WEBVTT - 2 Dirty Girls 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:03.159 Welcome to Can't Fully Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio 0:00:03.279 --> 0:00:04.160 and the Black Effects. 0:00:16.480 --> 0:00:18.680 Oh shit, just like that, we back on the air. 0:00:18.760 --> 0:00:21.680 Welcome back to yet another carefully reckless episode with your girl. 0:00:21.880 --> 0:00:22.599 Just hilarious. 0:00:22.760 --> 0:00:26.799 And I got my beautiful producer Taylor here. She's gonna 0:00:26.800 --> 0:00:28.479 read because y'all know, I don't like doing that shit, 0:00:28.840 --> 0:00:30.760 because y'all don't send voice memos anymore. 0:00:30.760 --> 0:00:34.279 So say hey, Taylor, Hey yall, what's up? Period? So 0:00:34.800 --> 0:00:36.680 y'all still ain't saying no damn voice notes. 0:00:36.760 --> 0:00:40.120 It's okay, sorry, sorry, but we're gonna get right into it. 0:00:40.560 --> 0:00:43.400 It's a story from a girl, little guy. 0:00:43.560 --> 0:00:45.440 Okay. So I love when listen. 0:00:45.520 --> 0:00:48.360 I love when the men write, because it's hard for 0:00:48.400 --> 0:00:50.720 men to open up, especially about their business and shit. 0:00:50.960 --> 0:00:54.240 You know, even if it does come down to remaining anonymous, 0:00:54.360 --> 0:00:56.319 they only like to talk in to barbershop, to other 0:00:56.360 --> 0:00:59.800 men and get led right down the path of destruction. 0:01:00.400 --> 0:01:03.280 So I'm glad that they come to me, you know, 0:01:03.320 --> 0:01:05.720 and they're open enough to be vulnerable and talk to 0:01:05.720 --> 0:01:06.640 me about their issues. 0:01:06.840 --> 0:01:09.000 So let's get into it, Taylor. What they got to say? 0:01:09.360 --> 0:01:12.319 Okay, hees, I'm twenty three, I've been with this girl 0:01:12.400 --> 0:01:15.399 since eighth grade. I cheated on her all through high school, 0:01:15.400 --> 0:01:17.839 and some girls she knows about and some she don't. 0:01:18.319 --> 0:01:20.039 As far as I know, she's only been with one 0:01:20.040 --> 0:01:24.040 other guy. I've seen little shit that makes me think otherwise. 0:01:24.480 --> 0:01:26.759 I mean, honestly, I don't care if she did back then, 0:01:26.800 --> 0:01:29.960 because I've been wild with hella people. My thing is 0:01:30.000 --> 0:01:32.600 the sex hasn't been that good. We argue a lot more. 0:01:33.240 --> 0:01:38.160 And the biggest thing is she's dirty. Oh a. 0:01:40.600 --> 0:01:42.880 Nigga white? What the fuck you means? She dirty? 0:01:43.000 --> 0:01:46.280 Like? I care for her a lot, but I can't 0:01:46.319 --> 0:01:48.160 tell if I actually love her or if I'm just 0:01:48.280 --> 0:01:50.600 used to her, and if I should leave while I'm young. 0:01:51.280 --> 0:01:53.640 I'm scared to leave, honestly, because I can get girls. 0:01:53.680 --> 0:01:57.320 It's just trusting these new females has me worried because 0:01:57.360 --> 0:01:59.120 one thing I can say is if I was to 0:01:59.160 --> 0:02:01.760 have a baby with the girl i'm with now, I'd 0:02:01.760 --> 0:02:03.920 be cool. But I don't know if I can deal 0:02:04.000 --> 0:02:07.160 with getting another girl pregnant and then I got a 0:02:07.160 --> 0:02:08.960 baby mama from hell? What should I do? 0:02:09.080 --> 0:02:11.640 Oh? Okay, so that's not even her, the dirty girl. 0:02:12.120 --> 0:02:13.600 This is somebody the baby buy. 0:02:13.480 --> 0:02:15.560 Somebody else baby mom. And then he has a girlfriend 0:02:15.639 --> 0:02:21.280 who's dirty? Yeah, okay the five? Okay, so what did 0:02:21.320 --> 0:02:23.320 it end with a question? Yeah? What should he do? 0:02:23.480 --> 0:02:26.600 Should you bring up with his girl? I guess because 0:02:26.600 --> 0:02:27.480 she's dirty? 