WEBVTT - Truth Hurts 0:00:07.640 --> 0:00:10.760 Would you like, stop specialist, We're back. Hey man, It's 0:00:10.880 --> 0:00:13.560 Keith Rice Simmons and I am your favorite the abbance 0:00:13.600 --> 0:00:17.960 to solo. What's going on? What's going on? It's this week? 0:00:18.120 --> 0:00:22.680 Last week? Tequila? Sheila's Tequila Sheila, she came out to play. 0:00:23.720 --> 0:00:27.360 Yeah tequila? Do you really? When? What is this coming about? 0:00:27.440 --> 0:00:29.600 She she just came about maybe like three weeks ago. 0:00:30.120 --> 0:00:32.920 And so you have an episode and you named it 0:00:33.560 --> 0:00:36.519 that I felt it. I was like, man, what, I 0:00:36.520 --> 0:00:39.159 don't feel like myself because I don't really drink tequila 0:00:39.400 --> 0:00:41.880 in public. It makes me I'll get like real flirtatious, 0:00:41.920 --> 0:00:44.400 like real feminine, and I don't really need a lot 0:00:44.400 --> 0:00:47.800 of people to see that, right, Yeah, So like three 0:00:47.800 --> 0:00:49.479 weeks ago, I was like, girl, you know you want 0:00:49.520 --> 0:00:51.560 to have fun to I just drink tequila? And then 0:00:51.640 --> 0:00:56.040 it hit me, Sheila, So I gotta acronym too. I mean, 0:00:56.080 --> 0:00:58.040 I mean, I got a thing. Wait, what's going on? 0:00:58.480 --> 0:01:03.400 Drink worry? But that never happens, never drink he never 0:01:03.480 --> 0:01:09.240 makes it. So what happens before drinks? So if you 0:01:09.240 --> 0:01:13.800 get past four drinks? O children? Yeah, definitely a smile 0:01:14.000 --> 0:01:18.760 from ear to ear. His eyes are super cheeny adventure 0:01:18.840 --> 0:01:21.600 this weekend. I had another adventure on Friday to tequila. 0:01:21.680 --> 0:01:25.400 Sheila came back out. It was my friend's fault. Like 0:01:25.520 --> 0:01:27.560 I kept seeing my friends and they were like, oh 0:01:27.600 --> 0:01:33.399 my god, congratulations on on I Heart Radio and everybody 0:01:33.480 --> 0:01:36.440 wanted to drink. No, it wasn't card this time. But 0:01:36.520 --> 0:01:38.400 one of my girlfriends from New York was in town, 0:01:38.520 --> 0:01:41.319 and it's just it's been a live videotaper. I would like, 0:01:41.440 --> 0:01:47.119 oh yeah, I mean, I see I'll be seeing you sat. 0:01:47.160 --> 0:01:55.040 I don't post. That's what I'm hearing. My subliminal was 0:01:55.120 --> 0:01:58.840 with the nation. Here I hear them. She La had 0:01:58.880 --> 0:02:00.840 a good time and said today it was family Day, 0:02:00.920 --> 0:02:03.560 was my's birthday, Happy birthday. I love we love you, 0:02:03.880 --> 0:02:06.520 Happy Birthday. And the Sunday we turned up at brunch, 0:02:06.720 --> 0:02:09.639 turn up, turning up, turn up. I see them all 0:02:09.680 --> 0:02:13.959 over the ground. Yeah, it's a burlesque brunch. It's it's tape. 0:02:14.480 --> 0:02:16.120 It's body tape. You know, we don't we do not 0:02:16.240 --> 0:02:18.960 have strippers, but you know, little boobs and brunch never 0:02:19.040 --> 0:02:21.280 hurt nobody. It is a t you never know. Rory, 0:02:21.320 --> 0:02:24.720 how was your weekend? The weekend was nice and steady. Um, 0:02:24.760 --> 0:02:28.800 you know, that weekend starts on Wednesday. Lily out here 0:02:28.800 --> 0:02:31.080 in the streets man. Wednesday, we was book, Thursday was booked, 0:02:31.080 --> 0:02:33.760 Friday's book on Saturday's book. Sunday, I took the day 0:02:33.800 --> 0:02:36.799 off and chilled out. Nation wants to are you growing 0:02:36.840 --> 0:02:39.239 your hair back for the winter. We haven't seen any. No, yeah, 0:02:39.240 --> 0:02:40.600 and I want to. I'm gonna keep a low for 0:02:40.680 --> 0:02:42.440 a wild wife. He likes it like this for a while, 0:02:42.520 --> 0:02:48.320 so I'm gonna honor her. Your face like it's like 0:02:48.320 --> 0:02:50.760 a little twinkling. We have great sex at her, Oh 0:02:50.800 --> 0:02:53.920 my god, Like you really are glowing, bro longer than 0:02:53.919 --> 0:03:00.120 fifteen minutes, So try and keep that