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Speaker 1: good morning everybody, y'all listening to the voice, Come on

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Speaker 1: dig me now one it only Steve Harvey got a

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Speaker 1: I was just so getting ready to come on to

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Speaker 1: Let me just say that again, how really good God

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Speaker 1: has been to me. And here's a cold part. In

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Speaker 1: spite of myself, you understand, in spite of all my shortcomings,

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Speaker 1: me anyway. So many of us are exceptional people, but

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Speaker 1: I've heard my wife say this to my children all

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Speaker 1: So many of us are born, and so many of

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Speaker 1: has created you be exceptional? The key word in exceptional

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Speaker 1: is accept you. Ever you ever done this? Right here?

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Speaker 1: You know everybody did that, accept me. Everybody felt that

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Speaker 1: you saying that in your life? If you were not

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Speaker 1: to be exceptional? See, you got to say everybody accept

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Speaker 1: no except me? See it? So you're not You're not

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Speaker 1: And you don't have to be any other kind of

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Speaker 1: How many? How many excuses you need? I'm an excuse? What? What? What? What? You?

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Speaker 1: But I got news for you. Suppose you keep on living.

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Speaker 1: You want to keep wanting the right relationship, the right man,

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Let us begin three two one. What's up? Shelly? Hey?

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Speaker 1: What's up? Steve? Holo? What's going on? Steve Hey? Crew, Hey, Julio.

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Speaker 1: They do well? Then the porch if you back doge dove,

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Speaker 1: lottle cute the girl walk a bobby walk you tonight? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: you're listening for? No, I don't thump watermelons. I know

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Speaker 1: how to pick watermelons. I thought you're supposed to thump them. No, dog,

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Speaker 1: that's termelon. That's right. Now, you can pick a sweet

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Speaker 1: sugar content. Oh, that's how you're petty boy. Now they

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Speaker 1: you don't buy enough of them. You don't grow them.

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Speaker 1: like seeds. No seed there's no watermelon that don't have

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Speaker 1: Oh is June? All right? July to September? You add

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Speaker 1: death watermelon? Come on, all right? Coming up in thirty

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Speaker 1: two minutes after the hours, Sister odell is in the

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Speaker 1: building right after this. You're listening to show. All right, guys,

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Speaker 1: it is women crushed Wednesday, our girl sister Odell. You

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Speaker 1: hear her. She is here in the building, sounds happy

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Speaker 1: to night, your lording nwaneral Bobby woman who I know

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Speaker 1: get his greatest hits out boy his daddy know daddy?

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Speaker 1: Throw back, throw back, wack throw back woman? How did

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Speaker 1: you eat him? Since yer Odell? Well, before I got saved,

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Speaker 1: know what's going on? Every was what y'all talking about? Well?

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Speaker 1: How was your East? How was your especially you know,

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Speaker 1: Let me ask you this, sister, deal. I know you

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Speaker 1: you normally wear white every summer, so what did you

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Speaker 1: Hey Darwin, how are you doing? This is Frank with FPC.

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Speaker 1: What's what's your what type of picture? And would I

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Speaker 1: sir are you? I mean we have your address? Here?

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Speaker 1: in the land Steve Harvey Morning Wickham Show? Buddy, I

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Speaker 1: do y'all know the picture y'all won't for y'all funeral? No,

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Speaker 1: twenty six billion to a total of one hundred and

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Speaker 1: Bernard Arnault is number three, Bill Gates is number four.

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Speaker 1: Mark Zuckerberg rounds out the top five. Also, did you

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Speaker 1: guys know this? Kim Kardashian has joined the billionaires club.

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Speaker 1: That's right, she's up there. Forbes has estimated that she

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Speaker 1: is now worth one billion dollars now. Back in October,

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Speaker 1: one billion dollars all right, thanks to two lucrative businesses.

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Speaker 1: Oh after the divorce. Yeah, you're gonna own some of

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Speaker 1: them muses. Boy, Yeah, she got two kids. Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: can't get away from that. Not in California park Yeah, property, No, sir,

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Speaker 1: she's gonna have way more than that in a minute.

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Speaker 1: Damn yay. Yeah, I had to go and try to

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Speaker 1: work this album. Skip. I don't try to work at all.

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Speaker 1: It's too late. That when he ran for president, that

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Speaker 1: much it. I think that was it. When he said

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Speaker 1: and he went in there, put that red hat on,

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Speaker 1: that was it. You know, it's really sat in front

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Speaker 1: of him. It's really Jim Brown sitting there. I don't

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Speaker 1: know what Jim with that. That was just crazy. And

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Speaker 1: I don't know what Jim was supposed to talk him

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Speaker 1: out of it. I didn't figure out how that was

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Speaker 1: closed to go. And he got the hand cock to

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Speaker 1: the side and Trump over there him looking god. Well.

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Speaker 1: Another entertainment news in about an hour, I'll say we're

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Speaker 1: gonna have a live strawberry letter. Now, we haven't done

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Speaker 1: a live strawberry letter in a long time. Our special

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Speaker 1: and Marriage Huntsville reality show. You may have heard of him.

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Speaker 1: His name is Martell Holt. Martell. We got Martelle on

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Speaker 1: a day. Martell Holt will be our very special guest.

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Speaker 1: My wife, she got to hit it. Yeah, we got

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Speaker 1: him on to day. We couldn't get nobody from Ready

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Speaker 1: for Love, so we had to go with the number

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Speaker 1: two show. Well, you know, I just gave you some

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Speaker 1: little head to go with the number two show. Couldn't

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Speaker 1: get a big dog from the Big Show on, so

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Speaker 1: we had to go get get a Martel. We'll see

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Speaker 1: what Martell has to say. He's calling in Steve. He

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Speaker 1: wants some advice during the Strawberry Letters. I strongly suggest

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Speaker 1: he don't do that. Yeah, well, well I chicken out,

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Speaker 1: my WiFi went out. I'm not getting in front of

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Speaker 1: these women. I'm going to come up here with sir dog.

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Speaker 1: We just try to hold him to get Melody melot

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Speaker 1: D's from also Tomorrow. That's Thursday, um, fresh off the

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Speaker 1: Versus Battle, mister Ronald Isisley the sexiest man alive right now,

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Speaker 1: that's what everybody was thinking during the Versus Battle. Will

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Speaker 1: be our special guests. He's going to tell us about

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Speaker 1: his brand new single, Friends and Family featuring Snoop Dogg. Nice.

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Speaker 1: I like that song. I like it. I like it

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Speaker 1: a lot. Yeah, gonna be here all right, Steve. Headline

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Speaker 1: closet for ron Time from yeah, try boy, but you ain't.

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Speaker 1: Don't worry about just put a hoodie on. Act he

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Speaker 1: was coming. Ladies and gentlemen, miss trip Okay, thank you

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Speaker 1: and good morning everyone. This is answered with the news.

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Speaker 1: Yesterday's court action and the Derek Chauvin George Floyd murder

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Speaker 1: case involved still other Minneapolis cops talking about training and

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Speaker 1: how mister Floyd's detention was handled. Prosecutors called police lieutenant

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Speaker 1: and trainer Johnny Murcille, who said that Derek Chauvin's grinding

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Speaker 1: his knee into Floyd's neck was not something that Minneapolis

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Speaker 1: cops are trained to do. Video shows Chauvin pressing his

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Speaker 1: knee into George Floyd's neck for over nine minutes until

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Speaker 1: the paramedics arrived. Also on the stand yesterday, Officer Nicole McKenzie,

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Speaker 1: who trains Minneapolis cops in medical support now. She was

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Speaker 1: asked by Chauvin's attorney about something called agonal breathing, which

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Speaker 1: can occur when people are in medical distress. Apparently, Officer

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Speaker 1: McKenzie explained that agonal breathing consists of irregular gasps for air.

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Speaker 1: Chauvin's lawyer asked if it could be confused with effective

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Speaker 1: or normal breathing, breathing, and McKenzie said yes. Then the

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Speaker 1: prosecutor asked whether officers police officers are taught that if

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Speaker 1: a person can talk, they can breathe, and he answered no, sir,

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Speaker 1: ending that just because someone is speaking does not mean

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Speaker 1: that they're breathing adequately. The House has voted to reintroduce

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Speaker 1: the Violence Against Women Act, the nineteen ninety four measure

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Speaker 1: that would provide resources for victims of sexual and domestic violence.

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Speaker 1: There was a bipartisan support for the basic bill the

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Speaker 1: first time around, but a split occurred over added gun

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Speaker 1: control and transgender provisions. The Georgian House of Representatives has

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Speaker 1: voted unanimously to repeal a citizens arrest law that actually

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Speaker 1: predates the Civil War. Since eighteen sixty three, a private

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Speaker 1: citizen could make an arrest if a crime was committed

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Speaker 1: in that person's presence or within their immediate knowledge, but

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Speaker 1: see critics say was really used as a justification to

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Speaker 1: round up escape slaves, and later on as a justification

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Speaker 1: for lynching black people. The vote took place a little

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Speaker 1: over a year after the murder of an innocent black

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Speaker 1: dagger named Ahmed Aubury. House Speaker Nancy Pelosi sent Leader

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Speaker 1: Charles Schumer say that the body of USA Capitol Police

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Speaker 1: Officer William Billy Evans will lie and stayed in the

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Speaker 1: Capital Rotunda April thirteenth. Evans killed your last Friday when

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Speaker 1: a man rammed his car into the barry and was

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Speaker 1: shot and killed by the police after getting out of

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Speaker 1: the vehicle lunging at the offices with a knife. Is

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Speaker 1: never ever clear really how William Billy Evans was killed anyway.

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Speaker 1: Evans the second Capitol Police officers to dine in the

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Speaker 1: line of duty this week. This year, officer Brian Sicknick,

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Speaker 1: you may remember, was killed during the January or six insurrection.

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Speaker 1: His body also was allowed to lie in honor in

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Speaker 1: the Capitol Hill rotunda. A sad news, Florida Congressman Elsie

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Speaker 1: Hastings has died. Hastings a civil rights lawyer who became

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Speaker 1: a federal judge after a nearly long decade career in Congress. Also,

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Speaker 1: and don't call her Tandy Newton anyway, she's taken her

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Speaker 1: new name, which your old name is Tande Way, which

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Speaker 1: means in her Shona language beloved. Now back to the

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to Morning show all right,

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Speaker 1: when we all vote, wants us to know that voter

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Speaker 1: suppression isn't a relic of a past. It is still

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Speaker 1: happening in state houses across the country, with over three

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Speaker 1: hundred and sixty one voter suppression bills being introduced in

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Speaker 1: over forty seven states. It is clear that we need

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Speaker 1: federal voting protection. We need it now, Steve Harvey Nation,

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Speaker 1: we need it now. Please stay woke and take action.

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Speaker 1: Join the fight for the Senate to pass for the

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Speaker 1: People Act. For the People Act incorporates key measures that

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Speaker 1: are urgently needed, including automatic voter registration and other steps

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Speaker 1: to modernize our elections, and a national guarantee of free

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Speaker 1: and fair elections without voter suppression. So what we need

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Speaker 1: you to do, Steve Harvey Nation, is go to When

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Speaker 1: we All Vote dot org to contact your senator today.