0:02:27.760 --> 0:02:28.320 Like the five? 0:02:28.440 --> 0:02:31.120 And then but then he's talking about one thing I 0:02:31.160 --> 0:02:32.600 can say if I have a baby with the girl? 0:02:32.800 --> 0:02:34.040 Why are think about having no baby? 0:02:34.080 --> 0:02:34.440 What is. 0:02:36.040 --> 0:02:37.200 He's twenty three? 0:02:37.680 --> 0:02:37.920 Yeah? 0:02:37.919 --> 0:02:41.160 Because he probably going raw all the time, and he 0:02:41.240 --> 0:02:43.800 knows there's a big chance that he may get someone 0:02:43.800 --> 0:02:44.320 else pregnant. 0:02:44.360 --> 0:02:47.240 He probably don't like condoms, or he just wants more kids. 0:02:47.880 --> 0:02:51.440 I guess he's saying, like if he's done for or not? 0:02:51.600 --> 0:02:56.800 I guess, I don't know. Yeah, it's going down to pregnant. 0:02:57.080 --> 0:02:59.160 Yeah, so we twenty three. He been with this girl 0:02:59.200 --> 0:03:02.200 since he would in high school. He cheated on her 0:03:02.240 --> 0:03:03.320 all throughout high school. 0:03:04.240 --> 0:03:05.480 Why do you say she's dirty? 0:03:05.520 --> 0:03:05.800 Though? 0:03:06.480 --> 0:03:06.639 Is that? 0:03:06.760 --> 0:03:07.080 I don't know. 0:03:07.120 --> 0:03:09.400 He didn't give us no context clues, like is she 0:03:10.880 --> 0:03:14.840 is she dirty? Like as far as like she's sneaky 0:03:14.880 --> 0:03:17.760 because a lot of men refer to that. I know 0:03:17.800 --> 0:03:22.000 a lot of a lot of guys like dirty, she's. 0:03:21.840 --> 0:03:25.799 Just not organized. Maybe she's just junkie. Yeah, yeah, not 0:03:25.840 --> 0:03:29.040 a junkie, but she's yunkie. Yeah maybe, like cause if 0:03:29.040 --> 0:03:30.720 you with her for that, Yeah. 0:03:30.560 --> 0:03:32.480 You was with her dirty is all this time, and 0:03:32.520 --> 0:03:34.480 now she's dirty, Like, boy, I've been that. 0:03:34.680 --> 0:03:40.680 What's up? Like, so clean me up? Like what's going on? Okay? 0:03:40.760 --> 0:03:43.920 So I think you know your answer. It's very simple. 0:03:44.400 --> 0:03:48.600 I think honestly, you even saying am I comfortable with her? 0:03:48.720 --> 0:03:50.880 Is that why I'm with her? Like, you know, are 0:03:50.880 --> 0:03:52.960 we going apart? And shit like that? Like that's basically 0:03:53.040 --> 0:03:55.280 what you're asking me. And then you go on to 0:03:55.400 --> 0:03:58.760 say you don't feel like getting to know somebody else, 0:03:59.040 --> 0:04:01.280 you don't feel like getting that trust with somebody new, 0:04:01.440 --> 0:04:03.760 so you are just comfortable. You're in this relationship for 0:04:03.880 --> 0:04:06.400 convenience at this point, because you voiced. 0:04:06.240 --> 0:04:07.839 Clearly what you don't like about her. 0:04:09.200 --> 0:04:11.280 Yeah, he said the sex is not good, But it's 0:04:11.320 --> 0:04:13.600 the sex not good because you don't wore that fucking 0:04:13.640 --> 0:04:15.960 dick out in all these other boxes. 0:04:16.680 --> 0:04:19.920 Shit, you busy, you busy, honey. 0:04:20.080 --> 0:04:21.880 And then you got a baby mama from hell because 0:04:21.880 --> 0:04:24.440 she was probably one of the motherfuckers that she was 0:04:24.480 --> 0:04:26.480 fucking with around on your girlfriend. 0:04:27.160 --> 0:04:28.839 You know what, I mean. And then Shorty got pregnant. 