going, brother, as 0:03:00.120 --> 0:03:03.400 long as you try, it's gonna be meeting in the 0:03:03.919 --> 0:03:05.760 meet me in the bedroom in a minute. Like you 0:03:05.800 --> 0:03:10.480 know what I'm saying. Babies at the door. You're gonna 0:03:10.480 --> 0:03:12.840 have more kids? Worry, No, we can't have no more kids. 0:03:13.919 --> 0:03:18.600 You can restart, you can read untied the thing. We 0:03:18.639 --> 0:03:20.839 got birth control of the house. I am in love 0:03:20.919 --> 0:03:23.920 with the way y'all are. Love is real, y'all. How 0:03:24.000 --> 0:03:26.360 was your weekend? Sorry, hey, I'm glad you asked me. 0:03:27.480 --> 0:03:31.400 An amazing, amazing weekends. The Testament out there, ball the 0:03:31.480 --> 0:03:34.359 nation that if you continue to do you, they will 0:03:34.440 --> 0:03:38.280 pay you to beat you. I had the pleasure of 0:03:38.520 --> 0:03:42.960 um going and hosting the crowd at the Urban One Honors. 0:03:43.560 --> 0:03:45.680 Um it was when was that Urban One Honors. It's 0:03:45.680 --> 0:03:48.520 owned by TV one, the Radio one, Cathy Hughes and 0:03:48.560 --> 0:03:53.080 Alfred Lix. This was last third. Yeah, I went up there, 0:03:53.920 --> 0:03:57.080 um and it was just amazing. I see some superheroes. 0:03:57.120 --> 0:04:00.720 You know, we need a Baker reformed. Uh Al Sharpton 0:04:00.840 --> 0:04:04.040 was there. Um, Billy Porter, who I got a chance 0:04:04.080 --> 0:04:06.720 to really talk to and really meet for the first time. 0:04:06.760 --> 0:04:09.000 If you don't know who Billy Porter is, He's one 0:04:09.000 --> 0:04:10.960 of the greatest artists of our time. And I'm saying 0:04:10.960 --> 0:04:13.400 that on the Ball Alert show. So if you don't 0:04:13.400 --> 0:04:15.720 know Billy Porter, check him out. Um. And it was 0:04:15.760 --> 0:04:17.560 just amazing. I mean I think, you know, for me, 0:04:17.720 --> 0:04:22.760 hosting has turned into an actual personality thing outside of 0:04:22.800 --> 0:04:25.000 the club and just being able to send hosting what 0:04:25.040 --> 0:04:28.240 you're talking about real hosting, um and and and so 0:04:28.560 --> 0:04:30.200 all holes. I mean, you have to start somewhere. But 0:04:30.240 --> 0:04:34.039 I think for for me, taking the things that I 0:04:34.120 --> 0:04:38.400 learned in the club to this whole new remix is amazing, 0:04:38.440 --> 0:04:43.359 like Forstance one time for Big Check Ship Bobby Valentino. 0:04:43.520 --> 0:04:46.120 He was in the crowd right and I'm sitting there 0:04:46.240 --> 0:04:47.720 and you know, I'm having to keep the energy going 0:04:47.720 --> 0:04:50.559 in between the stetups and things like that. So I'm like, Boby, 0:04:50.600 --> 0:04:54.120 you're not performing like Bryan you want to perform. I mean, 0:04:54.160 --> 0:04:56.080 we got we got a couple of minutes of piano 0:04:56.240 --> 0:04:58.000 right here. You know what I'm saying. The whole night 0:04:58.040 --> 0:05:00.160 there was these group of people in the middle of that. 0:05:00.200 --> 0:05:02.320 I was calling the seat Fellers and I kept it 0:05:02.360 --> 0:05:03.760 hearing to you know, they'd be hyped as a month, 0:05:03.800 --> 0:05:06.800 so they're like everything right. So the guy I want 0:05:06.800 --> 0:05:11.040 to come down so he can't start playing this beautiful melody. 0:05:11.360 --> 0:05:13.000 You could tell it was slow down, but it was 0:05:13.040 --> 0:05:17.000 a slow version. So I'm sitting there and I'm like, yeah, Phillis, 0:05:17.040 --> 0:05:21.880 we appreciate your contribution. Dog. It was so funny. But 0:05:21.920 --> 0:05:24.000 we had moments like that all night with Jamie fox 0:05:24.560 --> 0:05:27.040 Um big shout to Ricky Smiley like just a little 0:05:27.120 --> 0:05:29.520 kim like everybody who was there. We had an amazing 0:05:29.600 --> 0:05:34.480 time and it's airing on TV one in January. State 0:05:34.480 --> 0:05:36.000 Tuned for that, and then Friday, I got to go 0:05:36.040 --> 0:05:38.360 to Detroit, one of my