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Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network.

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Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who

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Speaker 2: talks what's up?

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Speaker 1: Tandamn.

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Speaker 2: Hey y'all's tampama. I love y'all so much. Thank y'all

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Speaker 2: for coming back again one more again.

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Speaker 3: How you doing? AJ?

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Speaker 4: Is it bad hair Day Thursday?

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Speaker 3: Bitch?

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Speaker 2: If you could see what it was under this ain't

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Speaker 2: no tracks I got. I got, like literally the Sherman

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Speaker 2: Hensley Where's tracks just above my ear and below the

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Speaker 2: whole top is out shame.

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Speaker 1: My hair looks so crunchy. I ordered some new shit

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Speaker 1: off Instagram. I don't know how many different hair products

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Speaker 1: I've tried off there, But this time I'm gonna just

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Speaker 1: throw all the shit I got away and stick to

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Speaker 1: try to stick to one product and it's just two

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Speaker 1: products from the same line, and see what happens is

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Speaker 1: I am just chop this ship off and start a

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Speaker 1: new again.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I'm I'm gonna take this out tonight after

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Speaker 2: we finish, and I'm put on.

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Speaker 3: A U part week for a couple for the rest

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Speaker 3: of the week.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and see, I could do you part, but my

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Speaker 1: hair breaks off.

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Speaker 4: So easily with heat, Like.

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Speaker 1: One week of heat, my shit is done with so

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Speaker 1: I can't I can't really even use that my cheek,

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Speaker 1: So I just really don't manipulate my hair that much.

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Speaker 4: But then it's dry. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Why don't you do like a U part that has

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Speaker 2: like curly hair so you can like blend your natural

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Speaker 2: hair in.

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Speaker 3: You could do that. Mm hmm.

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Speaker 4: I need to make me a nice low youth. Got

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Speaker 4: a nice low U part.

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Speaker 1: But I have been looking for a beautician locally so

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Speaker 1: I can start getting my hair treated, because man, I

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Speaker 1: don't know if some of the natural girl is be struggling,

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Speaker 1: but I struggle with moisture retention, so I should be

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Speaker 1: crying cheat I needed a treatment.

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Speaker 3: You could do that at home and you could get to.

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Speaker 4: A little assistant. If I gotta pay for it, it'll

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Speaker 4: get done.

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Speaker 3: M that's opposite of typically how you are the hair shit.

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Speaker 1: I don't be feeling like it when I make three

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Speaker 1: wigs a year, bitch, and that be it.

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Speaker 4: Literally, like I made three to four wigs a year,

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Speaker 4: and na's it.

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Speaker 1: I order here twice a year and that be it

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Speaker 1: for real, like low maintenance when it comes to the

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Speaker 1: hair shit, bitch, you see me hat.

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Speaker 4: Wig anyway, move that order. My weekend was uneventful, y'all

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Speaker 4: know i'm'll be doing shit.

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Speaker 1: I did go outside a little tiny bit just to eat,

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Speaker 1: that's about it. And this weekend was actually choseting food

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Speaker 1: and wine festival. But I missed ticket sales, y'all. I

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Speaker 1: should be one hundred and like two hundred dollars a

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Speaker 1: day for this. But it's really nice.

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Speaker 3: I saw it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I might fuck with it next year, or maybe

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Speaker 4: I can get.

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Speaker 1: Me some free see the content girlies and guy guys

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Speaker 1: be getting free tickets to that shit. I'm like, how

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Speaker 1: the hell y'all niggas be there every fucking year? But

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Speaker 1: you know they create content more than festival and get

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Speaker 1: free tickets.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you just got to create more content so they

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Speaker 2: can be like, don't start with.

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Speaker 4: Us, right right?

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Speaker 1: So maybe next year, But I ain't do much of

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Speaker 1: this A good and that's it what you had going on?

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Speaker 2: Well, I was in Costa Rica, you guys, and I

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Speaker 2: got the fool shebang I told you all about.

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Speaker 3: I got.

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Speaker 2: I needed two feelings. I needed a crown. I got

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Speaker 2: a veneer, not a whole veneer. They ain't shave my tooth.

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Speaker 2: It's like a veneer rising or something like that. And

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Speaker 2: they put it on top and then I got a

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Speaker 2: wisdom tooth extracted.

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Speaker 4: Oh that's what when you sent me the picture, I

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Speaker 4: did ask.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you responded if that was a wisdom tooth,

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Speaker 1: because that's what it looked like.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a wisdom tooth, biggest wisdom tooth impacted.

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Speaker 2: It was to the side and that shit it felt

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Speaker 2: like because I didn't get put to sleep. And my

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Speaker 2: dinnists here in the States was like, when you get

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Speaker 2: that taken out, you should get it put. You should

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Speaker 2: go to sleep for that. You know you're gonna have

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Speaker 2: to go to sleep for that. And then Costa Rica

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Speaker 2: was like, no, no, no, we can do for you, baby.

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Speaker 2: When I tell you, it feels like they was snatching

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Speaker 2: my whole jaw off.

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Speaker 3: The side of my head. Like there.

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Speaker 2: It didn't hurt, but it was just so much tugging

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Speaker 2: and yanking. And if you not mentally like I could,

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Speaker 2: I would never do that again. I'll say that you

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Speaker 2: didn't feel it. I couldn't feel the pain. I could

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Speaker 2: just feel the pressure of someone trying to snatch your

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Speaker 2: tooth out the side of my face. Shit, it was

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Speaker 2: a lot, but they had me on the best drugs

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Speaker 2: Costa Rica gout, I bet.

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Speaker 3: But it was a cool experience.

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Speaker 2: It was like a almost like a no, not almost

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Speaker 2: like it was literally a dental resort because they had

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Speaker 2: a restaurant, they had a spa, they had part like

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Speaker 2: a club night on Wednesday night where there's like a

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Speaker 2: country club that the bus from the resort will take

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Speaker 2: you to the club and bring you back and then

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Speaker 2: like you just get your dinner work done. And when

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Speaker 2: it was filled with nothing but white Americans.

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Speaker 1: Interesting, how much would you say you spent so to

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Speaker 1: get all that shit done was probably like.

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Speaker 4: Seventeen dollars including the state or that separate.

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Speaker 3: No, the state was separate. The state was. It was

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Speaker 3: like ninety dollars a night.

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Speaker 1: And so it was the forgem I've never had, like

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Speaker 1: a like major mouthshit that I've got my wisdom tooth

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Speaker 1: taken out as a teenager, I should all four of

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Speaker 1: mine being gone. I did just get a feeling, but

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Speaker 1: with my insurance it was like eighty dollars deductible or

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Speaker 1: something like that.

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Speaker 2: That wasn't bad for one feeling, but if you got, yeah,

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Speaker 2: all the amount of stuff I got, you're looking at

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Speaker 2: a good four or five thousand dollars, maybe even more,

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Speaker 2: you know. So it was a fraction. It was like

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Speaker 2: sixty to seventy percent less than American prices. So it

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Speaker 2: just makes sense if you want, like a I'm a

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Speaker 2: teeth person though, so I'm all about taking care of

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Speaker 2: my grill.

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Speaker 1: I need some shit done right now because it's the

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Speaker 1: fucking dennistare man, I just don't have the mental capacity

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Speaker 1: to cust them out right now. But and it's a

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Speaker 1: black dentist, a girl, a woman, and I just feel like,

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Speaker 1: you know, I was asking her about cosmetic stuff, like

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Speaker 1: some things I wanted, Like somehow, somehow, this feeling got

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Speaker 1: chipped at some point. I don't know when, but I've

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Speaker 1: had this shit since twenty seventeen, So how did it

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Speaker 1: get chipped while y'all were cleaning my tooth.

