1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,880 Speaker 1: What's up its lip service And I'm Antela yee, I'm 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:05,680 Speaker 1: g g McGuire, I'm Laria and you know it's time 3 00:00:05,720 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 1: for a woman on top. Y'all are gonna love this one. 4 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:11,320 Speaker 1: Today we are doing a special Delhian toast to Whitney 5 00:00:11,320 --> 00:00:16,560 Speaker 1: Beatty and Ebony Anderson. They have created Josephine and Billy's. 6 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 1: It's uh Speak Easy, a cannabis speak easy by and 7 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:22,959 Speaker 1: for women of color. And guess who's invested in it, 8 00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:25,840 Speaker 1: jay Z. It's the first of its kinds in the 9 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 1: United States. Yes, and Josephine and Billy's will offer unique 10 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 1: speak Easy style cannabis retail concept. Now, it's no secret 11 00:00:34,040 --> 00:00:36,600 Speaker 1: that the cannabis industry is mostly run by white men, 12 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:39,600 Speaker 1: but it's also no secret that the business is gonna 13 00:00:39,640 --> 00:00:44,520 Speaker 1: bring in nearly forty five billion dollars in revenue by 14 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 1: And that's why I love the fact that Whitney Beatty 15 00:00:46,479 --> 00:00:50,600 Speaker 1: and Ebony Anderson are here and it's actually a black 16 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 1: woman owned company. Josephine and Billy's, which is named after 17 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 1: Josephine Baker and Billie Holiday, was developed to create a 18 00:00:57,360 --> 00:01:01,240 Speaker 1: welcoming and educational retail experience to women of color, and 19 00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:04,320 Speaker 1: it also does feel avoid existing for this demographic. You know, 20 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 1: we spend all kinds of money in this space, so 21 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 1: we need to make sure that we're making money from 22 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:10,920 Speaker 1: this space as well. I know I've spent a lot 23 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:15,640 Speaker 1: of money and so did. Okay, So y'all gohli us. 24 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:18,280 Speaker 1: If you need somebody to test it out, yeah, if 25 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:22,760 Speaker 1: you guys, If you guys need any type of UM ambassadors, yea, yeah, 26 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 1: we're hereiod. According to Abbots, the research around it is compelling. 27 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 1: Studies show that women of color benefit the most from 28 00:01:29,360 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 1: the effects of cannabis, including cd D, and women also 29 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 1: experience anxiety at twice the rate compared to men, and 30 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:37,760 Speaker 1: so that's why it was really important for them to 31 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:41,200 Speaker 1: understand the health benefits right of cannabis and CDD. And 32 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 1: you know, a long time it's been criminalized. Black people 33 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 1: have been demonized for using it. But what you have 34 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 1: to learn is that, as you can see now, it's 35 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 1: legal and there's also a lot of benefits. So again 36 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 1: we are toasting to Whitney and ebony, and also we're 37 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 1: toasting to Josephina Billies. We can't wait to make it. 38 00:01:57,840 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 1: Their shares s pop up as alright, what's up. It's 39 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:07,280 Speaker 1: lift service and it's time for us to have a 40 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 1: discussion with Zola. So I'm Angela Yee maguire, I'm Louria, 41 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 1: and Zola's here with us. Zola, you excited the movie 42 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:19,680 Speaker 1: is coming out on thet Yes, finally, I'm very exciting. 43 00:02:19,919 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 1: In six years too long? Has it been six years? 44 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 1: Sin't you? You wrote the story six years? Wow? Time five? 45 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 1: Now some things that I want to talk about. So 46 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 1: for people who don't know, this is all based off 47 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 1: of a series of tweets back in days Zola did. 48 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 1: She went on an adventure with a girl who she 49 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:43,960 Speaker 1: just met, a white girl and my ad and they 50 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:47,680 Speaker 1: end up going to Tampa. Right, Zola, you were a dancer, 51 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:51,080 Speaker 1: you know, part time. You already had another job working 52 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 1: as a waitress. That's how you guys met and then 53 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:55,240 Speaker 1: you wanted to go make some money for the weekend. 54 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 1: So this is all a true story, right, Yes, yes, 55 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 1: I mean we fabricated a little bit. Nobody got shot 56 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:05,360 Speaker 1: like guns were waved, but nobody got shot in real life. 57 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 1: And um that was it. I mean for dramatic effect. Also, 58 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:11,440 Speaker 1: you know when I don't want to get nothing away, 59 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:15,239 Speaker 1: but I was never assaulted or touched or preyed upon 60 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:18,360 Speaker 1: in that way. I just want to say for disclaimer, 61 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:21,400 Speaker 1: but everything else is true, true to experience, true to story. 62 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 1: Were you really like holding your tongue? Not much, because 63 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 1: there were so many parts that I was like, girl, 64 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:31,359 Speaker 1: you are really strong to say nothing. Absolutely. I mean 65 00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:34,000 Speaker 1: I was the only outsider, right, like, none of these 66 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 1: people are my friends. They don't know me, they've you know, 67 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 1: I got to really listen to their conversations. They know 68 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 1: each other for years, they lived together. This was their system. 69 00:03:42,160 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 1: So once I realized I was the only outsider and 70 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 1: I was the only one who had no friend, I 71 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 1: had no protection, It's like what do I say? I 72 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 1: speak up and everybody's gonna be against me. So, you know, 73 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 1: my silence and me talking with my face. That whole 74 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 1: trip was actually need like saving myself. That's the only 75 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 1: way I could expressed myself. Now, I was thinking about this, right. 76 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 1: GI used to dance too. She danced in Magic City 77 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 1: in Atlanta, So I had some questions. So when you 78 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 1: do go to other clubs like out of town to 79 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 1: make money, how do they advertise that? And that's more 80 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:17,360 Speaker 1: lucrative than being at home. Um, it depends on where 81 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 1: you go. Like for me, I tried to dance in 82 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:22,600 Speaker 1: Atlanta one talk kudos to Ugiro, couldn't do it. I 83 00:04:22,680 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 1: tried to Atlanta one time. I went to Club Cheetah 84 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 1: and they ran me out of there so fast. So 85 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:30,160 Speaker 1: it just depends on where you go. Um, Like, I've 86 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:33,920 Speaker 1: danced in North Carolina. A danced in Florida. Obviously, I 87 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:37,559 Speaker 1: danced in Texas and I didn't even know that because 88 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:39,360 Speaker 1: to dance in Detroit you have to have a car, 89 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:41,720 Speaker 1: you gotta go get a background check, you gotta fill 90 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 1: your stuff out. It's like a whole process. I would 91 00:04:44,520 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 1: get a traveling dancer and I would go to other states. 