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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Daniel,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: How are you. I'm all right, how are you great?

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Speaker 2: Thank you?

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Speaker 1: Tell us about Tiffany, how you met, about any dates

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Speaker 1: that you've been on, and kind of where things are now.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we met on hinge, got her number, started texting.

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Speaker 3: We were, you know, learning planning our date, and then

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Speaker 3: she went dark.

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Speaker 4: I have been pre ghosted. We never even went out

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Speaker 4: and she disappeared. So I don't know how I screwed

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Speaker 4: something up before I met this girl.

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Speaker 1: Wow. Yeah, so we've heard about this happening a few times.

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Speaker 1: A few weeks ago.

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Speaker 2: It happened.

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Speaker 1: But so you guys never even went out, like, you

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Speaker 1: never met this person.

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Speaker 2: You just texted.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, we were just planning our first date and

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Speaker 4: then she stopped responding.

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Speaker 2: So it's like, how do you screw up a date

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Speaker 2: before it even happens? Is the question.

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Speaker 4: It's like a deep metaphysical question.

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Speaker 1: Then deep metaphysical I gotta go look that up and

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Speaker 1: think about it. Let me just marinate on that for

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Speaker 1: a minute. But okay, so we're gonna play a song.

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Speaker 1: Come back in a couple of minutes. We'll call Tiffany

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Speaker 1: see if we can get her on the phone, and

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Speaker 1: we'll ask these questions and hopefully we can straighten things

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Speaker 1: out and set you guys up on a date. It's

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Speaker 1: a first date and pay for it, right, So let's

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Speaker 1: find out what's up? Part two of waiting metaphone after

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Speaker 1: Shaboozie back.

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Speaker 2: In two minutes on the Fred Show. Saboozie.

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Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show. Hey, Daniel, all right, let's call Tiffany.

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Speaker 1: You guys matched on a dating app. It was Hinge

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Speaker 1: and you texted and you were flirting and you were

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Speaker 1: planning a date all via text, but she ghosted you

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Speaker 1: before the date could ever happen. So it's like, how

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Speaker 1: do you how do you get ghosted? But you never

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Speaker 1: went out with somebody? Like, how does that happen? So

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Speaker 1: let's call her and see if we can figure out

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Speaker 1: what's up? Good luck, Daniel, Thank you.

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Speaker 5: Hi?

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Speaker 2: Is this Tiffany, Tiffany? Good morning?

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Speaker 1: My name is Fred called from the Fred Show and

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Speaker 1: I have to tell you that we are on the

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Speaker 1: radio right now. I need your consent to continue with

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Speaker 1: the calls and okay if we chat for a second, Uh, okay,

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Speaker 1: Thank you very much. I know it's weird, but we're

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Speaker 1: calling out behalf of a guy named Daniel, who I

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Speaker 1: guess you matched with on on Hinge, the dating app,

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Speaker 1: and you texted a little bit but never wound up

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Speaker 1: going out because you disappeared before that.

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Speaker 2: Do you remember all of this?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I remember Daniel?

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Speaker 2: Okay, so what is going on?

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Speaker 1: Because you know he reached out to USITY was like, look,

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Speaker 1: I thought things were going well, we were planning a date,

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Speaker 1: and then I don't hear from her anymore.

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Speaker 5: So why, Well, I think so many people know like

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Speaker 5: dating after exacting, and he starts to see when he's

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Speaker 5: been on there for a while, but there's certain I

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Speaker 5: guess i'd say tropes of people, and Daniel fit ones.

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Speaker 5: We started texting and I wasn't interested anymore.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well what did he do? Though?

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Speaker 1: I mean, because this guy's calling us going, hey, you know,

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Speaker 1: can you figure out why I got ghosted? So he

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Speaker 1: wants to know exactly why, and we're trying to help him.

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Speaker 2: What happened? What did he do?