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Speaker 4: I didn't realize it until I got home.

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Speaker 3: Damn, they chipped it cleaning it. It's crazy, yes, And

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Speaker 3: then and didn't say nothing.

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Speaker 4: Nope.

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Speaker 1: Then the feeling that they did do in the back

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Speaker 1: of my mouth, like I could feel it. It's not smooth.

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Speaker 1: And now I got hell of sensitivity on it. I

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Speaker 1: just and other things I was asking her about with

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Speaker 1: my teeth. She was real dismissive of you know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, and I'm already annoyed. I don't want to

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Speaker 1: have to call this bitch and be like, hey, bitch.

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Speaker 3: You fuck my mouth up, but you should.

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Speaker 1: I really just want to go to another dentist and

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Speaker 1: have them send the X rays because I really don't

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Speaker 1: feel like I needed the feelings. I really feel like

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Speaker 1: they were just trying to get some extra shit because

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Speaker 1: the dental hygienics. She kept asking me like, but what's

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Speaker 1: your routine? Your teeth looks so good? Yeah, I don't

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Speaker 1: come here, bitch. Okay, I went to the eye doctor.

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Speaker 1: Now I can't see. I literally be taking care of myself,

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Speaker 1: so I have to see y'all cause y'all don't heal people.

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Speaker 4: Y'all don't fix people to where they don't have to.

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Speaker 4: Now come back and fuck.

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Speaker 2: With you, Yes, well, I mean it's a lot of

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Speaker 2: people out there mouth nasty as hell, and they need

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Speaker 2: to see the dentists.

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Speaker 4: Though you don't go either, But I take care of

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Speaker 4: my shit and don't.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I shit lots and blush.

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Speaker 4: Brush your teeth can do a lot.

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Speaker 2: Right, I agree, but no because I still had cavities

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Speaker 2: even I brush regularly.

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Speaker 3: It's just I don't know.

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Speaker 2: So let me tell y'all this because there was a

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Speaker 2: lot of people in the DMS asking me about where

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Speaker 2: I went. It's doctor Marco Munez Cavalini International Dental Clinic,

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Speaker 2: and as Marco m A R c O Munez m

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Speaker 2: U n o Z Cavalini c A v A L

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Speaker 2: l I n I International Dental Clinic, and tell them,

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Speaker 2: temm me sent you. You ain't gonna get no discount,

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Speaker 2: but just mention it so I can get one when

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Speaker 2: I come back.

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Speaker 4: Period telling we talked.

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Speaker 2: Back cent you, let's get this in.

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Speaker 4: You got going on?

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Speaker 2: Man?

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Speaker 4: So I don't really like do it.

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Speaker 1: I haven't had.

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Speaker 4: Time this week, like really look at the world.

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Speaker 1: A lot of things that I have been intentionally not

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Speaker 1: lending my energy to. And then it's like, you know,

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Speaker 1: I might come across some ship and see what's going on,

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Speaker 1: But what the hell is up with this person who's

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Speaker 1: allegedly invaded Rihanna's house.

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Speaker 3: Or tried to like she was shooting at the house.

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Speaker 2: She put eight rounds into Rihanna's house, four into the

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Speaker 2: gate and then four into the actual house. This person

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Speaker 2: is clearly suffering from mental illness.

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Speaker 1: Some psychosist put witchcraft on her as what she said.

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Speaker 3: Right, and we all are trying to kill her.

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Speaker 2: And you know that just takes me back to that girl,

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Speaker 2: Like I remember, remember that girl.

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Speaker 3: Yes I'm not saying her.

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Speaker 2: Beach name, but yeah, Like, people really be having mental

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Speaker 2: illness and they have concocted some story in their mind

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Speaker 2: and they think that you're after them. It's crazy. And

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Speaker 2: this girl is so cute too, ain't she cute? She

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Speaker 2: is so it, says.

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Speaker 1: Reports continued to service after a suspect was identified in

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Speaker 1: connection with gunfire outside of Rihanna's Beverly Hills home over

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Speaker 1: the weekend. Authority say the woman allegedly responsible also shared

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Speaker 1: several concerning posts about the singer on social media and

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Speaker 1: weeks leading up to the incident. According to the police,

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Speaker 1: the suspect was identified as the thirty five year old

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Speaker 1: Ivana Ortes. Investigators say she was arrested and booked on

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Speaker 1: suspicion of attempted murder after shots reportedly fired at Rihanna's

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Speaker 1: fourteen million dollar mansion while the singer was.

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Speaker 4: Oh god, she was in the house. Yeah, she was

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Speaker 4: home Sunday.

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Speaker 3: Her damn kids. You know that's crazy because if something

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Speaker 3: That blond wig. Do look crazy? That blonde wig tells

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Speaker 1: What She tweeted Rihanna once and said, this is on

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 1: She also another post she I was restricted. I know,

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Speaker 1: really wild. I'm already through with Rihanna. Your turn, hiding bitch.

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Speaker 1: Stop begging for a look.

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Speaker 4: Girl, the people girl.

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Speaker 3: She needs some help. Yep.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, the people is fool. So she's she has a

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Speaker 2: She's not getting out and she probably. I wonder they're

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Speaker 4: Jail whenever she's sentence. I don't know, man, the people

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Speaker 1: Let that bitch out because I when when something like

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Speaker 4: Never come back roum me mm hm, that she can

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Speaker 4: get out of jail right. Let that bitch out so

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Speaker 1: That's how I would about it if I was Rihanna,

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Speaker 1: you shot at the house of me and my kids

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, But she's smart because how she found out

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Speaker 2: where Riana living.

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Speaker 3: You know, you're a pet detective.

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Speaker 1: You go find whoever like she she's that's our stocking goals.

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Speaker 1: Everybody is accessible. It's no hiding anymore. All of our

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Speaker 4: If you're a smart aren't like me?

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Speaker 1: If I were a millionaire even like now, I wouldn't

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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying? Like I still use my

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Speaker 3: Roo'm gonna be like what you want.

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Speaker 1: And like you're supposed to put your property in a trust.

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Speaker 1: in a trust. Like why is anything in Rihanna Finty's name?

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Speaker 2: It might not have been in her name, It might

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Speaker 2: not even be in her name. She might trust found

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Speaker 2: out where she was gonna be at and then follow her.

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Speaker 3: You know she like that. You never know people.

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Speaker 4: Wow, people are nuts.

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Speaker 2: Speaking of nuts, That was cowboy quarterback that Dak Prescott

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Speaker 2: called off his wedding after his fiance Jane Ramos allegedly

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Speaker 2: refused to sign a prenup.

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Speaker 3: Dak is worth two hundred and fifty to three hundred

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Speaker 3: million dollars.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, bitch, what you thought she take my mind.

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Speaker 3: When not having me? That's what it makes me think

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Speaker 3: of the Kanye.

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Speaker 4: Bitch.

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Speaker 3: Indeed, listen, I wasn't sad about it, because I mean,

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't dac to be with a sister, no shape.

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Speaker 3: But would you have signed?

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Speaker 4: I would have.

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Speaker 3: Signed that ship so quick.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I still got to access.

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Speaker 1: I would never have a problem leaving a relationship with

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Speaker 1: what I came with, you know, including children. Okay, I

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Speaker 1: didn't come into relationship with one. I'm leaving them with you.

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Speaker 2: If I would have signed that ship she was gonna

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Speaker 2: I think they might even still turn around and make

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Speaker 3: You know, No, I mean this is the power.

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Speaker 4: I guess. You know.

