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Speaker 2: Y'all know what time.

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Speaker 3: Y'all don't know y'all at all.

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Speaker 4: So given them.

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Speaker 5: Black the milon bus busy.

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Speaker 3: Listen to me, I don't joy, Yeah, Joy.

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Speaker 2: You gotta do that. You turn, you.

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Speaker 3: Got turn.

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Speaker 2: I got to turn the mouth.

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Speaker 3: Turn you probably got to turn the mouth, turn out,

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Speaker 3: turn the water then up.

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Speaker 6: Come.

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Speaker 4: Come on, you'll think, I sure will. Good morning everybody.

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Speaker 4: You'll listen to the voice. Come on, dig me now,

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Speaker 4: one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show.

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Speaker 2: Ain't god good man?

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Speaker 4: I mean, really, hey, you know what today I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: try something different, and it's amazing. I'm gonna try something

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Speaker 4: different because that's kind of what we're gonna talk about

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Speaker 4: this morning. Do something different this year. Look, if what

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Speaker 4: you've been doing has just gotten you to this point

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Speaker 4: and you are not content with the point you are at,

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Speaker 4: then we need to make an adjustment. I mean, don't

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Speaker 4: that seem like the common sense thing to do? It

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Speaker 4: does to me. Let's just do something different this year.

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Speaker 4: Make a commitment. I'm gonna do something different. I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: put forth a little bit more effort. I'm gonna quit trying.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna do it this year. You know, sometimes that

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Speaker 4: simple change of attitude is enough. Instead of trying, I'm

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Speaker 4: gonna do it. And it's just as.

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Speaker 2: Simple as that.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes, just remove certain words out the way, stop trying

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Speaker 4: to do something. You know, I decided this year, you know,

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Speaker 4: I wasn't gonna try to be a better person this year.

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Speaker 4: I'm just gonna go about the business of being a

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Speaker 4: better person this year and see how that works. You know,

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Speaker 4: because like I've said a thousand times, so if you

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Speaker 4: keep doing what you been doing, you gonna keep getting

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Speaker 4: what you been getting.

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Speaker 2: It.

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Speaker 4: Don't change it, don't change unless you change it. But

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Speaker 4: you have the power to change it. The power of

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Speaker 4: decision is in your hands. Decide to do the do

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Speaker 4: something different, make a commitment, say you know what, this year,

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna do the right thing. Now, let me warn you.

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Speaker 4: When you decide to do the right thing, understand, here

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Speaker 4: come the haters. What they not gonna let you do

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Speaker 4: is make a conscious decision to be a better person

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Speaker 4: without something to be said. Come on, now, you think

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Speaker 4: the devil just gonna let you all of a sudden,

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Speaker 4: you gonna you're gonna be better when he needed to

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Speaker 4: keep you on the wrong side of the track. You're

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Speaker 4: gonna go on the other side, so he come to haters. Now,

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Speaker 4: now let me tell you what's gonna happen, because I'm

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Speaker 4: speaking from experience. This is what I know, and all

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Speaker 4: all of you out there know this to be true

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Speaker 4: because all I'm doing right now, we just having to

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Speaker 4: remind the conversation. When you decide to do the right thing,

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Speaker 4: it's going to be unpopular with some people. Some people

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Speaker 4: ain't gonna like your decision because now your decision to

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Speaker 4: start getting to work on time, or your decision to

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Speaker 4: finally go home and be the man you're supposed to be,

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Speaker 4: or your decision to finally go on to take care

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Speaker 4: of your kids in spite of it all, or your

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Speaker 4: decision to man, I'm gonna come in here, man and

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Speaker 4: start loving my girl the way she deserved to be loved,

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Speaker 4: and all this here, Okay, Now that's gonna put somebody

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Speaker 4: you decide to come to work on time every day,

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Speaker 4: your homie over there that's been coming in late with you,

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Speaker 4: now all of a sudden, you got you got. You

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Speaker 4: don't put a spotlight on him. Now, all of a sudden, Man,

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Speaker 4: you ain't coming in late with me no more.

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Speaker 2: Man. Now they looking at me like I'm crazy by myself.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, man.

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Speaker 4: Because when you decide to do the right thing, it's

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Speaker 4: it becomes unpopular to some people. When you decide to

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Speaker 4: Now he know he been out here in the streets,

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Speaker 4: so he gonna try to go home and see his wife.

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Speaker 4: Yeah man, yeah, yeah, you just made that decision. But

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Speaker 2: Now. Guess what. The girl that you've been going over

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Speaker 2: to see, she gonna talk about you.

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Speaker 4: You ain't this, You ain't nothing. Because now you're going home.

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Speaker 4: Your boy's gonna talk about you. Because you're going home,

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Speaker 4: and you're gonna get some flat When you do the

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Speaker 4: right thing, here comes somebody ain't gonna like it. Somebody

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Speaker 4: wants you to stay wrong, misery love company. When you

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Speaker 4: in the past versus the way you decided to be

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Speaker 4: brand new how you all of a sudden claiming this

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Speaker 4: one I saw you doing that. Please understand, when you

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Speaker 4: make the decision to do the right thing, here they

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Speaker 4: come you a hypocrite. You think they don't call me that?

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Speaker 4: They called me that.

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Speaker 2: Steve Harvey, he fake, I hear. Man.

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Speaker 4: Look on Twitter, you try to tweet people positive stuff.

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Speaker 4: Here come a tweet you fake your family and all that.

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Speaker 4: I ain't say my family was, man, I'm just trying

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Speaker 4: to give out some positive encouragement, you know. But here

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Speaker 4: it come you a hypocrite. I remember when you was

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Speaker 4: out on the tour with the Kings of Comedy. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: me too, I remember that too, But I ain't out

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Speaker 4: on tour with them no more. We that all changed. Hello,

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Speaker 4: So now what you want me to do? You wanna

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Speaker 4: keep living up to what you saw me as what

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Speaker 4: I was? And I can't get no credit with you

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Speaker 4: for what I'm trying to be. Now that's that. Now

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Speaker 4: you're gonna be a hypocrite, you fake? Nah, man, you

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Speaker 4: ain't fake. You just have made the decision to be

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Speaker 4: a better person, that's all. And now because you ain't

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Speaker 4: the person you was, the person they knew. Now they

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Speaker 4: see the new you. Now you're a hypocrite. You ain't

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Speaker 2: You just change it.

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Speaker 4: Don't let them hate to shake you. Man, go own

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Speaker 4: about your business. When they talking about you. Look at

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Speaker 4: him now, gonna try to go home. He been with

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Speaker 4: me all this time. Hey man, just go home. Oh

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Speaker 4: he gonna try to go home now, Man, he know

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Speaker 4: Friday nights. Man, we done told our girls just where

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Speaker 4: They gonna say you're a hypocrite. But do the right thing.

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Speaker 4: God will bless you for that. That's something in Proverbs

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Speaker 4: that says, if you honor God, if you do the

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Speaker 4: right thing, if you seek him out, God will cause

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Speaker 4: his blessings to chase you down. Do you understand me

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Speaker 4: what that means? Can you imagine what would happen in

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Speaker 4: your life if God were to take some blessings and

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Speaker 4: chase you down with him. Do you know that there's

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Speaker 4: no hiding from him in your deepest, darkest secret. He

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Speaker 4: So now if he has got some blessings that he

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Speaker 2: You look up and here come another one. That go,

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Speaker 2: another one, Here he go again. Man.

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Speaker 4: That's why I'm trying to get my life to because

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Speaker 4: at the end, man, what I do not want, Man,

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Speaker 4: And not even at the end, I just don't want

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Speaker 4: now God to have all these boxes up in heaven,

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Speaker 4: so hard. He can't even ship blessings to me. Because

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Speaker 4: I'm just so dead wrong that I'm blocking the blessings man,

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Speaker 4: that God got for me. I would rather do the

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Speaker 4: and see what God got for me.

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Speaker 2: And remember, Donny McClurkin got a song out.

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Speaker 4: We ain't got time to play it now because I

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Speaker 4: am right now. The song and it's one of my favorite.

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Speaker 4: When Donnie wrote We Fall Down, do you know I

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Speaker 4: knew him when he.

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Speaker 2: Wrote the song. I thought he had wrote the song

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Speaker 4: I really did, because it came out after a conversation

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Speaker 4: And I bet you it's appropriate to your life because

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Speaker 4: you see, guess what, We fall down, but we get up.

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Speaker 4: make some mistakes. Just don't stay there. Just get up, man,

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Speaker 4: You're gonna fall a bunch of times. Just don't stay there.

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Speaker 4: Just get up, man. That's the only difference between a

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Speaker 4: that's what the revealing news is. Saints is really sinners.

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Speaker 4: They're the same people. They just keep getting up, that's all. Man.

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Speaker 8: You're listening morning show, ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls,

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Speaker 8: monkey trainers, bus drivers, meet the guards.

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Speaker 4: You know them people that go by and watch the

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Speaker 4: meet them, not on on car. I don't like the

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Speaker 4: words meet the maid because you probably get in trouble

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Speaker 2: Now meet the people.

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Speaker 1: You don't know what to say?

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Speaker 2: No more?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, the milkman, I can't say that no more either. Milk, milk, people,

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Speaker 4: mail people, all of it. Welcome to the Steve Hall

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Speaker 4: Morning Show. It's about to go down. Gratitude is the

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Speaker 4: attitude today that affects the altitude along the way. Got

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Speaker 4: a big day in store today for us all. I'm

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Speaker 4: grateful to be here, grateful to be a part of it.

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Speaker 4: In spite of everything, I'm still shining. Come on, yeah, yeah, Junior,

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Speaker 4: what's something?

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Speaker 2: Hold on? What am I doing?

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Speaker 4: Shirley Strawberry Corlin for rell Mouth of the South, Junior,

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Speaker 4: the legend of Nephew, Tommy and myself.

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Speaker 2: Come on, r what's on your mind today?

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Speaker 9: Let me ask you this, un you know, inspiration, Uncle,

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Speaker 9: for inspiration for you? Because you inspired a lot of

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Speaker 9: people already. What do you get your inspiration from? Who

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Speaker 9: do you turn to? Who do you look at? What

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Speaker 9: are some of the things you said?

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Speaker 4: Well, Tommy seems to think it's him in a way,

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Speaker 4: It is.

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Speaker 1: Really he's correct.

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Speaker 10: Yeah what not?

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Speaker 4: Oh, Shirley right there, see you trying to start these rocks?

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Speaker 4: She just said, she she just said, what I have

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Speaker 4: to be. I'm not even I'm not even gonna go down,

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Speaker 4: and I'm not gonna fall into that trap.

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Speaker 2: Because what he has accomplished.

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Speaker 4: On the rich hell has been a major earthquake level

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Speaker 2: Winning. When he said it wasn't gonna get warm.

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Speaker 4: Then what they said, it wasn't gonna ever be Come

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Speaker 4: on now going for they dare he not attempt to go.

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Speaker 4: The first time I was amazed was when his little

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Speaker 2: He actually just got out.

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Speaker 4: It wasn't on scholarship or nothing, just actually got in

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Speaker 4: It was in a special Cleveland scholarship program where they

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Speaker 2: Then I went on in. You got presidents.

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Speaker 4: To graduate, you needed one hundred and twenty five credits.

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Speaker 4: At the end of my third year, I had eighteen credits.

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Speaker 1: All right, listen, coming up at.

