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Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if

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Speaker 1: Your letter live on the air, just like we're going

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Speaker 1: to read this one right here, right now, and you

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Speaker 1: never know, it could be yours.

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Speaker 3: It could be yours.

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Speaker 2: Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for

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Speaker 2: you here. It is draw baby letter. Thank you nephew.

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Speaker 2: Subject do I stay or move? On? To number five?

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Speaker 2: There's Stephen Shirley.

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Speaker 1: I'm fifty four years old and I'm married to my

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Speaker 1: third husband. I have a tendency to get bored in relationships,

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Speaker 1: so I was really trying to make my marriage work.

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Speaker 1: I get hit on by men at least three times

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Speaker 1: a week, and I always have to flash my diamond

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Speaker 1: ring so men know I'm taken. I guess it's my

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Speaker 1: cute dimples and my sweet voice. Each one of my

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Speaker 1: husbands told me that it's the baby talk that drove

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Speaker 1: them crazy. Whatever it is, I know I can always

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Speaker 1: get a man, but my current husband is boring and

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Speaker 1: he's not into explicit videos. Or role playing. We've only

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Speaker 1: been married two years and he's already stopped flipping me

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Speaker 1: around when we're intimate. I was telling my sister how

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Speaker 1: plain our sex is, and he overheard me on the phone.

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Speaker 1: He went off yelling and screaming at me. He threw

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Speaker 1: my past and up in my face. He said that

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Speaker 1: I'm in the I'm the problem in all of my

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Speaker 1: failed relationships because I want to stay young and do

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Speaker 1: things young women do. My sisters heard everything that he

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Speaker 1: said to me and told me to get out of

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Speaker 1: the house to clear my head. I met her at

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Speaker 1: a cafe and we had some drinks, and then in

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Speaker 1: walked the man of my dreams. He had on a

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Speaker 1: number five jersey, but he was not playing no games

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Speaker 1: at all. That night he had me twisted up all

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Speaker 1: kinds of ways at his house and he made me

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Speaker 1: forget about my marriage. I call him Number five and

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Speaker 1: we've been messing around for like three months. Me to

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Speaker 1: leave my husband for him. My husband never apologized for

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Speaker 1: the way he talked to me, so if we break up,

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Speaker 1: it won't be my fault. I feel like I should

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Speaker 1: be single and just do me for a while. Should

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Speaker 1: I try to make this third marriage work or move

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Speaker 1: on to number five? Have you ever tried to make

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Speaker 1: your marriage or any of your marriages work for that matter,

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Speaker 1: because it seems like when the bad times come, when

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Speaker 1: you get bored and all that, and bad times are

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Speaker 1: going to come into marriage.

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Speaker 2: We all know that you just you're ready to give

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Speaker 2: up and just move on. You quit.

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Speaker 1: That's really sad because if you're only around for the

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Speaker 1: good times, you're never going to be happy, never, because

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Speaker 1: that just isn't how marriage works. So here you are

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Speaker 1: ready to quit yet again. I love that you don't

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Speaker 1: even consider for a moment what your husband said might

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Speaker 1: be true. He said, you're the problem because you want

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Speaker 1: to stay young and do what young women do. Well,

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Speaker 1: what's going to be different with you? If you divorce

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Speaker 1: husband three and get with this guy you just met nothing,

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Speaker 1: If you don't put any effort into it, you'll just

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Speaker 1: get bored all over again. You said that you get

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Speaker 1: you have a tendency to get bored in relationships. I mean,

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Speaker 1: do you even love your husband?

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Speaker 2: I don't even.

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Speaker 1: You haven't mentioned that, not one time in this whole letter.

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Speaker 1: And what's gonna happen if you do leave him and

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Speaker 1: go for number five? The man who had you flipped around.

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Speaker 1: You know, after you met him for one night? How

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Speaker 1: long will it take you to get bored with him?

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Speaker 1: You can't leave a whole marriage based on a one

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Speaker 1: night's stand. That's never gonna work, ma'am. It's just never

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Speaker 3: Steve, I didne wrote so many notes down right here. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: let me finish this up. I just don't. I just

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Speaker 3: have so many things that's I really don't need to

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Speaker 3: read this letter. But it's just nothing in this letter

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Speaker 3: makes any sense at all. You're fifty four years old

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Speaker 3: and married to my third husband. I have a tendency

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Speaker 3: to get bored and relationship. So I was really trying

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Speaker 3: to make my marriage work. Really, and then right after

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Speaker 3: that statement right there, all that she negates everything. Right

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Speaker 3: after this, I was really trying to make my marriage work.

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Speaker 3: I get hit on by men at least three times

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Speaker 3: a week, and I have to flash my diamond rings.

