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Speaker 1: Hello, Hi, situax Work Podcast with Marie and Sydney.

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Speaker 2: You always say Sydney first, Sydney. How are you doing great? Great?

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Speaker 2: Just waiting for Friday to be over?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yep, okay, because you guys you got something waiting

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Speaker 3: for you on Saturday, just like come on Friday and yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: yeah yeah.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I haven't seen you in no. I

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Speaker 2: saw you.

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Speaker 3: Yesterday, yes, and then I saw you. I saw you

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Speaker 3: on once, Okay, you know I'll see you every day?

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: How that is in New York City.

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Speaker 1: The fucking thing is is that there's eight million people

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Speaker 1: here and I keep seeing the same people. And I

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Speaker 1: was like, why why I keep seeing the same people

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Speaker 1: on the train, Like they get on at the same

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Speaker 1: time every day, and so I'll get somehow I'll be

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Speaker 1: on and I'm always missing my fucking train. But somehow

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Speaker 1: I'll get on there and I'll see the same dude

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Speaker 1: and I'm waiting for him. He's like, oh, waiting for

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Speaker 1: him to talk to me, because I know it's going

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Speaker 1: to happen. He's seen me like four or five times.

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Speaker 2: Really, I feel like, do you take the train at

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Speaker 2: the same time every day?

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Speaker 4: Then?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, usually usually because I feel.

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Speaker 3: Like I've lived here for three I've lived at the

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Speaker 3: same train stop for four years now, and I don't

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Speaker 3: see the same people on the train when I get on.

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Speaker 3: I do, but I get on at different times in

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Speaker 3: different places.

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Speaker 1: I feel like where I live it's real specific, and

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Speaker 1: the people are always leaving around the same time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they're the working people except me. They're not working, dude.

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Speaker 2: They're on the train with you. They're on the way

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Speaker 2: to I don't know the welfare officers.

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Speaker 1: Shut up, they're on their way to Walmart.

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Speaker 2: They're on the way to get their abortions or whatever.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, No, you got to go there at

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Speaker 2: eight am.

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Speaker 3: So is that peak abortion hours or that's when the

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Speaker 3: good doctors were there.

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Speaker 1: I mean you, first of all, it takes like three

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Speaker 1: four hours just to see somebody.

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Speaker 2: There's a way somebody.

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Speaker 1: There's a waiting price at eight o'clock, and you don't

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Speaker 1: think you could just walk in and you're like, okay,

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Speaker 1: there's like thirty other people schedule an abortion at eight thirty.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I should be getting abortions.

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Speaker 1: That's not how the abortion is, that's not how the

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Speaker 1: clinic work.

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Speaker 2: It's a clinic is.

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Speaker 3: There like a It's like, okay, so not planting parenthood.

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Speaker 3: Like if I'm going to is there like a rich.

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Speaker 1: People planning parent huh yeah yeah yeah, then you have

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Speaker 1: your specific doctor. My abortion is yes, but at these

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Speaker 1: clinics it's one doctor doing everybody's abortion.

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Speaker 2: You got to empty out the vacuum, it is. It's

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Speaker 2: a lot. That's crazy.

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Speaker 1: They got to change the water on the filter. It's

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Speaker 1: a lot.

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Speaker 3: They got to empty the bag.

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Speaker 2: It's a bit bunch. Do you ever see it? What

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Speaker 2: do you mean, like, after you get your abortion, do

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Speaker 2: you see what comes out?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: Girl, you they knock you out.

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Speaker 1: You just wake up feeling like a little bit skinnier,

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Speaker 1: No feeling terrible.

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Speaker 2: A you feel bad? Yeah, like mentally or physical?

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Speaker 1: You feel everything? Like I shouldn't say it. I'd be

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Speaker 1: like one time, like how many times mine?

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Speaker 3: Just just speaking the third person.

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Speaker 2: I'm too honest.

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Speaker 1: AnyWho, One time I woke up and there was this

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Speaker 1: girl balling and I was fine, but then just watching

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Speaker 1: you're a veteran in the gain.

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Speaker 2: Just watching her cry, I was like, well maybe.

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Speaker 3: I should feel You had a text and you were like,

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Speaker 3: oh okay, yeah, no.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say. Anyway, somebody canceled on me. So

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Speaker 1: that's why I started crying. Somebody somebody canceled that the abortion.

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Speaker 1: Somebody was supposed to come pick me up, and they

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Speaker 1: were like, ah.

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Speaker 3: So you took the bus, you took a lift line,

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Speaker 3: I took a.

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Speaker 2: At least I'm not alone.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, actually, I'm somebody picking me up. I have

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Speaker 1: several people picking me up.

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Speaker 2: Dude, that's crazy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, imagine all the people who have to take the

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Speaker 3: train home though.

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Speaker 1: After that, I mean they suggest that you, you know,

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Speaker 1: splurge and you can't treat yourself. Yourself, the suggest you

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Speaker 1: don't do that.

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Speaker 2: Oh dude, that's so crazy. You feel awful.

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Speaker 3: I just feel a little bit left out, Like I

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Speaker 3: feel like everybody has had an abortion except me.

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Speaker 1: No. No, I mean I see a lot of people

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Speaker 1: on on the Instagrams and the facebooks talking about it,

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Speaker 1: but in real life most people be like no, And

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Speaker 1: I'd be like, girl, they know you stop it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you had a punch card. Yeah at the plan,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, if you get five, your sixth abortion is free. No,

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Speaker 2: you get a manicure. Brenda's got Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean, even though there's so many people open about it.

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Speaker 1: There's still a lot of people like no, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well why why why abortion? Like, why not just get

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Speaker 2: a plan B?

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Speaker 1: You know, Well, I'm all school, so at the time,

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Speaker 1: there was no plan B. It was literally like up,

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Speaker 1: you've been knocked up.

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Speaker 2: They won't let me wait. Did you ever think I

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Speaker 2: should just throw myself down these stairs?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: Never, Why why would I do that? And now? Insurance

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Speaker 2: doesn't cover abortions?

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Speaker 1: And it does One time I used my mom's insurance.

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Speaker 2: She had Blue Cross as elevant.

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Speaker 1: Yo.

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Speaker 2: The place I went to fucking nice.

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Speaker 1: You didn't they gave you water, like the seats, the

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Speaker 1: seats had covers on them.

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Speaker 2: Wow. Nice? Yeah that good.

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Speaker 1: Magazines, not great magazine, highlights magazine.

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Speaker 2: They had the Wall Street Journal with that bitch. It

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Speaker 2: was mad nice dude. Wow yeah. Well, Sidney, sounds like

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Speaker 2: you are an expert on abortions today.

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Speaker 1: It seems like it. But haven't been in that life.

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Speaker 1: I'm out the game, so the game. Yeah, I haven't

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Speaker 1: been in that life for a long time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I got them all out in my early twenties.

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean then you got the free mascure for sure,

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Speaker 3: you got the six six abortions shut up. Now, are

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Speaker 3: you an expert in you gotta go first because you

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Speaker 3: know I don't have any skills.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I was an expert in standing my ground?

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Speaker 2: Oh you shot somebody? No standing my ground in an

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Speaker 2: uber pool? What does that mean?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 2: Well, usually when.

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Speaker 1: You're sitting, I guess on the passenger side in the back,

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Speaker 1: people usually get in that get on that side. But

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Speaker 1: if you're on that side already, somebody needs to go around.

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Speaker 1: So this woman, I mean, unless there's lots of traffic.

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Speaker 2: No, no, there was no going into the street. There

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Speaker 2: was no traffic. Okay, boom.

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Speaker 1: I had already plugged in my phone. I'm already situated.

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Speaker 1: I got mad bags. I'm not moving. And this woman

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Speaker 1: opened the door and she was like, okay, can you

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Speaker 1: describe this woman to us?

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Speaker 2: The woman was white. Okay, that's all I needed. Okay,

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Speaker 2: she's a white woman. She opened the door and she said.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, and she's like, excuse me, And

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Speaker 1: I was like, excuse you. I had there was she

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Speaker 1: literally could get in the front. There was a front

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Speaker 1: seat available. Uh.

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Speaker 2: I love the front seat because I would never seen

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Speaker 2: you sit in the front seat. I sit in the

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Speaker 2: front seat.

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Speaker 1: All the time when I'm not with you, so okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, cool. But she would not let the driver

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Speaker 1: pull off unless I scootered it over. And I said,

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Speaker 1: I'm not scooting over. It's not happy.

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Speaker 2: Did you say go around?

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Speaker 1: I said, there's the front seat. There's another seat you

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Speaker 1: could get on top of a couple day.

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Speaker 2: Was it raining the scene?

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Speaker 1: Oh, it was right. It was like it was like

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Speaker 1: nine o'clock in the morning. I was going no at night,

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Speaker 1: I was going to another show.

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Speaker 2: She was like, no, what neighborhood we're all in. I

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Speaker 2: was in Brooklyn. Sis give me the neighborhood. People listen

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Speaker 2: to Bushwick.

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Speaker 3: Oh well, she sounds rude. Bushwick sounds like we're rude

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Speaker 3: white women.

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Speaker 2: Yes, side Yeah.

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Speaker 1: But she would not she would not let the driver pool.

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Speaker 1: I would said, well I don't have nowhere to go,

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Speaker 1: so you can you could keep doing this. And the

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Speaker 1: driver got involved. He's like, miss, you're being ridiculous. There's

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Speaker 1: two other seats.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow.

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Speaker 1: He's like, you can get in the front. And she

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Speaker 1: was like, is this a race thing? And we were

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Speaker 1: like what this is? This is an uberpool thing. This

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Speaker 1: is stop wasting our time in getting the front.

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Speaker 3: This is well, you could have just got an uber

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Speaker 3: axis okay, okay.

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Speaker 2: If you feel like you deserve special treatment.

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Speaker 1: She got an X okay for a black car. And

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Speaker 1: her name was Alan Alan, Yes it was Alan. I

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Speaker 1: was like Alan, Alan, All, Alan Alan.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't even her couch.

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Speaker 1: I want to I want to ask the guests, but

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Speaker 1: we didn't put her in yet.

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Speaker 2: But what would you have done? If I would have

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Speaker 2: been like, you need to go, I would have closed

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Speaker 2: the door. I would have been like the car was

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Speaker 2: old and the door was the door was all the

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Speaker 2: way towards me. It was like you had you had

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Speaker 2: a bracre you had to grab. I had to get

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Speaker 2: out of the car to get the door. You had

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Speaker 2: a plan of foot and then yes, yeah yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: yeah yeah yeah. What I would close to do in

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Speaker 2: her face?

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Speaker 3: I legit would have been like you can go around

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Speaker 3: if there's no cars and it's not raining, and I

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Speaker 3: got all this stuff right here, then.

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Speaker 2: You're going around.

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Speaker 1: I had several bags and got bags, but you had

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Speaker 1: like like ZAA bags.

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Speaker 3: You had like some Macy's big black bet brown bag,

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Speaker 3: what kind of bags, like some rainbow plastic bags, some

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Speaker 3: Trader Joe's bags. It was like some little some jewelry bags,

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Speaker 3: some Claire's bags.