favorite cities. Man. So what 0:05:38.360 --> 0:05:42.320 I'm doing to everybody from you? You went this past? Yeah, yeah, 0:05:42.320 --> 0:05:44.680 it's amazing, man. I got a few suggestions for you. You 0:05:44.360 --> 0:05:46.520 You know, you go up there. They got the legalized 0:05:46.520 --> 0:05:51.560 of thing if you want to. Yeah, but it was 0:05:51.560 --> 0:05:54.479 an amazing weekend. Oh little Kenny, y'all. He was in 0:05:55.640 --> 0:05:59.800 the Canary Islands. They won the championship. MVP for wanted 0:05:59.839 --> 0:06:01.680 to Ain't here three games for the second game he 0:06:01.720 --> 0:06:07.320 got m VP. They won the championship, and he's out 0:06:07.360 --> 0:06:10.240 there getting buckets. The Skills Factory is a Nike program. 0:06:11.080 --> 0:06:14.040 If your child is good, a good athlete, and didn't 0:06:14.040 --> 0:06:16.320 get the scholarships they want, I suggest you go talk 0:06:16.400 --> 0:06:20.200 to Rob Johnson and the superheroes over there at the 0:06:20.200 --> 0:06:22.440 Skills fact that they are doing wonders with my child. 0:06:23.040 --> 0:06:25.000 I could not believe the human I was seeing on 0:06:25.080 --> 0:06:28.520 social media. Good ladies and gentlemen. Now it's time for 0:06:28.640 --> 0:06:36.000 in case you missedead case arrested piece of Juice World Jo. 0:06:36.600 --> 0:06:39.560 The industry lost a young legend at the age of 0:06:39.640 --> 0:06:44.320 twenty one. Yeah, just just turned twenty last Monday. Um 0:06:44.680 --> 0:06:48.680 was in on the flight back UM to Chicago, and 0:06:48.800 --> 0:06:52.280 it showed footge him on the flight. Okay um, and 0:06:52.320 --> 0:06:54.680 then when he landed walking through the airport, had a 0:06:54.720 --> 0:06:59.040 seizure and Um. Many people are you know, really saddened 0:06:59.080 --> 0:07:00.960 by this. He had a lot of friends in the industry, 0:07:00.960 --> 0:07:02.880 a lot of supports, a lot of people thought he 0:07:02.920 --> 0:07:05.839 would be one of the greats um and we're sad 0:07:05.880 --> 0:07:07.839 to have lost him at the at the young age, 0:07:07.920 --> 0:07:11.240 young tender age of twenty one years old. Man, what 0:07:11.280 --> 0:07:14.480 do y'all think? Man? I think it's actually gonna be 0:07:14.560 --> 0:07:19.320 pretty devastating for a lot of his like core listeners, 0:07:19.320 --> 0:07:21.640 the people that really related to his music, because if 0:07:21.680 --> 0:07:24.960 you listen to it, he talks a lot about depression 0:07:25.240 --> 0:07:27.640 and what he does to cope with things and not 0:07:27.720 --> 0:07:32.800 even making it, not even yeah he's at it, so 0:07:32.960 --> 0:07:35.120 it Um. I think it's really sad. And I think 0:07:35.160 --> 0:07:36.840 if you have kids, you need you need to check 0:07:36.840 --> 0:07:39.800 on them. I was I was at the the Urban 0:07:39.800 --> 0:07:43.720 One Honors and I saw Maxine waters Um and I 0:07:43.760 --> 0:07:46.720 had to tell her like thank you, like for supporting 0:07:46.800 --> 0:07:49.760 music because remember see the Lord's Tucker Back in the day, 0:07:50.320 --> 0:07:52.760 she was trying to end it, you know, throwing the 0:07:52.800 --> 0:07:55.560 tapes in the bulldozes and n W as too explicit, 0:07:55.880 --> 0:07:57.600 but that was the way for us to express ourselves. 0:07:57.640 --> 0:08:00.360 And I think like now, and I said this in 0:08:00.400 --> 0:08:04.560 front of people at the MGM, I was like, our children, though, 0:08:04.720 --> 0:08:08.560 are not talking about just causes in the brutality. That's 0:08:08.600 --> 0:08:10.240 I mean, they're talking about that, but they're not just 0:08:10.240 --> 0:08:14.200 talking like our era was talking about police brutality. And 0:08:14.360 --> 0:08:16.880 you know, we are feeling this way and it was 0:08:17.080 --> 0:08:19.280 it had something, they had some substance and now they're 0:08:19.320 --> 0:08:23.239 just getting high and they're getting high to these types 0:08:23.240 --> 0:08:25.680 of situations coming out of no but but not only 0:08:25.720 --> 0:08:28.560 But I'm just saying, I think it's almost become recreational 0:08:28.640 --> 0:08:30.480 in the in the stance that you you don't realize 0:08:30.480 --> 0:08:33.840 you're gonna get hooked on drugs. Yeah, it's definitely become recreational. 