1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:04,720 Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:06,320 --> 00:00:11,000 Speaker 2: Well, guys, congratulations and thank you so much for being here. 4 00:00:12,280 --> 00:00:14,240 Speaker 2: I'm going to start out by talking I just I 5 00:00:14,280 --> 00:00:16,280 Speaker 2: really want to start out by asking you guys about 6 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:20,639 Speaker 2: the finale episode. So, Joey, when did you know that 7 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:24,000 Speaker 2: Kelsey was the one? Because we have to say that 8 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 2: you weren't the best actor with Daisy in the finale, 9 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 2: which is totally fine. I love transparency. But we heard 10 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 2: on the Chicks in the Office podcast that Daisy walked 11 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:36,600 Speaker 2: into the room, your room and you quickly had to 12 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 2: hide a letter that you wrote to Kelsey that said 13 00:00:39,479 --> 00:00:42,360 Speaker 2: I see you as my wife. So you had to 14 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 2: have known before that finale week. 15 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:47,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, that I can give as much context as poss 16 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:50,000 Speaker 3: up on that. So we always said there was a 17 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:52,199 Speaker 3: lot of breadcrumbser about the whole thing that led to 18 00:00:52,600 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 3: that final moment. It really did start all the way 19 00:00:56,080 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 3: back and Ron after the first one on one and 20 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 3: that Malta day that to give context in the note, 21 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 3: she wrote me a really sweet letter on like a postcard, 22 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 3: and I was like thinking about her so much. 23 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:08,360 Speaker 4: I was like, you know what, let me just get 24 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:09,200 Speaker 4: my thoughts. 25 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 3: Out, I wanted to journal it and I dated it 26 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:13,440 Speaker 3: and it was all the way back in Malta. But yeah, 27 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 3: that was at the moment where things were starting with 28 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 3: us and I did say like I could see you 29 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:19,920 Speaker 3: as a future wife, So I wanted to read it 30 00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 3: to her on the final date so that she knew 31 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 3: this has been going for a while. But I in 32 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:27,959 Speaker 3: my position, as everyone knows, have to stay open, have 33 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:30,399 Speaker 3: to go through the whole process to make sure that 34 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 3: I give her the full confirmation that she deserves. And 35 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:36,559 Speaker 3: we both agreed, like the final moment which America sold 36 00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 3: two was after she met my family. Like after we 37 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 3: got through her meeting my family, I knew she was 38 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 3: ready and where she was at. That was when I 39 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 3: think I started acting a little bit differently and not 40 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 3: giving Daisy what she needed and was very aware of 41 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 3: my words, and I can say I regretted all of that, 42 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:53,320 Speaker 3: but I know I did. 43 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 4: It the best that I could. 44 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 3: And I think what's most important now is she knows 45 00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 3: how much my love was always there for her, and yeah, 46 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:01,640 Speaker 3: we both would day obviously nothing but the best. 47 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 2: Well, you just handled everything this season so perfectly. Greatest 48 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:08,560 Speaker 2: Bachelor in a very long time, We're just so grateful 49 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 2: for you because you really really like rejuvenized the franchise 50 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:15,800 Speaker 2: and you were you were excellent and you couldn't have 51 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:20,880 Speaker 2: picked a more wonderful woman. I Y, when Daisy came 52 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:23,800 Speaker 2: to your room and started asking you about how you 53 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 2: felt your week went, when, what did you think? Where 54 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 2: did you think the conversation was leading? 55 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:31,359 Speaker 1: I had no idea, And through the whole process, I 56 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 1: never really talked a whole lot about Joey and I's 57 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 1: relationship to other women. 58 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 5: I didn't think it was necessary. I just kind of 59 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 5: held it to myself. 