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Speaker 1: This is How Men Think? And and I heard radio podcasts.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to another episode of How Men Think. My name

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Speaker 1: is Brooks Like and I'm sad to say, for all

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Speaker 1: our Gavin DeGraf fans, we do not have Gavin DeGraw

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Speaker 1: with us today. We also do not have Rick Ryan

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Speaker 1: or Dmitri and I know all two of Ryan's fans

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Speaker 1: are going to be disappointed that he's not here. But

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Speaker 1: for you guys, for everybody listening at home, we do

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Speaker 1: have a super special guest with us today. I am

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Speaker 1: going to anoint him with co hosting privileges in lieu

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Speaker 1: of absence, and I will dare to say that this

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Speaker 1: man is with no disrespect to any previous guests. This

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Speaker 1: is probably the most handsome man we have ever had

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Speaker 1: on this show. So unfortunately it's a podcast, but we're

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Speaker 1: doing this call by zoom and I want to introduce

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Speaker 1: you guys to Mr Eric Winter. How are you, buddy

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Speaker 1: good Man? Thank you for that intro that was that

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Speaker 1: was pretty spectacular. Yeah, dude, I must know how men think.

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Speaker 1: This is great. Happy to bring some knowledge. That's that's

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Speaker 1: any For any of the females that know you, that

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Speaker 1: know the name Eric Winter, know you as a model,

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Speaker 1: know you as an actor. Um, they know, they're they're

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Speaker 1: probably thinking if this was how women think, they'd be

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Speaker 1: probably saying you are the most handsome man. But I'll

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Speaker 1: just echo that statement and say that you're probably the

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Speaker 1: most handsome man we have ever had on this show. So, um,

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Speaker 1: you started your career. I want to dig into your

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Speaker 1: career a little bit. You started your career as a model. Correct?

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Speaker 1: I did? I did? I was? You know I was.

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Speaker 1: I was, believe it or not. I want to be

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Speaker 1: a doctor. I was a pre med student at U

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Speaker 1: c o A. Uh yeah. I started dating this girl

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Speaker 1: who was working on this TV show Clueless that used

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Speaker 1: to be around not the movie after the movie that

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Speaker 1: was the show, and she was like a recurring on

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Speaker 1: there and she had we met and she said, why

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Speaker 1: don't you modeled, interacting or do anything? And that you know,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm pursuing to be a doctor. So

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Speaker 1: give me some pictures of yourself. I want to submit

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Speaker 1: with some friends of mine and see if they can

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Speaker 1: help you out. I was like, okay, so I'm, you know,

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Speaker 1: and I got lucky enough to get a manager who

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Speaker 1: then got me an agent fairly quickly, and um, it's

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Speaker 1: starting to become a profession. Within like a year, I

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Speaker 1: At that point, I didn't become a doctor. I never

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Speaker 1: became a doctor. And then all of a sudden, you're

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Speaker 1: doing pictures with Britney Spears. Yeah, not a bad dig

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Speaker 1: my man. No man. It evolved from there. Yeah. I

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Speaker 1: went from acting the commercials and then uh, I got

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Speaker 1: like a big acting break doing a soap opera, Days

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Speaker 1: of Our Lives for one contract, which is a few years.

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Speaker 1: And then I've hopped all over you know, film and

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Speaker 1: television and currently doing the show The Rookie on ABC.

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Speaker 1: It's been great right on. And then also in The

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Speaker 1: Good Doctor. So did some of that did you get

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Speaker 1: to fulfill? Like some of you are just missed out

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Speaker 1: on dreams? Bye bye? That like acting in that series,

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Speaker 1: believe it or not, I've played a doctor like five

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Speaker 1: or six, the best fake doctor out there, dude, do

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Speaker 1: do it? Catch me if you can go into some hospital.

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Speaker 1: And I actually don't advise this because you know, out

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Speaker 1: of respect for the medical profession, but like you could

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Speaker 1: I was able to fulfill that aspect of my life,

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Speaker 1: you know, hypothetically. Um, and it's been it's been cool, man,

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Speaker 1: on the beach. Come on us, teachers, just like, only

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Speaker 1: Any profession like I was a professional athlete, professional hockey player,

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Speaker 1: Like we get to do what we love, get to

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Speaker 1: but we have with this producer Tori, and Tori just

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Speaker 1: she's bussing you. You have like a repertoire. It's funny.

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Speaker 1: sure why we're why we're on this car, but just

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Speaker 1: I always find it weird when um, and you probably

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Speaker 1: I can't go through a rescue man thing where you

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Speaker 1: like if you're are on stage, you know, eighty thousand

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Speaker 1: see it, and they'll see you, like visually, they'll see

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00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:16,720
Speaker 1: the person they know and love acting as somebody completely

428
00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:19,840
Speaker 1: different with these different words and different actions that are

429
00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:25,040
Speaker 1: maybe repulsive. And and for us that aren't actors, that's

430
00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:27,960
Speaker 1: sometimes difficult and confusing to see the person that you

431
00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:31,080
Speaker 1: love and the way you know them as somebody else

432
00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:35,520
Speaker 1: on a screen and you're like, oh, like totally yeah.

433
00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:37,680
Speaker 1: It's it's weird being on this side of it too,

434
00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:40,720
Speaker 1: when you know somebody in the business. Yeah, I'm on

435
00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:42,560
Speaker 1: a good doctor. I put a guy that was sexually

436
00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:45,920
Speaker 1: harassing a nurse, you know, and like it was never

437
00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:48,760
Speaker 1: would PV network television, But we didn't get that far

438
00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:52,240
Speaker 1: that bad. But it's still not anything I would practice.

439
00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:54,159
Speaker 1: And again, being a dad and being a you know,

440
00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:58,480
Speaker 1: to a daughter, it's it's it's it's sad to see

441
00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:00,840
Speaker 1: these things that go on out there, but and you

442
00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:03,679
Speaker 1: find a way again to find those increep those challenges

443
00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:06,960
Speaker 1: as an actor within your craft and it's fun to

444
00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:09,560
Speaker 1: push it and no, okay, it's it's telling somebody's story

445
00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:12,120
Speaker 1: and maybe it's bringing awareness for some people to look

446
00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:13,480
Speaker 1: out for something like you don't want to be like

447
00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:16,399
Speaker 1: that guy? Yeah, I get you. Yeah. Um. So the

448
00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:20,720
Speaker 1: fact that your wife, Rosalind Sanchez, who is also an actress,

449
00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:23,119
Speaker 1: is in the industry, does it do you guys have

450
00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:25,679
Speaker 1: these discussions about a role prior to that And is

451
00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:30,040
Speaker 1: it actually easier for you because she'll understand maybe the

452
00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:35,040
Speaker 1: conflictions that you're having or your dilemma heading into a project. Yeah, definitely.

453
00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:37,520
Speaker 1: Like for the Ted Bunny one, we talked at length

454
00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:39,800
Speaker 1: about that because I was having a lot of issues

455
00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:41,479
Speaker 1: internally about if I wanted to go in for this

456
00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:46,040
Speaker 1: or not. So we talked about um and in general,

457
00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:48,879
Speaker 1: we you know, well most things are on the table,

458
00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 1: but we'll talk about things as well, where like, let's

459
00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:53,720
Speaker 1: say she has a role and it involved it involved

460
00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:55,760
Speaker 1: a lot of nudity or something and be like, are

461
00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:57,880
Speaker 1: you sure you want to do that? I mean, I'm

462
00:23:57,880 --> 00:23:59,879
Speaker 1: not crazy about your doing it, but also you have

463
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,480
Speaker 1: kids and your mom now and are you comfortable like

464
00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:04,480
Speaker 1: you said with them seeing this or knowing that that

465
00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:06,600
Speaker 1: footage is going to be out there. Yeah, that's something

466
00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:09,119
Speaker 1: you're okay doing. And I think at a at a

467
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:12,000
Speaker 1: point in her life, she might have been like, no problem,

468
00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:14,359
Speaker 1: and now it gives it a second thought of going, Okay,

469
00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:17,040
Speaker 1: do I need to show so much? I have a voice.

470
00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:19,680
Speaker 1: I don't have to do what I'm not comfortable doing.

471
00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:22,520
Speaker 1: The conversation that can be had, so we we try

472
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:24,600
Speaker 1: and talk to those things out. For sure, that's got

473
00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:28,960
Speaker 1: to be helpful having somebody that understands that side of it, um,

474
00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:32,080
Speaker 1: because those are those are real life decisions. Um. Yeah,

475
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:36,160
Speaker 1: being married doing actress is absolutely crazy because we're we're

476
00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:39,119
Speaker 1: nucky people in that regard. But there is the helpful

477
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:42,160
Speaker 1: side of the person understanding what you do for a living.

478
00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:45,879
Speaker 1: And it's totally different than if I'm just married to

479
00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:47,919
Speaker 1: some I'm just going throw it out there a school

480
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:50,159
Speaker 1: teacher and I'm out shooting and I'm making out with

481
00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:52,040
Speaker 1: all these women on a show, and she has to

482
00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:54,800
Speaker 1: know that I'm doing that and it's just acting. It's

483
00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:58,280
Speaker 1: not anything, nothing's gonna happen. Everything is cool. But because

484
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:00,159
Speaker 1: she can be in that position and she's do we

485
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:03,520
Speaker 1: know things too, there's understanding of like I know exactly

486
00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:06,200
Speaker 1: what's happening on that, I know exactly what it feels like,

487
00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:10,880
Speaker 1: I can relate. It's all good. Yeah, amazing, awesome, dude,

488
00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:13,960
Speaker 1: thanks for that insight. That's um, I'm fascinated by that world.