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Speaker 6: You.

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Speaker 2: You got to be in state three years with eighteen credits.

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Speaker 10: You're listening Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, Happy Monday, Happy Monday everyone, Wow, and what

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Speaker 1: a great Monday. Hopefully it will be and it can

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Speaker 1: be if we want it to be, right, Steve.

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Speaker 2: Uh, it's all of what you expect.

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Speaker 4: When you control your attitude, you control your altitude. That's

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Speaker 4: just a true statement, folks. I love it. And I'm

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Speaker 4: in control of mind too.

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Speaker 7: You know.

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Speaker 4: You can get me off balanced just for a minute,

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Speaker 4: but I collect myself real quick.

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Speaker 10: I'm back.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Towards the light.

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Speaker 11: Walk toward the light.

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Speaker 2: Yes.

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Speaker 4: And the best way to walk towards light is quit

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Speaker 4: paying attention to people to keep coming out the dog.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, that's the best way to do it.

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Speaker 12: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I mean, look, if somebody is spreading darkness, don't walk

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Speaker 1: Those haters, those negative people, that bad energy, stay away

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Man, light is the other way.

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Speaker 1: Let's do that today.

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Speaker 2: Walk towards the light.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, let's see how long?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 1: Cool?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Well we know who ain't.

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Speaker 4: Gonna last year. Well let's go. Let's just see how

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Speaker 4: long the light I'm walking.

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Speaker 2: I tell you, I tell you, I tell whatever.

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Speaker 4: Somebody if somebody looked like they ain't gonna like they

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Speaker 4: walking towards the lightness, pointed out, okay, because we see

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Speaker 13: All right, okay, okay, first.

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Speaker 2: Dog statement, pointed.

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Speaker 1: Out, it's so good the clean slate. We're starting with

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Speaker 1: the clean slates. Man, Okay, you're starting off. That's not

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Speaker 1: how you start off now already, right, pointed out Steve.

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Speaker 1: That's right, clean slate.

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Speaker 6: Okay about now, you ain't gonna make it.

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Speaker 1: This is not social media. This is real life right here,

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Speaker 1: this is y'all. Go ahead on right here.

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Speaker 2: Any questions.

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Speaker 4: Anybody wants some advice, knowledge, some helplift, some caurriaging words

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Speaker 2: Okay, go ahead.

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Speaker 1: Carlos said she had a question.

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Speaker 14: Go ahead, Carlo, Since we're talking about being positive this morning,

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Speaker 14: why don't you give some advice to j Anthony Brown

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Speaker 14: bit a man about how turning that negative attitude into positive?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're thirty year friend, thirty five year friend.

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Speaker 4: If I would j Anthony Brown, go ahead, I would

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Speaker 4: realize that where I am today, I've exactly thought myself

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Speaker 4: to that exact position, and.

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Speaker 2: He's in a good position.

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Speaker 4: He just doesn't look at how far he's come from

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Speaker 4: I know why he bid up because you know he

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Speaker 4: don't take rejection.

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Speaker 2: Well, see, Jada's like this.

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Speaker 4: You know, he in a relationship and he loves the

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Speaker 4: Honey movie phase, the beginning of the relationship, but as

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Speaker 4: soon as it turned into what did you say?

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Speaker 2: That's the beginning of the.

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Speaker 1: Are you saying they can't even ask a question?

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Speaker 2: Girl?

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Speaker 4: Okay, here, let me give you an example. Ask me

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Speaker 4: some questions, shouldn't it.

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Speaker 11: I'm Jenny, Jenny?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, you said you wanted to have dinner tonight.

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Speaker 1: What time are you going to pick me up?

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Speaker 2: So damn you just want to bother me about what time? Now?

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Speaker 1: I just need to know. I just need to know

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Speaker 1: so i'll know one to.

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Speaker 2: Be ready and I'll be there when I get there. Okay, Well, baby, well.

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Speaker 7: Should we go?

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Speaker 1: Are we going to a fancy restaurant or is it

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Speaker 4: Just said, why we always got to go somewhere fancy?

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Speaker 4: You know, why can't we just go somewhere like regular people?

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Speaker 4: So we're gonna gonna spend.

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Speaker 2: All the money eating. He has no object?

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Speaker 1: What what should I wear? What? What do you think

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Speaker 1: I should close?

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Speaker 2: The hell?

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Speaker 11: What you want to go?

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Speaker 1: Well? I mean, okay, so are we driving or are

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Speaker 15: Well?

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Speaker 1: I know that, but sometimes you know, we may have

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying I.

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Speaker 1: Don't want you to drive if you've been drinking. That's

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Speaker 1: all a little dress.

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Speaker 4: But we don't all this stuff legalized that you.

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Speaker 2: Still want to drink?

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Speaker 1: So is that? Is that what you're gonna wear?

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Speaker 2: Oh? You don't like what I got on?

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Speaker 1: I just asked if you were going to wear that.

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Speaker 1: If you're wearing a suit, then maybe I'll put on

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Speaker 2: What this gonna work?

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Speaker 1: Can we at least get to dinner?

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Speaker 2: I don't see how this could possibly let.

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Speaker 1: Because I was gonna say if we went to dinner,

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Speaker 1: I was gonna let you order for me.

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Speaker 4: You picky. Now you want me to order your food?

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Speaker 4: So you beat mad? And what I don't know? Don'tbody

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Speaker 4: know what you want to eat?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, you already know where we're going. How I

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Speaker 1: Well, that's why I asked, well, okay, well I gotta

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Speaker 1: ask you this. I have to ask you this now.

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Speaker 1: Will you be upset? Is it okay? If I order

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Speaker 1: a dessert?

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Speaker 4: Wow?

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Speaker 2: So you're gonna just sit up dinner?

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Speaker 4: So you don't care how you gonna look in ten

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Speaker 4: years judge it.

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Speaker 2: So we just got desert.

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Speaker 1: Honey. I was being considerate because I know you have diabetes.

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Speaker 2: Oh, but you're gonna order dessert.

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Speaker 15: Wild.

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Speaker 2: I'm sitting over here just looking, which is why awful.

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Speaker 4: That's why I got diabetes causing you.

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Speaker 1: Now it's well, if we go to the restaurant out

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Speaker 1: by the by the water is it okay?

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Speaker 2: What are we driving all the way down there by

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Speaker 2: the waterfall? Well?

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Speaker 1: I thought it'd be nice, you know, romantic walk after

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Speaker 4: Romantic walking out to be on that beach at night. Damn,

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Speaker 4: Now you want to eat?

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Speaker 2: Get the foe?

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Speaker 13: Now you see you got to take off work.

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Speaker 2: Now I got to come by and bring suit by

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Speaker 2: the house. No, I got that beats.

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Speaker 1: You don't want to be fitter man. We'll be back

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Speaker 1: right after.

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Speaker 2: None of me.

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Speaker 1: You're listening, har Morning show time Now for us the

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Speaker 1: c l O.

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Speaker 10: Are you ready?

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Speaker 1: Cheap love Officer Steve Harvey, Let's do it. This one

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Speaker 1: is from Karna in Indiana. I've been married for six

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Speaker 1: years and my husband is in hot water. But he

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Speaker 1: from work and I saw a few strands of long

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Speaker 1: so he could see them. He immediately went into defense

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Speaker 1: mode and said, he goes to lunch with his female

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Speaker 1: I ignored him when we got home. He said, it's

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Speaker 1: want to cheat. But he hasn't Wait what wait.

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Speaker 4: What come on?

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Speaker 1: Let's doing around? Says kinda says. I'm not one to nag.

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Speaker 1: So how did he turn this around on me?

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Speaker 4: I mean, jess, he understands the number one rule, the

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Speaker 4: best defense is a great office, and so he went

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Speaker 4: offensive on you. Why you got every right to nag?

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Speaker 4: It's your blonde hand yo, cheir? Yeah see so not yeah,

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Speaker 4: I'm nagging, but you got coworkers women in my car.

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Speaker 4: That why you got to drive? Why they can't drive

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Speaker 4: theyself to lunch? M See now, if you sit down,

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Speaker 4: it's nothing nagging. I don't cheap, but it makes me

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Speaker 4: want to. God tell you what going out there and

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Speaker 4: cheat and see what happened?

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Speaker 2: All right? That because that can easily turn into.

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Speaker 7: Loading three and a half and go and go to

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Speaker 7: the job and see who had it is at that box?

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Speaker 1: Oh, I thought you're gonna go to the lab.

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Speaker 4: You're gonna take a blond piece of hand, go to

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Speaker 4: somebody's job.

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Speaker 7: See if we're trying to find out who it is.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's why you that's why you do pranks.

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Speaker 1: Churt Okay, Shanda and fort Worth Clo. Since I've been

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Speaker 1: dating a new guy for three months and he's starting

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Speaker 1: sleeping over my house and I sleep over at his house,

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Speaker 1: I have a major issue and it's keeping me up

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Speaker 1: at night. I'm a bad snorer and my last boyfriend

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Speaker 1: to the new guy, I try my best not to

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Speaker 1: because of it. All if I know we're going to

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Speaker 1: be together, I try to take a nap before our date.

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Speaker 1: Is this really a big deal for all men? Or

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Speaker 1: am I depriving myself of sleep for nothing?

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Speaker 4: Why don't you go get some help? Why don't you go?

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Speaker 4: There's things that can help you. But like cause cause

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Speaker 4: you snowing rough you, you rough girl, and you and

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Speaker 4: some other things.

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Speaker 2: Cause see like a you real real fine?

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Speaker 1: Uh huh.

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Speaker 4: You know people take that snow in a little bit more.

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Speaker 4: That's they non tolerant. So either you either real fine

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Speaker 4: and you snowing like a damn bath.

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Speaker 2: All stop looking at me.

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Speaker 1: Sly talks in her sleep. Uh uh, this is this

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Speaker 1: is Shanda and for work.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm just asking Atlanta. Shanda knew all that, Atlanta.

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Speaker 4: But you know that you gotta go get some help.

448
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:37,680
Speaker 4: You can go to the doctor. They got stuff for

449
00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:39,560
Speaker 4: They got the little thing you can put in your mouth.

450
00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:42,639
Speaker 14: They got a whole mask, they got all kind of stuff,

451
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:44,359
Speaker 14: mask and nasal strips.

452
00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:46,160
Speaker 2: And you know you didn't.

453
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:49,879
Speaker 4: Wear a COVID mask because here in ninety five hardly

454
00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:53,360
Speaker 4: snowing that hot ass mask seapop.

455
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:56,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, she needs to do something because she's losing sleep.

456
00:24:57,520 --> 00:24:58,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, seatpap machine.

457
00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:05,280
Speaker 1: She loses me and that too. Yeah, all right, So

458
00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:07,040
Speaker 1: go to the doctor and get some help for it.

459
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 1: Is your response to that?

460
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:10,560
Speaker 10: Colo?

461
00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:11,560
Speaker 2: All right?

462
00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:14,879
Speaker 1: So Viv in New Orleans says, I'm dating a long

463
00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:19,240
Speaker 1: haul truck driver and we lived together, but he's never home.

464
00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:22,720
Speaker 1: He came home last weekend and he brought a younger,

465
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:26,280
Speaker 1: cute female with him and asked if she could stay

466
00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:29,600
Speaker 1: with us for two days while her truck got repaired.

