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Speaker 1: All right, time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen

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Speaker 1: if you need advice and relationships.

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Speaker 2: Dating, work, sex, parenting and more.

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Speaker 1: Please, baby, please, baby, baby, Please submit your Strawberry Letter

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Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey FM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: We could be reading your letter live on there, just

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Speaker 1: like I didn't get to do this last week.

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Speaker 3: Sure, muggle up and hold on tight. We got it

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Speaker 3: for you here.

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Speaker 2: It is okay, we'll revisit that in a second.

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Speaker 3: You know, Steve don't want to issue. He cuts me

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Speaker 3: out when I'm out.

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Speaker 2: All right, Thank you, nephew.

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Speaker 1: Subject my husband needs to learn a few things. Dear

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Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, my husband and I have been married for

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Speaker 1: four years and the sex is terrible.

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Speaker 2: We dated for.

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Speaker 1: Two years before we got married, and we agreed to

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Speaker 1: wait until our wedding night to have sex for the

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Speaker 1: first time. I was focused on us having a great

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Speaker 1: friendship as well as a spiritual can which would lead

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Speaker 1: to a great sex life. He romanced me and did

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Speaker 1: things to me physically that satisfied me, so I just

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Speaker 1: knew he was going to be a great lover.

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Speaker 2: Whenever he got freaky. He tell me all the things

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Speaker 2: he was going to do to me.

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Speaker 1: I had no reason to think he was as inexperienced

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Speaker 1: as he is. I found out on our wedding night

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Speaker 1: that he had only had sex twice and his last

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Speaker 1: girlfriend with hell sex from him for religious reasons. He

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Speaker 1: couldn't do half of the stuff he told me he

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Speaker 1: was going to do to me. He tried to get

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Speaker 1: the party started, if you know what I mean, and

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Speaker 1: then he got so overheated that it was finished before

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Speaker 1: it started. I have taught him all that I can

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Speaker 1: about positions and what turns me on, but he is

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Speaker 1: not able to last long enough to try them. I

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Speaker 1: have a high sex drive, so I end up finishing

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Speaker 1: on my own. This man is only twenty nine and

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Speaker 1: I'm twenty eight, so I need him to get some

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Speaker 1: help with his inability to perform before this ruins our marriage.

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Speaker 1: I suggested that he I suggested that he talk to

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Speaker 1: some of his friends or a doctor about ways to

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Speaker 1: improve sexually, and he blamed me for being overly experienced

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Speaker 1: and impatient with him. I would celibate two years before

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Speaker 1: the wedding, and I have suffered through four years of

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Speaker 1: bad sex, so I'm not the one with the problem.

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Speaker 1: I need that intimate connection with my husband. How can

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Speaker 1: I help him be a better man in the bedroom

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Speaker 1: without making him feel like he's a total loser? All right,

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Speaker 1: First of all, I got to commend you because you

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Speaker 1: with health sex until marriage. Now Biblically, you know that's

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Speaker 1: what you're supposed to do. I'm gonna I said that,

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Speaker 1: you know, from a Christian perspective.

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Speaker 2: Now I'm going to tell you that you do have.

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Speaker 1: A major problem on your hands though, because bad sex

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Speaker 1: is really worse than no sex, it really is. I mean,

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Speaker 1: you get yourself all worked up. You know, you as

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Speaker 1: his wife of four years, you've been listening to him

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Speaker 1: making all those empty promises about what he was going

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Speaker 1: to do to you.

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Speaker 2: Then you find out he.

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Speaker 1: Can't keep his promises because he's so inexperienced. But you know,

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Speaker 1: there is a problem there. There is definitely a problem.

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Speaker 1: Is the problem that he finishes before he starts, as

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Speaker 1: you say, or is it just a lack of skills?

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Speaker 1: I think it's a bit of both. It sounds like

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Speaker 1: it's both. And learning to you know, please your partner

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Speaker 1: a woman that just you know, it just involves skills.

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Speaker 1: You have to be taught that you try to teach

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Speaker 1: him that, and you know he got mad at you

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Speaker 1: or blamed you. But I think being you know, premature

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Speaker 1: sexually should I think involve a doctor. You mentioned that

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Speaker 1: in a letter, some sort of professional and older gentleman

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Speaker 1: to talk to to learn what should you do, what

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Speaker 1: moves you should make. I think he's young, well, actually

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Speaker 1: both of you guys are young. He's twenty eight. You know,

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Speaker 1: think you need to talk to someone, especially him. He

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Speaker 1: What should he do and go see a doctor about

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Speaker 1: his finishing before he starts problem premature ejaculation.

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Speaker 2: I think your marriage is worth it.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you want you ready to go because

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Speaker 1: you said before it ruins our marriage. I don't think

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Speaker 1: I really do. He's just, you know, probably at his

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Speaker 1: guys have been married for four years and it's a problem.

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Speaker 1: He knows it's a problem, So get some help. When

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Speaker 1: you have a problem, you should try and solve it.