0:04:28.880 --> 0:04:29.880 She didn't want to get rid of it. 0:04:30.000 --> 0:04:32.680 She probably wanted to be with you, kept the baby 0:04:32.760 --> 0:04:35.080 to be with you, And now you ain't leaving this 0:04:35.120 --> 0:04:38.479 goddamn girl and you ain't even making her priority. So 0:04:38.600 --> 0:04:42.560 now yeah, she's the baby mama from hell. You know, 0:04:42.640 --> 0:04:44.080 you also didn't tell me if she lets you see 0:04:44.120 --> 0:04:45.600 your child and out or whatever. But you're up here 0:04:45.600 --> 0:04:50.120 talking about another having another baby, because that's what you did. 0:04:50.160 --> 0:04:52.479 You better reread what you wrote because that's exactly what 0:04:52.520 --> 0:04:55.240 you're talking about now. Like I said the Sailor, it's 0:04:55.279 --> 0:04:57.400 either that you want more kids or you just don't 0:04:57.440 --> 0:05:00.080 like condoms. You're one of those raw dog niggas, and 0:05:00.120 --> 0:05:01.479 it is what it is. And I don't like saying 0:05:01.560 --> 0:05:05.080 niggas because you know we shouldn't these days. 0:05:04.920 --> 0:05:07.480 But our raw dog niggas a raw dog nigga. You 0:05:07.600 --> 0:05:09.120 just don't like condoms. 0:05:09.480 --> 0:05:13.279 Tell me if I'm right now, I honestly think you 0:05:13.320 --> 0:05:14.279 need to be by yourself. 0:05:14.720 --> 0:05:17.320 You're twenty three. You don't know what you want. 0:05:17.600 --> 0:05:18.800 And the reason why I say you don't know what 0:05:18.800 --> 0:05:21.240 you I'm not saying that you're confused about your life 0:05:21.760 --> 0:05:23.960 as a whole, But you don't know what you want 0:05:24.000 --> 0:05:28.920 because on one hand, you're comfortable in your relationship. You 0:05:28.960 --> 0:05:30.800 want to be in a relationship, but you don't want 0:05:30.800 --> 0:05:32.400 to be with the girl that you with no more 0:05:32.440 --> 0:05:34.400 because you think it's something out there better. You think 0:05:34.400 --> 0:05:37.160 there's no fixing which or whatever y'all got. Now, if 0:05:37.200 --> 0:05:40.000 she dirty, clean up pussy ain't good, tell her it 0:05:40.080 --> 0:05:42.120 ain't and y'all can figure out other ways to make 0:05:42.160 --> 0:05:44.760 it good unless it's stretched out a place like a 0:05:44.760 --> 0:05:45.880 fucking rubber band. 0:05:45.960 --> 0:05:48.440 But I don't see that happening because she's young as well. 0:05:48.800 --> 0:05:51.640 You say you think she only been with one other guy, 0:05:52.160 --> 0:05:55.599 so it ain't the vagina. Maybe maybe you ain't making 0:05:55.600 --> 0:05:58.440 a hot wet Maybe that's what it is. Does she 0:05:58.520 --> 0:06:00.440 know you've been cheating on and doing you your fucking 0:06:00.440 --> 0:06:01.960 thing since y'all been in grade school? 0:06:02.320 --> 0:06:03.120 Does she know that? 0:06:03.480 --> 0:06:05.599 Because maybe you don't do it for her either. Have 0:06:05.720 --> 0:06:08.800 you talked, sir about it? But she'd rather stay with 0:06:08.880 --> 0:06:13.120 your ass because that's just what women do sometimes, you 0:06:13.160 --> 0:06:15.960 know what I'm saying. This may be a phase And 0:06:16.160 --> 0:06:18.520 on the other hand, you want to do what you 0:06:18.560 --> 0:06:22.479 want to do, and then on the other other hand now, 0:06:22.560 --> 0:06:24.560 because if we on the third hand, you got a 0:06:24.560 --> 0:06:27.120 baby with a spawn of stating of a baby mother, 0:06:27.640 --> 0:06:30.560 so it ain't really you don't got too much wiggle room. 0:06:30.600 --> 0:06:32.719 Baby like, you should be by yourself, to be honest, 0:06:32.720 --> 0:06:33.839 you should get to know yourself. 