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Speaker 1: It's time for the Bobby Bones post show. Here's your host,

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Speaker 1: Bobby Bones Morgan. Do you want to play this Facebook game?

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Speaker 1: Have you sent over? Do you have it ready? Oh? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: let me get it. I thought we might get to

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Speaker 1: it in the show today and we can run at

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Speaker 1: a time. But what happened to me? Oh? That was

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Speaker 1: on Mike. Yeah, I went, Oh, I had a been

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Speaker 1: down to get my blanket. My shoulder back area just

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Speaker 1: has killing me today. What happened? Sleep bad? It's a

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Speaker 1: good looking No, I just haven't seen I just it's

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Speaker 1: an area that brothers me frequently. It's gotten a lot better,

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Speaker 1: but I just haven't seen my chiropractor, and I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I was hoping someone here could just fix it. You

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Speaker 1: can tell pop you back. I don't know, like anybody

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Speaker 1: your arms like this, I can pop you are there

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Speaker 1: right now? Do you want it? I mean sure, give

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Speaker 1: it to her. Well, the problem is I don't want

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Speaker 1: to hurt you because I don't think this is very

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Speaker 1: like a super healthy thing. Camera. We're on camera. Well

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Speaker 1: we'll go to your okay, right there? Okay, So I

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Speaker 1: heard her, Yes, I heard the pop. Dang, guys, was

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Speaker 1: it good? Amy? I mean it's it's just gonna need

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Speaker 1: a little I know, it's it's just something all right, life. Well,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry that happened to you. Well, that's okay, thank

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Speaker 1: you for the pop. You're welcome, um okay, Morgan right

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Speaker 1: for the game. Yes, once again. So this is a

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Speaker 1: game that Morgan sent you that was like, Hey, people

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Speaker 1: can learn about us by these questions. I didn't read

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Speaker 1: all the questions that I just thought it was fun.

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Speaker 1: How may do you have? Yes, I have five? Okay,

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Speaker 1: go ahead with question number one. What are three names

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Speaker 1: you go by? M Well, it is let's take our

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Speaker 1: real name out of it, like a Bobby Oh you

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Speaker 1: take that out? Yeah, because everybody knows that. So Eddie

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Speaker 1: usually only calls me bones. It's a good one. I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna say Bobby Bones either, because that's obviouslye bones

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Speaker 1: um babe at home. Sometimes I call you that, No,

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Speaker 1: you don't. What would the other one? I mean, depending

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Speaker 1: on who douchebag Ray calls you? Pimp, Ray does call

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Speaker 1: me pimp or like other people in the radio industry

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Speaker 1: that don't know me, douchebag. Yeah, that's probably the third

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Speaker 1: amy your names? Oh, I would say if I can't say, Amy,

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Speaker 1: it'd be like aims AMers or mom. Mom's a good one, Eddie, Yeah, daddy, Uh,

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Speaker 1: my wife calls me boots. We call each other boots,

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Speaker 1: and then my mom calls me Wowoa Is that Spanish

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Speaker 1: for something? I don't know. Maybe because my name is Eduardo,

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Speaker 1: maybe it's yeah, yeah, lunchbox, I get that ass stud

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Speaker 1: and Um, I can't say the other one is because

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Speaker 1: why what could you possibly be called that you can't say?

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Speaker 1: Right now, let's rhyme with what big daddy? Okay, well,

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Speaker 1: what's the next one? You're nut? What are three places

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Speaker 1: that you've lived? Yeah, let me be specific here. I

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Speaker 1: Little Rock, Arkansas, Austin, Texas, Nashville, Tennessee. Obviously take him

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Speaker 1: a hometown out of that mountain pine, Arkansas, Amy, Austin, Texas,

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Speaker 1: Southern Pines, North Carolina, Nashville, Tennessee. Yeah, Eddie McCallan, Texas, Austin, Texas, Nashville, Tennessee, Austin, Texas,

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Speaker 1: we're a very Austin based yea. Yeah, that's where we

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Speaker 1: all met and came from. So okay, if he did

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Speaker 1: not know that, Morgan. What else Three things you'd love

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Speaker 1: to watch on TV? Well, I've been trying to watch

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Speaker 1: the John Cena HBO superhero show what's it called The Peacemaker?

