1 00:00:02,400 --> 00:00:06,800 Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. 2 00:00:07,120 --> 00:00:08,719 Speaker 1: Hey Colin, good morning, Welcome to the show. 3 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 2: How are you, good morning, how's it going? 4 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:14,160 Speaker 1: You know we're doing okay? What's going on with this woman, Alesandra? 5 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:16,759 Speaker 1: How'd you meet her? Tell us about any dates that 6 00:00:16,800 --> 00:00:18,639 Speaker 1: you've been on, and where you thinks are where you 7 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 1: think things are? Now? 8 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 2: Hey, good questions. I think we're both confused. I met 9 00:00:26,280 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 2: her on Hinge. We went out. 10 00:00:30,040 --> 00:00:33,280 Speaker 3: She was I mean when we first started talking, it 11 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:37,479 Speaker 3: was back and forth, instant text back. So man, she 12 00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:44,159 Speaker 3: was beautiful, I mean, unmatched. But listen, so anyway we're talking, 13 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:45,080 Speaker 3: texting back and. 14 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:47,880 Speaker 2: Forth, and we go out. 15 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 3: I think we have a great time and being at 16 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:55,440 Speaker 3: the end of the night, she's just like, all right, 17 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 3: well I talked to you. 18 00:00:58,520 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 2: I was like, and not try to text her the 19 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:05,040 Speaker 2: next day? Nothing. 20 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 1: Okay. So you go on this date, you thought the 21 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:09,840 Speaker 1: day went great, you were really attracted to her, and 22 00:01:09,880 --> 00:01:12,839 Speaker 1: you've tried to talk to her since the date and 23 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 1: she's ignored you. She's ghosting you after leaving you. 24 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, she was ner reciprocating energy I was giving us. 25 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:21,039 Speaker 2: So I was confused. 26 00:01:21,800 --> 00:01:26,120 Speaker 4: Huh, all right, okay, what gky what I can already 27 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 4: see her side. 28 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:30,920 Speaker 1: But we're gonna wait, wait, gonna wait, I'll get today. Okay, 29 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 1: all right, Well, here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna 30 00:01:32,800 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 1: call Alessandra. We're gonna see if we can get her 31 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 1: on the phone calling. We're gonna ask some questions. You'll 32 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 1: be on the phone as well. At some point you're 33 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:41,319 Speaker 1: welcome to jump in and we're gonna figure out what 34 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 1: happened here because I have I have some thoughts, but 35 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 1: I don't I can't be certain yet, so Anda, can 36 00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 1: you keek? We cannot yet judge. We must we must 37 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 1: be thorough investigators, and we must be objective. We will 38 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:58,560 Speaker 1: do the job well. Cast for the ghost you all right, 39 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 1: Well let's see if she did that. Good luck, Colin, 40 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 1: thank you. 41 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 2: Hello. 42 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:12,079 Speaker 1: Hi is this Alisandra? Yes, this is hey, good morning. 43 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:13,639 Speaker 1: My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show, 44 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 1: the morning radio show. I have to tell you that 45 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 1: we are on the radio right now, and I would 46 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 1: need your permission to continue with the call. Is it 47 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 1: okay if we chat for a couple of minutes. 48 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:23,639 Speaker 2: I guess so. 49 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:25,080 Speaker 1: Thank you very much. I'm not sure if you're familiar 50 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 1: with this. It's called waiting by the phone, though, and 51 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:29,919 Speaker 1: we're trying to figure out why this guy, Colin may 52 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 1: have been ghosted by you. He called us, said that 53 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 1: he met you online and that you guys on an 54 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:36,240 Speaker 1: app and you guys had a great date, he thought, 55 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 1: And now he can't get a hold of you, and 56 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:40,600 Speaker 1: he's wondering why because we didn't have any trouble getting 57 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:42,919 Speaker 1: a hold of you. So what's the issue with Colin? 58 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 2: Oh my god, what wasn't the issue with? 59 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 5: Everything was okay, Like, the date was nice, everything was fine, 60 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:56,080 Speaker 5: The dinner was good up until I had to go 61 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 5: home and let my dog out, and I told him 62 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 5: that he could comment was no problem, you know, if 63 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:03,800 Speaker 5: he wanted to just hang out for a little while 64 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 5: while I took care of him. But the trouble started 65 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:12,280 Speaker 5: really when we got to my place, and it just 66 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:16,520 Speaker 5: seemed like every other comment was something inappropriate about the way, 67 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:18,679 Speaker 5: like the way that I was living