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure he didn't just spring it on her

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Speaker 1: day before the wedding. I'm pretty sure she knew what

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Speaker 1: time it was the whole time? Mm hm. Why would

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Speaker 1: he not sign a prenuptial agreement? And to me, why

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Speaker 1: would you not sign it?

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Speaker 3: To me?

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Speaker 1: That shows your intent? Because the problem sign it? Like

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Speaker 1: if you were the one with two hundred million dollars, would.

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Speaker 4: You not want to protect it? Yeah? I love you,

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Speaker 4: but shit happens.

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Speaker 1: So why you, as the woman who does not narrowly

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Speaker 1: have you know that type of money, Why wouldn't you

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Speaker 1: sign a prenuptial agreement unless you had ill intent?

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Speaker 4: You showing you don't love him by not signing.

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Speaker 3: Or maybe the agreement was just not fair or something

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I wanna possible. Yeah, are you gonna

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Speaker 3: leave with that Honda Civic? And that's it?

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Speaker 2: God, damn, I gotta give all my clothes back and

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Speaker 2: all my jewelry.

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Speaker 3: Like, you know, that's what Mayweather do to his girl.

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Speaker 4: That's a broke nigga, That bro broke rich nigger.

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Speaker 3: You only barn this ship. It's not yours.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, and you're gonna have the next bitch wearing

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Speaker 1: my robe and like what right then? And a bitch

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Speaker 1: will okay, the next one will definitely be in your drip.

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Speaker 2: I already said in that DMS. Hey, I'm sorry you

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Speaker 2: going through that. I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 4: Side right here, I won't give a fuck.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be a paper regardless because you're gonna give

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Speaker 1: me money in the relationship. It cannot be in a

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Speaker 1: prenup that I gotta turn over my bank accounts, bank statements,

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Speaker 1: you know. The weird Like so my stepdaddy, that nigga

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Speaker 1: be giving my mama money every month and he likes

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Speaker 1: to give her cash. It's like something men just like cash.

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Speaker 1: They just have like to have wads of cash for

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Speaker 1: no reason. Maybe niggas w ain't never had shit growing up.

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Speaker 1: Like the money is a symbol of something, right, it

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Speaker 1: feels good. Yeah, he will come put this cash on

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Speaker 1: it on the dress of every mind and I'd be like,

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't give a fuck.

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Speaker 3: Mm hm.

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Speaker 1: But then she just stacks it. She doesn't put it

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Speaker 1: in the being either. She just be stacking his money.

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Speaker 1: So he's always checking her a little stash to see

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Speaker 1: if she spends it and what she doing with the

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Speaker 3: But not in the house.

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Speaker 2: It's somewhere else for you, motherfucker's listening. It's not at

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Speaker 2: the house. Ain't no cash there, bitch. Don't need to

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Speaker 2: try it.

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Speaker 1: Don't need to try because I cannot wait to stew

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Speaker 1: a nigger.

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Speaker 4: Anyway.

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Speaker 1: So, Dina Howard said the reason her second album didn't

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Speaker 1: get released is because she was in an.

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Speaker 3: Engagement with entanglement.

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Speaker 1: Oh entanglement Okay, I was tripping. So what I read

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Speaker 1: is before I got setting engagement. Okay, got it? It

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Speaker 1: was all fair game, god Okay.

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Speaker 4: Sorry.

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Speaker 1: Was in an entanglement with he said, one er right

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Speaker 1: with one yer from Boys and Men, the nicer looking

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Speaker 1: one right, didn't he walk with the Is that him?

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Speaker 3: I think you're talking about Sean?

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Speaker 4: Oh he died though, the guy who used to us

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Speaker 4: a Kane, he did? I think so? Am? I told

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Speaker 4: me that I did a nigga who never died before.

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Speaker 3: I think I think all boys and men living. But

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Speaker 3: don't get me.

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Speaker 1: Wrong, boys man. While he was in a relationship with Brandy,

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Speaker 1: so Adena Howard and Brandy was sharing Dick.

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Speaker 4: This is interesting.

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Speaker 1: So Ladena and Brandy were both on the same label

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Speaker 1: and their boss, Silva Arne, who was the head of

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Speaker 1: the label, told aDNA to end her affair and focus

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Speaker 1: on her album, and she said no and curaged her

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Speaker 1: own boss out.

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Speaker 4: So how you got a boss on a label? I

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Speaker 4: don't know what that is anyway, So.

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Speaker 1: Silva pulled the plug on her whole album and her

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Speaker 1: career was over, and Silva elevated Brandy's career. The song

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Speaker 1: boy is Mind was about her beef with a Dina

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Speaker 1: Believe it or not. They finally released a Dina Howard's

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Speaker 1: album decades later, called Fantasy Island on streaming platforms in

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Speaker 1: twenty twenty one.

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Speaker 4: If you want to go and.

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Speaker 1: Check it out, I am gonna go check the album

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Speaker 1: out because bitch I used to be singing Dina Howard

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Speaker 1: on Yahoo uh Yahoo chat rooms.

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Speaker 3: I want to freak again.

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Speaker 2: Yes, first of all, you was both of us were

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Speaker 2: far too young to be singing that shit.

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Speaker 3: Don't even know what the hell were singing about.

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Speaker 1: Shit, bitch, I gotta calculate, because I.

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Speaker 3: No, you did not at that time that song.

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Speaker 2: Do you know when that song came out? You do

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Speaker 2: not know what was going on in this school.

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Speaker 4: Bitch, I didn't have fuck at least once.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Oh my, y'all ain't fucking the eighth grade.

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Speaker 4: I'm tripping.

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Speaker 1: No, No, I definitely had sex and eighth grade.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So if it came out around that time, I.

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Speaker 2: Think it was still before the but I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Based on what this says, I don't feel like you.

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Speaker 3: The reason was the entanglement.

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Speaker 2: It said you cussed out your boss, right, that's why

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Speaker 2: you That's why you fucked up. It wasn't the nigga,

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Speaker 2: it was it's just not a good idea to cut

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Speaker 2: your boss out.

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Speaker 1: It because why did you tell me in my relationship though?

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Speaker 1: That's why the boss got custed out? Because whose business

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Speaker 1: is this? And why you ain't telling Brandy to end

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Speaker 1: the relationship?

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Speaker 3: No, I agree Brandy career. No, I agree there, but.

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Speaker 1: She got cussed out because you're telling a grown woman

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Speaker 1: and end the relationship.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess maybe they were friends for it.

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Speaker 2: I thought they were, but I guess you could cuss

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Speaker 2: out your friend if y'all were talking like that.

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Speaker 3: But all right, so I read that they were. Now

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna say this is quiet.

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Speaker 2: Allegedly Wanye and a Dina were twenty two at the

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Speaker 2: time and Brandy was sixteen years old.

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Speaker 3: Oh shit, So there. I don't know how.

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Speaker 1: Just about to see some ship that changed changed my

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Speaker 1: monologue because I was about to say, like, ain't no

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Speaker 1: way brandy pussy better than Dina Howard's.

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Speaker 4: But but you know about the kid first of all.

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Speaker 2: But they say crazy pussy is better than regular pussy.

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Speaker 2: And you know, she killed a couple of people, Brandy, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Brandy, does I feel like she killed a couple of people? Right?

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Speaker 4: She might be a serial killer.

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Speaker 2: And then they say she took that nigga eye out

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Speaker 2: from immature. Yes, she took a nigga eye out. She

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Speaker 2: killed a couple of motherfuckers. We probably need to stop

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Speaker 2: talking about this bitch. As a matter of.

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Speaker 1: Straight up, I feel uncomfortable a little bit because I

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Speaker 1: already know their mama don't play.

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Speaker 3: So let's move on what we talk about today.

