1 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:06,960 Speaker 1: Welcome to Jay dot Im a production of I Heart 2 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:13,400 Speaker 1: Radio Friends, Friends, Friends is always so good When the 3 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:16,200 Speaker 1: line rings, it's an old school thing to do, like, oh, 4 00:00:16,239 --> 00:00:20,200 Speaker 1: there's a phone in the background, would be well, there's 5 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:23,280 Speaker 1: a phone and there's a friend on the phone or 6 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 1: on our zoom right now, this young woman, First of all, 7 00:00:27,440 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 1: I have to use my baby voice for it because 8 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:34,200 Speaker 1: it is so cute to me, Like like every time 9 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 1: I see the face, I actually want to bite her 10 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:39,320 Speaker 1: and it would be a pleasure. I just want to 11 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:43,280 Speaker 1: bite your face. Oh my god, Oh it's so pretty. 12 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:47,160 Speaker 1: All it's so so, so pretty, and her sing so 13 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:50,920 Speaker 1: good whatever kind of style you got to think is 14 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:55,360 Speaker 1: singing it. Okay, she's a brilliant poet. She is a 15 00:00:55,360 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 1: band leader. Okay, now that's that's something that I love 16 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 1: to see because one who's who's leading the band? Let 17 00:01:02,560 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 1: me think brand new Heavies, India, Dave Report, you know Russian. 18 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:12,320 Speaker 1: Yes I'm talking. I'm talking about just being a band 19 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 1: lead your own. I'm trying to think of she got 20 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 1: that loosens, thank you, Yes, that rough kids. I don't 21 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:31,640 Speaker 1: want to fight Alabama shakes Alabama who love her? But 22 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:37,760 Speaker 1: I'm telling you, I love how from Tank and the 23 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 1: Bangers they call her? Why why they call you first? Agree? 24 00:01:51,000 --> 00:02:01,920 Speaker 1: I want to be your laying I'm not right. It's 25 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:04,560 Speaker 1: a nickname. My daddy gave it to me. I don't 26 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 1: know why he gave it to me. It's very interesting. 27 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 1: He died if I could ask him. But it's a 28 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:14,919 Speaker 1: family nickname. And now the world happens to know your 29 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 1: family nickname, Tank and the Banger's baby. That's something that's 30 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:21,240 Speaker 1: some good old If you can't hear, this thing is 31 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 1: straight out of new order and and and comforting. Talking 32 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 1: about your voice, I know what they say, sound like 33 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 1: a mal like what is it? It's like a nice 34 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 1: little um, a little baked chicken, some kind of a's 35 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 1: maybe macaroni and cheese with the brown on the top. Yeah, yeah, 36 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:51,800 Speaker 1: not a little, a little gravy. That voice is gravy. 37 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:55,080 Speaker 1: It's like the definitely had some gravy on it, for sure. 38 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 1: My favorite meal is ross with gravy and rice and potato, 39 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:07,359 Speaker 1: saying like rebeans from my mama though, Yeah that sounds delicious. 40 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 1: It's really good. The crawfish. I just want some color 41 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:16,640 Speaker 1: greens to some potato salad. Love some colleagues thing about 42 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 1: them bitches, won't sheen? She love a colleague. I can 43 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 1: eat them every day on my life. Well, I say this, 44 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:26,600 Speaker 1: I don't have. I don't have the top tier collar greens. 45 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:30,639 Speaker 1: They but you got something that's the talk alone time. 46 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 1: I put that out married alone time. I love of 47 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 1: way her husband looking at her time. I love it, 48 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:43,120 Speaker 1: looking at like I really like you and I think 49 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 1: you're really smart. You want that. I could be staring 50 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 1: at him like I could do marriage. I could do 51 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 1: it because for these people I could do it. Do 52 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 1: make it look possible. It's funny because I told him 53 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 1: because take was like, um, I like the way you 54 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:03,119 Speaker 1: look at I said, this is what happened. They said 55 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 1: you had told him. They said, you look at me 56 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 1: like you like me? When I do, like yeah, And 57 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 1: that's how he looked at you, he said, with the 58 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:16,200 Speaker 1: attitude like I said, well I do. Like. That's why 59 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:18,200 Speaker 1: she checking in where she's covering her mouth like a 60 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 1: little kid, because she know that that I love me sexy. 61 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 1: Did I tell you think I do? Oh yeah, that's 62 00:04:29,320 --> 00:04:34,680 Speaker 1: called that. Okay, you gotta make sure you gotta take 63 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:37,279 Speaker 1: your bra off to do that. You don't need to 64 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:47,680 Speaker 1: take your bratty little circle. That's talent. I mean, I 65 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:51,920 Speaker 1: knew you was talented before, but you know, I appreciate that. 66 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 1: But I love, I do love. That's all you did 67 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 1: with Big Freedom, because that got that got me to 68 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 1: understanding how to get my talk you could do. Just 69 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:06,040 Speaker 1: imagine surprised. I can do it. I can. I can 70 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 1: only do these things in prime. Yes, he will not. 71 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:11,080 Speaker 1: He actually won't be surprised. The sad part. It's not sad. 72 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 1: Not be surprised, that's the sad part. He would just right. 73 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:18,599 Speaker 1: He would just be making sure nobody is videotaping. He'd 74 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:21,160 Speaker 1: be like, please put your phones down, thank you very much, 75 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:28,240 Speaker 1: you put your phone down. Good night, Lord God. That's 76 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:33,080 Speaker 1: not that's a fear that we asked. We we over 77 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:36,280 Speaker 1: here giggling, were giggling. They ask Tank what we need 78 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:38,840 Speaker 1: to ask her? And what do we need to ask her? 79 00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:43,920 Speaker 1: What's on your heart? What's on your heart? Boo boo? 80 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:51,040 Speaker 1: I don't know life? What let me see what's going 81 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:54,240 Speaker 1: on in our life right now? Oh, just got off 82 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:57,039 Speaker 1: a little book for her. That was that was really 83 00:05:57,200 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 1: fighting a lot of fun. Hey, I think it's I 84 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:06,680 Speaker 1: think it's the one you stay, you know, it was 85 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:10,279 Speaker 1: a lot of fun, and it felt really good to 86 00:06:10,360 --> 00:06:13,640 Speaker 1: get back to my poetry roots of just being in 87 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:17,880 Speaker 1: the club with one musician just playing behind me lightly 88 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:20,800 Speaker 1: and gently as I as I do my poems and 89 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:26,760 Speaker 1: I take my time and it's low and I oh, 90 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:29,360 Speaker 1: I love that there was everybody cried at the end 91 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 1: of the night. I cried at the end of the night, 92 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 1: and I just I love taking my time. I really 93 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:36,479 Speaker 1: thought I should go on tour by myself once every 94 00:06:36,520 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 1: couple of years. It's special, it is, and the sound 95 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:45,160 Speaker 1: checks are so short. How about that? Can you hear that? 96 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 1: I can hear too. Let's go yeah, because you spend 97 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 1: forever doing them and then you get on stage and 98 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 1: it's still different. Mm hmmm, it's still and just this 99 00:06:57,560 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 1: is how you still got to push through, just so 100 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:04,440 Speaker 1: smiling down, turning around, person out your band maid like 101 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 1: I loved him. But I enjoyed this too, because what 102 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 1: what part of this part really opened you up? Like 103 00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:13,480 Speaker 1: tell us about that part, Like you said you should 104 00:07:13,520 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 1: do this once a year because of what what did 105 