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Speaker 1: All right, this is serious, all right? They want to

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Speaker 1: keep us from the polls. That was amazing how they're

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Speaker 1: blatantly do it. And the major lead Baseball has moved

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Speaker 1: the All Star Game out of joy because of that

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Speaker 1: law that Governor Kempt passed behind closed doors, signed over

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Speaker 1: one hundred pieces of paper behind closed doors to make

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Speaker 1: it a law. That's amazing, man, that this dude and

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Speaker 1: his cronies could get together and pass a law for

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Speaker 1: an entire state and it is directed directly at people

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Speaker 1: of color for out last election. So now it's illegal

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Speaker 1: to give a person some water when they're in line.

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Speaker 1: It's a little about man, because they are going to

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Speaker 1: call close polling places in black neighborhoods reduced. Take make

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Speaker 1: it one to four, and now you got to stand

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Speaker 1: in longer lines, and to discourage you. You don't want

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Speaker 1: to stand in line, and you're thirsty, so you're gonna

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Speaker 1: turn around and go home. And now I can't nobody

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Speaker 1: even give you water. That's a bunch of crap. Man's horrible.

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Speaker 1: But if we stood in those long lines last election,

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Speaker 1: even during a pandemic, I don't think there's no turning

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Speaker 1: back now, Steve, it doesn't matter what we're going to do.

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Speaker 1: Republican Party get ready. We're gonna educate our people like

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Speaker 1: we are going to be well prepared for this move

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Speaker 1: you make, y'all gonna lose again. And the promise that

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Speaker 1: I'm giving you is y'all gonna be down there in

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Speaker 1: my logo with Trump Star. Since you got your head

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Speaker 1: push that far off the crack of his behind, gone

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Speaker 1: down there with him. They know, good hair, well, this

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Speaker 1: election wasn't stolen. They know good in hall well, biggest

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Speaker 1: lie ever. But but to stay okay with the Trump supporters,

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Speaker 1: they jumped on board and act like, what's up if

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Speaker 1: if the election was stolen, where are the votes that

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Speaker 1: were stolen? And why did all the other Republicans win

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Speaker 1: except Trump? You know, just don't make no d Yeah, right,

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Speaker 1: get out of here. Go to When We All Vote

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Speaker 1: dot org to contact your senator today. Okay, coming up

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Speaker 1: with thirty four minutes after the hour, we'll do a

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Speaker 1: quick round of ask the CLO. Right after this. You're

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Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up, guys

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Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, you do not want

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Speaker 1: to miss it. It is a live strawberry letter with

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Speaker 1: Martel Hote from the own networks, Love and Marriage, Huntsville. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you don't want to miss that, all right, but right

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Speaker 1: now it is time for a quick round of Asked

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Speaker 1: the CLO. Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building, Steve,

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Speaker 1: this one is from Sean and Cincinnati. Sean says, I'm

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Speaker 1: a forty three year old single father, and I'm a

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Speaker 1: store manager. One of my younger employees is a ladies man,

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Speaker 1: and he comes to me often for advice undating. The

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Speaker 1: other day, my twenty two year old daughter told me

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Speaker 1: that she likes him, and they've been out a few times.

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Speaker 1: I want to mind my own business, but I've heard

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Speaker 1: him talk about how he treats these girls and how

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Speaker 1: he's only in it for sex. He doesn't know that

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Speaker 1: I'm that. I know that he's pushing up on my daughter.

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Speaker 1: Do I mind in my business or have a man

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Speaker 1: to man talk with him? Man? Yeah, just he's a phone. Hey,

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Speaker 1: my man can't talk to you for me. Now you here, supervisor,

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Speaker 1: So you gotta be careful. You gotta make sure this outside.

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Speaker 1: Just stough, casey, get out of hand. Okay, you throws

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Speaker 1: asking that Dumpston going home? Yeah? Well wait, I thought

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Speaker 1: on what I'm saying. Yeah about the damn daughters. Man,

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Speaker 1: I haven't done everything. So I'm just telling you, just

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Speaker 1: gonna step to him and say, look at man, just

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Speaker 1: find something else to do. He's got to say something

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Speaker 1: something to find yourself something else to do. All right,

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Speaker 1: Here we go. Marissa and Charleston, South Carolina says, I

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Speaker 1: have a twin sister that got married two months ago.

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Speaker 1: We used to live together, so her wedding gifts are

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Speaker 1: still coming to my house. I plan to drop the

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Speaker 1: off while I was on her side of town last Saturday.

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Speaker 1: When I got there, she wasn't home, but her husband

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Speaker 1: said she'd be right back. My twin walked in a

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Speaker 1: few minutes later and went off on me for being

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Speaker 1: in her house while she was not home. I was

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Speaker 1: so hurt and embarrassed, And all she said is, I'll

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Speaker 1: understand when I get married. Did I violate a marriage code? No?

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Speaker 1: Not really, your sister trippet obviously. Wow, First of all,

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Speaker 1: let me say something. Probably ain't your fault at all.

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Speaker 1: She probably had some type of suspicion about her husband.

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Speaker 1: And now you over there and it played out with

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Speaker 1: you right right, her twin. Yeah, don't even You didn't

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Speaker 1: violate nothing. You went over your sister's house, Yeah, to

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Speaker 1: do something nice for her. Yeah. Yeah, I'd have took

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Speaker 1: all them gifts outside and put them in the driveway

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Speaker 1: and rolled back out over, rolled over the gift Yeah,

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Speaker 1: busting all of them damn blenders and all the plates

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Speaker 1: and six ran all that mess over man that goes

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Speaker 1: your damn gifts. All right, So Nora from Gaithersburg, Maryland says,

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Speaker 1: I've been married for eighteen years and my husband is retired.

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Speaker 1: I'm still working full time because I don't want to

631
00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:23,879
Speaker 1: be home with my husband after all these years. I'm

632
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:26,840
Speaker 1: sick of his boring conversation and how he never wants

633
00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:29,759
Speaker 1: to do anything but watch TV. Even the way he

634
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:32,920
Speaker 1: coughs gets on my nerves. I don't want to divorce him,

635
00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:35,560
Speaker 1: but I need a break from him. So I plan

636
00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 1: to go on vacation by myself for a week. How

637
00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:42,480
Speaker 1: do I tell him this? Probably just had to go

638
00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 1: on board that play called him from. Now call him

639
00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:53,359
Speaker 1: from the yeah, taxi, because if you don't, he gonna

640
00:42:53,360 --> 00:43:04,040
Speaker 1: have his coffin as down there resort room. Yeah. You

641
00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:11,799
Speaker 1: nobody want to look at the water trying to get away. Yeah,

642
00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:14,759
Speaker 1: you're tired of him. You need a break? Everybody need

643
00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:20,719
Speaker 1: a break? Yeah, okay, all right, Well, coming up next,

644
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:23,799
Speaker 1: it is a nephew with Today's prank phone call. Right

645
00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:26,080
Speaker 1: after this, and don't forget, we got a live Strawberry

646
00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:31,719
Speaker 1: letter coming up too. You're listening to Sting show coming

647
00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:33,839
Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour right about four

648
00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:36,359
Speaker 1: minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today, but it's

649
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:39,759
Speaker 1: gonna be live with a special guest, Martell Hoped from

650
00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:45,000
Speaker 1: own networks, Love and Marriage, Huntsville. He's gonna be here

651
00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:50,120
Speaker 1: right now. We'll get to that in a minute. Right now,

652
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:53,080
Speaker 1: the nephew is here with today's prank phone call. What

653
00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:58,160
Speaker 1: you got for us? Nef the ring? Bairly and calling

654
00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:00,439
Speaker 1: you guys, have you got the ring? And of course

655
00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 1: before the ring, you have the engagement ring, but you

656
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:07,439
Speaker 1: have the ring, right remember the ring when you first

657
00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:14,120
Speaker 1: got the ring? Yeah, yeah, this is the ring. This

658
00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:20,040
Speaker 1: is scary. Let's go cat. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to

659
00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:24,239
Speaker 1: reach a Denise. Yes, this is she, Hi Denise. My

660
00:44:24,360 --> 00:44:27,840
Speaker 1: name is Gavin. I'm actually the head jeweler here, diamond. No,

661
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:30,440
Speaker 1: how you doing? I'm good? You brought your ring in

662
00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:33,440
Speaker 1: what was it last week? I actually wasn't here, but

663
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:36,040
Speaker 1: you gave it to one of my salespersons. And yes,

664
00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:39,480
Speaker 1: you wanted to get it resized as well as get

665
00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:41,680
Speaker 1: it a praise. Correct, yes, yes, yes, and you don't

666
00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:47,720
Speaker 1: have to tell him to be that on my own. Okay, wow, okay, listen,

667
00:44:48,160 --> 00:44:50,680
Speaker 1: I actually do the resize the ring. And first of all,

668
00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:54,480
Speaker 1: let me be the person say, um, congratulations, when when

669
00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:56,760
Speaker 1: is your wedding? Thank you? I'm getting married and stuff

670
00:44:56,800 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 1: coming there. Well, congratulations too, thank you. Listen, I don't

671
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:02,279
Speaker 1: know how to tell you this now. As far as

672
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:05,239
Speaker 1: the appraiserless concern. I've looked at your ring over and

673
00:45:05,400 --> 00:45:11,600
Speaker 1: over and this this ring is probably worth maybe fifty dollars.

674
00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:15,759
Speaker 1: Excuse me, I've been I've been in this business for

675
00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:17,800
Speaker 1: over twenty years. But you know what, I'm confused on

676
00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:20,160
Speaker 1: what you just said. And I understand that. What I'm

677
00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:22,000
Speaker 1: trying to explain to you is that I've been in

678
00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:24,200
Speaker 1: this business for over twenty years. I've seen so many

679
00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:27,279
Speaker 1: different pieces of jewelry and this is something that you

680
00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:31,040
Speaker 1: that you buy late night on an infomercial for nineteen

681
00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:35,080
Speaker 1: ninety nine. This is a Cubic Zaconian stone and the

682
00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:39,600
Speaker 1: gold is not real at all. It's like, wait, wait, wait,

683
00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:41,799
Speaker 1: you lost me. You lost me as much money as

684
00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:44,320
Speaker 1: my hand make and as much money as my father

685
00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:46,960
Speaker 1: is putting down on his winding or has put down.

686
00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:50,720
Speaker 1: And you're gonna understand everything you're saying. But Denise, honestly,

687
00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:55,239
Speaker 1: do is hold on wait. I need you to hold

688
00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:58,160
Speaker 1: on because we need to convict us. Wait. Wait, man,

689
00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:01,560
Speaker 1: First of all, I can't else, so wait wait wait, wait,

690
00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:08,520
Speaker 1: wait wait hold on because okay, can you wait wait wait?

691
00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:10,480
Speaker 1: What are you trying to what you're trying to do, sir?

692
00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:13,719
Speaker 1: I need I need you to repeat what you just

693
00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:18,239
Speaker 1: said to me. Okay, I need personal stuff. Man, you

694
00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:20,680
Speaker 1: oh you hit it. It's personal now, So I need

695
00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:26,880
Speaker 1: you to hold on. Okay, oh she called her man. Okay,

696
00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:31,080
Speaker 1: thank thank hello, victim. I need to listen to this

697
00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:33,000
Speaker 1: juela that's on the front. I want you to hit it.

698
00:46:33,200 --> 00:46:35,399
Speaker 1: But he just told me, hold what's what's the problem?

699
00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:36,960
Speaker 1: What you mean, what's the problem. He's gonna tell you

700
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:41,120
Speaker 1: what the problem is. Gonna hit on, sir, don't hit on? Hello, Yeah,

701
00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:44,360
Speaker 1: who's this all right? My name is Gavin. I'm from Diamonds.

