WEBVTT - What a Man Gotta Do

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<v Speaker 1>This is How Men Think? And and I heard radio podcasts.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to another episode of How Men Think. My name

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<v Speaker 1>is Brooks Like and I'm sad to say, for all

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<v Speaker 1>our Gavin DeGraf fans, we do not have Gavin DeGraw

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<v Speaker 1>with us today. We also do not have Rick Ryan

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<v Speaker 1>or Dmitri and I know all two of Ryan's fans

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<v Speaker 1>are going to be disappointed that he's not here. But

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<v Speaker 1>for you guys, for everybody listening at home, we do

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<v Speaker 1>have a super special guest with us today. I am

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<v Speaker 1>going to anoint him with co hosting privileges in lieu

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<v Speaker 1>of absence, and I will dare to say that this

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<v Speaker 1>man is with no disrespect to any previous guests. This

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<v Speaker 1>is probably the most handsome man we have ever had

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<v Speaker 1>on this show. So unfortunately it's a podcast, but we're

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<v Speaker 1>doing this call by zoom and I want to introduce

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<v Speaker 1>you guys to Mr Eric Winter. How are you, buddy

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<v Speaker 1>good Man? Thank you for that intro that was that

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<v Speaker 1>was pretty spectacular. Yeah, dude, I must know how men think.

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<v Speaker 1>This is great. Happy to bring some knowledge. That's that's

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<v Speaker 1>any For any of the females that know you, that

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<v Speaker 1>know the name Eric Winter, know you as a model,

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<v Speaker 1>know you as an actor. Um, they know, they're they're

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<v Speaker 1>probably thinking if this was how women think, they'd be

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<v Speaker 1>probably saying you are the most handsome man. But I'll

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<v Speaker 1>just echo that statement and say that you're probably the

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<v Speaker 1>most handsome man we have ever had on this show. So, um,

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<v Speaker 1>you started your career. I want to dig into your

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<v Speaker 1>career a little bit. You started your career as a model. Correct?

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<v Speaker 1>I did? I did? I was? You know I was.

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<v Speaker 1>I was, believe it or not. I want to be

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<v Speaker 1>a doctor. I was a pre med student at U

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<v Speaker 1>c o A. Uh yeah. I started dating this girl

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<v Speaker 1>who was working on this TV show Clueless that used

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<v Speaker 1>to be around not the movie after the movie that

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<v Speaker 1>was the show, and she was like a recurring on

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<v Speaker 1>there and she had we met and she said, why

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<v Speaker 1>don't you modeled, interacting or do anything? And that you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I'm pursuing to be a doctor. So

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<v Speaker 1>give me some pictures of yourself. I want to submit

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<v Speaker 1>with some friends of mine and see if they can

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<v Speaker 1>help you out. I was like, okay, so I'm, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>standing in my backyard and underwear like in front of

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<v Speaker 1>an old shed. Takeyas that I that I sent her,

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<v Speaker 1>and I got lucky enough to get a manager who

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<v Speaker 1>then got me an agent fairly quickly, and um, it's

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<v Speaker 1>starting to become a profession. Within like a year, I

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<v Speaker 1>booked Tommy Hill figure campaign and then it became a job.

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<v Speaker 1>At that point, I didn't become a doctor. I never

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<v Speaker 1>became a doctor. And then all of a sudden, you're

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<v Speaker 1>doing pictures with Britney Spears. Yeah, not a bad dig

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<v Speaker 1>my man. No man. It evolved from there. Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>went from acting the commercials and then uh, I got

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<v Speaker 1>like a big acting break doing a soap opera, Days

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<v Speaker 1>of Our Lives for one contract, which is a few years.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I've hopped all over you know, film and

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<v Speaker 1>television and currently doing the show The Rookie on ABC.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been great right on. And then also in The

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<v Speaker 1>Good Doctor. So did some of that did you get

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<v Speaker 1>to fulfill? Like some of you are just missed out

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<v Speaker 1>on dreams? Bye bye? That like acting in that series,

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<v Speaker 1>believe it or not, I've played a doctor like five

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<v Speaker 1>or six, the best fake doctor out there, dude, do

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<v Speaker 1>do it? Catch me if you can go into some hospital.

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<v Speaker 1>And I actually don't advise this because you know, out

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<v Speaker 1>of respect for the medical profession, but like you could

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<v Speaker 1>probably pull off and catch me if you can. Where

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<v Speaker 1>he goes in and acts like a doctor even though

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<v Speaker 1>he has no certifications for it. It's it's funny. It's funny.

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<v Speaker 1>I was able to fulfill that aspect of my life,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, hypothetically. Um, and it's been it's been cool, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been very fortunate. Um. What do you which one

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<v Speaker 1>do you enjoy more? The modeling side of it or

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<v Speaker 1>the acting side of it. You know. The one thing

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<v Speaker 1>about modeling that was for me always the most fun

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<v Speaker 1>is I'm I love to travel. So modeling gave me

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<v Speaker 1>like a free ticket to travel all over the world.

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<v Speaker 1>And and it was something you know, it always felt

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<v Speaker 1>so I don't know, like you're a model, and it

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<v Speaker 1>was like hey, you know, just the sound of it.

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<v Speaker 1>But it was fun to sort of be out there

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<v Speaker 1>and meet all these different people. I mean, living in

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<v Speaker 1>Europe for six months, you know, chunks at a time

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<v Speaker 1>and just hopping on trains and jumping all over and

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<v Speaker 1>between jobs. So for me, it gave me the best

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<v Speaker 1>opportunity in the world to travel. It made it very

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<v Speaker 1>difficult for school. I had to drop out of school

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<v Speaker 1>and then go back to school to finish UM because

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<v Speaker 1>being UM, I was a psychobiology major, and so being

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<v Speaker 1>on the biology side of it, you know, you have

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<v Speaker 1>these lab practic comes and these things when you go

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<v Speaker 1>to the teacher and say, hey, I gotta go do

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<v Speaker 1>a photo shoot and start dinya, is it okay if

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<v Speaker 1>I just missed this test and I'll come back and

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<v Speaker 1>make it up. And she'd be like, no, you're not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna roll around. But I rolled around from the girl

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<v Speaker 1>on the beach. Come on us, teachers, just like, only

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<v Speaker 1>if you bring me um that is I agree with you. Though.

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<v Speaker 1>Any profession like I was a professional athlete, professional hockey player,

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<v Speaker 1>any profession that provides you travel is that's such a blessing,

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<v Speaker 1>Like we get to do what we love, get to

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<v Speaker 1>do something that you really enjoy. But then the added

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<v Speaker 1>benefit of traveling and seeing different cities, cultures, countries, it's

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<v Speaker 1>such a blessing. So especially at that time in life,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm in my twenties, it was amazing. It's

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<v Speaker 1>sort of be free and just jumping all over the

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<v Speaker 1>place and in place I never thought I would go

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<v Speaker 1>in my life. Because you know, modeally will take you

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<v Speaker 1>to random location. Do you have like your go to

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<v Speaker 1>pose and you go to look, do you still have

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<v Speaker 1>a move And there's always a good catalog you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just hands in the pocket, ah, looking down. We have

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<v Speaker 1>with our you have with us. You guys can't see

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<v Speaker 1>it because you guys are listening in your cars whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>but we have with this producer Tori, and Tori just

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<v Speaker 1>melted there when Eric went into these two. And now

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<v Speaker 1>she's bussing you. You have like a repertoire. It's funny.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a standard joke. And you put you in your

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<v Speaker 1>catalog shooting because you're just standing in front of a

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<v Speaker 1>cameron that it's cluick click click click click, and you're

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<v Speaker 1>just wearing the same thing and and you're just jumping

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<v Speaker 1>different poses. You always have like your one two hand

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<v Speaker 1>in the pocket, look down, look up, look besides smile

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<v Speaker 1>grin series, Hey, just Rocas looks. It's so shallow, dude.

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<v Speaker 1>I never know what I'm doing when I have to

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<v Speaker 1>do like a red carpet and they're like stand like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like stand here and take a photo. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, Like what am I doing? Gavin Gavin

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<v Speaker 1>Degras always does this one. He shoots the gun, he points,

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<v Speaker 1>he puts the figure out, and then it's just like

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<v Speaker 1>me laughing at Gavin. We're both insanely awkward. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>sure why we're why we're on this car, but just

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<v Speaker 1>take a photo of us as we walk by. But

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<v Speaker 1>I always find it weird when um, and you probably

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<v Speaker 1>get this a lot when somebody's like can I take

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<v Speaker 1>a photo of you? And it's not can I take

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<v Speaker 1>a photo with you? It's of you and you're like, um, what,

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<v Speaker 1>you just want to take a photo of me? What

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<v Speaker 1>am I supposed to do here? Yeah? Like you get

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<v Speaker 1>in the picture. So we're one thing that drives you mad,

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<v Speaker 1>and I can I get it. But like you get

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<v Speaker 1>like fans that will come up to you and they're like, Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>where do I know you from? I'm like, well, if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know that at the point of having this conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't go through a rescue man thing where you

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<v Speaker 1>might know me from somewhere. We got a picture of you.

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<v Speaker 1>I know I know you from somewhere. I guess you don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess you don't. What do you do? What do

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<v Speaker 1>you do? And I said, they just want the photo anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>They're just like, yeah, come to me sometime and then

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<v Speaker 1>I'll upload it. And I got a picture with that guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you get that with sports too, because I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a funding but anything with me and I was

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<v Speaker 1>never and even being in his business as an actor,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't get start struck very often with actors. With athletes,

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<v Speaker 1>that's like my jam because I'm a frustrating gonna played

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<v Speaker 1>sports my whole life. But I obviously didn't go pro.

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<v Speaker 1>That wasn't you know, my destiny to go that far.

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<v Speaker 1>But for me, meeting athletes was always like my big

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, that's so and so that's you know that.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, you deal with the same thing all

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<v Speaker 1>the time, and it's you know, be there like oh

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<v Speaker 1>I love you for this this, you know whatever, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>team you're playing out the time or whatever the thing

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<v Speaker 1>is in hockey, and it's an awkward and uncomfortable but

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<v Speaker 1>flattering thing all at once. You're doing what you love.

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<v Speaker 1>These people are obsessed with you, dude, as a as

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<v Speaker 1>an athlete, I like fanboy over musicians. Oh really that's

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<v Speaker 1>my life. I that's funny. I love musicians like just

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<v Speaker 1>I think they're so talented and just I love music.

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<v Speaker 1>So much music is just it's it's in my soul.

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<v Speaker 1>And I played piano, I played drums, I played guitar.

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<v Speaker 1>Not well enough to be in a band in any

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<v Speaker 1>of those, but I just I really enjoy those as pastimes. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>And so every athlete wants to be a musician, and

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<v Speaker 1>every musician that I've got to know over the years

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<v Speaker 1>is like, oh, man, I'd rather be an athlete. You

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<v Speaker 1>what you guys do is so cool. I'm like, come on, man,

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<v Speaker 1>we both perform and sold out arenas, but nobody hits

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<v Speaker 1>you guys. You know, like you don't get beat up

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<v Speaker 1>every night, and you get people cheering your name all

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<v Speaker 1>the time, versus half the time we're playing in a

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<v Speaker 1>way arenas and I'm getting booed all night. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I would rather be a musician. Um. But I also

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<v Speaker 1>think the musicians. And one thing I've always thought was

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<v Speaker 1>like that has to be the ultimate platform in a way,

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<v Speaker 1>like if you're are on stage, you know, eighty thousand

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<v Speaker 1>people or something just singing your song you wrote and

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<v Speaker 1>they're all looking at you and you're a solo act.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that rush of adrenaline of taking a step

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<v Speaker 1>back and being outside your body and going, wow, I

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<v Speaker 1>accomplished this. That's pretty wild. Yeah. And what I what

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<v Speaker 1>I like about that profession too, if you look at

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<v Speaker 1>it on the macro, you can be a musician the

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<v Speaker 1>rest of your life. Like, one thing that I really

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<v Speaker 1>miss being on the retired side of professional sport is

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<v Speaker 1>walking into a stadium of like jumping on the ice

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<v Speaker 1>with twenty thousand people screaming. I missed the the magnitude

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<v Speaker 1>of a stadium feeling and everybody focused on what you're

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<v Speaker 1>doing on the ice. And as a musician, you can

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<v Speaker 1>do that through your athletes were probably done in our

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<v Speaker 1>thirties most of us, um, and late thirties if you're

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<v Speaker 1>lucky and then but a musician can do at forties, fifties,

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<v Speaker 1>sixtiesies like and and that is just such a gift

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<v Speaker 1>to be able to do that. Um. But did you

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<v Speaker 1>did you stopped sports? Have you taken up other sports?

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<v Speaker 1>Like you do? You know so many athletes take to

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<v Speaker 1>golf for it. I think it's like the hardest sport

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<v Speaker 1>for every athlete that they won't have accomplished. You know, golf.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have a thing that you do? I've I've

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<v Speaker 1>taken Yeah, I've taken up CrossFit more seriously because I've

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<v Speaker 1>always loved the I've always loved the physical aspect of

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<v Speaker 1>hockey and physical training. I've always loved It's been a

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<v Speaker 1>part of my life since I was thirteen, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I need that in my like for my soul to

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<v Speaker 1>be expressed. I need that intense physical activity and challenge.

