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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Wes,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Welcome to the show. How are you, good morning.

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Speaker 1: I'm doing all right, thank you. How are you okay?

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Speaker 2: Just all right? That's fair. I'm doing great. Thanks for asking.

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Speaker 1: But we want to help you out here because you

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Speaker 1: met a woman named Colleen and you, guys, I guess,

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Speaker 1: went out and you feel like maybe now you're being ghosted.

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Speaker 1: So fill us in all the backstory. How did you meet,

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Speaker 1: any dates that you've been on kind of any information

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Speaker 1: that we need to know.

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Speaker 3: Totally, I'm definitely being ghosted. We met on Tinder and

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Speaker 3: we went out on Valentine's Day. It was a beautiful date.

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Speaker 3: I mean, as far as I could tell. Drinks were flowing.

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Speaker 3: Obviously I was gonna like I got a flowers. We're talking.

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Speaker 3: She seemed like sure us into me, and then I

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Speaker 3: don't know, like just throwout, Like in the middle of

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Speaker 3: our dinner she told me, oh, sorry, I have an

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Speaker 3: emergency and that she had to go, which I totally get.

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Speaker 3: Things happen, you know, and I was totally expecting for

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Speaker 3: her to like call me back or like get a

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Speaker 3: second date, and then I don't know, Radio silence, couldn't

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Speaker 3: get a hold of her.

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Speaker 2: I'm just wondering, what's what happened?

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Speaker 3: Because everything was going so well.

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Speaker 1: Wow, So this was a great date until like a

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Speaker 1: hard stop and then she's like I got to get

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Speaker 1: on her and maybe schedule another date, and she's not

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Speaker 1: responding to you at all exactly. It was so bro Well,

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Speaker 1: all right, well, let's call this woman Colleen. We'll see

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Speaker 1: if we can get her on the phone in just

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Speaker 1: a second. We'll ask these questions. You'll be on the

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Speaker 1: phone too, and you're welcome to jump in at some point.

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Speaker 1: And the hope, as always is that we can straighten

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Speaker 1: this out and set you guys up on another date

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Speaker 1: that we pay for.

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Speaker 2: All Right, all right, I'm nervous, let's do it.

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Speaker 1: All right, let's get into this part two of waiting

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Speaker 1: by the phone. It's two minutes away. After go go

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Speaker 1: on Bruno Mars Spread Show, Stay here, four hundred and

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Speaker 1: in five questions in ten minutes. On the Fred Show,

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Speaker 1: Hey Wes, Hello, let's call Colleen. You guys recently went

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Speaker 1: on a date and you thought the date was going

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Speaker 1: really well until at some point during the date, she's like, hey,

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Speaker 1: I gotta go abruptly, and then she takes off and

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Speaker 1: you're sitting there going, I don't know what happened here,

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Speaker 1: And you've reached out since then, trying to reschedule or

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Speaker 1: you know, go out again, and she's not responding, and

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Speaker 1: you want to know what's going on? Yeah, okay, I'd

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Speaker 1: love to know and get some closure. Right right, well,

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Speaker 1: let's call Colleen right now? Good luck, Wes. Hello, Hi

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Speaker 1: is this Colleen?

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Speaker 4: This Colleen?

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Speaker 2: Hey Colleen, good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show,

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Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on

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Speaker 1: the radio right now and I would need your permission

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Speaker 1: to continue with the call. Can which have for just

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Speaker 1: a second on the air, you can hang off any semyone?

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Speaker 1: So is it okay if we talked for a second?

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Speaker 2: H yeah?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, thank you for calling on. Behalf of a

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Speaker 1: dude name Wes. I guess you guys met on Tinder

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Speaker 1: recently and you went on a date. Do you remember

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Speaker 4: Oh? Yeah, yes, I do.

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Speaker 2: So he Well, he called us and told us that.

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Speaker 1: He was excited to meet you and that when he

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Speaker 1: of you. So what is all that about, because I

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Speaker 4: Well, did he tell you about what happened?

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Speaker 1: No, he just said that you guys met and then

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Speaker 2: Now that's all we know.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well let me let me catch you up from

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Speaker 4: the beginning and tell you what actually happened.

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Speaker 2: Please.

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Speaker 4: So we matched on Tinder, and like you know, he

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Speaker 4: So we met up for drinks and you know, I thought,

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Speaker 4: We're going to another location. And I was like, okay,

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Speaker 4: well this is like turning out well, you know whatever.

