WEBVTT - Weds Post Show (04-06-22) 0:00:01.200 --> 0:00:05.520 It's time for the Bobby Bones post show. Here's your host, 0:00:06.000 --> 0:00:16.160 Bobby Bones Morgan. Do you want to play this Facebook game? 0:00:16.360 --> 0:00:18.000 Have you sent over? Do you have it ready? Oh? Yeah, 0:00:18.120 --> 0:00:20.079 let me get it. I thought we might get to 0:00:20.079 --> 0:00:21.320 it in the show today and we can run at 0:00:21.360 --> 0:00:24.680 a time. But what happened to me? Oh? That was 0:00:24.680 --> 0:00:29.800 on Mike. Yeah, I went, Oh, I had a been 0:00:29.840 --> 0:00:33.320 down to get my blanket. My shoulder back area just 0:00:33.400 --> 0:00:37.879 has killing me today. What happened? Sleep bad? It's a 0:00:38.080 --> 0:00:41.400 good looking No, I just haven't seen I just it's 0:00:41.440 --> 0:00:44.160 an area that brothers me frequently. It's gotten a lot better, 0:00:44.440 --> 0:00:47.640 but I just haven't seen my chiropractor, and I don't know. 0:00:47.640 --> 0:00:50.479 I was hoping someone here could just fix it. You 0:00:50.479 --> 0:00:53.320 can tell pop you back. I don't know, like anybody 0:00:53.520 --> 0:00:56.120 your arms like this, I can pop you are there 0:00:56.200 --> 0:00:58.319 right now? Do you want it? I mean sure, give 0:00:58.360 --> 0:00:59.959 it to her. Well, the problem is I don't want 0:00:59.920 --> 0:01:02.360 to hurt you because I don't think this is very 0:01:02.600 --> 0:01:07.000 like a super healthy thing. Camera. We're on camera. Well 0:01:07.040 --> 0:01:10.240 we'll go to your okay, right there? Okay, So I 0:01:10.560 --> 0:01:20.840 heard her, Yes, I heard the pop. Dang, guys, was 0:01:20.880 --> 0:01:25.640 it good? Amy? I mean it's it's just gonna need 0:01:25.640 --> 0:01:32.280 a little I know, it's it's just something all right, life. Well, 0:01:32.280 --> 0:01:34.119 I'm sorry that happened to you. Well, that's okay, thank 0:01:34.120 --> 0:01:36.680 you for the pop. You're welcome, um okay, Morgan right 0:01:36.720 --> 0:01:39.480 for the game. Yes, once again. So this is a 0:01:39.520 --> 0:01:42.039 game that Morgan sent you that was like, Hey, people 0:01:42.040 --> 0:01:44.160 can learn about us by these questions. I didn't read 0:01:44.160 --> 0:01:45.240 all the questions that I just thought it was fun. 0:01:45.280 --> 0:01:47.880 How may do you have? Yes, I have five? Okay, 0:01:48.040 --> 0:01:50.760 go ahead with question number one. What are three names 0:01:50.760 --> 0:01:54.880 you go by? M Well, it is let's take our 0:01:54.880 --> 0:01:56.880 real name out of it, like a Bobby Oh you 0:01:56.920 --> 0:02:01.080 take that out? Yeah, because everybody knows that. So Eddie 0:02:01.400 --> 0:02:03.880 usually only calls me bones. It's a good one. I'm 0:02:03.880 --> 0:02:06.240 not gonna say Bobby Bones either, because that's obviouslye bones 0:02:07.520 --> 0:02:12.400 um babe at home. Sometimes I call you that, No, 0:02:12.680 --> 0:02:16.440 you don't. What would the other one? I mean, depending 0:02:16.480 --> 0:02:20.320 on who douchebag Ray calls you? Pimp, Ray does call 0:02:20.360 --> 0:02:22.800 me pimp or like other people in the radio industry 0:02:22.840 --> 0:02:27.080 that don't know me, douchebag. Yeah, that's probably the third 0:02:28.320 --> 0:02:33.959 amy your names? Oh, I would say if I can't say, Amy, 0:02:34.000 --> 0:02:40.320 it'd be like aims AMers or mom. Mom's a good one, Eddie, Yeah, daddy, Uh, 0:02:40.360 --> 0:02:43.800 my wife calls me boots. We call each other boots, 0:02:44.160 --> 0:02:47.840 and then my mom calls me Wowoa Is that Spanish 0:02:47.840 --> 0:02:50.160 for something? I don't know. Maybe because my name is Eduardo, 0:02:50.320 --> 0:02:55.200 maybe it's yeah, yeah, lunchbox, I get that ass stud 0:02:56.440 --> 0:03:00.480 and Um, I can't say the other one is because 0:03:02.440 --> 0:03:05.120 why what could you possibly be called that you can't say? 0:03:05.200 --> 0:03:13.680 Right now, let's rhyme with what big daddy? Okay, well, 0:03:13.880 --> 