702
00:46:44,800 --> 00:46:47,759
Speaker 1: And actually your wife, I mean where your fiance. Rather,

703
00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:51,200
Speaker 1: she brought her ring in to actually be resized, and

704
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:54,399
Speaker 1: we we also did an appraisal on the ring for her.

705
00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:58,719
Speaker 1: And actually the ring is estimated to be only in

706
00:46:58,800 --> 00:47:03,040
Speaker 1: the words of around fifty dollars fifty dollars dollars fifty

707
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:06,680
Speaker 1: that's what the man said dollars in these homes. The sir,

708
00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:09,840
Speaker 1: obviously there's some sort of mistakes, sir, Now what you

709
00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:13,480
Speaker 1: got to say about that fifty dollars? That's that's got

710
00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:15,120
Speaker 1: to be some kind of mistakes. And what'd you say

711
00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:17,239
Speaker 1: your name was, sir? My name is Gavin. I work

712
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:19,440
Speaker 1: here at Diamonds. I'm the head jeweler here. I've been

713
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:23,239
Speaker 1: here for twenty years. And there's there's no way that

714
00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:25,279
Speaker 1: that ring is worth fifty dollars. I know what I

715
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:27,760
Speaker 1: paid for it. So obviously there's some sort of mistakes.

716
00:47:28,680 --> 00:47:31,080
Speaker 1: There's not a mistake. I've been dealing with jury, I've

717
00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:33,719
Speaker 1: seen it. I can't pretty much look at a ring,

718
00:47:33,800 --> 00:47:36,080
Speaker 1: but I actually went into detail on this one, as

719
00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:38,279
Speaker 1: I do all of them, and so I promise you

720
00:47:38,520 --> 00:47:41,960
Speaker 1: this is probably maybe between forty and fifty dollars for

721
00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:46,239
Speaker 1: his workers. Now, absolutely not. That's that's impossible. How is

722
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:48,279
Speaker 1: that impossible? He's a jeweler. You heard him say, he's

723
00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:51,200
Speaker 1: been doing it for twenty he's the highest impossible. I

724
00:47:51,200 --> 00:47:53,440
Speaker 1: don't understand that all the money that my dad is

725
00:47:53,480 --> 00:47:55,920
Speaker 1: putting down on this wedding and you don't pay fifty

726
00:47:57,440 --> 00:47:59,480
Speaker 1: You bought a cheap ring. Sir, No, no, no, I

727
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:02,840
Speaker 1: did not. I this is this is this is obviously

728
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:06,200
Speaker 1: some kind of mistake. You didn't got it right. You

729
00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:07,920
Speaker 1: show got that right. So what you got to say

730
00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:12,480
Speaker 1: for yourself? Don't you can't I believe that that's right.

731
00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:14,960
Speaker 1: This is this is obviously some kind of mistac Oh,

732
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:17,279
Speaker 1: it is a mistake. I'm mistake and thinking I'm gonna

733
00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:19,480
Speaker 1: get marriage to the man of my dream. I do

734
00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:22,360
Speaker 1: have the engagement ring that was purchased and bought for

735
00:48:22,560 --> 00:48:24,480
Speaker 1: your wife. I was thinking, I don't think you do.

736
00:48:24,560 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 1: I don't think you have my ring, because if you

737
00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:27,640
Speaker 1: have my ring, you wouldn't be telling me this is

738
00:48:27,680 --> 00:48:31,080
Speaker 1: worth fifty dollars. I have the ring that your wife,

739
00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:34,800
Speaker 1: your fiance brought in his wife. Yet hold on, hold on.

740
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:36,520
Speaker 1: The man is trying to explain. I'm trying to get

741
00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:40,239
Speaker 1: to the body. Thank you, So you have I don't

742
00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 1: think he has the right ring. I have the right ring.

743
00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:44,800
Speaker 1: And what I'm letting you know, sir, is that this

744
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:49,000
Speaker 1: is something you buy on an infomercial. In the dude,

745
00:48:49,080 --> 00:48:53,200
Speaker 1: you know, I ain't bot damn ring on infomercial. I

746
00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:56,920
Speaker 1: bought the ring from a reputable establishment. I have the receipt.

747
00:48:57,200 --> 00:49:00,680
Speaker 1: I have the certificate. So obviously the mistakes on your

748
00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:03,120
Speaker 1: end where you're the mistakers now here s you bought

749
00:49:03,160 --> 00:49:06,239
Speaker 1: a piece of junk. He's been doing it all these years.

750
00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:08,560
Speaker 1: How hell he's gonna make a mistake whe you come

751
00:49:08,640 --> 00:49:10,600
Speaker 1: off telling me I bought a piece of junk. I

752
00:49:10,719 --> 00:49:12,959
Speaker 1: know what I bought. If there's any mistakes that's been made,

753
00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:16,279
Speaker 1: it's on your end, world, where it's not on my end. Yeah,

754
00:49:16,719 --> 00:49:21,160
Speaker 1: Hold don't we all don't way? You want things that

755
00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:23,320
Speaker 1: my dad has had too much money for this wedding,

756
00:49:23,400 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 1: So your dollars gonna pay fifty dollars dollars dolls all

757
00:49:26,200 --> 00:49:28,840
Speaker 1: wing you wait till I tell him this? Chill hold on.

758
00:49:29,120 --> 00:49:31,239
Speaker 1: First of all, I don't appreciate you. I want to

759
00:49:31,280 --> 00:49:33,080
Speaker 1: tell you this. This is a typical case of you

760
00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:35,480
Speaker 1: trying to put it off for us because you bought

761
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:37,960
Speaker 1: a piece of stuff for fifty bucks. The money did

762
00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:41,120
Speaker 1: two dollars on? I get fifty dollars worth of a ring, Denise,

763
00:49:41,160 --> 00:49:43,520
Speaker 1: hold on, let me talk to this where you talk

764
00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:48,160
Speaker 1: and get dollars? I never heard of it. So your

765
00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:50,600
Speaker 1: wife knows exactly where issues the one that brought the ring,

766
00:49:50,680 --> 00:49:52,839
Speaker 1: and I'll tell you what. I'm gonna come down there

767
00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:55,279
Speaker 1: to see the ring that you're talking about. If it's

768
00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:57,279
Speaker 1: not the ring that I gave my girl, I'm gonna

769
00:49:57,320 --> 00:50:01,640
Speaker 1: take seventy six hundred dollars out of your because that's so.

770
00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:04,279
Speaker 1: Now you want to jump on me because you bought

771
00:50:04,280 --> 00:50:06,680
Speaker 1: your wife a piece. Come on, you want to put

772
00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:08,759
Speaker 1: it on me? You you don't tell me what the

773
00:50:09,160 --> 00:50:11,040
Speaker 1: I don't know what the I spin on the ring

774
00:50:11,120 --> 00:50:13,480
Speaker 1: and you I don't kind of trying to pull. First

775
00:50:13,520 --> 00:50:15,280
Speaker 1: of all, I don't appreciate you coming in my household

776
00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:16,920
Speaker 1: trying to mess my and you want to come to

777
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:19,200
Speaker 1: me with this one. I know the ring better be real.

778
00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:22,840
Speaker 1: If I were you, mister niece, I would not marry

779
00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:26,280
Speaker 1: somebody that I'm coming there. I'm looking for your pocket

780
00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:28,759
Speaker 1: and you know what, you don't get the ring in

781
00:50:28,840 --> 00:50:30,600
Speaker 1: a right man, you're gonna go in it. Can I

782
00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:32,520
Speaker 1: say one more thing to both of you? Are better?

783
00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:34,359
Speaker 1: I tell you what if they did, I don't want

784
00:50:34,360 --> 00:50:35,880
Speaker 1: to hear me, and you're gonna have some more problems.

785
00:50:35,920 --> 00:50:39,080
Speaker 1: This is nephew telling me from the Steve Arvin Morning Show.

786
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:48,480
Speaker 1: Y'all just got pranked by the niece's sister. That that

787
00:50:48,880 --> 00:50:54,080
Speaker 1: why she ain't got no man to be Wow. That's

788
00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:57,719
Speaker 1: I man, Wow, that's how cool? Time are you about

789
00:50:57,719 --> 00:51:02,520
Speaker 1: to start me? Wow? I'm sorry, baby, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

790
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:08,759
Speaker 1: I will ring. I gotta ask y'all something. What is

791
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:13,400
Speaker 1: the baddest radio show in the wow? But Steve Harvey,

792
00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:24,359
Speaker 1: isn't it wrong to go get to ring a praise? Though?

793
00:51:24,480 --> 00:51:31,080
Speaker 1: Isn't that like wrong? Kind of tacky? Yeah? That's tack. Yeah, okay,

794
00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:32,680
Speaker 1: so let me ask both of y'all. Y'all, when y'all

795
00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:35,920
Speaker 1: got y'all's ring, did you did you like? Wonder how

796
00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:39,000
Speaker 1: much your man spent on you? Really? I just liked.

797
00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:50,800
Speaker 1: I was trying to laugh my body language. Yeah I

798
00:51:50,880 --> 00:51:53,920
Speaker 1: didn't really, Yeah, I didn't really did y'all know? Did

799
00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:57,640
Speaker 1: y'all pick out you as rings? Food? Thank you very much?

800
00:51:57,719 --> 00:51:59,759
Speaker 1: I was wondering if you were gonna ask that question. Yes,

801
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:04,040
Speaker 1: picked mine out, you already knew, well, not for me.

802
00:52:04,200 --> 00:52:06,440
Speaker 1: We went shopping and I told him the style that

803
00:52:07,520 --> 00:52:09,839
Speaker 1: I didn't know which exact ring I was gonna get,

804
00:52:09,880 --> 00:52:18,160
Speaker 1: but he did good. It's the ring, yeah, and then

805
00:52:18,280 --> 00:52:21,399
Speaker 1: y'all buy us me and just the raggediest ring ever.

806
00:52:21,600 --> 00:52:25,399
Speaker 1: It just is not true. It looked like it looked

807
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:31,000
Speaker 1: like a washer from home deposting. All right, well, coming

808
00:52:31,120 --> 00:52:34,799
Speaker 1: up the Live Strawberry Letter with Love and hunts Love

809
00:52:34,840 --> 00:52:40,560
Speaker 1: and Marriage Huntsville Martel hote right after this. Whoa, you're

810
00:52:40,600 --> 00:52:45,080
Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Morning Show. All right, so here

811
00:52:45,160 --> 00:52:48,440
Speaker 1: we go. Uh, this is the Strawberry Letter. It is

812
00:52:48,600 --> 00:52:52,600
Speaker 1: live today. We haven't done a live Strawberry Letter in

813
00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:58,279
Speaker 1: quite sometimes years. It's been a long time. Right, Well,

814
00:52:58,360 --> 00:53:02,239
Speaker 1: today we have a special guest. I'm sure you guys

815
00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:05,680
Speaker 1: have seen the own series Love and Marriage Huntsville. Love

816
00:53:05,760 --> 00:53:09,400
Speaker 1: and Marriage Huntsville from that show is one of the stars,

817
00:53:09,600 --> 00:53:13,919
Speaker 1: mister Martell Holt will be joining us today. Now, Steve,

818
00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:17,400
Speaker 1: let's clear something up. Okay, Martell reached out to us.

819
00:53:18,160 --> 00:53:21,400
Speaker 1: We did not go to find Martelle. Martell reached out

820
00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:24,879
Speaker 1: to us. Uh. He said, he's sincerely seeking advice now.

