1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: This program features the individual opinions of the hosts, guests, 2 00:00:03,760 --> 00:00:07,200 Speaker 1: and callers, and not necessarily those of the producer, the station, 3 00:00:07,360 --> 00:00:11,559 Speaker 1: it's affiliates or sponsors. This is True Crime Tonight. 4 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:22,800 Speaker 2: Welcome to True Crime Tonight on iHeartRadio. We're talking true 5 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 2: crime all the time. It's Thursday, November six. Thank guess what, everybody, 6 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 2: We have a stack night of headlines. Listen to the 7 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:33,440 Speaker 2: Virginia teacher who was shot by her six year old 8 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:36,280 Speaker 2: student at a very big day in court today, we 9 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 2: have a verdict and we can't wait to share it 10 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:42,239 Speaker 2: with you. Also, Sean Diddy Combs, we spoke about this 11 00:00:42,320 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 2: last week. He had been transferred to his new forever home, 12 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:50,080 Speaker 2: or at least for the next fifty months, and he's 13 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:53,560 Speaker 2: now been moved to this low security prison while more 14 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:57,120 Speaker 2: sexual allegations are being filed against him. And also the 15 00:00:57,160 --> 00:01:00,280 Speaker 2: private investigator we spoke about this briefly last night. He 16 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 2: was hired by singer David's landlord to get as much 17 00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 2: information as possible about the case, and he's released some 18 00:01:07,319 --> 00:01:10,959 Speaker 2: new evidence about the relationship between the singer and the 19 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:15,080 Speaker 2: deceased fourteen year old Celeste Reevas. We've all really been 20 00:01:15,120 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 2: looking for details into that case. Cannot believe there has 21 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:22,040 Speaker 2: not been any sort of person of interest identified or 22 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:26,639 Speaker 2: anybody brought into custody. Also, this whole idea of Diddy 23 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:28,479 Speaker 2: and victims, and we. 24 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 3: Talk about such heavy stuff here. 25 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:32,760 Speaker 2: So as promised, we have one of my most favorite 26 00:01:32,800 --> 00:01:35,120 Speaker 2: humans in all of the world here with us today. 27 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:38,319 Speaker 2: Christine Klapi is going to be joining us. She's a 28 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:42,320 Speaker 2: transformation expert, and it's going to help us with some 29 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:46,520 Speaker 2: tools about how to navigate all of this true crime trauma, 30 00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 2: if you will, whether we're experiencing it or even just 31 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 2: hearing about it. So she has real tips and tricks 32 00:01:53,360 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 2: to keep us all sane, especially as we are heading 33 00:01:56,680 --> 00:01:59,560 Speaker 2: into the holidays. Come on, we all need to ban 34 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 2: to get everyone. And also one of our most favorite 35 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 2: topics is really how we can help prisons and sort 36 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:11,639 Speaker 2: of move things forward. And prison rights expert Kevin Scott 37 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 2: joins us later in the show as well. He's the 38 00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 2: real deal. So we have a lot to get through, 39 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 2: so I'm going to probably fast talk. I'm Stephanie Lai Decker, 40 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 2: I head of KAT Studios, where we make true crime 41 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:26,560 Speaker 2: podcasts and documentaries. Please please please check out in Cells 42 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:30,920 Speaker 2: out now. Also The Idaho Massacre Season three. The podcast 43 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 2: also out now both on iHeart and Ladies. I get 44 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 2: to be here with Body move in My True Crime 45 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 2: Gal and Courtney Armstrong my other true Crime Gal, and 46 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 2: then of course Sam, Adam and Taha are in the 47 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 2: control room doing their things. 48 00:02:48,560 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 3: So, Ladies, did you have a good Thursday? 49 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 4: Tomorrow is Friday. 50 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 5: That's what's good about Thursday is Tomorrow's Friday. 51 00:02:56,080 --> 00:02:57,040 Speaker 6: That is so true. 52 00:02:57,200 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 3: I love a Thursday. It's crazy for a Thursday. 53 00:02:59,639 --> 00:02:59,839 Speaker 6: Yeah. 54 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:03,720 Speaker 7: Do you what I call Thursday? Yeah, you call it Friday, Eve, 55 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:04,960 Speaker 7: I call it little Friday. 56 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 4: Oh, yes, Friday. Jor it's Friday, Junior. 57 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 3: It's maybe Friday. 58 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 6: So yeah, I love it. 59 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 3: Ye see that's a perfect tip. Already, I see. 60 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:17,600 Speaker 2: I already feel mentally better now that I get to 61 00:03:17,600 --> 00:03:17,959 Speaker 2: be here. 62 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 4: So my little jokes that I told you didn't work. 63 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 2: It was terrible. That was terrible. We were like a 64 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 2: little frazzle. We were having some audio issues in Body. 65 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:27,080 Speaker 2: I was like, Buddy, I think I need to hear 66 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 2: a giggle or a joke or something. And she asked 67 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:31,799 Speaker 2: chat GPT for the funniest joke in the world. 68 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 6: I mean, it was the delivery was great. 69 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 3: The joke so the chat GPT is not that hilarious. 70 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:40,120 Speaker 6: Still, time layer, I'll tell her. 71 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 4: Let the audience decide, all right to make a smile. 72 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 2: Which you did and you both are doing. So let's 73 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 2: kick it off right now. In fact, we have a 74 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 2: talk pack. 75 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 8: Here. 76 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 9: I'm listening to your podcast from yesterday and you're speaking 77 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 9: about the teacher that was shot by six year old 78 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 9: and she said something that has my blood boiling. The 79 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:06,880 Speaker 9: assistant principal said she had no legal duty to intervene. 80 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:08,200 Speaker 9: Are you kidding me? 81 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:09,520 Speaker 3: How? 82 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 6: There's no way. 83 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 9: Her defense actually said that I worked in education for 84 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 9: more than twenty five years, and it is everyone's duty 85 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:18,200 Speaker 9: to intervene. 86 00:04:18,480 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 6: Thank you little duty of thank here, I think, is 87 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:23,159 Speaker 6: what she said. Right, That's exactly right. 88 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 2: I guess got covered in chills even hearing that perfect talkback. 89 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 2: I couldn't agree with you more. All of us are accountable, 90 00:04:29,680 --> 00:04:31,479 Speaker 2: you know, you see it. You have to say it 91 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 2: and help and report and act, and yeah, it's infuriating 92 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 2: to hear that. 93 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:40,880 Speaker 7: Well, we do have an update, So a Virginia jury 94 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:45,679 Speaker 7: has awarded the former teacher Abby's werner. She is still 95 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:47,360 Speaker 7: with us. She was the one who was shop but 96 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 7: she's just no longer teaching right now. She has been 97 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 7: awarded ten million dollars in her lawsuit that was against 98 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 7: ex principal Ebony Parker. So Parker was indeed found liable 99 00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 7: for failing to act act before the teacher Abby's Werner 100 00:05:02,760 --> 00:05:05,680 Speaker 7: was shot by her six year old student. This happened 101 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:08,359 Speaker 7: back in twenty twenty three. So this happened back in 102 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 7: twenty twenty three. The first grade teacher was shot by 103 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:14,440 Speaker 7: her six year old student at rich Neeck Elementary School 104 00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:19,360 Speaker 7: in Virginia. Staff had allegedly and reportedly raised concerns that 105 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 7: the child might have a gun, but the teacher was 106 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:26,599 Speaker 7: excuse me, I'm sorry, guys, I'm losing my train of thought. 107 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:28,600 Speaker 4: It's okay, I'm here, that's okay. 108 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 6: Yes, says yes. This one has me really heated. 109 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 4: No, I know, yeah, I totally it's crazy. 110 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:37,159 Speaker 7: So Abby's werner had tried to sue for forty million dollars, 111 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:40,440 Speaker 7: but again she got ten million in it. And the 112 00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 7: jury deliberated for about five and a half hours before 113 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:47,839 Speaker 7: delivering the verdict. This is a civil trial and it 114 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:51,840 Speaker 7: previewed evidence that will in fact likely appear in Parker 115 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:55,720 Speaker 7: the Assistant Principles upcoming criminal case, and in that criminal case, 116 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:59,840 Speaker 7: she faces eight felony coylens accounts of child neglect. And 117 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:03,480 Speaker 7: you know, it'll be interesting to see how and if 118 00:06:03,480 --> 00:06:05,920 Speaker 7: things change in the future, because this frederict really does 119 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:10,719 Speaker 7: highlight accountability like what happens in school safety failures and 120 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:13,760 Speaker 7: what may influence future legal standings for school shootings. 121 00:06:14,200 --> 00:06:17,800 Speaker 5: So they must have found reasonable cause that she should 122 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 5: have acted, like she had enough information. I mean, this 123 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:23,120 Speaker 5: is what I'm gathering just from like looking at it 124 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:26,920 Speaker 5: from the outside. She must have had enough information that 125 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 5: she should have intervened, right, Like she had knowledge that 126 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:35,440 Speaker 5: was tangible and actionable and didn't act on it. So 127 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 5: remember we were talking the other night about she had 128 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:41,240 Speaker 5: been given warnings since some scenario in some situation. I 129 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 5: don't know the details of that, but she had been 130 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:45,680 Speaker 5: given some kind of warning that this kid had a gun, 131 00:06:45,680 --> 00:06:48,920 Speaker 5: and she said she was no duty of care to intervene, 132 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 5: so she knew that he had a gun. Right, This 133 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:55,440 Speaker 5: is what I'm thinking they proved by awarding her so 134 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:56,040 Speaker 5: much money. 135 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:56,800 Speaker 6: That's right. 136 00:06:56,839 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 7: And in fact, multiple staff members had allegedly warned the 137 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:05,240 Speaker 7: assistant principle that the student might have a gun reportedly 138 00:07:05,640 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 7: four separate times that day, and the defense falls on 139 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 7: in my case, on sympathetic ears. The argument that the 140 00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 7: assistant principles attorneys put forth was that yes, school stay safety, 141 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:23,440 Speaker 7: of course is a shared responsibility, but that no one 142 00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:25,400 Speaker 7: could have predicted a six year old would carry a 143 00:07:25,440 --> 00:07:30,080 Speaker 7: gun except for the fact that allegedly four teachers. 144 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 4: Warned that that is rightly. 145 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:35,680 Speaker 5: And she did not intervene or intercede in any way, 146 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:37,800 Speaker 5: and this six year old pulled out a gun and 147 00:07:37,840 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 5: shot this woman. And it's my understanding she was initially 148 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 5: asking for like forty million, right, that's right. Wow, I wonder, 149 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 5: I wonder what the deciding factor was on the ten million. 150 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 4: I don't know. 151 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:52,640 Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm not sure. And but here's a little bit 152 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 7: of context. So, according to the K through twelve School 153 00:07:57,960 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 7: Shooting database, with is a sad world we live in 154 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:06,200 Speaker 7: where one exists and is updated so frequently. According to 155 00:08:06,200 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 7: that database, there were three hundred and thirty two shooting 156 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 7: incidents on school properties last year twenty twenty four. The 157 00:08:15,400 --> 00:08:19,280 Speaker 7: school year is one hundred and eighty days long, so 158 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:24,200 Speaker 7: that is almost two times per day. Every single day 159 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 7: that children are in school, which is it is absolutely 160 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:33,800 Speaker 7: it's horrible and the teacher is she of course she 161 00:08:33,880 --> 00:08:34,200 Speaker 7: was shot. 162 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:35,200 Speaker 6: She was shot in the hand. 163 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 7: She testified that she suffered severe trauma. She has had 164 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:43,679 Speaker 7: multiple surgeries. She still has a bullet. No, she still 165 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:47,559 Speaker 7: has a bullet lodged in her body. And her testimony 166 00:08:47,679 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 7: was really emotional. Of course, she thought she was dying. 167 00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:52,720 Speaker 6: In the moment. 168 00:08:53,040 --> 00:08:56,240 Speaker 5: She said that she remembers kind of like blacking out 169 00:08:56,760 --> 00:08:59,679 Speaker 5: and then waking up in all of her like a 170 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 5: so she had some students were kind of like on 171 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:02,280 Speaker 5: top of her. 172 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 4: I mean she thought she died, right wow. 173 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:07,640 Speaker 6: Absolutely, poor lady, poor lady. 174 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:11,080 Speaker 7: So in any case, we have that update, we will 175 00:09:11,080 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 7: continue and of course follow the criminal. This is true Creme. Tonight, 176 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 7: we are on iHeartRadio. I'm Courtney Armstrong, I'm here as 177 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 7: always with Buddy Movin and Stephanie Leidecker. We have been 178 00:09:20,679 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 7: talking about former teacher Abby's Werner's ten million dollars a win. 179 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:27,800 Speaker 7: I'd call it in her lawsuit. If you have any 180 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:29,360 Speaker 7: thoughts on this, we do want to hear from you. 181 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:31,600 Speaker 7: Give us a call. We're at eighty eight three one 182 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:34,480 Speaker 7: Crime or hit us up on the talkbacks on the 183 00:09:34,520 --> 00:09:38,800 Speaker 7: iHeartRadio app. And Boddy, you have an update about Sean 184 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:39,600 Speaker 7: Diddy Coombs. 185 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:44,720 Speaker 5: Oh, Diddy, Diddy, Diddy Diddy. Can't you see listen? Diddy 186 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:48,320 Speaker 5: got fast tracked and appeal. Can you believe this? I cannot. 187 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 6: I can't. 188 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:52,800 Speaker 7: Well, I can only because of all everything leading up 189 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:53,080 Speaker 7: to it. 190 00:09:53,160 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 5: But go ahead, right, So, Sean Diddy Combs has been 191 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:59,840 Speaker 5: transferred to a low security federal prison in New Jersey 192 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:04,320 Speaker 5: and he's been granted a fast tracked appeal of his conviction, 193 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:09,440 Speaker 5: while in the meantime, a new civil suit alleging sexual 194 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:12,440 Speaker 5: battery has been filed against him in Florida by a 195 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:17,440 Speaker 5: man named Jonathan Hay. Again, so music mogul Sean Diddycombs. 196 00:10:17,520 --> 00:10:22,280 Speaker 5: He was convicted just recently on counts of transporting individuals 197 00:10:22,320 --> 00:10:25,839 Speaker 5: to engage in prostitution under the Man Act and sentenced 198 00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 5: to fifty months in federal prison. He is also facing 199 00:10:30,160 --> 00:10:34,040 Speaker 5: numerous civil suits in recent years alleging sexual misconduct, including 200 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:37,200 Speaker 5: one from his former partner, Cassie Ventura, which was settled 201 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 5: in twenty twenty three. Well, he was just moved to 202 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:43,160 Speaker 5: this little security federal prison at Fort Dix, which is 203 00:10:43,240 --> 00:10:46,000 Speaker 5: the place that he was like actually requesting to go. 204 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:49,400 Speaker 5: He hand were selected, hand selected it, and the judge 205 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:50,960 Speaker 5: was like, listen, I don't care where you go, just 206 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:54,760 Speaker 5: go right. Totally understandable, but yeah, he hand selected this 207 00:10:55,360 --> 00:11:00,280 Speaker 5: after complaints about unsafe and unsanitary conditions in the gale 208 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:04,079 Speaker 5: he was at at Brooklyn's Metropolitan Detention Center. Well, he's 209 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:05,680 Speaker 5: not going to stay in a detention center. I mean, 210 00:11:05,679 --> 00:11:07,120 Speaker 5: he's going to go to federal prison. And that's where 211 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:10,520 Speaker 5: he went, right, So his defense team described the Brooklyn 212 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:15,400 Speaker 5: facility as hell on Earth, setting extreme temperatures, poor food, 213 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:18,960 Speaker 5: and some safety concerns. And listen, this is probably true 214 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:22,160 Speaker 5: because this isn't the first prisoner at this facility that 215 00:11:22,160 --> 00:11:24,480 Speaker 5: I said such, right, Like, people that are at this 216 00:11:24,520 --> 00:11:27,280 Speaker 5: Brooklyn facility are not happy with it. It's some pretty 217 00:11:27,280 --> 00:11:32,360 Speaker 5: poor shape. So Judge Beth Robinson approved an expedited appeal, 218 00:11:32,880 --> 00:11:35,160 Speaker 5: which could if he I mean listen, if his appeal 219 00:11:35,240 --> 00:11:38,160 Speaker 5: is granted, he could go, he could be home. And 220 00:11:38,240 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 5: now the appeal is curiating. No, it's one hundred percent 221 00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:45,000 Speaker 5: in fear. That never happens to anybody. 