60 00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 1: So whenever she was asking me those questions, I was 61 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 1: just like trying to be vague. 62 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:42,919 Speaker 5: I was like, yeah, it was good, it was good. 63 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 1: And then she like had asked me a couple of times, 64 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:48,560 Speaker 1: and finally I was like, she's like asking me like 65 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:50,799 Speaker 1: did you get validation? You're like, what, Like, can you 66 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 1: tell me? I just She's like, if you're comfortable with it. 67 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 1: Finally I was like, yeah, you know, I got a 68 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 1: lot of. 69 00:02:56,800 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 5: Validation and reassurance. 70 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:01,960 Speaker 1: And then I think that she was like thankful for 71 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 1: that because she knew that how she felt and she 72 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 1: just wanted me and Joey to be happy, but it 73 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 1: was a special moment. 74 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:08,119 Speaker 4: Yeah. 75 00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 2: So then you guys you said on another podcast, because 76 00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:15,080 Speaker 2: I don't want to repeat questions with you guys, but 77 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 2: you said on another podcast that you don't remember who 78 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:21,320 Speaker 2: came up with the actual idea of getting in the 79 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 2: car together. But once that was decided, did you know 80 00:03:25,880 --> 00:03:28,800 Speaker 2: that Daisy was going to tell Joey? I know it's 81 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 2: not me, Like, did you know what was about to 82 00:03:30,800 --> 00:03:33,080 Speaker 2: happen as the car stopped? 83 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:37,119 Speaker 5: I mean, I wasn't positive what she was going to do. 84 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 1: I knew that she wanted to go and do it 85 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 1: in her own way, and I was just supportive in 86 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 1: whatever she wanted to do, and like, if she felt 87 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 1: comfortable ending it, then to do so. 88 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 5: But I was really happy with her and proud of her. 89 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, so, so how did it go? Like did the 90 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 2: producer say, all right, well, Daisy's gonna get out of 91 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 2: the car first, and she's gonna walk down the aisle 92 00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 2: and then Kelsey, you're gonna be second. Because to all 93 00:03:59,760 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 2: of us us that's the dead giveaway that you're about 94 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 2: you're about to be proposed to. 95 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 1: I think that at that point everybody just kind of knew, 96 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 1: like okay, like Joey was gonna propose to me. I 97 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 1: was still a little like, you never know. I was like, 98 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 1: I don't know until he's down on one knee, but 99 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 1: I hope so, And some of my producers were like, 100 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:20,479 Speaker 1: are you crazy right now? 101 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 3: Okay was first because I was expecting to end it 102 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 3: with her in that moment, So that was all planned before. 103 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:33,600 Speaker 4: I didn't know until after the fact that they that. 104 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:35,720 Speaker 5: We went together, that we had a conversation before. He 105 00:04:35,720 --> 00:04:36,920 Speaker 5: didn't know any of that, yeh. 106 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 1: But but yeah, No, she got out the car first 107 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 1: and then we had a hug, and then she immediately 108 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 1: just walked down to Joey and then I fixed my hair. 109 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 2: So you guys were actually interacting right before going down 110 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:53,159 Speaker 2: the aisle. 111 00:04:53,600 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 4: Yes. 112 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 1: Wow. 113 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 2: Ben was certain that you guys it looked like you 114 00:04:58,120 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 2: were in the car together, which of course you were 115 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 2: in the car together, but that you got separated and 116 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:05,680 Speaker 2: then they sent one of you down so that you 117 00:05:05,720 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 2: wouldn't know who actually was going first. 