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Speaker 1: But Kyl and I will spend our hour. We kind

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Speaker 1: I don't ever bring it up. We watched something we

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Speaker 1: so that the Peacemaker. I m shows that I am

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Speaker 1: not watching her. That don't just that you'd love to

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Speaker 1: a movie. What's always good to you? Like The Office?

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Speaker 1: Winning Time in the Lakers. That's my favorite shower now,

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Speaker 1: I would watch all you go? I would. I mean

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Speaker 1: Friends is always good, any Real Housewives and then true

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Speaker 1: one more. Three places you you visited before? Just how

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Speaker 1: I love Hawaii, I love Puerto Rico, and I love Deston, Florida. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Puerto Rico. Puerto Rico. I don't really go many places,

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Speaker 1: That's so cool. Um yeah, I got a message like, hey, Alcatraz,

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Speaker 1: it's so easy to listen to it online. You know.

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Speaker 1: That's why her comments are off because people just jerks.

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Speaker 1: more dangerous driver. People with severe nomophobia are eighty five

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Speaker 1: And I earmarked and highlighted this one sentence that says,

419
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Speaker 1: I want to live with an extremely low bar for delight,

420
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Speaker 1: like being a person that's easily delighted in the small things.

421
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Speaker 1: And I think that that takes intention. I don't want

422
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Speaker 1: to be easily delighted. I wanted something to blow me away.

423
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Speaker 1: I don't want a candy bar to be like, oh

424
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Speaker 1: my god, I mean I do. I want the candy

425
00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:30,160
Speaker 1: bar to blow me away, like I'm gonna be like wow,

426
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Speaker 1: this is expectations and then meet them myself and also

427
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Speaker 1: have them met um at a semi frequency. But sometimes

428
00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:42,000
Speaker 1: I believe if I'm not meeting the expectations to give,

429
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Speaker 1: I shouldn't. I shouldn't be expecting on the other side,

430
00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:47,600
Speaker 1: and they're not always met um, But I don't. I

431
00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:49,800
Speaker 1: don't want to be delighted at every small thing. Yeah,

432
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Speaker 1: I mean, the only way you're gonna have that happens

433
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Speaker 1: if you lock yourself in a house for a year

434
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Speaker 1: and then come out and the world's changed so much

435
00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:57,480
Speaker 1: and you're seeing stuff for the first time. That's I

436
00:22:57,480 --> 00:23:00,000
Speaker 1: don't that's not true. I think I can. I can't

437
00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:02,480
Speaker 1: in why are my brain in this way? And it

438
00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:05,960
Speaker 1: doesn't mean that I don't have other feelings and emotions

439
00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:09,760
Speaker 1: of pain and suffering, But that also helps mold me

440
00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:14,200
Speaker 1: into things. I can still be purposeful about small delightful things. Yes,

441
00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:16,680
Speaker 1: I think I don't want to lower the bar, which

442
00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:20,080
Speaker 1: is an over kind of an overarching everything is more delightful.

443
00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:22,280
Speaker 1: But I think there are certain areas that you can

444
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Speaker 1: appreciate things a little more that maybe you've been taking

445
00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:28,359
Speaker 1: for granted. I mean you, I mean in general, because

446
00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:30,760
Speaker 1: I do that too. There are areas that I have

447
00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:34,919
Speaker 1: to go and I shouldn't like, have such an expectation

448
00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:40,720
Speaker 1: and I shouldn't not be enjoying or learning from this. Yeah,

449
00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:46,840
Speaker 1: not a bar, but certain areas where I lack expectations

450
00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:50,760
Speaker 1: can be tricky. They're necessary in some cases, but other

451
00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:53,720
Speaker 1: times if you have expectations out there, they could like

452
00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:57,920
Speaker 1: and you're holding too tightly to it and not in

453
00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:03,920
Speaker 1: specific cases, it can be just expectations can be future resentments, sure,

454
00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:08,480
Speaker 1: but expectations also are how you people meet your goals.

