Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels. Second date update today. Second date update is
Speaker 1: going to be an interesting one. We don't get a
Speaker 1: lot of requests from people who haven't seen somebody in
Speaker 1: a long time, but every once in a while we do.
Speaker 1: And Nova is on the phone today for a second
Speaker 1: date update. The guy she wants to call she went
Speaker 1: out with over a year ago. Almost two years ago,
Speaker 1: it says, and her reason for wanting a second date
Speaker 1: with the guy, it's definitely something we've never done on
Speaker 1: this show before. I'm not gonna tell I'll let her
Speaker 1: tell it. Nova, How are you good? How are you guys?
Speaker 1: Not too bad? So curious. What's the name of the
Speaker 1: guy you want to call today? His name is Craig
Speaker 1: Craig And you went out with him like almost two
Speaker 1: years ago? Yeah, it was a little over a year
Speaker 1: and a half ago. And were you the one that
Speaker 1: didn't call him back originally? Yes? Why? Well, I felt
Speaker 1: like like we had a really good date and we
Speaker 1: ended up hooking up, but I was like in this
Speaker 1: phase in my life where I was kind of dating
Speaker 1: a lot, and I kind of felt like he really
Speaker 1: liked me, and I just wasn't ready for that makes sense?
Speaker 1: Now you're ready. Now you're ready for it kinda or
Speaker 1: open to it at least, right, Like, yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: I have sort of a different motive for wanting to reconnect.
Speaker 1: So after I ghosted him and blew him off, a
Speaker 1: little bit later, I found out that I was pregnant.
Speaker 1: What wait, with his kid to be one hundred percent? Honest,
Speaker 1: I can't say for sure. Oh so there's a couple
Speaker 1: of people that it could be. Yeah, this is dramatic
Speaker 1: at the time. Because I didn't know and I was
Speaker 1: sort of ready for it, I decided to do it
Speaker 1: on my own. So I have a beautiful daughter, and
Speaker 1: now that she's getting a little older, I'm kind of
Speaker 1: curious about her jeans and where she comes from. So
Speaker 1: she's almost two year and a half. No, no, she's
Speaker 1: not even a year yet. Okay, I'm sorry. I'm trying
Speaker 1: to do the math of conception to now. So now
Speaker 1: you want to call him and tell him that he
Speaker 1: might be the father and ask him for a date. Well,
Speaker 1: this is how I was hoping you guys could help me.
Speaker 1: So when I do the mask, Craig is the most
Speaker 1: likely father, Okay, And what are the odds here? They
Speaker 1: were talking like eighty twenty. It's like thirty, thirty, forty,
Speaker 1: but he's the forty. Okay, so the most positive about him, right,
Speaker 1: but better than one in three chance that it could
Speaker 1: be him. I don't want to freak him out and
Speaker 1: tell him like you might be a father. So I
Speaker 1: was hoping you guys could just set me up on
Speaker 1: a second date with him, and then if it goes well,
Speaker 1: I could, you know, like end up in his apartment
Speaker 1: and steal like a strand of hair or toothbry oh wow,
Speaker 1: and then figure out if he's the father and then
Speaker 1: tell him. Okay, So you want to try to steal
Speaker 1: some of his DNA, not the DNA that got you pregnant,
Speaker 1: some other DNA. You know, that's the terrible thing to
Speaker 1: spring on somebody unless you're sure, and I don't know
Speaker 1: any other way to find out. Okay, So you want
Speaker 1: us to get you a second date with him so
Speaker 1: that you can end up back at his place and
Speaker 1: steal something of his so you can take it to
Speaker 1: the doctor and see if he's the father of your kid. Well,
Speaker 1: maybe I could like cheek swab him while he's sleeping
Speaker 1: and bring it in. I still want to bother him
Speaker 1: with it unless it's him. I can't decide if this
Speaker 1: is like it feels wrong, but I don't know if
Speaker 1: it's wrong. Like, if you're a guy, would you rather
Speaker 1: just know the upfront truth? Like, Hey, there's a one
Speaker 1: through chance you may be the dad. Do you want
Speaker 1: to get tested? Or do you want someone going behind
Speaker 1: your back? And I don't know, go detective on you
Speaker 1: just to somebody asking me hey, or saying I think
Speaker 1: you may be the father? Do you want to get
Speaker 1: a test? I would flip out. Would you say yes
Speaker 1: or no? Say yes to the test, for sure, but
Speaker 1: you'd instantly assume and you'd instantly be like upset. I
Speaker 1: see what she means in that sense. So here's the thing, though, Nova,
Speaker 1: if we get you a date with do you actually
Speaker 1: would you actually everything about dating him? Yeah? We really connected.