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<v Speaker 1>And I also just believe in a healthy lifestyle. But

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<v Speaker 1>I love cross fit because it's every sort of movement

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<v Speaker 1>there is. You're gonna do powerlifting, Olympic lifting, you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>do endurance, you're gonna do speed, you're gonna do gymnastics,

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<v Speaker 1>walk on your hand, pull ups, muscle ups like it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's touching on every component of fitness, not just strength

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<v Speaker 1>or not just endurance. And so I love the variety

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<v Speaker 1>of it all the I love the pursuit of what

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<v Speaker 1>the human body can do, and the variety within CrossFit

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<v Speaker 1>is the best that I've ever found, and that's why

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<v Speaker 1>I've fallen in love with that sport. So kind of

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<v Speaker 1>heavy into that and I love it. Um. But I

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<v Speaker 1>I will say um, I am jealous of those who

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<v Speaker 1>can adele and those who can act dude, because because truthfully,

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<v Speaker 1>if you ask somebody to model or to take a photo,

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<v Speaker 1>it's very difficult. What I was just speaking of, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I don't even know how to stand. But

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<v Speaker 1>even even further to that, acting is one of the

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<v Speaker 1>I think, one of the absolute most difficult professions there

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<v Speaker 1>are to be able to convey. When I think about it,

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm going to act, the reason I don't act

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<v Speaker 1>as is I want I can't, but also to like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how to get outside of being myself.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how to mentally put myself into this

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<v Speaker 1>mindset and mind frame of being somebody else and then

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<v Speaker 1>conveying beliefs and thoughts and emotions as that person when

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not that person, which is what the actors and

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<v Speaker 1>actresses do. And so I tip my cap to you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>my friend. Did you have that natural sort of acting

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<v Speaker 1>ability as in your youth? So did you have to

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<v Speaker 1>develop that as you got older? I it was more

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<v Speaker 1>of a you know, I always think with any profession

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<v Speaker 1>when it gets into like at a professional level, there's

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<v Speaker 1>like a gift that you have, whether it's been tapped

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<v Speaker 1>or untapped at whatever point in your life. Right like

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<v Speaker 1>for a pro athlete to make it that far. You

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<v Speaker 1>had it in you. It's just a matter of when

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<v Speaker 1>it was tapped and it expressed itself and came out

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<v Speaker 1>and you fulfilled it and you nailed it. So I

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<v Speaker 1>think I've had aspects of it in my life, but

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't pursuing it through high school or I was

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<v Speaker 1>never in drama. I was never chasing after it as

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<v Speaker 1>a dream. Like where my wife that was what she

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to do her whole life. She knew dance or

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<v Speaker 1>performer her whole life. Um, so I was afid. I

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<v Speaker 1>put sports, hope did all that. I started taking drama

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<v Speaker 1>on colleges for fun, like an elective. Just I needed

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<v Speaker 1>needed an elective. That was it. And as I got

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<v Speaker 1>started modeling, I said, you know what, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>start reading acting book. She started meeting different people are

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<v Speaker 1>doing commercials and doing this at it, so I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>her studying back and looking at those and I started

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<v Speaker 1>taking various classes. And the hardest part is getting out

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<v Speaker 1>of your your own head and getting in your way right,

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<v Speaker 1>like trying to clear your mind and ignore everybody that's

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<v Speaker 1>staring at you. Why I would think Peter is one

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<v Speaker 1>of the most difficult of all the acting practices because

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<v Speaker 1>everybody's looking at you. Just live and if you spep

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<v Speaker 1>on you, there's no take too, there's nothing right. Much

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<v Speaker 1>larger crowd than on the set, and uh. I remember

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<v Speaker 1>going through a couple of acting classes and being in

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<v Speaker 1>one in particular where I had like this really heavy

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<v Speaker 1>sort of scene with this girl and it was like

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<v Speaker 1>an early acting class and she had been in it

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<v Speaker 1>longer and we're free with everything, and we're having this

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<v Speaker 1>makeout session on the couch, which is also weird in

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<v Speaker 1>front of a lot of people you don't know, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're making out of the couch. She pulls my shirt up,

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<v Speaker 1>struck biting on my nipples on one like, how is

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<v Speaker 1>it happening? And in my mind, I'm going to get

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<v Speaker 1>out of your head, get out of your head. Just

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<v Speaker 1>keep active, just keep active. But I'm going everybody in

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<v Speaker 1>classes staring at her biting on my nipples. So that

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<v Speaker 1>was one of my first experiences. I'm going, Okay, if

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<v Speaker 1>you want to do this, you better start to, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>remove yourself from the process. And I don't even know, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you do that? Like how do you even separate?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you separate mind from body? And that or I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, it's just super weird. When you start enjoying it,

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, well, it's girls kind of hot and she's

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<v Speaker 1>biting my nipple. But everybody's watching me right now. This

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<v Speaker 1>is even also weirder. So you're trying to like and

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<v Speaker 1>if you're not into it a little bit, then it's

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<v Speaker 1>then you can tell me you're asking right. You kind

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<v Speaker 1>of gotta be into it. Oh man, um it is

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<v Speaker 1>a true man, it is a true art though. Like

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<v Speaker 1>but some of the performances you see and most of

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<v Speaker 1>us are probably watching more TV now than than we

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<v Speaker 1>have in a while. But um, I credit you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>and because you you're able to convey and make us

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<v Speaker 1>believe that what is going on is real and true

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<v Speaker 1>in your life as a performer and being able to

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<v Speaker 1>translate that. Like you said, I think it's maybe easier

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<v Speaker 1>to translate that live in theater is maybe easy, but

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<v Speaker 1>you guys translated through digitally through a screen, which I

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<v Speaker 1>think is even more difficult to Um. So I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>just kudo, see man, I have imagine for anybody, any

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<v Speaker 1>honestly truthfuly, any model or anybody that can act, because

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<v Speaker 1>those are very very difficult. Um, professions. Your favorite part

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<v Speaker 1>about it the adrenaline rush you definitely get when you're

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<v Speaker 1>getting into a character and putting that character on its

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<v Speaker 1>feet and you're in the performance. That adrenaline that can

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<v Speaker 1>build up in certain roles is the best part about acting.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no question when you are becoming that character in

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<v Speaker 1>those moments and you're when you're fully in a scene

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<v Speaker 1>and there's like a thing I call it, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>when it clicks, like when it clicks in your mind

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<v Speaker 1>and you're out of what you how you think, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're out of the environment and you're in that feelings

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<v Speaker 1>an incredible feeling. So can I ask you a question

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<v Speaker 1>along with that? So that because that for me, I

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<v Speaker 1>agree with everything you're saying and I understand it, but

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I'm not able to make that connection. Like

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<v Speaker 1>for me personally, um, like if I can athlete would

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<v Speaker 1>be like if you're in the zone, like your zone

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<v Speaker 1>as an athlete, and you know, like you're on fire,

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<v Speaker 1>like whatever you're doing that that that game, you're you're

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<v Speaker 1>stopping everybody, you're doing this, you're hitting that goal, hitting

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it's you when you're in a zone, and obviously

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<v Speaker 1>you can have off days, and you can act. You you

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<v Speaker 1>you can have better performances and worst performances, and the

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<v Speaker 1>differences is we could save by an editor who can

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<v Speaker 1>cut it together and make it still look great. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's a flow state. We say it's a

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<v Speaker 1>flow states like that. Yeah, same thing. So, but what

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<v Speaker 1>I want to ask you is how how do you

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<v Speaker 1>make it? How does it become so important to you

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<v Speaker 1>to tell this other story? That's the part where it's

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<v Speaker 1>a disconnect for me. I think that's the one of

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<v Speaker 1>the reasons why I won't ever be an actor is

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have the desire to tell another story aside

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<v Speaker 1>from my own. And maybe I'm a selfish human being

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<v Speaker 1>in that regard, or I just like living my own story.

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<v Speaker 1>But what I respect and admire about you guys is

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<v Speaker 1>you have the unselfish desire to tell the story of

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<v Speaker 1>another being. And it looks like you, but it's not

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<v Speaker 1>actually technically your life. But you are doing the work,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I just want to understand if you can

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<v Speaker 1>eric like, why that's so important to you to tell

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<v Speaker 1>this story of this character. So there's there's like two

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<v Speaker 1>fold answer to that. There are those characters where it's

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<v Speaker 1>a personal challenge and the escape from yourself is really fun. So,

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<v Speaker 1>for example, the role are you doing now on this show?

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<v Speaker 1>The rookie? It's unlike a role I'm not. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>a role I would normally get. It's it's the character

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<v Speaker 1>is very far removed from my personality, my type of

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<v Speaker 1>person everything, And to the point that I had worked

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<v Speaker 1>with these people before, the pilot director and the producing

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the producers, and they didn't think I was

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<v Speaker 1>right for the role. They're like, you're you nice, You're

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<v Speaker 1>two nice a guy, like you're a good guy, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're not this guy. This guy is an asshole. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, mom, I'm my guys, it's acting. I can

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<v Speaker 1>play this role like, this is the challenge, this is

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<v Speaker 1>what I want. So being able to hone in and

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<v Speaker 1>make that character for myself and develop it and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>build it out and play this guy that's so far

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<v Speaker 1>removed from who I am. Not necessarily a guy's life

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<v Speaker 1>that I you know, admire, so to speak, but something

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<v Speaker 1>that's still removed from me. I was able to go

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<v Speaker 1>do that and be something I'm not and push myself

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<v Speaker 1>to the ms degree and it paid off. And it

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<v Speaker 1>was like that personal challenge is what made it so

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<v Speaker 1>cool for me. That would be one reason to tell

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<v Speaker 1>that story, right, And then the other the other thing

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<v Speaker 1>is you come across scripts or you come across material

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<v Speaker 1>where you either totally relate to that person as an

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<v Speaker 1>individual or you don't have any idea of what they've

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<v Speaker 1>gone through with their struggles and their life, and you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>that is something I would love to share with a

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<v Speaker 1>bigger audience because that is so and it's so compelling, Right,

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<v Speaker 1>It's so cool to know that that's something I can share. Dude,

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's amazing. I see it. Like I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>ask you that because I wanted you to like sort

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<v Speaker 1>of change or help me change my perspective on on that.

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<v Speaker 1>But that both of those are amazing. My question to

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<v Speaker 1>you is do you do you find with the first one?

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<v Speaker 1>You're playing a character that you don't that isn't naturally you,

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<v Speaker 1>You don't agree even possibly with this character. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>find any sort of natural conflict with yourself? Like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really not proud of this. Like what if your

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<v Speaker 1>character had to you know, had to commit a crime

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<v Speaker 1>or do something completely foul that you were just you,

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<v Speaker 1>just in your real life vehemently against. But then your

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<v Speaker 1>career you go and you portray that. Is there any

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<v Speaker 1>internal conflict with that? Like with my current character, there

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<v Speaker 1>has been. There have been moments where nothing that I

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<v Speaker 1>would say would be more of like fun to try

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<v Speaker 1>and act the way he's acting. That's not anything I've

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<v Speaker 1>been super against. But for example, I had to I

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<v Speaker 1>read recently for this a Ted Bundy movie, and there's

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<v Speaker 1>a guy like everything in the material was horrific and

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<v Speaker 1>I have, you know, two kids, and I have a daughter,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm reading everything and there was a moment where

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I just can't even go in for this.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't. I don't think I can muster it in

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<v Speaker 1>myself to try and portray this guy. But then there

0:21:28.400 --> 0:21:31.520
<v Speaker 1>is the after side of me. But I also like

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<v Speaker 1>to say, like the athletes side of me that makes

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<v Speaker 1>me want to challenge myself and be like no, no, no no,

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<v Speaker 1>you can do it. You can do it. Yeah, it's acting,

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<v Speaker 1>it's acting, and get into that place of where you

0:21:41.200 --> 0:21:45.600
<v Speaker 1>need to be in order to tell this guy's broken life.

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<v Speaker 1>And it struggled, even though I have zero compassion for

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<v Speaker 1>the him being that he was, but like trying to

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<v Speaker 1>dig it and create it. It was weird. It was

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<v Speaker 1>scary in a way because you're going down this path

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<v Speaker 1>being super uncomfortable. And then yeah, and then and then

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<v Speaker 1>also your wife will watch it, your kids it some day,

0:22:06.760 --> 0:22:09.280
<v Speaker 1>we'll see it, your mom might see it. Friends will

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<v Speaker 1>see it, and they'll see you, like visually, they'll see

0:22:12.800 --> 0:22:16.720
<v Speaker 1>the person they know and love acting as somebody completely

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<v Speaker 1>different with these different words and different actions that are

0:22:19.880 --> 0:22:25.040
<v Speaker 1>maybe repulsive. And and for us that aren't actors, that's

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes difficult and confusing to see the person that you

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<v Speaker 1>love and the way you know them as somebody else

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<v Speaker 1>on a screen and you're like, oh, like totally yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's weird being on this side of it too,

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<v Speaker 1>when you know somebody in the business. Yeah, I'm on

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<v Speaker 1>a good doctor. I put a guy that was sexually

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<v Speaker 1>harassing a nurse, you know, and like it was never

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<v Speaker 1>would PV network television, But we didn't get that far

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<v Speaker 1>that bad. But it's still not anything I would practice.