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Speaker 1: It was it was a Claire's bags with like not

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Speaker 1: claire shit in it. It was like, you know my laptop. Okay,

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Speaker 1: well you have a lot of change of clothes, shoes.

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Speaker 1: You look like a backpacker.

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Speaker 2: I hit it. He popped the trunk. You had some

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Speaker 2: stuff in the trunk. So what happened? She goes around?

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Speaker 2: Or no, she cancels the ride. I was like, you're dumb. Woweh,

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Speaker 2: I was like, stay woke. I'm going day up for us.

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Speaker 1: Because I feel like, speaking of taking care, I feel

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Speaker 2: She's a stand up.

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Speaker 1: She's got a great new podcast called Mildly Offensive.

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Speaker 3: Have you ever been in an uber situation where you

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Speaker 1: I don't know I'm not alone in this, but the

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Speaker 2: You know you're like, I took them frequently. Thank you

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Speaker 6: No, I'm always on uberpool because it's just so much cheaper,

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Speaker 2: So in an uberpool situation, I'll usually.

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Speaker 1: I know you've been there too, said yeah, and you

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Speaker 1: And then I just go over the chill. I can

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Speaker 1: I was like, they said that there's somebody in here,

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Speaker 3: the meatpacking district with you. I think it was like

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Speaker 3: They just had to like unfold his leg and cram

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Speaker 6: Honestly, I think Uber drivers get more mad when I

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Speaker 6: They're just like I don't want to make right there, yeah,

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Speaker 2: need the ox cord? Do you do that?

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Speaker 6: I usually do not if it's never a pool, though

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Speaker 6: I feel bad usually in uberpool, but I will ask

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Speaker 2: What's your music? What's your what's your Spotify?

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Speaker 6: It depends, It depends if well, you.

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Speaker 2: Know you're not proud of it. No no, no, no no no, no,

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Speaker 2: I don't use Spotify. What you have music? I had

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Speaker 2: Apple Music.

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Speaker 6: The latest playist I was listening to is just Sizza

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Speaker 3: Out Okay, okay, right, hold she knows her audience right now.

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Speaker 2: No, no, I really do.

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Speaker 1: And what's the last song you got on here? Let's see,

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Speaker 1: let's see supermodel.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 6: But I do like some like corny meat like pop,

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Speaker 1: The song you know what? I didn't know this. I

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Speaker 2: It's pretty good. Yeah, but I'm saying you knew the song, okay.

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Speaker 3: Just also like I know this the name of the song,

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Speaker 2: And your ear is very sisous today, So yeah, thank

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Speaker 6: But I mean I do like a Noah Cyrus song

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Speaker 2: Brother sister, oh Noah. See white people, Marybeth, you're here,

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Speaker 3: Why do white people like naming their girls boys' names.

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Speaker 6: I don't know. I think it's I can't explain it.

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Speaker 6: I think it's just to be subversive.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I think so too.

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Speaker 6: In some cases, though, I think it is cute. Like

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Speaker 2: And I like Tony with an eye for a girl

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Speaker 3: I mean I like it sometimes like like a name

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Speaker 3: But I mean like something like it'll be like Matthew

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Speaker 3: Like it's matt and we call her Matt for short,

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Speaker 3: and it's like what does Matthew and John?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 3: Like something like that, or like a lot of people

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Speaker 3: them juniors, Like Serena Williams daughter is a junior.

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Speaker 2: What her name is? Alexis Juniorry. I didn't know you

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Speaker 2: could do that. I didn't know you could do that either.

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Speaker 2: Junior is. I mean, I don't it's a new thing.

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Speaker 6: It's twenty eighteen world, man is a construct.

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Speaker 3: I mean, like I think Tianna Taylor's daughter is also

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Speaker 2: But Tiana Taylor is weird, so there's that. Well, she's

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Speaker 2: got twelve apps. So that's why twelve as on.

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Speaker 3: Her frontal lobes, keeping us and making smart decisions. So

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Speaker 3: you're flirting experts. Can you tell people what flirting is?

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Speaker 3: Because sometimes people think that they're doing it and they're really.

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Speaker 2: They're really not.

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Speaker 6: So flirting to me is a playful banter with another person.

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Speaker 6: It doesn't have to be even necessarily always romantic, like

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Speaker 6: you can flirt with friends or you know, I'll flirt

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Speaker 6: with girls, but I Am not intending to hook up

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Speaker 6: with them. I think it's just aful banter that Mary

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Speaker 6: payful banter where you where what you say, Alicea's a response,

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Speaker 6: You're kind of setting them up to respond, you know,

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Speaker 6: Like that's how I can That's how I think of flirting.

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Speaker 2: Flirting. So you know, I.

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Speaker 6: Brought receipts, I have a shot, I read the assignment,

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Speaker 6: I did the homework, studied the study guide.

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Speaker 6: So I will say upfront, I don't use dating apps,

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Speaker 2: You right for them? That goes I feel like that

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Speaker 6: I know, like a bumble account manager.

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Speaker 2: A bumble of account coordinator.

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Speaker 6: Yeah. They just they want you know, peoples just want

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Speaker 6: something they can respond to. So this is this isn't

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Speaker 6: an app called Instagram.

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Speaker 2: App.

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Speaker 6: Sometimes people slide in the dms, but mostly I prefer

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Speaker 6: to use texting because I don't know opening multiple apps

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Speaker 6: to messages.

447
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Speaker 2: Just like so, you give people your phone number.

448
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Speaker 6: Sometimes only sometimes in this case I did. In this conversation,

449
00:19:35,640 --> 00:19:37,560
Speaker 6: I knew him though I had met him in person.

450
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Speaker 6: I'm not I will tell you the name after, but

451
00:19:39,960 --> 00:19:44,120
Speaker 6: he's a comedian, so I don't. I will yes, yeah,

452
00:19:44,119 --> 00:19:47,600
Speaker 6: because I'm sure you know him. So this was a

453
00:19:47,600 --> 00:19:50,280
Speaker 6: while ago, but I posted an Instagram story of myself

454
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Speaker 6: boxing and he responded and he said, dang you tough.

455
00:19:55,359 --> 00:19:57,399
Speaker 6: And I said, I fight crime at night, so I

456
00:19:57,440 --> 00:19:59,679
Speaker 6: have to stay fit. And he said, thank you for

457
00:19:59,680 --> 00:20:02,680
Speaker 6: protect us and I said it I didn't choose this life.

458
00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:05,000
Speaker 6: It chowse me, you know. So just trying to keep

459
00:20:05,000 --> 00:20:07,240
Speaker 6: the banter going back and forth. Then he asked me

460
00:20:07,240 --> 00:20:09,520
Speaker 6: about plans this evening. Asked him what I was doing.

461
00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:13,720
Speaker 6: Then he said he was in Brooklyn. He said, Brooklyn

462
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Speaker 6: needs your crime fighting. I said, is there an emergency?

463
00:20:17,080 --> 00:20:20,320
Speaker 6: Is someone threatening you? He said yes, help. I said, okay,

464
00:20:20,359 --> 00:20:22,600
Speaker 6: I accept formal requests on my hotline, and then I

465
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Speaker 6: sent him my number.

466
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Speaker 2: O History Marie. Oh my god, I think you need

467
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Speaker 2: to hire Mary. Mary. I ain't got no money, but

468
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Speaker 2: I could pay you a l ol. Mary. Can you

469
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Speaker 2: just do a couple of things for Marige just a

470
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Speaker 2: little bit. Yeah.

471
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Speaker 6: What I do on apps usually is I'll pick one

472
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Speaker 6: thing out from the guy's profile or photo to just

473
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Speaker 6: comment on. And guys love talking about themselves, so it's

474
00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:57,760
Speaker 6: just an opening for them to feel like they have

475
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Speaker 6: like something to say back. So like one time, I

476
00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:05,040
Speaker 6: remember I was messaging for this girl when I worked

477
00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:10,720
Speaker 6: at soul Cycle and he was from I just worked

478
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Speaker 6: at the front desk, but we can talk about that.

479
00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:16,640
Speaker 6: So she had matched with a guy from San Francisco

480
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Speaker 6: and I messaged him and I was like, oh my god,

481
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Speaker 6: have you ever been to the Golden Gate Bridge? Just

482
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Speaker 6: like something dumb that obviously yes he has done, but

483
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Speaker 6: he's going to respond and be like ll or ha

484
00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:27,960
Speaker 6: ha ha, like yes, blah blah blah, you know, just

485
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Speaker 6: setting them up to say something. One thing I really

486
00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:33,880
Speaker 6: don't like in flirting is negging, okay, and explain that

487
00:21:34,400 --> 00:21:37,280
Speaker 6: negging is when a guy will say something that's kind

488
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Speaker 6: of an insult to like knock you down a little bit,

489
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Speaker 6: and then you're supposed to just kind of take it

490
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Speaker 6: and like be I.

491
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Speaker 2: Feel like you're good at that. Yeah, you're great. Damn

492
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Speaker 2: you sure at least you have all your hair. That's

493
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Speaker 2: that's life a supermarket.

494
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Speaker 6: But I think it's different when it's a girl doing it.

495
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Speaker 6: Is it because guys? You can't hurt guy's feelings?

496
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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm city how many gross dudes have you

497
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Speaker 1: said something too? And they were like yeah, but they

498
00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:13,480
Speaker 1: like it? And you're like, what I mean? I'm usually

499
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Speaker 1: saying that when they try to.

500
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Speaker 2: Talk to you. Yeah, like do you see the way

501
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Speaker 2: you look?

502
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Speaker 3: Like that's what you're wearing to talk to my friend

503
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Speaker 3: and they're like I got to say v I am

504
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Speaker 3: And it's.

505
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Speaker 2: Like you, yeah, that's not gonna work. No.

506
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Speaker 6: Yeah, So it's I respect it when women do it.

507
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Speaker 6: I don't personally like to do it just because if

508
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Speaker 6: I don't like something about you, all, just say it.

509
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Speaker 6: I won't try to mask it as like a I'm

510
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Speaker 6: trying to flirt with you?

511
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Speaker 2: You know what I mean? Now have you have you

512
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Speaker 2: ever flirted? Uh?

513
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Speaker 3: And then like get like backfired in your face, like

514
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Speaker 3: because I'm somebody that people tell me that, like I

515
00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:45,200
Speaker 3: flirt with waiters, or because somebody will come up and

516
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Speaker 3: I'll ask, well, what's your favorite thing? And then we'll

517
00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:49,199
Speaker 3: talk and I think we're having a conversation, and people like,

518
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Speaker 3: you just don't flirt with him in my face, and

519
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Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm just talking.

520
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Speaker 2: To the talking to someone.

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Speaker 6: I think people interpret things as flirting that they see

522
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Speaker 6: what they want to see. If you're with a guy

523
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Speaker 6: on a date and you're asking the way or what's

524
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:01,960
Speaker 6: your favorite thing on the menu, and they say that

525
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Speaker 6: it's flirting, then you should drop them immediately.