0:06:34.000 --> 0:06:34.880 You should focus on. 0:06:34.880 --> 0:06:37.160 Being a dead even if you got to go through 0:06:37.160 --> 0:06:39.960 the courts like to be a dad. And I don't 0:06:39.960 --> 0:06:41.680 even know if this is your situation because you just 0:06:42.080 --> 0:06:44.040 briefly hinted on the fact that you have a baby. 0:06:44.320 --> 0:06:50.520 But you have to focus on preparing for what's next, 0:06:50.800 --> 0:06:53.640 not the now, because you are already grown. 0:06:53.640 --> 0:06:54.599 You got to grow the fuck up. 0:06:54.640 --> 0:06:58.080 You're a father, so it is what it is twenty three. 0:06:58.120 --> 0:07:01.039 You're still young, but you're a young father now. So 0:07:01.800 --> 0:07:03.520 just because you young, domin, you got signed to be 0:07:03.560 --> 0:07:07.320 a kid and play childish games like sweetie, you can 0:07:07.360 --> 0:07:10.040 be by yourself and just be a fucking bachelor strapped 0:07:10.040 --> 0:07:12.360 the fuck up, because it's more than just babies that 0:07:12.440 --> 0:07:14.400 can be consequences of raw sex. 0:07:14.880 --> 0:07:17.320 I know you know that. Yeah, I'm just trying to 0:07:17.360 --> 0:07:19.160 lead you in the right direction, brother, because I don't 0:07:19.200 --> 0:07:19.880 like where you're going. 0:07:19.920 --> 0:07:23.280 I don't like where you are, so sit down, talk 0:07:23.320 --> 0:07:25.080 to your girlfriend, let her know she a little dirty 0:07:25.520 --> 0:07:28.920 and you know, figure out where her head is at 0:07:28.960 --> 0:07:30.560 first of all, before you go to a figure out 0:07:30.600 --> 0:07:32.960 what you want. Don't go trying to fix it if 0:07:32.960 --> 0:07:34.200 that's not what you want to do. You got to 0:07:34.240 --> 0:07:37.040 be honest with your girlfriend. I don't care if you're comfortable. 0:07:37.040 --> 0:07:38.800 I don't care if it's convenient. I don't care if 0:07:39.480 --> 0:07:41.160 you know you can't hold on somebody because you don't 0:07:41.160 --> 0:07:43.400 want to get to know nobody new because these holds 0:07:43.400 --> 0:07:46.000 this and these holes that nigga you a hoe. So 0:07:46.840 --> 0:07:50.760 come to grips with yourself, be truthful, fix yourself. Then 0:07:50.800 --> 0:07:53.960 go to your girlfriend and let her know exactly what 0:07:54.000 --> 0:07:58.160 it is about her and about you, about you, because 0:07:58.160 --> 0:08:00.240 don't make it all about her. God's can be very 0:08:00.240 --> 0:08:02.520 selfish and do that as well, And that's why women 0:08:02.600 --> 0:08:04.960 playing themselves and be all types of insecure and shit 0:08:05.080 --> 0:08:06.559 because we think it's us whole time. 0:08:06.760 --> 0:08:09.920 It's your ass or it's our ass. 0:08:10.480 --> 0:08:13.320 Let her know, workling yourself, be a dad, let her 0:08:13.360 --> 0:08:16.720 go shit, and just do what you want to do. 0:08:16.840 --> 0:08:19.440 Single. That's it. That's the only way it's gonna work 0:08:19.440 --> 0:08:23.960 for you, for her and your baby. The fuck. It 0:08:24.040 --> 0:08:24.920 ain't about the baby. 0:08:24.920 --> 0:08:27.640 Mother. She just got your baby, that's it. But you 0:08:27.760 --> 0:08:30.920 have to remain cordial enough to raise the child, you know. 0:08:31.240 --> 0:08:32.720 He said, well he had a son or a girl. 0:08:34.120 --> 0:08:34.800 He's insane. 0:08:35.160 --> 0:08:37.839 Okay, Well, if you got to do it, I'll tell 0:08:37.840 --> 0:08:39.559 you right now, you better make it right because you 0:08:39.600 --> 0:08:41.920 wouldn't want no nigga playing on her face like that. 0:08:42.559 --> 0:08:44.480 And if you got a son, you definitely don't want 0:08:44.520 --> 0:08:46.960 him to be running around all fucked up like you. 0:08:47.520 --> 0:08:50.199 So listen, get back to me, update me what you think. 