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 1: it do for you? It's kind of like that moment 106 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 1: where you know that she was born alone. M he 107 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 1: was boring alone and that you have something special inside 108 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: you and it don't take a lot to show it all. 109 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 1: Even though I love the big sound, I love something, 110 00:07:34,320 --> 00:07:35,840 Speaker 1: I could be tired as hell, but once I get 111 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 1: on stage with the bankers, it's like somebody plugged me 112 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:40,960 Speaker 1: in the wall. I'm I'm alive, I'm not I'm not tying, 113 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 1: I'm not thinking about the ride here because I don't 114 00:07:43,360 --> 00:07:45,440 Speaker 1: even mind toll. I just hate to travel to get 115 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:48,960 Speaker 1: to where I'm going, like that's annoying. But when I 116 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 1: get up there, I know I'm exactly what I'm supposed 117 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 1: to be. I'm spiritually laid. But when I was up 118 00:07:55,760 --> 00:07:58,120 Speaker 1: there by myself or just with one banker, just felt 119 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 1: like I could I could do with them, and I 120 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:04,080 Speaker 1: needed to feed myself in that way and do what 121 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 1: I want without about saying that's not the right nick. 122 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 1: I'll make the melody like no my day. There's a 123 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 1: There's a beautiful thing about balance, because something that you 124 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 1: do could be really, really big, and a lot of 125 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 1: people can come to that one thing, but then something 126 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:33,240 Speaker 1: else that you do can be just as big, but 127 00:08:33,400 --> 00:08:37,439 Speaker 1: in a in a perfectly small way. It keeps you humble, 128 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 1: and it keeps you balanced, and I think it inspires 129 00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:45,400 Speaker 1: the fun and like like you said, it's a reminder 130 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:49,040 Speaker 1: of who you are, where you started. How important is 131 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:54,400 Speaker 1: the words for you, ma'am? The words, the words, it's 132 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:58,520 Speaker 1: not even so much, it's how important words are. It's 133 00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:02,920 Speaker 1: important how I say the word. That's very important to me. 134 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 1: Everybody could read the book and hit a song and 135 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 1: it's great. That's really great, of course, because you want 136 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:13,440 Speaker 1: them sales. But when I read them, yeah, I bring 137 00:09:13,600 --> 00:09:16,560 Speaker 1: life to him because it's my life. It's my life 138 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:20,200 Speaker 1: I'm reading from so I know where the pause, I 139 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:22,840 Speaker 1: know where to add extra breath there. I know that 140 00:09:22,880 --> 00:09:25,040 Speaker 1: I'm about to send this line instead of just speaking 141 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 1: to like a poem. It's about the way I say 142 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 1: the words. You notice, you understand this, You all you 143 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:38,960 Speaker 1: understand what I mean. I'm kind of jealous that the 144 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:41,000 Speaker 1: rest of us I'm not gonna be able to experience. 145 00:09:42,240 --> 00:09:44,120 Speaker 1: I don't. I'm just I'm just saying than just it 146 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:45,840 Speaker 1: was like a one in a lifetime thing. You're not 147 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:48,840 Speaker 1: going to take this to She said that there's something 148 00:09:48,880 --> 00:09:50,840 Speaker 1: that she would do like every you know, a few 149 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:56,960 Speaker 1: years you can I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna do 150 00:09:57,000 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 1: it every Yeah, I think it's um. I think especially 151 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:02,480 Speaker 1: when I loved when I was out there seeing everybody, 152 00:10:02,720 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 1: I saw Asian them, and I saw p J. Martin, 153 00:10:05,640 --> 00:10:08,719 Speaker 1: and I went to see til Live Quite and I 154 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:12,440 Speaker 1: saw Lord. I couldn't even much think of it. I 155 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:15,440 Speaker 1: just saw so many people on this little toy. It 156 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:19,160 Speaker 1: was so much fun. I couldn't kill chicken. I know, 157 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:23,160 Speaker 1: I was like, damn, what you went my time? Missing nice? 158 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:28,520 Speaker 1: We was outside, Yeah, what a couple of d ch 159 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:31,200 Speaker 1: The hotel lady found out who Asian you want? Hug 160 00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 1: all tight may Chicago though, that was Chicago, Chicago show 161 00:10:40,679 --> 00:10:43,960 Speaker 1: that Chicago. Wait, Chicago was the only they were the 162 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:45,920 Speaker 1: only city that received this. Where else did you go? 163 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:48,680 Speaker 1: Chicago was off the chair. See, I gotta think. I 164 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:51,640 Speaker 1: went to Atlanta, and I wasn't gonna go to Texas, 165 00:10:51,679 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 1: but all my fans kept saying, you must not like 166 00:10:54,120 --> 00:11:01,079 Speaker 1: Texas book, so you know, they made sure we put 167 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:03,959 Speaker 1: some Texas dates up, and okay with do tastes do Atlanta, 168 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:09,439 Speaker 1: we do Philly, New York, Boston, Alexandria, Virginia. And it's 169 00:11:09,559 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 1: was a surprise that I remember these places, yea, because 170 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:16,480 Speaker 1: I don't remember anything. It's a huge surprise that I'm 171 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 1: like telling you the cities like I don't. I hate 172 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:22,360 Speaker 1: when the fan tells me you remember me, tank a 173 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:24,439 Speaker 1: fan would tell me you remember me. You you threw 174 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:28,199 Speaker 1: the peace sign up? Are you remember that I had 175 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 1: on a yellow shirt and you threw the peace sign 176 00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:38,679 Speaker 1: up seventeen years ago? You remember that, don't you. I'm Gloria, Gloria, Gloria, 177 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:44,520 Speaker 1: good to see you again. I just been smiling. If 178 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:54,319 Speaker 1: you ever preaching to a choir that smile, yeah, because 179 00:11:54,320 --> 00:11:56,760 Speaker 1: they will hold you accountable. They will hold you accountable 180 00:11:56,800 --> 00:11:59,280 Speaker 1: for the peace side I had. I had on a 181 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:02,680 Speaker 1: pink risk bad baby, and I waved back you and 182 00:12:02,760 --> 00:12:05,240 Speaker 1: you did this. You don't remember you did the peace 183 00:12:05,280 --> 00:12:08,640 Speaker 1: side that you don't remember that. What I love, though, 184 00:12:08,760 --> 00:12:11,640 Speaker 1: is that there are moments when you actually really do 185 00:12:11,920 --> 00:12:16,560 Speaker 1: remember somebody like oh shid, like job my memory enough, 186 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:19,319 Speaker 1: Like I just told you, I will, it will come 187 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:25,080 Speaker 1: back to remember. Make somebody's life. It's it's it's these days. 188 00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:29,120 Speaker 1: It depends on the person. Sometimes they life Jim. Sometimes 189 00:12:29,320 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 1: all you gotta do is have one special moment with 190 00:12:31,400 --> 00:12:34,320 Speaker 1: somebody and they will remember it. They will apply to 191 00:12:34,320 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 1: their life. I love to tell people how important they are. 192 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:40,200 Speaker 1: And I think because somebody took so long to tell 193 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:43,320 Speaker 1: me that was important special Because the moment somebody told 194 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:45,840 Speaker 1: me I was special, I begin to walk in my purpose. 