1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:03,280 Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need 2 00:00:03,279 --> 00:00:07,480 Speaker 1: advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more, please 3 00:00:07,600 --> 00:00:11,520 Speaker 1: please please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot 4 00:00:11,560 --> 00:00:15,800 Speaker 1: com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading 5 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 1: your letter live on the air, just like I'm going 6 00:00:18,320 --> 00:00:21,799 Speaker 1: to read this one. Here. That here, that it's a 7 00:00:21,880 --> 00:00:27,680 Speaker 1: lot a lot of pages. There we got it for you. 8 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:33,159 Speaker 1: Here it is Strawberry Letter subject single and satisfied or 9 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:38,600 Speaker 1: married and miserable. Do you see? There? You go with that? 10 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:43,479 Speaker 1: I've been married twice and I believe my second husband 11 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:46,800 Speaker 1: was the man of my dreams, but I truly didn't 12 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:49,600 Speaker 1: see it at the time. During my second marriage, I 13 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 1: got bored with the relationship. Even though he was a 14 00:00:52,120 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 1: great man, he had a tendency to be jealous, so 15 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 1: I stopped hanging out with my girlfriends. So I stopped 16 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 1: hanging out with my girlfriends to keep the peace at home. 17 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:05,280 Speaker 1: After about three years of staying home, I decided to 18 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:09,240 Speaker 1: start back meeting my girlfriends after work. Often my husband 19 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:12,200 Speaker 1: would be angry when I got home, but I didn't 20 00:01:12,240 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 1: care because I had met a handsome and intriguing man 21 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 1: and I was having an affair. I got so caught 22 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:21,399 Speaker 1: up with my new life that I decided it was 23 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 1: best to leave my husband. We've been separated for three years, 24 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:28,760 Speaker 1: and the first year without him was amazing. I was 25 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:32,640 Speaker 1: hanging out, traveling, going to the club, meeting new guys, 26 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 1: and having great sex. At first, my husband kept reaching 27 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:39,720 Speaker 1: out to me, asking to fix our marriage, but I 28 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:42,839 Speaker 1: wasn't interested then. Now that I will be forty five 29 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 1: years old, I've had a change of heart. I'm tired 30 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 1: of the clubs and seeing the same old people every 31 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 1: time I go out. I have been missing my home 32 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 1: life and my husband. My girls told me that the 33 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 1: grass is not always greener on the other side, but 34 00:01:57,080 --> 00:02:00,400 Speaker 1: they also said they'd rather be single and free than 35 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 1: be with a man just for companionship. I want to 36 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 1: move back into my house and be the wife my 37 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 1: husband needs. But there's just one problem. He doesn't seem 38 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:14,399 Speaker 1: to care about me coming home now. I can't read 39 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:17,640 Speaker 1: his mind, but I'm sure that he still loves me. 40 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:19,760 Speaker 1: How can I let him know that I made a 41 00:02:19,800 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 1: big mistake and that I still love him? Or should 42 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:27,000 Speaker 1: I just leave it alone and pray that another decent 43 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 1: man will want to marry me. I don't want to 44 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 1: grow old alone. Is there any advice you can offer me? Well, 45 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 1: first of all, if that's the only reason you want 46 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:37,919 Speaker 1: your husband back, because you don't want to grow old alone, 47 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 1: or you know, because you think some other man might, 48 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:43,639 Speaker 1: you know, take his place if he doesn't take you back, 49 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 1: those are not the good reasons to get back in 50 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:50,239 Speaker 1: a relationship and especially in marriage. Okay, and boy, weren't 51 00:02:50,280 --> 00:02:53,400 Speaker 1: your friends right on this one? The grass isn't always 52 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 1: greener on the other side, No, it isn't. It always 53 00:02:57,520 --> 00:03:01,240 Speaker 1: teaches you that lesson about out, you know, taking people 54 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:04,920 Speaker 1: for granted, and when you leave them for selfish reasons, 55 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 1: it never turns out. Right, that's what you said. You 56 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:12,720 Speaker 1: got bored with the relationship. You were having an affair, 57 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:15,960 Speaker 1: you were traveling, you were having great sex, meeting great guys. 58 00:03:16,480 --> 00:03:19,639 Speaker 1: Just selfish, I mean, you were just selfish, selfish, selfish, 59 00:03:19,639 --> 00:03:22,600 Speaker 1: and you know you were well on your way, and 60 00:03:22,639 --> 00:03:25,520 Speaker 1: you could still be doing that losing your husband if 61 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:28,040 Speaker 1: you haven't lost him already because he stopped reaching out 62 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 1: to you, you said. It could be because he found 63 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:32,519 Speaker 1: someone else, or it could be because he thinks that 64 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 1: you don't want him in your life. Anymore. But here's 65 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:39,600 Speaker 1: where your girlfriends need to really mind their own business. 