455
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:11,240
Speaker 1: So it's people, it's kind of people. But but again,

456
00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:13,200
Speaker 1: I have expectations for people, right, They're always going to

457
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:16,680
Speaker 1: let you down. Yes, by my point, I don't think

458
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Speaker 1: there's a universal rule there now, but there's and there's

459
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Speaker 1: not a right answer because with humans, some of my

460
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:26,600
Speaker 1: best friends have come from expectations and they don't meet

461
00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:28,880
Speaker 1: every expectation in every category. Right. I have some people

462
00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:31,680
Speaker 1: that are awesome and they suck in certain areas. But

463
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:35,080
Speaker 1: I kind of know that at this point, and Kaitlin

464
00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:36,840
Speaker 1: talks about that too, She's like, I know who this

465
00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:38,840
Speaker 1: person is and I love them for all this stuff,

466
00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:40,560
Speaker 1: and they lack in this category. So I don't have

467
00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:42,440
Speaker 1: a high expectation here, but I have a high expectation

468
00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:44,720
Speaker 1: of life and how our friendship is and what we're

469
00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:46,560
Speaker 1: going to invest in each other. So again, I don't

470
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Speaker 1: think there's a universal expectation that you can require or seek,

471
00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 1: but I do. I think expectations are amazing. I have

472
00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:57,200
Speaker 1: high expectations on myself. I have high expectations on my

473
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Speaker 1: wife and my close friends and then always me and

474
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Speaker 1: I don't always meet them. But I think you don't

475
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:05,480
Speaker 1: actually reap the greatest reward unless you do have those expectations.

476
00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:07,879
Speaker 1: Otherwise it's like, well, let's just see what happens, and

477
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:09,440
Speaker 1: if it's not good, No, I want the best and

478
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:10,920
Speaker 1: I want to give the best, but if it's but

479
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:13,560
Speaker 1: if it's not good, then you love them anyway. That's

480
00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:15,760
Speaker 1: the beauty of not having the expectation. Yes, but the

481
00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:19,520
Speaker 1: expectations create even a greater love. But you're setting yourself

482
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:21,680
Speaker 1: up for that's loser talk. I'm gonna let you down.

483
00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:23,960
Speaker 1: I don't think that's loser talk. I think that there's

484
00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:28,639
Speaker 1: different categories of expectation. There's there's that's what they're talking to.

485
00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:30,760
Speaker 1: Not set an expectation because you don't want to be

486
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Speaker 1: let down. That's like not a loser. That's like not

487
00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:34,880
Speaker 1: trying because you don't want to fail. That's loser talk.

488
00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:37,640
Speaker 1: And sometimes you fail like I don't I don't want

489
00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:38,960
Speaker 1: to fail something, I'm going to do it. How is

490
00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,320
Speaker 1: that a friendship thing? Like, well, it's any friendship is

491
00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:44,119
Speaker 1: in competition, No, but it's just when you work toward

492
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:46,119
Speaker 1: and you grow and you have to put time in

493
00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:49,200
Speaker 1: and get better at for sure, is like you become

494
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:51,000
Speaker 1: a better friend of Bobby because you're on time now

495
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 1: like you used to be able to know you used

496
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Speaker 1: to let him down in that category about being on

497
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Speaker 1: time and now you're not. Yeah, and I try to

498
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Speaker 1: value your family time and make sure you have what

499
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Speaker 1: you need. I didn't know that, but we've grown to

500
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:04,480
Speaker 1: understand and appreciate that. Sure, So to go I don't

501
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:07,480
Speaker 1: want to set an expectation because I don't want to

502
00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:10,480
Speaker 1: be let down is like going I don't want to

503
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Speaker 1: try because I don't want to fail. You're gonna be

504
00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:14,920
Speaker 1: let down. You're also going to fail, But that doesn't

505
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Speaker 1: mean you shouldn't try instead of and put a goal

506
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Speaker 1: out there. So I'm a big believer in expectations now,

507
00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:22,239
Speaker 1: isn't that? But you're not gonna get the greatest out

508
00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 1: of anything unless you have high expectations. That's weird. But

509
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 1: that's just that's how our personalities are. Just weird. It's different.