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<v Speaker 1>And again, being a dad and being a you know,

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<v Speaker 1>to a daughter, it's it's it's it's sad to see

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<v Speaker 1>these things that go on out there, but and you

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<v Speaker 1>find a way again to find those increep those challenges

0:23:03.680 --> 0:23:06.960
<v Speaker 1>as an actor within your craft and it's fun to

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<v Speaker 1>push it and no, okay, it's it's telling somebody's story

0:23:09.560 --> 0:23:12.120
<v Speaker 1>and maybe it's bringing awareness for some people to look

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<v Speaker 1>out for something like you don't want to be like

0:23:13.520 --> 0:23:16.399
<v Speaker 1>that guy? Yeah, I get you. Yeah. Um. So the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that your wife, Rosalind Sanchez, who is also an actress,

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<v Speaker 1>is in the industry, does it do you guys have

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<v Speaker 1>these discussions about a role prior to that And is

0:23:25.680 --> 0:23:30.040
<v Speaker 1>it actually easier for you because she'll understand maybe the

0:23:30.080 --> 0:23:35.040
<v Speaker 1>conflictions that you're having or your dilemma heading into a project. Yeah, definitely.

0:23:35.080 --> 0:23:37.520
<v Speaker 1>Like for the Ted Bunny one, we talked at length

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<v Speaker 1>about that because I was having a lot of issues

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<v Speaker 1>internally about if I wanted to go in for this

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<v Speaker 1>or not. So we talked about um and in general,

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<v Speaker 1>we you know, well most things are on the table,

0:23:48.920 --> 0:23:51.720
<v Speaker 1>but we'll talk about things as well, where like, let's

0:23:51.720 --> 0:23:53.720
<v Speaker 1>say she has a role and it involved it involved

0:23:53.760 --> 0:23:55.760
<v Speaker 1>a lot of nudity or something and be like, are

0:23:55.840 --> 0:23:57.880
<v Speaker 1>you sure you want to do that? I mean, I'm

0:23:57.880 --> 0:23:59.879
<v Speaker 1>not crazy about your doing it, but also you have

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<v Speaker 1>kids and your mom now and are you comfortable like

0:24:02.520 --> 0:24:04.480
<v Speaker 1>you said with them seeing this or knowing that that

0:24:04.480 --> 0:24:06.600
<v Speaker 1>footage is going to be out there. Yeah, that's something

0:24:06.640 --> 0:24:09.119
<v Speaker 1>you're okay doing. And I think at a at a

0:24:09.160 --> 0:24:12.000
<v Speaker 1>point in her life, she might have been like, no problem,

0:24:12.119 --> 0:24:14.359
<v Speaker 1>and now it gives it a second thought of going, Okay,

0:24:14.400 --> 0:24:17.040
<v Speaker 1>do I need to show so much? I have a voice.

0:24:17.080 --> 0:24:19.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't have to do what I'm not comfortable doing.

0:24:20.520 --> 0:24:22.520
<v Speaker 1>The conversation that can be had, so we we try

0:24:22.520 --> 0:24:24.600
<v Speaker 1>and talk to those things out. For sure, that's got

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<v Speaker 1>to be helpful having somebody that understands that side of it, um,

0:24:29.160 --> 0:24:32.080
<v Speaker 1>because those are those are real life decisions. Um. Yeah,

0:24:32.119 --> 0:24:36.160
<v Speaker 1>being married doing actress is absolutely crazy because we're we're

0:24:36.280 --> 0:24:39.119
<v Speaker 1>nucky people in that regard. But there is the helpful

0:24:39.160 --> 0:24:42.160
<v Speaker 1>side of the person understanding what you do for a living.

0:24:43.000 --> 0:24:45.879
<v Speaker 1>And it's totally different than if I'm just married to

0:24:46.000 --> 0:24:47.919
<v Speaker 1>some I'm just going throw it out there a school

0:24:47.920 --> 0:24:50.159
<v Speaker 1>teacher and I'm out shooting and I'm making out with

0:24:50.200 --> 0:24:52.040
<v Speaker 1>all these women on a show, and she has to

0:24:52.080 --> 0:24:54.800
<v Speaker 1>know that I'm doing that and it's just acting. It's

0:24:54.800 --> 0:24:58.280
<v Speaker 1>not anything, nothing's gonna happen. Everything is cool. But because

0:24:58.320 --> 0:25:00.159
<v Speaker 1>she can be in that position and she's do we

0:25:00.200 --> 0:25:03.520
<v Speaker 1>know things too, there's understanding of like I know exactly

0:25:03.560 --> 0:25:06.200
<v Speaker 1>what's happening on that, I know exactly what it feels like,

0:25:07.040 --> 0:25:10.880
<v Speaker 1>I can relate. It's all good. Yeah, amazing, awesome, dude,

0:25:10.920 --> 0:25:13.960
<v Speaker 1>thanks for that insight. That's um, I'm fascinated by that world.

0:25:14.080 --> 0:25:17.720
<v Speaker 1>Just I admire and respect you guys so much for

0:25:18.000 --> 0:25:20.359
<v Speaker 1>honoring the craft and the the work and the intent

0:25:20.440 --> 0:25:23.320
<v Speaker 1>that goes into That's why I wanted to ask these questions,

0:25:23.320 --> 0:25:26.359
<v Speaker 1>because there's so much more that goes into the the

0:25:26.520 --> 0:25:29.719
<v Speaker 1>project than what we just see come across on the screen.

0:25:30.160 --> 0:25:34.360
<v Speaker 1>And actually living into the actor's story behind why they

0:25:34.400 --> 0:25:39.760
<v Speaker 1>wanted to portray this um character is actually really fascinating

0:25:39.760 --> 0:25:42.360
<v Speaker 1>for me, So thank you for sharing some light on that. Um.

0:25:42.440 --> 0:25:44.480
<v Speaker 1>We're gonna take a quick break and we're gonna be

0:25:44.560 --> 0:25:47.320
<v Speaker 1>back with more from Mr Eric Winter right after this.

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<v Speaker 1>Back from break. This is how men think. My name

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<v Speaker 1>is Brooks like and we have Mr Eric inter with us,

0:26:01.119 --> 0:26:06.280
<v Speaker 1>and during break we discovered our excellent, amazing producer Tory.

0:26:07.160 --> 0:26:10.600
<v Speaker 1>I was wondering why Eric's audio was a little muffled.

0:26:11.400 --> 0:26:14.280
<v Speaker 1>I guess it sounded bad the whole time, right, How

0:26:14.320 --> 0:26:16.560
<v Speaker 1>wonderful does he sound right now, just say something, brother,

0:26:16.640 --> 0:26:19.040
<v Speaker 1>Let's just give us a how howdy an the first

0:26:19.040 --> 0:26:20.960
<v Speaker 1>time on how men think? And I sounded like the

0:26:20.960 --> 0:26:24.720
<v Speaker 1>whole time. At least we corrected it halfway through. But

0:26:24.880 --> 0:26:30.240
<v Speaker 1>you guys listening can't see this. But Eric has this gorgeous,

0:26:30.400 --> 0:26:34.199
<v Speaker 1>glorious beard, and he had air pods in and his

0:26:34.320 --> 0:26:38.560
<v Speaker 1>air pods were kind of like scratching into his beard

0:26:38.600 --> 0:26:41.200
<v Speaker 1>a little bit. And because this thing is so glorious,

0:26:41.240 --> 0:26:44.560
<v Speaker 1>it dampens all the sound. Um, there's the problem. I'm

0:26:44.560 --> 0:26:47.320
<v Speaker 1>not I'm not usually a beard guy, especially not this

0:26:47.600 --> 0:26:49.119
<v Speaker 1>thick of a beard guy. This is a this is

0:26:49.200 --> 0:26:52.400
<v Speaker 1>new territory for me, so I'm not figuring it out.

0:26:53.080 --> 0:26:55.880
<v Speaker 1>You should be a beard guy because it looks incredible

0:26:55.960 --> 0:26:58.640
<v Speaker 1>on you do it. Thanks, man, I'm trying. I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to catch up to your beard. I want to get there.

0:27:00.240 --> 0:27:02.399
<v Speaker 1>I got to hear about that story because that's listening

0:27:02.560 --> 0:27:05.480
<v Speaker 1>times a length of mine. Let's talk about yours versus.

0:27:05.480 --> 0:27:07.560
<v Speaker 1>You're traditionally not a beard guy. You're usually a clean

0:27:07.600 --> 0:27:10.520
<v Speaker 1>shaven guy. I'm always a scruff guy. I don't like

0:27:10.600 --> 0:27:14.080
<v Speaker 1>to clean shave. I like to have something some facial hair. Um,

0:27:14.119 --> 0:27:16.840
<v Speaker 1>but usually at this point I've gotten already irritated and

0:27:16.920 --> 0:27:19.119
<v Speaker 1>I'm like it's tickling my lip or it's bugging me here,

0:27:19.119 --> 0:27:21.320
<v Speaker 1>and I've I've given up and I've shaved it. Or

0:27:21.840 --> 0:27:25.240
<v Speaker 1>also with acting, you know, it's it's specific to a

0:27:25.280 --> 0:27:28.360
<v Speaker 1>degree on how I look. So a certain role might

0:27:28.400 --> 0:27:30.240
<v Speaker 1>come up and I was like clean, you know whatever,

0:27:30.320 --> 0:27:32.159
<v Speaker 1>certain lawyer, and I might think, Okay, I got a

0:27:32.240 --> 0:27:35.439
<v Speaker 1>shave for this this audition or this role. Yeah, like

0:27:35.480 --> 0:27:39.400
<v Speaker 1>on my current show, Um, I should be completely clean

0:27:39.400 --> 0:27:42.160
<v Speaker 1>shaving because I'm a cop. Uh. We cheated a little

0:27:42.160 --> 0:27:44.120
<v Speaker 1>bit because it's TV cops, so I had a little

0:27:44.119 --> 0:27:46.440
<v Speaker 1>bit of stubble. But I could never rock a beard

0:27:46.440 --> 0:27:48.200
<v Speaker 1>like this because as an l APD officer, you can't

0:27:48.240 --> 0:27:51.679
<v Speaker 1>have a beard. Yeah. Ah man, I played for a

0:27:51.680 --> 0:27:54.080
<v Speaker 1>team one time my first twelve years in the NHL.

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<v Speaker 1>We could do whatever we want with our facial hair

0:27:56.240 --> 0:27:58.960
<v Speaker 1>did not matter. So that's one thing I loved about

0:27:58.960 --> 0:28:01.080
<v Speaker 1>hockey is I never had to shave. My dad ship

0:28:01.119 --> 0:28:03.280
<v Speaker 1>He was a principle. He shaved every single day of

0:28:03.320 --> 0:28:05.480
<v Speaker 1>his life, and I was just like, I just don't

0:28:05.480 --> 0:28:07.520
<v Speaker 1>think I can ever shave every day in my life.

0:28:07.520 --> 0:28:10.600
<v Speaker 1>I prefer not to shave. So I played twelve years

0:28:10.640 --> 0:28:12.680
<v Speaker 1>one way, could do whatever I wanted with my facial hair.

0:28:12.920 --> 0:28:15.880
<v Speaker 1>All of a sudden got traded and the very next

0:28:15.960 --> 0:28:18.600
<v Speaker 1>day I had to cut my hair because we weren't

0:28:18.600 --> 0:28:22.160
<v Speaker 1>allowed any hair showing outside of our hockey helmet, and

0:28:22.200 --> 0:28:24.920
<v Speaker 1>I had to shave. Their like clean shaven, and the

0:28:25.000 --> 0:28:27.080
<v Speaker 1>New York Yankees are like this, or they at least

0:28:27.119 --> 0:28:28.640
<v Speaker 1>they used to be. I don't know if they still are.

0:28:28.880 --> 0:28:31.919
<v Speaker 1>You had to be clean shaven, So I hated it.

0:28:31.960 --> 0:28:34.760
<v Speaker 1>When I played in Toronto, I hated the fact that

0:28:34.760 --> 0:28:38.120
<v Speaker 1>our management made us cut our hair a certain way

0:28:38.280 --> 0:28:41.280
<v Speaker 1>and be clean shaven every single day, and not an

0:28:41.400 --> 0:28:44.720
<v Speaker 1>NHL thing strictly management that was strictly that organization saying

0:28:44.760 --> 0:28:48.040
<v Speaker 1>you had to do that directly and only that organization.

0:28:48.040 --> 0:28:50.320
<v Speaker 1>It was the only one in the NHL that governed

0:28:50.640 --> 0:28:54.000
<v Speaker 1>what players can do with their hair and face, and

0:28:54.040 --> 0:28:58.680
<v Speaker 1>it piste me off. I hated it. Yeah, especially when

0:28:58.680 --> 0:29:00.720
<v Speaker 1>it's get your expression and what you're doing and how

0:29:00.760 --> 0:29:03.280
<v Speaker 1>you feel, and you know, even sometimes it might make

0:29:03.320 --> 0:29:05.160
<v Speaker 1>you feel just different as a player when you go

0:29:05.200 --> 0:29:08.520
<v Speaker 1>out there, mentality, whatever, you know, big time, dude, if

0:29:08.520 --> 0:29:11.640
<v Speaker 1>you see me like if if you see me now

0:29:11.680 --> 0:29:16.560
<v Speaker 1>with this four months patch of of Idaho brush on

0:29:16.640 --> 0:29:20.320
<v Speaker 1>my face. Um, if I'm lining up to you, lining

0:29:20.440 --> 0:29:22.320
<v Speaker 1>up next to you on the ice, maybe you're a

0:29:22.360 --> 0:29:24.240
<v Speaker 1>newer guy in the league or something, and I'm looking

0:29:24.280 --> 0:29:26.040
<v Speaker 1>at you like this, and I got stern eyes and

0:29:26.080 --> 0:29:28.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm leaning into you, breathing on you, talking in your ear,

0:29:28.960 --> 0:29:31.360
<v Speaker 1>trying to like tell you I'm gonna rip your head

0:29:31.400 --> 0:29:35.320
<v Speaker 1>off or something. It's different when you facial hair on.