489
00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:17,720
Speaker 1: Just I admire and respect you guys so much for

490
00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:20,359
Speaker 1: honoring the craft and the the work and the intent

491
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:23,320
Speaker 1: that goes into That's why I wanted to ask these questions,

492
00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:26,359
Speaker 1: because there's so much more that goes into the the

493
00:25:26,520 --> 00:25:29,719
Speaker 1: project than what we just see come across on the screen.

494
00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:34,360
Speaker 1: And actually living into the actor's story behind why they

495
00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:39,760
Speaker 1: wanted to portray this um character is actually really fascinating

496
00:25:39,760 --> 00:25:42,360
Speaker 1: for me, So thank you for sharing some light on that. Um.

497
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:44,480
Speaker 1: We're gonna take a quick break and we're gonna be

498
00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:47,320
Speaker 1: back with more from Mr Eric Winter right after this.

499
00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:58,040
Speaker 1: Back from break. This is how men think. My name

500
00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:00,920
Speaker 1: is Brooks like and we have Mr Eric inter with us,

501
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:06,280
Speaker 1: and during break we discovered our excellent, amazing producer Tory.

502
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 1: I was wondering why Eric's audio was a little muffled.

503
00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:14,280
Speaker 1: I guess it sounded bad the whole time, right, How

504
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 1: wonderful does he sound right now, just say something, brother,

505
00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 1: Let's just give us a how howdy an the first

506
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:20,960
Speaker 1: time on how men think? And I sounded like the

507
00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:24,720
Speaker 1: whole time. At least we corrected it halfway through. But

508
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:30,240
Speaker 1: you guys listening can't see this. But Eric has this gorgeous,

509
00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:34,199
Speaker 1: glorious beard, and he had air pods in and his

510
00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 1: air pods were kind of like scratching into his beard

511
00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:41,200
Speaker 1: a little bit. And because this thing is so glorious,

512
00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 1: it dampens all the sound. Um, there's the problem. I'm

513
00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:47,320
Speaker 1: not I'm not usually a beard guy, especially not this

514
00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:49,119
Speaker 1: thick of a beard guy. This is a this is

515
00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:52,400
Speaker 1: new territory for me, so I'm not figuring it out.

516
00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:55,880
Speaker 1: You should be a beard guy because it looks incredible

517
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:58,640
Speaker 1: on you do it. Thanks, man, I'm trying. I'm trying

518
00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:00,199
Speaker 1: to catch up to your beard. I want to get there.

519
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:02,399
Speaker 1: I got to hear about that story because that's listening

520
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:05,480
Speaker 1: times a length of mine. Let's talk about yours versus.

521
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 1: You're traditionally not a beard guy. You're usually a clean

522
00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:10,520
Speaker 1: shaven guy. I'm always a scruff guy. I don't like

523
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:14,080
Speaker 1: to clean shave. I like to have something some facial hair. Um,

524
00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:16,840
Speaker 1: but usually at this point I've gotten already irritated and

525
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:19,119
Speaker 1: I'm like it's tickling my lip or it's bugging me here,

526
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:21,320
Speaker 1: and I've I've given up and I've shaved it. Or

527
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:25,240
Speaker 1: also with acting, you know, it's it's specific to a

528
00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:28,360
Speaker 1: degree on how I look. So a certain role might

529
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:30,240
Speaker 1: come up and I was like clean, you know whatever,

530
00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:32,159
Speaker 1: certain lawyer, and I might think, Okay, I got a

531
00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:35,439
Speaker 1: shave for this this audition or this role. Yeah, like

532
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:39,400
Speaker 1: on my current show, Um, I should be completely clean

533
00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:42,160
Speaker 1: shaving because I'm a cop. Uh. We cheated a little

534
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:44,120
Speaker 1: bit because it's TV cops, so I had a little

535
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:46,440
Speaker 1: bit of stubble. But I could never rock a beard

536
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:48,200
Speaker 1: like this because as an l APD officer, you can't

537
00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:51,679
Speaker 1: have a beard. Yeah. Ah man, I played for a

538
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:54,080
Speaker 1: team one time my first twelve years in the NHL.

539
00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:56,160
Speaker 1: We could do whatever we want with our facial hair

540
00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:58,960
Speaker 1: did not matter. So that's one thing I loved about

541
00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 1: hockey is I never had to shave. My dad ship

542
00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 1: He was a principle. He shaved every single day of

543
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 1: his life, and I was just like, I just don't

544
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 1: think I can ever shave every day in my life.

545
00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 1: I prefer not to shave. So I played twelve years

546
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:12,680
Speaker 1: one way, could do whatever I wanted with my facial hair.

547
00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:15,880
Speaker 1: All of a sudden got traded and the very next

548
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 1: day I had to cut my hair because we weren't

549
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:22,160
Speaker 1: allowed any hair showing outside of our hockey helmet, and

550
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:24,920
Speaker 1: I had to shave. Their like clean shaven, and the

551
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 1: New York Yankees are like this, or they at least

552
00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:28,640
Speaker 1: they used to be. I don't know if they still are.

553
00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:31,919
Speaker 1: You had to be clean shaven, So I hated it.

554
00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 1: When I played in Toronto, I hated the fact that

555
00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:38,120
Speaker 1: our management made us cut our hair a certain way

556
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:41,280
Speaker 1: and be clean shaven every single day, and not an

557
00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:44,720
Speaker 1: NHL thing strictly management that was strictly that organization saying

558
00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 1: you had to do that directly and only that organization.

559
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:50,320
Speaker 1: It was the only one in the NHL that governed

560
00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:54,000
Speaker 1: what players can do with their hair and face, and

561
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:58,680
Speaker 1: it piste me off. I hated it. Yeah, especially when

562
00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:00,720
Speaker 1: it's get your expression and what you're doing and how

563
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:03,280
Speaker 1: you feel, and you know, even sometimes it might make

564
00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:05,160
Speaker 1: you feel just different as a player when you go

565
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 1: out there, mentality, whatever, you know, big time, dude, if

566
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 1: you see me like if if you see me now

567
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:16,560
Speaker 1: with this four months patch of of Idaho brush on

568
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 1: my face. Um, if I'm lining up to you, lining

569
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 1: up next to you on the ice, maybe you're a

570
00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:24,240
Speaker 1: newer guy in the league or something, and I'm looking

571
00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:26,040
Speaker 1: at you like this, and I got stern eyes and

572
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 1: I'm leaning into you, breathing on you, talking in your ear,

573
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:31,360
Speaker 1: trying to like tell you I'm gonna rip your head

574
00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:35,320
Speaker 1: off or something. It's different when you facial hair on.

575
00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:40,600
Speaker 1: I just have this beautifully shaved face. Like, Yeah, you

576
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 1: can't convey the same message. You can try. But when

577
00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 1: a guy lines up and he's got a badass beard,

578
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:49,440
Speaker 1: you just immediately think this guy is tougher. You just

579
00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:54,480
Speaker 1: makes perfect sense. Wow. I never thought about that though. Yeah,

580
00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:59,200
Speaker 1: I so right now is the longest in my life

581
00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:01,440
Speaker 1: that I've ever had beard. My beard is probably if

582
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 1: I would pull a hair out, it's probably like two

583
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:09,400
Speaker 1: to three inches. Um. Probably, what's your goal. You're gonna

584
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:11,840
Speaker 1: go through full quarantine until you shave or what? What's

585
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:14,160
Speaker 1: your what's your plan? I have no idea, to be honest.

586
00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:16,800
Speaker 1: I just like two months ago I kind of got

587
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:19,120
Speaker 1: lazy and just didn't shave it. And then I'm like, well,

588
00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:21,360
Speaker 1: it's actually pretty long. I wonder, like, just let it

589
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:22,760
Speaker 1: go and see how long it gets. And then we

590
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:25,320
Speaker 1: got into quarantine and now I'm like, it really doesn't

591
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:27,600
Speaker 1: matter now, and so then it hit a point where

592
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:29,520
Speaker 1: it was the longest I've ever had it in my life,

593
00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:32,440
Speaker 1: so I just kind of let it go. Um And

594
00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:34,560
Speaker 1: last week we did a poll on our how men

595
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 1: think Instagram, and of our listeners voted that I should

596
00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:43,160
Speaker 1: shave it. So apparently it's not that visually appealing. But

597
00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:46,520
Speaker 1: producer Tory and producer Danielle are on my side. They say,

598
00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:50,560
Speaker 1: don't shave it, go for it, go for it. Yeah,

599
00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:53,080
Speaker 1: Big fan Tour. Do you like facial hair on a man?

