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Speaker 1: Hey, thanks for finding the Second Date Update podcast. It's

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Yes, and today we

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Speaker 1: actually do every Thursday a little something different than we

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Speaker 1: do on our show. We're going to give you a

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Speaker 1: brand new textual healing in just a moment, but first

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Speaker 1: we have to revisit yesterday's Second Date because apparently Horny

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Speaker 1: Botanical Gardens.

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Speaker 2: Really really struck a chord with a lot of our listeners.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I was reading the textboard and like

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Speaker 3: I'm scrolling right now and there's at least like five.

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Speaker 4: People asking for Vanessa's number.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: Okay, and then no, I love these one says I've

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Speaker 3: never done that in a botanical garden, but I did

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Speaker 3: get a chick in a park. Oh okay, a lovely

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Speaker 3: park out here, and this one is a good one.

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Speaker 4: Hey, Brook and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 3: I had a very successful hookup in the men's bathroom

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Speaker 3: at the Botanic Gardens. Unfortunately it was interrupted by another

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Speaker 3: man and his kid coming into the bathroom, so my

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Speaker 3: boyfriend and I had to run out while he was

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Speaker 3: in the toilet.

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Speaker 1: It was sexy, though none of that sounds sexy to me,

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Speaker 1: but I'm just gonna have to take your word for it.

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Speaker 1: Disturbing so much was going down at the Botanical Garden.

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Speaker 4: TAA gardens parks.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I can never look at them the same anymore?

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Speaker 4: Or kid?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: All right, Hey, we.

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Speaker 2: Love your comments. Leave them off with this one too.

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Speaker 1: It's your brand new textual healing starting right now.

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Speaker 5: We've all seen the YouTube videos of city council meetings

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Speaker 5: where a bunch of stuffy up type people are discussing

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Speaker 5: things like traffic signs and size restrictions on your trash

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Speaker 5: cand lids.

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Speaker 2: Yea, I usually don't hit play on those, but okay, yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, fair. They do get pretty boring and sometimes one

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Speaker 5: email can help spice things up a little bit. And

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Speaker 5: oh boy, did that happen at an HOA meeting recently?

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Speaker 5: One sassy email has sparked a very awkward situation between neighbors.

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Speaker 5: And now we're getting roped into the drama. You're gonna

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Speaker 5: hear the shady text that started it all in a

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Speaker 5: brand new textual healing that's coming up next. Text you

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Speaker 5: will heal then textual It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 5: And we are not doctors, no, at least not the

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Speaker 5: licensed kind, but we do have the ability to heal

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Speaker 5: people textually, Yes, we do, because this is textual healing

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Speaker 5: where we help out our listeners who are stuck in

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Speaker 5: an awkward or difficult situation where they have to text

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Speaker 5: someone but don't know exactly what to say. We'll work

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Speaker 5: with you to craft the perfect message.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're kind of like that back alley clinic that

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Speaker 1: you get botox from.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 5: I don't know what clinics you like to visit, Brooke.

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Speaker 2: But I'm just thinking of the doctor analogy.

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Speaker 5: Sorry, you don't believe in doctors. Yeah, but perfect message

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Speaker 5: is kind of the strong word for it. A workable

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Speaker 5: one is what we're after here. Something that helps achieve

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Speaker 5: what you want while hopefully preserving your dignity in the process.

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Speaker 5: And writers block for text messaging.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, good analogy.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I should have gone with that one instead of

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Speaker 5: the doctors chat GPT when you have exactly We've got

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Speaker 5: a woman on the phone looking for some tender textual

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Speaker 5: healing today. Her name is Samantha. So, Samantha, welcome to

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Speaker 5: the show.

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Speaker 6: He there.

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Speaker 5: Did you specifically ask for tender or is that a

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Speaker 5: jeff thing?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think she appreciates it.

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Speaker 5: I mean we like to start tender and gentle, and

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Speaker 5: then we can get firmer and more aggressive as this

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Speaker 5: what your situation is, Samantha, and how we can help

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Speaker 5: heal you. Textually, I screwed.

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Speaker 6: Up big time, totally, totally. I'm on an h A board,

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Speaker 6: So you know what that's like.

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Speaker 2: Okay, volunteered to be on the board.

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Speaker 6: What was I thinking?

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Speaker 5: You were chasing? The power that comes with it is

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Speaker 5: a lot of power.

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Speaker 2: You needed to have called us before you made that choice.

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Speaker 5: Okay, so something involving your.

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Speaker 6: Well, what happened was we have this one board member

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Speaker 6: and he does these lengthy, long winded wordy emails that

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Speaker 6: I get to the point, make it short and simple.

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Speaker 6: I screamshotted one and I put a caption on it.

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Speaker 6: It said, will someone please take his keyboard away? Exclamation point.

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Speaker 6: I was going to send it to another board member

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Speaker 6: that we both kind of had this like running joke there,

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Speaker 6: but it went to the entire complex.

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Speaker 1: No, there even people who were on the h A board.

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Speaker 6: Yes, yes, including the person that I was referring to.

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Speaker 2: My goodness, oh, and is it too late to say

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Speaker 2: you got hacked? Okay, very specific joke.

