys aren't 128 00:05:13,120 --> 00:05:15,800 Speaker 2: invited to the showers, but like it's a coworker's wife, 129 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 2: and so. 130 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:17,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. 131 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:20,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I've done that, but I want to 132 00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 2: know eight five five nine, one o three to five 133 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 2: Context the same number, and of course do you think 134 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 2: of course you guys can comment on this too. Oh 135 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:29,839 Speaker 2: you guys are welcome to chime in if you'd like 136 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:30,920 Speaker 2: your commentary's value. 137 00:05:31,160 --> 00:05:31,479 Speaker 3: Thank you. 138 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 2: But I mean, I I guess I don't understand what 139 00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:38,479 Speaker 2: the problem is. Like if they don't have any money 140 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 2: and he's giving gifts to someone who's wedding he wasn't 141 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 2: invited to, then I would say, why are you giving 142 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:43,239 Speaker 2: them money? 143 00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 1: Like we need money, right. 144 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:48,080 Speaker 2: You know that that's an egregious expense, Like like what 145 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 2: is Then I would start to wonder, like what's the 146 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 2: nature of that relationship, like are you obsessed with her 147 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 2: or something? Because like, well, if we don't have money 148 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:55,719 Speaker 2: and you're sending gifts to I mean, look, if we 149 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 2: don't have money, right, which a lot of people don't 150 00:05:57,640 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 2: have money, right, I mean you know, if you get 151 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 2: if you get in you know, holidays, and then you 152 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:05,559 Speaker 2: get invited to a wedding, and then god forbid, somebody 153 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 2: gets pregnant like it could be and then if someone's 154 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:09,800 Speaker 2: birthday get it gets a little trim in the bank 155 00:06:09,839 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 2: account this time of year, gets a little trim in 156 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 2: the old bank account. 157 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:15,120 Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, right, I got. 158 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:16,159 Speaker 1: I got multiple birthdays. 159 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 2: I gotta buy Christmas presents for everybody, you know, just 160 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:22,640 Speaker 2: travel like it gets a little trim in the old 161 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 2: bank account this time of year. The summer is not 162 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 2: great for me either, because I got dad's sister mom 163 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 2: and so I get, you know, a little brokie in 164 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 2: the summer too. But if I didn't have any money 165 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:35,359 Speaker 2: and I had and I'm in a relation and married 166 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:37,919 Speaker 2: and I'm sending gifts to a woman's wedding that I 167 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:40,600 Speaker 2: wasn't invited to and we're broke, then I think then 168 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 2: you start to ask questions, right like what why? Absolutely? 169 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:46,440 Speaker 2: But if we have enough money and you would you know, 170 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:48,359 Speaker 2: I'm going to ask, and it's a nice. 171 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:48,680 Speaker 1: Thing to do. 172 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 2: And I think what I would say is, hey, look, 173 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 2: we didn't here we go, we're not we don't have 174 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:54,599 Speaker 2: to go to the wedding, we don't have to dress up, 175 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 2: we don't have to do any I want to do 176 00:06:55,560 --> 00:06:56,520 Speaker 2: something nice for this person. 177 00:06:56,720 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it was a nice gesture. 178 00:06:58,760 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 8: You work with someone you see that they're you know, 179 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:03,680 Speaker 8: getting married or having a baby. I think he was 180 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:06,919 Speaker 8: so totally fine to send a gift. But if, like 181 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:10,040 Speaker 8: you said, we're already having financial issues. That's a big problem. 182 00:07:10,080 --> 00:07:11,800 Speaker 8: You shouldn't be sending anybody a gift. 183 00:07:12,440 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I do think The other thing is if you 184 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:17,360 Speaker 2: send a gift to someone who's wedding you weren't invited 185 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 2: to in an office setting, for example, and there are 186 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:22,880 Speaker 2: a lot of weddings you didn't get invited to, then 187 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:26,040 Speaker 2: why wouldn't you so you won't send gifts to them? 188 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:29,520 Speaker 2: You know, then you start to be why her over 189 00:07:29,560 --> 00:07:30,240 Speaker 2: the other ones? 190 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:31,600 Speaker 3: They're messing around? 191 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 2: But that's also not for anyone else to say that. 192 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 2: Would that the only person whose opinions matter in that 193 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:38,239 Speaker 2: or the guy who bought the gift in the guy's wife. 194 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:40,360 Speaker 9: Oh yeah, But like if they were messing around, why 195 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 9: would you buy her a wedding gift? 196 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 3: Like what? 197 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 8: Maybe he's trying to be like, hmmm, I see you 198 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 8: over there getting married. Don't forget about us? Yeah, oh yeah, 199 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:50,520 Speaker 8: don't forget about us. Yeah, that's what he's saying. 200 00:07:50,520 --> 00:07:53,920 Speaker 2: That's absolutely or some sort of weird obsession or something, 201 00:07:53,960 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 2: I don't know, obsession. Go Arin, how you doing, Erin, 202 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:02,160 Speaker 2: I'm good? 203 00:08:02,200 --> 00:08:02,600 Speaker 3: How are you? 204 00:08:03,280 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 2: Good morning? I'm great, Thanks for listening, thanks for calling. 205 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:07,840 Speaker 2: So what do you think this dude bought a wedding 206 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:10,120 Speaker 2: gift for a co worker, spent three hundred dollars and 207 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 2: he's not invited to the wedding, and the wife is like, 208 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 2: why'd you do that? 209 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:17,040 Speaker 10: Yeah, that's crazy. I was just right now, there's two 210 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:19,560 Speaker 10: teachers in the building that are getting married to each other, 211 00:08:20,120 --> 00:08:23,640 Speaker 10: and our boss sent like a message to suggest donating 212 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 10: to the wedding gift. I didn't get invited to the wedding, 213 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:28,680 Speaker 10: so I'm like, why are you asking me to give 214 00:08:28,720 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 10: them money? And like there's another weddings that have. 215 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:32,960 Speaker 3: Happened just not to teachers. 216 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:34,600 Speaker 10: It's like I married someone who doesn't work in the 217 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 10: building and they didn't give us anything. 218 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 3: So it just seems really very really interesting. 219 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 10: I'm not going to do it. 220 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:43,680 Speaker 2: So I guess maybe because it's two teachers getting married 221 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:47,440 Speaker 2: that that's kind of like a rare special event. But 222 00:08:47,640 --> 00:08:49,920 Speaker 2: I don't know if that's appropriate for the principal of 223 00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 2: the school to be asking you to give a gift 224 00:08:52,559 --> 00:08:55,560 Speaker 2: to them, unless it's unless it's I don't know, miss 225 00:08:55,559 --> 00:08:58,480 Speaker 2: he's throwing a party for them internally, because it's because again, 226 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:00,559 Speaker 2: like if you get married to some one who doesn't 227 00:09:00,559 --> 00:09:02,880 Speaker 2: work in this school. He's not going to send out 228 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:05,559 Speaker 2: a GoFundMe or whatever. He's not going to send out 229 00:09:05,760 --> 00:09:08,360 Speaker 2: a registry for you. But are they making a bigger 230 00:09:08,360 --> 00:09:10,000 Speaker 2: deal out of it because they both work there? 231 00:09:10,040 --> 00:09:11,760 Speaker 1: So it's kind of kitchy? Is that what it is? 232 00:09:12,720 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 3: Yeah? Maybe? 233 00:09:13,679 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 10: But like I mean, they don't really do like donations 234 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:19,800 Speaker 10: for like baby and pretty much just that, but they 235 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 10: never do it for weddings. And I don't know, I mean, yes, 236 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 10: you just don't get paid enough. 237 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:24,839 Speaker 1: Maybe it's like that, that's true. 238 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 3: I don't know. 239 00:09:25,720 --> 00:09:28,559 Speaker 10: I'm not invited to the wedding, so like, happy for them, 240 00:09:29,240 --> 00:09:31,840 Speaker 10: good for them, but I'm I'm not going to donate. 241 00:09:32,320 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. I don't think I blame you. Thank you, eron, 242 00:09:34,559 --> 00:09:37,560 Speaker 2: have a good day, good point, No, love you too. 243 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 2: I don't think that you should donate because you feel pressured. 244 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:41,320 Speaker 2: I also think that's it. That's a tough thing. Can 245 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:43,560 Speaker 2: you imagine if everybody who had a baby or got 246 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:45,440 Speaker 2: married around here we sent an email out with the 247 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:48,599 Speaker 2: thing like that's never happened. I've never once gotten a 248 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:52,320 Speaker 2: like from from a bomb an email to you the 249 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:55,080 Speaker 2: entire cluster of radio stations saying Hey, so and so 250 00:09:55,240 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 2: is having a baby. Here's the registry. If you have 251 00:09:57,840 --> 00:10:00,280 Speaker 2: to do it every single time. Oh yes, you're not 252 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:02,240 Speaker 2: missing right right exactly. 253 00:10:01,880 --> 00:10:03,640 Speaker 1: So I wouldn't. I don't think i'd go down that road. 254 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 4: I just ask like, if there's someone here that had 255 00:10:05,840 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 4: a baby that I want to get a gift for, 256 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:07,360 Speaker 4: I'm like. 257 00:10:07,360 --> 00:10:08,319 Speaker 3: Do you have a registry? 258 00:10:08,440 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 5: You know? 259 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:11,319 Speaker 8: And I mean, even though I'm sending it out, it's 260 00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:14,000 Speaker 8: not mandatory. I'm sure the principle didn't say you must. 261 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:16,200 Speaker 8: You know, like, it's not mandatory. It's just like if 262 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:17,600 Speaker 8: you want it to here's a. 263 00:10:17,559 --> 00:10:20,080 Speaker 1: Link, but you better do it every time. You better. 264 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:25,000 Speaker 2: Well, well, because this person, I mean, maybe she got 265 00:10:25,000 --> 00:10:26,160 Speaker 2: married and there was no thing. 266 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:27,720 Speaker 1: There was no link sentil. 267 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:28,120 Speaker 3: You know, there wasn't. 268 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:30,960 Speaker 1: That's what I mean. Like, if you're gonna do it 269 00:10:30,960 --> 00:10:32,439 Speaker 1: one time, you're gonna have to do it every. 270 00:10:32,280 --> 00:10:35,320 Speaker 4: Time, right because people like Paulina will never forget. 271 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:37,439 Speaker 3: I'll never forget, and they're gonna have their moment too. 272 00:10:37,960 --> 00:10:38,480 Speaker 3: Let the world know. 273 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:42,520 Speaker 2: Well, inevitably somebody will hit reply to all, especially if 274 00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 2: it's at this office, because even though it says don't 275 00:10:44,559 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 2: hit reply to all, somebody will hit reply to all, 276 00:10:46,480 --> 00:10:48,720 Speaker 2: and then they'll respond to something that they think is 277 00:10:48,760 --> 00:10:50,800 Speaker 2: only for the guy who sent the email, but really 278 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 2: everybody gets to see it and it's the same culprits 279 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:56,480 Speaker 2: every time. Do we not understand how reply to all works? 280 00:10:56,760 --> 00:11:00,200 Speaker 2: There are two options. There's reply and reply to all, 281 00:11:00,280 --> 00:11:03,200 Speaker 2: and it never fails. Anytime there is a group email 282 00:11:03,240 --> 00:11:06,040 Speaker 2: sent out, at least three people would hit replied to 283 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 2: all with something and then they'll ask a question that 284 00:11:08,160 --> 00:11:10,360 Speaker 2: has only to do with them. I would personally be 285 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:14,679 Speaker 2: interested in that. Well, they've sent a personal email. It 286 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:15,959 Speaker 2: got started early this morning. 