222 00:11:45,320 --> 00:11:48,640 Speaker 4: Not nobody normal, right, nobody normal. 223 00:11:48,400 --> 00:11:51,480 Speaker 2: Right, like that wouldn't happen to any other person accused 224 00:11:51,480 --> 00:11:54,719 Speaker 2: of these things to get such a speedy change of 225 00:11:54,800 --> 00:11:58,360 Speaker 2: anything venue so quickly. Now the appeal in just a 226 00:11:58,400 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 2: couple of months. 227 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:01,240 Speaker 5: So let me give you Let me give you guys 228 00:12:01,240 --> 00:12:03,360 Speaker 5: a schedule, okay, because I have the paperwork in front 229 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:06,320 Speaker 5: of me from the court. Okay, the Catherine Wolf, she 230 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:09,320 Speaker 5: is the Clerk of court, and she put an order 231 00:12:09,400 --> 00:12:13,120 Speaker 5: in that the appellants moved to expedite the appeal is 232 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:15,840 Speaker 5: on the following schedule, Okay, So here we go. The 233 00:12:15,880 --> 00:12:20,199 Speaker 5: appellants opening brief and appendix is due by December twenty third, 234 00:12:20,280 --> 00:12:22,439 Speaker 5: so just coming up next month. So that's when the 235 00:12:22,920 --> 00:12:26,560 Speaker 5: appellate brief is due. Then the Government's brief is due 236 00:12:27,080 --> 00:12:29,840 Speaker 5: by the twentieth of February, so just a few months 237 00:12:29,880 --> 00:12:33,319 Speaker 5: after that, and then the appellant's reply brief is due 238 00:12:33,440 --> 00:12:36,440 Speaker 5: March thirteenth, and then oral arguments, you guys are going 239 00:12:36,480 --> 00:12:40,960 Speaker 5: to begin in April. In April, in four months, Well, 240 00:12:41,040 --> 00:12:42,120 Speaker 5: he's going to walk us. 241 00:12:42,400 --> 00:12:44,200 Speaker 6: Do you think he's going to walk? 242 00:12:44,440 --> 00:12:44,680 Speaker 10: Yeah? 243 00:12:44,679 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 2: And I think he's making every plea to the President 244 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:49,080 Speaker 2: to get a part in and just based on what 245 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:52,319 Speaker 2: we're seeing with the speediness, and yes, these conditions are 246 00:12:52,360 --> 00:12:56,120 Speaker 2: hell yeah, that's where a lot of prisoners are experiencing 247 00:12:56,480 --> 00:12:57,640 Speaker 2: the same conditions. 248 00:12:58,000 --> 00:12:59,880 Speaker 3: Suddenly he's getting white glove service. 249 00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:03,720 Speaker 5: H yeah, he's getting everything he wants except for to 250 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:07,200 Speaker 5: go home. Really, he gets to choose his prison. And 251 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:09,600 Speaker 5: now he gets an appeal in four months. 252 00:13:10,040 --> 00:13:11,560 Speaker 6: That's insane. 253 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:17,040 Speaker 7: Month fifteen month sentence, so that would be he's served 254 00:13:17,080 --> 00:13:21,119 Speaker 7: fourteen So in four months he would have served eighteen 255 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:22,640 Speaker 7: out of fifty. 256 00:13:23,160 --> 00:13:25,480 Speaker 6: Right, and to already have have that. 257 00:13:25,720 --> 00:13:27,400 Speaker 3: On the dog, I get it a math, but like 258 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:29,040 Speaker 3: that's insane. 259 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:32,520 Speaker 5: So this battery lawsuit that's just been filed by this guy, 260 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:35,840 Speaker 5: Jonathan Hay out of Florida, it's a sexual battery lawsuit 261 00:13:36,080 --> 00:13:39,360 Speaker 5: and he's accusing Diddy of assaulting him in twenty twenty 262 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:45,080 Speaker 5: while he was producing a project for the Notorious BIG's estate. Hey, 263 00:13:45,160 --> 00:13:48,280 Speaker 5: the accuser in this is alleging that he was kidnapped 264 00:13:48,320 --> 00:13:51,920 Speaker 5: and assaulted with the help of c. J. Wallace, who's 265 00:13:51,960 --> 00:13:55,360 Speaker 5: Biggie Son, and Willie Mack who's the co founder of 266 00:13:55,400 --> 00:13:59,319 Speaker 5: the cannabis company Think Big along Biggie Son c J Wallace. 267 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:03,320 Speaker 5: So yeah, through c J. Wallace's attorney. They called the 268 00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:06,720 Speaker 5: claims absurd and baseless, and Hey, you know, he stated 269 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:10,720 Speaker 5: that he is pursuing both civil and criminal action against Diddy, 270 00:14:10,840 --> 00:14:14,440 Speaker 5: who has not commented on these allegations. So we're gonna 271 00:14:14,440 --> 00:14:15,760 Speaker 5: have to wait and see what happens with this. But 272 00:14:16,240 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 5: so did Hey's and he's in prison in more cases 273 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:20,640 Speaker 5: or just being piled on top of it. 274 00:14:20,720 --> 00:14:22,040 Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't know if he's going to 275 00:14:22,080 --> 00:14:22,800 Speaker 4: be able to get out of it. 276 00:14:23,000 --> 00:14:25,440 Speaker 3: I know it's not making on it right now. 277 00:14:25,640 --> 00:14:28,280 Speaker 6: A dollar ten dollars, I'll bet you ten dollars. 278 00:14:28,280 --> 00:14:29,600 Speaker 4: Oh my god, I don't have ten dollars. 279 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:30,160 Speaker 6: I have a dollar. 280 00:14:30,200 --> 00:14:33,720 Speaker 3: Okay, ten dollars, Yes you do. I'll lend you to 281 00:14:33,720 --> 00:14:34,280 Speaker 3: ten dollars. 282 00:14:34,360 --> 00:14:37,080 Speaker 2: Will But no, it's just it's an unfortunate time to 283 00:14:37,080 --> 00:14:38,920 Speaker 2: be a victim in any of these cases and to 284 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:40,160 Speaker 2: have the courage to come forward. 285 00:14:40,480 --> 00:14:43,360 Speaker 6: I totally agree. That's right. Well, stick around. 286 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:47,200 Speaker 7: We have Christine Collopy who is going to be here 287 00:14:47,320 --> 00:14:50,640 Speaker 7: to decode the patterns that are running your life sort 288 00:14:50,680 --> 00:14:52,840 Speaker 7: of whether you know it or not. And later we're 289 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:55,920 Speaker 7: gonna hear from heaven. Scott, keep it here, true, grin. 290 00:14:55,760 --> 00:15:09,000 Speaker 2: Tonight, welcome back to true crime tonight on iHeartRadio. 291 00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:12,520 Speaker 6: We're talking true crime all the time. Everybody. 292 00:15:12,560 --> 00:15:15,040 Speaker 2: We made it to Thursday, and we are so grateful 293 00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:18,080 Speaker 2: to be with you tonight. I'm Stephanie Leidecker here with 294 00:15:18,240 --> 00:15:22,080 Speaker 2: Body Move In and Courtney Armstrong. Is the moon still full? 295 00:15:22,440 --> 00:15:24,760 Speaker 2: Are we still under a blue moon right now? 296 00:15:25,360 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 7: It's beautiful and it looks I mean the light emanating 297 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:34,200 Speaker 7: from it, you know how sometimes it'll just have light. Yeah, 298 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:36,400 Speaker 7: it's like a spotlight. It's like the Batman light. 299 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:37,320 Speaker 3: It is. 300 00:15:37,600 --> 00:15:40,160 Speaker 2: I think it is causing some havoc and all of 301 00:15:40,200 --> 00:15:41,320 Speaker 2: our stuff. 302 00:15:41,360 --> 00:15:43,600 Speaker 3: Maybe we'll blame it on the moon. Yeah, I think 303 00:15:43,640 --> 00:15:44,240 Speaker 3: that as well. 304 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:46,600 Speaker 6: But it's pretty. 305 00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:49,320 Speaker 2: I think the moon it's really beautiful. Well, we're so 306 00:15:49,400 --> 00:15:51,120 Speaker 2: glad that you're with us. And again, if you want 307 00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:53,800 Speaker 2: to jump in join any of the conversation eight eight 308 00:15:53,880 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 2: eight three one crime, or you could always leave us 309 00:15:56,400 --> 00:15:59,680 Speaker 2: a talk back on the iHeartRadio app. Just download the 310 00:15:59,760 --> 00:16:02,280 Speaker 2: app and in the top right hand corner is a 311 00:16:02,280 --> 00:16:05,720 Speaker 2: little microphone icon. You push that leave a message and 312 00:16:05,760 --> 00:16:07,760 Speaker 2: then we will play it on the show. Or of 313 00:16:07,800 --> 00:16:10,000 Speaker 2: course you could leave us a DM Let's go to 314 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:10,720 Speaker 2: a talk back now. 315 00:16:10,760 --> 00:16:13,840 Speaker 3: In fact, hey, ladies and Rare from Missouri. 316 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:15,240 Speaker 6: Just wanted to say. 317 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:18,080 Speaker 11: That I absolutely love your show. You guys are amazing. 318 00:16:18,640 --> 00:16:22,000 Speaker 11: I love your camaraderie, and you guys are just like 319 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:24,280 Speaker 11: the nicest people on the face. 320 00:16:24,040 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 6: Of this planet. 321 00:16:24,760 --> 00:16:25,640 Speaker 11: It cracks me up. 322 00:16:26,040 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 6: Stephanie. 323 00:16:26,680 --> 00:16:28,920 Speaker 11: I can tell you're smiling when you talk because your 324 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:31,000 Speaker 11: voice changes, and it is the cutest thing. 325 00:16:31,240 --> 00:16:31,840 Speaker 6: I just want to. 326 00:16:31,880 --> 00:16:34,920 Speaker 11: Let you know body that I found the Pimento cheese 327 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:38,040 Speaker 11: and one of my local grocery stores. You know you 328 00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:38,960 Speaker 11: want me to send you some. 329 00:16:39,280 --> 00:16:43,000 Speaker 7: Have a great night. Gosh, yes, yes, yes, talk about 330 00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:44,600 Speaker 7: the nicest person in the world. 331 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:45,440 Speaker 6: I know. 332 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:47,440 Speaker 3: Oh that's a nice thing. 333 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:50,800 Speaker 2: Please, we've all been a little I'm seeking for myself 334 00:16:50,880 --> 00:16:52,880 Speaker 2: right now, which is why I'm so glad Christina will 335 00:16:52,880 --> 00:16:54,080 Speaker 2: be joining us, because. 336 00:16:53,920 --> 00:16:54,760 Speaker 3: A little frazzled. 337 00:16:54,760 --> 00:16:57,280 Speaker 2: I'm a little frazzled too, a little bit, I know, 338 00:16:57,600 --> 00:16:59,840 Speaker 2: and we never really get so frazzled. 339 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:01,080 Speaker 6: So thank you. 340 00:17:01,160 --> 00:17:03,920 Speaker 2: That was actually just what the doctor ordered to hear. 341 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:07,119 Speaker 2: So thank you, and we're sending you love right back. 342 00:17:07,359 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 2: And yeah, even in these you know, weird times, weird 343 00:17:11,320 --> 00:17:14,960 Speaker 2: weird conversations and the diddy stuff makes me so mad. 344 00:17:15,240 --> 00:17:17,520 Speaker 6: I should we go to another talk back. 345 00:17:17,720 --> 00:17:19,760 Speaker 7: Well, all I was going to say real quick is 346 00:17:19,800 --> 00:17:23,199 Speaker 7: that Stephanie indeed does have smiles for miles. So you 347 00:17:23,200 --> 00:17:27,480 Speaker 7: are totally accurate in what you are hearing. And speaking 348 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:30,000 Speaker 7: of the smile you put on body's face when you 349 00:17:30,119 --> 00:17:35,200 Speaker 7: mentioned the existence of grocery store pimento cheese is pretty. 350 00:17:35,280 --> 00:17:36,919 Speaker 7: It's like as bright as that moon we were just 351 00:17:36,960 --> 00:17:37,480 Speaker 7: talking about. 352 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:40,639 Speaker 3: So we're going to you cash immediately. 353 00:17:41,160 --> 00:17:42,600 Speaker 6: I'll send you my case. 354 00:17:43,840 --> 00:17:46,040 Speaker 5: Do you guys know those chicken and the biscuit crackers 355 00:17:46,359 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 5: that like you give to kids, like their chicken in 356 00:17:48,800 --> 00:17:51,679 Speaker 5: the biscuit, those with the pimental cheese. I'm serious, but 357 00:17:51,720 --> 00:17:53,880 Speaker 5: it has to be the one in the can and jar. 358 00:17:54,080 --> 00:17:56,720 Speaker 5: It can't be like this fancy stuff. It has to 359 00:17:56,720 --> 00:17:59,280 Speaker 5: be the you know, cheap pamental cheese. 360 00:17:59,400 --> 00:17:59,960 Speaker 6: It's so good. 361 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:03,560 Speaker 2: Have a confession, I haven't had it this cheese pimento 362 00:18:03,680 --> 00:18:04,520 Speaker 2: cheese you speak of. 363 00:18:05,200 --> 00:18:07,000 Speaker 3: I mean, I think I can picture to figure it out. 364 00:18:07,040 --> 00:18:08,760 Speaker 2: You know, we got to well, I think we just 365 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:11,160 Speaker 2: got it figured out thanks to an amazing, beautiful caller 366 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:13,560 Speaker 2: who's going to who's going to hook us up. So 367 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:16,880 Speaker 2: we're going to sidebar you and DM you so make sure, 368 00:18:17,080 --> 00:18:18,600 Speaker 2: we'll get some cheese our way, and let's go to 369 00:18:18,680 --> 00:18:19,200 Speaker 2: another talk that. 370 00:18:19,359 --> 00:18:22,200 Speaker 12: Hey, guys, former dispatcher here, I know we're talking about 371 00:18:22,200 --> 00:18:22,959 Speaker 12: the perfect neighbor. 372 00:18:23,359 --> 00:18:25,160 Speaker 9: My question is is how was she. 373 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 12: Able to call Nielo one that many times and in 374 00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:32,640 Speaker 12: a row at some point and not get a abuse 375 00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:35,560 Speaker 12: of niel on one. I'm just really confused on that. 376 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:37,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, I've heard this. 377 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:41,760 Speaker 5: I've heard that dispatchers, if you are an if you 378 00:18:41,840 --> 00:18:44,320 Speaker 5: abuse nine one one, if you keep calling, and it's 379 00:18:44,359 --> 00:18:47,040 Speaker 5: like unfounded so to speak, that you'll be flagged in 380 00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:48,120 Speaker 5: some cake in some way. 381 00:18:48,119 --> 00:18:48,719 Speaker 4: But I don't know. 382 00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:52,359 Speaker 5: Hey, listen, if you're a dispatcher, or you've worked in dispatch, 383 00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:54,679 Speaker 5: or you have knowledge of it, give us a call 384 00:18:54,720 --> 00:18:56,440 Speaker 5: eighty day thirty one crime because I would love to 385 00:18:56,480 --> 00:18:59,280 Speaker 5: pick your brain about this, because I have heard that 386 00:18:59,359 --> 00:19:02,320 Speaker 5: they'll get flat in some way and that didn't happen 387 00:19:02,320 --> 00:19:03,879 Speaker 5: in this case, and I'm not sure why by the. 388 00:19:03,880 --> 00:19:04,920 Speaker 6: Way it should have been. 389 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:07,359 Speaker 2: And just to reiterate that, first off, what a hard 390 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:10,800 Speaker 2: job to have to be a dispatcher for law enforcement. 391 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:15,600 Speaker 2: You are in crisis central literally and the calm, cool, 392 00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:19,080 Speaker 2: collected personality type that's needed for that is next level. 393 00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:22,680 Speaker 2: So to all the dispatchers and all the lands, thank 394 00:19:22,720 --> 00:19:26,080 Speaker 2: you number one, number two. Yeah, what a waste of 395 00:19:26,119 --> 00:19:28,639 Speaker 2: everybody's time, including the dispatchers who has to listen to 396 00:19:28,680 --> 00:19:32,439 Speaker 2: her just drone on and drone on about non criminal things. 397 00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:33,880 Speaker 3: It's absurd. 398 00:19:33,920 --> 00:19:37,440 Speaker 2: There should be some sort of a checklist of hard 399 00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 2: no after a while. But at the same time, yeah, 400 00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:40,800 Speaker 2: how do you gauge that to your real crimes? 401 00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:42,200 Speaker 4: Because what if there's something real? 402 00:19:42,359 --> 00:19:45,000 Speaker 5: Now she's cried She's cried wolf, right, because that's literally 403 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:47,560 Speaker 5: what's happened. This is like a prid wolf scenario, so 404 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:49,160 Speaker 5: that at some point the police are going to be like, oh, 405 00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:52,000 Speaker 5: it's just Janet again or you know whatever, and then 406 00:19:52,080 --> 00:19:54,560 Speaker 5: not go and then maybe she's really getting murdered. 407 00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:58,200 Speaker 7: Who knows, right, which just thinking, since we live in America, 408 00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:02,000 Speaker 7: thinking of the lawsuit that would in sue if indeed 409 00:20:02,119 --> 00:20:04,000 Speaker 7: something was wrong. 410 00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:06,600 Speaker 6: So it's interesting though. 411 00:20:06,720 --> 00:20:09,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, the lawsuit being a wrong call. Yeah, I mean 412 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:12,320 Speaker 2: I guess that answers the question. So yes, it's easy 413 00:20:12,359 --> 00:20:15,000 Speaker 2: for us all to Monday morning quarterback on it, but 414 00:20:15,240 --> 00:20:16,760 Speaker 2: in reality those. 415 00:20:16,600 --> 00:20:17,480 Speaker 3: Are tough jobs. 416 00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:20,840 Speaker 2: And yeah, we shouldn't be placing judgment I suppose. So 417 00:20:20,920 --> 00:20:22,520 Speaker 2: I take it back. I take it back that just 418 00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:24,159 Speaker 2: that documentary made me crazy. 419 00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:24,880 Speaker 11: Yeah. 420 00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:27,919 Speaker 3: So, by the way, I'm a little amped. So we 421 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:28,720 Speaker 3: have the perfect guests. 422 00:20:28,720 --> 00:20:31,040 Speaker 2: Who's going to be joining us real time, My de 423 00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:37,040 Speaker 2: amping expert, literally Christine is here because a number one, 424 00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:39,720 Speaker 2: I feel like we're all kind of taking in a 425 00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:43,200 Speaker 2: lot of traumatic information and anybody listening has had their 426 00:20:43,240 --> 00:20:45,960 Speaker 2: own fair share of lumps thrown their way. 427 00:20:46,119 --> 00:20:49,280 Speaker 3: I don't know that anyone's the exception. So you know, 428 00:20:49,400 --> 00:20:50,320 Speaker 3: as we enter. 429 00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:53,800 Speaker 2: These you know, Thanksgiving times and holiday times, sometimes things 430 00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:56,720 Speaker 2: come up, they get a little extra triggered for us. 431 00:20:56,800 --> 00:21:00,119 Speaker 2: And I have found myself very stuck in my day. 432 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:02,200 Speaker 2: And this goes back, I don't know, fifteen years ago, 433 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:05,840 Speaker 2: almost I found my stuckself in the most stuck phase. 434 00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:08,919 Speaker 2: I was literally getting a facial, it was gifted to me. 435 00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:12,520 Speaker 2: And while I was getting that facial, the facialist was 436 00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:17,399 Speaker 2: talking about this amazing transformation expert and you know how 437 00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:20,080 Speaker 2: many wonderful things she learned, and I was like, I'll 438 00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:22,240 Speaker 2: take the number, you know, as I'm like sobbing on 439 00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:23,119 Speaker 2: the facial table. 440 00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:25,600 Speaker 6: Oh well, how quickly and sure enough. 441 00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:28,200 Speaker 2: This becomes Christine who I am now sharing with you 442 00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:31,320 Speaker 2: all because she is really Her thing is sort of 443 00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:35,959 Speaker 2: the subconscious mind, and sometimes our subconscious mind is really 444 00:21:36,040 --> 00:21:40,280 Speaker 2: running the show in not really reality, and that's really 445 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:43,680 Speaker 2: hard to escape. Sometimes we get in these loops, whether 446 00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:46,680 Speaker 2: it's a loop of trauma or shame or fear or 447 00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:50,560 Speaker 2: victim you know, based loops. Whatever the thing is, we 448 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:53,639 Speaker 2: all have our own, and she's really able to identify 449 00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:57,040 Speaker 2: it and like kick the door down and kind of 450 00:21:57,040 --> 00:22:00,080 Speaker 2: tell you how to get yourself safe, armored up and also. 451 00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:03,800 Speaker 3: To have a great, amazing, happy, grateful life. 452 00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:06,240 Speaker 6: So Christine, cal the. 453 00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:10,760 Speaker 13: Thank you for bearing with us. 454 00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:15,520 Speaker 6: You look adorable. You look adorable? Are you can? 455 00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:19,959 Speaker 2: I just let's explain she's wearing the cutest outfit right 456 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:22,480 Speaker 2: now and we should start selling that on the website 457 00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:24,359 Speaker 2: too to. 458 00:22:24,320 --> 00:22:25,360 Speaker 13: Support the vibe. 459 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:30,520 Speaker 5: You look great, Charlie. 