0:03:18.400 what's the next one? You're nut? What are three places 0:03:18.520 --> 0:03:22.560 that you've lived? Yeah, let me be specific here. I 0:03:24.120 --> 0:03:29.080 Little Rock, Arkansas, Austin, Texas, Nashville, Tennessee. Obviously take him 0:03:29.080 --> 0:03:31.959 a hometown out of that mountain pine, Arkansas, Amy, Austin, Texas, 0:03:32.080 --> 0:03:40.360 Southern Pines, North Carolina, Nashville, Tennessee. Yeah, Eddie McCallan, Texas, Austin, Texas, Nashville, Tennessee, Austin, Texas, 0:03:40.640 --> 0:03:45.720 San Antonio, Texas, Nashville, Tennessee. Sounding football players. I mean, 0:03:45.800 --> 0:03:48.640 we're a very Austin based yea. Yeah, that's where we 0:03:48.680 --> 0:03:50.440 all met and came from. So okay, if he did 0:03:50.520 --> 0:03:53.520 not know that, Morgan. What else Three things you'd love 0:03:53.600 --> 0:03:57.760 to watch on TV? Well, I've been trying to watch 0:03:57.920 --> 0:04:02.440 the John Cena HBO superhero show what's it called The Peacemaker? 0:04:02.720 --> 0:04:06.080 But Kyl and I will spend our hour. We kind 0:04:06.080 --> 0:04:08.440 of dedicate an hour to watching something a couple of 0:04:08.480 --> 0:04:11.480 times a week, and she just is not interested, so 0:04:11.520 --> 0:04:13.360 I don't ever bring it up. We watched something we 0:04:13.440 --> 0:04:15.280 both agree on, although she got a little board lesson 0:04:15.320 --> 0:04:17.560 that with the dropout and she almost wanted to give 0:04:17.640 --> 0:04:20.440 up on it. Oh no, I'm stilling into it. She 0:04:20.640 --> 0:04:22.960 just changed her voice. It's good she's in the closet, 0:04:25.240 --> 0:04:30.480 so that the Peacemaker. I m shows that I am 0:04:30.520 --> 0:04:32.720 not watching her. That don't just that you'd love to 0:04:32.760 --> 0:04:35.080 watch on TV. They could even be repeat shows or 0:04:35.120 --> 0:04:37.080 a movie. What's always good to you? Like The Office? 0:04:37.720 --> 0:04:39.760 I would love to watch all the episodes of the 0:04:40.279 --> 0:04:42.479 Winning Time in the Lakers. That's my favorite shower now, 0:04:42.520 --> 0:04:44.080 but they're not all I know. That's my favorite show 0:04:44.160 --> 0:04:46.080 right now. So that one if we're just picking shows, 0:04:46.240 --> 0:04:48.640 and then you can do sports too, right, like you 0:04:48.720 --> 0:04:51.280 love watching sports on TV? Yeah, but that's not a show. No, 0:04:51.400 --> 0:04:55.960 it's just anything on TV. Yeah, I think sports counts 0:04:55.960 --> 0:04:58.800 because you like to watch it on TV. You say, 0:04:58.880 --> 0:05:01.880 show anything you'd love to watch on TV? Okay, well 0:05:01.880 --> 0:05:05.960 I would watch all you go? I would. I mean 0:05:06.080 --> 0:05:09.440 Friends is always good, any Real Housewives and then true 0:05:09.480 --> 0:05:13.560 crime stuff, Eddie. I love watching golf on TV, black 0:05:13.600 --> 0:05:18.760 and white movies, and I love rom coms, lunchbox sports, 0:05:19.360 --> 0:05:25.839 reality TV like Survivor, The Challenge, anything on MTV. Well, 0:05:25.920 --> 0:05:28.760 you said, you know my nickname, don't you your rhyms 0:05:28.800 --> 0:05:33.840 with Big Daddy? But nothing hyms nothing. He's like, I 0:05:33.960 --> 0:05:36.240 can't say. He's like, I can't think of anything. Go 0:05:38.000 --> 0:05:40.520 what did I say? Are? I said? Reality TV? Sports? 0:05:40.680 --> 0:05:42.600 And I mean I'll just watch comedy. I don't know. 0:05:42.640 --> 0:05:44.120 I don't really have anything. I'm watching right now. I'm 0:05:44.120 --> 0:05:46.480 watching thirty Rock. I thought i'd get specific. Yeah, so 0:05:46.800 --> 0:05:51.640 that's why everybody started going TV guys. Okay, go ahead, 0:05:51.880 --> 0:05:56.560 one more. Three places you you visited before? Just how 0:05:56.560 --> 0:06:00.200 about three places I loved visiting? How about that I'm 0:06:00.240 --> 0:06:03.480 good or I found it interesting. Was in Costa Rica 0:06:03.560 --> 0:06:08.320 for over a month, and