92 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:49,160 Speaker 1: They wouldn't even ask for that. They would just say, well, 93 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:50,919 Speaker 1: how he danced before, and I'd be like yeah, I'm like, 94 00:04:50,920 --> 00:04:53,920 Speaker 1: well you're cute. They would make me audition audition sometimes 95 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 1: and then I would just get to work and it 96 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:58,800 Speaker 1: neither be one night or one weekend, and I would 97 00:04:58,920 --> 00:05:01,159 Speaker 1: make way more money, maybe because I'm a new face, 98 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:03,680 Speaker 1: you know. So it's that kind of thing. And I 99 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:06,799 Speaker 1: also danced at the White Club sometimes because that worked 100 00:05:06,800 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 1: in my favor being the only pretty black girl in 101 00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:11,839 Speaker 1: a white club, believe it or not, would work in 102 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:13,920 Speaker 1: my favor. So I would make way more money than 103 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:16,279 Speaker 1: I would at the club I work at seven days 104 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:18,200 Speaker 1: a week at home. But would you go a little 105 00:05:18,200 --> 00:05:21,720 Speaker 1: crazier knowing that, Like you're around people that you don't 106 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:24,719 Speaker 1: necessarily know, because it's different when you're home. You know 107 00:05:24,839 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 1: ship and where you eat and all that. Absolutely, I 108 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:30,200 Speaker 1: was a lot. I'm just I was bitchier out of town. 109 00:05:30,279 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 1: I'd be like, no, this is the price. I don't play. 110 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:34,120 Speaker 1: I don't do this because you're never gonna see me 111 00:05:34,160 --> 00:05:37,159 Speaker 1: again tomorrow. Oh might be a little nice there, you know. 112 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:40,559 Speaker 1: I'm fluctuating with the prices. When I'd be out of town. 113 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:42,800 Speaker 1: It's like cut and dry. It's and I was way 114 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 1: cute in my face will beat. I would get a 115 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 1: professional makeup artisanship. How did the other girls treat you 116 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:51,800 Speaker 1: when you came onto their turf? I kept to myself, 117 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 1: so you know, it was different from me. And I 118 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:55,800 Speaker 1: would work at a big club, so they would get 119 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 1: that kind of all the time. But just in in 120 00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 1: working in the club environment in the sex world period, 121 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:05,240 Speaker 1: you know, people have their territory, so to speak. Like 122 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 1: you said, so I would know because I've already been 123 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:09,840 Speaker 1: dancing in the A team, so I wouldn't know if 124 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 1: a girl says that's her regular and we have that 125 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:15,039 Speaker 1: conversation in the dressing room, like, oh, don't talk to him, 126 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 1: or you know, don't talk to him until I get 127 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 1: my five hundred that I get from him every day, 128 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 1: then you can go take whatever is left, like they 129 00:06:21,560 --> 00:06:24,479 Speaker 1: would already give me the rundown, And just knowing what 130 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 1: I know and working in that world, already knew not 131 00:06:27,200 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 1: to not to play with it because that's not what 132 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:30,640 Speaker 1: I'm here for. I'm just here for the weekend to 133 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:32,719 Speaker 1: make my money and go home. So if that's your regular, 134 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 1: good for you. What would you do with somebody like 135 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 1: you were dancing you're out of town and they're like, 136 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:40,160 Speaker 1: we're just gonna come take her money. You know, I've 137 00:06:40,279 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 1: seen that happen. It's never happened to me, Lucky because 138 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:46,359 Speaker 1: I keep to myself. I've seen that happening. Girl, I 139 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 1: don't know, I have no idea. I will cry, I 140 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:52,599 Speaker 1: will take my ass home. I'm probably I probably would 141 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:55,600 Speaker 1: retire early. Like That's why I kept to myself, because 142 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:57,720 Speaker 1: I've seen that happen. So many times, even at home. 143 00:06:58,120 --> 00:07:01,240 Speaker 1: We I had an incident where these guys they were 144 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:04,200 Speaker 1: tipping me and a coworker of mine, she's another dance 145 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 1: that they were tipping us all night, nothing but hundreds 146 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 1: all night, and they got extremely drunk. We left the club, 147 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 1: her and I we left together. We're gonna take a 148 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:15,240 Speaker 1: cab together. We went to the gas station right next door. 149 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 1: We're just getting waters, getting snaps, waiting for our cap 150 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:19,840 Speaker 1: to show up, and the same guys that were tipping 151 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:22,880 Speaker 1: us all night came into the gas station and I'm like, 152 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:26,240 Speaker 1: I don't know this is this feels off and so 153 00:07:27,280 --> 00:07:30,080 Speaker 1: you know, her being drunk and being who she is, 154 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 1: I'm all, I always gotta be two steps ahead. Like 155 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 1: I said, I'm I'm a black woman, I'm a small 156 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 1: black woman. I'm a sex worker, and I have to 157 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 1: think about getting home. I can't think. I can't always 158 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 1: be prideful, like no this mom, Like, if you want 159 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:45,720 Speaker 1: the money and that's gonna get me home, You're gonna 160 00:07:45,760 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 1: just take the money. That's just what. Um. Yeah, they 161 00:07:49,560 --> 00:07:51,960 Speaker 1: come into the gas station and they're just being a rowdy. 162 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 1: They throw a bunch of ship on the counter, were 163 00:07:53,960 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 1: checking out and They're like, yeah, bitches by my ship too, 164 00:07:57,640 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 1: and I'm like I'm saying nothing. I'm looking at the clerk. 165 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 1: I'm like okay, I'm just counting them. What's my tottle? 