460 00:22:29,320 --> 00:22:34,639 Speaker 6: Oh so Charlie is the brother of Dodger. My Dodger. 461 00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:42,440 Speaker 14: I was gonna say Dodger through Christine. Sure, yes, made 462 00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:48,160 Speaker 14: us that's exactly right, sister in law. Now our pets, 463 00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:50,680 Speaker 14: Oh my goodness, yes, how. 464 00:22:50,600 --> 00:22:54,000 Speaker 6: Beautiful is that? Hi, Charlie? Christine? 465 00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:55,879 Speaker 4: What is it a terrier? 466 00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:56,840 Speaker 6: Yorkshire? 467 00:22:57,600 --> 00:23:00,080 Speaker 13: When Stephanie tells you how Dodger was her. 468 00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:02,200 Speaker 6: Like, this is the same thing. 469 00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:04,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, we don't have Charlie yours. 470 00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:06,520 Speaker 4: That's so cute, so cute. 471 00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:09,240 Speaker 6: Well you look great, thank you, usual fabulous. 472 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:12,680 Speaker 2: She's wearing like a satin you know, beautiful, beautiful pajama 473 00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:14,400 Speaker 2: set right now, which is what we all are going 474 00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:16,880 Speaker 2: to be on. We need toward. She just gave us 475 00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:19,040 Speaker 2: our team uniform. Looking at it right now. 476 00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:20,879 Speaker 6: There it is to all of you. 477 00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:24,880 Speaker 2: Yes, so before by the way, if you're just joining us, 478 00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:28,200 Speaker 2: welcome to true crime tonight. We are trying to look 479 00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:32,160 Speaker 2: at our subconscious mind and sort of how we process 480 00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:35,439 Speaker 2: trauma and things that we're hearing, and also sort of 481 00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:36,399 Speaker 2: this true crime. 482 00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:37,600 Speaker 3: Space in general. 483 00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:40,520 Speaker 2: It's heavy stuff, right, We've all just witnessed an assassination. 484 00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:44,760 Speaker 13: Yes, and Stephanie, we were talking about women's fascination with 485 00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:48,840 Speaker 13: true crime. Yeah, And it's so interesting because if you 486 00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:51,680 Speaker 13: think about women are so fascinated with true crime, and 487 00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:55,119 Speaker 13: then men are really fascinated with war and like Greek mythology, 488 00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:59,560 Speaker 13: and that even goes back to subconscious programming because women are, 489 00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,560 Speaker 13: you know, for thousands of years just trying to keep 490 00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:06,480 Speaker 13: themselves safe and so we I think that's our fascination. 491 00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:08,600 Speaker 13: It's like, if we can study it enough, can we 492 00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:11,840 Speaker 13: get enough information to keep ourselves safe? Same thing with men. 493 00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:14,080 Speaker 13: If we're going to have to go to battle someday 494 00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:18,040 Speaker 13: or we have to, you know, be that form of ourselves, 495 00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:21,640 Speaker 13: how can we learn? And nobody's thinking that's why I'm 496 00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:26,240 Speaker 13: interested in that exactly consciously, there's a reason we do everything. 497 00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:29,920 Speaker 6: So it's just like, yeah, go ahead. 498 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:31,680 Speaker 2: So are we all got so excited? We all just 499 00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:33,280 Speaker 2: erupted at the same time. 500 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:37,639 Speaker 6: I have to say that you literally described my house. 501 00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:40,359 Speaker 7: I guess I live in a cliche because if you 502 00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:44,640 Speaker 7: look at each of our bedside tables, my husband always 503 00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:48,840 Speaker 7: it's boats, it's war, it's guns, it's everything, and mine 504 00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:51,640 Speaker 7: is all jaggetage and true crime. 505 00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:55,159 Speaker 6: And yeah, so I'm living what you're speak of. 506 00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:58,280 Speaker 13: And we don't know why we're not. We're not making 507 00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:01,520 Speaker 13: that choice, but we're just so interest I have smoke 508 00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:04,359 Speaker 13: coming in here because I have a fire pit going outside, 509 00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:06,800 Speaker 13: So let's just take fire for instance. If you look 510 00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:09,640 Speaker 13: at this, and we'll talk about holidays. And I even 511 00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:13,399 Speaker 13: posted something last night just about sensory therapy, Like my 512 00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:18,480 Speaker 13: house is sensory overload, but pretty sensory calming. Sensory Christmas 513 00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:23,240 Speaker 13: is already happening here, and so we take fire. If 514 00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:25,080 Speaker 13: you come to my house, and Stephanie, you've been to 515 00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:28,440 Speaker 13: my house tons of candles. Let's say that your house 516 00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:30,119 Speaker 13: burned down when you were three years old, and you 517 00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:32,440 Speaker 13: heard the story about how your family lost their house 518 00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:35,640 Speaker 13: and all of this trauma, and you come and meet 519 00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:38,440 Speaker 13: me for the first time, and we've talked on the phone. 520 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:40,800 Speaker 13: I really don't meet people in person very often. We 521 00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:42,520 Speaker 13: talk on the phone for years and years and years, 522 00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:44,439 Speaker 13: and all of a sudden, you're like, I really liked her, 523 00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:47,000 Speaker 13: but something about her is making me really uncomfortable. Now 524 00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:50,240 Speaker 13: you can't find you can't find a reason, but you 525 00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:51,880 Speaker 13: know you're trying to. 526 00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:52,320 Speaker 15: Not like me. 527 00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:55,960 Speaker 13: Now it's not me, it's the candles. 528 00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:59,360 Speaker 3: It's going it's triggering an old memory in you. 529 00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:01,720 Speaker 13: And you're you can't figure out. But you're like, I 530 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:03,800 Speaker 13: don't know, she just rubbed me the wrong way in person? 531 00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:05,000 Speaker 15: Did I really? 532 00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:07,639 Speaker 13: Because we've known each other for ten years, But now 533 00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:10,919 Speaker 13: you saw the candles, and on a subconscious level, it's 534 00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:12,320 Speaker 13: like there's a lot of fire here. 535 00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:12,840 Speaker 15: Get away. 536 00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:14,800 Speaker 13: So the subconscious mind. 537 00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:17,000 Speaker 15: Is always, always, always working to keep you safe. 538 00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:20,359 Speaker 2: What is the subconscious mind just for like the basics, 539 00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:23,639 Speaker 2: like the baseline Paine numbers' safe. 540 00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:27,640 Speaker 13: So it runs all. It runs your speech, your lungs, 541 00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:31,480 Speaker 13: your heart, your blood, you're just everything. So imagine a 542 00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:34,320 Speaker 13: big Have you guys watched those space movies where they 543 00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:34,919 Speaker 13: always show. 544 00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:37,560 Speaker 15: The command centers, of course, that's how I. 545 00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:41,159 Speaker 13: Imagine the subconscious like it's a huge command center and 546 00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:44,840 Speaker 13: it's constant direction to keep everything going at one time. 547 00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:50,560 Speaker 13: So imagine that if you had to listen to heartbeat, 548 00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:54,480 Speaker 13: heart beat, speak, walk, talk all, it would drive you insane. 549 00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:57,040 Speaker 13: So the volume is down. It's like a dog whistle. 550 00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:59,480 Speaker 13: We don't hear it because it would drive us crazy 551 00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:01,639 Speaker 13: to hear that our heart needs to be and that 552 00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:03,680 Speaker 13: our lungs need to pump, and that all the things 553 00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:05,959 Speaker 13: need to happen. The control center would drive us insane. 554 00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:10,280 Speaker 13: So that control center is quiet, but it's controlling everything 555 00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:13,320 Speaker 13: all the time. So the subconscious thinks it's keeping you 556 00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:15,159 Speaker 13: safe by telling. 557 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:21,600 Speaker 2: Yes, there is an actual alarm, right, it's the fire moon. 558 00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:24,680 Speaker 2: By the way, that is the full moon in action. 559 00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:28,520 Speaker 2: Right now, this is the most fun off the rails 560 00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:29,360 Speaker 2: two hours. 561 00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:30,919 Speaker 4: Right, Okay, what is happening? 562 00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:31,320 Speaker 10: Is it? 563 00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:33,680 Speaker 6: Really? I have to bring it all in. 564 00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:35,639 Speaker 4: I have to bring them in. 565 00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:36,840 Speaker 6: Yeah, we don't, like. 566 00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:39,000 Speaker 2: We don't usually have that much tech issues. I mean 567 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:41,400 Speaker 2: sometimes I do. But before the show, we just all 568 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:44,199 Speaker 2: of a sudden, like it was hitting the fan in 569 00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:48,440 Speaker 2: a real way. Suddenly people's mouths were not matching. I 570 00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:51,840 Speaker 2: couldn't hear, you couldn't see Courtney. Also, they're just it 571 00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:53,080 Speaker 2: went off the rails. 572 00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:53,879 Speaker 6: I was perfect. 573 00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:56,840 Speaker 3: And that's like the worst scary feeling body was. 574 00:27:56,920 --> 00:27:59,679 Speaker 7: And then someone I got the advice of a microphone 575 00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:02,400 Speaker 7: that I I've been speaking into for more than five 576 00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:04,919 Speaker 7: years to talk to the side of it. I'm like, 577 00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:07,200 Speaker 7: what is happening everything? 578 00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:09,200 Speaker 2: So we all get like and then we all get 579 00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:11,359 Speaker 2: like church ladies, and we're bad in church because we 580 00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:14,160 Speaker 2: get the giggles. So you know, there we go yet 581 00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:17,560 Speaker 2: again and the giggles kick in. So now you're catching 582 00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:20,199 Speaker 2: By the way, Christine, who is the one who is 583 00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:23,200 Speaker 2: the Chiese settler, now her alarm is off. So we're 584 00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:24,879 Speaker 2: gonna blame this on the full moon and let's go 585 00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:26,680 Speaker 2: to a talk back in the immediate Does that work 586 00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:27,080 Speaker 2: all right? 587 00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:27,359 Speaker 6: Great? 588 00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:29,280 Speaker 3: Oh and she's we'll go to the talk back and 589 00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:30,240 Speaker 3: then Cutie is back. 590 00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:33,439 Speaker 16: Hi everyone, I'm more from Hamilton, Ontario. I just want 591 00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:36,120 Speaker 16: to call in and say that my favorite food is 592 00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:42,200 Speaker 16: always Chipotle, hands down, chicken Chipotle fowl with fiscala dressing. 593 00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:44,920 Speaker 16: I have a gluten allergy and a dairy allergy and 594 00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:47,880 Speaker 16: Chipotle is always really good and I've never gotten gluten there. 595 00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:50,480 Speaker 16: But yeah, that's my favorite food. You guys are awesome. 596 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:52,760 Speaker 16: You guys are my favorite and have such a great night. 597 00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:55,440 Speaker 6: Oh we love you. I love Chipotle too. 598 00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:59,760 Speaker 2: I love Chipotle. 599 00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:02,320 Speaker 6: I like the tassos, I like it all. 600 00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:06,240 Speaker 7: I'm going to plead the fifth And I know this 601 00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:07,200 Speaker 7: is controversial. 602 00:29:08,560 --> 00:29:10,640 Speaker 6: Yeah you don't like it, I tell you what. You 603 00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:11,120 Speaker 6: know why? 604 00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:16,200 Speaker 7: And Stephanie though, Jason Franks is the most wonderful guy 605 00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:19,120 Speaker 7: we ever worked with it, But I watched him eat 606 00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:22,880 Speaker 7: Chipotle every day, and he would eat chicken and rice 607 00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:26,959 Speaker 7: every day, and I literally got sick of it just 608 00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:28,160 Speaker 7: watching him eat it. 609 00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:32,520 Speaker 2: You were like plotting, poor Jason Franks, He's so sweet. 610 00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:35,479 Speaker 6: You were like, if he eats that chicken one more time. 611 00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:42,000 Speaker 2: We love chipotlet here too, So and then Christine's back. 612 00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:44,680 Speaker 2: The fire is out, but it is a real example 613 00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:46,800 Speaker 2: and what we were just talking about. If you're joining us, 614 00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:49,680 Speaker 2: it's the smoke from the fire pit. But it is 615 00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:52,400 Speaker 2: interesting that we were talking about things kind of triggering 616 00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:54,880 Speaker 2: us and then suddenly the alarm goes off, right, So 617 00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:57,520 Speaker 2: that's we only have a little bit of time in 618 00:29:57,560 --> 00:29:59,440 Speaker 2: this segment, so we'll come back and wrap up, but 619 00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:01,840 Speaker 2: we're we're going to talk about how to regulate ourselves 620 00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:04,880 Speaker 2: as we enter the holiday season and why the fascination 621 00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:05,880 Speaker 2: about true crime. 622 00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:10,000 Speaker 3: I'm Stephanie Leidecker here with my girls. It is that night. 623 00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:12,720 Speaker 2: We have Body Moven and Courtney Armstrong and one of 624 00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:16,600 Speaker 2: my most favorite people, Christine Kolopi, is here, who's going 625 00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:19,760 Speaker 2: to help us unlock our minds a bit. She has 626 00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:23,640 Speaker 2: her own creation, the Unlocked Mind and also kind of 627 00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:27,920 Speaker 2: working on your subconscious to maybe stop repeating behaviors or 628 00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:30,800 Speaker 2: you know, as we're entering the holidays, during these really 629 00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:33,200 Speaker 2: confusing times in the world, none of us are immune 630 00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:35,800 Speaker 2: to that. How do we kind of gear up to 631 00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:38,560 Speaker 2: not repeat the same patterns necessarily? 632 00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:41,480 Speaker 13: You know what the holidays are great for, They bring 633 00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:44,160 Speaker 13: us opportunities to grow. So what I always start a 634 00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:46,160 Speaker 13: call with is, so tell me what's going on in 635 00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:50,280 Speaker 13: your world, and the holidays will give you a stage 636 00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:54,000 Speaker 13: to clean things up because we put it away for 637 00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:55,960 Speaker 13: a year and then we're around family that we haven't 638 00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:58,480 Speaker 13: been around. Our experiences we didn't have to look at. 639 00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:01,600 Speaker 13: So always look at what's showing up in your life 640 00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:03,640 Speaker 13: and that'll tell you what's ready to heal, what's ready 641 00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:06,800 Speaker 13: to go. So things don't show up randomly, they're showing 642 00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:08,920 Speaker 13: up as an opportunity for you to look at that. 643 00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:11,680 Speaker 13: We want to look at what's happening outside of us. 644 00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:14,800 Speaker 13: But if we're always asking what was going on with 645 00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:18,320 Speaker 13: me that pulled this to me? If I'm a magnet, 646 00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:20,840 Speaker 13: think about a magnet. If I'm a magnet and I'm 647 00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:25,000 Speaker 13: pulling to me every experience that's giving me the opportunity 648 00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:27,560 Speaker 13: to grow and heal, what's going on in me that 649 00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:31,000 Speaker 13: is ready to go. So holidays will do that for you. 650 00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:34,320 Speaker 2: And that's an interesting thing because sometimes we've I've heard 651 00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:37,040 Speaker 2: this before or maybe I've read this before, where you 652 00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:40,200 Speaker 2: know we're magnetic. We sort of bring experience. And I'm 653 00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:42,240 Speaker 2: going to use a very baseline example and jump in. 654 00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:45,400 Speaker 2: I know this is probably inaccurate, but if somebody experienced 655 00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:50,040 Speaker 2: trauma and then suddenly it seems like they're attracting it 656 00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:51,880 Speaker 2: in a weird way. So say you're in an abusive 657 00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:55,040 Speaker 2: relationship as a child, Now suddenly you're almost like in 658 00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:59,080 Speaker 2: repeat relationships that are in that same cycle. You know, 659 00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:02,240 Speaker 2: I think sometimes you know, women and men feel like, 660 00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:03,800 Speaker 2: oh my picker is off, but. 661 00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:07,400 Speaker 3: That's not accurate. Really, we're choosing familiar. 