in my lifestyle, 68 00:03:18,760 --> 00:03:22,520 Speaker 5: Like he kept mentioning like ooh, like oh, this is 69 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 5: really nice, and oh, I didn't realize that you got 70 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 5: paid so much and you must be rich or your 71 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 5: parents must be helping you out a lot, and just 72 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 5: said and the third and it just it really it 73 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 5: was a big turn off. 74 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 1: Okay, so he was commenting on how successful you appeared 75 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 1: to be, like how nice your stuff was, how nice 76 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 1: your place was, all that, and you were like, what, 77 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 1: you know, it just seemed like a little much. 78 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 2: Yeah. Well then he proceeded to asking like how much 79 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 2: my rent was? It's not really real made incredible. 80 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 5: And he just he just kept commenting on every little 81 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 5: thing like ooh that beginning, that must. 82 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:55,120 Speaker 2: Be that must be super expensive. 83 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 5: And then for me, like the last star was when 84 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 5: he was he said, oh, I didn't know you were rich. Oh, 85 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 5: it just made a lot of presumptions for me because 86 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 5: I worked really hard and I you know, I maintained 87 00:04:14,040 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 5: my lifestyle the way that I want to. 88 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 1: And but the way he was talking was like like somehow, 89 00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:22,919 Speaker 1: you know, he was trying to figure out size you up? 90 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:25,360 Speaker 1: How much did you have? And you know, I don't know, 91 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:27,479 Speaker 1: like either there was jealousy or he wanted to know 92 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:29,159 Speaker 1: how much because you wanted to know like what he 93 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:31,919 Speaker 1: was getting access to, or either way, it's just not 94 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:33,920 Speaker 1: stuff that you talk about with someone you just met. 95 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 2: Right. 96 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:37,279 Speaker 5: It weirded me out and I don't know if he 97 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 5: couldn't tell that I was getting more and more comfortable. 98 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 5: But at a certain point I just told him that 99 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:44,400 Speaker 5: I got tired and asked him to leave. 100 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Colin. I forgot to mention that Colin 101 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 1: is here. I'm very sorry. I'm extremely forgetful. Colin. Why 102 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:52,520 Speaker 1: were you obsessing over how nice everything was? 103 00:04:52,560 --> 00:04:52,640 Speaker 3: Like? 104 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 1: Why can't you act a little bit chill and you know, 105 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 1: not make her feel uncomfortable about her success? That's crazy? 106 00:04:59,000 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 3: She come for me like that, She's acting brand new 107 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:04,840 Speaker 3: things in her house. 108 00:05:06,560 --> 00:05:09,400 Speaker 2: Crazy, What is going on? 109 00:05:11,080 --> 00:05:13,760 Speaker 4: I'm shocked in why she don't want to talk to you. Actually, 110 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:16,440 Speaker 4: I thought it was a whole other reason, because I 111 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 4: don't even want to talk to you right now. 112 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 2: Today. 113 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:24,119 Speaker 1: So I mean, oh my god, nobody taught you Colin 114 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 1: that you don't talk about how people's stuff and how 115 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:29,600 Speaker 1: much they make. I mean, you know, like that's not appropriate. 116 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:34,440 Speaker 2: Don't let me tell you something. Man, if you went 117 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:38,080 Speaker 2: to her career and you so how nice. 118 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 1: And you messed up, you could have been part of 119 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 1: this time. Why don't you just act like you act 120 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:48,359 Speaker 1: like you know after you've been there, and then you 121 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 1: could you could be going over there all the time. 122 00:05:50,760 --> 00:05:51,839 Speaker 1: Should be you should the mama. 123 00:05:53,760 --> 00:05:58,839 Speaker 3: I mean, let me tell you it was is Listen 124 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:03,479 Speaker 3: you ever been to and you like they smell rich? 125 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:09,800 Speaker 1: In? Man, she got she got one of those hotel 126 00:06:09,839 --> 00:06:14,120 Speaker 1: collection air diffusions. Oh man, she loaded? Never mind, Hey, Alixander, 127 00:06:14,200 --> 00:06:14,960 Speaker 1: how rich are you? 128 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:15,599 Speaker 2: Right? 129 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:16,920 Speaker 1: House smells rich? 130 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 2: You know what? Rich enough for me to to find 131 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 2: a different day. 132 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 4: That's right, giving broke boy energy and we don't need 133 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:26,120 Speaker 4: that around. 134 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:29,840 Speaker 2: No wait, but I got money too. I'm not like 135 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:30,799 Speaker 2: broke boy. 136 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:36,159 Speaker 3: I'm just saying, like, you know, it's really. 