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Speaker 5: Well, we were trying to make plans and I was

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Speaker 5: very excited. We did have a really good answer and

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Speaker 5: I was was pumped about it. And then as we

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Speaker 5: were making plans, he kept trying to basically plan right

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Speaker 5: near his apartment. All the dinner options, all of the

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Speaker 5: bar options, everything was just like by him and was

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Speaker 5: not considering me at all. But forget even that part.

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Speaker 5: It's like there is the person that only tries to

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Speaker 5: make plans near them, so that in theory, you know,

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Speaker 5: you show up to dinner and they're like, actually, let's

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Speaker 5: just like keep dinner, and then staid come back to

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Speaker 5: my apartment and that's not what I'm into.

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Speaker 4: I'm somebody.

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Speaker 1: So not only was it like, hey, you got to

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Speaker 1: come to me wherever I am, but also you're thinking

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Speaker 1: it's close to my house, so it's like, hey, maybe

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Speaker 1: we can slip on in the.

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Speaker 2: Oh at my house. I can't believe it. My house

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Speaker 2: is right here exactly, which is crazy. I didn't.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we fell into my home conveniently, but it felt

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Speaker 1: Going to say I've never done this, Tiffany, but I

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Speaker 1: will say that like it, but this is hold on,

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Speaker 1: I didn't do this. I didn't do this for sexual reason.

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Speaker 1: So like like this week, for example, I had a

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Speaker 1: date with somebody. This person got off work while I

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Speaker 1: was in an appointment, okay, And so she was off

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Speaker 1: work and she was driving, and so I was like, hey,

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Speaker 1: if you want to meet at this time, then come

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Speaker 1: near me because I'll be in my thing. And then

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Speaker 1: when I'm out of my deal, then we'll meet, as

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Speaker 1: opposed to me getting out of my thing, getting in

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Speaker 1: up starting the date for two hours. We did not

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Speaker 1: go back to my house, by the way, but we

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Speaker 1: talked about that.

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Speaker 3: I told her what you were doing that out of right?

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Speaker 5: Well, a you were more communicative, which is properly helpful,

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Speaker 5: and you were saying, look, I want to spend more

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Speaker 5: time with you, and so this will give us actually

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Speaker 5: more time. That's a very different situation then we have

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Speaker 5: all the time world. Is the first date I can

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Speaker 5: con see if we get to your area or even

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Speaker 5: somewhere between us. But actually, I'm going to consist, me

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Speaker 5: insist over and over and over again to have a

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Speaker 2: That's a red flag.

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Speaker 5: Anytime a dude won't come to you, that's just my hetae.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and if you're not going to communicate it, I

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Speaker 1: will say I'm defending myself here. But I did say, hey,

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Speaker 1: next time I come to you wherever you want. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but I laid that all out. I didn't just say,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, I can't believe it. We're eating in

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Speaker 1: a hot dog stand that's right in front of my house.

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Speaker 1: I'm not wearing pants. I mean, you know, let me

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Speaker 1: get the kids up there. Yeah, yeah, I didn't wear pants.

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Speaker 2: But it's in a bunch. Yeah, let me in a box.

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Speaker 1: Let me bring Daniel and Daniel pretty inconsiderate, dude, sounds

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Speaker 1: like you were trying to, you know, go for location here.

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Speaker 1: You were trying to go for you know, proximity to

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Speaker 3: I mean, this is insane. So I didn't inst on anything.

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Speaker 3: But what is wrong with the girls coming to the guy?

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Speaker 3: But it's twenty twenty three, We got feminism now, you know,

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Speaker 3: Like what does a guy always.

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Speaker 4: Have to travel to her?

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Speaker 2: What? What is wrong?

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Speaker 3: Like, Hey, I know these places are good because they're

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Speaker 2: Why don't you come check them out? What is wrong

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Speaker 2: with that?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Exactly. First of all, let's not just like way of feminism,

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Speaker 5: why like to traveling here? But it's also like they're

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Speaker 5: setting a precedent. There's the gesture that counts. This is

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Speaker 5: the first date. The least you could do is be like, hey, Tiffany,

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Speaker 5: what are you feeling?