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Speaker 4: Y'all okay, So I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I followed Duval I loved so recently on Duval's page,

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Speaker 1: he put up a post.

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Speaker 4: One of the posts said he thinks it's easier for

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Speaker 4: women to break up with men. Right. I don't agree

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Speaker 4: with that. Did I say women to break up with men?

449
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Speaker 1: Right?

450
00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:17,600
Speaker 4: Yeah?

451
00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:21,320
Speaker 1: So then the other post said, what's the easiest way

452
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Speaker 1: to break up with a woman that ain't cheat on you,

453
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Speaker 1: but you just don't like no more?

454
00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:26,960
Speaker 4: Right?

455
00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:30,040
Speaker 1: And then his caption says women do it all the

456
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Speaker 1: time like it's nothing, but I don't think they realize

457
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Speaker 1: how much harder it is for men because y'all swear

458
00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:40,080
Speaker 1: just because y'all don't cheat, that makes you a good

459
00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:43,840
Speaker 1: woman when it's first, when it's furthest from the truth.

460
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Speaker 1: So I'm curious because I don't think there's no good way.

461
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Speaker 1: I'd be trying to read how people type me. I

462
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Speaker 1: don't think there's no good way to do it without

463
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Speaker 1: looking like a jerk. So this sparked the conversation me

464
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Speaker 1: and my homegirl and a guy she's dating, because I'm like,

465
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Speaker 1: you know, like, as far as like breaking up, you know,

466
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Speaker 1: it's always I think again, I think it's different when

467
00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:08,600
Speaker 1: we talk about well, we don't. We won't get into

468
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Speaker 1: the conversation after the break. All right, be right back,

469
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Speaker 1: all right, y'all were back.

470
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Speaker 4: Okay, So back to what I was saying.

471
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Speaker 1: I think men do not physically leave relationships more than

472
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Speaker 1: women do, right, And I think oftentimes men they'll stay

473
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Speaker 1: in situations that are no longer serving them, you know,

474
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Speaker 1: because obligations, kids, whatever, But they definitely complete in their

475
00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:47,119
Speaker 1: happiness someplace else. Okay, So they're just not staying in

476
00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:50,440
Speaker 1: the thing unhappy. See, women will end relationships because they're

477
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Speaker 1: not happy. Right on this same post, I commented and

478
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Speaker 1: I said, so what I'm because I'm just reading a comment,

479
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Speaker 1: So I'm like, so am I hearing that it's easier

480
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:04,280
Speaker 1: for men to stay and complete their happiness elsewhere than

481
00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:05,720
Speaker 1: it is just to get out of there?

482
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Speaker 4: And the men started eating me up?

483
00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:13,560
Speaker 1: So apparently, Yeah, But I'm trying to figure out, why

484
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:15,879
Speaker 1: do y'all think that's a good thing. Get out the

485
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Speaker 1: relationship if you don't want to be there because you

486
00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:21,320
Speaker 1: both are miserable at this point.

487
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Speaker 2: That is weird to me, Like why stay? I Mean

488
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:27,160
Speaker 2: sometimes a lot of times people say and men and women.

489
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Speaker 2: It's for the children, for the kids. I don't want

490
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Speaker 2: to be like my daddy. I don't want to walk

491
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Speaker 2: out of my family like my dad did.

492
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Speaker 1: Well, let's talk about just boyfriend girlfriend situations. Let's not

493
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Speaker 1: even add the marriage thing in there yet, right, So

494
00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:47,639
Speaker 1: just talk about two people, boyfriend girlfriend. I have left

495
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Speaker 1: several niggas. I can't say I've actually been left by

496
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Speaker 1: a man, but I'm pretty sure these men also had

497
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Speaker 1: grievances with me, right that they probably looked past to

498
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Speaker 1: stay in a relationship. I just feel like the shit

499
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Speaker 1: that I had to compromise on was way bigger than

500
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Speaker 1: anything I.

501
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Speaker 4: Could be doing to them.

502
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Speaker 1: The things that women have to deal with to keep

503
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Speaker 1: and maintain relationships men would never We're talking about cheating, gambling,

504
00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:16,320
Speaker 1: low dick.

505
00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:20,200
Speaker 4: What else were we having to do with all types.

506
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:24,280
Speaker 3: Of shit baby mama drama.

507
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Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's not like we're leaving day one. A

508
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:29,480
Speaker 1: lot of times it's five years later when a woman

509
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Speaker 1: finally leaves a man. And just remember we had our

510
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Speaker 1: daddy's on. My daddy is seventy five years old and

511
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:41,320
Speaker 1: still to this day, he does not consider that he's

512
00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:44,800
Speaker 1: the reason why him and my mom's marriage ends. He

513
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:47,800
Speaker 1: sees her as the one who left the marriage, not

514
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Speaker 1: the fact that the nigga was coming home will blonde

515
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 1: weave on him from the fucking jup joint down the

516
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:56,560
Speaker 1: street and shit like that. That wasn't what ended their relationship.

517
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Speaker 1: In his mind, she left, That's what ended the relationship

518
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:04,280
Speaker 1: now when we throw the marriage shit in there. Yes,

519
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:06,959
Speaker 1: women we always file in the paperwork like we do

520
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 1: everything else. But men, y'all are definitely physical, mentally and

521
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:14,400
Speaker 1: emotionally leaving relationships.

522
00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:20,840
Speaker 4: M H absolutely quickly leave relationships. We leave mentally first.

523
00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 2: That's because men will gonna get a side bitch quick

524
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:27,840
Speaker 2: and be just as content and come home like, ain't

525
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:32,520
Speaker 2: shit bothering them because they're fulfilled somewhere else. But it's

526
00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:35,480
Speaker 2: just like, why do that? I wish we should have

527
00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 2: had a nigga on to explain, But they ain't gonna

528
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:38,960
Speaker 2: come on here and tell the truth.

529
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:41,720
Speaker 4: They're not. They're gonna come on here and gaslight us.

530
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:45,280
Speaker 4: And we can't all be having the same like men

531
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Speaker 4: in our lives. At some point or another.

532
00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:51,399
Speaker 1: I can't say every man I've ever dealt with was

533
00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:57,520
Speaker 1: like the same in all aspects, but hold motherfuckers.

534
00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:57,920
Speaker 4: Is pretty similar.

535
00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:00,399
Speaker 1: Like I got traumatized by the same shit and a

536
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 1: couple relationships babies.

537
00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:09,200
Speaker 4: Just lieing other bitches, Like it's the same shit again.

538
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 2: It's mostly other women, mh. But like my last serious relationship,

539
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:21,119
Speaker 2: it wasn't. Oh, it was the baby mama drama. The

540
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:25,080
Speaker 2: baby mama drama that was our biggest thing. But then

541
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:27,440
Speaker 2: it was my mouth. Nickas can't handle my mouth.

542
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:31,920
Speaker 1: But you're doing things to make me evoke my mouth,

543
00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 1: like right, it just like it.

544
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 4: Black women are words.

545
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:41,760
Speaker 1: Just they're just different. They just feel like somebody punch

546
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 1: you in the face. We don't have to physically put

547
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:46,560
Speaker 1: our hands on you like some men beat women up.

548
00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 1: You know why because the bitch beat on says some

549
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:54,440
Speaker 1: shit that felt like he got spit on, you know.

550
00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:57,040
Speaker 1: So they don't like if I lose words, I might

551
00:27:57,119 --> 00:28:00,960
Speaker 1: hit you, bitch, we argue with it, I I might

552
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:01,640
Speaker 1: slap you.

553
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:05,399
Speaker 3: I get it and you win.

554
00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:11,919
Speaker 4: Oh, I'm gonna just bust off crying. There's a manipulation, right, if.