0:29:36.280 --> 0:29:40.600
<v Speaker 1>I just have this beautifully shaved face. Like, Yeah, you

0:29:40.680 --> 0:29:44.160
<v Speaker 1>can't convey the same message. You can try. But when

0:29:44.160 --> 0:29:46.560
<v Speaker 1>a guy lines up and he's got a badass beard,

0:29:47.000 --> 0:29:49.440
<v Speaker 1>you just immediately think this guy is tougher. You just

0:29:51.000 --> 0:29:54.480
<v Speaker 1>makes perfect sense. Wow. I never thought about that though. Yeah,

0:29:54.800 --> 0:29:59.200
<v Speaker 1>I so right now is the longest in my life

0:29:59.240 --> 0:30:01.440
<v Speaker 1>that I've ever had beard. My beard is probably if

0:30:01.440 --> 0:30:04.400
<v Speaker 1>I would pull a hair out, it's probably like two

0:30:04.440 --> 0:30:09.400
<v Speaker 1>to three inches. Um. Probably, what's your goal. You're gonna

0:30:09.440 --> 0:30:11.840
<v Speaker 1>go through full quarantine until you shave or what? What's

0:30:11.840 --> 0:30:14.160
<v Speaker 1>your what's your plan? I have no idea, to be honest.

0:30:14.240 --> 0:30:16.800
<v Speaker 1>I just like two months ago I kind of got

0:30:16.880 --> 0:30:19.120
<v Speaker 1>lazy and just didn't shave it. And then I'm like, well,

0:30:19.160 --> 0:30:21.360
<v Speaker 1>it's actually pretty long. I wonder, like, just let it

0:30:21.400 --> 0:30:22.760
<v Speaker 1>go and see how long it gets. And then we

0:30:22.960 --> 0:30:25.320
<v Speaker 1>got into quarantine and now I'm like, it really doesn't

0:30:25.320 --> 0:30:27.600
<v Speaker 1>matter now, and so then it hit a point where

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<v Speaker 1>it was the longest I've ever had it in my life,

0:30:29.880 --> 0:30:32.440
<v Speaker 1>so I just kind of let it go. Um And

0:30:32.600 --> 0:30:34.560
<v Speaker 1>last week we did a poll on our how men

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<v Speaker 1>think Instagram, and of our listeners voted that I should

0:30:37.760 --> 0:30:43.160
<v Speaker 1>shave it. So apparently it's not that visually appealing. But

0:30:43.280 --> 0:30:46.520
<v Speaker 1>producer Tory and producer Danielle are on my side. They say,

0:30:46.560 --> 0:30:50.560
<v Speaker 1>don't shave it, go for it, go for it. Yeah,

0:30:50.640 --> 0:30:53.080
<v Speaker 1>Big fan Tour. Do you like facial hair on a man?

0:30:53.600 --> 0:30:56.760
<v Speaker 1>I do. I will say I think I prefer Eric's

0:30:56.840 --> 0:31:00.640
<v Speaker 1>length right now, then maybe Brooks, But that doesn't mean

0:31:00.640 --> 0:31:03.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm against all facial hair. I just think that if

0:31:03.600 --> 0:31:05.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm looking at you too, I think the length of

0:31:05.520 --> 0:31:08.120
<v Speaker 1>Eric's is good. But I think it just shows like

0:31:08.240 --> 0:31:11.480
<v Speaker 1>manliness on both ends, so I like it. I'm like,

0:31:11.560 --> 0:31:14.640
<v Speaker 1>that's a strong man right there. I have no chance

0:31:14.680 --> 0:31:18.960
<v Speaker 1>in this isn't he's a model. You're comparing me against

0:31:18.960 --> 0:31:22.600
<v Speaker 1>a professional model, an actor, or I have no chance

0:31:22.640 --> 0:31:24.840
<v Speaker 1>in this fight. Hey, you guys are both equally good

0:31:24.880 --> 0:31:28.880
<v Speaker 1>looking biased opinion, and I genuinely do think your your

0:31:28.920 --> 0:31:32.360
<v Speaker 1>beards look great. I will say this, so Eric, yours

0:31:32.360 --> 0:31:34.040
<v Speaker 1>is how long? Would you say? Yours is like? Maybe

0:31:34.800 --> 0:31:37.240
<v Speaker 1>I stop? I stopped shaving when we've wrapp how long

0:31:37.320 --> 0:31:42.680
<v Speaker 1>is it? Yeah? Inch? Maybe quarters of an inch? And

0:31:43.280 --> 0:31:45.760
<v Speaker 1>tak you need to grow it. I'm a slow grower

0:31:45.760 --> 0:31:49.080
<v Speaker 1>when it comes to facial hair. This is like, uh,

0:31:49.200 --> 0:31:54.400
<v Speaker 1>I wrapped March six, So since March six? Okay, so

0:31:54.520 --> 0:31:57.840
<v Speaker 1>now so a few months? Yeah? Um, does your wife

0:31:57.840 --> 0:32:01.000
<v Speaker 1>like it? She loves it, She likes a lot. It's

0:32:01.040 --> 0:32:04.240
<v Speaker 1>actually been shockingly pretty well received. I've had, you know,

0:32:04.280 --> 0:32:06.320
<v Speaker 1>as I post things on social media for whatever, people

0:32:06.320 --> 0:32:08.040
<v Speaker 1>are like the beard, the beard. I love the beard,

0:32:08.080 --> 0:32:10.720
<v Speaker 1>and my agents are actually like, you gotta keep the beard.

0:32:10.720 --> 0:32:12.440
<v Speaker 1>You gotta keep the beard. I was like, I don't

0:32:12.440 --> 0:32:15.600
<v Speaker 1>know how long, but for a little while, I think

0:32:15.600 --> 0:32:18.880
<v Speaker 1>it looks outstanding, dude, and you you Because there's some

0:32:18.920 --> 0:32:22.440
<v Speaker 1>guys who grow beards. There's an art to like manicuring beards.

0:32:22.560 --> 0:32:24.480
<v Speaker 1>I should do like a YouTube video on this too,

0:32:24.480 --> 0:32:26.600
<v Speaker 1>because there's guys that just grow it. And they let

0:32:26.640 --> 0:32:29.480
<v Speaker 1>everything go um and then it just kind of looks

0:32:29.480 --> 0:32:31.760
<v Speaker 1>scraggly and it doesn't. And I'm getting to that point,

0:32:31.760 --> 0:32:33.240
<v Speaker 1>so I want to hear your art because I don't

0:32:33.640 --> 0:32:36.600
<v Speaker 1>well like cleaning up the cheeks a little bit like so,

0:32:36.680 --> 0:32:40.080
<v Speaker 1>because you'll get scraggly hairs up up higher on the cheeks,

0:32:40.080 --> 0:32:42.680
<v Speaker 1>but cleaning up a nice line of the cheeks underneath

0:32:42.680 --> 0:32:45.440
<v Speaker 1>the neck, so it's not just growth everywhere under the neck.

0:32:45.480 --> 0:32:47.640
<v Speaker 1>There's certain areas there's a line that you clean up

0:32:47.720 --> 0:32:50.040
<v Speaker 1>under the neck. And then also what I do with

0:32:50.120 --> 0:32:53.600
<v Speaker 1>mine is on the sides of the mustache to to

0:32:54.000 --> 0:32:56.200
<v Speaker 1>so that the mustache doesn't just blend right into the

0:32:57.200 --> 0:33:00.400
<v Speaker 1>cheap beard side. I shave a little bit just on

0:33:00.440 --> 0:33:02.600
<v Speaker 1>the side of the mustache just to like give a

0:33:02.640 --> 0:33:04.720
<v Speaker 1>little shape so it comes down on the cheek line.

0:33:04.760 --> 0:33:06.880
<v Speaker 1>Shave in here a little bit. And then the key

0:33:06.960 --> 0:33:10.480
<v Speaker 1>one is under the lip, under your bottom lip, on

0:33:10.520 --> 0:33:15.320
<v Speaker 1>the sides, shaving a little patch on both sides just

0:33:15.400 --> 0:33:18.360
<v Speaker 1>to give some space and a little more definition. And

0:33:18.480 --> 0:33:21.640
<v Speaker 1>I learned that one when I got a shave in Paris.

0:33:21.680 --> 0:33:25.280
<v Speaker 1>I was at this awesome hotel, Hotel Creon in Paris

0:33:25.960 --> 0:33:28.640
<v Speaker 1>um and I forgot. I went to Europe for like

0:33:28.680 --> 0:33:31.360
<v Speaker 1>a couple of weeks and I forgot my buzzer. Am

0:33:31.360 --> 0:33:34.440
<v Speaker 1>I like my hair, my face? I'm like, how did

0:33:34.480 --> 0:33:36.280
<v Speaker 1>I forget that? Anyway, So I went down to the

0:33:36.320 --> 0:33:38.640
<v Speaker 1>lobby and I got this lady in this lobby, this

0:33:38.840 --> 0:33:43.920
<v Speaker 1>beautiful hotel. It's a Rosewood hotel, really amazing hotel. And

0:33:44.200 --> 0:33:46.640
<v Speaker 1>she gave me the best shave of my life. And

0:33:46.680 --> 0:33:49.360
<v Speaker 1>she taught me so much about this about shaping and

0:33:49.400 --> 0:33:53.880
<v Speaker 1>grooming a man's beard, so that there's a you convey

0:33:54.120 --> 0:33:59.840
<v Speaker 1>this like this maturity and this poise and this strength

0:34:00.240 --> 0:34:02.720
<v Speaker 1>through the beard. And so I can't I can't remember

0:34:02.760 --> 0:34:04.760
<v Speaker 1>what her name was, but I thank her for so

0:34:04.840 --> 0:34:07.080
<v Speaker 1>much of that knowledge. Do you use like the oils

0:34:07.080 --> 0:34:09.440
<v Speaker 1>and all that kind of stuff? I did. I I

0:34:09.440 --> 0:34:10.960
<v Speaker 1>didn't bring it with me to my lake house, but

0:34:11.000 --> 0:34:13.319
<v Speaker 1>I used to. Yeah, because I get really scraggly and

0:34:13.360 --> 0:34:15.839
<v Speaker 1>really and then it looks bad and that also feels bad.

0:34:15.920 --> 0:34:19.680
<v Speaker 1>So I do use a beard oil. Um, it softens

0:34:19.719 --> 0:34:21.560
<v Speaker 1>it and makes it feel better. And then also your

0:34:21.560 --> 0:34:24.120
<v Speaker 1>beard just doesn't go out to the side. Yeah, so

0:34:24.239 --> 0:34:26.560
<v Speaker 1>that's what happens, Like you get these scragglers that grow out.

0:34:26.640 --> 0:34:28.800
<v Speaker 1>Do you clip those? Are you supposed to keep brushing

0:34:28.800 --> 0:34:31.000
<v Speaker 1>those down? Now? So I brush them down. And then

0:34:31.000 --> 0:34:33.279
<v Speaker 1>also on the sides, so when your beard starts to

0:34:33.360 --> 0:34:36.560
<v Speaker 1>grow out horizontally, I'll take a buzzer and I'll trim

0:34:36.600 --> 0:34:39.000
<v Speaker 1>the side down, especially up by the job bone, like

0:34:39.040 --> 0:34:42.600
<v Speaker 1>the cheekbone, um, close by the ears. I'll trim that down,

0:34:42.680 --> 0:34:44.520
<v Speaker 1>and I'll trim it and guide it so that it

0:34:44.600 --> 0:34:47.600
<v Speaker 1>becomes longer down at the chin, so under the chin,

0:34:47.719 --> 0:34:50.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm not trimming, but on the sides of the face

0:34:50.120 --> 0:34:53.560
<v Speaker 1>so it doesn't just sprout out. Trim nose down and

0:34:53.640 --> 0:34:55.879
<v Speaker 1>keep those kind of tighter so it makes your face

0:34:55.960 --> 0:35:01.160
<v Speaker 1>kind of longer, and and points the beard downward versus

0:35:01.239 --> 0:35:03.520
<v Speaker 1>pointing the beard straight out to the side straight out.

0:35:03.560 --> 0:35:06.200
<v Speaker 1>Screams like Lumberjack. To me, I feel like we're going

0:35:06.200 --> 0:35:10.800
<v Speaker 1>in a different directions, like the whole rounded you know, dude.