662 00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:09,000 Speaker 13: I want to try to simplify it. So if we 663 00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:12,440 Speaker 13: think we all have iPhone or phones with apps, right, 664 00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:15,200 Speaker 13: if I have an app for it, it can be open. 665 00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:18,680 Speaker 13: If I delete the app for Instagram, I mean, I 666 00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:20,720 Speaker 13: have my phone here. If I delete the app, I'm 667 00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:22,840 Speaker 13: going to keep pressing and I can't open that app. 668 00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:27,719 Speaker 13: Life will open the apps that you own. So simply put, 669 00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:32,080 Speaker 13: if I have an app for rejection, trauma, stress, and 670 00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:37,440 Speaker 13: the positive ones too, exhaustion, exhaustion, then those apps can 671 00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:41,040 Speaker 13: be opened. So when we clear subconscious programs, we are 672 00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:44,560 Speaker 13: actually deleting the app. So let's say you're someone that 673 00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:47,960 Speaker 13: experiences rejection your whole life, and then. 674 00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:50,880 Speaker 2: You come every single person just raise their hands in 675 00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:54,480 Speaker 2: some way, because who hasn't. Yeah, that's like a human experience. 676 00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:55,920 Speaker 2: No one's immune from that either. 677 00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:58,440 Speaker 13: I hear this a lot during the holidays. I just 678 00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:02,320 Speaker 13: realized I have no support. I never get support. Well, 679 00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:04,360 Speaker 13: do you have an app for that? When we check 680 00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:07,560 Speaker 13: into your subconscious You've never experienced support, you have no 681 00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:10,400 Speaker 13: file for that. So support could be all around you, 682 00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:13,880 Speaker 13: and you're seeing everyone be supported, but you Well, then 683 00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:16,360 Speaker 13: we download an app and all of a sudden, I'll 684 00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:19,360 Speaker 13: hear from people and Stephanie, you can speak to this, yeah, 685 00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:23,080 Speaker 13: and they're like, it's the weirdest thing. Everyone's supporting me 686 00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:23,560 Speaker 13: this year. 687 00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:27,760 Speaker 2: It's so strange, like ancessing the world as we see 688 00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:28,240 Speaker 2: it a bit? 689 00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:29,880 Speaker 6: Is that like the bottom. 690 00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:32,760 Speaker 13: Line as you see it as you're wired? So you 691 00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:35,680 Speaker 13: have a subconscious pro where we like to think we're 692 00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:37,440 Speaker 13: really unique as humans, but we're. 693 00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:40,000 Speaker 15: Kind of like computers. I don't want to burst the bubble. 694 00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:42,680 Speaker 13: But we really are mechanics, you know, And so we 695 00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:48,760 Speaker 13: run data. So our subconscious programs run what we experience. 696 00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:51,600 Speaker 13: They don't only run it, they order it. I mean 697 00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:54,640 Speaker 13: they build the apps for it. So when people are 698 00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:58,240 Speaker 13: coming into our life that are rejecting us or ignoring 699 00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:01,000 Speaker 13: us or whatever it is, or even loving us. You 700 00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:03,680 Speaker 13: see those people who are just so loved they have 701 00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:06,520 Speaker 13: an app for it. You're like, what's different about them 702 00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:09,680 Speaker 13: than me? Like, I'm lovable. They have an app. 703 00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:11,000 Speaker 15: You don't. It's not personal. 704 00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:13,040 Speaker 4: So can I download the app? 705 00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:13,560 Speaker 10: Yeah? 706 00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:14,520 Speaker 6: How do we get the app? 707 00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:15,239 Speaker 10: How do I get you? 708 00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:18,160 Speaker 13: I will download it for you. Okay, I write code 709 00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:18,920 Speaker 13: for all of that. 710 00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:19,680 Speaker 4: I need it. 711 00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:21,000 Speaker 15: I need it. Yeah. 712 00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:23,239 Speaker 13: But as sometimes we do the direction on how to 713 00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:25,360 Speaker 13: use those apps and how to navigate through the world 714 00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:26,919 Speaker 13: with language and things like that. 715 00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:29,959 Speaker 2: Right, that makes sense that people are grieving too, because 716 00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:32,880 Speaker 2: it's the holidays, right, Sometimes people are so happy and 717 00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:35,480 Speaker 2: exciting and it's presents and holidays, and then the other 718 00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:38,120 Speaker 2: side of that, you know, Thanksgiving coming up. You know, 719 00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:41,960 Speaker 2: sometimes there's a seat empty at the table and that's 720 00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:47,040 Speaker 2: challenging for everyone, myself included. And sometimes for whatever reason, 721 00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:49,040 Speaker 2: that gets triggered at the holidays. You know, it's like 722 00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:52,480 Speaker 2: a random Tuesday, it's fine, but the holidays kick in 723 00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:53,880 Speaker 2: and it can be really hard. 724 00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:56,799 Speaker 13: You can put that away and then it's we're all 725 00:34:56,840 --> 00:34:59,680 Speaker 13: great at compartmentalizing. I had a son that was born 726 00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:03,000 Speaker 13: to I passed away on December twelfth, and I remember 727 00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:07,080 Speaker 13: that the holidays came shocking because I'm in grief and 728 00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:08,560 Speaker 13: I'm just looking around, like, how. 729 00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:09,840 Speaker 15: Is the world moving on? 730 00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:10,920 Speaker 6: Functioning? 731 00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:13,319 Speaker 15: First year really hard? Second year? 732 00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:16,840 Speaker 13: You you know, time is happening, it doesn't You just 733 00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:18,799 Speaker 13: get used to it. It's kind of like walking around 734 00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:20,360 Speaker 13: with a rock in your shoe. After a while, you 735 00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:24,759 Speaker 13: just stop feeling it as much. So you yes during 736 00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:27,360 Speaker 13: the holidays. Now you're watching children and you're watch and 737 00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:30,759 Speaker 13: it's triggering. Now, this is what I want to say 738 00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:33,279 Speaker 13: about that. The first couple of years, when I wasn't 739 00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:35,840 Speaker 13: doing this work, I got really lost in that grief 740 00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:40,560 Speaker 13: and it stole my holidays from me. Now I process grief, 741 00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:43,320 Speaker 13: but I really do it for like forty five seconds. 742 00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:47,520 Speaker 13: And I know that's not a popular opinion. However, it's 743 00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:50,200 Speaker 13: a recipe that works. So I'll feel my feelings because 744 00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:52,720 Speaker 13: feelings buried alive never die. 745 00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:58,239 Speaker 3: So when we keep burying, buried alive never die said. 746 00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:00,879 Speaker 13: And if we keep burying them, they're waiting to pop 747 00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:04,000 Speaker 13: up all the time. So if we feel them, the 748 00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:07,879 Speaker 13: subconscious doesn't attack us. It lets us feel it and 749 00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:10,600 Speaker 13: move on. So we can feel them really feel them. 750 00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:13,120 Speaker 13: Forty five seconds is a long time when you're feeling grief, 751 00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:15,960 Speaker 13: by the way, So if you're sitting there and you 752 00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:18,560 Speaker 13: really feel your grief for forty five seconds and then 753 00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:21,480 Speaker 13: you choose, be ready to choose how you want to feel. 754 00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:24,880 Speaker 13: I want to feel happy, I want to feel calm, 755 00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:27,600 Speaker 13: I want to feel whatever it is you want to feel. 756 00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:28,479 Speaker 6: And then what. 757 00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:30,760 Speaker 13: Would make me feel that way? So have a plan 758 00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:33,160 Speaker 13: of action and then you're you're not going to sit 759 00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:35,120 Speaker 13: in grief and it's not going to steal your holiday. 760 00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:37,640 Speaker 5: One thing that my grief counselor told me, and it 761 00:36:37,719 --> 00:36:40,040 Speaker 5: always really stuck with me, and I think it's really 762 00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:43,040 Speaker 5: good advice is she said, grief is something you have 763 00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:43,760 Speaker 5: to go through. 764 00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:45,920 Speaker 4: You can't get around it. You can't go around it. 765 00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:48,719 Speaker 4: You have to go through it, so you won't heal it. 766 00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:50,959 Speaker 4: If you yeah buried alive, will never die. 767 00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:51,359 Speaker 8: Right. 768 00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:54,520 Speaker 4: So, like what you're saying really resounds with me a lot. 769 00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:58,200 Speaker 13: I don't think people are given permission to grieve and 770 00:36:58,320 --> 00:36:59,359 Speaker 13: short increments. 771 00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:01,600 Speaker 4: That's true, that's true. 772 00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:05,719 Speaker 13: In a collective conscious way. We've got to say this 773 00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:06,640 Speaker 13: out loud and it. 774 00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:07,760 Speaker 15: Has to become our normal. 775 00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:11,000 Speaker 13: I don't know, if you guys are familiar with collective consciousness, 776 00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:13,480 Speaker 13: it's that thing that's not familiar, and over time but 777 00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:15,960 Speaker 13: becomes familiar and then it all of a sudden becomes 778 00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:20,319 Speaker 13: all of our conscious meeter gauge for life. So if 779 00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:22,239 Speaker 13: we all start talking about this and we're like, it's 780 00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:25,480 Speaker 13: okay to gree for forty five seconds, and then she 781 00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:28,080 Speaker 13: was a different feeling, And boy, what would happen if 782 00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:31,319 Speaker 13: we if we really started teaching children that they could 783 00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:34,760 Speaker 13: choose their feelings. So one of my clients, her little 784 00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:36,640 Speaker 13: girl was really sad. She was at the park and 785 00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:39,680 Speaker 13: she felt left out with her friends. Apparently the mom 786 00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:41,480 Speaker 13: was telling me she felt so left out and it 787 00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:43,319 Speaker 13: was so sad, And I go, did she tell you that? 788 00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:47,319 Speaker 13: And she said no? And I go, so you thought she. 789 00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:48,080 Speaker 15: Felt left out? 790 00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:50,680 Speaker 13: The mom was already putting her own feelings on the 791 00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:52,839 Speaker 13: little girl. And so then when she asked her later 792 00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:56,040 Speaker 13: because I told her maybe you should ask, the little 793 00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:59,279 Speaker 13: girl wasn't feeling that way at all. So I said, 794 00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:01,360 Speaker 13: even if she had been feeling left out, ask her 795 00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:04,200 Speaker 13: how she wants to feel, If she wants to feel happy, 796 00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:06,600 Speaker 13: if she wants to feel included, How does she see 797 00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:09,120 Speaker 13: herself getting there, Let's give her a solution. Let's tell 798 00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:12,000 Speaker 13: her that she could actually choose any feeling she wants. 799 00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:14,040 Speaker 13: I'm working with a preschool right now, and it's a 800 00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:16,640 Speaker 13: really evolved preschool, and they're going to start teaching this 801 00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:20,080 Speaker 13: to kids, that they can choose their feelings. 802 00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:22,879 Speaker 3: And it's human to get stuck in them, right. 803 00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:25,239 Speaker 2: So, I mean, I think that's a real human experience 804 00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:29,040 Speaker 2: that we all have that occasional weird day where you're like, oh, 805 00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:31,280 Speaker 2: everything seems off today, and then we all look around 806 00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:34,240 Speaker 2: like it today today, Today's today. 807 00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:35,759 Speaker 6: So it's not. 808 00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:38,120 Speaker 2: Because we don't like love each other or the job, 809 00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:40,640 Speaker 2: or we don't love our partners or the home or 810 00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:41,759 Speaker 2: the place or the thing. 811 00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:42,319 Speaker 6: You know. 812 00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:44,279 Speaker 3: It's so easy to assign feelings, you know. 813 00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:47,160 Speaker 2: Or it must be because we're sad for you know, 814 00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:50,480 Speaker 2: we lost a parent or a loved one, or a 815 00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:53,680 Speaker 2: sister or a best friend. It's easy to assign our feelings. 816 00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:56,279 Speaker 2: But sometimes it's okay to just feel it and just 817 00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:58,440 Speaker 2: be in it and then kick yourself out of it 818 00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:01,439 Speaker 2: a little bit and choose a different to move right. 819 00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:03,120 Speaker 2: I know, when you say it, it sounds so simple, 820 00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:04,560 Speaker 2: but sometimes it's hard to get out. 821 00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:04,879 Speaker 6: Of the loop. 822 00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:09,640 Speaker 13: Well, and we we as humans, we want permission, So 823 00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:11,960 Speaker 13: like we're giving you permission right now. We're saying it's 824 00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:13,960 Speaker 13: okay to feel it for forty five seconds and then 825 00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:17,160 Speaker 13: choose a different feeling and move into that feeling, because 826 00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:20,359 Speaker 13: that really is going to set up the next few 827 00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:22,520 Speaker 13: weeks of your life. So you're gonna you're gonna lose 828 00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:25,680 Speaker 13: a few minutes or you're going to lose weeks, and 829 00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:28,560 Speaker 13: you're gonna lose moments with your family. You know that 830 00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:29,759 Speaker 13: can actually help you. 831 00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:33,239 Speaker 2: Heal right, it's precious time. There's a little beep in 832 00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:33,880 Speaker 2: the background. 833 00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:34,160 Speaker 11: I know. 834 00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:37,719 Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean, I'm just I'm also really resonating with 835 00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:40,719 Speaker 7: everything you're saying. And you know, the thought of the 836 00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:45,040 Speaker 7: apps is so interesting, and I really want to have 837 00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:48,480 Speaker 7: some installed and I would like to have a few 838 00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:53,319 Speaker 7: wiped away. So yeah, I'm just your process sounds unbelievable 839 00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:54,360 Speaker 7: and it doesn't make sense. 840 00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:55,360 Speaker 6: Yeah. 841 00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:57,040 Speaker 2: And by the way, if all of our if we 842 00:39:57,160 --> 00:39:58,960 Speaker 2: look at our brain and again jump in if I 843 00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:00,839 Speaker 2: have this wrong, but if you look at our brain 844 00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:03,040 Speaker 2: as like a screen and all of our apps are 845 00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:08,279 Speaker 2: open full volume, that's exhausting. And fatiguing and confusing and 846 00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:11,799 Speaker 2: stressful and it's triggering, you know, take it down like 847 00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:14,560 Speaker 2: everything is, Stepanie. That's no, it's fine. 848 00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:17,799 Speaker 13: So if you look at your computer and how much 849 00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:21,400 Speaker 13: space is being taken, if you have twenty five tabs open, 850 00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:25,279 Speaker 13: you're running at left capacity. Right, So when you have 851 00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:28,239 Speaker 13: and people are so good at this, raise your hand. 852 00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:30,120 Speaker 13: If you ask yourself a lot of questions but you 853 00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:33,160 Speaker 13: never answer them, You're going to ask yourself all these questions, 854 00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:35,480 Speaker 13: but you never answer them. That's a tab the tab, 855 00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:37,239 Speaker 13: the tab, the tab, the tab, the tab, the tab. 856 00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:40,120 Speaker 13: So you want to answer the question. If you're going 857 00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:42,560 Speaker 13: to ask yourself the question and it's some kind of 858 00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:45,759 Speaker 13: devastating question that you're dumping on yourself, answer it and 859 00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:46,480 Speaker 13: watch what happens. 