118 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:11,359 Speaker 1: No, she immediately walked down. Yeah, we gave like the 119 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:14,360 Speaker 1: and I was like, I was good luck. 120 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 2: Wow, that truly is unprecedented. But Joey, you we saw 121 00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:22,920 Speaker 2: you teased all summer long. Well you didn't tease, but like, 122 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 2: you know, the scenes for the next episode or the 123 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 2: scenes from the finale teased all season long that you 124 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:30,600 Speaker 2: like break it down at the altar and that you're 125 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 2: You're like, there's no way that's ever happened before, and 126 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 2: you were just just so wrecked. What was that about it? 127 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, it's it was. 128 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:41,799 Speaker 3: They did a really good job of making it seem 129 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:44,480 Speaker 3: like I was alone and that I ended up with 130 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 3: no one because of how they like put different scenes together, 131 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 3: and I kind of had a figuring that they would 132 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 3: do that. But for me, I've expressed the emotions were 133 00:05:53,760 --> 00:05:55,919 Speaker 3: that I didn't want to put Daisy through that, Like 134 00:05:55,960 --> 00:05:58,440 Speaker 3: I felt horrible, and I think everyone saw that and 135 00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:01,320 Speaker 3: that emotion when she walked away, I'm glad, and she said, 136 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:02,920 Speaker 3: I'm glad she got to do it on her own, 137 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:04,760 Speaker 3: but for her to then walk away, I need to 138 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 3: be standing there, Like the emotions hit and I felt 139 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 3: terrible that I did that to someone. So it also 140 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 3: looked like I got dumped, so that that's the whole 141 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 3: thing too. 142 00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:16,920 Speaker 2: Were you afraid that they could have edited to make 143 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:18,840 Speaker 2: it look alike you were dumped in the end, and that, 144 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 2: like Kelsey was default girl. 145 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that anyone can be afraid of how 146 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:26,919 Speaker 3: everything's gonna look. But we knew that at the end 147 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 3: of the day, we can always control our story. We've 148 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:31,479 Speaker 3: talked about that a ton is like we will try 149 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:34,680 Speaker 3: our best to explain if something seems to be like 150 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:36,600 Speaker 3: misinterpreted or anything like that. 151 00:06:36,640 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 4: But we knew how strong. 152 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 3: Our love was and how much we were so excited 153 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:42,760 Speaker 3: to see our moment and our engagement. But we knew 154 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:44,279 Speaker 3: because of the ending, it was going to be a 155 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:46,400 Speaker 3: whole different experience for everyone that was a part of it. 156 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, because Daisy was so certain it wasn't her like 157 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 2: she felt that in her bones. It meant that you 158 00:06:55,279 --> 00:07:00,919 Speaker 2: sort of treated her like that. Doesn't that make you, 159 00:07:01,080 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 2: Kelsey feel even more confident in what you have that 160 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:05,320 Speaker 2: you never have to look back on the season and 161 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:07,280 Speaker 2: be like, man, he was really torn between the two 162 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:07,640 Speaker 2: of us. 163 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that that was my biggest fear, and 164 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 1: I talked to him about that a lot, you know, 165 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 1: of like I don't want you to be confused at 166 00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:17,600 Speaker 1: the end of who it's gonna be, and like if 167 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:19,160 Speaker 1: you get down on one knee for me, like it 168 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 1: needs to be one hundred and ten percent me because 169 00:07:21,040 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 1: I think that that's what I deserve. 170 00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 5: I also think that's what he deserves. 171 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 1: You know. It's a love that he's so certain about 172 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 1: and that I'm so certain about. So yeah, I think 173 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:31,600 Speaker 1: that that's how I knew for sure that you know, 174 00:07:31,600 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 1: if you got down one knee from me, it was 175 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 1: it was me. 176 00:07:34,360 --> 00:07:48,080 Speaker 2: For sure, Kelsey. You didn't give a speech. From what 177 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:51,960 Speaker 2: we saw at the altar, every girl has to kind 178 00:07:51,960 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 2: of give her recipient, you know, she has to do 179 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:58,800 Speaker 2: her own little thing before getting proposed