166 00:08:03,440 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 1: And so here she go, oh hell, like no, you 167 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:08,240 Speaker 1: just hit me this money, like, you know, knocking their 168 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:10,960 Speaker 1: ship down doing all that. Were on the east side 169 00:08:11,000 --> 00:08:15,680 Speaker 1: of Detroit. We don't like eight okay, like I So 170 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 1: it was like within two seconds, he puts out a pistol, 171 00:08:18,800 --> 00:08:20,840 Speaker 1: slaps her with it across her face. She falls to 172 00:08:20,840 --> 00:08:25,760 Speaker 1: the floor, takes her dance bag and runs out and no, yes, 173 00:08:25,840 --> 00:08:28,240 Speaker 1: and the clerk does nothing like the gas station clerks 174 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:33,120 Speaker 1: like this, like nothing, and I'm just saying like I'm 175 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 1: not in it. I'm like, I was gonna buy your stuff, 176 00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:38,720 Speaker 1: so I don't know. And then they run out, took 177 00:08:38,720 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 1: her money. She made me like five thousand. Then I 178 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:43,200 Speaker 1: took all her money left and he didn't even call 179 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:46,560 Speaker 1: the police. It was like she gets up distraught and 180 00:08:46,559 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 1: I'm like, what's happening and she's like, well, I guess 181 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:52,079 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go back to work, and she went back 182 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 1: for the next shift. Damn ye, any crazy stories like 183 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:59,720 Speaker 1: that happened to you with somebody trying to take my money? Hell, 184 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:03,839 Speaker 1: thank god, no. But I've never put myself into those predicuments. 185 00:09:03,880 --> 00:09:06,520 Speaker 1: I always was safety first, safety first, Like I have 186 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:09,559 Speaker 1: older brothers that knew that I was dancing and always 187 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 1: made sure that I knew how to protect myself and 188 00:09:11,559 --> 00:09:14,120 Speaker 1: wash my back. And I would I would drive home 189 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 1: from work and be looking at my rearview mirror the 190 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 1: whole time, making sure nobody would follow me home. Like 191 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:20,600 Speaker 1: I would take different routes home. I would never stop 192 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 1: on my way, like I just always had like safety 193 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:25,800 Speaker 1: protocols in place because you never really know. And I 194 00:09:25,880 --> 00:09:29,320 Speaker 1: know girls that got robbed and carjacked and all types 195 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:31,760 Speaker 1: of stuff. So especially in Atlanta around the holidays, that 196 00:09:31,840 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 1: used to be a thing. But but g G, what 197 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 1: about women now? Because I know so I feel like 198 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:38,200 Speaker 1: this is the trick that I always see girls do. 199 00:09:38,679 --> 00:09:40,599 Speaker 1: It's like you're making it rain on one check or 200 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:44,280 Speaker 1: two or three, and then hair comes the last minute, 201 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 1: bitch and ship she come over there, but she'd be 202 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 1: trying to break up dollars. You know what I'm saying. No, 203 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:53,079 Speaker 1: I'm saying something, who told you to dance? And if 204 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:54,880 Speaker 1: you are if they did give you permission to dance. 205 00:09:54,880 --> 00:09:56,360 Speaker 1: None of these dollars on the floor belong you. You You 206 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:57,880 Speaker 1: need to get paid in your hand, or you need 207 00:09:57,920 --> 00:10:01,000 Speaker 1: to make a separate pile or whatever. So the watching 208 00:10:01,040 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 1: the movie and made me think of something that happened 209 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:05,880 Speaker 1: when I was younger. Right, So, we had went to 210 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 1: Miami and I was with one of my friends and 211 00:10:08,679 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 1: she bought her roommate with her, and so while we 212 00:10:11,040 --> 00:10:15,320 Speaker 1: were on the tip, her roommate started escorting, and yes, 213 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:18,040 Speaker 1: and she started like charging guys. And I think it 214 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:21,640 Speaker 1: was like Memorial weekend or something, and so she really 215 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:23,880 Speaker 1: was like meeting up with guys and it wasn't like 216 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:25,839 Speaker 1: it wasn't like no back page or nothing, but she 217 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:28,280 Speaker 1: would meet them and then go back to the room 218 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:30,840 Speaker 1: and then get paid like to have sex. And she 219 00:10:30,960 --> 00:10:33,560 Speaker 1: did it several times. It wasn't my friend though, it 220 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:36,280 Speaker 1: was like my friend's roommate. So I knew her, but 221 00:10:36,360 --> 00:10:39,160 Speaker 1: I didn't know her like that. So I was trying 222 00:10:39,200 --> 00:10:41,400 Speaker 1: not to pass judgment. I was like, like, do you 223 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:43,960 Speaker 1: did she at least paid for the whole room. I 224 00:10:44,040 --> 00:10:49,120 Speaker 1: was she wasn't bringing in right, Hell no, no, she 225 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:52,360 Speaker 1: was going to their room. But anyway, I just like, damn, 226 00:10:52,360 --> 00:10:54,160 Speaker 1: this just happened out of nowhere, and she was like 227 00:10:54,160 --> 00:10:56,959 Speaker 1: a receptionist, you know, she had that. So it was 228 00:10:57,040 --> 00:10:59,240 Speaker 1: just surprised me when it happened. But I also was 229 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 1: trying to not pass as judgment, just like I think 230 00:11:01,679 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 1: for you throughout the movie, a lot of what you 231 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:09,320 Speaker 1: were doing was trying to actually support somebody, right, Stephanie, uh, 232 00:11:09,360 --> 00:11:10,960 Speaker 1: the girl that you just met, who you went on 233 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:13,600 Speaker 1: the trip with, and not pass judgment. So was there 234 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:17,520 Speaker 1: ever a time when you were like, this bitch is crazy? Absolutely? 235 00:11:17,559 --> 00:11:19,720 Speaker 1: First of all, it was the prices for me, because 236 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 1: I can't pass because I'm a I'm a sex worker. 237 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:25,559 Speaker 1: I mean, I wonna lie and say that I've never 238 00:11:25,600 --> 00:11:27,680 Speaker 1: had sex for money, Like come on now, I work 239 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:30,240 Speaker 1: at the strip clubs. And if somebody who I know 240 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 1: comes in and he's like, I have five thousand dollars 241 00:11:32,640 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 1: right now, let's leave, We're probably gonna leave. So I 242 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:39,520 Speaker 1: can't pass judgment. But I'm not a backpage girl. I'm 243 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:42,080 Speaker 1: not a you know, it's levels to it like that. 244 00:11:42,080 --> 00:11:44,600 Speaker 1: That was new for me, and so but I don't 245 00:11:44,679 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 1: judge it. If you are a backpage girl, you girl, whatever, 246 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:50,600 Speaker 1: that's your hustle, but I had my particular boundaries just 247 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:53,319 Speaker 1: for myself, so you know, but I didn't judge hers. 248 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:55,559 Speaker 1: But she kind of blew me with the prices. I'm like, 249 00:11:55,920 --> 00:11:58,679 Speaker 1: you dance right like I said, we make you can 250 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:01,680 Speaker 1: as you walk out on the stage and even did 251 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:04,320 Speaker 1: nothing yet, so I didn't understand her prices a hundred 252 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:07,400 Speaker 1: and two hundred dollars and there was raw sex going on, 253 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:10,679 Speaker 1: and I'm like, this is to me. And then