WEBVTT - Burnout, Bad Bunny, and Breaking Barriers: BA Roundtable

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, BA fam, it's Mandy. I am actually recording this

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<v Speaker 1>message after we taped the episode that you're gonna hear

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<v Speaker 1>today with my faves and y'all's faves Chris and y'all

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<v Speaker 1>Nelly of the New BA round Table. But I really

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<v Speaker 1>just had to because you know, we recorded this episode.

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<v Speaker 1>I try to be really timely, but we recorded it

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<v Speaker 1>on Friday, and since then, I have just found I

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<v Speaker 1>have learned so much more about the communities that have

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<v Speaker 1>been impacted by these devastating wildfires in LA And by

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<v Speaker 1>now you've probably heard of a community called Alta Dina.

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<v Speaker 1>Alta Dina is majority black homeowners. It's especially devastating that

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<v Speaker 1>these fires have obliterated Alta Dina because this was literally

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<v Speaker 1>a refuge for Black Americans who were redlined and forced

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<v Speaker 1>out of other neighborhoods in the LA area during the

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<v Speaker 1>Great Migration and pretty much forced to live there as

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<v Speaker 1>we so often are pushed out and put in less

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<v Speaker 1>favorable neighborhood which then of course become gentrified and become

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<v Speaker 1>part of great you know, and then all of a

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<v Speaker 1>sudden everyone wants to live there. This is generational wealth

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<v Speaker 1>in black communities that we can't afford to lose. In fact,

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<v Speaker 1>black home owners and Alsadena apparently were not even given

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<v Speaker 1>mortgages until the nineteen sixties. I'm reading this right now

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<v Speaker 1>from KCRW, which is the public radio station in La

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<v Speaker 1>So please support your local NPR stations. This is simply

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<v Speaker 1>generational wealth that is way too rare for black families

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<v Speaker 1>in this country, and we are watching in front of

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<v Speaker 1>our eyes while it is put in jeopardy where families

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<v Speaker 1>who have actually managed to build some generational wealth through

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<v Speaker 1>real estate, through their properties are at risk of losing

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<v Speaker 1>at all. They've already lost it physically, but we can

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<v Speaker 1>actually help them rebuild. We can help them make sure

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<v Speaker 1>that they're not pushed out of this neighborhood, make sure

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<v Speaker 1>that they don't lose the tender roots that have been

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<v Speaker 1>growing and flourishing ever since they moved in almost one

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<v Speaker 1>hundred years ago. One couple, Denise and Adonnis Jones, who

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<v Speaker 1>are longtime residents of Altadena, they lost their home when

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<v Speaker 1>they eat and fire. Denise's mother bought the Denise's mother

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<v Speaker 1>bought the home in nineteen sixty eight. So right there

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<v Speaker 1>we have an example of how one generation is passing

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<v Speaker 1>on a home to the next generation, and we just

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<v Speaker 1>can't let this wildfire steal that from future generations to come.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you're like me, you're wondering how can you help,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm actually going to post a link to a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of vetted gofundmes that are crowdsourcing funds that are going

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<v Speaker 1>to be dispursed specifically to residents in the Altadena community.

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<v Speaker 1>So one of those funds is trying to raise five

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<v Speaker 1>million dollars to provide Altadena families with temporary housing, help

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<v Speaker 1>them pay for their bills, and aid in the rebuilding effort.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is sponsored by the Cochrane Firm and Ivy McNeil,

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<v Speaker 1>Wyatt Percell and DIGS, which are two black owned law

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<v Speaker 1>firms in the state of California. So we need to

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<v Speaker 1>help this community. One hundred percent of the funds raised

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<v Speaker 1>through this initiative are going to be going to victims

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<v Speaker 1>impacted in the Pasadena and Altadena community. If you're listening

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<v Speaker 1>and you've been impacted by the wildfires and you would

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<v Speaker 1>like support from the Brand Ambition community, feel free to

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<v Speaker 1>DM me Brown Ambition Podcast on IG or you can

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<v Speaker 1>hit me up personally via email. Brand Ambition Podcast at

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<v Speaker 1>gmail dot com and a member of our team. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>get back to you. A S A P. Thank you, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>ba fam, I am back. We are back with the

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<v Speaker 1>BA round Table. First of all, can we just do

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<v Speaker 1>a quick victory lap, a quick little like snap moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all really love it. They love the panel, the round table,

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<v Speaker 1>they love We're folks for They love y'all, they love

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<v Speaker 1>Chris and y'a Nellie, and everyone has just been so

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<v Speaker 1>kind BA Faan, so thank you, thank you, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>all your dms, all your comments, the comments on YouTube,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all just I mean, you always have they always have

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<v Speaker 1>been incredible. But yeah, thank you to Chris and yan

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<v Speaker 1>Nelly too for being my guinea pigs anytime.

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<v Speaker 2>Girl. So much fun.

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<v Speaker 1>And I want to be clear because I am switching

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<v Speaker 1>up the round table, so don't get too used to

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<v Speaker 1>Chris and not yan Nelly. Okay, there's gonna be some

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<v Speaker 1>really fun people popping in and out of the BA

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<v Speaker 1>round Table, but it is. Yeah. I don't think I

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<v Speaker 1>picked wrong at all for my first for my first couple. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so what should we dive into? First? Chris, I had

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<v Speaker 1>told myself that you'd be in SF right now. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like Oh, yeah, he's moving. That's why we're doing

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<v Speaker 1>it on a different day. But then I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>you are, We're.

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<v Speaker 2>I am moving. So next week I would have been.

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<v Speaker 1>All, you're not there yet, okay, packing up.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm today, I'm in the process of this is

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<v Speaker 3>like my last stay of having my full death setup

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<v Speaker 3>with the lights and camera and mic, and it's all

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<v Speaker 3>getting boxed up and getting ready to get out of here.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm excited, a little stressed, more I say, more

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<v Speaker 3>excited than stress. So I'm doing all right.

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<v Speaker 1>Two years it wasn't enough time for you to wait,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, get all the things in order.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I'm not gonna put everything in boxes for two years.

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<v Speaker 3>I got to make sure I'm making the decision. But

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<v Speaker 3>I'm literally getting rid of almost everything, like almost all

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<v Speaker 3>my stuff I've been giving away to friends and family.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm literally taking my clothes, my equipment, and that's pretty

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<v Speaker 3>much it.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow, yeah, I mean it makes sense.

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<v Speaker 5>Wait are you good, Chris out there with all those

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<v Speaker 5>fires in La. I'm just seeing how horrible this footage

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<v Speaker 5>is and it's just like heartbreaking.

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<v Speaker 2>It's rough. I'm thankfully farting away.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm about thirty miles south of those fires, so

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<v Speaker 3>we get some of the smoke, like it's a couple

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<v Speaker 3>of days ago, the smell was horrible and there's an

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<v Speaker 3>aucy ash falling from the sky, but no danger whatsoever

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<v Speaker 3>because it's just a bunch of like cities between me

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<v Speaker 3>and there. Basically it's the hills above La. There's a

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<v Speaker 3>near Malibu near Pasadena. That side is like it's not

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<v Speaker 3>really developed, so it's just a bunch of like green

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<v Speaker 3>shrubs and stuff like that. And it's been no rain

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<v Speaker 3>at all really this year for so it's super dry,

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<v Speaker 3>so all that stuff starts catching on fire, and it's

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<v Speaker 3>been bad, like I can't even imagine. I know a

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<v Speaker 3>couple of people who are near closer to it. I

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<v Speaker 3>know some people who gotten evacuated. It's it's rough over there.

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<v Speaker 3>But thankfully me and my family most of us are

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<v Speaker 3>all so far south that we can smell it, but

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<v Speaker 3>we just can't.

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<v Speaker 2>We're not affected by it at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, yeah, I mean SF doesn't really, Well

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<v Speaker 1>that's not true because SF was getting some like crazy

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<v Speaker 1>yeah smoke and like the sky and stuff. There's nowhere safe,

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<v Speaker 1>it feels like in the state. So you know, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>that you seem calm, but maybe you shouldn't be. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you should be worried.

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<v Speaker 3>No, it's the thing is around here. It's it's just

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<v Speaker 3>city after city. I feel like so many of the states,

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<v Speaker 3>it feels.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you're putting people in your path, like you're you're

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<v Speaker 1>like human shielding the rest of the state. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>put them there, people in those cities. Chris, You're like,

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<v Speaker 1>because there's like forty thousand people between me and the fire.

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<v Speaker 3>So oh no, hold up. I don't like when you

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<v Speaker 3>spined my words. I feel like the first episode for office,

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<v Speaker 3>I can't because you have to destroyed my campaign. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>handedly hand Manda's and hop on. You know this put

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<v Speaker 3>thousands millions of Los Angelinos in the path of this

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<v Speaker 3>fire to save himself and his family.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you want to run your country?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's like I mean, you and Mayor Karen Bass

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<v Speaker 1>right now gett getting toe up, toe up. But that's

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<v Speaker 1>a good you know. I was paying attention to sort

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<v Speaker 1>of the headlines around the wildfires and on the business

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<v Speaker 1>side of things. I have some like business bullet points

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<v Speaker 1>to go over, but one of them is two companies

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<v Speaker 1>have been getting dragged one. Well, I would say there's

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<v Speaker 1>one company in particular I've been seeing, but I would

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<v Speaker 1>just put this whole category of home insures, the biggest

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<v Speaker 1>one being State Farm, and hey, state Farm, I'm scared

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<v Speaker 1>of you. Even though you sponsored this show. I'm keeping

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<v Speaker 1>this in here. We run their State Farm as in

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<v Speaker 1>every episode, I feel like, but State Farm right now

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<v Speaker 1>in California, apparently reports are saying that they've dropped thirty

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<v Speaker 1>thousand homeowners from their policy. And it's not like a

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<v Speaker 1>new thing, isn't that like for fire insurance specifically.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you going to refund me my premiums? Because what? What?

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<v Speaker 4>How does that? How is that legal? Is my question.

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<v Speaker 5>I've literally been paying you these premiums every single month

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<v Speaker 5>for years, and now you're just gonna dip on me

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<v Speaker 5>and I get nothing, and like so we just as

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<v Speaker 5>if nothing to me, that is so it should be

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<v Speaker 5>so illegal.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, because the thing is, like, that's what insurance companies

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<v Speaker 3>are here for. It's not for when things are good

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<v Speaker 3>and nothing's happening, you don't have to pay out any claims.

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<v Speaker 3>The point is, hey, look you're getting money with stuff

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<v Speaker 3>was and catching on fire now it is that's when

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<v Speaker 3>you need to pay up and yeah, like you said,

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<v Speaker 3>it shouldn't be this thing where I know a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of people have had the resort to state insurance, like

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<v Speaker 3>the bare minimum type of insurance now because there are

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<v Speaker 3>no none of these big companies that are willing to

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<v Speaker 3>insure their homes when they've been collected money.

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<v Speaker 2>All the time.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's like, you've even done the right thing. You've

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<v Speaker 1>gotten the fire insurance. The same thing happens in Florida

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<v Speaker 1>right too, you nell, they have you heard about that

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<v Speaker 1>with the flood insurance and hurricane damage insurance.

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<v Speaker 5>The worst thing is a lot of people out here

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<v Speaker 5>seem to think that their homeowner's insurance policy covers flooding

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<v Speaker 5>when he does not. So unfortunately a lot of people

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<v Speaker 5>they don't have separate flood insurance and then when worst

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<v Speaker 5>comes to worse, they're like, wait, what do you mean

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<v Speaker 5>I needed a separate policy. The thing that pisses me

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<v Speaker 5>off is to see how many people did the thing,

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<v Speaker 5>went and got the extra insurance to cover it, and

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<v Speaker 5>now they're being screwed. It's like, how am I, as

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<v Speaker 5>a financial educator, supposed to fix my mouth to tell

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<v Speaker 5>people to go ahead, go above and beyond the basic

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<v Speaker 5>coverage and get these additional insurance coverages and policies, and

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<v Speaker 5>then they're looking at me like girl for what they

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<v Speaker 5>don't even cover you when times get rough and they're

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<v Speaker 5>right and we're right like now, to not trust insurance

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<v Speaker 5>providers is to me, it's like founded.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like, I'm that's valid.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know even how to respond and what to

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<v Speaker 5>tell people when they reach out to me and ask me,

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<v Speaker 5>you know what you think about this?

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<v Speaker 4>What do you think about this?

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<v Speaker 5>And people are gonna start canceling additional insurance left and

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<v Speaker 5>right because the lack of trust. And I don't blame them.

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<v Speaker 1>Chris, do you have fire insurance?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh?

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<v Speaker 3>No, not here, So I'm render Nige Burners assurance. But

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<v Speaker 3>the risk of fire is so low where I live

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<v Speaker 3>is not.

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<v Speaker 2>Like a thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Sound biting that for the future.

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<v Speaker 2>But I know, like I'm moving, so you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>hope nothing happens.

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<v Speaker 1>Over here in your mouth with the dare for the universe,

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<v Speaker 1>just really really bit, I'm fine. I'm fining forty thousand

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<v Speaker 1>homes in between me and the fire.

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<v Speaker 3>Again, those other words that I spoke on this podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>I need to just lock this into the don't you edit?

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<v Speaker 3>This out either, Mandy, don't you edit out wi all

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<v Speaker 3>these disclaimers I've given afterwards?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'll let I'll let my editor know. The editor

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<v Speaker 1>is me and Tanya it is yeah, I mean my

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<v Speaker 1>dad and just insurance. And just to keep on this,

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<v Speaker 1>my dad got dropped by his home insurance policy because

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<v Speaker 1>a tree fell in his house and he used his insurance.

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<v Speaker 1>God forbid you use it, you know, so he used

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<v Speaker 1>it and then he gets penalized, and it's just, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's wild. So I'm hoping that, you know, I'm hoping

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<v Speaker 1>to hear something different State Farm but because it's the

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<v Speaker 1>biggest insurer in California. But I'm sure they're not alone.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure there's their home insurance companies and insurance in general. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, especially after that, god the murder that happened.

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<v Speaker 4>Mario's brother, What Mario's brother.

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<v Speaker 1>Did Mario's brother oeg Yes, I was never happier to

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<v Speaker 1>not have to record an episode during that debacle because.

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<v Speaker 5>I've been seeing so many people pull that out though,

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<v Speaker 5>and they're like and then when people want to look

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<v Speaker 5>at the reaction to Mario's brother, and it's like, now,

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<v Speaker 5>look at what these insurance companies are doing with with

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<v Speaker 5>fire home insurance and all these other types of insurance.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like, why are people mat at insurance providers. I'm

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<v Speaker 5>not justifying anything that has happened, which is wrong, wrong,

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<v Speaker 5>is wrong.

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<v Speaker 4>But when you look and.

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<v Speaker 5>See why, when people have no clue why these things

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<v Speaker 5>are happening, and they sit around go like, I'm just

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<v Speaker 5>so befuddled.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know why this would happen. Really, you got

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<v Speaker 4>no clue what mess is going on?

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<v Speaker 5>Like, look look at this, and these are clear symptoms

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<v Speaker 5>of a system that is neglecting people and truly just

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<v Speaker 5>honestly taking advantage of people. That's like the base level

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<v Speaker 5>of what's going on here. So I really do think

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<v Speaker 5>it requires a national conversation about, you know, repairing trust

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<v Speaker 5>among people, especially consumers in this country that are like,

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<v Speaker 5>I've done everything right, How are you.