526
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Speaker 2: I drop them as soon as he drops his credit card.

527
00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:09,320
Speaker 2: But it's definitely backfired.

528
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Speaker 6: I mean there's been situations where I wasn't intending to flirt,

529
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Speaker 6: but the person thought that I was.

530
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Speaker 1: And yes, sorry, but Mary, you kind of have this

531
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Speaker 1: face like you're not interested ever. So I would like

532
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Speaker 1: to see you flirting in real life because you kind

533
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Speaker 1: of look like you're not here for it.

534
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Speaker 2: Please don't talk to me. You have like a nineties

535
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Speaker 2: movies mean girl face.

536
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Speaker 7: Yeah, thank you so much for I feel like you

537
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Speaker 7: were you a cheerleader, now you look like you were.

538
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Speaker 2: Thank you.

539
00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:39,280
Speaker 1: Definitely the girl that's like I'm shutting everything down.

540
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:41,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, well yeah, I get.

541
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Speaker 6: I have gotten that from guys too, being like, do

542
00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:45,680
Speaker 6: you like you're so chill?

543
00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:47,240
Speaker 2: I feel like you're gonna kill me type of thing.

544
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Speaker 6: That's something someone said to me recently, which it's like,

545
00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:53,280
Speaker 6: that's just how I am, but I and that's why.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, I feel like that's a compliment. Yeah, I take

547
00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:57,000
Speaker 2: that as a compliment.

548
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Speaker 6: And I think when guys, when I do used to

549
00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:03,320
Speaker 6: flirt like it's very visible. It's visible because I like

550
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:05,600
Speaker 6: change my whole thing, you know.

551
00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:10,200
Speaker 2: Get Yeah, I don't know she does that shouldered.

552
00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:16,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, exactly, like you tilt your head just a little bit.

553
00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:20,040
Speaker 6: But if a guy is if I'm not enjoying a

554
00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:23,919
Speaker 6: conversation with someone, it's also very visible, I think because

555
00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:25,560
Speaker 6: I'm just like, I don't care what you have to say.

556
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Speaker 2: You have a strong brow. Thank you. Yeah, it's bits.

557
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Speaker 6: And then I feel bad because it's obviously people can

558
00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:32,080
Speaker 6: pick up on it.

559
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:34,560
Speaker 2: But no, no, no, don't feel bad. Don't live your truth.

560
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Speaker 1: Now, have you ever misinterpreted somebody flirting with you you

561
00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:39,920
Speaker 1: thought they were flirting?

562
00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:46,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, okay, talk to It's unfortunate. It just it's

563
00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:48,640
Speaker 6: it just sucks, like either you'll find out that they're

564
00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:51,360
Speaker 6: with someone or that they just have like a naturally

565
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:52,639
Speaker 6: flirtatious personality.

566
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Speaker 1: Oh no, then why do you flirt with everybody that?

567
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:03,879
Speaker 2: Let's unpack that. Somebody shut you down.

568
00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:07,880
Speaker 1: No, no, no, well I'm the person that everybody thinks I'm

569
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:08,680
Speaker 1: flirting with them.

570
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:11,840
Speaker 3: Honestly, I am so friendly the way that you do

571
00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:12,879
Speaker 3: it though, Like I'll come in.

572
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:15,400
Speaker 2: When I met you, you'd be like sitting on some dude's.

573
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:18,000
Speaker 3: Lap, like laughing really loud, and it was like that's

574
00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:19,399
Speaker 3: a man, and it was like no. And then I

575
00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:21,160
Speaker 3: would see you somewhere and you'd be like, oh my god,

576
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:23,520
Speaker 3: you know everybody's name. You're rubbing people's heads and it

577
00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:25,040
Speaker 3: was like yo, Sydney is.

578
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:29,680
Speaker 6: But then you people know, you will know that that's

579
00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:30,320
Speaker 6: just how you are.

580
00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:32,000
Speaker 2: No, some men steal.

581
00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:33,960
Speaker 3: Some men see stuff like that and they're like, but

582
00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:35,800
Speaker 3: she's on my lap though, is she really gay?

583
00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:38,080
Speaker 1: Is she really a gay? Those are the people who

584
00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:39,479
Speaker 1: come up to me in there, like is she really

585
00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:42,119
Speaker 1: loves me? PSA for the men listening. If I sitting

586
00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:46,080
Speaker 1: on your lap, my feet fucking no seats and I

587
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:49,200
Speaker 1: need a seats, so your lap is now a chair.

588
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Speaker 6: But there's definitely been situations where I've put out vibes

589
00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:56,760
Speaker 6: and then it's either not reciprocated or it's just like okay,

590
00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:57,399
Speaker 6: dead end to.

591
00:25:57,440 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 2: Talk about specific what happened.

592
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,480
Speaker 6: Actually, this one, I'll go to my Instagram because I

593
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:06,159
Speaker 6: don't I didn't take screenshots of this one.

594
00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:09,160
Speaker 2: Because you don't want to to, you know, remember the band, right.

595
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:13,160
Speaker 1: It's really painful sometimes Instagram, you don't know the context.

596
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:16,480
Speaker 2: You you don't know, you can't tell what the tone is.

597
00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:18,560
Speaker 2: I don't know the tone, especially if it's somebody that.

598
00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:20,800
Speaker 3: You don't know, and there's like a language barrier there.

599
00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:22,880
Speaker 3: You know, like if if a dude from Spain slash

600
00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:24,879
Speaker 3: and you do no no and you're like trying to

601
00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:26,480
Speaker 3: talk to him and it's like he's not he don't

602
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Speaker 3: know how to use lo.

603
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Speaker 6: O L properly, right, and I can't with that. I Yeah,

604
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:33,719
Speaker 6: that's the language barrier is definitely tough. But if a

605
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:36,320
Speaker 6: straight guy I haven't seen in like eight years, follows

606
00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 6: me on Instagram. That to me is like you're trying

607
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:42,560
Speaker 6: to talk or like connect in some way, right, So

608
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:46,440
Speaker 6: I just feel like, why are you? Maybe it's looking

609
00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:47,719
Speaker 6: into it too much, And I don't think that way

610
00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:51,240
Speaker 6: about every guy, but in this case I did. Okay,

611
00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:53,840
Speaker 6: I was like, okay, we met once. He thought, I

612
00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 6: haven't seen him in years, he thought me on Instagram. Okay,

613
00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:59,800
Speaker 6: So I d M him first, and then we were

614
00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:02,080
Speaker 6: going back and forth for a while. Wait, did you say, yeah,

615
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:04,320
Speaker 6: let me get the scene? You know, because I name names,

616
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:09,200
Speaker 6: I can't. Well, no, it's gonna sound really weird.

617
00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:12,760
Speaker 3: Nobody here knows who makes orl or Matthew.

618
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:15,280
Speaker 2: Nobody he's He's okay.

619
00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:17,000
Speaker 6: I mean some people might know who this is, but

620
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 6: it's fine. Yes, So I said, is this the Blank?

621
00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:24,680
Speaker 6: His name from Blank's house in two thousand and eight,

622
00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:25,480
Speaker 6: that's when we met.

623
00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, years ago.

624
00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:34,960
Speaker 6: I remember everything. He said, thank you for confirming that.

625
00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:35,240
Speaker 2: Yes.

626
00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:37,879
Speaker 6: Isn't that wild? I said, might be the wildest thing

627
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 6: I've heard all day? How you've been the last ten years?

628
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 6: We went back and forth. He says, looks like things

629
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 6: are going well like and following the comedy stuff.

630
00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:47,880
Speaker 3: I feel like that to me is like, oh yeah,

631
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:50,439
Speaker 3: some is something there. Yeah, looks like things are going well.

632
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:52,360
Speaker 3: I mean, you scrolled all the way back right.

633
00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:55,840
Speaker 6: So then we were going back and forth and I

634
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 6: was like, I said, well, as lovely as it is

635
00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:00,680
Speaker 6: catching up via DMS, I'm gonna boldly suggests we grab

636
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:02,960
Speaker 6: a drink sometime. And then I said, I'm just gonna

637
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:04,480
Speaker 6: leave this here and I put my number.

638
00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 3: Did you hear that I'm gonna boldly suggest me link

639
00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:10,160
Speaker 3: up for drinks in person?

640
00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 5: Yeah?

641
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:10,920
Speaker 2: Wow?

642
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:12,639
Speaker 6: And then I said I'm gonna leave this here and

643
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:14,159
Speaker 6: I put my number and he never texted me.

644
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:23,560
Speaker 2: That's that Lulu limit confidence. That's what shemons on pants?

645
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:27,920
Speaker 2: What was good come charrisma outer thigh.

646
00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:31,359
Speaker 6: But my thing is, why not just put it out

647
00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:33,399
Speaker 6: there because he's either gonna do it or he's not,

648
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:34,479
Speaker 6: and I'd rather just know.

649
00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:37,560
Speaker 2: That's how I feel. So, what's a girl a girlfriend,

650
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:39,200
Speaker 2: girlfriend of friend to you? Because you seem like the

651
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:40,960
Speaker 2: type of person that, like you said exactly.

652
00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 6: Well, I haven't been a girlfriend. My two year university

653
00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 6: of being single is on Valentine's Day. Oh yeah, that's

654
00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:50,360
Speaker 6: pretty exciting and I haven't been a girlfriend in a while,

655
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:53,280
Speaker 6: but when I was, it was like my really early twenties,

656
00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:56,480
Speaker 6: so I didn't know how to be myself in a relationship.

657
00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 6: I would just like get consumed by it and take

658
00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:01,800
Speaker 6: on all of his interests, which is why I used

659
00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 6: to pretend to like football. But but now you're grown.

660
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:07,000
Speaker 6: Now I'm better, and I don't know what I would

661
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:10,920
Speaker 6: be like as a girlfriend. Probably I'm pretty selfish, but

662
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:12,120
Speaker 6: I'm upfront about it.

663
00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 2: Mary.

664
00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:15,880
Speaker 1: But you your hotbrows look like all you care about

665
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:16,360
Speaker 1: is you.

666
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:17,200
Speaker 2: I could tell.

667
00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:23,320
Speaker 6: Again, Yeah, I just I want to do my thing

668
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:26,720
Speaker 6: and not I think boys are distracting. I like flirting,

669
00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 6: but I think every time I have a real crush

670
00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:30,920
Speaker 6: on someone, it's like really stressful for me.

671
00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 2: It is stressful.

672
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:38,160
Speaker 1: The last crush I had, I almost felt low key stockerish, oh,

673
00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:40,920
Speaker 1: because I don't get me started out. I was refreshing,

674
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 1: and then I didn't know what to say.

675
00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:43,959
Speaker 2: I needed you.

676
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:48,480
Speaker 1: I didn't know how to respond because the person was somebody.

677
00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, I don't want to be corny.

678
00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:51,200
Speaker 2: But that's the problem.

