WEBVTT - Sunday Morning Run: Inspiration From Will Smith to Socrates And A Bonus Quote From Dolly!

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<v Speaker 1>Hey there, folks, and happy Sunday to you.

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<v Speaker 2>It is Sunday, June twenty ninth, and welcome to this

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<v Speaker 2>inspirational episode of Amy and TJ.

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<v Speaker 1>We go through our quotes of the day.

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<v Speaker 2>We collect them here, give them all to you one place,

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<v Speaker 2>give you a little background about where they came from,

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<v Speaker 2>what they mean to us, and why we chose them.

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<v Speaker 2>I say we, but usually Robes. This is a task

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<v Speaker 2>you usually take on in the morning for Morning run.

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<v Speaker 2>You pick out the quotes.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, it actually began with you, though I should give

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<v Speaker 3>you credit because you used to post these quotes on

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<v Speaker 3>your door on every Monday in the GMA studios, and

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<v Speaker 3>you collected them, had a big old folder full of them.

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<v Speaker 3>And we have essentially run out of your quotes that

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<v Speaker 3>you had collected over the years. So now, yes, I

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<v Speaker 3>have taken on the duties of curating our quotes of

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<v Speaker 3>the day for our morning run.

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<v Speaker 2>So you started on Monday with a poet that I

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't familiar with, but an American poet who had a quote.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I've heard something similar to this, but I'll

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<v Speaker 2>let you know what I I'll explain.

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<v Speaker 1>That in a second.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, this is from poet Susie Cassim and the quote

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<v Speaker 3>of the day was, doubt kills more dreams than failure

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<v Speaker 3>ever will.

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<v Speaker 2>Why does that sound familiar because I heard of all people,

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<v Speaker 2>I heard Spike Lee, but it this way. He told

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<v Speaker 2>a crowd we were doing an event, and he said

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<v Speaker 2>it was parents that kill more dreams than anybody else.

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<v Speaker 2>The idea that sometimes we are trying to guide our

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<v Speaker 2>kids that you shouldn't do this, We're trying to put

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<v Speaker 2>them in another direction, and you kill the kids dreams.

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<v Speaker 2>So when you told me this quote, it's kind of

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<v Speaker 2>that thing as well. Dreams don't usually die because of failure.

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<v Speaker 2>They die because of doubt. They died because of something else.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's a good thing to remember, because I think

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of us are afraid to fail, and so

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<v Speaker 3>we don't go after our dreams. But you're right, a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of us want to steer our kids or ourselves

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<v Speaker 3>in sensible directions, fuol proof or failure proof directions like

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<v Speaker 3>you should become a lawyer, or you should get a

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<v Speaker 3>job where you know you're going to get benefits. You

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<v Speaker 3>shouldn't be an artist, you shouldn't be a poet. And

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<v Speaker 3>that's why I love that a poet wrote this, because

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sure she faced a lot of that. Maybe when

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<v Speaker 3>she told her parents or she even convinced herself she could.

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<v Speaker 3>People probably doubted her every step of the way. How

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<v Speaker 3>can you possibly make a living these days as a poet?

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<v Speaker 3>So I thought that was pretty cool. And anytime we're

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<v Speaker 3>trying to pursue something new or chase a dream, I

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<v Speaker 3>think it's so important to remember that if you can

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<v Speaker 3>just believe in yourself, you might fail a couple of

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<v Speaker 3>times before you make it, but then you could still

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<v Speaker 3>ultimately make it.

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<v Speaker 2>Because this applighter relationships as well.

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<v Speaker 3>I think so too. I do, I actually do. Because

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<v Speaker 3>you doubt someone, you doubt love, you stop trusting someone

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<v Speaker 3>and that can kill a relationship. But if you just

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<v Speaker 3>believe and you stay positive, maybe it's going to all

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<v Speaker 3>be okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, thank you Susie Cassim, American poet, for that to

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<v Speaker 2>The quote of the day on Monday was doubt kills

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<v Speaker 2>more dreams than the failure ever will.

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<v Speaker 3>Our next quote of the day comes from is Ernest

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<v Speaker 3>Hemingway a poet and an author or just an author?

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<v Speaker 2>I thought author? Yes, maybe comes to mind initially, Yes.

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<v Speaker 3>He I mean a prolific author, of course, but Ernest

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<v Speaker 3>Hemingway I loved this because this is something I am

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<v Speaker 3>constantly trying to train my brain not to do. I

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<v Speaker 3>haven't conquered it yet, but here was his quote. Worry

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<v Speaker 3>a little bit every day, and in a lifetime you

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<v Speaker 3>will lose a couple of years. If something is wrong,

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<v Speaker 3>fix it if you can, but train yourself not to worry.