0:35:11.880 --> 0:35:13.920
<v Speaker 1>Two days ago, this is true story. Two days ago,

0:35:13.960 --> 0:35:16.080
<v Speaker 1>my uncle was out here helping me do some yardwork

0:35:16.080 --> 0:35:18.480
<v Speaker 1>out of my lag house and it was hot as hell.

0:35:18.840 --> 0:35:21.040
<v Speaker 1>I had my shirt off, just pants on, boots on,

0:35:21.120 --> 0:35:23.040
<v Speaker 1>I had my shirt off, I had work gloves on,

0:35:23.400 --> 0:35:26.239
<v Speaker 1>and I um face was just messed up. We were moving.

0:35:26.280 --> 0:35:28.640
<v Speaker 1>We probably moved like ten fifteen thousand pounds of rock,

0:35:28.880 --> 0:35:33.640
<v Speaker 1>just just a mess. And um face was muddy and dirty, sweaty,

0:35:33.800 --> 0:35:36.440
<v Speaker 1>and I had to grab a sledgehammer to break up

0:35:36.440 --> 0:35:39.879
<v Speaker 1>some rock. And he goes, wait, this is too this

0:35:40.000 --> 0:35:44.320
<v Speaker 1>is too good because shirtless dude, sweaty, muddy face, big beard,

0:35:44.640 --> 0:35:47.920
<v Speaker 1>just a mass, gloves on, sledge hammer over the shoulder.

0:35:48.440 --> 0:35:52.480
<v Speaker 1>He's just just taking these pictures. He's like, I'm holding

0:35:52.520 --> 0:35:56.680
<v Speaker 1>these is like ransom against you. Like, dude, that is

0:35:56.680 --> 0:35:59.680
<v Speaker 1>so freaquent, stereotypical. Don't ever let that see the light

0:35:59.680 --> 0:36:02.239
<v Speaker 1>of day. Um. But he goes, he goes, at least

0:36:02.239 --> 0:36:04.560
<v Speaker 1>you didn't pose this shot, brother, And I was like,

0:36:05.360 --> 0:36:09.080
<v Speaker 1>this is real truth. That is funny. Yeah, but I

0:36:09.160 --> 0:36:11.800
<v Speaker 1>like having a beard, man, I think you should keep yours.

0:36:12.000 --> 0:36:14.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm enjoying it. I'm gonna try some of these tips,

0:36:14.200 --> 0:36:17.920
<v Speaker 1>probably uh this weekend and try and shape up the sides.

0:36:18.480 --> 0:36:20.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna see what I can get into without screwing

0:36:20.480 --> 0:36:22.840
<v Speaker 1>it up. I know something that did start trying to

0:36:22.880 --> 0:36:24.279
<v Speaker 1>do that and they screwed it up. It took off

0:36:24.280 --> 0:36:27.920
<v Speaker 1>like half the beard. Then you're done, buddy, I've done that.

0:36:28.640 --> 0:36:31.040
<v Speaker 1>I have done that before. So I don't like how

0:36:31.080 --> 0:36:33.880
<v Speaker 1>I look when I don't have a beard, like clean shaven.

0:36:34.120 --> 0:36:36.080
<v Speaker 1>I really don't like that look. I'll be like you like,

0:36:36.120 --> 0:36:38.680
<v Speaker 1>I'll shave down to like just a light scruff, which

0:36:38.760 --> 0:36:41.960
<v Speaker 1>Tori you said you like. Um. But one time I

0:36:41.960 --> 0:36:44.239
<v Speaker 1>think I was like, I think I had a date

0:36:44.360 --> 0:36:45.919
<v Speaker 1>or something and I was like, oh, I'm gonna clean

0:36:45.960 --> 0:36:47.760
<v Speaker 1>this up. I'm gonna clean up, make a nice little

0:36:47.760 --> 0:36:50.880
<v Speaker 1>shape here, and I just actually went and I'm like,

0:36:50.920 --> 0:36:53.959
<v Speaker 1>oh God, no, oh dear, i gotta shave my face

0:36:53.960 --> 0:36:58.799
<v Speaker 1>because I can't go like this. It's over confidence. Out

0:36:58.840 --> 0:37:02.800
<v Speaker 1>the windows of work. Put in just gone the side

0:37:02.800 --> 0:37:07.400
<v Speaker 1>of the hand. Yeah, I have a question, Um, boys,

0:37:07.400 --> 0:37:09.879
<v Speaker 1>this is going to get maybe a little personal, But

0:37:10.840 --> 0:37:17.480
<v Speaker 1>how do you feel when a female has more, um like,

0:37:17.719 --> 0:37:24.120
<v Speaker 1>unshaved parts versus being more natural? Do you if you

0:37:24.160 --> 0:37:29.479
<v Speaker 1>get what I'm saying, if you girls more natural down there,

0:37:29.560 --> 0:37:33.160
<v Speaker 1>let's say, like hairy legs or like kind of just

0:37:33.200 --> 0:37:37.399
<v Speaker 1>like goes more natural. I mean, let's specifically like down there,

0:37:37.440 --> 0:37:39.080
<v Speaker 1>if a lady doesn't really trim it up, how do

0:37:39.120 --> 0:37:42.040
<v Speaker 1>you feel or do you I also hear opposite where

0:37:42.120 --> 0:37:44.239
<v Speaker 1>guys don't like it when a girl is completely clean

0:37:44.280 --> 0:37:46.000
<v Speaker 1>down there, because I feel like it's kind of like

0:37:46.160 --> 0:37:51.879
<v Speaker 1>she's too young, feeling almost. But what's the feedback on that? Free?

0:37:51.960 --> 0:37:55.359
<v Speaker 1>What an interesting question you want to answer for I'm

0:37:55.440 --> 0:38:00.160
<v Speaker 1>letting you go with that, bro. Look, I am all

0:38:00.200 --> 0:38:06.040
<v Speaker 1>for good uh grooming down below. I think it's better

0:38:06.080 --> 0:38:09.120
<v Speaker 1>for the overall experience. I think it's better all overall visually.

0:38:09.719 --> 0:38:14.200
<v Speaker 1>I think groom it up look clean. Um, I don't.

0:38:14.200 --> 0:38:16.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying it has to be squeaky clean, like nothing,

0:38:17.600 --> 0:38:21.719
<v Speaker 1>nice little landing strip. It's great. Um, But I think

0:38:22.360 --> 0:38:25.800
<v Speaker 1>you go. I think letting ship get all crazy and

0:38:25.880 --> 0:38:29.239
<v Speaker 1>wild free it is not. It's too much. So I

0:38:29.400 --> 0:38:31.920
<v Speaker 1>just echo all of what he said there. And it

0:38:31.960 --> 0:38:34.600
<v Speaker 1>also shouldn't be growing down to the thighs from there.

0:38:34.640 --> 0:38:38.160
<v Speaker 1>And you know, it shouldn't be brave, not today's age.

0:38:38.520 --> 0:38:42.040
<v Speaker 1>Um Um, I A are it will say, Also, though

0:38:42.080 --> 0:38:45.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm totally up for freedom of expression. I was

0:38:45.680 --> 0:38:47.759
<v Speaker 1>in a yoga class the other day and not the

0:38:47.760 --> 0:38:50.040
<v Speaker 1>other day. I've been in Idaho for six weeks or something,

0:38:50.040 --> 0:38:51.680
<v Speaker 1>but I was in a yoga class a couple of

0:38:51.680 --> 0:38:54.840
<v Speaker 1>months ago, and this lady in there had hairy armpits

0:38:54.880 --> 0:38:57.200
<v Speaker 1>and what And I'm just like, I didn't, I did

0:38:57.239 --> 0:39:00.920
<v Speaker 1>not care. It's I hadn't seen. I think that was

0:39:00.960 --> 0:39:03.880
<v Speaker 1>the first time that I've really fully seen that in public.

0:39:03.960 --> 0:39:06.040
<v Speaker 1>You see it in like photos or something on the internet,

0:39:06.440 --> 0:39:08.279
<v Speaker 1>but I think that was the first time i'd really

0:39:08.280 --> 0:39:10.920
<v Speaker 1>been She was like five feet away from me. Um.

0:39:11.000 --> 0:39:15.240
<v Speaker 1>And so I am fully on board with freedom expression.

0:39:15.360 --> 0:39:17.400
<v Speaker 1>It's her body. She can do whatever she wants, and

0:39:17.440 --> 0:39:19.480
<v Speaker 1>it makes no difference to me. But it was just

0:39:19.520 --> 0:39:21.839
<v Speaker 1>the first time that I had kind of seen that well.

0:39:22.120 --> 0:39:24.520
<v Speaker 1>And I would agree with you on that front as well.

0:39:25.760 --> 0:39:27.759
<v Speaker 1>I think people should feel feel as comfortable as they

0:39:27.800 --> 0:39:29.160
<v Speaker 1>want to feel and look how they want to look.

0:39:29.520 --> 0:39:31.160
<v Speaker 1>It just wouldn't be my cup of tea. If if

0:39:31.160 --> 0:39:33.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, we're playing deal Breaker and some girl came

0:39:33.760 --> 0:39:35.759
<v Speaker 1>up and she's like she's smoking hot, but she's just

0:39:35.800 --> 0:39:39.800
<v Speaker 1>got like armp and hair blasting out, I'm out. I

0:39:39.800 --> 0:39:41.960
<v Speaker 1>don't think I can get into it. Yeah, I really

0:39:41.960 --> 0:39:45.920
<v Speaker 1>don't think I could. We we had this saying in hockey, um,

0:39:46.040 --> 0:39:50.040
<v Speaker 1>look good, feel good, play good, and so I would

0:39:50.080 --> 0:39:52.319
<v Speaker 1>play much better if she had no hair in her

0:39:52.400 --> 0:39:57.600
<v Speaker 1>Armits tory what about what about you for a man, Like, okay,

0:39:57.600 --> 0:39:59.719
<v Speaker 1>facial hair, so you like kind of some facial hair

0:39:59.760 --> 0:40:04.200
<v Speaker 1>and and like semi groomed facial hair, but like, what

0:40:04.280 --> 0:40:06.440
<v Speaker 1>about the rest of a man's body, like a hairy

0:40:06.520 --> 0:40:11.279
<v Speaker 1>back or hairy arms or hairy leg like or or

0:40:11.320 --> 0:40:13.960
<v Speaker 1>not grooming his parts? What about not grooming his parts

0:40:14.000 --> 0:40:16.600
<v Speaker 1>a little bit? I do like some semi kept up

0:40:16.640 --> 0:40:18.560
<v Speaker 1>groom parts. I don't I don't need it like kind

0:40:18.560 --> 0:40:20.360
<v Speaker 1>of you guys said squeaky clean, but I do like

0:40:20.480 --> 0:40:24.000
<v Speaker 1>it to feel like I'm not getting into the weeds

0:40:24.000 --> 0:40:27.439
<v Speaker 1>of things when I'm down there. Um. But I will

0:40:27.560 --> 0:40:32.960
<v Speaker 1>say I would prefer a hairy man versus the awkward

0:40:33.160 --> 0:40:35.439
<v Speaker 1>shaved man. And I don't mean when it's like clean,

0:40:35.520 --> 0:40:37.080
<v Speaker 1>but when you start feeling a little bit of the

0:40:37.120 --> 0:40:40.640
<v Speaker 1>bristles come back or the awkward grow out period, I

0:40:40.840 --> 0:40:44.719
<v Speaker 1>would rather you just be natural than have that awkward

0:40:46.040 --> 0:40:47.680
<v Speaker 1>stubble where you're like, I can start testing You're like,

0:40:47.719 --> 0:40:49.720
<v Speaker 1>why do I feel like these are my shaved legs

0:40:49.719 --> 0:40:51.439
<v Speaker 1>that I haven't shaved in like a couple of days.

0:40:51.480 --> 0:40:56.680
<v Speaker 1>Like I don't like that. Um. Question for both of you,

0:40:57.080 --> 0:40:59.839
<v Speaker 1>do you think personal grooming has kind of gone out

0:40:59.880 --> 0:41:10.560
<v Speaker 1>the window during this quarantine time, but when there is

0:41:10.800 --> 0:41:15.520
<v Speaker 1>no one I have to hold me accountable. So uh yeah,

0:41:15.560 --> 0:41:16.879
<v Speaker 1>I think that'd be a big part of it, right

0:41:16.880 --> 0:41:19.640
<v Speaker 1>Like I I think it's gone out a little bit,

0:41:20.160 --> 0:41:23.480
<v Speaker 1>but then yeah, I've still got to maintain enough in

0:41:23.600 --> 0:41:26.640
<v Speaker 1>my household. Yeah, I mean, you're with your quarantine with

0:41:26.640 --> 0:41:29.600
<v Speaker 1>your wife and kid. I get it. But I think

0:41:29.640 --> 0:41:32.799
<v Speaker 1>in general, um, a lot of people have kind of

0:41:32.840 --> 0:41:35.879
<v Speaker 1>like some people some people have talked to, have really

0:41:35.920 --> 0:41:38.879
<v Speaker 1>liked this phase where they can try. Like you said, Eric,

0:41:38.920 --> 0:41:42.359
<v Speaker 1>you can try also just because your career not not

0:41:42.480 --> 0:41:46.400
<v Speaker 1>acting right now affords you the opportunity to try growing

0:41:46.440 --> 0:41:49.239
<v Speaker 1>a beard where maybe for professional reasons you couldn't. So

0:41:49.280 --> 0:41:51.759
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people right now are experimenting with different things.