0:08:33.880 --> 0:08:37.319 But I think with with him specifically, like he literally 0:08:37.400 --> 0:08:40.920 was saying like, yo, I can't deal like I'm going 0:08:41.000 --> 0:08:44.760 through this. It's hell like you heard it. So in 0:08:45.160 --> 0:08:48.160 his case, um, of course, I believe a lot of 0:08:48.200 --> 0:08:51.640 it was recreational, but I also think it happened that 0:08:51.640 --> 0:08:53.920 way because he did not know how to get all 0:08:53.960 --> 0:08:55.480 the other stuff off his chat. And a lot of 0:08:55.520 --> 0:08:57.880 people have mental health issues and that is a bigger problem, 0:08:57.920 --> 0:09:01.600 and it's also up to the gatekeepers around them to 0:09:01.679 --> 0:09:05.160 try and help them. But I do want to reiterate though, 0:09:06.360 --> 0:09:11.040 the only thing I hear in their music is saddness, depression, drugs. 0:09:11.760 --> 0:09:15.319 You know what I'm saying, misogyny, And I just don't know, 0:09:15.679 --> 0:09:18.400 like like even like why Being Corday, why Being Cordea 0:09:18.480 --> 0:09:20.359 is one of the bright stars of the younger generations 0:09:20.880 --> 0:09:23.680 to social media, it was very distraught, But if you 0:09:23.720 --> 0:09:26.120 look at the types of music, it's not like why 0:09:26.160 --> 0:09:29.400 Being is any less successful. Corday is any less successful 0:09:29.679 --> 0:09:32.360 than Juice World was. It's just the topical things And 0:09:32.400 --> 0:09:34.560 I just think that, you know, as a whole. We 0:09:34.559 --> 0:09:36.880 were having this conversation, um I had the pleasure to 0:09:36.920 --> 0:09:40.040 take um some friends up to the Uncle necessarily, which 0:09:40.040 --> 0:09:42.280 I mentioned last week, and we were really talking about 0:09:42.320 --> 0:09:47.400 like we're responsible for the word nigga, you know what 0:09:47.400 --> 0:09:50.600 I'm saying, Like we say that in an endearing way 0:09:50.760 --> 0:09:52.840 and in a way where we shouldn't be penalized if 0:09:52.840 --> 0:09:54.000 we want to use the word or not. But at 0:09:54.000 --> 0:09:57.200 the same time when you see white people mouthing it 0:09:57.240 --> 0:10:00.200 in songs or saying it in songs as if the 0:10:00.240 --> 0:10:03.400 song isn't sane and they're repeating what they here. And also, 0:10:04.280 --> 0:10:07.560 I just think there's the responsibility on our end, right 0:10:07.640 --> 0:10:11.240 we have to I mean, we need is one thing. 0:10:12.480 --> 0:10:18.839 Even cocaine is one thing. The crack peels heroin things 0:10:18.920 --> 0:10:21.280 you can't come down. And I'm not saying do we 0:10:21.480 --> 0:10:23.480 cocaine or any of that. I'm just saying some of 0:10:23.480 --> 0:10:28.559 the those drugs won't necessarily kill you in recreational use. 0:10:29.080 --> 0:10:34.920 These lean and promethezine, these things. These are drugs that 0:10:35.000 --> 0:10:40.000 will break down your internal organs and make you die 0:10:40.320 --> 0:10:44.680 because they're taking them at a larger consumption amount every day. 0:10:44.960 --> 0:10:48.520 You're not supposed to be taking promethezine like you're not 0:10:48.559 --> 0:10:56.160 supposed to be drinking that ship. Right, it's multiple multiple, Yeah, 0:10:56.320 --> 0:10:59.720 you will die. Weed has not been shown to cause 0:10:59.800 --> 0:11:04.360 those effects. We will not kill you like I mean, 0:11:04.760 --> 0:11:08.559 breathing air can kill you. You get what I'm saying. Cocaine, 0:11:08.600 --> 0:11:15.120 recreational cocaine users that are seventy years old, it's not 0:11:15.280 --> 0:11:18.600 known to keep I mean, overdosing on cocaine has happened 0:11:18.600 --> 0:11:23.880 in anything in Too