821
00:53:26,040 --> 00:53:29,879
Speaker 1: He is attempting to move forward with his life. Um,

822
00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:33,120
Speaker 1: and he knows that we encourage him to tell his truth.

823
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:36,080
Speaker 1: Let me give you a little background about Love and

824
00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:39,120
Speaker 1: Marriage Huntsville. It is a reality show. Like I said,

825
00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:45,080
Speaker 1: let me, I've never seen this show. I know I

826
00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:50,319
Speaker 1: love yea, you know it's the number one show. One

827
00:53:50,760 --> 00:53:53,080
Speaker 1: gonna say that Martell is the number one show on

828
00:53:53,239 --> 00:54:00,480
Speaker 1: own everybody watching. Wait wait wait, hold Ontel, it's the

829
00:54:00,600 --> 00:54:04,680
Speaker 1: number one show. Brother, It's okay, okay, oh yeah, I

830
00:54:04,800 --> 00:54:07,040
Speaker 1: think I think Ready to Love is the number one.

831
00:54:07,120 --> 00:54:10,320
Speaker 1: So much thanks. There's two different things go ahead, Sharon

832
00:54:14,400 --> 00:54:17,960
Speaker 1: Love and Marriage. Huntsville is uh this show that seemed

833
00:54:18,000 --> 00:54:21,799
Speaker 1: to come out of nowhere, out of Huntsville, Alabama. It's

834
00:54:21,800 --> 00:54:27,359
Speaker 1: about these three very prosperous uh black couples entrepreneurial estate.

835
00:54:27,800 --> 00:54:32,120
Speaker 1: Hey yeah, their real estate, their development. Um. Anyway, they're

836
00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:35,799
Speaker 1: in Huntsville, Alabama, and they have a group company name

837
00:54:35,880 --> 00:54:38,319
Speaker 1: called the Comeback Group. That's how it started, and that's

838
00:54:38,360 --> 00:54:40,520
Speaker 1: what you thought you were going to see, you know,

839
00:54:40,640 --> 00:54:44,520
Speaker 1: how they navigate through their businesses and their marriages. But

840
00:54:44,680 --> 00:54:48,440
Speaker 1: what what came out of that was the marriage between

841
00:54:49,000 --> 00:54:53,200
Speaker 1: Martel and Melody Holt and the dynamic of their marriage

842
00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:55,560
Speaker 1: and what they were going through. Comes to find come

843
00:54:55,640 --> 00:54:58,360
Speaker 1: to find out, there was a lot going on that

844
00:54:58,480 --> 00:55:01,200
Speaker 1: we didn't even know about. First. See this beautiful couple,

845
00:55:01,320 --> 00:55:07,080
Speaker 1: I mean beautiful Melody Holte is stunning a stunningly gorgeous woman.

846
00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:10,640
Speaker 1: They were married, four children, three children. At first step,

847
00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:14,440
Speaker 1: they had some problems, she heard he was cheating. They

848
00:55:14,560 --> 00:55:18,600
Speaker 1: worked through it, and then she got pregnant. They got

849
00:55:18,680 --> 00:55:21,680
Speaker 1: pregnant again with a fourth child. So that's kind of

850
00:55:21,719 --> 00:55:25,040
Speaker 1: how it was. Then after that there were more rumors

851
00:55:25,080 --> 00:55:30,080
Speaker 1: of cheating, more rumors of cheating, and uh, well it

852
00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:33,080
Speaker 1: didn't end so well so far, mart They ended up

853
00:55:33,920 --> 00:55:37,840
Speaker 1: in divorce court. It's just a mess. Okay. It is

854
00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:41,200
Speaker 1: just really, really really at this point a mess. And

855
00:55:41,440 --> 00:55:45,480
Speaker 1: you know, people like mess. So that's why we watched

856
00:55:45,560 --> 00:55:48,600
Speaker 1: the show. That's why everybody is so into love and

857
00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:52,800
Speaker 1: marriage Huntsville on the own network. So again, Martel reached

858
00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:56,400
Speaker 1: out to us because you know, he is getting bashed

859
00:55:56,880 --> 00:56:01,040
Speaker 1: and you know, some people say deservedly so because he cheated.

860
00:56:01,120 --> 00:56:04,480
Speaker 1: He had a beautiful family and he cheated and lost

861
00:56:04,600 --> 00:56:08,240
Speaker 1: his family. So now he wants advice. I'm assuming Martel,

862
00:56:08,640 --> 00:56:11,840
Speaker 1: you're you're you want to move forward and try to

863
00:56:12,120 --> 00:56:16,759
Speaker 1: you know, uh, go on with your life. Basically, is

864
00:56:16,840 --> 00:56:20,560
Speaker 1: that why you're here? Um? Definitely, so, Um, I would

865
00:56:20,600 --> 00:56:25,480
Speaker 1: definitely say that being a husband, I'm sorry being a husband,

866
00:56:25,560 --> 00:56:27,880
Speaker 1: and you know I'm not gonna say, not having a

867
00:56:27,920 --> 00:56:31,640
Speaker 1: father figure or I'm not having a black role model, um,

868
00:56:32,000 --> 00:56:34,279
Speaker 1: not having that as an excuse. But you know, I

869
00:56:34,480 --> 00:56:36,440
Speaker 1: was really like learning like trial and error as I

870
00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:39,479
Speaker 1: was going. You know, uncle, he's married for like twelve

871
00:56:39,560 --> 00:56:42,360
Speaker 1: thirteen years, and you know we had a lot of

872
00:56:42,480 --> 00:56:45,200
Speaker 1: up the downs and great times and not so great times,

873
00:56:45,280 --> 00:56:49,360
Speaker 1: and but you know I failed. Um, And you know

874
00:56:49,440 --> 00:56:52,959
Speaker 1: that's why I'm here because for my future I want

875
00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:56,040
Speaker 1: to be better here at point playing. You know, I

876
00:56:56,080 --> 00:56:57,520
Speaker 1: don't want to continue to do the things that I've

877
00:56:57,520 --> 00:56:59,520
Speaker 1: done in the path. Okay, Can I ask a question

878
00:56:59,560 --> 00:57:03,160
Speaker 1: because I don't know the answer to. So, are you divorced?

879
00:57:03,239 --> 00:57:08,680
Speaker 1: Are you married? Is it over? Are you trying to reconcile? Yeah? Um,

880
00:57:08,800 --> 00:57:12,480
Speaker 1: well no, um we um, the divorce is final. I

881
00:57:12,600 --> 00:57:15,160
Speaker 1: mean it was final as about a month ago. Okay.

882
00:57:15,800 --> 00:57:19,400
Speaker 1: But it's life after marriage or life after a divorce,

883
00:57:19,520 --> 00:57:24,000
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, well yeah I do know. So why

884
00:57:24,360 --> 00:57:30,919
Speaker 1: I know as well? You call the right man trying

885
00:57:30,960 --> 00:57:34,960
Speaker 1: to figure out how to do it again. I think

886
00:57:35,040 --> 00:57:37,800
Speaker 1: marriage is a beautiful thing. It really is. I enjoyed

887
00:57:37,880 --> 00:57:40,600
Speaker 1: being married, um, and just some things that happen up

888
00:57:40,600 --> 00:57:42,640
Speaker 1: and I guess I just really I dropped the ball,

889
00:57:43,000 --> 00:57:45,080
Speaker 1: I really Okay, okay, so let me ask you, so,

890
00:57:45,200 --> 00:57:47,200
Speaker 1: when you say you dropped the ball, tell me where

891
00:57:47,280 --> 00:57:50,360
Speaker 1: you where you think you would run thinking that I

892
00:57:51,360 --> 00:57:55,480
Speaker 1: deserve more. Well, I'm not gonna say that. I think

893
00:57:55,520 --> 00:57:57,840
Speaker 1: I was being greedy. I think I was being greedy,

894
00:57:58,040 --> 00:57:59,800
Speaker 1: you know, and at times, you know, I would definitely

895
00:58:00,640 --> 00:58:03,280
Speaker 1: that I was saying that my wife wasn't doing certain

896
00:58:03,360 --> 00:58:06,280
Speaker 1: things within the relationship. Um, but I guess I should

897
00:58:06,320 --> 00:58:09,800
Speaker 1: have communicated that in a different way. I'm opposed to

898
00:58:10,080 --> 00:58:13,320
Speaker 1: stepping out, you know. Okay, yeah, okay, Well, we're not

899
00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:16,560
Speaker 1: gonna do is. We're just gonna tell your truth. We're

900
00:58:16,560 --> 00:58:18,640
Speaker 1: gonna leave your ex wife. We're not gonna We're not

901
00:58:18,720 --> 00:58:21,960
Speaker 1: gonna bash or blame. Oh no, no, no, no, no, no,

902
00:58:22,800 --> 00:58:25,560
Speaker 1: that's not at all, not at all. I was just

903
00:58:25,680 --> 00:58:27,840
Speaker 1: saying how I messed up, how I should have handled

904
00:58:27,840 --> 00:58:30,760
Speaker 1: it in a different way. Yeah. So no, no, no,

905
00:58:30,960 --> 00:58:33,440
Speaker 1: no bashing, no negative to anything of that nature. I'm

906
00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:36,280
Speaker 1: looking kind I kind of felt that from me. But

907
00:58:36,360 --> 00:58:38,360
Speaker 1: there was a lot of that though, Steve, which is

908
00:58:38,440 --> 00:58:40,920
Speaker 1: why I said it on the show. A lot there

909
00:58:41,040 --> 00:58:43,640
Speaker 1: was a lot of that. What he did, he didn't

910
00:58:43,640 --> 00:58:46,680
Speaker 1: do it just now. I ain't seen the show, so

911
00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:49,480
Speaker 1: let me let me, let me keep saying, that's how

912
00:58:49,560 --> 00:58:51,400
Speaker 1: the women, that's how the women come at me, just

913
00:58:51,600 --> 00:58:54,280
Speaker 1: like she just did. That's how that's how they come

914
00:58:54,280 --> 00:59:00,480
Speaker 1: at me. And that's father dog. Yeah, Hey, that's you.

915
00:59:00,760 --> 00:59:04,439
Speaker 1: Is living this one down, gonna be But Martell, you're here.

916
00:59:05,040 --> 00:59:07,040
Speaker 1: You wanted to come, We allowed you to come. We

917
00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:09,440
Speaker 1: welcome you to the show, and we do want you

918
00:59:09,520 --> 00:59:12,280
Speaker 1: to tell your side of it. We welcome Melody to

919
00:59:12,400 --> 00:59:14,240
Speaker 1: do the same thing if she would like to. Well,

920
00:59:14,520 --> 00:59:17,000
Speaker 1: well we come back. Yeah. I have a couple of

921
00:59:17,120 --> 00:59:19,880
Speaker 1: questions that you can answer for me, and then we'll

922
00:59:19,960 --> 00:59:23,920
Speaker 1: go from there. Our special guest today is Martell Holte

923
00:59:24,120 --> 00:59:28,200
Speaker 1: from uh Love and Marriage Huntsville on the own channel,

924
00:59:28,240 --> 00:59:34,400
Speaker 1: Straight Up A last sixty five. We'll be back right

925
00:59:34,440 --> 00:59:40,560
Speaker 1: after that. You're listening to Steven Show. All right, Steve,

926
00:59:40,680 --> 00:59:43,600
Speaker 1: we are back with our live Strawberry Letter. Like we

927
00:59:43,680 --> 00:59:46,040
Speaker 1: said earlier, the first one we've done in many, many years.