0:41:51.760 --> 0:41:54.719
<v Speaker 1>People are dyeing the hair different color, um, trying all

0:41:54.719 --> 0:41:58.920
<v Speaker 1>these different things that maybe they couldn't before, which I like. Um.

0:41:58.960 --> 0:42:00.840
<v Speaker 1>The one thing that I hate about right now about

0:42:00.920 --> 0:42:03.640
<v Speaker 1>having not had a haircut in two months, one my

0:42:03.680 --> 0:42:07.440
<v Speaker 1>hair looks awful, but to my eyebrows are so freaking

0:42:08.239 --> 0:42:12.480
<v Speaker 1>My eyebrows go grow so fast. And Jill Buck is

0:42:12.480 --> 0:42:15.040
<v Speaker 1>my hairstylist in l A. Jill, I miss you. So

0:42:15.120 --> 0:42:18.160
<v Speaker 1>much because Jill always trims up my eyebrows and it's

0:42:18.200 --> 0:42:21.759
<v Speaker 1>like even I'm like, I can't even see right now. No,

0:42:22.000 --> 0:42:23.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to get some some scissors out and like

0:42:23.960 --> 0:42:27.160
<v Speaker 1>cut my eyebrows because they just go so so freaking

0:42:27.239 --> 0:42:28.799
<v Speaker 1>I am with you on the haircut part too. I

0:42:28.920 --> 0:42:32.200
<v Speaker 1>miss not getting the haircut regularly because that's I like

0:42:32.280 --> 0:42:35.200
<v Speaker 1>having tight sides and being cleaned up and I oh,

0:42:35.400 --> 0:42:38.280
<v Speaker 1>my hair is so thick that it just becomes mine too,

0:42:38.320 --> 0:42:42.200
<v Speaker 1>And there's for me, dude, there is something so therapeutic

0:42:42.360 --> 0:42:47.080
<v Speaker 1>about getting a haircut. It's like my favorite thirty minutes

0:42:47.120 --> 0:42:50.279
<v Speaker 1>of the month. Yeah, like when Jill cuts my hair,

0:42:50.400 --> 0:42:53.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm just like, I'm just like, it's the most relaxing,

0:42:53.719 --> 0:42:57.960
<v Speaker 1>therapeutic thirty minutes. I absolutely love it. I understand like

0:42:58.040 --> 0:43:02.360
<v Speaker 1>why why women go to the hair salon thousand times.

0:43:02.680 --> 0:43:06.000
<v Speaker 1>This is actually a great transition because Amy, Danielle Um

0:43:06.040 --> 0:43:09.440
<v Speaker 1>and I all wrote up questions to ask you guys,

0:43:09.800 --> 0:43:11.759
<v Speaker 1>and so one of them was the least favorite thing

0:43:11.800 --> 0:43:17.560
<v Speaker 1>about this whole self quarantine thing happening um, which I'm

0:43:17.600 --> 0:43:20.960
<v Speaker 1>just gonna label that as your guys lack of hair cuts.

0:43:21.200 --> 0:43:23.480
<v Speaker 1>And then we're gonna go. What's your favorite part of

0:43:23.600 --> 0:43:26.840
<v Speaker 1>actually being stuck at home? These are rapid fire to

0:43:26.920 --> 0:43:28.759
<v Speaker 1>keep responses quick because we've got a few more to

0:43:28.800 --> 0:43:32.960
<v Speaker 1>get through. Go ahead, Eric, favorite favorite part about being

0:43:33.040 --> 0:43:35.879
<v Speaker 1>home has probably been just the down I mean, the

0:43:35.880 --> 0:43:38.480
<v Speaker 1>family time, the down down family time, just hanging out

0:43:38.480 --> 0:43:41.880
<v Speaker 1>and everybody being the other. Mine. That's awesome, dude, I

0:43:41.920 --> 0:43:44.200
<v Speaker 1>love it. Um. I love that you have a wife

0:43:44.200 --> 0:43:46.600
<v Speaker 1>and a boy and a girl. I think that's just so.

0:43:46.920 --> 0:43:48.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm not a father, but I can't wait to be

0:43:48.400 --> 0:43:51.360
<v Speaker 1>there one day. So UM, I think it's just so cool.

0:43:51.400 --> 0:43:54.440
<v Speaker 1>That's got to be just so much fun. Um. Mine

0:43:54.760 --> 0:43:58.680
<v Speaker 1>is uh spending time outside like I've been outside just

0:43:58.680 --> 0:44:00.720
<v Speaker 1>pouring the tory. We've talked abou this on the podcast.

0:44:00.800 --> 0:44:03.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm up at lake house, um, and I've just been

0:44:03.239 --> 0:44:07.440
<v Speaker 1>pouring love, literally pouring love into my property and shaping

0:44:07.440 --> 0:44:12.120
<v Speaker 1>it and sculpting it. Um for generations, for to host family,

0:44:12.840 --> 0:44:15.640
<v Speaker 1>to host family and friends and people out here at

0:44:15.680 --> 0:44:17.880
<v Speaker 1>this magical spot that means so much to me. I

0:44:17.880 --> 0:44:20.040
<v Speaker 1>want to be able to share that and have them

0:44:20.160 --> 0:44:23.279
<v Speaker 1>feel an emotion of love and beauty and nature when

0:44:23.280 --> 0:44:30.040
<v Speaker 1>they come to the lake House. That's awesome. Fifteen years

0:44:30.080 --> 0:44:32.680
<v Speaker 1>together from two different countries and very different points of

0:44:32.719 --> 0:44:38.919
<v Speaker 1>view about well pretty much everything to bringing you, he said.

0:44:39.800 --> 0:44:42.560
<v Speaker 1>We talked about so many things, and yeah, most of

0:44:42.560 --> 0:44:45.279
<v Speaker 1>the time we don't agree, but hey, we make it work.

0:44:45.560 --> 0:44:47.400
<v Speaker 1>Join us and be a part of this crazy and

0:44:47.440 --> 0:44:54.560
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0:44:54.600 --> 0:45:08.240
<v Speaker 1>Apple podcast or wherever you get your podcast ros best

0:45:08.320 --> 0:45:12.000
<v Speaker 1>pickup line a girl I can say to a guy?

0:45:12.640 --> 0:45:16.000
<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, Eric, you get more of those than I

0:45:16.040 --> 0:45:22.560
<v Speaker 1>do on the spot. You know, here's one that I

0:45:22.600 --> 0:45:25.960
<v Speaker 1>always loved. Um. I don't know if it's a girl

0:45:26.000 --> 0:45:27.920
<v Speaker 1>can say to a guy, but it was. It was

0:45:27.960 --> 0:45:32.080
<v Speaker 1>a pickup line that at least at least made me laugh. Um,

0:45:32.080 --> 0:45:37.960
<v Speaker 1>can I at least get a wrong number? It's just

0:45:38.160 --> 0:45:39.640
<v Speaker 1>like kind of like, hey, can I at least get

0:45:39.640 --> 0:45:44.880
<v Speaker 1>a wrong number? It just kind of breaks they that's good. Oh,

0:45:44.920 --> 0:45:50.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna struggle with this and I don't know, uh best,

0:45:50.960 --> 0:45:54.239
<v Speaker 1>I mean, just in general, Uh, I don't have a

0:45:54.239 --> 0:45:56.479
<v Speaker 1>funny one. I would just say. I've had girls saying

0:45:56.480 --> 0:45:58.239
<v Speaker 1>hey can I can I buy you a drink? And

0:45:58.280 --> 0:46:00.319
<v Speaker 1>I think, to me, that always feels like wow, that's so.

0:46:01.600 --> 0:46:03.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm almost taking it back and shocked at first, Like

0:46:03.480 --> 0:46:05.640
<v Speaker 1>you want to buy me a drink? Yeah, hell yeah,

0:46:05.640 --> 0:46:06.960
<v Speaker 1>I'll hang out with you and have a drink and

0:46:07.000 --> 0:46:10.479
<v Speaker 1>it just we start chat. I see that. Um there's

0:46:10.480 --> 0:46:15.919
<v Speaker 1>another good one. Um. I've never seen a I've never

0:46:15.960 --> 0:46:19.200
<v Speaker 1>had it happen to me, but I've seen guys do it. Um.

0:46:19.239 --> 0:46:23.200
<v Speaker 1>So like say Eric and I are at a bar together, Tori, Um,

0:46:23.640 --> 0:46:27.960
<v Speaker 1>say I would walk over to you and I'd be like, hi, Um,

0:46:28.040 --> 0:46:30.799
<v Speaker 1>my name is Brooks, and do you see my friend

0:46:30.840 --> 0:46:33.600
<v Speaker 1>over there, the guy with ruggedly handsome guy over there

0:46:33.640 --> 0:46:36.840
<v Speaker 1>with the beard there, blue shirt. Well, he wants to

0:46:36.880 --> 0:46:43.040
<v Speaker 1>know if you think I'm attractive. That's great, So it

0:46:43.120 --> 0:46:44.879
<v Speaker 1>kind of it's kind of just a little spin on

0:46:44.920 --> 0:46:47.800
<v Speaker 1>what they think because usually probably girls, somebody will approach

0:46:47.800 --> 0:46:49.880
<v Speaker 1>a girl and have them try and set them up

0:46:49.920 --> 0:46:51.520
<v Speaker 1>with or have the guy try and set them up

0:46:51.520 --> 0:46:53.600
<v Speaker 1>with a friend. But I like, I like to flip

0:46:53.600 --> 0:46:55.480
<v Speaker 1>on the wing man, have to wring men at the

0:46:55.520 --> 0:46:58.480
<v Speaker 1>distance and do your own. That's great. Let's spin it

0:46:58.480 --> 0:47:01.080
<v Speaker 1>a little bit also and ask for the girls out

0:47:01.120 --> 0:47:06.080
<v Speaker 1>there who are on Instagram more so than not ready

0:47:06.120 --> 0:47:09.760
<v Speaker 1>to slide into a man's d MS. What's the way

0:47:09.800 --> 0:47:18.960
<v Speaker 1>to not to stand out but not be overly aggressive? Um? Wow,

0:47:19.160 --> 0:47:22.520
<v Speaker 1>So here's one. Here's one that that I kind of

0:47:22.560 --> 0:47:26.520
<v Speaker 1>that that's like, I don't know if I'm misinterpreting it,

0:47:27.120 --> 0:47:30.680
<v Speaker 1>but let me just say it. Um, sometimes I'll get

0:47:30.800 --> 0:47:34.080
<v Speaker 1>this because I read all my d m s because

0:47:34.120 --> 0:47:36.319
<v Speaker 1>I try and respond to as many people and help

0:47:36.320 --> 0:47:38.839
<v Speaker 1>people in as many ways as possible. Um, a lot

0:47:38.840 --> 0:47:41.200
<v Speaker 1>of people reach out with health or fitness questions or

0:47:41.480 --> 0:47:43.880
<v Speaker 1>just anything like that. I try and help my community

0:47:43.880 --> 0:47:46.200
<v Speaker 1>and as much as I possibly can. So I read

0:47:46.239 --> 0:47:49.160
<v Speaker 1>through all of that stuff. Um, and that's what that's

0:47:49.239 --> 0:47:51.800
<v Speaker 1>honestly the intent behind it. But sometimes you get stuff

0:47:51.800 --> 0:47:53.799
<v Speaker 1>like that. And one that I seem to get that's

0:47:53.840 --> 0:47:55.960
<v Speaker 1>a sly I actually kind of have respect for. It.

0:47:56.000 --> 0:47:59.400
<v Speaker 1>Is like I love your pop, I have a lab

0:47:59.440 --> 0:48:01.439
<v Speaker 1>two or what every would love to have a play date?

0:48:02.560 --> 0:48:04.719
<v Speaker 1>You know, it's good, a relatable topic, something to bring

0:48:04.760 --> 0:48:07.360
<v Speaker 1>it in. Yeah, they're kind of just like linking the

0:48:07.440 --> 0:48:10.640
<v Speaker 1>dogs together but saying it's a play date for the dogs,

0:48:10.719 --> 0:48:12.719
<v Speaker 1>but is it a play date for us? Kind of thing,

0:48:12.760 --> 0:48:17.439
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, well, you know, I'm married. Um yeah,

0:48:17.600 --> 0:48:20.400
<v Speaker 1>but so that's maybe just me misinterpreting it as a

0:48:20.480 --> 0:48:23.160
<v Speaker 1>come on. Maybe they are just like, hey, you have

0:48:23.200 --> 0:48:26.640
<v Speaker 1>an awesome dog. I want my dog to meet your dog. Um,

0:48:26.760 --> 0:48:28.560
<v Speaker 1>maybe that's it, but I don't know, that's a that's

0:48:28.560 --> 0:48:32.400
<v Speaker 1>a subtle, sly way that maybe I'm just like interpreting

0:48:32.440 --> 0:48:37.480
<v Speaker 1>that way for my own vanity. You're getting what a no.

