Speaker 1: Welcome to Insider's Guide to the Other Side, a production
Speaker 1: of iHeartRadio. Hi y'all, I'm Julie.
Speaker 2: Hi there, I'm Brenda. Welcome to Insider's Guide to the
Speaker 2: other Side.
Speaker 1: Now, y'all need to know that we are obsessed with
Speaker 1: everything on the other side.
Speaker 2: Yes, we are, because once you learn to navigate the energetic,
Speaker 2: or to some the invisible world, life is going to
Speaker 2: be more fun and much more serene.
Speaker 1: Uh heck, yes it can, because, let's be honest, br in,
Speaker 1: earth school is hard. In fact, you taught me.
Speaker 2: That let's crush earth school together.
Speaker 1: Well, hello, everybody today is elf talk. It's elf talk
Speaker 1: because my wishy poo has a lot going on, So
Speaker 1: I hope you hang in with me. I think I
Speaker 1: have some interesting things to talk to you all about
Speaker 1: was actually, you know, wondering. Talked to Suzanne and some
Speaker 1: friends like what should I talk about? I don't have Brenda,
Speaker 1: I'm a little lost. What is the loss elf to do?
Speaker 1: And you know, recently, I always, as you guys know,
Speaker 1: like to I find a lot of lessons in my
Speaker 1: own life. I find a lot of lessons from listening
Speaker 1: to other people. And one of them actually arrived well
Speaker 1: on the screen on my phone in the form of
Speaker 1: a news alert. And the news alert was a former
Speaker 1: colleague and friend he just jumped. And the man's name
Speaker 1: is John Landau. And you guys may have never heard
Speaker 1: of John. John. John was the film producer. And funny
Speaker 1: thing about John is I'd actually started working at Fox
Speaker 1: when he was twenty nine. He was head of production
Speaker 1: and then he ended up working with Jim Cameron, and
Speaker 1: so they did Titanic together. We worked with him on Avatar.
Speaker 1: We also worked with him on a movie called Alita
Speaker 1: Battle Angel. And I have to tell you when I
Speaker 1: saw that, I was my heart sank and I was crushed.
Speaker 1: He was I think sixty three sixty four. He also
Speaker 1: lived kind of sort of ish around the corner from
Speaker 1: us in Sherman Oaks, so he was also a neighbor
Speaker 1: and a colleague and a friend. And I you know,
Speaker 1: it set me to this place of really thinking about
Speaker 1: the times with him and thinking about I mean, honestly,
Speaker 1: his kindness and by the way, his Hawaiian shirts, and
Speaker 1: he was so gifted in this field. He was also
Speaker 1: so loyal to Jim and so loyal to the vision
Speaker 1: that he had because with avatar. You know, Jim had
Speaker 1: a vision thirteen years prior before even beginning to make it.
Speaker 1: Technology had to keep up, had to come keep up
Speaker 1: with his vision, had to meet him at his vision.
Speaker 1: And John was a big part of that, a big
Speaker 1: believer in that. And I was just, you know, twirling
Speaker 1: in my own head and recalling memories. And so I
Speaker 1: ended up just texting some friends of mine that I
Speaker 1: worked with at Fox, and because I need to get
Speaker 1: out of my head, I needed to talk to other people.
Speaker 1: So there's this you know, text chain that was going on.
Speaker 1: And one of my friends was so vulnerable when she said,
Speaker 1: she goes, you know, I've been thinking about John for
Speaker 1: the last year, and I wanted to reach out and
Speaker 1: tell him grateful I was for what he taught me,
Speaker 1: how grateful I was for how he treated me and frankly,
Speaker 1: how he treated everyone, and that was one of his superpowers.