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<v Speaker 3>Worry never fixes anything.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the key to life, I think. I think

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<v Speaker 2>it's the key to happiness. I do too, being in

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<v Speaker 2>the moment, training yourself not to worry about something that

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<v Speaker 2>never probably is going to happen anyway. If you stop

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<v Speaker 2>right now, think about the thing. What were you worried

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<v Speaker 2>about yesterday?

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<v Speaker 1>Did it happen today?

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<v Speaker 3>No? Actually, actually no? And where do you worry the most? Like?

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<v Speaker 3>Where are you in the day? Where are you in

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<v Speaker 3>your day where you find yourself overthinking and future casting

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<v Speaker 3>and creating worst case scenarios in your head.

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<v Speaker 2>I sit and I'm quiet when I'm not active, when

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<v Speaker 2>i'm not engaged, when i'm not helping, when i'm not

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<v Speaker 2>being of service, when i'm not doing work. I think

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<v Speaker 2>when I lay down.

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<v Speaker 1>Is when I have it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, when you're not in the moment.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why I have to have the TV on at

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<v Speaker 2>night to distract me from my own thoughts. Seriously, I

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<v Speaker 2>know you think I'm crazy have to sleep with the

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<v Speaker 2>TV on. That sounds insane.

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<v Speaker 3>When we first started dating, I knew you was a friend,

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<v Speaker 3>but I never had spent time with you in an

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<v Speaker 3>intimate setting like a living room or a bedroom. So, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>that was a big surprise to me after knowing you

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<v Speaker 3>for eight years, that you always have to have a

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<v Speaker 3>TV on, even the whole night while you're sleeping the

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<v Speaker 3>entire night. It took a lot of training for me

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<v Speaker 3>to be able to work through that. Yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 3>I'm telling you, I don't even know if I told

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<v Speaker 3>you how shocking it was to me. Why so shocking

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<v Speaker 3>because I'd never met anyone who had the TV on

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<v Speaker 3>all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>But this goes back to Ernest Hemingway worry. So when

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<v Speaker 2>I'm laying down and it's quiet and nothing is distracting me,

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<v Speaker 2>I get to Okay, got I do this? What if

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<v Speaker 2>this happens? Then I got to figure this out. I

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<v Speaker 2>set the alarm. Oh my goodness, that I start the dishwasher, Like.

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<v Speaker 1>All this is happening.

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<v Speaker 2>So if the TV is on, I'm painting like something

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<v Speaker 2>is keeping my attention.

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<v Speaker 3>That's wild.

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<v Speaker 1>It keeps me from talking.

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<v Speaker 3>It makes sense. That's why I don't like it when

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<v Speaker 3>you're quiet, because even if I ask you what are

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<v Speaker 3>you thinking about, you'll just say nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't want to know what's going on.

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<v Speaker 3>But I know, oh, I know, saying nothing is better

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<v Speaker 3>than saying what you're thinking. I get that. I find

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<v Speaker 3>my thoughts racing in the shower sometimes when I'm running,

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<v Speaker 3>if I don't have music or Actually that's why I

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<v Speaker 3>do prefer a podcast or an audiobook because then I

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<v Speaker 3>can't start overthinking when i'm running, because my mind quiets

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<v Speaker 3>and I really I'll go into doomsday thoughts.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes we just brought something up. It's now a relationship

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<v Speaker 2>episode the shower.

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<v Speaker 1>Same thing. I don't think in the shower.

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<v Speaker 3>Why because you have TV shows, play TV show you

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<v Speaker 3>freing an iPad? Oh my goodness, I just realized this.

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<v Speaker 3>You bring an iPad and blast it on a speaker

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<v Speaker 3>while you're in the shower so you don't start worrying.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my goodness, Okay, one more time for you. Worry

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<v Speaker 3>a little bit every day and in a lifetime. You

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<v Speaker 3>will lose a couple of years. If something is wrong,

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<v Speaker 3>fix it if you can, but train yourself not to worry.

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<v Speaker 3>Worry never fixes anything, all right, the.

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<v Speaker 2>Next one here on Wednesday, I'm going to do this

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<v Speaker 2>in the reverse of the way I did it during

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<v Speaker 2>the week I said who the quote was from first,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna do it in reverse this time. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 2>here's the quote, stop letting people who do so little

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<v Speaker 2>for you control so much of your mind, feelings, and emotions.