the situation was difficult at 0:06:08.320 --> 0:06:11.120 times because I was working, but I really liked being 0:06:11.200 --> 0:06:15.000 down there and learning about that culture. They don't have 0:06:15.040 --> 0:06:17.000 an army, they don't have an army, they have no military. Wow, 0:06:17.200 --> 0:06:23.520 peaceful country. Um, so that was pretty cool. I really 0:06:23.680 --> 0:06:30.720 like Boston when it's not winter. Love Boston, loves of 0:06:30.839 --> 0:06:35.320 people of the city. And then another place I visited 0:06:35.320 --> 0:06:42.640 it I would like to share. It's tough. Been a 0:06:42.680 --> 0:06:44.760 lot of places I know, but like someone I was like, 0:06:44.800 --> 0:06:50.920 you gotta go. Um, what about your honeymoon? Yeah, you 0:06:51.000 --> 0:06:53.480 went to Greece is good. Yeah, I'm just not a 0:06:53.520 --> 0:06:56.240 big If you could go with Caitlin, I would recommend 0:06:56.240 --> 0:06:58.240 you go anywhere, but I'm not a big beach guy. 0:06:58.800 --> 0:07:04.479 Japan are Um, I'm just gonna go with where are 0:07:04.520 --> 0:07:08.680 people like to go that I went, Um, Augusta National 0:07:08.760 --> 0:07:14.080 Course and I've been that's pretty cool. The Masters and 0:07:14.160 --> 0:07:16.600 was awesome, cannot wait, can't can't have a phone in there, 0:07:16.760 --> 0:07:19.280 you can't have it up no phones, so pretty cool. 0:07:19.360 --> 0:07:21.679 And the hot dogs like a dollar. Yeah, everything's old school. 0:07:21.720 --> 0:07:24.600 So those three everyone lot of my answers to be powerful. 0:07:24.640 --> 0:07:27.840 I think I did it amy So I always always 0:07:27.920 --> 0:07:30.640 love going to New York. So that's top of my list, 0:07:30.760 --> 0:07:34.080 and that's easy to get to. Other places that are 0:07:34.120 --> 0:07:38.160 a little bit different. Zowatanejo, Mexico. Oh wow, which is 0:07:38.200 --> 0:07:42.080 the beach at the end of Shawshank Redemption. Yeah yeah, um, 0:07:42.200 --> 0:07:45.760 it's very beautiful. And then Liverpool, England. I went to 0:07:45.840 --> 0:07:49.600 the place where the Beatles first played. Um, I mean 0:07:50.600 --> 0:07:52.760 first played a hole in the wallet played. I don't know, 0:07:52.920 --> 0:07:56.080 because their Liverpool is where my friend was actually going 0:07:56.200 --> 0:07:59.000 to Paul McCartney's School of Performing Arts for college. So 0:07:59.080 --> 0:08:01.680 I went over there for that and we went all 0:08:01.720 --> 0:08:05.120 around Liverpool, like to check out different historical things with 0:08:05.240 --> 0:08:10.760 the Beatles, the Cavern club Cavern. That's yeah, good memory. Oh, Eddie. 0:08:11.080 --> 0:08:17.440 I love Hawaii, I love Puerto Rico, and I love Deston, Florida. Okay, 0:08:17.520 --> 0:08:22.119 those are my three places. It's easy. Las Vegas amazing, great, 0:08:22.320 --> 0:08:25.560 go all the time. San Francisco was really cool. Yeah, 0:08:25.840 --> 0:08:28.360 and I will say now that Eddie said Puerto Rico, 0:08:28.400 --> 0:08:30.240 I will say Puerto Rico also because I did love 0:08:30.240 --> 0:08:32.559 Puerto Rico. Puerto Rico. I don't really go many places, 0:08:32.640 --> 0:08:34.719 so those are the places I've been. I'm in I 0:08:34.760 --> 0:08:36.599 think two weeks or so. Our show we heard in 0:08:36.640 --> 0:08:39.000 San Francisco, San Jose, San Francisco the whole Bay area. 0:08:39.160 --> 0:08:41.920 That's so cool. Um yeah, I got a message like, hey, Alcatraz, 0:08:42.760 --> 0:08:44.960 I don't know if there's no one in there. Yeah, 0:08:44.960 --> 0:08:46.880 there's work in Scubas Pump because you have munch family 0:08:46.920 --> 0:08:48.400 over there. High School Bay. Oh yeah, I lived there 0:08:48.440 --> 0:08:50.280 for a while. My wife's family lives in San Francisco, 0:08:50.360 --> 0:08:52.280 the East Bay. All that. Is that good for you 0:08:52.400 --> 0:08:55.280 or bad for you? Um? Well, it's it's a combination 0:08:55.280 --> 0:08:56.439 of both. Because when I used to