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<v Speaker 4>Going to screw me over like this?

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<v Speaker 5>You know, versus people who if you're going through life

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<v Speaker 5>not getting the insurance you need, not paying premiums, not

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<v Speaker 5>doing this, or not doing that.

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<v Speaker 4>I get it.

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<v Speaker 5>Those are people who kind of, you know, they're flying

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<v Speaker 5>by the seat of their pants. But when you look

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<v Speaker 5>at the people that are truly like invested in doing

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<v Speaker 5>the research and putting the money aside and sacrificing certain

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<v Speaker 5>things so that they can afford these things, and then

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<v Speaker 5>not getting.

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<v Speaker 4>What they owe what they're doing.

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<v Speaker 5>It's just heartbreaking and frustrating.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that begs the question in certain situations, should

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<v Speaker 1>you have your own I mean, if you can afford

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<v Speaker 1>to have your own savings on the side to get

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<v Speaker 1>yourself you know, like how much. I mean it's an

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<v Speaker 1>entire house, but to have emergency savings of your own,

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<v Speaker 1>so that if something for the worst were to happen,

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<v Speaker 1>that you and your family at least could have, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>enough money for hotels. Days we have seen Airbnb, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>Airbnb coming out and offerings free, free stays, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>getting some flack because apparently they haven't done that in

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<v Speaker 1>past wildfires that have impacted lower income areas and all that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, but the Airbnb, the state farm of it all.

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<v Speaker 1>My heart goes out to homeowners. And if you think

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<v Speaker 1>people in California are not just like us, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's another I think issue is that people are thinking, oh, California,

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<v Speaker 1>they got money out there, the celebrities will just like

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<v Speaker 1>save everybody. But these are a lot of working class people,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of immigrants, a lot of people who live

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<v Speaker 1>on the edge financially, and they deserve compassion and support.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think California is a very expensive place to

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<v Speaker 3>live relative to the rest of the country, maybe outside

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<v Speaker 3>of like in New York or I goes Seattle or

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<v Speaker 3>something like that, Miami. But the thing is that people here,

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<v Speaker 3>like you're still not making significantly more compared to the

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<v Speaker 3>costs of living. I know so many people who have

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<v Speaker 3>solid jobs. They would be solidly middle class by any standard,

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<v Speaker 3>but the host of living has gotten so high out

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<v Speaker 3>here that they're pressing their stretched to their limits. But

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<v Speaker 3>between that, I mean, they have childcare, they got health insurance,

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<v Speaker 3>they got all these things to add up food costs

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<v Speaker 3>that it's so difficult. I know very few people who

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<v Speaker 3>are my age who even own a home just because

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<v Speaker 3>the prices are so expensive. Like your mortgage is going

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<v Speaker 3>to be five, six, seven thousand dollars a month, and

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<v Speaker 3>that's a lot of money. So many people are just like,

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<v Speaker 3>even if they want to be a homeowner, they're forced

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<v Speaker 3>to be a renter. And you just it's like, it's

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<v Speaker 3>not California great. Play is very prosperous, a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>money flowing around, but the average person is just living

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<v Speaker 3>a very basic life and oftentimes stretch.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, then yeah, we got to speak on that. And

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<v Speaker 1>I mean climate change in general. We know that like

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<v Speaker 1>these these disasters, the what's happening in the environment, it

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<v Speaker 1>adversely impacts brown communities, Black and brown communities so much more.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, who do you think lives on the you know,

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<v Speaker 1>on the Gulf coast getting their homes flooded every time

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<v Speaker 1>another hurricane comms. Who do you think is going to

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<v Speaker 1>be are going to be the people who are in

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<v Speaker 1>the these areas that are not going to have you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the most sophisticated rescue services that can come and rescue

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<v Speaker 1>them and help put out fires and save them from flooding.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, climate change is to me a race and

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<v Speaker 1>socioeconomic issue above all. And it's just you know, we're

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<v Speaker 1>heading into this new administration and the lack of hope

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<v Speaker 1>that I have, the lack of like optimism in terms

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<v Speaker 1>of okay, well, maybe we'll genuinely get more supports, more

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<v Speaker 1>social safety nets so that we can protect the most

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<v Speaker 1>vulnerable communities from these disasters. That is just out the window.

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<v Speaker 1>We got to protect ourselves. We got to lean on,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, our elected officials at a local and state

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<v Speaker 1>level more than hope that they're standing up and community,

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<v Speaker 1>like your neighbors, support one another and take care of

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<v Speaker 1>each other. Because he's just home crazy times. This Smowe

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<v Speaker 1>in Georgia, the hell girl.

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<v Speaker 4>I got Atlanta slow. They looked like the winners in

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<v Speaker 4>New York back in the day.

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<v Speaker 5>Like I was looking at these videos of Atlanta with

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<v Speaker 5>the snow, I'm like, I can't believe it.

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<v Speaker 4>I have never seen it like that.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I've been to Atlanta a couple of times,

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<v Speaker 5>but still never would have thought that much snow in

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<v Speaker 5>Atlanta's wild.

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<v Speaker 1>The blizzard of ninety three is one of my core memories.

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<v Speaker 1>The blizzard in Atlanta of ninety three. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was Midge, Middle Georgia or whatever, but

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<v Speaker 1>and we literally had we were sledding on our hill

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<v Speaker 1>outside our house on sheets of cardboard and like my

0:16:30.560 --> 0:16:33.320
<v Speaker 1>dad inexplicably had a giant roll of plastic, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what he used that for, but we would

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<v Speaker 1>cut little we would cut sheets of plastic and cardboard

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<v Speaker 1>boxes and we just had the best time.

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<v Speaker 4>So well, that was what thirty years ago? There we go.

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<v Speaker 6>Why you got to remind me, like, I mean, I'm

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<v Speaker 6>just saying, I mean I was I was a week kid.

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<v Speaker 6>I think I was in kid, you know, get out

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<v Speaker 6>of here, oh man, okay, and other economics news job

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<v Speaker 6>numbers came out.

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<v Speaker 1>Jobs. It's always so it just never really makes sense

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<v Speaker 1>to me. But the job numbers are really good. More

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<v Speaker 1>companies are hiring, and it's all like, yay is it.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like it doesn't match anecdotally what I'm never

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<v Speaker 5>doing this human experience. Yeah, because I've been talking to

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<v Speaker 5>so many of my friends that are like girl, I've

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<v Speaker 5>been applying for jobs for the past four years, haven't

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<v Speaker 5>been able to get a job. Or they'll be like

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<v Speaker 5>going through interview processes and then it doesn't go anywhere,

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<v Speaker 5>and it just feels like they're checking the box by

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<v Speaker 5>interviewing people, but they already knew who they were going

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<v Speaker 5>to hire because it was somebody's friend from inside the company.

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<v Speaker 4>And there's so much of that going on.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't.

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<v Speaker 5>I saw those numbers and I was like, really, I don't.

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<v Speaker 5>I just it's just something it feels like a disconnect.

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<v Speaker 5>And of course I woke up in the market to

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<v Speaker 5>like all red red red. It's because people are like, oh, no,

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<v Speaker 5>the economy is actually stronger. Maybe that means there won't

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<v Speaker 5>be as many you know, fed rate hikes, but it's.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, uh, actually.

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<v Speaker 5>I just feel like this doesn't match the situation that's

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<v Speaker 5>actually going on. Or maybe it's just me, but that

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<v Speaker 5>definitely feels off to me this time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what are you hearing in the popcorn streets, Chris, Yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Think that's the thing too. I think it's very like

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<v Speaker 3>industry specific too. I think that causes like a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of like full if you're friends, Like for me, I

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<v Speaker 3>have friends who aren't in the industries that are kind

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<v Speaker 3>of like popping off right now that they're doing well.

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<v Speaker 2>So then you see what.

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<v Speaker 1>Some of those industries popping off? Is it all tech AI?

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<v Speaker 2>Techs?

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<v Speaker 3>Like you're hurting a little bit right now, but the

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<v Speaker 3>AI for sure, for sure. I mean engineers are always

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<v Speaker 3>gonna have a job. But obviously, like if you're in

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<v Speaker 3>the AI field, you and be fine. And but there

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<v Speaker 3>are some of the tech comings that have those huge

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<v Speaker 3>layoffs and they still have been keeping their things. Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>their business is very tight. So I mean healthcare is

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<v Speaker 3>always a good one. They always gonna see growth there.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's it's so divided. It's kind of like almost

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<v Speaker 3>like like with class, right, like there's people who are always

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<v Speaker 3>gonna be doing well the people doing poorly. And I

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<v Speaker 3>think job market has become so like tight right now

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<v Speaker 3>that it really depends on what industry you're looking for work.

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<v Speaker 3>Like was saying, I have a friend, one of my

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<v Speaker 3>really good friends. He's been looking for work all year long.

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<v Speaker 3>He got laid off back in I think like February March.

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<v Speaker 1>What does he do ry?

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<v Speaker 2>He works in like healthcare? What do you call it?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, you never know what your friends just got then.

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<v Speaker 1>Is talking about how healthcare is indoculated, and.

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<v Speaker 3>He's not in the hospital. This man was at the desk,

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<v Speaker 3>so he was doing like at prescription drug side. He'd

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<v Speaker 3>be the person who would like monitor the calls to

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<v Speaker 3>make sure people were handling it right, that thing like

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<v Speaker 3>an auditor for that stuff. And they shut down this

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<v Speaker 3>whole department, laid everybody off and just got rid of

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<v Speaker 3>it completely. And this is a multi billion dollar company

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<v Speaker 3>that was doing fine, doing great, And they said, you

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<v Speaker 3>know what, you guys can go ahead and go home

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<v Speaker 3>and he's been struggling to find work ever since.

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<v Speaker 1>And I bet bots are doing that job right now

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred.

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<v Speaker 5>I was about to say on our first round table

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<v Speaker 5>that we talked about this, how AI is literally coming

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<v Speaker 5>for those types of jobs. When you do the type

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<v Speaker 5>of job that can be easily automated, you better start

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<v Speaker 5>looking out for what can you do to protect yourself

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<v Speaker 5>and whether that means picking up new skills or whether

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<v Speaker 5>that means mastering the AI technology so you can be

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<v Speaker 5>the person to train the company leaders on how to

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<v Speaker 5>implement it. But some way, somehow, you got to save yourself.

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<v Speaker 5>Because it's true, a job like that, or like quality assurance,

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<v Speaker 5>or like customer support, like those types of jobs I

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<v Speaker 5>feel like are the first ones to go, especially these

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<v Speaker 5>tech companies that are having these layoffs. And it's funny

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<v Speaker 5>you see AI increasing and tech kind of having a

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<v Speaker 5>little bit of a of an issue.

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<v Speaker 4>Those two things are interconnected.

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<v Speaker 5>Why is tech having so many layoffs because they're bringing

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<v Speaker 5>in AI to get rid of all those jobs.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and I have my brown my brown boost and

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<v Speaker 1>break my break. Really I'm breaking today, y'all. It's going

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<v Speaker 1>to be about that, So you know, stay tuned for

0:20:22.600 --> 0:20:24.600
<v Speaker 1>that I have a rant. I have a rant. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>calling out more people, more companies. All right, Bad Bunny

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<v Speaker 1>is number one in the country. I'm switching to pop culture.

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<v Speaker 1>Bad Bunny number one in the country. I'm so happy.

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<v Speaker 1>I love me some Bad Bunny. I'm not Puerto Rican,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, can't claim it. But what is it about

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<v Speaker 1>him that just sparks so much joy? It's just I

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<v Speaker 1>love to see.

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<v Speaker 4>Him through to his core.

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<v Speaker 5>Like there's so few artists that have been authentic in

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<v Speaker 5>the way he has from day one, Like there is

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<v Speaker 5>not an ounce of fakeness in any of his bones.

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<v Speaker 5>Like he's you get what you see, and he's just

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<v Speaker 5>so raw and real, and he brings it back every

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<v Speaker 5>time to the struggle. Like if you if you're a

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<v Speaker 5>Spanish speaker and you listen to his music and you

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<v Speaker 5>connect back, or even if you just translate the lyrics,

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<v Speaker 5>you'll see like how he's constantly bringing it back to

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<v Speaker 5>the history of the struggles on the island of Puerto Rico,

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<v Speaker 5>and you know the people that had to fight to

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<v Speaker 5>get where the island has, where the successes on the

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<v Speaker 5>island are like celebrating that and just always rooted in

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<v Speaker 5>that celebration of the Puerto Rican culture, which I feel

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<v Speaker 5>like there's very few artists today that constantly do that

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<v Speaker 5>in a way that is authentic and doesn't feel like

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<v Speaker 5>they're trying to play it up for the cloud or

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<v Speaker 5>you or for like social media buzz. He's doing it

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<v Speaker 5>because that's genuinely like the type of music that calls

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<v Speaker 5>to him, and like he's just he's putting it out there.

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<v Speaker 5>Whether it hits or not, it just happens that it

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<v Speaker 5>always hits because it's so good.

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<v Speaker 1>So people don't even know what he's saying. They're just

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<v Speaker 1>like bopping. Yes, that part.

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<v Speaker 3>Someone were talking about how like even they were getting

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<v Speaker 3>on him about like using slang and spaniship people didn't

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<v Speaker 3>understand that. It was like I don't care. He's like,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna do it anyways.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, all that interview clip. They were like, what do

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<v Speaker 4>you think?

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<v Speaker 5>Do you feel like you have to explain yourself and

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<v Speaker 5>he was like, I don't care.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, that's right. Somebody did have to explain

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<v Speaker 1>to me about pololo meant wait, which is like the

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<v Speaker 1>dance that there's a song called yo yo no perero

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<v Speaker 1>yo perero sola pere perero than I don't know that.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know what that is.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen, I got that sontos at the end of my name,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's hyphenated. Okay, I have not really earned I

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<v Speaker 1>have not earned my keep.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, we're just tearing up the Spanish lang.

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<v Speaker 1>What is it?

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<v Speaker 4>Perero, pereo, pereo.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, you know we didn't talk about, well,

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<v Speaker 1>couple of things. One we didn't. I don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>if you guys want to or not want to approach this,

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<v Speaker 1>But the Justin Valdoni Blake Lively lawsuit, the I saw.

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<v Speaker 4>I saw that Chris has a huge.

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<v Speaker 1>Fan of Colleen Hoover. Oh yeah, I got that.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh I feel for Colleen so much. I have no

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<v Speaker 3>idea who any of these people are you're talking about right now?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh I really could Which voice did you read? Because

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like I need to get on it.

