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Speaker 1: It's daily highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning show.

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Speaker 2: You know, during the song God, he was talking about

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Speaker 2: this trend. We should look into this, And I want

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Speaker 2: to see if anyone listening is the subject of this trend,

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Speaker 2: the stay at home hub son. That's like the tradwives

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Speaker 2: of twenty twenty five. Yeah, and mothers could not be

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Speaker 2: more thrilled. Yeah, some mothers. I'm reading this story out

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Speaker 2: of a New York Post as a matter of fact,

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Speaker 2: talk about it. What did you get out of what

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Speaker 2: you learned about the HUBSN?

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Speaker 3: Well, I found it shocking, but I guess I can

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Speaker 3: kind of understand it. So the hubsn is basically a

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Speaker 3: son who has decided, you know what, I don't feel

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Speaker 3: like working in this crazy rat race anymore. I'm going

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Speaker 3: to stay home and I'm going to take care of

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Speaker 3: everything in the household as though I was a husband,

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Speaker 3: minus the romantic parts. So he cooks, he cleans, he

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Speaker 3: takes out the trash, he does everything he needs to do.

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Speaker 4: But he's living at home rent free with mama.

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Speaker 2: Right Mama's taking care of him. He's taking care of Mama.

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Speaker 2: So I'm looking it up up pulls the AI search

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Speaker 2: here Financial support. In many cases, the mother is the

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Speaker 2: primary breadwinner, while the son is supported financially by the parents.

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Speaker 2: Also factors UH contributing to this trend include economic pressures

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Speaker 2: like inflation and high housing costs. Also, some guys get

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Speaker 2: burned out in work. They're like, I don't want to

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Speaker 2: be in the corporate world anymore. I'm gonna stay home.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna run the house for mom. She'll take care

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Speaker 2: of me financially, and you know all things moms do,

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Speaker 2: and he will be the hub son. And I know

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Speaker 2: there's got to be a hub son. Listening to us somewhere.

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Speaker 5: This sounds like marriage. You basically do everything around the

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Speaker 5: house that you're supposed to do, but you don't get

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Speaker 5: any sex. Is I'm doing that now?

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Speaker 2: Are Lisa's Are you Lisa's hub son?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll just move back to my mom to be

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Speaker 5: the same thing.

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Speaker 2: She is a little older than you, So I guess

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Speaker 2: maybe you're My mom actually likes me, so that would

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Speaker 2: actually be even better. So maybe I'll be back home

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Speaker 2: with mo. So yeah, it's uh okay, Well, I mean

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Speaker 2: it's done unusual for sons and daughters to some of

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Speaker 2: them live at home with their parents, right of course not.

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Speaker 1: And sometimes after college they come back for a little

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Speaker 1: while and stuff like that. I mean, which I would love,

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Speaker 1: but right, yeah.

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Speaker 5: You know what. I used to be the opposite Danielle.

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Speaker 5: I used to always say, like once Kid was out

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Speaker 5: in the college, like no, but he's done, Like I

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Speaker 5: was always out of the house. But now that when

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Speaker 5: I see him, I always think, like, man, I wish

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Speaker 5: Kaid could live at home again. I would love to

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Speaker 5: have Kid back at home. He's my best friend.

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Speaker 2: Well, but this is like a working relationship. It's more

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Speaker 2: than just loafing and mooching, right, it's actually contributing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well, I'm assuming Froggy.

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Speaker 3: You want him to come home, but you still want

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Speaker 3: him to work and get out of the house and

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Speaker 3: you want him to live at home.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't want him to come back home and

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Speaker 5: take care of everything. I don't want HM to be

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Speaker 5: the man of the house.

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Speaker 4: And I get.

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Speaker 3: I totally get if there's you know, a situation with

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Speaker 3: a husband and a wife where the wife is a

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Speaker 3: breadwinner and they decide, hey, this guy's going to stay

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Speaker 3: home and take care of the things at home, because

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Speaker 3: it makes more sense that way.

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Speaker 4: I get it.

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Speaker 3: The part that's a little weird to me is that

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Speaker 3: you're doing it at home with your parents, And maybe

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Speaker 3: it shouldn't be weird to me.

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Speaker 4: It doesn't affect me in any way. I'm just like, huh,

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Speaker 4: seems like you would want to get out of the house.

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Speaker 1: And I just think it's I mean, maybe if you

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Speaker 1: need to do it for a little while, but if

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Speaker 1: you do that long term, where are you finding your

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Speaker 1: life skills out there in the world to actually get

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Speaker 1: a job, Because eventually, I think you're gonna have to

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Speaker 1: get a job. I mean, you can't do that forever.

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Speaker 2: But then again, as I was saying Danielle, there are

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Speaker 2: some guys who are just burnt out in corporate work,

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Speaker 2: the corporate world. They just don't they don't want to

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Speaker 2: do it anymore. This is this is their way of

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Speaker 2: not having to work. That way. Also, it could be

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Speaker 2: just a son who wants to mooch off mom. Right,

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Speaker 2: But now it has a title.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Now now it's a quote unquote trend, so it's more

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Speaker 2: it's more acceptable because now it's gonna end up in

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Speaker 2: the Webster's Dictionary next year.