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Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, I mean what were the emotions that you

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Speaker 6: It was like, oh, you said that, my heart sunk

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Speaker 6: and tell.

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Speaker 5: Us that story?

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Speaker 2: What did I do?

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Speaker 6: I mean, I feel really bad? And I mean it

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Speaker 6: was like, I think I first noticed it when I

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Speaker 6: little popcorn and the big eye.

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Speaker 1: I'm here for the showoji people.

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Speaker 6: OHMG, type one? You know?

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Speaker 1: No, wait, did he write back to the guy you

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Speaker 1: were talking about right back?

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Speaker 6: No? No, nothing from him, But I mean I'm sure

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Speaker 5: Okay, So obviously that's a really awkward situation to find

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Speaker 5: yourself in. And now you've emailed our show for help.

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Speaker 5: What are you wanting to do with your text here?

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Speaker 6: I mean, I want to apologize. I want to take

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Speaker 6: accountability to what I did.

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Speaker 1: So we're going to be texting him.

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Speaker 6: Yes, I want to text him directly.

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Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, Okay, we'll make sure. Don't you sure you

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Speaker 5: don't want to double down on what you said in

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Speaker 5: a joke?

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Speaker 4: Breaking his house steels laptop if you prefer.

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Speaker 1: Do you think we follow it up where you just

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Speaker 1: text him a thing like it's the second part of

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Speaker 1: your joke. It's like, would somebody take this keyboard away

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Speaker 1: and give this guy a microphone?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, MVP with a little gold star more for.

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Speaker 6: God?

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Speaker 5: Has anyone in the room actually had a situation like

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Speaker 1: I accidentally was talking crap about my sister to my

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Speaker 1: mom and I didn't know she was on the email thread.

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Speaker 5: Okay, and what did you do in that situation?

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Speaker 2: Bro? I immediately called and apologized.

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Speaker 5: Okay, we're not calling it. Yeah, do a call.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean she was mad at me for a while.

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Speaker 5: Can we take any lessons from what you said and

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think the lesson is you just have

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Speaker 1: to know that you're in the wrong, like that you messed.

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Speaker 5: Up, So tell the guy he messed up wrong. No, okay,

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Speaker 5: she needs to accept accountability. How does she say that? Though?

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Speaker 2: What are you most worried about?

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Speaker 1: You're worried about hurting his feelings or you're worried about

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Speaker 2: With him later, like are you even sorry for what

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Speaker 6: Well, you know, it's something I would have said to

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Speaker 6: a friend, like oh here he goes again. Yeah, I

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Speaker 6: mean I do want to apologize. I didn't mean to

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Speaker 6: pray a joke at his expense.

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Speaker 1: Right right, right, or embarrass him in front of other people,

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Speaker 1: right and exactly?

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Speaker 5: Okay, you give advice in her own words, But you're

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Speaker 5: the age away. Aren't you supposed to sound boring? Like

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Speaker 5: aren't you supposed to start with like you may have

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Speaker 5: been at tentative to a text message yesterday. Yeah, I

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Speaker 5: think in most situations that would apply. But for this,

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Speaker 5: we're gonna have to be a little bit heartfelt, something sincere,

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Speaker 5: what we have to start crafting?

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Speaker 6: Now?

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Speaker 5: What are we going to type to this guy?

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Speaker 2: I think the first thing you need to do is

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Speaker 1: You need to say, oh my god, I accidentally send

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Speaker 2: Did you see it?

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Speaker 5: Pretty interesting email thread we had yesterday? Huh? I like

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Speaker 5: I kind of like that, what do you think.

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Speaker 6: Samantha, You know, I just know that if I call

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Speaker 4: Have you had a chance to check your why?

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Speaker 5: And then he goes to chat And honestly, maybe that's

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Speaker 1: Could play it off as a joke if he has

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Speaker 5: I like that, Samantha. I think you gotta go with

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Speaker 1: So I mean, maybe start with, hey, did you see

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Speaker 1: the email yesterday that everybody's don't say that.

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Speaker 5: Everybody everybody's laughing at you. Honestly, I liked Jose's thing,

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Speaker 5: be like, whoa pretty crazy text thread that the group

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Speaker 1: Maybe something to lighten it, like what about a yike's

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Speaker 5: That's accepting some responsibility. Let's start writing that, Okay, Samantha.

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Speaker 1: Okay, every time I hear about Hy's I'm so glad

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Speaker 1: I've never lived with one.

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Speaker 5: Samantha, did you send it?

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Speaker 2: Okay, how are you feeling?

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Speaker 6: I'm nervous about okah.

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Speaker 5: Sometime we have to just react to whatever he says.

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Speaker 6: Now I wanted to answer or not.

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Speaker 5: He doesn't, but just double checking you did send it

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Speaker 5: to him and not to the.

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Speaker 2: Okay, learned.