66 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:43,120 Speaker 1: They told you that they'd rather be free and single 67 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 1: than to be with a man just for companionship. Please 68 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 1: don't listen to your girls. Okay, this if you break 69 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 1: it down, this is just another way of saying misery 70 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 1: loves company. They're single and free and they don't want 71 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 1: to be with a man for companionship. They're putting that 72 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 1: off on you because that's how they are. Okay, that's 73 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 1: not your now, that is not your life. Do not 74 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 1: listen to your girls. If I were you, if you 75 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 1: really want this man back, you know, get on the phone, 76 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 1: go see him, whatever you have to do. Apologize, See 77 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 1: if there's any chance. You say you think he still 78 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:19,159 Speaker 1: loves you and you still love him, See if there's 79 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 1: any chance of a reconciliation with him. Some guys will 80 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 1: take you back after you've been whiling like you've been wiling. 81 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 1: Some won't. You know, there's a chance it's a risk 82 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 1: you're gonna have to take. Tell him you made a 83 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 1: horrible mistake. He didn't deserve that. You apologize, You've grown 84 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 1: with its experience. Talk to him like a grown woman. 85 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:39,919 Speaker 1: Don't mention anything about you getting forty five and you 86 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 1: don't want to grow old alone and all of that. 87 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 1: You know, talk to him, see where his head is. 88 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 1: Maybe maybe you know there's still some love there that 89 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:51,279 Speaker 1: you guys, can you know, salvage in this relationship? And 90 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 1: then you know, maybe not, and you'll have to chalk 91 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:57,000 Speaker 1: it up to the game because you know you're reckless 92 00:04:57,040 --> 00:05:00,840 Speaker 1: behavior and you're gonna have to move on. Steve, you 93 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:03,720 Speaker 1: blew it. Just need the truth. This is a letter 94 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:05,880 Speaker 1: bout somebody that blew it. We all can learn from 95 00:05:05,920 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 1: this one right here. This your second husband was a 96 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 1: man of your dreams. Obviously you this your second marriage. 97 00:05:12,440 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 1: So so I ain't working right. You're looking at somebody 98 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 1: hadn't know, but I didn't see it this time doing 99 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:22,600 Speaker 1: my second marriage, I got bored with the relationship. That's 100 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:26,720 Speaker 1: because relationships after the honeymoon phase is the relationship now. 101 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 1: Doesn't mean it gets boring, but you got to start 102 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 1: working at it. And the work you got to put 103 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:34,840 Speaker 1: in it's the same work that you did to try 104 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:38,040 Speaker 1: to get the relationship. It's the same work you got 105 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 1: to do now to re enact the relationship and put 106 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:45,479 Speaker 1: the relationship back on course, but y'all ain't doing that. 107 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 1: And after about the three years of staying home, you 108 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 1: know your husband was jealous and you stopped hanging out 109 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 1: with your girlfriends, just keep the peace. Three years of 110 00:05:55,400 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 1: staying home, you decided to start back meeting your girlfriends 111 00:05:58,360 --> 00:06:02,360 Speaker 1: after work often, well, you didn't really start decided to 112 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 1: seeing your girlfriends. You wanted to go back out because 113 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 1: you was bored. Now you jumped right from girlfriends to 114 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:12,240 Speaker 1: your husband. Will be angry when I got home, and 115 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 1: you didn't care. And you know why you didn't care, 116 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 1: because you met a handsome, intriguing man and you started 117 00:06:18,160 --> 00:06:20,920 Speaker 1: having an affair. Got so caught up in your new life. 118 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 1: I decided it was best to leave my husband. You 119 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 1: decided it was best for you to leave your hume. 120 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 1: This show's second match. You ain't even telling us how 121 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:30,599 Speaker 1: to first one in it, but something tells me you 122 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 1: got bored in that one too. We'll be back with 123 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 1: the rest of this Is that a Ship be called? 