there 254 00:12:10,720 --> 00:12:12,600 Speaker 1: was an incident. I mean it is in the film 255 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:14,640 Speaker 1: and I didn't tweet about it. I just told Jannis 256 00:12:14,679 --> 00:12:17,320 Speaker 1: about it personally. Where the part where we go to 257 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:20,679 Speaker 1: the house on an outcohol and it's the gang Bang. Yeah, 258 00:12:20,720 --> 00:12:22,840 Speaker 1: so in real life we were talking to them on 259 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 1: the phone and they have told us like it's four 260 00:12:24,679 --> 00:12:26,960 Speaker 1: or five of us, you know, we want the blonde girl, 261 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:28,600 Speaker 1: we want the white girl. This is what we're offering 262 00:12:28,640 --> 00:12:31,240 Speaker 1: to pay. And she said okay. Her pimp said okay, 263 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 1: and he was like, just be the lookout because it's 264 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:36,200 Speaker 1: like five guys, like just make sure everything goes, you know, 265 00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:39,480 Speaker 1: according to plan. I don't know Gang Bang plans, but 266 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:43,440 Speaker 1: according to plan. I So I'm like, okay. So when 267 00:12:43,440 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 1: we got there though, like I said, we have been 268 00:12:45,640 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 1: on the phone the whole ride. You know, when we 269 00:12:47,640 --> 00:12:51,200 Speaker 1: get there, all of a sudden, nobody speaks English, and 270 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 1: not even that the house. Jannison made it look so 271 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 1: aesthetically pleasing. That house. I don't know if you've ever 272 00:12:58,240 --> 00:13:01,840 Speaker 1: seen freshly ripped up carpet, how it's nail sticking up 273 00:13:01,840 --> 00:13:05,680 Speaker 1: out thought, Oh my gosh, floor was the walls were staying. 274 00:13:05,760 --> 00:13:08,720 Speaker 1: It smelt like some form of cap piss and cigarettes. 275 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:10,760 Speaker 1: It was horror. I mean it was just when we 276 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:13,320 Speaker 1: got to the door, I was like, are you we shurely? 277 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:15,400 Speaker 1: I don't think any price is worth this, Like we 278 00:13:15,400 --> 00:13:19,640 Speaker 1: should leaves doon. As we walked in, four out of 279 00:13:19,679 --> 00:13:23,360 Speaker 1: the five niggas didn't. There was already bass naked. Wow. 280 00:13:23,800 --> 00:13:25,199 Speaker 1: And then like I said, there acting like they don't 281 00:13:25,200 --> 00:13:27,800 Speaker 1: speak English, and you know they just saw you taking 282 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:29,680 Speaker 1: their draws off your ship. And she gets down on 283 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:31,719 Speaker 1: her knees anyway, and no money has been put in 284 00:13:31,760 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 1: her hands. Na, that's who I kind of started to 285 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 1: feel bad. I went from maybe she's a victim to 286 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:40,520 Speaker 1: maybe she's just fucking crazy because this is right. And 287 00:13:40,600 --> 00:13:43,240 Speaker 1: I dragged her out of there. By her. And because 288 00:13:43,280 --> 00:13:46,520 Speaker 1: we all know the first ball of businesses pay me first, right, 289 00:13:47,640 --> 00:13:49,960 Speaker 1: let's take care of this business first. What the how 290 00:13:50,080 --> 00:13:52,760 Speaker 1: made you trust this white girl to even get in 291 00:13:52,800 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 1: that car and go with her? Anyway? See, I was 292 00:13:57,520 --> 00:14:01,040 Speaker 1: also nineteens, so I've only been for a year. This 293 00:14:01,160 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 1: was new and in my realm of sex working in 294 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:06,040 Speaker 1: the clubs I worked at, it was like I said, 295 00:14:06,040 --> 00:14:07,840 Speaker 1: I kind of I found a community and so we 296 00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:09,760 Speaker 1: all looked out for each other. It's like the the 297 00:14:09,880 --> 00:14:12,280 Speaker 1: enemy was always the men at time. There would be 298 00:14:12,280 --> 00:14:14,640 Speaker 1: the men trying to stiff you or the men trying 299 00:14:14,679 --> 00:14:17,440 Speaker 1: to rob you. I hadn't and maybe I was just naive. 300 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:20,680 Speaker 1: I hadn't yet experienced a woman, better yet, a sex 301 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:24,320 Speaker 1: worker manipulating me, relying to me. All right, Because when 302 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:26,680 Speaker 1: you hear us that, when you pulled up, when they 303 00:14:26,720 --> 00:14:28,080 Speaker 1: pulled up in front of your door to get you, 304 00:14:28,120 --> 00:14:30,240 Speaker 1: when you saw that it was a guy in the 305 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:32,920 Speaker 1: car and her boyfriend, like that didn't make you second guess, 306 00:14:32,920 --> 00:14:34,760 Speaker 1: like what am I getting myself involved in? Like did 307 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:38,440 Speaker 1: you ask questions about whose people were or she told 308 00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:40,160 Speaker 1: me that it was her boyfriend in a roommate But 309 00:14:40,200 --> 00:14:41,920 Speaker 1: that's all she told me before they pulled up, so 310 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:45,360 Speaker 1: I didn't know to what extent. So you know, when 311 00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:46,880 Speaker 1: they pulled up, she didn't tell me there would be 312 00:14:46,880 --> 00:14:52,200 Speaker 1: two men, but I was kind of like, right, so 313 00:14:52,880 --> 00:14:54,960 Speaker 1: you know, who knows? But she was sitting in the 314 00:14:55,080 --> 00:14:58,120 Speaker 1: front with the other guy. And that's what yea with 315 00:14:58,240 --> 00:15:01,040 Speaker 1: the bem and like so when you see that, because 316 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:04,520 Speaker 1: I'm I'm assuming that that's real, and what happened when 317 00:15:04,520 --> 00:15:06,520 Speaker 1: you see that? You didn't say, like, why the hell 318 00:15:06,600 --> 00:15:09,320 Speaker 1: is she sitting next to this guy instead of her boyfriend? 319 00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:12,600 Speaker 1: Well that was her roommate, right did she say her roommate? 320 00:15:12,640 --> 00:15:15,120 Speaker 1: And that was yeah, but the bad the boyfriend should 321 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:17,320 Speaker 1: be sitting next to her, right right, That's what I mean. 322 00:15:17,400 --> 00:15:20,680 Speaker 1: I didn't even azn't think about that ship car and 323 00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:23,440 Speaker 1: you know he's the roommate and he's the one driving, 324 00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:25,680 Speaker 1: and she's the lady. I don't know ladies want to 325 00:15:25,720 --> 00:15:27,960 Speaker 1: sit in the front. I wasn't thinking aboudy, like why 326 00:15:27,960 --> 00:15:31,520 Speaker 1: are you not with your man? Right? Another thing that 327 00:15:31,560 --> 00:15:33,840 Speaker 1: I was thinking about, right when you were talking about 328 00:15:33,840 --> 00:15:36,440 Speaker 1: setting the price, what is the price like that you 329 00:15:36,560 --> 00:15:39,360 Speaker 1: charge somebody to have sex? Like, what do you think 330 00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:41,960 Speaker 1: is a like I said, I don't claim I don't 331 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:46,080 Speaker 1: shame nobody's hustle. But it varies like for I mean timing, 332 00:15:46,560 --> 00:15:49,640 Speaker 1: who what what you want? It's levels to it, like 333 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:52,240 Speaker 1: who you are. If I know you got a million 334 00:15:52,280 --> 00:15:55,400 Speaker 1: dollars in the bank, I'm gonna need some some money. 335 00:15:55,440 --> 00:15:57,160 Speaker 1: But if we just let the club and you in 336 00:15:57,160 --> 00:15:59,000 Speaker 1: the VI I P room and you only got about 337 00:15:59,440 --> 00:16:02,600 Speaker 1: five ten minutes, sir, I'll take five or six on 338 00:16:02,760 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 1: it if that's what's my five minutes is gonna be worth. 