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Speaker 5: I think. So we've ripped the band aid off. We've

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Speaker 5: started the initial stages of our apology. Will come back

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Speaker 5: and continue it with more textual healing to the weird

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Speaker 5: guy from HOA. Right after this hold on, we're in

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Speaker 5: the middle of textual healing with our listener, Samantha, who's

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Speaker 5: trying to fix a big whoopsie that she made because

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Speaker 7: It's just kind of a lot, yes, generally very on

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Speaker 7: top of things, too much so, so she basically screenshoted

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Speaker 7: it saying, well, someone please take his keyboard away, and.

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Speaker 5: Meant to send it to just one of her friends,

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Speaker 5: didn't realize it went out to the whole group, including

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Speaker 6: It is? Yeah? I guess from now on I will

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Speaker 6: keep my emails under twelve paragraphs for you. I'll then

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Speaker 5: Oh kidding at first?

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Speaker 3: Well, okay, that was a sarcastic twelve paragraph dude.

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry he's still kidding. But the middle fingers back

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Speaker 2: All the emojis, that is the most aggressive.

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Speaker 6: I mean I feel bad. It's like I really need

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Speaker 5: And maybe you could even compliment him to try and backtrack.

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Speaker 6: You take a lot of time to do the email.

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Speaker 1: And we appreciate the passion that you have. You're one

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I have a secret crush on you. Well, you know,

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, Well, I definitely like the thing about like

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, and then you say it what a jerk.

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Speaker 2: You are, and I am such a jerk. I didn't

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Speaker 5: Okay, so why don't you let's send the apology text

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Speaker 1: Okay, dude, you're about to get so many A two

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Speaker 5: He's going to be all over your property with like

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Speaker 5: Are you a good like baker or like you could

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Speaker 6: That's a good idea.

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Speaker 5: That's what you meant hand gestures that you could do back.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, wait wait wait it's popped.

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Speaker 5: Okay, it popped bubbles? Oh okay, pop pop.

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Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, here's what he says, wrote something, Go ahead.

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Speaker 6: I showed your text to my therapist.

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Speaker 5: Oh no, it.

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Speaker 6: Says I have a tendency to trust loud women with

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Speaker 6: Yeah. He's trying to yeah, yeah, to make you feel

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Speaker 6: It's like.

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Speaker 1: A passive aggressive insult to her that she drinks too

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Speaker 6: She's maybe I should get him a bottle of wine.

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Speaker 5: That's funny, but clearly his feelings were hurt by it.

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Speaker 5: So he's taking whatever chance that he can to get

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Speaker 2: And get even jump out a wine bandwagon. And you're right,

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Speaker 6: So I admit it. I had to make.

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Speaker 6: Threw it up and I feel really bad.

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Speaker 5: I think a lot of people feel you. But so

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Speaker 5: you sent the text, Yeah, I got it.

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Speaker 6: Great, So okay, let's see how this one goes over.

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Speaker 1: Is there anyone that everyone on the HA hates, you know,

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Speaker 1: sometimes everybody needs a common enemy.

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Speaker 4: Or is it him?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I mean, if if he.

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Speaker 5: To start like high school drama and keep the guy

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Speaker 6: There isn't enough drama on these boards anyhow.

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Speaker 5: We're trying to put out the flames here. So are

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Speaker 6: It's mate here it is.

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Speaker 5: We're getting pops.

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Speaker 2: See what we got, she says, Okay.

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Speaker 5: We love what a picture with the flip phone.

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Speaker 6: For some reason, in all honesty, I showed my wife

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Speaker 2: That's a sweet response from him. He's actually coming to

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Speaker 6: But I did not expect that, So don't feel bad.

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Speaker 6: I'm sticking to bullet points from now on.

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Speaker 2: That guy came from the middle finger back to this.

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Speaker 6: Yeah. I think this is success, definite least success.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and he took your constructive criticism on his long

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Speaker 4: He's probably so happy he's gonna stop emailing.

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Speaker 5: Ye oh my okay, So I feel like at this

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Speaker 6: You shut up.

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Speaker 2: Now you need to write her back one more time.

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Speaker 1: I just say, yeah, I'll be dropping off a bottle

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Speaker 2: You should still do you know what I mean.

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Speaker 6: I definitely will do that, definitely.

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Speaker 5: Just don't show up already drinking someone. I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 5: I'm not drinking wine. I'm drinking vodka. Okay, So if

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Speaker 6: Okay, Samantha, Okay, this is a win win, and I

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Speaker 5: Successful edition of textual Healing. Please nobody else from Hoa's

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Speaker 6: Jeffrey in the Morning, Freaking Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 5: Why do I feel like our listener Samantha and that

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Speaker 2: That's gonna be why yes one Wednesday's girl.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, oh my god, you think his emails are bad,

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Speaker 5: At least you don't have to sit through his dumb

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Speaker 6: God, well, you.

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Speaker 1: Could tell by how quickly he shrank away from his

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Speaker 2: Then he's been beaten down before.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, guy, he's trying to clap back at the woman

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Speaker 5: I give you full permission to talk crap about all

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Speaker 5: of us if you hit subscribe on the podcast right now.

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Speaker 1: Send the link of this podcast to everybody you know

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Speaker 1: and tell him how terrible it is.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so god. That guy Jeff too. His voice is

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Speaker 2: Ugh, that's not insulting, you thought, Well

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Speaker 5: Whatever insult you want to come up with,