555
00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 1: I'm talking about you know what a man, I might

556
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:14,560
Speaker 1: just start crying.

557
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, if I run out of if I run out

558
00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:20,160
Speaker 2: of point, if I run out of points, I miss

559
00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:21,280
Speaker 2: my Grandma.

560
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:24,800
Speaker 4: But that is few and far in between.

561
00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:27,639
Speaker 1: Bitch, I never ran the points because I got a

562
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:31,480
Speaker 1: counter for anything you think I did wrong, I got

563
00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 1: a counter for it.

564
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 3: Said I'm toxic, a little cheap, a little bit.

565
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:39,240
Speaker 4: I mean, what's the problem.

566
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 1: But today we're asking a question that might make some

567
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:47,479
Speaker 1: people uncomfortable, but that is what we're here for. Okay,

568
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:51,560
Speaker 1: But who actually settles more in relationships?

569
00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:52,160
Speaker 4: Men or women?

570
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:56,920
Speaker 1: Because everybody you know likes to say they never settle.

571
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:02,320
Speaker 1: But to be honest, I think most people are compromising

572
00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 1: on something. But who does it to most? Because online

573
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:09,360
Speaker 1: the men, you know, they say they endure a lot

574
00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 1: of pain and suffering in relationships too, But it's usually

575
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:17,400
Speaker 1: just the women who are loud and vocal about their

576
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:18,959
Speaker 1: experiences and relationships.

577
00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:21,440
Speaker 4: And then you got, bitch, just call the men sassy

578
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:22,960
Speaker 4: when they start.

579
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:25,440
Speaker 3: But what are the men really settling on?

580
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:30,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I want to get into. And what

581
00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:32,239
Speaker 1: are the women actually settling on?

582
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:33,280
Speaker 4: You know?

583
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:37,720
Speaker 1: So this article I read it said that women tend

584
00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:44,479
Speaker 1: to settle for behavior. Okay, Many studies show women often

585
00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:51,280
Speaker 1: tolerate things like poor communication, lack of emotional availability, unequal

586
00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:54,320
Speaker 1: domestic labor, cheating.

587
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:56,680
Speaker 4: Or disrespect, it says.

588
00:29:56,680 --> 00:30:01,640
Speaker 1: Research from relationship psychology often finds women perform more emotional

589
00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 1: labor and relationships trying to maintain harmony, fix problems, and

590
00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:09,360
Speaker 1: keep the relationship intact. Yes, it's men that say they

591
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 1: want peace, right, because this shit does not sound peaceful

592
00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:14,160
Speaker 1: and it sounds like me, this is how I felt

593
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:18,920
Speaker 1: relationships before. Right, So women sometimes stay longer trying to

594
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:24,360
Speaker 1: repair relationship even when unhappy. And an example of settling,

595
00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:29,480
Speaker 1: he's not emotionally available, but he's a good provider and

596
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:32,520
Speaker 1: we think that he'll change eventually.

597
00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:35,600
Speaker 3: You gotta do the work. That's what I'll be telling

598
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:38,360
Speaker 3: the nigga, but they don't remember want to But.

599
00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:41,000
Speaker 4: What is the work? That's what you always shut back with.

600
00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:41,880
Speaker 4: What is the work?

601
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:45,680
Speaker 2: I used to say that season one, season two, season three,

602
00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:49,840
Speaker 2: But I'm understanding what the work is. I recently ask

603
00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:56,400
Speaker 2: somebody like had they ever had therapy before? Because they

604
00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 2: communicated like a child to me, you know, like when

605
00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:03,760
Speaker 2: it's time to communicate, they just was like either shut

606
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:08,560
Speaker 2: down completely or was combative. That was the only two

607
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:13,600
Speaker 2: ways they communicate it. And you know, you in a relationship,

608
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:16,160
Speaker 2: you're gonna disagree and not always gonna agree on everything.

609
00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:19,440
Speaker 2: But any time a disagreement happens, it doesn't have to

610
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:25,560
Speaker 2: be combative or shut down, Like do you want a

611
00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 2: bit to just follow you around aimlessly and just do

612
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:28,840
Speaker 2: everything you say?

613
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:29,360
Speaker 3: And that's it.

614
00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 1: They don't want that either, because that is who they're

615
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 1: cheating with. They're cheating with the bitch who give them hell,

616
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:37,760
Speaker 1: who give them something to deal with while they marry.

617
00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:45,680
Speaker 4: Oftentimes it's safe, easy person, right, all right, So it's

618
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:48,479
Speaker 4: it want boundaries. They want boundaries too.

619
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Speaker 1: They don't want I don't think men want somebody they

620
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:52,840
Speaker 1: can they say, they think that's what they want until

621
00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:54,960
Speaker 1: they get that, and then now you're in a situation

622
00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:58,320
Speaker 1: where somebody who's who can't make a decision about anything

623
00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:00,000
Speaker 1: you everybody's gonna get tired.

624
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:02,600
Speaker 4: Happened to be the one with the answers all.

625
00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:07,560
Speaker 3: Time, all the time. I agree her.

626
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:11,960
Speaker 2: So it says men tend to settle for attraction or compatibility.

627
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:15,959
Speaker 2: Some psychological research suggests men are more likely to settle

628
00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 2: in they feel pressure to marry, they want stability or family,

629
00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 2: They fear losing a partner. Men may stay with someone

630
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:28,719
Speaker 2: they're not deeply compatible with emotionally, especially if the relationship

631
00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 2: is comfortable. It meets practical needs like home, family, and sex,

632
00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:37,960
Speaker 2: and an example of settling for men. She's nice and stable,

633
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:39,560
Speaker 2: but I'm not deeply in love.

634
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:41,040
Speaker 3: This is good enough.

635
00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 4: Do you want to be a good enough woman for

636
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 4: a man?

637
00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 3: That makes me think of this nigga.

638
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:50,720
Speaker 2: We was all sitting at a bar and his wife

639
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 2: went to go grab some more drinks and he compared

640
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 2: his wife to a reliable Honda.

641
00:32:57,040 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 3: I will never forget that shit. He's that she ain't

642
00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:04,440
Speaker 3: al Mercedes beans, but she's damn sure reliable Honda.

643
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:07,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, so he is not who he He's not with

644
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:13,760
Speaker 1: who he wanted. He married safe basically right. He might

645
00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 1: have married who he thought he could have children with

646
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:18,280
Speaker 1: and who would be a good mom. But she probably

647
00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:21,840
Speaker 1: not the finest to him either. He probably not.

648
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 4: That physically attracted to her for real.

649
00:33:25,040 --> 00:33:29,280
Speaker 1: And I think that income and money men usually get

650
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:30,280
Speaker 1: closer to what they.

651
00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:33,840
Speaker 4: Actually want the more money they have to purchase that thing.

652
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:36,280
Speaker 1: And when I'm talking about women, because we are commodities,

653
00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:39,720
Speaker 1: fuku jahn niggas talk about colussy is a commodity for sure.

654
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:43,400
Speaker 1: And the more money a man has he has more

655
00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:48,400
Speaker 1: access to different different women, different caliber of women, And

656
00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:52,360
Speaker 1: so that just goes back to people dating and marrying

657
00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 1: based on their self esteem essentially, And we already know

658
00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:59,200
Speaker 1: most men put their their value literally in their pocket.

659
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:01,880
Speaker 2: Well, I feel like it ain't just most men. I

660
00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:04,400
Speaker 2: feel like the world does that to men too, or

661
00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:09,640
Speaker 2: America did. Sorry, I don't know. I don't know what

662
00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:11,720
Speaker 2: happened there, geek.