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Speaker 1: Get some help with you know, someone like you said

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Speaker 1: you mentioned that in your letter. I think that's a

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Speaker 1: great idea and I think it can help your marriage.

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Speaker 3: Steve nice response. Surely you ready? You can't come the truth,

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Speaker 3: Lord Jesus. I hate Jesus letter. Take your time.

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Speaker 4: My husband needs to learn a few things. Well, this

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Speaker 4: lady been married to her husband for four years. This

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Speaker 4: is the first line in the letter. We've been married

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Speaker 4: four years and the sex is terrible. This is some

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Speaker 4: bad sex, folks, or you're opening line, ain't. No, I

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Speaker 4: love my husband. We've dated. He means the world to me.

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Speaker 4: He's a great father. No, I've been married four years

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Speaker 4: and the sex is terrible. Then she went on to

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Speaker 4: start we dated two years before we got married.

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Speaker 3: Then they agreed that the way have sex today wedding night.

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Speaker 4: For the first time, you was focused on having a

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Speaker 4: great friendship as well as a spiritual connection, which would.

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Speaker 3: Lead to a great sex life. So you thought that's

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Speaker 3: what you thought.

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Speaker 4: You figure, if we buddies and we go to church together,

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Speaker 4: we ought to have some good sick where in buddy,

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Speaker 4: in church, do you see great sex.

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Speaker 3: I don't see that at all.

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Speaker 4: Because you can talk, don't mean you can walk the walk.

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Speaker 3: Through when we come back. Yeah, walk is shut.

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Speaker 2: Well that part too.

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Speaker 1: Steve's responds, coming up in twenty three minutes after the hour.

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Speaker 1: My husband needs to learn a few things is a subject.

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Speaker 2: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 2: hard morning show.

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's Strawberry Letters.

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Speaker 1: Subject my husband needs to learn a few things.

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Speaker 4: Lady been married four years and the sex is terrible.

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Speaker 4: That's how the letters started being waste. No time, wasn't

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Speaker 4: no lines in there about we love each other, we

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Speaker 4: love the Lord. Nothing that we've been married four years

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Speaker 4: as sexy is terrible, four ragged years of sex. I've

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Speaker 4: never had four years of bad sex in my life.

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Speaker 4: You got two times with me. You got the first time.

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Speaker 4: I figured, okay, just first time, maybe little nervous, all

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Speaker 4: the kids. If the next time it's bad, we through.

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Speaker 2: But you're not married to that.

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Speaker 3: We through, we through. We're not We're not getting married.

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Speaker 2: There are married.

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Speaker 3: We through. It's over. We have no kids, none of that.

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Speaker 3: We ain't got we ain't gotta go to counseling. This

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Speaker 3: ain't gonna work.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So now you decided to have weight to have

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Speaker 4: sexy wednight folks having a great friendship and spiritual connection,

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Speaker 4: and you said it would lead to great sex.

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Speaker 3: My response was, that's what you thought, Landy.

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Speaker 4: He goes on say he romance me, and he did

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Speaker 4: things to me physically that satisfied me.

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Speaker 3: So I just knew he was gonna be a great lover.

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Speaker 3: What did he.

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Speaker 4: Do pre marriage to you physically? That was not sex

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Speaker 4: that made you think the sex was gonna be outstanding?

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Speaker 4: How hard was y'all kissing? Was he grinding in a

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Speaker 4: way that made you think this sitdn't be? This? This

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Speaker 3: Whoa girl?

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Speaker 4: He kissed hard, he grind hard, he touching me, it's

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Speaker 4: everything well, And then you said, whenever he got freaky,

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Speaker 4: he tell me all.

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Speaker 3: The things he was gonna do to me.

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Speaker 4: I had no reason to think that he was as

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Speaker 3: See that's pregame height. Oh you don't even understand. When

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Speaker 3: I'm in duty, you think that was something. Well you

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Speaker 3: like that right? Oh you think that wa that got

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Speaker 3: You ain't seen nothing yet. That's just the beginning. That's

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Speaker 3: just kissing girl. That's a good girl. Girl.

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Speaker 4: That ain't nothing but my grind right there, my grind game, girl,

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Speaker 4: the crime game, kiss game. Why when we get married,

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Speaker 4: watch this here? You you immediately say I had no

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Speaker 4: idea he was inexperienced as he was. You found out

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Speaker 4: on your wed night. This was the wed night. It

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Speaker 4: all comes to ahead. You'd have been at the dance.

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Speaker 4: You'd have been at the church. You dine kissed in

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Speaker 4: You had to daddy dance you in the room, and

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Speaker 4: it's over. Foy got started. He said he had only

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Speaker 4: from him for religious reasons. Oh okay, so now see

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Speaker 4: what happened. See your man has only had church sex.

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Speaker 3: What her man has only had church sex?

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Speaker 4: See, they didn't get they didn't have sex because they

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Speaker 4: in his former girlfriend only had sex twice because she

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Speaker 4: was withholding for religious reasons. So these are just people

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Speaker 4: he's seeing up at the church. Church sex way different

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Speaker 4: than club sex, how so please everything. See church ain't

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Speaker 4: a lot of words in church sex. You can't cuss

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Speaker 4: with church sex. Club sex is oh all the worst.