live there on 0:08:56.480 --> 0:08:58.760 the radio, Oh, I would always get texts about things 0:08:58.800 --> 0:09:00.959 we were talking about, and I did get in trouble 0:09:00.960 --> 0:09:03.839 a lot. So we've had to come up with some 0:09:04.360 --> 0:09:07.319 ways to not do that anymore. Ground rules, yeah, ground rules. Yeah, well, 0:09:07.400 --> 0:09:09.200 but what are the rules? I would say though, now, 0:09:09.400 --> 0:09:12.640 even two years separated, if someone wants to hear our show, 0:09:12.720 --> 0:09:16.120 it's so easy to listen to it online. You know. 0:09:16.559 --> 0:09:18.400 I would just think if your family wanted to hear 0:09:18.480 --> 0:09:20.400 the show, they just hit a button on the phone. 0:09:20.520 --> 0:09:22.920 But they're more old school. They're old Filipino ladies and 0:09:23.000 --> 0:09:24.880 they don't hit the button on any phone. They're listening 0:09:24.880 --> 0:09:27.920 to the radio only well, they through the channels and 0:09:28.000 --> 0:09:30.120 find you. Yeah, I told them the frequencies so they'll 0:09:30.120 --> 0:09:31.440 be able to listen to us because it so we're 0:09:31.440 --> 0:09:33.600 broadcasting out a San Jose and then there's a pickup 0:09:33.880 --> 0:09:36.000 in the East Bay, so that it expands our our 0:09:36.080 --> 0:09:38.280 reach from pretty much all of the Bay area, South 0:09:38.320 --> 0:09:40.360 Bay and North Bay, East Bay. Yeah, it's a. It's a. 0:09:40.440 --> 0:09:43.079 It's pretty cool. So Scuba gets to go home everyone. 0:09:43.080 --> 0:09:44.360 I first got put on a little rock. I went 0:09:44.440 --> 0:09:47.079 as King of the Hill. It was awesome. I was like, 0:09:47.120 --> 0:09:48.760 I can't believe people at home get to actually hear 0:09:48.960 --> 0:09:50.880 hear the show. Yeah, that's pretty cool, pretty cool. It's 0:09:50.880 --> 0:09:53.360 pretty cool for the show. Definitely. Um, and we're we're 0:09:53.400 --> 0:09:55.840 all thankful to Alpha Media for picking up our show 0:09:55.960 --> 0:09:58.800 and you know, putting us on and you know, being 0:09:58.800 --> 0:10:00.839 a really cool partner. So there you go, Bobby. Do 0:10:00.880 --> 0:10:03.080 you ever get tattled on like people in Oklahoma listen 0:10:03.120 --> 0:10:07.560 and text Kaitlin? No listeners do, okay, and they don't 0:10:07.559 --> 0:10:09.640 even tell his stories that are true, and it pisses 0:10:09.679 --> 0:10:11.800 me off. Oh way to bring that up because they'll 0:10:11.800 --> 0:10:13.360 be like, I'm sorry, did you know he did this? 0:10:13.480 --> 0:10:15.199 Or did you know four years ago before you met 0:10:15.320 --> 0:10:17.760 him he did And I'm like get shut up. There's 0:10:17.800 --> 0:10:19.720 no need for you to message my wife about something 0:10:19.920 --> 0:10:22.160 that I said four years ago that doesn't affect anything 0:10:22.440 --> 0:10:25.079 except it's just gonna be something. She's like, yeah, I 0:10:25.080 --> 0:10:27.679 got this message, did you say? And I'm just like, 0:10:28.040 --> 0:10:31.199 shut up, there's no need to do that. Yeah. That's 0:10:31.200 --> 0:10:32.880 why she's even on Instagram for most of the time. 0:10:33.040 --> 0:10:35.800 That's why her comments are off because people just jerks. 0:10:36.559 --> 0:10:39.760 So anyway, um, all right, I'm sorry I brought up 0:10:39.800 --> 0:10:42.719 a bit about that. No, I just well, school was 0:10:42.720 --> 0:10:45.040 talking about getting tatled on, so I mean I thought 0:10:45.080 --> 0:10:48.440 it was a good relatable subject to Bobby, and it is. Yeah, 0:10:49.080 --> 0:10:51.000 the fear of being without your phone makes you a 0:10:51.080 --> 0:10:55.160 more dangerous driver. People with severe nomophobia are eighty five 0:10:55.200 --> 0:10:57.160 percent more likely to pick up their devices while behind 0:10:57.200 --> 0:11:00.000 the wheel. If I drive in Kaitlin's with me, would 0:11:00.120 --> 0:11:02.360 just a decent amount of time. I just give her 0:11:02.400 --> 0:11:03.559 my