Speaker 1: And she goes, but I didn't listen to myself. I
Speaker 1: in some ways felt unworthy to go to him and
Speaker 1: tell him this. And I said to her, I go,
Speaker 1: I wish that I would have done the same. In fact,
Speaker 1: I'm sure all of us wish we could have done
Speaker 1: the same, And just shown him our gratefulness and our
Speaker 1: compassion and caring for him, not just as a professional,
Speaker 1: but as a human. And you know, this really ties
Speaker 1: into and I know Brenda and I have talked about
Speaker 1: this before. We've talked about some other instances in our
Speaker 1: own life where we have reached out to people because
Speaker 1: it was important for us to let them know how
Speaker 1: we felt about them. I mean, I think I shared
Speaker 1: probably within the last six eight months. It's hard to
Speaker 1: keep track of time these days. Everybody. I reached out
Speaker 1: to my dad's girlfriend's daughter, so strange, and I wrote
Speaker 1: her letter, you know, and I said to her that
Speaker 1: I was just so grateful a for her mother, and
Speaker 1: her mother had passed, and I was so grateful to
Speaker 1: her because she was so kind to me in a
Speaker 1: very difficult situation because even when my father was living,
Speaker 1: he liked to drink, and you know, it's a pretty
Speaker 1: unstable environment for eleven twelve year old, you know, to
Speaker 1: deal with that. But I just wanted to reach out
Speaker 1: and thank her. And even at the end of it,
Speaker 1: I had said to her, you know, no reply is request.
Speaker 1: I just want you to know. And every once in
Speaker 1: a while I get it right, I tell I tell
Speaker 1: enough people you know, whether it is from you know,
Speaker 1: recent or whether it's from what feels like a lifetime ago.
Speaker 1: But sometimes I miss people, and honestly, John is one
Speaker 1: of those I've missed, and I I of course, what
Speaker 1: I had texted in this chain was I said, well,
Speaker 1: he knows now, and my friend was like, ah, She's like, oh,
Speaker 1: that's why you're a mind, that's why you're my friend. Yeah,
Speaker 1: thank god you told me. Yes, of course he knows now,
Speaker 1: and she's but I wish I could have done it,
Speaker 1: and I said, I totally know, but he does know now,
Speaker 1: and so it just it it got me thinking, and
Speaker 1: I'll confess a little bit of spiraling. I like the spiral.
Speaker 1: I like to ste I like to kind of go
Speaker 1: live in that kind of emotion and that I'm feeling.
Speaker 1: So what I did was I was thinking about, like,
Speaker 1: what do I actually want to watch on TV? It's
Speaker 1: a long weekend. What do I want to watch? And
Speaker 1: I started rewatching a show that interestingly played into this,
Speaker 1: and then after that I watched a movie. So I
Speaker 1: promise you all of this is linked. I'm going to
Speaker 1: be back in just a minute. I'm going to tell
Speaker 1: you about a little binging that just happened. Okay, everybody,
Speaker 1: I'm back. I'm going to talk about some binging and
Speaker 1: luckily this go around, it's not about food, but it
Speaker 1: is TV. You know, when I, you know, found out
Speaker 1: about John, I was, you know, distraught, and the conversations
Speaker 1: had me thinking about you know, that would have, could
Speaker 1: have should a part of who we are. And funny enough,
Speaker 1: I started watching rewatching a show from the early that
Speaker 1: aired on NBC called My Name Is Earl. And if
Speaker 1: you've watched it, raise your hand. I will look to
Speaker 1: see if I can see you. So those that know
Speaker 1: my Name is Earl is about the lead character is
Speaker 1: named Earl. I think it's obvious by the title. Probably
Speaker 1: didn't need to tell you that, but I am. Anyway,
Speaker 1: Earl is our lead character. And Earl has a brother, Randy.
Speaker 1: He has an ex wife, and well he has two kids,
Speaker 1: but they weren't his kids. But that you got to
Speaker 1: watch it to understand that whole part of the story.