0:08:50.240 --> 0:08:51.560 What else you got to say them? 0:08:52.160 --> 0:08:52.480 Taylor? 0:08:53.080 --> 0:08:53.960 I think he's young. 0:08:54.400 --> 0:08:55.720 Yeah, and. 0:08:56.920 --> 0:08:58.120 He's playing around with the girl. 0:08:58.400 --> 0:09:01.000 Yeah, you playing around with the girl when you're playing 0:09:01.000 --> 0:09:06.360 around with other girls too, like come on, But. 0:09:06.400 --> 0:09:07.800 I don't know if he wants his cake and eat 0:09:07.800 --> 0:09:10.120 it too, because he's just said, you call her all 0:09:10.160 --> 0:09:14.160 types of dirty, you don't like her. 0:09:14.840 --> 0:09:17.160 I ain't confused. His dad is confused. He don't know 0:09:17.200 --> 0:09:20.000 what he wants to do. He knows. 0:09:20.320 --> 0:09:21.800 I think he's scared. He don't. 0:09:22.240 --> 0:09:24.240 He feels bad. 0:09:24.400 --> 0:09:28.720 Yeah, but that's how you become miserable in a relationship, 0:09:29.559 --> 0:09:32.040 you know, just forcing it because you don't want to 0:09:32.080 --> 0:09:34.400 hurt nobody feelings and you enjoy the inconvenience. 0:09:35.840 --> 0:09:37.960 It seems like he was running off emotions. Person. 0:09:38.120 --> 0:09:39.320 They've been arguing a lot more. 0:09:39.400 --> 0:09:40.760 Yeah, this seems like he just like. 0:09:40.679 --> 0:09:42.320 It's he been doing him. 0:09:42.760 --> 0:09:44.920 He's been doing him and and that's why he not 0:09:44.960 --> 0:09:47.280 really paying attention to You can back up off the 0:09:47.320 --> 0:09:47.760 miccause you. 0:09:47.800 --> 0:09:53.040 Just said your head. But Jesus, they hear you. But 0:09:54.760 --> 0:09:56.559 Sailor's all I want to mikeel. 0:09:56.840 --> 0:10:01.280 But I think that's why he's doing him because she's 0:10:01.320 --> 0:10:06.160 not providing that sexual satisfaction for him. But even if 0:10:06.200 --> 0:10:10.280 she were, he would still be out fucking right. That 0:10:10.360 --> 0:10:11.679 nigga got bitches. 0:10:11.520 --> 0:10:12.120 That's what he said. 0:10:12.120 --> 0:10:15.400 He's like, yeah, that's never been a problem. We know that. 0:10:15.559 --> 0:10:19.839 Jabeb BRONI you know, but yeah, you need to hit 0:10:19.920 --> 0:10:21.440 me back up. And I know I'm a little harsh. 0:10:21.480 --> 0:10:23.600 That's how I be with the men. Y'all can y'all 0:10:23.640 --> 0:10:25.640 can dish it, but y'all cannot take it. You need 0:10:25.679 --> 0:10:27.520 to You ask me for the truth. You ask me 0:10:27.559 --> 0:10:30.240 what you should do. I'll let your wear snow update me. 0:10:30.320 --> 0:10:33.000 If nobody is telling you that they love you, I 0:10:33.040 --> 0:10:35.120 love you, brother, but I want you to do better, well, 0:10:35.200 --> 0:10:37.720 do better for that baby and probably the one on 0:10:37.760 --> 0:10:40.040 the way, because he tried. You see, he was hitting 0:10:40.080 --> 0:10:42.360 on like having another one that's gonna say, don't want 0:10:42.360 --> 0:10:43.520 to use no fucking condoms. 0:10:45.360 --> 0:10:46.400 I know it all too well. 0:10:47.240 --> 0:10:50.480 No, not because I don't use condoms. I have brothers 0:10:50.520 --> 0:10:53.880 and cousins. We'll go ahead, because they were like, just 0:10:53.960 --> 0:10:54.319 be just. 0:10:54.280 --> 0:10:58.360 Saying she a little hole every day. Gosh, no, I'm not. 0:10:58.559 --> 0:10:58.719 Yo. 0:10:59.760 --> 0:11:02.120 If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and 0:11:02.160 --> 0:11:06.520 then we'll be right back moving on all riic. 0:11:07.840 --> 0:11:10.040 So I talked to this girl from twenty thirteen to 0:11:10.120 --> 0:11:14.160 twenty fifteen. Everything was going great, the vibes, fun, sex, 0:11:14.240 --> 0:11:17.880 all that. Late twenty thirteen, she tells me she's pregnant. 