1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:04,720 Speaker 1: Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning show. 2 00:00:05,880 --> 00:00:09,360 Speaker 2: You know, Gandhi and I have our Medium apps on 3 00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:13,360 Speaker 2: our phones because we love reading short essays by people 4 00:00:13,400 --> 00:00:18,440 Speaker 2: that have brains and insight and a philosophy to share. 5 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 2: Today's I read was about personal growth that bad habits 6 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:26,240 Speaker 2: every man should stop immediately. I think women can stop 7 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 2: some of these two. Number one personal bad hygiene. Oh yeah, 8 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 2: it impacts your career, relationship, social life. No one wants 9 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:36,280 Speaker 2: to be near someone who smells or looks unclean. 10 00:00:36,479 --> 00:00:38,280 Speaker 3: No, it's bad for your actual health too. If you 11 00:00:38,320 --> 00:00:40,200 Speaker 3: don't take care of your teeth and stuffy. 12 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:42,880 Speaker 2: Wash brush, shave flos. See I go days without shaving. 13 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 2: I guess I don't care another thing you have bad 14 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 2: habit every man should stop, according to this article, not 15 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 2: keeping your space clean, I mean a messy house a 16 00:00:56,640 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 2: car can like harm your mental well being and make 17 00:00:59,840 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 2: a there's uncomfortable. I know if I'm going through a 18 00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 2: down in life. As we go through ups and downs, 19 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 2: I typically look around my house and it's cluttered. Yes, absolutely, 20 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 2: And I don't know if the clutter causes it or 21 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 2: me being down causes the lack of picking up from 22 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:19,199 Speaker 2: clutter only both ways, uh, neglecting your mental health. Why 23 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 2: this is bad. It harms not only you, but also 24 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 2: your loved ones. The stigma around seeking help can prevent 25 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 2: addressing the issue as well. Never ever, ever, ever hesitated 26 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 2: asking someone, Hey, help me out with something? Okay, Wasting 27 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 2: time on your phone hmmc. 28 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:37,920 Speaker 3: Scary set those limits. 29 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:39,959 Speaker 2: I mean, look, you know, I don't know. When I 30 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 2: go on my phone, I tend to fall down into 31 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 2: these holes where I'm looking at cats doing push ups 32 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:50,560 Speaker 2: and pizza making. Sometimes I think, well, how does this 33 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 2: hurtful for me? 34 00:01:53,040 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 3: There are ways I think that it's still hurtful. I mean, 35 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 3: I know it's enjoyable and that's great, but one screen 36 00:01:56,960 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 3: time is not good for your eyes in general, so 37 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 3: that's not great. And not moving, not getting out and 38 00:02:01,760 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 3: living your life and doing things. 39 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 2: You know, and taking me away from things I could 40 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:08,240 Speaker 2: be doing, like hanging, socializing and family time, cleaning up 41 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:13,160 Speaker 2: your house right, bad, eating habits good? God, damn it, 42 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 2: I know, I'm. 43 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:16,520 Speaker 1: A We're all this whole room right. 44 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 2: No exercise routine. You gotta move, get up and move. 45 00:02:19,919 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 2: I've been I've been exercising more. I feel better. Good 46 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:25,520 Speaker 2: for men this is a good one. Habits every man 47 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 2: should stop, immediately stop disrespecting women. Yeah, buddy, The arrogance, 48 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 2: the outdated behavior harm personal and professional relationships. Treat women 49 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 2: with respect while listening understanding their perspective. Don't don't woman's plain. 50 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:43,280 Speaker 2: Didn't explain to me the other day? What was that? 51 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:48,400 Speaker 2: What was Oh, you're you're a black girls plaining to me. 52 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:55,519 Speaker 2: I'm a black girl. I know what I'm about. Seriously, 53 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:58,160 Speaker 2: So black girls plain me? 54 00:02:58,240 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 3: Don't you do that? 55 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:05,680 Speaker 2: Also? Lacking ambition, Yeah, you got. You gotta have a drive, 56 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 2: you gotta have a dream. If you wake up one 57 00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 2: day like I have many days, I'll admit I'm like, 58 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:11,440 Speaker 2: I don't even know what the purpose is here? What 59 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 2: am I doing? Well? You need ambition. Ambition is a 60 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 2: good thing, and being financially financially irresponsible is awful. I 61 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 2: you know, I have just several friends in this boat 62 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:27,400 Speaker 2: who have just they totally don't watch what they're spending. 