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<v Speaker 1>It ends with that he is the president of the

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<v Speaker 1>Colleen Hoover Fan Club. Oh yeah, So you don't know

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<v Speaker 1>who Justin Baldoni or Blake Lively is.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I've heard the name Blakely is what Mary Ryan

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<v Speaker 2>Reynolds that is?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, yeah, okay, the eye rolls I have girl. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>the reason I bring it up is because the me

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<v Speaker 1>too of it all and now we're supposed to be

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<v Speaker 1>in this like era of when women are believed, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>when they call out harassment. But it has been I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, it has been fascinating to me, people taking

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<v Speaker 1>sides and how it's been flipping. But yeah, for the

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<v Speaker 1>crises of the ba fam. Just to recap, Blake Lively

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<v Speaker 1>starred in a film that came out this summer called

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<v Speaker 1>It Ends with Us, based on a very popular romance

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<v Speaker 1>novel by Colleen Hoover. So she's an author getting it okay?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? Justin Baldoni, who was my you know, my

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<v Speaker 1>pretend boyfriend because he was so fine and he played

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<v Speaker 1>Jane the Virgin love interest. Did you watch Jamee Jane

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<v Speaker 1>the Virgin? I did, loved him, but he since Jane

0:24:06.240 --> 0:24:10.919
<v Speaker 1>the Virgin has become this like his professional feminist, professional

0:24:10.920 --> 0:24:12.080
<v Speaker 1>male feminist.

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<v Speaker 4>His podcast, his brand, his whole image.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, and I so when he came to direct

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<v Speaker 1>It Ends with Us, which is about domestic abuse. It's

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<v Speaker 1>about a woman Blake's character who gets in a relationship

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<v Speaker 1>with a man who has the most ridiculous name in

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<v Speaker 1>literature Rile and gets. Have y'all seen the y'all know

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<v Speaker 1>Christians in the movie.

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<v Speaker 5>I haven't read the book or seen the movie, so

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<v Speaker 5>I was reading about it and I was like, no,

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<v Speaker 5>but I feel like I need to go and look

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<v Speaker 5>at the Actually, you just see the tension that was

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<v Speaker 5>between them in terms of the characters.

0:24:46.040 --> 0:24:46.600
<v Speaker 4>That they played.

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<v Speaker 1>Need is a strong word. Do you need to know?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I feel like I'm missing context. That's what

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<v Speaker 5>I meant. I don't think I feel the need, but

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like the context that I'm missing is because

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't see it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, I mean it's just so crazy because the

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<v Speaker 1>film is she's in a relationship with Justin Baldoni's character.

0:25:03.320 --> 0:25:06.040
<v Speaker 1>He's also the director and the producer. So this is

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<v Speaker 1>where I'm like, Okay, if they were ever gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>like abuse or harassment, it's gonna happen on a set

0:25:12.560 --> 0:25:16.080
<v Speaker 1>when or in an office where your boss is also

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<v Speaker 1>your coworker and also like the chairman of the board.

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<v Speaker 1>That's basically what it's like to be producing, directing, and

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<v Speaker 1>starring in the film. And so Blake I think she

0:25:26.240 --> 0:25:29.359
<v Speaker 1>is a producer on the film as well, but Justin's

0:25:30.000 --> 0:25:32.879
<v Speaker 1>Justin's production company is like behind the whole thing. So anyway,

0:25:33.119 --> 0:25:35.159
<v Speaker 1>her character is in love with him and he is

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<v Speaker 1>physically abusive toward her and she's sort of like slowly

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<v Speaker 1>coming to grips with that. It's one of those things

0:25:40.720 --> 0:25:45.000
<v Speaker 1>where like is it abuse? Is it? It's fine? So anyway,

0:25:45.119 --> 0:25:48.840
<v Speaker 1>since there was all this you know, drama on the

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<v Speaker 1>social media and in streets, because during the premiere, Justin

0:25:53.040 --> 0:25:56.880
<v Speaker 1>was never seen with the cast, you know, so there

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<v Speaker 1>was like this you know, speculation, and I was told

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<v Speaker 1>totally into it because I know that, I know Blake,

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<v Speaker 1>I know Justin. I'm on TikTok and I'm watching all

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm waiting for the hot takes and cut and

0:26:07.680 --> 0:26:09.760
<v Speaker 1>then it was very but it was still it felt

0:26:09.760 --> 0:26:12.959
<v Speaker 1>like they were being very grown up about it, very mature.

0:26:13.040 --> 0:26:16.440
<v Speaker 1>No one was really calling anyone out, but you did

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<v Speaker 1>wonder like is there illegal, Like what what's happening in

0:26:20.480 --> 0:26:22.880
<v Speaker 1>the back, what's happening in the back of this? And

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<v Speaker 1>Christmas Eve or Christmas Week, Blake's team issued not not

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<v Speaker 1>did they not only did they file this lawsuit against

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<v Speaker 1>Justin and everybody else on his side, but they did

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<v Speaker 1>it through the new York Times, like the New York Times,

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<v Speaker 1>did they? Chris is like, wow, story time, I'm learning.

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<v Speaker 5>That is big, I mean, and yeah, accused him straight

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<v Speaker 5>up of sexual harassment on set, which you know, that's

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<v Speaker 5>not a light thing. That's not like you made me

0:26:51.280 --> 0:26:55.520
<v Speaker 5>uncomfortable in the workplace, that's straight up, that's ay like this,

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<v Speaker 5>this is what you did.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Did you read any of the complaints? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>La or coz. Again, I don't know why, but sometimes

0:27:05.359 --> 0:27:07.480
<v Speaker 1>I get hyper fixated on something and I love to

0:27:07.480 --> 0:27:10.800
<v Speaker 1>read a legal complaint. They're fascinating. So I did read

0:27:10.840 --> 0:27:14.520
<v Speaker 1>it. It was like many many pages of accusations. And it

0:27:14.760 --> 0:27:17.119
<v Speaker 1>wasn't just that, you know. What creeped me out about

0:27:17.119 --> 0:27:19.000
<v Speaker 1>this whole thing made me feel gross about it was

0:27:19.000 --> 0:27:22.040
<v Speaker 1>a couple of things, one being that Blake did all

0:27:22.040 --> 0:27:27.560
<v Speaker 1>the things she did confront justin through the proper channels.

0:27:27.640 --> 0:27:31.720
<v Speaker 1>She tried to get you know, anyone involved that could like,

0:27:32.160 --> 0:27:36.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, take her concerns seriously. But the problem is, again,

0:27:36.040 --> 0:27:38.920
<v Speaker 1>he's her boss. The production company is usually who would

0:27:39.000 --> 0:27:40.960
<v Speaker 1>keep this kind of bad acting like have to like

0:27:41.520 --> 0:27:45.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, hold people accountable for it. He's the producer,

0:27:45.400 --> 0:27:48.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, he's his company. It's the production company behind it.

0:27:48.520 --> 0:27:50.800
<v Speaker 1>She had tried to go to the distribution company, which

0:27:50.840 --> 0:27:54.480
<v Speaker 1>is basically a distributor is like distributor is like what

0:27:54.760 --> 0:27:56.879
<v Speaker 1>Cumulus is for Brown Ambition right now, they put our

0:27:56.920 --> 0:28:00.520
<v Speaker 1>podcast out to all the different networks that people can hear, right,

0:28:01.600 --> 0:28:04.399
<v Speaker 1>So the I think the distributor for the film, I

0:28:04.400 --> 0:28:06.880
<v Speaker 1>don't want to I think it was Sony, but they

0:28:06.880 --> 0:28:08.520
<v Speaker 1>were like, well, we can't do anything. We're just in

0:28:08.600 --> 0:28:11.560
<v Speaker 1>charge of taking the movie and putting it in people's

0:28:11.840 --> 0:28:15.720
<v Speaker 1>you know, streaming platforms in the theaters and stuff. And

0:28:15.800 --> 0:28:19.119
<v Speaker 1>she had they had taken a break for filming. She

0:28:19.200 --> 0:28:21.160
<v Speaker 1>had said, I need you to not show me any

0:28:21.240 --> 0:28:24.399
<v Speaker 1>videos of your wife giving birth, which, like one of

0:28:24.480 --> 0:28:27.800
<v Speaker 1>his producers, yeah, yeah, juice. You guys got to read

0:28:27.800 --> 0:28:30.520
<v Speaker 1>this the whole complaints of the New York Times. So yeah,

0:28:30.560 --> 0:28:33.320
<v Speaker 1>like his producing partner had apparently because Blake gives birth

0:28:33.359 --> 0:28:36.440
<v Speaker 1>in the movie and had apparently shown her a video

0:28:36.520 --> 0:28:39.840
<v Speaker 1>of his wife having a vaginal birth that they and

0:28:39.920 --> 0:28:42.840
<v Speaker 1>there's some obviously the romance, so there's sex in the movie,

0:28:42.880 --> 0:28:45.880
<v Speaker 1>and like Justin apparently would try to introduce new love

0:28:45.920 --> 0:28:50.560
<v Speaker 1>scenes without Blake's prior consent. She was a you know,

0:28:50.600 --> 0:28:53.160
<v Speaker 1>and as a new mom myself, a relatively new mom,

0:28:53.240 --> 0:28:55.800
<v Speaker 1>like she was she had just had a baby before,

0:28:55.800 --> 0:28:57.760
<v Speaker 1>she like three months before, and she was on this

0:28:57.920 --> 0:29:01.520
<v Speaker 1>set pumping in her dress and her trailer, and like

0:29:01.560 --> 0:29:04.720
<v Speaker 1>they would apparently just like barge in while she was

0:29:04.880 --> 0:29:08.680
<v Speaker 1>in various states of undress because she was pumping, and

0:29:08.800 --> 0:29:11.680
<v Speaker 1>just like boundaries were being crossed, and like too much

0:29:11.880 --> 0:29:15.720
<v Speaker 1>comments about how sexy she looked and outfits and it

0:29:15.800 --> 0:29:20.760
<v Speaker 1>wasn't just her, many other actors on the set apparently

0:29:21.400 --> 0:29:24.640
<v Speaker 1>you know, worth supporting her. And she came to them

0:29:24.640 --> 0:29:27.280
<v Speaker 1>with these complaints. They agreed to not continue with that,

0:29:27.480 --> 0:29:31.760
<v Speaker 1>but obviously the lawsuit. The other side of this is

0:29:31.840 --> 0:29:35.920
<v Speaker 1>like the PR firm that was behind this takedown of

0:29:35.960 --> 0:29:39.920
<v Speaker 1>Blake that was actually taught. They've had these screenshots, these

0:29:39.920 --> 0:29:46.160
<v Speaker 1>text messages of the PR firm actively plotting to take

0:29:46.240 --> 0:29:48.840
<v Speaker 1>down like to assassinate her character in the press. So

0:29:49.600 --> 0:29:52.120
<v Speaker 1>and they and like there's a text from Justin being

0:29:52.160 --> 0:29:55.280
<v Speaker 1>like we need something like this, and it's like it's

0:29:55.360 --> 0:29:59.000
<v Speaker 1>a story about another actress being a diva on set

0:29:59.680 --> 0:30:01.400
<v Speaker 1>and he's telling his firm like this is what we

0:30:01.440 --> 0:30:03.440
<v Speaker 1>would need something like this can I order one of these?

0:30:03.440 --> 0:30:05.720
<v Speaker 1>One of these? Please? Please? Can I get one of these?

0:30:05.720 --> 0:30:08.640
<v Speaker 1>Like hit pieces on Blake's and you know what came out?

0:30:08.760 --> 0:30:09.400
<v Speaker 4>What a jerk?

0:30:10.000 --> 0:30:13.840
<v Speaker 1>It was like Blake talking bad to a reporter came out,

0:30:14.000 --> 0:30:15.880
<v Speaker 1>you know that clip that resurface from Like.

0:30:17.840 --> 0:30:20.240
<v Speaker 3>I don't I knew nothing about all these other details,

0:30:20.240 --> 0:30:22.400
<v Speaker 3>but I had seen a couple of those videos, even

0:30:22.440 --> 0:30:24.240
<v Speaker 3>though I barely even know who Blake Lively is, and

0:30:24.280 --> 0:30:26.200
<v Speaker 3>it was like, look at her this press conference and

0:30:26.240 --> 0:30:28.120
<v Speaker 3>how rude she was and dismissed him. And I was like, oh,

0:30:28.160 --> 0:30:29.520
<v Speaker 3>maybe she's not a good person, but I don't know

0:30:29.560 --> 0:30:32.120
<v Speaker 3>who she is. But I didn't know the PR was

0:30:32.120 --> 0:30:34.000
<v Speaker 3>getting me because I didn't even care. And I'm like, hmm,

0:30:34.120 --> 0:30:34.680
<v Speaker 3>maybe she's not.

0:30:34.720 --> 0:30:38.720
<v Speaker 5>Getting That's how these things work. That's why these PR

0:30:38.800 --> 0:30:41.720
<v Speaker 5>campaigns are successful, and that's why people pay top dollar

0:30:41.840 --> 0:30:43.840
<v Speaker 5>to get people to spin up stories in the media.

0:30:44.680 --> 0:30:47.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think because I have a background on journalism,

0:30:47.360 --> 0:30:50.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm always I like to think I'm a really good

0:30:50.440 --> 0:30:54.040
<v Speaker 1>consumer of news, Like I'm always kind of like tablespoon

0:30:54.080 --> 0:30:55.760
<v Speaker 1>of salt when I read stuff. You know, what's the

0:30:55.800 --> 0:30:59.160
<v Speaker 1>person's angle, what's their play in this? Why would they

0:30:59.200 --> 0:31:01.960
<v Speaker 1>want this story to come out? What's what's what's good about?

0:31:02.000 --> 0:31:03.560
<v Speaker 1>Why are they being quoted here? Why are they giving

0:31:03.600 --> 0:31:07.840
<v Speaker 1>a comment? Stuff? But I it was just chilling to

0:31:07.920 --> 0:31:13.360
<v Speaker 1>see how like how sophisticated the social media campaign was

0:31:13.440 --> 0:31:16.320
<v Speaker 1>against Blake and how hard it is to trace it back,

0:31:16.800 --> 0:31:20.320
<v Speaker 1>and how quickly it came all like full circle. After

0:31:20.360 --> 0:31:24.840
<v Speaker 1>she filed this lawsuit, you were seeing again more you know,

0:31:25.280 --> 0:31:29.120
<v Speaker 1>positive headlines about Justin in social and like negative stuff

0:31:29.120 --> 0:31:33.600
<v Speaker 1>about Blake and Ryan Reynolds. You know that she in it.

0:31:34.720 --> 0:31:36.480
<v Speaker 1>Throw him in there? Why not? Because you know how

0:31:36.480 --> 0:31:39.360
<v Speaker 1>she needs him to like be the protector here and

0:31:39.400 --> 0:31:42.720
<v Speaker 1>how they are bullying Justin and all this as a

0:31:42.720 --> 0:31:46.560
<v Speaker 1>woman in the workplace, like it just I still feel

0:31:46.640 --> 0:31:50.840
<v Speaker 1>like we have so far to go. It's sad to me.

0:31:51.200 --> 0:31:54.840
<v Speaker 1>I want and for yeah, for Blake. Also, like when

0:31:54.840 --> 0:31:56.920
<v Speaker 1>she came out with the lawsuit, she had all of

0:31:56.920 --> 0:31:59.600
<v Speaker 1>her former co stars put out statements. It was almost

0:31:59.640 --> 0:32:01.960
<v Speaker 1>like she was saying, I really need everybody to come

0:32:02.000 --> 0:32:03.920
<v Speaker 1>back me on this because no one's gonna believe me

0:32:04.560 --> 0:32:07.680
<v Speaker 1>even though I'm Blake from like Lively, Yeah, you know.