much can kill you? What's crazy 0:11:23.960 --> 0:11:28.760 is um? Four days before Juice World died, someone sad 0:11:28.800 --> 0:11:31.480 Justin six posted left a comment on his page and said, 0:11:31.520 --> 0:11:35.040 Juice World, bro, please stop taking percocets. Something touched me 0:11:35.080 --> 0:11:37.760 spiritually right now and told me to comment this. I 0:11:37.800 --> 0:11:40.760 don't know you, I just know your music. But trust me, 0:11:40.840 --> 0:11:43.320 those pills aren't the answers to things. I don't want 0:11:43.320 --> 0:11:47.120 to replay a similar situation like other young artists who 0:11:47.200 --> 0:11:51.440 in their songs were always blatantly talking about depression or addiction, 0:11:51.800 --> 0:11:53.760 and no one cared to speak up until the end. 0:11:53.840 --> 0:11:59.480 Be safe. That is why that person's sad. Justin six like, 0:11:59.600 --> 0:12:02.880 thank you for speaking out of your heart. I wish 0:12:03.120 --> 0:12:05.440 you know. Hopefully you don't feel like you know damn 0:12:05.440 --> 0:12:07.120 if people have saw this message, it would have been 0:12:07.120 --> 0:12:09.840 a different situation. Hopefully you don't feel that way. You 0:12:09.840 --> 0:12:11.760 you did the right thing. You felt it, you said it, 0:12:11.840 --> 0:12:14.520 and I think we need to hold like label execs 0:12:14.600 --> 0:12:18.319 and their managers and all them just as accountable like 0:12:18.800 --> 0:12:21.839 you guys are around him the most, the most. I 0:12:21.920 --> 0:12:24.480 understand the music is making money, but let's find a 0:12:24.520 --> 0:12:26.760 healthy way for this person to tell their story without 0:12:26.760 --> 0:12:28.840 getting hired a damn time. And I was saying this 0:12:28.920 --> 0:12:31.880 last night. I got a Trailblazer Award at the Pink Awards. 0:12:31.880 --> 0:12:34.680 Big shout to April Love. Last night you and I 0:12:34.720 --> 0:12:40.600 said that same thing. Your people are as much responsible 0:12:40.960 --> 0:12:44.720 as you are. Your friends are as much the blame 0:12:44.880 --> 0:12:48.040 as you are, because you can't be around other drug 0:12:48.120 --> 0:12:50.920 addicts expect to be clean, or you can't be around 0:12:51.040 --> 0:12:53.880 people that aren't speaking life into you and expect to 0:12:53.920 --> 0:12:57.560 be motivated like you have to have the proper circle. 0:12:57.880 --> 0:13:01.079 If they've benefit from your on fall, if they benefit 0:13:01.240 --> 0:13:03.680 from you being in a weak position, you don't need 0:13:03.720 --> 0:13:06.480 to be around those people. Man, So um one love 0:13:06.520 --> 0:13:08.560 to his family and his friends and all the people 0:13:08.559 --> 0:13:11.320 who cared about him and enjoyed and loved his music. 0:13:12.040 --> 0:13:16.319 Rest in peace, young brother um. In case you missed it, y'all, 0:13:16.360 --> 0:13:20.479 What in the sex trafficking is going on in Kentucky? 0:13:20.559 --> 0:13:22.679 And I don't mean by trade. I'm talking about a 0:13:22.760 --> 0:13:28.359 Kentucky judge accused of having threesomes with staff in courthouse. 0:13:28.520 --> 0:13:36.960 She faces nine account box misconduct and uh, she probably 0:13:36.960 --> 0:13:41.560 goes down healing well. She denies it all Okay, she 0:13:41.600 --> 0:13:45.199 said it's not true. She did not try to pressure 0:13:45.240 --> 0:13:48.199 anyone into having sexual relations with her. She said it's 0:13:48.200 --> 0:13:53.600 not true. So I believe that happens all the time. 0:13:53.679 --> 0:13:55.560 She might be telling them the truth about that. She's 0:13:55.559 --> 0:13:59.000 not pressuring anyone into that. Looking looking at her photo, 0:13:59.240 --> 0:14:02.240 I believe it's all all true. She looked like she 0:14:02.360 --> 0:14:04.440 does stuff like that. She looks like she, you know, 0:14:04.520 --> 0:14:08.560 she pressures people into sexual relations. And she looked like 0:14:08.679 --> 0:14:12.560 she she enjoys the power trip. Yeah, I'm saying this. 0:14:13.160 --> 0:14:16.280 I know people like that. I know people that use 0:14:16.360 --> 0:14:22.960 their po and it happened look exactly, but it happens 0:14:23.000 --> 0:14:25.480 all over the place, and happens. She's a woman and 0:14:25.560 --> 0:14:28.320 she's a judge. I don't think that the women don't 0:14:28.360 --> 0:14:30.280 do it, robber, you know, they're out here in these streets. 