510
00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:30,280
Speaker 1: Our personalities are completely different in that way. And I

511
00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:32,159
Speaker 1: would say I'm somewhere in the middle of that, like

512
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:35,840
Speaker 1: i have certain expectations obviously, but then other ones I've

513
00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:37,560
Speaker 1: got to let go of because I don't I don't

514
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Speaker 1: even want to have that resentment. There's no reason for

515
00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 1: me to put that pressure there, So it doesn't matter.

516
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:45,240
Speaker 1: I just eliminate it and it's and it's fine, and

517
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:49,800
Speaker 1: understand that someone did they didn't. Sometimes too, we can

518
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:52,760
Speaker 1: have these unrealistic expectations and all of mine are everyone

519
00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:56,480
Speaker 1: to know that someone didn't. They also maybe didn't mean

520
00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:58,080
Speaker 1: to let you down. They didn't know they were letting

521
00:26:58,080 --> 00:26:59,600
Speaker 1: you down because they didn't know the expectation was there.

522
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 1: We didn't know we're being evaluated. Steve Jobs the most

523
00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:05,240
Speaker 1: unrealistic expectations center in the history of the world, and

524
00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:07,760
Speaker 1: he had no friends of it, would would constantly, would

525
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:10,440
Speaker 1: constantly no real friends. Sure, but he also changed the

526
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:14,600
Speaker 1: world in ways had to sacrifice. I love my iPhone.

527
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:18,320
Speaker 1: You change the world for what communication in general, how

528
00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 1: we communicate with people all over the world and every

529
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 1: way your friendship is more important than whatever I just create.

530
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:25,240
Speaker 1: But maybe I don't have friends if it weren't for

531
00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:27,360
Speaker 1: me being able to communicate, or friends that I can't

532
00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:30,560
Speaker 1: keep up with as well because something wasn't developed for

533
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:33,000
Speaker 1: me to do that. Yeah, and I'm not comparing Steve

534
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:35,159
Speaker 1: Jobs to this, but I'm saying I am unhealthy in

535
00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:37,639
Speaker 1: the way of I have expectations for myself higher than

536
00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:39,960
Speaker 1: anybody has for me, and of the relationships that I'm in.

537
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:43,479
Speaker 1: And I think when you look at the personalities here,

538
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:45,520
Speaker 1: they're in three different levels. Eddie's like hanging loose guy.

539
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:47,600
Speaker 1: If it happens, it happens, it doesn't. It doesn't in

540
00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:50,440
Speaker 1: every way because in great it's going to happen that

541
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:52,920
Speaker 1: way anyway. I don't think so I think things. I

542
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:54,959
Speaker 1: think things happened the amount of work you put into them,

543
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:57,160
Speaker 1: if that we're going to have everything, if that we're

544
00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 1: going to happen, you just would just hang out and

545
00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:01,120
Speaker 1: let everything happen. You have a bunch of losers laying

546
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 1: around beach all day. You have to actually not losers

547
00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 1: because they're laying around the beach all day. That's what

548
00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:09,800
Speaker 1: they were meant to do all day. Yeah, there are

549
00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 1: people on the beach all day selling seashells, and that's

550
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:15,440
Speaker 1: what they do. They're not creating computers. He wasn't telling

551
00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 1: the people that were selling seas he wasn't calling them losing. Well,

552
00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:20,840
Speaker 1: you're you have to make a live in like you

553
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:22,600
Speaker 1: don't know, that's what we're talking about. You have to

554
00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:24,920
Speaker 1: make a living. There are people laying around beach all day.

555
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:29,600
Speaker 1: That'd be awesome. I mean really, if you had no

556
00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:35,160
Speaker 1: responsibilities just lay there, miserable would be miserable. Different personalities miserable,

557
00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:37,320
Speaker 1: Like I mean, what was that documentary where the dad

558
00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:39,160
Speaker 1: like he had the kids in the van they just

559
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:42,760
Speaker 1: drove around the surf wise. God, I mean, so there

560
00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:45,080
Speaker 1: was a dad, right, he had a married couple and

561
00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 1: they had how many kids? Five kids and they know

562
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:48,640
Speaker 1: more than that, they have like twelve kids or something.