phone because I try not to be on my 0:11:03.600 --> 0:11:05.920 phone when I text or when I drive, and so 0:11:06.120 --> 0:11:07.360 I just give it to her so I know there's 0:11:07.360 --> 0:11:09.240 no option or me to grab it. But while she 0:11:09.440 --> 0:11:12.320 has it in my head, I start to romanticize all 0:11:12.360 --> 0:11:13.959 the cool things happening on my phone right then, I'm like, 0:11:14.000 --> 0:11:17.160 I'll betch I'm getting some good text right now. I'll 0:11:17.200 --> 0:11:19.440 bet you on Twitter right now there's some good amphobia 0:11:19.559 --> 0:11:21.040 breaking that I can't even be a part of the car. 0:11:21.559 --> 0:11:23.199 It's just there. And then I pick it up after 0:11:23.280 --> 0:11:25.000 like a twenty five minute ride. Don't get one freaking text. 0:11:25.080 --> 0:11:27.880 Twitter sucks, but it the whole time, I'm imagining all 0:11:27.920 --> 0:11:29.920 the amazing things that are happening on my phone right now. 0:11:30.120 --> 0:11:33.520 Probably got some awesome dms and sure so, but do 0:11:33.520 --> 0:11:35.280 you ever look around when you're driving and just see 0:11:35.360 --> 0:11:37.360 everybody on their phone? Yeah, like, I mean you look, 0:11:37.480 --> 0:11:40.000 It's amazing how many people are on their phone. And 0:11:40.120 --> 0:11:41.920 sometimes if somebody like swerves a little bit, oh, I 0:11:41.960 --> 0:11:43.360 don't think they're drunk anymore. You just think it on 0:11:43.400 --> 0:11:46.120 their phone. Correct. The only time that I will grab 0:11:46.240 --> 0:11:47.839 my phone, and I don't don't do my kalns in 0:11:47.840 --> 0:11:49.280 the car. But I told you, at a red light, 0:11:49.360 --> 0:11:52.760 i'll grab my phone if I try my but I 0:11:52.880 --> 0:11:54.719 tell you this, I don't. I don't even do that 0:11:54.760 --> 0:11:57.000 anymore hardly, only because I try my notications off so 0:11:57.040 --> 0:11:59.559 I don't hear the boom. So but if I do 0:11:59.760 --> 0:12:01.720 some times if I'm sitting there and I'm like looking 0:12:01.800 --> 0:12:04.360 real quick, I'll get a honk and I oh sorry, 0:12:04.720 --> 0:12:05.959 I'll put it back down in the drive so I 0:12:05.960 --> 0:12:07.400 will look out a little bit when I'm stopped, but 0:12:07.400 --> 0:12:09.880 I get that hank. The other thing that is scary 0:12:09.920 --> 0:12:12.120 when you drive if you're not fully paying attention and 0:12:12.240 --> 0:12:13.640 that car to the left of you is in that 0:12:13.720 --> 0:12:15.800 turn lane and it gets a green arrow to go, 0:12:15.920 --> 0:12:18.160 and you think that's everybody's going because you're like, oh god, 0:12:19.200 --> 0:12:23.520 And because you're not fully paying attention, that'll get you too. Uh. 0:12:23.880 --> 0:12:26.559 Let's see. I have a game, one more game we 0:12:26.600 --> 0:12:29.760 can play. It's the game is called its Framy Alive. 0:12:31.080 --> 0:12:33.800 We're not Alive. And I thought we we were gonna 0:12:33.800 --> 0:12:35.000 play this on the air. It seemed a little too 0:12:35.040 --> 0:12:38.640 morbid for that crew. We have the people that listen 0:12:38.720 --> 0:12:42.240 Live and only Alive. They're a surface. You know, they're 0:12:42.280 --> 0:12:44.880 not in they're not is into the cold as we are, 0:12:45.120 --> 0:12:47.240 and as you guys are that listen to this. You 0:12:47.320 --> 0:12:49.960 know we're at this point. You're listening to us. You're 0:12:49.960 --> 0:12:52.560 watching a Facebook you listen to the podcast like we're 0:12:52.600 --> 0:12:55.240 the deep Down team. We got you, you got us 0:12:55.600 --> 0:12:58.080 this game is not for the people that listen live 0:12:58.120 --> 0:13:00.280 at six twenty two in the morning. You know, Yeah, 0:13:00.679 --> 0:13:08.719 Amy alive or not alive? Hank Williams Junior alive? You 0:13:08.800 --> 0:13:17.880 have a clip ran that. Wow, I'm glad we didn't 0:13:17.880 --> 0:13:20.440 do this on the air. Okay. Look Hank Williams Junior, 0:13:21.200 --> 0:13:26.120 seventy two years old and I said that. Yeah, Brenda Lee, 0:13:26.280 --> 0:13:30.880 who has this song right here fucking around Christmas Tree. 0:13:31.160 --> 0:13:37.079 As you think Brenda Lee has passed aways, deceased, Brenda 0:13:37.160 --> 0:13:40.640 Lee is alive. I think she lives here probably listening, listening. 