679
00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:54,360
Speaker 6: Like when you're texting someone that you really really really like,

680
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:56,600
Speaker 6: people can get like crippled by fear of saying that

681
00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:58,960
Speaker 6: i'n thing, but like if they're not going to respond

682
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:02,320
Speaker 6: to you and fuck them, you know, but obviously it's

683
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:06,640
Speaker 6: like it's easy to say.

684
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:09,080
Speaker 2: I think people are they are. My friend, my friend

685
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:09,960
Speaker 2: was flirting.

686
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 6: With the guy once and she said, I overtext and

687
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:13,840
Speaker 6: she said, I think I'm gonna ship my pants.

688
00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:16,960
Speaker 2: She said that to you. She texted me that. I said, don't.

689
00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:21,240
Speaker 7: I said, don't, don't do that young though she's twenty four,

690
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:24,000
Speaker 7: that's not that's a fetus.

691
00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:26,560
Speaker 2: That's me. He don't just stress so much about what

692
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 2: to say.

693
00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:29,320
Speaker 6: And then there's obviously flirting that's like very low stakes

694
00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:30,880
Speaker 6: and that's just like, you know, you could go back

695
00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:32,000
Speaker 6: and forth for days.

696
00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:35,320
Speaker 1: But okayn't that thing's gonna happen? What about some physical flirting?

697
00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:36,560
Speaker 1: What you do?

698
00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:38,240
Speaker 2: Yessically?

699
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:43,040
Speaker 3: Like you answer the call of whoever they call the hotline?

700
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:44,000
Speaker 2: Okay.

701
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 6: So I texted my roommate when I knew I was

702
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:48,680
Speaker 6: would be on this podcast, and I said, how much

703
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:50,760
Speaker 6: to you should I spell on the podcast? He said,

704
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:53,000
Speaker 6: I should spell it? So I'm going to s roommate,

705
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:54,960
Speaker 6: my roommate is just what my gay best friend?

706
00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 1: Yes, because that's why he gets it. He was like spilled,

707
00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:02,920
Speaker 1: He's like, don't hold back. Also, he's gay, He's he

708
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 1: wants you to be messy.

709
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:07,200
Speaker 3: Because he wants your mess to like be more than

710
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:07,720
Speaker 3: his mess.

711
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:10,160
Speaker 2: That is what it is. Yes, So I've had a

712
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:15,920
Speaker 2: few run in with celebs. Cross my legs. Okay, well

713
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:17,320
Speaker 2: what happened up?

714
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 6: So I actually am very proud. I haven't egot. I've

715
00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 6: hooked up with guys who've won an Emmy, a Grammy,

716
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 6: an Oscar, and a.

717
00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 2: Teen Choice Award Choice. Wait, okay, so who, okay are

718
00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:32,760
Speaker 2: you going to name these names?

719
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:35,360
Speaker 6: I'm not gonna I'll tell you after the names.

720
00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 2: You can tell us around.

721
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:39,600
Speaker 6: About I'll time around. So well, i'll tell you first

722
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:40,680
Speaker 6: about so I'll.

723
00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:41,440
Speaker 2: Do it chronologically.

724
00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 6: There's one that I really can't talk about, but the

725
00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:45,080
Speaker 6: two first two I can.

726
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:48,560
Speaker 2: Okay, we'll just say allegedly allegedly they can't. See.

727
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:50,920
Speaker 6: When I was twenty, I had just moved to New

728
00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:53,160
Speaker 6: York because I dropped out of college, and my brother

729
00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 6: was in town and he's friends with a very famous swimmer,

730
00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:58,040
Speaker 6: Olympic swimmer.

731
00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:00,840
Speaker 2: My mom, he's not the one. When I had that way,

732
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:02,360
Speaker 2: But yes, yes, yes, yes.

733
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:04,640
Speaker 6: So we went to we went to a club in

734
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:07,160
Speaker 6: the meatpacking district and I was twenty so I didn't

735
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 6: even know if I would get in, but I went

736
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:10,240
Speaker 6: with my friend. No, it's called catch.

737
00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:12,960
Speaker 2: Oh wait still that's still going strong right now?

738
00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 7: Yeah?

739
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:16,880
Speaker 6: Yeah, So we went and they like had a table

740
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:18,560
Speaker 6: and it was just really crowded, and I was like, oh,

741
00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:20,560
Speaker 6: this might be lame, it's like whatever.

742
00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:23,560
Speaker 2: But then I saw remember what you had on? Yes,

743
00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 2: I do.

744
00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:27,320
Speaker 6: Actually okay I had on a white tube top and highwaysted.

745
00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:29,239
Speaker 1: Jeans, white top.

746
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:35,480
Speaker 2: And wedges. You had all she did. She had the cork.

747
00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:37,040
Speaker 2: She had the cork. Yeah you look it.

748
00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:41,680
Speaker 6: Was I was trying to look, you know, twenty one. Yeah,

749
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:46,440
Speaker 6: because also like effortless, right, so I see, I know,

750
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:49,800
Speaker 6: I like recognize people, like I know people celebrities, names

751
00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:51,080
Speaker 6: and stuff Like I'm one of those people who if

752
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:53,320
Speaker 6: we watch a movie, I'll be like, that person's from

753
00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:55,120
Speaker 6: like an episode of Living.

754
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:57,840
Speaker 3: The Wires faces too, but I don't remember where I

755
00:32:57,840 --> 00:32:58,280
Speaker 3: saw them from.

756
00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:01,440
Speaker 2: Okay, what is that person from? What movie?

757
00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:03,440
Speaker 3: So that's why people don't go to the movies with me, right,

758
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:04,400
Speaker 3: because you're.

759
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:08,520
Speaker 6: The person asking what movie Okay, so I recognize someone

760
00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:12,160
Speaker 6: who i'd seen in the movies, and I was like, whatever,

761
00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:14,480
Speaker 6: I'll just go be like I'm a huge fan, like

762
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 6: nice to meet you.

763
00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:18,680
Speaker 1: That's a twenty year old movie right now.

764
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:20,320
Speaker 3: Because I just do that, I'll just look cool and

765
00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:22,960
Speaker 3: I like, I don't know you. I like Denzil what

766
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:25,480
Speaker 3: wash wash I don't know.

767
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:28,440
Speaker 6: Well, then, I think the good thing about a crowded

768
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:30,040
Speaker 6: club is that you can kind of take a lap

769
00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 6: and like just cross paths with them, you know, so

770
00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:35,080
Speaker 6: you can stage that interaction a little bit.

771
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:37,720
Speaker 2: So I remember I went up to we like you said,

772
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:40,400
Speaker 2: you can stage it. The security guardcie us, Oh, they do.

773
00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:44,720
Speaker 6: So I went up to him and I said, oh,

774
00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:46,920
Speaker 6: like you know, I didn't go up to him, but

775
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 6: we were passing, and I was like, oh, like, if

776
00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:51,280
Speaker 6: i'm Marybeth, I might have touched his arm.

777
00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:54,240
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm Marriedbeth. I'm a huge fan. Yeah.

778
00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:55,600
Speaker 2: I mean, she need him to know what her name is,

779
00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 2: you know, because.

780
00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:01,880
Speaker 1: It's two names though, so four letters of each ship

781
00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 1: it's eight letters.

782
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:07,080
Speaker 6: So he was like, you're he I immediately heard what

783
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 6: I said. I knew he heard what I said, and

784
00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 6: he was like, oh, you're a ceiling fan what like.

785
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:13,080
Speaker 6: He was like trying to come back at me, like

786
00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:16,240
Speaker 6: with a joking response, and I was like, that's really corny.

787
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:17,880
Speaker 6: But I didn't know how old he was then, and

788
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:19,320
Speaker 6: then when I found out it made sense.

789
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:22,239
Speaker 2: He was like sixteen. He was like a Jonas Brothers. No,

790
00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:26,640
Speaker 2: he was like old, so that made sense.

791
00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:29,279
Speaker 6: But then I was like, oh hah no, like I've

792
00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:31,560
Speaker 6: seen you and the movies and like big fan.

793
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:34,719
Speaker 2: And then kind of like walked off. That's how you

794
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:37,399
Speaker 2: get you say it, you walk away, walk away, you don't.

795
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:40,000
Speaker 1: And then his head he was like, wait is she

796
00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:44,279
Speaker 1: is she down? She's That's what he was thinking.

797
00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:45,920
Speaker 2: He said, He's like, damn man, I'm going to suck

798
00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:47,400
Speaker 2: that up. Yeah.

799
00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:50,000
Speaker 6: So then I was just dancing, you know, with my

800
00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:52,200
Speaker 6: friend and we had drinks and then let me see

801
00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:52,719
Speaker 6: what you was doing.

802
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:53,320
Speaker 2: Let me know.

803
00:34:53,600 --> 00:35:00,200
Speaker 6: I'll show you after, Okay. So his security guard came

804
00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:02,080
Speaker 6: up to me and said, he wants you to sit

805
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:03,800
Speaker 6: next to him in his booth.

806
00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:06,799
Speaker 2: How many people are in the booth because I'm not.

807
00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:10,360
Speaker 6: Probably just him and it was actually just him and

808
00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:11,719
Speaker 6: as a manager, Yeah.

809
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:13,880
Speaker 1: The booths are not that big at cash, I know,

810
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:15,960
Speaker 1: but still something a lot of people in these booths.

811
00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:19,440
Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, And I sat down and I was we

812
00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:21,000
Speaker 6: were like chatting a little bit, and I was like, well,

813
00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:22,680
Speaker 6: I don't want to monopolize your time because I know

814
00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:24,000
Speaker 6: there's a lot of girls in here that want to.

815
00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:24,359
Speaker 2: Talk to.

816
00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:35,480
Speaker 3: She said frequently earlier, the guys Monopoli. He was, I'm

817
00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:36,759
Speaker 3: a frequently monopolized.

818
00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 6: That is said, uh, you know, this isn't really my scene. Like,

819
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:44,920
Speaker 6: I'm forty one, so I don't really yea, well she

820
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:47,600
Speaker 6: was twenty. He was didn't ask mine though, of course,

821
00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 6: because he mayord and my room or not my roommate.

822
00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:52,960
Speaker 6: But my friend who I was there with was talking

823
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:56,319
Speaker 6: to his manager, who was also like very attractive, and

824
00:35:56,440 --> 00:35:59,200
Speaker 6: so she was being forty one, yeah, very in his

825
00:35:59,239 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 6: forty is.

826
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:02,040
Speaker 2: Probably very married, probably too, And.

827
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:04,480
Speaker 6: We talked for a little bit, probably maybe like a

828
00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:06,320
Speaker 6: half hour, and we were just like going back and

829
00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 6: forth at the club. At the club, yeah, so my

830
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:12,560
Speaker 6: name is married Beth, yeah exactly, just screaming over the music.

831
00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:16,399
Speaker 6: And he was like, I said, oh, this isn't really

832
00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:18,319
Speaker 6: my scene either. At one point and he was like,

833
00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:20,959
Speaker 6: would you want to leave? And I was like, yeah,

834
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:22,320
Speaker 6: let's go somewhere else.