to. You on 180 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:02,160 Speaker 2: the Bachelor, from what we saw, just got to kind 181 00:08:02,160 --> 00:08:04,239 Speaker 2: of enjoy being proposed to. But how did it actually 182 00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 2: go down? 183 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 1: So I actually said my speech first, and I'm not 184 00:08:09,960 --> 00:08:11,640 Speaker 1: sure why I was cut out, maybe to look like 185 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:14,520 Speaker 1: I might say no, maybe to maybe to look like, 186 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:18,040 Speaker 1: you know, just that he got down on one knee, or 187 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 1: maybe I was stuttering a lot. 188 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:19,600 Speaker 5: I don't know. 189 00:08:19,760 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 6: The whole moment was black out for me. I was 190 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:25,320 Speaker 6: just like, please proposed to me. But she said a 191 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 6: lot of really sweet things she said. Even after she 192 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 6: was like, man, I think I messed my speech up. 193 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 6: I had a whole other section that I forgot about. Yeah, 194 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:32,840 Speaker 6: I'm sure that moment was a. 195 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:35,280 Speaker 3: Little bit jumbled, but she said beautiful things and it's 196 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:35,679 Speaker 3: for us. 197 00:08:35,840 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 2: I remember it the fact that I always get stressed 198 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 2: out that the you know that the person standing up 199 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 2: there has to give a speech, So I feel you 200 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 2: if you jumbled it. I'm always impressed by how articulate 201 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:50,440 Speaker 2: everybody is, even without notes. 202 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:53,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was rehearsing it multiple times. I was like, 203 00:08:53,720 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 1: can I bring these please? 204 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 2: That's right, just like a couple of little bullet points, 205 00:08:57,400 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 2: like because I was thinking about like at my wedding, 206 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:02,600 Speaker 2: like you know, I had to read it. I'm a 207 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 2: great writer, but I can't exactly like just memorize lines 208 00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:10,360 Speaker 2: then deliver them in front of an audience. So bravo 209 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:13,840 Speaker 2: for whatever whatever you did, because I'm sure it was amazing. 210 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 2: Was there a moment throughout the entire season that you 211 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 2: guys shared that didn't get aired that when the episode 212 00:09:22,679 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 2: ended up airing, you're like, oh, bomber, that didn't make 213 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:25,319 Speaker 2: the cut. 214 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:28,640 Speaker 3: I'll speak on one because I think that one of 215 00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:31,080 Speaker 3: the bigger ones was a moment we had where she 216 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:34,319 Speaker 3: got the group date rose after the missus right, she 217 00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:38,080 Speaker 3: said something during the Missus Right competition about like I 218 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:40,319 Speaker 3: want to create new memories. So I came up with 219 00:09:40,360 --> 00:09:42,840 Speaker 3: the idea of I wanted to get a polaroid camera 220 00:09:43,160 --> 00:09:46,000 Speaker 3: and we took two selfies, so we had two different pictures. 221 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:47,680 Speaker 3: She got the hold onto one, I got the hold 222 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:49,960 Speaker 3: onto one, And that was like the big part of 223 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:52,040 Speaker 3: our comma we had that night that this is now 224 00:09:52,040 --> 00:09:53,920 Speaker 3: a new memory that we can hold onto and like 225 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:57,080 Speaker 3: share new experiences. So that was kind of a moment 226 00:09:57,080 --> 00:09:59,160 Speaker 3: that I wish we could have saw. 227 00:09:59,400 --> 00:10:02,719 Speaker 2: That's probably one of the moments that were like, well, 228 00:10:02,720 --> 00:10:04,840 Speaker 2: we can't make it too obvious that Kelsey's the winner. 229 00:10:05,360 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, where was our whole conversation the polaroids for us? 230 00:10:09,920 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 4: And we still got the polaroids. 231 00:10:11,160 --> 00:10:13,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, we do as somebody else who's like in a 232 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:16,600 Speaker 2: bachelor relationship, but we I always find it to be 233 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:19,800 Speaker 2: almost frustrating that we have like so much footage from 234 00:10:19,840 --> 00:10:21,960 Speaker 2: the beginning of our relationship that we'll never be able 235 00:10:22,080 --> 00:10:22,640 Speaker 2: to see. 236 00:10:23,080 --> 00:10:25,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it's part of it. 237 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:28,120 Speaker 3: We'd love to have a full tape of every single moment. 