WEBVTT - Nancy Grace Full Interview

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<v Speaker 1>award winning legal journalists, Victims Right Advocate, and the New

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<v Speaker 1>York Times best selling Arthur four books. She was the

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<v Speaker 1>force behind CNN Headline News to operated Nancy Grace. She

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<v Speaker 1>which was renewed for a second season. She's the found

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<v Speaker 1>and publisher of Crime online dot Com, a digital platform

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<v Speaker 1>that investigates breaking crime news, highlights miss in people, and

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<v Speaker 1>help solve unsolved homicides. The iconic legal commentator and TV

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<v Speaker 1>journalist is on the show today to discuss her new book,

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<v Speaker 1>Don't Be a Victim, Fighting back against America's crime Wave,

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<v Speaker 1>Please Work with the money making Conversations a true crime

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<v Speaker 1>fighter Nancy Grace. Wow, that was some intro. I'm very flattered,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm also very honored today on with you, and

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for inviting me. Well, thank you for coming

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<v Speaker 1>on the show. Because I have a twenty three yeard

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<v Speaker 1>daughter and and i've and so I raised her in

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<v Speaker 1>the Nancy Grace era. Okay, watching you taking that advice,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, And my wife always say, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, look, look we're not gonna do it in

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<v Speaker 1>the Nacey aggressive, we shouldn't do that. And so when

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<v Speaker 1>I when I got to this book, it was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like a journey down memory lane for me and

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<v Speaker 1>watching your career because you've always been open, You've always

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<v Speaker 1>been honest about your passion for making sure we don't

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<v Speaker 1>make the mistake or even the mistake that you have made,

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<v Speaker 1>because you've told us you've made mistakes, and people around

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<v Speaker 1>you have made mistake. What was the what was the

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<v Speaker 1>core reason for writing this particular book. You know, um,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a really good question. I'll tell you why. Because

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<v Speaker 1>I want to change the world. I want to make

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<v Speaker 1>a difference. And yes, trying to find missing people, especially children,

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<v Speaker 1>trying to solve unsolved phramicides, trying to figure out cold cases,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess that does make a difference. But you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>I was used to getting immediate gratification when I tried cases.

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<v Speaker 1>I would work, work, work, just beat the streets to

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<v Speaker 1>get all the witnesses, all the information, all the evidence,

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<v Speaker 1>like too, take it to jury, and by the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the trial, be it three days or three weeks

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<v Speaker 1>or three months, I'd have an answer, right m h.

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<v Speaker 1>Not so when you're on TV, not so when you're

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<v Speaker 1>on radio, not so when you're writing articles for your website.

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<v Speaker 1>You never really really know if you have an impact.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to do more. Therefore, I wanted to take

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<v Speaker 1>all those years of investigating, all those years of covering

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<v Speaker 1>cases and try to make a difference. And that's what

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<v Speaker 1>I did with the book. And you really did. You

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<v Speaker 1>really did. And the sad part because you documented the

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<v Speaker 1>book with actual stories. And the reason I like that

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<v Speaker 1>is because a lot of people you give people advice

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<v Speaker 1>and they kind of blow you off. I'm just not

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<v Speaker 1>saying you, I'm just sending in general, you can hold

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<v Speaker 1>up before you blow me off. And reading this book,

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<v Speaker 1>here's a true story, and this is what happened to

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<v Speaker 1>these people. And I think that was really key strategy

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<v Speaker 1>and putting together this book. Correct, Oh, it really is here.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's the thing. Um. You know, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>you noticed this, but did you notice that christ always

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<v Speaker 1>talked in parable? You know why? Because I can understand them,

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<v Speaker 1>even me, I get it. I may not understand what

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<v Speaker 1>he was saying, but if it weren't for those parable,

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<v Speaker 1>but I would try to explain the law to a jury,

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<v Speaker 1>I would use it examples. For instance, when I explained

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<v Speaker 1>circumstantial events, I would say, you go in your office

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<v Speaker 1>building building. It's bright and bright and shiny outside. But

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<v Speaker 1>by the end of the day, by the time you

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<v Speaker 1>come out of your building, you see women rushing by,

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<v Speaker 1>hugging their raincoats to their chest. You see people running

