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Speaker 2: Hi Cheeky's. My name is Scierra. I just wanted to

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Speaker 1: Ook Kiata, This is a tough one. It sounds like

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Speaker 3: Hi, Mama, I hope you're doing good.

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Speaker 3: This girl just keeps getting prettier and pretty, Like what

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Speaker 4: In my situation, like we're a group of five and

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Speaker 4: So my question, I hope I am not asking anything

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Speaker 4: Jenny Days, you know, whatever happened with Gerald? How is

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Speaker 3: And I just remember your guys' friendship.

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Speaker 4: It was so funny and I loved watching you too

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Speaker 1: Oh, I love you too, Dadiana, Thank you so much

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Speaker 1: for saying that, because dear Cheeky's is something that brings

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Speaker 6: He said, this is at h Town. First of all

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Speaker 6: So how do I potentially deal or prepare myself for rejection?

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Speaker 1: Oh Angela, this is so awesome that you asked this,

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Speaker 1: What should I do? I have heard that he does

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Speaker 1: of like you know anyways, And that's not about me,

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Speaker 1: it's about you, girl. So remember rejection is God's protection.

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Speaker 1: But what has helped me is that statement is rejection

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