195 00:12:46,240 --> 00:12:48,079 Speaker 1: And I like to tell people that because you people 196 00:12:48,120 --> 00:12:51,600 Speaker 1: don't be knowing, they think they ordinary people be thinking 197 00:12:51,640 --> 00:12:57,600 Speaker 1: they ordinary knowing. Damn well, had perfectly happened just for 198 00:12:57,679 --> 00:13:00,560 Speaker 1: you to be here, and it's definitely not my chance, 199 00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 1: I gotta tell I like to tell him, well, somebody 200 00:13:04,840 --> 00:13:08,960 Speaker 1: told me so they could. Yeah. I remember the first 201 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:12,160 Speaker 1: time I met you was at Essence and my husband 202 00:13:12,240 --> 00:13:15,400 Speaker 1: was already familiar with with the Bad. Yeah, he said, 203 00:13:15,440 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 1: you know who that is? I said, no, I don't 204 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:20,400 Speaker 1: know who that is. He said, oh, yeah, that's taking 205 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:22,959 Speaker 1: the bangers like they from the ones, like they they 206 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:25,640 Speaker 1: they banging like they're good. They're good, they're good. And 207 00:13:25,679 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 1: he was like, and so we had seen you before 208 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:30,400 Speaker 1: we met you, and then when you came and met us, 209 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:34,600 Speaker 1: it was like you was just so loving and so 210 00:13:34,720 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 1: sweet and so like, I love y'all, I love what 211 00:13:37,120 --> 00:13:40,439 Speaker 1: y'all do. And I personally was really hyping. You might 212 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 1: not remember this, but D'Angelo was playing in the main room, 213 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:46,760 Speaker 1: and I remember that you stayed to watch our show 214 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:49,400 Speaker 1: when you could have gone to see D'Angelo, which I 215 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:52,160 Speaker 1: thought everybody on the planet would choose to see d 216 00:13:52,360 --> 00:13:55,679 Speaker 1: at that point because he was coming back, but you didn't. 217 00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:59,280 Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, that's so dope. And honestly, 218 00:13:59,360 --> 00:14:01,800 Speaker 1: every time I've ever come in contact with you since 219 00:14:01,880 --> 00:14:05,200 Speaker 1: you have been the exact same, mom beautiful, loving person 220 00:14:05,640 --> 00:14:08,840 Speaker 1: since that day. And I was like, and everything that 221 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 1: has happened to y'all to be able to stand back 222 00:14:10,920 --> 00:14:13,080 Speaker 1: and see that, because you know, in an artist's life, 223 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:15,640 Speaker 1: you know, we come in contact with each other off 224 00:14:15,679 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 1: and on, you know what I mean, like even you 225 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:21,760 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying this or that, you know, And 226 00:14:21,800 --> 00:14:24,000 Speaker 1: I think that was really a beautiful thing to to 227 00:14:24,280 --> 00:14:27,840 Speaker 1: see how things have blown up and grown for y'all, 228 00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:31,560 Speaker 1: but that you, yourself, your energy has really stayed the same. 229 00:14:31,680 --> 00:14:34,240 Speaker 1: You know that you really have just always been this 230 00:14:34,320 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 1: person that just shine from the inside. So you know, again, 231 00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:42,760 Speaker 1: it's hard for me to understand that. I mean, I 232 00:14:42,800 --> 00:14:44,680 Speaker 1: look at my I look at you, and I'm like, 233 00:14:44,720 --> 00:14:47,200 Speaker 1: oh my god, look at all that light. There's just 234 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:52,160 Speaker 1: a bright, sweet, beautiful person and I am. I am confused. 235 00:14:52,480 --> 00:14:57,760 Speaker 1: How how you didn't know? I didn't know. I didn't know. 236 00:14:58,320 --> 00:15:01,800 Speaker 1: I just didn't know. I think it's because you grow 237 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:03,840 Speaker 1: up with all these sisters. And I don't know if 238 00:15:03,880 --> 00:15:07,680 Speaker 1: y'all notice or if y'all even experienced this, but black 239 00:15:07,880 --> 00:15:11,120 Speaker 1: families don't really go crazy just because you gotta give, 240 00:15:11,160 --> 00:15:14,280 Speaker 1: because everybody gotta gift in their family, everybody's family table. 241 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:16,520 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she'd been signing Street Throw on the phone. 242 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 1: I mean, I didn't have nobody pushing me in my family. 243 00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:22,640 Speaker 1: I had friends later on to push me in life, 244 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:26,800 Speaker 1: but nobody around to just be like, you're you're really 245 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 1: special because I was always writing, always singing, not like 246 00:15:31,680 --> 00:15:34,880 Speaker 1: as well as my sisters, but always singing. So I 247 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:38,320 Speaker 1: just I just did not I just didn't know, not 248 00:15:38,440 --> 00:15:40,240 Speaker 1: enough to walk in it. But I knew that I could, 249 00:15:40,560 --> 00:15:47,000 Speaker 1: I could perform. I knew that we're gonna take a 250 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:59,520 Speaker 1: quick break and then we'll be right back. I always 251 00:15:59,520 --> 00:16:02,360 Speaker 1: wanted to ask, because you signed so bright, and I 252 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:04,640 Speaker 1: always want to ask people who shine so bright how 253 00:16:04,720 --> 00:16:08,080 Speaker 1: they maintain their life because because you signed so bright, 254 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:11,640 Speaker 1: and people around know this energy and go to you 255 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:14,480 Speaker 1: for this energy. Whether you're singing, it, you're speaking or whatever. 256 00:16:14,920 --> 00:16:17,240 Speaker 1: Sometimes it and you know it has to be replenished 257 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:19,920 Speaker 1: at some point. So I'm just I'm so curious, especially 258 00:16:20,000 --> 00:16:22,240 Speaker 1: in the last year and some change, how you've been 259 00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:26,800 Speaker 1: replenishing yourself in that way. How have I been replenishing myself? 260 00:16:27,280 --> 00:16:30,680 Speaker 1: First of all, just having conversation. I love when when 261 00:16:30,800 --> 00:16:33,080 Speaker 1: Jill called me, like I love with my phone, I 262 00:16:33,160 --> 00:16:36,320 Speaker 1: screenshot it every time. She don't notice, but I screenshot it. 263 00:16:36,360 --> 00:16:39,760 Speaker 1: I'd be like, she calling and I just always make 264 00:16:39,800 --> 00:16:43,640 Speaker 1: me so happy. And and I talked to her about 265 00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 1: some things, especially if I you know, if I meet 266 00:16:46,120 --> 00:16:49,320 Speaker 1: anybody new, you know, or if if something's going on, 267 00:16:49,520 --> 00:16:51,640 Speaker 1: you know, I like to get her advice on it. 268 00:16:51,960 --> 00:16:56,360 Speaker 1: And my best friends are just they're the type of 269 00:16:56,400 --> 00:16:59,400 Speaker 1: people that are really honest with you. Are very loving 270 00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:07,399 Speaker 1: because I'm sensitive, so they know not to discourage me feeling. 271 00:17:07,920 --> 00:17:10,199 Speaker 1: They know to encourage me. And if it's time to 272 00:17:10,240 --> 00:17:12,720 Speaker 1: give me the real they'll She'll give me that too, 273 00:17:12,760 --> 00:17:16,359 Speaker 1: without hurting my feelings. It's very careful about that because 274 00:17:16,680 --> 00:17:22,720 Speaker 1: I'm so sensitive. You're not alone. It's say, oh my god, 275 00:17:23,440 --> 00:17:26,400 Speaker 1: it's sad. It's really sad. I don't even know how 276 00:17:26,400 --> 00:17:28,720 Speaker 1: you have a relationship being as sensitive as I am. 277 00:17:29,359 --> 00:17:31,680 Speaker 1: It's crazy. I think I got a never to be sensitive. 278 00:17:32,440 --> 00:17:35,920 Speaker 1: But but we'll tell you the truth without what's your 279 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:38,200 Speaker 1: What does that sign? What is that? I don't want 280 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:40,240 Speaker 1: to talk about it. You told me before, but I forgot. 281 00:17:40,280 --> 00:17:41,600 Speaker 1: It sounds like a cancer. I didn't want to see 282 00:17:41,600 --> 00:17:44,480 Speaker 1: a cancer. It's not a castle. It sounds like an 283 00:17:44,480 --> 00:17:46,680 Speaker 1: aries to me. But I don't think it wass all 284 00:17:46,720 --> 00:17:48,920 Speaker 1: like Arias but it's not. I like aeries, but I 285 00:17:48,960 --> 00:17:58,520 Speaker 1: don't like how boss stop aggressive. I am virgo Virgo. 286 00:17:59,640 --> 00:18:05,879 Speaker 1: I oh, I know this makes so much sense. Oh, 287 00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:10,440 Speaker 1: this is why you as my whole baby. This is yeah, 288 00:18:10,560 --> 00:18:13,159 Speaker 1: you like the Virgo. This is why I don't like 289 00:18:13,200 --> 00:18:16,680 Speaker 1: what they sound like. The Virgo sound like harsh, critical 290 00:18:16,800 --> 00:18:21,760 Speaker 1: old space. But you know what Virgos be knowing, and 291 00:18:21,800 --> 00:18:24,080 Speaker 1: that's one thing. You got a good sense of people. 292 00:18:24,640 --> 00:18:29,080 Speaker 1: And I trust a virgo's opinion. Virgo's opinion is almost 293 00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:32,199 Speaker 1: a written law. They know what they're talking about, and 294 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:35,440 Speaker 1: that is that because they just do. I have virgo 295 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:38,760 Speaker 1: that I know, I trust. I trust what they have 296 00:18:38,880 --> 00:18:41,480 Speaker 1: to say. I mean, you're not guess I gotta get 297 00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:49,040 Speaker 1: into these signs like a really crazy but I'm thinking 298 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:52,080 Speaker 1: this is freaking how much it applies sometimes honestly, really 299 00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:55,160 Speaker 1: like when I'm meeting somebody new, I go and check 300 00:18:55,240 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 1: up our zodia competibility. You don't Maybe that was as 301 00:19:00,720 --> 00:19:03,720 Speaker 1: know that, yeah, because if I would have known then 302 00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:07,320 Speaker 1: what I knew now about my lass relationship, My zodier 303 00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:10,000 Speaker 1: told me that it really wasn't gonna work out that well. 304 00:19:11,119 --> 00:19:15,240 Speaker 1: I was like, uh, Leo, oh yes, too cool. No, 305 00:19:15,359 --> 00:19:19,959 Speaker 1: that's too that's that's close. That's right there. I just 306 00:19:20,040 --> 00:19:22,760 Speaker 1: think that, um, all the Leos in my life are 307 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:26,480 Speaker 1: very um, they're around the same, and I think that 308 00:19:26,480 --> 00:19:30,120 Speaker 1: the personalities are very interesting of a leo, and it's 309 00:19:30,160 --> 00:19:32,320 Speaker 1: it's could be difficult, but you love them very much. 310 00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:36,520 Speaker 1: I love my interesting. That's that's what y'all. That's what y'all. 311 00:19:40,760 --> 00:19:47,040 Speaker 1: Just friends child a child? Oh good, louve is it? Dear? 312 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:55,160 Speaker 1: Is Nina is next week? It's like the Leo thing. 