467
00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:33,920
Speaker 1: I wasn't cool with it, but what could I do?

468
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:36,840
Speaker 1: She was already there. She was a bit rough around

469
00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:39,879
Speaker 1: the edges, but nice enough. When my man left to

470
00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:42,399
Speaker 1: go back on the road, I assumed the lady's truck

471
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:46,159
Speaker 1: was fixed too, But when I facetimed my man, she

472
00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:49,359
Speaker 1: was in his truck. Later on, he told me that

473
00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:51,760
Speaker 1: her truck was in another state and he was dropping

474
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:54,600
Speaker 1: her off. Am I being stupid? What do you think

475
00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:55,520
Speaker 1: is really going on?

476
00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:57,280
Speaker 2: What you got going on?

477
00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:12,320
Speaker 11: Some trucking.

478
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:17,119
Speaker 15: Her that's sitting the nutshell.

479
00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:18,960
Speaker 2: I can't say no more behind.

480
00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:24,720
Speaker 7: That truck, and baby, that's a lot of nerve for

481
00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:27,440
Speaker 7: him to just bring her in there like that dog dog.

482
00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:29,760
Speaker 4: You can't bring no woman to the house to him,

483
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 4: cause she stay with us, come.

484
00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:36,640
Speaker 1: To whol right stay well, dog, what right?

485
00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:40,160
Speaker 2: You can't bring no female hometongue your white baby? Case?

486
00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:48,000
Speaker 2: She stay with us? Where you get her from? Yes? What? Hell?

487
00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:50,200
Speaker 4: Why don't she stay with her damn truck till it

488
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:50,960
Speaker 4: gets fixed?

489
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:53,800
Speaker 2: Why she ride with you?

490
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:54,040
Speaker 16: Now?

491
00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:56,000
Speaker 4: You gotta ride her all the way back to her

492
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:58,840
Speaker 4: damn truck? Why does she get a hotel across the

493
00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:01,760
Speaker 4: street from the truck st get to her truck?

494
00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:04,720
Speaker 2: Got fitch? Why why is you the hotel?

495
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 1: We have a lot of truckers that listen to the

496
00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:11,640
Speaker 1: show too. I know they're like, they know what yeah,

497
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:15,200
Speaker 1: uh huh. So they just lived there.

498
00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:17,760
Speaker 2: Have a bed in a room in the truck, don't.

499
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:21,960
Speaker 5: Damn Yeah, he knew that pulled up that that wasn't

500
00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:23,640
Speaker 5: gonna work. He knew that as soon as he pulled

501
00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:25,520
Speaker 5: that truck up that well, this is not gonna work.

502
00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:26,159
Speaker 5: But I'm gonna give it in.

503
00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:31,600
Speaker 1: She's younger and cute because she stayed with them for

504
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:39,960
Speaker 1: two days. Okay, yeah, yeah, you got some nerve?

505
00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:41,280
Speaker 11: Yeah?

506
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:43,160
Speaker 1: Am I being stupid? Yeah?

507
00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:43,679
Speaker 10: A little bit?

508
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:44,080
Speaker 2: You are?

509
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:51,200
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, all right, thank you clo. As always, you're listening.

510
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:52,920
Speaker 10: Hard Morning show.

511
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:57,880
Speaker 1: All right, Steve, So here's the story. Check this out.

512
00:27:58,040 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 1: Men who can do forty push ups are far less

513
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:04,439
Speaker 1: likely to develop heart disease. Okay, it turns out that

514
00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:07,680
Speaker 1: that's forty push ups a day, not forty push ups.

515
00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 1: You know, a lifetime total of forty push ups. Let's

516
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:14,879
Speaker 1: be clear. A day. Yeah, forty a day. Forty You

517
00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:16,679
Speaker 1: did that. I don't think that's so bad though.

518
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 2: Forty day, forty push ups a day. Yeah, but that ain't.

519
00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:22,959
Speaker 1: Bad, No, not at all. So nearly half of you.

520
00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:26,600
Speaker 4: I thought they meant forty at one time because my

521
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:28,720
Speaker 4: bad jumped in the floor because I heard that the

522
00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:30,439
Speaker 4: other day and my buddy jumped in the floor and

523
00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:32,720
Speaker 4: found out he was gonna have a heart attack.

524
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:35,399
Speaker 1: And trying to do it. Yeah, how about twenty in

525
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 1: the morning and twenty at night.

526
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:41,520
Speaker 2: That's easy, Yeah, that's season okay, I push ups? Yeah easy?

527
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:43,040
Speaker 1: Okay, Well cool.

528
00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 7: Then you know I met one hundred a day, big dog.

529
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:48,600
Speaker 7: I just thought that, But I just thought I can

530
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:50,560
Speaker 7: do it to day. It took me a whole day

531
00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:51,440
Speaker 7: to get that hunted in.

532
00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:53,800
Speaker 4: Oh yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, but not it once

533
00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:56,680
Speaker 4: I could do full twenty five clips.

534
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:58,200
Speaker 2: You know, what's that?

535
00:28:59,120 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 16: Like?

536
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:04,480
Speaker 4: Twenty five at each forty like its waiting to be

537
00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:08,760
Speaker 4: a realistically, I can do about thirty push ups like

538
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:09,400
Speaker 4: right now?

539
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:13,600
Speaker 2: Uh, non stop, We'll go ahead, yeah, drop and give me.

540
00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 2: Yeah he got strong up about it.

541
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:17,040
Speaker 1: Yeah he does.

542
00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:18,240
Speaker 2: You're right, he got strong.

543
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:21,040
Speaker 4: I can get that here. You know I'm not right

544
00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:24,400
Speaker 4: around eighteen though, yeah, right around eighteen, I crumb.

545
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:28,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you start thinking different at eighteen eighteen.

546
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:30,360
Speaker 1: That I don't know.

547
00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:32,719
Speaker 4: It was just different things about your life and stuff.

548
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 4: You know, should I have finished school?

549
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:37,920
Speaker 1: You go that deep with it?

550
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:38,160
Speaker 2: Yeah?

551
00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:41,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I have flashbacks, you know how You

552
00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 4: know our machines say if you feel fake or dizzy,

553
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:49,200
Speaker 4: stop Immediately my mind started playing tricks on me.

554
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:52,040
Speaker 2: I started remembering the time I was drowning.

555
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:54,640
Speaker 1: Your life flashes before you, yeah, all.

556
00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 4: Stuff like that. I remember that time laying in the street,

557
00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:00,640
Speaker 4: had got hit by that car. You know, how were

558
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:03,960
Speaker 4: you then about fifteen when I got you by the car.

559
00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:06,880
Speaker 14: So when you do twenty push ups, your mind takes

560
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:07,960
Speaker 14: you back to where you were.

561
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:10,480
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah yeah, And then when you get your twenty

562
00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:13,320
Speaker 4: five you know, I saw my daddy beating me down

563
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:16,960
Speaker 4: in the basement by the furnace, and I took off

564
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:18,880
Speaker 4: running and tried to run through the furnace.

565
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 2: It'd be a lot of stuff happening.

566
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:26,600
Speaker 1: Man, it'd be on your mind to be stuffed. Well whatever,

567
00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:28,800
Speaker 1: your nephew said, he can do a buck twenty five

568
00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:32,280
Speaker 1: a day, so okay, one hundred.

569
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:34,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, well let's do it the whole day. Now, that

570
00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:35,480
Speaker 2: take a long time.

571
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:37,920
Speaker 1: But how many what's the match you can do at

572
00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:39,600
Speaker 1: one time? Two time?

573
00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 2: About twenty five me realistically, yeah, twenty five.

574
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:46,480
Speaker 1: Thirty, so twenty five four times a day. But your

575
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:49,320
Speaker 1: your arms and your tries and.

576
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:51,320
Speaker 2: Well, see my push up is different.

577
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:55,440
Speaker 4: See I can't put my chin chest on the floor

578
00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:58,680
Speaker 4: because of the length of my arms. And Lee HAINI

579
00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 4: told me that he's as Steve, your arms are so long.

580
00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:04,440
Speaker 4: He say for you to go all the way down

581
00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:08,080
Speaker 4: chest to the floor like military people put you in

582
00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:11,040
Speaker 4: on the floor. He said, you're pushing your sockets too

583
00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 4: far forward. He said, it's not good for you. He said,

584
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 4: just do the push up to your arms is in

585
00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:20,400
Speaker 4: the al shape. Once you get him in that perpendicular

586
00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:22,200
Speaker 4: al shape, he said, you can call him back up.

587
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 4: Your arms are too long for that, he said. A

588
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 4: little shorter armed people can do that.

589
00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:30,880
Speaker 2: That's what he's saying. I'm right there at that's what

590
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:33,680
Speaker 2: he's doing.

591
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:35,800
Speaker 1: A push up, Oh I'm doing.

592
00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 4: Oh no, he is as good mine mine. I won't

593
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:42,040
Speaker 4: look as deep. My push up wouldn't look as deep

594
00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:44,640
Speaker 4: as thommys. That's what I'm saying. Tidn't go all the

595
00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:47,600
Speaker 4: way to the I go to the floor. I do

596
00:31:47,640 --> 00:31:49,960
Speaker 4: six of these things and need the operation.

597
00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:53,400
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right.

598
00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:55,000
Speaker 2: How many crunches can you do? Though?

599
00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:57,960
Speaker 4: I can do a lot of crunches, but I ain't

600
00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:00,520
Speaker 4: done nothing. I don't know when my.

601
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 2: Core pretty good though, you know what this takes me.

602
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:05,280
Speaker 4: I do planks and leg lifts and stuff like that

603
00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 4: instead of doing crunches you know, ben and trying to

604
00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:11,800
Speaker 4: stress you lower back out. So I found a lot

605
00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 4: of alternative ways to do exercises that I've gotten older,

606
00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:17,440
Speaker 4: that don't that don't tear your body up like for me,

607
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:22,320
Speaker 4: lunges make no sense. I hate reverse lunges are a

608
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:30,800
Speaker 4: lot better for me than straightforward lunges. I don't reverse lunges.

609
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 1: This reminds me, though, when you guys were talking about

610
00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:37,960
Speaker 1: sit ups and everything about remember Carlo the shirts off tour. Oh,

611
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 1: I know that was so. I was so a month yeah.

612
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:43,720
Speaker 5: Yeah.

613
00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 1: For those of you who don't know, trying, yeah time,

614
00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:50,719
Speaker 1: Steve issued a challenge to the to all the guys

615
00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 1: that work on the show, you know, be they off

616
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:56,920
Speaker 1: the show, behind the scenes or whatever, to get in

617
00:32:56,960 --> 00:32:59,280
Speaker 1: shape by a certain time. And you were, you were

618
00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:02,440
Speaker 1: doing a calendar or something. Yeah, the pictures are still

619
00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:05,800
Speaker 1: down there. Pictures are still there. Yeah. And that was

620
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:08,280
Speaker 1: really cool though, you guys. You guys looked great and

621
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:09,280
Speaker 1: you worked really hard.

622
00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:16,280
Speaker 4: Remember tell me what I took that picture with that

623
00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:23,120
Speaker 4: towel over he was playing simply beautiful in the background,

624
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:26,000
Speaker 4: said if you don't get you off that floor.

625
00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:28,760
Speaker 2: What about boom though?