0:32:07.840 --> 0:32:10.080
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, And it's so sad that she even had to

0:32:10.120 --> 0:32:13.240
<v Speaker 5>do that, but she knew, she knew what the odds

0:32:13.240 --> 0:32:16.120
<v Speaker 5>are and what she's up against. Unfortunately, and I mean

0:32:16.280 --> 0:32:18.959
<v Speaker 5>good for her to think ahead, to prepare in that

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<v Speaker 5>way and know that she needs to come correct, because

0:32:22.320 --> 0:32:24.680
<v Speaker 5>the reality is, yeah, had she not done that, had

0:32:24.720 --> 0:32:26.760
<v Speaker 5>she not done that preparation, it might be a completely

0:32:26.760 --> 0:32:28.320
<v Speaker 5>different headline that we'd be reading now.

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<v Speaker 3>She's still not such a long way to go, and

0:32:33.760 --> 0:32:36.120
<v Speaker 3>it shows she like on social media, when something takes off,

0:32:36.200 --> 0:32:38.480
<v Speaker 3>whether or not it's true or not right once who

0:32:38.640 --> 0:32:40.640
<v Speaker 3>gets that first message out first kind of controls it

0:32:40.680 --> 0:32:42.640
<v Speaker 3>after that, and then other people start hopping on it,

0:32:42.680 --> 0:32:44.960
<v Speaker 3>stitching it together. They're doing their little comments, and then

0:32:45.160 --> 0:32:47.280
<v Speaker 3>it takes on the life that everyone's just going to

0:32:47.320 --> 0:32:49.000
<v Speaker 3>believe the story once it comes out, because how can

0:32:49.040 --> 0:32:50.480
<v Speaker 3>you pull something back like that once it's out there.

0:32:50.480 --> 0:32:53.080
<v Speaker 2>It's so hard to get a narrative back. Yep.

0:32:53.240 --> 0:32:55.320
<v Speaker 1>And the way that's what women don't say, shit.

0:32:55.720 --> 0:32:56.800
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, oh yeah.

0:32:57.200 --> 0:33:00.000
<v Speaker 5>The social manipulation is the crazy part of it, right,

0:33:00.200 --> 0:33:02.120
<v Speaker 5>And I mean you talked about this before, Mandy on

0:33:02.160 --> 0:33:04.440
<v Speaker 5>the show, but like the j Lo slander and how

0:33:04.440 --> 0:33:07.120
<v Speaker 5>they literally one day to the next, I woke up

0:33:07.120 --> 0:33:08.600
<v Speaker 5>and everybody hated j LO and I was like, what

0:33:09.280 --> 0:33:10.240
<v Speaker 5>when did that happen?

0:33:10.360 --> 0:33:11.160
<v Speaker 4>Like it' should but.

0:33:11.080 --> 0:33:15.160
<v Speaker 5>It but it happens so fast, especially the memes and

0:33:15.400 --> 0:33:18.360
<v Speaker 5>how quick I mean that's literally memes is the root

0:33:18.480 --> 0:33:22.640
<v Speaker 5>of the word mimetic right where it's like so quickly

0:33:22.800 --> 0:33:23.680
<v Speaker 5>it can educate.

0:33:26.920 --> 0:33:28.560
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, medics listen.

0:33:28.840 --> 0:33:30.960
<v Speaker 5>The only reason I know is because my working works

0:33:30.960 --> 0:33:32.720
<v Speaker 5>in tech and he's like goes into like the history

0:33:32.720 --> 0:33:34.280
<v Speaker 5>of things. Sometimes I'm like I don't need all that,

0:33:34.360 --> 0:33:37.000
<v Speaker 5>I just need to know, but but it is interesting.

0:33:37.040 --> 0:33:39.280
<v Speaker 5>Actually we start to look into it, how you know,

0:33:39.520 --> 0:33:42.520
<v Speaker 5>so quickly it morphs and like so many people everywhere

0:33:42.640 --> 0:33:44.760
<v Speaker 5>just start to turn it into their own version of something.

0:33:44.840 --> 0:33:47.840
<v Speaker 5>And that's that's literally what's happening here. This like social

0:33:47.960 --> 0:33:50.440
<v Speaker 5>manipulation campaign pretty much is what was going on.

0:33:51.160 --> 0:33:55.719
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's scary. Anybody can do that to me. Anybody

0:33:55.760 --> 0:33:57.000
<v Speaker 4>can do that. I mean, you know.

0:33:58.720 --> 0:34:03.000
<v Speaker 1>Right now, the dude and the dude for all men,

0:34:03.560 --> 0:34:08.200
<v Speaker 1>for all humans with penises, can you please explain why

0:34:08.520 --> 0:34:09.840
<v Speaker 1>you're so terrible?

0:34:10.640 --> 0:34:13.040
<v Speaker 4>Oh how long do we have at life?

0:34:13.520 --> 0:34:16.080
<v Speaker 1>Or like, how can you be a better ally? How

0:34:16.080 --> 0:34:18.600
<v Speaker 1>can then be better allies to women? In the well?

0:34:18.680 --> 0:34:21.360
<v Speaker 1>One of the things I will tell Chris, paying the

0:34:21.400 --> 0:34:25.080
<v Speaker 1>camera over to your little bookcase over there. Oh we

0:34:25.080 --> 0:34:28.160
<v Speaker 1>can't see it. Look at that, Look at that.

0:34:28.920 --> 0:34:29.440
<v Speaker 2>Bring them over.

0:34:29.560 --> 0:34:31.879
<v Speaker 1>He got his he got cysts on the bookshelf, burn

0:34:31.960 --> 0:34:36.719
<v Speaker 1>UD's book.

0:34:36.920 --> 0:34:40.840
<v Speaker 5>I mean that right there, that's the first step to

0:34:40.880 --> 0:34:41.760
<v Speaker 5>being a good ally.

0:34:41.920 --> 0:34:43.680
<v Speaker 4>Just make sure you put it in the frame next time.

0:34:43.760 --> 0:34:47.399
<v Speaker 2>Chris, like, we got to focus over here.

0:34:47.840 --> 0:34:50.720
<v Speaker 3>But I mean, to me, it's like I it doesn't

0:34:50.960 --> 0:34:52.360
<v Speaker 3>It doesn't take a lot of thought for me to

0:34:52.360 --> 0:34:55.880
<v Speaker 3>be like, well, look what men and women were all people, right,

0:34:55.920 --> 0:34:57.480
<v Speaker 3>and these are my friends. These are people who are

0:34:57.560 --> 0:35:00.759
<v Speaker 3>very talented. To me, being someone who's talented, skilled, just

0:35:00.760 --> 0:35:03.439
<v Speaker 3>a good person, it makes it easy to support someone.

0:35:03.480 --> 0:35:05.680
<v Speaker 3>And to me, it doesn't matter, you know, I see

0:35:05.680 --> 0:35:07.160
<v Speaker 3>no difference between men and women as far as what

0:35:07.480 --> 0:35:09.200
<v Speaker 3>any of us are capable, which sounds like a stupid

0:35:09.239 --> 0:35:11.279
<v Speaker 3>statement to make, because like, obviously, but there's so many

0:35:11.320 --> 0:35:14.439
<v Speaker 3>people who don't see it that way. And I think

0:35:14.480 --> 0:35:17.319
<v Speaker 3>for me, my mom, she was the higher earner in

0:35:17.320 --> 0:35:20.120
<v Speaker 3>my family. My dad did a lot of cleaning and cooking,

0:35:20.719 --> 0:35:23.120
<v Speaker 3>so it never seemed weird to me to have some

0:35:23.120 --> 0:35:25.400
<v Speaker 3>type of balance or to do tasks that would traditionally

0:35:25.440 --> 0:35:26.879
<v Speaker 3>be for a woman, because it's like, it's not it's

0:35:26.920 --> 0:35:28.600
<v Speaker 3>just keep a household going, and we're all working as

0:35:28.600 --> 0:35:31.000
<v Speaker 3>a team. And I think so many people don't get

0:35:31.000 --> 0:35:33.000
<v Speaker 3>those examples. But me and my brother were very fortunate

0:35:33.000 --> 0:35:35.279
<v Speaker 3>to see those examples and see a woman who was

0:35:35.360 --> 0:35:38.560
<v Speaker 3>running her office and who was, you know, making more

0:35:38.560 --> 0:35:40.640
<v Speaker 3>and more money every single year. And I think it's

0:35:40.640 --> 0:35:42.200
<v Speaker 3>just so many people like that and then like the

0:35:42.200 --> 0:35:44.799
<v Speaker 3>empathy to even see that there's more than one way

0:35:44.840 --> 0:35:47.239
<v Speaker 3>to do things. But it's it's kind of I don't know.

0:35:47.360 --> 0:35:49.600
<v Speaker 3>I think more people just need to be I try

0:35:49.600 --> 0:35:50.920
<v Speaker 3>to be that for my friends. I try to be

0:35:51.320 --> 0:35:53.279
<v Speaker 3>an example of hey, it doesn't really matter, we all

0:35:53.320 --> 0:35:55.480
<v Speaker 3>can do this. I have no problem with I want

0:35:55.480 --> 0:35:57.280
<v Speaker 3>to be more powerful than me and earning more money,

0:35:57.280 --> 0:35:59.640
<v Speaker 3>but it takes I think, more and more people. I

0:35:59.680 --> 0:36:01.640
<v Speaker 3>don't know, just seeing those examples of being willing to

0:36:01.880 --> 0:36:03.879
<v Speaker 3>have in minds change from everything they saw in their

0:36:03.880 --> 0:36:05.480
<v Speaker 3>household or they learn from their friends.

0:36:05.920 --> 0:36:08.239
<v Speaker 5>Yep, it's that programming. They have to kind of be

0:36:08.760 --> 0:36:12.760
<v Speaker 5>un rewired, unprogrammed and rewire the way that they're thinking,

0:36:12.880 --> 0:36:15.680
<v Speaker 5>because it's it's true, it's kind of hard. I mean,

0:36:15.719 --> 0:36:18.400
<v Speaker 5>when you when your brain just operates a certain way,

0:36:19.000 --> 0:36:22.799
<v Speaker 5>it's really difficult for you to up and choose to

0:36:22.960 --> 0:36:25.880
<v Speaker 5>think differently. That it sounds so simple. Oh I'm just

0:36:25.880 --> 0:36:28.319
<v Speaker 5>gonna choose not to believe that anymore and to start

0:36:28.360 --> 0:36:31.200
<v Speaker 5>believing this. But yeah, simple as it sounds, it's one

0:36:31.239 --> 0:36:33.520
<v Speaker 5>of the most difficult things to do to change your

0:36:33.600 --> 0:36:36.760
<v Speaker 5>mind and rewire the way that you think and ideas

0:36:36.800 --> 0:36:40.080
<v Speaker 5>that pop into your head. It's beyond your control in

0:36:40.080 --> 0:36:41.640
<v Speaker 5>a lot of ways, and you have to work, work,

0:36:41.760 --> 0:36:44.880
<v Speaker 5>work at it to re you know, to rewire that

0:36:44.960 --> 0:36:47.000
<v Speaker 5>it's it's really really hard.

0:36:47.800 --> 0:36:50.560
<v Speaker 4>And to your mama, to your mama.

0:36:50.800 --> 0:36:52.799
<v Speaker 1>I also feel like Chris, you know, one of the

0:36:52.840 --> 0:36:55.239
<v Speaker 1>things that makes such great to be your friend as

0:36:55.239 --> 0:36:59.359
<v Speaker 1>a woman. I feel like men who have women as

0:36:59.440 --> 0:37:02.200
<v Speaker 1>friends should be studied because I think it's it's an

0:37:02.239 --> 0:37:06.960
<v Speaker 1>extremely good sign of a well rounded human man. They

0:37:06.960 --> 0:37:11.520
<v Speaker 1>can have platonic girl friends who are women, because there's

0:37:11.680 --> 0:37:16.000
<v Speaker 1>something that's broken in terms of like especially the younger men. Now.

0:37:16.080 --> 0:37:17.680
<v Speaker 1>I know we were getting there when we were in

0:37:17.719 --> 0:37:20.600
<v Speaker 1>our teens, but like now, for sure, women are just

0:37:20.640 --> 0:37:23.479
<v Speaker 1>so hyper sexualized to young men that you're only seen

0:37:23.480 --> 0:37:26.759
<v Speaker 1>as objects, like you're only seen as something that they

0:37:26.760 --> 0:37:30.360
<v Speaker 1>should be attracted to or unattracted to, like you should

0:37:30.360 --> 0:37:32.880
<v Speaker 1>be looked at for your appearance and judge based on

0:37:32.920 --> 0:37:34.640
<v Speaker 1>it that they don't even hear what's coming out of

0:37:34.640 --> 0:37:38.320
<v Speaker 1>your mouth, or it's like either you're too sexy or

0:37:38.360 --> 0:37:40.600
<v Speaker 1>too attractive, which can be you know, can be Like

0:37:41.120 --> 0:37:44.560
<v Speaker 1>then you get, you know, get blamed for the reason

0:37:44.560 --> 0:37:46.880
<v Speaker 1>why men are so lonely, and like God forbid you

0:37:46.920 --> 0:37:49.400
<v Speaker 1>turn down somebody. And then there's just like this, like

0:37:49.640 --> 0:37:52.120
<v Speaker 1>young men on the internet, who are you know?

0:37:52.320 --> 0:37:53.080
<v Speaker 4>Who are who?

0:37:53.239 --> 0:37:54.799
<v Speaker 1>What do you call? What is it? What's the thing?

0:37:54.840 --> 0:37:55.719
<v Speaker 1>Misogyny enough?

0:37:57.120 --> 0:37:57.200
<v Speaker 2>What?

0:37:57.719 --> 0:37:59.719
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? In cel, thank you, thank you for the word,

0:38:00.120 --> 0:38:03.400
<v Speaker 1>and these in cells where it's just it's toxic, you know,

0:38:03.440 --> 0:38:08.399
<v Speaker 1>against women. But to have that ability as a man

0:38:08.480 --> 0:38:10.719
<v Speaker 1>and to raise men, it's so important. I have two

0:38:10.800 --> 0:38:14.000
<v Speaker 1>young boys and I'm raising and I just I want

0:38:14.040 --> 0:38:17.800
<v Speaker 1>them to grow up seeing women as just well full rounded,

0:38:17.800 --> 0:38:21.320
<v Speaker 1>well rounded people, human beings who deserve to be listened

0:38:21.360 --> 0:38:25.719
<v Speaker 1>to and not put in this this this box of

0:38:26.280 --> 0:38:32.680
<v Speaker 1>desirability and you know, appearance, and yeah, it's it's scary,

0:38:32.760 --> 0:38:33.399
<v Speaker 1>it really is.

0:38:33.840 --> 0:38:37.839
<v Speaker 5>If you're not attractive you're you know, you're attacked for

0:38:38.000 --> 0:38:42.240
<v Speaker 5>not putting enough effort, energy, time into into how you look.

0:38:42.600 --> 0:38:45.000
<v Speaker 5>And if you look really good, all you're accused of

0:38:45.080 --> 0:38:47.440
<v Speaker 5>using your looks to get ahead. And it's like, well,

0:38:47.480 --> 0:38:50.919
<v Speaker 5>where the hell where you know? Come on now, we

0:38:50.920 --> 0:38:53.319
<v Speaker 5>we just can't just be like we We can't we

0:38:53.400 --> 0:38:56.600
<v Speaker 5>literally can't just exist and be trying to pursue our

0:38:56.640 --> 0:38:59.279
<v Speaker 5>passions and and find things that we're interested in and

0:38:59.480 --> 0:39:02.960
<v Speaker 5>be productive members of society. Like oh no, like you

0:39:03.080 --> 0:39:06.960
<v Speaker 5>have to fit into a certain box otherwise it's not acceptable.