313 00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:58,720 Speaker 1: Is she kind of like like they say, um, strong minded, 314 00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:01,159 Speaker 1: doesn't like to be wrong, loves to give advice, but 315 00:20:01,200 --> 00:20:05,680 Speaker 1: not really take all those things. No, he's not like that. 316 00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:11,600 Speaker 1: That's because he likes Yeah, that's because Huck got that magic, 317 00:20:12,320 --> 00:20:17,439 Speaker 1: got that she got space. I'm going to say that 318 00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:22,320 Speaker 1: I finally have that magic finally. It's it's interesting when 319 00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:25,840 Speaker 1: you have something good to give, but you're just giving 320 00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:29,080 Speaker 1: it to the wrong person. Like I just I want 321 00:20:29,160 --> 00:20:32,160 Speaker 1: to encourage you to stay on course because I think 322 00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:36,160 Speaker 1: that you're absolutely wonderful. I do. I do you to, like, yeah, 323 00:20:36,520 --> 00:20:42,240 Speaker 1: stay on course. I'm just saying that it's it's it's 324 00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:44,760 Speaker 1: not the love that you're giving, it's the who you're 325 00:20:44,800 --> 00:20:48,280 Speaker 1: giving it to that that isn't working out just yet, 326 00:20:48,600 --> 00:20:52,000 Speaker 1: but that love is beautiful. So told tight and we 327 00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:55,280 Speaker 1: will and we do fight. We do fight, and I 328 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:58,680 Speaker 1: will fight. I will fight. I don't play that messing 329 00:20:58,760 --> 00:21:00,720 Speaker 1: part my people with the big all r it's okay, 330 00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:05,679 Speaker 1: then put these dudes, and my husband loves y'all. You 331 00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:08,600 Speaker 1: know he will fight this. I love y'all, dude. I 332 00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:11,960 Speaker 1: just know that. Well. I like what Jill said about 333 00:21:12,160 --> 00:21:14,639 Speaker 1: who you're giving it to. And also after you get 334 00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:18,000 Speaker 1: out these relationships, you also see where you went left 335 00:21:18,040 --> 00:21:23,160 Speaker 1: or right. You know. Um A damn show was not perfect. 336 00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:24,840 Speaker 1: But in the beginning, I don't even gonna lie. I 337 00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:26,840 Speaker 1: thought I was because I was just so ready to 338 00:21:27,040 --> 00:21:29,920 Speaker 1: love someone, not even someone, excuse me, I was ready 339 00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:33,400 Speaker 1: to love him, and I zoned in, I'm gonna love you. 340 00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:36,760 Speaker 1: I want to love you. Then after while, since he 341 00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:39,399 Speaker 1: wasn't giving it to me so easily, and by the 342 00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:41,840 Speaker 1: time he was ready to give me his love, my 343 00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:45,040 Speaker 1: feelings were different because I I felt like I chased 344 00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:52,679 Speaker 1: you so long. Should have been like, yeah, yeah, well, 345 00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:54,679 Speaker 1: let me just say this. Fine as your ass be 346 00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:59,240 Speaker 1: looking on the internet, upset your point. I'm in a 347 00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:05,320 Speaker 1: different like it's about titties to be out now. It 348 00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:08,040 Speaker 1: sounds a legs the show, it's time for weed, for 349 00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:11,480 Speaker 1: the booty or any like. It's it's a different sign 350 00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:13,520 Speaker 1: like now can we go to when can we go 351 00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:17,159 Speaker 1: to the hand with Tank? We could go to New 352 00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:21,359 Speaker 1: Orleans and hang with Tank. That thing has invited me 353 00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:23,399 Speaker 1: to New Orleans, like I can't even tell you how 354 00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:25,400 Speaker 1: many times. And I'm gonna say this, and every time 355 00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:27,960 Speaker 1: I'm in her city, I call her and I've never 356 00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:31,200 Speaker 1: been there. I'm never here, Mommy be working. I'm gonna 357 00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:34,000 Speaker 1: say this that I would love to come to New Orleans, 358 00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:38,040 Speaker 1: but um, I needed to not be the summer. Oh 359 00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:42,000 Speaker 1: that part. I love it so I like JC, so 360 00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:44,600 Speaker 1: I can handle the human asia. I'm from DC. That 361 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:51,760 Speaker 1: ship is another level. This summer wasn't that hot to me, 362 00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:55,239 Speaker 1: but almost every day and that was that was kind 363 00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:58,760 Speaker 1: of way. I'm gonna need to come in the winter, Okay, 364 00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:01,440 Speaker 1: I need to know when you're on. No, that's not 365 00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:07,560 Speaker 1: that's not at least like okay, but just not the 366 00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:14,560 Speaker 1: summer like that I was. I don't like being swoothy 367 00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:19,960 Speaker 1: like that with some citties. We don't like that sweat boobs. 368 00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:23,439 Speaker 1: I can't underneath them no more. You got to get 369 00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:27,080 Speaker 1: the organics you can. You can't even mess with regular 370 00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:28,720 Speaker 1: the older I got he use a spray deolder and 371 00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:30,480 Speaker 1: the older one't be a strong for me no more. 372 00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:35,320 Speaker 1: Because here's a tip. Here's an old school tip. I 373 00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:38,600 Speaker 1: don't know if you could find it, but tussy is 374 00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:42,560 Speaker 1: that work right around the one that memorial the tussy 375 00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:48,879 Speaker 1: around the busset. I want to go down the brothers 376 00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:52,639 Speaker 1: smelling like the ordering on not my friends, just to 377 00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:55,640 Speaker 1: put the older hell in the thighs. Me too, I 378 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:59,560 Speaker 1: did I did that too, yeah, especially in the when 379 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:02,240 Speaker 1: they let me. I know, it's a stupid question. I 380 00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:05,280 Speaker 1: know it's a silly question below now, please don't nobody 381 00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:13,040 Speaker 1: with me. Does certain deodorance cause cancer? Yeah? Aluminum aluminum, 382 00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:16,200 Speaker 1: aluminum one one aluminum, And they tell you to stay 383 00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:20,480 Speaker 1: away from the ones that say anti purse point the 384 00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:24,800 Speaker 1: stops you from persepiring, then it can be difficult for you. 385 00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:27,439 Speaker 1: And then you want something that that that helps you 386 00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:31,119 Speaker 1: to stay fresh whilst sweaty right, don't stop my sweat? 387 00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:33,800 Speaker 1: How you doing to stop the natural order of things? 388 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:36,960 Speaker 1: Or be prepared to wash? Several times in the course 389 00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:51,120 Speaker 1: of the days on here? I wonder where he was here? 390 00:24:55,080 --> 00:25:01,560 Speaker 1: I wonder what what do they thala? What are they? 391 00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:04,760 Speaker 1: What are they saying? I had a right make it 392 00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:08,000 Speaker 1: show making? Wen't only one? So for all of you 393 00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:10,280 Speaker 1: are who are lost. Right now, we're making a reference 394 00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:13,920 Speaker 1: to the hyenas and scar in. How many times you'll 395 00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:15,560 Speaker 1: watched that ship? I didn't see it three times. I 396 00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:17,560 Speaker 1: still don't know what y'all was talking. I've seen it 397 00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:22,720 Speaker 1: more than fifty times in my life. Pushed inside out 398 00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:26,239 Speaker 1: last night and it was just so good. You love it? 399 00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:33,560 Speaker 1: Feelings having feels it is my favorite, is my favorite 400 00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:38,639 Speaker 1: animated film ever made. I can't wait for Tank's new 401 00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:43,159 Speaker 1: animated film. Uh yeah, sure, I appreciate you speaking of 402 00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:45,000 Speaker 1: its existence. Yeah, that's what I'm doing. That's what i'm doing. 403 00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:46,560 Speaker 1: You see that. You see I did that. I'm just saying, 404 00:25:50,640 --> 00:26:04,080 Speaker 1: we'll be right back. It's a lot of things that 405 00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:07,280 Speaker 1: this that this Tank thing can do. I listen when 406 00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:08,960 Speaker 1: I when I really love you, I don't know, I 407 00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:11,240 Speaker 1: just call you a thing. It's always been a thing 408 00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:13,240 Speaker 1: that like people that I love, like, look at it, 409 00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:17,480 Speaker 1: look at that, look at this thing. You know, I 410 00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:20,120 Speaker 1: don't know. You send that to me in the comments 411 00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:22,280 Speaker 1: of my Instagram the other day and I just gritted 412 00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:24,639 Speaker 1: because I could hear your voice. I can't hear the 413 00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:27,560 Speaker 1: baby voice saying it. I'm just so glad that people 414 00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:30,479 Speaker 1: understand me a little bit when it comes to that, 415 00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:32,720 Speaker 1: because they're like, I'm not a thing. I'm like, oh, 416 00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:39,959 Speaker 1: it's over you, Like whatever, Sorry, I'm saying stuff different 417 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:42,040 Speaker 1: when I was in Indiana because when the storm head, 418 00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:44,320 Speaker 1: when I can't Contraine in here and my family moved 419 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:46,760 Speaker 1: to Indianapolis and in the walls with somebody tell a 420 00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:49,280 Speaker 1: joke or when they're funny, we'd be like, man, you're stupid. 