860 00:40:46,520 --> 00:40:47,120 Speaker 15: It goes away. 861 00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:50,719 Speaker 13: So that's another tool that I give people. I say, well, 862 00:40:50,719 --> 00:40:52,960 Speaker 13: if you're going to ask the question, answer it. So 863 00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:55,239 Speaker 13: you're not dumping. You're not a dumping. 864 00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:57,040 Speaker 3: Ground, right right, I guess that's true. 865 00:40:57,040 --> 00:40:58,960 Speaker 2: And you have to be your own best bud and 866 00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:01,160 Speaker 2: sort of have your own back to some extent, what 867 00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:02,640 Speaker 2: do you have to do the work too? 868 00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:05,200 Speaker 5: Like you have to be responsible for you have to 869 00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:07,520 Speaker 5: do a lot of work to get kind of self 870 00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:10,760 Speaker 5: aware of these apps and whatnot too, right, Like, nobody 871 00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:12,319 Speaker 5: can fix this for you. You have to put in 872 00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:13,120 Speaker 5: the work too well. 873 00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:16,520 Speaker 13: What trying to say, awareness is a powerful tool. However, 874 00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:19,600 Speaker 13: the beauty of this work is that it actually does 875 00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:22,600 Speaker 13: go in and change the system. And so it isn't 876 00:41:22,640 --> 00:41:26,560 Speaker 13: like a constant mantra or it just happens. 877 00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:28,279 Speaker 15: I don't know how to explain it. 878 00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:31,919 Speaker 13: So, no, you're not constantly working where Oh okay, once 879 00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:33,719 Speaker 13: you get the I mean, think about an app. I 880 00:41:33,760 --> 00:41:36,000 Speaker 13: don't constantly have to download Instagram. 881 00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:38,040 Speaker 4: I have to constantly download updates. 882 00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:40,560 Speaker 13: Not constant, it's maybe once a year. 883 00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:42,960 Speaker 5: The life of the app, I have to download updates, 884 00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:45,160 Speaker 5: and I have to know that work the app. I 885 00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:47,080 Speaker 5: have to know how to post to my story, post 886 00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:49,440 Speaker 5: real add text, you know, so I have to have 887 00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:52,000 Speaker 5: knowledge and work the app. I have to be able 888 00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:55,000 Speaker 5: to know how the social media sel works so that 889 00:41:55,040 --> 00:41:57,360 Speaker 5: I get you know, views and hits and whatnot. So 890 00:41:57,400 --> 00:41:59,920 Speaker 5: you do have to put in work right well, it's. 891 00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:02,560 Speaker 13: An and that's where the coaching part comes in because 892 00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:05,640 Speaker 13: a lot of people, I mean I only own an iPad. 893 00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:08,239 Speaker 13: I don't even own a computer, So like I did 894 00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:09,960 Speaker 13: own one, and then I didn't want to learn how 895 00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:10,799 Speaker 13: to use it, and so. 896 00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:11,440 Speaker 15: I gave it away. 897 00:42:11,800 --> 00:42:15,239 Speaker 13: Right, doesn't mean that computer wasn't amazing, couldn't do amazing things. 898 00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:17,279 Speaker 13: It meant I wasn't willing to learn how to work. 899 00:42:17,880 --> 00:42:20,680 Speaker 13: So the same thing happens here. You're going to have 900 00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:22,400 Speaker 13: all the downloads and then I'm going to give you 901 00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:25,880 Speaker 13: the tools to actually learn that system and use it. 902 00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:28,120 Speaker 13: The fun part about this work is when you start 903 00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:31,080 Speaker 13: using it, it works so quickly and you start having 904 00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:34,920 Speaker 13: different reactions from people, and your life starts changing so much. 905 00:42:35,280 --> 00:42:37,360 Speaker 13: You just want more and more and more. It's like, 906 00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:40,719 Speaker 13: what's next, What do I want to clear next? So 907 00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:41,880 Speaker 13: it's just really fun. 908 00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:44,960 Speaker 2: So as we're like entering scenarios where you know, we 909 00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:47,640 Speaker 2: talk about like Diddy and these victims and things, you know, 910 00:42:47,680 --> 00:42:51,360 Speaker 2: people being unheard and unseen, and you know, it's hard 911 00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:54,640 Speaker 2: for you know, anyone who's hearing my voice even right now, 912 00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:56,839 Speaker 2: who has been through something traumatic to just like shake 913 00:42:56,880 --> 00:42:59,759 Speaker 2: it off, right, that's a hard thing. Or you keep 914 00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:02,160 Speaker 2: talking talking about it again and again and again, whether 915 00:43:02,200 --> 00:43:04,800 Speaker 2: that's in therapy or otherwise, it becomes your story. 916 00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:06,719 Speaker 3: I know, we only have a couple of minutes left. 917 00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:09,799 Speaker 2: Is there like one simple tool just to get us 918 00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:11,279 Speaker 2: on the right track. 919 00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:13,440 Speaker 13: I would say, pay attention to what's loud. 920 00:43:13,680 --> 00:43:14,800 Speaker 15: I will always ask. 921 00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:17,440 Speaker 13: You where's the volume in your life? Wherever that volume is, 922 00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:20,600 Speaker 13: it's not there to torture you. It's there to tell 923 00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:23,080 Speaker 13: you that that's ready to go and peel. And that's 924 00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:26,239 Speaker 13: the good news. So if something's really loud for you 925 00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:28,799 Speaker 13: and it continues to be loud, it's being loud so 926 00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:30,399 Speaker 13: that you can change it, not. 927 00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:31,480 Speaker 6: So that you can stay in it. 928 00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:34,600 Speaker 13: So I'm always asking people where's the volume? 929 00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:35,319 Speaker 10: Right? 930 00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:37,399 Speaker 3: Like, you know what we resist persists, right? 931 00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:39,680 Speaker 2: So you know the things that just keep showing up 932 00:43:39,719 --> 00:43:41,839 Speaker 2: and showing up and showing up rather than dreading it, 933 00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:43,799 Speaker 2: how do we lean in and learn from it? I 934 00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:46,240 Speaker 2: don't It seems so practical, but I know it's hard. 935 00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:49,880 Speaker 13: Well, I mean we were talking about I was married 936 00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:53,360 Speaker 13: for twenty two years the first time, awful situation, and 937 00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:55,560 Speaker 13: I never left or got divorced. But then when I 938 00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:59,120 Speaker 13: started changing my subconscious programs, everything changed. I got divorced, 939 00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:01,000 Speaker 13: and my sister got divorces, my brother and a divorce, 940 00:44:01,080 --> 00:44:03,600 Speaker 13: like it was all the paradigm changed and everyone was like, well, 941 00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:06,360 Speaker 13: that's safe, it's not dangerous, and now I'm in the 942 00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:11,080 Speaker 13: happiest relationship that Oh yay, that the life meets the downloads. 943 00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:15,600 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, oh man. Thank you so much, Christine. 944 00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:18,080 Speaker 7: Seriously, this was such a joy and a pleasure and 945 00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:21,400 Speaker 7: gave us so much to think about. So yeah, we 946 00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:23,920 Speaker 7: all got a little peek into what's running us beneath 947 00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:28,440 Speaker 7: the surface. Christine Collopy is a transformational expert. She is 948 00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:31,160 Speaker 7: the creator of the Unlocked Mind and you can reach 949 00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:34,719 Speaker 7: her at the unlockedmind dot com and you. 950 00:44:34,680 --> 00:44:35,879 Speaker 6: Should keep it here. 951 00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:38,040 Speaker 7: We have a lot more coming up at the top 952 00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:41,640 Speaker 7: of the hour, including another great guest, True Crime Tonight. 953 00:44:52,080 --> 00:44:55,280 Speaker 2: Welcome back to True Crime Tonight on iHeartRadio. We're talking 954 00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:58,759 Speaker 2: true crime all the time. I'm Stephanie Leidecker and I 955 00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:01,000 Speaker 2: head of KATI Studio and I get to be here 956 00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:03,600 Speaker 2: every night with the two best of the best, Courtney 957 00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:07,000 Speaker 2: Armstrong and Body Move In. So thank you Christine for 958 00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:10,840 Speaker 2: being with us. Listen, what one funny story about Christine. 959 00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:13,200 Speaker 2: So she was in this relationship. I guess, as she 960 00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:15,560 Speaker 2: just mentioned, you know for many many years. I may 961 00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:17,160 Speaker 2: be getting this wrong, but I don't think I am. 962 00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:20,160 Speaker 2: And she had a package delivered to her home. Now 963 00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:23,440 Speaker 2: she's single package delivered to her home, and it was 964 00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:26,120 Speaker 2: sent to the wrong address, so she had to deliver 965 00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:28,840 Speaker 2: it to the correct address, like the person a couple 966 00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:33,440 Speaker 2: doors down and that's her. Now, husband, stop it, Oh, 967 00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:34,480 Speaker 2: are you serious? 968 00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:38,279 Speaker 6: That's so yeah. So you know, you never know, like 969 00:45:39,120 --> 00:45:39,840 Speaker 6: every bend. 970 00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:43,359 Speaker 4: So she was doing a good deed and she was rewarded. 971 00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:45,880 Speaker 4: She said, the best relationships for life. 972 00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:51,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, good deeds can go unpunished, right, and you just 973 00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:54,720 Speaker 3: don't know, right, like every interaction could lead to another. 974 00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:58,120 Speaker 2: And maybe there's something beautiful around the bend, whether we 975 00:45:58,160 --> 00:46:02,480 Speaker 2: see it crystall eyed or so. Anyway, welcome back everybody. 976 00:46:02,560 --> 00:46:05,359 Speaker 2: If you've missed any of the first hour of the show. 977 00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:05,920 Speaker 6: Buggle up. 978 00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:09,279 Speaker 2: You can always catch us after as a podcast. You 979 00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:12,920 Speaker 2: could also join us live eight eight eight three one crime, 980 00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:15,480 Speaker 2: or you could of course leave us a talkback We 981 00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:18,480 Speaker 2: love them, keep them coming, or of course you could 982 00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:19,239 Speaker 2: always hit us. 983 00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:23,120 Speaker 3: Up on our socials. So, buddy, whe shall we begin. 984 00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:26,680 Speaker 4: Let's start with the Celeste Hernandez. 985 00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:30,960 Speaker 5: So, yes, Stephen Fisher has found an interesting piece of 986 00:46:31,120 --> 00:46:36,440 Speaker 5: new information. Okay, so this information suggests that Celeste Revas 987 00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:39,759 Speaker 5: Hernandez may have been at Six Flags Amusement Park with 988 00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:43,960 Speaker 5: her cousin and David shortly after she was reported missing. 989 00:46:44,239 --> 00:46:48,000 Speaker 5: So remember Celesti's fourteen years old, and she went missing 990 00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:51,799 Speaker 5: on April fifth of twenty twenty four, and her dismembered 991 00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:54,759 Speaker 5: body we don't know, but her dismembered body was later 992 00:46:54,800 --> 00:46:58,920 Speaker 5: discovered in the front of David's tesla in Los Angeles 993 00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:03,200 Speaker 5: a year later in September. Okay, David has not been 994 00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:06,200 Speaker 5: accused of any crime related to her death, although his 995 00:47:06,280 --> 00:47:09,320 Speaker 5: home and car were involved in the investigation and probably 996 00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:12,920 Speaker 5: still are. So this what he found was this build 997 00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:16,600 Speaker 5: a Bear certificate and it's dated April twenty first, twenty 998 00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:20,480 Speaker 5: twenty four. So what seventeen days after after Celesco's missing, 999 00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:22,200 Speaker 5: there's this build a bear certificate? 1000 00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:25,000 Speaker 6: Okay, what's a build a bear? Build a bear bear? 1001 00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:27,560 Speaker 2: Like the little builed beer bears that you build in 1002 00:47:27,600 --> 00:47:27,919 Speaker 2: the mall. 1003 00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:29,280 Speaker 6: Yep, yep. 1004 00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:31,719 Speaker 2: So I go and there's like a stuffed animal and 1005 00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:34,080 Speaker 2: I stuff it and then I have a receipt of that, 1006 00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:35,680 Speaker 2: and that is now well, you get like. 1007 00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:37,360 Speaker 5: A certificate and you get to Nate cut do you 1008 00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:39,880 Speaker 5: remember the cabbage patch dolls and it came with like 1009 00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:40,799 Speaker 5: a birth certificate. 1010 00:47:41,560 --> 00:47:43,960 Speaker 4: It's kind of like this little birth certificate for your 1011 00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:44,399 Speaker 4: build a Bear. 1012 00:47:44,520 --> 00:47:45,439 Speaker 3: I see that you. 1013 00:47:45,320 --> 00:47:48,760 Speaker 7: Are American girls, they have now as well, and it's special, 1014 00:47:48,800 --> 00:47:52,400 Speaker 7: it's unique, so it's not right, it's only yours. 1015 00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:55,239 Speaker 5: Right, So this is how it all connects though, because 1016 00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:57,919 Speaker 5: you're probably like, well, who cares that her cousin had 1017 00:47:57,920 --> 00:48:02,120 Speaker 5: a build a Bear certificate dated October or April twenty first, right, Well, 1018 00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:06,360 Speaker 5: the reason it's significant is that David posted a TikTok 1019 00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:11,440 Speaker 5: video the same day at a rollercoaster, likely the same 1020 00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:15,680 Speaker 5: Six Flags location that the as the builder Bear. 1021 00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:18,640 Speaker 6: Oh, they do have that at the six Flags. 1022 00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:22,560 Speaker 3: They do that six Flags where that the bear exists. 1023 00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:29,640 Speaker 5: Yes, so the cousin of Celeste was with David and 1024 00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:36,520 Speaker 5: Celeste at six Flags after Celeste was reported missing. 1025 00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:38,040 Speaker 4: Does that make sense? 1026 00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:39,399 Speaker 6: It does? 1027 00:48:39,440 --> 00:48:41,759 Speaker 3: But is that surprising? Particularly so we. 1028 00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:44,439 Speaker 2: Know she ran away, we know she was with him, 1029 00:48:45,520 --> 00:48:47,840 Speaker 2: we know he was found in her vehicle. 1030 00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:53,319 Speaker 5: Her family, her family reported her missing April fifth. She's 1031 00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:57,239 Speaker 5: with her cousin, her family, her cousin, not her cousins in. 1032 00:48:57,920 --> 00:49:01,879 Speaker 4: Her cousin are we all on the safe page. 1033 00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:03,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, totally. 1034 00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:06,759 Speaker 5: So Steve Fisher again, he's the private investigator. He was 1035 00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:10,200 Speaker 5: hired by the owner of the Hollywood Hills home that 1036 00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:15,560 Speaker 5: David had been renting. He believed Celeste and Esmeralda, the cousin, 1037 00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:17,760 Speaker 5: and David were all at the same amusement park together 1038 00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:23,920 Speaker 5: after Celeste went missing. Evidence suggests that adults may have 1039 00:49:23,960 --> 00:49:26,960 Speaker 5: been present and aware of celest whereabouts, but did not 1040 00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:28,200 Speaker 5: notify authorities. 1041 00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:33,080 Speaker 6: No, yeah, no, yes, she's fourteen years old. 1042 00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:36,320 Speaker 2: I want to always say shame anybody's family or anybody 1043 00:49:36,320 --> 00:49:39,839 Speaker 2: who's in lass, but that is not okay, if. 1044 00:49:39,760 --> 00:49:43,000 Speaker 7: And NPS was thirteen at the time, she was thirteen 1045 00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:45,400 Speaker 7: at the time, correct. 1046 00:49:44,560 --> 00:49:47,279 Speaker 2: Now, and if I'm remembering this correctly, you know, one 1047 00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:49,560 Speaker 2: of the incidents, of which there were many, was that 1048 00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:53,400 Speaker 2: neighbors had reported Celeste having an argument with family outside 1049 00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:54,120 Speaker 2: of her house. 1050 00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:55,520 Speaker 3: That was an incident. 1051 00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:58,520 Speaker 2: I think authorities were called to that, so she had 1052 00:49:58,560 --> 00:50:01,839 Speaker 2: had to repeat behavior at home. Obviously she ran away 1053 00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:05,000 Speaker 2: so or went missing, right, But there's a real big 1054 00:50:05,000 --> 00:50:09,920 Speaker 2: difference between running away and being taken right, So I 1055 00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:13,799 Speaker 2: guess that's the that's the crossroads. I always assumed she 1056 00:50:13,960 --> 00:50:16,839 Speaker 2: ran away. Maybe mom was, you know, and brother they 1057 00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:20,560 Speaker 2: were all missing her dearly, of course they are, and 1058 00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:23,759 Speaker 2: you know, there had been reports that they kind of 1059 00:50:23,840 --> 00:50:27,400 Speaker 2: knew where she was, that she was with this you know, 1060 00:50:27,520 --> 00:50:31,200 Speaker 2: pop star, whether they were just friends or or more. 1061 00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:34,279 Speaker 2: By the way, if it's or more, that's also statutory 1062 00:50:34,360 --> 00:50:37,719 Speaker 2: rape and illegal. But we're not making those accusations. And 1063 00:50:37,800 --> 00:50:41,320 Speaker 2: of course, you know, David, the pop star whose concert 1064 00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:47,640 Speaker 2: was canceled world tour was world tour Gonzo. He also 1065 00:50:47,719 --> 00:50:49,520 Speaker 2: has not been named in any of this, nor have 1066 00:50:49,600 --> 00:50:53,120 Speaker 2: I ever seen him do any press or speak nothing. 