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Speaker 1: Well it is one or two point seven kiss FM.

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Speaker 1: All right, just Tanya in Happy Couple Relationships here, And

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Speaker 1: I was reading about this, and when I read about

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Speaker 1: stuff like this, I think, I wonder if they do this.

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Speaker 1: So marriage experts are saying that couples should never use

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Speaker 1: these three phrases. What if any of y'all use these

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Speaker 1: three phrases? Okay, one, I'm sorry you feel that way.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I said that for yeah, kind of placing.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of placing, it's kind of it is condescending.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry you feel that way. That's so nice. Like,

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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry you feel that way. I guess it's

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Speaker 1: not nice. It's not nice, and they made your selection

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Speaker 1: if you say it like that, like, I'm so sorry

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Speaker 1: feel that way. An apology, I'm sorry you feel that way. Well,

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Speaker 1: no one talks like that. Well maybe that they might,

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Speaker 1: but it's being stubborn, Tanya. It is. It's like it's

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Speaker 1: followed by butt. I'm doing it anyway. I kind of

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Speaker 1: slap in the facey. That's one. Interesting. Another one, don't

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Speaker 1: ever say this to stay happy. It's not worth getting

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Speaker 1: upset about. I do like that one. I feel like

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Speaker 1: I can totally picture you saying that. But the point is, yeah,

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Speaker 1: because let's move on. It's not worth getting show. Literally

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Speaker 1: choose your pick your battles, because it's like, you know,

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Speaker 1: I guess I see the downside to that, because you're

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Speaker 1: telling somebody that what they feel isn't important for being upset. Right. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and this one. I can't stand this one. And when

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Speaker 1: I hear it, I take total personal offense and I

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Speaker 1: take a deep breath and I say, please don't say that.

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Speaker 1: I know what it is. What is it? Calm down?

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Speaker 1: That's it? Is it? Really? Yes, yes, anybody like hearing

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Speaker 1: calm down. But I say to my kids all the time,

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Speaker 1: all fine, you're in charge, But in a relationship, calm

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Speaker 1: down is the worst. Like you could say, things start

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Speaker 1: with an F to me, Calm down, really, calm down,

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Speaker 1: calm down? No you Today's quote some days are better

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Speaker 1: than others, and today is not one of them. Well,

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Speaker 1: I just thought it'd be fun, you know, after coming

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Speaker 1: out of calm down. Some days are better than others. Tuesday,

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Speaker 1: you know, it's cynical Tuesdays