421 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:51,280 Speaker 1: And there was not so I used to say that, 422 00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:56,880 Speaker 1: and there's like, I'm not stupid. Same. Oh it's over, Yeah, 423 00:26:56,920 --> 00:27:03,199 Speaker 1: it's it's over. It's over. And so enough, like you 424 00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:05,640 Speaker 1: don't feel my you don't feel my vibe on that thing, 425 00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:09,560 Speaker 1: Like I'm not trying to hurt you at all. You 426 00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:11,960 Speaker 1: didn't get the tone, you didn't pick up on the tone, 427 00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:15,080 Speaker 1: you didn't pick up in any of the context clues. Nothing, 428 00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:21,360 Speaker 1: nothing like I'm smiling. I mean it's coming from the inside. Huh. 429 00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:28,280 Speaker 1: Because you're so silly, right, not stupid? Right. They didn't 430 00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:31,720 Speaker 1: say you're so stupid, they say you're so silly, right. 431 00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:36,880 Speaker 1: Not experience in my life though, good experience, and didn't. 432 00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:39,240 Speaker 1: Let's help me come out of my shell and know 433 00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:41,640 Speaker 1: myself more because those New Orleans is the city west 434 00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:46,679 Speaker 1: all freedom, be yourself. That's not easy to be yourself 435 00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:49,440 Speaker 1: in New Orleans high schools, they talk about you, they'll 436 00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:52,600 Speaker 1: rip you. They got you know, every class whom got 437 00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:56,040 Speaker 1: their bullies. I hated bullies for real, for real. Still 438 00:27:57,320 --> 00:28:01,000 Speaker 1: still I don't even understand how people honestly can go 439 00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:04,040 Speaker 1: online and like unneed somebody picture just write like a 440 00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:07,280 Speaker 1: real mean comment, especially when they like to do it 441 00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:09,640 Speaker 1: just because you got a blue check as if you're 442 00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:12,919 Speaker 1: not like a regular person. They just I'm like, wow, y'all, 443 00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:16,240 Speaker 1: y'all really on one. So I don't like bullying. And 444 00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:18,800 Speaker 1: even when I was a teacher, and is zero tolerance 445 00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:20,720 Speaker 1: in my classroom for that, because I don't want nobody 446 00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:24,800 Speaker 1: feeling small or weird. I'm making them feel awkward. I 447 00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:34,240 Speaker 1: don't know what you teach like everything because all grades, 448 00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:39,480 Speaker 1: because what happened was they instead of getting substitute teachers, 449 00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:42,480 Speaker 1: they would let artists come into classrooms and make their 450 00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:47,560 Speaker 1: own lessons plans. So it was really special and um, 451 00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:49,920 Speaker 1: and so that means I was with all grades. Now 452 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:52,760 Speaker 1: what I like about the little kids. The little kids 453 00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:55,680 Speaker 1: have burst of energy and they're not ashamed and they 454 00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:58,000 Speaker 1: love you all day. But their attention span is really small. 455 00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:01,520 Speaker 1: But with the older kids, they understand my lessons, but 456 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:07,200 Speaker 1: they're too cool for school. They really jump in. Yeah, 457 00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:10,280 Speaker 1: I fIF guators are alive with where the state seven, 458 00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:13,120 Speaker 1: So I don't really mess with the figuators. Did so 459 00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:15,719 Speaker 1: my son teachers middle school right now, he is just 460 00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:19,920 Speaker 1: like mom, he said. I don't mean no harm, he said, 461 00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:24,280 Speaker 1: but middle school girls they think that they know ever 462 00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:28,360 Speaker 1: and they mean, they mean. I didn't know that girls 463 00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:31,760 Speaker 1: were mean and boys were sweet and sensitive and wanted 464 00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:37,720 Speaker 1: affection and girls were mean. I didn't know that. Yeah, yeah, 465 00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:41,720 Speaker 1: the boys own is tang, but get off me with 466 00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:47,440 Speaker 1: your student child like and the girl's being class just 467 00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:49,520 Speaker 1: just me, you know, Like I'm like, wow, I didn't 468 00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:52,840 Speaker 1: know that boys got their heartbroken and then they got 469 00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:56,320 Speaker 1: me and they are broken and they got sweet. I 470 00:29:56,360 --> 00:30:00,840 Speaker 1: didn't that also happened when there's a cute female teacher today, 471 00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:09,520 Speaker 1: like coming here, she comes getting all. You know, I 472 00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:13,000 Speaker 1: used to come with the fly close. You heard me. 473 00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:16,200 Speaker 1: We love no let me. I'm glad you brought that 474 00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:21,040 Speaker 1: up because I love your style everything, with your hands, 475 00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:24,720 Speaker 1: with your look, no fear. You don't have no fear. 476 00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:26,960 Speaker 1: That's what I love about it. It's just like it's 477 00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:30,800 Speaker 1: always one point. It's always pushing the AFLD like I 478 00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:37,560 Speaker 1: love it, and I didn't know it was responsible. Pretty. 479 00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:40,160 Speaker 1: I think my only fear is like, you know, like 480 00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:42,200 Speaker 1: falling on stage and even then I'm gonna have to 481 00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:51,080 Speaker 1: play at all to split. Yeah. I had been working 482 00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:54,360 Speaker 1: out a lot and then what these badass shoes and 483 00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:57,480 Speaker 1: I had managed to stay in the shoes the whole show, 484 00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:01,400 Speaker 1: and I was geeked about them shoes. And for some reason, 485 00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:05,080 Speaker 1: on my way out, on my way off the stage, 486 00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:12,000 Speaker 1: my leg was like bitch, and it just it just 487 00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:19,280 Speaker 1: down sheet up to humble. Remember did they see Oh yeah, 488 00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:21,880 Speaker 1: oh yeah, I felt. I felt pretty good. And then 489 00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:23,560 Speaker 1: all I could do was lift my legs in the 490 00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:30,680 Speaker 1: air to show my shoes. That's why that's who I 491 00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:33,800 Speaker 1: got a drum. I love it. I mean, you know, 492 00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:40,920 Speaker 1: I didn't exactly fall, but one of those wibble wobbles 493 00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:45,120 Speaker 1: that was so bad. I should have just felo drunk 494 00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:50,800 Speaker 1: it was. It was one of as yes, it really does, 495 00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:56,000 Speaker 1: and I should have just gone ahead and fell down, right. 496 00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:57,920 Speaker 1: So that's what I told about that. That's what I 497 00:31:57,920 --> 00:32:00,560 Speaker 1: told my mom about Beyonce. When Beyonce almost fell the 498 00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:03,920 Speaker 1: Super Bowl, my mama said, y'all, this is this is 499 00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:07,080 Speaker 1: my mama just showed me like the expectations of all 500 00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:08,800 Speaker 1: the street. I can't believe my mama said this. When 501 00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:13,160 Speaker 1: Beyonce almost felt, my mama said, and that quote, what 502 00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:18,680 Speaker 1: was that like? She's supposed to be perfect, I said, mother. 