928
00:59:46,080 --> 00:59:50,000
Speaker 1: Our special guest today is Martell Holt from the own networks,

929
00:59:50,160 --> 00:59:54,080
Speaker 1: Love and Marriage Huntsville. We can recap, So, do you

930
00:59:54,200 --> 00:59:56,600
Speaker 1: have an idea of kind of what's going on? Now, Steve,

931
00:59:56,640 --> 00:59:58,440
Speaker 1: I know you said you haven't watched the show. I

932
00:59:58,560 --> 01:00:00,920
Speaker 1: haven't watched your show, but just brothers on here. He

933
01:00:01,000 --> 01:00:05,840
Speaker 1: had a family, He lost his family because he uh cheating?

934
01:00:07,040 --> 01:00:09,400
Speaker 1: Well yeah he didn't. He didn't know how to, how to,

935
01:00:09,680 --> 01:00:12,120
Speaker 1: how to, how to how to do it and he

936
01:00:12,240 --> 01:00:15,720
Speaker 1: said in his own words, he was just greedy and

937
01:00:16,040 --> 01:00:18,440
Speaker 1: uh so it caused it the minds of his family.

938
01:00:18,520 --> 01:00:21,240
Speaker 1: What I just pulled a picture and looked up beautiful family.

939
01:00:21,680 --> 01:00:24,480
Speaker 1: And so the divorce is final now, so let me

940
01:00:24,520 --> 01:00:30,080
Speaker 1: ask you this mantel, If you could do anything differently,

941
01:00:30,920 --> 01:00:36,640
Speaker 1: what would you have done? The fuck could have done

942
01:00:36,640 --> 01:00:42,480
Speaker 1: anything differently? What would have done? Um? I think the

943
01:00:42,520 --> 01:00:48,040
Speaker 1: communication with my wife, Um, I think just like like

944
01:00:48,160 --> 01:00:49,800
Speaker 1: what she mentioned to me, what I should have done it.

945
01:00:50,040 --> 01:00:53,320
Speaker 1: I should have literally grabbed her and set her down

946
01:00:53,880 --> 01:00:57,680
Speaker 1: and had that adult conversation. Opposed to the things that

947
01:00:57,720 --> 01:01:00,640
Speaker 1: I was complaining about. I would just complain lea, you know,

948
01:01:00,720 --> 01:01:03,560
Speaker 1: opposed to really saying, hey, listen, we have an issue.

949
01:01:04,160 --> 01:01:08,040
Speaker 1: Let's sit down, let's talk about it. Because it's making

950
01:01:08,080 --> 01:01:11,560
Speaker 1: me feel a certain way that's not wasn't be pleasant

951
01:01:11,600 --> 01:01:14,720
Speaker 1: for our our marriage. So like what she mentioned, I

952
01:01:14,760 --> 01:01:18,040
Speaker 1: should better communication. Okay, Now let me ask you something.

953
01:01:19,560 --> 01:01:25,080
Speaker 1: Were you while you were asked having these verbal complaints?

954
01:01:26,480 --> 01:01:31,120
Speaker 1: Was there anything you was doing that deserved a complaint? Well?

955
01:01:31,240 --> 01:01:33,680
Speaker 1: She she wasn't complaining about about too much. You know,

956
01:01:33,840 --> 01:01:37,440
Speaker 1: we we had children, um where we have children, and

957
01:01:37,640 --> 01:01:39,760
Speaker 1: you know a lot of the times I was like

958
01:01:39,840 --> 01:01:44,200
Speaker 1: the more dumb at parent. You know it. Well, well, no,

959
01:01:44,640 --> 01:01:46,760
Speaker 1: it wasn't anything that she was complaining about. It wasn't

960
01:01:46,760 --> 01:01:50,920
Speaker 1: well dog was it was? No? No? No, was it?

961
01:01:51,120 --> 01:01:55,320
Speaker 1: She wasn't complaining because she didn't know everything? Right? Um,

962
01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:57,800
Speaker 1: I'm not sure. I mean she we didn't have to

963
01:01:57,840 --> 01:02:00,160
Speaker 1: have her on the phone for that because well, let

964
01:02:00,200 --> 01:02:05,120
Speaker 1: me did you did? Was you hiding the cheating part?

965
01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:13,040
Speaker 1: Pretty good? And for how long? It? Yeah? I was

966
01:02:13,920 --> 01:02:16,600
Speaker 1: when I was complaining. When I started to complain, that's

967
01:02:16,640 --> 01:02:20,240
Speaker 1: around the same time that I stepped out. When I

968
01:02:20,280 --> 01:02:24,120
Speaker 1: started to complain certain things then wasn't a justice so

969
01:02:24,240 --> 01:02:27,400
Speaker 1: ain't I wanted it? Which was selfish? Um, this when

970
01:02:27,400 --> 01:02:29,920
Speaker 1: I stepped out, and you know, it went on for

971
01:02:29,920 --> 01:02:32,920
Speaker 1: about a year before she found out. Went on for

972
01:02:32,960 --> 01:02:35,840
Speaker 1: a year. Now, let me ask yourself, do you think

973
01:02:36,000 --> 01:02:39,640
Speaker 1: in your mind that the stepping out also brought about

974
01:02:39,640 --> 01:02:43,000
Speaker 1: the demise of the relationship. I would definitely say so,

975
01:02:43,520 --> 01:02:47,800
Speaker 1: because that probably took something out of me that could

976
01:02:47,800 --> 01:02:50,360
Speaker 1: have been going towards my wife and I was situating

977
01:02:50,440 --> 01:02:54,000
Speaker 1: over here to someone else. So I totally agree with that.

978
01:02:54,400 --> 01:02:56,920
Speaker 1: And there was a baby involved. Steve, What you mean

979
01:02:58,360 --> 01:03:04,480
Speaker 1: he has a baby with this other woman? Huh yes, yeah,

980
01:03:04,920 --> 01:03:11,320
Speaker 1: yeah about you know, five years on down the line. Yeah, women, dog,

981
01:03:11,400 --> 01:03:15,960
Speaker 1: what what I mean? You don't watch the show the

982
01:03:16,000 --> 01:03:22,720
Speaker 1: whole baby with this other woman? Yeah? You the other

983
01:03:22,840 --> 01:03:27,440
Speaker 1: woman got pregnant, she did. I mean this is when

984
01:03:27,480 --> 01:03:29,720
Speaker 1: we um said that we was going to get divorced

985
01:03:29,760 --> 01:03:32,240
Speaker 1: and all that type stuff. So, um, it's not like

986
01:03:32,360 --> 01:03:36,680
Speaker 1: it happened early on, but it happened. Um. Well, hold on, now,

987
01:03:37,120 --> 01:03:42,240
Speaker 1: hold on, now, hold on, because after she found out

988
01:03:42,320 --> 01:03:46,480
Speaker 1: she was cheating. How long were you all married after

989
01:03:46,600 --> 01:03:51,640
Speaker 1: she found out? Um, five years. It took her five

990
01:03:51,760 --> 01:03:55,320
Speaker 1: years to find out. No, no, no, no, she found

991
01:03:55,360 --> 01:04:00,320
Speaker 1: out five years ago. Oh okay, so she's stay with

992
01:04:00,440 --> 01:04:04,160
Speaker 1: you after she found out she was cheating. Yeah, okay,

993
01:04:05,040 --> 01:04:07,800
Speaker 1: but okay, how old how old is the baby? The

994
01:04:07,960 --> 01:04:14,120
Speaker 1: new baby? I'm newborn. It was born around Christmas right

995
01:04:14,560 --> 01:04:21,680
Speaker 1: this Christmas now it's a newborn. We we can't undo

996
01:04:21,880 --> 01:04:24,440
Speaker 1: none of it is. So I'm just trying to get

997
01:04:24,480 --> 01:04:26,560
Speaker 1: the facts. Okay, Okay, so I just leave it long.

998
01:04:26,640 --> 01:04:29,160
Speaker 1: You got a new born, but you have how many

999
01:04:29,280 --> 01:04:32,240
Speaker 1: children with your wife? The woman you were married? You

1000
01:04:32,360 --> 01:04:39,640
Speaker 1: got four kids? How close in age is the last two? See? Um? Well,

1001
01:04:39,720 --> 01:04:43,560
Speaker 1: Malia Melanne she is once they wanted to have and

1002
01:04:44,640 --> 01:04:53,040
Speaker 1: my third m five, So it's like a four year difference.

1003
01:04:54,520 --> 01:05:01,400
Speaker 1: She found out five years ago. So he hasn't well

1004
01:05:01,480 --> 01:05:04,040
Speaker 1: before we I want us to say this to Steve

1005
01:05:04,720 --> 01:05:07,400
Speaker 1: before we do run out of time. Martell did come

1006
01:05:07,520 --> 01:05:09,920
Speaker 1: on here to get some advice from No, that's what

1007
01:05:10,000 --> 01:05:12,240
Speaker 1: we're gonna do. That's why we go. This is longer

1008
01:05:12,280 --> 01:05:16,240
Speaker 1: than two Strawberry Letters. It is. We find to carry

1009
01:05:16,320 --> 01:05:18,680
Speaker 1: this over to break number three because I do what

1010
01:05:18,800 --> 01:05:20,200
Speaker 1: I do. I don't want to. I do want to

1011
01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:23,200
Speaker 1: hear the soldier out, Yeah, because look I've been there,

1012
01:05:23,320 --> 01:05:26,320
Speaker 1: and then you know, men can quit tripping. Every man,

1013
01:05:26,640 --> 01:05:33,000
Speaker 1: every man, not this story. Stop acting, stop acting brand

1014
01:05:33,080 --> 01:05:37,280
Speaker 1: new every man, not this story. All right, Hold up,

1015
01:05:37,440 --> 01:05:40,200
Speaker 1: hold up, Steve, We'll have part three of the Strawberry

1016
01:05:40,280 --> 01:05:43,160
Speaker 1: Letter with our special guest this live Strawberry Letter with

1017
01:05:43,560 --> 01:05:47,760
Speaker 1: Martell Hope of Martell Holt from a Love and Marriage Huntsville.

1018
01:05:48,040 --> 01:05:50,120
Speaker 1: We'll be back at forty six minutes after the hour.

1019
01:05:50,280 --> 01:05:55,400
Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to show. All right, here

1020
01:05:55,440 --> 01:05:59,320
Speaker 1: we are Steve Live with Martell Holt from Owen's Love

1021
01:05:59,440 --> 01:06:04,320
Speaker 1: and Marriage Huntsville. Now he's come on the show for advice.

1022
01:06:04,400 --> 01:06:06,400
Speaker 1: Now I had to get some background. Took me two

1023
01:06:06,480 --> 01:06:09,520
Speaker 1: breaks to get the background. Martel was married to a woman.

1024
01:06:10,120 --> 01:06:13,800
Speaker 1: They have a family together. Uh, he admittedly stepped out

1025
01:06:14,200 --> 01:06:17,360
Speaker 1: and now found out there's another child involved, and the

1026
01:06:17,560 --> 01:06:21,440
Speaker 1: divorces final, and so now here he is and and uh,

1027
01:06:21,520 --> 01:06:23,960
Speaker 1: he's admitted that he did some things wrong. What I

1028
01:06:24,200 --> 01:06:27,760
Speaker 1: learned myself was you can't fix in your house. You

1029
01:06:27,840 --> 01:06:31,680
Speaker 1: can't fix what's wrong in your house outside your house. Man.