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<v Speaker 1>by with umbrellas. You notice pools of water on the sidewalk.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't have to see the storm to know that

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<v Speaker 1>it rained. That's a circumstantial evidence Okay, So when I

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<v Speaker 1>started writing the book, I thought, how can I explain

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<v Speaker 1>and help people based on what I've learned through all

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<v Speaker 1>the cases I prosecuted, all the cases I've covered. The

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<v Speaker 1>only way is to give an example. You really and

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<v Speaker 1>they were really good about. The sad part about it

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<v Speaker 1>is that this is just a few of many stories

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<v Speaker 1>you could have put in the book. That's the really

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<v Speaker 1>tragic part about this is that this was not like

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<v Speaker 1>a rare These are not rare stories. These are stories

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<v Speaker 1>that you chose that you could. You can you can consolidate,

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<v Speaker 1>get to the beginning middle of in real fast. But

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<v Speaker 1>there's so many stories out there that could have filled

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<v Speaker 1>these pages. And there's a wonderful read. I'm talking to

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<v Speaker 1>Nancy Grace. He's on the show talking about her new book,

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<v Speaker 1>Fantastic Book. It officially comes out September twenty second, but

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<v Speaker 1>you can buy the book early. That's what we're doing

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<v Speaker 1>this show. We promote early. Go out there and pre

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<v Speaker 1>purchased the book. So when could be number one for

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<v Speaker 1>I have a book number one on number one for

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<v Speaker 1>New York Times bestseller, Don't Be a Victim Fighting Back

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<v Speaker 1>against America's crime waves. Some book don't be a victim

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<v Speaker 1>fighting back against America's crime. Way. Here's something they want

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you something else, Mom, I wanna tell you

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<v Speaker 1>something else, something funny, and something calling. Yet, when you

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<v Speaker 1>were saying all this is based on so many true stories,

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<v Speaker 1>and that there were so many more I could have

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<v Speaker 1>put in there, this is this is a funny anecdote.

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<v Speaker 1>When I was writing the book, I remember all those

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<v Speaker 1>nights in the dark studio, I would say, so and

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<v Speaker 1>so's missing. We're on the lookout for let me just

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<v Speaker 1>say a blue hunt day. We're all lookout for of

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<v Speaker 1>white many fans. But I had so many examples writing

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<v Speaker 1>the book that they finally said, hey, you've got you've

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<v Speaker 1>got too many examples. We're gonna have to cull it back.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, We're gonna have to do volume two. So

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<v Speaker 1>I actually have to cut out examples because there were

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<v Speaker 1>so many examples, and also a real reason I want

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<v Speaker 1>and hope people do pre order the book because not

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<v Speaker 1>only is it a testament for people like your twenty

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<v Speaker 1>three year old daughter about how to live pre but say,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like rules put on me, but I want

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<v Speaker 1>my daughter to be safe too. But I'm donating money

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<v Speaker 1>to help find missing children out of the proceeds of

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<v Speaker 1>this book, and I just want that out there. Well

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<v Speaker 1>it was now might help promote that because of the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that because like I when I said in your intro,

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<v Speaker 1>you're a true crime fighter and this book is about

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<v Speaker 1>it's about this books Like to me, I'm just saying

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<v Speaker 1>that this just use the word bible of information that

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<v Speaker 1>you give this You go from cruise ships to r vs,

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<v Speaker 1>two hotels, to two schools, to two jobs, to getting

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<v Speaker 1>on the elevator. It was just it was just a

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<v Speaker 1>voluble information going Wow, she's gonna cover this too, She's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna cover this too. But I want to just lighten

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<v Speaker 1>up the story a little before we get deeper by

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<v Speaker 1>you have twins and then reading this book John David.

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<v Speaker 1>John David is gonna give you a heart attack. He's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna give your heart It started in the drug store

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<v Speaker 1>when he went into the toy section, and then he

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<v Speaker 1>was reading Nicholas of All the Online Predator, and then

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<v Speaker 1>on the cream ship when he left and he was

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<v Speaker 1>running out dragging little Lucy round that cruise ship trying

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<v Speaker 1>to find that boy. That boy is going to be

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<v Speaker 1>the death of you. Nancy, Greg I'm always dragging Lucy

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<v Speaker 1>to find John David. But yet I telled John David,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna say, you put that on my grade's Lucy.