0:14:30.360 --> 0:14:34.240 I definitely she belonged to the streets. They do it. 0:14:34.440 --> 0:14:37.040 They do it belonged to I mean, in this photo, 0:14:38.080 --> 0:14:41.240 her mouth just just looks like she just got done, 0:14:41.800 --> 0:14:45.000 got a little mountain lip serves going, yeah, have you 0:14:45.040 --> 0:14:49.880 seen this side? She belonged to the streets that yeah, yes, 0:14:50.520 --> 0:14:54.280 Oh my god. Speaking of sex and sexy, y'all, Lizzo 0:14:54.360 --> 0:15:01.320 Styles says she is this generation. Donnay, all right, so 0:15:01.400 --> 0:15:06.760 let's talk about it fashionably. Well, considering it is the 0:15:06.880 --> 0:15:10.080 stylist that said it, and he was only talking about 0:15:10.200 --> 0:15:15.800 like the benefits, I think I think it's a man yea, yeah, 0:15:17.040 --> 0:15:20.600 if he's a man, Okay, if he's a stylist, I 0:15:20.640 --> 0:15:26.160 wouldn't say yeah. If he's a stylist and he's dressing her, 0:15:26.280 --> 0:15:29.320 then he would benefit from saying that. I would talk 0:15:29.320 --> 0:15:31.160 about my work like that as well. So yeah, so 0:15:31.400 --> 0:15:34.080 I think what he was talking about was like, Okay, 0:15:34.440 --> 0:15:38.160 y'all know, we as a society have an idea of 0:15:38.320 --> 0:15:41.120 what certain body shape should wear, especially when it comes 0:15:41.160 --> 0:15:45.120 to women, and Lizo typically wears things that we don't 0:15:45.240 --> 0:15:49.840 typically see women in her size, and I think that's awesome. 0:15:49.880 --> 0:15:51.560 So I think what he was saying, do you think 0:15:51.600 --> 0:15:54.200 it's awesome? I think it's great that that she says. 0:15:54.400 --> 0:15:57.200 Forget what society says, like I want to wear this 0:15:57.280 --> 0:16:00.960 because it's fashion. I want to wear it fashion and right, absolutely, 0:16:01.600 --> 0:16:05.400 fashion is not about your body type. Fashion is about 0:16:05.400 --> 0:16:08.080 expressing what you feel, what you want to wear, and 0:16:08.120 --> 0:16:09.840 I think, no matter what wi, you should be able 0:16:09.880 --> 0:16:11.600 to do it, so for her to do it in 0:16:11.760 --> 0:16:15.200 Hollywood and be as I guess like provocative, as she 0:16:15.440 --> 0:16:19.000 isn't confident. I think he's saying that she shifted the 0:16:19.120 --> 0:16:21.960 culture in that sense, like she's making people aware that 0:16:22.320 --> 0:16:24.720 it's okay to do this. She's helping other women who 0:16:24.760 --> 0:16:28.440 maybe overweight or just not confident in certain things. She's 0:16:28.480 --> 0:16:30.800 helping them understand as long as you feel good from 0:16:30.840 --> 0:16:34.960 the inside. I was gonna say, I love Lizzo, but 0:16:35.120 --> 0:16:37.040 I'm just like, why do we always got to compare 0:16:37.080 --> 0:16:40.280 people exactly? I think that was a bad comparison, But 0:16:40.320 --> 0:16:41.800 go ahead, yeah, you know, I think it was a 0:16:41.880 --> 0:16:45.360 reach or a bad reach. Really don't think to me, 0:16:45.640 --> 0:16:47.920 it's really not about the Kisrrison. At the end of 0:16:47.960 --> 0:16:50.960 the day, if the stylus wants to say that his 0:16:51.440 --> 0:16:55.280 you know, his muse is the new Madonna, that's for publicity. 0:16:55.800 --> 0:16:58.440 Whatever the case. Maybe she makes great music, she's a 0:16:58.480 --> 0:17:00.960 great artist. I would like to say something to two 0:17:01.000 --> 0:17:05.119 sues point, it's great that she has the confidence, but 0:17:05.240 --> 0:17:07.840 a lot of women like her don't. And I think 0:17:07.920 --> 0:17:11.040 too exactly, I think to Robery showing me a picture, 0:17:11.359 --> 0:17:19.080 I think the backlash, backlash from a woman that is 0:17:19.160 --> 0:17:24.320 not as confident what happens to her. She gets ridiculed, 0:17:24.560 --> 0:17:28.680 she gets trolled, and it does work for self esteem. 