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Speaker 1: Hey there, folks, and happy Sunday to you.

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Speaker 2: It is Sunday, June twenty ninth, and welcome to this

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Speaker 2: inspirational episode of Amy and TJ.

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Speaker 1: We go through our quotes of the day.

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Speaker 2: We collect them here, give them all to you one place,

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Speaker 2: give you a little background about where they came from,

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Speaker 2: what they mean to us, and why we chose them.

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Speaker 2: I say we, but usually Robes. This is a task

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Speaker 2: you usually take on in the morning for Morning run.

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Speaker 2: You pick out the quotes.

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Speaker 3: Yes, it actually began with you, though I should give

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Speaker 3: you credit because you used to post these quotes on

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Speaker 3: your door on every Monday in the GMA studios, and

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Speaker 3: you collected them, had a big old folder full of them.

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Speaker 3: And we have essentially run out of your quotes that

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Speaker 3: you had collected over the years. So now, yes, I

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Speaker 3: have taken on the duties of curating our quotes of

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Speaker 3: the day for our morning run.

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Speaker 2: So you started on Monday with a poet that I

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Speaker 2: wasn't familiar with, but an American poet who had a quote.

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Speaker 2: I think I've heard something similar to this, but I'll

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Speaker 2: let you know what I I'll explain.

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Speaker 1: That in a second.

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Speaker 3: Okay, this is from poet Susie Cassim and the quote

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Speaker 3: of the day was, doubt kills more dreams than failure

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Speaker 3: ever will.

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Speaker 2: Why does that sound familiar because I heard of all people,

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Speaker 2: I heard Spike Lee, but it this way. He told

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Speaker 2: a crowd we were doing an event, and he said

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Speaker 2: it was parents that kill more dreams than anybody else.

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Speaker 2: The idea that sometimes we are trying to guide our

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Speaker 2: kids that you shouldn't do this, We're trying to put

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Speaker 2: them in another direction, and you kill the kids dreams.

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Speaker 2: So when you told me this quote, it's kind of

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Speaker 2: that thing as well. Dreams don't usually die because of failure.

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Speaker 2: They die because of doubt. They died because of something else.

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Speaker 3: And it's a good thing to remember, because I think

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Speaker 3: a lot of us are afraid to fail, and so

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Speaker 3: we don't go after our dreams. But you're right, a

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Speaker 3: lot of us want to steer our kids or ourselves

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Speaker 3: in sensible directions, fuol proof or failure proof directions like

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Speaker 3: you should become a lawyer, or you should get a

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Speaker 3: job where you know you're going to get benefits. You

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Speaker 3: shouldn't be an artist, you shouldn't be a poet. And

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Speaker 3: that's why I love that a poet wrote this, because

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Speaker 3: I'm sure she faced a lot of that. Maybe when

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Speaker 3: People probably doubted her every step of the way. How

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Speaker 3: So I thought that was pretty cool. And anytime we're

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Speaker 3: trying to pursue something new or chase a dream, I

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Speaker 3: think it's so important to remember that if you can

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Speaker 3: just believe in yourself, you might fail a couple of

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Speaker 3: ultimately make it.

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Speaker 2: Because this applighter relationships as well.

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Speaker 3: I think so too. I do, I actually do. Because

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Speaker 3: you doubt someone, you doubt love, you stop trusting someone

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Speaker 3: and that can kill a relationship. But if you just

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Speaker 3: believe and you stay positive, maybe it's going to all

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Speaker 2: Well, thank you Susie Cassim, American poet, for that to

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Speaker 2: The quote of the day on Monday was doubt kills

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Speaker 2: more dreams than the failure ever will.

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Speaker 3: Our next quote of the day comes from is Ernest

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Speaker 3: Hemingway a poet and an author or just an author?

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Speaker 2: I thought author? Yes, maybe comes to mind initially, Yes.

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Speaker 3: He I mean a prolific author, of course, but Ernest

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Speaker 3: Hemingway I loved this because this is something I am

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Speaker 3: haven't conquered it yet, but here was his quote. Worry

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Speaker 3: a little bit every day, and in a lifetime you

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Speaker 3: will lose a couple of years. If something is wrong,

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Speaker 3: fix it if you can, but train yourself not to worry.

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Speaker 3: Worry never fixes anything.

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Speaker 2: This is the key to life, I think. I think

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Speaker 1: Did it happen today?

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Speaker 3: No? Actually, actually no? And where do you worry the most? Like?

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Speaker 3: Where are you in the day? Where are you in

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Speaker 2: That's why I have to have the TV on at

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Speaker 3: When we first started dating, I knew you was a friend,

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Speaker 3: that was a big surprise to me after knowing you

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Speaker 3: for eight years, that you always have to have a

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Speaker 3: I'm telling you, I don't even know if I told

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Speaker 2: But this goes back to Ernest Hemingway worry. So when

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Speaker 2: I get to Okay, got I do this? What if

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Speaker 2: this happens? Then I got to figure this out. I

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Speaker 2: set the alarm. Oh my goodness, that I start the dishwasher, Like.

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Speaker 1: All this is happening.

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Speaker 2: So if the TV is on, I'm painting like something

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Speaker 3: That's wild.

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Speaker 1: It keeps me from talking.

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Speaker 3: It makes sense. That's why I don't like it when

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Speaker 3: But I know, oh, I know, saying nothing is better

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Speaker 2: Sometimes we just brought something up. It's now a relationship

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Speaker 3: Why because you have TV shows, play TV show you

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Speaker 3: freing an iPad? Oh my goodness, I just realized this.

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Speaker 3: fix it if you can, but train yourself not to worry.

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Speaker 2: Next one here on Wednesday, I'm going to do this

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Speaker 2: in the reverse of the way I did it during

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna do it in reverse this time. Okay, So

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Speaker 2: here's the quote, stop letting people who do so little

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Speaker 2: for you control so much of your mind, feelings, and emotions.

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Speaker 2: Can't we all agree with that.

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Speaker 3: So much, so much, And the prolific author of this

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Speaker 3: quote is Will Smith. That's when you started singing, getting

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Speaker 2: That stuff gets in your head. That dude has some

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Speaker 3: And you know what. I loved his book, Oh yeah,

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Speaker 3: I actually that was one of my favorite audiobooks to

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Speaker 3: And this was all before the infamous Night of the Oscars,

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Speaker 3: was reading all the books that you and I have read,

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Speaker 2: Unfortunately, his moment happened in front of a lot of

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Speaker 1: It is such a good book. This is not what

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Speaker 2: give you our last couple of quotes, one from a

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Speaker 3: Welcome back to this Sunday edition of our Morning Ron,

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Speaker 3: the Inspiration Edition, where we go through the quotes of

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Speaker 3: the day, And this one comes from Yes TJ mentioned

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Speaker 3: before the break a football player, someone who even I

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Speaker 2: From football over something a podcast or for pop culture

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Speaker 3: You know him from playing, probably from after he was playing,

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Speaker 3: but jj watk okay, this is what he said, and

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Speaker 3: I love this quote. Success isn't owned its least, and

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Speaker 3: rent is due every day. I think sometimes we get complacent,

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Speaker 3: maybe a little lazy, but if you truly want success,

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Speaker 3: if you truly want to reach a goal, you got

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Speaker 3: to work at it each and every day. It's about

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Speaker 3: I just this quote motivated me to keep working, to

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Speaker 2: You know, didn't you just say something to me today

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Speaker 2: about Wow, I can't wait until we get to this

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Speaker 2: you gotta work hard.

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Speaker 3: I did, and then this quote snapped me right out

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