287 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:16,640 Speaker 11: Guys like that. 288 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:19,120 Speaker 1: I'd bid it got started early. It irks me. 289 00:11:19,400 --> 00:11:24,199 Speaker 2: Reply versus two different buttons, Push the right button. He's 290 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:26,200 Speaker 2: a frend show show his brothers in Las Vegas, all 291 00:11:26,240 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 2: expenses paid. The only way to win is to listen 292 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 2: to us each morning and get the keyword and then 293 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 2: leave us a talkback message. And I've got another keyword 294 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:35,679 Speaker 2: coming up. And if you miss any of them, there 295 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:37,320 Speaker 2: on the iHeart app search for the Fread Show. 296 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:40,600 Speaker 1: Callin's entertainment report is on the Fread Show. 297 00:11:41,160 --> 00:11:42,040 Speaker 3: NBA Legenda. 298 00:11:42,080 --> 00:11:44,880 Speaker 11: Quier O'Neil says he will cover the funeral costs for 299 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:48,000 Speaker 11: twelve year old Jada West, a Georgia girl who died 300 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 11: after a fight at a school bus stop earlier this month. 301 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:55,520 Speaker 11: Jada reportedly suffered a serious brain injury after the altercation 302 00:11:55,640 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 11: later died, prompting an ongoing police investigation into what happened. 303 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:02,920 Speaker 11: Shack said the story touched his heart, explaining he just 304 00:12:02,960 --> 00:12:06,560 Speaker 11: wanted to help erase the financial burden on the grieving family. 305 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:11,280 Speaker 11: He is partnering with some local police officers to support them, rally, 306 00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:15,839 Speaker 11: community help them as they seek answers about the circumstances 307 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:18,320 Speaker 11: leading it to her death. Such a tragic story, but 308 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:22,000 Speaker 11: you know, obviously he's stepping in and at least covering 309 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:23,520 Speaker 11: that so they don't have to worry about it. 310 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:24,360 Speaker 3: Okay. 311 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 11: Moving on to a few different concert festival just music 312 00:12:28,400 --> 00:12:32,600 Speaker 11: announcements in general, the twenty twenty six Lallapalooza lineup has 313 00:12:32,640 --> 00:12:37,480 Speaker 11: been unveiled, led by some major names Olivia Dean, Charlie XCX, 314 00:12:37,520 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 11: Tate McCrae, Lord the XX, alongside headliners like Jenny John, 315 00:12:42,120 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 11: Summit and The Smashing Pumpkins. The four day festival returns 316 00:12:45,679 --> 00:12:49,520 Speaker 11: to Grant Park in Chicago from July thirtieth to August second, 317 00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:52,760 Speaker 11: with more than one hundred artists scheduled to perform. Other 318 00:12:52,920 --> 00:12:57,120 Speaker 11: notable performers lil UZI Vert the Neighborhood, which I know 319 00:12:57,200 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 11: my sister is freaking out right now, Young Blood, Flk, 320 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:03,760 Speaker 11: Empire of the Sun, Major Laser, A true mix of music. 321 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 11: Presale begins tomorrow if you are looking to get those low. 322 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:10,160 Speaker 3: Wayne is extending. 323 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:14,280 Speaker 11: His The Carter twentieth Anniversary, adding another whole run of 324 00:13:14,360 --> 00:13:17,400 Speaker 11: dates with two Chains and The Game as openers. So 325 00:13:17,720 --> 00:13:19,840 Speaker 11: the new leg of shows is set to kick off 326 00:13:19,840 --> 00:13:23,000 Speaker 11: in June. We'll run through multiple cities again, counting the 327 00:13:23,040 --> 00:13:27,480 Speaker 11: celebration of more than two decades of his Carter album series. 328 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:28,120 Speaker 3: He's So Good. 329 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:33,160 Speaker 11: Pre sale begins today, with general starting shortly after. Jay 330 00:13:33,280 --> 00:13:35,240 Speaker 11: Z is set to return to the stage as a 331 00:13:35,280 --> 00:13:37,960 Speaker 11: headliner for the twenty twenty six Roots Picnic. 332 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:40,040 Speaker 3: The festival hosted. 333 00:13:39,640 --> 00:13:41,360 Speaker 11: By The Roots, if you didn't know, will take place 334 00:13:41,880 --> 00:13:44,960 Speaker 11: May thirtieth through the thirty first in Philly. This is major, 335 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:46,960 Speaker 11: I mean we don't get a lot of j performances. 336 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 11: Tickets for that also go on sale today, and our 337 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:55,240 Speaker 11: iHeartRadio Music Awards are back Thursday, March twenty sixth on Fox, 338 00:13:55,600 --> 00:13:58,199 Speaker 11: hosted by Ludacris. I almost said my friend because we 339 00:13:58,480 --> 00:14:00,520 Speaker 11: met one time, so we're totally friends. With this point, 340 00:14:00,679 --> 00:14:03,439 Speaker 11: Miley Cyrus will be in the house to accept the 341 00:14:03,480 --> 00:14:07,680 Speaker 11: Innovator Award, already performing Alex Warren, Lany Wilson, I know 342 00:14:07,760 --> 00:14:11,520 Speaker 11: Jason's freaking out, Ray TLC and Vogue Salt and Peppa. 343 00:14:11,679 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 11: But tomorrow even more amazing performers will be announced at 344 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:19,800 Speaker 11: eighth Central or nine Eastern right here, so look out 345 00:14:19,800 --> 00:14:21,040 Speaker 11: for that. And if you want to catch up on 346 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 11: anything you miss, the frend Show on demand on the 347 00:14:23,800 --> 00:14:25,200 Speaker 11: free iHeartRadio app. 348 00:14:25,600 --> 00:14:26,600 Speaker 1: It is the freend Show. 349 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:28,400 Speaker 2: Good morning, thanks for having us on the radio, on 350 00:14:28,440 --> 00:14:30,960 Speaker 2: the iHeart app live and anytime search for a freends 351 00:14:30,920 --> 00:14:32,960 Speaker 2: Show on demand. You guys know how I feel about 352 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:36,920 Speaker 2: corporate buzz terms. I can't stand a corporate buzz term. 353 00:14:38,040 --> 00:14:40,440 Speaker 2: Drive me absolutely nuts. And then which and it's like 354 00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:45,680 Speaker 2: I swear that like our CEO and our CFO, they 355 00:14:45,720 --> 00:14:48,600 Speaker 2: make them up. I think they make them up on calls. 356 00:14:48,920 --> 00:14:52,680 Speaker 2: Just just watch everybody else beneath them repeat what they heard. 357 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:56,640 Speaker 2: You know, the guys at the top say, because everything 358 00:14:56,680 --> 00:14:58,960 Speaker 2: that this like everybody does what those two guys do. 359 00:14:59,000 --> 00:15:02,000 Speaker 2: They dress, how those two guys dress, they act, how 360 00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:04,400 Speaker 2: those two they use the same words. Those two Like 361 00:15:04,440 --> 00:15:06,400 Speaker 2: if one of those two guys says, you know, they 362 00:15:06,400 --> 00:15:08,760 Speaker 2: can totally make it up. They could be like, yeah, 363 00:15:08,800 --> 00:15:11,000 Speaker 2: I don't know, it sounds like we're chasing around the 364 00:15:11,040 --> 00:15:13,680 Speaker 2: dragon again today, and then all day long it'll be, hey, 365 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:16,240 Speaker 2: we're gonna stop chasing around the dragon. Freend, We're chasing 366 00:15:16,280 --> 00:15:19,760 Speaker 2: around the dragon, you know, and it's it's it's eating 367 00:15:19,760 --> 00:15:22,840 Speaker 2: its tail. That's not a real thing, but they said 368 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:24,880 Speaker 2: it just to see if everybody else will say it. Well, 369 00:15:24,920 --> 00:15:32,520 Speaker 2: now we have these are corporate email lines that are 370 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:35,480 Speaker 2: most used, and I'm guilty of at least one of them. 371 00:15:35,720 --> 00:15:38,280 Speaker 2: I have to say, uh so I'm part of the problem. 372 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:40,800 Speaker 2: But these these are things that you see in emails 373 00:15:40,800 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 2: that are most likely to show up, and most of 374 00:15:43,400 --> 00:15:45,680 Speaker 2: them annoy me, and I'm guilty of at least one 375 00:15:46,160 --> 00:15:47,080 Speaker 2: reaching out. 376 00:15:48,040 --> 00:15:48,960 Speaker 1: I'm reaching out. 377 00:15:49,080 --> 00:15:52,840 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, well, that's implied I think in the fact 378 00:15:52,840 --> 00:15:54,440 Speaker 2: that you wrote me an email, so I think that 379 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:55,160 Speaker 2: I think we did. 380 00:15:55,320 --> 00:15:57,920 Speaker 1: That's cool, we got that, you know. 381 00:15:57,920 --> 00:15:59,600 Speaker 2: Like when the email, I know that I'm reaching out, 382 00:15:59,640 --> 00:16:02,640 Speaker 2: But when right but when the email arrived, you reached out, Like, 383 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:07,840 Speaker 2: so the reaching is out and the reaching has taking place. 384 00:16:08,520 --> 00:16:12,080 Speaker 2: Following up, now, following up is a passive aggressive way 385 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:13,960 Speaker 2: of saying you didn't respond to me. 386 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:14,760 Speaker 1: Now. 387 00:16:14,800 --> 00:16:16,600 Speaker 2: I don't really mind that one, because I don't know 388 00:16:16,640 --> 00:16:18,480 Speaker 2: how you. I don't know what you really say to 389 00:16:18,480 --> 00:16:21,000 Speaker 2: get someone to like read your email that you wrote 390 00:16:21,040 --> 00:16:23,280 Speaker 2: that you actually need a response to because you have 391 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:25,240 Speaker 2: to do your job. So I don't know what you're 392 00:16:25,240 --> 00:16:28,960 Speaker 2: supposed to say there. But follow up, check in, check in. 393 00:16:29,160 --> 00:16:30,920 Speaker 2: That's number three. Isn't that kind of like is that 394 00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 2: like reaching out? 395 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:34,200 Speaker 12: It's kind of like a mixture of following up and 396 00:16:34,440 --> 00:16:35,560 Speaker 12: writing reaching out? 397 00:16:35,640 --> 00:16:41,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, hut on this aligned aligned to number four. The 398 00:16:41,280 --> 00:16:46,040 Speaker 2: most used phrases and emails business emails, Please advise. The 399 00:16:46,120 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 2: one that I'm guilty of is hope you're doing well 400 00:16:48,680 --> 00:16:49,680 Speaker 2: or hope all as well. 401 00:16:49,920 --> 00:16:51,000 Speaker 1: Like that. I'm guilty of that. 402 00:16:51,080 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 2: But I mean it when I write that, I mean 403 00:16:52,840 --> 00:16:55,280 Speaker 2: it too, like I mean when I you. 404 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:58,160 Speaker 6: Know, like exactly like Shelby from Accounting, I really do 405 00:16:58,240 --> 00:16:58,920 Speaker 6: hope you're well. 406 00:16:59,160 --> 00:17:00,560 Speaker 3: Sometimes I don't hope you're well. 407 00:17:01,960 --> 00:17:04,840 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but like you know, it's nice thing to say, 408 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 2: but I'm so guilty of that one. I hope you're 409 00:17:07,320 --> 00:17:09,440 Speaker 2: doing well. Hope this email finds you well. Hope all 410 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:13,800 Speaker 2: is well. E meet what doesn't eat? 411 00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:17,360 Speaker 1: Likes to meet you, like virtually meet you do say that? 412 00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:19,960 Speaker 12: Yeah, oh, because I don't want to say, like, if 413 00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:21,639 Speaker 12: someone brings you in with a new person, you're not 414 00:17:21,640 --> 00:17:22,920 Speaker 12: gonna be like, nice to meet you because I haven't 415 00:17:22,920 --> 00:17:24,160 Speaker 12: really met you yet. 416 00:17:24,760 --> 00:17:26,520 Speaker 3: It's nice to meet it's polite. 417 00:17:27,160 --> 00:17:29,360 Speaker 2: I feel like eighty percent of the people I deal 418 00:17:29,400 --> 00:17:31,440 Speaker 2: with I've never actually met these. I mean, I think 419 00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:34,520 Speaker 2: or I've met, like very briefly casually. I think about 420 00:17:34,920 --> 00:17:36,320 Speaker 2: I mean, all of you guys in the room. I 421 00:17:36,320 --> 00:17:37,720 Speaker 2: deal with you, but I see you, I know you. 422 00:17:38,000 --> 00:17:39,760 Speaker 2: But I'm trying to think the other people I email with, 423 00:17:39,840 --> 00:17:41,919 Speaker 2: many of whom I don't even they don't live in 424 00:17:41,920 --> 00:17:43,760 Speaker 2: this city. I don't know, I don't I don't see 425 00:17:43,800 --> 00:17:46,119 Speaker 2: them very often. So I don't need to meet you. 426 00:17:46,800 --> 00:17:49,880 Speaker 2: I'm I already met, we've met. It's fine and circle 427 00:17:49,960 --> 00:17:51,680 Speaker 2: back number ten, circle. 428 00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:52,560 Speaker 3: Back, No, circle back. 429 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:53,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't want to you don't want to get 430 00:17:53,840 --> 00:17:54,440 Speaker 1: circled back. 431 00:17:54,560 --> 00:18:00,000 Speaker 2: Absolutely to understand why these lines persist and learn why 432 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:02,000 Speaker 2: so many of them great on people's nerves. They ask 433 00:18:02,040 --> 00:18:05,000 Speaker 2: business leaders which corporate faces phrases they'd most like to 434 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:09,720 Speaker 2: eliminate from the inbox. Quick question, let's circle back, per 435 00:18:09,800 --> 00:18:13,720 Speaker 2: my last email and bandwidth are the top things there? 436 00:18:13,920 --> 00:18:16,680 Speaker 2: Per my last email is another way of and that's 437 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:18,840 Speaker 2: a little bit more aggressive. It's less passive aggressive. It's 438 00:18:18,840 --> 00:18:21,320 Speaker 2: another way of saying you didn't read the last one, 439 00:18:21,920 --> 00:18:23,840 Speaker 2: or like, did you read the last one because I'm 440 00:18:23,840 --> 00:18:25,359 Speaker 2: going to tell you what I said one more time? 441 00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:27,119 Speaker 2: Or why did you write me back because in the 442 00:18:27,200 --> 00:18:29,240 Speaker 2: last one I told you is what I need you 443 00:18:29,359 --> 00:18:29,640 Speaker 2: to do. 444 00:18:30,240 --> 00:18:34,080 Speaker 12: Yeah, I've stopped circling back, and I think I've just like, 445 00:18:34,440 --> 00:18:36,240 Speaker 12: I don't know, maybe got a little bit more savage 446 00:18:36,280 --> 00:18:39,360 Speaker 12: in my old age. But I'll respond to my initial 447 00:18:39,359 --> 00:18:42,480 Speaker 12: email that you didn't answer and just copy the same thing, 448 00:18:42,840 --> 00:18:44,320 Speaker 12: repaste it and sunned. 449 00:18:45,400 --> 00:18:53,840 Speaker 13: Oh that's an assault me again. Wow, I answer my email. 