0:11:17.960 --> 0:11:21.960 Not too long after she says she's miscarried. I was like, 0:11:22.000 --> 0:11:25.480 oh shit, it's Gucci, I got you. That's forward. I 0:11:25.600 --> 0:11:28.240 moved her in with me so we can start doing 0:11:28.280 --> 0:11:31.720 shit the right way. Hold twenty fourteen, things were going good, 0:11:32.040 --> 0:11:34.080 but I started to notice her poor living habits, like 0:11:34.160 --> 0:11:35.360 leaving dishes in the sink. 0:11:35.880 --> 0:11:41.040 What is up with these dirty bitches? Like what's going lord? 0:11:41.880 --> 0:11:42.360 Go ahead? 0:11:43.200 --> 0:11:46.559 Pads in the trash where supposed to go. 0:11:46.679 --> 0:11:49.240 Yeah, like we are, we supposed to be in the 0:11:49.240 --> 0:11:49.920 fucking sink. 0:11:50.280 --> 0:11:54.960 They Maybe she wasn't rolling them ups in the peg. 0:11:55.120 --> 0:11:56.679 Oh my lord, food on. 0:11:56.679 --> 0:12:00.840 The stove and mad nasty shit like the dirty shit. 0:12:00.960 --> 0:12:03.480 So we started to argue and bump heads. Maybe the 0:12:03.520 --> 0:12:08.320 same person working and playing the bills. At least she 0:12:08.360 --> 0:12:11.360 can do is keep my crib clean. Going into twenty fifteen, 0:12:11.400 --> 0:12:13.880 things really ain't going right, and I'm ready to call 0:12:13.920 --> 0:12:16.120 it quitz. As soon as I make up my mind 0:12:16.240 --> 0:12:18.840 to dump her. She says she's pregnant, gave me a 0:12:18.880 --> 0:12:22.720 whole sob story about life and mad bullshit, and somehow 0:12:22.760 --> 0:12:27.480 convinced me to marry her and not. She somehow convinced 0:12:27.520 --> 0:12:32.800 you I hate yeah, yo, that is hilarious to me, 0:12:33.040 --> 0:12:35.480 and be a real family, so on and so forth. 0:12:35.960 --> 0:12:40.440 So in July we got married on some fly out 0:12:40.480 --> 0:12:43.600 the blue shit. In October she gave birth. Now we're 0:12:43.640 --> 0:12:44.920 married and God's son. 0:12:45.160 --> 0:12:45.800 That's cool. 0:12:46.800 --> 0:12:51.160 July twenty fifteen. July twenty sixteen, everything going accordingly passed 0:12:51.200 --> 0:12:55.040 forward a year to mid twenty seven. Bitch did a 0:12:55.120 --> 0:12:58.360 whole three sixty. She was lazy, dirty, It had no motivation, 0:12:58.480 --> 0:13:01.600 no drive nothing. She even was stealing money out the 0:13:01.640 --> 0:13:04.800 account and getting scanned with a dumb ass seven hundred 0:13:04.880 --> 0:13:05.920 to seven thousand shit. 0:13:07.400 --> 0:13:10.800 I don't know that's that's a specific scam. I ain't 0:13:10.840 --> 0:13:15.040 never hear that seven thousand shit. Oh when they add 0:13:15.080 --> 0:13:17.400 a zero, like when they okay, because I used to 0:13:17.400 --> 0:13:17.600 do that. 0:13:17.679 --> 0:13:21.400 Go ahead, Yeah, I remember, I remember, go ahead. 0:13:21.440 --> 0:13:24.360 I'm fed up, so I file for divorce. She up 0:13:24.360 --> 0:13:26.800 and leaves and goes to her mom's and keeps my 0:13:26.880 --> 0:13:30.000 kids from me, won't let me see them. During this time, 0:13:30.120 --> 0:13:32.880 she done started fucking with a new nigga. I don't 0:13:32.920 --> 0:13:36.200 care a bitch done deal in my book. 0:13:36.760 --> 0:13:38.960 I just want my bitch of Dundale in his book, 0:13:39.160 --> 0:13:39.800 he just want what. 0:13:40.480 --> 0:13:43.320 The voice was. Oh, she just wants his kids. The 0:13:43.400 --> 0:13:48.480 voice was finalized in twenty eighteen. I'm