Speaker 1: But the thing about Earle is Earl was a bad
Speaker 1: guy and he actually won a scratch off lotto and
Speaker 1: it was one hundred grand and he's all excited going
Speaker 1: out of the convenience store and then gets hit by
Speaker 1: a car and he sees the lotto ticket fly away
Speaker 1: from him, and then he watched something on television learned
Speaker 1: about karma. And for the record, just so you guys know,
Speaker 1: the creator of the show was called Greg Garcia, and
Speaker 1: Greg got the idea of karma from watching something, and
Speaker 1: so he wanted to create a series about it. So,
Speaker 1: you know, sometimes understanding the show runner, the creator and
Speaker 1: what their intention was this, you know, and how it
Speaker 1: came to them and what they ended up creating is
Speaker 1: also kind of fun. So just know, if you want
Speaker 1: to dig around, his name is Greg Garcia. But back
Speaker 1: to Earle. So Earle, who really I mean? Or it
Speaker 1: was a dick? He really was. He was a jackass, Earl.
Speaker 1: You know, he loved to steal, so he stole things
Speaker 1: from people. He did them wrong, He lied to them,
Speaker 1: he cheated, manipulated, you know, you name it. He would
Speaker 1: destroy people's property. I mean, the list is long, in fact,
Speaker 1: on Earl's list that he put together because he wanted
Speaker 1: to go make it right with all those people that
Speaker 1: he did wrong because he now believed in karma. And
Speaker 1: the funny thing is, I was talking to a friend
Speaker 1: of mine and I was telling her what I wanted
Speaker 1: to talk about today and she said, she goes, well,
Speaker 1: do me a favor. I go, what's that she's will
Speaker 1: you explain, like why do people always say Karma is
Speaker 1: a bitch? And I said, well, Karma's a bitch if
Speaker 1: only if you're a bitch. And of course that should
Speaker 1: be a T shirt. Go ahead, something, please feel free
Speaker 1: to make it. And she said, because everybody thinks that
Speaker 1: it's bad. Well, in the case of my name is Earl,
Speaker 1: my name is Earl, it is actually he's done a
Speaker 1: lot of bad things, and he wanted good things to
Speaker 1: happen to his life. And some of the good things
Speaker 1: that would happen, you know, sometimes it would be materialistic.
Speaker 1: So when he started his list, he actually got the
Speaker 1: LOTO to get back and wanted to use that money
Speaker 1: to make everything right. But I'll also tell you the
Speaker 1: other thing that I thought was even more valuable that
Speaker 1: they addressed in this show was he would say he
Speaker 1: would have this kind of funny feeling in his stomach
Speaker 1: or in his chest when he would finally be able
Speaker 1: to cross something off of his list. And that's the magic.
Speaker 1: Because he had to go through a vulnerability of admitting
Speaker 1: to people what he had done. He went through a
Speaker 1: lot of tasks to right wrongs, and many times the
Speaker 1: wrong wasn't what he actually thought he needed to go fix.
Speaker 1: It was the kind of butterfly effect of it. It
Speaker 1: was because he did one thing, it really ruined somebody's
Speaker 1: life in another way, but he would feel better by
Speaker 1: by writing his wrongs. And that's really what karma is.
Speaker 1: It's not about, obviously, the monetary part of it. But
Speaker 1: you know, as Brenda and I have talked about before,
Speaker 1: karma just is, you know, is in a way of
Speaker 1: you know, it can come back, and it does come back.
Speaker 1: It can come back quickly and it can come back slowly.
Speaker 1: But there is a universal balance. There's a neutrality that
Speaker 1: we all end up having to get to with our actions,
Speaker 1: our words, our intentions. And I'll give you a dramatic
Speaker 1: example of something that Earle did in one of the
Speaker 1: one of the episodes, but I really encourage you guys
Speaker 1: to watch it if it is all interesting to you.