0:39:07.239 --> 0:39:09.760
<v Speaker 5>And that is so the most frustrating part of existing

0:39:09.760 --> 0:39:12.040
<v Speaker 5>as a woman, especially in twenty twenty five and beyond.

0:39:12.040 --> 0:39:14.480
<v Speaker 5>You would think that we would have gotten over these things,

0:39:14.520 --> 0:39:17.640
<v Speaker 5>but time and time again, some pro athlete makes a

0:39:17.640 --> 0:39:20.200
<v Speaker 5>speech at a graduation talking about women need to take

0:39:20.239 --> 0:39:21.799
<v Speaker 5>a step back and go back in the kitchen and

0:39:21.840 --> 0:39:22.920
<v Speaker 5>be in the home, and I want.

0:39:22.719 --> 0:39:24.280
<v Speaker 4>To slap the freaking computer screen.

0:39:24.719 --> 0:39:28.080
<v Speaker 5>I'm like, wait, what so I mean you just can't

0:39:28.080 --> 0:39:29.640
<v Speaker 5>get it right, You just can't get right. We just

0:39:29.680 --> 0:39:33.880
<v Speaker 5>have to follow our intuition, do what brings us joy

0:39:34.000 --> 0:39:36.040
<v Speaker 5>and makes us feel fulfilled, because at the end of

0:39:36.080 --> 0:39:39.240
<v Speaker 5>the day, everybody is going to have something to say

0:39:39.320 --> 0:39:41.120
<v Speaker 5>about the way that you exist when.

0:39:41.040 --> 0:39:41.600
<v Speaker 4>You're a woman.

0:39:41.800 --> 0:39:44.000
<v Speaker 5>So you sort of got to pave your own path

0:39:44.040 --> 0:39:45.799
<v Speaker 5>and do your own thing, man.

0:39:45.920 --> 0:39:47.480
<v Speaker 3>And you know, people need to be willing to. I

0:39:47.480 --> 0:39:50.319
<v Speaker 3>think men need to be willing to. I guess view

0:39:50.360 --> 0:39:52.560
<v Speaker 3>a different perspective and understand that there are different experiences

0:39:52.760 --> 0:39:54.839
<v Speaker 3>very similar, like with race, right, Like people, if you're

0:39:54.840 --> 0:39:57.880
<v Speaker 3>on one in one group, you don't necessarily recognize the

0:39:57.920 --> 0:40:00.719
<v Speaker 3>struggles or the experience of another group. With men, they

0:40:00.719 --> 0:40:03.520
<v Speaker 3>often don't. They don't even know that there are women

0:40:03.560 --> 0:40:05.600
<v Speaker 3>experience a whole different existence of life than they are

0:40:05.840 --> 0:40:07.839
<v Speaker 3>because you especially my appearance. You know, guys can look

0:40:07.840 --> 0:40:10.120
<v Speaker 3>like a leftover sandwich and be rent at the company

0:40:10.360 --> 0:40:12.399
<v Speaker 3>and nobody even cares, nobody even looking at them. They'd

0:40:12.400 --> 0:40:14.960
<v Speaker 3>be dressed horribly, the ugly ees personal birsity in your

0:40:14.960 --> 0:40:17.839
<v Speaker 3>life and nobody even thinks twice about it. And so

0:40:17.880 --> 0:40:24.279
<v Speaker 3>it's like one of those things where you know, I'm

0:40:24.320 --> 0:40:26.759
<v Speaker 3>trying to win, I'm trying to help you out, and

0:40:26.800 --> 0:40:29.040
<v Speaker 3>you just made like three more in cels right now, but.

0:40:32.760 --> 0:40:35.399
<v Speaker 4>You're adding to their group. Come on, Manny, And.

0:40:36.040 --> 0:40:37.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I'm sorry.

0:40:38.239 --> 0:40:41.040
<v Speaker 2>I don't even know you know, you're not sorry, not

0:40:41.080 --> 0:40:41.839
<v Speaker 2>even a little bit.

0:40:42.160 --> 0:40:42.759
<v Speaker 1>Just feels right.

0:40:43.320 --> 0:40:44.839
<v Speaker 3>I just lay, I just threw it out there for you,

0:40:44.920 --> 0:40:46.560
<v Speaker 3>like I'm taking this. There's no way I'm not got

0:40:46.560 --> 0:40:47.080
<v Speaker 3>to look at you.

0:40:47.040 --> 0:40:49.560
<v Speaker 1>Got a black T shirt on and the same every

0:40:49.600 --> 0:40:51.280
<v Speaker 1>you don't do anything? Did you put did you powder

0:40:51.320 --> 0:40:54.560
<v Speaker 1>your head? Like tip like a mean Ellie over here?

0:40:54.840 --> 0:40:58.000
<v Speaker 1>Face face girl? I hate saying face beats not my

0:40:58.040 --> 0:41:00.239
<v Speaker 1>favorite thing I make in.

0:41:00.360 --> 0:41:05.320
<v Speaker 3>Violent you know, hey, I've shaved my head. I combed

0:41:05.360 --> 0:41:07.439
<v Speaker 3>out and put some stuff on my beer. I didn't

0:41:07.480 --> 0:41:08.360
<v Speaker 3>just roll out of bed.

0:41:08.640 --> 0:41:08.960
<v Speaker 2>Come on.

0:41:09.080 --> 0:41:11.080
<v Speaker 3>I put a little bit of effort, clearly not as

0:41:11.160 --> 0:41:13.240
<v Speaker 3>much effort as you put, but I put a little

0:41:13.239 --> 0:41:15.480
<v Speaker 3>bit of effort.

0:41:17.840 --> 0:41:19.719
<v Speaker 1>Well, Chris, let's just end on the high note of

0:41:19.800 --> 0:41:24.160
<v Speaker 1>like your You are a ally in a lot of ways,

0:41:24.200 --> 0:41:27.080
<v Speaker 1>and I hope I love that, you know. Having you

0:41:27.120 --> 0:41:28.680
<v Speaker 1>at the round table is just like, let's put an

0:41:28.719 --> 0:41:31.040
<v Speaker 1>example of a man who you're listening to two women

0:41:31.080 --> 0:41:33.719
<v Speaker 1>and you're fine letting us just jibber jabber, you know,

0:41:34.120 --> 0:41:36.480
<v Speaker 1>because you were like you and you're listening like you

0:41:36.520 --> 0:41:39.560
<v Speaker 1>care what we have to say, and sad, very sadly,

0:41:40.040 --> 0:41:43.080
<v Speaker 1>that's not always the case, especially in personal finance.

0:41:44.440 --> 0:41:45.920
<v Speaker 2>I still listen to you, though you have sold me.

0:41:45.960 --> 0:41:47.640
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I listen to that too, you.

0:41:47.600 --> 0:41:51.880
<v Speaker 1>Know, but your hum you have humility. You know that

0:41:51.920 --> 0:41:54.080
<v Speaker 1>you're not perfect in that. I you know, I may

0:41:54.120 --> 0:41:56.080
<v Speaker 1>have something like a good critique of you, you know,

0:41:56.120 --> 0:41:59.080
<v Speaker 1>like it may be valuable, and I think that that's great.

0:42:00.080 --> 0:42:02.120
<v Speaker 1>Sold me back. It's totally fine. I don't make it

0:42:02.120 --> 0:42:10.799
<v Speaker 1>as easy as another woman in the media right now

0:42:10.840 --> 0:42:13.280
<v Speaker 1>getting a lot of have y'all heard about Twitch's wife?

0:42:13.880 --> 0:42:18.680
<v Speaker 5>Yes, Oh my goodness, tri I'm learning so right now.

0:42:18.600 --> 0:42:22.479
<v Speaker 1>Because you have subscription to Hollywood Reporters one of these.

0:42:22.800 --> 0:42:25.480
<v Speaker 5>I mean, I just find out on social media, that's

0:42:25.520 --> 0:42:27.360
<v Speaker 5>the thing, or my niece will send it to me, like, girl,

0:42:27.400 --> 0:42:27.960
<v Speaker 5>did you see this?

0:42:28.080 --> 0:42:29.759
<v Speaker 4>And I'm like, oh, I don't have time. Let me

0:42:29.760 --> 0:42:30.840
<v Speaker 4>just quickly read the highlight.

0:42:31.000 --> 0:42:33.600
<v Speaker 5>But that is messed up because not only is she

0:42:33.840 --> 0:42:37.920
<v Speaker 5>outing his stuff from his diary, which come on, that

0:42:38.080 --> 0:42:39.240
<v Speaker 5>is never okay.

0:42:39.480 --> 0:42:44.400
<v Speaker 1>But he passed away, right, Yes, suicide died by suicide

0:42:45.000 --> 0:42:46.080
<v Speaker 1>two three years ago.

0:42:46.520 --> 0:42:48.000
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, maybe two years ago.

0:42:48.400 --> 0:42:52.480
<v Speaker 5>But she moved on married to someone else then and

0:42:52.840 --> 0:42:56.719
<v Speaker 5>made it impossible for his own family to access funds

0:42:56.760 --> 0:42:58.359
<v Speaker 5>and to attend his you know, they had to sign

0:42:58.400 --> 0:43:00.399
<v Speaker 5>an NDA just to attend wake.

0:43:00.480 --> 0:43:02.200
<v Speaker 4>I mean, she put his family through.

0:43:02.080 --> 0:43:04.799
<v Speaker 5>A lot because when he died, he left her in

0:43:04.880 --> 0:43:06.560
<v Speaker 5>charge of obviously the kids and his family and like

0:43:06.600 --> 0:43:08.480
<v Speaker 5>their state and stuff. So there was some issues with

0:43:08.520 --> 0:43:11.000
<v Speaker 5>that where his family members felt some type of way,

0:43:11.280 --> 0:43:14.600
<v Speaker 5>as they should. And then secondly, she goes ahead and

0:43:14.640 --> 0:43:18.200
<v Speaker 5>takes his diary and publishes a tell all book about

0:43:18.280 --> 0:43:20.600
<v Speaker 5>things that were what was really going on that he

0:43:20.640 --> 0:43:23.080
<v Speaker 5>wrote in his diary, which to me is like the

0:43:23.120 --> 0:43:25.800
<v Speaker 5>biggest red flag of all red flags that a traditional

0:43:25.800 --> 0:43:29.799
<v Speaker 5>book publishing company would agree to do that, Like, y'all

0:43:29.800 --> 0:43:32.719
<v Speaker 5>are trifling. She's trifling, but they're trifling for giving her

0:43:32.760 --> 0:43:35.160
<v Speaker 5>a platform to do that, because that is messed up.

0:43:36.680 --> 0:43:39.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm not one hundred percent as convinced that, like she's

0:43:39.920 --> 0:43:44.359
<v Speaker 1>the enemy here. I've read the headlines. I don't know.

0:43:44.480 --> 0:43:48.280
<v Speaker 1>I feel like as a wife, as a partner there,

0:43:48.800 --> 0:43:52.160
<v Speaker 1>you know, we twitch, you know, being a human like

0:43:52.160 --> 0:43:55.799
<v Speaker 1>Steven his real name, he may have had, he may

0:43:56.000 --> 0:43:59.040
<v Speaker 1>genuinely have not wanted his family to know certain things

0:43:59.120 --> 0:44:02.040
<v Speaker 1>or not trusted them with that information. So I find

0:44:02.040 --> 0:44:03.600
<v Speaker 1>myself wanting to give her a little bit of the

0:44:03.600 --> 0:44:06.279
<v Speaker 1>benefit of the doubt, just that like she also has

0:44:06.320 --> 0:44:08.640
<v Speaker 1>his children, like she has two kids by him.

0:44:08.680 --> 0:44:09.759
<v Speaker 4>I think she does.

0:44:10.680 --> 0:44:13.040
<v Speaker 1>And as a mom, I want, I want to believe

0:44:13.160 --> 0:44:18.200
<v Speaker 1>that she's doing it for the right reasons. But his

0:44:18.360 --> 0:44:22.920
<v Speaker 1>family being in the media and like attacking her, it

0:44:22.960 --> 0:44:27.760
<v Speaker 1>almost makes me think, I maybe there was a reason

0:44:27.800 --> 0:44:29.920
<v Speaker 1>that she had them sign the NDAs because of how

0:44:30.000 --> 0:44:33.320
<v Speaker 1>quickly you know they would run to the to media

0:44:33.400 --> 0:44:36.279
<v Speaker 1>with that. But it makes me nervous about or just

0:44:36.320 --> 0:44:41.160
<v Speaker 1>makes me question our own privacy and you know, after

0:44:41.239 --> 0:44:44.920
<v Speaker 1>we're pass, like after we pass, for someone to go

0:44:45.000 --> 0:44:48.880
<v Speaker 1>and and take private documents, you know, private thoughts, and

0:44:48.920 --> 0:44:52.080
<v Speaker 1>to publish them that on, like just the black and

0:44:52.080 --> 0:44:54.879
<v Speaker 1>white of it, like no pun intended because they are

0:44:54.880 --> 0:44:58.320
<v Speaker 1>a biracial couple, but right, it's it gives.

0:44:58.040 --> 0:44:58.480
<v Speaker 2>Me the ick.

0:45:00.360 --> 0:45:01.120
<v Speaker 4>You're absolutely right.

0:45:01.120 --> 0:45:04.120
<v Speaker 5>I didn't even consider that part because obviously I don't

0:45:04.120 --> 0:45:05.960
<v Speaker 5>think like a mom because I'm not a mom. But

0:45:06.719 --> 0:45:08.880
<v Speaker 5>what she's doing maybe putting her kids first and all that,

0:45:09.000 --> 0:45:13.640
<v Speaker 5>But the diary becoming a published book, there is nothing.

0:45:14.000 --> 0:45:18.200
<v Speaker 1>Nothing being published or like excerpts from the diary that

0:45:18.239 --> 0:45:20.080
<v Speaker 1>are being used for the book and to me, I

0:45:20.120 --> 0:45:22.200
<v Speaker 1>just feel like there's nothing anyone can say to me

0:45:22.280 --> 0:45:23.560
<v Speaker 1>to justify that.

0:45:23.719 --> 0:45:26.000
<v Speaker 4>Like if she I mean.

0:45:26.640 --> 0:45:29.480
<v Speaker 5>For her own self, to for herself to go and

0:45:29.520 --> 0:45:31.360
<v Speaker 5>like share stuff with the family or even with the

0:45:31.440 --> 0:45:34.160
<v Speaker 5>larger team, or like an intimate thing where she says, hey,

0:45:34.239 --> 0:45:36.080
<v Speaker 5>I had this discovery that might shed light on what

0:45:36.120 --> 0:45:36.839
<v Speaker 5>we didn't know about.

0:45:36.880 --> 0:45:38.560
<v Speaker 4>Twitch fine, But to go and.