626
00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:33,040
Speaker 4: Booms and some sexy pictures on riding up Boom climbed

627
00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 4: up on that line at my house and boy, women

628
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:41,800
Speaker 4: was writing then I won't him, I won't him.

629
00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:44,680
Speaker 2: Oh I want I want that big man up on

630
00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 2: that line. Come on over here. I got a line

631
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:51,360
Speaker 2: for you. Boy. That was fun.

632
00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:53,800
Speaker 1: That was a lot of fun. I was really proud

633
00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:56,040
Speaker 1: of you guys. We were proud of you guys. Yeah,

634
00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:58,080
Speaker 1: we ain't been back there yet.

635
00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:00,560
Speaker 2: Okay, I made you.

636
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:02,200
Speaker 1: Want to get in shape, though, Steve, what.

637
00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:05,200
Speaker 2: I thought I was gonna die?

638
00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:07,320
Speaker 10: What we are?

639
00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:12,200
Speaker 4: Anytime I feel like I might die, bubble, I.

640
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:14,680
Speaker 2: Get you into jail right away to try to divert it.

641
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:15,279
Speaker 1: Uh huh.

642
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:17,560
Speaker 4: Now you know, I don't know, you know, I don't

643
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:20,439
Speaker 4: know what was happening right there. Like I've been doing

644
00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:23,919
Speaker 4: this vegan thing pretty strong. Yeah, you know, I fell

645
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 4: off on my birthday. I had sushi on my birthday.

646
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 1: But you're always on approach of something, Steve.

647
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:30,600
Speaker 2: So I have to be on something, man, because I

648
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:32,840
Speaker 2: like challenging myself.

649
00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:33,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, and motivating.

650
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

651
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:37,680
Speaker 1: Well, that push up study was done by the American

652
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:38,680
Speaker 1: Heart Association.

653
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:42,240
Speaker 10: You're listening morning show.

654
00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:46,600
Speaker 1: It is time now for a round of would you rather?

655
00:34:47,160 --> 00:34:51,760
Speaker 1: Would you rather have sex wild blindfolded or have sex

656
00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:53,200
Speaker 1: wild handcuffed?

657
00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:57,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, there's no way I'm getting handcuffed.

658
00:34:57,680 --> 00:34:59,279
Speaker 2: M No, I.

659
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 4: Got closed my as amount of time anyway, that time.

660
00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:09,120
Speaker 1: Bother you. It's normal, nephew.

661
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:12,480
Speaker 7: Do I need to see what I'm dealing with? I

662
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:16,239
Speaker 7: can't just I don't want no Yeah, I got to

663
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:18,200
Speaker 7: see what I'm talking about. I don't want no surprise.

664
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:22,719
Speaker 1: But you're just gonna be looking though you can't judge.

665
00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 7: At least I can see it. Though I can see it,

666
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 7: I got to do to stop certain things. But I'm

667
00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:38,040
Speaker 7: gonna be all right.

668
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:44,879
Speaker 1: All right. Would you rather a screaming lady as your

669
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:49,400
Speaker 1: ringer or belching sounds as your ringer on your screaming

670
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:50,800
Speaker 1: lady or belching sounds?

671
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 13: I better go with me because I'm married, Yes you are.

672
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Speaker 7: You better go with the belching because, yeah, I don't

673
00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:02,799
Speaker 7: want nobody holland when you call me.

674
00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:04,040
Speaker 2: I thought, I want it to be real.

675
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:07,399
Speaker 1: Crist wanted to.

676
00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:17,160
Speaker 4: Because I'm black. What I'm going with be because I'm black. Yeah,

677
00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:20,919
Speaker 4: you don't want to go to this white lady hollering

678
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:22,720
Speaker 4: their turn my damn phone.

679
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:26,520
Speaker 2: He has a hostage, I swear.

680
00:36:26,320 --> 00:36:26,760
Speaker 16: I got.

681
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:29,560
Speaker 2: All right.

682
00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:33,480
Speaker 1: Would you rather accidentally text a new picture to someone?

683
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:36,840
Speaker 1: Or would you rather butt dial someone during sex?

684
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:43,759
Speaker 2: You can't pull that picture back. Let's just do that.

685
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:46,600
Speaker 13: See if you stay on the phone, if you hear me,

686
00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:47,440
Speaker 13: it's something wrong with you.

687
00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 9: You could have been hung with this damn right, Junior?

688
00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:56,880
Speaker 1: That hard?

689
00:36:57,480 --> 00:37:03,359
Speaker 2: Yes, big, you can't have that picture? Get out there

690
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:05,719
Speaker 2: like all right?

691
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:10,240
Speaker 1: Would you rather talk like Shaq or talk like Charles Barkley.

692
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:10,480
Speaker 10: Which.

693
00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 15: Man good?

694
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:14,719
Speaker 2: Both of the man?

695
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:17,520
Speaker 13: Shack is the way he talked.

696
00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:22,800
Speaker 2: I'm going with Shack. It's smooth. I think I'm walking

697
00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:24,080
Speaker 2: too high for me. I can't reach you.

698
00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:29,399
Speaker 13: Yeah, I know, But but Charles don't be he says

699
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 13: something crazy, you know, you.

700
00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:34,000
Speaker 1: Know first for the poem, Cob Covid want see what

701
00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:34,680
Speaker 1: you're missing?

702
00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:35,759
Speaker 2: All that right there?

703
00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:37,520
Speaker 13: But Shack be deep and you don't have to worry

704
00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:37,759
Speaker 13: about it.

705
00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:39,759
Speaker 2: I mean I'm doing right now.

706
00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:45,440
Speaker 1: What are they saying, either one of them, both of them,

707
00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:49,040
Speaker 1: rich Jack got a lot of it.

708
00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:50,839
Speaker 2: I will go with Shack Rich though.

709
00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:56,520
Speaker 1: That's all right, that's today's rounded. Would you rather you're

710
00:37:56,560 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 1: listening Hard Morning Show?

711
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:00,440
Speaker 13: All right?

712
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:04,480
Speaker 1: Steve are very own. J Anthony Brown is always here

713
00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:07,480
Speaker 1: with the foolishness and count on him. He's got details

714
00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:08,960
Speaker 1: on his brand new book, tell us about it.

715
00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:11,440
Speaker 5: Just finished my new book, Steve, and it's called one

716
00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:15,839
Speaker 5: hundred and one Ways to Start an Argument. Several chapters

717
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:20,160
Speaker 5: in the book. Chapter one, you know, laugh on the

718
00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:25,520
Speaker 5: phone for no reason, just just laugh. So argument, yeah,

719
00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:31,960
Speaker 5: it would start an argument is yeah, yeah, yeah. Chapter

720
00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 5: Chapter seven is a real good chapter. Take a shower in.

721
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:38,200
Speaker 11: The middle of the day. Just just shower. Yeah, what

722
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:39,680
Speaker 11: are you going showering?

723
00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:40,040
Speaker 4: That's a.

724
00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:45,239
Speaker 5: On Sunday. This is a good one for Sunday. Say

725
00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 5: say I'm going to a different church by myself.

726
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:53,879
Speaker 2: That's what you say. On there's gonna be some hair on.

727
00:38:58,120 --> 00:39:00,000
Speaker 11: Well over there.

728
00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:04,719
Speaker 5: Ways to start an argument, Yeah, put an empty bag

729
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:06,719
Speaker 5: in the closet and just walk away. Just put it

730
00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:10,239
Speaker 5: up there and just walk away. Yeah, once and that.

731
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:11,799
Speaker 5: Don't w about that. Don't go up there. Don't go

732
00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:12,320
Speaker 5: up there.

733
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:16,600
Speaker 2: You mean, don't go up there. Don't go up there.

734
00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:19,840
Speaker 5: All right, Ways to start an argument, say this phrase

735
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:22,520
Speaker 5: right here. This really works. Say I'll be right.

736
00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:27,880
Speaker 11: Back and leave, just leave, just leave right where you're going.

737
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:30,440
Speaker 5: I'll be right back. I don't worry about where I'm going.

738
00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:31,279
Speaker 5: I'll be right back.

739
00:39:31,640 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 2: I mean, don't wear everybody.

740
00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:37,600
Speaker 10: Yeah, walk.

741
00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:41,640
Speaker 5: You just phrase right here on the phone. This really

742
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:44,719
Speaker 5: gets an argument about. Say, good job, Becky, I'll see

743
00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:46,120
Speaker 5: you tomorrow up the.

744
00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:48,400
Speaker 2: Phone, Becky.

745
00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:50,279
Speaker 1: With the good hair bit.

746
00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:58,760
Speaker 4: Why the hell you got to encourage Becky some damn

747
00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:03,160
Speaker 4: good job Becky? Where she do something? Well, your gots

748
00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:04,200
Speaker 4: to be commenting on it.

749
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:07,960
Speaker 5: From my new book, How to Start an argument as

750
00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:09,560
Speaker 5: your mate, your lady?

751
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:12,919
Speaker 11: When's that? When's your friend coming over here?

752
00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:20,759
Speaker 2: You know when she's been over here in the while?

753
00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:21,600
Speaker 2: Where is she coming here?

754
00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:26,239
Speaker 4: Oh?

755
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:29,160
Speaker 9: No, yeah, that starts right.

756
00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:35,040
Speaker 1: He's a pretty good jay argument.

757
00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 11: Yeah, here waves and started argument.

758
00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:39,719
Speaker 5: No matter what movie she says you want to go to,

759
00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:41,840
Speaker 5: you say, oh, I've seen it already.

760
00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:42,640
Speaker 10: I see.

761
00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:48,400
Speaker 1: Oh you're jo you're going to movies. Okay, time to

762
00:40:48,480 --> 00:40:48,919
Speaker 1: go see.

763
00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:57,759
Speaker 11: Yeah, I've seen that one. I've seen that, I've seen it,

764
00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:02,160
Speaker 11: I've seen it. Here's another one. Here's another one. Ways

765
00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:03,360
Speaker 11: of starting argument.

766
00:41:03,640 --> 00:41:07,560
Speaker 5: You're on the phone and you laugh real damn loud,

767
00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:09,000
Speaker 5: and then you stop whispering.

768
00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:16,239
Speaker 2: You've been married a bunch of.

769
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:20,719
Speaker 1: This is why he's divorced.

770
00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:24,920
Speaker 2: You know how to run somebody off?

771
00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:26,279
Speaker 4: Can I give you one?

772
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:28,239
Speaker 11: Give me one? Give me one? I put it in

773
00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:28,600
Speaker 11: the book.

774
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:44,680
Speaker 15: Buy your wife some running shoes far color.

775
00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:53,759
Speaker 5: Yeah, man, yeah, buy some running shoes that do it.

776
00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:55,880
Speaker 1: Yees.

777
00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:56,440
Speaker 2: All of a.

778
00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:58,759
Speaker 5: Sudden, All of a sudden, in the middle of the day,

779
00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:00,320
Speaker 5: you put on a clean shirt.

780
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:04,520
Speaker 1: He woke up in one shirt and put on another.

781
00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 1: What you change your shirts for?

782
00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:11,000
Speaker 11: Can I just put on a new shirt.

783
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:16,279
Speaker 1: No, no, you cannot. What's wrong with all? Can just

784
00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:16,839
Speaker 1: go in the book?

785
00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 16: Jack?

786
00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:18,239
Speaker 2: Can I just add one more?

787
00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:19,759
Speaker 11: Last one?

788
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:23,920
Speaker 16: Real?