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Speaker 4: And then he took me to a spa to get

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, that presumptive there, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: And like, keep in mind, this is our first time meeting,

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Speaker 4: like first time meeting this guy, and like I was like,

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Speaker 4: I have an emergency. I gotta go, Like, ye, I'm

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Speaker 4: not trying to do that on Valentine's Day. I have

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Speaker 4: the first time I'm meeting you.

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Speaker 1: Please, Yeah, because I've had a couple's massage before and

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Speaker 1: you're you know, you're stripping down, you're getting all naked

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Speaker 1: right there. You know, there's really no way to avoid that.

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Speaker 1: They put The point is they put the tables like

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Speaker 1: random hotel room? On top of that, I mean a

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I was freaked out by it.

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Speaker 1: If I'm being so for real, I don't blame you.

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Speaker 1: I forgot to mention, by the way, that Wes is here.

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Speaker 2: Wes.

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Speaker 1: I mean you tried it, you know, and you also

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Speaker 1: left that part out. I mean, that's not going to

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Speaker 5: You do know that.

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Speaker 2: Maybe you don't. No, I'm totally I understand where she's

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Speaker 6: Hey, by the way, but listen, guys, my train of

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Speaker 6: thought was it's Valentine's Day. I was like, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 6: offer that put it on the table. I already like,

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Speaker 6: did all this planning. I'm spending all that money. I'm

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Speaker 6: not a creep. I'm just I'm just a lover, you know.

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Speaker 1: You know, it could be a fine line sometimes between

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Speaker 6: But I mentioned in a month I just wanted to

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Speaker 6: give a girl a special voute. You know how girls

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Speaker 6: are on Valentine's Day. I don't know, I have a

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Speaker 6: history of knowing.

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Speaker 2: They love to go to a random hotel room with

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Speaker 5: They everybody like all these couples and they're doing all

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Speaker 5: the cute stuff and here you are, likeingo, and I mean,

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Speaker 5: you want to know each other, Wes you've never met.

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Speaker 1: There's a series of very intimate you know, almost sort

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Speaker 1: of I'm not going to say unsafe, but like sort

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Speaker 1: of risky behavior on a first date. I mean, this

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Speaker 1: woman does not know you, and you've your forethought is

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Speaker 1: let's go get naked and have a massage.

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Speaker 7: And then go to a hotel room. Yeah, I mean

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Speaker 7: what were you all going to do in the hotel

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Speaker 7: depends on you know, man, it's a spa. It's a

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Speaker 7: beautiful time.

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Speaker 6: And listen, hey, if there's any ladies listening out again,

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Speaker 6: like please please call West.

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Speaker 4: You know what game.

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Speaker 2: He's just a lover. It's not his fault. He's a lover.

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Speaker 2: He's not a creep. No, no, and he's planning. That's

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Speaker 2: more than.

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Speaker 5: That.

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Speaker 2: He is true.

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Speaker 1: I've never put so much thought into a first day.

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Speaker 1: I will say. Wow, Okay, so Colleen, look it was

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Speaker 1: a misstep. It was clearly you know, he was he

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Speaker 1: was giving more come for them. Yeah, he was giving

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Speaker 1: a little further, a little more advanced than you were

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Speaker 1: look on the bright side, he was thoughtful.

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Speaker 4: I guess honestly, I'm just over here like so shocked.

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Speaker 4: I can't even believe what I'm cheering over here. Like see,

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Speaker 4: you know, there could be a girl that he might

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Speaker 4: be able to like hire for a.

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Speaker 2: Night like that.

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Speaker 4: But you know, I don't know about maybe meeting anyone

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Speaker 4: like special who wants to do that the first time

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Speaker 4: you're meeting.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's more of like a relationship type activity. That's

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Speaker 1: definitely not a first date activity. I don't well, I'll

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Speaker 1: down for the next time.

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Speaker 6: Thank you for you guys. You know.

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Speaker 2: You're still learning. Look you live, you learn, guy living

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Speaker 2: and learning over here. He's not a creep. He's a lover.

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Speaker 2: That's what it is now is an expensive massage. He

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Speaker 2: said no to I'm.

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Speaker 1: Gonna get that embroidered on a pillow. I'm not a lover, Colleen. Look,

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Speaker 1: I know the answer. But do you want to go

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Speaker 1: out with him again?

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Speaker 4: I'm good, Thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Wes, Look, man, I do a little bit but

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Speaker 2: we wish you too. Bett.

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Speaker 1: You know, you know, you don't seem like a terrible guy,

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Speaker 1: but I don't know, maybe maybe a little tone death,

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Speaker 1: but good luck out there. Thank you. The Entertainer Report

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