503 00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:24,760 Speaker 1: I said, first of all, she didn't fall. It's second 504 00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:28,840 Speaker 1: of all, that's a human up their mother. My mama 505 00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:33,000 Speaker 1: is Llari. And she still was like, I said what 506 00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:36,200 Speaker 1: I said, that's the expecting. I know somebody saying that 507 00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:39,800 Speaker 1: about her daughter somewhere, but I will say that I 508 00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:44,120 Speaker 1: used to run around stage a lot, but when I 509 00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:49,520 Speaker 1: did see Jail performed and let me know that I 510 00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:55,400 Speaker 1: can stand still and it's all good. Wow. Yeah, I 511 00:32:55,520 --> 00:32:59,480 Speaker 1: needed to to steady myself because I was running around 512 00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:02,320 Speaker 1: so much. Heard a recording to myself and I just 513 00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:05,800 Speaker 1: started crying because I was running around so much that 514 00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:09,960 Speaker 1: nobody even heard my voice. Because I'm so busy trying 515 00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:13,320 Speaker 1: to entertain you that you can't even hear the beauty 516 00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:17,600 Speaker 1: of my own voice. It's a beautiful thing. Let me 517 00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:24,280 Speaker 1: steady myself. You don't have to stay still. Yeah, but 518 00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:29,320 Speaker 1: I remember somebody saying that about sand about how Shand 519 00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:32,680 Speaker 1: would come out on stage and and literally stand in 520 00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:36,280 Speaker 1: one space and people would lose their minds as if 521 00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:40,280 Speaker 1: they was watching Michael Jackson do full on coreo, and 522 00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:42,560 Speaker 1: that it was like, you know, she could come out 523 00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:45,040 Speaker 1: there and she was standing there and it was like 524 00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:47,560 Speaker 1: she would just do a little bone with her hid, 525 00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:52,400 Speaker 1: you know, just move her body and the people would 526 00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:55,800 Speaker 1: just go and it would be like and it was. 527 00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:59,840 Speaker 1: It was like a masterclass on you know what you 528 00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:04,680 Speaker 1: bring people to. You bring people in and when you 529 00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:08,759 Speaker 1: first start performing and you first coming up, you're you're 530 00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:11,600 Speaker 1: not confident, and so you feel you have to win 531 00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:16,719 Speaker 1: over the audience instead of standing your but still like 532 00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:21,080 Speaker 1: you said, and grounding yourself in your gift and bringing 533 00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:24,920 Speaker 1: people into your gift. You know what I'm saying. And 534 00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:29,480 Speaker 1: I identify with that. And Jill is very good at this. 535 00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:35,799 Speaker 1: I ain never seen I never seen you, Doug Eyo. 536 00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:40,000 Speaker 1: I never saw her do it. It's more of a twerk, 537 00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:52,480 Speaker 1: but a little bit with the mic. You're not about 538 00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:56,960 Speaker 1: to with Na, She's gonna make get you a little microphone. Listen. 539 00:34:57,000 --> 00:35:00,600 Speaker 1: I'm smighter, guys. I'll tell you, I'll tell you million times. 540 00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:03,520 Speaker 1: I'm a writer. First and then the singing just happened 541 00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:06,759 Speaker 1: and I was like, Okay, y'all like that, Okay, you 542 00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:11,520 Speaker 1: like it, Okay it is with this. I'm just so 543 00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:14,879 Speaker 1: glad that people enjoy it. I'm like, oh great, let's 544 00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:17,320 Speaker 1: do it again. And this is fun to me, feels 545 00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:33,359 Speaker 1: so good. More real talk after the break. I want 546 00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:35,680 Speaker 1: to ask both of you you sang as a question. 547 00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:38,799 Speaker 1: I want to know if you're aware, because you know, y'all, 548 00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:41,279 Speaker 1: since you're blow up and you're so good, you got 549 00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:43,520 Speaker 1: your luck, and since I'm like, I don't think we're 550 00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:47,520 Speaker 1: blowing up yet and whatever, whatever, do y'all think that 551 00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:55,279 Speaker 1: y'all are already legends. I'm already you know. You know 552 00:35:55,840 --> 00:35:58,480 Speaker 1: I don't think so. No, But you know, people I 553 00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:02,440 Speaker 1: want to argue, I'm gonna let them say. Yeah, I'm 554 00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:06,560 Speaker 1: gonna let them. You know. I like to think of 555 00:36:06,600 --> 00:36:10,520 Speaker 1: it more of an O G G marks. I think 556 00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:13,000 Speaker 1: O G works for me, and and then I would 557 00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:17,360 Speaker 1: say also to legendary becomes a thing that always are 558 00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:22,360 Speaker 1: so subjective and that anybody could argue down for a 559 00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:25,120 Speaker 1: number of different things. And for me, I say, just 560 00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:28,520 Speaker 1: for me and for the team, because we haven't reached 561 00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:31,920 Speaker 1: that level to which it becomes like household name type 562 00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:35,000 Speaker 1: of thing. Or it's like I tell my children, it 563 00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:41,120 Speaker 1: means something to who it means something too. You know 564 00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:45,239 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, And that to me has been the 565 00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:48,400 Speaker 1: story of our career, is that we've come in contact 566 00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:51,640 Speaker 1: with some people in which it needs something to them, 567 00:36:52,000 --> 00:37:01,399 Speaker 1: like we've called okay, I thought, that's what I mean. 568 00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:06,200 Speaker 1: But we've come to this point where it's like, yes, 569 00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:08,680 Speaker 1: when you come in contact with somebody where it means 570 00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:13,400 Speaker 1: something to them, then that's the magic. That's that moment 571 00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:16,440 Speaker 1: where you understand, Okay, you did something that connected with 572 00:37:16,480 --> 00:37:20,799 Speaker 1: a person's actual life and that that that's No one 573 00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:24,200 Speaker 1: can take that from you. No one can extract that. 574 00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:27,480 Speaker 1: Nobody can tell you you didn't sell enough records. Nobody 575 00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:29,760 Speaker 1: can tell you you wasn't number one on the charts. 576 00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:34,200 Speaker 1: Nobody can't tell you nothing. Because that part, that moment, 577 00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:40,080 Speaker 1: that connection is that's legend. Like I made a difference, Mama, mama, 578 00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:42,719 Speaker 1: because my mom would be like, why isn't yell? But 579 00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:52,000 Speaker 1: when Walmart you just always get that question. Day. I mean, 580 00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:59,040 Speaker 1: Tank doing her thank with her little gigs, little I 581 00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:03,520 Speaker 1: don't ever say that to me again. This is my career, mom. 582 00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:06,680 Speaker 1: That's cute, baby, That's what I'm mad. That's what I'm mean, baby, 583 00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:10,160 Speaker 1: that's your little career. How's your little show going, little 584 00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:20,000 Speaker 1: cute little career? Game? People nominations and a gig? Okay, 585 00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:26,760 Speaker 1: it's not a game, honestly, Okay, here's here's my question 586 00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:30,800 Speaker 1: as a as a non twerker uh in in public. 587 00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:38,440 Speaker 1: My question is does that action actually translate to sex? 588 00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:43,839 Speaker 1: Can do? It? Doesn't? Doesn't translate in a good way 589 00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:47,480 Speaker 1: to say? I think I would like to ask somebody 590 00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:49,080 Speaker 1: like that who was what we call the New Orleans 591 00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:52,439 Speaker 1: a shaker. That's his girl in New Orleans that could 592 00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:56,080 Speaker 1: really shake Donovans go we'll get on builders with Freed 593 00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:59,920 Speaker 1: or she will climb up the wall. Seen I'm saying too. 594 00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:02,520 Speaker 1: And she's really good at it. And I would love 595 00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:04,719 Speaker 1: to know if she like brings that to her bear room, 596 00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:09,600 Speaker 1: because why wouldn't you. I'm just saying that since you 597 00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:13,879 Speaker 1: all do. I'm just asking does it doesn't? Does it translate? 598 00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:16,800 Speaker 1: Because I have done it on the like, I definitely 599 00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:19,239 Speaker 1: think it's a muscle memory thing. It may not be 600 00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:25,399 Speaker 1: as as as intense, it's the muscle memory I think 601 00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:30,840 Speaker 1: is there. But that's the only thing that has helped 602 00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:38,440 Speaker 1: me out in a bedroom Romo. It's squats. Squats have 603 00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:43,800 Speaker 1: made such a difference in my life that when I 604 00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:46,680 Speaker 1: was training with my trainer both flip him in New 605 00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:50,359 Speaker 1: Orleans and after these only that's that's his name, both 606 00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:53,160 Speaker 1: flipping and as he and as he and after I 607 00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:55,359 Speaker 1: was training in it for a while, and when I 608 00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:58,160 Speaker 1: was having a moment in my life of sexual behavior, 609 00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:01,120 Speaker 1: I was like, I start it laughing while I was 610 00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:02,720 Speaker 1: doing it, because I was like, oh this is different. 