600
00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:56,760
Speaker 1: I do. I will say I think I prefer Eric's

601
00:30:56,840 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 1: length right now, then maybe Brooks, But that doesn't mean

602
00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:03,600
Speaker 1: I'm against all facial hair. I just think that if

603
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:05,400
Speaker 1: I'm looking at you too, I think the length of

604
00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:08,120
Speaker 1: Eric's is good. But I think it just shows like

605
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:11,480
Speaker 1: manliness on both ends, so I like it. I'm like,

606
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:14,640
Speaker 1: that's a strong man right there. I have no chance

607
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:18,960
Speaker 1: in this isn't he's a model. You're comparing me against

608
00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 1: a professional model, an actor, or I have no chance

609
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:24,840
Speaker 1: in this fight. Hey, you guys are both equally good

610
00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 1: looking biased opinion, and I genuinely do think your your

611
00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:32,360
Speaker 1: beards look great. I will say this, so Eric, yours

612
00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:34,040
Speaker 1: is how long? Would you say? Yours is like? Maybe

613
00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:37,240
Speaker 1: I stop? I stopped shaving when we've wrapp how long

614
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:42,680
Speaker 1: is it? Yeah? Inch? Maybe quarters of an inch? And

615
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:45,760
Speaker 1: tak you need to grow it. I'm a slow grower

616
00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:49,080
Speaker 1: when it comes to facial hair. This is like, uh,

617
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:54,400
Speaker 1: I wrapped March six, So since March six? Okay, so

618
00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:57,840
Speaker 1: now so a few months? Yeah? Um, does your wife

619
00:31:57,840 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 1: like it? She loves it, She likes a lot. It's

620
00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:04,240
Speaker 1: actually been shockingly pretty well received. I've had, you know,

621
00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 1: as I post things on social media for whatever, people

622
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:08,040
Speaker 1: are like the beard, the beard. I love the beard,

623
00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:10,720
Speaker 1: and my agents are actually like, you gotta keep the beard.

624
00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 1: You gotta keep the beard. I was like, I don't

625
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:15,600
Speaker 1: know how long, but for a little while, I think

626
00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:18,880
Speaker 1: it looks outstanding, dude, and you you Because there's some

627
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:22,440
Speaker 1: guys who grow beards. There's an art to like manicuring beards.

628
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:24,480
Speaker 1: I should do like a YouTube video on this too,

629
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 1: because there's guys that just grow it. And they let

630
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:29,480
Speaker 1: everything go um and then it just kind of looks

631
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 1: scraggly and it doesn't. And I'm getting to that point,

632
00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:33,240
Speaker 1: so I want to hear your art because I don't

633
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:36,600
Speaker 1: well like cleaning up the cheeks a little bit like so,

634
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 1: because you'll get scraggly hairs up up higher on the cheeks,

635
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:42,680
Speaker 1: but cleaning up a nice line of the cheeks underneath

636
00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:45,440
Speaker 1: the neck, so it's not just growth everywhere under the neck.

637
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 1: There's certain areas there's a line that you clean up

638
00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:50,040
Speaker 1: under the neck. And then also what I do with

639
00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 1: mine is on the sides of the mustache to to

640
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:56,200
Speaker 1: so that the mustache doesn't just blend right into the

641
00:32:57,200 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 1: cheap beard side. I shave a little bit just on

642
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:02,600
Speaker 1: the side of the mustache just to like give a

643
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:04,720
Speaker 1: little shape so it comes down on the cheek line.

644
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 1: Shave in here a little bit. And then the key

645
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:10,480
Speaker 1: one is under the lip, under your bottom lip, on

646
00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:15,320
Speaker 1: the sides, shaving a little patch on both sides just

647
00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:18,360
Speaker 1: to give some space and a little more definition. And

648
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:21,640
Speaker 1: I learned that one when I got a shave in Paris.

649
00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 1: I was at this awesome hotel, Hotel Creon in Paris

650
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:28,640
Speaker 1: um and I forgot. I went to Europe for like

651
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 1: a couple of weeks and I forgot my buzzer. Am

652
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 1: I like my hair, my face? I'm like, how did

653
00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:36,280
Speaker 1: I forget that? Anyway, So I went down to the

654
00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 1: lobby and I got this lady in this lobby, this

655
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:43,920
Speaker 1: beautiful hotel. It's a Rosewood hotel, really amazing hotel. And

656
00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 1: she gave me the best shave of my life. And

657
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 1: she taught me so much about this about shaping and

658
00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 1: grooming a man's beard, so that there's a you convey

659
00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:59,840
Speaker 1: this like this maturity and this poise and this strength

660
00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:02,720
Speaker 1: through the beard. And so I can't I can't remember

661
00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:04,760
Speaker 1: what her name was, but I thank her for so

662
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:07,080
Speaker 1: much of that knowledge. Do you use like the oils

663
00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:09,440
Speaker 1: and all that kind of stuff? I did. I I

664
00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:10,960
Speaker 1: didn't bring it with me to my lake house, but

665
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:13,319
Speaker 1: I used to. Yeah, because I get really scraggly and

666
00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:15,839
Speaker 1: really and then it looks bad and that also feels bad.

667
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:19,680
Speaker 1: So I do use a beard oil. Um, it softens

668
00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 1: it and makes it feel better. And then also your

669
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:24,120
Speaker 1: beard just doesn't go out to the side. Yeah, so

670
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:26,560
Speaker 1: that's what happens, Like you get these scragglers that grow out.

671
00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:28,800
Speaker 1: Do you clip those? Are you supposed to keep brushing

672
00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 1: those down? Now? So I brush them down. And then

673
00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:33,279
Speaker 1: also on the sides, so when your beard starts to

674
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:36,560
Speaker 1: grow out horizontally, I'll take a buzzer and I'll trim

675
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:39,000
Speaker 1: the side down, especially up by the job bone, like

676
00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:42,600
Speaker 1: the cheekbone, um, close by the ears. I'll trim that down,

677
00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:44,520
Speaker 1: and I'll trim it and guide it so that it

678
00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 1: becomes longer down at the chin, so under the chin,

679
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 1: I'm not trimming, but on the sides of the face

680
00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:53,560
Speaker 1: so it doesn't just sprout out. Trim nose down and

681
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:55,879
Speaker 1: keep those kind of tighter so it makes your face

682
00:34:55,960 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 1: kind of longer, and and points the beard downward versus

683
00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:03,520
Speaker 1: pointing the beard straight out to the side straight out.

684
00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 1: Screams like Lumberjack. To me, I feel like we're going

685
00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:10,800
Speaker 1: in a different directions, like the whole rounded you know, dude.

686
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:13,920
Speaker 1: Two days ago, this is true story. Two days ago,

687
00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:16,080
Speaker 1: my uncle was out here helping me do some yardwork

688
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:18,480
Speaker 1: out of my lag house and it was hot as hell.

689
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 1: I had my shirt off, just pants on, boots on,

690
00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:23,040
Speaker 1: I had my shirt off, I had work gloves on,

691
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:26,239
Speaker 1: and I um face was just messed up. We were moving.

692
00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 1: We probably moved like ten fifteen thousand pounds of rock,

693
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 1: just just a mess. And um face was muddy and dirty, sweaty,

694
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:36,440
Speaker 1: and I had to grab a sledgehammer to break up

695
00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:39,879
Speaker 1: some rock. And he goes, wait, this is too this

696
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:44,320
Speaker 1: is too good because shirtless dude, sweaty, muddy face, big beard,

697
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:47,920
Speaker 1: just a mass, gloves on, sledge hammer over the shoulder.

698
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:52,480
Speaker 1: He's just just taking these pictures. He's like, I'm holding

699
00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:56,680
Speaker 1: these is like ransom against you. Like, dude, that is

700
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:59,680
Speaker 1: so freaquent, stereotypical. Don't ever let that see the light

701
00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:02,239
Speaker 1: of day. Um. But he goes, he goes, at least

702
00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:04,560
Speaker 1: you didn't pose this shot, brother, And I was like,

703
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:09,080
Speaker 1: this is real truth. That is funny. Yeah, but I

704
00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:11,800
Speaker 1: like having a beard, man, I think you should keep yours.

705
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:14,120
Speaker 1: I'm enjoying it. I'm gonna try some of these tips,

706
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:17,920
Speaker 1: probably uh this weekend and try and shape up the sides.

707
00:36:18,480 --> 00:36:20,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna see what I can get into without screwing

708
00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:22,840
Speaker 1: it up. I know something that did start trying to

709
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:24,279
Speaker 1: do that and they screwed it up. It took off

710
00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:27,920
Speaker 1: like half the beard. Then you're done, buddy, I've done that.

711
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:31,040
Speaker 1: I have done that before. So I don't like how

712
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:33,880
Speaker 1: I look when I don't have a beard, like clean shaven.

713
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 1: I really don't like that look. I'll be like you like,

714
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 1: I'll shave down to like just a light scruff, which

715
00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 1: Tori you said you like. Um. But one time I

716
00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:44,239
Speaker 1: think I was like, I think I had a date

717
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:45,919
Speaker 1: or something and I was like, oh, I'm gonna clean

718
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:47,760
Speaker 1: this up. I'm gonna clean up, make a nice little

719
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:50,880
Speaker 1: shape here, and I just actually went and I'm like,

720
00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:53,959
Speaker 1: oh God, no, oh dear, i gotta shave my face

721
00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:58,799
Speaker 1: because I can't go like this. It's over confidence. Out

722
00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:02,800
Speaker 1: the windows of work. Put in just gone the side

723
00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:07,400
Speaker 1: of the hand. Yeah, I have a question, Um, boys,

724
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:09,879
Speaker 1: this is going to get maybe a little personal, But

725
00:37:10,840 --> 00:37:17,480
Speaker 1: how do you feel when a female has more, um like,

726
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:24,120
Speaker 1: unshaved parts versus being more natural? Do you if you

727
00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:29,479
Speaker 1: get what I'm saying, if you girls more natural down there,

728
00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:33,160
Speaker 1: let's say, like hairy legs or like kind of just

729
00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:37,399
Speaker 1: like goes more natural. I mean, let's specifically like down there,

730
00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:39,080
Speaker 1: if a lady doesn't really trim it up, how do

731
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 1: you feel or do you I also hear opposite where

732
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:44,239
Speaker 1: guys don't like it when a girl is completely clean

733
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:46,000
Speaker 1: down there, because I feel like it's kind of like

734
00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:51,879
Speaker 1: she's too young, feeling almost. But what's the feedback on that? Free?