450 00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:55,760 Speaker 13: So I'm going to send the exact same thing again 451 00:18:56,119 --> 00:18:57,240 Speaker 13: and maybe this time you will. 452 00:18:57,359 --> 00:18:59,520 Speaker 2: I think I've done that too, though, where it's like 453 00:18:59,560 --> 00:19:03,480 Speaker 2: this one here you mean because you know what else? 454 00:19:03,880 --> 00:19:05,879 Speaker 2: That's that's my favorite thing to do when someone claims 455 00:19:05,880 --> 00:19:08,160 Speaker 2: it like either you didn't write the email or there's 456 00:19:08,160 --> 00:19:10,120 Speaker 2: no way they could have gotten it, or like maybe 457 00:19:10,119 --> 00:19:12,399 Speaker 2: you had the wrong email. Like the ultimate flex is 458 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:15,080 Speaker 2: then to be like, well, actually, and I suppose it's 459 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:17,240 Speaker 2: possible they didn't get it, but like if everything I 460 00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:21,119 Speaker 2: did was correct, ninety nine percent of the time, it 461 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:23,560 Speaker 2: was there and you just pretended like you didn't see it. 462 00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:26,320 Speaker 2: This is my mom's new favorite thing. When she gets frustrated, 463 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:28,440 Speaker 2: it just doesn't care. You'll be like, well I didn't 464 00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:31,800 Speaker 2: get that. Oh oh you didn't get the text message. 465 00:19:32,040 --> 00:19:34,400 Speaker 2: You just didn't just didn't go. It just didn't come. 466 00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:37,240 Speaker 1: It just it just it just. 467 00:19:42,960 --> 00:19:44,639 Speaker 2: I love my mom so much, but that is that 468 00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:48,359 Speaker 2: is your thing now, is with with anything technological email text, 469 00:19:48,480 --> 00:19:50,000 Speaker 2: Like she doesn't feel like dealing with it. 470 00:19:50,320 --> 00:19:51,199 Speaker 1: She just didn't get it. 471 00:19:51,760 --> 00:19:54,880 Speaker 2: And it's like, but but you one hundred percent got it, 472 00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:58,840 Speaker 2: Like it's the Internet, okay, It's like the most basic 473 00:19:58,960 --> 00:20:03,320 Speaker 2: form of technology is emailing text and you received it, 474 00:20:03,680 --> 00:20:05,760 Speaker 2: like I didn't send you a major motion picture, like 475 00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:06,679 Speaker 2: I said, like you know what. 476 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:07,959 Speaker 1: I mean, you got it. 477 00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:10,359 Speaker 3: Protect your piece, queen. 478 00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:14,840 Speaker 1: Thank you. I'm the queen right protect my piece. 479 00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:16,879 Speaker 3: I'm talking to her. You know I love a Look, 480 00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:17,639 Speaker 3: I'm not dealing with that. 481 00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:18,240 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. 482 00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:21,399 Speaker 8: I can see it, parking tickets, tax stuff, like they 483 00:20:21,480 --> 00:20:21,879 Speaker 8: just send. 484 00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:23,080 Speaker 3: Out a new tax bill to my house. 485 00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:23,440 Speaker 10: Girl. 486 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:25,399 Speaker 14: I'm not dealing with that right now. Like I got 487 00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:29,200 Speaker 14: too much going on. Literally, you know what, protect your piece? No, 488 00:20:30,320 --> 00:20:35,440 Speaker 14: but you're you're unprotecting. I'm I'm unprotected. I'm unprotected. 489 00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:37,960 Speaker 2: When you are protecting your piece by ignoring something that 490 00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:39,040 Speaker 2: is important. 491 00:20:38,760 --> 00:20:41,359 Speaker 8: You will be okay. Whatever it is, you will be okay. 492 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:43,520 Speaker 8: You will probably figure it out if I give you 493 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:45,280 Speaker 8: a little time. That's why I had to stop doing it, 494 00:20:45,280 --> 00:20:48,240 Speaker 8: because in the pandemic, I had gotten so afraid of 495 00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:51,359 Speaker 8: everything that I would respond like before you even press seeing, Like, 496 00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:53,119 Speaker 8: I'm like, oh my god, I gotta respond to this 497 00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:53,520 Speaker 8: right away. 498 00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:55,119 Speaker 3: I gotta be on What is this thing Jason that 499 00:20:55,400 --> 00:21:01,640 Speaker 3: the teams tens all day? My must be green this 500 00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:02,640 Speaker 3: new me bro. 501 00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:05,040 Speaker 8: Look, Hey, I'll get back to you when I get 502 00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:06,840 Speaker 8: when I get the mental capacity. 503 00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:08,480 Speaker 3: To deal with you, I will get there. I'm not 504 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:10,200 Speaker 3: finding right away. You can wait. 505 00:21:10,359 --> 00:21:12,720 Speaker 2: I barely know how to work teams. I don't I 506 00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:15,080 Speaker 2: don't know that for you it's an emergency situation. If 507 00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:16,719 Speaker 2: we're so us, it's I don't like it. 508 00:21:16,720 --> 00:21:17,640 Speaker 3: It is traumatizing. 509 00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:20,280 Speaker 12: That's a ring is triggering, Like if I hear it now, 510 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:22,560 Speaker 12: I'm layers of communication. 511 00:21:22,760 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 2: We've got email, we've got teams, and we have messaging within. 512 00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:27,480 Speaker 3: Teams, and then why about that? 513 00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:29,840 Speaker 2: And then we have now we can like and unlike 514 00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:34,080 Speaker 2: and thumbs up within emails, and it's just too many layers, 515 00:21:34,119 --> 00:21:34,840 Speaker 2: too many layers. 516 00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:36,200 Speaker 3: How do you at our names? 517 00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:37,960 Speaker 11: Because every time I write at in one of your 518 00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:39,439 Speaker 11: names on my phone, it doesn't do it. 519 00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:41,959 Speaker 3: Oh a lyrics on a computer for me. I've been 520 00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:43,240 Speaker 3: trying to do that little trick you do. 521 00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:46,639 Speaker 12: I'm like, like, this is your question. 522 00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:51,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, I like that. I look for my part. I'm like, 523 00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:52,560 Speaker 3: I'm talking to. 524 00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:57,720 Speaker 2: Friend show, good morning, thanks for having us on the radio, 525 00:21:57,720 --> 00:22:00,400 Speaker 2: on the iHeart app Live and anytime search to Fresh 526 00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:04,360 Speaker 2: You on demand. This week on Reddit, it's people are 527 00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:08,320 Speaker 2: talking about the phrases that annoy them every time they 528 00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:11,440 Speaker 2: hear them, and many of them come from overdone memes 529 00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:15,359 Speaker 2: or I don't know, a generation saying something too much 530 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:18,240 Speaker 2: over and over again. Whatever eight five five five one 531 00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:20,359 Speaker 2: three five you can call it text the same number. 532 00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:23,399 Speaker 2: What comes to mind immediately as soon as I say 533 00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:25,960 Speaker 2: phrase that annoys you? What comes to mind? 534 00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:28,000 Speaker 3: Hmm? 535 00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:30,960 Speaker 9: This is not like I hate when people say friya 536 00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:35,760 Speaker 9: or Friday eve, Friday eve yeah, or happy Friday, like 537 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:36,480 Speaker 9: it's Friday. 538 00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:39,760 Speaker 1: Come on, it's not Friday Yeah, it's not. 539 00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:43,960 Speaker 3: No, it's not it's yay, but like it's Friday. Fine. Stop. 540 00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:47,040 Speaker 2: I think I've said. I've said Friday Eve, I've said 541 00:22:47,080 --> 00:22:49,760 Speaker 2: weekend Eve. I don't think I've ever in my whole life, 542 00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:51,960 Speaker 2: except for right now, said friya. 543 00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:53,120 Speaker 15: It's just not. 544 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:55,320 Speaker 1: Something that's ever come out of my mouth on purpose? 545 00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:57,440 Speaker 3: Ut or do we have to every birthday another trip 546 00:22:57,480 --> 00:23:01,040 Speaker 3: around the sun? Like come on, happy birthday? A right? 547 00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:02,199 Speaker 1: Okay? 548 00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:03,160 Speaker 3: Those are mine. 549 00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:06,920 Speaker 2: Those came quickly. It didn't take very long on the 550 00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:10,040 Speaker 2: tip of your tongue. Like rise and grind when people 551 00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:14,280 Speaker 2: that I'm not trying to grind anybody right now. I 552 00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:16,320 Speaker 2: have bad breath. I need to breast my teeth like 553 00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:21,760 Speaker 2: nothing's being grinded right now, let alone grind, and that 554 00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:28,200 Speaker 2: no grounding going on right and grinded grinding. I'm just 555 00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:31,160 Speaker 2: trying to think of the right tense Paulina, you must 556 00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:33,480 Speaker 2: have something. You must have something that you hear the 557 00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:36,320 Speaker 2: phrase it drives you nuts. Nothing's coming to mind, not. 558 00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:38,240 Speaker 6: Really, because I probably say most of them, to be 559 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:41,000 Speaker 6: completely honest, and I never said frya though I have 560 00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:43,400 Speaker 6: tripped around the sun, for sure, I've done that many 561 00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:43,920 Speaker 6: of times. 562 00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:45,920 Speaker 3: This is not even a saying. 563 00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:48,119 Speaker 6: But I hate when my husband says I got to 564 00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:49,520 Speaker 6: see where their mindset is at. 565 00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:51,440 Speaker 3: I don't know why he says that and a trick. 566 00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:53,040 Speaker 1: I don't think that's a I think that's a I 567 00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:54,679 Speaker 1: think he can make a sentence. I don't think I 568 00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:56,840 Speaker 1: got to see where their mindset something that's not real. 569 00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:58,800 Speaker 3: But he says is what I'm saying, and it drives 570 00:23:58,800 --> 00:23:59,760 Speaker 3: me nuts. I don't know why. 571 00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:02,520 Speaker 1: What does that mean? And you're like, than, does that mean? 572 00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:03,520 Speaker 1: Where do you want to go to dinner? 573 00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:03,840 Speaker 11: I don't know. 574 00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:05,080 Speaker 2: I got to see you, like, where do our friends 575 00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:06,400 Speaker 2: want to go to dinner? I got to see where 576 00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:07,960 Speaker 2: their mindsets at? What does that mean? 577 00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:08,879 Speaker 3: I have no idea. 578 00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:11,040 Speaker 1: I hate him, not only he says that no one 579 00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:11,800 Speaker 1: else has ever said that. 580 00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:13,119 Speaker 3: No, thank God, don't say it. 581 00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:20,960 Speaker 2: Hey, wake up, you can learn Chinese in less than 582 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:25,320 Speaker 2: thirty minutes apparently met. 583 00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:28,800 Speaker 1: A Fred Show is a woman. This is terrible. 584 00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:32,679 Speaker 2: A nurse was battered by cheesy nachos. This is an 585 00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:36,320 Speaker 2: awful story. A nacho fueled domestic dispute is making waves 586 00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:39,560 Speaker 2: in Florida, Port Saint Lucy. A nurse and Allison Swan 587 00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:42,040 Speaker 2: got into a heated three a m argument with her wife, 588 00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:44,680 Speaker 2: who's also a nurse, over late night snacking, and things 589 00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:48,440 Speaker 2: escalated when Swan allegedly grabbed a handful of cheesy nachos 590 00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:50,880 Speaker 2: and shoved them down the back of her wife's leggings. 591 00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:55,919 Speaker 2: Oh cops that it didn't stop there. Swan reportedly dragged 592 00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:58,440 Speaker 2: her to the ground, fish hooked her in the mouth, 593 00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:00,719 Speaker 2: and slammed her head to the foe. That is, in 594 00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:04,520 Speaker 2: fact tragic. Now the nachos in the light, intensitive waste 595 00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:07,360 Speaker 2: of nachos, And I need to understand why someone heard 596 00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:09,560 Speaker 2: the chaos called nine one one. The woman's been arrested 597 00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:11,679 Speaker 2: on domestic battery. But imagine you have to explain that 598 00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:15,000 Speaker 2: in court like what happened, Well, she would have stop 599 00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:16,640 Speaker 2: eating in bed, so I shoved it down the back 600 00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:21,040 Speaker 2: of her pants. Ever been left waiting by the phone. 601 00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:24,119 Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show. Hey Ross, good morning, welcome to 602 00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:27,080 Speaker 2: the show. How are you, Hey, good morning? What's going 603 00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:27,760 Speaker 2: on with this woman? 604 00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:28,560 Speaker 1: Kelly? 605 00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:30,400 Speaker 2: We got to know how you met, about any dates 606 00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:32,520 Speaker 2: you've been on and then where things are now, because 607 00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:34,920 Speaker 2: you know, you think you're being ghosted, which is why 608 00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:36,119 Speaker 2: you've called waiting by the phone. 