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<v Speaker 1>I've always say where's Lucy? But John David is really

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<v Speaker 1>the one at least on all these wild juice chases.

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<v Speaker 1>And yes, I use them, and honey, I watched them

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<v Speaker 1>like a hawk. I try not to let them know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, hey, mom, is that a n an Account'm

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<v Speaker 1>like no, yeah. I laughed so hard because because I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, that's me, that's me with my little daughter.

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<v Speaker 1>My wife would say, you're just so parao. Because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the interesting thing about it, Nancy, is that, see, we

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<v Speaker 1>are in the media. You know, I'm in the media

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<v Speaker 1>just like you, but not as detail because you're in

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<v Speaker 1>the crime fighting. You get information I don't get. But

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<v Speaker 1>we're still aware and that awareness can I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>use word parent and paranoid, but it does make us

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<v Speaker 1>aware that, okay, that could actually happen, and so we

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<v Speaker 1>see things differently. We approached bully situation a little bit early,

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit more aggressive. If we see it happening,

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<v Speaker 1>We're just not gonna let this play out. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>nip this in the bud right now, and you talk

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<v Speaker 1>about that in the book, and so it's really important

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<v Speaker 1>with it when you when I when I promote the

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<v Speaker 1>people to buy this book, because like I said, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a safety safety book, I'm gonna buy this book and

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<v Speaker 1>have my twenty three year old daughter read it because

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<v Speaker 1>it's not just about school age kids. It's about life,

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<v Speaker 1>going to the malls, walking into parks, going to stand

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<v Speaker 1>in hotels, going on results cruise ships, all this information.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you, first of all, this is a TV show,

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, how did you managed to pull all

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<v Speaker 1>these information together without losing your mind? Nancy? Well, some

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<v Speaker 1>whould argue I have lost my mind, but I always

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<v Speaker 1>say I'm not paranoid that people are trying to hurt

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<v Speaker 1>my children. Absolutely they are. They are, and they're not

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<v Speaker 1>charging just my children. They're targeting any child. And here's

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<v Speaker 1>the kicker. By the time someone is caught and apprehended,

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<v Speaker 1>the child lost station, they have molested literally hundreds of times.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how prevalent it is. And these people, it's not

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<v Speaker 1>some prov at the edge of the park in a raincoat.

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<v Speaker 1>It's people that you come in contact with at your church,

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<v Speaker 1>at your Scout ship, but here and there, how I

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<v Speaker 1>need to When my twins got into Scouts, you know

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<v Speaker 1>I had to become a volunteer and go and camp

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<v Speaker 1>with them at Scout camp to make sure nothing happened.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm happy to report that the Scouts or some of

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<v Speaker 1>the greatest people I've ever met. And maybe next year

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<v Speaker 1>I'll let them go without mommy camping in a tent

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<v Speaker 1>twenty feet away. Yes, yes, I know what you're thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>but I did it. And not only that, I made

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<v Speaker 1>my husband, who's to work on all it like you

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<v Speaker 1>take off work for a week and also dough. So yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it may sound paranoid to some people, but like you

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<v Speaker 1>and me, we read it every day and I react

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't want these things to happen to other people.

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<v Speaker 1>How many times have I left a victims home because

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't just meet him at the courthouse.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to go to their home. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>see who they live. I want to sit down and

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<v Speaker 1>talk to them. I want to look at the baby

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<v Speaker 1>photo albums. I want to know it all. And I

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<v Speaker 1>walk out of that home and I feel the weight

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<v Speaker 1>of the world on me, trying to figure out how

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<v Speaker 1>can I help this family. All I could do then

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<v Speaker 1>was to get a true vertict in court to give

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<v Speaker 1>them some sense of judice. But now with this book,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I can't present them from ever being a victims.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's really important. And you said something about camp

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<v Speaker 1>and uh when in the middle of a pandemic, as

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<v Speaker 1>this interview is happening, and you created a downloadable chapter

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<v Speaker 1>and you said it's free. Correct, they can download coronavirus crops.

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<v Speaker 1>How could I thank you? First of all, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>because this is not something that kind of like a throwaway.