0:48:37.680 --> 0:48:39.920
<v Speaker 1>I I actually would would agree with that. I like

0:48:40.040 --> 0:48:42.640
<v Speaker 1>the straight up just someone being honest and trying to

0:48:42.680 --> 0:48:45.359
<v Speaker 1>relate to a you know, an interest that you both

0:48:45.400 --> 0:48:47.920
<v Speaker 1>may share. But then right after definitely sent a hot

0:48:47.920 --> 0:48:52.719
<v Speaker 1>picture out so we can get a good look this, Tori,

0:48:53.000 --> 0:48:55.000
<v Speaker 1>I all send one back if if, if we're into

0:48:55.000 --> 0:48:58.600
<v Speaker 1>each other one Tori. I have no idea how this

0:48:58.680 --> 0:49:01.360
<v Speaker 1>is the least subtle way, but I have no idea

0:49:01.440 --> 0:49:04.799
<v Speaker 1>why this happens. Like I don't know, I don't want

0:49:04.800 --> 0:49:06.879
<v Speaker 1>to say a lot, but this happens. You just get

0:49:06.880 --> 0:49:11.560
<v Speaker 1>a message that just says hi daddy, and it's got

0:49:11.640 --> 0:49:14.520
<v Speaker 1>like the tongue or something, and you're like, what the hell?

0:49:14.760 --> 0:49:20.160
<v Speaker 1>What like no delete? It's not a question. I can't

0:49:20.360 --> 0:49:22.640
<v Speaker 1>I can't serve your mission in some way. I don't

0:49:22.640 --> 0:49:27.839
<v Speaker 1>know what you're doing here, but delete guys secretly kind

0:49:27.840 --> 0:49:32.560
<v Speaker 1>of like to be called daddy. Oh no, I have

0:49:32.640 --> 0:49:35.319
<v Speaker 1>a buddy. I have a buddy that loves it, like

0:49:35.440 --> 0:49:39.680
<v Speaker 1>really just loves it. He just loves it. He just

0:49:40.040 --> 0:49:43.319
<v Speaker 1>everything like that he loves but um no, not it's

0:49:43.360 --> 0:49:46.160
<v Speaker 1>not my thing. And then did daddy talk either? All right?

0:49:46.239 --> 0:49:49.280
<v Speaker 1>Next question? Hold on, Tory, Can I ask you a question?

0:49:50.120 --> 0:49:54.400
<v Speaker 1>How how would you subtly, but with like a hint

0:49:54.400 --> 0:49:58.880
<v Speaker 1>of intent, slide into a man's MS. So I slid

0:49:58.920 --> 0:50:04.400
<v Speaker 1>into someone's dams for the first time ever, let's hear it.

0:50:04.480 --> 0:50:07.600
<v Speaker 1>Can you tell the whole story? I don't even know

0:50:07.600 --> 0:50:11.040
<v Speaker 1>how I stumbled upon his uh instead, but he plays

0:50:11.040 --> 0:50:14.200
<v Speaker 1>football and I'm Christian and so he and he's like

0:50:14.280 --> 0:50:16.640
<v Speaker 1>very open about his faith, and so I just said, hey,

0:50:16.760 --> 0:50:19.080
<v Speaker 1>like super cool, like this photo, like would love to

0:50:19.120 --> 0:50:22.320
<v Speaker 1>hear like your testimony because my dad found his relationship

0:50:22.320 --> 0:50:24.040
<v Speaker 1>with the Lord in the NFL, Like, would love to

0:50:24.040 --> 0:50:27.080
<v Speaker 1>hear how that happened to you. I never heard back.

0:50:27.160 --> 0:50:29.480
<v Speaker 1>He hasn't seen it. But I also like, but I

0:50:29.520 --> 0:50:31.400
<v Speaker 1>don't know how to slide into dns. I've never done it.

0:50:31.440 --> 0:50:33.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, do I send it if he hasn't seen it?

0:50:33.920 --> 0:50:36.240
<v Speaker 1>But isn't that the hard thing when on Instagram because

0:50:36.600 --> 0:50:39.839
<v Speaker 1>you could follow someone, if they don't follow you, then

0:50:39.880 --> 0:50:42.560
<v Speaker 1>your d M goes to like a separate box. So

0:50:42.640 --> 0:50:46.719
<v Speaker 1>unless they regularly checked that other box, you don't know

0:50:46.760 --> 0:50:49.839
<v Speaker 1>what's being written ever, right, So if you do, if

0:50:49.880 --> 0:50:52.600
<v Speaker 1>you read all yours brook, you actually go and you

0:50:52.600 --> 0:50:55.080
<v Speaker 1>put it into like general or primary like you shifted

0:50:55.120 --> 0:50:57.319
<v Speaker 1>over right, you accepted, but you go into that other

0:50:57.360 --> 0:50:59.800
<v Speaker 1>one and then from there I'll put into primary or general.

0:51:00.200 --> 0:51:03.960
<v Speaker 1>You accept it and then then allow the dialogue. That's

0:51:04.000 --> 0:51:09.839
<v Speaker 1>the thing. Should I follow him? Yeah, it won't. He won't.

0:51:09.880 --> 0:51:11.960
<v Speaker 1>You'll still be in that other box though, unless he

0:51:11.960 --> 0:51:14.480
<v Speaker 1>follows you, then it will automatically move you into primary,

0:51:15.160 --> 0:51:18.320
<v Speaker 1>So you should follow him. Mean, Primary is just the

0:51:18.360 --> 0:51:20.160
<v Speaker 1>epitome of my dating life, Like that should just be

0:51:20.200 --> 0:51:27.719
<v Speaker 1>my life title, like stuck in primary General? Okay. The

0:51:27.800 --> 0:51:32.680
<v Speaker 1>last person you have texted, um, where's my phone? I

0:51:32.680 --> 0:51:34.560
<v Speaker 1>don't even know where my phone is. Last person I

0:51:34.600 --> 0:51:41.080
<v Speaker 1>texted was my cast? Yeah, my mine was my cast.

0:51:41.719 --> 0:51:43.640
<v Speaker 1>Because we're doing a home we're doing a home con

0:51:44.000 --> 0:51:45.960
<v Speaker 1>like these comic con things, we're doing one that's at

0:51:46.000 --> 0:51:52.799
<v Speaker 1>home virtually this weekend. Super cool um, Tory, Mine was

0:51:52.880 --> 0:51:55.560
<v Speaker 1>to you and Danielle about this show. I said, hey,

0:51:55.560 --> 0:51:58.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm on the call, can we jump on? Um? But

0:51:58.760 --> 0:52:01.759
<v Speaker 1>previous to that, my buddy tran Um, it's like a

0:52:01.800 --> 0:52:04.759
<v Speaker 1>brother to me. Corey was planning on coming up to

0:52:04.760 --> 0:52:07.200
<v Speaker 1>the lake House here to rock and roll for a

0:52:07.239 --> 0:52:11.840
<v Speaker 1>few days. So we were texting about that. No, no, no,

0:52:11.840 --> 0:52:13.440
<v Speaker 1>no good ones. We have no juice for you on

0:52:13.480 --> 0:52:18.480
<v Speaker 1>that way, all right. I just think, Um, if you

0:52:18.560 --> 0:52:21.400
<v Speaker 1>had to give up one thing for nine weeks, what

0:52:21.440 --> 0:52:26.399
<v Speaker 1>would it be? Sex or working out? We're working out.

0:52:27.080 --> 0:52:29.680
<v Speaker 1>I love working out. I love working out, but I

0:52:29.719 --> 0:52:34.520
<v Speaker 1>love sex far more. Oh. I mean that's a really

0:52:34.560 --> 0:52:38.080
<v Speaker 1>tough one for me, truthfully, like not to just be

0:52:39.040 --> 0:52:41.200
<v Speaker 1>an idiot dude and just say yeah, I love sex,

0:52:41.280 --> 0:52:45.080
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I'd give up. Looking out is like very

0:52:45.120 --> 0:52:47.400
<v Speaker 1>important to me. But I'm also I've been up at

0:52:47.400 --> 0:52:49.520
<v Speaker 1>the lake House for i know, five six weeks, so

0:52:49.560 --> 0:52:54.319
<v Speaker 1>I've given up sex, you know. But if oh man,

0:52:54.400 --> 0:52:57.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to put myself if if both are readily available,

0:52:57.280 --> 0:53:00.400
<v Speaker 1>so like saying I'm at home, um and you can

0:53:00.480 --> 0:53:05.880
<v Speaker 1>work out or h and we're talking, let's make it

0:53:05.920 --> 0:53:11.719
<v Speaker 1>even harder. No sex, No, masturbation or nothing. Nothing I

0:53:11.840 --> 0:53:14.640
<v Speaker 1>was and then working out would mean I guess not

0:53:14.719 --> 0:53:18.920
<v Speaker 1>even like picking rocks up in the backyard, like no exercise.

0:53:19.160 --> 0:53:20.919
<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say, have you guys seen the show

0:53:20.960 --> 0:53:23.719
<v Speaker 1>Too Hot to Handle on Netflix? No, I haven't seen.

0:53:23.719 --> 0:53:25.799
<v Speaker 1>I've passed through it, but I haven't seen it yet.

0:53:25.880 --> 0:53:28.960
<v Speaker 1>So Tor, you've seen it, right, So it's it's no sex,

0:53:29.040 --> 0:53:34.520
<v Speaker 1>no kissing, no no sexual touching, um you know, no masturbation,

0:53:34.560 --> 0:53:35.920
<v Speaker 1>all that kind of thing. And they're supposed to try

0:53:35.920 --> 0:53:38.840
<v Speaker 1>and do it for thirty days. So um posed with

0:53:38.880 --> 0:53:43.440
<v Speaker 1>those two. If you went with those kind of um restrictions, Eric,

0:53:43.440 --> 0:53:45.200
<v Speaker 1>I'd probably go on. I'd have to give up the

0:53:45.239 --> 0:53:49.760
<v Speaker 1>working out you have working out? Yeah, but being married,

0:53:49.800 --> 0:53:52.880
<v Speaker 1>what is the longest time you've ever gone without having sex?

0:53:54.560 --> 0:54:04.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, maybe like a few weeks, couple a

0:54:04.840 --> 0:54:09.840
<v Speaker 1>couple of weeks. We're probably gonna fight part of it, probably,

0:54:14.200 --> 0:54:20.239
<v Speaker 1>Um yeah, I don't know. M hm. Well, also if

0:54:20.280 --> 0:54:22.200
<v Speaker 1>you're out of town, so I've been out of town

0:54:22.239 --> 0:54:24.200
<v Speaker 1>for at least three weeks before, so then it's been

0:54:24.239 --> 0:54:26.640
<v Speaker 1>even longer than that. Yeah, if you're going with that,

0:54:26.760 --> 0:54:28.560
<v Speaker 1>I mean I remember there was times of like not

0:54:28.760 --> 0:54:33.279
<v Speaker 1>seeing um my wife for like five weeks, you know,

0:54:33.520 --> 0:54:35.359
<v Speaker 1>just with when I was playing hockey and stuff, there

0:54:35.400 --> 0:54:37.320
<v Speaker 1>was times where because I was playing in a different

0:54:37.320 --> 0:54:40.399
<v Speaker 1>city that she was living. So um, yeah, I think

0:54:40.400 --> 0:54:43.239
<v Speaker 1>that's kind of like almost I mean, that's just a

0:54:43.239 --> 0:54:47.120
<v Speaker 1>different question for our careers a little bit. You know

0:54:48.840 --> 0:54:54.160
<v Speaker 1>what else you got Tea that was the last one story?

0:54:55.040 --> 0:54:58.680
<v Speaker 1>Can we ask you a question? Of course? Will you

0:54:59.320 --> 0:55:05.279
<v Speaker 1>publicly state this gentleman's name that you d M and

0:55:05.280 --> 0:55:07.920
<v Speaker 1>and how can Eric and I put our full weight

0:55:08.000 --> 0:55:12.680
<v Speaker 1>behind making this connection happen? Well, jeez, if we're going

0:55:12.719 --> 0:55:14.960
<v Speaker 1>to do that, then I got to pick somebody good. Actually,

0:55:15.000 --> 0:55:17.319
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to like, I don't remember his name. Have

0:55:17.480 --> 0:55:19.320
<v Speaker 1>you then? Have you since then? Sort of? Well, I

0:55:19.320 --> 0:55:21.760
<v Speaker 1>guess your Your message to him was kind of unique,

0:55:21.800 --> 0:55:25.000
<v Speaker 1>but have you since then? Just copy and pasted that message?

0:55:25.239 --> 0:55:29.040
<v Speaker 1>Copy this merriage sounds good. I'm just gonna roll this

0:55:29.080 --> 0:55:30.880
<v Speaker 1>out to Hunter dudes and see what we end up

0:55:30.880 --> 0:55:33.600
<v Speaker 1>with here, because I really don't slide into people's dams,

0:55:33.640 --> 0:55:36.560
<v Speaker 1>but lately I've been like feeling a little lonely and

0:55:36.600 --> 0:55:39.480
<v Speaker 1>probably a little horny, and so I'm, like I said,

0:55:39.480 --> 0:55:41.120
<v Speaker 1>in this guy's damn. And then it didn't work out.

0:55:41.160 --> 0:55:43.880
<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, well, is this the best tactic? So,

0:55:44.000 --> 0:55:47.560
<v Speaker 1>but what would you do right now? In quarantine? So

0:55:47.680 --> 0:55:51.799
<v Speaker 1>he responds and he's like, I'm into this. Do you say,

0:55:51.840 --> 0:55:56.040
<v Speaker 1>how long have you been away from have you tested yourself?