611 00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:05,759 Speaker 1: I can things I couldn't did before. And I just 612 00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:13,080 Speaker 1: started laughing and I was just go ahead, squats. So 613 00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:14,600 Speaker 1: I'm gonna give it. I go. I would give it 614 00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:18,160 Speaker 1: to squats. I swear I think it's all about listening. 615 00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:21,799 Speaker 1: Oh God, I swear. I swear it's like listening to 616 00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:23,920 Speaker 1: what your body is saying and what that thing saying. 617 00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:32,680 Speaker 1: And I swear it's about listening. Sorry, that's what I 618 00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:38,000 Speaker 1: think I do. I don't like to laugh. Oh there 619 00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:41,040 Speaker 1: you go. There you like that is So I'm gonna 620 00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:43,000 Speaker 1: talk about these things. Do we like for a man 621 00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:44,799 Speaker 1: to talk to us? Do you like a man talking? 622 00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:49,160 Speaker 1: Do you like a man? Mo hands? They're depending on 623 00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:53,239 Speaker 1: what's being said. The moan, yes, but the words not 624 00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:55,480 Speaker 1: call me daddy, of course when I say you call 625 00:40:55,560 --> 00:41:00,239 Speaker 1: me daddy. But how let me know how good it feels. 626 00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:03,040 Speaker 1: How I'm a giggler. So if it makes you laugh, 627 00:41:05,040 --> 00:41:09,279 Speaker 1: not doing the door, don't laugh you've been giggling door 628 00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:14,960 Speaker 1: the door, something chanting? If something is said that is funny. 629 00:41:15,120 --> 00:41:21,080 Speaker 1: Then I'm like, that's funny. That's ouse she don't get 630 00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:23,480 Speaker 1: somebody see take the thing about Asia sex stories. She 631 00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:24,960 Speaker 1: can't want to give us a little bit because we 632 00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:31,840 Speaker 1: know we know him time. But that's not the only 633 00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:35,319 Speaker 1: person that she has. You don't remember nobody else like 634 00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:44,840 Speaker 1: you don't remember baby Nigga said a dick got glasses 635 00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:50,640 Speaker 1: on it, just brind just before whatever was glasses just sunglasses. 636 00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:52,640 Speaker 1: Girl with the with the mirrors on the frost. Is 637 00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:55,160 Speaker 1: what happens when that man when you start talking about 638 00:41:55,280 --> 00:41:58,160 Speaker 1: sex and penis, I know you get excited, Yes, we 639 00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:02,400 Speaker 1: get excited that we're talking about I talking about this. 640 00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:04,520 Speaker 1: I don't know. I want to I want to know. 641 00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:06,120 Speaker 1: I want to know what y'all have to say, because 642 00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:09,200 Speaker 1: I am you know, I'm very interesting. Well, I mean, 643 00:42:09,239 --> 00:42:11,319 Speaker 1: I won't have to coach side what you'll said. There 644 00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:13,880 Speaker 1: is a little bit of a conversation that is happening 645 00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:21,120 Speaker 1: between two bodies. If you're listening, HALLELLEENJH. If you're stay 646 00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:26,319 Speaker 1: in tune with the conversation, all will come out of 647 00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:31,600 Speaker 1: the experience feeling extraordinary and and and it may not 648 00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:34,640 Speaker 1: be a pretty move that you make. It may not 649 00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:38,680 Speaker 1: be a gentle move that you make. But if you're listening, 650 00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:50,200 Speaker 1: if nobody and tell you that I'm looking better way 651 00:42:50,239 --> 00:42:55,640 Speaker 1: for the weekend, just send your thanking. Have I listened 652 00:42:55,640 --> 00:43:03,239 Speaker 1: to the biological song like the vox like least you have? 653 00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:05,120 Speaker 1: Because let mena say you something list the fruit, and 654 00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:08,080 Speaker 1: the vagina says the fruit of that labor is something day, 655 00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:11,200 Speaker 1: a very quiet or some good day. Sometimes the fruits 656 00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:17,040 Speaker 1: we're talking about. Yes, yes, we're specific about what you want. 657 00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:20,040 Speaker 1: Are you quiet and let him do it? Stay? Depends 658 00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:25,040 Speaker 1: sometimes yes, sometimes now turned into another episode. This is 659 00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:28,960 Speaker 1: a separate episode thanks to I'm here on the communication, 660 00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:32,120 Speaker 1: me too. I'm here for it though, let's go now 661 00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:33,759 Speaker 1: that's what I'm here for, like when it when it 662 00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:38,200 Speaker 1: comes to sex, like I need to so would you say? Well, 663 00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:40,160 Speaker 1: if you said that, then I'm gonna say this, And 664 00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:45,239 Speaker 1: now we're now we're saying stuff. Take y'alla. I think 665 00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:47,799 Speaker 1: I need some more things to say. Maybe you can 666 00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:52,480 Speaker 1: teach your class because I find that I get him 667 00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:56,880 Speaker 1: no pay and thanks to say do yeah, y'all should 668 00:43:57,440 --> 00:43:59,920 Speaker 1: because I get lost in something the same three rotatings 669 00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:05,960 Speaker 1: things Yeah yeah, I can't come on, y'all can embarrass him. 670 00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:08,520 Speaker 1: I'm just saying. I mean, I say some of the 671 00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:11,400 Speaker 1: same things. How good if it is yes, this ship is, 672 00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:14,560 Speaker 1: this ship feels yes, all of that amazing, you know, 673 00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:18,560 Speaker 1: like this thing like this is us? Right? Nothing else? 674 00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:21,560 Speaker 1: What some things that he should not say during sex? 675 00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:24,160 Speaker 1: What will completely turn you off? Oh? I know what? 676 00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:28,560 Speaker 1: Anything anything with daddy in it, anything with daddy in it. 677 00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:31,560 Speaker 1: Do Daddy's was there. That's why they turned you off 678 00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:36,319 Speaker 1: so much. I didn't know that was a thing. I 679 00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:41,600 Speaker 1: can't if your dad was there, you may not be 680 00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:46,200 Speaker 1: all about saying daddy. But I've let that slip before. 681 00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:49,040 Speaker 1: And that's also because my dad died before I could 682 00:44:49,040 --> 00:44:52,640 Speaker 1: even call him dad number one and number two because 683 00:44:52,640 --> 00:45:00,480 Speaker 1: he's kind of taken can right it? Ye, it's his 684 00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:05,480 Speaker 1: hand right here that you know, like and so. But 685 00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:08,400 Speaker 1: before that moment, I was like, it's like a SEPERVERTI 686 00:45:08,440 --> 00:45:12,120 Speaker 1: ship is that you don't want to slip off your tongue. 687 00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:16,720 Speaker 1: Now you know why? Now you know, well, maybe listen, 688 00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:19,560 Speaker 1: maybe I just haven't had that one right, that one 689 00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:25,239 Speaker 1: right in which it has it has. Look at Jill 690 00:45:25,280 --> 00:45:27,640 Speaker 1: remember her daddy her daddy moment as you. I'll see 691 00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:30,000 Speaker 1: you in your daddy moment. I don't let us slip 692 00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:32,920 Speaker 1: once she let us. Probably did let us slip, but 693 00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:35,879 Speaker 1: it's not a habit for me. I talk a lot 694 00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:39,239 Speaker 1: of ship. I believe. I believe you can make a 695 00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:41,719 Speaker 1: man orgasm. In fact, I know it's true by by 696 00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:44,480 Speaker 1: what you say. Give me one line, just give her 697 00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:45,680 Speaker 1: a work. Come on, just give us one. Come on, 698 00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:48,799 Speaker 1: come on. I can't do that. Just come on, just 699 00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:56,279 Speaker 1: I can't do in the sentence, y'all have y'all have 700 00:45:56,320 --> 00:45:58,600 Speaker 1: to tell me that one thing that a male say 701 00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:01,319 Speaker 1: in bad complete turn know. I had to. I had 702 00:46:01,360 --> 00:46:03,279 Speaker 1: to do giggle once and I was like, I'm done. 703 00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:09,440 Speaker 1: You couldn't do I didn't. I didn't appreciate that. I 704 00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:13,600 Speaker 1: wouldn't like that. Don't you stare? Yeah, we're in here, 705 00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:17,560 Speaker 1: but that's I think of the exact thing. I think. 