0:45:38.520 --> 0:45:42.279
<v Speaker 5>Publish a book to make yourself some money is to me,

0:45:42.360 --> 0:45:45.000
<v Speaker 5>it's just like, I don't know, that's inexcusable behavior on

0:45:45.040 --> 0:45:47.880
<v Speaker 5>the on the book side, how.

0:45:47.760 --> 0:45:49.640
<v Speaker 2>How bad were the things that made it into the book?

0:45:49.760 --> 0:45:52.239
<v Speaker 5>You know, Well it's on pre order right now, so

0:45:52.280 --> 0:45:53.960
<v Speaker 5>we don't know you.

0:45:54.280 --> 0:45:56.400
<v Speaker 1>How of course it is pre order. Links are free.

0:45:56.440 --> 0:45:58.759
<v Speaker 1>Everyone go get this. Foore all talking about.

0:45:58.480 --> 0:46:01.120
<v Speaker 4>It all right there, Well, it adds to it.

0:46:01.360 --> 0:46:03.239
<v Speaker 1>I think some of the allegations there are some of

0:46:03.280 --> 0:46:07.040
<v Speaker 1>the you know, discoveries, is that he that she had

0:46:07.080 --> 0:46:10.640
<v Speaker 1>found some types of drugs in his possession that she

0:46:10.760 --> 0:46:14.480
<v Speaker 1>wasn't aware of, and that that he talked about potentially

0:46:14.480 --> 0:46:17.839
<v Speaker 1>being abused at a younger age. And listen, like when

0:46:17.880 --> 0:46:20.520
<v Speaker 1>a man takes his own life and his own wife

0:46:20.560 --> 0:46:25.719
<v Speaker 1>doesn't understand why. Of course, there's going to be secrets there. Yeah,

0:46:25.800 --> 0:46:28.319
<v Speaker 1>you know, an inner life that as a as a

0:46:28.360 --> 0:46:32.400
<v Speaker 1>partner myself, I can't imagine how traumatic it must be

0:46:32.440 --> 0:46:34.680
<v Speaker 1>to realize that there was all this happening with a

0:46:34.680 --> 0:46:37.759
<v Speaker 1>partner and I didn't really know my own you know,

0:46:38.200 --> 0:46:39.400
<v Speaker 1>husband and partner.

0:46:39.200 --> 0:46:41.160
<v Speaker 5>Your own life partner, right, this person he's supposed to

0:46:41.160 --> 0:46:42.759
<v Speaker 5>be done life with and you have no idea what's

0:46:42.760 --> 0:46:43.840
<v Speaker 5>going on beyond the surface.

0:46:44.400 --> 0:46:45.319
<v Speaker 4>It's scary, for.

0:46:45.400 --> 0:46:47.480
<v Speaker 1>Sure, But she's also got a family and a career,

0:46:47.520 --> 0:46:49.920
<v Speaker 1>and like, if you want your life to mean something,

0:46:49.920 --> 0:46:52.279
<v Speaker 1>his life to mean something. Maybe unpacking it is her

0:46:52.360 --> 0:46:54.920
<v Speaker 1>way of saying, like, well, here's how you maybe cannot

0:46:54.920 --> 0:46:57.280
<v Speaker 1>find yourself in a situation like this. Notice some signs

0:46:57.280 --> 0:47:00.040
<v Speaker 1>that maybe I missed. I'm hoping for her sake that

0:47:00.040 --> 0:47:01.879
<v Speaker 1>that's what she's The angle she's taking is like trying

0:47:01.880 --> 0:47:07.680
<v Speaker 1>to help other families. But the celebrity memoir it's.

0:47:07.480 --> 0:47:11.160
<v Speaker 3>Always I'm trying to think, would I be mad if

0:47:11.160 --> 0:47:13.480
<v Speaker 3>someone like one no one's buying a book based off

0:47:13.480 --> 0:47:15.520
<v Speaker 3>of my my inner thoughts and my journal or something

0:47:15.520 --> 0:47:15.719
<v Speaker 3>like that.

0:47:15.800 --> 0:47:18.359
<v Speaker 2>But if a family could make money off of that.

0:47:19.920 --> 0:47:24.279
<v Speaker 5>There, I mean, Chris, what's in the diary is what

0:47:24.800 --> 0:47:25.680
<v Speaker 5>It depends what.

0:47:25.680 --> 0:47:29.000
<v Speaker 1>You want to play. What would Chris? What would what

0:47:29.000 --> 0:47:30.120
<v Speaker 1>would Chris's diary have?

0:47:31.120 --> 0:47:31.759
<v Speaker 2>Today?

0:47:32.400 --> 0:47:35.920
<v Speaker 1>My microphone did not work the BA round table.

0:47:37.560 --> 0:47:40.239
<v Speaker 3>Mandy intelded me yet again, tore me down in front

0:47:40.280 --> 0:47:43.560
<v Speaker 3>of millions of people, and it was just like, why

0:47:43.600 --> 0:47:44.880
<v Speaker 3>why does why does Mandy hate me?

0:47:44.920 --> 0:47:46.400
<v Speaker 2>That's that's my that's my next day. Just don't put

0:47:46.440 --> 0:47:47.080
<v Speaker 2>in the other day.

0:47:47.280 --> 0:47:50.239
<v Speaker 4>Why so hard to be a good ally to her?

0:47:50.400 --> 0:47:54.840
<v Speaker 4>And she is just verbally abusive time and time again.

0:47:55.320 --> 0:48:01.280
<v Speaker 4>I don't know how much more, But don't.

0:48:01.120 --> 0:48:04.320
<v Speaker 2>Feel bad for you continue who me? Oh oh? I

0:48:04.400 --> 0:48:05.200
<v Speaker 2>was like, what are you saying?

0:48:05.760 --> 0:48:07.799
<v Speaker 3>Well after you know, you just derailed me, But you know,

0:48:07.960 --> 0:48:10.160
<v Speaker 3>I was like, would I care if my if my

0:48:10.239 --> 0:48:13.320
<v Speaker 3>family published a journal I had? And I'm like, I

0:48:13.360 --> 0:48:15.000
<v Speaker 3>don't think. I well, I mean I wouldn't know, so

0:48:15.040 --> 0:48:15.520
<v Speaker 3>I'm gone.

0:48:15.560 --> 0:48:17.920
<v Speaker 1>So do you believe in heaven? I guess if you're

0:48:18.000 --> 0:48:20.080
<v Speaker 1>up there watching the you know, your life unfold.

0:48:20.480 --> 0:48:23.279
<v Speaker 2>That's true family. I don't know if I can I

0:48:23.320 --> 0:48:24.960
<v Speaker 2>just change the channelkay watching my Elsa's life.

0:48:27.120 --> 0:48:29.279
<v Speaker 5>I mean, if you're in heaven, you probably can, but

0:48:29.480 --> 0:48:32.640
<v Speaker 5>you still have to deal with the knowing, because once

0:48:32.680 --> 0:48:34.719
<v Speaker 5>you know they're doing that, you can't unkno it.

0:48:35.120 --> 0:48:35.960
<v Speaker 4>And that's hard.

0:48:36.200 --> 0:48:38.080
<v Speaker 5>That's hard because now you've got to deal with the

0:48:38.080 --> 0:48:40.319
<v Speaker 5>fact that this is their character, this is who they are,

0:48:40.360 --> 0:48:42.440
<v Speaker 5>and you didn't think that they were these people that

0:48:42.480 --> 0:48:44.960
<v Speaker 5>would do this to you, and now you can't even

0:48:44.960 --> 0:48:45.879
<v Speaker 5>talk to them about it.

0:48:46.080 --> 0:48:49.840
<v Speaker 1>Oh, Harry Potter learning about Dumbledore not being that part,

0:48:50.120 --> 0:48:52.759
<v Speaker 1>not being his hero. I mean, we have to give

0:48:52.800 --> 0:48:56.400
<v Speaker 1>people space to be, to have these layers, these shadows

0:48:56.840 --> 0:49:02.040
<v Speaker 1>like addiction, abuse, we're all carrying around something are inner selves,

0:49:02.080 --> 0:49:04.440
<v Speaker 1>just to like not you know, just to be like

0:49:04.480 --> 0:49:08.320
<v Speaker 1>to hold space for that. Like of course, of course

0:49:08.320 --> 0:49:10.279
<v Speaker 1>there's you know, these parts of us that we're not

0:49:10.320 --> 0:49:12.399
<v Speaker 1>always bringing to the surface, and we have these deep

0:49:12.440 --> 0:49:16.400
<v Speaker 1>inner lives and everything. I don't know. I mean, like

0:49:16.440 --> 0:49:18.920
<v Speaker 1>if I were to pass and then someone would, oh

0:49:19.040 --> 0:49:22.040
<v Speaker 1>my day, someone would take my journal because I'd be writing.

0:49:22.920 --> 0:49:26.200
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes you have terrible thoughts and they're just thoughts, you know,

0:49:27.040 --> 0:49:29.040
<v Speaker 1>and you put them down on paper and it's just

0:49:29.120 --> 0:49:32.359
<v Speaker 1>thoughts and they don't mean anything about you. But then

0:49:32.480 --> 0:49:34.440
<v Speaker 1>those thoughts get into the wrong hands and all of

0:49:34.480 --> 0:49:37.200
<v Speaker 1>a sudden, it's like, oh, she said this, she's this

0:49:37.520 --> 0:49:40.720
<v Speaker 1>you know, we never knew blah blah blah. But listen,

0:49:41.160 --> 0:49:44.560
<v Speaker 1>in therapy, a lot of things are said. In journaling,

0:49:44.600 --> 0:49:46.160
<v Speaker 1>a lot of things are said that you should feel

0:49:46.160 --> 0:49:50.239
<v Speaker 1>safe saying, and you don't to have that potentially share

0:49:50.239 --> 0:49:52.360
<v Speaker 1>with the world out of context, out of your control.

0:49:52.440 --> 0:49:54.760
<v Speaker 1>That is No, it's terrible.

0:49:55.000 --> 0:49:57.920
<v Speaker 5>See, I don't write anything down. I am the only

0:49:57.960 --> 0:49:59.839
<v Speaker 5>thing you're gonna find me writing is my to do list.

0:50:00.000 --> 0:50:02.200
<v Speaker 5>So y'all not gonna get me. Oh, y'all are not

0:50:02.360 --> 0:50:04.759
<v Speaker 5>gonna get me because I don't do the diaries, I

0:50:04.760 --> 0:50:06.480
<v Speaker 5>don't do the journals, I don't.

0:50:06.280 --> 0:50:07.320
<v Speaker 4>Do the Nope.

0:50:07.360 --> 0:50:09.239
<v Speaker 5>If it's if it's bothering me, I'm gonna go to

0:50:09.280 --> 0:50:12.040
<v Speaker 5>therapy and say it. But I'm looking at a clipboard.

0:50:12.080 --> 0:50:13.640
<v Speaker 5>She better not be writing this down.

0:50:13.600 --> 0:50:20.360
<v Speaker 4>Because this room right right, Like, let me just make.

0:50:20.160 --> 0:50:23.360
<v Speaker 5>Sure because no, I understand it makes you feel so

0:50:23.480 --> 0:50:26.120
<v Speaker 5>much better. But I just never have gotten into that

0:50:26.239 --> 0:50:29.719
<v Speaker 5>practice of like sitting down to write a journal. I'll

0:50:29.800 --> 0:50:32.200
<v Speaker 5>just meditate, or I'll take a nap, or I'll go

0:50:32.239 --> 0:50:34.839
<v Speaker 5>talk to someone on the phone about it. But yeah,

0:50:34.880 --> 0:50:37.120
<v Speaker 5>I just I'm glad I'm not leaving on a paper.

0:50:37.400 --> 0:50:40.600
<v Speaker 1>Book, right here baby full of dark thoughts. I mean

0:50:41.239 --> 0:50:42.640
<v Speaker 1>it's a part of my therapy. I mean it's a

0:50:42.680 --> 0:50:44.360
<v Speaker 1>part of my mental health journey. I've been such a

0:50:44.440 --> 0:50:46.879
<v Speaker 1>huge mental health journey this year, and like writing down

0:50:46.920 --> 0:50:48.600
<v Speaker 1>the worst things that come to my mind is a

0:50:48.600 --> 0:50:50.480
<v Speaker 1>way of dealing, you know, oh for.

0:50:50.440 --> 0:50:52.160
<v Speaker 5>Sure, and then it's out, it's out of your head,

0:50:52.200 --> 0:50:52.880
<v Speaker 5>it's on the papers.

0:50:52.920 --> 0:50:54.279
<v Speaker 1>I gotta put it on my whale though, This is

0:50:54.280 --> 0:50:56.719
<v Speaker 1>why you gotta have a whale and testament, Like, no

0:50:56.760 --> 0:50:58.920
<v Speaker 1>one is allowed for my private diary part, you know,

0:50:59.120 --> 0:50:59.799
<v Speaker 1>to be put out there.

0:51:00.040 --> 0:51:02.359
<v Speaker 3>I know, but then it's safe and want to get

0:51:02.360 --> 0:51:06.520
<v Speaker 3>one person a combination, right, But either.

0:51:06.600 --> 0:51:08.840
<v Speaker 5>It's crazy that you now you think of, oh, let

0:51:08.920 --> 0:51:10.400
<v Speaker 5>me put this in my will, but like do you

0:51:10.400 --> 0:51:12.200
<v Speaker 5>think Twitch was thinking, let me make sure my diary

0:51:12.280 --> 0:51:14.719
<v Speaker 5>and know now that this happened, people are going to

0:51:14.760 --> 0:51:16.480
<v Speaker 5>be thinking like that. But isn't that a shame that

0:51:16.520 --> 0:51:19.080
<v Speaker 5>we have to see that happen to him to then think, oh,

0:51:19.120 --> 0:51:20.840
<v Speaker 5>we have to cover ourselves and make sure we include

0:51:20.840 --> 0:51:23.160
<v Speaker 5>our diary and our will, Like, come on, this is

0:51:23.160 --> 0:51:26.120
<v Speaker 5>the type of people that we dealing with. Like to me,

0:51:26.280 --> 0:51:28.959
<v Speaker 5>that's why I say she's strifling because I just can't

0:51:29.000 --> 0:51:31.560
<v Speaker 5>understand what would bring her. I mean, I guess dollar science,

0:51:31.600 --> 0:51:33.560
<v Speaker 5>but like how much money would have to bring you

0:51:33.600 --> 0:51:36.480
<v Speaker 5>to do that to him? You know, It's just I

0:51:36.520 --> 0:51:38.960
<v Speaker 5>can't especially if she claims that, you know, they were

0:51:39.080 --> 0:51:41.080
<v Speaker 5>in a good place and it's not like she's being

0:51:41.160 --> 0:51:43.200
<v Speaker 5>vengeful that he didn't, you know, do anything to her,

0:51:43.200 --> 0:51:44.799
<v Speaker 5>that maybe he was an unfaithful to her or something,

0:51:44.840 --> 0:51:47.120
<v Speaker 5>then maybe then there's some more context. I would understand

0:51:47.120 --> 0:51:48.719
<v Speaker 5>why she's trying to play him, But I just feel

0:51:48.800 --> 0:51:51.359
<v Speaker 5>like I don't understand really what her motivation is, if

0:51:51.400 --> 0:51:55.040
<v Speaker 5>it's anything just beyond money here, because that's just so

0:51:55.040 --> 0:51:55.720
<v Speaker 5>so terrible.