609 00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:36,960 Speaker 1: So what's going on? 610 00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:39,600 Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't know, it's a strange one. 611 00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:40,840 Speaker 1: Yeah. 612 00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:42,960 Speaker 7: We I met the stirl Kelly. 613 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:43,520 Speaker 3: She's cool. 614 00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:45,640 Speaker 7: We you know, we did the whole dating app thing 615 00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:49,000 Speaker 7: and you know, a message and like conversation was good, 616 00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:51,720 Speaker 7: Like I thought it was going well, and she did 617 00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:56,119 Speaker 7: give me your number, and I figured, you know, I 618 00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:59,600 Speaker 7: asked because you know, those massages get lost and different, 619 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:01,280 Speaker 7: you know people, and so I was like, all right, 620 00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:03,240 Speaker 7: let's let's take this off the app. Let's message. So 621 00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:06,600 Speaker 7: she and your number, we talked a little bit. We 622 00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:09,240 Speaker 7: you know, we're texting and we were planning a first 623 00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:11,320 Speaker 7: date and then just ghosted. 624 00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:13,320 Speaker 1: So you never went on the date, like you guys 625 00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:15,000 Speaker 1: never even met. No, but like we. 626 00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:17,399 Speaker 7: Were planning it and everything the same time. And I 627 00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:19,000 Speaker 7: mean I don't know, like if she wasn't interested, why 628 00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:19,880 Speaker 7: would you give me your number? 629 00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:21,000 Speaker 1: You know, interesting. 630 00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:24,359 Speaker 2: Interesting, So you guys, Yeah, that is weird that you 631 00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:26,240 Speaker 2: would get to that point and then just the person 632 00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:28,680 Speaker 2: would just disappear. It's like, why why would they even 633 00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:31,440 Speaker 2: bother to communicate with you or write to your point, 634 00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:33,320 Speaker 2: exchange numbers or whatever. Why would you do that if 635 00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:35,320 Speaker 2: you have no intention of meeting somebody exactly. 636 00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:37,320 Speaker 7: Yeah, So I'm just kind of like, all right. 637 00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:39,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's strange, and I would want to know what 638 00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:41,840 Speaker 2: happened too. So let's play a song. Come back into 639 00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:43,919 Speaker 2: the second. Ross, We'll call Kelly. You'll be on the 640 00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:45,439 Speaker 2: phone at the same time, and hope is that we 641 00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:47,520 Speaker 2: can straighten this out and then set you up on 642 00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:48,679 Speaker 2: another date that we paid for. 643 00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:50,880 Speaker 1: So good. Yeah, sure, hey. 644 00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:53,199 Speaker 2: Ross, Yeah, all right, welcome back. Let's call Kelly. You 645 00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:54,960 Speaker 2: met out one of the dating apps. You got a 646 00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:57,480 Speaker 2: number on the app, you switched to text, and you 647 00:26:57,480 --> 00:26:59,399 Speaker 2: guys were planning a date, talking about where to go 648 00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:02,520 Speaker 2: and when, and then she disappeared and you have not 649 00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:04,800 Speaker 2: heard a word from her. Sense, so you have her number, 650 00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:07,240 Speaker 2: but now she's ignoring you. I mean, she shouldn't want 651 00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:09,320 Speaker 2: to see you. Why did she give you her number? 652 00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:12,280 Speaker 7: That's weird, exactly, Yeah, And like I said, the conversation 653 00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:14,399 Speaker 7: was cool, like there was never I look back at 654 00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:15,320 Speaker 7: all the text and everything. 655 00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:16,600 Speaker 1: I don't think I said anything wrong. 656 00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:20,080 Speaker 2: So I start planning a date and then that go on, 657 00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:22,360 Speaker 2: and it's strange. All right, let's call Kelly now, good luck? 658 00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:22,760 Speaker 1: Ross? 659 00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:24,800 Speaker 3: Thanks? 660 00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:33,240 Speaker 1: Hello, Hi, This is Kelly. 661 00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:35,600 Speaker 2: Hey Kelly, good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling 662 00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:37,600 Speaker 2: from the Fred's Show, the morning radio show. The whole 663 00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:38,919 Speaker 2: crew is here, and I have to tell you that 664 00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:40,720 Speaker 2: we are on the radio right now and I would 665 00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:42,320 Speaker 2: need your permission to continue with the call. 666 00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:46,159 Speaker 1: Can which after just a second, would you mind? Sorry? 667 00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:47,480 Speaker 16: What is this about? 668 00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:49,000 Speaker 2: I'll take that as a yes. So we're calling on 669 00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:52,720 Speaker 2: behalf of a dude named Ross. I guess you matched 670 00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:55,119 Speaker 2: with this guy on a dating app, and then you 671 00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:56,920 Speaker 2: exchange numbers and we're talking about a date. 672 00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:58,680 Speaker 1: Do you remember this whole process? 673 00:27:59,160 --> 00:27:59,560 Speaker 2: Yeah? 674 00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:00,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, I do. 675 00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:03,160 Speaker 2: Okay, Well what happened because Ross reached out to us 676 00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:05,320 Speaker 2: and said that you guys, I guess matched, and we're 677 00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:07,719 Speaker 2: chatting and then he got your number and then you 678 00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:10,639 Speaker 2: were on text talking about a date. You were planning 679 00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:13,159 Speaker 2: a date, and then you disappeared, so you kind of 680 00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:15,639 Speaker 2: ghosted him before you ever met, it seems like, and 681 00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:17,600 Speaker 2: he's curious and we're all curious kind of as to 682 00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:18,640 Speaker 2: why what happened. 683 00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:23,640 Speaker 16: Okay, yeah, so basically, yeah. 684 00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:25,320 Speaker 15: I mean he seemed like a great guy to me, 685 00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:31,119 Speaker 15: but after a few days, I just I realized he's 686 00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:34,400 Speaker 15: just a lot, Like there's no other way to put it. 687 00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:35,720 Speaker 7: He's just too much for me. 688 00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:39,000 Speaker 1: What does that mean? How can you know that via text? 689 00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:41,600 Speaker 2: Like I can see if you met someone and their 690 00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:45,200 Speaker 2: personality was over the top, or you know, you weren't vibing, 691 00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:47,080 Speaker 2: there was no in person chemistry, but how do you 692 00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:48,479 Speaker 2: know he's too much over text? 693 00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:49,960 Speaker 1: Totally? Totally. 694 00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:54,800 Speaker 15: So yeah, So I did give him my number because 695 00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:57,960 Speaker 15: you know, you know, it's just much easier to communicate 696 00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:03,240 Speaker 15: off the app. And I literally, like the first night 697 00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:04,720 Speaker 15: after I gave him my number, I looked at my 698 00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:07,200 Speaker 15: phone and I saw he was calling me like around 699 00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:08,080 Speaker 15: nine pm. 700 00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:10,360 Speaker 17: And I was like, that's a little it's a little 701 00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:11,560 Speaker 17: bit much. 702 00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:19,440 Speaker 5: Call, which, yeah, stranger, you know, like I don't, so 703 00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:22,280 Speaker 5: I answered, I don't even know why, and he was like, 704 00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:27,920 Speaker 5: you know, just calling this SA good night, which okay, 705 00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:30,360 Speaker 5: I I thought was odd. 706 00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:33,240 Speaker 15: And I'm guessing about your laughs is also using it's. 707 00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:36,640 Speaker 16: Odd, like it was odd for him to call me. 708 00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:39,880 Speaker 15: In the first place, right, let alone at nine pm 709 00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:41,680 Speaker 15: just to say good night, and like at this point 710 00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:44,120 Speaker 15: we're still strangers. But you know, I let it go 711 00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:47,920 Speaker 15: and I was like, maybe he's just super excited for Saturday, 712 00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:49,320 Speaker 15: like I'll chalk it up. 713 00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:51,200 Speaker 16: To that, and so yeah. 714 00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:54,200 Speaker 15: So but then he proceeded to call me every single 715 00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:58,000 Speaker 15: night to say good night until Friday, until. 716 00:29:57,720 --> 00:29:58,560 Speaker 5: The day before the date. 717 00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:01,240 Speaker 2: I mean, he wanted make sure you had a good night, 718 00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:03,600 Speaker 2: you know, like he did. You know, he wanted to. 719 00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:07,880 Speaker 4: Nine o'clock phone call is so scary, especially from a stranger, 720 00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:08,480 Speaker 4: like a. 721 00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:14,920 Speaker 16: Five nights in a row, like that's really extra. So 722 00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:17,920 Speaker 16: I honestly the fifth time I let it go to 723 00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:21,160 Speaker 16: voicemail and I blocked him because I was just like, oh, this. 724 00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:24,280 Speaker 15: Is the folk we're getting off, you know, like this 725 00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:24,760 Speaker 15: is not right. 726 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:26,360 Speaker 2: There's nobody in my life who wants me to have 727 00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:28,760 Speaker 2: that good of a night, like under any circumstances in 728 00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:29,040 Speaker 2: a row. 729 00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:31,880 Speaker 3: I kind of love it. And I only say. 730 00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:34,000 Speaker 1: That nightly phone call from someone you've never. 731 00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:36,880 Speaker 6: Met, Well, it didn't go bad yet with the date 732 00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:38,960 Speaker 6: didn't happen so my only thing is like I think 733 00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:41,480 Speaker 6: maybe he was excited, but also like we we don't 734 00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:43,680 Speaker 6: call enough anymore. I feel like when you're first dating, 735 00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:44,560 Speaker 6: I don't think. 736 00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:46,520 Speaker 3: We call enough. My husband who I married. 737 00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:48,240 Speaker 1: You did not call your husband who you're married to? 738 00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:48,720 Speaker 1: Supposed to? 739 00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:53,800 Speaker 2: Yes, okay, I wanted to be clear on which husband 740 00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:55,480 Speaker 2: we were talking about, the one that you're married to. 741 00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:59,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know you did. 742 00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:00,640 Speaker 1: Went this happened. 743 00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:03,680 Speaker 6: I have a married woman and her still feel like 744 00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:05,480 Speaker 6: when we first started dating, he did not call, and 745 00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:06,280 Speaker 6: I didn't like that. 746 00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:07,920 Speaker 3: If you would have called prior to the day, I 747 00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:09,120 Speaker 3: think that'd be actually kind of cute. 748 00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:12,160 Speaker 2: Okay, so it was too much communication for you too 749 00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:13,840 Speaker 2: early on? It was like, what did it feel like 750 00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:14,920 Speaker 2: a little clingy maybe? 751 00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:18,640 Speaker 5: Or yeah, it felt like yeah, over the top cleaning. 752 00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:19,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, let me. 753 00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:21,760 Speaker 2: Bring Ross in because there should be no surprise you 754 00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:23,480 Speaker 2: that Ross is on the call. He wanted to see 755 00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:26,680 Speaker 2: if we were having a good morning. So Ross, you 756 00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:28,720 Speaker 2: get your phone number, and you just think like, Okay, 757 00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:32,600 Speaker 2: that's that's my cue to start calling. Because I think 758 00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:34,760 Speaker 2: a lot of people in this day and age, they 759 00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:37,440 Speaker 2: want even a text before they call. Before you call, 760 00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:39,280 Speaker 2: even if you know them like, hey you free, can 761 00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:41,479 Speaker 2: we chat? You know, because people are busy or they 762 00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:43,200 Speaker 2: don't like to talk on the phone as much anymore. 