63 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 2: They don't think about what they're gonna need that money 64 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 2: for later down the road, and therefore they're out of money. Yeah, 65 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 2: so these are these old silly habits. What else? What 66 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 2: else are we neglecting in our lives that we should 67 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:39,160 Speaker 2: be doing more of sleeping. 68 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, oh my god, we were just talking about that. 69 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, without doubt. What were you saying? 70 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 3: Oh about the sleep. We were all saying that even 71 00:03:45,440 --> 00:03:48,040 Speaker 3: if you look at charts of somebody who gets eight 72 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 3: hours of sleep a night versus somebody who gets six, 73 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 3: which is probably all of us on a good night, 74 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 3: six hours of sleep, the effect that it has on 75 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 3: your body and your brain is insane, just those two hours. 76 00:03:58,000 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 3: When you take it down even lower, which I think 77 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:00,080 Speaker 3: a lot of us. 78 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 2: Also do, it's terrible. 79 00:04:01,840 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 3: Sleep is so important and people look at it as 80 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 3: this horrible thing that you're wasting time doing. No, your 81 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:10,119 Speaker 3: body needs it. You have to have sleep, don't be better. 82 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 1: Think about how you feel when we are on vacation, 83 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 1: you know, for a little while and you get to 84 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:18,119 Speaker 1: sleep in like I you start to feel like human, 85 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:20,840 Speaker 1: Like you'd be like, oh, this is how it I 86 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 1: feel to think clearly and to you know, what I'm 87 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 1: doing a game changer. It's kind of crazy. 88 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 2: Eating better and you're getting out and walking, which you do. Yeah, 89 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 2: every day. 90 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:34,440 Speaker 4: We got to have Matthew Walker on he wrote walking, 91 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:37,200 Speaker 4: He wrote why we sleep and I'm listening to that 92 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 4: book now and audible, and I am horrified, all of 93 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:42,920 Speaker 4: us here in this room. We're all going to get 94 00:04:42,920 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 4: dementia in the next ten years. We're going to get it. 95 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:46,920 Speaker 4: I've got it. 96 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 2: Sucks. You do too, That's what I'm saying. 97 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:53,320 Speaker 1: I think I do too sometimes and you're demented. 98 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 4: I don't even know what we're talking about. That's how 99 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:58,280 Speaker 4: much dementia I have. But no, we are seriously developing 100 00:04:58,320 --> 00:04:59,840 Speaker 4: that because we are not sleeping. 101 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:00,599 Speaker 2: That's why when. 102 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:03,599 Speaker 1: People complain that we take too many vacations, I say, guys, 103 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:06,200 Speaker 1: you got to realize that we have to sleep sometimes. 104 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 1: Like it's like not. 105 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:10,920 Speaker 2: Good micro habits. This is a different one. I've been 106 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:13,919 Speaker 2: reading a lot. Okay, never do this before you go 107 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 2: to bed. Do you know what this is? No? Watch, 108 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 2: never leave a dirty kitchen. 109 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 3: Why did that yesterday? I cleaned up my kitchen yesterday 110 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:23,320 Speaker 3: because I was like, Hm, I'm not gonna. 111 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 2: Wake up to don't wake up to a dirty kitchen. 112 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 2: And when you get up, make that bed. It's the 113 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:30,359 Speaker 2: first it's the first thing you do. Absolutely, what's scary? 114 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:33,839 Speaker 2: What's so funny? I was gonna say, eat Mexican food please? 115 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:39,279 Speaker 2: Last night? That was a great train rolling into the 116 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:40,240 Speaker 2: station or out of the station. 117 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 3: Gandhi's Revenge. 