0:55:56.480 --> 0:55:59.759
<v Speaker 1>Bring your coronavirus ass over here and let's look up

0:55:59.800 --> 0:56:03.719
<v Speaker 1>what you do virtual date. I've always kind of liked

0:56:03.719 --> 0:56:05.319
<v Speaker 1>a little bit of a rebel. So if he's willing

0:56:05.360 --> 0:56:08.160
<v Speaker 1>to break some laws and rules and government regulations, kind

0:56:08.160 --> 0:56:11.880
<v Speaker 1>of hot, so, so you'd invite him in. You do

0:56:11.960 --> 0:56:13.920
<v Speaker 1>that full like gloves and masks, and you guys will

0:56:13.960 --> 0:56:16.000
<v Speaker 1>start the date that way until you feel comfortable that

0:56:16.040 --> 0:56:20.279
<v Speaker 1>he's gotten would you temperature check? Oh? Man? Yeah, I

0:56:20.280 --> 0:56:23.560
<v Speaker 1>guess we'd have to quarantine for fourteen days, Like you

0:56:23.560 --> 0:56:26.880
<v Speaker 1>couldn't really do anything in that fourteen days. This is tough,

0:56:27.520 --> 0:56:31.160
<v Speaker 1>you know, send this DM? You're right, no, don't. Don't

0:56:31.200 --> 0:56:34.480
<v Speaker 1>you dare ever unsend that DM. I mean you could

0:56:34.480 --> 0:56:36.319
<v Speaker 1>do the virtual date, which I've seen people doing there

0:56:36.320 --> 0:56:39.120
<v Speaker 1>having like the zoom cocktail hour and talking. But then

0:56:39.719 --> 0:56:41.760
<v Speaker 1>if you've also been feeling horny, what if it escalates

0:56:41.840 --> 0:56:47.160
<v Speaker 1>rather quickly? I mean, are you guys, I wait longer

0:56:47.200 --> 0:56:51.160
<v Speaker 1>than fourteen days to do that, but I don't mind

0:56:51.200 --> 0:56:55.440
<v Speaker 1>a little messing around. So fourteen days of zoom, bless you.

0:56:55.840 --> 0:56:58.680
<v Speaker 1>Fourteen days of zoom, and then what happens? Are you

0:56:58.680 --> 0:57:02.760
<v Speaker 1>guys like topless on the next zoom? Are you sure

0:57:02.960 --> 0:57:05.319
<v Speaker 1>playing strip poker in the next zoom? What happens? Eric,

0:57:05.360 --> 0:57:08.680
<v Speaker 1>he's not even responding. Alright, we're gonna get you there.

0:57:08.680 --> 0:57:10.840
<v Speaker 1>We're trying to prep you for that moment. This is

0:57:10.840 --> 0:57:12.880
<v Speaker 1>what we do. We prep Tori. We prepped for the

0:57:12.920 --> 0:57:15.600
<v Speaker 1>moment so that when the moment arrives, you arrive with it.

0:57:15.920 --> 0:57:17.600
<v Speaker 1>I will try d m N a few more people.

0:57:17.640 --> 0:57:19.600
<v Speaker 1>If I hear back, then I will come to you

0:57:19.600 --> 0:57:22.280
<v Speaker 1>guys and ask for advice. Can we be on that

0:57:22.400 --> 0:57:27.240
<v Speaker 1>first zoom? Absolutely? Five minutes? Persolutely? You can fleet them

0:57:27.240 --> 0:57:30.280
<v Speaker 1>out for me my bigger brothers. Yeah, Eric, and I

0:57:30.320 --> 0:57:35.480
<v Speaker 1>will moderate these zoom calls. Um Uh, Tori, I have

0:57:35.560 --> 0:57:37.560
<v Speaker 1>I find it hard to believe that you have now,

0:57:37.840 --> 0:57:39.840
<v Speaker 1>just for the first time ever, slid into a d

0:57:40.160 --> 0:57:42.880
<v Speaker 1>M I've never I mean, I've done like my friends.

0:57:43.080 --> 0:57:47.320
<v Speaker 1>But um so here's a question for you, truthful question

0:57:47.360 --> 0:57:50.000
<v Speaker 1>and for our listeners. For everybody listening. Why is there

0:57:50.040 --> 0:57:52.920
<v Speaker 1>such a stereotype in this stigma behind that it's a

0:57:52.960 --> 0:57:56.880
<v Speaker 1>negative thing to slide into somebody's d M. It's it's

0:57:57.160 --> 0:58:00.360
<v Speaker 1>saying hi and making contact with a stranger. We at

0:58:00.520 --> 0:58:05.280
<v Speaker 1>some point everybody is a stranger, right if you meet

0:58:05.320 --> 0:58:08.919
<v Speaker 1>like you and Rosalind Eric were strangers until you met

0:58:09.000 --> 0:58:11.440
<v Speaker 1>in real life. You met in real life. Tor is

0:58:11.480 --> 0:58:14.960
<v Speaker 1>meeting somebody digitally, Why is that any or perceived to

0:58:15.040 --> 0:58:20.320
<v Speaker 1>be of lesser value or shady or whatever, then meeting

0:58:20.360 --> 0:58:22.520
<v Speaker 1>somebody in real life when you're still both strangers and

0:58:22.560 --> 0:58:25.920
<v Speaker 1>this is just the first contact. I mean, my my

0:58:26.000 --> 0:58:28.120
<v Speaker 1>guess is the reason it gets a bad rap is

0:58:28.160 --> 0:58:30.560
<v Speaker 1>that people typically associated with you slid into a d

0:58:30.680 --> 0:58:33.240
<v Speaker 1>M of somebody who's in a relationship, but you would

0:58:33.280 --> 0:58:36.480
<v Speaker 1>never know really, Like, I've never associated that. That's the

0:58:36.480 --> 0:58:38.240
<v Speaker 1>first time I've heard that. It's the only reason I

0:58:38.280 --> 0:58:41.360
<v Speaker 1>would think that it would be associated with any kind

0:58:41.400 --> 0:58:43.280
<v Speaker 1>of negative thing, because I agree with you, like, but

0:58:43.360 --> 0:58:46.040
<v Speaker 1>it's the difference of reaching out versus saying hi on

0:58:46.080 --> 0:58:48.040
<v Speaker 1>the street and I don't I don't know you, or

0:58:48.040 --> 0:58:49.880
<v Speaker 1>approach and saying hey, I'm so and so i'd like

0:58:50.000 --> 0:58:53.400
<v Speaker 1>to you know chat whatever you're I'm in a relationship.

0:58:53.800 --> 0:58:55.840
<v Speaker 1>But I think people often say, hey, slid into my

0:58:55.920 --> 0:58:58.320
<v Speaker 1>DM and knowing that that person was in a relationship

0:58:58.320 --> 0:59:00.560
<v Speaker 1>and they tried to slide it. I get you, Okay,

0:59:00.600 --> 0:59:02.240
<v Speaker 1>I never thought of it that way, but yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>see what you're saying, Tori. I think it's also most

0:59:04.680 --> 0:59:07.600
<v Speaker 1>of the time guys are like commenting on like the

0:59:07.640 --> 0:59:11.200
<v Speaker 1>bathing suit pick or like girls or like the shirtless guy.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's more like thirst trappy than being like I

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<v Speaker 1>actually want to like pursue a conversation with you. Hold

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<v Speaker 1>on another term that I've never heard, thirst trappy. I've

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<v Speaker 1>never heard that either. First trap, but I added a p,

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<v Speaker 1>so I heard of thirst trap. So any so are

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<v Speaker 1>you saying that like say, say I was post my

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<v Speaker 1>sledgehammer with no shirt and a rugged beard photo. That's

0:59:39.360 --> 0:59:43.200
<v Speaker 1>thirst trappy? Yeah you know that. Um, the guy puts

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<v Speaker 1>his hand behind the head and then like turns his

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<v Speaker 1>torso a little bit in the mirror, and then it's

0:59:48.800 --> 0:59:51.760
<v Speaker 1>like that ab pick in the mirror. Like that's the

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<v Speaker 1>thirst trap. You're not just posting that to be like hey,

0:59:53.920 --> 0:59:56.440
<v Speaker 1>so happy like Mother's like happy Mother's Day. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>He's literally posting a picture so that girls want to

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<v Speaker 1>slide in his DN then he can get his hook up. Eric.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to say thank you so much, dude for

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<v Speaker 1>coming on um one. I want you back. You're welcome

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<v Speaker 1>back any time. Um. We'll give all the other guys

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<v Speaker 1>boots because you were fantastic. I always have to do

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<v Speaker 1>all the talking in the leg work because Gavin's never prepared.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't even give him the show notes. He has

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<v Speaker 1>no concept of what we're doing. So, uh, you're happy

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<v Speaker 1>to take his chair. I'm just kidding, Gap. I love you, buddy,

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<v Speaker 1>and I miss you, and Ryan, and Rick and Dmitri

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<v Speaker 1>to Um, you are awesome Eric for people, UM, you're

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<v Speaker 1>also a podcast host for our listeners. That's why you're

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<v Speaker 1>so for our listeners. Where can people find your podcast?

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<v Speaker 1>Our podcast is also with my Heart Radio and it's

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<v Speaker 1>called he said, ayad ho that's he said. She said

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<v Speaker 1>the Spanish flip uh basically about my with my wife

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<v Speaker 1>Rosalind and I and we tackle everything from our complete

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<v Speaker 1>opposite perspective on life. I mean, we couldn't be more

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<v Speaker 1>polar opposites with everything we often. I mean this sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like a big trute of the horn. But it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>But we people actually say, you guys are like the

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<v Speaker 1>Ricky and Lucy in a way, but like opposite. She's

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<v Speaker 1>the Latin Lucy and I'm more like Ricky in the

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<v Speaker 1>serious sense. And uh, we just talk about life and

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<v Speaker 1>family and work and you know, relevant topics everything through

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<v Speaker 1>our opposite lenses. It's a lot of fun. I appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, um, different points of views are very powerful

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<v Speaker 1>within a relationship. They challenge you and make you grow

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<v Speaker 1>and make you look at things outside of the way

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<v Speaker 1>you see the world. Yeah, but it also it takes

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<v Speaker 1>a strong person to be in that relationship because the

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<v Speaker 1>person you're opposite, your partner, isn't just always agreeing with you. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>that's one of the things. And we find that, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean we disagree on a lot. I mean obviously not everything,

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<v Speaker 1>because we can make it. We make it work. But

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<v Speaker 1>we we have enough in common with our humor and

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<v Speaker 1>laughter about the way we handle everything. Um, that keeps

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<v Speaker 1>it strong, keeps it fun. But when you talk to

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<v Speaker 1>us about it, you know, all these other things and

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<v Speaker 1>being such type a personalities both of us, you really

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<v Speaker 1>see it come out in the podcast the way we

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<v Speaker 1>riff on each other and it's it's just organic. It's

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<v Speaker 1>who we are. So if you went on, yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>must some well work. I mean if you're in a partnership,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously you you work together in life real well, um,

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<v Speaker 1>but also you guys work together in career if you're

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<v Speaker 1>doing this podcast. And also you did a children's book, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you did children We wrote a children's book together called

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<v Speaker 1>Sabella and Atlanta Cha Cha Cha, which was based on

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<v Speaker 1>our daughter. And it was a dance book because there's

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<v Speaker 1>no there aren't kids books out there that aren't just ballet.

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<v Speaker 1>This is about Latin rhythm, so it was incorporating ballroom

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<v Speaker 1>dancing into it. Man, Um, swee did that. We've produced

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<v Speaker 1>movies together and and we actually came on on my

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<v Speaker 1>show recently, The Rookie, and so we've we've partnered up

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<v Speaker 1>a lot recently. It's been life. Yeah, that's gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>that's gonna be a lot of fun to be able

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<v Speaker 1>to do that. Yeah, it's been great. It's been great,

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<v Speaker 1>and I really appreciate you having me on. Man, this

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<v Speaker 1>is a fun podcast. And you guys, you've been you've

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<v Speaker 1>been awesome. This is We'll have you back for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Where can people find you? Where do you hang out

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<v Speaker 1>the most? On social media? Where can people that want

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<v Speaker 1>to get more of your story and also tune into

1:02:58.320 --> 1:03:00.160
<v Speaker 1>what you're working on the series that you're on. Where

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<v Speaker 1>can people find you the most? Um? Instagram at eb Winter,

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<v Speaker 1>Twitter at Eric Winter one, and then of course at

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<v Speaker 1>he said a podcast. Yeah, buddy, okay, my man, thank

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<v Speaker 1>you so much for joining us. Do keep going with

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<v Speaker 1>that beard. I'm here for you if you have any questions, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>keep going with that beard. It looks fantastic, and I

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<v Speaker 1>wish you and your family the best of health and

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<v Speaker 1>best wishes moving forward, and we'll see you back here

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<v Speaker 1>on this show. My man. All right, brother, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>the same. Thank you to our listeners everybody to take

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<v Speaker 1>care out there, be safe until next week. Take care

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<v Speaker 1>of one another, love one another, and we'll see you

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<v Speaker 1>back here next week for another episode of How Men

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<v Speaker 1>Think