1030
01:06:32,320 --> 01:06:35,720
Speaker 1: A lot of men go that route to be honest

1031
01:06:35,800 --> 01:06:37,960
Speaker 1: with you. You know, there's something wrong, and they and

1032
01:06:38,080 --> 01:06:40,160
Speaker 1: they started telling it to somebody and somebody to give

1033
01:06:40,200 --> 01:06:43,520
Speaker 1: a listening. In next thing, you know, they're listening real good,

1034
01:06:43,600 --> 01:06:45,920
Speaker 1: and they seem to be understanding. The next thing, you know,

1035
01:06:46,600 --> 01:06:50,480
Speaker 1: you know, some some things jump off. So Martel, where

1036
01:06:50,520 --> 01:06:52,720
Speaker 1: we're at right now? Man, what would you like to

1037
01:06:52,800 --> 01:06:56,160
Speaker 1: accomplish with this phone call, you know. UM, So right now,

1038
01:06:56,400 --> 01:06:58,160
Speaker 1: I guess I'm going through a tough time because we

1039
01:06:58,720 --> 01:07:02,200
Speaker 1: do have our four children. Um. I divorced this. Um,

1040
01:07:02,880 --> 01:07:05,640
Speaker 1: it's been over what about a month ago now, and

1041
01:07:06,960 --> 01:07:11,040
Speaker 1: I guess I do want to move forward, um, But

1042
01:07:11,120 --> 01:07:13,480
Speaker 1: I guess I need to know how do I move on?

1043
01:07:14,360 --> 01:07:17,880
Speaker 1: Um in terms of like do I start to you know,

1044
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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say start dating someone now, but like, like,

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01:07:21,800 --> 01:07:24,200
Speaker 1: what does the future look like? You've been doing that?

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01:07:24,560 --> 01:07:27,720
Speaker 1: Don't say I don't worry about that, but let me

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01:07:27,920 --> 01:07:31,400
Speaker 1: but see, let me say this, because I don't care

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01:07:31,480 --> 01:07:33,960
Speaker 1: how a marriage go. At the end of the day,

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01:07:34,680 --> 01:07:37,600
Speaker 1: the children had nothing to do with it. And every

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01:07:37,760 --> 01:07:42,480
Speaker 1: man that has been found guilty of this, every last

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01:07:43,160 --> 01:07:46,320
Speaker 1: one of us who have been guilty of this, have

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01:07:46,520 --> 01:07:50,600
Speaker 1: had to grapple with the facts that we blew a family. Yeah,

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01:07:51,280 --> 01:07:54,760
Speaker 1: we we messed up a family. Yeah. I'm balance with

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01:07:54,920 --> 01:07:57,800
Speaker 1: right now soon yeah, man, because it's and it's and

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01:07:57,880 --> 01:08:01,840
Speaker 1: it's hard man, because you know, in the words of

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01:08:01,960 --> 01:08:05,920
Speaker 1: Tyrese in that song shame, what am I supposed to

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01:08:06,000 --> 01:08:11,800
Speaker 1: tell these kids? See? That's that's the gripper and that's

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01:08:11,840 --> 01:08:14,800
Speaker 1: where a lot of us, as men, we don't have

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01:08:15,080 --> 01:08:18,040
Speaker 1: groups to help us through these moments like this. Okay,

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Speaker 1: he is seeing a therapist, Steve, by the way, a therapist. Yeah,

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01:08:23,479 --> 01:08:27,360
Speaker 1: he's seeing a therapist. I have it's the therapist. Is

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01:08:27,400 --> 01:08:31,280
Speaker 1: he divorced? No, No, We've been thinking about thirty time

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01:08:31,439 --> 01:08:33,320
Speaker 1: years and and my thing is the reason I wanted

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01:08:33,360 --> 01:08:36,240
Speaker 1: to speak with you, honestly, is because I feel that

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01:08:36,280 --> 01:08:39,680
Speaker 1: you've been through some things, That's what I'm saying. And

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01:08:40,160 --> 01:08:42,559
Speaker 1: you are like the best person to seek advice from

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01:08:42,640 --> 01:08:44,600
Speaker 1: someone that has actually been through something I don't. And

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk to you. Don't go learn how to swim.

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01:08:47,080 --> 01:08:50,280
Speaker 1: Somebody can't swim. All right, all right, we're gonna come

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Speaker 1: back more breaking number eight. All right, from Loving Marriage Huntsville.

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Speaker 1: After this, This is a Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're

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Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Our

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01:09:08,320 --> 01:09:12,160
Speaker 1: special guest. This is a special live edition of the

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Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter for today. Our guest is Martell Holt. That's right,

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Speaker 1: I said, Martell Holt from Love and Marriage, Huntsville. On own.

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01:09:22,520 --> 01:09:25,800
Speaker 1: Martell reached out to us. He is seeking advice from

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01:09:25,880 --> 01:09:29,400
Speaker 1: Steve he wanted. He wants to move on. Now he

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01:09:29,520 --> 01:09:31,880
Speaker 1: wants to move on, and it's nothing wrong with that,

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01:09:32,000 --> 01:09:34,880
Speaker 1: because that is life. You have to move on, you know,

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01:09:35,120 --> 01:09:38,040
Speaker 1: that's how we learn, We make mistakes, we move on. Steve,

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01:09:38,439 --> 01:09:42,120
Speaker 1: now martell As informed me of what happened. He had

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01:09:42,160 --> 01:09:44,960
Speaker 1: a marriage, had some things going wrong in it, he

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01:09:45,040 --> 01:09:47,640
Speaker 1: didn't know how to handle it. He admittedly handled it

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01:09:47,760 --> 01:09:51,599
Speaker 1: the wrong way. He lost his family, divorced his final

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01:09:51,760 --> 01:09:55,640
Speaker 1: He has children and another child outside the marriage. And

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01:09:55,840 --> 01:09:58,720
Speaker 1: today he's sitting here with face with what I know,

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01:09:58,800 --> 01:10:01,160
Speaker 1: a lot of me and a face with you know,

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01:10:01,280 --> 01:10:04,560
Speaker 1: I've had to look at it myself. And so what

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01:10:04,760 --> 01:10:07,320
Speaker 1: I'm saying to you now, Martel, is if I were

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01:10:07,360 --> 01:10:11,479
Speaker 1: you to move forward, because you are now your your

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01:10:11,600 --> 01:10:16,720
Speaker 1: divorces is public. It's crazy. So now you know you're

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01:10:16,760 --> 01:10:19,960
Speaker 1: getting ate up alive by by women. They're not trying

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01:10:20,000 --> 01:10:24,200
Speaker 1: to hear you. But the one thing you could do, See,

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01:10:24,320 --> 01:10:27,160
Speaker 1: the one thing men don't do is we don't do

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01:10:27,400 --> 01:10:33,760
Speaker 1: closure right and sometimes man, closure is a very significant

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01:10:33,840 --> 01:10:38,760
Speaker 1: thing for women, especially public because since your wife was

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01:10:38,880 --> 01:10:44,639
Speaker 1: embarrassed publicly see see it's it's like it's like when

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01:10:44,680 --> 01:10:48,600
Speaker 1: the newspaper make a mistake, and the rebuttal it'd be

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01:10:48,720 --> 01:10:51,880
Speaker 1: front page mistake. But then the rebuttal being the classified

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01:10:52,000 --> 01:10:56,360
Speaker 1: section in small print, we made a mistake. They don't

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01:10:56,400 --> 01:10:59,880
Speaker 1: do that. So probably the beginning of helping your girl

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01:11:00,920 --> 01:11:06,080
Speaker 1: and yourself and your kids is to publicly apologize to

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01:11:06,240 --> 01:11:09,680
Speaker 1: her and admit you're wrong in it, so that she

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01:11:10,400 --> 01:11:13,639
Speaker 1: can get some type of relief from what she's been

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01:11:14,080 --> 01:11:18,000
Speaker 1: filling with publicly. You feel what I'm saying, I don't understand.

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01:11:20,280 --> 01:11:23,799
Speaker 1: She's not gonna forgive him. That's not going to happen. Now,

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01:11:24,439 --> 01:11:27,320
Speaker 1: don't worry about that. That ain't what you after. He

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01:11:27,800 --> 01:11:32,000
Speaker 1: has to make her whole, not himself hole, and so

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01:11:32,400 --> 01:11:34,479
Speaker 1: what he trying to do is find a way so

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01:11:34,680 --> 01:11:37,320
Speaker 1: he can kind of put something together for this woman.

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01:11:37,680 --> 01:11:39,519
Speaker 1: I think that would be an interesting way to go

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01:11:39,640 --> 01:11:44,400
Speaker 1: about it, to publicly address this situation and put her

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01:11:44,439 --> 01:11:47,160
Speaker 1: at ease, so she's not at fault for some of

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01:11:47,240 --> 01:11:51,120
Speaker 1: the things you may have said publicly about her. It

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01:11:51,280 --> 01:11:54,280
Speaker 1: was just probably you lashing out trying to cover and

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01:11:54,439 --> 01:11:56,400
Speaker 1: all this here because I know man. Look man, when

1117
01:11:56,560 --> 01:11:58,519
Speaker 1: when you know man, when we as men do wrong,

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01:11:59,040 --> 01:12:02,080
Speaker 1: we just a fy wrong with telling the woman what

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01:12:02,360 --> 01:12:05,080
Speaker 1: she did wrong that caused us to do wrong. And

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Speaker 1: that's what I've been doing for quite something. What'll listening

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01:12:09,320 --> 01:12:13,080
Speaker 1: um see I seem schirltce. He's making in certain things

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01:12:13,120 --> 01:12:15,160
Speaker 1: in terms of like I publicly said this and that.

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Speaker 1: So we started filming the show. I didn't want to

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01:12:17,760 --> 01:12:21,400
Speaker 1: put our our business on TV. I didn't I didn't

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Speaker 1: want to publicly talk about but the show did. But

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01:12:25,479 --> 01:12:27,599
Speaker 1: they did it. No, no one would have known anything.

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01:12:28,040 --> 01:12:30,439
Speaker 1: And it was a surprise to me when she hit

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Speaker 1: me with it. It was on TV show. That was

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01:12:32,920 --> 01:12:35,880
Speaker 1: the first letting right there. I tell people all the time,

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01:12:35,920 --> 01:12:39,320
Speaker 1: if you want your marriage to not survive, put it

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01:12:39,439 --> 01:12:43,040
Speaker 1: on TV. I think the beginning, No, Montel is the

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01:12:43,280 --> 01:12:47,360
Speaker 1: public statement to make her whole again and not yourself.

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01:12:48,000 --> 01:12:51,880
Speaker 1: That's the beginning because it provides an element of closure.

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Speaker 1: And then after that that is a little bit of

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01:12:59,120 --> 01:13:03,479
Speaker 1: h friend that you have to endure. I did it, man,

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01:13:03,720 --> 01:13:08,120
Speaker 1: I know, and and mine wasn't entirely my fault either.

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01:13:08,960 --> 01:13:12,479
Speaker 1: I can tell you flat out. But in the court

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01:13:12,600 --> 01:13:18,519
Speaker 1: of public opinion, it don't matter wrong doggy. In the

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01:13:18,640 --> 01:13:25,200
Speaker 1: court of public opinion, it doesn't matter a victim Martell, No, no, no, no,

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01:13:25,400 --> 01:13:27,679
Speaker 1: I'm just saying it just doesn't matter. I'm not saying

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01:13:27,720 --> 01:13:31,000
Speaker 1: to be a victim. It just don't matter. A dude,

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Speaker 1: I don't give it, Dann what you say? You know.