663
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:15,239
Speaker 4: I just feel like what.

664
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:20,839
Speaker 2: It was accident, But I just do feel like that,

665
00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:22,880
Speaker 2: like the world does put a lot of pressure on

666
00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:27,880
Speaker 2: men to be providers. Like, but the world, I feel like,

667
00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:31,360
Speaker 2: But it's the world, right, So other men are also

668
00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:34,600
Speaker 2: a part of that world, right, Yeah, it's women putting

669
00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:35,480
Speaker 2: the pressure on men.

670
00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:36,840
Speaker 4: It's other men.

671
00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:39,759
Speaker 1: Who can provide that also put the pressure on men

672
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:40,600
Speaker 1: who can't.

673
00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:42,080
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, absolutely.

674
00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:47,239
Speaker 2: If you like dating nigga who got less money than

675
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:49,640
Speaker 2: your last nigga, and you see your last nigga, he's

676
00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:59,560
Speaker 2: gonna be like, what you say, I hadn't happened to

677
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:07,319
Speaker 2: me before. What this nigga was like? He still got

678
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 2: on the jeurry I bought you. He ain't got no

679
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:12,680
Speaker 2: new jury. He ain't bought you no new jury. And

680
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:14,440
Speaker 2: I told my nigga, and he got me some new

681
00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 2: jury immediately after that period.

682
00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:21,080
Speaker 4: Okay, why didn't you?

683
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:24,040
Speaker 1: Why am I still walking around with some other nigga's

684
00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 1: jeury motivation one on one?

685
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:32,000
Speaker 2: That shit, I got like a twenty three thousand dollars

686
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:32,839
Speaker 2: necklace after that.

687
00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:40,800
Speaker 1: So the article also says men often separate physical attraction

688
00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:46,480
Speaker 1: from from relationship stability. Okay, So, psychologists have observed that

689
00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:52,239
Speaker 1: men frequently distinguished between short term attraction and long term

690
00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:59,680
Speaker 1: partners suitability. For long term relationships, many men prioritize peace, loyalty,

691
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:05,840
Speaker 1: emotional support, stability, compatibility in daily life, meaning the woman

692
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:08,760
Speaker 1: they marry might not always be the woman they felt

693
00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:14,360
Speaker 1: the most intense physical attraction towards. Okay, so men sometimes

694
00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:16,920
Speaker 1: marry the woman who makes life easier, not the woman

695
00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 1: who gave them the biggest butterflies.

696
00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:21,279
Speaker 3: Reliable Honda people.

697
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:24,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's essentially what we just were saying.

698
00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, so, but don't call me that even if that's

699
00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:29,880
Speaker 2: what it is, don't ever speak that out loud.

700
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:33,000
Speaker 4: You know, I just feel like, and what did he

701
00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 4: look like?

702
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:33,800
Speaker 3: What?

703
00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 4: What? What would you have?

704
00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:38,279
Speaker 3: The unreliable pinto face ass nigga?

705
00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:40,000
Speaker 4: Yes, and the nerve of something.

706
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 1: It's like I always say this, men are way more

707
00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:45,239
Speaker 1: shallow than women. I don't give a damn what y'all say,

708
00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:49,680
Speaker 1: because oftentimes you will not catch a super fine ass

709
00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:52,960
Speaker 1: man with this whole shit together with a basic ass

710
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:54,520
Speaker 1: woman unless she.

711
00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:55,160
Speaker 3: Got that bag.

712
00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 2: Let me tell you one of my coworkers that you're right.

713
00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 2: I used to work at this place and I don't

714
00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:04,399
Speaker 2: want to say where it was because this person might

715
00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:09,960
Speaker 2: listen to the show, but she was unfortunate looking. I'll

716
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:13,120
Speaker 2: just say that, like she had really really bad act me,

717
00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:16,120
Speaker 2: Like she'd just be sitting there and a bump would

718
00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:19,640
Speaker 2: just drop on her face and me a conversation like seriously,

719
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:22,320
Speaker 2: I'm sorry for you.

720
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:25,520
Speaker 3: I hope you cleared that up, friend. I love you.

721
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:28,600
Speaker 3: Nice person. Bruh.

722
00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:34,720
Speaker 2: It was bad and her man was so fucking fine.

723
00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:40,759
Speaker 2: I'm talking about this man was gorgeous, and I was like,

724
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:44,840
Speaker 2: it's an interesting looking couple, but I never said anything.

725
00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:47,120
Speaker 2: But once I got to talking to her more and

726
00:37:47,160 --> 00:37:48,799
Speaker 2: she was like, yeah, I pay his cell phone bill,

727
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:52,160
Speaker 2: I pay his car insurance. You know, I do this

728
00:37:52,200 --> 00:37:54,480
Speaker 2: for him. I do that for him. And then that's

729
00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 2: when it all made sense to me, Like yeah, he's

730
00:37:59,000 --> 00:37:59,880
Speaker 2: a cat nigga.

731
00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:02,719
Speaker 3: He don't have to work for himself because you're doing

732
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:04,400
Speaker 3: everything interesting.

733
00:38:04,400 --> 00:38:07,840
Speaker 1: And he probably cheating too with the woman he actually wants.

734
00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:10,880
Speaker 1: Probably don't have shit to give him.

735
00:38:10,880 --> 00:38:13,279
Speaker 4: Shit to even not even I mean give him, but just.

736
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:18,000
Speaker 1: Give a relationship period, Just a nothing as bitch that

737
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:19,320
Speaker 1: might look good with some fire.

738
00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:22,200
Speaker 3: Ass head, right, and that's it. That's all she had

739
00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:22,480
Speaker 3: to do.

740
00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:26,360
Speaker 2: Meanwhile, you're paying bills and cell phone bills and working

741
00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:27,759
Speaker 2: double shifts.

742
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:29,680
Speaker 3: Hm hmmm, she.

743
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:32,920
Speaker 4: Looks you better than me, because what m hm.

744
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:36,200
Speaker 1: So men are hypergamists, right, as much as they try

745
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:39,520
Speaker 1: to convince women, and in particular black women, that we'd

746
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:44,960
Speaker 1: be asking for too much, our black men are hypergamous. Okay,

747
00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:48,360
Speaker 1: So when oftentimes if you see a black woman dating

748
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:51,600
Speaker 1: outside her race, she probably got her life together. When

749
00:38:51,640 --> 00:38:55,319
Speaker 1: you see a black man, oftentimes he trying to come up, man,

750
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:57,800
Speaker 1: you gotta get he trying to buy something that credit

751
00:38:57,840 --> 00:39:01,920
Speaker 1: fucked up, like he he's using women to climb this

752
00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:04,920
Speaker 1: social pole, like social status. Like he's using women to

753
00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:09,480
Speaker 1: do that, but it's frowned upon. We are supposed to

754
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:11,640
Speaker 1: do that because we have to raise children. We are

755
00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:14,239
Speaker 1: supposed to try to find the best meat to do

756
00:39:14,320 --> 00:39:17,799
Speaker 1: that with, right, if we were really operating how we're

757
00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:21,279
Speaker 1: supposed to operate, Like, if you can't take care of

758
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:24,560
Speaker 1: your family, why are we having children? Why are you

759
00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:26,759
Speaker 1: having a child with a man who hasn't proven to

760
00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:29,360
Speaker 1: you that he can take care of a family?

761
00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 2: That part, Now, this one says women tend to require

762
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:35,040
Speaker 2: attraction for commitment, But I don't know how true this

763
00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:37,840
Speaker 2: one is. He says women usually look for a combination

764
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:43,640
Speaker 2: of attraction, emotional safety, ambition or competence, and compatibility. If

765
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:46,200
Speaker 2: the attraction piece is missing, many women struggle to move

766
00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:49,440
Speaker 2: forward romantically. And it says a lot of women will say,

767
00:39:50,080 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 2: if I'm not attracted to him, it's not happening.