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Speaker 3: So me and no, I'm taking no. See, the reason

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Speaker 3: you get hit on by men three times a week

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Speaker 3: is because you look like that. You look like that,

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Speaker 3: you draw. Listen to me, Whatever you put out is

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Speaker 3: what comes back to you. You put out, Look at me,

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Speaker 3: listen to me, see me, watch me, And that's what

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Speaker 3: men do. We hunted, So we do you, We do

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Speaker 3: see you, we do look at you, we do want you.

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Speaker 3: That ain't nothing new. If all the women acted the

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Speaker 3: way you act, they could all get hit on three

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Speaker 3: times a week. But you married, though, Where are you?

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Speaker 3: Where you always getting hit on three times a week?

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Speaker 3: All right, here we go. I guess it's my cute

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Speaker 3: dimples and my sweet voice that could be part of it.

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Speaker 3: That could be Each one of my husbands told me

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Speaker 3: that this is the baby talk that drove them crazy.

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Speaker 3: Somebody tavy, Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, Yes, that baby talk

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Speaker 3: drive them crazy. But that baby talk don't keep them.

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Speaker 3: Don't do it, cause see, how do we do all

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Speaker 3: this baby talking? We gotta do some grown folks stuff.

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Speaker 3: And we got many bills up in there. Hey, we

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Speaker 3: need to save some money, you know. But you got,

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Speaker 3: you got at one point in time. You got. You

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Speaker 3: gotta move on, all right? Anyway? I know I can

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Speaker 3: always get a man, Yes you can, but you can't

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Speaker 3: keep one. You are on husband number three at fifty four.

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Speaker 3: Getting a man is one thing, Keeping them is another.

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Speaker 3: Now you can make mistakes and pick the wrong man,

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Speaker 3: I got that, But all you talking about is you

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Speaker 3: get bored in your relationship. All relationships hit the boring point.

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Speaker 3: They all get you, all get all getting regular after

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Speaker 3: a while. All of them do. Ain't nobody, So man,

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Speaker 3: my marriage is just feel with excitement the whole time.

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Speaker 3: No it's not. There's days when you be sitting there

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Speaker 3: going wild. But now I want to get boring for you.

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Speaker 3: You think you I can always get him in, but

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Speaker 3: you can't keep waring. My current husband is boring and

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Speaker 3: he's not into explicit videos of role play. No, ma,

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Speaker 3: I won't do that. Explicit videos and role play what

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Speaker 3: you want to play? I don't want to be a

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Speaker 3: pirate tonight. I don't want to wear a patch. I

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Speaker 1: All right, all right, Steve, hang on, we'll have part

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Speaker 1: two of your response coming up at twenty three minutes

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Speaker 1: after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter subject do I stay

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Speaker 1: or move on to number five?

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Speaker 2: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 2: Steve Harvey Morning.

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Speaker 4: Show Wednesdays at ten nine Central on b ET. Court

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Speaker 4: is back in session with Miss Pat Settles at your

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Speaker 4: favorite prosiety comedian and is back with more outrageous cases,

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Speaker 4: more of her signature clapbacks, and more jaw dropping laughs

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Speaker 4: with celebrity guest jurors Carlos Miller, Tamar Braxton, d ray Davis,

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Speaker 4: Ray j and Moore. No matter who stands before Miss Pat,

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Speaker 4: no matter what she decides, laughter rules, and you get

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Speaker 4: the wits.

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Speaker 2: Miss Pat settles.

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Speaker 4: It is all new Wednesdays at ten ninth Central on

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's crazy Strawberry letter.

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Speaker 2: The subject is do I move? Do I stay? Or

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Speaker 2: move on? To number five?

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Speaker 3: Look, lady been married three times, she fifty four years old.

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Speaker 3: She's complaining that all her relationships get boring. And you

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Speaker 3: know she says that, uh, she get hit on three

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Speaker 3: times a week by men. She has to flash her

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Speaker 3: diamond rings. So men, no, she taken. But see, they

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Speaker 3: wouldn't know you was available if you weren't acting a

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Speaker 3: certain way. Then you like that? So now you want

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Speaker 3: to flash your ring? Is the way you acting? This drawing?

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Speaker 3: I'm telling you you attract what you put out. That's

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Speaker 3: what you're doing. Whatever it is, I know I can

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Speaker 3: always get a man. Oh that's cool. Most women can.

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Speaker 3: It's keeping them that's the problem. See, a lot of

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Speaker 3: women can go out here. Most women can go out

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Speaker 3: here and get a man today. Keeping them that's another problem.