339 00:16:06,360 --> 00:16:08,960 Speaker 1: But that's like the bare minimum. So a hundred and 340 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:12,640 Speaker 1: two hundred dollars, that's nothing. But young people think that 341 00:16:13,080 --> 00:16:16,360 Speaker 1: some people will argue that we all are like doing 342 00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:18,960 Speaker 1: in exchange when it comes to sex, right, because we've 343 00:16:18,960 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 1: heard people say that like all women, you get them gifts, 344 00:16:21,960 --> 00:16:24,360 Speaker 1: you buy them dinner, you do all those things to 345 00:16:24,440 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 1: have sex. So is there any difference? And then and 346 00:16:26,720 --> 00:16:29,440 Speaker 1: then they'll shame you for you don't even get anything 347 00:16:29,480 --> 00:16:31,480 Speaker 1: out of him, and you just had sex with him 348 00:16:31,520 --> 00:16:34,000 Speaker 1: basically for free. It's like you can't get in situation 349 00:16:34,040 --> 00:16:35,960 Speaker 1: you're paying the boy pass all that you ain't gonna 350 00:16:36,040 --> 00:16:37,840 Speaker 1: let me get you. You ain't got going on date, 351 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:39,960 Speaker 1: so I wan't want the money that I would get 352 00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:42,880 Speaker 1: on autumn dates in my day. Right now, you're gonna 353 00:16:42,880 --> 00:16:45,440 Speaker 1: getting up the process and let's get to the end, 354 00:16:45,520 --> 00:16:47,640 Speaker 1: because now how do you tell him? How do you 355 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:49,680 Speaker 1: tell him that, like, I'm not sucking you until I 356 00:16:49,720 --> 00:16:53,000 Speaker 1: get this money. See, it's like an undwritten rule. I mean, 357 00:16:53,320 --> 00:16:55,040 Speaker 1: they're gonna do what you allow them to do, and 358 00:16:55,080 --> 00:16:58,320 Speaker 1: they're gonna offer. Usually right they're gonna say offer like 359 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:01,080 Speaker 1: I got such a sing out for you. You know, 360 00:17:01,080 --> 00:17:03,480 Speaker 1: I have five dollars for you? Can we and at 361 00:17:03,520 --> 00:17:05,600 Speaker 1: that point you can negotiate or you can take it. 362 00:17:05,960 --> 00:17:09,200 Speaker 1: But that conversation should have already happened. And if it didn't, 363 00:17:09,560 --> 00:17:11,239 Speaker 1: I mean, theyn't let it linger for as long as 364 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:13,200 Speaker 1: you do. I've been in situations where they will never 365 00:17:13,240 --> 00:17:16,199 Speaker 1: bring up price, but that don't do anything. I mean, 366 00:17:16,240 --> 00:17:18,200 Speaker 1: I don't know. You gotta be off top. So then 367 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:20,320 Speaker 1: you'll say something. You'll be like, well, you know it's 368 00:17:20,320 --> 00:17:22,560 Speaker 1: gonna be but what we can do whatever is on 369 00:17:22,560 --> 00:17:26,520 Speaker 1: your mind for and whatever prices, right, you gotta bring that. 370 00:17:26,560 --> 00:17:28,920 Speaker 1: At first I would think like immediately, you can't check 371 00:17:28,960 --> 00:17:31,239 Speaker 1: into a room without paying for it, But like what 372 00:17:31,280 --> 00:17:33,280 Speaker 1: if a guy thought you liked him, or maybe you 373 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:36,040 Speaker 1: like the guy and you wasn't even thinking about it 374 00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:38,359 Speaker 1: that kind of way. Maybe it was like, genuinely, you 375 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:41,160 Speaker 1: want to date this guy and then he offers you money. 376 00:17:41,440 --> 00:17:44,840 Speaker 1: What would would you fail? Would you be offended? I 377 00:17:44,880 --> 00:17:48,600 Speaker 1: don't think I would be offended. I would maybe follow up, 378 00:17:48,760 --> 00:17:51,080 Speaker 1: like and then what like is this our thing? Like 379 00:17:51,119 --> 00:17:53,480 Speaker 1: you just want this and that's it. I would probably 380 00:17:53,480 --> 00:17:55,440 Speaker 1: follow up. I don't think I would be offended, though, 381 00:17:55,720 --> 00:17:58,040 Speaker 1: then y'all, I love I love gifts, I love money, 382 00:17:58,080 --> 00:18:00,719 Speaker 1: So I don't know. Maybe I'm a little body. Do 383 00:18:00,760 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 1: you have it? Do you have less respect for a 384 00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:05,719 Speaker 1: guy who is just paying, like here, let me give 385 00:18:05,760 --> 00:18:07,680 Speaker 1: you some money. Would you looking at that? That like 386 00:18:08,040 --> 00:18:09,919 Speaker 1: I couldn't be with him for real because he's just 387 00:18:09,960 --> 00:18:14,800 Speaker 1: a trick. No. No, I've actually, you know, don't tell nobody, 388 00:18:15,200 --> 00:18:18,560 Speaker 1: I've actually dated a couple of my They started off 389 00:18:18,600 --> 00:18:21,359 Speaker 1: like that and then we got into actual relationships. And 390 00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:24,000 Speaker 1: I think that's more complicated than the other way around, 391 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:26,280 Speaker 1: because then he gets comfortable and it's like, well, we're 392 00:18:26,280 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 1: in a relationship now, and I'm like, well, I'm so 393 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:29,440 Speaker 1: used to every time I see you wh I get 394 00:18:29,440 --> 00:18:31,680 Speaker 1: a thousand dollars, So we've got to kind of we 395 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:35,160 Speaker 1: gotta slow it down but not stop it. So, um, 396 00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:37,240 Speaker 1: that's happened. But I didn't lose respect at all. Like 397 00:18:37,280 --> 00:18:39,080 Speaker 1: I said, I understand the hustle, I get the game. 398 00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:42,840 Speaker 1: I respected all. There's there's a place for everybody. Everybody plays, 399 00:18:42,840 --> 00:18:45,359 Speaker 1: they roll, and you know I respect these droll What 400 00:18:45,440 --> 00:18:47,960 Speaker 1: about throwing it in your face? Has anybody ever used 401 00:18:48,000 --> 00:18:52,000 Speaker 1: it against you? You know? Yes, and they used it 402 00:18:52,160 --> 00:18:54,240 Speaker 1: against me, but like to their advantage, Like, how are 403 00:18:54,240 --> 00:18:56,240 Speaker 1: you not gonna do this now when I know you've 404 00:18:56,280 --> 00:19:00,479 Speaker 1: done this before? How put out? And I know you stripper? 405 00:19:00,640 --> 00:19:02,280 Speaker 1: How are you're not gonna have sex with me? And 406 00:19:02,359 --> 00:19:04,880 Speaker 1: I know you have sex for money? And it's like, 407 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:07,480 Speaker 1: I mean, all that is fine, but there's one word, 408 00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:11,399 Speaker 1: and it's called consent. My foundaries, I can do what 409 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:14,359 Speaker 1: I want, how I want, window when I want. You 410 00:19:14,359 --> 00:19:17,440 Speaker 1: can change your mind. If you sell twos, you could 411 00:19:17,480 --> 00:19:19,960 Speaker 1: do whatever you went. Now there's one scene where there's 412 00:19:19,960 --> 00:19:22,560 Speaker 1: all these different penises and some of them oh my god, 413 00:19:26,200 --> 00:19:28,399 Speaker 1: So I gotta ask you, have you ever seen a 414 00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:32,679 Speaker 1: penis and changed your minds? Yes? Oh, I think listen. 415 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:37,320 Speaker 1: That's my favorite scenes because it's so accurate, especially working 416 00:19:37,359 --> 00:19:39,520 Speaker 1: in sex word and like working at the club like 417 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:43,320 Speaker 1: Nickels repoination out like just off GPS, like why are 418 00:19:43,320 --> 00:19:45,400 Speaker 1: you doing that? I don't know, and you see so 419 00:19:45,440 --> 00:19:47,959 Speaker 1: many different types of penises that is so accurate. I've 420 00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:50,720 Speaker 1: seen some crazy. I mean, I've seen one guy. I 421 00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:52,640 Speaker 1: don't know if it was a third ball, I don't 422 00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:56,080 Speaker 1: know what it was. I can't really do nothing with that. 423 00:19:56,240 --> 00:19:59,560 Speaker 1: Like there was one penis. I was like, where's the penis? Yeah, 424 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:02,880 Speaker 1: and it was like it was a it was all 425 00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:07,800 Speaker 1: like it was mad balls, like I saw balls. It 426 00:20:07,880 --> 00:20:10,440 Speaker 1: was like amy. And then y'all had the big one 427 00:20:10,480 --> 00:20:16,800 Speaker 1: that would look like a grenade, like missing. It was 428 00:20:16,960 --> 00:20:19,920 Speaker 1: big and thick. It was not it's too much. You 429 00:20:20,359 --> 00:20:23,159 Speaker 1: had them heart that or like was that your idea 430 00:20:23,480 --> 00:20:27,639 Speaker 1: that was the hearted one? Yeah, it was graised. That 431 00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:30,119 Speaker 1: was actually all Jaixa, which we, like I said, we 432 00:20:30,160 --> 00:20:31,800 Speaker 1: talked about it and she really got into my head 433 00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:34,080 Speaker 1: and so she's like, what are key points of you know, 434 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:36,160 Speaker 1: that point in your life. And we kind of went 435 00:20:36,200 --> 00:20:39,520 Speaker 1: through certain things and she's like, well, what do sex 436 00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:41,960 Speaker 1: workers know that maybe your everyday