happy from twenty eighteen, 0:13:48.800 --> 0:13:51.880 twenty eighteen to now, she's still at her mom's with 0:13:52.000 --> 0:13:56.360 her new nigga, and every so often she she getting 0:13:56.400 --> 0:13:59.559 her feelings and keep the kids from me. Finally ask 0:13:59.640 --> 0:14:01.720 her with a fuck. Her problem is, she tells me 0:14:01.800 --> 0:14:04.880 her new nigga ain't hit her spot that I used 0:14:04.920 --> 0:14:06.840 to hit. And if I want to see my kids. 0:14:06.840 --> 0:14:07.880 I gotta sneak out. 0:14:08.440 --> 0:14:10.959 Six years ago, bitch, Like I mean, I'm sorry eight 0:14:11.040 --> 0:14:17.400 years ago anywhere go Yeah. 0:14:15.880 --> 0:14:18.400 Well she SAIDs from now. So if I'm trying eighteen 0:14:18.480 --> 0:14:19.600 to now. 0:14:19.240 --> 0:14:21.680 Yeah, twenty eighteen, that's yeah, that's six years ago. 0:14:22.400 --> 0:14:24.720 And if I want to see my kids, I gotta 0:14:24.760 --> 0:14:28.440 sneak out from my girl, meet her and fuck her 0:14:28.480 --> 0:14:31.880 at up hotel or something. I'm disgusted with her and 0:14:31.920 --> 0:14:35.080 don't even look at her the same from my bellshit 0:14:35.640 --> 0:14:39.120 in the past. But I want my kids. I need advice. 0:14:39.200 --> 0:14:41.440 What should I do? Do I tell her nigga, like, yo, 0:14:41.560 --> 0:14:44.920 check your bitch, or this's what I got to satisfy 0:14:44.960 --> 0:14:47.680 her to be able to get my kids. 0:14:48.400 --> 0:14:49.440 You talk man, low. 0:14:51.800 --> 0:14:55.720 Jesus, I know they're struggling to he driving down the street. 0:14:56.240 --> 0:15:03.000 All right, Oh my gosh, So go to the courts, dude, Like, 0:15:03.760 --> 0:15:06.480 what the fuck you got a girl? She got a 0:15:06.560 --> 0:15:08.200 nigga that ain't hitting it right no more. But y'all 0:15:08.200 --> 0:15:09.800 got kids. You know where she lives. You know what 0:15:09.880 --> 0:15:13.040 I address, yo, beat huts to the punch, Go down 0:15:13.200 --> 0:15:17.120 to the fucking courts, foul joint custody or you know, 0:15:17.200 --> 0:15:19.680 if she's unfit. Not trying to speak for her, but 0:15:19.760 --> 0:15:21.920 obviously if she was unfit to be a tenant in 0:15:22.000 --> 0:15:25.120 your house, you know, she leaves pass everywhere she you know, 0:15:25.160 --> 0:15:27.560 if she's dirty and all that, and you really feel 0:15:27.600 --> 0:15:30.880 like she's not a good mom, foul for full custody, 0:15:31.080 --> 0:15:34.360 but honestly, joint custody is the best. You know, you 0:15:34.400 --> 0:15:36.800 can still see your children. Are you want child support? 0:15:37.120 --> 0:15:39.800 If you're not, that's excellent grounds for you. They will 0:15:39.960 --> 0:15:44.720 definitely want to see proof that you can provide like 0:15:44.960 --> 0:15:48.160 a household life, a fit life for your kids. If 0:15:48.160 --> 0:15:51.640 you're folling for any type of custody, but you sound 0:15:51.680 --> 0:15:52.720 like you got your mom made up. 0:15:52.760 --> 0:15:54.920 You don't look at it. The saying she a dirty 0:15:54.960 --> 0:15:55.560 ass clown. 