1067 00:50:53,480 --> 00:50:55,440 Speaker 2: I don't think I've ever really seen a visual of 1068 00:50:55,560 --> 00:50:58,759 Speaker 2: him since his you know concert being canceled. 1069 00:50:58,960 --> 00:51:01,040 Speaker 4: No, soh Lapd. 1070 00:51:01,320 --> 00:51:03,799 Speaker 5: Just as an update, Lapd states that her body may 1071 00:51:03,800 --> 00:51:07,040 Speaker 5: have been in the Tesla for several weeks before the discovery, 1072 00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:10,120 Speaker 5: and we're still waiting for these talks results and this 1073 00:51:10,280 --> 00:51:13,480 Speaker 5: may clarify a time frame, manner and cause of her death. 1074 00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:16,439 Speaker 5: She has been laid to rest by her family after 1075 00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:19,720 Speaker 5: her remains were found, and David is cooperating with the police. 1076 00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:23,520 Speaker 5: He canceled, as you noted, he canceled the remainder of 1077 00:51:23,520 --> 00:51:25,800 Speaker 5: his tour but he's not been named as a suspect, 1078 00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:29,279 Speaker 5: and the case remains open, with the LAPD emphasizing the 1079 00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:33,680 Speaker 5: need for further investigation before determining any criminal criminal culpability. 1080 00:51:34,200 --> 00:51:36,920 Speaker 2: So is it possible, like just like going with me 1081 00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:39,719 Speaker 2: on it. I'm just theorizing right now, person's theory. Is 1082 00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:43,680 Speaker 2: it possible that she was running from something? Again, no accusations, 1083 00:51:44,160 --> 00:51:47,080 Speaker 2: if she was running away, and maybe David the pop 1084 00:51:47,080 --> 00:51:50,600 Speaker 2: star was who maybe has a little arrested development as well. 1085 00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:53,080 Speaker 2: You know, he's been a star. He was like a 1086 00:51:53,160 --> 00:51:56,440 Speaker 2: COVID kid apparently. I think he dropped out of school 1087 00:51:56,719 --> 00:52:00,120 Speaker 2: soon thereafter and was homeschooled, So maybe he has a 1088 00:52:00,120 --> 00:52:04,640 Speaker 2: little of that's arrested development in that regard because he 1089 00:52:04,680 --> 00:52:08,839 Speaker 2: hasn't been as socialized. And then he knows that maybe 1090 00:52:08,920 --> 00:52:12,120 Speaker 2: Celeste appears to be in a scenario that might not 1091 00:52:12,239 --> 00:52:15,480 Speaker 2: be good for her at home fill in the blank 1092 00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:19,720 Speaker 2: whatever that means. And he was like a safe place 1093 00:52:19,880 --> 00:52:22,799 Speaker 2: for her to run to. Maybe she had nowhere to go. 1094 00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:25,040 Speaker 2: Maybe if my cousin is there. 1095 00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:29,960 Speaker 7: Too well, And I I was making the assumption that 1096 00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:33,960 Speaker 7: the cousin, as Marelda was her age was Celeste's age, 1097 00:52:34,400 --> 00:52:38,919 Speaker 7: but she in fact, was a grown adult. Correct, So 1098 00:52:39,280 --> 00:52:42,319 Speaker 7: that hadn't sunk in when I was hearing cousin. So yeah, 1099 00:52:42,360 --> 00:52:47,319 Speaker 7: she was indeed an adult. And yeah, that's crazy. This 1100 00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:49,720 Speaker 7: is why hands out like a thing. 1101 00:52:49,840 --> 00:52:52,440 Speaker 5: Like if she was maybe younger or something, it might 1102 00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:53,640 Speaker 5: not be such a feel. 1103 00:52:53,719 --> 00:52:55,040 Speaker 6: But she's an adult. 1104 00:52:55,520 --> 00:52:58,880 Speaker 7: And also she must be I would imagine, incredibly close 1105 00:52:59,040 --> 00:53:02,479 Speaker 7: to the family, as she's the one at least looking 1106 00:53:02,520 --> 00:53:05,759 Speaker 7: at the GoFundMe, she's the one who actually posted on 1107 00:53:05,880 --> 00:53:07,520 Speaker 7: behalf of the family. 1108 00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:09,400 Speaker 9: Stop. 1109 00:53:10,239 --> 00:53:11,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, and I'm seeing in. 1110 00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:15,120 Speaker 7: This moment that the donations are paused on that go 1111 00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:19,440 Speaker 7: fund me. I don't know, stop when that happened. 1112 00:53:20,120 --> 00:53:22,759 Speaker 2: Yeah, by the way, if this, you know, maybe this 1113 00:53:22,800 --> 00:53:25,359 Speaker 2: does speak to it, if this has you know, if 1114 00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:29,600 Speaker 2: it bears out that this beautiful fourteen year old young 1115 00:53:29,640 --> 00:53:35,240 Speaker 2: woman was found decomposing in the trunk of this man's car, 1116 00:53:35,520 --> 00:53:37,319 Speaker 2: the pop star David, and he had nothing to do 1117 00:53:37,360 --> 00:53:40,360 Speaker 2: with it. This was just you know, maybe maybe he 1118 00:53:40,400 --> 00:53:43,040 Speaker 2: went on tour and you know the rest of the 1119 00:53:43,080 --> 00:53:47,320 Speaker 2: crew stayed at home and you know, maybe her family 1120 00:53:47,480 --> 00:53:50,040 Speaker 2: allegedly this is nothing even alleged. This is just we're 1121 00:53:50,040 --> 00:53:53,319 Speaker 2: just theorizing right now. Maybe people maybe everybody knew where 1122 00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:56,560 Speaker 2: she was. She wasn't really missing. Maybe she was just 1123 00:53:56,800 --> 00:53:59,360 Speaker 2: not home, right, That's a very big difference. 1124 00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:01,480 Speaker 5: But you would think that at that point, if you 1125 00:54:01,560 --> 00:54:04,160 Speaker 5: know where she's at, you know that she's safe and whatever, 1126 00:54:04,239 --> 00:54:06,960 Speaker 5: you would call the police and be like, she's not 1127 00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:07,760 Speaker 5: missing anymore. 1128 00:54:08,360 --> 00:54:11,080 Speaker 2: But she had also been taken from David the pop 1129 00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:15,359 Speaker 2: stars residence once before, because this had actually happened before too, 1130 00:54:16,040 --> 00:54:19,360 Speaker 2: and they knew where she was and they brought her home, 1131 00:54:19,960 --> 00:54:22,640 Speaker 2: and then this happened yet again. It may be young love, 1132 00:54:22,760 --> 00:54:25,640 Speaker 2: like maybe she's just crazy for this pop star. It 1133 00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:27,799 Speaker 2: just keeps running away from home to be with him. 1134 00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:31,880 Speaker 5: Remember David's friends thought, you know, she was a student 1135 00:54:32,080 --> 00:54:35,479 Speaker 5: at USC and that they said that she was shy, 1136 00:54:35,560 --> 00:54:37,200 Speaker 5: But it did appear that her and David were in 1137 00:54:37,239 --> 00:54:40,360 Speaker 5: a romantic relationship. So I do think that this was 1138 00:54:40,400 --> 00:54:42,239 Speaker 5: a little bit more than like a big brother trying 1139 00:54:42,239 --> 00:54:44,640 Speaker 5: to take care of a wayward girl. I do think 1140 00:54:44,800 --> 00:54:46,160 Speaker 5: there was a romance going on. 1141 00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:49,360 Speaker 2: Not to mention his video, it's all coming back to 1142 00:54:49,400 --> 00:54:52,839 Speaker 2: me in terms of the video that actually has you know, 1143 00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:57,879 Speaker 2: the implication of murder and his song lyrics doesn't really 1144 00:54:57,920 --> 00:55:01,600 Speaker 2: help the cause I just feel very confused by it. 1145 00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:05,880 Speaker 7: I know, well, we will keep everyone updated as information unfold, 1146 00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:08,000 Speaker 7: and it has been coming out in drips and drabs. 1147 00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:11,560 Speaker 7: But this is, you know, some information, and this is 1148 00:55:11,640 --> 00:55:15,479 Speaker 7: true crime tonight. I'm Courtney, I'm here with Body, I'm 1149 00:55:15,520 --> 00:55:18,640 Speaker 7: here with Stephanie. We have been speaking about Celeste Weaves, 1150 00:55:18,640 --> 00:55:20,400 Speaker 7: Hernandez and Body. 1151 00:55:20,719 --> 00:55:22,839 Speaker 6: You have an update on God's Misfits. 1152 00:55:23,040 --> 00:55:27,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, So they had court and Tad Cullum, who is 1153 00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:29,880 Speaker 5: one of the suspects. He's one of the God's Misfits, 1154 00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:33,319 Speaker 5: and Cole Twombly, who's also a God's misfit in one 1155 00:55:33,320 --> 00:55:36,320 Speaker 5: of the suspects. They pled not guilty to the murders 1156 00:55:36,360 --> 00:55:40,040 Speaker 5: of Veronica Butler and Jillian Kelly. Their trials are scheduled 1157 00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:44,080 Speaker 5: for June and October of twenty twenty six, so in 1158 00:55:44,120 --> 00:55:48,920 Speaker 5: about seven months it'll start. Veronica Butler and Jillian Kelly 1159 00:55:48,960 --> 00:55:52,640 Speaker 5: disappeared in March over Easter weekend in twenty twenty four 1160 00:55:52,680 --> 00:55:55,920 Speaker 5: while traveling to Oklahoma. Their bodies were later discovered in 1161 00:55:55,960 --> 00:56:00,000 Speaker 5: a freezer buried under this concrete slab in Texas County 1162 00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:04,480 Speaker 5: in the Oklahoma Multiple defendants, including Tag Colum and Cole Twombley, 1163 00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:08,520 Speaker 5: who I just mentioned, as well as Tiffany Adams, Cora Twombley, 1164 00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:11,520 Speaker 5: and Paul Grice have been charged in connection with these killings, 1165 00:56:11,520 --> 00:56:14,400 Speaker 5: which authorities say were linked to a custody dispute. 1166 00:56:15,719 --> 00:56:20,040 Speaker 6: That was a lot to get out. It's a mental case. 1167 00:56:20,080 --> 00:56:22,480 Speaker 3: Though there are really gruesome details about it. 1168 00:56:22,480 --> 00:56:25,040 Speaker 5: There is something for it. Yeah, there is some gruesome details. 1169 00:56:25,040 --> 00:56:27,399 Speaker 5: But I kind of wanted to get into their pleas. 1170 00:56:27,080 --> 00:56:27,600 Speaker 6: A little bit. 1171 00:56:28,160 --> 00:56:30,799 Speaker 5: So Tag Cullum, he's he's one of the accused. Again, 1172 00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:35,680 Speaker 5: he formally pled not guilty. Cole Twombly remained silent and 1173 00:56:36,080 --> 00:56:38,640 Speaker 5: the court had to enter a plea for him. And 1174 00:56:38,680 --> 00:56:40,720 Speaker 5: I kind of wanted to talk about this because God's 1175 00:56:40,719 --> 00:56:43,560 Speaker 5: Misfits one of their tenants. This is kind of like 1176 00:56:43,600 --> 00:56:47,960 Speaker 5: a religious organ well, I'm going to say loose community 1177 00:56:48,560 --> 00:56:51,719 Speaker 5: like group. Let's say who there's They have a lot 1178 00:56:51,760 --> 00:56:56,239 Speaker 5: of sovereign citizen beliefs and a lot of cute annon beliefs. 1179 00:56:56,320 --> 00:57:01,520 Speaker 5: And uh, you know, when I read that Cole stood silent, 1180 00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:03,640 Speaker 5: it triggered me a little bit because this is something 1181 00:57:03,640 --> 00:57:05,040 Speaker 5: that sovereign citizens do. 1182 00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:07,520 Speaker 4: They will stand. 1183 00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:12,360 Speaker 5: They'll often base this on some sort of pseudo legal 1184 00:57:12,400 --> 00:57:15,760 Speaker 5: interpretation of what they believe the law is. Okay, they'll 1185 00:57:15,920 --> 00:57:19,560 Speaker 5: refuse to enter plea at all. They'll either remain completely silent. 1186 00:57:20,040 --> 00:57:23,560 Speaker 5: They'll say something like I don't consent to these proceedings, 1187 00:57:24,240 --> 00:57:27,320 Speaker 5: or argue that the court doesn't have any jurisdiction over them. 1188 00:57:27,840 --> 00:57:30,479 Speaker 5: When this happens, the judg and as we know Brian 1189 00:57:30,560 --> 00:57:34,000 Speaker 5: Cooberger did not, he stood scientific, he didn't enter a plea. 1190 00:57:34,080 --> 00:57:36,480 Speaker 4: That's right, he stood silent. AnyWho. 1191 00:57:36,600 --> 00:57:39,200 Speaker 5: So when this happened, the judge, as required by law, 1192 00:57:39,320 --> 00:57:42,360 Speaker 5: simply enters a not guilty plea on their breath. And 1193 00:57:42,560 --> 00:57:45,920 Speaker 5: that's in Oklahoma and pretty much every other state. So, 1194 00:57:46,320 --> 00:57:48,640 Speaker 5: but what sovereign citizens believe is that this is going 1195 00:57:48,640 --> 00:57:51,360 Speaker 5: to somehow stop the proceedings because the court doesn't have 1196 00:57:51,400 --> 00:57:55,680 Speaker 5: any jurisdiction over them. They believe they are sovereign individuals 1197 00:57:55,760 --> 00:57:59,160 Speaker 5: not subject to any federal or state law. Courts only 1198 00:57:59,200 --> 00:58:02,880 Speaker 5: have jurisdiction over corporate or fictional versions of them, which 1199 00:58:02,880 --> 00:58:07,760 Speaker 5: they refer to as strawman and refusing to consent or 1200 00:58:07,960 --> 00:58:11,840 Speaker 5: enter into contract with the court keeps them outside of 1201 00:58:11,880 --> 00:58:14,480 Speaker 5: the system, which of course is not true. But this 1202 00:58:14,600 --> 00:58:18,200 Speaker 5: is their belief. Okay, So him standing silent. I think 1203 00:58:18,240 --> 00:58:21,520 Speaker 5: is much different than Brian Koberger. It's more tied to 1204 00:58:21,560 --> 00:58:24,160 Speaker 5: the sovereign citizen movement, which they're all a part of. 1205 00:58:25,280 --> 00:58:26,960 Speaker 5: It's very interesting the sovereign citizens are. 1206 00:58:27,080 --> 00:58:28,320 Speaker 6: It's so I really. 1207 00:58:28,120 --> 00:58:30,480 Speaker 7: Want to read a book on this or read a 1208 00:58:30,480 --> 00:58:32,000 Speaker 7: bunch of articles because it's. 1209 00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:35,040 Speaker 5: So fascinating if you want to see them in action. 1210 00:58:35,200 --> 00:58:37,880 Speaker 5: I cannot recommend enough to please watch. 1211 00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:42,040 Speaker 4: The Daryl Brooks trial. Darryl Brooks is the man convicted 1212 00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:46,400 Speaker 4: now that ran his truck in that Christmas parade. 1213 00:58:46,480 --> 00:58:49,479 Speaker 5: I think it was in Wisconsin or Minnesota, that's right, Yes, 1214 00:58:49,560 --> 00:58:50,080 Speaker 5: do you remember this? 1215 00:58:50,120 --> 00:58:50,280 Speaker 10: Yes? 1216 00:58:50,400 --> 00:58:53,760 Speaker 3: It was I want to say Minnesota, Yeah I do. 1217 00:58:54,080 --> 00:58:54,400 Speaker 6: Yeah. 1218 00:58:54,440 --> 00:58:59,560 Speaker 5: And when many died, many died, right, And he's a 1219 00:58:59,600 --> 00:59:05,280 Speaker 5: sovereign and his trial was televised, and he did so 1220 00:59:05,440 --> 00:59:09,960 Speaker 5: many sovereign citizens stunts throughout his case in the trial. 1221 00:59:10,520 --> 00:59:13,760 Speaker 5: And this judge, she's like a saint, you guys, this 1222 00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:18,000 Speaker 5: judge is a saint. He's yelling at her, he's degrading her, 1223 00:59:18,040 --> 00:59:21,080 Speaker 5: he's building forts out of banker boxes and hiding behind them. 1224 00:59:21,160 --> 00:59:25,120 Speaker 5: And I mean, it's crazy the things that they believe 1225 00:59:25,160 --> 00:59:27,880 Speaker 5: are true. They really believe that they are not part 1226 00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:30,240 Speaker 5: of the system, and that the court doesn't have any 1227 00:59:30,320 --> 00:59:33,800 Speaker 5: jurisdiction over them. And the Daryl Brooks Brooks trial is 1228 00:59:34,040 --> 00:59:36,720 Speaker 5: on full display of the sovereign citizen movement. 1229 00:59:36,840 --> 00:59:39,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, you can take the life of somebody who's not 1230 00:59:39,160 --> 00:59:41,640 Speaker 2: one of your fellow sovereign citizens and therefore not have 1231 00:59:41,680 --> 00:59:42,320 Speaker 2: to pay for it. 1232 00:59:42,760 --> 00:59:44,120 Speaker 3: That's where it gets a little wonky. 1233 00:59:44,240 --> 00:59:46,200 Speaker 2: You can believe whatever you want, but when you maul 1234 00:59:46,320 --> 00:59:49,560 Speaker 2: down other individuals not on sovereign land. 1235 00:59:49,720 --> 00:59:51,520 Speaker 3: Hey, guess what, there's a price to pay and you 1236 00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:53,200 Speaker 3: have to right the end. 1237 00:59:53,640 --> 00:59:56,800 Speaker 5: So it was Wisconsin, it was praise, and it was 1238 00:59:56,840 --> 00:59:58,800 Speaker 5: twenty twenty one. But yeah, if you're interested in the 1239 00:59:58,840 --> 01:00:02,440 Speaker 5: sovereign citis movement, go on YouTube look for the Darryl 1240 01:00:02,960 --> 01:00:04,160 Speaker 5: Brooks trial and watch it. 1241 01:00:04,160 --> 01:00:06,440 Speaker 4: It's a couple of days. It's literally fascinating. 1242 01:00:06,840 --> 01:00:07,440 Speaker 6: Interesting. 1243 01:00:07,640 --> 01:00:11,600 Speaker 7: Okay, Well, what else is fascinating is what's coming up. 1244 01:00:12,160 --> 01:00:15,240 Speaker 7: So keaven Scott is here. He's going to expose what's 1245 01:00:15,320 --> 01:00:18,880 Speaker 7: really happening behind prison walls, and he says that the 1246 01:00:18,920 --> 01:00:21,360 Speaker 7: fight for justice does not end at sentencing. 1247 01:00:22,280 --> 01:00:24,680 Speaker 6: Keep it here True Crime tonight. While we are talking 1248 01:00:24,720 --> 01:00:26,320 Speaker 6: true crime all the. 1249 01:00:26,320 --> 01:00:39,080 Speaker 2: Time, welcome back to True Crime Tonight on iHeartRadio. We're 1250 01:00:39,080 --> 01:00:42,760 Speaker 2: talking true crime all the time. I'm Stephanie Leidecker here 1251 01:00:42,800 --> 01:00:46,040 Speaker 2: with Courtney Armstrong and body move in and we just 1252 01:00:46,160 --> 01:00:49,080 Speaker 2: have an extraordinary guest with us now, Kevin Scott. 1253 01:00:49,120 --> 01:00:50,200 Speaker 6: Welcome to the show. 1254 01:00:50,600 --> 01:00:54,000 Speaker 2: We are talking all things, you know, prison reform and 1255 01:00:54,040 --> 01:00:55,800 Speaker 2: things that we can be doing to make sure the 1256 01:00:55,800 --> 01:00:58,880 Speaker 2: system is running smoother and better at all costs and time. 1257 01:00:59,120 --> 01:01:01,320 Speaker 2: You're the real deal, so a number one. We're so 1258 01:01:01,440 --> 01:01:03,920 Speaker 2: grateful to have you here, Courtney. 1259 01:01:03,960 --> 01:01:10,720 Speaker 7: Drumroll please, Okay, we're so excited to have Kevin Scott here. 1260 01:01:10,880 --> 01:01:11,480 Speaker 6: Seriously. 1261 01:01:11,960 --> 01:01:15,880 Speaker 7: Kevin is the director of Guaranteed Income at Community Spring. 1262 01:01:16,000 --> 01:01:19,640 Speaker 7: This is in Gainesville, Florida. Keaven helped create and he 1263 01:01:19,840 --> 01:01:25,400 Speaker 7: leads Just Income. It's a groundbreaking guaranteed income program. It 1264 01:01:25,480 --> 01:01:29,760 Speaker 7: is by and four people who've been incarcerated. Kevin is 1265 01:01:29,840 --> 01:01:34,440 Speaker 7: also an outspoken advocate for criminal justice issues, prisoner rights, 1266 01:01:34,640 --> 01:01:39,000 Speaker 7: and Kevin's work has led to critical policy changes. Drum 1267 01:01:39,040 --> 01:01:45,520 Speaker 7: roll again, and hello, tell us everything about Community Spring. 1268 01:01:46,400 --> 01:01:50,000 Speaker 17: Okay, amazing, thank you so much for just letting me 1269 01:01:50,200 --> 01:01:51,120 Speaker 17: join your conversation. 1270 01:01:51,160 --> 01:01:51,920 Speaker 10: That's really awesome. 1271 01:01:52,560 --> 01:01:56,520 Speaker 17: Yeah, So Community Spring. We are in Gainesville, Florida. We 1272 01:01:56,600 --> 01:02:00,320 Speaker 17: are an economic justice organization. We're a nonprofit that we 1273 01:02:00,360 --> 01:02:03,439 Speaker 17: are a community led sort of built on this very 1274 01:02:04,160 --> 01:02:07,440 Speaker 17: seemingly obvious idea of people closest to the problems are 1275 01:02:07,480 --> 01:02:11,440 Speaker 17: closest to the solution. So prioritizing people lived experience of 1276 01:02:11,480 --> 01:02:14,840 Speaker 17: poverty and incarceervation. These are the experts, These are the 1277 01:02:14,840 --> 01:02:17,320 Speaker 17: geniuses sort of the thinking. These are the folks that 1278 01:02:17,360 --> 01:02:19,440 Speaker 17: we should listen to most in terms of how we 1279 01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:22,320 Speaker 17: can make change. So we sort of base our work 1280 01:02:22,600 --> 01:02:28,160 Speaker 17: on these three principles of income, power, and community, meaning 1281 01:02:28,200 --> 01:02:30,240 Speaker 17: we think everyone needs to have income to meet their 1282 01:02:30,240 --> 01:02:31,440 Speaker 17: basic needs and take. 1283 01:02:31,320 --> 01:02:32,240 Speaker 15: Care of themselves. 1284 01:02:32,440 --> 01:02:37,160 Speaker 17: Shotting power to address and dismantle unjust system systems that 1285 01:02:37,200 --> 01:02:40,760 Speaker 17: have kept them down in the community, to provide a 1286 01:02:40,800 --> 01:02:44,040 Speaker 17: place of action. So these are the three pillars in 1287 01:02:44,040 --> 01:02:47,240 Speaker 17: any kind of are three area just income. 1288 01:02:47,680 --> 01:02:52,240 Speaker 7: Our you know, our full moon is really shine and 1289 01:02:52,320 --> 01:02:57,280 Speaker 7: bright on every issue imaginable. I think it's April fools 1290 01:02:57,560 --> 01:03:01,440 Speaker 7: in November, which is news to me. Is not going 1291 01:03:01,480 --> 01:03:04,040 Speaker 7: to get the best of us Courtney vs. Dry and 1292 01:03:04,080 --> 01:03:07,560 Speaker 7: the best of us. Uh, there is no keeping us down. 1293 01:03:07,640 --> 01:03:09,760 Speaker 7: The guys are going to work with Kevin's audio for 1294 01:03:09,800 --> 01:03:12,480 Speaker 7: a second, and in the meantime, let's go to a 1295 01:03:12,520 --> 01:03:13,920 Speaker 7: talk back, Hold on back. 1296 01:03:13,880 --> 01:03:15,440 Speaker 6: Kevin Cricket in Connecticut. 