0:51:56.440 --> 0:51:58.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, guess what do us have to get the buck?

0:52:00.239 --> 0:52:00.359
<v Speaker 4>No?

0:52:00.360 --> 0:52:03.960
<v Speaker 1>No, no, no. Memoirs that I have pre ordered Brandy Norwood's

0:52:04.480 --> 0:52:08.359
<v Speaker 1>Brandy is coming out with a memoir, Can't Wait, and Tina.

0:52:08.120 --> 0:52:13.000
<v Speaker 5>Noles Okay, Tina Noles, Tina, that was gonna be good.

0:52:13.800 --> 0:52:16.120
<v Speaker 1>Do you read memoirs, you guys?

0:52:16.840 --> 0:52:17.560
<v Speaker 2>Occasionally?

0:52:18.000 --> 0:52:18.279
<v Speaker 1>I don't.

0:52:18.360 --> 0:52:20.040
<v Speaker 5>I don't know if I do memoirs as much as

0:52:20.040 --> 0:52:23.160
<v Speaker 5>I do like biographies. I've done a couple of autobiographies,

0:52:23.200 --> 0:52:26.080
<v Speaker 5>but I feel like, yeah, I kind of I don't know.

0:52:26.120 --> 0:52:28.560
<v Speaker 5>I like the biography where somebody else has done a

0:52:28.560 --> 0:52:31.440
<v Speaker 5>ton of research on this person rather than recently.

0:52:31.560 --> 0:52:32.720
<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, yeah.

0:52:32.760 --> 0:52:35.799
<v Speaker 5>Although I did read yours memoir and it was it

0:52:35.840 --> 0:52:37.400
<v Speaker 5>was read. I did the audiobook which was it was

0:52:37.400 --> 0:52:40.839
<v Speaker 5>read by and I really enjoyed that. And I mean

0:52:41.040 --> 0:52:43.359
<v Speaker 5>the Light we Carry right now Michelle Obama, which is

0:52:43.640 --> 0:52:47.240
<v Speaker 5>so good so far she reads, Yeah, yeah, yes.

0:52:47.400 --> 0:52:49.560
<v Speaker 1>So they have a good voice. I love an audiobook.

0:52:49.640 --> 0:52:50.239
<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah.

0:52:50.880 --> 0:52:52.839
<v Speaker 5>So there's certain memoirs that will get me, but it's

0:52:52.840 --> 0:52:55.239
<v Speaker 5>not something that I'm consistently, you know, seeking when I

0:52:55.239 --> 0:52:56.280
<v Speaker 5>go to pick my next book.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you read, Chris?

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<v Speaker 3>I love reading some things, but I will read a

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<v Speaker 3>biography every now and then only when I sit time

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<v Speaker 3>my mind. Obviously I read the autobiography of Malcolm X,

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<v Speaker 3>but that's a while ago.

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<v Speaker 2>Fiction. Do you like, Oh, give me some sci fi,

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<v Speaker 2>give me some mystery. Hit me with a thriller.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you read Silo?

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<v Speaker 2>So I didn't.

0:53:15.680 --> 0:53:17.279
<v Speaker 3>I started watching the show I was. I'm a big

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<v Speaker 3>fan of the show. I'm not gonna lie, but I

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<v Speaker 3>might read the book. Like if they made a show,

0:53:20.320 --> 0:53:22.040
<v Speaker 3>the book was probably really good, so and the.

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<v Speaker 4>Book's always better. The book is always better.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm always mad at myself when I watched something and

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<v Speaker 5>then either I usually didn't know it was a book

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<v Speaker 5>first or I find out later and I'm like, dang,

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<v Speaker 5>I should have read because the book.

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<v Speaker 4>You just never watched something and it does the book justice,

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<v Speaker 4>like never never.

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<v Speaker 3>It's never, you know, someone told me the way to

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<v Speaker 3>do it, Like instead of reading the book and then

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<v Speaker 3>watching the movie because you're gonna be disappointed because they

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<v Speaker 3>left a bunch of stuff out, watched the movie and

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<v Speaker 3>then you read the book and it's like you're getting

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<v Speaker 3>extra bonus content because you get all the other stuff,

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<v Speaker 3>the side stories they had to take out, so it's like, yeah,

0:53:49.120 --> 0:53:50.600
<v Speaker 3>spoiled a little bit, but you get like if you

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<v Speaker 3>love the movie, the book will be like the movie and.

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<v Speaker 1>Some when it gets a whole series like Drones way

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<v Speaker 1>better than books.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. Yeah, Game of Thrones was really good. I feel

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<v Speaker 4>like I can't do well. I don't know. Do you

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<v Speaker 4>feel like the Harry Potter movies were better than the books? No, movies.

0:54:08.120 --> 0:54:09.360
<v Speaker 1>I really just liked the movies.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. I mean, I didn't want to say because I

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<v Speaker 5>don't know if he was a movie fangirl, but I

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<v Speaker 5>know movies was terrible.

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<v Speaker 4>The books were so rich and so good.

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<v Speaker 5>They cut out every one of my favorite little detailed

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<v Speaker 5>parts out of the book, not in any of the movies.

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<v Speaker 4>I was always so mad.

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<v Speaker 1>Not not a fan. Fan of the kids, not a

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<v Speaker 1>fan of the movies. All right, we gotta take a break,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all and come right back with brown boost, Brown brew

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<v Speaker 1>break the be a round table, all right, y'all, Brown Boost,

0:54:36.280 --> 0:54:39.399
<v Speaker 1>Brown break time. So brown boost, just to remind you, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>something that we're excited about, we really like. We want

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<v Speaker 1>to tell people on put them on Brown Break. Did

0:54:43.719 --> 0:54:45.879
<v Speaker 1>I mess that up? Brown Boost something good? Brown break

0:54:45.920 --> 0:54:48.319
<v Speaker 1>is something that we're sick of. We could do with

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<v Speaker 1>less of it. I'll go first as time, since last

0:54:51.560 --> 0:54:53.279
<v Speaker 1>time I tried to sneak out without doing one at all.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't want you guys to lose faith in me,

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<v Speaker 1>lose trust, all right, So I'm gonna do a brown break.

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<v Speaker 1>I said it was related to like AI. So I

0:55:00.600 --> 0:55:04.719
<v Speaker 1>am a fan of you know, new services, new kind

0:55:04.760 --> 0:55:08.000
<v Speaker 1>of like disruptors and different industries. My website is run

0:55:08.040 --> 0:55:10.960
<v Speaker 1>by Squarespace, also a sponsor of the show. I get

0:55:10.960 --> 0:55:13.120
<v Speaker 1>my glasses from Warby Parker who really blew up the

0:55:13.120 --> 0:55:17.239
<v Speaker 1>eye industry, eyeglass industry about ten years ago. However, I

0:55:17.320 --> 0:55:20.919
<v Speaker 1>do see we're recording right now on Riverside right, which

0:55:20.960 --> 0:55:25.320
<v Speaker 1>is a platform that lots of even jan Ellie your podcast.

0:55:25.400 --> 0:55:29.520
<v Speaker 1>You guys use Riverside at NPR. Yeah, and it's an

0:55:29.520 --> 0:55:32.760
<v Speaker 1>incredible platform, lots of AI bells and whistles, very easy

0:55:32.760 --> 0:55:36.239
<v Speaker 1>to edit, all of that Squarespace AI capabilities. I can

0:55:36.280 --> 0:55:38.799
<v Speaker 1>build my website. I get in there myself and adjust things.

0:55:38.840 --> 0:55:41.680
<v Speaker 1>I built a sales page last week, amazing. I love

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<v Speaker 1>my warbies. However, I'm about damn sick of AI customer support.

0:55:48.600 --> 0:55:52.239
<v Speaker 1>I am sick of having to email questions. Like I

0:55:52.360 --> 0:55:54.560
<v Speaker 1>had a glitch with my website this week where people

0:55:54.600 --> 0:55:56.520
<v Speaker 1>were not able to buy the thing that I'm selling

0:55:57.160 --> 0:56:00.040
<v Speaker 1>as a solo preneur. Kind of not kind of I

0:56:00.040 --> 0:56:02.560
<v Speaker 1>can't afford that, you know, need my sales to be

0:56:02.560 --> 0:56:05.960
<v Speaker 1>going through and to have to and it's like, you know,

0:56:06.040 --> 0:56:08.680
<v Speaker 1>eleven thirty at night when I'm realizing this, I'm trying

0:56:08.680 --> 0:56:11.320
<v Speaker 1>to chat with somebody. No one's available, send us an email.

0:56:11.800 --> 0:56:15.239
<v Speaker 1>I send the email, takes you know, hours to hear back,

0:56:15.239 --> 0:56:18.680
<v Speaker 1>and when I do, it's like clearly a canned response,

0:56:20.040 --> 0:56:21.800
<v Speaker 1>and then it's like we'll be passing this up the

0:56:21.880 --> 0:56:24.799
<v Speaker 1>chain to someone else, and then for that response to

0:56:24.880 --> 0:56:27.000
<v Speaker 1>take more than twenty four hours to get to me,

0:56:27.719 --> 0:56:30.080
<v Speaker 1>Like that's a lot thirty six hours, you know. I

0:56:30.200 --> 0:56:33.160
<v Speaker 1>fixed the glitch myself, you know, I had to find

0:56:33.160 --> 0:56:37.319
<v Speaker 1>a work around, but I'm just I'm over it. Riverside

0:56:37.640 --> 0:56:40.480
<v Speaker 1>effed up some stuff last earlier this week, again, I

0:56:40.560 --> 0:56:43.759
<v Speaker 1>couldn't get a human, had to email them. I know,

0:56:44.080 --> 0:56:48.040
<v Speaker 1>still haven't gotten a response. Warby my poor mama. I

0:56:48.080 --> 0:56:50.640
<v Speaker 1>turned my mom onto Warby Parker and like she's like,

0:56:50.680 --> 0:56:52.760
<v Speaker 1>I can't even call the store. They messed up my prescription.

0:56:52.840 --> 0:56:54.480
<v Speaker 1>She can't call the store that she got them from.

0:56:54.520 --> 0:56:56.719
<v Speaker 1>It was like an automated system or something like that.

0:56:56.800 --> 0:57:00.080
<v Speaker 1>So ugh, I'm over it. Like, just give me a

0:57:00.080 --> 0:57:04.359
<v Speaker 1>freaking human, give me, you know, I don't care. I

0:57:04.440 --> 0:57:05.799
<v Speaker 1>just don't care. I want to talk to someone to

0:57:05.800 --> 0:57:08.480
<v Speaker 1>get this issue revolved asap. And I worry that, like

0:57:08.760 --> 0:57:12.160
<v Speaker 1>that's what we're losing as we shift to this more

0:57:12.239 --> 0:57:15.239
<v Speaker 1>like AI bot driven technology and people. And they're like

0:57:15.280 --> 0:57:17.480
<v Speaker 1>they're investing so much in this part of the business,

0:57:17.480 --> 0:57:21.840
<v Speaker 1>but not the customer service part which matters. So now

0:57:21.880 --> 0:57:24.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, as a consumer, I'm looking really good for

0:57:24.320 --> 0:57:27.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm looking very carefully at like customer service. What when

0:57:27.240 --> 0:57:30.360
<v Speaker 1>this breaks, who is going to answer my calls? You know?

0:57:30.840 --> 0:57:32.800
<v Speaker 1>Is anyone going to answer my calls? And that's going

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<v Speaker 1>to be a big decisive factor for me moving forward

0:57:36.240 --> 0:57:38.320
<v Speaker 1>as a business owner. O or what tools I use

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<v Speaker 1>and don't use?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, because they're shifting AI because it can, Yeah,

0:57:42.160 --> 0:57:44.200
<v Speaker 3>it can give you a canned response based off of

0:57:44.200 --> 0:57:46.080
<v Speaker 3>some of the words it's all you put in your message,

0:57:46.240 --> 0:57:48.640
<v Speaker 3>But it's still not at the level of actually doing

0:57:48.680 --> 0:57:51.200
<v Speaker 3>any type of trouble shooting or analyzing what you're asking

0:57:51.240 --> 0:57:52.400
<v Speaker 3>and finding a solution for you.

0:57:52.440 --> 0:57:55.360
<v Speaker 2>I guess not doing that at all. And to me.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like they're rolling it out because it saves them

0:57:56.640 --> 0:57:58.400
<v Speaker 3>money because they don't want to pay somebody to be.

0:57:58.360 --> 0:58:00.280
<v Speaker 4>There to do it.

0:58:00.520 --> 0:58:02.240
<v Speaker 3>So it's like, yeah, it's not it's not ready, but

0:58:02.320 --> 0:58:03.920
<v Speaker 3>every company is like, hey, this is what we're all doing.

0:58:04.000 --> 0:58:05.760
<v Speaker 3>We're all in on having a little bot come over

0:58:05.760 --> 0:58:07.480
<v Speaker 3>here and tell you we'll email you later, which could

0:58:07.480 --> 0:58:10.720
<v Speaker 3>have just been a message they gave me automatically.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, which they tell to everybody, even though if they

0:58:12.560 --> 0:58:14.600
<v Speaker 5>don't call you back. I've been I've been noticing some

0:58:14.640 --> 0:58:16.920
<v Speaker 5>of these that will, like, if I call a customer

0:58:16.960 --> 0:58:19.120
<v Speaker 5>service line, they'll be like, you're gonna be in the

0:58:19.200 --> 0:58:22.360
<v Speaker 5>queue for twenty minutes, but dial forward if you want

0:58:22.440 --> 0:58:24.640
<v Speaker 5>us to call you back when it's your love that

0:58:25.160 --> 0:58:27.640
<v Speaker 5>and I love that, And I got to say, I

0:58:27.680 --> 0:58:29.800
<v Speaker 5>have never had an experience where I pressed for waited

0:58:29.800 --> 0:58:31.160
<v Speaker 5>for my call and didn't get a call back. I

0:58:31.240 --> 0:58:34.200
<v Speaker 5>always do get a call back, and so I really

0:58:34.200 --> 0:58:36.960
<v Speaker 5>do appreciate that, which is a really nice use of

0:58:37.000 --> 0:58:39.360
<v Speaker 5>AI to like put me in a queue and send

0:58:39.360 --> 0:58:41.120
<v Speaker 5>me to the customer service rep when it's my turn,

0:58:41.160 --> 0:58:42.480
<v Speaker 5>give them my number, have to call me.

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<v Speaker 4>I like that.

0:58:43.440 --> 0:58:46.320
<v Speaker 5>But to not have the ability to talk to someone

0:58:46.560 --> 0:58:49.400
<v Speaker 5>at all, it, Yes, that is extremely frustrating if that's

0:58:49.440 --> 0:58:50.120
<v Speaker 5>what you're trying to do.

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<v Speaker 3>That's tech right now, and so many tech companies just

0:58:53.680 --> 0:58:56.360
<v Speaker 3>like no at Google, could you even could you even

0:58:56.440 --> 0:58:58.480
<v Speaker 3>call Google? I don't think there's a way to end

0:58:59.120 --> 0:59:00.680
<v Speaker 3>even get a hold of a person there.