Speaker 1: I just wasn't in a place and then good, Like,
Speaker 1: what do you call him up and say I'm pregnant?
Speaker 1: It might be yours. I was in a weird situation. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's even worse. I've already had the baby. But what
Speaker 1: do you I mean, are you going to tell him
Speaker 1: that you have a kid at all on your second date? No,
Speaker 1: I'll probably just save that if I can help it,
Speaker 1: until after I find out if he's the father. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, So the goal here is get you a
Speaker 1: second date so that you can steal his DNA. It
Speaker 1: sounds so bad, but it's really good. Yeah you say
Speaker 1: it like that. Okay, well we'll do that. We'll play
Speaker 1: a song and then come back and call him and
Speaker 1: get your second date up date. Okay, okay, awesome, thank you.
Speaker 1: All right, hang on in the morning. There's a lot
Speaker 1: writing on today's second date updates Brooke and Jubil in
Speaker 1: the morning if you're just joining us. Nova is on
Speaker 1: the phone and she wants to call a dude named Craig.
Speaker 1: They actually went out about two years ago, and hey, Nova,
Speaker 1: did you guys hook up that night? Yes? Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: I was wondering because Nova had a baby not that
Speaker 1: long ago, and she thinks that Craig might be the father.
Speaker 1: So yeah, okay, my detective skills tell me that you
Speaker 1: guys hooked up that night. Normally, one steps and Nova
Speaker 1: wants to ask him out on another date, not necessarily
Speaker 1: because she really really wants to see him again, but
Speaker 1: she wants to see if she can go on a
Speaker 1: date with him. And get back to his place so
Speaker 1: that she can take a toothbrush or something and get
Speaker 1: a DNA tested because she thinks he might be the
Speaker 1: father of her new baby. There's a couple other options,
Speaker 1: but Craig is forty percent probably the father. My question too, though,
Speaker 1: is you don't want us to say anything about you're
Speaker 1: trying to steal his DNA to get a paternity test. Obviously,
Speaker 1: so I don't want to freak him out for no reason,
Speaker 1: like imagine somebody telling you that, like I'll never get
Speaker 1: on a date with him. Yeah, I just I want
Speaker 1: to make sure he is the father before I lay
Speaker 1: that on him. So I just want you guys to
Speaker 1: set up just a nice second date. Okay, you have
Speaker 1: good intentions, I know, But the only question that I
Speaker 1: have is have you actually already contacted him and he's
Speaker 1: just not getting back to you, or is this the
Speaker 1: first time we'd be reaching out to him in over
Speaker 1: almost two years? Um? No, I haven't reached out to
Speaker 1: him because I don't. I don't know how to explain
Speaker 1: why I haven't been in touch in so long. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: so you haven't even tried to go out with him again? Okay, No,
Speaker 1: all right, Well, I'm gonna dial his phone number right now,
Speaker 1: and then I don't know. I guess I'll just say
Speaker 1: life got in the way. You know, she's busy because
Speaker 1: you're the one that stopped talking to him. He didn't
Speaker 1: even stop talking to you, and life did get in
Speaker 1: the way. A life, I mean that kept her busy
Speaker 1: for a while. That's fine. I don't think we need
Speaker 1: to say to get me a boat. Okay, okay, I'm
Speaker 1: dialing this phone ub right now. Here we go. Hello,
Speaker 1: I might I aspeak to Craig. Please see Craig. How
Speaker 1: are you man? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel
Speaker 1: in the Morning. I'm sorry, who'd you say this was?
Speaker 1: This is Jewel from Brooke and Jewel in the Morning.
Speaker 1: It's a radio show. A radio show. Um, could I
Speaker 1: win something? Uh? Well no, not yet, you might have.