735
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:55,359
Speaker 1: What an interesting question you want to answer for I'm

736
00:37:55,440 --> 00:38:00,160
Speaker 1: letting you go with that, bro. Look, I am all

737
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:06,040
Speaker 1: for good uh grooming down below. I think it's better

738
00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:09,120
Speaker 1: for the overall experience. I think it's better all overall visually.

739
00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:14,200
Speaker 1: I think groom it up look clean. Um, I don't.

740
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:16,960
Speaker 1: I'm not saying it has to be squeaky clean, like nothing,

741
00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:21,719
Speaker 1: nice little landing strip. It's great. Um, But I think

742
00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:25,800
Speaker 1: you go. I think letting ship get all crazy and

743
00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:29,239
Speaker 1: wild free it is not. It's too much. So I

744
00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:31,920
Speaker 1: just echo all of what he said there. And it

745
00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 1: also shouldn't be growing down to the thighs from there.

746
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:38,160
Speaker 1: And you know, it shouldn't be brave, not today's age.

747
00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:42,040
Speaker 1: Um Um, I A are it will say, Also, though

748
00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:45,640
Speaker 1: I'm I'm totally up for freedom of expression. I was

749
00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:47,759
Speaker 1: in a yoga class the other day and not the

750
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:50,040
Speaker 1: other day. I've been in Idaho for six weeks or something,

751
00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:51,680
Speaker 1: but I was in a yoga class a couple of

752
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:54,840
Speaker 1: months ago, and this lady in there had hairy armpits

753
00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:57,200
Speaker 1: and what And I'm just like, I didn't, I did

754
00:38:57,239 --> 00:39:00,920
Speaker 1: not care. It's I hadn't seen. I think that was

755
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:03,880
Speaker 1: the first time that I've really fully seen that in public.

756
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:06,040
Speaker 1: You see it in like photos or something on the internet,

757
00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:08,279
Speaker 1: but I think that was the first time i'd really

758
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:10,920
Speaker 1: been She was like five feet away from me. Um.

759
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:15,240
Speaker 1: And so I am fully on board with freedom expression.

760
00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:17,400
Speaker 1: It's her body. She can do whatever she wants, and

761
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:19,480
Speaker 1: it makes no difference to me. But it was just

762
00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:21,839
Speaker 1: the first time that I had kind of seen that well.

763
00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:24,520
Speaker 1: And I would agree with you on that front as well.

764
00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:27,759
Speaker 1: I think people should feel feel as comfortable as they

765
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:29,160
Speaker 1: want to feel and look how they want to look.

766
00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:31,160
Speaker 1: It just wouldn't be my cup of tea. If if

767
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:33,719
Speaker 1: I'm like, we're playing deal Breaker and some girl came

768
00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:35,759
Speaker 1: up and she's like she's smoking hot, but she's just

769
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:39,800
Speaker 1: got like armp and hair blasting out, I'm out. I

770
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:41,960
Speaker 1: don't think I can get into it. Yeah, I really

771
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:45,920
Speaker 1: don't think I could. We we had this saying in hockey, um,

772
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:50,040
Speaker 1: look good, feel good, play good, and so I would

773
00:39:50,080 --> 00:39:52,319
Speaker 1: play much better if she had no hair in her

774
00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:57,600
Speaker 1: Armits tory what about what about you for a man, Like, okay,

775
00:39:57,600 --> 00:39:59,719
Speaker 1: facial hair, so you like kind of some facial hair

776
00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:04,200
Speaker 1: and and like semi groomed facial hair, but like, what

777
00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:06,440
Speaker 1: about the rest of a man's body, like a hairy

778
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:11,279
Speaker 1: back or hairy arms or hairy leg like or or

779
00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:13,960
Speaker 1: not grooming his parts? What about not grooming his parts

780
00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:16,600
Speaker 1: a little bit? I do like some semi kept up

781
00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 1: groom parts. I don't I don't need it like kind

782
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:20,360
Speaker 1: of you guys said squeaky clean, but I do like

783
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:24,000
Speaker 1: it to feel like I'm not getting into the weeds

784
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:27,439
Speaker 1: of things when I'm down there. Um. But I will

785
00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:32,960
Speaker 1: say I would prefer a hairy man versus the awkward

786
00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:35,439
Speaker 1: shaved man. And I don't mean when it's like clean,

787
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:37,080
Speaker 1: but when you start feeling a little bit of the

788
00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:40,640
Speaker 1: bristles come back or the awkward grow out period, I

789
00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:44,719
Speaker 1: would rather you just be natural than have that awkward

790
00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:47,680
Speaker 1: stubble where you're like, I can start testing You're like,

791
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:49,720
Speaker 1: why do I feel like these are my shaved legs

792
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:51,439
Speaker 1: that I haven't shaved in like a couple of days.

793
00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:56,680
Speaker 1: Like I don't like that. Um. Question for both of you,

794
00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:59,839
Speaker 1: do you think personal grooming has kind of gone out

795
00:40:59,880 --> 00:41:10,560
Speaker 1: the window during this quarantine time, but when there is

796
00:41:10,800 --> 00:41:15,520
Speaker 1: no one I have to hold me accountable. So uh yeah,

797
00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:16,879
Speaker 1: I think that'd be a big part of it, right

798
00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:19,640
Speaker 1: Like I I think it's gone out a little bit,

799
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:23,480
Speaker 1: but then yeah, I've still got to maintain enough in

800
00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:26,640
Speaker 1: my household. Yeah, I mean, you're with your quarantine with

801
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:29,600
Speaker 1: your wife and kid. I get it. But I think

802
00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:32,799
Speaker 1: in general, um, a lot of people have kind of

803
00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:35,879
Speaker 1: like some people some people have talked to, have really

804
00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:38,879
Speaker 1: liked this phase where they can try. Like you said, Eric,

805
00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:42,359
Speaker 1: you can try also just because your career not not

806
00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:46,400
Speaker 1: acting right now affords you the opportunity to try growing

807
00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:49,239
Speaker 1: a beard where maybe for professional reasons you couldn't. So

808
00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:51,759
Speaker 1: a lot of people right now are experimenting with different things.

809
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:54,719
Speaker 1: People are dyeing the hair different color, um, trying all

810
00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:58,920
Speaker 1: these different things that maybe they couldn't before, which I like. Um.

811
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:00,840
Speaker 1: The one thing that I hate about right now about

812
00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:03,640
Speaker 1: having not had a haircut in two months, one my

813
00:42:03,680 --> 00:42:07,440
Speaker 1: hair looks awful, but to my eyebrows are so freaking

814
00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:12,480
Speaker 1: My eyebrows go grow so fast. And Jill Buck is

815
00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:15,040
Speaker 1: my hairstylist in l A. Jill, I miss you. So

816
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 1: much because Jill always trims up my eyebrows and it's

817
00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:21,759
Speaker 1: like even I'm like, I can't even see right now. No,

818
00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:23,920
Speaker 1: I'm going to get some some scissors out and like

819
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:27,160
Speaker 1: cut my eyebrows because they just go so so freaking

820
00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:28,799
Speaker 1: I am with you on the haircut part too. I

821
00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:32,200
Speaker 1: miss not getting the haircut regularly because that's I like

822
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 1: having tight sides and being cleaned up and I oh,

823
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:38,280
Speaker 1: my hair is so thick that it just becomes mine too,

824
00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 1: And there's for me, dude, there is something so therapeutic

825
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 1: about getting a haircut. It's like my favorite thirty minutes

826
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:50,279
Speaker 1: of the month. Yeah, like when Jill cuts my hair,

827
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 1: I'm just like, I'm just like, it's the most relaxing,

828
00:42:53,719 --> 00:42:57,960
Speaker 1: therapeutic thirty minutes. I absolutely love it. I understand like

829
00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:02,360
Speaker 1: why why women go to the hair salon thousand times.

830
00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:06,000
Speaker 1: This is actually a great transition because Amy, Danielle Um

831
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:09,440
Speaker 1: and I all wrote up questions to ask you guys,

832
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:11,759
Speaker 1: and so one of them was the least favorite thing

833
00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:17,560
Speaker 1: about this whole self quarantine thing happening um, which I'm

834
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:20,960
Speaker 1: just gonna label that as your guys lack of hair cuts.

835
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:23,480
Speaker 1: And then we're gonna go. What's your favorite part of

836
00:43:23,600 --> 00:43:26,840
Speaker 1: actually being stuck at home? These are rapid fire to

837
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 1: keep responses quick because we've got a few more to

838
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:32,960
Speaker 1: get through. Go ahead, Eric, favorite favorite part about being

839
00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:35,879
Speaker 1: home has probably been just the down I mean, the

840
00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:38,480
Speaker 1: family time, the down down family time, just hanging out

841
00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:41,880
Speaker 1: and everybody being the other. Mine. That's awesome, dude, I

842
00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 1: love it. Um. I love that you have a wife

843
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:46,600
Speaker 1: and a boy and a girl. I think that's just so.