763 00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:44,240 Speaker 1: But you didn't do that. 764 00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:47,880 Speaker 7: No, I mean, damn sorry if I was interested, Like 765 00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:49,760 Speaker 7: I mean, we've heard. 766 00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:51,960 Speaker 2: So much worse like this is not the worst thing. 767 00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:54,520 Speaker 2: You could not have answered the phone, Kelly. I suppose 768 00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:55,720 Speaker 2: if you didn't want to talk to him, you could 769 00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:58,400 Speaker 2: have just let it go to voicemail and maybe establish 770 00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:02,320 Speaker 2: a boundary that way. But the dude, it's hard for 771 00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:06,440 Speaker 2: me not to see his side because it might have 772 00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:09,360 Speaker 2: been too much. But but how many men on the 773 00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:12,480 Speaker 2: dating apps, myself included, have done too little? 774 00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:15,480 Speaker 16: I mean that's fair, But like I think. 775 00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:18,960 Speaker 15: There's definitely a lot of middle grounds between calling five 776 00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:20,640 Speaker 15: times in a row and not calling at. 777 00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:23,560 Speaker 1: All, Like one one call. 778 00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:26,960 Speaker 2: Would have been okay, just to be like. 779 00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:29,760 Speaker 1: Yes something. 780 00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:32,440 Speaker 2: I mean, I suppose Kelly, you could have said, hey, 781 00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:34,440 Speaker 2: you know, I'm not a phone tagger or not answered 782 00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:36,640 Speaker 2: the phone. And I think after maybe a couple of 783 00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:38,760 Speaker 2: times of you not answering the phone, hopefully he would 784 00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:40,840 Speaker 2: have gotten it. It's not as though he was calling 785 00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:43,120 Speaker 2: you over and over and over and over again. Right, 786 00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:45,600 Speaker 2: like at in a single setting until you picked up 787 00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:46,800 Speaker 2: you know, he was calling you at the end of 788 00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:49,600 Speaker 2: the day. Like I understand why that's not for everybody, 789 00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:51,560 Speaker 2: but I mean we've heard so much worse. 790 00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:52,160 Speaker 5: You know. 791 00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:54,520 Speaker 7: You know, women always talk about all I want a gentleman. 792 00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:56,280 Speaker 7: I want someone, you know, I want a man who's 793 00:32:56,320 --> 00:33:00,200 Speaker 7: gonna who's gonna be proactive and do more and and 794 00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:03,320 Speaker 7: make and so I'm doing that, I'm calling and that's 795 00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:06,880 Speaker 7: a turnoff. Then all right, cool, I'll find someone that will, like, 796 00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:07,600 Speaker 7: come on. 797 00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:10,400 Speaker 16: I just I mean listen, like I I guess I 798 00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:14,520 Speaker 16: appreciate like the sentiment, but like, being a gentleman doesn't 799 00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:18,240 Speaker 16: mean you call someone you just met late at night 800 00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:21,720 Speaker 16: multiple days in a row. You know, Like again, one 801 00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:24,280 Speaker 16: instant chat would have been fine, but like five times 802 00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:24,760 Speaker 16: is not. 803 00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:25,440 Speaker 3: Cool for me. 804 00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:27,800 Speaker 16: Like especially like you don't know what it's like as 805 00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:31,440 Speaker 16: a woman to just like receive calls from you know, 806 00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:33,920 Speaker 16: it's just like if it instantly puts you in this 807 00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:34,920 Speaker 16: like scary. 808 00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:38,720 Speaker 2: I'll tell you what, I don't know what something Yeah, yeah, 809 00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:40,680 Speaker 2: I'm scary, I think might. I mean, I'm not here 810 00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:43,880 Speaker 2: to tell you how to feel. But I've had people before, say, 811 00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:46,400 Speaker 2: like when I get their phone number before I meet him, 812 00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:48,120 Speaker 2: Hey do you want to you want to chat? And 813 00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:50,160 Speaker 2: they're like, no, I'd rather wait till we meet, like 814 00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:51,920 Speaker 2: i'd rather, or hey, I'm not going to give you 815 00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:55,000 Speaker 2: my number, like I'd rather just meet and and and 816 00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:56,600 Speaker 2: then if I'm comfortable with the day, then I'll give 817 00:33:56,600 --> 00:33:58,000 Speaker 2: you my number and then we can go from there. 818 00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:00,360 Speaker 2: I just think if this is I mean, it was 819 00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:03,640 Speaker 2: important to you, or you were bothered by it. I 820 00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:05,560 Speaker 2: think if you had said something to him like hey, 821 00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:07,840 Speaker 2: I'd rather not talk till the date, or I'm not 822 00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:10,840 Speaker 2: a big phone talker, or let's just chat on Friday 823 00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:13,640 Speaker 2: or whatever, and then he keeps calling, well, then he's 824 00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:15,760 Speaker 2: then I think he's he's gone. You know, he's broken 825 00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:18,680 Speaker 2: a boundary. But you didn't say that, so I think. 826 00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:21,480 Speaker 2: I guess it's hard for me to to not think 827 00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:24,880 Speaker 2: maybe he's just trying, which I feel like when you 828 00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,040 Speaker 2: say all the time, I wish the guy would try harder, 829 00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:29,359 Speaker 2: except in this case you wish he hadn't tried hard, 830 00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:31,160 Speaker 2: which is kind of tough for a guy to know 831 00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:33,120 Speaker 2: when he's not supposed to try hard. 832 00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:35,359 Speaker 16: I just didn't want to be I didn't want him 833 00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:39,440 Speaker 16: to misconstrue me as being rude, you know, and like 834 00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:42,920 Speaker 16: I wanted us to start off on the right foot 835 00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:45,040 Speaker 16: and like give him the benefit of the doubt. But 836 00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:47,440 Speaker 16: I also like, if I'm going to date someone, I 837 00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:50,880 Speaker 16: want them to like know without asking that calling somebody 838 00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:53,799 Speaker 16: five nights in a row when we're essentially strangers is 839 00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:55,960 Speaker 16: too much Like that should just be something that way, you. 840 00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:58,960 Speaker 7: Should know she didn't want to be concerned as rude, 841 00:34:59,040 --> 00:34:59,919 Speaker 7: so you just go straight. 842 00:35:01,680 --> 00:35:06,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I see aspects of both sides here, But look, 843 00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:08,920 Speaker 2: I'll ask the question, Kelly, do you want to you know, 844 00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:13,600 Speaker 2: hit reset here? Maybe and Ross won't call you until 845 00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:14,840 Speaker 2: the date. You guys can go on the date and 846 00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:16,600 Speaker 2: see if it works out. I mean, I think I 847 00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:19,200 Speaker 2: see where his intentions were, and I also think I 848 00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:22,200 Speaker 2: see why you were hoping he would sort of get 849 00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:22,720 Speaker 2: the drift. 850 00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:24,600 Speaker 1: But do you want to try or no? 851 00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:27,840 Speaker 16: I think that we're too far gone at this point. 852 00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:28,480 Speaker 1: Too far gone. 853 00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:30,440 Speaker 3: She want a man that don't talk to her at all, 854 00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:31,560 Speaker 3: and I understand, Oh. 855 00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:34,000 Speaker 2: But he didn't talk enough. It's probably not going to 856 00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:36,239 Speaker 2: be great. So he needs to talk the right himount but. 857 00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:37,840 Speaker 3: Not only talk when I talk to you. 858 00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:42,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, understood, understood, Yeah, I got him. Hey, Ross, Look 859 00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:44,160 Speaker 2: I don't think you're a bad guy. I think, you know, 860 00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:46,359 Speaker 2: maybe we got to read the room a little bit here, 861 00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:48,319 Speaker 2: but I can also see the mixed message, or I 862 00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:50,719 Speaker 2: can see why you where you were thinking and that 863 00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:52,840 Speaker 2: you were trying. And I'm sorry didn't work out. But 864 00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:54,800 Speaker 2: I wish you guys both the best of luck. Thank you. 865 00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:58,320 Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show that Jonahs Brothers in Las Vegas 866 00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:02,399 Speaker 2: at Dobe Live Park MG this Memorial Day weekend. 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I mean, I think everybody already has concerns, 890 00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:14,239 Speaker 11: especially since they co parent their young son. 891 00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:16,160 Speaker 3: Ever, cops are said. 892 00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:18,719 Speaker 11: To be aware of this footage, though it's unclear whether 893 00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:20,640 Speaker 11: or not they're going to use it as evidence in 894 00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:24,160 Speaker 11: this ongoing investigation. By the way, if you guys don't 895 00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:27,480 Speaker 11: watch that show. Taylor is also the current Bachelorette. Like 896 00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:30,439 Speaker 11: her season supposed to air next week, so I don't 897 00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:31,759 Speaker 11: even know if they're going to air it. I don't 898 00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:33,839 Speaker 11: know what's going to happen, but I hate to see 899 00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:36,239 Speaker 11: that this situation is still dragging. 900 00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:38,240 Speaker 3: Her down from that huge opportunity. 901 00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:42,480 Speaker 11: Netflix is expanding the Stranger Things universe with a new 902 00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:47,400 Speaker 11: animated spinoff, Sprang Stranger Things Tales from eighty five, giving 903 00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:51,480 Speaker 11: fans an early big screen preview before it's streaming debut. 904 00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:51,839 Speaker 2: Now. 905 00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:55,560 Speaker 11: The first two episodes will hit thirty four select theaters 906 00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:59,000 Speaker 11: across the US April eighteenth, my Mom's birthday, ahead of 907 00:37:59,040 --> 00:37:59,960 Speaker 11: the show's. 908 00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:01,120 Speaker 3: A fish Netflix release. 909 00:38:01,160 --> 00:38:03,920 Speaker 11: I think that comes to twenty third So the series 910 00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:07,120 Speaker 11: picks up with familiar faces eleven Mike, Lucas, Max will 911 00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:11,360 Speaker 11: end ustin this time in animated form. The limited theatrical 912 00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:14,239 Speaker 11: role out also comes with the perk you will if 913 00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:16,239 Speaker 11: you're going to the screening, you will have access to 914 00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:19,320 Speaker 11: collectible merch tied to the debut. 915 00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:20,480 Speaker 3: So that's pretty cool. 916 00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:23,719 Speaker 11: Also, as you know, this comes just I think a 917 00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:27,000 Speaker 11: few months, yeah, right December, after the season five finale 918 00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:28,760 Speaker 11: in December. 919 00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:29,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. 920 00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:31,880 Speaker 11: The end of the year, the twenty twenty six Oscars 921 00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:35,400 Speaker 11: drew about seventeen point nine million viewers in the US, 922 00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:38,920 Speaker 11: marking roughly I think a nine percent drop from the 923 00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:42,759 Speaker 11: previous year. I think the lowest or one of the 924 00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:45,439 Speaker 11: lowest audiences since twenty twenty two. 925 00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:46,839 Speaker 3: Conan hosted again. 