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Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Fully Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effects.

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Speaker 2: Oh shit, just like that, we back on the air.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to yet another carefully reckless episode with your girl.

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Speaker 2: Just hilarious.

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Speaker 1: And I got my beautiful producer Taylor here. She's gonna

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Speaker 1: read because y'all know, I don't like doing that shit,

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Speaker 1: because y'all don't send voice memos anymore.

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Speaker 2: So say hey, Taylor, Hey yall, what's up? Period? So

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Speaker 2: y'all still ain't saying no damn voice notes.

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Speaker 1: It's okay, sorry, sorry, but we're gonna get right into it.

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Speaker 1: It's a story from a girl, little guy.

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Speaker 2: Okay. So I love when listen.

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Speaker 1: I love when the men write, because it's hard for

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Speaker 1: men to open up, especially about their business and shit.

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Speaker 1: You know, even if it does come down to remaining anonymous,

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Speaker 1: they only like to talk in to barbershop, to other

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Speaker 1: men and get led right down the path of destruction.

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Speaker 1: So I'm glad that they come to me, you know,

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Speaker 1: and they're open enough to be vulnerable and talk to

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Speaker 1: me about their issues.

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Speaker 2: So let's get into it, Taylor. What they got to say?

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Speaker 3: Okay, hees, I'm twenty three, I've been with this girl

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Speaker 3: since eighth grade. I cheated on her all through high school,

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Speaker 3: and some girls she knows about and some she don't.

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Speaker 3: As far as I know, she's only been with one

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Speaker 3: other guy. I've seen little shit that makes me think otherwise.

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Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, I don't care if she did back then,

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Speaker 3: because I've been wild with hella people. My thing is

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Speaker 3: the sex hasn't been that good. We argue a lot more.

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Speaker 3: And the biggest thing is she's dirty. Oh a.

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Speaker 2: Nigga white? What the fuck you means? She dirty?

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Speaker 3: Like? I care for her a lot, but I can't

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Speaker 3: tell if I actually love her or if I'm just

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Speaker 3: used to her, and if I should leave while I'm young.

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Speaker 3: I'm scared to leave, honestly, because I can get girls.

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Speaker 3: It's just trusting these new females has me worried because

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Speaker 3: one thing I can say is if I was to

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Speaker 3: have a baby with the girl i'm with now, I'd

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Speaker 3: be cool. But I don't know if I can deal

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Speaker 3: with getting another girl pregnant and then I got a

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Speaker 3: baby mama from hell? What should I do?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Okay, so that's not even her, the dirty girl.

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Speaker 1: This is somebody the baby buy.

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Speaker 3: Somebody else baby mom. And then he has a girlfriend

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Speaker 3: who's dirty? Yeah, okay the five? Okay, so what did

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Speaker 3: it end with a question? Yeah? What should he do?

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Speaker 3: Should you bring up with his girl? I guess because

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Speaker 3: she's dirty?

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Speaker 2: Like the five?

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Speaker 3: And then but then he's talking about one thing I

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Speaker 2: Why are think about having no baby?

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Speaker 3: What is.

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Speaker 2: He's twenty three?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Because he probably going raw all the time, and he

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Speaker 1: knows there's a big chance that he may get someone

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Speaker 2: He probably don't like condoms, or he just wants more kids.

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Speaker 3: I guess he's saying, like if he's done for or not?

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Speaker 3: I guess, I don't know. Yeah, it's going down to pregnant.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so we twenty three. He been with this girl

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Speaker 1: since he would in high school. He cheated on her

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Speaker 3: Why do you say she's dirty?

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Speaker 2: Though?

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Speaker 3: Is that?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: He didn't give us no context clues, like is she

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Speaker 1: is she dirty? Like as far as like she's sneaky

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Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of guys like dirty, she's.

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Speaker 3: Just not organized. Maybe she's just junkie. Yeah, yeah, not

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Speaker 3: a junkie, but she's yunkie. Yeah maybe, like cause if

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Speaker 3: you with her for that, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: You was with her dirty is all this time, and

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Speaker 1: now she's dirty, Like, boy, I've been that.

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Speaker 2: What's up? Like, so clean me up? Like what's going on? Okay?

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Speaker 2: So I think you know your answer. It's very simple.