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<v Speaker 2>Can't we all agree with that.

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<v Speaker 3>So much, so much, And the prolific author of this

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<v Speaker 3>quote is Will Smith. That's when you started singing, getting

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<v Speaker 3>jiggy with it, or you just started humming it.

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<v Speaker 2>That stuff gets in your head. That dude has some

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<v Speaker 2>good stuff back here.

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<v Speaker 3>And you know what. I loved his book, Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I actually that was one of my favorite audiobooks to

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<v Speaker 3>run to ever. I would actually listen to it again.

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<v Speaker 3>And this was all before the infamous Night of the Oscars,

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<v Speaker 3>And so I was I had just finished the book,

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<v Speaker 3>I believe, right leading up to that night, and I

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<v Speaker 3>was so disappointed with what happened because I know he

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<v Speaker 3>has spent so many years working on himself truly, and

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<v Speaker 3>you know what that just goes to say or to

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<v Speaker 3>show you can do all the work, and you can

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<v Speaker 3>go to therapy. And he spent time alone and he

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<v Speaker 3>was reading all the books that you and I have read,

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<v Speaker 3>and yet still in a moment, in a moment of anger,

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<v Speaker 3>in a weak moment, we all can have that devastating

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<v Speaker 3>human low moment. That's unfortunately something for him is hard

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<v Speaker 3>to walk away from, or to even take away or

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<v Speaker 3>to remove, or for people to forget.

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<v Speaker 2>Unfortunately, his moment happened in front of a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>people's look and this helped me understand Will Smith a

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<v Speaker 2>lot because I read it. I didn't do the audio,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's a four hundred page book. It's a thick, incredible,

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<v Speaker 2>big book, and it is incredible. You understand him so

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<v Speaker 2>much better when you read it, and you understand why

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<v Speaker 2>he is the way he is, why he entertained, why

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<v Speaker 2>his personality goes back to his child.

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<v Speaker 1>It is such a good book. This is not what

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<v Speaker 1>this what are we turning this well.

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<v Speaker 2>To a lifestyle podcast today?

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<v Speaker 1>It supposed to be about inspirational.

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<v Speaker 3>Quotes, but I think the whole book is inspirational, and

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<v Speaker 3>I think you'll actually have a lot more compassion for

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<v Speaker 3>him if if you were angered by or hold what

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<v Speaker 3>happened on the Oscar night against him, if you read

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<v Speaker 3>his book, I think maybe you'll picture him differently. But

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<v Speaker 3>I love what he had to say because so many

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<v Speaker 3>of us let people who don't matter affect us and

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<v Speaker 3>affect how we think about ourselves. So stop letting people

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<v Speaker 3>who do so little for you control so much of

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<v Speaker 3>your mind, feelings, and emotions.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, folks, when we come back, we're going to

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<v Speaker 2>give you our last couple of quotes, one from a

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<v Speaker 2>football player, another from Socrates, and we even throw in

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<v Speaker 2>a little Dolly parton.

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<v Speaker 3>Welcome back to this Sunday edition of our Morning Ron,

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<v Speaker 3>the Inspiration Edition, where we go through the quotes of

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<v Speaker 3>the day, And this one comes from Yes TJ mentioned

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<v Speaker 3>before the break a football player, someone who even I

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<v Speaker 3>know his name. I'm not a big knower of football names.

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<v Speaker 2>From football over something a podcast or for pop culture

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<v Speaker 2>or commercials.

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<v Speaker 3>You know him from playing, probably from after he was playing,

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<v Speaker 3>but jj watk okay, this is what he said, and

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<v Speaker 3>I love this quote. Success isn't owned its least, and

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<v Speaker 3>rent is due every day. I think sometimes we get complacent,

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<v Speaker 3>maybe a little lazy, but if you truly want success,

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<v Speaker 3>if you truly want to reach a goal, you got

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<v Speaker 3>to work at it each and every day. It's about

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<v Speaker 3>I just this quote motivated me to keep working, to

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<v Speaker 3>keep pushing, to keep trying to get where you want

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<v Speaker 3>to get, and then when you get where you want

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<v Speaker 3>to get, climb another mountain.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, didn't you just say something to me today

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<v Speaker 2>about Wow, I can't wait until we get to this

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<v Speaker 2>and then we you can take a break as it. No, baby,

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<v Speaker 2>you gotta work hard.