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<v Speaker 1>This is very detailed that she's provided to us, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's a testament to your personality. That's a testament to

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<v Speaker 1>what you're trying to do for us. And before you

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<v Speaker 1>get in detail, I don't want to miss and say

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<v Speaker 1>because I read it, and I read that I way,

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<v Speaker 1>because I do a lot of COVID Nateen interviews. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like a pandemic expert when it comes to

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<v Speaker 1>the COVID Nateen, the cares Act and the family response acting.

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<v Speaker 1>So I know when I read stuff, I go, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>she put some time into this and it's free. So

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<v Speaker 1>but but with with that being said, it there is

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<v Speaker 1>a need for it and tell us, tell us everybody

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<v Speaker 1>why there's an important need to they download this bonus

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<v Speaker 1>chapter that's free. Yeah, it is free, and you can

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<v Speaker 1>find it at crime online dot com. You can find

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<v Speaker 1>it on dr Oz's site. You can find that at

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<v Speaker 1>has Shad, the book publishing site for free. Because I

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<v Speaker 1>had just turned the book into the publisher and it

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<v Speaker 1>was a long time researching and writing that book. I

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<v Speaker 1>do my own research. I write it myself and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have a ghostwriter. I write it um. Then after

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<v Speaker 1>I did that, I started audio recording and I did

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<v Speaker 1>my own audio recording of it too. Then COVID broke out.

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<v Speaker 1>COVID broke out, The book had already gone to publishers,

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought, I want this out now. I can't

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<v Speaker 1>wait for the book to come out in September. COVID's

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<v Speaker 1>happening now. So I got busy. I rewrote another. I've

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<v Speaker 1>got a thirty page chapter, very detailed about COVID crimes.

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<v Speaker 1>So not only are people fighting for their lives, losing

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<v Speaker 1>their jobs, worrying about their families, Who's gonna catch COVID?

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<v Speaker 1>Your children? Then I go send them back in school.

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<v Speaker 1>What's gonna happen. Not only have to worry about that,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to worry about COVID crimes, people taking advantage

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<v Speaker 1>of other people during the COVID pandemic, which I think

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<v Speaker 1>is the worst of the worst. It really is. And

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<v Speaker 1>I because like I said, I'm out tell on the media,

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<v Speaker 1>they asked me for my advice, and I talked about

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<v Speaker 1>the pandemic. And it's really sad when we have what's

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<v Speaker 1>happening right now with the checks to maybe ending this

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<v Speaker 1>week until the Congress is size to uh do stimulus

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<v Speaker 1>package too. But the details of this book, of this

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<v Speaker 1>downloadable chapter are incredible. You talk about door to door coronavirus,

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<v Speaker 1>text fraud store's. You mentioned Jim Baker paraal pirates while

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<v Speaker 1>robo called for coronavirus. Because we don't know, we don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, there's no cure. I was talking to my wife,

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<v Speaker 1>I was saying, I will tell us that there really

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<v Speaker 1>isn't a cute. And so when people go in to hospital,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, they're really like just trying to sustain themselves

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<v Speaker 1>and survive the process because technically there isn't a vaccine

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<v Speaker 1>or a like some like Nike wail you can give

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<v Speaker 1>somebody if they got the cold of the flu. They

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<v Speaker 1>have nothing like that. And so this book is kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like to me, the night Quill for us to

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<v Speaker 1>avoid issues out there when it comes to coronavirus crime,

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<v Speaker 1>not that door to door the fraudsters. There were some

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<v Speaker 1>things in here that that just really blew me away.

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<v Speaker 1>The perel pirates. Can you go in detail about that? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>my stars, the purell pirates, what they did and they're

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<v Speaker 1>more like them. There was a big run on purel

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<v Speaker 1>face maths, of course, paper towels and troilet papers that

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<v Speaker 1>I can't address that they did not take toroilet paper

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<v Speaker 1>in law school. But I can tell you this much.

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<v Speaker 1>These guys and others like them would go buy up

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<v Speaker 1>all the purell at all the dollars or dollar generals,

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<v Speaker 1>grocery stores hoarded, and then sell it for hundreds of dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>And you also have to watch out for fake purel

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<v Speaker 1>purell that doesn't meet the right standards to do any good.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you've got actually toxic purel is happening. Now, it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's not Purel, that's your name brand. That's toxic.