0:13:40.840 --> 0:13:43.960 She loves near me. We see her sometimes. Yeah, seventy seven. 0:13:45.160 --> 0:13:47.480 I saw her a fundraiser. Pretty amazing. She was like, 0:13:47.760 --> 0:13:51.000 tell Amy, I'm still kicking. I forgot to tell you. 0:13:51.160 --> 0:13:57.400 You got that right. Kirk Douglas, Captain Kirk, Oh, my capy, 0:13:57.480 --> 0:14:01.559 Kirk's fictional. Okay, so he'll always be alive, that's true, 0:14:02.200 --> 0:14:06.199 Kirk Douglas. Uh, rest in peace, Kirk. Do you know 0:14:06.200 --> 0:14:09.760 who he is? No, he is Michael Douglas's dad. Looks 0:14:09.760 --> 0:14:11.480 just like him. He died. He died a one hundred 0:14:11.480 --> 0:14:14.880 and three years old and twenty twenty. Wow. John Connery, 0:14:15.360 --> 0:14:18.319 Oh he died, Yeah, not alive Sean Connery. Why do 0:14:18.440 --> 0:14:20.640 we say not alive? Lived until? Is it less harsh 0:14:20.680 --> 0:14:23.280 than dead? That's written here? Not alive? John Connery's dead 0:14:23.400 --> 0:14:26.040 is reading our because the game is called alive or 0:14:26.080 --> 0:14:29.600 not alive? Wow? Yeah, I just thought alive or dead. 0:14:31.200 --> 0:14:32.800 I guess you would say dead or alive. They were 0:14:32.800 --> 0:14:35.680 gonna use those two, like bon Jovi wanted dead or alive, 0:14:35.760 --> 0:14:40.800 like the Old Posters. Dick Van Dyke m rest in 0:14:40.880 --> 0:14:44.680 Peace ninety six years old and alive alive has a 0:14:44.760 --> 0:14:48.240 wife that's like forty five or fifteen. No way good 0:14:48.280 --> 0:14:51.400 for him. I saw him in Disneyland one time, like 0:14:51.440 --> 0:14:56.000 when I was in high school. Larry King alive, not alive? 0:14:56.280 --> 0:14:59.520 Oh when did he die? Last year? At A seven? Yeah? Okay, 0:14:59.520 --> 0:15:05.120 I remember Bob Barker. Oh m hmm, gosh. I know 0:15:05.240 --> 0:15:08.120 he's retired but he died. But did he retire of life? 0:15:09.160 --> 0:15:11.720 He's alive. He's ninety eight. Oh, emmy, you're just killing people. 0:15:13.560 --> 0:15:15.320 Little Richard. And here's a clip of one of a 0:15:15.320 --> 0:15:18.840 Little Richard's hits. Wab bab bloom mom, lamp bump bump bo. 0:15:19.480 --> 0:15:23.200 He's alive, not alive eighty seven years old. Twenty twenty 0:15:24.480 --> 0:15:34.960 dang COVID President Jimmy Carter um hold on Obama, Bush, Biden. 0:15:35.320 --> 0:15:37.680 Jimmy Carter is one of the four presidents that are 0:15:37.720 --> 0:15:42.680 currently alive ninety seven years old and alive. Oh yeah, 0:15:42.920 --> 0:15:45.000 thank you. There you go. All right, let's see there's 0:15:45.000 --> 0:15:46.480 a game. That's why we didn't play it on the air. 0:15:48.800 --> 0:15:50.880 We tried, but and then you start to feel sad, 0:15:50.920 --> 0:15:53.560 and then then you're like you start to question your 0:15:53.600 --> 0:15:57.600 own mortality. Am I alive? I'm talking about this input 0:15:59.080 --> 0:16:04.040 last night. I'm already halfway. The average life's expectancy is 0:16:04.080 --> 0:16:06.400 seventy eight and a half and I just turned forty one. 0:16:06.560 --> 0:16:10.280 Like we're already halfway through our lives. Yeah, like a 0:16:10.320 --> 0:16:12.920 long time. You know, everyone always says like life is short, 0:16:13.440 --> 0:16:15.040 and I was always like, oh okay, wee will just 0:16:15.120 --> 0:16:17.800 say that. I'm with you, Amy. I've just finally like 0:16:18.040 --> 0:16:20.720 thought it, like, wow, it's where our time is running out? 0:16:20.720 --> 0:16:22.640 Do you not remember this whole situation I walked you 0:16:22.680 --> 0:16:25.160 guys through weeks ago. Yeah, when we're gonna go back 0:16:25.200 --> 0:16:29.520 down this path, but refresh my memory. If you a 0:16:29.640 --> 0:16:34.800 tortoise who's been around here for centuries. It's the big 0:16:34.840 --> 0:16:37.920 old turtle. Yeah, they live for hundreds of years. They 0:16:37.960 --> 0:16:39.840 would look at us and go, that's a short life 0:16:39.840 --> 0:16:43.200 that humans live. We look at a fruit fly, oh yeah, 0:16:43.240 --> 0:16:45.000 and we go a fruit fly list for a day, like, 0:16:45.080 --> 0:16:49.080 that's a short skip it, we got it, we got it. 0:16:49.880 --> 0:16:54.160 Hey man, it's all back and a fruit fly who 0:16:54.240 --> 0:16:58.120 lives a day. Yeah, that is the total length of 0:16:58.200 --> 0:17:00.440 their lives. So they feel like that's long, know, but 0:17:00.520 --> 0:17:05.600 they're not right, nor are we tortoises right right? So 0:17:05.720 --> 0:17:09.600 what's my point is that life is both long and 0:17:09.800 --> 0:17:13.880 short depending on the perspective. I know, let's now I'm 0:17:13.880 --> 0:17:15.800 starting to be shorter to you because you're getting near 0:17:15.840 --> 0:17:19.240 the end of it our life expectancy. No, I'm live forever, 0:17:19.960 --> 0:17:24.080 but you're not. You ever see Peter Band, You're not him. 0:17:25.440 --> 0:17:29.639 So my point is, and I'll say it again, that 0:17:29.840 --> 0:17:34.400 life is not short or long. Life is just from 0:17:34.480 --> 0:17:37.520 the perspective of things that live longer and shorter than you. 0:17:37.960 --> 0:17:40.520 But also then there's the perspective, which is what I 0:17:40.680 --> 0:17:44.119 was bringing up in therapy, was that like are we 0:17:45.000 --> 0:17:47.879 like are you living like you might be alive? Because 0:17:47.880 --> 0:17:50.280 like my pastor recently shared a quote from Mark Twain, 0:17:50.400 --> 0:17:55.280 which is most men die at twenty seven, we bury 0:17:55.400 --> 0:17:59.280 them at seventy two. So like, some people are die, 0:17:59.480 --> 0:18:03.000 like literally dying, but like you're not living this full 0:18:03.119 --> 0:18:05.280 life and you just kind of like shut down because 0:18:05.320 --> 0:18:08.040 of certain things and you're not living to your full potential. 0:18:08.240 --> 0:18:10.480 And then you know, all these years go by and 0:18:10.560 --> 0:18:14.440 then you actually are dead. And I've just been thinking 0:18:14.480 --> 0:18:17.240 about that and I'm like, am I living? My response 0:18:17.320 --> 0:18:19.640 would be, You're absolutely living. And I'm gonna tell you why. 0:18:19.760 --> 0:18:21.520 I know, if you go out no, no, I'm I'm 0:18:21.560 --> 0:18:23.320 talking about that. But if you go out every single 0:18:23.440 --> 0:18:24.760 day and go balls to the wall, and I'm gonna 0:18:24.760 --> 0:18:28.000 live in my life and be the great that you're 0:18:28.040 --> 0:18:30.760 stretching yourself so thin and you're doing things that normal 0:18:30.800 --> 0:18:32.320 people don't do every day, and that's why norm people 0:18:32.320 --> 0:18:33.960 get to live longer, because they're not jumping out of 0:18:33.960 --> 0:18:36.280 planes every day. You start doing this bull crap. It's like, 0:18:36.320 --> 0:18:38.480 I just want to live. You're probably gonna die. You're 0:18:38.480 --> 0:18:41.240 probably gonna die a lot sooner because of all of 0:18:41.280 --> 0:18:44.480 that extra living. Right, So, in grand total, if you 0:18:44.600 --> 0:18:48.280 live to be seventy five or seventy two or seventy, 0:18:48.400 --> 0:18:50.320 all the little times that you feel really like you've 0:18:50.359 --> 0:18:53.400 really lived, and you, I don't know that I've lived 0:18:53.400 --> 0:18:55.160 because they've been little moments. You had all them together, 0:18:55.160 --> 0:18:56.919 You've probably lived way more than the twenty seven year 0:18:56.920 --> 0:18:58.600 old who had there's a great life who died early. 