844
00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:48,360
Speaker 1: I'm not a father, but I can't wait to be

845
00:43:48,400 --> 00:43:51,360
Speaker 1: there one day. So UM, I think it's just so cool.

846
00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:54,440
Speaker 1: That's got to be just so much fun. Um. Mine

847
00:43:54,760 --> 00:43:58,680
Speaker 1: is uh spending time outside like I've been outside just

848
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:00,720
Speaker 1: pouring the tory. We've talked abou this on the podcast.

849
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:03,239
Speaker 1: I'm up at lake house, um, and I've just been

850
00:44:03,239 --> 00:44:07,440
Speaker 1: pouring love, literally pouring love into my property and shaping

851
00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:12,120
Speaker 1: it and sculpting it. Um for generations, for to host family,

852
00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:15,640
Speaker 1: to host family and friends and people out here at

853
00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:17,880
Speaker 1: this magical spot that means so much to me. I

854
00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:20,040
Speaker 1: want to be able to share that and have them

855
00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:23,279
Speaker 1: feel an emotion of love and beauty and nature when

856
00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:30,040
Speaker 1: they come to the lake House. That's awesome. Fifteen years

857
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:32,680
Speaker 1: together from two different countries and very different points of

858
00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:38,919
Speaker 1: view about well pretty much everything to bringing you, he said.

859
00:44:39,800 --> 00:44:42,560
Speaker 1: We talked about so many things, and yeah, most of

860
00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:45,279
Speaker 1: the time we don't agree, but hey, we make it work.

861
00:44:45,560 --> 00:44:47,400
Speaker 1: Join us and be a part of this crazy and

862
00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:54,560
Speaker 1: beautiful adventure called listen to, he said, adio on iHeart radio, app,

863
00:44:54,600 --> 00:45:08,240
Speaker 1: Apple podcast or wherever you get your podcast ros best

864
00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:12,000
Speaker 1: pickup line a girl I can say to a guy?

865
00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:16,000
Speaker 1: Oh wow, Eric, you get more of those than I

866
00:45:16,040 --> 00:45:22,560
Speaker 1: do on the spot. You know, here's one that I

867
00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:25,960
Speaker 1: always loved. Um. I don't know if it's a girl

868
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:27,920
Speaker 1: can say to a guy, but it was. It was

869
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 1: a pickup line that at least at least made me laugh. Um,

870
00:45:32,080 --> 00:45:37,960
Speaker 1: can I at least get a wrong number? It's just

871
00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:39,640
Speaker 1: like kind of like, hey, can I at least get

872
00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:44,880
Speaker 1: a wrong number? It just kind of breaks they that's good. Oh,

873
00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:50,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna struggle with this and I don't know, uh best,

874
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:54,239
Speaker 1: I mean, just in general, Uh, I don't have a

875
00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:56,479
Speaker 1: funny one. I would just say. I've had girls saying

876
00:45:56,480 --> 00:45:58,239
Speaker 1: hey can I can I buy you a drink? And

877
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:00,319
Speaker 1: I think, to me, that always feels like wow, that's so.

878
00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:03,440
Speaker 1: I'm almost taking it back and shocked at first, Like

879
00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 1: you want to buy me a drink? Yeah, hell yeah,

880
00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:06,960
Speaker 1: I'll hang out with you and have a drink and

881
00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:10,479
Speaker 1: it just we start chat. I see that. Um there's

882
00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:15,919
Speaker 1: another good one. Um. I've never seen a I've never

883
00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 1: had it happen to me, but I've seen guys do it. Um.

884
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:23,200
Speaker 1: So like say Eric and I are at a bar together, Tori, Um,

885
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:27,960
Speaker 1: say I would walk over to you and I'd be like, hi, Um,

886
00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:30,799
Speaker 1: my name is Brooks, and do you see my friend

887
00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:33,600
Speaker 1: over there, the guy with ruggedly handsome guy over there

888
00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:36,840
Speaker 1: with the beard there, blue shirt. Well, he wants to

889
00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:43,040
Speaker 1: know if you think I'm attractive. That's great, So it

890
00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:44,879
Speaker 1: kind of it's kind of just a little spin on

891
00:46:44,920 --> 00:46:47,800
Speaker 1: what they think because usually probably girls, somebody will approach

892
00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:49,880
Speaker 1: a girl and have them try and set them up

893
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:51,520
Speaker 1: with or have the guy try and set them up

894
00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:53,600
Speaker 1: with a friend. But I like, I like to flip

895
00:46:53,600 --> 00:46:55,480
Speaker 1: on the wing man, have to wring men at the

896
00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:58,480
Speaker 1: distance and do your own. That's great. Let's spin it

897
00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:01,080
Speaker 1: a little bit also and ask for the girls out

898
00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:06,080
Speaker 1: there who are on Instagram more so than not ready

899
00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:09,760
Speaker 1: to slide into a man's d MS. What's the way

900
00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:18,960
Speaker 1: to not to stand out but not be overly aggressive? Um? Wow,

901
00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:22,520
Speaker 1: So here's one. Here's one that that I kind of

902
00:47:22,560 --> 00:47:26,520
Speaker 1: that that's like, I don't know if I'm misinterpreting it,

903
00:47:27,120 --> 00:47:30,680
Speaker 1: but let me just say it. Um, sometimes I'll get

904
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:34,080
Speaker 1: this because I read all my d m s because

905
00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:36,319
Speaker 1: I try and respond to as many people and help

906
00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:38,839
Speaker 1: people in as many ways as possible. Um, a lot

907
00:47:38,840 --> 00:47:41,200
Speaker 1: of people reach out with health or fitness questions or

908
00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:43,880
Speaker 1: just anything like that. I try and help my community

909
00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:46,200
Speaker 1: and as much as I possibly can. So I read

910
00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:49,160
Speaker 1: through all of that stuff. Um, and that's what that's

911
00:47:49,239 --> 00:47:51,800
Speaker 1: honestly the intent behind it. But sometimes you get stuff

912
00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:53,799
Speaker 1: like that. And one that I seem to get that's

913
00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:55,960
Speaker 1: a sly I actually kind of have respect for. It.

914
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:59,400
Speaker 1: Is like I love your pop, I have a lab

915
00:47:59,440 --> 00:48:01,439
Speaker 1: two or what every would love to have a play date?

916
00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:04,719
Speaker 1: You know, it's good, a relatable topic, something to bring

917
00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:07,360
Speaker 1: it in. Yeah, they're kind of just like linking the

918
00:48:07,440 --> 00:48:10,640
Speaker 1: dogs together but saying it's a play date for the dogs,

919
00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:12,719
Speaker 1: but is it a play date for us? Kind of thing,

920
00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:17,439
Speaker 1: And I'm like, well, you know, I'm married. Um yeah,

921
00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:20,400
Speaker 1: but so that's maybe just me misinterpreting it as a

922
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:23,160
Speaker 1: come on. Maybe they are just like, hey, you have

923
00:48:23,200 --> 00:48:26,640
Speaker 1: an awesome dog. I want my dog to meet your dog. Um,

924
00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 1: maybe that's it, but I don't know, that's a that's

925
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:32,400
Speaker 1: a subtle, sly way that maybe I'm just like interpreting

926
00:48:32,440 --> 00:48:37,480
Speaker 1: that way for my own vanity. You're getting what a no.

927
00:48:37,680 --> 00:48:39,920
Speaker 1: I I actually would would agree with that. I like

928
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:42,640
Speaker 1: the straight up just someone being honest and trying to

929
00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:45,359
Speaker 1: relate to a you know, an interest that you both

930
00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:47,920
Speaker 1: may share. But then right after definitely sent a hot

931
00:48:47,920 --> 00:48:52,719
Speaker 1: picture out so we can get a good look this, Tori,

932
00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:55,000
Speaker 1: I all send one back if if, if we're into

933
00:48:55,000 --> 00:48:58,600
Speaker 1: each other one Tori. I have no idea how this

934
00:48:58,680 --> 00:49:01,360
Speaker 1: is the least subtle way, but I have no idea

935
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:04,799
Speaker 1: why this happens. Like I don't know, I don't want

936
00:49:04,800 --> 00:49:06,879
Speaker 1: to say a lot, but this happens. You just get

937
00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:11,560
Speaker 1: a message that just says hi daddy, and it's got

938
00:49:11,640 --> 00:49:14,520
Speaker 1: like the tongue or something, and you're like, what the hell?

939
00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:20,160
Speaker 1: What like no delete? It's not a question. I can't

940
00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:22,640
Speaker 1: I can't serve your mission in some way. I don't

941
00:49:22,640 --> 00:49:27,839
Speaker 1: know what you're doing here, but delete guys secretly kind

942
00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:32,560
Speaker 1: of like to be called daddy. Oh no, I have

943
00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:35,319
Speaker 1: a buddy. I have a buddy that loves it, like

944
00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 1: really just loves it. He just loves it. He just

945
00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:43,319
Speaker 1: everything like that he loves but um no, not it's

946
00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:46,160
Speaker 1: not my thing. And then did daddy talk either? All right?