768
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:54,640
Speaker 4: But I know a lot of you thinking physical.

769
00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:58,239
Speaker 1: We attracted to men for other things other than aesthetics.

770
00:39:58,600 --> 00:39:59,680
Speaker 1: Men are attracted to women.

771
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:02,359
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, that's what I'm talking about. That's what I'm

772
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:09,719
Speaker 2: thinking about, because I know nigga, Yeah, yeah.

773
00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:10,480
Speaker 4: I love a fine ass ugly nigga.

774
00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:16,000
Speaker 1: There's plenty of them, might hair too, Yeah, all as

775
00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:18,520
Speaker 1: ship like you be fine and ugly with a bag

776
00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:21,640
Speaker 1: like that, nigga, think he the ship? Now he get

777
00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:23,840
Speaker 1: you held just like a super fine ass man with

778
00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:26,719
Speaker 1: and now I understand.

779
00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:28,719
Speaker 3: It now because not even ugly no more, with all.

780
00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:31,919
Speaker 1: That money, and all of bitches want him.

781
00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:32,359
Speaker 3: Because of you.

782
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:35,920
Speaker 4: Mm hmmm, because what you're doing with him, because what

783
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:37,480
Speaker 4: he didn't know what he's doing for you.

784
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:38,520
Speaker 3: That part.

785
00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:43,880
Speaker 1: So women make men more attractive to other women. It

786
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:49,759
Speaker 1: ain't your niggas, Okay, So.

787
00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:50,279
Speaker 4: I think that.

788
00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:52,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I I do have to be attracted to

789
00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:55,120
Speaker 1: you and I and and it may you know, you

790
00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:58,280
Speaker 1: may not be the finest person to my friend group,

791
00:40:58,320 --> 00:40:59,480
Speaker 1: but you find as hell to me.

792
00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:02,080
Speaker 4: That's all that we need. I think that.

793
00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:05,719
Speaker 1: So I don't really if they're talking about aesthetics in

794
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:07,040
Speaker 1: this in this article, I.

795
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:09,240
Speaker 4: Don't think that's true about about women.

796
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:15,920
Speaker 1: I think they're talking about overall, like just attractability, like likability.

797
00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:16,480
Speaker 4: Like just a man's aura.

798
00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:19,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, we gotta be attracted to them or or else

799
00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 1: it just feels disgusting.

800
00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:24,760
Speaker 2: Are funny A funny nigga? I take a funny nigga

801
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:29,960
Speaker 2: over fine nigga, quick fine, but no personality but medium

802
00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:34,439
Speaker 2: ugly and funny. I'm taking him, m hm. Not would

803
00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:36,520
Speaker 2: you between those two?

804
00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:39,000
Speaker 4: I like, yeah, I like, I like funny men.

805
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:42,080
Speaker 1: If we can't talk on the phone for hours about

806
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:44,640
Speaker 1: some ship and you be saying funny, shit, I don't

807
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 1: like what we're gonna it's not fun.

808
00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:49,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree.

809
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:50,600
Speaker 4: This.

810
00:41:50,600 --> 00:41:53,920
Speaker 1: This also says women historically couldn't afford to choose poorly.

811
00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:56,640
Speaker 1: This is exactly what the fuck I was just saying, right,

812
00:41:56,920 --> 00:42:01,359
Speaker 1: you cannot afford to choose poorly. Historically, women had more

813
00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:06,319
Speaker 1: to lose from choosing the wrong partner pregnancy risk, economic dependence,

814
00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:10,759
Speaker 1: safety concerns. Because of this attraction often had to be

815
00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:16,000
Speaker 1: paired with competence and stability, which shaped how women evaluate

816
00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:19,640
Speaker 1: partners even today. And I don't think we're using the

817
00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:25,440
Speaker 1: standards anymore. We're not evaluating our partners, you know, properly,

818
00:42:25,719 --> 00:42:28,000
Speaker 1: because if we were, like there would be men in

819
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:32,520
Speaker 1: every household. You would be partnering with men who put

820
00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:38,240
Speaker 1: marriage in family at the forefront, not like a nigga

821
00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:41,319
Speaker 1: who got a couple of babies already somewace else and

822
00:42:41,360 --> 00:42:42,840
Speaker 1: now you're getting pregnant with the third.

823
00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:44,680
Speaker 3: But you know, I just feel.

824
00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:49,160
Speaker 2: Like a lot of these men, you know, they grew

825
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 2: up in household with no daddy, So it's just like shit,

826
00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 2: that's normal, but also not in hindsight. Also, there are

827
00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:01,120
Speaker 2: a lot of millennial men who want to be better

828
00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:03,920
Speaker 2: fathers because of the absence of.

829
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:05,239
Speaker 3: Their own Yeah.

830
00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:07,480
Speaker 4: Because I mean, most of the men that I know personally,

831
00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:09,160
Speaker 4: they take care of their kids.

832
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:11,480
Speaker 3: I don't know no niggas that don't take care of

833
00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:12,160
Speaker 3: their kids.

834
00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:13,920
Speaker 1: I would like to see more in the house though,

835
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 1: because I mean, not all of them are in the

836
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:17,720
Speaker 1: house for their kids, but they take care.

837
00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:20,520
Speaker 4: Of their kids, you know.

838
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:23,000
Speaker 1: I even I got a couple of friends, guy friends

839
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:26,600
Speaker 1: that are single dads, you know, like they became baby

840
00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:27,480
Speaker 1: mamas overnight.

841
00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:31,400
Speaker 3: I can't wait to make a nigga a baby mama.

842
00:43:34,640 --> 00:43:37,759
Speaker 1: And look, the crazy thing is like they oftentimes got

843
00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:41,279
Speaker 1: more money than their parents. Most of my homegirls with

844
00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:44,680
Speaker 1: fucking kids got more money than me. Like like when

845
00:43:44,719 --> 00:43:47,160
Speaker 1: you have a kid, like you gotta get it. I

846
00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:49,680
Speaker 1: think that's why I don't have that much hustle like that,

847
00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:51,560
Speaker 1: Like because I had to get it.

848
00:43:51,600 --> 00:43:56,640
Speaker 4: I had to hustle for nobody but yourself. Yeah, fly

849
00:43:56,840 --> 00:43:57,200
Speaker 4: a lot.

850
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:08,239
Speaker 1: The mamas begetn't it. So this also says age and

851
00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:12,080
Speaker 1: dating market also matters. People settle differently depending on life stage.

852
00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:18,480
Speaker 1: Women often settle when biological clock pressure, desire for family

853
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:24,000
Speaker 1: and stability fewer, fewer perceived partner options. Men often settle

854
00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:27,839
Speaker 1: when they're ready for stability. They don't want to start over,

855
00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:31,719
Speaker 1: They fear loneliness later in life. I think men just

856
00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:36,680
Speaker 1: marry whoever they happen to be with when at the time, yes, okay,

857
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:41,120
Speaker 1: women actually we may we. I think women actually can

858
00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:42,680
Speaker 1: see ourselves.

859
00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:44,479
Speaker 4: Marrying any every nigga we done been.

860
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 2: With, Like, I can, I can make this work? Yeah,

861
00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:49,680
Speaker 2: because why am I here if I can't?

862
00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:54,960
Speaker 1: You know exactly, I think women women be trying to

863
00:44:54,960 --> 00:45:03,719
Speaker 1: make shit work. So this goes back to Duval's posts.