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<v Speaker 1>Hand sanitizer. Purell is not toxic, but all types of

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<v Speaker 1>scams are happening. Now looks like correl, you know, it

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<v Speaker 1>kind of looks like lysol, but it's not got the

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<v Speaker 1>color stone. You know, all the schemes are close, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's not. It just enough to make total fakery, total fakery.

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<v Speaker 1>And another thing that really got off with me is

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<v Speaker 1>when Jim Baker had that effort on his show. And

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's bad enough, but when you profess to

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<v Speaker 1>Are really appreciate that. Well, thank you. Like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a fan of you. And because I know you

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<v Speaker 1>see that. The people don't understand this because there's so

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<v Speaker 1>much weight that's carried on your shoulders, because of the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that people sometimes expect miracles. Sometimes people come to

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<v Speaker 1>you hoping that you can find their child and find

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<v Speaker 1>or solve a crime that's a cold crime, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of way because guess what, you can only

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<v Speaker 1>do so much. And but that means you wake up

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<v Speaker 1>the next day feeling any better because you could you

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<v Speaker 1>did resource of it, or you didn't solve it. But

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<v Speaker 1>that's what this book is about. This this book that

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<v Speaker 1>you have. Don't be a victim. You know you have it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's broken down into parts like how do I protect

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<v Speaker 1>my child, which which we knew was gonna be in there.

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<v Speaker 1>Then it goes to protecting yourself. That part right there

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<v Speaker 1>was a phenomenal section for me. That's part two, and

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<v Speaker 1>then part three, travel safe, don't be a statistic, and

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<v Speaker 1>then the part five protecting our Elderly. Of all these

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<v Speaker 1>parts in the book, what was the most most emotionally

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<v Speaker 1>charged for you? I know you have the twins, so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure that you know protecting your child had a

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<v Speaker 1>personal calling for you. But when I saw that protecting

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<v Speaker 1>our elderly at the end, that kind of like made

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<v Speaker 1>me sit up in my chair, going wow, I never

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<v Speaker 1>even thought about this. Talk to me, Nancy, Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta tell you something in addition to the twins now,

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<v Speaker 1>because my father went to heaven, he was my soul mate.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't tell my husband. My mom has been living with us,

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<v Speaker 1>and she is certainly a handful um. But I think

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<v Speaker 1>about her as you know, fight you somebody can be

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<v Speaker 1>at eighty nine years old. She is, But I think

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<v Speaker 1>of someone trying to take advantage of her or hurt

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<v Speaker 1>her or scam her. And it's happened. She has been

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<v Speaker 1>scammed online and it just you know, how low can

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<v Speaker 1>you go to attack or scam? And a little old lady,

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<v Speaker 1>a little old man. I mean, how could you. But

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<v Speaker 1>people they're like, um, you know in the jungle, they

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<v Speaker 1>see the weakest person, a child or the elderly, or

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<v Speaker 1>that's who they target. So that's how that got anybody.

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<v Speaker 1>Gotta tell you something, what really gets to me? What?

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<v Speaker 1>What was the most poignant part of the book was

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a crime victim. My fiance was martyred shortly before

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<v Speaker 1>our wedding and it changed my life. His life ended

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<v Speaker 1>and my world exploded. But little known it took me

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<v Speaker 1>over twenty years after Keith's murder to try again, and

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<v Speaker 1>I married David. But then when I had the twins,

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<v Speaker 1>it was like my life changed again and I finally

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<v Speaker 1>really out like I could rust something, and if anything

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<v Speaker 1>ever happened to them, I really don't think I could

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<v Speaker 1>stand it. And other mothers and fathers feel the same way.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I write each one of these stories, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't help it. I think about them, and that is

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<v Speaker 1>what I would this book. Even writing it got me

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<v Speaker 1>so upset. I remembered all these parents, all these families,

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<v Speaker 1>all these victims, families that I would talk to over

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<v Speaker 1>the course of this time, and it really, really brought

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<v Speaker 1>my heart, but I know it's a story that has

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<v Speaker 1>to be told. You know, here's the fifth of stat

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<v Speaker 1>that came out of me. You know, you you know

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<v Speaker 1>the thing about this book is it has it filled

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<v Speaker 1>with so many stads, so many pointed stories, so many

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<v Speaker 1>relatible information. I was just going to share some of

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<v Speaker 1>the things, but she comes out of the very top

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<v Speaker 1>in the chapter how do I Protect my child? Nearly

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<v Speaker 1>child kidnappings are related to schools, bus stops, and school routes.