1297 01:03:15,800 --> 01:03:18,640 Speaker 8: You're talking about the nanny who killed the grandfather with 1298 01:03:18,680 --> 01:03:23,640 Speaker 8: the screwdriver. And yes, it is one percent possible and 1299 01:03:23,760 --> 01:03:30,360 Speaker 8: even plausible that she is experiencing a substance induced psychotic break, 1300 01:03:30,920 --> 01:03:38,080 Speaker 8: which is common even with a seemingly innocuous substance such 1301 01:03:38,080 --> 01:03:41,440 Speaker 8: as marijuana, and sometimes it doesn't go away. 1302 01:03:41,880 --> 01:03:42,240 Speaker 10: Mmm. 1303 01:03:43,160 --> 01:03:46,840 Speaker 5: Interesting because remember yesterday we were wondering that can somehow 1304 01:03:46,840 --> 01:03:50,360 Speaker 5: this flick a switch right like yeah, on these mushrooms 1305 01:03:50,400 --> 01:03:53,080 Speaker 5: that she that she had taken. What's interesting has come 1306 01:03:53,080 --> 01:03:55,520 Speaker 5: out today is that she was on a FaceTime call 1307 01:03:55,560 --> 01:03:59,480 Speaker 5: with her boyfriend right before this happened. Oh yeah, so 1308 01:03:59,880 --> 01:04:01,960 Speaker 5: she met this guy on TikTok. He lives in Oregon, 1309 01:04:02,480 --> 01:04:05,480 Speaker 5: and she's planning on leaving Michigan and going to Oregon, 1310 01:04:06,000 --> 01:04:08,880 Speaker 5: and they're face timing and you know, they finally they 1311 01:04:08,920 --> 01:04:11,000 Speaker 5: were going to meet in person. When she moves out there, 1312 01:04:11,200 --> 01:04:13,400 Speaker 5: it gets crazy. And she told them she wanted to 1313 01:04:13,440 --> 01:04:16,040 Speaker 5: start a new life far away from this long string 1314 01:04:16,600 --> 01:04:19,680 Speaker 5: of trauma, abuse and disappointments that she had been facing 1315 01:04:19,680 --> 01:04:22,560 Speaker 5: in Michigan. So this is all news. This is all 1316 01:04:22,680 --> 01:04:24,800 Speaker 5: very much news, and we're probably going to stick with 1317 01:04:24,880 --> 01:04:26,600 Speaker 5: us because we're probably going to cover this next week. 1318 01:04:26,760 --> 01:04:27,480 Speaker 5: There's a lot more. 1319 01:04:28,080 --> 01:04:30,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, there is, and it seems to be unfolding 1320 01:04:30,360 --> 01:04:33,000 Speaker 2: pretty quickly. As a matter of fact, we might even 1321 01:04:33,040 --> 01:04:34,880 Speaker 2: have another talk back to go to now. 1322 01:04:35,120 --> 01:04:38,240 Speaker 18: Hi, guys, Jephanie from Detroit, I am hopping on here 1323 01:04:38,280 --> 01:04:40,600 Speaker 18: about the nanny killer. I live in the city near 1324 01:04:40,760 --> 01:04:44,280 Speaker 18: where this curd and you were talking about mushrooms. In 1325 01:04:44,320 --> 01:04:48,520 Speaker 18: this area, psilocybin aka magic mushrooms are decriminalized. You can 1326 01:04:48,520 --> 01:04:49,800 Speaker 18: go to the store like you can go to a 1327 01:04:49,880 --> 01:04:53,400 Speaker 18: dispensary and you can buy mushrooms and pill form for 1328 01:04:53,520 --> 01:04:56,280 Speaker 18: micro dosing. You can buy a bag of mushrooms for consuming. 1329 01:04:56,320 --> 01:04:59,720 Speaker 18: You can even buy food with it in it. Love you, guys, 1330 01:04:59,800 --> 01:05:02,200 Speaker 18: love the show. Thirty seconds is not enough, have a 1331 01:05:02,200 --> 01:05:02,600 Speaker 18: good night. 1332 01:05:04,560 --> 01:05:07,880 Speaker 7: That should be whenever our magical merch comes. Thirty seconds 1333 01:05:07,960 --> 01:05:16,000 Speaker 7: is not enough. That's a great tag, it is. 1334 01:05:16,080 --> 01:05:18,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, and yeah, so mushrooms. Yeah, she apparently they had 1335 01:05:18,840 --> 01:05:21,800 Speaker 5: found some mushrooms on her purse or something, and they 1336 01:05:21,840 --> 01:05:24,920 Speaker 5: think maybe this is why, you know, but we're gonna. 1337 01:05:24,720 --> 01:05:27,240 Speaker 3: Mean, that's a real snap. I think I know a 1338 01:05:27,320 --> 01:05:28,800 Speaker 3: lot of people who have tried mushrooms. 1339 01:05:28,880 --> 01:05:32,680 Speaker 5: So yeah, we're getting some signals that Kevin's audio is back. 1340 01:05:32,800 --> 01:05:35,720 Speaker 3: Heven, Yay, Kevin's back, baby. 1341 01:05:35,720 --> 01:05:36,120 Speaker 6: Go ahead. 1342 01:05:36,120 --> 01:05:38,520 Speaker 2: Where were we until we were so rudely interrupted by 1343 01:05:38,560 --> 01:05:38,919 Speaker 2: the moon? 1344 01:05:39,360 --> 01:05:40,919 Speaker 4: I don't know, is Kevin? Are you there? 1345 01:05:41,200 --> 01:05:43,400 Speaker 2: Doesn't seem like we could hear Kevin quite yet, but 1346 01:05:43,480 --> 01:05:45,120 Speaker 2: I'm dying to hear what he has to say because 1347 01:05:45,120 --> 01:05:46,160 Speaker 2: I know it's going to be good. 1348 01:05:46,200 --> 01:05:50,760 Speaker 6: So we're going. I'm so excited. Yes, please lo. 1349 01:05:50,960 --> 01:05:53,320 Speaker 19: To my favorite girls. I won't say my name, so 1350 01:05:53,360 --> 01:05:56,320 Speaker 19: this is anonymous, but I'm listening to Tyler talk about 1351 01:05:56,360 --> 01:05:59,800 Speaker 19: his hometown stories from last night, and I was reminded 1352 01:05:59,800 --> 01:06:02,760 Speaker 19: of a case in my hometown in my high school. 1353 01:06:02,840 --> 01:06:06,000 Speaker 19: This gal was in my high school class, the case 1354 01:06:06,040 --> 01:06:08,560 Speaker 19: of Chelsea King and Amber du Bois. One of their 1355 01:06:08,600 --> 01:06:11,840 Speaker 19: bodies was found about two minutes from my home, directly 1356 01:06:11,880 --> 01:06:13,600 Speaker 19: across the street in one of the lakes there, and 1357 01:06:13,640 --> 01:06:15,880 Speaker 19: it was an extremely scary case. 1358 01:06:15,960 --> 01:06:16,880 Speaker 15: You guys should look into that. 1359 01:06:17,400 --> 01:06:19,080 Speaker 6: Oh, we have to look into that. 1360 01:06:19,480 --> 01:06:21,960 Speaker 2: It's an interesting thought though, too, and please keep those 1361 01:06:22,000 --> 01:06:25,200 Speaker 2: talkbacks coming. Thank you for sharing that because how excitingly, 1362 01:06:25,760 --> 01:06:28,840 Speaker 2: horrifyingly traumatic is that to know that there was a 1363 01:06:28,920 --> 01:06:31,760 Speaker 2: murder so close to your home. That's the ripple effect, 1364 01:06:32,000 --> 01:06:34,880 Speaker 2: you know, we always we talk about the ripple effects 1365 01:06:34,920 --> 01:06:37,560 Speaker 2: so often, even if it's a complete stranger. 1366 01:06:37,600 --> 01:06:38,760 Speaker 6: But you know, you live in. 1367 01:06:38,680 --> 01:06:42,440 Speaker 2: The apartment building where on the same corner somebody lost 1368 01:06:42,440 --> 01:06:46,720 Speaker 2: their life. It changes the air, right, and it of 1369 01:06:46,760 --> 01:06:47,640 Speaker 2: course it's scary. 1370 01:06:48,000 --> 01:06:48,200 Speaker 6: Wow. 1371 01:06:48,280 --> 01:06:50,640 Speaker 3: We should definitely look into that, and if anybody else has. 1372 01:06:50,520 --> 01:06:54,840 Speaker 2: Tales of that kind, these become like core memories, right, 1373 01:06:55,000 --> 01:06:56,840 Speaker 2: that is undeniable. 1374 01:06:57,200 --> 01:06:58,600 Speaker 4: No, yeah, definitely core memories. 1375 01:06:59,120 --> 01:07:02,360 Speaker 7: I witness to a well, it was quite a memory 1376 01:07:02,400 --> 01:07:04,760 Speaker 7: for me. I had only lived in Los Angeles for 1377 01:07:04,840 --> 01:07:08,200 Speaker 7: a year, so twenty two is young enough and you're 1378 01:07:08,240 --> 01:07:11,200 Speaker 7: living on your own. And I had a new roommate 1379 01:07:11,280 --> 01:07:14,360 Speaker 7: and she was the most sweet, naive person you could 1380 01:07:14,400 --> 01:07:18,920 Speaker 7: call to your imagination. It was her first day moving in. 1381 01:07:19,040 --> 01:07:21,840 Speaker 7: So we're there at night, we're so excited. We hear 1382 01:07:21,880 --> 01:07:26,120 Speaker 7: all this crazy commotion. We look out the window and 1383 01:07:26,440 --> 01:07:30,200 Speaker 7: we see a man there shouting, and we see a 1384 01:07:30,320 --> 01:07:33,920 Speaker 7: man running with a bat in his hand, like, what 1385 01:07:34,080 --> 01:07:37,440 Speaker 7: is going on? Well, he was being chased by another 1386 01:07:37,480 --> 01:07:41,760 Speaker 7: man who was in his underpants holding a gun. Whose 1387 01:07:41,840 --> 01:07:45,120 Speaker 7: house the guy with the bat had come in to 1388 01:07:45,800 --> 01:07:48,760 Speaker 7: burgle and was, yeah, so. 1389 01:07:48,840 --> 01:07:49,520 Speaker 6: And I don't know. 1390 01:07:49,600 --> 01:07:51,960 Speaker 7: I that was just thinking, you know, don't bring a 1391 01:07:52,000 --> 01:07:53,080 Speaker 7: bat to a gunfight. 1392 01:07:53,240 --> 01:08:00,400 Speaker 6: But yeah, nothing's funny to see it. So that's also. 1393 01:08:00,120 --> 01:08:03,439 Speaker 7: Scary people running around with guns and weapons, and yeah 1394 01:08:03,520 --> 01:08:03,840 Speaker 7: it was. 1395 01:08:03,920 --> 01:08:06,120 Speaker 6: And it was her first night in Los Angeles. 1396 01:08:06,440 --> 01:08:08,800 Speaker 2: Wow, I guess in some ways, I guess that's the 1397 01:08:08,840 --> 01:08:12,880 Speaker 2: news also as witnessing so much. Sometimes the news, even 1398 01:08:12,960 --> 01:08:15,880 Speaker 2: right now, is just sharing way too much real stuff, 1399 01:08:16,000 --> 01:08:18,639 Speaker 2: you know, the real footage, like the real time. 1400 01:08:18,760 --> 01:08:19,719 Speaker 6: I'm like, I'm. 1401 01:08:19,600 --> 01:08:21,240 Speaker 3: Seeing the plane and I'm seeing this. 1402 01:08:21,479 --> 01:08:23,840 Speaker 2: It's I know, the goal is to shock us and 1403 01:08:23,880 --> 01:08:26,679 Speaker 2: make us feel emotional, but it's like, what's the line. 1404 01:08:26,680 --> 01:08:27,559 Speaker 3: It's almost too much? 1405 01:08:30,920 --> 01:08:36,639 Speaker 7: Okay, So I do you believe everything is technically pulled together? 1406 01:08:37,439 --> 01:08:39,240 Speaker 4: His voice, I'm not going to believe it, I know, 1407 01:08:39,360 --> 01:08:40,240 Speaker 4: but I want it there. 1408 01:08:40,360 --> 01:08:47,080 Speaker 6: Sound good? Better? Sound good? Hell? Yeah, we hear it. 1409 01:08:47,120 --> 01:08:49,040 Speaker 6: Sounds great. Yeah you sound awesome. 1410 01:08:49,200 --> 01:08:50,960 Speaker 4: You were right in the middle of telling us all 1411 01:08:51,000 --> 01:08:55,360 Speaker 4: about community ed. Can you can you give us a 1412 01:08:55,360 --> 01:08:56,160 Speaker 4: little refresher? 1413 01:08:57,680 --> 01:09:01,320 Speaker 10: Yeah? The real short version is prison, bad, money, good, 1414 01:09:01,560 --> 01:09:06,200 Speaker 10: that's okay, that's a good one. I mean, really, we 1415 01:09:06,800 --> 01:09:11,280 Speaker 10: focused at the intersection of poverty and incarceration because we 1416 01:09:11,320 --> 01:09:13,639 Speaker 10: know from our own experience many of our staff are 1417 01:09:13,680 --> 01:09:17,960 Speaker 10: formally incarcerated, that poverty and incarceration are two systems that 1418 01:09:18,080 --> 01:09:20,760 Speaker 10: feed each other very well. And so what we are 1419 01:09:20,800 --> 01:09:26,000 Speaker 10: doing is providing resources, dignity, and support and providing an 1420 01:09:26,000 --> 01:09:28,760 Speaker 10: exit from this revolving door of poverty and incarceration. 1421 01:09:28,960 --> 01:09:29,599 Speaker 6: Because if they. 1422 01:09:29,479 --> 01:09:32,000 Speaker 5: Can break this cycle, right, they can stay out of 1423 01:09:32,000 --> 01:09:34,240 Speaker 5: prison and become productive members of society. 1424 01:09:34,280 --> 01:09:36,719 Speaker 4: That's the point, right, It really really helps. 1425 01:09:36,760 --> 01:09:38,519 Speaker 10: Yeah, and so we kind of came up with this 1426 01:09:38,760 --> 01:09:43,679 Speaker 10: seemingly radical idea of what if we just gave people 1427 01:09:44,040 --> 01:09:47,439 Speaker 10: money after they come home from incarceration. And so that's 1428 01:09:47,760 --> 01:09:49,519 Speaker 10: what I do. That's my role is I'm the director 1429 01:09:49,560 --> 01:09:53,320 Speaker 10: of this sort of groundbreaking guaranteed income program and happy 1430 01:09:53,320 --> 01:09:55,479 Speaker 10: to talk about some of the nuts and bolts and 1431 01:09:55,520 --> 01:09:57,200 Speaker 10: the results of how it's been going. 1432 01:09:57,439 --> 01:09:58,120 Speaker 6: Yeah, let's do that. 1433 01:09:58,320 --> 01:10:00,320 Speaker 7: We love to year. 1434 01:10:01,040 --> 01:10:03,200 Speaker 10: Okay. So yeah, well, like I said, like, we're in Florida, 1435 01:10:03,960 --> 01:10:06,919 Speaker 10: and if you've heard anything about Florida in the last forever, 1436 01:10:07,560 --> 01:10:11,680 Speaker 10: you know it's it's kind of a mess. I am not, 1437 01:10:11,920 --> 01:10:16,080 Speaker 10: although I am surrounded by Florida men and women. Florida 1438 01:10:16,160 --> 01:10:18,960 Speaker 10: is one of the handful of states that prisoners are 1439 01:10:19,040 --> 01:10:22,280 Speaker 10: forced to work under threat of violence for exactly zero 1440 01:10:22,400 --> 01:10:25,559 Speaker 10: dollars and zero cents. You must work or you will 1441 01:10:25,600 --> 01:10:29,360 Speaker 10: be violently visited. And so there's only a handful of 1442 01:10:29,360 --> 01:10:32,439 Speaker 10: states that do that, and they are all in the South, surprise, surprise. 1443 01:10:33,000 --> 01:10:36,920 Speaker 10: So this is you know, forced labor, no compensation. This 1444 01:10:37,040 --> 01:10:40,880 Speaker 10: is slavery under any other So that's the reality that 1445 01:10:40,920 --> 01:10:44,160 Speaker 10: folks faces while they're inside. Any money that comes to 1446 01:10:44,320 --> 01:10:46,800 Speaker 10: you for a commissary things like that must come from 1447 01:10:46,800 --> 01:10:49,439 Speaker 10: the outside, typically from families that can least afford it. 1448 01:10:49,520 --> 01:10:52,799 Speaker 10: So you're earning nothing. Your loved ones are going broker 1449 01:10:52,920 --> 01:10:56,880 Speaker 10: while you're inside. You are released, typically with fifty dollars 1450 01:10:56,920 --> 01:11:00,800 Speaker 10: maybe in Florida fifty bucks, and expected to go go 1451 01:11:00,920 --> 01:11:03,839 Speaker 10: build the life you've been released. You might have court costs, 1452 01:11:03,880 --> 01:11:07,080 Speaker 10: probation fees, an ankle monitor, drug testing. You must pay 1453 01:11:07,120 --> 01:11:10,440 Speaker 10: those things, and if you cannot make those payments, ultimately 1454 01:11:10,479 --> 01:11:13,880 Speaker 10: the solution is to reincarcerate you. Not because of any crime. 1455 01:11:14,320 --> 01:11:17,000 Speaker 10: The crime is your bank account. You are too poor 1456 01:11:17,040 --> 01:11:20,479 Speaker 10: to be free, and so you are reincarcerated because of 1457 01:11:20,720 --> 01:11:24,400 Speaker 10: virtue of your lack of resources. So that was sort 1458 01:11:24,439 --> 01:11:28,840 Speaker 10: of the inspiration for our guaranteed Income program. And so 1459 01:11:29,320 --> 01:11:32,120 Speaker 10: the way it goes now is we give folks eight 1460 01:11:32,240 --> 01:11:35,840 Speaker 10: hundred dollars a month for twelve months. So this is 1461 01:11:35,880 --> 01:11:38,640 Speaker 10: not like enough to like coast on. This is just 1462 01:11:38,760 --> 01:11:41,599 Speaker 10: enough to give some cushion, some breathing room. We've heard 1463 01:11:41,680 --> 01:11:43,920 Speaker 10: people say, like, I don't know what was scarier going 1464 01:11:43,960 --> 01:11:46,200 Speaker 10: into prison or coming out. So this is something that's 1465 01:11:46,240 --> 01:11:49,479 Speaker 10: like alleviating some of the pressure, some of the fear. 1466 01:11:49,960 --> 01:11:52,439 Speaker 10: It's expensive to be a human being on the planet 1467 01:11:52,439 --> 01:11:54,960 Speaker 10: Earth in twenty twenty five, as you may have noticed, 1468 01:11:55,160 --> 01:11:59,720 Speaker 10: just ordinary cost of rent, food, transportation, So imagine you 1469 01:11:59,800 --> 01:12:04,040 Speaker 10: have those plus this extra set of debts under fear 1470 01:12:04,240 --> 01:12:08,120 Speaker 10: of incarceration. So we've been providing this money. It's a 1471 01:12:08,200 --> 01:12:11,040 Speaker 10: random selection. People that came home in the last year 1472 01:12:11,120 --> 01:12:13,040 Speaker 10: can basically put their name in a hat. We do 1473 01:12:13,120 --> 01:12:15,519 Speaker 10: a lot of redrawn that way. We're not assigning virtue 1474 01:12:15,560 --> 01:12:18,519 Speaker 10: to any single person. We think everyone is worthy of 1475 01:12:18,560 --> 01:12:21,200 Speaker 10: this support. You are ready to receive this to the 1476 01:12:21,240 --> 01:12:23,559 Speaker 10: support today as you are. We have given out over 1477 01:12:23,600 --> 01:12:25,840 Speaker 10: a million dollars. We've helped over one hundred and fifty 1478 01:12:25,880 --> 01:12:30,000 Speaker 10: people in this community. And yeah, I mean it's good. 1479 01:12:30,120 --> 01:12:33,000 Speaker 10: And we thought this was a good idea, but we 1480 01:12:33,000 --> 01:12:35,280 Speaker 10: didn't want to just have our own opinions be the 1481 01:12:35,280 --> 01:12:37,320 Speaker 10: thing that that's good, you know, like some ding dangs 1482 01:12:37,320 --> 01:12:39,479 Speaker 10: in Florida saying it's good, it doesn't mean a whole lot. 1483 01:12:39,760 --> 01:12:43,519 Speaker 10: So we actually partnered with the University of Pennsylvania Center 1484 01:12:43,560 --> 01:12:49,800 Speaker 10: for Guaranteed Income Research and did a full randomized control trial, quantitative, qualitative, 1485 01:12:49,880 --> 01:12:53,519 Speaker 10: deep dive analysis, and the results exceeded even what we 1486 01:12:54,040 --> 01:12:56,800 Speaker 10: intuited might come from this work. So the pilot year 1487 01:12:57,280 --> 01:13:01,040 Speaker 10: recidtism rates, which everyone always wants to know, incarceration, we're 1488 01:13:01,120 --> 01:13:03,840 Speaker 10: thirty one percent lower for people that got this money, 1489 01:13:05,400 --> 01:13:09,720 Speaker 10: statistically gigantic, huge, And all we did is we gave 1490 01:13:09,720 --> 01:13:12,160 Speaker 10: people money and we treated them with the excellence that 1491 01:13:12,200 --> 01:13:16,599 Speaker 10: they deserve. So vercissivism went down thirty one percent, that's great. 1492 01:13:17,400 --> 01:13:20,439 Speaker 10: Financial security went up people like ninety percent of people 1493 01:13:20,479 --> 01:13:22,920 Speaker 10: had less than fifty dollars when we started, just to 1494 01:13:22,920 --> 01:13:25,559 Speaker 10: paint a picture of how dire it was. So even 1495 01:13:25,600 --> 01:13:29,040 Speaker 10: after getting the money, even six months later, savings still 1496 01:13:29,120 --> 01:13:33,639 Speaker 10: way up. Food insecurity went down, mental health went up. 1497 01:13:34,080 --> 01:13:39,000 Speaker 10: Employments did not go down. Employment actually got better. So 1498 01:13:39,120 --> 01:13:41,960 Speaker 10: you know, as a skeptic might say, like, oh, they're 1499 01:13:42,000 --> 01:13:44,040 Speaker 10: going to be lazy, that is simply not the reality. 1500 01:13:44,080 --> 01:13:48,520 Speaker 10: People use the money too, and exactly they invested in themselves. 1501 01:13:48,760 --> 01:13:53,280 Speaker 10: They were able to leave sort of disrespectful, predatory jobs 1502 01:13:53,280 --> 01:13:55,559 Speaker 10: and actually get into jobs that were more in line 1503 01:13:55,600 --> 01:13:58,280 Speaker 10: with their ambitions, that treated them better. They were able 1504 01:13:58,320 --> 01:14:02,040 Speaker 10: to pursue education, things like that. People tend to invest 1505 01:14:02,040 --> 01:14:05,120 Speaker 10: in themselves when they have resources, and our folks were 1506 01:14:05,120 --> 01:14:05,559 Speaker 10: no different. 1507 01:14:06,960 --> 01:14:12,920 Speaker 7: Wow, it's so beautiful and just the it's so dignified. 1508 01:14:13,160 --> 01:14:16,240 Speaker 7: I love everything you're talking about. The philosophy of that. 1509 01:14:16,280 --> 01:14:18,840 Speaker 7: It's a lottery, like you said, so there isn't some 1510 01:14:19,520 --> 01:14:23,880 Speaker 7: hand saying you deserve and you don't. And also just 1511 01:14:23,920 --> 01:14:26,000 Speaker 7: the thought of what you're saying with mental health going 1512 01:14:26,080 --> 01:14:29,720 Speaker 7: up and having jobs going up, because you're also affording 1513 01:14:30,240 --> 01:14:34,920 Speaker 7: a little a little bit of dignity to somebody which 1514 01:14:34,920 --> 01:14:37,400 Speaker 7: can allow them then to go out into the world, 1515 01:14:38,000 --> 01:14:41,640 Speaker 7: you know, as you said, without fear of being reincarcerated 1516 01:14:41,680 --> 01:14:43,920 Speaker 7: because you can't pay for your ankle monitor. 1517 01:14:44,080 --> 01:14:45,719 Speaker 4: Right, I mean, you get out of prison. 1518 01:14:45,880 --> 01:14:48,840 Speaker 5: Let's imagine you're you know, you found God or you 1519 01:14:48,840 --> 01:14:51,719 Speaker 5: know you want to you know, whatever you spend some time. 1520 01:14:52,040 --> 01:14:53,759 Speaker 4: You get out of prison, you get fifty bucks. 1521 01:14:53,760 --> 01:14:54,000 Speaker 6: That's it. 1522 01:14:54,040 --> 01:14:55,439 Speaker 5: That's all you got in your pocket. Where you gonna 1523 01:14:55,439 --> 01:14:58,160 Speaker 5: where you're gonna live, Where are you gonna work? Nobody 1524 01:14:58,200 --> 01:15:00,639 Speaker 5: wants to hire felons. Like, there's all he's things stacked 1525 01:15:00,720 --> 01:15:03,599 Speaker 5: up against you. I love this program. We'll stick around. 1526 01:15:03,800 --> 01:15:05,840 Speaker 5: Kevin Scott is going to be here to tell us 1527 01:15:06,000 --> 01:15:08,679 Speaker 5: some more powerful stories from inside the justice system. 1528 01:15:08,920 --> 01:15:10,639 Speaker 4: Keep it right here in True Crime Tonight, we're talking 1529 01:15:10,760 --> 01:15:11,520 Speaker 4: true crime. 1530 01:15:11,280 --> 01:15:23,559 Speaker 6: All the time. Welcome back to True Crime Tonight. 1531 01:15:23,600 --> 01:15:26,800 Speaker 7: We're on iHeartRadio and we are talking true crime all 1532 01:15:26,880 --> 01:15:27,479 Speaker 7: the time. 1533 01:15:28,200 --> 01:15:28,919 Speaker 6: I'm Courtney. 1534 01:15:28,920 --> 01:15:32,200 Speaker 7: I'm so lucky to be here with Stephanie and body 1535 01:15:32,240 --> 01:15:34,760 Speaker 7: move in. Don't forget if you missed any part of 1536 01:15:34,800 --> 01:15:38,920 Speaker 7: the show, you can always catch the podcast. And right 1537 01:15:38,960 --> 01:15:41,479 Speaker 7: now we are heading right back in with Kevin Scott. 1538 01:15:41,520 --> 01:15:46,080 Speaker 7: He's director of the groundbreaking Guaranteed Income program by and 1539 01:15:46,160 --> 01:15:50,479 Speaker 7: for people who've been incarcerated out of Gainesville, Florida. 1540 01:15:51,160 --> 01:15:53,760 Speaker 6: So, Kevin, how did you start with this? 1541 01:15:55,080 --> 01:15:55,160 Speaker 10: Like? 1542 01:15:55,240 --> 01:15:56,200 Speaker 6: How did this come to me? 1543 01:15:57,680 --> 01:15:59,840 Speaker 10: Sure? So A lot of this came from my own 1544 01:16:00,280 --> 01:16:03,280 Speaker 10: lived experience with someone who had been incarcerated on somebody 1545 01:16:03,320 --> 01:16:06,920 Speaker 10: that came from a family of addicts, And like every 1546 01:16:06,960 --> 01:16:10,679 Speaker 10: other person, I swear I will never I will never 1547 01:16:10,760 --> 01:16:13,280 Speaker 10: become an addict myself, and oh my god, I became 1548 01:16:13,320 --> 01:16:16,320 Speaker 10: an adict myself. And so you know, I should say 1549 01:16:16,320 --> 01:16:23,160 Speaker 10: I just celebrated thirteen years clean. Last anyone who anyone 1550 01:16:23,200 --> 01:16:26,320 Speaker 10: who may have this struggle in their life, it is 1551 01:16:26,400 --> 01:16:32,720 Speaker 10: not over. You are not in prison. Yeah. Yes, I 1552 01:16:32,760 --> 01:16:35,559 Speaker 10: was in prison for a little over three years in Florida. 1553 01:16:36,240 --> 01:16:39,160 Speaker 10: There's a lot to be said about the realities of 1554 01:16:39,200 --> 01:16:45,720 Speaker 10: Florida prison. There is nothing that even resembled transformation or rehabilitation. 