0:59:00.960 --> 0:59:03.280
<v Speaker 5>No, And now that's the direction Facebook and meta is

0:59:03.320 --> 0:59:06.760
<v Speaker 5>heading to, Like you can't talk to somebody Instagram, meta face,

0:59:06.800 --> 0:59:09.280
<v Speaker 5>but all of us, you can't talk to faq page.

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<v Speaker 4>Does this answer your question exactly?

0:59:12.400 --> 0:59:13.840
<v Speaker 2>And answers always No, it didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>My rage is too my rage level is too high.

0:59:16.200 --> 0:59:18.360
<v Speaker 1>I can and I can't read this text right now,

0:59:18.720 --> 0:59:22.320
<v Speaker 1>like because of your sorry, because of your content said,

0:59:22.360 --> 0:59:26.720
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't gonna curse as much because of your content

0:59:26.880 --> 0:59:30.360
<v Speaker 1>social media. Our attention span is so now that we

0:59:30.440 --> 0:59:32.440
<v Speaker 1>can't even like we don't have the attention span to

0:59:32.520 --> 0:59:35.280
<v Speaker 1>read these FAQ's. But that's the answer we're getting, Like,

0:59:35.400 --> 0:59:39.320
<v Speaker 1>read this long blog post and figure it out. By

0:59:39.640 --> 0:59:43.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna lose all my sponsors for this episode. Airs.

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<v Speaker 4>It was you, girl, it was you. It wasn't enough.

0:59:45.440 --> 0:59:47.400
<v Speaker 1>Listen, I'm not about to spa I'm not about to

0:59:47.440 --> 0:59:50.720
<v Speaker 1>tell the rosy part of like working with products and services,

0:59:50.720 --> 0:59:53.240
<v Speaker 1>there's there's always listen there every company is gonna like

0:59:53.280 --> 0:59:55.720
<v Speaker 1>screw up and do some great things, like you know,

0:59:55.800 --> 0:59:57.800
<v Speaker 1>two things gonna be true. It's the dialectic, you know.

0:59:58.200 --> 1:00:00.800
<v Speaker 1>All right, yep, all.

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<v Speaker 5>Start agree, Yeah you go next.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I'm going to do a brown boost.

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<v Speaker 5>So y'all know a lot of the work that I

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<v Speaker 5>do around financial literacy education. First of all, if you're

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<v Speaker 5>trying to change laws, it's going to take forever, and

1:00:14.880 --> 1:00:16.440
<v Speaker 5>a day like this is not the kind of thing

1:00:16.480 --> 1:00:19.640
<v Speaker 5>you could just do overnight. And so our team last

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<v Speaker 5>year we had a year where we only got one

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<v Speaker 5>state to pass a law, which was California. The year

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<v Speaker 5>before that we got eight states. So it sounds bad, like,

1:00:30.200 --> 1:00:31.840
<v Speaker 5>oh no, we went from one year where eight states

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<v Speaker 5>signed a law to require financial literacy at the high

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<v Speaker 5>school until one only one the year where one state,

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<v Speaker 5>but the state of California is so big that more

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<v Speaker 5>students are getting access to financial literacy because of that

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<v Speaker 5>one state law than the all eight of the previous

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<v Speaker 5>year states combined.

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<v Speaker 4>So like, the reach is great, but my boost is

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<v Speaker 4>not that.

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<v Speaker 5>My boost is that this year for twenty twenty five,

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<v Speaker 5>the session just started in January. Legislative sessions start in January.

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<v Speaker 5>New members are being sworn in, and we have officially

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<v Speaker 5>confirmed with lawmakers in three states that they are serious

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<v Speaker 5>about championing bills. So I'm about to tell y'all, if

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<v Speaker 5>you live in this state and you have any little

1:01:11.200 --> 1:01:13.480
<v Speaker 5>ounce of passion to help us pass a law to

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<v Speaker 5>require financial literacy for every high school student.

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<v Speaker 4>In the state.

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<v Speaker 5>The states are New Jersey, Colorado, and Texas. So it's official.

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<v Speaker 5>We are working on trying to get legislation. The lawmakers

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<v Speaker 5>are drafting bills right now to try to get us

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<v Speaker 5>to get these bills signed by may or June of

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<v Speaker 5>this year hopefully and then to be like implemented before

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<v Speaker 5>like in the coming two to three years, because it

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<v Speaker 5>does take some time to roll it out. You got

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<v Speaker 5>to train all the teachers, you got to decide which curriculum,

1:01:40.800 --> 1:01:42.840
<v Speaker 5>the districts have to make certain decisions, so it's not

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<v Speaker 5>going to be like starting August first, but still like

1:01:46.880 --> 1:01:48.560
<v Speaker 5>getting these laws change is a big deal.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a big effort.

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<v Speaker 5>And so to get three states right out the gate

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<v Speaker 5>in January that's saying that they're serious and committed is

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<v Speaker 5>like a big deal. So that's that is my boost

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<v Speaker 5>this whole year. But specifically stuff that I found out

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<v Speaker 5>this week.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's next gen personal finance. Is that the organization

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<v Speaker 1>that you work the nonprofit.

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<v Speaker 5>Right, Yeah, So actually that's the organization that provides the

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<v Speaker 5>free curriculum.

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<v Speaker 4>If there's any school out.

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<v Speaker 5>There that does not have lesson plans and homework and

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<v Speaker 5>games and assessments and everything, you can just go to

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<v Speaker 5>MGPF dot organ get it for free because we don't

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<v Speaker 5>want schools to say, oh well, we can't teach it

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<v Speaker 5>because we don't got the budget.

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<v Speaker 4>It's free. But we have a.

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<v Speaker 5>Different affiliated organization called MGPF Mission twenty thirty Fund, and

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<v Speaker 5>that's the organization that actually works with public policy experts

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<v Speaker 5>to get laws changed.

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<v Speaker 2>It's amazing.

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<v Speaker 5>So we're doing things Colorado, Texas and New Jersey.

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<v Speaker 4>Hit me up, power at me, so me.

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<v Speaker 2>To me over here.

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<v Speaker 1>We're looking at you, crisy.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, all right, so why you know my brown boosts.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna do a boost again.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I did then one last time, and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>basically just all I'm doing now is doing some work

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<v Speaker 3>and then packing stuff up.

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<v Speaker 2>And I gotta say, I don't think. I don't think.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not repeating this, but getting rid of stuff feels good.

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<v Speaker 3>I've been getting rid of so many things. And I've

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<v Speaker 3>always been like a fan of minimalism. I'm not a minimalist.

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<v Speaker 3>I got I had too much of to be a minimalist.

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<v Speaker 3>But I don't like having a lot of stuff. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't like clother and I like just being like real

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<v Speaker 3>streamlined and I think there's not like a move to

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<v Speaker 3>make you realize how much stuff you have that you

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<v Speaker 3>didn't even care about. And he's been holding on to it,

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<v Speaker 3>accumulating it for some weird reason. And I've just been

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<v Speaker 3>going to friend's house, going to family. Here, you take this.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sending pictures and stuff to people. Hey, you want this, like,

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<v Speaker 3>don't get me any money, just take it. Yep you

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<v Speaker 3>need you need something? Yeah, I got ad air. Want

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<v Speaker 3>to mail it to you?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh okay, I mean the shipping costs might just costs

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<v Speaker 5>to get one off.

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<v Speaker 3>There's nothing like getting rid of stuff. And I'm trying

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<v Speaker 3>to like get down as low as i can to

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<v Speaker 3>the least amount of things.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so jealous.

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<v Speaker 2>And I thought right, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Thought it would feel a little more maybe sad or

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<v Speaker 3>like weird to get rid of stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's all free. I feel. I feel very light.

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<v Speaker 1>When you have your dude, you probably have like boxes

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<v Speaker 1>of cables and cords that you don't know what remote controls.

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<v Speaker 2>I had to get rid of that stuff. I had

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<v Speaker 2>to give it.

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<v Speaker 1>You probably have like old Apple packages you save in

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<v Speaker 1>the box for god knows what reason.

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<v Speaker 4>Why do you say that to throw at your title.

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<v Speaker 3>I had to get rid of so many boxes I had.

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<v Speaker 3>But I I recently I find upgraded my phone had

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<v Speaker 3>iPhone thirteen and I got sixteen, and I went into

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<v Speaker 3>the Apple store trading my old one and I just

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<v Speaker 3>brought I had my box from the original thirteen that

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<v Speaker 3>had and they were like, why.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you have this box? I was like, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what to do with this. I was

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<v Speaker 2>gonna give you.

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<v Speaker 1>They used a really expensive cardboard and it feels nice.

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<v Speaker 4>And it's like a legitim box a box.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but why do we have them?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>I started throwing them out though, like when I got

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<v Speaker 5>the thing, maybe the eleven or the twelve. I was like,

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<v Speaker 5>that's it, not never again. I'm throwing these boxes out.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm throwing the stickers out. What I don't even use

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<v Speaker 5>the stickers and they always just have them.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm throwing them in there.

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<v Speaker 2>I won't put that on my car, on my laptop.

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<v Speaker 2>You can have take it.

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<v Speaker 5>I know I feel you, though, because a couple of

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<v Speaker 5>years ago, I lived in an apartment. I shared it

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<v Speaker 5>with two roommates and we were all out working. It

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<v Speaker 5>was like, you know, middle of the day, and I

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<v Speaker 5>got a phone call from one of my roommates and

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<v Speaker 5>she was like, I just ran by the apartment and

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<v Speaker 5>it's on fire.

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<v Speaker 4>Now what And she's like, yeah, apparently.

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<v Speaker 5>Somebody in the unit right above us or right below

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<v Speaker 5>no above us left something on like an electrical device

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<v Speaker 5>through the night and it caught with the curtain started

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<v Speaker 5>just you know, a flame, and it went down to

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<v Speaker 5>our apartment. So I don't know, like during the day,

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<v Speaker 5>while we weren't there, the apartment call up in flames,

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<v Speaker 5>so the fire crew had to come, everyone to come.

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<v Speaker 5>And ever since that fire happened, it's like I was

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<v Speaker 5>I don't invited to just like let go of stuff

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<v Speaker 5>because if my apartment were to burn up right now,

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<v Speaker 5>how bad would it really be? Like if I don't

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<v Speaker 5>have that much stuff, you know. So it kind of

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<v Speaker 5>changed my mindset to like stop putting so much value

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<v Speaker 5>on these things that like this is just stuff, you

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<v Speaker 5>know what I mean, Like the things that really matter,

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<v Speaker 5>there's so few. And I honestly used to be a

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<v Speaker 5>holder because I'm my mother's daughter. I used to just

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<v Speaker 5>have all kinds of stuff they get on I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 5>use that fabric for a project or I'm gonna use this.

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<v Speaker 4>No I'm not. No, I'm not, I'm not gonna use it.

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<v Speaker 4>And so now I'm not.

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<v Speaker 5>I can't say I'm a minimalist like you, Chris, but

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<v Speaker 5>I definitely am a fan of minimalism.

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<v Speaker 4>And I understand that feeling.

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<v Speaker 5>Of like I just packed like two big old bags

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<v Speaker 5>of stuff that I don't wear anymore and gave it

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<v Speaker 5>to my nieces or gave it to Goodwill, and it's

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<v Speaker 5>just like, it feels so good. So I'm second. I'll

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<v Speaker 5>give you a plus one on that brown boose for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh. I finally took two. I had two shopping bags

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<v Speaker 1>full of like the kids stuff in my trunk that

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<v Speaker 1>would have been sitting there forever. And I finally pulled

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<v Speaker 1>up to the same donation place that I always pass

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<v Speaker 1>and still never stop. And I was like, wow, but

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<v Speaker 1>you did. Where's my price? Yeah? Ended up in a

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<v Speaker 1>landfill in China, but you know where's my prize?

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<v Speaker 5>I saw by now that Amazon documentary or with felt

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<v Speaker 5>like an Amazon bashing documentary, but yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>The one on Netflix.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, girl, Oh my goodness, the way that documentary is

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<v Speaker 5>just like it wasn't.

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<v Speaker 4>Like a super super deep deep dive but like, if.

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<v Speaker 5>You haven't seen it and you were considered watching it

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<v Speaker 5>on Netflix, it's called buy Now. I definitely recommend watching

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<v Speaker 5>it because it's just eye opening, especially if you have

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<v Speaker 5>like middle school kids or high school kid teenagers around

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<v Speaker 5>your house that like, at that age, I don't think

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<v Speaker 5>you think very deeply about the stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>You just want it.

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<v Speaker 5>And this film, oh man, it's like, no, we make

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<v Speaker 5>too much, we waste too much, we pollute too much,

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<v Speaker 5>we create products that have a limited lifespan on purpose

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<v Speaker 5>too much, and it's all about making money. And then

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<v Speaker 5>we throw all the junk in countries of black and

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<v Speaker 5>brown people who have no choice but to like live

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<v Speaker 5>in filth or like worse comes to worse, like go

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<v Speaker 5>through these things which have like chemicals being you know, emitted,

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<v Speaker 5>and it's like we're throwing stuff in where they live

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<v Speaker 5>to create junk for them or literally worsen their health

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<v Speaker 5>conditions while we're over here onto the next And oh man,

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<v Speaker 5>it just broke my heart.

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<v Speaker 4>So that's that's just a quick.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh girl, I highly recommend you watching it by now.

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<v Speaker 5>It is so worth the whatever hour minutes for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Just I literally I'm in the middle of such a

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<v Speaker 1>stuff you know, just stuff purgatory being a mom having kids,

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<v Speaker 1>you just can't It's it's a losing battle against stuff

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. So I'm so jealous of you, Chris,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm excited for you because it's starting fresh. This

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<v Speaker 1>is a fresh chapter. So the next time you're on

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<v Speaker 1>BA round Table, I don't know when that's going to be,

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<v Speaker 1>but you'll be living your best life in SF.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll be officially up in San Francisco recording from a

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<v Speaker 3>whole new area. And oh, but you know we were

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<v Speaker 3>talking about like the people just throwing stuff away. I

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<v Speaker 3>did try this company. I can't vouch for them yet

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<v Speaker 3>and don't because I haven't think officially got everything yet.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's called Trashy and it's where you can send

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<v Speaker 3>in like tech products, but also clothing, so cloling. It's

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<v Speaker 3>like damage stained old shoes, and they take care of

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<v Speaker 3>recycling it properly where it's repurposing it upcycling it and

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<v Speaker 3>that way it doesn't get thrown into a landfill or

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<v Speaker 3>thrown in the ocean, and you know all the horrible

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<v Speaker 3>things happened to it. You do have to pay, so

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<v Speaker 3>you're paying for these bags because they're going through and

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<v Speaker 3>doing the recycling for you, but it kind of reliefs

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<v Speaker 3>to make guilty head about throwing some stuff away. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>so they send you these bags and then it posted

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<v Speaker 3>just covered and then you fill it up.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I love that.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, I'm gonna look into them because honestly, people just

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<v Speaker 5>end up either putting it at goodwill, giving it someone

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<v Speaker 5>they know, or jumping it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's basically what happens.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, all right, ba fam. Well Chris, good luck

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<v Speaker 1>with your move.

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<v Speaker 5>Good luck.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm excited for you. I hope everything goes really smoothly.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah a sef get ready, Chris Browning is ready to

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<v Speaker 1>put a ring on it finally. All right, be a fanily,

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<v Speaker 1>We'll see you next time.