789
00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:24,680
Speaker 6: Yeah?

790
00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:28,799
Speaker 4: Ways to start an argument in your house, guaranteed. Come on,

791
00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:32,359
Speaker 4: what come in from work and pull your pants off

792
00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:40,160
Speaker 4: and ain't got no draws?

793
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:40,719
Speaker 16: All right?

794
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 1: Thanks Jay and Steve. You just command with I'm left

795
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:50,960
Speaker 1: you up next with today's frank phone call.

796
00:42:51,520 --> 00:42:56,960
Speaker 10: Right after that, you're listening hard Morning show.

797
00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour. Right about

798
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:03,360
Speaker 1: four minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for today, the

799
00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:07,799
Speaker 1: subject she took away all my joy. We'll get into

800
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:10,879
Speaker 1: that in a little bit. Right now, the nephew is

801
00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:17,479
Speaker 1: in the building. Yeah, the nephews here with today's bring

802
00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:19,080
Speaker 1: phone called what you got for us? Net?

803
00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:22,280
Speaker 2: Colorful adoption?

804
00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:26,400
Speaker 1: Colorful adoption?

805
00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:30,719
Speaker 2: How about that? Okay, you got Okay, let's go, come

806
00:43:30,760 --> 00:43:31,960
Speaker 2: on cat colorful Adoption.

807
00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:33,360
Speaker 9: Hello.

808
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Speaker 16: Hello, I'm trying to reach a valerie. Valerie. This is Hill.

809
00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:39,399
Speaker 2: Listen.

810
00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:42,640
Speaker 16: My name is Kadeen. I'm from Adoptions. I'm giving you

811
00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:45,960
Speaker 16: a call. I'm sure you're aware that we're coming by

812
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:49,520
Speaker 16: tomorrow and uh, we're great. First of all, I wanted

813
00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:52,279
Speaker 16: to say thank you for being a part of this

814
00:43:52,400 --> 00:43:55,279
Speaker 16: adoption thing for Black History. We really greatly appreciate what

815
00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:58,399
Speaker 16: you're doing. We want you to know that we have

816
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:01,040
Speaker 16: your scheduled tomorrow that we're going to drive two Caucasian

817
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:05,680
Speaker 16: kids off at your household and Color You're going to

818
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:09,759
Speaker 16: drop them off at my house right right? Are you

819
00:44:09,880 --> 00:44:12,239
Speaker 16: familiar with what's going on with Color from my house?

820
00:44:13,280 --> 00:44:13,320
Speaker 5: No?

821
00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:16,080
Speaker 16: You're okay? Let me well wait a minute, hang on

822
00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:19,680
Speaker 16: you your name has been submitted to us that you

823
00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:25,000
Speaker 16: are volunteering to take in two Caucasian kids here during

824
00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:27,880
Speaker 16: Black History Month and you're going to teach them as

825
00:44:27,960 --> 00:44:30,000
Speaker 16: much as you can about Black history for a week.

826
00:44:30,040 --> 00:44:32,239
Speaker 16: They're going to be with you for seven days. How

827
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:33,840
Speaker 16: many rooms do you have in your apartment so we

828
00:44:33,880 --> 00:44:35,560
Speaker 16: can make sure that the kids have adequate space?

829
00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:37,759
Speaker 17: Can you tell me who's submitted my name?

830
00:44:38,640 --> 00:44:41,640
Speaker 16: Now? Can you tell me? Uh? Do you guys have

831
00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:43,920
Speaker 16: a back door so that you know there's an as

832
00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:49,840
Speaker 16: an access uh black entrance? I'm sorry, where.

833
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:50,680
Speaker 17: Are you calling from again?

834
00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:54,520
Speaker 16: I am calling from adoptions. But what I do need

835
00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:56,360
Speaker 16: to know is I do need to know where the

836
00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:59,640
Speaker 16: kids have transportation? Do you have a vehicle that is

837
00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:01,239
Speaker 16: definitely only the.

838
00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:04,200
Speaker 17: Kids won't have transportation. I'm sorry you're asking me.

839
00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:06,720
Speaker 18: No, who are you again?

840
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:11,440
Speaker 16: And my name is Kadeen, ma'am. I'm calling for adoptions, okay?

841
00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:14,200
Speaker 17: And who submitted my who submitted my information?

842
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:17,120
Speaker 16: Man? Do you have adequate space to accommodate the children?

843
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:17,560
Speaker 6: No?

844
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:20,160
Speaker 17: Who submitted my name to you to say that I

845
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:21,719
Speaker 17: was going to take two more?

846
00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:24,840
Speaker 16: Two more? Ma'am, I'm asking you do you have adequate space?

847
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:26,520
Speaker 16: And do you are you going to be having enough

848
00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:29,280
Speaker 16: food to you know, for the food for the kids.

849
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:31,799
Speaker 17: I know because I have three children. I'm trying to.

850
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:33,160
Speaker 16: Feed these three over here.

851
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:35,640
Speaker 17: And no, I don't have enough food to feed two

852
00:45:35,640 --> 00:45:38,799
Speaker 17: more children. Now you're calling me and who gave you

853
00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:39,600
Speaker 17: my information?

854
00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:42,279
Speaker 16: Ma'am? I'm going to ask you another time? How many

855
00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:44,320
Speaker 16: bedrooms do you have in your apartment units so we

856
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:46,120
Speaker 16: can make sure that the shot the kids are accommodated.

857
00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:49,640
Speaker 17: No, don't bring you any kids to my eyes. I

858
00:45:49,680 --> 00:45:52,279
Speaker 17: don't I don't care, No what color they are and

859
00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:55,120
Speaker 17: what you need? Who submitted my information to you?

860
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:58,279
Speaker 16: Okay, ma'am? Let me ask you something. How long have

861
00:45:58,400 --> 00:45:59,719
Speaker 16: you had how long have you been on.

862
00:45:59,719 --> 00:46:05,280
Speaker 17: Your Okay, what's the I'm not a hell.

863
00:46:05,200 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 16: Mom, I mean your name has been submitted.

864
00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:11,759
Speaker 18: By Okay, I'm saying that's what I'm not interested.

865
00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:14,480
Speaker 12: You know what happen if you drop two kids? About

866
00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:15,440
Speaker 12: two white.

867
00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:20,319
Speaker 16: Care about and my uh no, man, I don't Oh no,

868
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:20,640
Speaker 16: we're not.

869
00:46:20,960 --> 00:46:23,919
Speaker 17: No, that's okay. I don't have time. I work ten

870
00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:25,360
Speaker 17: dollars a day. I don't have time for it.

871
00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:27,680
Speaker 12: You know, it's okay, you can drop.

872
00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:30,640
Speaker 17: The you know what's gonna happen to him? Be dropping mama,

873
00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:32,400
Speaker 17: that it's gonna be right where you drop them up

874
00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:34,000
Speaker 17: there when you come back to you them next week.

875
00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:38,719
Speaker 16: Okay, Okay, have you somebody has submitted your name that

876
00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:40,880
Speaker 16: you don't mind volunteering to take you?

877
00:46:40,960 --> 00:46:43,240
Speaker 17: I know you can take them to the who submitted

878
00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:46,359
Speaker 17: my name. Take them to that. I don't need them.

879
00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:47,279
Speaker 6: I don't need them.

880
00:46:47,280 --> 00:46:48,359
Speaker 17: I work ten hours a day.

881
00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:49,880
Speaker 18: Take come to whoever submits.

882
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 17: How about you take them.

883
00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:54,439
Speaker 16: I'm I work for the agency, ma'am. I'm I'm here

884
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:57,000
Speaker 16: to try and get these kids a great place to

885
00:46:57,400 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 16: get educated.

886
00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:03,279
Speaker 17: And that's okay. I'm not even taking nobody. No, no,

887
00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:03,879
Speaker 17: thank you?

888
00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:06,799
Speaker 12: And do you have ten ever told you take them

889
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:07,600
Speaker 12: to take them to that.

890
00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:10,480
Speaker 17: I have three children on my own I'm taking care

891
00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:11,200
Speaker 17: of all.

892
00:47:12,040 --> 00:47:16,280
Speaker 16: Will tell you that I don't know exactly who submitted

893
00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:17,799
Speaker 16: your name. All I know is that that they said

894
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:20,040
Speaker 16: that you would be good as far as taking care

895
00:47:20,040 --> 00:47:22,280
Speaker 16: of the children and teaching them about black.

896
00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:23,120
Speaker 18: Kids to them.

897
00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 19: I told you this, ma'am.

898
00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:27,480
Speaker 16: I don't you know. Like I said, I'm working here

899
00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:30,400
Speaker 16: adoptions and I'm.

900
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:30,879
Speaker 18: Yeah, I'm little.

901
00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:31,840
Speaker 17: Who do you work for?

902
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:34,520
Speaker 12: And I have three kids of my own?

903
00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:37,920
Speaker 17: I worked ten hours a day. I'm teaching about.

904
00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:40,320
Speaker 16: Black history mode, Okay, I mean, is it is? It?

905
00:47:40,360 --> 00:47:43,319
Speaker 16: Is it a problem teaching two more children and two

906
00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:46,440
Speaker 16: Caucasian children who probably don't know as much about black history?

907
00:47:46,560 --> 00:47:47,480
Speaker 12: It is a problem.

908
00:47:47,560 --> 00:47:50,480
Speaker 17: I worked ten hours a day. I got three I'm

909
00:47:50,520 --> 00:47:51,560
Speaker 17: trying to feed.

910
00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:52,000
Speaker 16: On my own.

911
00:47:52,320 --> 00:47:54,360
Speaker 12: What are you You needn't take.

912
00:47:54,239 --> 00:47:55,000
Speaker 18: Them children to that?

913
00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:56,920
Speaker 12: Who told you to bring them to me?

914
00:47:57,440 --> 00:47:58,520
Speaker 16: How about that, ma'am?

915
00:47:59,000 --> 00:47:59,680
Speaker 2: I don't know.

916
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:01,400
Speaker 16: I'm I had liberty to give out the names on

917
00:48:01,520 --> 00:48:03,120
Speaker 16: who exactly submitted your name.

918
00:48:03,480 --> 00:48:06,160
Speaker 17: I want the name of the black who told you

919
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:09,640
Speaker 17: to bring some kids to my I let me try

920
00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:13,239
Speaker 17: at the kid's wife. I want the name of the

921
00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:14,360
Speaker 17: the told.

922
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:15,399
Speaker 18: You that that's what I want.

923
00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:17,520
Speaker 16: I remember, I don't have their names in front of me.

924
00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:21,360
Speaker 12: I don't have told you to bring me two kids tomorrow.

925
00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:23,560
Speaker 16: Like I said, I don't know who told me that.

926
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:25,680
Speaker 16: All I know is what schedule to drop them off

927
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:29,480
Speaker 16: at ten o'clock tomorrow morning. What kind of they from?

928
00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:29,680
Speaker 15: Ben?

929
00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:31,759
Speaker 17: I sall when you come back to get them. I

930
00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:33,439
Speaker 17: didn't sign up for any more kids.

931
00:48:34,600 --> 00:48:36,799
Speaker 12: Give me the name of the person who told you

932
00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:37,399
Speaker 12: to bring me.