563
00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 1: And then they the dad was a doctor. He quit

564
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:54,240
Speaker 1: his practice and they bought a van and they drove

565
00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:56,600
Speaker 1: the whole family to all these beach surf spots, just

566
00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:59,400
Speaker 1: surfed all over the world. They drove from one beach

567
00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:03,120
Speaker 1: to another for years, miserable and then they interviewed the

568
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:05,440
Speaker 1: kids and they're all like, it was the worst childhood

569
00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:07,680
Speaker 1: ever ever. And the dad was like, I was living

570
00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 1: my dream and the moms like, we loved it, but

571
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:12,160
Speaker 1: the kids are like, it was terrible because we had

572
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:15,760
Speaker 1: no child's miserable. That's miserable's adulted too. I would hate

573
00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:18,360
Speaker 1: to have no responsibilities, but some people would like that.

574
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:21,360
Speaker 1: And again we all have different personalities. Where Amy is

575
00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 1: that she's kind of in the middle. Yeah, I mean,

576
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Speaker 1: I'd like to have no responsibilities with a lot of money,

577
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:27,600
Speaker 1: it'd be great, but I think actually, if you were

578
00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:29,280
Speaker 1: in that, it would be kind of miserable. Well. I

579
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 1: also think most people that want no responsibility don't have

580
00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:35,000
Speaker 1: a lot of money, generally speaking, unless you come from

581
00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:37,040
Speaker 1: a really wealthy, wealthy family and get it passed down

582
00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:39,680
Speaker 1: to you. And that's point oh one. Those two don't

583
00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:41,520
Speaker 1: really match, and that's why you don't have a lot

584
00:29:41,560 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 1: of people to do that. Yeah, and I see those

585
00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:46,880
Speaker 1: people like, oh, I just got a BW band, I'm

586
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 1: driving all over the state parks. I'm like, man, that's cool,

587
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:51,680
Speaker 1: then go do that. You can do that. I got

588
00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:54,560
Speaker 1: kids and I gotta I gotta make money. That's what

589
00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:55,760
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I wish I just had a bunch of

590
00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:57,760
Speaker 1: money so I could do that, But you also do

591
00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:00,680
Speaker 1: have a really good job. That's what I'm saying. I

592
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:03,200
Speaker 1: would rather not have a good job or just have

593
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:04,800
Speaker 1: a lot of money and be able to go do stuff.

594
00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:08,000
Speaker 1: But I feel like I think you're missing. Those two

595
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:10,200
Speaker 1: don't really match. No, I understand what you're saying. That's

596
00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:13,000
Speaker 1: why I'm saying I wish I was. It's like somebody

597
00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:15,160
Speaker 1: that's two foot tall that also wins a slamdun contest,

598
00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:18,080
Speaker 1: that's legit. They don't. They don't, quite, Matt, you might

599
00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 1: eventually have somebody that's super spicking, but it's just as

600
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 1: so low percentage. Yeah. But yeah, like Steve Jobs, like

601
00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:26,920
Speaker 1: Eddie says, I feel like his life sucked in in

602
00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 1: a way that you would find your value and maybe

603
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:32,440
Speaker 1: in relationships, because I watched some of these people and

604
00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:34,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, do they ever have any fun? Like? Do

605
00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 1: they ever like do anything about me? Yeah? You, Well,

606
00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:40,200
Speaker 1: Caitlin's made you do a little bit more sure. But

607
00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:43,560
Speaker 1: my point is in your value system, Steve Jobs had

608
00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 1: a miserable life. Your value system assigned to him. If

609
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:48,800
Speaker 1: you were to ask him. He probably was able to

610
00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:50,600
Speaker 1: fulfill the things that he wanted to do in the

611
00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:52,960
Speaker 1: way that he wanted to do them. Like the Kardashians,

612
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:56,760
Speaker 1: they got the life. They are super rich, they fly private,

613
00:30:57,040 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 1: they do anything they want whenever they want, no privacy,

614
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 1: they can't hey lunchbox acory. But but but really they

615
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 1: can't go everywhere they will. Their life is amazing. There's

616
00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:10,240
Speaker 1: always a sacrifice. So, but don't build your value system

617
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:15,920
Speaker 1: in trying to address the success of somebody else. That's

618
00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:18,600
Speaker 1: good because you are going Bill get Steve jobs. That

619
00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 1: sucks to you and what you think is worthy to him.