706 00:46:17,600 --> 00:46:21,919 Speaker 1: It was like maybe something that was corny. Yes, that 707 00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:25,719 Speaker 1: was like it was corny. And I was like, I 708 00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:28,799 Speaker 1: don't really like my thing. Beat I don't like. I like. 709 00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:31,239 Speaker 1: I like to feel it like you can do it, 710 00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:33,080 Speaker 1: but I'd rather you not tell me you're about to 711 00:46:33,120 --> 00:46:35,239 Speaker 1: beat this ship? How bad you're about to beat it up. 712 00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:41,240 Speaker 1: I don't like. But Tina and I have this joke 713 00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:45,800 Speaker 1: about violent words and about how men always use words 714 00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:49,759 Speaker 1: that are synonymous with violence when they're talking about what 715 00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:52,440 Speaker 1: they feel to do or not they do it, Like 716 00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:56,279 Speaker 1: we had this whole conversation. Ever since then, it's like 717 00:46:56,320 --> 00:46:59,439 Speaker 1: a thing we laugh about. So yeah, it's absent from 718 00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:05,520 Speaker 1: intimacy that I love that. I don't like if someone 719 00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:12,040 Speaker 1: says something regarding children while we're doing that. What you mean, 720 00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:15,240 Speaker 1: what it's like, let me get you pregnant? Uh something 721 00:47:15,440 --> 00:47:19,879 Speaker 1: something like that, something like that, because when I think 722 00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:24,879 Speaker 1: of that, that instantly makes me think about responsibility. Yeah, 723 00:47:25,160 --> 00:47:29,880 Speaker 1: you might through you, right though, Like after this moment 724 00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:34,160 Speaker 1: over like what response a kid pampa's life just for 725 00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:37,719 Speaker 1: a little bit of fun, for a little bit of fun, 726 00:47:37,520 --> 00:47:42,200 Speaker 1: I did. I can recall one moment that that I 727 00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:45,160 Speaker 1: really did enjoy it. I said that I couldn't take it. 728 00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:49,160 Speaker 1: I was like, I can't, I can't take it all right, Yeah, 729 00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:52,600 Speaker 1: and since you're not take it because it was so 730 00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:57,200 Speaker 1: good it was it was touching places that I didn't 731 00:47:57,200 --> 00:48:01,920 Speaker 1: know to existed, Like you know that that that the blackout, 732 00:48:02,719 --> 00:48:06,319 Speaker 1: the blackout, like you consistently blackout like you come back 733 00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:13,800 Speaker 1: and then blackout again back. Never were like a death 734 00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:21,000 Speaker 1: not I do your blind well? Who put my titty 735 00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:30,600 Speaker 1: on the table right here? I I can't see you, guys. 736 00:48:30,680 --> 00:48:39,600 Speaker 1: I can't see like y'all wall But I heard love 737 00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:45,000 Speaker 1: take man, girl, I don't remember death, yo take. I 738 00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:46,799 Speaker 1: still want to ask you a question, but I don't 739 00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:48,279 Speaker 1: want to ask you to work. But I'm a whole fan, 740 00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:50,000 Speaker 1: so I'm gonna just ask you and I'm never gonna 741 00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:51,719 Speaker 1: I would never ask you to sing or anything like 742 00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:54,880 Speaker 1: that because that would just be rude. But because you 743 00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:57,360 Speaker 1: did not come to set up, it is. It is 744 00:48:57,400 --> 00:48:59,879 Speaker 1: a set up. I don't jill hat just I don't 745 00:48:59,840 --> 00:49:01,200 Speaker 1: care because I'm a FA and I'm I'm gonna do 746 00:49:01,239 --> 00:49:05,919 Speaker 1: something because you did not come to my city, book 747 00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:09,480 Speaker 1: whatever whichever. When I'm in Where's my Feeling l A? 748 00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:12,479 Speaker 1: When you I mean, I wentn't there at the time 749 00:49:12,600 --> 00:49:15,279 Speaker 1: d C came to Feeling and I came in the 750 00:49:15,360 --> 00:49:18,480 Speaker 1: DMV area. L A is my town, l A. That's 751 00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:20,840 Speaker 1: where I like, I don't know about it. We got 752 00:49:20,640 --> 00:49:22,959 Speaker 1: to play to get there, Okay, That's what I'm saying. 753 00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:25,239 Speaker 1: Is it is. I'm not I just curious about a 754 00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:28,000 Speaker 1: certain poem in this book, any poems in this book 755 00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:29,799 Speaker 1: that really pulled to your heart and may pull to 756 00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:31,919 Speaker 1: your heart today, where you might want to read us something. 757 00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:34,239 Speaker 1: I'm just asking. I don't know so long. The one 758 00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:38,560 Speaker 1: I like is like, but but I can't do survival. Guys, 759 00:49:38,800 --> 00:49:41,000 Speaker 1: do whatever, yes, please, whatever you feel like in your heart, 760 00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:43,719 Speaker 1: please please, please please. Okay, I'm gonna do son and 761 00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:47,880 Speaker 1: move folk. Yeah, that one is sweet. Okay, Um. I 762 00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:52,319 Speaker 1: used to call you son and I your moon. We 763 00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:55,840 Speaker 1: gave each other such important names so early in the day. 764 00:49:56,480 --> 00:49:59,440 Speaker 1: Maybe I can see why you turned the clips. I 765 00:49:59,520 --> 00:50:02,000 Speaker 1: never thought up at the names would become bigger than 766 00:50:02,040 --> 00:50:05,960 Speaker 1: the sky that carried them. I guess you. I didn't 767 00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:09,760 Speaker 1: want the responsibility of brightening my day in that way. 768 00:50:10,160 --> 00:50:12,759 Speaker 1: I didn't know you never wanted to glean like that. 769 00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:17,239 Speaker 1: But you should know I didn't call you son with 770 00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:21,319 Speaker 1: the intent for such a responsibility. I called your son 771 00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:28,839 Speaker 1: because when I saw you, I shot mm hmmm, I love. 772 00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:36,399 Speaker 1: This is a very horny episode the heart. I'm kind 773 00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:41,120 Speaker 1: of squiggling around in the journey. Y'all already know. If 774 00:50:41,160 --> 00:50:43,160 Speaker 1: I got the phone with y'all do a little writing session. 775 00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:52,440 Speaker 1: You know, may call somebody yelled, maybe it's wrighting. Yeah, well, Tank, 776 00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:55,080 Speaker 1: you have to, you have to. Didn't fill me in 777 00:50:55,160 --> 00:50:58,359 Speaker 1: on some things, my friends. I thought I did last 778 00:50:58,400 --> 00:50:59,799 Speaker 1: time I was on the phone with you, but you 779 00:50:59,840 --> 00:51:02,719 Speaker 1: know you had your baby on the speaker phone. I 780 00:51:02,920 --> 00:51:06,759 Speaker 1: told you something you did, but I didn't know. You know, 781 00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:10,840 Speaker 1: I didn't know that the transactions. Yes, you told me 782 00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:13,400 Speaker 1: something very important, and I don't mind repeating it to nobody. 783 00:51:13,800 --> 00:51:17,040 Speaker 1: She told me make sure you get an HRV test. Yes, 784 00:51:17,080 --> 00:51:20,400 Speaker 1: I did, to make sure that if you get involved 785 00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:23,279 Speaker 1: with anybody in any way that you're just protected and 786 00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:25,400 Speaker 1: use know your status, they know their status, and I 787 00:51:25,440 --> 00:51:29,520 Speaker 1: do think that's very important. So black so strong and 788 00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:33,600 Speaker 1: we're so immune. We are not That slavery mentality of 789 00:51:33,640 --> 00:51:36,839 Speaker 1: us believing we're stronger than everybody else is a freaking myth. 790 00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:40,279 Speaker 1: We got the same, we opened everything. It's like everybody else. 791 00:51:40,800 --> 00:51:43,359 Speaker 1: So I respected the advice, and I already even had 792 00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:46,840 Speaker 1: it in my mind. That's good. Hope you got that 793 00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:48,400 Speaker 1: COVID test on his way out to you might as 794 00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:50,839 Speaker 1: well get they got that one. You get to get 795 00:51:50,880 --> 00:51:55,640 Speaker 1: that wall grade to test up, test up, tot upest up, stop, 796 00:51:55,960 --> 00:51:58,759 Speaker 1: stop to listen. I love y'all, but I'm hungry and 797 00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:03,480 Speaker 1: my soul on for total levels. Yeah, I understand. I 798 00:52:03,520 --> 00:52:05,400 Speaker 1: was away for the weekend. I did get a chance 799 00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:10,200 Speaker 1: to see Usher perform in Vegas, and that was that 800 00:52:10,280 --> 00:52:13,760 Speaker 1: was quite the avowal. He still looked like a baby. 801 00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:19,839 Speaker 1: Listen what he does. He's like, call me a man. Yes, 802 00:52:20,040 --> 00:52:23,120 Speaker 1: he looks good. He still looks like he looks good. Yeah. 803 00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:27,200 Speaker 1: I like this. He's gotten a little man weight. He's 804 00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:31,279 Speaker 1: got a little man on him. Now. I put a 805 00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:33,080 Speaker 1: little man weight on you when he was real skinny. 806 00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:36,000 Speaker 1: I like that. I like that. You can tell it's 807 00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:39,239 Speaker 1: a it's a man weight on that. Now, that's real nice. 808 00:52:41,440 --> 00:52:45,080 Speaker 1: Bless him. All right, I'm gonna go and be such 809 00:52:45,120 --> 00:52:48,880 Speaker 1: a good kisser. I'll tell you later. Thank you everybody 810 00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:52,240 Speaker 1: for listening to Jay dot Ilda podcast. It is always 811 00:52:52,239 --> 00:52:56,680 Speaker 1: a pleasure. Thank you too. I love you. I love you'all. 812 00:52:56,680 --> 00:52:59,760 Speaker 1: I'm so happy I talked to you all the day. 813 00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:27,239 Speaker 1: Get it hi. 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