Speaker 1: But he and his brother would they would go They
Speaker 1: went to a country club and uh, actually the guy
Speaker 1: Johnny Galecki who played in the show Roseanne, was in
Speaker 1: the guest star in this particular episode, and he walked
Speaker 1: into the bar and said, I got a hole in
Speaker 1: one today. You know, A beers for everyone. And so
Speaker 1: these guys they don't know anything. They're like, wait, we
Speaker 1: can go back her all the time and get free beer. Right,
Speaker 1: So they went back the next day and Johnny Gallecki
Speaker 1: came back in and someone's like, did you get a
Speaker 1: hole in one again? He's like no. So to these guys,
Speaker 1: there was no free beer. So what they started to
Speaker 1: do is they would go hide on the golf course.
Speaker 1: Now remember, guys, this is a comedy. It's hilarious. I
Speaker 1: mean you can like it's literally taking your medicine with
Speaker 1: some sugar. It's fantastic. They would follow him around on
Speaker 1: the golf course and you know, they would grab his
Speaker 1: golf ball and they would either put it in the
Speaker 1: hole or throw it into the fairway. So all of
Speaker 1: a sudden, Johnny Glecki is getting more hole in ones.
Speaker 1: He's the hole he's I think he's the golf champion
Speaker 1: or he is I think he broke a course record
Speaker 1: with the lowest score. And so he starts buying everybody
Speaker 1: beer and wings and all of this and you know
Speaker 1: these two losers, Earl and his brother are you know, Tom,
Speaker 1: it was worth it because they were getting free beer
Speaker 1: and free food at a country club. So fast forward
Speaker 1: twenty years for Earl when he has his list, he
Speaker 1: has this guy, this golfer on his list that he
Speaker 1: needed to go make things right. So he goes and
Speaker 1: he finds the guy. Actually, I'm going to take that back.
Speaker 1: I don't think it was twenty years for this one.
Speaker 1: It was probably more like five, so forgive me. But
Speaker 1: he goes, he finds the guy. He finds Johnny Gileki,
Speaker 1: and he's living in his car and he's and Earl
Speaker 1: is like, tells him what he did. He's confessing and
Speaker 1: so on and so forth, and he says to the guy,
Speaker 1: He's like, he goes, why are you in your car?
Speaker 1: And he said, well, I thought I really had it,
Speaker 1: Like I like, golf was my thing, so I everything
Speaker 1: in my world revolved around golf. I would show up
Speaker 1: late for work because I was practicing or getting new equipment.
Speaker 1: And I got fired from job. I would be home
Speaker 1: and I would be hitting golf balls or practicing and
Speaker 1: trying to get better to get my game back. Because
Speaker 1: apparently when you guys left, I wasn't as good as
Speaker 1: I thought I was and I lost my girlfriend. You know,
Speaker 1: this is that butterfly effect, right, It's like the flap
Speaker 1: of a wing can create that chain reaction. So with
Speaker 1: Earle just trying to get free beer and wings again
Speaker 1: comedy from this guy's golf game, his life ended up,
Speaker 1: you know, going south because he was made to believe
Speaker 1: he was really good at something, and when Earl and
Speaker 1: his brother stopped with their Shenanigans, he wasn't as good
Speaker 1: and you know, started losing faith and spending too much
Speaker 1: time focusing on it and he got obsessed. But that
Speaker 1: was that was the That was a chain reaction that happened.
Speaker 1: So you would think, you know, he just went to
Speaker 1: go tell a guy and wanted to make it up
Speaker 1: to him, but what happened was the guy's life had
Speaker 1: fallen apart. The same thing happened and another story about
Speaker 1: his dad and with his dad, he stole his dad's
Speaker 1: Mustang that he was working on. He came back told
Speaker 1: his dad that he you know, drove it into a lake.
Speaker 1: But really what he did is he lost it in
Speaker 1: a drag race at eleven years old, and so his
Speaker 1: dad was on his list, so he went to the
Speaker 1: guy that won it from him again he's eleven. He
Speaker 1: came and reached the dam pedals to get the car back,
Speaker 1: so he had to do another drag race with the guy.