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<v Speaker 1>That were scared me because reaching to scared me because

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that when you're when your childhood school, you

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<v Speaker 1>feel your childhood school. Uh, your child going to the

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<v Speaker 1>bus stop, you could have walked your child to the

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<v Speaker 1>bus stop. I've been I've been there to walk to

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<v Speaker 1>your child from the bus stop. And seeing your child

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<v Speaker 1>go to on a school route the same thing. So

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<v Speaker 1>these things right here the frustrating part of about it.

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<v Speaker 1>They can leave a parent if they become a victim,

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<v Speaker 1>into a long series of what else? And that's the

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<v Speaker 1>tragic part about these timelines. Correct, Oh, it really is.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I tell you how up into the twins school?

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<v Speaker 1>I am, I take them I take them up, Uh

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<v Speaker 1>drive through there at different times of the day, throughout

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<v Speaker 1>the week, out in the car and about Oh yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I am all up in it. I know exactly where

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<v Speaker 1>their classes are, which window goes to them, the works.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it may sound a little bit overboard to

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people, but after doing what I do

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<v Speaker 1>from my whole legal career, it's the least I can

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<v Speaker 1>do to try to keep tabs on them and keep

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<v Speaker 1>them safe. Well, you know, I wanted just that's why

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to bring the book into the frame and say,

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<v Speaker 1>because you said doing what you do this book, because

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<v Speaker 1>you know, this book is about every for everybody, every regular,

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<v Speaker 1>every parent or anybody who's not a parent, If you

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<v Speaker 1>live in a teenage life, who going to college, if

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<v Speaker 1>you you're a young person who's about to start their

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<v Speaker 1>professional life, this book has a section in it that

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<v Speaker 1>you should read. That's how important this book is. And

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<v Speaker 1>more importantly about this book is that she shines a

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<v Speaker 1>light on don't create conference zone for yourself. Or you

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<v Speaker 1>feel it's all right, you can drop your guard because

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<v Speaker 1>she mentions, you know, especially in kids, where attack can

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<v Speaker 1>happen in brand name places like McDonald's, not like Chick

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<v Speaker 1>fil a, not that she's trying to shine a negative

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<v Speaker 1>light on it. She's just letting you know that in

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<v Speaker 1>this world that we live in, you cannot be comfortable,

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<v Speaker 1>especially with your children, especially with yourself. When you at

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<v Speaker 1>a fancy, high faluting mall and you think, hey, crime,

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<v Speaker 1>it never happened over here. Well, you don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>be the person that the crime happens to because you

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<v Speaker 1>decided to drop your car. That was a story that

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<v Speaker 1>you resonated throughout the each page, and it came across

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<v Speaker 1>very loud and clear, and I and I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for doing that because that was important to me,

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<v Speaker 1>because I said, let me, let me, let me look

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<v Speaker 1>up a couple of names, just to see if they

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<v Speaker 1>reel and that read about the little girl Nicole, the

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<v Speaker 1>thirteen year old old girl Colde and Natalie keepers the

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<v Speaker 1>little track storeboard David Eisenhower. I went, wow, these stories

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<v Speaker 1>what you're talking about? She was just keep keep keep,

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<v Speaker 1>and she had lifted so much statistically medically she shouldn't lift.

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<v Speaker 1>She did. And then just as she's turning into a

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<v Speaker 1>team everything's going good, she meets up with I believe

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<v Speaker 1>the same was doctor death online. Yes named David Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and Nalie Capers his girlfriend, and um, she thought she

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<v Speaker 1>the little girl thought she had a boyfriend. And this

0:27:14.119 --> 0:27:18.520
<v Speaker 1>was a grown man in college and he did not

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<v Speaker 1>want anyone to find out about this sex relationship. So

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<v Speaker 1>he killed a little girl. He killed her, and that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you didn't agree. Now that's the chapter where

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<v Speaker 1>you know that we talked about the cyber threats with

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<v Speaker 1>little little John David and Nicholas of our story where

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<v Speaker 1>you had to follow him in the room and look

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<v Speaker 1>over his shoulder and he Mommy, don't be looking over

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<v Speaker 1>my show you will m this, Nancy Grace, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>your mom what you what you read in their phone?