835
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:25,799
Speaker 2: Mary, keep it going, keep it going, let's go. Let

836
00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:29,920
Speaker 2: me put He was staying at the Grammercy Park Hotel,

837
00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:33,480
Speaker 2: so I used to work, so we were there, probably

838
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:36,319
Speaker 2: probably served out and he probably tipped her ninety.

839
00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:39,319
Speaker 6: And my friend and his manager were still talking to

840
00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 6: So we all four left together. Okay, we get to

841
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:43,799
Speaker 6: the bar at Grammercy Park Hotel.

842
00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:47,680
Speaker 2: Sydney was there, Yeah, there.

843
00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:51,680
Speaker 6: His manager and my friend went to They both had

844
00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:53,240
Speaker 6: to like pee or whatever, so they were.

845
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:55,320
Speaker 2: They had to quote unquote pee. Yeah.

846
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 6: So then he was like, do you want to drink?

847
00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:59,680
Speaker 6: And I was like not really, You're like no, I

848
00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:00,480
Speaker 6: don't roofie.

849
00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:02,719
Speaker 2: I'm okay, and my throat's nut dry.

850
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:06,360
Speaker 6: I had a water at home, and so he was like,

851
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:08,279
Speaker 6: all right, well let's just go into my round. Say no,

852
00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:11,680
Speaker 6: because I didn't really want a drink, Okay, I just

853
00:37:11,719 --> 00:37:14,359
Speaker 6: wanted to you know, you don't really drink that much.

854
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:17,120
Speaker 6: I definitely drank that much at the time when I

855
00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:17,480
Speaker 6: was twenty.

856
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:19,600
Speaker 2: I don't really get that much right now, but I

857
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 2: was yeah, I was like I want to remember this.

858
00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:25,400
Speaker 6: And so we got in the elevator and immediately started

859
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:27,600
Speaker 6: making out and I was like, okay, I think it's

860
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:30,120
Speaker 6: I think it's on. And then we went upstairs to

861
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:33,400
Speaker 6: his room and he was actually like very respectful and

862
00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:33,919
Speaker 6: like good.

863
00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:37,120
Speaker 2: It was like slow and gentle, took your clothes off

864
00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:37,640
Speaker 2: and then photo.

865
00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:42,400
Speaker 6: So I was like, I was like, I don't want

866
00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 6: to have sex. Like we can do everything, I don't

867
00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:47,360
Speaker 6: want to have sex. And he said absolutely no problem.

868
00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:49,920
Speaker 6: Didn't even bring it up again. And I could have

869
00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 6: been in a like pretty bad situation, like I was

870
00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:55,000
Speaker 6: twenty years old. This guy's like pretty strong, he's forty one.

871
00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:57,440
Speaker 6: He could have easily just been like, you know the

872
00:37:57,480 --> 00:38:00,600
Speaker 6: type of like about the zy me too.

873
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:02,799
Speaker 2: He didn't. He didn't even push it at all.

874
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:05,279
Speaker 6: But we stayed up pretty much all night and then

875
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:07,160
Speaker 6: he had to fly to l A in the morning.

876
00:38:07,560 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 2: Night a night was doing even have sex with all.

877
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:14,840
Speaker 6: It was just a lot, a lot of cuddling. Actually,

878
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:16,400
Speaker 6: I know.

879
00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:17,440
Speaker 2: I can go home for that.

880
00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 3: I got a body pillow with that at the Grammarcy

881
00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:23,320
Speaker 3: Park Hotel.

882
00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:27,000
Speaker 2: We didn't just cuddle, but it was fine.

883
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:28,200
Speaker 3: I mean you.

884
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:37,440
Speaker 2: Gotta go down. That's the way too, Okay. So that

885
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:40,640
Speaker 2: was which which award winner That was the Oscar. Okay,

886
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:41,120
Speaker 2: all right.

887
00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:43,520
Speaker 3: So it was like Daniel day Lewis, you got you

888
00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:46,359
Speaker 3: got kuci for you married? Okay, and then so then

889
00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:49,560
Speaker 3: we'll go to teen Choice Award because I would like

890
00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:50,800
Speaker 3: to somebody run your age.

891
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:51,680
Speaker 2: This was more recent.

892
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:54,600
Speaker 6: Also, I want to clarify that none of these were

893
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 6: to further my career. When I was twenty, I wasn't

894
00:38:57,160 --> 00:38:58,600
Speaker 6: even doing comedy.

895
00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:03,240
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, but I feel like, is further your body

896
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:05,440
Speaker 1: can Yeah, you're doing what you don't.

897
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:08,239
Speaker 6: Matter, right, I just want I think people are like, oh,

898
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:10,439
Speaker 6: she's trying to sleep her not people are like because

899
00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:12,640
Speaker 6: not that many people even know these stories, but if

900
00:39:12,680 --> 00:39:14,560
Speaker 6: people hear that, they might think, oh, she's trying to

901
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 6: like funk her way to the top, which I would

902
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:17,799
Speaker 6: do as I wish I would do.

903
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:19,640
Speaker 2: But in these cases it was not.

904
00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:21,800
Speaker 1: I'm trying to find these people that are fucking the

905
00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 1: way to the top.

906
00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:24,880
Speaker 2: Where they are? Yeah, I know, I haven't. They're at

907
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:31,240
Speaker 2: the top, dude, They're taking with us there at the.

908
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:33,440
Speaker 8: U.

909
00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:36,560
Speaker 6: So I went to l A a few years. This

910
00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:39,400
Speaker 6: was a year and a half ago. I was recently single,

911
00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 6: a few months out of a relationship, and I was

912
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:44,920
Speaker 6: visiting my friend and she said, and you know whatever,

913
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:47,160
Speaker 6: she said, We're gonna go to this bar tonight. It's

914
00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:48,440
Speaker 6: called Barney's Beanery.

915
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:50,360
Speaker 2: That sounds like a place where I don't want to go.

916
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:55,480
Speaker 2: Me too, and where Hollywood. I was like something, a

917
00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:57,960
Speaker 2: lot of gay people. I didn't know what to expect.

918
00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:00,720
Speaker 2: But there's like billiards with how so rude.

919
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:04,040
Speaker 6: There's billiards, uh, and just things I'm not interested in.

920
00:40:04,440 --> 00:40:10,000
Speaker 2: Billiards. Yeah, billiards. Billiards?

921
00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:10,160
Speaker 4: Ye?

922
00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:12,799
Speaker 2: I like, is that the thing with the shuttle cock?

923
00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:17,440
Speaker 6: I'm thinking of some shuffle board shuf board badin Badminton.

924
00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:18,200
Speaker 2: You're idiot.

925
00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:22,280
Speaker 6: Yeah. We went and there was a table of people

926
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:25,319
Speaker 6: who like c W stars, like stars from.

927
00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:27,040
Speaker 2: The c W. I saw you with some people from

928
00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:27,879
Speaker 2: like Archie.

929
00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:33,600
Speaker 6: River Hunt wasn't out yet but a few shows on Netflix.

930
00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:35,600
Speaker 2: But it's the Gossip Girls c W.

931
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:39,720
Speaker 7: It was a gossip girl guy, get it, can't say okay.

932
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:41,160
Speaker 2: Let me look up the gossip. It was somebody from.

933
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:44,239
Speaker 6: One Tree who they were all just sitting there kind

934
00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:46,960
Speaker 6: of casually, and I just I was just ignoring them.

935
00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:48,959
Speaker 6: I actually thought I was gonna hook up with someone

936
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:50,640
Speaker 6: else that night who I had known from home.

937
00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:53,680
Speaker 2: Mary, I feel like you're really good at ignor I am,

938
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:55,040
Speaker 2: but that's how you get them doing.

939
00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:58,239
Speaker 1: You gotta act like you introduce your because like the

940
00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:01,799
Speaker 1: way the way you approached the osk Her guy, I

941
00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:03,719
Speaker 1: don't think Sydney or I would have done that, but

942
00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 1: you approached them and then walked away.

943
00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:06,479
Speaker 2: The walk away I'm.

944
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:09,280
Speaker 1: All about, yeah, but I would have never even approached exactly.

945
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:12,200
Speaker 1: But you got to aroach him and then be like anyway,

946
00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:13,240
Speaker 1: fan of your word.

947
00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:15,600
Speaker 6: If that's what you want to do, if that's the

948
00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:16,520
Speaker 6: vibe you want to put.

949
00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:18,200
Speaker 2: Out, and I'm gonna be a hoe. In l A.

950
00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:24,680
Speaker 6: Barney's, we were just so it was getting kind of

951
00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:27,840
Speaker 6: late and some people had left, so it was four

952
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:29,839
Speaker 6: guys and then me and my few friends. The guy

953
00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:31,239
Speaker 6: I thought I was going to hook up with left

954
00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:33,560
Speaker 6: because he got mad that I was talking to someone else.

955
00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:34,200
Speaker 2: Of course it was very.

956
00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:37,440
Speaker 6: Silly, matter fragile, but I actually want to thank him

957
00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:39,880
Speaker 6: someday because if he hadn't left, then this should have

958
00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:46,400
Speaker 6: never happen. Thank you for so And going home, one

959
00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:49,560
Speaker 6: of my friend's friends was flirting with one of his friends,

960
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:52,120
Speaker 6: and I wasn't even gonna broach the subject.

961
00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:54,800
Speaker 2: So, Mary, you need a wing woman. I think a

962
00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:57,959
Speaker 2: woman that Sidney. You're not a good wing woman.

963
00:41:58,040 --> 00:41:58,799
Speaker 5: Why am I not?

964
00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:02,279
Speaker 3: Because what what egot dick have you ever gotten me?

965
00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 1: Well, we haven't gone to places where the egos are at.

966
00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:07,680
Speaker 2: Okay, you gotta right place at.

967
00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:10,320
Speaker 1: The wed be at the regular as bars, the matchless

968
00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:10,800
Speaker 1: and whatnot.

969
00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:13,600
Speaker 2: That's getting shut down. That's where we be at.

970
00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:16,640
Speaker 6: It's really just you never know where they're going to be.

971
00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:19,879
Speaker 2: The probably they're everywhere. We just don't be there when

972
00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:20,920
Speaker 2: they're there at those times.

973
00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:24,640
Speaker 6: So you are his friend, My friend's friend is talking

974
00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:28,279
Speaker 6: to his friend. He is sitting where there's two booths.

975
00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:30,680
Speaker 6: All most people are sitting at one booth. He's sitting

976
00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:33,359
Speaker 6: at the other booth with like turned to face us.

977
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:35,160
Speaker 2: Okay, now what are you wearing at Barney's.

978
00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:40,839
Speaker 6: I'm wearing a really short black dress from Reformation, so

979
00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:44,040
Speaker 6: the material is beautiful, it's tight, and white converse which

980
00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:44,799
Speaker 6: will come up later.

981
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:48,120
Speaker 3: Cash Cash you left him on while yea, okay, yeah,

982
00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:49,759
Speaker 3: that's because.

983
00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 2: You were like, I'm doing this, but I'm not trying

984
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:51,520
Speaker 2: too hard.