947
00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:49,280
Speaker 1: Next question? Hold on, Tory, Can I ask you a question?

948
00:49:50,120 --> 00:49:54,400
Speaker 1: How how would you subtly, but with like a hint

949
00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:58,880
Speaker 1: of intent, slide into a man's MS. So I slid

950
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:04,400
Speaker 1: into someone's dams for the first time ever, let's hear it.

951
00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:07,600
Speaker 1: Can you tell the whole story? I don't even know

952
00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:11,040
Speaker 1: how I stumbled upon his uh instead, but he plays

953
00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:14,200
Speaker 1: football and I'm Christian and so he and he's like

954
00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:16,640
Speaker 1: very open about his faith, and so I just said, hey,

955
00:50:16,760 --> 00:50:19,080
Speaker 1: like super cool, like this photo, like would love to

956
00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:22,320
Speaker 1: hear like your testimony because my dad found his relationship

957
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:24,040
Speaker 1: with the Lord in the NFL, Like, would love to

958
00:50:24,040 --> 00:50:27,080
Speaker 1: hear how that happened to you. I never heard back.

959
00:50:27,160 --> 00:50:29,480
Speaker 1: He hasn't seen it. But I also like, but I

960
00:50:29,520 --> 00:50:31,400
Speaker 1: don't know how to slide into dns. I've never done it.

961
00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:33,880
Speaker 1: I'm like, do I send it if he hasn't seen it?

962
00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:36,240
Speaker 1: But isn't that the hard thing when on Instagram because

963
00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:39,839
Speaker 1: you could follow someone, if they don't follow you, then

964
00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:42,560
Speaker 1: your d M goes to like a separate box. So

965
00:50:42,640 --> 00:50:46,719
Speaker 1: unless they regularly checked that other box, you don't know

966
00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:49,839
Speaker 1: what's being written ever, right, So if you do, if

967
00:50:49,880 --> 00:50:52,600
Speaker 1: you read all yours brook, you actually go and you

968
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:55,080
Speaker 1: put it into like general or primary like you shifted

969
00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:57,319
Speaker 1: over right, you accepted, but you go into that other

970
00:50:57,360 --> 00:50:59,800
Speaker 1: one and then from there I'll put into primary or general.

971
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:03,960
Speaker 1: You accept it and then then allow the dialogue. That's

972
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:09,839
Speaker 1: the thing. Should I follow him? Yeah, it won't. He won't.

973
00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:11,960
Speaker 1: You'll still be in that other box though, unless he

974
00:51:11,960 --> 00:51:14,480
Speaker 1: follows you, then it will automatically move you into primary,

975
00:51:15,160 --> 00:51:18,320
Speaker 1: So you should follow him. Mean, Primary is just the

976
00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:20,160
Speaker 1: epitome of my dating life, Like that should just be

977
00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:27,719
Speaker 1: my life title, like stuck in primary General? Okay. The

978
00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:32,680
Speaker 1: last person you have texted, um, where's my phone? I

979
00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:34,560
Speaker 1: don't even know where my phone is. Last person I

980
00:51:34,600 --> 00:51:41,080
Speaker 1: texted was my cast? Yeah, my mine was my cast.

981
00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:43,640
Speaker 1: Because we're doing a home we're doing a home con

982
00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:45,960
Speaker 1: like these comic con things, we're doing one that's at

983
00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:52,799
Speaker 1: home virtually this weekend. Super cool um, Tory, Mine was

984
00:51:52,880 --> 00:51:55,560
Speaker 1: to you and Danielle about this show. I said, hey,

985
00:51:55,560 --> 00:51:58,560
Speaker 1: I'm on the call, can we jump on? Um? But

986
00:51:58,760 --> 00:52:01,759
Speaker 1: previous to that, my buddy tran Um, it's like a

987
00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:04,759
Speaker 1: brother to me. Corey was planning on coming up to

988
00:52:04,760 --> 00:52:07,200
Speaker 1: the lake House here to rock and roll for a

989
00:52:07,239 --> 00:52:11,840
Speaker 1: few days. So we were texting about that. No, no, no,

990
00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:13,440
Speaker 1: no good ones. We have no juice for you on

991
00:52:13,480 --> 00:52:18,480
Speaker 1: that way, all right. I just think, Um, if you

992
00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:21,400
Speaker 1: had to give up one thing for nine weeks, what

993
00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:26,399
Speaker 1: would it be? Sex or working out? We're working out.

994
00:52:27,080 --> 00:52:29,680
Speaker 1: I love working out. I love working out, but I

995
00:52:29,719 --> 00:52:34,520
Speaker 1: love sex far more. Oh. I mean that's a really

996
00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:38,080
Speaker 1: tough one for me, truthfully, like not to just be

997
00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:41,200
Speaker 1: an idiot dude and just say yeah, I love sex,

998
00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:45,080
Speaker 1: So yeah, I'd give up. Looking out is like very

999
00:52:45,120 --> 00:52:47,400
Speaker 1: important to me. But I'm also I've been up at

1000
00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:49,520
Speaker 1: the lake House for i know, five six weeks, so

1001
00:52:49,560 --> 00:52:54,319
Speaker 1: I've given up sex, you know. But if oh man,

1002
00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:57,280
Speaker 1: I'm trying to put myself if if both are readily available,

1003
00:52:57,280 --> 00:53:00,400
Speaker 1: so like saying I'm at home, um and you can

1004
00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:05,880
Speaker 1: work out or h and we're talking, let's make it

1005
00:53:05,920 --> 00:53:11,719
Speaker 1: even harder. No sex, No, masturbation or nothing. Nothing I

1006
00:53:11,840 --> 00:53:14,640
Speaker 1: was and then working out would mean I guess not

1007
00:53:14,719 --> 00:53:18,920
Speaker 1: even like picking rocks up in the backyard, like no exercise.

1008
00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:20,919
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, have you guys seen the show

1009
00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:23,719
Speaker 1: Too Hot to Handle on Netflix? No, I haven't seen.

1010
00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:25,799
Speaker 1: I've passed through it, but I haven't seen it yet.

1011
00:53:25,880 --> 00:53:28,960
Speaker 1: So Tor, you've seen it, right, So it's it's no sex,

1012
00:53:29,040 --> 00:53:34,520
Speaker 1: no kissing, no no sexual touching, um you know, no masturbation,

1013
00:53:34,560 --> 00:53:35,920
Speaker 1: all that kind of thing. And they're supposed to try

1014
00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:38,840
Speaker 1: and do it for thirty days. So um posed with

1015
00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:43,440
Speaker 1: those two. If you went with those kind of um restrictions, Eric,

1016
00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:45,200
Speaker 1: I'd probably go on. I'd have to give up the

1017
00:53:45,239 --> 00:53:49,760
Speaker 1: working out you have working out? Yeah, but being married,

1018
00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:52,880
Speaker 1: what is the longest time you've ever gone without having sex?

1019
00:53:54,560 --> 00:54:04,800
Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe like a few weeks, couple a

1020
00:54:04,840 --> 00:54:09,840
Speaker 1: couple of weeks. We're probably gonna fight part of it, probably,

1021
00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:20,239
Speaker 1: Um yeah, I don't know. M hm. Well, also if

1022
00:54:20,280 --> 00:54:22,200
Speaker 1: you're out of town, so I've been out of town

1023
00:54:22,239 --> 00:54:24,200
Speaker 1: for at least three weeks before, so then it's been

1024
00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:26,640
Speaker 1: even longer than that. Yeah, if you're going with that,

1025
00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:28,560
Speaker 1: I mean I remember there was times of like not

1026
00:54:28,760 --> 00:54:33,279
Speaker 1: seeing um my wife for like five weeks, you know,

1027
00:54:33,520 --> 00:54:35,359
Speaker 1: just with when I was playing hockey and stuff, there

1028
00:54:35,400 --> 00:54:37,320
Speaker 1: was times where because I was playing in a different

1029
00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:40,399
Speaker 1: city that she was living. So um, yeah, I think

1030
00:54:40,400 --> 00:54:43,239
Speaker 1: that's kind of like almost I mean, that's just a

1031
00:54:43,239 --> 00:54:47,120
Speaker 1: different question for our careers a little bit. You know

1032
00:54:48,840 --> 00:54:54,160
Speaker 1: what else you got Tea that was the last one story?

1033
00:54:55,040 --> 00:54:58,680
Speaker 1: Can we ask you a question? Of course? Will you

1034
00:54:59,320 --> 00:55:05,279
Speaker 1: publicly state this gentleman's name that you d M and

1035
00:55:05,280 --> 00:55:07,920
Speaker 1: and how can Eric and I put our full weight

1036
00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:12,680
Speaker 1: behind making this connection happen? Well, jeez, if we're going

1037
00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:14,960
Speaker 1: to do that, then I got to pick somebody good. Actually,

1038
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:17,319
Speaker 1: I'm trying to like, I don't remember his name. Have

1039
00:55:17,480 --> 00:55:19,320
Speaker 1: you then? Have you since then? Sort of? Well, I

1040
00:55:19,320 --> 00:55:21,760
Speaker 1: guess your Your message to him was kind of unique,

1041
00:55:21,800 --> 00:55:25,000
Speaker 1: but have you since then? Just copy and pasted that message?