933
00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:39,520
Speaker 16: Phim said, I don't have the name in front of me,

934
00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:42,360
Speaker 16: and actually I'm not at liberty to let you know

935
00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:45,000
Speaker 16: who submitted your name. All I know was scheduled to

936
00:48:45,080 --> 00:48:46,840
Speaker 16: drive two kids off at ten o'clock tomorrow.

937
00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:47,880
Speaker 14: Did you know?

938
00:48:47,920 --> 00:48:50,840
Speaker 17: I don't know what I've been asking you how to

939
00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:53,239
Speaker 17: sign me up to bring two white kids. I don't

940
00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:55,759
Speaker 17: even have a problem with the kids being white. They

941
00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:58,359
Speaker 17: could be Mexican agents. That's not the point.

942
00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:01,400
Speaker 16: What gave you my I don't know who min is

943
00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:02,759
Speaker 16: your name? I don't know that.

944
00:49:03,239 --> 00:49:05,240
Speaker 17: Oh, now you about to know who gave you my information,

945
00:49:05,400 --> 00:49:07,520
Speaker 17: so they don't might have been the mouse.

946
00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 16: All I know is, ma'am, I'm scared to bring those

947
00:49:10,080 --> 00:49:11,720
Speaker 16: kids over there at ten o'clock in the morning.

948
00:49:11,760 --> 00:49:15,600
Speaker 17: Okay, Oh that's who them saw you that. Sorry, don't

949
00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:17,719
Speaker 17: bring no kids to my house. I don't even care

950
00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:20,239
Speaker 17: if they wife, just don't bring two more kids to

951
00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:23,080
Speaker 17: my mouse. Carrie, Carrie.

952
00:49:23,600 --> 00:49:26,239
Speaker 16: I will see you in the morning, Miss Valerie.

953
00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:28,040
Speaker 19: Okay, in the morning.

954
00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:30,400
Speaker 16: I have one more thing I need to tell you

955
00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:34,040
Speaker 16: about tomorrow. Are you listening? You? Are you listening?

956
00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:35,200
Speaker 17: Yeah, I'm listening.

957
00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:38,359
Speaker 12: You're around. You all have to say to me right now?

958
00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:43,399
Speaker 16: Is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You

959
00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:45,560
Speaker 16: just got pranked by your coworker.

960
00:49:45,680 --> 00:49:57,320
Speaker 18: Name three kids and one of them Dad.

961
00:49:57,120 --> 00:50:08,240
Speaker 19: Ain't I'm right, I Valerie.

962
00:50:08,320 --> 00:50:10,360
Speaker 16: I got one more thing to ask you. What is

963
00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:13,120
Speaker 16: What is the baddest And I'm talking about the baddest

964
00:50:13,239 --> 00:50:14,480
Speaker 16: radio show in the.

965
00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:16,640
Speaker 17: Land, the team every.

966
00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:17,040
Speaker 14: Morning and so.

967
00:50:22,360 --> 00:50:32,400
Speaker 1: Too much at you.

968
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:35,040
Speaker 2: One of them? Daddy ain't one of them. Daddy ain't blank.

969
00:50:38,719 --> 00:50:47,120
Speaker 2: He's back, you know, is over ignorant. He's ignorant as

970
00:50:47,400 --> 00:50:48,040
Speaker 2: it's back.

971
00:50:49,920 --> 00:50:52,200
Speaker 4: And it's better for the audience that you miss wait

972
00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:54,160
Speaker 4: time be because it stops the confusion.

973
00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:56,800
Speaker 2: Because people, I'm telling people is pulling over on that last.

974
00:50:58,400 --> 00:51:06,680
Speaker 4: Love who's the white cat's white.

975
00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:11,799
Speaker 2: At all?

976
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:16,360
Speaker 7: Whatsoever? You're bringing three two more kids over here. I

977
00:51:16,400 --> 00:51:18,800
Speaker 7: got three of them over here already. One of them daddy.

978
00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:20,719
Speaker 7: One of them daddy ain't blank. So I'm just telling

979
00:51:20,840 --> 00:51:24,239
Speaker 7: right now, I can't take no more. Okay, but that's

980
00:51:24,280 --> 00:51:26,680
Speaker 7: a mistake she made. But she's not making no more mistake.

981
00:51:26,719 --> 00:51:28,480
Speaker 7: I don't care that they're white. They can be aging

982
00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:33,600
Speaker 7: at and I don't care you're not bringing two more Okay.

983
00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:38,040
Speaker 7: I'm at my limit with these damn kids.

984
00:51:38,120 --> 00:51:38,319
Speaker 15: Right.

985
00:51:39,400 --> 00:51:41,719
Speaker 2: It wasn't about I got three kids over here. I'm

986
00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:42,440
Speaker 2: trying to feed.

987
00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:50,400
Speaker 1: Yes, all right, thank you you coming up at the

988
00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:54,480
Speaker 1: top of the hour. Strawberry Letter subject she took away

989
00:51:54,719 --> 00:51:58,319
Speaker 1: all my joy. Wait till you hear this one right

990
00:51:58,360 --> 00:52:00,600
Speaker 1: after this one, Life two three.

991
00:52:00,680 --> 00:52:04,840
Speaker 10: What you're listening Dave Harvey Morning Show.

992
00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:08,359
Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need

993
00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:12,800
Speaker 1: advice on relationships, dating, works, sex, parenting, and more. Please

994
00:52:12,800 --> 00:52:16,320
Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM dot com

995
00:52:16,360 --> 00:52:20,440
Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your

996
00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:22,879
Speaker 1: letter live on the earth. It's like we're gonna read

997
00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:26,200
Speaker 1: this one out there right now. It could be yours

998
00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:27,000
Speaker 1: you never know.

999
00:52:27,520 --> 00:52:30,040
Speaker 2: Muggle up and how long time we gotta hold you here?

1000
00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:31,680
Speaker 2: To use a strawberry letter?

1001
00:52:32,160 --> 00:52:36,840
Speaker 1: Why thank you, Tommy, thank you subject she took away

1002
00:52:37,120 --> 00:52:41,359
Speaker 1: all my joy. Dear Stephen Shirley, I am having a

1003
00:52:41,480 --> 00:52:44,600
Speaker 1: major problem. My fiance and I have been together for

1004
00:52:44,640 --> 00:52:48,239
Speaker 1: almost two years. She is thirty seven and I am

1005
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:51,359
Speaker 1: twenty nine. In the early stages, we used to throw

1006
00:52:51,680 --> 00:52:55,319
Speaker 1: down in the bedroom. I'm talking about doing it everywhere,

1007
00:52:55,360 --> 00:52:58,360
Speaker 1: like five times a week and multiple sessions out of time,

1008
00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:01,279
Speaker 1: to the point where we ended up with bruises or

1009
00:53:01,320 --> 00:53:05,239
Speaker 1: bite marks. Her hair could never stay done back then.

1010
00:53:05,640 --> 00:53:09,000
Speaker 1: But lately I can barely get her to take care

1011
00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:13,280
Speaker 1: of my needs, and her mood about sex has drastically changed.

1012
00:53:13,680 --> 00:53:16,239
Speaker 1: She rations it out to me now and it's not

1013
00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:18,719
Speaker 1: as exciting because she only likes to do it in

1014
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:22,160
Speaker 1: one position. Now I'm excited to get it, to get

1015
00:53:22,160 --> 00:53:24,839
Speaker 1: what I can get, But then she tells me when

1016
00:53:24,840 --> 00:53:28,080
Speaker 1: it's over, whether I'm done or not. She usually gives

1017
00:53:28,120 --> 00:53:31,120
Speaker 1: me ten minutes, but it's not hardly long enough, so

1018
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:34,000
Speaker 1: I have to finish the job myself. But the worst

1019
00:53:34,040 --> 00:53:37,360
Speaker 1: part is that she only wants to be intimate on Sundays,

1020
00:53:37,600 --> 00:53:40,600
Speaker 1: which is my only day off because I'm self employed

1021
00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:44,680
Speaker 1: and I show houses every day except Sundays. She knows

1022
00:53:44,680 --> 00:53:46,760
Speaker 1: that I don't like to get out of bed, shower,

1023
00:53:46,880 --> 00:53:50,799
Speaker 1: or shave on that day. I typically lounged around, cook

1024
00:53:50,840 --> 00:53:54,000
Speaker 1: her dinner, relax, and watch sports or a movie. She

1025
00:53:54,160 --> 00:53:57,640
Speaker 1: chose Sunday on purpose. This woman has cut me off

1026
00:53:57,680 --> 00:54:00,760
Speaker 1: from all of my supply and she wasn't even polite

1027
00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:03,880
Speaker 1: enough to wean me off. She just did it cold turkey.

1028
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:06,880
Speaker 1: When I asked her why she switched up our sex life,

1029
00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:09,680
Speaker 1: she said, I'm a horn dog and she doesn't want

1030
00:54:09,760 --> 00:54:12,120
Speaker 1: me to go into marriage thinking I can have it

1031
00:54:12,239 --> 00:54:15,560
Speaker 1: my way all the time, because that's not how real

1032
00:54:15,640 --> 00:54:18,880
Speaker 1: life works. I'm wondering what she expected by getting with

1033
00:54:18,920 --> 00:54:22,040
Speaker 1: a guy my age. I love her and she's a

1034
00:54:22,040 --> 00:54:24,880
Speaker 1: perfect woman for me, but I need the same sex

1035
00:54:24,920 --> 00:54:28,040
Speaker 1: from her that got me hooked. Is she really? Is

1036
00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:31,280
Speaker 1: this really how marriage is? If so, is there anything

1037
00:54:31,400 --> 00:54:36,399
Speaker 1: I can do to change things? Well, you might have

1038
00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:39,279
Speaker 1: to move on. Okay, you might have to move on.

1039
00:54:39,400 --> 00:54:42,480
Speaker 1: The crazy thing is that in this letter you kind

1040
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:45,120
Speaker 1: of both have a valid point. I mean, you are

1041
00:54:45,160 --> 00:54:48,120
Speaker 1: twenty nine years old, you've been spending your life lately

1042
00:54:48,400 --> 00:54:51,560
Speaker 1: just wishing every day with Sunday so you can have

1043
00:54:51,680 --> 00:54:55,480
Speaker 1: sex with your girl. And your fiance is introducing you

1044
00:54:55,520 --> 00:55:00,080
Speaker 1: to what she sees as real married life with you know,

1045
00:55:00,920 --> 00:55:03,720
Speaker 1: not sex five times a day ending up with bruises

1046
00:55:03,719 --> 00:55:08,160
Speaker 1: and bite mark. Okay, that's the way she sees married

1047
00:55:08,200 --> 00:55:10,200
Speaker 1: life right now. And she's calling you a horn dog

1048
00:55:10,400 --> 00:55:13,000
Speaker 1: all of that. I know, at twenty nine, you don't

1049
00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:15,439
Speaker 1: want to hear that, but the truth is a lot,

1050
00:55:15,520 --> 00:55:17,799
Speaker 1: if not most married couples do slow down on the

1051
00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:20,879
Speaker 1: sex after a while. That's where the term like date

1052
00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:24,279
Speaker 1: night came into play. You know, That's why you hear

1053
00:55:24,320 --> 00:55:26,560
Speaker 1: married couples saying things like we need to put more

1054
00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:30,120
Speaker 1: spice into our life or we need more romance because

1055
00:55:30,200 --> 00:55:33,640
Speaker 1: you know, sometimes when the honeymoon is over, you know,

1056
00:55:33,760 --> 00:55:36,960
Speaker 1: the sex does dwindle in a marriage. I don't know

1057
00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:41,239
Speaker 1: if that's what she was talking about necessarily, but you know,

1058
00:55:42,000 --> 00:55:44,319
Speaker 1: the sex in the marriage, just so you'll know, does

1059
00:55:44,480 --> 00:55:46,640
Speaker 1: kind of you know, weigh off from time to time.