124 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 1: This is how I blew it all? Right? Listen, we'll 125 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:43,000 Speaker 1: have part two of Steve's response coming up at twenty 126 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:46,360 Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour. Subject of today's Strawberry Letters 127 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 1: single and satisfied or married and miserable. We'll get back 128 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:56,159 Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve, 129 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:59,159 Speaker 1: Come on, Let's recap today's Strawberry letters. Subject single and 130 00:06:59,240 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 1: satisfied or married and single. Well, see satisfied and married 131 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 1: and miserable. Really, where you fix that problem? You met 132 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:15,680 Speaker 1: your second husband, got bored, had a tendency to be 133 00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 1: jealous your husband, so you stopped hanging out with your girlfriends, 134 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 1: keep your peace. Three years of staying at home, you 135 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:24,200 Speaker 1: decided to take back to meeting your girlfriends after work. 136 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 1: My husband be angry when you got home, but I 137 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:29,200 Speaker 1: ain't care why because you didn't care because you had 138 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:32,280 Speaker 1: met a handsome, intriguing man and I'm having an affair. 139 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:35,080 Speaker 1: Got so caught up in the new life that you 140 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:37,960 Speaker 1: decided it was best to leave my husband. This was 141 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 1: your decision to leave my husband. Okay, you to left 142 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:46,600 Speaker 1: you out. We've been separated now for three years. The 143 00:07:46,760 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 1: first year without him was amazing. I was hanging out, traveling, 144 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 1: going to clubs and meeting new guys, having great sex. 145 00:07:57,400 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 1: And at first your husband was reaching out to you, 146 00:08:00,520 --> 00:08:03,560 Speaker 1: you know, asking you to fix your marriage. But no, no, 147 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 1: A little bit fast, and I was not interested. Now 148 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 1: I will be forty five years old soon. Yeah, here 149 00:08:12,120 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 1: we go. I've had to change your heart. I'm tired 150 00:08:16,240 --> 00:08:18,560 Speaker 1: of the clubs and seeing the same old people every 151 00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 1: time I go out. See, now we get to the 152 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 1: old analogy that I gave. That's why me and that's over, 153 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:27,400 Speaker 1: forty It's time for you to come on out the field. 154 00:08:28,040 --> 00:08:30,360 Speaker 1: See I've told me and this right here, because all 155 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:33,520 Speaker 1: horses don't look good in the field. They got that 156 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:36,720 Speaker 1: swagging their back, They got the little dipping their back, 157 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 1: an old horse. Then his stomach is almost touching the grass. Well, 158 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 1: see that's now he out there in the fielding them 159 00:08:43,320 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 1: young stallions is running behind him, up on their hind legs, 160 00:08:46,280 --> 00:08:50,840 Speaker 1: fighting him. They're back there, and this old horse just 161 00:08:50,960 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 1: standing in the field, just looking just crazy. That's because 162 00:08:55,040 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 1: his ass don't be long in the field. Now you're 163 00:08:57,800 --> 00:09:00,160 Speaker 1: the forty five year old woman. I don't care what 164 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:03,199 Speaker 1: you look like, fine or not. Forty five year old 165 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 1: woman in a club, single girl, you're crazy. That ain't 166 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:11,960 Speaker 1: no life. Don't nobody really want so Now you didn't 167 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:15,280 Speaker 1: had to change your heart. You tied to the clubs, 168 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:19,520 Speaker 1: and you missing my home life with my husband. My 169 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:22,160 Speaker 1: girls told me that the grass is not always green 170 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:25,160 Speaker 1: on the other side. That's a true statement, But they 171 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:27,599 Speaker 1: also said they'd rather be single and freedom with a 172 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:31,120 Speaker 1: man just to be in a relationship. All these helpers 173 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:34,160 Speaker 1: is single. I want to move back into my house 174 00:09:34,440 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 1: and be the wife my husband needs. But there's just 175 00:09:37,400 --> 00:09:42,040 Speaker 1: one problem. He doesn't seem to care about me coming 176 00:09:42,160 --> 00:09:53,680 Speaker 1: home now. Uh, he doesn't seem to care about me 177 00:09:53,760 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 1: coming home now. Three years the man bade you, come on, baby, 