Speaker 1: I'm calling you today because we do a segment on
Speaker 1: our show. It's called the second Date Update. It's where
Speaker 1: if you go out on a date with somebody and
Speaker 1: then end up not calling them after, they can email
Speaker 1: us to get you on the phone to try to
Speaker 1: figure out what happened. And we got an email about
Speaker 1: you the other day. Really you've been out on any
Speaker 1: dates recently? Um? No, not in a long time. Okay,
Speaker 1: you ever, you would go on a date about two
Speaker 1: years ago, almost almost two years ago? Maybe any dates
Speaker 1: and times of all of the dates you've been on
Speaker 1: in the last three years. Just to make sure we're safe.
Speaker 1: Are you guys messing with me right now? Because no,
Speaker 1: I'm not. Well that party was kidding about. But we
Speaker 1: got an email from a girl named Nova. Do you
Speaker 1: remember Nova? M Yeah, you went out with her probably
Speaker 1: about two years ago. Do you have a good memory
Speaker 1: of who she is? Yeah, sounds like you don't at all?
Speaker 1: You remember? You remember her? I remember Nova? Yeah, but
Speaker 1: I mean we went out on one date and then
Speaker 1: she kind of ghosted me. Yeah, she told us that,
Speaker 1: and she feels bad about that. She's actually thought about
Speaker 1: you a lot since then, and so she emailed us
Speaker 1: to see if we could get a hold of you
Speaker 1: and ask if you go out with her again. So
Speaker 1: let me get this straight. She emailed you, and now
Speaker 1: you guys are calling me on her behalf two years
Speaker 1: after we went on on our date. Yeah, to ask
Speaker 1: me out on a date. Yes, A lot can happen
Speaker 1: in two years, So you're not I mean, you said
Speaker 1: you haven't been on a day in a while, so
Speaker 1: you're not liking you know, you don't have a girlfriend anything, now,
Speaker 1: do you? Actually? No, not right now. I'm just kind
Speaker 1: of curious as to like why she's calling me now,
Speaker 1: because like I tried calling her. Were you mad after
Speaker 1: she ghosted you? Yeah? I mean I wasn't happy about it.
Speaker 1: I thought we had a good time. What she told
Speaker 1: us is that she just wasn't ready for a relationship.
Speaker 1: And I mean I think that maybe it scared her
Speaker 1: almost a little bit, like that there was potential between
Speaker 1: you guys. Okay, so it seems a little weird to
Speaker 1: call somebody up after two years, like, yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: about me, after all that time. It just it's like
Speaker 1: just Suddn't it proves that she's been thinking about you
Speaker 1: a lot? Yeah? You know what, Craig, Why don't I
Speaker 1: just let her tell it? Because she's actually on the
Speaker 1: other line listening. I wants to talk to you. Are
Speaker 1: you Are you serious? Yep? Hey, Craig, it's a blast
Speaker 1: from the past. Nova on the other line. Nov Are
Speaker 1: you still there? Yeah? Hi, Craig, how are you? Um?
Speaker 1: I'm okay, how are you I've been good. I I
Speaker 1: heard your single. Now that's cool. Can I ask, like,
Speaker 1: why you blew me off in the first place. I
Speaker 1: know that back then I didn't do the right thing.
Speaker 1: I really liked you, and I could feel that you
Speaker 1: really liked me too, and I just felt like I
Speaker 1: wasn't in a place in my life to give what
Speaker 1: their relationship could have deserved. I know that I should
Speaker 1: have at least said something to you, but I just
Speaker 1: didn't know what to say. And you know, it was
Speaker 1: the wrong thing, and I'm sorry, And I was hoping
Speaker 1: that you would go out with me again. So you
Speaker 1: didn't feel like it back then, but now you do
Speaker 1: feel like it right. You know how it is, Craig,
Speaker 1: Like you might stop talking to somebody and then you
Speaker 1: just get this feeling in your belly, like, oh man,
Speaker 1: I gotta talk to him, you know, Like you just
Speaker 1: think about them, You get butterflies, you get funny feelings
Speaker 1: in your stomach, you know, and then you think about
Speaker 1: them for a long time, and then you might reach
Speaker 1: out to him later. I think, I think that's just
Speaker 1: what's going on. Here's been thinking about you for a while.