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<v Speaker 1>And that's what we have to do with our kids.

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<v Speaker 1>We have to evade their privacies sometimes, Miss Grace. Let

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<v Speaker 1>me tell you what happened the other day. We're all

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<v Speaker 1>anti camping, we're all about and like my my daughter Lucy,

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<v Speaker 1>I told you she's a scout. I don't mean to

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<v Speaker 1>kind of go out and old cookies. She goes out

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<v Speaker 1>in camp. You can pitch a tent, you can start

0:28:03.680 --> 0:28:08.120
<v Speaker 1>a fire, no works. So anyway, even now I'm on

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<v Speaker 1>John David. That's what he has done. He has set

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<v Speaker 1>up his camping. He has set up his camping tent

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<v Speaker 1>in his bedroom and he will get in it and

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<v Speaker 1>watch his screen from the hammock. So I can't see

0:28:23.960 --> 0:28:26.960
<v Speaker 1>what he's watching. So long story short, I said, what

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<v Speaker 1>do you watch his son? And he said some Japanese name.

0:28:30.640 --> 0:28:35.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh, dear lord, I thought it's Japanese pornography.

0:28:35.880 --> 0:28:39.760
<v Speaker 1>Well guess what it is. It's anime, right, my daughter

0:28:39.840 --> 0:28:45.960
<v Speaker 1>does that. Yes, sci fi anime thriller, kind of like Marville.

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<v Speaker 1>But okay, so once again I've called him being good. Right, Well,

0:28:51.000 --> 0:28:54.000
<v Speaker 1>you know he's he's a he's a funny uh. Trail

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<v Speaker 1>through the book because of the fact that it reminds

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<v Speaker 1>me just talks about your parenting, and I think that

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I'm talking about. You just a one person.

0:29:00.440 --> 0:29:03.200
<v Speaker 1>You're an open book. You're saying that these situations happened

0:29:03.240 --> 0:29:05.080
<v Speaker 1>to me. You may see me as being famous. You

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<v Speaker 1>may say, I think I have a lot of money,

0:29:06.640 --> 0:29:08.640
<v Speaker 1>but I still have the parents. And as a parent,

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<v Speaker 1>it's seven it's seven days a week, it's twenty four

0:29:11.760 --> 0:29:14.920
<v Speaker 1>hours a day. And I don't care whether you wealthy

0:29:15.000 --> 0:29:17.840
<v Speaker 1>or you're struggling. You have to be focused. Now, the

0:29:17.920 --> 0:29:21.200
<v Speaker 1>book shifts. Now the first part one, Part two is

0:29:21.240 --> 0:29:25.400
<v Speaker 1>really about your child. Part two on got to the

0:29:25.440 --> 0:29:28.320
<v Speaker 1>adult side of the book, which I really like. Why

0:29:28.400 --> 0:29:30.680
<v Speaker 1>was it important to do the you know, the protecting

0:29:30.720 --> 0:29:34.840
<v Speaker 1>yourself travel safe? Because part one in part two becauld's

0:29:34.840 --> 0:29:37.440
<v Speaker 1>been a separate book by itself, Nancy. But then you

0:29:37.480 --> 0:29:39.520
<v Speaker 1>say you're something. I'm gonna give them a book that

0:29:39.600 --> 0:29:42.920
<v Speaker 1>when they walk and talk anybody. The teenager can have

0:29:43.000 --> 0:29:45.400
<v Speaker 1>this book. They can lie the young, they can preach

0:29:45.520 --> 0:29:48.200
<v Speaker 1>knowledge to the young children. And also if they decided

0:29:48.240 --> 0:29:50.520
<v Speaker 1>to travel as adults, they can have that. Why do

0:29:50.600 --> 0:29:55.280
<v Speaker 1>you decided to put it all in one book? So many,

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<v Speaker 1>um that they comes that I've represented in court, I've

0:30:00.120 --> 0:30:03.720
<v Speaker 1>been children, but I would say an equal amount have

0:30:03.880 --> 0:30:09.320
<v Speaker 1>been adults. And the cases I've covered, so many missing women,

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<v Speaker 1>missing team, missing college students. You know, when you go

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<v Speaker 1>to college you think you know everything, you don't know anything.