1042
00:55:25,239 --> 00:55:29,040
Speaker 1: Copy this merriage sounds good. I'm just gonna roll this

1043
00:55:29,080 --> 00:55:30,880
Speaker 1: out to Hunter dudes and see what we end up

1044
00:55:30,880 --> 00:55:33,600
Speaker 1: with here, because I really don't slide into people's dams,

1045
00:55:33,640 --> 00:55:36,560
Speaker 1: but lately I've been like feeling a little lonely and

1046
00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:39,480
Speaker 1: probably a little horny, and so I'm, like I said,

1047
00:55:39,480 --> 00:55:41,120
Speaker 1: in this guy's damn. And then it didn't work out.

1048
00:55:41,160 --> 00:55:43,880
Speaker 1: So I'm like, well, is this the best tactic? So,

1049
00:55:44,000 --> 00:55:47,560
Speaker 1: but what would you do right now? In quarantine? So

1050
00:55:47,680 --> 00:55:51,799
Speaker 1: he responds and he's like, I'm into this. Do you say,

1051
00:55:51,840 --> 00:55:56,040
Speaker 1: how long have you been away from have you tested yourself?

1052
00:55:56,480 --> 00:55:59,759
Speaker 1: Bring your coronavirus ass over here and let's look up

1053
00:55:59,800 --> 00:56:03,719
Speaker 1: what you do virtual date. I've always kind of liked

1054
00:56:03,719 --> 00:56:05,319
Speaker 1: a little bit of a rebel. So if he's willing

1055
00:56:05,360 --> 00:56:08,160
Speaker 1: to break some laws and rules and government regulations, kind

1056
00:56:08,160 --> 00:56:11,880
Speaker 1: of hot, so, so you'd invite him in. You do

1057
00:56:11,960 --> 00:56:13,920
Speaker 1: that full like gloves and masks, and you guys will

1058
00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:16,000
Speaker 1: start the date that way until you feel comfortable that

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00:56:16,040 --> 00:56:20,279
Speaker 1: he's gotten would you temperature check? Oh? Man? Yeah, I

1060
00:56:20,280 --> 00:56:23,560
Speaker 1: guess we'd have to quarantine for fourteen days, Like you

1061
00:56:23,560 --> 00:56:26,880
Speaker 1: couldn't really do anything in that fourteen days. This is tough,

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00:56:27,520 --> 00:56:31,160
Speaker 1: you know, send this DM? You're right, no, don't. Don't

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00:56:31,200 --> 00:56:34,480
Speaker 1: you dare ever unsend that DM. I mean you could

1064
00:56:34,480 --> 00:56:36,319
Speaker 1: do the virtual date, which I've seen people doing there

1065
00:56:36,320 --> 00:56:39,120
Speaker 1: having like the zoom cocktail hour and talking. But then

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00:56:39,719 --> 00:56:41,760
Speaker 1: if you've also been feeling horny, what if it escalates

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00:56:41,840 --> 00:56:47,160
Speaker 1: rather quickly? I mean, are you guys, I wait longer

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00:56:47,200 --> 00:56:51,160
Speaker 1: than fourteen days to do that, but I don't mind

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00:56:51,200 --> 00:56:55,440
Speaker 1: a little messing around. So fourteen days of zoom, bless you.

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00:56:55,840 --> 00:56:58,680
Speaker 1: Fourteen days of zoom, and then what happens? Are you

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00:56:58,680 --> 00:57:02,760
Speaker 1: guys like topless on the next zoom? Are you sure

1072
00:57:02,960 --> 00:57:05,319
Speaker 1: playing strip poker in the next zoom? What happens? Eric,

1073
00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:08,680
Speaker 1: he's not even responding. Alright, we're gonna get you there.

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00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:10,840
Speaker 1: We're trying to prep you for that moment. This is

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00:57:10,840 --> 00:57:12,880
Speaker 1: what we do. We prep Tori. We prepped for the

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00:57:12,920 --> 00:57:15,600
Speaker 1: moment so that when the moment arrives, you arrive with it.

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00:57:15,920 --> 00:57:17,600
Speaker 1: I will try d m N a few more people.

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00:57:17,640 --> 00:57:19,600
Speaker 1: If I hear back, then I will come to you

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00:57:19,600 --> 00:57:22,280
Speaker 1: guys and ask for advice. Can we be on that

1080
00:57:22,400 --> 00:57:27,240
Speaker 1: first zoom? Absolutely? Five minutes? Persolutely? You can fleet them

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00:57:27,240 --> 00:57:30,280
Speaker 1: out for me my bigger brothers. Yeah, Eric, and I

1082
00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:35,480
Speaker 1: will moderate these zoom calls. Um Uh, Tori, I have

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00:57:35,560 --> 00:57:37,560
Speaker 1: I find it hard to believe that you have now,

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00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:39,840
Speaker 1: just for the first time ever, slid into a d

1085
00:57:40,160 --> 00:57:42,880
Speaker 1: M I've never I mean, I've done like my friends.

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00:57:43,080 --> 00:57:47,320
Speaker 1: But um so here's a question for you, truthful question

1087
00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:50,000
Speaker 1: and for our listeners. For everybody listening. Why is there

1088
00:57:50,040 --> 00:57:52,920
Speaker 1: such a stereotype in this stigma behind that it's a

1089
00:57:52,960 --> 00:57:56,880
Speaker 1: negative thing to slide into somebody's d M. It's it's

1090
00:57:57,160 --> 00:58:00,360
Speaker 1: saying hi and making contact with a stranger. We at

1091
00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:05,280
Speaker 1: some point everybody is a stranger, right if you meet

1092
00:58:05,320 --> 00:58:08,919
Speaker 1: like you and Rosalind Eric were strangers until you met

1093
00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:11,440
Speaker 1: in real life. You met in real life. Tor is

1094
00:58:11,480 --> 00:58:14,960
Speaker 1: meeting somebody digitally, Why is that any or perceived to

1095
00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:20,320
Speaker 1: be of lesser value or shady or whatever, then meeting

1096
00:58:20,360 --> 00:58:22,520
Speaker 1: somebody in real life when you're still both strangers and

1097
00:58:22,560 --> 00:58:25,920
Speaker 1: this is just the first contact. I mean, my my

1098
00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:28,120
Speaker 1: guess is the reason it gets a bad rap is

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00:58:28,160 --> 00:58:30,560
Speaker 1: that people typically associated with you slid into a d

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00:58:30,680 --> 00:58:33,240
Speaker 1: M of somebody who's in a relationship, but you would

1101
00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:36,480
Speaker 1: never know really, Like, I've never associated that. That's the

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00:58:36,480 --> 00:58:38,240
Speaker 1: first time I've heard that. It's the only reason I

1103
00:58:38,280 --> 00:58:41,360
Speaker 1: would think that it would be associated with any kind

1104
00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:43,280
Speaker 1: of negative thing, because I agree with you, like, but

1105
00:58:43,360 --> 00:58:46,040
Speaker 1: it's the difference of reaching out versus saying hi on

1106
00:58:46,080 --> 00:58:48,040
Speaker 1: the street and I don't I don't know you, or

1107
00:58:48,040 --> 00:58:49,880
Speaker 1: approach and saying hey, I'm so and so i'd like

1108
00:58:50,000 --> 00:58:53,400
Speaker 1: to you know chat whatever you're I'm in a relationship.

1109
00:58:53,800 --> 00:58:55,840
Speaker 1: But I think people often say, hey, slid into my

1110
00:58:55,920 --> 00:58:58,320
Speaker 1: DM and knowing that that person was in a relationship

1111
00:58:58,320 --> 00:59:00,560
Speaker 1: and they tried to slide it. I get you, Okay,

1112
00:59:00,600 --> 00:59:02,240
Speaker 1: I never thought of it that way, but yeah, I

1113
00:59:02,240 --> 00:59:04,640
Speaker 1: see what you're saying, Tori. I think it's also most

1114
00:59:04,680 --> 00:59:07,600
Speaker 1: of the time guys are like commenting on like the

1115
00:59:07,640 --> 00:59:11,200
Speaker 1: bathing suit pick or like girls or like the shirtless guy.

1116
00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:13,920
Speaker 1: So it's more like thirst trappy than being like I

1117
00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:19,080
Speaker 1: actually want to like pursue a conversation with you. Hold

1118
00:59:19,120 --> 00:59:23,160
Speaker 1: on another term that I've never heard, thirst trappy. I've

1119
00:59:23,160 --> 00:59:26,760
Speaker 1: never heard that either. First trap, but I added a p,

1120
00:59:28,000 --> 00:59:30,760
Speaker 1: so I heard of thirst trap. So any so are

1121
00:59:30,760 --> 00:59:34,360
Speaker 1: you saying that like say, say I was post my

1122
00:59:35,000 --> 00:59:39,280
Speaker 1: sledgehammer with no shirt and a rugged beard photo. That's

1123
00:59:39,360 --> 00:59:43,200
Speaker 1: thirst trappy? Yeah you know that. Um, the guy puts

1124
00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:46,320
Speaker 1: his hand behind the head and then like turns his

1125
00:59:46,400 --> 00:59:48,760
Speaker 1: torso a little bit in the mirror, and then it's

1126
00:59:48,800 --> 00:59:51,760
Speaker 1: like that ab pick in the mirror. Like that's the

1127
00:59:51,760 --> 00:59:53,840
Speaker 1: thirst trap. You're not just posting that to be like hey,

1128
00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:56,440
Speaker 1: so happy like Mother's like happy Mother's Day. It's like

1129
00:59:56,800 --> 00:59:59,040
Speaker 1: He's literally posting a picture so that girls want to

1130
00:59:59,080 --> 01:00:03,560
Speaker 1: slide in his DN then he can get his hook up. Eric.