238 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:29,959 Speaker 3: That'd be a good gift. O. 239 00:10:30,240 --> 00:10:32,320 Speaker 2: No, come on, guys, just give us like a little 240 00:10:32,360 --> 00:10:37,360 Speaker 2: secret highlight reel. All right, So yesterday we were talking 241 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:41,240 Speaker 2: to Rachel Rekia and Susie Evans and they told us 242 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:46,720 Speaker 2: that they felt that soon after the finale was filmed 243 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:50,480 Speaker 2: that they realized they didn't really know their new significant other. 244 00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:53,040 Speaker 2: Did you guys have any of those feelings during the 245 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 2: Happy couple of retreats? 246 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:57,520 Speaker 1: I think I got stressed on like the initial like 247 00:10:57,559 --> 00:11:00,960 Speaker 1: right after we got proposed, but then like Joey calmed 248 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:03,160 Speaker 1: me down and we're just gonna take this one step 249 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 1: at a time pretty much. 250 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:07,120 Speaker 5: And I think we pretty much did dating and reverse. 251 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:07,400 Speaker 4: You know. 252 00:11:07,520 --> 00:11:10,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, we did the hard the hard hitters at the beginning, 253 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 1: and then we got into the easier stuff, like you know, 254 00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:16,760 Speaker 1: the fact that he's really into sports, and then we 255 00:11:16,840 --> 00:11:19,280 Speaker 1: love watching well, we want to watch live sports together 256 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:21,880 Speaker 1: because I love going to live sporting events and things 257 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:24,800 Speaker 1: like that. I think that, you know, it was fun 258 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:27,599 Speaker 1: to learn about the little things throughout all of this little. 259 00:11:27,440 --> 00:11:29,559 Speaker 3: Little thing is a huge thing for her and it's 260 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 3: like totally ununderstandable and what she's really good at that's 261 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:35,240 Speaker 3: been so fun is and I realized I need to 262 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:37,439 Speaker 3: work on it. She has like roll of deeckx of 263 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:39,480 Speaker 3: questions always, and she did so good at that in 264 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:41,640 Speaker 3: the beginning, like, no, I want to know all these 265 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:44,680 Speaker 3: little things about you and I want you to me 266 00:11:45,200 --> 00:11:47,240 Speaker 3: And she did that, and like that has made a 267 00:11:47,320 --> 00:11:49,920 Speaker 3: huge difference because I don't know if she didn't do that, 268 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:50,559 Speaker 3: I don't know if we. 269 00:11:50,600 --> 00:11:52,240 Speaker 4: Know as much about each other that we actually do. 270 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:53,199 Speaker 4: And we're still learning. 271 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:55,040 Speaker 3: We know that there's a lot to learn, but we 272 00:11:55,120 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 3: have that foundation, which is what's most important. 273 00:11:57,760 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 2: No, I love that. I remember being on The Bachelor 274 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 2: and I wanted to ask random questions like that. But 275 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:05,520 Speaker 2: it's also like, do you just just randomly in the 276 00:12:05,559 --> 00:12:07,960 Speaker 2: middle of the fifteen minutes that you have together during 277 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:10,640 Speaker 2: group date? Just like, so, what's your favorite movie? Just 278 00:12:10,640 --> 00:12:11,960 Speaker 2: like do you randomly blurt that out? 279 00:12:11,960 --> 00:12:12,440 Speaker 5: Did you do that? 280 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:13,640 Speaker 4: Yeah? We did. 281 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:15,360 Speaker 3: We had little stuff like that, and like you said, 282 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:17,920 Speaker 3: the perfect time always is those like group date moments 283 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:20,120 Speaker 3: because you only get a certain amount of time. But 284 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:21,760 Speaker 3: then we also she wanted to make sure she said 285 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:24,440 Speaker 3: a lot more about her family, important things about each other. 286 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:26,440 Speaker 3: But yeah, yeah, the little moments, and we did that 287 00:12:26,640 --> 00:12:28,439 Speaker 3: on overnights too. We did a lot of small stuff. 288 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:32,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, we did. It was fun. I actually had a wait. 289 00:12:32,640 --> 00:12:34,640 Speaker 1: I actually journaled like a bunch of questions that I 290 00:12:34,679 --> 00:12:38,079 Speaker 1: wanted to ask him, and during fantasy suites, I was like, Okay, 291 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:39,440 Speaker 1: I had to ask you this, and I want to 292 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:40,080 Speaker 1: ask you this. 293 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:42,280 Speaker 4: Like thought about this run out the journal. 294 00:12:42,400 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, that is so cute. 295 00:12:44,559 --> 00:12:46,400 Speaker 2: That's the perfect time to bring out the journal. 