118 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:43,919 Speaker 2: Oh okay, no, I'm not ready to take a break. Sorry, 119 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:46,360 Speaker 2: I've got to mention it. I had one thing. What 120 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 2: you said? 121 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 3: What else? Do we need to be focusing on what? 122 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 3: I think we should all be focusing on joy germs, 123 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 3: on the things that make us happy and enjoying it 124 00:05:53,440 --> 00:05:55,640 Speaker 3: a little bit more. You know, we are so quick 125 00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:57,840 Speaker 3: to spread the negative news and talk about all the 126 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 3: bad things that are happening. And they're playing about things happening. 127 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:02,920 Speaker 3: I get that, But right, find the happy things, spread 128 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 3: the happiness, find your own happy thing and enjoy it. 129 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:07,280 Speaker 2: Speaking of that, what's that book you're reading over there? 130 00:06:07,920 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 3: Oh? 131 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:10,520 Speaker 2: Good people, look at this. 132 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:13,600 Speaker 3: It's called Stories from the Best of Humanity. From our 133 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:16,760 Speaker 3: friends that upworthy. They always post really good, uplifting stories, 134 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:20,480 Speaker 3: and this is a compilation of the best stuff, just heartwarming, 135 00:06:20,760 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 3: joy filled. 136 00:06:21,560 --> 00:06:24,719 Speaker 2: Amazing stuff, catching people doing something right. All right, Always 137 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:28,719 Speaker 2: clean your kitchen. Park your car one thousand yards away 138 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:31,479 Speaker 2: from the door. Oh yeah, I never park up front. 139 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 2: I never do that trolling for a place up front. 140 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:34,920 Speaker 2: I always park in the back of the lot. 141 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:37,280 Speaker 1: I can I have no patience to drive around a 142 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 1: parking lot forever. I'm like, wherever I go, I'll go 143 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:41,679 Speaker 1: all the way in the back. I don't care. I'd 144 00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 1: rather walk no way. Hate it. 145 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 2: There you go. Flossing your teeth just takes a minute. Yeah, 146 00:06:48,760 --> 00:06:50,599 Speaker 2: a minute or two. Just flosh your teeth. 147 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 3: I'm like a drug dealer with my flas sticks. Every 148 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:55,160 Speaker 3: time someone's done eating, I'm like, hey, you want a 149 00:06:55,160 --> 00:06:56,240 Speaker 3: flow stick? I got a flas stick. 150 00:06:56,360 --> 00:06:58,040 Speaker 2: You want to offer them to me? Because I do 151 00:06:58,080 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 2: not floss enough. I ask our. 152 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:03,040 Speaker 3: Okay, I'm gonna ask him, would you like a flow sick? 153 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:04,040 Speaker 3: It's in my backpack right now. 154 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:07,279 Speaker 2: I take one. Okay, we're gonna flosh hair together. 155 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 1: And how often are you supposed to wash your hair? 156 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 1: Because I was just talking abby about this. I can't 157 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:15,600 Speaker 1: remember when I washed my hair last because I've been 158 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:17,720 Speaker 1: waiting to get a trim and I'm not going till 159 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 1: next week. And I feel like I didn't care, so 160 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 1: I just was wearing it up and stuff and I 161 00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:25,200 Speaker 1: don't I mean, is there do you have to wash it? 162 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:25,560 Speaker 4: Right? 163 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 2: When I went platinum blonde, yeah, I didn't wash my hair. 164 00:07:30,160 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 2: I would I go three or four or five days 165 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 2: without washing it because they don't want you to mess. 166 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 1: This has been at least a week. 167 00:07:34,960 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 2: No, but I got into the habit. Now I will 168 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 2: go two or three days without washing it. Yeah, I 169 00:07:38,680 --> 00:07:40,560 Speaker 2: don't know. I think, what the hell are you guys do? 170 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 2: Then again, my hair is all falling out. So why 171 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 2: are you just throwing stuff at each other? He wanted 172 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 2: to Are we gonna floss in this room together? It's 173 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 2: gonna smell like No, but we. 174 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 1: All always ask for sticks. 175 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 2: Give me your teeth, give me a disco stick. We 176 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 2: got to take a break. No, but I have dementia. 177 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 2: We're so late. We're early for tomorrow. Look at that 178 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:12,760 Speaker 2: planning ahead. Thank you for this day. He didn't even 179 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:13,559 Speaker 2: close the bag. 180 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 3: Oh my god. Look what they're all over the fild. 181 00:08:17,240 --> 00:08:19,560 Speaker 2: You can use those. This is a clean floor. Okay, 182 00:08:19,560 --> 00:08:20,360 Speaker 2: we got to take a break.