Speaker 1: And Earl has an El Camino. You'll see when you
Speaker 1: watch the show. I want a new guy with an
Speaker 1: El Camino. They were cool in the day. So he
Speaker 1: wins it back and he goes and he's all proud
Speaker 1: to go show his dad. He's his dad got your
Speaker 1: car back, and his dad was like, that car wasn't
Speaker 1: for me. That car was for you. When you turned sixteen,
Speaker 1: you lost your own car in a drag race. It
Speaker 1: wasn't mine, it was for you. And so of course
Speaker 1: Earl is like, Okay, now what do I do, which
Speaker 1: is part of what we do when we go back
Speaker 1: and try to make things right, you know again chain reaction.
Speaker 1: It's not what we think it is, which is another
Speaker 1: thing I absolutely love about this show and why it's
Speaker 1: been so helpful just to be processing through you know
Speaker 1: what I had expressed before about kind of living in
Speaker 1: the loss of people and not saying things and doing
Speaker 1: things that you would wish you would have done. But
Speaker 1: what Earle does is he decides he's going to get
Speaker 1: the car running again and restore the whole thing, and
Speaker 1: he does it at his dad's and his dad comes
Speaker 1: over there and starts to help him, and he realizes
Speaker 1: all his dad really wanted to do was, you know,
Speaker 1: refurbish this car with his son so they would spend
Speaker 1: time together. So what he learned is that it really
Speaker 1: wasn't about material things. It wasn't about the car about
Speaker 1: the time. So I've been putting my own list together
Speaker 1: things I need to go deal with because, like you,
Speaker 1: I am perfectly imperfect. I am processing ways I'm going
Speaker 1: to deal with it. I want to have that feeling
Speaker 1: of vulnerability and have that feeling of oh, I just
Speaker 1: took care of something, because you know, I'm human, and
Speaker 1: and of the things I want to take care of,
Speaker 1: they're normally people. By the way, I didn't never stole anything. Actually,
Speaker 1: if I did, I probably stole some double bubble from
Speaker 1: the Rexul drug store when I was a kid. I
Speaker 1: don't know. I should probably send them twenty cents with
Speaker 1: some interest. I'm not sure. But outside of that is
Speaker 1: more about for me. It's probably treatment. I can be
Speaker 1: a bit of an asshole if you guys you know,
Speaker 1: can imagine. So I have some work to do there
Speaker 1: because what I don't want to have happen is actually
Speaker 1: the movie I watched after I started watching. My name
Speaker 1: is Earl, And remember, y'all, I love TV and movies,
Speaker 1: so you guys are getting the elf life weaved into
Speaker 1: art and entertainment. So hold on for me. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: close this one. I'm hopefully pretty good. Bear with me.
Speaker 1: There was a plan. I'll be right back. Okay, y'all,
Speaker 1: I'm back. So I didn't plan on this, meaning the
Speaker 1: series of entertainment events that I watched. But I watched
Speaker 1: a movie again my same friend who wanted me to
Speaker 1: clear up the whole you know, Karme's a bitch? Well
Speaker 1: se Linka's you're a bitch comment, same friend, and she said,
Speaker 1: have you watched ghost Town? And I look it up
Speaker 1: and I'm like, how could I have missed this? It
Speaker 1: was two thousand and eight, I was in the industry.
Speaker 1: What the hell is wrong with me? So? And funny enough,
Speaker 1: by the way, my old boss actually made it, Stacy Snyder.
Speaker 1: So there's all these weird little things that happened. And
Speaker 1: of course I reached out to her and we had
Speaker 1: a long text chain about it. But so she goes
Speaker 1: watch this movie. She goes, I think it has a
Speaker 1: little bit to do with karma, you know, but I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't know. You put your own damn pieces together.
Speaker 1: And so I watched this movie and it was pretty
Speaker 1: crazy because it was a full circle every for this
Speaker 1: conversation for elf talk today because it centered on a guy,
Speaker 1: the actor's Great Cannar and he actually was hit by
Speaker 1: a bus and his widow he left behind was a
Speaker 1: woman played by Taylione. And if you're a fan of
Speaker 1: Madame Secretary, that is our same beloved tayl aone And
Speaker 1: if you haven't seen Madame Secretary, very highly encourage it, folks.