0:30:16.760 --> 0:30:22.560
<v Speaker 1>And so many especially girls Paul pray at college and

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<v Speaker 1>the other day. Um, you know. I work on my

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<v Speaker 1>Hallmark movies and they are born out of character I created.

0:30:31.160 --> 0:30:33.080
<v Speaker 1>When I moved to New York to launch a show

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<v Speaker 1>with the late great Johnny Cochrane. He would go off.

0:30:36.600 --> 0:30:38.680
<v Speaker 1>He was the host of the town. He would go

0:30:38.720 --> 0:30:40.600
<v Speaker 1>off after our show, which was at night, and I

0:30:40.680 --> 0:30:43.120
<v Speaker 1>knew nobody. I go home to my old apartment. I

0:30:43.160 --> 0:30:46.800
<v Speaker 1>was alone. I started writing this book so a lady,

0:30:47.000 --> 0:30:49.800
<v Speaker 1>a very dear friend of mine, Liz, that I worked

0:30:49.800 --> 0:30:53.840
<v Speaker 1>on the Hallmark shows with son went away to college

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<v Speaker 1>while we were working on one of the one of

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<v Speaker 1>the movies, and she was so worried about him. And

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<v Speaker 1>it was right after a young man had been forced

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<v Speaker 1>to force fed basically booze until he died at a

0:31:09.120 --> 0:31:13.080
<v Speaker 1>frat party. She was so afraid for her son. And

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<v Speaker 1>I got to thinking about John David and Lucy going

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<v Speaker 1>away to college. I don't like thinking about it, but

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<v Speaker 1>I was thinking about all the things that could happen

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<v Speaker 1>to him, and all the times I go running or

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<v Speaker 1>I take the twins walking with me or biking with me,

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<v Speaker 1>and all the cases I've covered where women were out

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<v Speaker 1>jogging or biking or leaving their dorm or people my

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<v Speaker 1>age out and about walking and jogging and how dangerous

0:31:39.400 --> 0:31:42.000
<v Speaker 1>it is and how many times do you pull up

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<v Speaker 1>at a red light. This is a chilling thought to

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<v Speaker 1>me because I know the stats on how many people

0:31:47.080 --> 0:31:50.040
<v Speaker 1>are out on part and in parole. They can't all

0:31:50.160 --> 0:31:53.160
<v Speaker 1>be hiding in some area of town. They are out

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<v Speaker 1>with you at the mall, at the grocery store, in

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<v Speaker 1>the parking lot, at the red light. Hey, when you

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<v Speaker 1>don't know a horse, look at his track records. You

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<v Speaker 1>think they won't offend again. They will. They will offend

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<v Speaker 1>again and are sitting by you at the red light.

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<v Speaker 1>That made me think about driving and what happens when

0:32:12.120 --> 0:32:14.680
<v Speaker 1>you're in a car, and how to stay safe, and

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<v Speaker 1>what to do if you think you're being followed, what

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<v Speaker 1>to do if somebody has a road rage. There's just

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<v Speaker 1>so many things to think about, and I want to

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<v Speaker 1>address them because I have addressed them, not only in

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<v Speaker 1>this book, but in court. Wow Don't be a victim.

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<v Speaker 1>More importantly, to tell you people to send me some notices,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm also like sid to your friend of mine because

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<v Speaker 1>daughter safe again when she drives out of my driveway.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't protect her. All I can do is just

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<v Speaker 1>provided with information that hopefully she will make the right decision. Nancy,

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<v Speaker 1>And you've given me the tools, and you're getting the

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<v Speaker 1>America the tools because you truly are a crime fighter.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, Thank you so much. Thank you friend. We

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<v Speaker 1>talked soon, all right, get that stuff to me. Thank you, Nancy.

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