1060
00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:48,960
Speaker 1: So while you might not want to hear that right now,

1061
00:55:49,239 --> 00:55:52,480
Speaker 1: your fiance is wrong for cutting you off. She's really

1062
00:55:52,480 --> 00:55:55,680
Speaker 1: wrong for that. But she's right in what she said

1063
00:55:55,760 --> 00:55:59,120
Speaker 1: about marriage, what sex about this is that you guys

1064
00:55:59,120 --> 00:56:02,880
Speaker 1: started out like porn stars. I mean all the sex,

1065
00:56:02,960 --> 00:56:06,359
Speaker 1: five times a week, multiple sessions at a time, ending

1066
00:56:06,440 --> 00:56:10,440
Speaker 1: up with bruises and bite marks, you know, and just

1067
00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:12,439
Speaker 1: to cut you off all of a sudden like that.

1068
00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:15,040
Speaker 1: That's the worst thing you could do to someone. So

1069
00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:18,480
Speaker 1: if you're paying attention now, if you're paying attention to her,

1070
00:56:18,520 --> 00:56:20,879
Speaker 1: I know you said you love her sex and communication,

1071
00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:25,400
Speaker 1: because she didn't tell you anything, they're already problems before

1072
00:56:25,440 --> 00:56:27,560
Speaker 1: you even walk down the aisle. So I think you

1073
00:56:27,640 --> 00:56:30,560
Speaker 1: need to reassess your intentions here. This may not be

1074
00:56:30,640 --> 00:56:32,799
Speaker 1: the woman for you. It doesn't sound like she is.

1075
00:56:33,400 --> 00:56:38,239
Speaker 4: Steve, get out, dope. I ain't even gonna waste no

1076
00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:43,440
Speaker 4: time with this letter. Get out dog, listen to me.

1077
00:56:45,560 --> 00:56:51,400
Speaker 4: If it's bad now, it's only going to get worse.

1078
00:56:53,360 --> 00:56:57,800
Speaker 4: If she cut it off now, she's going to wretch

1079
00:56:57,920 --> 00:57:06,920
Speaker 4: it shut in a minute. Rinch, She's gonna wrench it shut.

1080
00:57:07,719 --> 00:57:11,680
Speaker 4: You ain't gonna be able to getting nowhere. Nick, you're

1081
00:57:11,680 --> 00:57:16,480
Speaker 4: gonna be able to look at it. You're gonna touch it, Nope,

1082
00:57:16,600 --> 00:57:19,320
Speaker 4: you're gonna get no what near it? I'm telling them.

1083
00:57:19,400 --> 00:57:23,480
Speaker 4: So here's the deal. You're having a major problem. That's

1084
00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:27,160
Speaker 4: the opening line, Stephen Shirley, I'm having a major problem.

1085
00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:31,520
Speaker 4: If you're having a major problem, now when you getting married,

1086
00:57:32,040 --> 00:57:36,280
Speaker 4: this will become an even more major problem. This is

1087
00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:40,160
Speaker 4: a disaster. Y'all been together for two years. She thirty seven,

1088
00:57:40,240 --> 00:57:43,040
Speaker 4: I'm twenty nine. In the early stages, we used to

1089
00:57:43,040 --> 00:57:45,520
Speaker 4: throw down in the bedroom. I'm talking about everywhere, five

1090
00:57:45,560 --> 00:57:47,560
Speaker 4: times a week, multiple sensons. At the time point, what

1091
00:57:47,680 --> 00:57:49,840
Speaker 4: we ended up with bruises and bike man? Now hold

1092
00:57:49,880 --> 00:57:52,480
Speaker 4: up now, though, what was your bruises and bike man?

1093
00:57:54,720 --> 00:57:56,880
Speaker 2: What the hell's the punching another?

1094
00:57:57,480 --> 00:58:00,560
Speaker 4: You might have messed around and just bit and bruise

1095
00:58:00,640 --> 00:58:04,720
Speaker 4: yourself out of some lever right. Her hair could never

1096
00:58:04,760 --> 00:58:06,840
Speaker 4: stay done back then, but lately I can barely get

1097
00:58:06,880 --> 00:58:08,560
Speaker 4: her to take care of my knees. And her mood

1098
00:58:08,560 --> 00:58:15,080
Speaker 4: about sex has drastically changed. Hey, man, and she's thirty seven,

1099
00:58:16,200 --> 00:58:19,320
Speaker 4: and it then drastically changed you. In trouble man, she

1100
00:58:19,440 --> 00:58:22,320
Speaker 4: rashes it out to me. Now it's not as excited

1101
00:58:23,280 --> 00:58:25,520
Speaker 4: because she only likes to do it in one position now,

1102
00:58:26,840 --> 00:58:29,040
Speaker 4: and I'm excited for what I get. But when she

1103
00:58:29,080 --> 00:58:32,320
Speaker 4: tell me is it's over ten minutes. Whether I'm doing

1104
00:58:32,440 --> 00:58:33,400
Speaker 4: or not, It's just ten minutes.

1105
00:58:34,080 --> 00:58:35,600
Speaker 2: Hey, time.

1106
00:58:40,960 --> 00:58:46,360
Speaker 1: Go off? All right, all that bad, Steve? Yeah, Well

1107
00:58:46,360 --> 00:58:49,320
Speaker 1: that part two of Steve's response coming up at twenty

1108
00:58:49,360 --> 00:58:53,000
Speaker 1: three minutes after the our Today's Strawberry Letter subject she

1109
00:58:53,120 --> 00:58:55,800
Speaker 1: took away all my joy. We'll get back into it

1110
00:58:55,880 --> 00:58:56,560
Speaker 1: right after this.

1111
00:58:57,240 --> 00:58:59,919
Speaker 10: You're listening hardy morning show.

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Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, what's recap today Strawberry Letters?

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00:59:03,240 --> 00:59:06,440
Speaker 1: Subject she took away all my joy?

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Speaker 4: This is horrible, man, it's over with. Like I said,

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00:59:10,400 --> 00:59:13,360
Speaker 4: dog took away your joy. Your opening line is I

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00:59:13,400 --> 00:59:16,000
Speaker 4: have a major problem. Yes, you do, and you're not

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00:59:16,080 --> 00:59:19,040
Speaker 4: even married. Chick used to have sex all the time.

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00:59:19,080 --> 00:59:22,000
Speaker 4: You twenty nine, she thirty seven. Y'all been together for

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00:59:22,040 --> 00:59:25,440
Speaker 4: two years. Early stages, you strow down in the bedroom,

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Speaker 4: all over the house, five times a week, multiple times.

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00:59:28,080 --> 00:59:30,400
Speaker 4: She couldn't keep her hat done and get to the

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00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:33,360
Speaker 4: point where y'all end up with bruises or bite moms.

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00:59:33,600 --> 00:59:36,560
Speaker 4: Her hack can never stay done. But lately I can

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00:59:36,600 --> 00:59:38,200
Speaker 4: bear to get her to take care of my knees.

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00:59:38,280 --> 00:59:43,080
Speaker 4: Her mood about sex has changed drastic. Well now she

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00:59:43,240 --> 00:59:46,439
Speaker 4: rashes it out to me Now it ain't exciting because

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00:59:46,480 --> 00:59:49,440
Speaker 4: she only like to do one position. Now see y'all

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00:59:49,440 --> 00:59:53,000
Speaker 4: been doing bruises and bites, that's all over the place.

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Speaker 4: Now she down to one position and she got ten

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00:59:56,320 --> 01:00:00,479
Speaker 4: minutes done or not ten minutes time?

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01:00:00,560 --> 01:00:05,040
Speaker 2: Up this coach top. What's the iPhone alarm going off? Everything?

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01:00:06,040 --> 01:00:07,280
Speaker 1: I like the whistle, Steve.

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01:00:12,400 --> 01:00:15,080
Speaker 4: Now it's not hardly long enough, so I have to

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Speaker 4: finish the job myself.

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Speaker 2: Damn though, you down to that. But the worst part

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01:00:20,800 --> 01:00:25,200
Speaker 2: is she only wants to be intimate on Sundays. The

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01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:26,680
Speaker 2: dog she' dovene broke it down.

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01:00:26,720 --> 01:00:30,000
Speaker 4: Ain't had nothing happening in a week, and now it's

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01:00:30,240 --> 01:00:35,760
Speaker 4: just on Sundays, lord man, which is my only day off.

1140
01:00:35,760 --> 01:00:39,600
Speaker 4: Because I'm self employed. I show houses every day except Sunday.

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01:00:39,800 --> 01:00:41,880
Speaker 4: She knows I don't like to get out of bed, shower,

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01:00:42,000 --> 01:00:45,400
Speaker 4: shave on that day. I typically lines around, cook her dinner,

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01:00:45,440 --> 01:00:47,240
Speaker 4: relax and watch sports on movie.

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Speaker 2: She chose Sunday on purpose.

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01:00:50,680 --> 01:00:53,400
Speaker 4: This woman has cut me off from all my supply

1146
01:00:53,960 --> 01:00:55,960
Speaker 4: and she wasn't even polite enough to wean me or

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01:00:56,080 --> 01:00:58,480
Speaker 4: she just did it cold turkey. When I asked her

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01:00:58,520 --> 01:01:02,000
Speaker 4: why she switched up our sex she said, I'm a

1149
01:01:02,160 --> 01:01:05,080
Speaker 4: horn dog, and she don't want me to go into

1150
01:01:05,160 --> 01:01:07,600
Speaker 4: marriage thinking I can have it my way all the time,

1151
01:01:07,640 --> 01:01:11,320
Speaker 4: because that's not how real life works. Well, that ain't

1152
01:01:11,360 --> 01:01:14,880
Speaker 4: what you said when we first met. Now you gotta

1153
01:01:14,960 --> 01:01:18,040
Speaker 4: commitment talking about from this man. Now she talking about

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01:01:18,120 --> 01:01:22,800
Speaker 4: she don't want you to go into marriage thinking that

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01:01:22,880 --> 01:01:24,760
Speaker 4: you can get it in kind of way you want to.

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01:01:26,320 --> 01:01:29,240
Speaker 4: So now she's showing you, she's given you a preview

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01:01:29,320 --> 01:01:32,280
Speaker 4: of a coming attraction. She's showing you what marriage is

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01:01:32,280 --> 01:01:34,680
Speaker 4: gonna be like with her. You down the Sundays dog

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01:01:35,080 --> 01:01:38,479
Speaker 4: and ten minutes on Sundays. Let me tell you something, brother,

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01:01:38,760 --> 01:01:40,200
Speaker 4: you ain't gonna be happy like this.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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01:01:41,360 --> 01:01:44,440
Speaker 4: I know you ain't because you ain't happy now. So brother,

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01:01:44,480 --> 01:01:47,120
Speaker 4: all this is gonna lead to is an affair. That's

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01:01:47,280 --> 01:01:51,200
Speaker 4: all this is gonna lead to. Is an affair. That's

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01:01:51,240 --> 01:01:53,840
Speaker 4: all it is. And you're thinking about it now. Anytime

1166
01:01:53,880 --> 01:01:57,720
Speaker 4: a man write a letter about his woman sexual things,

1167
01:01:58,360 --> 01:02:01,240
Speaker 4: it's on his mind. He trying not to go there

1168
01:02:01,640 --> 01:02:03,600
Speaker 4: right now, the young brother trying not to go there

1169
01:02:03,960 --> 01:02:07,560
Speaker 4: because he said, you know, I love her, She's a

1170
01:02:07,600 --> 01:02:11,080
Speaker 4: perfect woman for me. Don't seem like it, But I

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01:02:11,160 --> 01:02:13,320
Speaker 4: need the same sex from her that got me hooked?