620
00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:26,640
Speaker 1: His whole life and purpose may have been to create,

621
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:30,840
Speaker 1: develop and make it, make earth, have Earth communicate better,

622
00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 1: and that was able to happen. That's his value and

623
00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:37,520
Speaker 1: not thinking for it because I mean it's great and

624
00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 1: he had no And you're right, he had maybe didn't

625
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:42,160
Speaker 1: have great friendship or family. Remember what the show, yeah,

626
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:44,160
Speaker 1: and the or the movie or the book something were watching,

627
00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:46,480
Speaker 1: like his daughter's perspective, that may not have been important

628
00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:49,200
Speaker 1: to him, right, do not get it. I just think

629
00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:52,480
Speaker 1: and Eddie, and Eddie thinks if you pay somebody less

630
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Speaker 1: to work harder, right, we're going back to that. Well,

631
00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 1: it just all kind of fits in the same bubble,

632
00:31:57,680 --> 00:31:59,520
Speaker 1: like when you shake the snow globe all that kind

633
00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 1: of So anyway, we are done. I don't know what's up.

634
00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:04,400
Speaker 1: Amy pulled out a book in the middle of that,

635
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:09,760
Speaker 1: he has a midlife crisis right on the air. I'm

636
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:12,560
Speaker 1: actually not I'm coming out of a midlife crisis. Are

637
00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:15,920
Speaker 1: you think you're dead inside? Midlife crisis? You did say that, Like,

638
00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:18,520
Speaker 1: are you dead inside? Amy? Like seriously you said that? No,

639
00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 1: I said that. It makes me ask myself, am I

640
00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 1: am I? Am I dead inside? Am I living? Like?

641
00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:28,840
Speaker 1: What choices? Am I? It's it's a It's bigger than

642
00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:31,800
Speaker 1: this conversation right here. It just is a quote that

643
00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:35,040
Speaker 1: will make you think of like, okay, and when you

644
00:32:35,120 --> 00:32:38,440
Speaker 1: approach like halfway through, if you make it to the

645
00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:44,200
Speaker 1: life expectancy, like what sometimes it comes to like what

646
00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 1: is you know? My theropises? What is your truth? I'm like,

647
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:48,920
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know what my truth is.

648
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:50,640
Speaker 1: It's hard for me to figure out sometimes my truth,

649
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 1: Like I don't know because sometimes I'm always worried about

650
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:55,800
Speaker 1: other people and what they're going to think. Or what

651
00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:58,640
Speaker 1: other people in my family or whatever, or thinking or

652
00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:01,600
Speaker 1: feeling when really it's hard. Of course what they feel

653
00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:04,480
Speaker 1: and think is important, it matters, but like, ultimately I

654
00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:07,880
Speaker 1: have to make some decisions for myself and that's what's

655
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 1: hard to do, because that's it's just hard. I think.

656
00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 1: A great thing too, is when reading these books that

657
00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 1: are talking about things that have substance and value, is

658
00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:27,560
Speaker 1: not to assign everyone's theory and opinion to your life

659
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:30,360
Speaker 1: based on your personality. Someone that lives a life like

660
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:33,880
Speaker 1: Eddie should not read my books and go and that's it.

661
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:35,840
Speaker 1: That's when I miss it because that it's like a

662
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:38,720
Speaker 1: food when your body doesn't react to it. If you

663
00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:44,040
Speaker 1: are you eat gluten, it makes makes you feel terrible. Well,

664
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:46,400
Speaker 1: don't you should eat things with gluten in it? There

665
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 1: are other things you can do to get that that

666
00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 1: will actually help you. And so Eddie, I'm gluten. Anything

667
00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:55,560
Speaker 1: I say it is gluten. Eddie doesn't eat gluten. No,

668
00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:57,400
Speaker 1: it's I'm allergic to it. But some people who love

669
00:33:57,440 --> 00:33:59,640
Speaker 1: gluten it actually helps their boy. They this is for them.