0:17:28.800 --> 0:17:30.760 And I just would like, because I got in a 0:17:30.880 --> 0:17:34.399 little bit of heat, no desination, um for what did 0:17:34.440 --> 0:17:37.760 you say that? I basically said that the majority of 0:17:37.840 --> 0:17:44.639 her followers were gays and women, right, because I was asking, 0:17:44.680 --> 0:17:46.200 I was taking a poll. But of course they didn't 0:17:46.240 --> 0:17:48.399 edit it like the whole conversation. They just said that 0:17:48.520 --> 0:17:50.639 one thing. And I was making the point that I 0:17:50.760 --> 0:17:53.720 don't know men, how the sexual men that are talking 0:17:53.720 --> 0:17:56.760 about lizzle or blasting lizzle. And that's a fair statement 0:17:56.760 --> 0:17:58.480 because if you look at comments, if you look at 0:17:58.520 --> 0:18:03.920 her followers and whatever, it's predominantly that fine. I also 0:18:04.240 --> 0:18:07.520 had said, which didn't get are that I thought the 0:18:07.560 --> 0:18:09.639 picture we were looking at because just like Robbie just 0:18:09.760 --> 0:18:12.679 she showed us in the throng situation, she actually had 0:18:12.720 --> 0:18:14.760 a picture that did not look it was thirst trapping 0:18:14.840 --> 0:18:16.600 to me, right. It was she had her you know, 0:18:16.680 --> 0:18:18.520 thrown between her button. She was looking back and I 0:18:18.640 --> 0:18:21.879 was like, wow, that's actually attractive. It wasn't like a 0:18:22.119 --> 0:18:23.560 thing where it was like she's a big woman in 0:18:23.640 --> 0:18:27.320 a thong. Right. So I would like to say to 0:18:27.640 --> 0:18:32.720 Lizzo if she would listen, that it's dope being who 0:18:32.840 --> 0:18:36.920 you are. You are a supernatural human being and you 0:18:37.160 --> 0:18:40.760 have the strength mentally to where with you know, to 0:18:40.920 --> 0:18:45.280 weather whatever storms come your way. But other big people 0:18:45.400 --> 0:18:48.400 do not. And I think that we need to take 0:18:48.480 --> 0:18:53.760 more responsibility and saying no, go out there where spandex 0:18:54.520 --> 0:18:58.120 and you three hundred pounds and you are not mentally 0:18:58.200 --> 0:19:00.520 strong enough, too handy, because the riddle cure that comes 0:19:00.560 --> 0:19:02.880 with that is what destroys people, is what turns into 0:19:03.000 --> 0:19:07.040 drugs and alcohol and depression. So I definitely understand that point. 0:19:07.400 --> 0:19:11.000 I do. I think the bigger picture is people don't 0:19:11.040 --> 0:19:13.480 want to teach confidence from a false place, right you 0:19:13.720 --> 0:19:16.639 You want to teach confidence from from the inside. And 0:19:16.720 --> 0:19:18.960 like what it actually means that I get you can't 0:19:19.000 --> 0:19:21.120 tea you can never teach from a false place. True, 0:19:21.320 --> 0:19:25.120 But we do agree that representation matters, right, we want 0:19:25.160 --> 0:19:28.080 black people in films, we want black people in commercials 0:19:28.200 --> 0:19:31.879 or in in the courtrooms, like we know that representation matters. 0:19:32.160 --> 0:19:34.160 So I think this is a good start. I think 0:19:34.200 --> 0:19:36.320 it's and not just for big women. I think the 0:19:36.400 --> 0:19:39.960 confidence that Lizzo exudes is really helping a lot of 0:19:40.119 --> 0:19:44.359 people because some people maybe like, dam she could do it. 0:19:45.080 --> 0:19:47.480 I gotta figure out why the hell I'm not so 0:19:47.600 --> 0:19:50.040 that I can't do it, you know. So I don't 0:19:50.080 --> 0:19:53.480 think it's just about you know, big women or you know, 0:19:53.720 --> 0:19:57.159 encouraging someone to wear something that if they were to 0:19:57.240 --> 0:20:00.359 be judged about it, you know, they go crazy. And like, 0:20:00.440 --> 0:20:04.040 I definitely get that point. But representation matters. Representation matters. 