926 00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:50,160 Speaker 11: As you know by now, lots of people aren't watching 927 00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:53,319 Speaker 11: award shows anymore. But what I will say is that 928 00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:58,000 Speaker 11: the telecast generated strong buzz online, with social media engagement 929 00:38:58,360 --> 00:39:00,839 Speaker 11: jumping more than forty percent. So this is just like 930 00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:04,280 Speaker 11: showing the changing trends of how people are consuming media. 931 00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:06,359 Speaker 11: I feel like anytime I asked someone like, hey, did 932 00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:09,080 Speaker 11: you watch that, they're like no, But I watched clips online. 933 00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:11,840 Speaker 11: I think that's the new thing. I actually liked oscars, 934 00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:13,680 Speaker 11: but I'm a weirdo. Maybe I thought he did a 935 00:39:13,680 --> 00:39:14,160 Speaker 11: good job. 936 00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:15,200 Speaker 3: I don't know. 937 00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:18,520 Speaker 11: If you want to binge us, make sure we have 938 00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:22,640 Speaker 11: more than nine percent viewers and listeners. The Fred Show 939 00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:25,080 Speaker 11: on demand on the free iHeartRadio app is where you 940 00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:25,480 Speaker 11: can do that. 941 00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:27,120 Speaker 1: It is the frend Show. 942 00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:28,960 Speaker 2: Good morning, thanks for having us on the radio, on 943 00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:31,440 Speaker 2: the iHeart app live and anytime search for a freend 944 00:39:31,480 --> 00:39:33,680 Speaker 2: show on demand. A twenty two year old woman and 945 00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:36,960 Speaker 2: her boyfriend of three years attended his parents anniversary party, 946 00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:41,120 Speaker 2: where he unexpectedly proposed in front of his family and friends, 947 00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:44,160 Speaker 2: and despite earlier conversations where she had expressed that she 948 00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:46,480 Speaker 2: wasn't ready for that, he did it anyway. At the 949 00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:49,200 Speaker 2: moment of the public proposal, she felt pressured and said 950 00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:52,800 Speaker 2: yes to avoid embarrassing him in front of all these people, 951 00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:56,080 Speaker 2: even though inside she knew that she couldn't yet accept. Later, 952 00:39:56,120 --> 00:39:58,120 Speaker 2: in private, she told him that she would not move 953 00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:01,160 Speaker 2: forward with the engagement because she wasn't and he responded 954 00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:03,200 Speaker 2: by saying that she embarrassed him by saying yes and 955 00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:06,840 Speaker 2: then changing her mind. She said that she never intended 956 00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:10,720 Speaker 2: to hurt him and only accepted publicly to spare the moment, 957 00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:14,279 Speaker 2: but acknowledge the situation has now become more complicated, and 958 00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:16,560 Speaker 2: of course people online are going both ways on this. 959 00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:20,239 Speaker 2: I think it would have been more embarrassing to say 960 00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:23,359 Speaker 2: no in front of all of these people. I mean, 961 00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:27,640 Speaker 2: this was his parents anniversary party, so this would have 962 00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:30,440 Speaker 2: been a home crowd. First of all, not the place 963 00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:33,160 Speaker 2: you do, not the place to propose, But second of all, 964 00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:35,960 Speaker 2: it would have been more embarrassing. I think if she 965 00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:37,520 Speaker 2: had said no in front of his parents and all 966 00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:40,440 Speaker 2: these other people instead, it was okay, yeah, now he 967 00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:43,160 Speaker 2: has to walk it back now because but she also 968 00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:44,680 Speaker 2: told him that she didn't want to be engaged to 969 00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:48,200 Speaker 2: him right, so rather than stay engaged to this man 970 00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:51,120 Speaker 2: and marry him, and she's not ready. She just went 971 00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:53,000 Speaker 2: back later and said, look, I didn't I didn't want 972 00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:54,520 Speaker 2: to do this in front of everybody, but I did 973 00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:56,120 Speaker 2: tell you I wasn't ready, and so I don't want 974 00:40:56,120 --> 00:40:58,399 Speaker 2: to be engaged to you right now, and so go 975 00:40:58,440 --> 00:41:00,640 Speaker 2: tell your parents that it was a little premature. And 976 00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:02,000 Speaker 2: then I thought about it, and I want to take 977 00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:04,080 Speaker 2: a step back. That to me is a whole lot 978 00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:07,160 Speaker 2: kinder yes than just saying because if you say no 979 00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:10,680 Speaker 2: in front of everybody, that that probably is the end 980 00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:12,759 Speaker 2: of the relationship. I don't know that you recover from that. 981 00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:16,520 Speaker 8: And that's embarrassment in like real time. That's four k 982 00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:19,239 Speaker 8: right there in front of your whole family. Off, get 983 00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:22,839 Speaker 8: up off your knee. No, Like she did you a 984 00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:25,400 Speaker 8: favor actually by saying yes and then telling you later, 985 00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:27,080 Speaker 8: So she's not wrong. 986 00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:29,279 Speaker 2: But I want to know from you, guys eight five, five, five, nine, 987 00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:31,920 Speaker 2: one one oh three five would you rather would you 988 00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:34,520 Speaker 2: rather say yes and just get out of the sort 989 00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:36,799 Speaker 2: of public eye of the whole thing that's happening and 990 00:41:36,840 --> 00:41:39,080 Speaker 2: then later go back and figure it out, or would 991 00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:41,520 Speaker 2: you rather just say because I again, you see it 992 00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:43,520 Speaker 2: online sometimes I don't know if it's real you see 993 00:41:43,560 --> 00:41:45,360 Speaker 2: to the sporting events, I think those are stage. But 994 00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:47,439 Speaker 2: you see it where people propose and the person says 995 00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:49,880 Speaker 2: no and runs away. That to me is like life 996 00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:54,200 Speaker 2: crushing rejection, public rejection, Like I don't know that you 997 00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:54,960 Speaker 2: can get over that. 998 00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:57,480 Speaker 9: Here's what I will say about this situation, though, there 999 00:41:57,520 --> 00:42:01,480 Speaker 9: should be no situation in my opinion, just me where 1000 00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:04,200 Speaker 9: you are proposing and you don't know, you have not 1001 00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:06,719 Speaker 9: already spoken about it. I totally, I really don't feel 1002 00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:08,920 Speaker 9: like that should be a conversation. There should be planning. 1003 00:42:09,080 --> 00:42:11,319 Speaker 9: You should know that she wants to do that, so 1004 00:42:11,360 --> 00:42:13,400 Speaker 9: you should not be just willing nearly proposing. 1005 00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:16,160 Speaker 3: And obviously this situation she said she didn't want to. 1006 00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:18,879 Speaker 2: When here comes to my man bashing segment, I think 1007 00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:20,520 Speaker 2: that it was a power trip on his part. He 1008 00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:23,439 Speaker 2: wasn't listening to her, he wasn't paying attention to her. 1009 00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:25,400 Speaker 2: She said, I am not ready, and he said no, 1010 00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:27,680 Speaker 2: watch this, hold my beer and then he gets on 1011 00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:30,400 Speaker 2: one knee and does it anyway, and it's almost like 1012 00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:33,280 Speaker 2: it's almost like he was trapping her in some ways, yes, 1013 00:42:33,320 --> 00:42:36,239 Speaker 2: because it's like a power thing. It's like but we 1014 00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:40,319 Speaker 2: talked about it and we said and I said I 1015 00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:42,680 Speaker 2: wasn't ready, so he knew what the answer would be. 1016 00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:44,120 Speaker 2: So it was almost like the only way to get 1017 00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:46,400 Speaker 2: her to say yes was to pressure her and do 1018 00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:47,240 Speaker 2: it in front of everyone. 1019 00:42:47,280 --> 00:42:50,120 Speaker 6: Paulina, I think it was very much planned because he knew, like, 1020 00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:51,600 Speaker 6: if it's in front of a lot of people, she's 1021 00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:53,359 Speaker 6: probably not going to say no, even though they've talked 1022 00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:55,480 Speaker 6: about it. And she said, I'm not ready, and honestly, 1023 00:42:55,719 --> 00:42:58,080 Speaker 6: she should go home and if they use protection, check 1024 00:42:58,120 --> 00:43:00,640 Speaker 6: those or she's not on birth control on that because 1025 00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:01,759 Speaker 6: this man will trap her. 1026 00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:04,359 Speaker 3: It sounds like, okay, I take it to the next level. 1027 00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:05,880 Speaker 3: I know, but like I'm thinking ahead for her. 1028 00:43:05,960 --> 00:43:10,640 Speaker 8: Yeah right right, check your condom. 1029 00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:13,440 Speaker 3: We'll go far into the future with the story. 1030 00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:16,600 Speaker 1: Guy's smoking holes and stuff. Man, Yeah, this is crazy. 1031 00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:18,799 Speaker 3: Well, she said I'm not ready, and he still did it. 1032 00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:19,960 Speaker 1: He did it anyway. 1033 00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:22,640 Speaker 2: I remember when I was young, there was a dude 1034 00:43:22,680 --> 00:43:25,279 Speaker 2: proposing I was weird in some fancy restaurant and the 1035 00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:28,040 Speaker 2: guy I was proposing to his fiance and we knew 1036 00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:30,000 Speaker 2: because she would get up to go to the bathroom 1037 00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:32,000 Speaker 2: and he was like, I think he handed maybe handed 1038 00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:34,000 Speaker 2: the ring to the waiter there was like some negotiation 1039 00:43:34,080 --> 00:43:35,880 Speaker 2: going on. Maybe the waiter told us like, hey, that 1040 00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:38,319 Speaker 2: guy's about to propose something like that. So but this 1041 00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:41,360 Speaker 2: was like in the salads, like people eating salads, and 1042 00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:44,640 Speaker 2: so I'm watching this guy. I'm maybe like nine, and 1043 00:43:44,719 --> 00:43:47,080 Speaker 2: I'm watching this guy and he's sweating bullets. She has 1044 00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:49,560 Speaker 2: no idea, she's just eating their food or whatever. And 1045 00:43:49,600 --> 00:43:51,840 Speaker 2: I knew that it was coming with the dessert, and 1046 00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:53,759 Speaker 2: We're all sitting there watching. At one point I said 1047 00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:56,359 Speaker 2: to my dad, I go, hey, like this guy, this 1048 00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:59,560 Speaker 2: is agonizing, and my Dad's like, yeah, but you don't 1049 00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:03,839 Speaker 2: ever that question unless you already know the answer, like and. 1050 00:44:03,600 --> 00:44:05,040 Speaker 1: It kind of like blew my mind. 1051 00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:06,440 Speaker 2: I was like, I thought the whole thing was like 1052 00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:10,080 Speaker 2: mystical and surprising, you know, I thought, because because the 1053 00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:13,160 Speaker 2: person who gets, you know, proposed to typically acts like 1054 00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:15,200 Speaker 2: they didn't know it was coming, and maybe they didn't 1055 00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:17,960 Speaker 2: exactly know that it was coming, like then, but it's 1056 00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:20,120 Speaker 2: not actually the first time it's it shouldn't be the 1057 00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:23,680 Speaker 2: first time it's being discussed on one knee. But I 1058 00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:25,160 Speaker 2: never as a little kid, I was like I never 1059 00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:27,279 Speaker 2: I'm like, wow, dude, you just you go out and 1060 00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:29,480 Speaker 2: buy a ring and then you just one day get 1061 00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:31,520 Speaker 2: on one knee and you just hope she says yes, 1062 00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:35,200 Speaker 2: and it's like but no, No, I had a pretty 1063 00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:36,960 Speaker 2: good idea what your mom was going to say before 1064 00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:38,719 Speaker 2: I asked, Like, it's kind of like you ask, you 1065 00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:41,560 Speaker 2: kind of pre ask, you know, like you do the 1066 00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:44,200 Speaker 2: thing where even like when you're talking about going like 1067 00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:47,960 Speaker 2: from dating to like being girlfriend boyfriend, don't you kind 1068 00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:49,239 Speaker 2: of do that. I mean, I guess it's a guy. 1069 00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:50,560 Speaker 2: You kind of do the thing where you're like, what 1070 00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:54,160 Speaker 2: would you say if I how would you feel about? Like, 1071 00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:56,319 Speaker 2: like what are your thoughts on? Like basically you just 1072 00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:57,759 Speaker 2: make it so that when you finally said you want 1073 00:44:57,760 --> 00:44:59,480 Speaker 2: to be my girlfriend, like you know the answer is 1074 00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:02,600 Speaker 2: yes because you don't because nobody wants to get rejected. 