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Speaker 1: I think honestly, you even saying am I comfortable with her?

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Speaker 1: Is that why I'm with her? Like, you know, are

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Speaker 1: we going apart? And shit like that? Like that's basically

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Speaker 1: so you are just comfortable. You're in this relationship for

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Speaker 2: Clearly what you don't like about her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he said the sex is not good, But it's

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Speaker 1: the sex not good because you don't wore that fucking

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Speaker 2: Shit, you busy, you busy, honey.

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Speaker 1: And then you got a baby mama from hell because

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Speaker 2: You know what, I mean. And then Shorty got pregnant.

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Speaker 1: She probably wanted to be with you, kept the baby

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Speaker 1: now yeah, she's the baby mama from hell. You know,

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Speaker 1: you also didn't tell me if she lets you see

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Speaker 1: your child and out or whatever. But you're up here

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Speaker 1: talking about another having another baby, because that's what you did.

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Speaker 1: You better reread what you wrote because that's exactly what

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Speaker 1: like condoms. You're one of those raw dog niggas, and

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Speaker 1: it is what it is. And I don't like saying

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Speaker 2: But our raw dog niggas a raw dog nigga. You

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Speaker 2: just don't like condoms.

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Speaker 1: Tell me if I'm right now, I honestly think you

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Speaker 1: need to be by yourself.

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Speaker 2: You're twenty three. You don't know what you want.

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Speaker 1: And the reason why I say you don't know what

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Speaker 1: you I'm not saying that you're confused about your life

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Speaker 1: as a whole, But you don't know what you want

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Speaker 1: because on one hand, you're comfortable in your relationship. You

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Speaker 1: because you think it's something out there better. You think

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Speaker 1: there's no fixing which or whatever y'all got. Now, if

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Speaker 1: she dirty, clean up pussy ain't good, tell her it

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Speaker 1: ain't and y'all can figure out other ways to make

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Speaker 2: But I don't see that happening because she's young as well.

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Speaker 1: You say you think she only been with one other guy,

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Speaker 1: so it ain't the vagina. Maybe maybe you ain't making

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Speaker 2: Does she know that?

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Speaker 1: Because maybe you don't do it for her either. Have

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Speaker 1: you talked, sir about it? But she'd rather stay with

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. This may be a phase And

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Speaker 1: on the other hand, you want to do what you

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Speaker 1: because if we on the third hand, you got a

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Speaker 1: so it ain't really you don't got too much wiggle room.

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Speaker 1: Baby like, you should be by yourself, to be honest,

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Speaker 1: you should get to know yourself.

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Speaker 2: You should focus on.

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Speaker 1: Being a dead even if you got to go through

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Speaker 1: the courts like to be a dad. And I don't

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Speaker 1: briefly hinted on the fact that you have a baby.

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Speaker 1: But you have to focus on preparing for what's next,

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Speaker 1: not the now, because you are already grown.

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Speaker 2: You got to grow the fuck up.

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Speaker 1: You're a father, so it is what it is twenty three.

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Speaker 1: You're still young, but you're a young father now. So

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Speaker 1: just because you young, domin, you got signed to be

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Speaker 1: a kid and play childish games like sweetie, you can

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Speaker 1: the fuck up, because it's more than just babies that

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Speaker 2: I know you know that. Yeah, I'm just trying to

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Speaker 1: I don't like where you are, so sit down, talk

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Speaker 1: and you know, figure out where her head is at

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Speaker 1: that's not what you want to do. You got to

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Speaker 1: I don't care if it's convenient. I don't care if

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Speaker 1: this and these holes that nigga you a hoe. So

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Speaker 1: come to grips with yourself, be truthful, fix yourself. Then

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Speaker 1: it is about her and about you, about you, because

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Speaker 1: don't make it all about her. God's can be very

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Speaker 1: selfish and do that as well, And that's why women

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Speaker 1: playing themselves and be all types of insecure and shit

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Speaker 1: because we think it's us whole time.

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Speaker 2: It's your ass or it's our ass.

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Speaker 1: Let her know, workling yourself, be a dad, let her

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Speaker 1: go shit, and just do what you want to do.

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Speaker 2: Single. That's it. That's the only way it's gonna work

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Speaker 2: for you, for her and your baby. The fuck. It

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Speaker 2: ain't about the baby.