670
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:02,440
Speaker 1: So don't hear what any of us are saying and

671
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:04,920
Speaker 1: go that it's universal, because that's the one thing. Nothing

672
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:08,680
Speaker 1: is universe. Nothing is universal except oxygen and water. And

673
00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:11,480
Speaker 1: you need sleep. That's it. I mean, yeah, you can

674
00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:15,920
Speaker 1: say taxes, but Wesley Snipes, Yeah, what about him to

675
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:18,320
Speaker 1: pay taxes? What did jail? Well this Lee Snipes is

676
00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 1: in jail. This is like from the nineties. He's in

677
00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:24,719
Speaker 1: jail now. No nobody was. Man, I must have missed

678
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:26,399
Speaker 1: that one. But I mean, I see what you're saying

679
00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:28,759
Speaker 1: about your family. You worry about there them judging you,

680
00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:30,719
Speaker 1: because I mean, I think I worry about my brother

681
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:35,160
Speaker 1: and sister being jealous of me. But classic they probably are,

682
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:38,360
Speaker 1: except they don't. They probably don't value what you do

683
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:40,880
Speaker 1: and why you do it the same way you do.

684
00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:44,359
Speaker 1: They probably do not care. They probably do not care.

685
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:47,160
Speaker 1: My wife does not want fame in anyway. She wants

686
00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:49,160
Speaker 1: the opposite. So the things that I'm like trying to

687
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:54,120
Speaker 1: achieve and hit to her, it couldn't that part of it,

688
00:34:54,239 --> 00:35:00,399
Speaker 1: the notoriety. But she understands like creating and u having

689
00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:03,640
Speaker 1: a goal and accomplishing, But she does not like the

690
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:05,959
Speaker 1: We'll just say fame is an easy work, the fame

691
00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:08,800
Speaker 1: of it. She's like, wow, how could you? How do

692
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 1: you like that? People know, and so that could possibly

693
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:15,200
Speaker 1: be the same way your brothers and sisters are. They're

694
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:16,840
Speaker 1: proud of you for what you do, but they probably

695
00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:19,040
Speaker 1: don't care about that you're famous. Oh I figured they do.

696
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 1: Maybe you're right, you know better than I do. Um,

697
00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:24,880
Speaker 1: all right, we're done. I gotta go eat fifty eight.

698
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:26,600
Speaker 1: The fifty year old actor was sentenced to three years

699
00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:27,960
Speaker 1: in prison back in two thousand and eight, and find

700
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:31,719
Speaker 1: five million bucks five million dollars? You find people who

701
00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:33,759
Speaker 1: can't pay their taxes? When do you ever get that?

702
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:37,120
Speaker 1: I know? Right, go ahead, makes sense? He said, Hey, now,

703
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:41,719
Speaker 1: I was just thinking about Willie too. He didn't he

704
00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:45,239
Speaker 1: made a record, I believe the tour yep. And then

705
00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 1: that's how you paid it back. I think it's called

706
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:49,600
Speaker 1: like the taxes. I need to pay my taxes to

707
00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:51,880
Speaker 1: definitely had something there. Yeah, it was called the i

708
00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:56,479
Speaker 1: RS tape. That's it. That's hilarious. Um, all right, well

709
00:35:56,920 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 1: there we go. This is a lot longer. I was

710
00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:01,399
Speaker 1: just trying to do this. Played alive or dead game?

711
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 1: You have a little salad, call it a dead talk man.

712
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:07,000
Speaker 1: Not really. Yeah, it is a good time. I mean

713
00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 1: I don't know why was it not? I don't know.

714
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:11,680
Speaker 1: For a podcast, why why was it not? I don't understand. No,

715
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:15,040
Speaker 1: I think maybe for a podcast it's terrible, but for um,

716
00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:20,040
Speaker 1: just life it is at the podcast about this, what's

717
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 1: the argument? I did? This is what? This is? What?

718
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:25,799
Speaker 1: Four things was? Amy Browness? Yeah, I think I'm like, wait,

719
00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:29,240
Speaker 1: is this terrible? Never talk about I was very interested

720
00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:31,480
Speaker 1: just I guess mostly if I was going to talk

721
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:33,240
Speaker 1: about this, I would come in a little more prepared

722
00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:35,480
Speaker 1: and not just roll from a death thing too. But

723
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:37,880
Speaker 1: that's okay, No, I but I'm telling you that's why.