178 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:03,200 Speaker 1: let's make our marriage work. Now I'm out here running him, 179 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:06,880 Speaker 1: I'm sleeping round with me and I'm traveling. Then you 180 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 1: found out, ain't none im want you? Oh because just 181 00:10:10,960 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 1: like you see the same people at the club, dude, 182 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:16,040 Speaker 1: see the same chicks at the club. They hadn't had you, 183 00:10:16,559 --> 00:10:19,560 Speaker 1: ain't none don't want you. He doesn't seem to care 184 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:22,640 Speaker 1: about me coming home now. You know why because you 185 00:10:22,720 --> 00:10:25,079 Speaker 1: guess what you while you was out in the field 186 00:10:25,160 --> 00:10:28,160 Speaker 1: for three years and your husband's begging you, guess what 187 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:35,559 Speaker 1: your husband went on and did he got new horse? Really? Yeah, 188 00:10:35,559 --> 00:10:39,760 Speaker 1: who liked coming home? Who won't a man that's kind 189 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:43,920 Speaker 1: of jealous of her being out? He'd probably met a woman. Hey, 190 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:47,000 Speaker 1: what the hell I wanted a club fault? You got 191 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:50,880 Speaker 1: a house? You go home at night. Wait a minute, 192 00:10:50,920 --> 00:10:56,199 Speaker 1: you love me? Your husband got somebody, she says. Now, 193 00:10:56,240 --> 00:10:58,880 Speaker 1: I can't read his mind, but I'm sure that he 194 00:10:58,960 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 1: still loves me. If he still loved for you, if 195 00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:07,200 Speaker 1: he still loved you, he'd still be calling you. He 196 00:11:07,280 --> 00:11:10,559 Speaker 1: might still love you, but he don't give a damn 197 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:12,440 Speaker 1: if you come to the house right now. You come 198 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:14,040 Speaker 1: over to the house right now. But it's gonna be 199 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 1: crowded though. Oh tell you right now. You can going 200 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:20,280 Speaker 1: back to the house if you want to. But it's 201 00:11:20,320 --> 00:11:23,560 Speaker 1: somebody else up there in that bad room. Heel's pointed 202 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:26,280 Speaker 1: towards to kill it. It's a lot going on up 203 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:28,720 Speaker 1: in that right now. I can tell your answer the 204 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:31,440 Speaker 1: house if you want to. But remember, you're the same one. 205 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:34,440 Speaker 1: Ain't won't over there. You're the same one for three 206 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:37,680 Speaker 1: years he begged you, you wasn't interested. How can I 207 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:39,520 Speaker 1: let him know that I made a big mistake. You 208 00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:42,080 Speaker 1: ain't gotta let him know. He already know you made 209 00:11:42,080 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 1: a big mistake. Every woman listening to this letter know 210 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:49,680 Speaker 1: you made a big mistake because you had a good 211 00:11:49,720 --> 00:11:52,920 Speaker 1: thing wasn't nothing wrong. He just wants you going out 212 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:56,440 Speaker 1: with your girlfriends. Now, he probably y'all could have made 213 00:11:56,440 --> 00:11:59,640 Speaker 1: a compromise or something, But then when you went back 214 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:01,559 Speaker 1: to going with your girlfriends, you wouldn't got you a 215 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:07,640 Speaker 1: dude having a fam alls. All actions have consequences, and 216 00:12:07,720 --> 00:12:12,640 Speaker 1: now your action is dealing with the consequences. How should 217 00:12:12,679 --> 00:12:14,800 Speaker 1: I let him know I still love him? Or should 218 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 1: I just leave it alone and pray that another decent 219 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:20,080 Speaker 1: man will want me to marry him. Well, hold up, now, 220 00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:23,440 Speaker 1: in order to get a decent man, you're gonna have 221 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:27,719 Speaker 1: to be decent. Decent, that's right, and you have it. 222 00:12:27,920 --> 00:12:30,800 Speaker 1: You didn't treat him decent in that marriage, and I 223 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 1: probably didn't treat the first one decent. So until you 224 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:36,640 Speaker 1: become a decent person, you can't really expect to get 225 00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:40,480 Speaker 1: a decent man. You attract what you are, so until 226 00:12:40,520 --> 00:12:42,560 Speaker 1: you become a decent person, you're not gonna get a 227 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:47,040 Speaker 1: decent man. That's all. It is, all right, Steve, thank you. 228 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:51,560 Speaker 1: You will not hold and alone. You will not post 229 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:54,640 Speaker 1: your comments on today's Strawberry Letter. It's Steve Harvey FM 230 00:12:54,679 --> 00:12:57,640 Speaker 1: on Instagram and Facebook and check out the Strawberry Letter 231 00:12:57,679 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 1: podcast on the Man. Coming up. At forty six minutes 232 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:03,959 Speaker 1: after the hour, Oprah Winfrey took a fall on stage, 233 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:06,640 Speaker 1: but guess what she kept going. That's right, she got 234 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:10,040 Speaker 1: up and kept going. We'll talk about some of our 235 00:13:10,120 --> 00:13:14,320 Speaker 1: embarrassing falls right after this. You're listening to this Stave 236 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:15,439 Speaker 1: Harpy Morning Show