1075 00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:05,200 Speaker 3: No, And like you should, like you should know what 1076 00:45:05,239 --> 00:45:07,560 Speaker 3: people are looking for, right. 1077 00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:10,120 Speaker 1: Like Anthony, you're saying the same thing. 1078 00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:13,520 Speaker 2: Man, it is this guy got what's coming to him? 1079 00:45:14,160 --> 00:45:14,480 Speaker 1: Yeah? 1080 00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:16,640 Speaker 17: Absolutely, you kind of you hit it on the head. 1081 00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:20,880 Speaker 17: It was at his parents anniversary. It was a power 1082 00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:23,000 Speaker 17: trip thing. He wanted to be in front of people. 1083 00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:26,280 Speaker 17: And I missed who said it. It might have been Kaylin. 1084 00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:29,120 Speaker 17: You don't go into that if you don't know what 1085 00:45:29,200 --> 00:45:31,600 Speaker 17: the answer is going to be. Right, if you have 1086 00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:35,799 Speaker 17: a conversation like I proposed to my now wife, I 1087 00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:37,719 Speaker 17: knew what that answer was going to be, and I 1088 00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:40,239 Speaker 17: still did it in private because I knew she didn't 1089 00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:41,319 Speaker 17: want to be a public thing. 1090 00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:41,800 Speaker 3: Hmmm. 1091 00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:43,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's another thing. 1092 00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:45,600 Speaker 2: Is you got to be with somebody who wants the production, 1093 00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:47,960 Speaker 2: you know, like some I think there are people I 1094 00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:50,319 Speaker 2: think you would know if your partner like this is 1095 00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:53,440 Speaker 2: the whole thing. He should have just known none of 1096 00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:56,080 Speaker 2: He didn't listen to her on any of this, and 1097 00:45:56,160 --> 00:45:58,000 Speaker 2: so I wouldn't be surprised if she fails. But it 1098 00:45:58,040 --> 00:46:00,759 Speaker 2: sounds like she's not bailing. It's like she just wants 1099 00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:02,200 Speaker 2: to take a step back. She didn't dump him, she 1100 00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:04,480 Speaker 2: didn't leave the relationship. I think she just said, hey, man, 1101 00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:08,839 Speaker 2: you got to go undo everything you just did, right, 1102 00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:10,360 Speaker 2: because now it's either. 1103 00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:13,400 Speaker 17: We have to commit to a year's long engagement until 1104 00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:15,320 Speaker 17: they're actually ready to tie. 1105 00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:16,680 Speaker 1: The knod and then that looks bad. 1106 00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:20,120 Speaker 17: Or he could have listened in the first place, and, 1107 00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:22,000 Speaker 17: like you said, have to go back and say like, hey, 1108 00:46:22,200 --> 00:46:25,719 Speaker 17: we're we're going to reevaluate some things we're not over, 1109 00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:27,600 Speaker 17: but it's just not happening right now. 1110 00:46:27,680 --> 00:46:29,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, which I think you can move past that. 1111 00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:31,120 Speaker 2: Thank you, Anthony, have a good day. 1112 00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:33,000 Speaker 17: Yeah you doo well, you guy. 1113 00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:35,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, if I did something, my parents would be like 1114 00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:37,719 Speaker 2: that was stupid, Like if I did something like that 1115 00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:39,399 Speaker 2: and then I went back and had to telling me ash, 1116 00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:41,719 Speaker 2: so we're not actually engaged because like she didn't want that, 1117 00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:43,399 Speaker 2: and my parents would be like, what did you talk 1118 00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:43,960 Speaker 2: to her about it for? 1119 00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:44,759 Speaker 1: Like why did you do that? 1120 00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:47,759 Speaker 2: Then my parents would come they crack me, you know, 1121 00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:49,960 Speaker 2: they'd be like, you're an idiot, Like that's not how 1122 00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:51,240 Speaker 2: this works, dude, Like why did. 1123 00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:51,799 Speaker 1: You do it? Like that? 1124 00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:54,120 Speaker 2: But I also think it's a reasonable thing to go 1125 00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:56,480 Speaker 2: back and say to family and friends, like, you know, 1126 00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:57,319 Speaker 2: we got caught up in there. 1127 00:46:57,600 --> 00:46:58,200 Speaker 1: You could make it. 1128 00:46:58,239 --> 00:47:00,680 Speaker 2: You could make it a little more romantic than it was. Hey, 1129 00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:02,560 Speaker 2: he got caught up in the moment. He was just 1130 00:47:02,600 --> 00:47:04,560 Speaker 2: so excited he got the ring and whatever, and we 1131 00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:07,200 Speaker 2: have talked about it, but we're just not quite there yet. 1132 00:47:07,320 --> 00:47:09,560 Speaker 2: I think anybody in a relationship or any period of 1133 00:47:09,600 --> 00:47:12,080 Speaker 2: time would respect that. Yes, just like okay, so you 1134 00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:15,359 Speaker 2: weren't quite ready you got excited. You're not gonna break up. 1135 00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:17,319 Speaker 2: You're just gonna like take a step back rather than 1136 00:47:18,280 --> 00:47:20,520 Speaker 2: let that way over you. Because that's a horrible way 1137 00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:23,359 Speaker 2: to start to start an engagement. And the process where 1138 00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:26,399 Speaker 2: the girl didn't even want to do it. Yeah, as 1139 00:47:26,440 --> 00:47:28,640 Speaker 2: I'm watching it, as I'm watching Kiki do all this 1140 00:47:28,680 --> 00:47:30,680 Speaker 2: wedding planning and stuff, like, if you weren't elated with 1141 00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:33,080 Speaker 2: the process, this would be one hundred times worse. 1142 00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:36,160 Speaker 8: Yeah, and if you messed up my first proposal in 1143 00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:39,080 Speaker 8: any way, shape or form, I'm out the door, like, bro. 1144 00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:41,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, Kaitlin, Like, I don't want now you're going to 1145 00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:42,520 Speaker 3: do a redo of this. 1146 00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:45,720 Speaker 8: You've already gotten down, you're looking goofy on the floor. 1147 00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:46,960 Speaker 3: Your family got photos and. 1148 00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:47,520 Speaker 1: Videos of this. 1149 00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:50,480 Speaker 3: You didn't mess this whole experience up for me. 1150 00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:51,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, we may have to. 1151 00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:55,839 Speaker 2: We'd have to pretend that was it, Like some day, 1152 00:47:56,080 --> 00:47:57,960 Speaker 2: some day I'll tell you, like in six months or 1153 00:47:58,000 --> 00:47:59,480 Speaker 2: a year, just hand me the ring back and we'll 1154 00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:01,480 Speaker 2: pretend like that happened and that was it, Like, because 1155 00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:03,840 Speaker 2: we can't do this again, we do it. It's weird, 1156 00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:11,440 Speaker 2: right exactly. Hey, Lucas, Lucas, are you? Are you moving 1157 00:48:11,520 --> 00:48:13,759 Speaker 2: someone right now? What are you doing? Are you? Are 1158 00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:14,719 Speaker 2: you cutting a tree down? 1159 00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:15,960 Speaker 5: No? 1160 00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:17,120 Speaker 3: No, I'm not right now. 1161 00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:19,960 Speaker 1: Well I knew I just like I can hear that. 1162 00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:21,319 Speaker 1: I like a guy who can work. 1163 00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:26,480 Speaker 2: And you're putting on together all the. 1164 00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:31,960 Speaker 18: Chiefs, mussy his oldest, Oh, bring some of those over here. 1165 00:48:32,000 --> 00:48:34,520 Speaker 2: I need some breakfast anyway, So what do you get 1166 00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:37,040 Speaker 2: the final say on this? The dude proposes to his 1167 00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:38,960 Speaker 2: girlfriend in front of his parents and all their friends 1168 00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:40,440 Speaker 2: at his parents anniversary party. 1169 00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:42,000 Speaker 1: She'd already said she wasn't ready. 1170 00:48:42,080 --> 00:48:44,000 Speaker 2: He did it anyway, and now she's having a backtrack 1171 00:48:44,040 --> 00:48:44,919 Speaker 2: and he's mad at her. 1172 00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:48,920 Speaker 18: Well, in my opinions, rest of a while, you you 1173 00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:50,360 Speaker 18: took your parents' spotlights. 1174 00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:52,680 Speaker 1: He took the parents spotlight. 1175 00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:55,799 Speaker 18: That's another Well, you put her on the spot so 1176 00:48:56,480 --> 00:49:00,160 Speaker 18: basically you know she in my opinion, she got like 1177 00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:03,480 Speaker 18: you guys talk, She's gonna say no, you're embarrassed, embarrassed 1178 00:49:03,480 --> 00:49:06,600 Speaker 18: the guy and find out everybody so bactially you you gave. 1179 00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:08,120 Speaker 1: Her no choice, no choice. 1180 00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:11,520 Speaker 18: You gotta say yes, you know, and to make it 1181 00:49:11,600 --> 00:49:13,960 Speaker 18: look good and everybody, I'm happy on the party and 1182 00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:15,560 Speaker 18: continue the party with the good moods. 1183 00:49:15,920 --> 00:49:20,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you gotta keep party. You gotta keep partying 1184 00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:21,359 Speaker 2: after that, that's for sure. 1185 00:49:22,400 --> 00:49:25,120 Speaker 18: So you know, like imagine she's gonna say no, Like 1186 00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:27,240 Speaker 18: all the head out of that room probably would be out. 1187 00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:28,160 Speaker 1: Right now, the party is. 1188 00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:31,080 Speaker 2: It's like he knew this, Like the party would be ruined, 1189 00:49:31,080 --> 00:49:33,719 Speaker 2: the parents would hate her, there'd be no coming back. 1190 00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:37,640 Speaker 2: It was like it was like a yes, it was Lucas, 1191 00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:40,320 Speaker 2: I gotta go have a good day, man, Thank you 1192 00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:42,960 Speaker 2: have a good day at work. Yeah no, but but 1193 00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:47,719 Speaker 2: why would you why would you even want that? Like 1194 00:49:47,920 --> 00:49:50,880 Speaker 2: as it man, like what or whoever's proposing woman whatever, 1195 00:49:50,920 --> 00:49:52,239 Speaker 2: why would you even want that? 1196 00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:53,440 Speaker 1: Like why would you want to know? 1197 00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:56,439 Speaker 2: I'm doing this because I know she'll say yes out 1198 00:49:56,440 --> 00:49:56,920 Speaker 2: of pressure. 1199 00:49:57,200 --> 00:49:59,080 Speaker 3: To Paulina's point, he's trying to trap her. 1200 00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:01,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, go check the condoms. 1201 00:50:01,080 --> 00:50:01,239 Speaker 5: Man. 1202 00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:04,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, this is that kind of guy, the kind of 1203 00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:06,719 Speaker 1: guy you gotta worry about. Man, Man, lifetime movies about 1204 00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:18,719 Speaker 1: women like this guy. You're just missing the guy who 1205 00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:22,000 Speaker 1: breaks every voice in men song down. Yeah, Hey baby, 1206 00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:25,760 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Please forgive me for all the wrong if done, 1207 00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:29,600 Speaker 1: and then you gotta go, please forgive me, please forgive you. 1208 00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:33,520 Speaker 1: I love you. I didn't mean to get with her. 1209 00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:35,880 Speaker 1: I didn't know she was an Instagram model. 1210 00:50:36,160 --> 00:50:37,040 Speaker 3: I didn't know she was a. 1211 00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:41,040 Speaker 1: Fred Show is on. Oh. 1212 00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:43,600 Speaker 2: Someone text that they heard Waiting for a Start of 1213 00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:45,480 Speaker 2: Fall at the grocery store and thought, of me, it's 1214 00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:47,440 Speaker 2: only one of the greatest songs ever recorded. 1215 00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:49,440 Speaker 1: But that's my encouragement for you this week. 1216 00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:52,719 Speaker 2: Pick an era from before you were born, and go 1217 00:50:52,760 --> 00:50:54,560 Speaker 2: find a playlist and listen to the songs, and you 1218 00:50:54,640 --> 00:50:57,120 Speaker 2: might even like it. You like sixties, you might like motow. 1219 00:50:58,320 --> 00:51:00,680 Speaker 2: I feel like if you like me, yes, then you 1220 00:51:00,719 --> 00:51:05,040 Speaker 2: would like Jackson five. Yeah, I can you know, I 1221 00:51:05,160 --> 00:51:07,799 Speaker 2: like it a lot. I don't know. I just like 1222 00:51:07,840 --> 00:51:09,359 Speaker 2: the Lord just made me cough. I don't know if 1223 00:51:09,360 --> 00:51:12,279 Speaker 2: that was like, don't even try this. Don't don't play 1224 00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:15,200 Speaker 2: this game making comparisons between generations. You're gonna offend somebody 1225 00:51:15,360 --> 00:51:17,520 Speaker 2: or make them angry because everyone thinks of music they 1226 00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:19,680 Speaker 2: grew up with is the best music and everything else sucks. 