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Speaker 1: Good morning. Okay, let's figure out what's going on with

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Speaker 1: this dude justin so, of course, as always, we need

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Speaker 2: So I met him on an app of course, and

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Speaker 2: he was like really sweet, really cute, and he suggested

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Speaker 3: Like a photo.

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Speaker 4: And as the night went on, I just I was

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Speaker 2: And I haven't heard from him since, you know, and

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Speaker 2: I can't imagine that he's ghosting, because.

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Speaker 1: I mean it just went so okay, all right, So

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Speaker 1: you're reflecting on this date, and again I always asked

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Speaker 1: no doubt in your mind. I'm gonna hear from this guy.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna go out again. I mean, you're probably already

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Speaker 1: thinking I'm gonna delete this stupid app, like here we go,

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Speaker 1: I found something good.

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Speaker 5: I'm not that far.

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Speaker 2: I mean I've been on some dates and they went well,

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Speaker 3: You're optimistic.

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Speaker 4: I'm totally totally optimate, Like we vibe like nobody's business.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, except for some reason, this guy didn't

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Speaker 1: let's play one song. Come back in a couple of minutes.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call Justin. You'll be on the phone. We'll

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Speaker 3: All right, Oh, that'd be awesome.

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Speaker 2: Hopefully he's just gonna stick or something.

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Speaker 3: Let's see what happens next.

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Speaker 1: Part two of Waiting by the Phone after this song

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Speaker 1: on The Fred Show. Good morning, It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: Part two of Waiting by the Phone. Hey, Mara, welcome back, Mara.

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Speaker 1: Let's call this dude Justin. You guys met on the apps.

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Speaker 1: You went on a great date. You thought you'd see

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Speaker 1: him again, except you haven't heard from him since that date,

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Speaker 1: and you're like, what the heck? Why are you not

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Speaker 1: calling me back? Why are you ghosting me? And you

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Speaker 1: want us to help you figure it out? Yes?

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Speaker 3: Please, all right, let's call him now? Good luck?

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Speaker 5: Thank you?

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Speaker 3: Hello, Hi, sus Justin. Yeah, this is Justin, Hi Justin,

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Speaker 3: good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the morning Radio Progrum

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Speaker 1: and my whole crew is here, and I have to

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Speaker 1: I would need your permission to continue with the call.

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Speaker 1: Can wech had for just a couple of minutes on the.

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Speaker 5: Air spread from the radio show?

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Speaker 1: That is me? We congratulations? Here we are you and

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Speaker 1: me together and everybody else?

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Speaker 2: Hi?

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I love your show? What's up?

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Speaker 3: Why are you calling me?

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Speaker 2: Ah?

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 1: This is Vanancic? What you my friend? It's a dream,

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Speaker 1: I'm true for anyone who listens to us, or maybe

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Speaker 1: waiting by the phone, and and Maara, once enough, where

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Speaker 1: you've been?

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Speaker 3: What Justin? It's happening to you?

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Speaker 1: God?

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Speaker 5: Mara, you got to be kidding me. She's the worst.

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Speaker 5: Oh, she's beyond high maintenance. You know. We went so

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Speaker 5: You know, I asked she has to switch tables like

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm embarrassed to go back the way she acted.

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Speaker 5: It was terrible. I'm sorry, it's it was just that

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Speaker 1: Well, if you listen, you know that MARAA is here, Maara.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so what's your side of the story here?

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Speaker 1: Like you you didn't like the table, you didn't like

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Speaker 4: Hide nestin. Yeah, but true, I only asked to switch

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Speaker 4: You don't want me to just stick. And I did

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I've never been there, but I'm super excited because

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Speaker 3: Did you pay for it? Did you pay No? No?

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Speaker 3: Oh girl?

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, Well, I mean I also understand that you're

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Speaker 3: It sounds like it was everything a lot.

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Speaker 4: I'm normally not like that. It was just that one

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Speaker 5: I wasn't. I go there all the time. They know me,

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Speaker 1: Come on, okay, so he was the rude You were

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Speaker 3: He made kind of his shoes in private. I think

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Speaker 3: You gotta know you.

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Speaker 4: Actually asked to sit outside.

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Speaker 2: I hear you.

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Speaker 4: But also, you know, you got to stand up for

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Speaker 3: I mean maybe he does. Know, No, nobody wants that.

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Speaker 3: Nobody wants that.

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Speaker 1: You definitely speak your mind, but maybe not about every

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Speaker 2: Okay, I hear you. I'm sorry, Justin? Would you give

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Speaker 3: Oh goodness, did we just come to it?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 1: Did we actually just make someone see what could actually

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Speaker 3: Don't do it?

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Speaker 5: Justin?

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Speaker 4: You had a point. You have a point.

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Speaker 3: I mean I always if you.

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Speaker 4: Take out all of those things you mentioned, ask him

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Speaker 4: how great was our conversation? How flirty were we? How

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Speaker 2: That was pretty good.

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Speaker 1: But I'm confused. I thought he was a jerk, Like,

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Speaker 1: which one is it? You're made nance he's a jerk.

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Speaker 1: But now it's like, okay, maybe I was hyminance. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I'm very confused. So what are we doing?

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Speaker 3: Justin? You want to go out with this woman again?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? It was very She's very sweet and in her

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Speaker 1: This has been a real roller coaster. Of emotions. Man,

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. I'm all over here. I'm over there,

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Speaker 1: I'm over here. Now I'm back. And then I thought,

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Speaker 1: maybe for a second, now we're actually going out again,

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Speaker 1: but I just right, Yeah, he was rude and then

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Speaker 1: even the same date, Mari. It's not gonna work out.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but I appreciate your time. Justin I appreciate

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Speaker 1: your time as well. Best of luck to both of

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Speaker 5: Thank you.

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Speaker 3: Jesus is not gonna be nice to each other. It's like,

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Speaker 3: what is going on each other