girl does a know, 437 00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:44,160 Speaker 1: and I'm like that there are a billion different kind 438 00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:50,240 Speaker 1: of penises, like okay, no, they're like snowflakes, No two 439 00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:53,639 Speaker 1: at the same Well, let's talk about I want to 440 00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:57,280 Speaker 1: talk about different penises for a second. Okay, what is 441 00:20:57,280 --> 00:21:02,399 Speaker 1: the perfect penis, ladies? Not too big, not small, good girth, 442 00:21:02,680 --> 00:21:08,919 Speaker 1: maybe a little curve, a nice mush from top. Yeah, 443 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:12,959 Speaker 1: absolutely definitely can't be too big. Do y'all care if 444 00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:15,880 Speaker 1: it's a grower or shower Does that matter? Doesn't matter 445 00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:17,879 Speaker 1: to me. I don't really care what it looks like 446 00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 1: until it's common, like really really small penises in my 447 00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:26,240 Speaker 1: life before and they they touch the job, I'm pretty Yeah, 448 00:21:26,320 --> 00:21:28,879 Speaker 1: it's the big ones that usually are the problem, Like 449 00:21:28,920 --> 00:21:32,280 Speaker 1: the really big, big ones. I'll be like, um, okay, 450 00:21:32,280 --> 00:21:33,960 Speaker 1: we're not gonna be able to do this. I'm sorry. 451 00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:38,280 Speaker 1: Little ones. Yeah, I like he says that, I like 452 00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:41,800 Speaker 1: on the average, but larger than on the larger side 453 00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:44,600 Speaker 1: of average, you know what I mean, Like not too 454 00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:47,679 Speaker 1: too big where it's like that's abnormal and it's gonna hurt. 455 00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:49,040 Speaker 1: But I like to hurt a little bit, like I 456 00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:50,880 Speaker 1: like to be like I feel it in my stomach 457 00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:54,560 Speaker 1: I like when um, sometimes you'd be having like that 458 00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:57,280 Speaker 1: gas from him taking it in and out because you 459 00:21:57,320 --> 00:22:00,159 Speaker 1: know what I'm talking about with the air queefing. Yeah. Uh. 460 00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:02,919 Speaker 1: Penises are important though, because you could really be with 461 00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:06,000 Speaker 1: somebody that you don't even like like that mentally, but 462 00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:11,040 Speaker 1: everything else could be amazing, like or like you can 463 00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:14,240 Speaker 1: like everything about him and then he can just like not. Yes, 464 00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:17,280 Speaker 1: that's the what's worse. You think a guy with the 465 00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:19,560 Speaker 1: perfect penis but you don't really like him like that, 466 00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:23,639 Speaker 1: or a guy that has the worst penis but he's perfect, 467 00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:26,320 Speaker 1: and every other depends on your intentions, Like if you 468 00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:27,760 Speaker 1: want this man to be in your life or you 469 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:29,240 Speaker 1: want to just have fun with him. If you want 470 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:30,600 Speaker 1: to just have fun with him, that it don't matter 471 00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:31,960 Speaker 1: if you like him as longle to did good, But 472 00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:35,080 Speaker 1: if you want him in your life then yeah, oh no, 473 00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:37,879 Speaker 1: I disagree. I think that would just completely shut me down. 474 00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:39,919 Speaker 1: Like sex is such a big and important part of 475 00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:43,520 Speaker 1: my life and my relationships. If it's not like perfect, 476 00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:46,560 Speaker 1: I'm like, I can't do that. So if the dick 477 00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:49,280 Speaker 1: is trashed and he treats you amazingly, you you're off 478 00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:53,439 Speaker 1: him off cheating. What if it is your what if 479 00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:55,040 Speaker 1: it is your pussy, your booty all the time, it 480 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:57,240 Speaker 1: makes you come in that way. That could probably work. 481 00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:59,760 Speaker 1: We could probably work. I feel like it's cool at 482 00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:01,600 Speaker 1: first spent. Then after a while you're like, all right, 483 00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:07,080 Speaker 1: I need some dick, like because that's my obviously, Like 484 00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:09,280 Speaker 1: not well, not obviously because some women don't like it, 485 00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:12,720 Speaker 1: but like getting my pussy eating is my favorite thing. Right, 486 00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:15,760 Speaker 1: But then like I'm gonna want dick at some point 487 00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:19,000 Speaker 1: in time, like good dick to like not just like okay, 488 00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:21,239 Speaker 1: this is cool, Like maybe if I'm just with him 489 00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:23,399 Speaker 1: for a little bit, but if we're gonna be together forever, 490 00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:26,040 Speaker 1: you're gonna have to get some blue chewe grol to dick. 491 00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:29,280 Speaker 1: You're gonna have to figure something out. Go get dr Miami. 492 00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:32,639 Speaker 1: Got them enlargements now, I heard figure it out. But 493 00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:35,760 Speaker 1: you can use a toy. No, nobody wants to use 494 00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:39,840 Speaker 1: a toy. It's not the same. Yeah. See, I didn't 495 00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:42,720 Speaker 1: use toys until I started this fucking show, and these 496 00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:48,719 Speaker 1: motherfucker's made me. It was like like nobody made you 497 00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:53,919 Speaker 1: use Okay, you did consent. I kept saying no for years. 498 00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:57,920 Speaker 1: They sex toy shame me. It doesn't matter how you agasm, 499 00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:02,080 Speaker 1: if it's like from sex or from oral sex, like 500 00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:04,440 Speaker 1: or it is just an orgasm or orgasm, I would 501 00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:07,880 Speaker 1: definitely matters. I like orgasms from sex way way better. 502 00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:11,240 Speaker 1: I mean, I love head obviously, I mean dub, but 503 00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:16,159 Speaker 1: from actual penetration is way. But that's so important. If 504 00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:18,760 Speaker 1: I if we can't have that, I'm probably not gonna 505 00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:21,560 Speaker 1: have sex with you many more times. Have you ever 506 00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:23,639 Speaker 1: had sex with somebody who couldn't get hired, like and 507 00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:26,120 Speaker 1: you had to really help them, like maybe they were 508 00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:29,880 Speaker 1: having some type of medical issue. I haven't. I don't. 509 00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:32,199 Speaker 1: I've had a guy drink too much and blame it 510 00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:34,040 Speaker 1: on the lake. They're like, I'm sorry, I drank too much. 511 00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:37,680 Speaker 1: That's happened to me before, to sleep it off. I don't. 512 00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:39,639 Speaker 1: I'm not about to put all my effort into this 513 00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:42,120 Speaker 1: right now. I hate that. Have you ever not been 514 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:45,600 Speaker 1: able to get wet? No? But I have gotten extremely 515 