724
00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:39,839
Speaker 1: That's why I'm like, oh, I could have definitely thought

725
00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:42,560
Speaker 1: about it more. Instead, I'm just like shooting off the hit. Yeah. See,

726
00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 1: those are your high expectations. I didn't worry about it.

727
00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:52,480
Speaker 1: I'd be more prepared and more like, thanks buddy, it

728
00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 1: was always a higher expectation. Um, all right, that is it?

729
00:36:55,760 --> 00:37:02,000
Speaker 1: Thank you? And I believe listen, sore losers today, Yeah, yeah,

730
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:04,680
Speaker 1: sore losers today. Absolutely, you're not doing them now. We did.

731
00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:07,120
Speaker 1: It's just he messed out. He was so excited about Kansas.

732
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 1: He did what he wanted to do one yesterday. No, no,

733
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:11,520
Speaker 1: but it's going out today, Like I wanted to do it.

734
00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:13,120
Speaker 1: Why not put it out yesterday? That's what I thought.

735
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:14,839
Speaker 1: You put it yesterday, you know, because we always put

736
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:16,520
Speaker 1: it out Monday, Wednesday, Friday. You can be doing an

737
00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:18,360
Speaker 1: emergency podcast. That's what I thought we were gonna do.

738
00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:20,480
Speaker 1: And so I just want to do what you do.

739
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:22,640
Speaker 1: Four You could do that because there are times we're like, well,

740
00:37:22,680 --> 00:37:24,080
Speaker 1: let's just do an extra one because it's what we're

741
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:27,080
Speaker 1: doing is so important. When I think get those extra streams, Yeah, yeah,

742
00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:28,319
Speaker 1: I could have done that. But then if I tell

743
00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:29,520
Speaker 1: them we're going to do another one to day, I

744
00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:30,880
Speaker 1: guess what their reaction is gonna be, like, we just

745
00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:33,000
Speaker 1: did one yesterday. Well, sometimes you gotta be the boss,

746
00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:36,279
Speaker 1: and and so yeah's loss of this for me for sure.

747
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 1: So I just wanted to I wanted the emotions to

748
00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:41,439
Speaker 1: be real right after the game, like the day after,

749
00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 1: like not have days that Oh you know, I'm I

750
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:47,040
Speaker 1: should have just uploaded one with you just going yeah,

751
00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:49,360
Speaker 1: because I'd be bored listening to it. Not just this,

752
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:51,240
Speaker 1: but like the super bowlf they put out on Tuesday.

753
00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:53,359
Speaker 1: I'd be like I want to hear that Monday or yeah,

754
00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:57,920
Speaker 1: I'm I'm on to the next thing, not with this specifically,

755
00:37:58,000 --> 00:37:59,799
Speaker 1: but I'm as how much, and I'd be like, oh,

756
00:37:59,880 --> 00:38:01,600
Speaker 1: I don't want to listen to something? Yeah, mega, right, Maye.

757
00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:02,960
Speaker 1: We should have done that extra one this week. You

758
00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:05,799
Speaker 1: guys want to do another one. Act though it's going

759
00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:07,600
Speaker 1: up today that you don't do another one today because

760
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 1: you two I know, I know you have one for

761
00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:12,239
Speaker 1: today already. So I'm sure it's great. I sure was great.

762
00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:14,279
Speaker 1: People should listen to you. It's gonna be awesome. Yes,

763
00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:19,399
Speaker 1: me just on cloud nine and nothing. I have a question.

764
00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:21,320
Speaker 1: I'll ask you off fair. It's like a just a

765
00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:24,040
Speaker 1: thought that I had about because you said, load it up,

766
00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:26,919
Speaker 1: get more down. I don't know what do you gotta

767
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 1: I'll help you. No, I'll talk to I'll talk it through. Yeah,

768
00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:30,759
Speaker 1: you guys to the meeting. Let me know how through

769
00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:35,640
Speaker 1: and then bring it to you. All right. We'll see

770
00:38:35,640 --> 00:38:37,520
Speaker 1: you guys tomorrow. By everybody, bye,