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Speaker 1: Mother. She just got your baby, that's it. But you

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Speaker 1: have to remain cordial enough to raise the child, you know.

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Speaker 1: He said, well he had a son or a girl.

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Speaker 2: He's insane.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, if you got to do it, I'll tell

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Speaker 1: you right now, you better make it right because you

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Speaker 1: wouldn't want no nigga playing on her face like that.

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Speaker 1: And if you got a son, you definitely don't want

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Speaker 1: him to be running around all fucked up like you.

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Speaker 1: So listen, get back to me, update me what you think.

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Speaker 1: What else you got to say them?

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Speaker 2: Taylor?

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Speaker 3: I think he's young.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and.

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Speaker 3: He's playing around with the girl.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you playing around with the girl when you're playing

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Speaker 1: around with other girls too, like come on, But.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if he wants his cake and eat

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Speaker 3: it too, because he's just said, you call her all

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Speaker 3: types of dirty, you don't like her.

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Speaker 1: I ain't confused. His dad is confused. He don't know

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Speaker 1: what he wants to do. He knows.

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Speaker 3: I think he's scared. He don't.

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Speaker 2: He feels bad.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's how you become miserable in a relationship,

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Speaker 1: you know, just forcing it because you don't want to

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Speaker 1: hurt nobody feelings and you enjoy the inconvenience.

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Speaker 3: It seems like he was running off emotions. Person.

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Speaker 2: They've been arguing a lot more.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this seems like he just like.

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Speaker 2: It's he been doing him.

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Speaker 2: What is up with these dirty bitches? Like what's going lord?

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Speaker 2: I just want my bitch of Dundale in his book,

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Speaker 1: Six years ago, bitch, Like I mean, I'm sorry eight

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Speaker 3: Well she SAIDs from now. So if I'm trying eighteen

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Speaker 2: Yeah, twenty eighteen, that's yeah, that's six years ago.

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Speaker 2: You talk man, low.

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Speaker 2: You don't look at it. The saying she a dirty

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Speaker 1: Basically those are your words a little bit, and you know,

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Speaker 1: get it. This is like like, first of all, nobody

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Speaker 2: Maybe he asked, maybe she asked, Maybe she did ask.

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Speaker 1: See, that's why these people gotta let us know they're

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Speaker 1: trying to skip you away because I love when when

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Speaker 2: I do love that. But yeah, baby, it's just that easy.

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Speaker 1: Like and listen, Like I said, you have a girlfriend,

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Speaker 2: Hold up, hold up.

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Speaker 1: I know the ship getting good, but listen to just

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Speaker 2: If you love me, you'll listen. Lord him and the

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Speaker 3: He just seemed like, you know what, could just really

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Speaker 3: I don't know, I just feel like they didn't have

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Speaker 3: He didn't like the dirty shit and honestly though.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I cannot get with her.

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Speaker 1: And then it's even worse when a woman is dirty,

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Speaker 1: It ain't better for men, but a woman is like, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: imagine looking in the goddamn trash and you see what

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Speaker 1: And then she probably didn't washed her hands, yea, probably

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Speaker 1: get it. And I'm sorry, but yo, your last and

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Speaker 3: But he said the options are either fuck her. Why

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well you might get a beat the fuck up,

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Speaker 1: Like damn, what the hell? Okay, because see Brian ain't

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Speaker 1: You never know, Like I keep telling y'all women getting

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Speaker 2: Okay, Why are those your options, honey? Like, no one option?

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Speaker 1: A sensible option would be tell her, fuck no, I'm

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Speaker 2: You don't need to talk to her boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: You don't need to go fuck her unless that's something

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Speaker 1: that an option? That should never be an option? You

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Speaker 1: because I guarantee you if you tell me that you

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Speaker 1: gonna say, hey, he fucking is dirty as being mother

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Speaker 1: season four on Carefully Rockless if you don't believe me,

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Speaker 1: because he wrote me this note.

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Speaker 2: I don't like it.

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Speaker 3: I'm still just surprised, Like I'm rereading it. It says

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Speaker 2: Like, do you feel like it's more to the story.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because I mean, I don't know how the girl

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Speaker 2: Writing me because he made at her right now.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what it's given A little a little okay, Well,

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Speaker 3: you've been involved with some not not like this.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, you know what I'm saying, So you wouldn't

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying.