00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:49,160 Speaker 1: dry halfway through and that sucks because then they don't 516 00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:52,440 Speaker 1: want to stop, and I'm like, but it hurts. Yeah, 517 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:54,520 Speaker 1: I don't know what happened, but I'm turned off. It's 518 00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:57,000 Speaker 1: not working. But Luke is your best friend. I'm gonna 519 00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:58,960 Speaker 1: like I said, I mean, I'm a sex worker. I 520 00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,080 Speaker 1: do shouldn atline to them only fans. Girl, I used 521 00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:03,320 Speaker 1: to be a cam girl for like two years. I 522 00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:06,960 Speaker 1: would do live shows. So lube and toys are my friends, 523 00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:10,360 Speaker 1: so I can get it together. But you know, yeah, 524 00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:11,760 Speaker 1: that is too That's why I can't have sex for 525 00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:14,560 Speaker 1: too too long, right because at first you could be 526 00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:17,399 Speaker 1: super weight and everything's amazing, But then if that should 527 00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:19,960 Speaker 1: keep going and going and going, and sometimes it's a 528 00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:23,439 Speaker 1: position to like certain positions I can't like it's not 529 00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:28,119 Speaker 1: my favorite. And then or if you come. Sometimes if 530 00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:31,680 Speaker 1: I come, I'll dry you up after you know, like 531 00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:33,919 Speaker 1: all right, nothing enough to do what you're gonna do 532 00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:36,840 Speaker 1: and get the funk on. Handle your business. Where's the 533 00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:40,280 Speaker 1: white girl? Um? She I haven't talked to her back 534 00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:43,600 Speaker 1: in when everything like when viral the story yourself? Um, 535 00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:46,320 Speaker 1: before the movie was even in production, she sued me 536 00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:48,800 Speaker 1: for defamation of character. She said I outed her as 537 00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:52,960 Speaker 1: a sex worker. That's a lie. You're on back page, 538 00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:56,080 Speaker 1: but she said I outed her, and she blames losing 539 00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:58,080 Speaker 1: custody of her daughter on me. She said, since I 540 00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:00,800 Speaker 1: outed her as a sex worker, her parents took her daughter. 541 00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:03,320 Speaker 1: It doesn't work like that. Grandparents don't even have rights 542 00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:07,919 Speaker 1: in Michigan. Stop it porn. And you know that didn't 543 00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:10,439 Speaker 1: go anywhere. But she kind of sucked up because at 544 00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:13,760 Speaker 1: court she signed the document that said, whatever I do 545 00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:16,320 Speaker 1: with this experience, whether I mentioned her or not, has 546 00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:18,720 Speaker 1: nothing to do with her any longer after this court day. 547 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:21,560 Speaker 1: And she agreed. So, so now you have rights to 548 00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:23,399 Speaker 1: make this movie and it is what it is. And 549 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:26,440 Speaker 1: so I had to be. I hear through rut the mouth. 550 00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:29,920 Speaker 1: She's upset and she feels like I'm glamorizing her trauma, 551 00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:32,560 Speaker 1: which is crazy to me. My god, the one that 552 00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:39,320 Speaker 1: went through trauma da But like kind of yes, I 553 00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:44,960 Speaker 1: thought she was. She stripped net you so, you know, married, 554 00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:46,880 Speaker 1: she got to born, she had like three more babies. 555 00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:49,280 Speaker 1: She living her, living her life. Did she get married 556 00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:52,480 Speaker 1: to the guy and the boyfriend, No, he's married, but 557 00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:54,560 Speaker 1: to someone else. He has canty and the whole family. 558 00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:57,480 Speaker 1: I've been on a whole lot of stripper trips in 559 00:26:57,560 --> 00:27:00,440 Speaker 1: my career and I've never been on the trip with 560 00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:03,360 Speaker 1: a girl and her pimp. I've met girls that had pimps, 561 00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:05,800 Speaker 1: and I just thank God that I've never been in 562 00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:10,280 Speaker 1: a situation where somebody tried to pimp me. But me 563 00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:14,040 Speaker 1: watching the movie having this life, it's very similar, as 564 00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:16,520 Speaker 1: you know, being a former dancer. Um, I just thought 565 00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:20,120 Speaker 1: about the countless times that I traveled, and you know, 566 00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:23,920 Speaker 1: it was always an adventure, but girl, this is the 567 00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:27,960 Speaker 1: adventure of all. It was crazy, It was crazy. I 568 00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:29,639 Speaker 1: can't wait to watch it again, like I want to 569 00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:31,760 Speaker 1: watch it again. But what gave you the idea to 570 00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:34,080 Speaker 1: even write it on Twitter like this? Because you're the 571 00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:36,120 Speaker 1: first person that I've seen. I don't know if other 572 00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:38,520 Speaker 1: people have done this, but you were the first person 573 00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:41,560 Speaker 1: that I've seen that actually broke down a story when 574 00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:44,840 Speaker 1: it was only a hundred and twenty characters. Twitter was 575 00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:47,600 Speaker 1: like a diary. Yeah yeah, but I told everything to 576 00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:50,000 Speaker 1: Twitter and in the early too, right, But what made 577 00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:52,399 Speaker 1: you do you know, because that went viral immediately. What 578 00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:54,720 Speaker 1: made you just decide to tell your story there on Twitter? 579 00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:57,600 Speaker 1: I've always had did that. Like before Twitter, I had 580 00:27:57,600 --> 00:27:59,240 Speaker 1: a blog and I used to push everything on my 581 00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:01,879 Speaker 1: blogs and he became a thing and everybody kind of 582 00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:04,880 Speaker 1: ran over there. So I, um, you know, I would 583 00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:08,360 Speaker 1: always share my experiences on on Twitter. And so when 584 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:10,600 Speaker 1: that day happened. I was actually just like scrolling on 585 00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:12,960 Speaker 1: my phone, you know if Facebook gives you memories. I 586 00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:15,439 Speaker 1: came across the memory of our picture and I was like, oh, 587 00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:17,399 Speaker 1: I'm about to tell Twitter about this bit, like I'm 588 00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:19,160 Speaker 1: about to get into this, and so I just kind 589 00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:21,080 Speaker 1: of started tweeting. And like you said, at that time, 590 00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:24,440 Speaker 1: it was only a hundred characters, so that's what made me. 591 00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:27,040 Speaker 1: I wasn't really looking for an audience. I was just 592 00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:29,520 Speaker 1: trying to get my story out. But with that type 593 00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:34,480 Speaker 1: of limited space, I knew every tweet had to say something. 