Speaker 1: And then we also have a dentist in this story,
Speaker 1: and it is played by Ricky Gervase. So Ricky also,
Speaker 1: by the way, was the creator of the UK version
Speaker 1: of the Office Just f yi, And an actress who
Speaker 1: played in that is Katie Flanakin, who's a friend of
Speaker 1: the Witchipoo. So I was gonna bring Wichipoo back, all right,
Speaker 1: I'm going to go back to ghost Town and I'm
Speaker 1: going to try to turn off my add but I
Speaker 1: don't know how. So, uh, Greg Kanear is hit by
Speaker 1: a bus and he actually finds this guy that can
Speaker 1: see him and hear him. And I'm gonna not give
Speaker 1: everything up to you, guys. I just want to get
Speaker 1: to the heart and the core of what this is.
Speaker 1: But so so. Greg Kinnear is seen by Ricky Gervase
Speaker 1: and so are, by the way, a lot of other spirits.
Speaker 1: In fact, all these spirits you could see them in
Speaker 1: one scene shouting at him about all the things they
Speaker 1: wanted him to do for them. You know, Tell so
Speaker 1: and so I love them, Tell so and so, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: Tell so. You see where I'm going here is if
Speaker 1: we don't take care of our business while we're here
Speaker 1: in our body, we got to try to take care
Speaker 1: of it another way. And it is super hard to
Speaker 1: find people that can see. And here goes to get
Speaker 1: that across for you. But in this.
Speaker 3: Movie you actually see that Greg was not Greg King's character,
Speaker 3: not a great guy, a little douche, and he was
Speaker 3: really struggling to figure out why he had not crossed over,
Speaker 3: like truly crossed over, like the Bright Light crossovers.
Speaker 1: How they portrayed it in the movie, So we kept
Speaker 1: trying to come up with different schemes, different ways, and
Speaker 1: part of it was, you know, he was trying to
Speaker 1: cover up his bad behavior, and really what it came
Speaker 1: down to wash it was the truth and it was
Speaker 1: his attempt, you know, to rectify that because he didn't
Speaker 1: deal with it again when he was alive. So I
Speaker 1: think the overarching message today starts with well, started with
Speaker 1: death and ends with death, because you know, death is
Speaker 1: my genre, y'all. But it is really thinking through, you know,
Speaker 1: the full circle of how we are on the planet
Speaker 1: and when we are perfectly imperfect, how do we deal
Speaker 1: with our imperfections? How do we deal with who we
Speaker 1: are and what we've done, what we've thought, you know,
Speaker 1: listen even our thoughts, you guys. It's so interesting because
Speaker 1: I'm working with some people that I worked with twenty
Speaker 1: years ago, and I've loved it. And it's so funny
Speaker 1: because when I was in Can, I saw people I
Speaker 1: had not seen, literally for twenty five years, and they're like, oh,
Speaker 1: you're back, Jillie, big hug, and here's what's really fucked up.
Speaker 1: I'm thinking to myself, was I really that nice to
Speaker 1: you for you to treat me this way. And the
Speaker 1: thing is, I was it's just all that shit went
Speaker 1: around in my head that never came out of my mouth,
Speaker 1: and a lot comes out of my mouth everybody, but
Speaker 1: there were certain things and that I was thinking about.
Speaker 1: Why watching all of this about stopping that negative that
Speaker 1: negative talk internal talk, right, because to me, that's also
Speaker 1: a part of what is also karmic to us because
Speaker 1: that inside talk, which I'll say doesn't happen nearly as
Speaker 1: much as it used to, but it still occurs. But
Speaker 1: back in the day, you know, when I was a
Speaker 1: big dummy, I you know, I think it was ego
Speaker 1: and jealousy and admiration or things that I thought I
Speaker 1: should have and do and be that others were, and
Speaker 1: I think that's why that shit happened. So this is
Speaker 1: like a blanket apology maybe for people who didn't know
Speaker 1: what was in my head, but it is those things
Speaker 1: of how could I have thought this about that person?