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Speaker 3: But my current husband is born. He's not into explicit

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Speaker 3: videos or role players. He ain't into that. He don't

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Speaker 3: like that. Okay, And we've only been married two years

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Speaker 3: and here we go and he's already stopped flipping me

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Speaker 3: around when we are intimate, so he'd already stopped flipping

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Speaker 3: you around. I was telling my sister how playing our

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Speaker 3: Because when he flip you around, he know what he

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Speaker 3: gonna get. You know what, lady, you ain't all you

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Speaker 3: think you are. Maybe all this flipping sex where you

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Speaker 3: got to have, maybe it ain't that good. Maybe you

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Speaker 3: need to work on some most stable moves because flipping

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Speaker 3: ain't your thing no more. You're fifty four, So have

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Speaker 3: you ever thought about why he stopped flipping? Maybe you

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Speaker 3: don't flip the same no more. Most some O vials

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Speaker 3: when she get fifty four, she ain't gonna be flipped

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Speaker 3: She ain't gonna be flipped like that, no more. Not

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Speaker 3: he it coming, notatcha. She ain't in the Olympics no more.

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Speaker 5: Not here coming come.

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Speaker 3: And eat you coming, notch you. You can call him what

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Speaker 3: no jack. You get all this stuff you don't know.

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Speaker 3: Nobody flipped at fifty four like they used to. He

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Speaker 3: overheard me on the phone. He went off yelling, screaming

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Speaker 3: He said, your problem is all your fair relationships, because

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Speaker 3: I want to stay young and do things young women do,

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Speaker 3: but you can't do it no more. Young women like

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Speaker 3: to get flipped, but they good at flipping. See flipping

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Speaker 3: your old eyes different flip you one time, you help

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Speaker 3: go out ship you one time, then you get a

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Speaker 3: childie hog tried to flip your last week. You hit

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Speaker 3: and do things that young women do. You fifty four.

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Speaker 3: You can do some things, you just can't do them

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Speaker 3: the same way. My sister heard everything he said and

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Speaker 3: told me to get out the house with my head.

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Speaker 3: He had on the number five jersey. I be Maggie

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Speaker 3: Bush walked in, Charles White walked. These are all the

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Speaker 3: number fives our lives. Yeah, but he was not playing

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Speaker 3: him one time. Now you're at his house. He had

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Speaker 3: been messing around for like three months. He wants me

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Speaker 3: break up, it won't be my fault. Okay, okay, I'll

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Speaker 3: see this coming. I see this coming. I feel like

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Speaker 3: I should be single and just do me for a while.

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Speaker 3: You gonna be single. You ain't got to wish. Don't

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Speaker 3: worry about it. That's coming. Should I try to make

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Speaker 3: this third marriage work or move on the number five?

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Speaker 3: I strongly suggest you move on the number five. You've

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Speaker 3: been at number five house for three months now, so

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Speaker 3: what you're writing us for should you move on? You're

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Speaker 3: over that and now you're probably texting on the way

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Speaker 3: to the house. Now you ain't gonna be able to

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Speaker 3: keep number five, Eve, cause number five gonna get tired

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Speaker 3: of flipping you. Because relationships have to be about molding flipping,

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Speaker 3: and when you get in a real relationship, it turns

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Speaker 3: into what the relationship is, how we have a relationship

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Speaker 3: together in all things, not just flipping. Do you know

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Speaker 3: you spend the most of your time in your life

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Speaker 3: not having sex? Do you know that the majority of

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Speaker 3: your hours will be spent not having sex? I believe that.

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Speaker 3: Please understand. Hey, lady, I got something. Tell you. Your husband's right,

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Speaker 3: it's you.

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Speaker 2: The problem is you.

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Speaker 3: And you ain't learned a thing. Staying young is great,

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Speaker 3: but at one point you have to mature because you

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Speaker 3: are changing as a person. Any people that don't change

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Speaker 3: as they get older, you are. You are dealing with

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Speaker 3: a fool. You ain't gonna ever have nothing. You know

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Speaker 3: what breaks you up? What attracts you to me? And

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Speaker 3: is your baby talk? You know what make them leave

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Speaker 3: your baby? Wait? Because you was a silly, little simple

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Speaker 3: I like that?

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Speaker 2: Say that again?

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Speaker 3: That was good? You can attract them with your baby talk.

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Speaker 3: But what makes him leave is your baby waves. So

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Speaker 3: you can keep on with your little god got hey,

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Speaker 3: American Express is gonna close the card how the one? Yeah, well,

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Speaker 3: we gotta make a payment. You flip me. Hey, hey, hey, hey,

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Speaker 3: mayl can Express on the flip too. They want to

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Speaker 3: FI check over the tour.

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Speaker 5: It.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you got thirty days. We gotta we gotta flip

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Speaker 3: some money over there. So, lady, you're never gonna have nothing.

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Speaker 3: I strongly suggest you leave this husband and go on

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Speaker 3: to number five because you ain't acting like a wife

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Speaker 3: no way, and to be good riddens. Maybe your man

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Speaker 3: can find somebody that won't to be married and treat

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Speaker 3: him right because you ain't gonna do nothing. You ain't

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Speaker 3: will never have nonhing number five you find me, boy,

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Speaker 3: wait till number thirty two. Come through that dough bro.

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