296 00:12:46,720 --> 00:12:46,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. 297 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 2: Well, speaking of fantasy suitets. Okay, So you guys are 298 00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:51,880 Speaker 2: revealed on the Chicks in the Office podcast that the 299 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:55,400 Speaker 2: Taylor Swift song dress is like your song and Joe 300 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 2: you said that you would have the producers put it 301 00:12:57,960 --> 00:13:00,600 Speaker 2: on when you're missing Kelsey in the mid to filming. 302 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:04,040 Speaker 2: You did not mention, though, that it's a very sexy 303 00:13:04,120 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 2: song about anticipation. Like, let's let lyric quote here, only 304 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:11,319 Speaker 2: bought this dress so you can take it off call 305 00:13:12,080 --> 00:13:13,920 Speaker 2: name into my bedpost. 306 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:16,080 Speaker 5: Did you have some day. 307 00:13:15,920 --> 00:13:20,480 Speaker 2: Dreams on airplanes and stuff, just fantasizing about the fantasy 308 00:13:20,480 --> 00:13:21,080 Speaker 2: suite to come? 309 00:13:22,080 --> 00:13:24,960 Speaker 3: I can say that, she said, like she explained the 310 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:27,680 Speaker 3: song obviously talked about the crowded room lyric and everything. 311 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:29,840 Speaker 3: It's like, it's a beautiful song and the chorus hit. 312 00:13:29,880 --> 00:13:33,000 Speaker 3: When I was listening to the first time, I was like, damn, Kelsey, okay, 313 00:13:33,040 --> 00:13:34,600 Speaker 3: like I'm gonna hold this one in the back of 314 00:13:34,640 --> 00:13:36,480 Speaker 3: my head. Like, I was like, this is a little 315 00:13:36,520 --> 00:13:40,240 Speaker 3: provocative of a song here. So we laughed about that 316 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:42,200 Speaker 3: a ton, and then when I got to see her 317 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:44,120 Speaker 3: the next time I talked about it, I did say that. 318 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:45,960 Speaker 4: I was like, you know, dress is a very like, 319 00:13:46,400 --> 00:13:47,480 Speaker 4: very aggressive song. 320 00:13:47,640 --> 00:13:50,240 Speaker 1: It was hilarious. Whenever he saw me next, he was like, oh, 321 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:52,679 Speaker 1: listen to that song. He's like kind of provocative. 322 00:13:53,280 --> 00:13:54,840 Speaker 5: I don't know what. That was one of my favorite 323 00:13:54,880 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 5: moments of us together. The way he said like provocative. 324 00:13:57,520 --> 00:13:59,960 Speaker 4: I was like, okay, yeah, she got me blushed on. 325 00:14:00,520 --> 00:14:04,199 Speaker 2: And then I started blushing whenever you said that, Kelsey, 326 00:14:04,480 --> 00:14:08,880 Speaker 2: everybody loves your dad, big fan favorite. I think he 327 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:11,880 Speaker 2: seems like perfect inside and out, And it looked like 328 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:14,240 Speaker 2: he was a little bit smiley and your brother nudged 329 00:14:14,280 --> 00:14:18,600 Speaker 2: him when Jesse said, maybe we'll be seeing more of 330 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:20,680 Speaker 2: you in the future. Does that mean that he's going 331 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:23,120 Speaker 2: to be on the next season of The Golden Bachelorette. 332 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:26,480 Speaker 1: I'm not sure, but I think that that sounds so 333 00:14:26,520 --> 00:14:27,760 Speaker 1: exciting for him. 334 00:14:28,240 --> 00:14:29,960 Speaker 2: You think that that sounds exciting for him, So you 335 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:32,240 Speaker 2: guys would be open you as a family, and your 336 00:14:32,360 --> 00:14:33,920 Speaker 2: dad open to finding love again. 337 00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 5: I think that it would be a good push for him. 338 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:40,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, okay, all right, well, guys, thank you so 339 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:43,560 Speaker 2: much for joining us. I have this quick shout out 340 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:46,200 Speaker 2: that I have to do for our producer Amy, She 341 00:14:46,480 --> 00:14:48,680 Speaker 2: and us on the Almost In this podcast, we want 342 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:51,200 Speaker 2: to give a shout out to Taylor Ford. Her boyfriend 343 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:52,920 Speaker 2: called us and said that all she wants for her 344 00:14:52,920 --> 00:14:54,920 Speaker 2: birthday is a shout out from Joey and Kelsey and 345 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:58,640 Speaker 2: she just turned nineteen and she plays beach volleyball at UCLA. So, guys, 346 00:14:58,720 --> 00:15:01,040 Speaker 2: can you just say Happy birthday Taylor Ford? 347 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:01,920 Speaker 4: Yeah? 348 00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:05,680 Speaker 3: Three two one, Happy Birthday Taylor Ford. 349 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:09,320 Speaker 2: Amazing You guys rock and I can't wait to see 350 00:15:09,760 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 2: your lives together because you're one of my favorite bachelor couples. 351 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:17,000 Speaker 2: I'm not just saying that, Hi, guys, good to see you. 352 00:15:17,080 --> 00:15:18,320 Speaker 2: Hope to see you soon in person. 353 00:15:18,440 --> 00:15:23,200 Speaker 1: By I follow the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous 354 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:27,120 Speaker 1: podcasts on iHeartRadio or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.