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01:13:34,439 --> 01:13:37,080
Speaker 1: So it's gonna be a level of suffering that you

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Speaker 1: have to endure because of the pain that was inflicted.

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01:13:41,040 --> 01:13:43,559
Speaker 1: Hang on, Martell, Okay, we gotta take a quick break here.

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01:13:43,600 --> 01:13:47,240
Speaker 1: We'll be back with more of this Live Strawberry Letter

1147
01:13:47,360 --> 01:13:56,000
Speaker 1: reality show right after this. You're listening to show. All right,

1148
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Speaker 1: we're back with part five. It is part five of

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01:13:59,520 --> 01:14:05,000
Speaker 1: our life str of our Live Strawberry Letter reality show

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01:14:05,040 --> 01:14:08,000
Speaker 1: today with our special guests Martell Holt, who reached out

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01:14:08,040 --> 01:14:11,840
Speaker 1: to us. He wanted some advice during the Strawberry Letter segment,

1152
01:14:11,920 --> 01:14:14,200
Speaker 1: and that is what we do. We give advice, and

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01:14:14,720 --> 01:14:18,600
Speaker 1: Martell is here seeking that and we're trying to do that.

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01:14:18,840 --> 01:14:21,800
Speaker 1: And Carla during the break, he said, hold on one second.

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01:14:22,280 --> 01:14:24,600
Speaker 1: But just he came on the show, he told me

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01:14:24,680 --> 01:14:29,719
Speaker 1: a situation. His wife is divorced, yet outside relationships, there's

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01:14:29,760 --> 01:14:34,479
Speaker 1: another baby involved. The divorce is finalized. He loves his wife,

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01:14:34,560 --> 01:14:38,040
Speaker 1: he's not in love with her, and his whole thing

1159
01:14:38,320 --> 01:14:41,800
Speaker 1: was what can I do to move forward. My first

1160
01:14:41,880 --> 01:14:44,800
Speaker 1: suggestion is to provide this woman with some type of

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01:14:44,880 --> 01:14:48,439
Speaker 1: closure what you publicly did to her and said to her.

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01:14:48,920 --> 01:14:52,120
Speaker 1: The apology has to be at that same level. See

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01:14:52,240 --> 01:14:55,080
Speaker 1: it kills me when people talk about me on the internet.

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01:14:55,160 --> 01:14:57,439
Speaker 1: Then when I catch him somewhere, they want to say

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01:14:57,479 --> 01:15:00,679
Speaker 1: I'm sorry in the dressing room. No, Joe, I ask

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01:15:00,760 --> 01:15:03,200
Speaker 1: it on that same internet you was on when you

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01:15:03,280 --> 01:15:04,960
Speaker 1: was talking to all that yak nil, when I got

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01:15:05,040 --> 01:15:07,040
Speaker 1: up in your face, man to man, Now you now

1169
01:15:07,120 --> 01:15:10,040
Speaker 1: you're down to something else. I'll break this too, Damn sure,

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01:15:10,880 --> 01:15:14,040
Speaker 1: I think Martell. What's missing is you just did not

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01:15:14,760 --> 01:15:19,040
Speaker 1: show any remorse. It didn't you broke her heart. But

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01:15:19,160 --> 01:15:21,920
Speaker 1: the one thing that I never got from you was

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01:15:21,960 --> 01:15:24,880
Speaker 1: that you were sorry, old down. We're gonna give you

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01:15:24,960 --> 01:15:29,360
Speaker 1: a chance, Martell, to respond and to make it right,

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01:15:29,600 --> 01:15:31,800
Speaker 1: try to make it right and apologizing all that. But

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Speaker 1: we got to take another break and we'll be back

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Speaker 1: with more of this Live Strawberry Letter reality show right

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Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to show. Hey, listen, y'all were back.

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01:15:43,720 --> 01:15:46,840
Speaker 1: I'm taking this kind of fast. Martel Holt is on

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01:15:46,960 --> 01:15:49,519
Speaker 1: the on the on the phone with us today on

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Speaker 1: the radio. His family's broken up. His wife is divorced too.

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01:15:54,760 --> 01:15:58,519
Speaker 1: H he was unhappy he stepped out. There's another child involved,

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01:15:59,200 --> 01:16:01,840
Speaker 1: carl It brought up an interesting point while we've been

1184
01:16:01,880 --> 01:16:05,040
Speaker 1: talking about all of this is that the reason so

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01:16:05,160 --> 01:16:07,880
Speaker 1: many women our Team Melody is because they kind of

1186
01:16:07,960 --> 01:16:12,360
Speaker 1: watched you break up on television with some of the

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01:16:12,479 --> 01:16:16,400
Speaker 1: things you said, and Carlin said, you've never seen quite

1188
01:16:17,280 --> 01:16:20,400
Speaker 1: remorseful about it innocence a way. How do you respond

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01:16:20,479 --> 01:16:24,320
Speaker 1: to that motel? I am very I'm very sorry, and

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01:16:25,560 --> 01:16:27,639
Speaker 1: you know, I didn't want to bring to some against

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01:16:27,720 --> 01:16:30,200
Speaker 1: my family. You know, as many times that I prayed

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01:16:31,360 --> 01:16:34,479
Speaker 1: on my knees and asked the Lord to really, for real,

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01:16:34,600 --> 01:16:38,840
Speaker 1: like remove this same from me, you know, but it's

1194
01:16:38,880 --> 01:16:42,880
Speaker 1: like I kind of fell for this person and it

1195
01:16:43,040 --> 01:16:46,120
Speaker 1: just got out of hand, and now that we on

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Speaker 1: a reality show, it's like my backers against the wall.

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Speaker 1: And then I guess if you guys know about reality shows,

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01:16:53,280 --> 01:16:55,559
Speaker 1: they get to run the narrative the way they want

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Speaker 1: to run it. You know, it's a lot of things

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01:16:57,400 --> 01:17:00,120
Speaker 1: that y'all women are saying on this TV show that

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01:17:00,280 --> 01:17:02,920
Speaker 1: I really would not do in real life. You know

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01:17:03,640 --> 01:17:06,680
Speaker 1: that editing is very serious. I tell you that that

1203
01:17:06,920 --> 01:17:10,000
Speaker 1: editing is very serious. And um, you know, I've been

1204
01:17:10,120 --> 01:17:15,599
Speaker 1: very apologetic to my wife. But but but you can't

1205
01:17:15,680 --> 01:17:19,599
Speaker 1: control you can't control who you are on that show

1206
01:17:20,360 --> 01:17:23,439
Speaker 1: because they're there, there's there's there has to be a

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01:17:23,479 --> 01:17:25,880
Speaker 1: way that you can control who you are. They can't

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01:17:26,040 --> 01:17:29,600
Speaker 1: make the Martell be be the Martell they want it

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01:17:29,640 --> 01:17:31,840
Speaker 1: to be just because they want ratings. You have to

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01:17:31,920 --> 01:17:34,960
Speaker 1: be able to control the Martell that you want, the

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01:17:35,200 --> 01:17:40,000
Speaker 1: Martell that's portrayed out there. That sounds really good, that

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01:17:40,080 --> 01:17:42,040
Speaker 1: sounds really good. But when they put you in, when

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01:17:42,080 --> 01:17:44,639
Speaker 1: you want to meet five different people that you really

1214
01:17:44,720 --> 01:17:48,160
Speaker 1: would not meet in real life, that makes you feel

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01:17:48,240 --> 01:17:50,679
Speaker 1: some type of way. I'm up here meeting people telling

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01:17:50,720 --> 01:17:52,960
Speaker 1: them about my relationship that I normally wouldn't do. What

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01:17:53,000 --> 01:17:55,880
Speaker 1: I'm chare the producers that I'm not gonna meet today.

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01:17:56,200 --> 01:17:59,760
Speaker 1: Oh that's my job. And but but I think what

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01:18:00,040 --> 01:18:04,400
Speaker 1: Tommy is saying this this Martel, I think you said

1220
01:18:04,560 --> 01:18:08,240
Speaker 1: some things that they didn't have to really embellish just

1221
01:18:08,439 --> 01:18:11,519
Speaker 1: play it. Yeah. And you know, sometimes man, when we

1222
01:18:11,640 --> 01:18:14,439
Speaker 1: in front of people, we flex a little bit, right,

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01:18:14,640 --> 01:18:17,479
Speaker 1: And I think to my understanding is it was a

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01:18:17,560 --> 01:18:20,240
Speaker 1: lot of flexing on the show because you know, when

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01:18:20,280 --> 01:18:22,320
Speaker 1: the camera's on, you know, everybody want to appear in

1226
01:18:22,360 --> 01:18:25,639
Speaker 1: their best light, and you appearing in your best light

1227
01:18:25,960 --> 01:18:29,960
Speaker 1: put her in her worst light. Yeah, and that's and

1228
01:18:30,160 --> 01:18:33,960
Speaker 1: and and and that has cost you a family. When

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01:18:34,040 --> 01:18:37,560
Speaker 1: we come back, man, we're gonna talk about that, the

1230
01:18:37,680 --> 01:18:41,160
Speaker 1: importance of the family. And after you apologize to her

1231
01:18:41,439 --> 01:18:46,600
Speaker 1: publicly not privately, what I think, as Steve Harvey, you

1232
01:18:46,680 --> 01:18:49,560
Speaker 1: should do to move forward. And I think we'll be

1233
01:18:49,640 --> 01:18:52,600
Speaker 1: able to put some type of closure to the situation

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01:18:52,680 --> 01:18:56,240
Speaker 1: when we come down like that. We'll be back with

1235
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Speaker 1: our last break of the day with Martel Holte from

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Speaker 1: Loving Marriage Phil right after this. You're listening to this

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01:19:04,080 --> 01:19:07,080
Speaker 1: morning show, all right, Steve, Here we are our last

1238
01:19:07,240 --> 01:19:10,280
Speaker 1: break of the day. Our very special guest today from

1239
01:19:10,400 --> 01:19:13,760
Speaker 1: Owen's Love and Marriage Huntsville has been Martel Holt, who

1240
01:19:13,840 --> 01:19:16,720
Speaker 1: reached out to us. He wanted some advice during the

1241
01:19:16,760 --> 01:19:20,519
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. And that's what we were, you know, here

1242
01:19:20,600 --> 01:19:23,720
Speaker 1: trying to do because I you know, believe in redemption.

1243
01:19:23,920 --> 01:19:25,840
Speaker 1: I mean, we would tell the same person who wrote

1244
01:19:25,920 --> 01:19:30,000
Speaker 1: in with these same issues, you know, about redemption and

1245
01:19:30,200 --> 01:19:34,160
Speaker 1: forgiveness and things like that. And public apologies, like you said,

1246
01:19:34,640 --> 01:19:38,559
Speaker 1: So that's what we're here for. You know, ahead, listen,

1247
01:19:38,640 --> 01:19:41,479
Speaker 1: you know, just to recap it. His brother called in.

1248
01:19:42,200 --> 01:19:44,680
Speaker 1: He made some mistakes in his marriage. He knows that

1249
01:19:44,840 --> 01:19:48,080
Speaker 1: he stepped outside. He's lost his family. He wants to

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Speaker 1: move forward as another child involved. And we've been talking.