0:15:55.640 --> 0:15:58.640 Basically those are your words a little bit, and you know, 0:15:58.760 --> 0:16:01.560 not mine because I don't know her. But if this 0:16:01.680 --> 0:16:05.360 is all true, yo, go to court, Like I don't 0:16:05.360 --> 0:16:09.000 get it. This is like like, first of all, nobody 0:16:09.040 --> 0:16:11.920 can convince you to marry him. You how much you 0:16:11.960 --> 0:16:14.800 know how much time goes into even thinking about getting 0:16:14.840 --> 0:16:21.840 on a knee. Somehow, somehow you had to buy a ring, 0:16:22.160 --> 0:16:25.640 You had to crease your shoes, get down on the 0:16:25.720 --> 0:16:28.440 knee and be like, all right, will you marry me? 0:16:28.520 --> 0:16:31.920 Maybe he asked, maybe she asked, Maybe she did ask. 0:16:32.120 --> 0:16:34.920 See, that's why these people gotta let us know they're 0:16:34.960 --> 0:16:38.000 leaving too much meat off the bone. But I ain't 0:16:38.000 --> 0:16:39.720 trying to skip you away because I love when when 0:16:39.720 --> 0:16:43.800 the guys dude actually become vulnerable enough to give Jess 0:16:43.800 --> 0:16:44.200 a story. 0:16:44.280 --> 0:16:47.600 I do love that. But yeah, baby, it's just that easy. 0:16:47.920 --> 0:16:51.800 Like and listen, Like I said, you have a girlfriend, 0:16:52.320 --> 0:16:56.280 so you straight, you straight. Obviously she wants you to 0:16:56.360 --> 0:16:59.280 hit that spot. But don't do that because I don't know. 0:16:59.400 --> 0:17:02.000 I mean, if she's still trifling and dirty, she only 0:17:02.520 --> 0:17:06.320 she even dirty and now you know, so it is 0:17:06.359 --> 0:17:07.000 what it is. 0:17:07.400 --> 0:17:08.240 Hold up, hold up. 0:17:08.200 --> 0:17:10.159 I know the ship getting good, but listen to just 0:17:10.200 --> 0:17:11.640 a couple of seconds of a commercial. 0:17:11.680 --> 0:17:16.760 If you love me, you'll listen. Lord him and the 0:17:16.800 --> 0:17:19.120 first guy head two dirty girls. 0:17:19.640 --> 0:17:25.920 He just seemed like, you know what, could just really 0:17:25.920 --> 0:17:29.320 be just better communication because there's little ship like you 0:17:29.440 --> 0:17:33.080 mad that she's just talk to her about it Like, 0:17:33.160 --> 0:17:34.399 I don't know, I just feel like they didn't have 0:17:34.440 --> 0:17:36.440 to break go. She said they have fun and everything. 0:17:37.160 --> 0:17:39.560 He didn't like the dirty shit and honestly though. 0:17:40.600 --> 0:17:42.080 Yeah, I cannot get with her. 0:17:42.560 --> 0:17:44.920 And then it's even worse when a woman is dirty, 0:17:45.200 --> 0:17:48.719 when a woman's hy jean or a woman living style 0:17:49.160 --> 0:17:51.560 is not up to par like that. 0:17:51.640 --> 0:17:53.679 You're a fucking woman. You know. 0:17:53.880 --> 0:17:57.840 It ain't better for men, but a woman is like, no, no, no, no, 0:17:57.920 --> 0:17:59.880 that's that should be something that we just. 0:18:00.119 --> 0:18:01.439 Can come with, you know. 0:18:02.480 --> 0:18:06.199 Oh lord, Pads just and you got to look and 0:18:06.520 --> 0:18:10.800 imagine looking in the goddamn trash and you see what 0:18:11.000 --> 0:18:13.240 you think is a napkin with ketchup on it until 0:18:13.280 --> 0:18:17.120 you start smelling it, and then it's a fucking sanitary 0:18:17.200 --> 0:18:18.439 napkin with blood. 0:18:20.240 --> 0:18:22.080 Horrible, Oh my gosh. 0:18:22.160 --> 0:18:26.040 And then she probably didn't washed her hands, yea, probably 0:18:26.040 --> 0:18:31.960 flustered her down the toilet, stop the toilet up, leaving 0:18:31.960 --> 0:18:35.840 food on the stove, which you know, just calling the 0:18:35.920 --> 0:18:38.679 roaches and the mice. You know, I don't know if 0:18:38.680 --> 0:18:40.920 they've ever lived in the hood, but that's no way 0:18:40.960 --> 0:18:43.959 to live with a woman. It's not And I totally 0:18:44.000 --> 0:18:47.119 get it. And I'm sorry, but yo, your last and 0:18:47.240 --> 0:18:48.359 final bet is court. 0:18:48.800 --> 0:19:01.560 But he said the options are either fuck her. Why 0:19:01.600 --> 0:19:06.720 are those ostions? Because if he tells the guy she 0:19:06.800 --> 0:19:08.520