0:18:59.400 --> 0:19:01.200 So don't look at it like that. Well, I'm no, 0:19:01.359 --> 0:19:03.840 I don't need a Well you heard the question. It 0:19:03.920 --> 0:19:05.720 inspired you. I'm not even pepp talking you. I'm just 0:19:05.720 --> 0:19:07.280 saying you can love to be seventy five and feel 0:19:07.280 --> 0:19:09.520 like am I even living? But yes, you've had brief 0:19:10.080 --> 0:19:14.359 in middle sized moments of living that you're probably happy 0:19:14.440 --> 0:19:16.040 you didn't go balls to the wall. Yeah, I'm not 0:19:16.119 --> 0:19:17.440 trying to go balls to the wall, and I don't 0:19:17.440 --> 0:19:20.159 want to jump out of planes or off cliffs and 0:19:20.280 --> 0:19:23.879 stuff by any means. But it's just like sometimes just 0:19:24.119 --> 0:19:29.240 internally and like making sure that there's there's beauty and 0:19:29.359 --> 0:19:31.280 the small things and like that I can really get 0:19:31.359 --> 0:19:32.879 joy from the small thing. It doesn't have to be 0:19:33.040 --> 0:19:38.040 this biggest extravagant like facing fear and life event. But 0:19:38.200 --> 0:19:40.679 like in the day to day, in the mundane, am 0:19:40.720 --> 0:19:43.920 I taking it in? Am I? Or am I kind 0:19:43.960 --> 0:19:46.639 of sometimes just like dead inside. But I'm also going 0:19:46.720 --> 0:19:48.800 to give you a perspective of I think it's just 0:19:48.960 --> 0:19:51.880 a point in your life when regardless of what you're living, 0:19:51.960 --> 0:19:54.200 if you are taking it all in or you're not, 0:19:54.440 --> 0:19:56.840 you're going to find what you're not doing and start 0:19:56.880 --> 0:19:58.440 to go, I wish I was doing that? Am I 0:19:58.560 --> 0:20:00.200 even living? It doesn't matter if you're take in the 0:20:00.240 --> 0:20:02.439 little things, the big things, whatever you're not, you're going 0:20:02.480 --> 0:20:03.720 to feel like I don't feel like I'm getting my 0:20:03.800 --> 0:20:06.960 full potential. So this is a common thing to people 0:20:07.040 --> 0:20:09.760 who live that life, like should I not live my 0:20:09.800 --> 0:20:11.320 life is crazy? And like settle down and have kids 0:20:11.359 --> 0:20:13.840 and get that part of it, you know, the the mundane, 0:20:14.080 --> 0:20:16.840 Like I'm missing the mundane that everyone has and they 0:20:16.920 --> 0:20:21.080 get to benefit from these long term relationships that every 0:20:21.119 --> 0:20:23.040 day is not fun. There's a bunch of crab you 0:20:23.119 --> 0:20:26.240 get in the minutia of this is the same crab. 0:20:26.760 --> 0:20:29.240 But people who don't go through that want that I know, 0:20:29.400 --> 0:20:32.040 and people who go through that don't want that. Correct. 0:20:32.080 --> 0:20:34.639 So regardless of where you are, when you hit a point, 0:20:34.880 --> 0:20:37.440 you're going to just feel like that anyway. So it's 0:20:37.560 --> 0:20:42.400 knowing that this feeling is common. It's okay. You try 0:20:42.440 --> 0:20:44.680 to make yourself better by about six percent, but you 0:20:44.800 --> 0:20:46.159 kind of are who you are at this point, and 0:20:46.200 --> 0:20:48.160 you should appreciate the things you are doing, and you're 0:20:48.200 --> 0:20:51.320 doing well, and you're always living well whatever you are. 0:20:51.600 --> 0:20:54.520 It's it's like the grass is always greener. It's with everything. 0:20:54.600 --> 0:20:56.720 I learned that traveling, like you know, I used to 0:20:56.760 --> 0:20:58.400 when I was younger. I'm like, oh, travel, I want 0:20:58.400 --> 0:21:00.200 to travel and see the world. And then when you're 0:21:00.240 --> 0:21:02.439 there for longer than like two weeks, you start realizing 0:21:02.480 --> 0:21:04.800 this is just a place two days for you, two 0:21:04.880 --> 0:21:07.679 days everybody? Are you going for two weeks? Yeah? I'm 0:21:07.720 --> 0:21:11.840 bloody how long it was making people that live there 0:21:11.880 --> 0:21:14.000 are just living the same life you are, just in 0:21:14.119 --> 0:21:17.080 a different environment. People will go to where I'm from 0:21:17.119 --> 0:21:20.480