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<v Speaker 3>I did, and then this quote snapped me right out

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<v Speaker 3>of it. So thank you for that. JJ Watt. Success

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<v Speaker 3>isn't owned, its least and rent is due every day.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you got this? The next one from Socrates? Does

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<v Speaker 2>Socrates speak this way? You know what?

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<v Speaker 3>I have the same question, But I have to admit

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<v Speaker 3>this must have been translated into more of a modern

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<v Speaker 3>American vernacular, because I had the same thought. I thought,

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<v Speaker 3>does Socrates use the verbs screws us up? Or that

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<v Speaker 3>that phrase? I don't think so. I think that is

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<v Speaker 3>a loose modern translation. But here's what Socrates had to

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<v Speaker 3>say all those so many many centuries ago. What screws

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<v Speaker 3>us up the most in life is the picture in

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<v Speaker 3>our head of what it's supposed to be. Ain't that

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<v Speaker 3>the truth? Expectations or what we think should or could

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<v Speaker 3>be can cause us the most suffering, and we're doing

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<v Speaker 3>it to ourselves. I have tried to catch myself for

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<v Speaker 3>the last couple of years. Every time I start to

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<v Speaker 3>say I should have, I could have, I wish I

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<v Speaker 3>would have, And every time my brain starts going there,

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<v Speaker 3>I have to say, stop, what are you doing. You're

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<v Speaker 3>not changing anything, you're not undoing anything, and you're only

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<v Speaker 3>making yourself miserable and frustrated.

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<v Speaker 2>It's hard to embrace what is.

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<v Speaker 1>It's hard to accept that maybe.

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<v Speaker 2>Like this isn't what I wanted out of life, and

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<v Speaker 2>this is not where I wanted to be. But that's

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<v Speaker 2>hard to accept. It's hard to surrender to so many

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<v Speaker 2>things around you like that. But that is the cause,

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<v Speaker 2>the sole source of your daily frustration and even depression. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>we are, it absolutely is. You're suffering because you're looking

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<v Speaker 2>around and saying I don't want this, I didn't want this,

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<v Speaker 2>this is not how it's supposed to be.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, it is really freeing to.

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<v Speaker 3>Just accept it actually is exactly what. It was hard

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<v Speaker 3>to do, though, man, especially when you're in the in

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<v Speaker 3>the ditch and you're down on your luck and you

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<v Speaker 3>feel like, what what did I do wrong? Where did

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<v Speaker 3>I go wrong? This isn't what was supposed to happen.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean we of all, I have said that to

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<v Speaker 3>myself a million times.

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<v Speaker 2>Down in that ditch. They're cursing us, like, yeah, what

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<v Speaker 2>was that quote?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, exactly like the last thing you want to hear. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>you kind of want to wallow in your own misery.

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<v Speaker 3>But it doesn't make you feel any better. I know.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's important to let that emotion or that feeling.

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<v Speaker 3>You got to you got to experience it and recognize it,

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<v Speaker 3>and then you got to let it pass right through you.

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<v Speaker 3>So I think it's just cool to recognize it in

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<v Speaker 3>the moment. It might take a couple hours, it might

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<v Speaker 3>take a couple of days, but just remember what Socrates

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<v Speaker 3>said exactly the way I'm going to read it. Can

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<v Speaker 3>you imagine Socrates saying it just like this, What screws

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<v Speaker 3>us up the most in life is the picture in

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<v Speaker 3>our head of what it's supposed to be. Thank you,

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<v Speaker 3>thank you, thank you Socrates for that all right.

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<v Speaker 2>We got a bonus today in honor of Dolly. She

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<v Speaker 2>was on our minds of course, and she is probably

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<v Speaker 2>going to get us out to Vegas. This is a

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<v Speaker 2>good reason to go to Vegas. Dolly Pardon announced that

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<v Speaker 2>she is doing a mini residency that is going to

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<v Speaker 2>be this December. I believe Caesars.

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<v Speaker 1>Do I have her right?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, that is exactly correct.

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<v Speaker 1>She is.

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<v Speaker 2>It's been thirty two years since she's had a residency

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<v Speaker 2>out there, and she's retired from touring about ten years ago.

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<v Speaker 2>But that didn't mean she was going to stop performing.

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<v Speaker 2>She just wasn't on the road. So this is really cool.

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<v Speaker 2>A lot of people excited that she's they get a

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<v Speaker 2>chance to see her.