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01:19:51,800 --> 01:19:53,880
Speaker 1: And one of the things that I know that men

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01:19:53,960 --> 01:19:57,680
Speaker 1: are not good at is we're not good at closure. Now,

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01:19:57,720 --> 01:20:00,320
Speaker 1: the thing about this brother is it's a lot of

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01:20:00,400 --> 01:20:03,680
Speaker 1: me and out here that are him. A lot of

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01:20:03,720 --> 01:20:06,400
Speaker 1: me and out here can know exactly where he coming from.

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01:20:06,800 --> 01:20:09,560
Speaker 1: Let's stop all this we righteous. Damn oh man, I

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01:20:09,640 --> 01:20:12,040
Speaker 1: can't believe you did that. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah

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01:20:12,760 --> 01:20:16,240
Speaker 1: yeah Okay. And this is a story that's played out

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01:20:16,320 --> 01:20:18,920
Speaker 1: in a lot of places. This has played out all

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01:20:18,960 --> 01:20:22,200
Speaker 1: over the country, all over the world, all of the time.

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01:20:22,960 --> 01:20:25,400
Speaker 1: And it ain't just this. The days have changed. Its

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01:20:25,520 --> 01:20:28,880
Speaker 1: women doing the exact same thing. Now, you know, it's

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01:20:28,960 --> 01:20:31,280
Speaker 1: just I will be truthful with you. Women are way

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01:20:31,400 --> 01:20:37,479
Speaker 1: better at better. So now, Martell, as I talk to

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01:20:37,560 --> 01:20:40,840
Speaker 1: you about apologizing, you thought that would be a good

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01:20:40,920 --> 01:20:44,360
Speaker 1: move to do publicly, for her, to give her some closure,

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01:20:44,479 --> 01:20:48,120
Speaker 1: because you know what was done publicly can only be

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01:20:48,320 --> 01:20:51,280
Speaker 1: undone publicly. You know you're not gonna get your family back,

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01:20:51,320 --> 01:20:53,400
Speaker 1: and not in love anymore, but you do love her.

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01:20:53,720 --> 01:20:55,920
Speaker 1: I saw a picture of your family and beautiful family.

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01:20:56,360 --> 01:21:00,400
Speaker 1: So now moving forward, Man, here's what we have to

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01:21:00,520 --> 01:21:04,160
Speaker 1: do as men. Even though we make a mistake and

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01:21:04,240 --> 01:21:09,560
Speaker 1: we cost ourselves the family struction, we cannot crumble the

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01:21:09,760 --> 01:21:14,080
Speaker 1: fiber of the family because them kids ain't got nothing

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01:21:14,080 --> 01:21:17,639
Speaker 1: to do with this, and and and and and kids

1276
01:21:17,640 --> 01:21:24,000
Speaker 1: are affected by divorce. They are affected. And so what

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01:21:24,200 --> 01:21:26,200
Speaker 1: they have to know at the end of this Martel,

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01:21:26,320 --> 01:21:29,000
Speaker 1: from my standpoint, is they have to know that they

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01:21:29,080 --> 01:21:33,639
Speaker 1: daddy loved them more than he loves anything else. Your

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01:21:33,760 --> 01:21:38,040
Speaker 1: children have to know that you love them more soul

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01:21:38,320 --> 01:21:42,080
Speaker 1: than you love anything else you've ever done. And soul

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01:21:42,600 --> 01:21:47,400
Speaker 1: it becomes a part of if you and the wife

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01:21:47,600 --> 01:21:50,920
Speaker 1: can be cool enough to sit in front of the

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01:21:51,080 --> 01:21:53,960
Speaker 1: children and show a unified front. I don't know where

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01:21:54,040 --> 01:21:56,799
Speaker 1: y'all at with that. I don't know if that's doable.

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01:21:57,080 --> 01:21:59,080
Speaker 1: I don't know if the hurt is too much right now,

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01:21:59,200 --> 01:22:02,160
Speaker 1: because sometimes take time. And like Bishop Jakes told me,

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01:22:02,280 --> 01:22:04,320
Speaker 1: he said, man, you can't just say I'm sorry and

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01:22:04,439 --> 01:22:06,200
Speaker 1: expect to walk back in at a mall and it's

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01:22:06,240 --> 01:22:09,479
Speaker 1: all good, right, he said, That's not how this works.

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01:22:10,160 --> 01:22:13,439
Speaker 1: That's how it used to be, right, yeah, right, because

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01:22:13,640 --> 01:22:17,400
Speaker 1: somebody got injured. Yeah, you know, and even though they

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01:22:17,479 --> 01:22:20,599
Speaker 1: put a bandage on it, deeply, the pain is still there.

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01:22:21,680 --> 01:22:26,160
Speaker 1: So I'm assuming mar tell you call because you I mean, look, man,

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01:22:26,280 --> 01:22:30,519
Speaker 1: obviously you love your family, your kids most definitely, definitely,

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01:22:30,880 --> 01:22:33,439
Speaker 1: and so we gotta we gotta get in that man

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01:22:33,680 --> 01:22:38,360
Speaker 1: and produce. Do you what you're saying Step one, Steve

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01:22:38,680 --> 01:22:43,439
Speaker 1: is to publicly apologize on his road to redemption and

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01:22:44,080 --> 01:22:46,760
Speaker 1: getting you know, moving forward with his life. You're saying

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01:22:47,400 --> 01:22:52,639
Speaker 1: step one is to publicly apologize. See, the large press

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01:22:52,880 --> 01:22:55,320
Speaker 1: is forgive us our trust passes as we forgive those

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01:22:55,360 --> 01:22:59,600
Speaker 1: who trust pass against us. You can't expect God to

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01:22:59,640 --> 01:23:03,240
Speaker 1: show you Grayson mercy if you don't exhibit Grayson mercy. Yeah,

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01:23:03,280 --> 01:23:05,000
Speaker 1: because you know what I mean. That was one of

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01:23:05,080 --> 01:23:07,439
Speaker 1: the things that upset the women so much, is that

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01:23:07,640 --> 01:23:10,160
Speaker 1: the arrogance that you had. It seemed like you were

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01:23:10,200 --> 01:23:14,320
Speaker 1: just so arrogant about it and you know just what, yeah,

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01:23:14,320 --> 01:23:16,840
Speaker 1: I did. It is what it is. You kept lying

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01:23:16,920 --> 01:23:19,320
Speaker 1: about it and and all of that and that's what

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01:23:19,560 --> 01:23:22,880
Speaker 1: infuriated us. You were so arrogant. So now, yeah, because

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01:23:22,880 --> 01:23:24,800
Speaker 1: at the beginning, I didn't want everybody. I didn't want

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01:23:24,840 --> 01:23:26,800
Speaker 1: the whole country in my business first off, you know,

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01:23:26,840 --> 01:23:30,760
Speaker 1: because it wasn't no no, no, I mean, it wasn't

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01:23:30,760 --> 01:23:34,120
Speaker 1: a plan of Marteille to put my because I knew

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01:23:34,160 --> 01:23:36,439
Speaker 1: what was gonna happen if it got out, so I

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01:23:36,479 --> 01:23:38,479
Speaker 1: didn't want it to be out. So yeah, I'm gonna

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01:23:38,520 --> 01:23:40,880
Speaker 1: lie at first. I'm like, no, I wasn't cheating. I

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01:23:40,920 --> 01:23:43,200
Speaker 1: don't want everybody to know it. She knew and I knew,

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01:23:43,520 --> 01:23:45,719
Speaker 1: And to me, that should have been it. It should

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01:23:45,760 --> 01:23:48,760
Speaker 1: have been brought to you guy, It should have been

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01:23:48,840 --> 01:23:51,400
Speaker 1: brought to the world, you know, because I knew it

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01:23:51,439 --> 01:23:54,559
Speaker 1: was gonna happen, So I was, Yeah, I was lying

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01:23:54,560 --> 01:23:58,120
Speaker 1: about it before. Well, at least you're honest about that.

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01:24:00,200 --> 01:24:06,160
Speaker 1: Listen to every man on this show and yeah, down

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01:24:08,680 --> 01:24:11,320
Speaker 1: a couple of minutes left. So let's let's let's let

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01:24:11,560 --> 01:24:16,960
Speaker 1: Martelle have the floor so he can publicly apologize. Go ahead, Martell, Okay, Um,

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01:24:17,160 --> 01:24:21,000
Speaker 1: so to Melody, Um, the person I've been with over

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01:24:21,439 --> 01:24:25,479
Speaker 1: fourteen years, Um, I grew up with you. Um, we've

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01:24:25,479 --> 01:24:28,679
Speaker 1: accomplished a lot in life. We have four beautiful children,

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01:24:28,760 --> 01:24:31,400
Speaker 1: and UM, you know, I wouldn't be the person that

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01:24:31,439 --> 01:24:33,360
Speaker 1: I am, and I'm not talking about the negative things,

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01:24:33,400 --> 01:24:36,120
Speaker 1: but I wouldn't be the person man without you. UM.

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01:24:37,000 --> 01:24:39,640
Speaker 1: I do love you. I love what we stood for,

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01:24:40,680 --> 01:24:44,760
Speaker 1: and it's my my deepest hope that we can you know,

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01:24:45,360 --> 01:24:48,560
Speaker 1: UM co parent together. Accomplished that and make sure that

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01:24:48,600 --> 01:24:51,160
Speaker 1: we raise our children, UM in the same way that

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01:24:51,240 --> 01:24:53,960
Speaker 1: we wanted to raise them when we're together. So I

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01:24:54,080 --> 01:24:56,600
Speaker 1: just want to know that I am sorry to have

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01:24:56,720 --> 01:25:00,679
Speaker 1: put you through this, my children, through this, our families

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01:25:00,720 --> 01:25:03,360
Speaker 1: through this. I mean it hurts me, but I know

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01:25:03,439 --> 01:25:05,400
Speaker 1: it hurts you just as much as it hurts me.

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01:25:05,600 --> 01:25:10,200
Speaker 1: And I'm sorry, Melody for everything that I've done, everything,

1343
01:25:10,400 --> 01:25:13,200
Speaker 1: But I thank you for the opportunities that you gave me.

1344
01:25:13,479 --> 01:25:15,519
Speaker 1: He gave me plenty of chances to get it right.

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01:25:15,800 --> 01:25:17,720
Speaker 1: God gave me plenty of chances to get it right.

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01:25:18,120 --> 01:25:21,560
Speaker 1: I remember us talking about things UM in terms of

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01:25:22,200 --> 01:25:25,680
Speaker 1: manly God blessing us and showing us favor, and then

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01:25:25,800 --> 01:25:28,439
Speaker 1: every time I step out, we lose that favor. And

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01:25:29,600 --> 01:25:33,920
Speaker 1: to you, I wish you the best in life, your

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01:25:33,960 --> 01:25:38,280
Speaker 1: career and um talking about in my heart. I am sorry,

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01:25:38,920 --> 01:25:41,919
Speaker 1: I am well, brother, I think I think it's sincere,

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01:25:42,200 --> 01:25:45,120
Speaker 1: you know, um And one day man, one day man,

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01:25:45,240 --> 01:25:47,479
Speaker 1: just all get better. So we thank you for joining

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01:25:47,600 --> 01:25:50,120
Speaker 1: this Martell Home. Thank you, thank you. I appreciate you

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01:25:50,200 --> 01:26:05,160
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