Speaker 1: I think that we went on one date and the
Speaker 1: fact that you're still on my mind could mean something. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean if it was like a week later, or
Speaker 1: like even a month later, but like two years and
Speaker 1: you don't even reach out, like I called you, I
Speaker 1: texted you, and you didn't know, like you could have
Speaker 1: at least been decent and just you could have just
Speaker 1: told me that you were in a different place or something.
Speaker 1: You could just told me that at the time, right,
Speaker 1: I know I was. I did not do the right thing.
Speaker 1: And I know it's only been two years, but I
Speaker 1: have matured a lot and then through a lot, And
Speaker 1: I mean I think about all of the guys that
Speaker 1: I've dated, and they're been a lot, and you were
Speaker 1: the nicest, sweetest guy that I came across, and I
Speaker 1: just felt like I had to take this chance and
Speaker 1: meetch out. So you dated a lot of people that
Speaker 1: men like you hooked up with a lot of people.
Speaker 1: Is that a bad day, Craig. I mean, you guys
Speaker 1: weren't dating. I don't know, Like somebody goes out, they
Speaker 1: start dating a bunch of people and they well, and
Speaker 1: then they just want to go through the cycle again.
Speaker 1: Like I don't want to just be somebody that just
Speaker 1: gets used and he disregarded. You know, it would be
Speaker 1: like a booty call every two years if it has
Speaker 1: been over a year since I've dated and Craig, I mean,
Speaker 1: you gotta give her credit. She admits that she handled
Speaker 1: the situation wrong. She didn't try to like play you
Speaker 1: and bring it down a path and then dump you.
Speaker 1: Like you got to have some respect for her there.
Speaker 1: I mean, I know it sucks to be ghosted, but
Speaker 1: she's owning up to it. Yeah, Like, is there a problem?
Speaker 1: Are you seeing somebody else or I mean, honestly, no,
Speaker 1: I'm not seeing anybody. I was dating somebody for a
Speaker 1: little bit, but we broke up a couple of months ago,
Speaker 1: So like I'd be interested in catching up and seeing
Speaker 1: what's been going on. It's you know, over this last
Speaker 1: year with you. Are you good? That's good? Okay? Well,
Speaker 1: Craig officially asked in would you go on a second
Speaker 1: date with Nova? We will pay for it, just a date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm just seeing I mean, yeah, we did have a
Speaker 1: connection that night I felt, so I would be interested
Speaker 1: in seeing you again and see if it's still there.
Speaker 1: Who knows, maybe this one could end up like your
Speaker 1: last one back at your place. Yeah, you guys that
Speaker 1: she ended up coming back to my place. Did she
Speaker 1: tell you that? Yeah, yeah, she told us that. She
Speaker 1: said that, you know, like you guys chocked up the
Speaker 1: time you went out and it was so good. It's
Speaker 1: stuck with her all this time. Yeah. I mean, do
Speaker 1: you do you did your number change or something like?
Speaker 1: You want to text me or call me and we
Speaker 1: like figure it all out. Yeah, I have your number.
Speaker 1: I gave it to the radio station. Oh right, uh,
Speaker 1: oh my god. Congratulations, Nova, you got your second date. Craig,
Speaker 1: I think it'll be cool for you guys to reconnect,
Speaker 1: you know, good luck. Oh my gosh, id you guys
Speaker 1: have to give us an update of how it goes,
Speaker 1: please God, yes, we will. Okay, all right, Craig, Well,
Speaker 1: thank you for your time. Man, I appreciate you talking
Speaker 1: to us, and good luck on your date. Yeah, thanks,
Speaker 1: all right, all right, see okay, Nova, oh shut, you're
Speaker 1: in there. You got your date. Now you have to
Speaker 1: promise us that you'll give us an update if you
Speaker 1: get you get his DNA and get a paternity test one, okay,
Speaker 1: I will, all right, seriously, you have if I see that,
Speaker 1: if I see you on Mori Povic before this show,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be so mad. I would never broken jewel
Speaker 1: in the morning