985
00:42:51,880 --> 00:42:53,759
Speaker 3: She had on a form to dollar Reformation dress and

986
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:55,719
Speaker 3: then like a thirty sneak that.

987
00:42:57,400 --> 00:42:59,560
Speaker 2: It was a high top or a low to low top,

988
00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:01,440
Speaker 2: and they were already okay, got it. Okay.

989
00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:04,759
Speaker 6: He's sitting alone, and I see his beers empty, and

990
00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:06,920
Speaker 6: we have pictures on the table, so I take one

991
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:08,520
Speaker 6: of the pictures. I go and sit down and I

992
00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:11,400
Speaker 6: just fill up his glass and then we just started talking.

993
00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:13,239
Speaker 2: I was the waitress move.

994
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:15,400
Speaker 6: I was like, your glass looked a little empty.

995
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:21,720
Speaker 2: I couldn't do that. This is not the help opening

996
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:24,000
Speaker 2: I saw an opening had to take.

997
00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:27,400
Speaker 1: It would have stayed open even as a waitress. I

998
00:43:27,440 --> 00:43:29,640
Speaker 1: was like, you better put your own ship, like I

999
00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:30,319
Speaker 1: know you pay me.

1000
00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:39,399
Speaker 2: I'm not. That would have been a strong move. Yeah,

1001
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:40,480
Speaker 2: and might have.

1002
00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:42,920
Speaker 6: Worked and probably Okay, so you pour it and then

1003
00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:44,799
Speaker 6: what And then I sat down and so it was

1004
00:43:44,880 --> 00:43:46,960
Speaker 6: just us two at the table at the booth, and

1005
00:43:47,040 --> 00:43:49,479
Speaker 6: so then we start talking. We're comparing shoes. He's also

1006
00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:52,480
Speaker 6: wearing white sneakers with theirs. I think they were standing.

1007
00:43:52,360 --> 00:44:00,239
Speaker 8: Miss with those things called those which ones, those ones

1008
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 8: that like they have like they look like regular they

1009
00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:02,919
Speaker 8: look like al doo.

1010
00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:05,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, but they have like put their like or something

1011
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:06,880
Speaker 2: nineteen hundred dollars.

1012
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 6: I don't funk with those, but he was just wearing

1013
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:12,600
Speaker 6: he was dressed so well. It was like frustrating. He's

1014
00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:15,040
Speaker 6: he's very he's actually the hottest person I've ever seen.

1015
00:44:15,160 --> 00:44:17,960
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna look up. You better show us. I will.

1016
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:22,560
Speaker 6: And we start flirting. The bars closing. The waitress is

1017
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:25,680
Speaker 6: coming over the bartender, and I think she's flirting with him.

1018
00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:26,640
Speaker 2: She probably is.

1019
00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:29,160
Speaker 6: She like she leaned, she sits down to like count

1020
00:44:29,200 --> 00:44:30,480
Speaker 6: the cat.

1021
00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:34,160
Speaker 2: Of course she sat at the booth count cash. That's rude.

1022
00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:36,439
Speaker 3: No, she was trying to be like, well, I can

1023
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:39,600
Speaker 3: treat you. Also, I don't write for many or.

1024
00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:41,279
Speaker 1: Maybe she was kind of be like, hey, man, I

1025
00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:43,399
Speaker 1: feel like you could have threw a couple of moments, yeah,

1026
00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:46,040
Speaker 1: because that would have been my move.

1027
00:44:46,120 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 2: I'm like, man, this sure is short. I think they

1028
00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:49,200
Speaker 2: were friends.

1029
00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:51,239
Speaker 6: I don't know, okay, but he said, he said, I

1030
00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:52,240
Speaker 6: live right around the corner.

1031
00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:53,560
Speaker 2: Do you guys want to go back to my place?

1032
00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:55,640
Speaker 2: Do you guys?

1033
00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:58,719
Speaker 6: So the group of us went okay, and we were

1034
00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:02,160
Speaker 6: walking and he I did that. We were talking and

1035
00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:04,959
Speaker 6: I forget what he said, but something about being only

1036
00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:06,799
Speaker 6: having been in La for twenty four hours, and I

1037
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:08,440
Speaker 6: kind of like nudged him a little bit, you know,

1038
00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 6: when you like flirtatiously like push someone, and he just

1039
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:13,840
Speaker 6: like reacted in a way where I was like, okay,

1040
00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:14,799
Speaker 6: I think this is on.

1041
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:18,200
Speaker 2: Wait, so he joked about you being he had joked.

1042
00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:19,960
Speaker 6: He's like, oh, you've been in La twenty four hours

1043
00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:21,440
Speaker 6: and I don't even I don't remember what the second

1044
00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:22,200
Speaker 6: part was to that.

1045
00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:24,000
Speaker 2: And then I kind of you've only been in LA

1046
00:45:24,040 --> 00:45:27,560
Speaker 2: for twenty hours and you're ready to sucka you were like,

1047
00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:27,960
Speaker 2: and I.

1048
00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:33,440
Speaker 6: Was like to stop, but yeah, like schlob on, ho on,

1049
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:40,560
Speaker 6: look up. I pushed him a little bit. He was like,

1050
00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:43,040
Speaker 6: you know, he like nudged back. And then we went

1051
00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:47,759
Speaker 6: to his humongous loft department in West Hollywood.

1052
00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:49,000
Speaker 2: And his friends are you know.

1053
00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 6: We smoked a little weed on the balcony and he

1054
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:55,480
Speaker 6: was playing music, and then we were in his kitchen

1055
00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:59,480
Speaker 6: looking through each other's instagrams, and then I just remember

1056
00:45:59,480 --> 00:46:02,640
Speaker 6: we were dancing little, I know. Then we danced a

1057
00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:05,440
Speaker 6: little bit and then we started kissing, and I was like, okay, cool.

1058
00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:08,120
Speaker 6: And then while everyone was still there, we just went

1059
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:11,000
Speaker 6: straight upstairs into his big, humongous room.

1060
00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:13,080
Speaker 2: So y'all hooked up while the guests were there.

1061
00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:15,040
Speaker 6: Well we started then my friend was texting me and

1062
00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:16,239
Speaker 6: was like, I don't know if you're dead, but I

1063
00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:16,719
Speaker 6: gotta go.

1064
00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:21,360
Speaker 2: So that's that's good. But I got it. No, that's not.

1065
00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:25,680
Speaker 2: You be at the bottom of the stairs like Marie,

1066
00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:30,360
Speaker 2: knock on the door. We gotta go, Marie.

1067
00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:33,680
Speaker 3: We came together, we're leaving together. How black women do it?

1068
00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:35,440
Speaker 3: But white women are like, I don't know if you did,

1069
00:46:35,440 --> 00:46:35,960
Speaker 3: but I gotta go.

1070
00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:39,960
Speaker 2: She's like, yeah, see like the cab ca.

1071
00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:48,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, she had a bow your friend at this sexy

1072
00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:50,680
Speaker 4: serial killers law She was in the cab like, girl,

1073
00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:53,160
Speaker 4: I don't know if you're okay, but but good luck.

1074
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:55,239
Speaker 2: I'm halfway. Send me a picture to put on the

1075
00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:59,080
Speaker 2: shirts at the funeral. Yeah, yeah, pretty much. Stage y'all

1076
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:00,000
Speaker 2: hooked up. It was good.

1077
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:02,680
Speaker 6: It was good, and I was a little nervous. We

1078
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:04,560
Speaker 6: did not so I was prude.

1079
00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 3: I was prude back then, so you're not giving thee

1080
00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:09,279
Speaker 3: and a half ago.

1081
00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:12,440
Speaker 6: I know a lot has changed, a lot has changed.

1082
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:16,120
Speaker 6: The other one I did have sex with, but like

1083
00:47:16,160 --> 00:47:21,880
Speaker 6: the one that I can't talk about, I'm not but

1084
00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:23,319
Speaker 6: I wouldn't worry about him.

1085
00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:25,520
Speaker 2: He definitely was. He was well taken care of.

1086
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:28,480
Speaker 6: And I was nervous because you know when people are

1087
00:47:28,520 --> 00:47:29,880
Speaker 6: so hot that you don't think they're gonna have a

1088
00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:30,799
Speaker 6: good personality.

1089
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:36,239
Speaker 2: I don't know. I am not sure I am a personality.

1090
00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:40,040
Speaker 6: I agree, but then people might be surprised you have

1091
00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:40,920
Speaker 6: a good personality.

1092
00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:44,680
Speaker 2: They're always like it makes sense.

1093
00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:48,200
Speaker 6: I think, especially with guys when they're super hot, I

1094
00:47:48,239 --> 00:47:49,920
Speaker 6: expect that they're going to be really boring.

1095
00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:52,880
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yes, but we woke up, we woke spent the

1096
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:56,240
Speaker 3: next Okay, so did you have like a dig purse.

1097
00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:59,319
Speaker 2: Did you have like some toiler trees? I had nothing.

1098
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:01,960
Speaker 6: I had a glossy one of those ziplock glossier bags.

1099
00:48:02,040 --> 00:48:04,680
Speaker 6: Nothing really. I had my larrings.

1100
00:48:06,000 --> 00:48:11,239
Speaker 2: I'm staying. I needed lip cloves, need somewhere to put

1101
00:48:11,239 --> 00:48:11,800
Speaker 2: my earrings.

1102
00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:15,040
Speaker 3: You had like lashes, like I thing you take it,

1103
00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:17,360
Speaker 3: put your lashes in the little lashes case.

1104
00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:19,560
Speaker 1: Bro. I would have just slept like I was dead.

1105
00:48:19,560 --> 00:48:21,279
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm not taking his makeup.

1106
00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:23,839
Speaker 2: On, like no, I'm good, no, no, no no.

1107
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:26,800
Speaker 1: I would have slipped the chair. I'm like, na I

1108
00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:31,560
Speaker 1: gotta sit up. My back is bad. So you didn't

1109
00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:32,480
Speaker 1: do you spend the night.

1110
00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:33,200
Speaker 2: I spent the night.

1111
00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:35,719
Speaker 6: When we woke up, we hooked up again, like you

1112
00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:38,640
Speaker 6: know whatever, and then we were just kind of chatting

1113
00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:42,000
Speaker 6: and flirting. And then I saw a fedora in his

1114
00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:45,640
Speaker 6: room and I was like, is that yours? And he

1115
00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:47,360
Speaker 6: was like, I got it for free at this like

1116
00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:50,359
Speaker 6: sporting sporting event I went to in like Puerto Rico

1117
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:52,239
Speaker 6: or something. He was like, you should put it on,

1118
00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:53,839
Speaker 6: and then you took it and then I did, and

1119
00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:55,080
Speaker 6: he was like it looks better on you.

1120
00:48:55,000 --> 00:48:57,480
Speaker 2: You should keep it. Oh that's nice. So but wait,

1121
00:48:57,800 --> 00:48:59,200
Speaker 2: did he make you breakfast?

1122
00:48:59,480 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 6: No?

1123
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:02,600
Speaker 2: He gave you a fucking hat. No, I'm hungry. I wouldn't.