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Speaker 3: What we're stressed for you? Would you like to get

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Speaker 3: a spot near me?

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Speaker 5: Would you like to come? Like? Do we want to

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Speaker 5: slip the tween us? That's actually feminism, FYI? Do you

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Speaker 5: want to like you know what is best for you?

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Speaker 5: And instead of just like blaboring you must come to me.

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Speaker 5: You must come to because all I hear is selfishness

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Speaker 5: of like me, me, me, And then as I kept

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Speaker 5: pushing it, it did feel like you at some point

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Speaker 5: me and be like, actually come to my apartment Like

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Speaker 5: it actually didn't.

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Speaker 4: Have that vibe.

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Speaker 1: I would appreciate, Daniel if you just straight up said like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I wanted to be close to my house so we could,

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Speaker 1: you know, maybe slip back into the into the house

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Speaker 1: later into the crib, Like was that your intention?

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Speaker 4: What is wrong with skipping dinner to hook up if

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Speaker 4: you're both feeling.

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Speaker 2: This, Oh you thought you oh, I know the restaurants here,

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Speaker 2: but my bed that was gonna work? There are.

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Speaker 3: Look, she's calling me like a troop. I'm saying we're

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Speaker 3: obviously both attracted to each other. We picked each other

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Speaker 3: on the thing. I'm saying, Hey, I know a good restaurant,

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Speaker 3: why don't you come here? Then if we were to

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Speaker 3: do something else first.

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Speaker 1: I don't know about it. I mean, it's one thing

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Speaker 1: to take into dinner and then hey, is this close.

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Speaker 1: Maybe that'll work for you, but like going for the

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Speaker 1: whole thing. But it's like, yeah, we're not eating at

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Speaker 1: that restaurant. We're eating at Shade Danielle, which is my bedroom.

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Speaker 2: Let me come on, man.

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Speaker 1: And by the way, if it were that, if it

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Speaker 1: was going to be that transactional, I figure you would

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Speaker 1: have had that conversation ahead of time, and you wouldn't.

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Speaker 1: You would have just skipped dinner all together, which that

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Speaker 1: happens too.

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Speaker 2: So I don't. I don't think you're that slick.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Look, I wasn't going to stow up with like

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Speaker 4: a cartoon butterfly net and scoop.

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Speaker 3: Her up and like right back to my house. I

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Speaker 3: figured we'd see what happened. This girl is like calling

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Speaker 3: me a trope, calling me inconsiderate. All I did was say, hey,

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Speaker 3: here are a few good places by me. So it

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Speaker 3: sounds like, I guess we're.

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Speaker 4: Just not a man.

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean, fairness, Tiffany, and I'm not defending him,

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Speaker 1: but I guess you you probably could have said, hey,

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Speaker 1: I'm not I know what you're doing. I'm not going

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Speaker 1: to do that, like either come to me or we

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Speaker 1: meet the middle.

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Speaker 5: But looks like he's clearly. Look he literally just admitted

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Speaker 5: that is exactly what he was playing. So you know

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Speaker 5: how I trusted my son, my button knew that he

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Speaker 5: was that type of curson. But why would I waste

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Speaker 5: my energy trying to convince somebody to not.

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Speaker 2: I get that. I get that.

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Speaker 1: So look, Tiffany, I don't I mean, I'll ask, but no,

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Speaker 1: no date with this guy will pay for it. No,

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Speaker 1: thank you, Okay, not gonna happen. Daniel, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It didn't work out. I mean, it wasn't that smooth.

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Speaker 1: But hey, I guess I'm I'm.

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Speaker 4: Grad it didn't work. This girl has a major attitude.

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Speaker 2: Oh or all right? Like not imagine guys, I appreciate

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Speaker 2: your time. Best of luck to both of you.

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