1555 01:16:45,960 --> 01:16:49,200 Speaker 10: In my experience. It was nothing but brutality from start 1556 01:16:49,240 --> 01:16:53,679 Speaker 10: to finish. You know, they might advertise that like we're 1557 01:16:53,720 --> 01:16:56,400 Speaker 10: helping change people's lives, and a really quick anecdote is, 1558 01:16:56,880 --> 01:16:59,640 Speaker 10: I was I used to be a touring musician, so 1559 01:16:59,680 --> 01:17:03,040 Speaker 10: I taught music for a while in there, I gave 1560 01:17:03,040 --> 01:17:05,200 Speaker 10: people like music lessons and that was like a really 1561 01:17:05,280 --> 01:17:08,800 Speaker 10: rewarding thing for me personally. And then they were like, 1562 01:17:08,880 --> 01:17:12,440 Speaker 10: you're now going to be in the cabinet making vocational 1563 01:17:12,479 --> 01:17:15,160 Speaker 10: department here at the prison, and I didn't ask her. 1564 01:17:15,160 --> 01:17:16,920 Speaker 10: I didn't want it, but they were like you, I 1565 01:17:16,920 --> 01:17:19,240 Speaker 10: don't care what you want. You're going because that gives 1566 01:17:19,320 --> 01:17:21,880 Speaker 10: us more funding, more you know, more people in the class. 1567 01:17:22,040 --> 01:17:24,120 Speaker 10: So that's what I did, and when I by the 1568 01:17:24,120 --> 01:17:26,759 Speaker 10: time I came home, I had a certificate in cabinet 1569 01:17:26,760 --> 01:17:31,400 Speaker 10: making from the Department of Corrections. Greats. However, no one 1570 01:17:31,479 --> 01:17:34,760 Speaker 10: ever taught me how to make a cabinet ever, not once, 1571 01:17:34,840 --> 01:17:38,559 Speaker 10: not ever. The teacher was the janitor who sold tobacco 1572 01:17:38,640 --> 01:17:41,840 Speaker 10: to the prisoners and took naps in his office, a 1573 01:17:41,880 --> 01:17:45,719 Speaker 10: lot of smoking mirrors, So like it's sort of funny. However, 1574 01:17:45,800 --> 01:17:50,280 Speaker 10: the flip side, the reality is, you know, I'm released 1575 01:17:50,400 --> 01:17:52,920 Speaker 10: and now it sort of falls upon me to go 1576 01:17:53,000 --> 01:17:55,360 Speaker 10: get a job at a cabinet shop. They can say, 1577 01:17:55,360 --> 01:17:58,360 Speaker 10: we did everything to provide this person with the skills A, 1578 01:17:58,400 --> 01:18:01,800 Speaker 10: B and C. So you know, very much set up 1579 01:18:01,840 --> 01:18:05,920 Speaker 10: for failure. So anything that poses anything positive happened to 1580 01:18:05,920 --> 01:18:09,760 Speaker 10: me while I was inside was not with thanks to 1581 01:18:09,880 --> 01:18:12,479 Speaker 10: the Department of Corrections. It was in spite of and 1582 01:18:12,520 --> 01:18:15,920 Speaker 10: so support came from my loved ones, from other prisoners, 1583 01:18:16,000 --> 01:18:19,160 Speaker 10: from their loved ones. So Yeah, the reality is of 1584 01:18:19,240 --> 01:18:21,880 Speaker 10: Porter prison is brutal. If you complain too much, they 1585 01:18:21,920 --> 01:18:24,560 Speaker 10: will drag you into the laundry room. Because there's no cameras, 1586 01:18:24,720 --> 01:18:26,880 Speaker 10: they'll beat the hell out of you in there. You know, 1587 01:18:26,920 --> 01:18:30,400 Speaker 10: this is a very common reality inside it. It's famously brutal, 1588 01:18:30,439 --> 01:18:33,559 Speaker 10: and it lives up to the reputation. So I came home. 1589 01:18:34,600 --> 01:18:37,080 Speaker 10: I had been in no way prepared to come home. 1590 01:18:37,960 --> 01:18:40,080 Speaker 10: I slept in the parking lot of a homeless shelter 1591 01:18:40,479 --> 01:18:46,599 Speaker 10: here in Gainesville, and ironically, painfully, our local homeless shelter 1592 01:18:46,760 --> 01:18:52,000 Speaker 10: is an old prison retrofitted to be a homeless shelter. 1593 01:18:52,360 --> 01:18:57,439 Speaker 10: It's a great organization, is a very lovely organization. However, 1594 01:18:57,520 --> 01:18:59,880 Speaker 10: if you've been in prison, you know exactly where you are. 1595 01:19:00,000 --> 01:19:02,720 Speaker 10: You are at it. You can tell it's recognizable as 1596 01:19:02,760 --> 01:19:05,280 Speaker 10: a person, and so you know, I was. I was 1597 01:19:05,280 --> 01:19:07,439 Speaker 10: homeless for a while. It was really hard to find 1598 01:19:07,439 --> 01:19:10,040 Speaker 10: a job, hard to find a place to live. It 1599 01:19:10,120 --> 01:19:13,040 Speaker 10: was only through really the goodness and mercy of people 1600 01:19:13,040 --> 01:19:16,000 Speaker 10: who cared enough to give me a shot. Then I 1601 01:19:16,000 --> 01:19:17,680 Speaker 10: got a job at like a restaurant. I found the 1602 01:19:17,720 --> 01:19:20,080 Speaker 10: found somebody that ever rent to me. It took a 1603 01:19:20,080 --> 01:19:23,400 Speaker 10: while and so it shouldn't hinge on chance like that. 1604 01:19:23,680 --> 01:19:28,440 Speaker 10: So when I had the opportunity to join the Fellowship 1605 01:19:28,479 --> 01:19:32,280 Speaker 10: of Community Spring, they were looking for people who had 1606 01:19:32,320 --> 01:19:37,000 Speaker 10: experienced poverty before. They took a chance on me, which 1607 01:19:37,040 --> 01:19:40,880 Speaker 10: I'm so grateful for, and that sort of led to 1608 01:19:41,000 --> 01:19:44,559 Speaker 10: us formulating this program now where we provide this guarented 1609 01:19:44,640 --> 01:19:47,559 Speaker 10: income for folks coming home. It's a huge part of 1610 01:19:47,560 --> 01:19:49,920 Speaker 10: what we do. We also have this like fellowship where 1611 01:19:49,920 --> 01:19:53,600 Speaker 10: we continue to hire people who have lived experience of incarceration. 1612 01:19:54,240 --> 01:19:56,800 Speaker 10: They can get skills, they learn how to do advocacy. 1613 01:19:57,160 --> 01:20:00,919 Speaker 10: It's sort of this sort of leadership development a situation 1614 01:20:01,040 --> 01:20:04,599 Speaker 10: that we have going on there. Alongside getting people money, 1615 01:20:05,360 --> 01:20:08,439 Speaker 10: We've been able to celebrate some really big policy lens 1616 01:20:08,479 --> 01:20:12,360 Speaker 10: here as well. The guaranteed income is supporting individuals. However, 1617 01:20:12,360 --> 01:20:15,080 Speaker 10: we need to reshape the system. So we passed Florida's 1618 01:20:15,080 --> 01:20:18,360 Speaker 10: first and still only fair Chance Hiring ordinance for employers 1619 01:20:18,360 --> 01:20:20,960 Speaker 10: here in Gainesville, Florida, which means that people with a 1620 01:20:21,040 --> 01:20:24,639 Speaker 10: record have a higher likelihood of getting a job. We 1621 01:20:24,640 --> 01:20:29,120 Speaker 10: were able to eliminate fifteen discretionary court and jail fees 1622 01:20:29,240 --> 01:20:32,559 Speaker 10: that kept money in the community, phone calls are now 1623 01:20:32,640 --> 01:20:35,880 Speaker 10: free from the county jail, which is absolutely massive because 1624 01:20:35,880 --> 01:20:39,400 Speaker 10: those calls are extraordinarily expensive, And then we were able 1625 01:20:39,439 --> 01:20:42,640 Speaker 10: to sort of form the or provide the inspiration for 1626 01:20:42,720 --> 01:20:45,599 Speaker 10: this counties first ever, we've never had a re entry 1627 01:20:45,720 --> 01:20:49,559 Speaker 10: center at all, and there's no re entry support and 1628 01:20:49,600 --> 01:20:53,759 Speaker 10: that organization is led in staffed by formally incarcerated people, 1629 01:20:53,800 --> 01:20:57,120 Speaker 10: some of them our alumni. So a lot of this 1630 01:20:57,200 --> 01:21:00,640 Speaker 10: work is driven by our own lived ex experience of 1631 01:21:00,680 --> 01:21:04,880 Speaker 10: what we know of incarceration and the very difficult realities 1632 01:21:05,240 --> 01:21:07,880 Speaker 10: of coming out, and a lot of what we've done 1633 01:21:08,560 --> 01:21:13,120 Speaker 10: has been so impactful and so real, I think just 1634 01:21:13,160 --> 01:21:16,720 Speaker 10: you know, rooted in community, rooted and lived experience that 1635 01:21:16,800 --> 01:21:19,960 Speaker 10: we are now seen as like a blueprint as a 1636 01:21:20,000 --> 01:21:22,680 Speaker 10: model for success that can be rolled out in other 1637 01:21:22,720 --> 01:21:26,240 Speaker 10: places and be consulted with over forty cities around the 1638 01:21:26,280 --> 01:21:30,080 Speaker 10: country who are either in planning phases or some who 1639 01:21:30,080 --> 01:21:35,280 Speaker 10: have already launched their own similar programs customized to their communities. 1640 01:21:35,760 --> 01:21:38,760 Speaker 10: But what's happened here in Gainesville, Florida, of all places, 1641 01:21:38,880 --> 01:21:42,240 Speaker 10: Florida has now become like, yeah, a bit of like 1642 01:21:42,320 --> 01:21:46,240 Speaker 10: a methodology or an approach, a way of doing things. 1643 01:21:46,920 --> 01:21:49,720 Speaker 10: We're excited to see that's been implemented and very successful 1644 01:21:50,360 --> 01:21:52,880 Speaker 10: around the country, and it's connected us with this sort 1645 01:21:52,920 --> 01:21:56,559 Speaker 10: of other coalition of folks who are working on similar issues. 1646 01:21:56,600 --> 01:21:59,320 Speaker 10: So it's the privilege of my life. You know, I 1647 01:21:59,360 --> 01:22:03,000 Speaker 10: love it. You can I can see it, thinking I'm 1648 01:22:03,000 --> 01:22:04,880 Speaker 10: never going to make it out of here, So to 1649 01:22:04,920 --> 01:22:06,920 Speaker 10: be doing what I'm doing now and to seeing the 1650 01:22:06,920 --> 01:22:09,800 Speaker 10: impact of all the things that we do really feel 1651 01:22:10,600 --> 01:22:11,840 Speaker 10: surreal at times. 1652 01:22:12,320 --> 01:22:13,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, you can see it in your face that you're 1653 01:22:14,000 --> 01:22:14,800 Speaker 4: passionate about this. 1654 01:22:14,920 --> 01:22:18,320 Speaker 5: I mean, you just spoke for about five minutes and 1655 01:22:18,439 --> 01:22:21,240 Speaker 5: everything you hit on no please, oh my god. 1656 01:22:21,479 --> 01:22:22,479 Speaker 6: This is a talk show. 1657 01:22:23,800 --> 01:22:28,479 Speaker 5: The right and the reason it's so important too for 1658 01:22:28,560 --> 01:22:31,479 Speaker 5: like people listening that you might be thinking, oh, you 1659 01:22:31,479 --> 01:22:35,040 Speaker 5: know why I don't care about prisoners, and you should. 1660 01:22:35,439 --> 01:22:37,760 Speaker 5: And the reason you should is you're listening to a 1661 01:22:37,800 --> 01:22:40,280 Speaker 5: true crime show. And you know, we talk about people 1662 01:22:40,320 --> 01:22:42,759 Speaker 5: who do really bad things and when they go to prison, 1663 01:22:43,240 --> 01:22:47,280 Speaker 5: it's not just for punishment. It's supposed to be for rehabilitation. 1664 01:22:47,840 --> 01:22:50,719 Speaker 5: And when they get out and they fail after fail 1665 01:22:50,800 --> 01:22:54,559 Speaker 5: after fail, they might commit another violent crime to get money, 1666 01:22:54,680 --> 01:22:58,040 Speaker 5: or to get whatever drug they need, or or just 1667 01:22:58,080 --> 01:22:59,639 Speaker 5: to go back to prison where they're going to get 1668 01:22:59,800 --> 01:23:03,080 Speaker 5: through hots and a cop. So if we can help 1669 01:23:03,120 --> 01:23:07,400 Speaker 5: them stay on straight and narrow, so to speak, it 1670 01:23:07,479 --> 01:23:11,360 Speaker 5: benefits society as a whole. Right, that's the whole spirit 1671 01:23:11,400 --> 01:23:13,720 Speaker 5: of this. Am I right about that? Or am I 1672 01:23:13,800 --> 01:23:14,599 Speaker 5: like off track? 1673 01:23:15,160 --> 01:23:15,479 Speaker 6: Kevin? 1674 01:23:15,840 --> 01:23:19,000 Speaker 10: No, No, you're I mean yes, people, the very very 1675 01:23:19,200 --> 01:23:22,680 Speaker 10: the vast majority of people, that ninety five percent plus 1676 01:23:22,720 --> 01:23:26,280 Speaker 10: easily of people are coming home. They're coming home whether 1677 01:23:26,840 --> 01:23:29,480 Speaker 10: we no matter what, folks are going to be releasing thecarceervation. 1678 01:23:29,760 --> 01:23:31,679 Speaker 10: So it's up to us as a community to decide 1679 01:23:31,800 --> 01:23:35,000 Speaker 10: they will be released with instability, which we know leads 1680 01:23:35,000 --> 01:23:39,160 Speaker 10: to more harm for sure, like there's so much evidence 1681 01:23:39,160 --> 01:23:43,479 Speaker 10: for that, or we can provide some stability. So the 1682 01:23:43,479 --> 01:23:45,840 Speaker 10: way we look at this metaphor of people are released 1683 01:23:45,840 --> 01:23:48,760 Speaker 10: from prison, they are dropped at like the very edge 1684 01:23:48,760 --> 01:23:52,479 Speaker 10: of a cliff precarious from second number one, we can 1685 01:23:52,520 --> 01:23:55,800 Speaker 10: shove them off and keep sending emergency services to the 1686 01:23:55,840 --> 01:23:58,920 Speaker 10: bottom at our own expense in every possible sense, or 1687 01:23:59,439 --> 01:24:01,280 Speaker 10: we could build a sturdy fence at the edge of 1688 01:24:01,360 --> 01:24:04,439 Speaker 10: that cliff. And a huge component of that is access 1689 01:24:04,479 --> 01:24:10,040 Speaker 10: to resources, community support, dignity, treating people like people, and 1690 01:24:10,120 --> 01:24:13,800 Speaker 10: that pays dividends that costs less in the long run 1691 01:24:14,320 --> 01:24:17,320 Speaker 10: and the short term, fiscally, socially, in every way, the 1692 01:24:17,360 --> 01:24:22,600 Speaker 10: return on investment for just providing people with resources without conditions. 1693 01:24:22,800 --> 01:24:24,920 Speaker 10: When I say that our money that we give to 1694 01:24:24,920 --> 01:24:29,719 Speaker 10: people is no strings attached, I mean literally no strings attached. 1695 01:24:29,840 --> 01:24:32,000 Speaker 10: No one tells you what you can and cannot spend 1696 01:24:32,000 --> 01:24:34,720 Speaker 10: this money on. It is up to you. We think 1697 01:24:34,760 --> 01:24:37,519 Speaker 10: that is very important that you are seen as the 1698 01:24:37,600 --> 01:24:41,280 Speaker 10: expert in your own life. You are honored as a person, 1699 01:24:42,000 --> 01:24:44,840 Speaker 10: whole person, one hundred percent. And a lot of people 1700 01:24:44,840 --> 01:24:47,960 Speaker 10: have said, you know, great, This money allowed me to 1701 01:24:48,000 --> 01:24:51,599 Speaker 10: purchase X y Z, which allowed me to like whatever 1702 01:24:51,600 --> 01:24:53,880 Speaker 10: it may be. However, the thing that has had the 1703 01:24:53,960 --> 01:24:56,759 Speaker 10: lasting ripple effect on me is that I was treated 1704 01:24:56,800 --> 01:24:59,680 Speaker 10: like a person for the first time and maybe a 1705 01:24:59,720 --> 01:25:02,400 Speaker 10: long time or ever. We used the word re entry. 1706 01:25:02,800 --> 01:25:05,880 Speaker 10: That's how we talk about somebody returning home from incarceration. 1707 01:25:06,040 --> 01:25:08,040 Speaker 10: Some people have been like re entry. How about just 1708 01:25:08,040 --> 01:25:10,559 Speaker 10: some entry for the first time ever in my life. 1709 01:25:10,840 --> 01:25:13,559 Speaker 10: This is the first time I ever had any sort 1710 01:25:13,560 --> 01:25:15,320 Speaker 10: of like breathing room. This is the first time I 1711 01:25:15,360 --> 01:25:18,400 Speaker 10: had a chance, The first time somebody treated me like 1712 01:25:18,400 --> 01:25:22,240 Speaker 10: a whole person, and so that we we think that's 1713 01:25:22,320 --> 01:25:26,479 Speaker 10: very important that it's providing practical and emotional support for people. 1714 01:25:26,520 --> 01:25:28,240 Speaker 10: It's a real space of healing as well. 1715 01:25:30,040 --> 01:25:34,760 Speaker 5: You've mentioned this re entry center that your organization was 1716 01:25:35,160 --> 01:25:36,240 Speaker 5: able to help implement. 1717 01:25:36,320 --> 01:25:36,760 Speaker 6: What is that. 1718 01:25:40,720 --> 01:25:44,639 Speaker 10: Yeah, so this is sort of a partner organization here. 1719 01:25:44,960 --> 01:25:46,639 Speaker 10: But because of all the work we had been doing, 1720 01:25:46,800 --> 01:25:49,960 Speaker 10: we'd been illuminating the need. We need support, we need support. 1721 01:25:50,000 --> 01:25:53,040 Speaker 10: We've never had re entry services here, and so finally 1722 01:25:53,400 --> 01:25:56,559 Speaker 10: the county, I guess a year and a half ago, 1723 01:25:56,600 --> 01:25:59,759 Speaker 10: two years ago, decided to put some funds into actually 1724 01:25:59,760 --> 01:26:02,160 Speaker 10: we actually have a re entry center. And so the 1725 01:26:03,360 --> 01:26:06,360 Speaker 10: group that now is that center is a nonprofit called 1726 01:26:06,400 --> 01:26:09,280 Speaker 10: Release re Entry here in Gamesville, Florida, and it is 1727 01:26:09,320 --> 01:26:13,200 Speaker 10: staffed and led by formerly incarcerated people as well, and 1728 01:26:13,280 --> 01:26:18,200 Speaker 10: they provide like, you know, free mental health counseling. I 1729 01:26:18,240 --> 01:26:20,160 Speaker 10: think you get like twelve free appointments, which is a 1730 01:26:20,240 --> 01:26:23,400 Speaker 10: huge deal. Can help you get like bus passes, clothing 1731 01:26:23,720 --> 01:26:29,040 Speaker 10: rental assistance, a computer lab, peer support, all the things 1732 01:26:29,160 --> 01:26:32,559 Speaker 10: very much based on like evidence based practices that have 1733 01:26:32,640 --> 01:26:37,200 Speaker 10: been proven to help people come home from incarceration. Wow, 1734 01:26:37,280 --> 01:26:37,839 Speaker 10: that's awesome. 1735 01:26:38,520 --> 01:26:41,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, no, that's really cool, and it's something that community needs. 1736 01:26:41,680 --> 01:26:41,880 Speaker 6: Right. 1737 01:26:41,880 --> 01:26:45,280 Speaker 5: It's kind of like a community center for re entry, right, 1738 01:26:45,320 --> 01:26:46,840 Speaker 5: I mean, it's exactly what it sounds like. 1739 01:26:46,920 --> 01:26:52,679 Speaker 6: I guess, yeah. 1740 01:26:52,479 --> 01:26:55,800 Speaker 10: I mean, And so you know, it's very much sort 1741 01:26:55,800 --> 01:26:57,639 Speaker 10: of like you would see like in a twelve step program, 1742 01:26:57,800 --> 01:27:00,160 Speaker 10: Like that's sort of like the unparalleled value of people 1743 01:27:00,240 --> 01:27:03,439 Speaker 10: with similar experiences supporting each other. And it's just sort 1744 01:27:03,439 --> 01:27:06,360 Speaker 10: of being applied into a space of people coming home 1745 01:27:06,360 --> 01:27:10,360 Speaker 10: from incarceration and it's working. But we've done here. It works. 1746 01:27:10,439 --> 01:27:13,560 Speaker 10: The evidence shows supporting people. 1747 01:27:13,640 --> 01:27:18,040 Speaker 2: Works, and it gives everybody hope. You know, even in 1748 01:27:18,080 --> 01:27:20,160 Speaker 2: the darkness of days, there's still some hope. Right, So 1749 01:27:20,840 --> 01:27:22,840 Speaker 2: you know, listen, the other side to that, the chatter 1750 01:27:22,880 --> 01:27:24,559 Speaker 2: is always, well, what about the victims and what about this? 1751 01:27:24,800 --> 01:27:26,120 Speaker 3: We are all in it together. 1752 01:27:26,160 --> 01:27:29,960 Speaker 2: It's a community, right, So you know, manned down in 1753 01:27:30,080 --> 01:27:33,080 Speaker 2: any category affects all of us. So the work you're 1754 01:27:33,120 --> 01:27:37,519 Speaker 2: doing is is really tremendous because you know, the systems 1755 01:27:37,560 --> 01:27:39,840 Speaker 2: that built to people to set up for. 1756 01:27:39,800 --> 01:27:44,240 Speaker 5: Success, right, you're one hundred percent right, Stephanie, Like they 1757 01:27:44,280 --> 01:27:47,640 Speaker 5: want you to go back to prison. It's financially beneficial 1758 01:27:48,000 --> 01:27:53,400 Speaker 5: it's during the break. It's big business to have people incarcerated, right, 1759 01:27:54,720 --> 01:27:56,040 Speaker 5: that's correct, And. 1760 01:27:56,000 --> 01:27:59,880 Speaker 7: Kevin, I'm on, I'm actually I'm looking on the website 1761 01:28:00,160 --> 01:28:06,320 Speaker 7: right now, and you mentioned that you guys got fees eliminated, 1762 01:28:07,360 --> 01:28:10,160 Speaker 7: and I just can't imagine what a big deal that 1763 01:28:10,200 --> 01:28:14,759 Speaker 7: would be like just looking at this. In twenty twenty three, 1764 01:28:15,240 --> 01:28:18,719 Speaker 7: roughly fifteen jail and court service fees were eliminated. Four 1765 01:28:18,760 --> 01:28:22,280 Speaker 7: dollars a day subsidence fee in jail, a five dollars 1766 01:28:22,400 --> 01:28:27,080 Speaker 7: day electronic monitoring fee for people on pre trial release, 1767 01:28:27,680 --> 01:28:31,400 Speaker 7: and twenty dollars a week to participate for drug court. 1768 01:28:32,080 --> 01:28:34,599 Speaker 6: You have to pay all of these things. 1769 01:28:34,640 --> 01:28:37,920 Speaker 7: You're mandated to pay them or be returned to prison 1770 01:28:38,360 --> 01:28:38,959 Speaker 7: or were. 1771 01:28:39,280 --> 01:28:42,400 Speaker 10: Yeah, that's right, yep, yeah. Ultimately, this solution is to 1772 01:28:42,439 --> 01:28:45,639 Speaker 10: put you into a cage and only exacerbate those problems 1773 01:28:45,680 --> 01:28:46,799 Speaker 10: the next time you're released. 1774 01:28:47,120 --> 01:28:47,599 Speaker 6: Wow. 1775 01:28:47,680 --> 01:28:51,000 Speaker 5: So pre trial would mean they get arrested, they get 1776 01:28:51,040 --> 01:28:52,880 Speaker 5: their trial set, they get out on bond, they have 1777 01:28:52,920 --> 01:28:55,400 Speaker 5: to wear an ankle monitor while they're wait for pre trials, 1778 01:28:55,400 --> 01:28:58,240 Speaker 5: so they haven't even been convicted yet, and they get 1779 01:28:58,240 --> 01:29:01,160 Speaker 5: this bary more few forms instance right now, right, Barry 1780 01:29:01,240 --> 01:29:03,879 Speaker 5: Murphy's out, he's out on bond, he's wearing an ankle bracelet. 1781 01:29:04,120 --> 01:29:07,200 Speaker 5: He's going to have to pay X number of dollars 1782 01:29:07,520 --> 01:29:13,080 Speaker 5: per day to monitor his whereabouts, right, And this is 1783 01:29:13,120 --> 01:29:15,760 Speaker 5: one of the fees that they've eliminated in Gainesville. 1784 01:29:16,160 --> 01:29:19,240 Speaker 10: W Yeah, just between the phone calls and the fines 1785 01:29:19,280 --> 01:29:21,760 Speaker 10: and fees that we've eliminated, it has kept millions of 1786 01:29:21,800 --> 01:29:25,280 Speaker 10: dollars in the community, typically from communities that can least 1787 01:29:25,320 --> 01:29:27,880 Speaker 10: afford to lose more money. So it's actually been like 1788 01:29:27,920 --> 01:29:30,240 Speaker 10: a huge, huge boost for the entire. 1789 01:29:30,080 --> 01:29:33,320 Speaker 5: Community, right because, like you know, four dollars a day 1790 01:29:33,360 --> 01:29:35,559 Speaker 5: doesn't seem like a lot of money to people who 1791 01:29:35,600 --> 01:29:38,759 Speaker 5: have money, right, But if you only have eight hundred 1792 01:29:38,760 --> 01:29:41,360 Speaker 5: dollars a month period, four dollars a day adds up quick. 1793 01:29:41,479 --> 01:29:42,960 Speaker 4: That's a big chunk of money for people. 1794 01:29:43,160 --> 01:29:45,080 Speaker 6: You guys have done so so much good. 1795 01:29:45,120 --> 01:29:47,799 Speaker 7: It's I think we're all having a hard time digesting it, honestly, 1796 01:29:47,880 --> 01:29:51,280 Speaker 7: but Kevin, we just really so sincerely want to thank 1797 01:29:51,320 --> 01:29:53,760 Speaker 7: you for joining us and for all the incredible work 1798 01:29:53,800 --> 01:29:58,280 Speaker 7: you and the OKA Organization does. The Just Income program. 1799 01:29:58,680 --> 01:30:01,559 Speaker 7: As a reminder, it is a privately funded and that's 1800 01:30:01,600 --> 01:30:06,080 Speaker 7: to maintain independence. It is currently accepting donations for a 1801 01:30:06,200 --> 01:30:11,680 Speaker 7: fourth round of recipients, and anyone who is interested and 1802 01:30:11,840 --> 01:30:17,000 Speaker 7: able to support financially or to learn more about just 1803 01:30:17,120 --> 01:30:22,840 Speaker 7: income can visit at Community Spring on Instagram or visit 1804 01:30:23,479 --> 01:30:30,960 Speaker 7: csg n V dot org. Kevin, you're so rock star. Yeah, seriously, 1805 01:30:31,600 --> 01:30:34,040 Speaker 7: I think that was making the world better. Thank you, 1806 01:30:34,640 --> 01:30:35,720 Speaker 7: Thank you, sybody. 1807 01:30:35,760 --> 01:30:36,879 Speaker 6: We'll be back on Sunday. 1808 01:30:36,880 --> 01:30:39,040 Speaker 2: We are not here tomorrow, but we will be here 1809 01:30:39,080 --> 01:30:41,479 Speaker 2: on Sunday for Scientific Sunday. 1810 01:30:42,040 --> 01:30:44,280 Speaker 6: Stay safe, everybody, and have a wonderful night.