Speaker 1: So it's funny, I'm now facing a part of my
Speaker 1: life where I have I'm very much a different human
Speaker 1: being than I was before, but I'm facing it again
Speaker 1: and I'm asking I started asking questions of myself and
Speaker 1: because I think that Also, I think that does play
Speaker 1: a role even if the other person doesn't know, because
Speaker 1: that is still that energy, those thoughts, those ideas are
Speaker 1: still out in the ether somewhere, and I'm working on
Speaker 1: pulling those back, and I'm having interactions with people and
Speaker 1: I'm being very genuine and honest, and I'm actually looking
Speaker 1: them again with a different set of eyes, just like
Speaker 1: I watched my name is Earl with a different set
Speaker 1: of eyes. I'm looking these people with a different set
Speaker 1: of eyes, and I see why they are who they are,
Speaker 1: why they are brilliant, why they are doing what they do,
Speaker 1: why they were able to do what they did then,
Speaker 1: why they should have success, why they should have these
Speaker 1: things Because I'm not that insecure kind of dip shit
Speaker 1: more on assholey kind of person that I could have had,
Speaker 1: possibly had the tendency to be. And so that's part
Speaker 1: of my cleanup. So again I'm making my list. I'm
Speaker 1: looking at all of these events, the real life events,
Speaker 1: the TV series, movies and relooking, and I just wanted
Speaker 1: to share with everybody. You know, it never it never
Speaker 1: hurts to give yourself the opportunity to at least look.
Speaker 1: You might not do anything, but to at least look,
Speaker 1: and if you want to be Earl, you can make
Speaker 1: your list. But that we can minimize the afterlife regret
Speaker 1: for things. We'll all have it. I think, undoubtedly again
Speaker 1: perfectly imperfect, but I sure would like to take care
Speaker 1: of things here. I don't want to carry them on
Speaker 1: with myself. I don't want people to have to deal
Speaker 1: still in this lifetime with things I may have done
Speaker 1: that even cause a butterfly effect that I am completely
Speaker 1: unaware of. Hopefully, with some cases a butterfly effect was
Speaker 1: actually a good effect, but I have a feeling in
Speaker 1: some cases it probably wasn't. So this is my encouragement
Speaker 1: to you, guys. Reach out to those that have been
Speaker 1: meaningful to you, even if they're not in your day
Speaker 1: to day life. Take a look at the things you
Speaker 1: think maybe you could have done differently. If you want
Speaker 1: to be vulnerable about it, write a letter if you
Speaker 1: don't want to face them, a phone call something, have lunch,
Speaker 1: whatever it may be, to kind of deal with some
Speaker 1: of that stuff, and hopefully you'll feel that tinkly in
Speaker 1: your heart your stomach, the way that actually, you know
Speaker 1: Earle did when it you know, when he really started
Speaker 1: to figure out that doing good, the real reward was
Speaker 1: how you felt, because how you felt was watching the
Speaker 1: reaction of how The response from everybody else was Okay, everybody,
Speaker 1: I hope that you got a little something from elf
Speaker 1: Talk today, and let's hope it is the first and
Speaker 1: the last time you have to listen to just me
Speaker 1: and not my wishipoo. So I will leave you with this.
Speaker 2: Or school.
Speaker 1: Is really really hard without the other side. Take it
Speaker 1: from me and take it from Earle. All Right, everybody,
Speaker 1: thank you so much for tolerating me today. Have an
Speaker 1: awesome day. Thanks again, everybody.
Speaker 2: Thank you for joining us. Everyone, and a special thanks
Speaker 2: to our producer Joey Patt and our executive producer Maya
Speaker 2: Cole Howard, who guides us while we guide.
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