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<v Speaker 3>She is such an amazing singer and songwriter, so it's

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<v Speaker 3>not surprising that this woman has so many quotes. I

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<v Speaker 3>might I could probably do with Dolly quote once a

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<v Speaker 3>week for an entire year, and I still wouldn't get

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<v Speaker 3>through them all. And they're all so brilliant. This woman

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<v Speaker 3>knows exactly she's lived so much life. I mean, if

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<v Speaker 3>you can write country music songs, first of all, hats

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<v Speaker 3>off to you, because I love the lyrics in country

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<v Speaker 3>music songs. But Dolly is at the top, top top

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<v Speaker 3>of the heap, of course, So this is Dolly's quote

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<v Speaker 3>for your bonus quote on this Sunday morning. Run. Don't

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<v Speaker 3>get so busy making a living that you forget to

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<v Speaker 3>make a life.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>Obviously we just had the quote on success, and that's

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<v Speaker 3>a big part of things. But sometimes success isn't just

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<v Speaker 3>about financial success or professional success. It's about emotional success,

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<v Speaker 3>relationship success. And I think we all sometimes, I know

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<v Speaker 3>I was guilty of this for so much of my life.

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<v Speaker 3>I had a I had a one track mine of

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<v Speaker 3>where I wanted to get to, but it was about

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<v Speaker 3>my work. And wow, when that work all came crumbling down,

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<v Speaker 3>what was left just me?

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<v Speaker 1>You were screwed.

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<v Speaker 2>I was all you had.

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<v Speaker 1>Boy, that was that was a reality check and.

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<v Speaker 3>Making a life. Don't get so busy making a living

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<v Speaker 3>that you forget to make a life.

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<v Speaker 2>You know that obviously that makes perfect sense. You can

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<v Speaker 2>actually do both, but there's got to be some kind

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<v Speaker 2>of a balance. We unfortunately do get our heads down

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<v Speaker 2>and we're total to just.

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<v Speaker 1>Go at it work hard.

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<v Speaker 2>People have pride themselves on I did take any vacation

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<v Speaker 2>days this week this month?

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<v Speaker 3>Shut up just that used to be me. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 3>be totally honest.

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<v Speaker 2>I know we all used to have done that at

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<v Speaker 2>some point, and sometimes it was necessary when you're young

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<v Speaker 2>and hungry. But when you thirty two and you got

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<v Speaker 2>other things and people and things in your life that

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<v Speaker 2>you care about, you got to stop this. Someone compared

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<v Speaker 2>to a standard of living, right, don't confuse a standard

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<v Speaker 2>of living with a standard of life. Standard of living

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<v Speaker 2>is about I have a Mercedes, I fly first class.

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<v Speaker 2>We get caught up in that standard. That's a standard

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<v Speaker 2>of luxury almost, yes.

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<v Speaker 1>But a standard of life. Who are your friendships?

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<v Speaker 2>How much sleep do you get?

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<v Speaker 1>Right?

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<v Speaker 2>A standard of life? And it's such a difference. And yes,

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<v Speaker 2>we have learned this later in life, after putting ourselves

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<v Speaker 2>through hell professionally and personally.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well yeah, when it all comes crumbling down, what

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<v Speaker 3>is left It is those relationships that you nurtured. And

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<v Speaker 3>if you haven't been nurturing those relationships, you realize that

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<v Speaker 3>is what counts on your deathbed. You don't care about

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<v Speaker 3>your titles. It doesn't matter how many numbers are in

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<v Speaker 3>your bank account, It truly doesn't. It matters who's around

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<v Speaker 3>that bed with you. Helping you make that transition. That's

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<v Speaker 3>what matters. So Dolly and Dolly knew that. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>Dolly had such an incredible career. I mean, she is beloved,

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<v Speaker 3>but I love her love story and the one that

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<v Speaker 3>she kept private and the one that she is of

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<v Speaker 3>course morning now that her husband has passed, her husband

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<v Speaker 3>of sixty years. But man, she is a living, breathing

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<v Speaker 3>example of how to live. So thank you, Dolly. Don't

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<v Speaker 3>get so busy making a living that you forget to

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<v Speaker 3>make a life. And thank you all for listening to

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<v Speaker 3>us on this Sunday. I hope it gave you a

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<v Speaker 3>little inspiration, a little motivation, maybe just a different way

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<v Speaker 3>to think about how you're going to live your day

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<v Speaker 3>today and every day going forward. So thank you for

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<v Speaker 3>running with us. This is the Sunday morning run. Thanks

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<v Speaker 3>for running with us. I had to remind myself and

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<v Speaker 3>we will see you on the run tomorrow