594 00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:37,520 Speaker 1: I didn't even see a misspelled world word child like 595 00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:40,080 Speaker 1: you was on it. And I'm not gonna laugh. Not 596 00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:41,880 Speaker 1: only get a hundred and twenty characters, and I have 597 00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:44,520 Speaker 1: to tell this whole weekend. So I was just kind 598 00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:46,960 Speaker 1: of working with what I had, and like every and 599 00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:49,840 Speaker 1: every tweet ended up saying something and meaning something, and 600 00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:52,640 Speaker 1: threats weren't even a thing. So if you think about it, 601 00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:55,560 Speaker 1: it was these individual tweets popping up on people's timeline 602 00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:57,360 Speaker 1: and then they would have to come to my pagees 603 00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:03,600 Speaker 1: we all believe. And by the way, Zola has a 604 00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:06,280 Speaker 1: book of those tweets, so in case you don't want 605 00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:08,880 Speaker 1: to have to go on Twitter. There's also a book 606 00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:10,840 Speaker 1: is really cute, so you can read all the tweets 607 00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:13,640 Speaker 1: and see it as it happens, and of course watching 608 00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:16,200 Speaker 1: support the movie. Zelo. We gotta ask you right now, 609 00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:21,360 Speaker 1: what's your relationship status. I'm single, I am singing ready 610 00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:23,720 Speaker 1: to meet you girl. What a good time to be single, 611 00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:30,360 Speaker 1: perfect timing, right And by the way, she's in Atlanta, guys, 612 00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:34,680 Speaker 1: so you know in Atlanta and I'm never leaving Atlanta. 613 00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:38,360 Speaker 1: We're going out tonight. I want you you gotta link 614 00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:41,280 Speaker 1: up if you're not doing something, but I'm sure you're 615 00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:43,880 Speaker 1: pretty busy because you got the movie coming out. Yeah, 616 00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 1: she's in New York right now, right Friday Friday, back 617 00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:51,680 Speaker 1: in Atlanta. Okay, so link up, link up? We all side, Oh, 618 00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:55,080 Speaker 1: y'all never y'all never went y'all never went inside. Let's 619 00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:59,000 Speaker 1: be clear, has been outside the whole time. I've been outside, 620 00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:01,000 Speaker 1: and we all sawed this. We again because it's the fight. 621 00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:04,320 Speaker 1: But we'll figure it out. We're gonna link up. What 622 00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:08,520 Speaker 1: she regardless, the movie is amazing, incredible. Congratulations. Did you 623 00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:11,840 Speaker 1: have any role in picking the cast? Um? Not with 624 00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:14,080 Speaker 1: that UM, I kind of like I said, when I 625 00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:16,160 Speaker 1: first got in contact with j Nick said, she really 626 00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:18,400 Speaker 1: got into my head and wanted to know, you know, 627 00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:20,880 Speaker 1: my kind of view for it. And I just trusted 628 00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:23,160 Speaker 1: her as a director, like based off of what was 629 00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:27,200 Speaker 1: happening before she came on board. I fully trusted her. 630 00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:29,360 Speaker 1: And that's why I now have have the knowledge that 631 00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:31,400 Speaker 1: when it comes to black stories and black creative you 632 00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:34,160 Speaker 1: got to work with black storytellers and black creatives because 633 00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:37,360 Speaker 1: that's the only people that are really gonna come on. Now. Yeah, 634 00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:39,960 Speaker 1: you know, at first she had done a deal with 635 00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:44,400 Speaker 1: James Franco and then I mean, I have nothing negative 636 00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:47,000 Speaker 1: to say about that team and that director, but it 637 00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:50,080 Speaker 1: just wasn't the right for you and being in the room. 638 00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:52,160 Speaker 1: And although like I keep saying, these white men are 639 00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:54,840 Speaker 1: they're great, we love them, right, but that they don't 640 00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:57,440 Speaker 1: get my experience and they don't understand why it's so 641 00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:00,880 Speaker 1: important to stick to the facts that happened. Right. So 642 00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:03,440 Speaker 1: in finding Janiksa, I really just trusted her with the 643 00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:07,440 Speaker 1: casting and the only person that I really felt necessary 644 00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:09,120 Speaker 1: to have an input with was who was playing me. 645 00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:12,400 Speaker 1: And yeah, and I spoke on that and I manifested 646 00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:15,160 Speaker 1: that I told her I dreamt about it. I was like, 647 00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:17,000 Speaker 1: it has to be Taylor. And then she met Taylor 648 00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:19,360 Speaker 1: and felt the exact same. And Taylor and I got 649 00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:23,080 Speaker 1: so close. I mean we had like so many long conversations. 650 00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:24,880 Speaker 1: She really wanted to get into my head. She asked 651 00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:29,760 Speaker 1: for my blessing. That's a perfect person to play you. Like, 652 00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:31,560 Speaker 1: as soon as I see you, I was like, Okay, 653 00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:35,240 Speaker 1: I get it was all you know, casting director and 654 00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:37,520 Speaker 1: Jennie's input, of course, but I mean I think they 655 00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:40,440 Speaker 1: nailed it. I mean, it's so it's so funny, right, 656 00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:43,560 Speaker 1: I mean, I love Riley, but with who she is 657 00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:47,360 Speaker 1: and who her grandfather is to black culture, I think 658 00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:51,000 Speaker 1: it's so funny in that way. Her being casted as Stephanie. 659 00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:55,880 Speaker 1: I loved that shout, I said, Elvis Presley and I mean, 660 00:31:56,040 --> 00:31:59,080 Speaker 1: Coleman is amazing. I was honored that this even lands 661 00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:02,800 Speaker 1: and on his desk he is like, everybody did so good, 662 00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:05,680 Speaker 1: so I really have to just trust us. Yeah they 663 00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:09,480 Speaker 1: did that. They did it well. Congratulations, Thank you. Everybody. 664 00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:11,480 Speaker 1: Make sure you go and see Zola. It's out on 665 00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:15,000 Speaker 1: the thirtieth. The book is available also, and we're looking 666 00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:17,200 Speaker 1: forward to so much more from you too, So congrats 667 00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:19,080 Speaker 1: on this. I know it's been a journey. Thank you 668 00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:24,160 Speaker 1: so much, thanks for having me. Congratulations girl. You