1124
00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:04,880
Speaker 6: I don't think he had any food, Like I don't.

1125
00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:08,080
Speaker 6: His apartment was like it was so clean, but it

1126
00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:09,560
Speaker 6: wasn't because he's clean.

1127
00:49:09,680 --> 00:49:12,400
Speaker 2: I just think like he doesn't have stuff. Yeah, he

1128
00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:15,600
Speaker 2: doesn't hate that ship. Yeah, fucking make me food? Man?

1129
00:49:15,680 --> 00:49:17,600
Speaker 2: When not kind to somebody else's house. He didn't make

1130
00:49:17,640 --> 00:49:22,000
Speaker 2: you nothing. I wouldn't know.

1131
00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:25,160
Speaker 6: Do you you even't been dating guys in a while,

1132
00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:26,000
Speaker 6: They don't do that.

1133
00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:28,080
Speaker 2: Nah, I do made me breakfast one time and I

1134
00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 2: was like, one time. I don't like anything. That you

1135
00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:30,680
Speaker 2: made No.

1136
00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:32,799
Speaker 6: I would never if a guy made me breakfast, I

1137
00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:34,520
Speaker 6: would be scared so shook.

1138
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 2: I would probably leave the dude. She's omelets, and I

1139
00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:43,480
Speaker 2: was like, oh we're staying together. He's omelets. I'm speechless.

1140
00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:45,560
Speaker 2: She's homeless. And he put a little chime on it.

1141
00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:50,400
Speaker 2: So he's a professional chef. He was a troll and

1142
00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:52,000
Speaker 2: a midget. He's a midget.

1143
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:57,920
Speaker 1: He was an Emerald Leagasi troll. He's but he was

1144
00:49:57,920 --> 00:49:58,920
Speaker 1: like standing on a stool.

1145
00:49:59,080 --> 00:50:04,920
Speaker 2: Yeah got it? Okay, so so but then did he

1146
00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:07,840
Speaker 2: call you an uber? Yeah? Okay, that's black.

1147
00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:10,880
Speaker 6: It wasn't a pool. They didn't even have pool. Then.

1148
00:50:10,880 --> 00:50:11,160
Speaker 6: I don't know.

1149
00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:15,120
Speaker 2: I don't know, but I remember leaving and just being like,

1150
00:50:15,160 --> 00:50:17,080
Speaker 2: I can't believe that just happened. If you picked me

1151
00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:18,880
Speaker 2: up in a regular white car, I'll be mad. I

1152
00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:21,160
Speaker 2: want a black car. I want my driver to have

1153
00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:21,640
Speaker 2: a hat on.

1154
00:50:21,960 --> 00:50:24,000
Speaker 6: And everything in La is so far away. So I

1155
00:50:24,040 --> 00:50:25,880
Speaker 6: had to just sit in the Uber for like forty

1156
00:50:25,880 --> 00:50:28,680
Speaker 6: minutes to get back to Venice Beach, and I got

1157
00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:32,160
Speaker 6: a happidly group texting, pressing my friend saying I can't

1158
00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:35,480
Speaker 6: believe this just happened. Also, thank god you're still alive. Right,

1159
00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:37,480
Speaker 6: They're like, we're glad you're safe. But if you had

1160
00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:39,680
Speaker 6: died at his place, that would have been cool too.

1161
00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:41,600
Speaker 2: Your friend, because you would have had this story. They're like,

1162
00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:45,120
Speaker 2: hashtag Heath Ledger because he died at the Olsen Twins house.

1163
00:50:45,440 --> 00:50:47,319
Speaker 2: So then tell us about what was We got the

1164
00:50:47,320 --> 00:50:49,840
Speaker 2: E and the T. Can we talk about the G

1165
00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:51,600
Speaker 2: or the No, we got the O and the T.

1166
00:50:52,160 --> 00:50:55,080
Speaker 6: The G and the E are actually one person. He's

1167
00:50:55,160 --> 00:50:56,560
Speaker 6: very a very talented person.

1168
00:50:57,160 --> 00:51:00,520
Speaker 2: Okay, so let's get to it. It's he's a damn

1169
00:51:00,960 --> 00:51:07,080
Speaker 2: dude from Hamilton. Yeah, it was Linda, he has two

1170
00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:09,400
Speaker 2: It was a childish Gambino because I feel like he

1171
00:51:09,400 --> 00:51:12,440
Speaker 2: had a couple of things. Also, it was not childish.

1172
00:51:12,640 --> 00:51:15,120
Speaker 2: He is on my list, but it was not childish.

1173
00:51:15,120 --> 00:51:19,120
Speaker 1: Cambino looks like he got terrible six anything.

1174
00:51:20,080 --> 00:51:20,799
Speaker 2: I don't see. Okay.

1175
00:51:20,840 --> 00:51:23,520
Speaker 6: One thing I really don't care about with guys is height,

1176
00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:26,480
Speaker 6: because you're tall. I'm five to seven, so I'm not

1177
00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:30,879
Speaker 6: super tall, but I definitely yeah, I'm I am head

1178
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:33,120
Speaker 6: to head with a lot of dudes and it doesn't

1179
00:51:33,120 --> 00:51:33,600
Speaker 6: bother me.

1180
00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:37,919
Speaker 2: It's not a deal breaker. And four so you're the same.

1181
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:41,120
Speaker 6: I'm well, yeah, that's problematic, and I don't know.

1182
00:51:41,160 --> 00:51:42,200
Speaker 2: Bow wow, you're not much.

1183
00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:45,279
Speaker 6: No. Five four is a bit a bit small, is

1184
00:51:45,280 --> 00:51:46,960
Speaker 6: a wee bit bit small?

1185
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:50,440
Speaker 2: Wait, how tall is your dad? He's like six feet

1186
00:51:51,400 --> 00:51:53,040
Speaker 2: talking about her dad? Dude, what that got to do

1187
00:51:53,080 --> 00:51:56,000
Speaker 2: with anything? So I'm just saying, usually people like people

1188
00:51:56,040 --> 00:51:56,960
Speaker 2: who look like.

1189
00:51:57,800 --> 00:52:00,279
Speaker 6: My brothers or my brothers are taller than my dad.

1190
00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:02,399
Speaker 6: So I might height definitely comes from my dad's side,

1191
00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:05,000
Speaker 6: but he's not that tall. His brother is like six

1192
00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:05,560
Speaker 6: or four.

1193
00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:07,000
Speaker 2: Or something, very tall.

1194
00:52:07,080 --> 00:52:11,319
Speaker 6: Yeah, but the last one, the most recent one we

1195
00:52:11,400 --> 00:52:13,200
Speaker 6: met on the internet, I'll say that.

1196
00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:15,400
Speaker 2: He's living the DMS. It was.

1197
00:52:15,600 --> 00:52:18,759
Speaker 6: It was. It's an insane situation. I cannot even get

1198
00:52:18,760 --> 00:52:19,240
Speaker 6: in dispisse.

1199
00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:21,879
Speaker 2: I really can. I give it.

1200
00:52:21,920 --> 00:52:24,359
Speaker 6: But you know what I'm seeing honestly when I when

1201
00:52:24,360 --> 00:52:26,400
Speaker 6: I write my memoir and I'm going to get a

1202
00:52:26,520 --> 00:52:29,839
Speaker 6: very very fat book. Deal with you, But I can't

1203
00:52:29,880 --> 00:52:31,719
Speaker 6: talk about it. God, you know I can't talk.

1204
00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:34,279
Speaker 2: If you want to hear the real you gotta go

1205
00:52:34,320 --> 00:52:38,160
Speaker 2: to Patreon. You got to subscribe to That's what we're going.

1206
00:52:39,719 --> 00:52:42,160
Speaker 3: It's what we do our bonus episodes where we do

1207
00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:43,759
Speaker 3: Honesty Hour and Sydney Tails.

1208
00:52:45,640 --> 00:52:49,160
Speaker 7: Wow, but it's like a subscription service, so oh shit, okay.

1209
00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:50,000
Speaker 2: Can you tell us anything?

1210
00:52:50,200 --> 00:52:51,800
Speaker 3: Like for the people who are listening to the women

1211
00:52:51,840 --> 00:52:55,120
Speaker 3: and some of the men who maybe see someone that

1212
00:52:55,200 --> 00:52:57,440
Speaker 3: they want to talk to, what's another way that they

1213
00:52:57,440 --> 00:52:58,520
Speaker 3: can approach somebody?

1214
00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:01,279
Speaker 6: I would say the my advice I give to all

1215
00:53:01,320 --> 00:53:03,400
Speaker 6: my friends is that if you want to talk to someone,

1216
00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:07,800
Speaker 6: don't wait, like, just do it because if they're not interested,

1217
00:53:07,840 --> 00:53:10,920
Speaker 6: wouldn't you rather find out sooner? And flirting is a

1218
00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:13,040
Speaker 6: tool and there's the nice thing about it, and it's

1219
00:53:13,080 --> 00:53:15,440
Speaker 6: also a bad thing is that in some ways. But

1220
00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:18,160
Speaker 6: there's so many different ways to flirt with people in

1221
00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:21,160
Speaker 6: twenty eighteen. You can comment on their Instagram, you can

1222
00:53:21,239 --> 00:53:22,680
Speaker 6: like their Instagram, you can wait hold on.

1223
00:53:22,800 --> 00:53:27,480
Speaker 1: So commenting on Instagram could possibly be you could it

1224
00:53:27,520 --> 00:53:29,360
Speaker 1: could possibly be a flirting But then I have to

1225
00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:31,640
Speaker 1: defice device decipher.

1226
00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:37,920
Speaker 2: Sorry I'm tied today. But then you have to decipher

1227
00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:38,960
Speaker 2: if it's a flirt or not.

1228
00:53:39,120 --> 00:53:42,520
Speaker 6: But it's a good way to open the door.

1229
00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:44,520
Speaker 3: You know what, I don't find I don't comment on

1230
00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:46,920
Speaker 3: no famous people think me right now?

1231
00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:47,520
Speaker 2: Who who?

1232
00:53:47,960 --> 00:53:50,840
Speaker 1: But when you do comment Marie, somebody should feel special

1233
00:53:50,880 --> 00:53:52,640
Speaker 1: because you don't comment.

1234
00:53:52,760 --> 00:53:55,320
Speaker 2: I don't comment on honestly.

1235
00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:58,200
Speaker 3: Actually no, you you posted something about getting free meat

1236
00:53:58,239 --> 00:54:00,920
Speaker 3: from the a free sandwich for the deli, and I

1237
00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:03,000
Speaker 3: was like, get me a sausalyo and hitter.

1238
00:54:03,239 --> 00:54:04,959
Speaker 2: So I kind of did on your thing.

1239
00:54:05,320 --> 00:54:07,879
Speaker 6: I think more people should use flirting as a as

1240
00:54:08,000 --> 00:54:11,400
Speaker 6: like a tool. And you know what, I actually flirted

1241
00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:14,600
Speaker 6: with someone who was ghosting me and it worked. I

1242
00:54:14,600 --> 00:54:16,640
Speaker 6: didn't end up seeing him again, but he did respond.