864
00:45:05,520 --> 00:45:08,720
Speaker 1: Why if a man is not happy, get the fuck

865
00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 1: up out of there.

866
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:11,000
Speaker 4: Women do not.

867
00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:15,200
Speaker 1: Oh, somebody comment to me and said that men can't

868
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:17,440
Speaker 1: leave a relationship just because they're not happy.

869
00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:20,240
Speaker 4: Women just leaves relationships because they're not happy.

870
00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 1: Oftentimes we're unhappy because we've endured a lot of things

871
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:27,600
Speaker 1: that made us unhappy. Five years later, I'm finally leaving, finally.

872
00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:30,800
Speaker 1: And this is like even relationships where there's no children,

873
00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:34,200
Speaker 1: no marriage involved. This is just boyfriend girlfriend, shit, you

874
00:45:34,239 --> 00:45:37,239
Speaker 1: didn't marry me. We're not moving forward, and we'd be

875
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:39,960
Speaker 1: having a bunch of bullshit going on in a relationship. Yes,

876
00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:45,560
Speaker 1: I'm leaving, but men will see that as abandonment. I

877
00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:52,880
Speaker 1: have my ex fiancee said I abandoned him. Did you

878
00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:58,320
Speaker 1: imagine a terrorist saying that I abandon him? That's fucking

879
00:45:58,440 --> 00:45:59,320
Speaker 1: nuts to me.

880
00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:02,600
Speaker 4: So you're just, as a woman, you're just supposed to

881
00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:04,480
Speaker 4: deal with You're just supposed to.

882
00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:08,239
Speaker 1: Keep dealing, keep dealing, keep dealing, keep dealing, like your

883
00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:10,279
Speaker 1: mama is supposed to love you unconditionally.

884
00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:15,600
Speaker 4: And God, that is not for your woman to do.

885
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:18,480
Speaker 1: God, don't even love motherfucker is unconditionally because he'll punish

886
00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 1: your ass.

887
00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:21,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, he will punish.

888
00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:25,759
Speaker 1: You, Okay, So yeah, you cannot expect that type of

889
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Speaker 1: shit out of a woman.

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Speaker 4: Only your mother is going to have unconditional love for you.

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Speaker 3: He'll still love you in the punishment, but he will

892
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Speaker 3: punish you.

893
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Speaker 4: But that nigga violent, God was knocking niggas off in

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Speaker 4: the Bible.

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Speaker 2: The world and women are who on the planet. Shit,

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Speaker 2: be careful, so it says the real answer. Most relationship

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Speaker 2: researchers say both genders settle just in different ways. Women

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Speaker 2: more often compromise on emotional treatment, effort, and behavior, and

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Speaker 2: men often often compromise on compatibility, emotional connection and attraction.

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Speaker 3: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: So most women are married to men who don't think

902
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Speaker 1: they're attractive no more.

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Speaker 3: I think it's no more.

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Speaker 2: Like at one point you done had them babies, your

905
00:47:19,520 --> 00:47:22,640
Speaker 2: stomach looked like balled up homework and titties hanging low.

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Speaker 4: You know, get your money up and get your home

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Speaker 4: and a mommy makeover.

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Speaker 3: Right because you did that to her body?

909
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Speaker 1: Shit, yes, yes, get y'all worry about getting y'all dick

910
00:47:33,800 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 1: suck and your woman is fucking mentally and physically weary.

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Speaker 4: Mm hmm. Okay, so if she's not good like now,

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Speaker 4: I know they've changed the whole thing.

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Speaker 1: The happy life, happy wife shit right now, it's happy,

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Speaker 1: happy home something wherever that men want to add their

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Speaker 1: self in there. Listen, women, we are we are very powerful.

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Speaker 1: Y'all got to make sure we okay. Your kids is

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Speaker 1: gonna be fucked up if we not okay, You're gonna

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Speaker 1: be fucked up if we're not okay.

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Speaker 3: The earth, the.

920
00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:04,480
Speaker 4: Earth gonna be fucked up if women are not okay.

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Speaker 4: It just is what it is. And and and the

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Speaker 4: men who get it, get it, Okay, your bag.

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Speaker 1: The money that you think you're gonna you gotta have

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Speaker 1: before you get the wife.

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Speaker 4: It comes with the wife. Get you a wife. This

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Speaker 4: comedian I follow this nigga named Vincent. I think you're

927
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Speaker 4: from Saint Louis too. He's so brilliant with the comedy.

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Speaker 1: Right, So he would talk about Paul Pieris doing on

929
00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:31,440
Speaker 1: that podcast, and Paul Piris was, you know, basically talk

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Speaker 1: about how he's not gonna get married, and and the

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Speaker 1: Nigga's like, this is bad advice because most of the

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Speaker 1: men that's listening to you, most of the people that

933
00:48:38,120 --> 00:48:40,799
Speaker 1: subscribing to these podcasts, they the only way they gonna

934
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Speaker 1: ever reach the certain level of financial status that they

935
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Speaker 1: want is through partnership, through marriage. Right, So he was like, nigga,

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Speaker 1: you don't got no rings. Maybe if you would have

937
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Speaker 1: gave somebody ring, you would have.

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Speaker 4: Got a ring.

939
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Speaker 3: Boom.

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Speaker 1: Lebron been married to Savannah his whole the whole time.

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Speaker 1: Damn that he'd been in the league.

942
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Speaker 4: How many is he got? Kobe?

943
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Speaker 1: Okay, Steph Curry, motherfucking Michael Jordan, even though he was cheating,

944
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Speaker 1: he got hell of rings. You gotta give a bit

945
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Speaker 1: of rain to get a ring.

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Speaker 3: I believe all the cheat on.

947
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Speaker 4: The log, But how is this whole thing?

948
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Speaker 3: Though?

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Speaker 1: That's why I said, even the most seemingly successful single

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00:49:21,239 --> 00:49:25,399
Speaker 1: man often has a trail of broken women behind him,

951
00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:29,319
Speaker 1: whose energy he has usurped to get to where he's at.

952
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:33,520
Speaker 1: Like we are the portal to all the things, to creativity,

953
00:49:33,600 --> 00:49:36,360
Speaker 1: all of that shit. Like men really just the muscle.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: You gotta get a woman. Okay, I definitely agree.

956
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Speaker 1: You gotta get a woman. Y'all gotta get y'all gotta

957
00:49:46,320 --> 00:49:48,960
Speaker 1: get paired up, you gotta get married. Pick somebody, pick

958
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Speaker 1: somebody is somebody out here. And I, you know, just

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Speaker 1: to get back on topic with the with the episode

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Speaker 1: before we get out of here. Yeah, women and men

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00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:01,920
Speaker 1: and women get we're just not the same. Men and

962
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Speaker 1: women aren't the same. We don't think the same, we

963
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Speaker 1: don't we just don't do shit the same. But it

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Speaker 1: is a puzzle piece though, that fits. So get you

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Speaker 1: a good woman, get you good whatever good is?

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Speaker 3: Amen.

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Speaker 1: And I don't know, Maybe the question isn't who settles more?

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Speaker 1: Maybe the question is what are you willing to live with?

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Speaker 1: Find somebody who ship you can deal with and start building.

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Speaker 1: It's not time to be to be picky and choosy.

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Speaker 4: No more.

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Speaker 3: Again, last, we.

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Speaker 4: Don't got no dumb bitch stories. Dare you got any

974
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Speaker 4: current dumb bit ship going on? I really don't. I

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Speaker 4: do well.

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Speaker 3: I ain't ready to share.

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Speaker 4: It might go viral.

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Speaker 3: No, I'll save it. The moods are too fresh.

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Speaker 4: Hi, y'all. Have y'all enjoyed this episode?

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