1131
01:00:03,560 --> 01:00:05,680
Speaker 1: I want to say thank you so much, dude for

1132
01:00:05,720 --> 01:00:09,200
Speaker 1: coming on um one. I want you back. You're welcome

1133
01:00:09,240 --> 01:00:12,080
Speaker 1: back any time. Um. We'll give all the other guys

1134
01:00:12,160 --> 01:00:15,000
Speaker 1: boots because you were fantastic. I always have to do

1135
01:00:15,040 --> 01:00:17,600
Speaker 1: all the talking in the leg work because Gavin's never prepared.

1136
01:00:17,640 --> 01:00:19,160
Speaker 1: We don't even give him the show notes. He has

1137
01:00:19,200 --> 01:00:22,080
Speaker 1: no concept of what we're doing. So, uh, you're happy

1138
01:00:22,120 --> 01:00:25,200
Speaker 1: to take his chair. I'm just kidding, Gap. I love you, buddy,

1139
01:00:25,200 --> 01:00:26,800
Speaker 1: and I miss you, and Ryan, and Rick and Dmitri

1140
01:00:26,920 --> 01:00:31,720
Speaker 1: to Um, you are awesome Eric for people, UM, you're

1141
01:00:31,720 --> 01:00:34,280
Speaker 1: also a podcast host for our listeners. That's why you're

1142
01:00:35,280 --> 01:00:37,920
Speaker 1: so for our listeners. Where can people find your podcast?

1143
01:00:38,120 --> 01:00:41,120
Speaker 1: Our podcast is also with my Heart Radio and it's

1144
01:00:41,120 --> 01:00:45,000
Speaker 1: called he said, ayad ho that's he said. She said

1145
01:00:46,400 --> 01:00:49,520
Speaker 1: the Spanish flip uh basically about my with my wife

1146
01:00:49,600 --> 01:00:52,640
Speaker 1: Rosalind and I and we tackle everything from our complete

1147
01:00:52,680 --> 01:00:55,640
Speaker 1: opposite perspective on life. I mean, we couldn't be more

1148
01:00:55,680 --> 01:00:58,720
Speaker 1: polar opposites with everything we often. I mean this sounds

1149
01:00:58,720 --> 01:00:59,960
Speaker 1: like a big trute of the horn. But it's not.

1150
01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:02,120
Speaker 1: But we people actually say, you guys are like the

1151
01:01:02,240 --> 01:01:04,920
Speaker 1: Ricky and Lucy in a way, but like opposite. She's

1152
01:01:05,000 --> 01:01:08,160
Speaker 1: the Latin Lucy and I'm more like Ricky in the

1153
01:01:08,200 --> 01:01:11,280
Speaker 1: serious sense. And uh, we just talk about life and

1154
01:01:11,320 --> 01:01:15,200
Speaker 1: family and work and you know, relevant topics everything through

1155
01:01:15,200 --> 01:01:18,440
Speaker 1: our opposite lenses. It's a lot of fun. I appreciate that.

1156
01:01:18,560 --> 01:01:22,360
Speaker 1: I think, um, different points of views are very powerful

1157
01:01:22,400 --> 01:01:24,640
Speaker 1: within a relationship. They challenge you and make you grow

1158
01:01:24,680 --> 01:01:27,200
Speaker 1: and make you look at things outside of the way

1159
01:01:27,240 --> 01:01:30,080
Speaker 1: you see the world. Yeah, but it also it takes

1160
01:01:30,120 --> 01:01:33,080
Speaker 1: a strong person to be in that relationship because the

1161
01:01:33,080 --> 01:01:36,840
Speaker 1: person you're opposite, your partner, isn't just always agreeing with you. Yes,

1162
01:01:37,120 --> 01:01:38,680
Speaker 1: that's one of the things. And we find that, I

1163
01:01:38,680 --> 01:01:42,200
Speaker 1: mean we disagree on a lot. I mean obviously not everything,

1164
01:01:42,200 --> 01:01:44,280
Speaker 1: because we can make it. We make it work. But

1165
01:01:44,320 --> 01:01:47,520
Speaker 1: we we have enough in common with our humor and

1166
01:01:47,600 --> 01:01:50,880
Speaker 1: laughter about the way we handle everything. Um, that keeps

1167
01:01:50,920 --> 01:01:53,520
Speaker 1: it strong, keeps it fun. But when you talk to

1168
01:01:53,640 --> 01:01:55,000
Speaker 1: us about it, you know, all these other things and

1169
01:01:55,080 --> 01:01:57,840
Speaker 1: being such type a personalities both of us, you really

1170
01:01:57,880 --> 01:01:59,640
Speaker 1: see it come out in the podcast the way we

1171
01:01:59,760 --> 01:02:02,040
Speaker 1: riff on each other and it's it's just organic. It's

1172
01:02:02,040 --> 01:02:04,240
Speaker 1: who we are. So if you went on, yeah, you

1173
01:02:04,320 --> 01:02:06,280
Speaker 1: must some well work. I mean if you're in a partnership,

1174
01:02:06,320 --> 01:02:10,080
Speaker 1: obviously you you work together in life real well, um,

1175
01:02:10,080 --> 01:02:11,960
Speaker 1: but also you guys work together in career if you're

1176
01:02:12,000 --> 01:02:14,360
Speaker 1: doing this podcast. And also you did a children's book, right,

1177
01:02:14,360 --> 01:02:17,680
Speaker 1: you did children We wrote a children's book together called

1178
01:02:17,680 --> 01:02:20,240
Speaker 1: Sabella and Atlanta Cha Cha Cha, which was based on

1179
01:02:20,280 --> 01:02:22,720
Speaker 1: our daughter. And it was a dance book because there's

1180
01:02:22,720 --> 01:02:25,720
Speaker 1: no there aren't kids books out there that aren't just ballet.

1181
01:02:25,840 --> 01:02:28,080
Speaker 1: This is about Latin rhythm, so it was incorporating ballroom

1182
01:02:28,160 --> 01:02:31,920
Speaker 1: dancing into it. Man, Um, swee did that. We've produced

1183
01:02:32,040 --> 01:02:34,720
Speaker 1: movies together and and we actually came on on my

1184
01:02:34,760 --> 01:02:37,560
Speaker 1: show recently, The Rookie, and so we've we've partnered up

1185
01:02:37,560 --> 01:02:40,440
Speaker 1: a lot recently. It's been life. Yeah, that's gonna be

1186
01:02:40,480 --> 01:02:41,800
Speaker 1: that's gonna be a lot of fun to be able

1187
01:02:41,840 --> 01:02:44,160
Speaker 1: to do that. Yeah, it's been great. It's been great,

1188
01:02:44,400 --> 01:02:46,160
Speaker 1: and I really appreciate you having me on. Man, this

1189
01:02:46,200 --> 01:02:48,120
Speaker 1: is a fun podcast. And you guys, you've been you've

1190
01:02:48,120 --> 01:02:51,280
Speaker 1: been awesome. This is We'll have you back for sure.

1191
01:02:51,640 --> 01:02:53,840
Speaker 1: Where can people find you? Where do you hang out

1192
01:02:53,840 --> 01:02:55,680
Speaker 1: the most? On social media? Where can people that want

1193
01:02:55,680 --> 01:02:58,280
Speaker 1: to get more of your story and also tune into

1194
01:02:58,320 --> 01:03:00,160
Speaker 1: what you're working on the series that you're on. Where

1195
01:03:00,200 --> 01:03:03,560
Speaker 1: can people find you the most? Um? Instagram at eb Winter,

1196
01:03:03,840 --> 01:03:07,000
Speaker 1: Twitter at Eric Winter one, and then of course at

1197
01:03:07,000 --> 01:03:11,320
Speaker 1: he said a podcast. Yeah, buddy, okay, my man, thank

1198
01:03:11,360 --> 01:03:13,760
Speaker 1: you so much for joining us. Do keep going with

1199
01:03:13,800 --> 01:03:17,440
Speaker 1: that beard. I'm here for you if you have any questions, Um,

1200
01:03:17,680 --> 01:03:19,680
Speaker 1: keep going with that beard. It looks fantastic, and I

1201
01:03:19,720 --> 01:03:22,760
Speaker 1: wish you and your family the best of health and

1202
01:03:22,880 --> 01:03:25,200
Speaker 1: best wishes moving forward, and we'll see you back here

1203
01:03:25,200 --> 01:03:27,240
Speaker 1: on this show. My man. All right, brother, thank you

1204
01:03:27,280 --> 01:03:30,240
Speaker 1: the same. Thank you to our listeners everybody to take

1205
01:03:30,280 --> 01:03:32,920
Speaker 1: care out there, be safe until next week. Take care

1206
01:03:32,960 --> 01:03:34,800
Speaker 1: of one another, love one another, and we'll see you

1207
01:03:34,800 --> 01:03:37,040
Speaker 1: back here next week for another episode of How Men

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01:03:37,200 --> 01:03:38,160
Speaker 1: Think