1227 00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:21,719 Speaker 1: Oh you let me think about it. 1228 00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:23,880 Speaker 2: Don't you feel like you you have the most attachment 1229 00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:25,000 Speaker 2: to the songs from your childhood? 1230 00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:25,200 Speaker 5: Oh? 1231 00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:28,920 Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, sure, even early two thousands. I feel like 1232 00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:29,799 Speaker 3: that's my wheelhouse. 1233 00:51:29,840 --> 00:51:35,600 Speaker 1: That's college high school. Yeah, it's the Fred Show. Do 1234 00:51:35,640 --> 00:51:37,560 Speaker 1: you have what it takes to battleship? 1235 00:51:38,080 --> 00:51:40,960 Speaker 6: You're definitely gonna be Callina battle Not today. 1236 00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:49,680 Speaker 2: No, it's time to play the game, Plina game. 1237 00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:53,840 Speaker 19: Sing your song now, go, I gotta sing this song 1238 00:51:54,160 --> 00:51:58,200 Speaker 19: and say warm cuz it's a little cold outside. 1239 00:51:58,640 --> 00:51:59,560 Speaker 3: It's okay. 1240 00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:03,640 Speaker 19: I'm gonna pray that's bringing summer very up because I 1241 00:52:03,719 --> 00:52:04,359 Speaker 19: can't wait. 1242 00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:13,439 Speaker 1: Okayyay, Alexia, Hello, Alexia tie, good morning. How's it going? Fun? 1243 00:52:13,480 --> 00:52:16,560 Speaker 1: Fact about you tell me something fun? 1244 00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:16,919 Speaker 2: Bag? 1245 00:52:17,239 --> 00:52:19,759 Speaker 3: I actually just found out my cat is pregnant. Is 1246 00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:20,760 Speaker 3: she having babies? 1247 00:52:20,960 --> 00:52:23,080 Speaker 2: Your cat is pregnant? What's she got here on these streets? 1248 00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:24,880 Speaker 2: How's she getting pregnant? Was this cold outside? 1249 00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:26,080 Speaker 3: Was she trying to so? 1250 00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:27,359 Speaker 5: No? 1251 00:52:27,520 --> 00:52:29,759 Speaker 19: So we actually found her out in the streets a 1252 00:52:29,800 --> 00:52:33,640 Speaker 19: couple of weeks ago, and we bore her in and 1253 00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:34,319 Speaker 19: so we just. 1254 00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:36,359 Speaker 4: Like once she stopt it to the bag of her 1255 00:52:36,360 --> 00:52:38,120 Speaker 4: shats and everything, and they called us and told her 1256 00:52:38,200 --> 00:52:39,120 Speaker 4: that she's pregnant. 1257 00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:43,359 Speaker 2: Wow, wow, look at you. Yeah, that's very exciting for her. 1258 00:52:44,080 --> 00:52:47,200 Speaker 2: For her, they have like seventeen little kittens, don't they 1259 00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:50,439 Speaker 2: sometimes up a lot? 1260 00:52:50,600 --> 00:52:51,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, we don't know. 1261 00:52:51,680 --> 00:52:54,520 Speaker 16: Yeah, because she's so early on, but said that said 1262 00:52:54,560 --> 00:52:55,920 Speaker 16: that she could have up of ten. 1263 00:52:56,360 --> 00:52:58,640 Speaker 2: Because you thought you got one cat, now you got ten. 1264 00:52:58,719 --> 00:52:59,960 Speaker 2: What are you gonna do, Alexi? 1265 00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:04,520 Speaker 3: Well, we're going to see how you got the family members. 1266 00:53:04,560 --> 00:53:06,600 Speaker 3: A friend I definitely want to keep at least too. 1267 00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:08,920 Speaker 3: So she has her babies at home? 1268 00:53:09,960 --> 00:53:10,600 Speaker 1: All right, Alexia? 1269 00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:15,719 Speaker 6: You win, it's over and person, you have everything you want? 1270 00:53:16,480 --> 00:53:16,879 Speaker 1: All right? 1271 00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:17,600 Speaker 3: She can. 1272 00:53:17,880 --> 00:53:22,040 Speaker 1: So you have ten kittens in you? Yeah, I'll you 1273 00:53:22,080 --> 00:53:25,319 Speaker 1: got to go get out. I love you. We got 1274 00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:25,919 Speaker 1: to play the game. 1275 00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:30,520 Speaker 2: Audio sput to the hallway we go and sound poof. 1276 00:53:30,560 --> 00:53:33,440 Speaker 2: She cannot hear the questions, Alexi, question number one for you. 1277 00:53:33,520 --> 00:53:36,200 Speaker 2: These are general knowledge questions and a tie does go 1278 00:53:36,239 --> 00:53:38,280 Speaker 2: to Paulina since we only played the game once a week. 1279 00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:41,000 Speaker 2: What is the name of the shortest day of the 1280 00:53:41,120 --> 00:53:43,440 Speaker 2: year in the Northern Hemisphere? 1281 00:53:46,160 --> 00:53:46,600 Speaker 3: Three? 1282 00:53:49,000 --> 00:53:54,279 Speaker 2: What part of the body does a pediatrist focus on you? 1283 00:53:55,480 --> 00:54:00,279 Speaker 2: When you can't pick a side? Some might say you're sitting. 1284 00:54:00,239 --> 00:54:00,920 Speaker 1: On the what. 1285 00:54:04,320 --> 00:54:05,600 Speaker 3: You can't pick side? 1286 00:54:05,680 --> 00:54:06,760 Speaker 1: You can't pick a side. 1287 00:54:06,520 --> 00:54:08,440 Speaker 2: In something like you can't pick aside this person or 1288 00:54:08,440 --> 00:54:10,919 Speaker 2: the other person, for example, or this team or that team. 1289 00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:12,239 Speaker 1: You might sitting on the. 1290 00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:15,440 Speaker 3: In the middle. 1291 00:54:16,080 --> 00:54:21,759 Speaker 2: Okay, what will a pescatarian eat that a vegetarian will not? 1292 00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:27,840 Speaker 2: And in the popular song from jay Z's The Black album, 1293 00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:30,080 Speaker 2: how many problems does jay Z have. 1294 00:54:35,120 --> 00:54:35,239 Speaker 3: Got? 1295 00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:36,120 Speaker 1: Three? All right? 1296 00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:37,879 Speaker 2: All right, so you have to get at least three, 1297 00:54:37,920 --> 00:54:42,279 Speaker 2: Paulina coming back in from the booth poof so three 1298 00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:43,200 Speaker 2: would win it for you? 1299 00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:45,320 Speaker 1: Okay, you ready? 1300 00:54:45,360 --> 00:54:45,680 Speaker 3: I think? 1301 00:54:45,719 --> 00:54:48,719 Speaker 2: So what is the name, Paulina of the shortest day 1302 00:54:48,760 --> 00:54:51,160 Speaker 2: of the year in the northern hemisphere? 1303 00:54:51,520 --> 00:54:51,960 Speaker 3: Leap day? 1304 00:54:52,560 --> 00:54:52,759 Speaker 1: Wait? 1305 00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:53,880 Speaker 3: Why did you both see. 1306 00:54:56,239 --> 00:54:58,600 Speaker 1: Winter solstice? Is the answer that we were looking for. 1307 00:54:59,120 --> 00:55:00,360 Speaker 2: And I know that was the next thing you were 1308 00:55:00,360 --> 00:55:02,840 Speaker 2: going to say, you know, what part of the body 1309 00:55:02,920 --> 00:55:04,200 Speaker 2: does a pediatrist? 1310 00:55:04,800 --> 00:55:05,440 Speaker 1: Focus on? 1311 00:55:05,880 --> 00:55:11,400 Speaker 6: Pediatrists to a part of the body a little time. 1312 00:55:11,280 --> 00:55:14,360 Speaker 1: But you don't need it show I don't know, I 1313 00:55:14,400 --> 00:55:15,640 Speaker 1: don't know, say. 1314 00:55:16,080 --> 00:55:18,520 Speaker 9: I guess the thing I don't know the heart as 1315 00:55:18,560 --> 00:55:21,640 Speaker 9: a cardiologist, feet, legs and ankles. 1316 00:55:21,760 --> 00:55:25,799 Speaker 1: Is that we're looking for a diatrist. 1317 00:55:26,200 --> 00:55:29,319 Speaker 2: When you can't pick a side, Paulina, some might say 1318 00:55:29,360 --> 00:55:38,120 Speaker 2: you're sitting on the edge, fence, fence, on the edge. 1319 00:55:38,880 --> 00:55:42,480 Speaker 2: What will a pescatarian eat that a vegetarian will not? 1320 00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:44,239 Speaker 3: Fish? 1321 00:55:44,320 --> 00:55:47,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, in the popular song from jay Z's The Black album, 1322 00:55:47,840 --> 00:55:48,680 Speaker 2: how many Problems? 1323 00:55:48,760 --> 00:55:50,680 Speaker 1: Does jay Z have problems? 1324 00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:52,080 Speaker 3: And a one period? 1325 00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:54,759 Speaker 1: Okay, that's that is. You did not win. 1326 00:55:55,239 --> 00:55:58,239 Speaker 2: You didn't know you had to get three because you 1327 00:55:58,320 --> 00:56:06,440 Speaker 2: missed one. Two, you only to jump you win. Definitely 1328 00:56:06,440 --> 00:56:08,640 Speaker 2: going to be probably the spread is spreading again. One 1329 00:56:08,680 --> 00:56:11,359 Speaker 2: hundred wins and one hundred and seven losses. Now, yeah, 1330 00:56:11,400 --> 00:56:13,319 Speaker 2: we were getting close and then we're now we're not. 1331 00:56:13,520 --> 00:56:14,560 Speaker 3: Jason, do you know what that means? 1332 00:56:14,600 --> 00:56:14,839 Speaker 15: Noble? 1333 00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:17,439 Speaker 3: But excuse you spreading? 1334 00:56:17,480 --> 00:56:22,120 Speaker 2: Put your legs together. It's beautiful that I know. Need 1335 00:56:22,120 --> 00:56:24,120 Speaker 2: to see it all the time. And where's some underword? 1336 00:56:24,160 --> 00:56:25,319 Speaker 2: Too unbelievable? 1337 00:56:25,440 --> 00:56:25,840 Speaker 1: Seriously? 1338 00:56:25,920 --> 00:56:28,680 Speaker 2: All right, Alexi, and good luck with the kittens and 1339 00:56:28,920 --> 00:56:30,600 Speaker 2: we'll get you a prize and you're a winner. Hang 1340 00:56:30,640 --> 00:56:31,320 Speaker 2: on one second. 1341 00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:34,319 Speaker 1: Calin's entertainment report is on the Bread Show. 1342 00:56:34,960 --> 00:56:38,200 Speaker 11: NBA legend Taquil O'Neil says he will cover the funeral 1343 00:56:38,239 --> 00:56:41,319 Speaker 11: costs for twelve year old Jada West, a Georgia girl 1344 00:56:41,320 --> 00:56:43,959 Speaker 11: who died after a fight at a school. 1345 00:56:43,680 --> 00:56:45,160 Speaker 3: Bus stop earlier this month. 1346 00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:49,360 Speaker 11: Jada reportedly suffered a serious brain injury after the altercation, 1347 00:56:49,480 --> 00:56:53,920 Speaker 11: later died, prompting an ongoing police investigation into what happened. 1348 00:56:54,239 --> 00:56:56,759 Speaker 11: Shack said the story touched his heart, explaining he just 1349 00:56:56,800 --> 00:57:00,400 Speaker 11: wanted to help erase the financial burden on the grieving family. 1350 00:57:00,480 --> 00:57:05,160 Speaker 11: He is partnering with some local police officers to support them, rally, 1351 00:57:05,200 --> 00:57:09,640 Speaker 11: community help them as they seek answers about the circumstances 1352 00:57:09,760 --> 00:57:12,160 Speaker 11: leading it to her death. Such a tragic story, but 1353 00:57:12,320 --> 00:57:15,800 Speaker 11: you know, obviously he's stepping in in at least covering 1354 00:57:15,840 --> 00:57:17,320 Speaker 11: that so they don't have to worry about it. 1355 00:57:17,840 --> 00:57:18,200 Speaker 3: Okay. 1356 00:57:18,200 --> 00:57:22,200 Speaker 11: Moving on to a few different concert festival just music 1357 00:57:22,240 --> 00:57:26,400 Speaker 11: announcements in general, The twenty twenty six Lallapalooza lineup has 1358 00:57:26,480 --> 00:57:31,320 Speaker 11: been unveiled, led by some major names Olivia Dean, Charlie XCX, 1359 00:57:31,320 --> 00:57:35,840 Speaker 11: Tate McCrae, Lord the Xx, alongside headliners like Jenny John, 1360 00:57:35,960 --> 00:57:39,480 Speaker 11: Summit and The Smashing Pumpkins. The four day festival returns 1361 00:57:39,520 --> 00:57:43,360 Speaker 11: to Grant Park in Chicago from July thirtieth to August second, 1362 00:57:43,720 --> 00:57:46,600 Speaker 11: with more than one hundred artists scheduled to perform. Other 1363 00:57:46,760 --> 00:57:50,920 Speaker 11: notable performers lil Uzi Vert the Neighborhood, which I know 1364 00:57:51,040 --> 00:57:53,920 Speaker 11: my sister is freaking out right now, Young Blood Ethel Caine, 1365 00:57:54,280 --> 00:57:57,560 Speaker 11: Empire of the Sun, Major Laser, a trumix of music. 1366 00:57:57,600 --> 00:58:02,000 Speaker 11: Pre sale begins tomorrow. You are looking to get those lol. 1367 00:58:02,040 --> 00:58:07,320 Speaker 11: Wayne is extending his The Carter twentieth Anniversary, adding another 1368 00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:10,240 Speaker 11: whole run of dates with two Chains and the Game 1369 00:58:10,280 --> 00:58:13,120 Speaker 11: as openers. So the new leg of shows is set 1370 00:58:13,120 --> 00:58:16,120 Speaker 11: to kick off in June, will run through multiple cities again, 1371 00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:19,760 Speaker 11: counting the celebration of more than two decades. 1372 00:58:19,600 --> 00:58:21,959 Speaker 3: Of his Carter album series. He's So Good. 1373 00:58:22,080 --> 00:58:27,000 Speaker 11: Pre sale begins today, with general starting shortly after. Jay 1374 00:58:27,080 --> 00:58:29,080 Speaker 11: Z is set to return to the stage as a 1375 00:58:29,120 --> 00:58:32,720 Speaker 11: headliner for the twenty twenty six Roots Picnic. The festival 1376 00:58:33,080 --> 00:58:34,880 Speaker 11: hosted by The Roots, if you didn't know, will take 1377 00:58:34,880 --> 00:58:38,280 Speaker 11: place May thirtieth through the thirty first in Philly. This 1378 00:58:38,320 --> 00:58:39,800 Speaker 11: is major. I mean we don't get a lot of 1379 00:58:39,880 --> 00:58:43,640 Speaker 11: j performances. Tickets for that also go on sale today. 1380 00:58:43,880 --> 00:58:48,040 Speaker 11: And our iHeartRadio Music Awards are back Thursday, March twenty 1381 00:58:48,040 --> 00:58:51,480 Speaker 11: sixth on Fox, hosted by Ludacris. I almost said my 1382 00:58:51,520 --> 00:58:53,800 Speaker 11: friend because we met one time, so we're totally. 1383 00:58:53,520 --> 00:58:54,360 Speaker 3: Friends at this point. 1384 00:58:54,480 --> 00:58:57,240 Speaker 11: Miley Cyrus will be in the house to accept the 1385 00:58:57,280 --> 00:59:01,360 Speaker 11: Innovator Award. Already performing Alex Warre and Landy Wilson. I 1386 00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:05,400 Speaker 11: know Jason's freaking out Ray, TLC, en Vogue, Saltan Peppa. 1387 00:59:05,480 --> 00:59:09,600 Speaker 11: But tomorrow even more amazing performers will be announced at 1388 00:59:09,640 --> 00:59:13,640 Speaker 11: eighth Central or nine eastern right here, so look out 1389 00:59:13,640 --> 00:59:14,840 Speaker 11: for that. And if you want to catch up on 1390 00:59:14,880 --> 00:59:17,600 Speaker 11: anything you missed, the Frend Show on demand on the 1391 00:59:17,600 --> 00:59:18,959 Speaker 11: free iHeartRadio app. 1392 00:59:19,480 --> 00:59:23,880 Speaker 2: The Fred Show is on Friend's Fun Fact Fred fun. 1393 00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:30,360 Speaker 17: So much. 1394 00:59:30,480 --> 00:59:33,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, you can learn so much. Guys. 1395 00:59:33,560 --> 00:59:39,400 Speaker 2: Did you know the goats have rectangular pupils? 1396 00:59:40,400 --> 00:59:42,280 Speaker 1: Whoa, they're rectangles. 1397 00:59:42,280 --> 00:59:49,680 Speaker 2: Their entire field of vision is basically panoramic apparently, yes, what. 1398 00:59:51,440 --> 00:59:54,160 Speaker 3: It's like trippy as how I'm looking right now? 1399 00:59:54,800 --> 00:59:55,479 Speaker 1: They are? 1400 00:59:57,080 --> 00:59:58,440 Speaker 2: What do you think I'm lying to you? You don't 1401 00:59:58,440 --> 01:00:00,440 Speaker 2: trust me? Will you want a DNA test that what's 1402 01:00:00,480 --> 01:00:00,840 Speaker 2: going on? 1403 01:00:01,040 --> 01:00:03,680 Speaker 4: Well, sometimes when I ask you a question about the fact, 1404 01:00:03,720 --> 01:00:06,000 Speaker 4: you're like, I don't know, just like appreciate the fact. 1405 01:00:06,240 --> 01:00:08,080 Speaker 3: So I wanted to look at it myself. 1406 01:00:08,560 --> 01:00:11,560 Speaker 2: It's all right because it turns out that I don't 1407 01:00:11,600 --> 01:00:14,320 Speaker 2: know all of these other type of it's crazy. 1408 01:00:14,360 --> 01:00:16,560 Speaker 1: I know more. Pread Show next