137 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:41,839 Speaker 1: How much do you make, Colin? If you're so rich, 138 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 1: why are you impressed by a house that smells good? 139 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:48,039 Speaker 3: Well, I'm just saying, man, y'all had to be there 140 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:51,200 Speaker 3: for one it was great. I mean yeah, because you 141 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:53,479 Speaker 3: know I'm gonna keep it. But like I've been on 142 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 3: some hre days before and Shorty be messy. Come on, 143 00:06:56,400 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 3: we know we know girls be messy and. 144 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:06,719 Speaker 2: Queen smell of man. I mean, man, a dream come through? 145 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:10,800 Speaker 1: I dream come true that you ruined because you had 146 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 1: it became a nightmare. If you had a little bit 147 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 1: of chill, Colin, then maybe I mean, how are things 148 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 1: going until he started asking about your four oh one kut? 149 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:21,320 Speaker 1: Was everything going okay? Until then? 150 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:23,960 Speaker 2: Things actually going pretty good. 151 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:27,040 Speaker 1: You hear that, Colin, You were in good shape until 152 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:28,880 Speaker 1: you start talking about how much money she did or 153 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 1: didn't have. 154 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 3: But I just don't understand how other woman can compliment 155 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 3: other women, like, yes, queen, you doing it like she 156 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:39,680 Speaker 3: I was giving her her pops as an independent woman. 157 00:07:39,760 --> 00:07:42,040 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. She was taking care of 158 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 2: business at that age. 159 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:46,600 Speaker 3: You worked hard for this. I'm going to compliment what 160 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 3: you worked hard on. 161 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 1: I don't got to ask her the MSRP of her right, yeah, right, exactly. 162 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:55,240 Speaker 1: You didn't have to zillow her house right in front 163 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 1: of her. Everybody knows you do that. Later you do that. 164 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 1: After going on, Colin. 165 00:08:02,160 --> 00:08:05,360 Speaker 3: Felt like, you know, a strong woman, she worked hang 166 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:09,200 Speaker 3: for it, so maybe she wanted some type of acknowledgment 167 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 3: to it. 168 00:08:09,520 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 2: I'm not going to go to the ice. It looks 169 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 2: like a damn near. 170 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:17,680 Speaker 3: Mansion, but it was a nice condo and I was like, yo, yeah, 171 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:19,200 Speaker 3: you're doing the damn thing for real. 172 00:08:19,560 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 1: So so you were celebrating her success and her independence 173 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 1: and her strong female energy. That's what you were. You 174 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:32,439 Speaker 1: were honoring her is what you were doing. You're saying, hey, brother. 175 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:33,080 Speaker 2: Brother, you get it. 176 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:36,320 Speaker 3: And so I was thinking that, you know, since they 177 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:39,640 Speaker 3: were going World Part two, there's a loosened up that 178 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:42,040 Speaker 3: I could, you know, saying like I was in there, 179 00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:43,160 Speaker 3: so I felt. 180 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:45,200 Speaker 1: That you were not in there, if you were at all, 181 00:08:45,280 --> 00:08:47,040 Speaker 1: she was trying to get you out of there. It 182 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:50,360 Speaker 1: turns out, hey, Alixandero, I mean, I'll ask the question 183 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 1: because I have to, but I know the answer already, 184 00:08:52,520 --> 00:08:54,240 Speaker 1: So it's rhetorical. Would you like to go out with 185 00:08:54,280 --> 00:08:55,679 Speaker 1: Colin again? We'll pay for it? 186 00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:59,080 Speaker 2: No, it was giving me real property vibe. 187 00:09:04,880 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 1: Wow, So Colin, you're upset about this? 188 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 2: Okay, I mean it would have been nice, shorty. 189 00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:12,920 Speaker 3: I mean, let me take something I'll do, But you 190 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:16,440 Speaker 3: bet as hell. I mean it's fine, and I love 191 00:09:16,480 --> 00:09:18,320 Speaker 3: to take you out again. And I feel like we 192 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:20,440 Speaker 3: were viving before. So you ain't gotta switch up. 193 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 2: You gotta pitch up. 194 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's look how smoothing he is. Alice Satury, have 195 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:25,520 Speaker 1: you changed your mind at all? 196 00:09:25,960 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 2: I appreciate it, but you know, thanks? 197 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:30,720 Speaker 1: But now, how about your cell phone bill? A month? 198 00:09:30,720 --> 00:09:32,880 Speaker 1: How let you say you got the premium service how 199 00:09:32,920 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 1: about what kind of iPhone you got. You got them 200 00:09:34,559 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 1: with all the memory in it there just a little bit. 201 00:09:36,480 --> 00:09:42,880 Speaker 1: You got the new one all right, like it's not 202 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:43,559 Speaker 1: gonna work out.