0:20:04.080 --> 0:20:09.240 But good is good and Lizzle exceptional at what she does. Yeah, 0:20:09.640 --> 0:20:13.040 I definitely things I think that, but but I want 0:20:13.080 --> 0:20:16.399 to also say that good is good. You don't. I 0:20:16.680 --> 0:20:18.359 don't look at someone to be like, oh they're skinny 0:20:18.400 --> 0:20:21.520 and good, Oh they're fat good, or they're skinny and great. Fact, 0:20:21.560 --> 0:20:23.600 I think great is great and she's great. She's a 0:20:23.600 --> 0:20:26.359 phenomenal artist. And I think I just want to be 0:20:26.920 --> 0:20:30.359 And this is also having to do with like being 0:20:30.680 --> 0:20:34.080 a parent, being a big brother, a mentor, and I 0:20:34.200 --> 0:20:36.119 want to be responsible for what I say. Things that 0:20:36.240 --> 0:20:38.800 I'm super comfortable with somebody else might not be, and 0:20:38.840 --> 0:20:41.439 I want to tailor that conversation to fit the person. 0:20:42.320 --> 0:20:44.440 And you know, social media doesn't allow you to Taylor 0:20:44.560 --> 0:20:47.520 conversation just gives you the broad spectrum ladies and gentlemen. 0:20:47.640 --> 0:20:55.040 Uber reveals safety report, but nearly six thousand sexual assaults. 0:20:55.880 --> 0:20:58.520 I want to say this, I don't let Uber's pull 0:20:58.600 --> 0:21:01.119 up to my home. I on let Uber's pull up 0:21:01.160 --> 0:21:04.200 to anywhere that significantly, you know what I'm saying, because 0:21:04.240 --> 0:21:07.920 I just don't trust the system. Uber is a necessary 0:21:08.840 --> 0:21:14.760 vehicle platform company offering, but I do not trust a 0:21:14.840 --> 0:21:18.600 lot of these drivers. And I feel horrible when any 0:21:18.680 --> 0:21:21.840 woman I know has to take Ober. I feel last night, 0:21:21.880 --> 0:21:24.560 I'm leaving the Pink Awards and the surgeon who spoke 0:21:24.640 --> 0:21:27.760 and she's she does be sectimies, and I literally had 0:21:27.800 --> 0:21:29.680 to like, I was like, when you overcome you straight, 0:21:30.119 --> 0:21:33.800 let me wait because I just feel I don't feel 0:21:33.840 --> 0:21:35.520 like y'all are safe. I don't feel like women or 0:21:35.600 --> 0:21:37.800 I mean and even some men. That's just in life 0:21:37.920 --> 0:21:41.000 in general. Man, Like it happens so much. You know, 0:21:41.240 --> 0:21:43.840 it was funny because I think when I saw the report, somebody, 0:21:44.760 --> 0:21:47.960 uh young lady tweeted you guys, you know, men wonder 0:21:48.280 --> 0:21:51.880 why women choose to ignore them when when you guys 0:21:52.000 --> 0:21:55.280 want to use like cat calls or why we choose 0:21:55.320 --> 0:21:57.879 to dance with our girlfriends when we go out versus you. 0:21:58.480 --> 0:22:00.840 And then she reported these numbers. I was like, oh 0:22:00.960 --> 0:22:03.720 my god, like if that's just uber that that that's 0:22:03.760 --> 0:22:07.400 just uber and left. Imagine what happens like every day 0:22:07.560 --> 0:22:11.760 on a regular it's aggressive. Listen. Um, we have this 0:22:12.359 --> 0:22:17.040 segment on my show Street Study for five six Monday 0:22:17.080 --> 0:22:20.560 through Friday. Um, it's called shoot your Shot. So someone 0:22:20.640 --> 0:22:23.199 called one time to fly out d C with up. Uh. 0:22:23.320 --> 0:22:25.360 Someone called and said he wanted to shoot a shot 0:22:25.400 --> 0:22:28.280 at this girl that he just dropped off. He was 0:22:28.359 --> 0:22:31.520 do uber happens? He said, he first last name. He 0:22:31.640 --> 0:22:34.160 was like, yo, I was your Uber driver. I want 0:22:34.200 --> 0:22:37.119 you to hit me back if you can cannot do that, 0:22:37.920 --> 0:22:40.840 want you to back if you can, I'll swing back by. 0:22:44.000 --> 0:22:48.400 It is wild. I literally I get dropped off once 0:22:48.560 --> 0:22:51.480