1243
00:54:16,960 --> 00:54:21,120
Speaker 6: They and they were trying to ghost me and hook up.

1244
00:54:21,239 --> 00:54:24,240
Speaker 6: We did hook up and I was very specific. Yes,

1245
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:26,080
Speaker 6: I said, I don't do one night's stand, so if

1246
00:54:26,080 --> 00:54:27,520
Speaker 6: we have sex, I'm gonna want to hook up with

1247
00:54:27,520 --> 00:54:29,400
Speaker 6: you again. He said, if we hook up tonight, we

1248
00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:31,440
Speaker 6: will hook up again. And then it was a few

1249
00:54:31,520 --> 00:54:34,520
Speaker 6: weeks and I hadn't heard from m. Yep, you believe

1250
00:54:35,080 --> 00:54:38,440
Speaker 6: I trust people when they are talking to my face.

1251
00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:41,040
Speaker 1: You don't trust you have the face of somebody. You

1252
00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:42,000
Speaker 1: need to speak to my lawyer.

1253
00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:45,000
Speaker 6: I should have had signed something I'll have but I

1254
00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:46,840
Speaker 6: was like, I'm not letting this guy ghost me. This

1255
00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:48,680
Speaker 6: Like I I just won't put.

1256
00:54:48,600 --> 00:54:48,920
Speaker 3: Up with it.

1257
00:54:49,040 --> 00:54:50,600
Speaker 2: So what did you say, what would you do?

1258
00:54:50,719 --> 00:54:53,799
Speaker 6: I have we have a Donna summer poster in our

1259
00:54:54,120 --> 00:55:00,200
Speaker 6: like foyer foyer, and I took a picture and I said, hey,

1260
00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:01,719
Speaker 6: I didn't want to do this over text, but did

1261
00:55:01,719 --> 00:55:05,400
Speaker 6: you leave this in my apartment the picture of Donna Summer?

1262
00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:08,000
Speaker 6: And he said l m A, oh yeah, my bad.

1263
00:55:08,200 --> 00:55:10,879
Speaker 6: And then we were like for like fort texting back

1264
00:55:10,920 --> 00:55:12,840
Speaker 6: and forth and we never ended up hanging out, but

1265
00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:15,200
Speaker 6: I felt better about the fact that he did respond.

1266
00:55:15,840 --> 00:55:18,160
Speaker 2: Do you think the sex was bad? Like what you well?

1267
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:19,840
Speaker 2: I think it was just not.

1268
00:55:20,280 --> 00:55:22,040
Speaker 6: He had just gotten out of a relationship and I

1269
00:55:22,120 --> 00:55:24,320
Speaker 6: was really really drunk. But I let him smoke a

1270
00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:27,480
Speaker 6: joint literally in my bed. And if I thought you were.

1271
00:55:27,400 --> 00:55:30,040
Speaker 2: Gonna let him smoke a drink in my ass.

1272
00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:41,400
Speaker 5: Oh my god, yeah, yeah, hilarious.

1273
00:55:41,560 --> 00:55:44,239
Speaker 6: He was too grabby anyway. He like, you know when

1274
00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:46,440
Speaker 6: you have bruises on your boobs, Like if guys, don't you.

1275
00:55:50,520 --> 00:55:52,239
Speaker 2: Got to throw me into a wall or throw me

1276
00:55:52,280 --> 00:55:53,680
Speaker 2: out of the window. I don't bruise.

1277
00:55:54,719 --> 00:55:57,400
Speaker 6: I did, and I was like, you know what, maybe

1278
00:55:57,440 --> 00:55:58,439
Speaker 6: I don't need this guy.

1279
00:55:58,840 --> 00:56:03,359
Speaker 1: Oh man may ray, oh my god, Like this has

1280
00:56:03,400 --> 00:56:07,560
Speaker 1: been so good. Mary, you are you are the flirting

1281
00:56:07,560 --> 00:56:09,960
Speaker 1: experts seriously, and I'm so proud of you.

1282
00:56:10,040 --> 00:56:12,359
Speaker 6: I'm happy to take a look at your bumble if

1283
00:56:12,400 --> 00:56:14,920
Speaker 6: you want, if there's anyone that you actually care about responding.

1284
00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:15,960
Speaker 2: I don't care about anybody.

1285
00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:18,480
Speaker 6: I forget why I deleted a bumble because every time

1286
00:56:18,480 --> 00:56:20,879
Speaker 6: I would get a match, I would be like disappointed,

1287
00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:22,400
Speaker 6: and then I'm like, maybe it's because I don't like

1288
00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:23,080
Speaker 6: anyone on here.

1289
00:56:23,200 --> 00:56:25,319
Speaker 2: No, but you gotta make it fun, though, Just make

1290
00:56:25,360 --> 00:56:26,240
Speaker 2: it fun for yourself.

1291
00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:28,839
Speaker 1: Just see, you gotta practice and see how well you

1292
00:56:28,880 --> 00:56:31,720
Speaker 1: can do so when you do like somebody the dating

1293
00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:32,279
Speaker 1: after day.

1294
00:56:32,440 --> 00:56:34,640
Speaker 3: But I honestly, at the end of the day, I'm

1295
00:56:34,640 --> 00:56:37,040
Speaker 3: not gonna meet the love of I'm not looking for

1296
00:56:37,040 --> 00:56:37,640
Speaker 3: the love of my life.

1297
00:56:37,680 --> 00:56:38,560
Speaker 2: Why right, Oh.

1298
00:56:38,600 --> 00:56:41,640
Speaker 6: One thing that's good for flirting if you can after

1299
00:56:41,680 --> 00:56:43,759
Speaker 6: you meet someone or hang out with them, try to

1300
00:56:43,960 --> 00:56:46,080
Speaker 6: think of try to like do a callback to something

1301
00:56:46,120 --> 00:56:48,680
Speaker 6: that they brought up, and you can initiate checks with

1302
00:56:48,719 --> 00:56:50,920
Speaker 6: them that way. Yeah, you have to. You do have

1303
00:56:50,960 --> 00:56:51,880
Speaker 6: to listen in that case.

1304
00:56:51,920 --> 00:56:56,680
Speaker 3: But well, I want out with this guy the other

1305
00:56:56,719 --> 00:56:58,480
Speaker 3: day and he was he said he was going to

1306
00:56:58,520 --> 00:57:01,040
Speaker 3: be in La or when day, and I was like, oh,

1307
00:57:01,040 --> 00:57:01,560
Speaker 3: the tackles are.

1308
00:57:01,480 --> 00:57:03,400
Speaker 2: Really good out there. Blah blah blah. He sent me

1309
00:57:03,440 --> 00:57:06,319
Speaker 2: a picture of some tacos y see that is. He

1310
00:57:06,480 --> 00:57:07,480
Speaker 2: was like, so good.

1311
00:57:07,320 --> 00:57:11,319
Speaker 1: As per your request or your suggestion tacos.

1312
00:57:11,360 --> 00:57:13,520
Speaker 3: And I was like, all right, that's for your suggestions.

1313
00:57:14,320 --> 00:57:19,560
Speaker 3: White that's popping up on my bumble and that's that.

1314
00:57:19,680 --> 00:57:21,960
Speaker 6: See that's good of him. He remembered something you had

1315
00:57:22,040 --> 00:57:24,280
Speaker 6: referenced and then he used it as an opportunity to

1316
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Speaker 6: initiate the conversation again.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

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Speaker 1: I was like, l o, L Mary, I feel like

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Speaker 1: we should go out and do some type of like

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Speaker 1: practice run right like, so we do it.

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Speaker 6: I actually like to yeah, well, I'm I'm working on

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Speaker 6: a talk show pict right now actually where I go

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Speaker 6: on first days with celebrities and I interview them.

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Speaker 2: That'll do well on a Bravo. That'll be amazing. You

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Speaker 2: you're the one. Thank you, Thank so good. Praise be

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Speaker 2: your lululemits man.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: I'm really excited to end the episode so I can

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Speaker 2: find out who these people are.

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Speaker 6: I hope it's not a tech climbactake.

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Speaker 1: Though it wasn't for you, for you, For me, it

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Speaker 1: was great, Okay, Well, we probably won't even know who

1333
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Speaker 1: you talk exactly.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna be like Michael Sorry.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, shades of Blue?

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00:58:14,760 --> 00:58:18,240
Speaker 2: What that terrible show with Jennifer Lopez.

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Speaker 6: Is?

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Speaker 2: Where can people who are listening catch you?

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00:58:24,200 --> 00:58:27,720
Speaker 6: You can catch me doing live comedy in New York, yes,

1340
00:58:28,240 --> 00:58:30,919
Speaker 6: or you can find me on Instagram and Twitter at

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Speaker 6: mary Beth Barone if you want to send me money

1342
00:58:33,680 --> 00:58:37,720
Speaker 6: on Venmo Mary Beth Barone gotta plug that, and I'm

1343
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Speaker 6: on Facebook, uh and YouTube and all that, but mostly

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Speaker 6: Instagram Twitter.

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Speaker 2: Can you spell baron?

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Speaker 6: It's uh, it will spell the whole thing out. Marybeth

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Speaker 6: m a r y b E t H. Last name

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Speaker 6: is Barone b A.

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Speaker 2: R o n E. And you have a monthly show.

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Speaker 6: I have a monthly show at Public Hotel called the Exhibition,

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Speaker 6: and you can find out information on that on my website.

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Speaker 2: Perfect beautiful.

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Speaker 1: So glad you left work for this, Honestly, if you

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Speaker 1: are the m v P, I really enjoyed it.

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Speaker 3: So effortless, like effortlessly, like I'm here, do you want

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Speaker 3: to give you some beer?

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Speaker 1: I would have ever thought of that. I would I

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Speaker 1: would have knocked the whole picture over your throat dry

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Speaker 1: and then I would just pour the beer on the ground. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's why I would spill it all. I'm like, clean

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Speaker 1: up on how seven.

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Speaker 2: A picture on his face and be like what I

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Speaker 2: like him? That's a style. It's a style anyway, some

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Speaker 2: people like it. Yeah, Sidney, anything that you wanted? Did

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Speaker 2: you learn anything from this episode?

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Speaker 1: You know, I never really was the flirting type, and

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Speaker 1: it's a lot with aybody we already talked about. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna continue to just you know, be me. I'm in

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Speaker 1: a relationship, so flirting doesn't even really work.

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Speaker 2: I need to pay some bills.

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Speaker 1: But I'm gonna try to go home and sit on

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Speaker 1: your girlfriend's lab. I'm gonna try to flirt. I'mna see

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Speaker 1: how it goes.

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Speaker 3: All right, Well, I think I learned since to Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I think you think I'm excited for you. I'm actually

1376
01:00:09,080 --> 01:00:11,440
Speaker 3: really excited about this too, Okay, Mary Beth Burrown, thank

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01:00:11,440 --> 01:00:12,160
Speaker 3: you so much for being here.

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Speaker 2: Mary, by pleasure.

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Speaker 5: Bye b