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Speaker 4: It's a bulk gathering. Church sex is we sneaking. We're

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Speaker 4: supposed to be quiet. We ain't supposed to be doing this,

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Speaker 4: so you can't ask all the questions.

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Speaker 3: You know, who is it? You know?

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Speaker 4: You can't be you can't bring up no c a

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Speaker 4: because you're not supposed to be doing it anyway, So

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Speaker 4: you ain't gonna amplify to see in by cussing. But

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Speaker 4: club sex will start with the cussing. I've beeness, smack

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Speaker 4: that and do that thing. Get it up in this

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Speaker 4: hell when you get this, or you ain't gonna understand.

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Speaker 4: See that's the difference. So he just had church sex,

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Speaker 4: so now and then as soon as he get overheated.

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Speaker 4: It was finished before it started. I taught him all

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Speaker 4: the positions and what turns me on, but he ain't

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Speaker 3: He's already been four years. I ain't got four more

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Speaker 3: of this hill, Steve Shann help me.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna come back with part three of this letter

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Speaker 4: because I have some actual help.

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Speaker 3: I got something he can try.

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Speaker 4: Because you said you expect him to talk to a

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Speaker 3: He can't even bring this up to his friends.

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Speaker 2: He's gotta do something.

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Speaker 4: He fell us. I can't please my woman. And what

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Speaker 4: do you suggest I do? Well?

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Speaker 3: Do all right? Want me to do it for you?

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Speaker 1: We're gonna have part three of this Strawberry letter coming up. Okay,

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Speaker 1: The subject is my husband needs to learn a few things.

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Speaker 2: We'll be back to part three coming up right after this.

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Speaker 2: You're listening morning show.

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, So this is part three of today's Struwberry.

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Speaker 3: And I don't normally do this.

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Speaker 2: My husband needs to learn a few things.

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Speaker 3: Yes see, she.

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Speaker 4: Didne married this man, the church dude, and they with

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Speaker 4: hell sex to the night and it ain't good.

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Speaker 3: It's been four years in terrible sex and she need helping.

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Speaker 4: She trying to show him all these positions and what

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Speaker 4: turned her on her.

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Speaker 3: He's upset about that too.

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Speaker 4: In the letter, I didn't mention he can do half

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Speaker 4: the stuff he told me he was gonna do. I

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Speaker 4: taught him all I can about positions and what turned

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Speaker 4: me on, but he ain't able to last long enough

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Speaker 4: to try and damn talk, I got a high sex drive,

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Speaker 4: so I end up finishing on my own. So I

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Speaker 4: need him to some help with his inability before this

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Speaker 4: ruin a marriage, and then talk to a doctor as

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Speaker 4: his friends about ways to improve sexually. Now hit the

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Speaker 4: part he blamed me to being overly experienced and impatient.

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Speaker 4: You win him. I will celebrate two years before the wedding,

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Speaker 4: and I've suffered through four years of bad set this

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Speaker 4: four years.

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Speaker 3: This is horrible. This is horrible. This is the most

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Speaker 3: horrible thing I've ever heard.

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Speaker 4: Matter of fact, this is the most horrible strawberry letter

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Speaker 4: we've ever had four years.

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Speaker 3: This is probably the worst.

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Speaker 4: Damn stuff in letter we have ever had. Now, and

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Speaker 4: he mad at her because she too experienced. See he

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Speaker 4: don't understand. See See he mad now because you know

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Speaker 4: too much. He had sex twice. We ain't got to

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Speaker 4: get intore how many times you had it? But he

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Speaker 4: only had it twice. Let's not worry about the number

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Speaker 4: of times you had it. Don't even worry about that.

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Speaker 4: But you ain't more experienced than him, and he upset

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Speaker 4: with it. See you know too much? Why I got

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Speaker 4: to put my foot on the night stand and have

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Speaker 4: my knee on the bed.

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Speaker 3: That hurts me. Let's start, hey, man, what is your

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Speaker 3: punk AHAs talking?

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Speaker 4: Just put your damn foot up there and get your

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Speaker 4: knee over here.

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Speaker 3: That hurts me.

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Speaker 4: Stretch before you come in here, the workout here.

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Speaker 3: You have to put in work. Man, Now, listen to me.

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Speaker 3: Let me give you a couple of suggestions. They have

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Speaker 3: a cream for men that he can buy and he can.

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Speaker 4: Use the cream and the cream numbs him so where

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Speaker 4: he's don't have to have it, don't happen so fast detained. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: so you've got to be causing because at hand you

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Speaker 4: ain't got no feeling in it because you to put

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Speaker 4: it on with the cream that helps you have no feeling.

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Speaker 4: So you might want to try that. And just that's

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Speaker 4: the only suggestion I have for you.

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, thank you for that post comments on

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Speaker 1: today letter.

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Speaker 3: We've ever four years of horrible sex

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