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Speaker 3: you ain't hit it in six years, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't I don't see a girl. I'm not crazy

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Speaker 3: is like that like once I'm done with the nigga,

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Speaker 3: I'm done. Yo, I wouldn't And I'm definitely not gonna

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Speaker 3: tell a guy, Oh he just hasn't hidden like you

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Speaker 3: like what ye, I'll.

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Speaker 1: Up like that, Yeah he don't hit it like yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: she's a little weird.

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Speaker 2: But he's a little weird too.

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Speaker 1: Because now that you say that, part of me feel

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Speaker 1: like you do want to fuck her or like he will,

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Speaker 1: not that he wants to, but he will to see

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Speaker 1: his kids. But now you're tainting your relationship, which is mad,

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Speaker 1: clowned out, cowardly and is fucked up, unfaithful.

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Speaker 2: This lawyer.

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Speaker 1: His girlfriend gotta know how fucking crazy she is. That's

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Speaker 1: his girlfriend. I guarantee you shown know about the advances

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Speaker 1: that the girl was making, or that he's even thinking

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Speaker 1: about taking her up on those advances.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. I think there's some.

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Speaker 2: Something he's not telling us.

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Speaker 3: I think they've been in and out.

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Speaker 1: Okay, he may have hit that ship before while she

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Speaker 1: had a boyfriend, while he has a girlfriend, just to

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Speaker 1: keep the peace, just to keep the peace in a relationship,

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Speaker 1: because she got two kids by him.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because she's somehow convinced.

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Speaker 1: To Yeah, poor children, Lord, poor kids to suffer. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: I just think that you probably are tired of this

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Speaker 1: back and forth, and I think therefore you should proceed

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Speaker 1: in court.

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Speaker 2: But get back at me and let me know, honey,

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Speaker 2: because we come to the end.

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Speaker 1: I'm sick of this. I'm sick of the man. I

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Speaker 1: love when when my men reach out to me. But

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Speaker 1: y'all really be y'all be putting y'all self in these

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Speaker 1: relations you know, and these predicaments and these relationships, and

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Speaker 1: like y'all do this to y'allselves. I want y'all to

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Speaker 1: stop doing this. You know, y'all are better than this, Jesus.

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Speaker 1: I know it's a lot of fucked up men out there,

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Speaker 1: but it's a lot of fucked up women too, you know.

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Speaker 1: And that's why you should be careful producing with just anybody.

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Speaker 1: I know, you need to get to know who you

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Speaker 1: are and the other person is before y'all make a

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Speaker 1: seed like that's a whole person. Y'all got two little people,

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Speaker 1: like two little people to raise. And look at how

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Speaker 1: y'all acting. This is bullshit, you know. So like you

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Speaker 1: talk about she dirty, but you still fucking on the

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Speaker 1: lo lo, you know what I mean. And she got

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Speaker 1: a new nigga that don't hit it right and he

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Speaker 1: around your kids, and then you got a girlfriend over here,

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Speaker 1: but you still playing like this is too much. It's

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Speaker 1: too much. So court is the best answer. That's why

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Speaker 1: the courts are there. And just like that, we've come

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Speaker 1: to the end of yet another canful, reckless episode. Well,

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Speaker 1: I'll be fixing masks and I don't know. I'm about

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Speaker 1: to stop these people crazy shit, y'all about to be

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Speaker 1: stressing me out. I don't need all this spirit on

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Speaker 1: my baby, like I can't my baby probably in my stomach,

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Speaker 1: like what in the fuck is going on here?

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Speaker 2: Shit? But soon in next.

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Speaker 1: Week we'll see y'all say by Taylor Aye and y'all

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Speaker 1: say thank you to say it love for helping. I

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Speaker 1: know we can't hear y'all, but go ahead say it.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you a couple of seconds. You're welcome, Okay, nice, Nice.

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Speaker 1: That was about it, because last week this baby said

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Speaker 1: thank you to y'all. I said, Jesus, not mind, just

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Speaker 1: fix it.

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Speaker 2: So see, y'all.

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Speaker 3: Can't.

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