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Speaker 4: It's a brand. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: People are texting in saying, yeah, my cousin's a hubsn

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Speaker 2: Another textasy sounds like a bunch of losers. Ah, but

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Speaker 2: wait here, but listen to one. I am this, but

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Speaker 2: I have a young child that mom helps with and

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Speaker 2: the child's mother is not around, but I do work. Okay,

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Speaker 2: that's not the same, Hubson. The most unattractive thing I've

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Speaker 2: ever heard of sounds unhealthy, this person says. But here,

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Speaker 2: maybe this is what you find kind of odd. This

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Speaker 2: person said, whoa wa, wait a minute. They're supposed to

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Speaker 2: be romanticism with being a husband. Okay, it's different, that's right.

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Speaker 2: Another text, grow up, get a job, get out. My

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Speaker 2: husband was to stay at home son working a night job,

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Speaker 2: and she helped with his kids when kids are involved. Okay,

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Speaker 2: that's another element. That's another level of something. Right.

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Speaker 3: And jobs are a totally different element of this too.

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Speaker 3: If you have a job and you're living at home,

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Speaker 3: that's wildly different than not having a job and staying

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Speaker 3: at home and just taking care of everything for your parents.

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Speaker 2: Right, your job is being at home and taking care

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Speaker 2: of the household.

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Speaker 5: Right.

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Speaker 2: God, you know what, I wish my mom was alive.

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Speaker 2: I would I would quit this job and do that, right,

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Speaker 2: I would be a help son.

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Speaker 4: Did you see the texts at the gays call this houseboy?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I need a houseboy. Too late for

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Speaker 2: me to be one, so I get one. Yeah, scary.

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Speaker 6: I feel like this goes against everything I've ever learned

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Speaker 6: that to strive for the best, to get out there,

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Speaker 6: be on your own. And I mean, I understand if

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Speaker 6: you want to temporarily come back to the nest and

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Speaker 6: maybe do all these things. But to do that and say,

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Speaker 6: all right, I give up, this is life. There are

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Speaker 6: no jobs out there. I think that's a bad, bad move.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, okay, And a lot of people agree

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Speaker 2: with you, but you know you're saying just giving up.

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Speaker 2: We know now it has a trend name. It's not

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Speaker 2: giving up. It has a place in our culture.

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Speaker 6: Right.

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Speaker 2: So text with how oh listen to this? With how

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Speaker 2: high mortgages are in the cost of living, to me,

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Speaker 2: it makes perfect sense. And maybe it's time men learn

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Speaker 2: how to take care of the home and take take

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Speaker 2: a little pressure off the eldest daughter. Maybe I don't know.

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Speaker 2: This person says Elvis Hubsn sounds very unhealthy. In this

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Speaker 2: next texterter, I live to be a Hubsn. And someone

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Speaker 2: says that. God, you would know this. This is very

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Speaker 2: giving ed Gean, Oh god, no.

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Speaker 4: It is is he worked with Oh he worked.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he was a murdering hub son that worked.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, he kept the farm running well.

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Speaker 2: So we're saying that he had it more together. He's

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Speaker 2: a traditional hubsn. Maybe my brother lives with our mom

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Speaker 2: and my dad lives with his mom. Neither cooks nor clean's.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's not a HUBSND.

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Speaker 2: That's a mooch.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: This person says this is a dumbestryt never this other text.

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Speaker 2: Just the title is weird. Alone husband's son made my

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Speaker 2: husband lazy, spoiled with old school wife expectations. He admits

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Speaker 2: to it. I have a family friend who is mooching

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Speaker 2: off his mom. He's thirty six. This generation just wants

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Speaker 2: to play video games.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, see this is.

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Speaker 2: Weird all right, So the hubsn trend, I.

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Speaker 3: Would like to know how that works in the dating world.

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Speaker 3: If you are a hubsn.

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Speaker 1: Come on, yeah, hold on, let me tuck my mom

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Speaker 1: in first, pretty much.

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Speaker 2: Danielle, Look, you know the last thing I want to do.

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Speaker 2: Don't call me, don't call me too soft to this.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to sit here and like downplay it

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Speaker 2: for everyone because there could be situations where it needs

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Speaker 2: to happen.

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Speaker 1: If your mom is sick and your mom really needs you,

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Speaker 1: or she's down on her luck or whatever.

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Speaker 4: There's, of course there's reasons for things.

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Speaker 2: But oh well, but let's say I've i'm so burnt

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Speaker 2: out doing this morning show and you know, the big

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Speaker 2: corporation whatever. My mom says, Okay, Elvis, you quit your job,

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Speaker 2: you come live with me. You take care of this

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Speaker 2: house and me and everything that's involved there, and I

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Speaker 2: will make sure you have finances coming in and you're covered.

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Speaker 2: Mm hmm