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Speaker 2: Is this really how marriage is? Sometimes? Dog? Now marriage

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01:02:18,040 --> 01:02:18,600
Speaker 2: is gonna change.

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01:02:18,640 --> 01:02:20,640
Speaker 4: It ain't gonna be as frequent as it was, right

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01:02:21,080 --> 01:02:23,120
Speaker 4: because y'all in the house and I'm telling you something.

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01:02:23,280 --> 01:02:25,440
Speaker 2: Some thing's gonna come into play that's gonna affect it.

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Speaker 4: Bills, kids, drama, work, decisions, sickness, all this hell. So

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Speaker 4: is there anything I can do to change thing? Now? Really,

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01:02:38,760 --> 01:02:40,680
Speaker 4: all you really do is just start like in ten

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01:02:40,720 --> 01:02:44,800
Speaker 4: minutes once a week that if you can fit your

1181
01:02:44,880 --> 01:02:48,600
Speaker 4: mind around this once a week, ten minutes, you might

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01:02:48,640 --> 01:02:50,000
Speaker 4: have a chance what you want.

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01:02:49,840 --> 01:02:53,280
Speaker 1: To twenty nine. Okay, this is what I want.

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01:02:53,480 --> 01:02:54,280
Speaker 2: It's gonna go down.

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01:02:54,600 --> 01:02:57,160
Speaker 5: If it's ten now, it's definitely gonna get cut Down's

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01:02:57,160 --> 01:02:58,200
Speaker 5: not gonna hold up to ten.

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01:02:58,840 --> 01:03:02,600
Speaker 1: Is there a yeah? Is there a happy medium? Is

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01:03:02,640 --> 01:03:06,200
Speaker 1: there a compromise? Because maybe he's just he won't move

1189
01:03:06,320 --> 01:03:09,000
Speaker 1: too wild for her. The bruising like you said, and

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01:03:09,040 --> 01:03:10,240
Speaker 1: the bites and all of that.

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01:03:10,720 --> 01:03:13,600
Speaker 2: Okay, he won't more. Yeah, he wants.

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01:03:13,800 --> 01:03:17,520
Speaker 4: She's saying he's a horn dog. She ain't finna do

1193
01:03:17,560 --> 01:03:19,280
Speaker 4: this no more. We did this for two years.

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01:03:19,360 --> 01:03:20,120
Speaker 1: She's too much.

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01:03:20,600 --> 01:03:23,480
Speaker 4: She not doing this no more so she didn't cut

1196
01:03:23,520 --> 01:03:26,520
Speaker 4: it down to what she can manage it once a week.

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01:03:27,200 --> 01:03:27,840
Speaker 2: Ten minutes of.

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01:03:29,520 --> 01:03:33,120
Speaker 4: No, no, we're not finna do this with you.

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01:03:33,160 --> 01:03:35,680
Speaker 2: No, no, we're not doing it with you. I'm out

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01:03:35,960 --> 01:03:37,440
Speaker 2: by now.

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01:03:37,640 --> 01:03:41,240
Speaker 4: She's the perfect woman for you, except she don't like sex.

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01:03:41,520 --> 01:03:45,840
Speaker 2: What and you do? How perfect is that? Pardonner? Oh?

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01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:47,480
Speaker 2: So what you're gonna do is you're gonna do what

1204
01:03:47,480 --> 01:03:48,200
Speaker 2: a lot of people do.

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01:03:48,320 --> 01:03:50,760
Speaker 4: I got this perfect thing over here, and I'm gonna

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01:03:50,760 --> 01:03:54,960
Speaker 4: get this imperfect thing over there, because that's what you're

1207
01:03:54,960 --> 01:03:58,080
Speaker 4: gonna do. You're twenty nine, y'all, ain't y'all ain't going

1208
01:03:58,120 --> 01:04:01,360
Speaker 4: to church, so this ain't the mold is doing it

1209
01:04:01,400 --> 01:04:05,120
Speaker 4: on Sundays, you know, off day from movies and laying

1210
01:04:05,200 --> 01:04:07,480
Speaker 4: on you don't shower, she ain't leave the bed. You

1211
01:04:07,600 --> 01:04:10,560
Speaker 4: cook all this here on Sundays. He ain't going to church,

1212
01:04:10,600 --> 01:04:14,520
Speaker 4: so ain't no, ain't no moral compass here. So it's

1213
01:04:14,560 --> 01:04:17,560
Speaker 4: all good man, it's old with. Yeah, Uncle Steve say

1214
01:04:17,560 --> 01:04:18,000
Speaker 4: it's old with.

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01:04:18,560 --> 01:04:19,800
Speaker 1: She's not the woman for him.

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01:04:20,280 --> 01:04:23,360
Speaker 4: No, man, you ain't no where in hell you know.

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01:04:23,840 --> 01:04:31,440
Speaker 4: Ten minutes on Sunday, hold up, man, showing Okay, all right,

1218
01:04:31,480 --> 01:04:33,800
Speaker 4: I'll tell you what. I quit biting you. We want

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01:04:33,800 --> 01:04:39,120
Speaker 4: to do something else though, we got to do so Yeah,

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01:04:39,400 --> 01:04:41,400
Speaker 4: I'm gonna cut back. Oh God tell you what. No

1221
01:04:41,480 --> 01:04:45,520
Speaker 4: more damn biting. Okay, And and we can stay on

1222
01:04:45,560 --> 01:04:47,440
Speaker 4: the bed. Well, we ain't got to get brued, but

1223
01:04:47,480 --> 01:04:50,440
Speaker 4: we can we can we get this position change. I

1224
01:04:50,520 --> 01:04:55,280
Speaker 4: got four ideas on this bed. Can we try them?

1225
01:04:55,440 --> 01:04:57,880
Speaker 1: That's the only thing. But she's not going to do

1226
01:04:57,920 --> 01:04:59,120
Speaker 1: it because she does not communic.

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01:05:00,080 --> 01:05:00,280
Speaker 15: Done.

1228
01:05:00,720 --> 01:05:01,120
Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey

1230
01:05:04,520 --> 01:05:07,120
Speaker 1: FM on Instagram and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter

1231
01:05:07,200 --> 01:05:12,480
Speaker 1: podcast on demand. You're listening Hard Morning show. Well, it

1232
01:05:12,600 --> 01:05:14,840
Speaker 1: is the new year, and it is time to resolve

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01:05:14,880 --> 01:05:18,200
Speaker 1: to be more positive and healthy. A new survey has

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01:05:18,240 --> 01:05:21,960
Speaker 1: found that the average person has up to eleven negative

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01:05:22,000 --> 01:05:26,640
Speaker 1: thoughts every day. These include things like I'm not good enough,

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01:05:27,000 --> 01:05:30,200
Speaker 1: I'm overweight, or I'm too fat and I'm not good looking,

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01:05:30,280 --> 01:05:34,040
Speaker 1: or I'm ugly. Those surveyed said these negative thoughts keep

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01:05:34,080 --> 01:05:38,080
Speaker 1: them from achieving their goals, including getting healthy. So, Steve,

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01:05:38,080 --> 01:05:39,640
Speaker 1: I got to turn to you on this one. I

1240
01:05:39,680 --> 01:05:43,040
Speaker 1: have heard you say out of your own mouth. We

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01:05:43,120 --> 01:05:44,200
Speaker 1: all have on this show.

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01:05:44,440 --> 01:05:46,920
Speaker 2: Yes, well I've.

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01:05:46,720 --> 01:05:49,800
Speaker 4: Never said I'm ugly. I'm not attractive though.

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01:05:49,920 --> 01:05:53,920
Speaker 2: Yes, that's still unhealthy, though, I tell.

1245
01:05:53,760 --> 01:05:57,000
Speaker 4: You it was even more unhealthy looking in the mirror,

1246
01:05:57,120 --> 01:05:58,640
Speaker 4: actual ugly ass.

1247
01:06:00,080 --> 01:06:02,840
Speaker 2: That is really unhealthy.

1248
01:06:03,320 --> 01:06:05,640
Speaker 1: Denial that right there.

1249
01:06:05,760 --> 01:06:06,760
Speaker 2: Has to stop.

1250
01:06:09,440 --> 01:06:12,760
Speaker 4: Looking at that and all you see is cute. Come

1251
01:06:12,800 --> 01:06:18,000
Speaker 4: on out that mirror, because now you're trying to.

1252
01:06:17,960 --> 01:06:21,920
Speaker 2: Force upon those of us who know it's something that

1253
01:06:22,040 --> 01:06:23,960
Speaker 2: we're not willing to accept.

1254
01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:29,200
Speaker 1: But you don't consider yourself attractive, and Tommy thinks he's

1255
01:06:29,320 --> 01:06:30,400
Speaker 1: dropped dead gorgeous.

1256
01:06:30,480 --> 01:06:32,960
Speaker 7: Fine, and I'm not gonna quit thinking this way, and

1257
01:06:33,000 --> 01:06:34,680
Speaker 7: I'm sorry, I'm not doing it.

1258
01:06:34,720 --> 01:06:36,720
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna pick you.

1259
01:06:37,400 --> 01:06:38,760
Speaker 1: Just say you were in denial.

1260
01:06:40,240 --> 01:06:43,040
Speaker 7: I don't care what he's ugly behind saying.

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01:06:44,240 --> 01:06:48,000
Speaker 4: See, we got a problem here, and we're trying to

1262
01:06:48,200 --> 01:06:55,320
Speaker 4: understand where Tommy coming from, because he's dealing with you know,

1263
01:06:55,480 --> 01:06:59,160
Speaker 4: like like you can have a spray arm, you can

1264
01:06:59,240 --> 01:07:01,920
Speaker 4: have a fracture, you can have a broken arm, and

1265
01:07:01,960 --> 01:07:03,960
Speaker 4: you can compound fraction.

1266
01:07:05,120 --> 01:07:07,520
Speaker 2: Tommy's dealing with a compound fraction.

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01:07:07,640 --> 01:07:10,000
Speaker 1: I knew you were gonna say, I knew you were.

1268
01:07:10,440 --> 01:07:19,360
Speaker 2: So short and other it whoa Okay, okay, let me

1269
01:07:19,400 --> 01:07:21,240
Speaker 2: say that. On to cuteness.

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01:07:22,560 --> 01:07:25,439
Speaker 4: Let me say this, when the last time has he

1271
01:07:25,440 --> 01:07:30,600
Speaker 4: heard anybody say, hey, with your little cute ass.

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01:07:31,080 --> 01:07:35,800
Speaker 7: I went to the chiropractice. Oh okay, yes, yes, and

1273
01:07:35,880 --> 01:07:40,480
Speaker 7: I have been I have been stretched, I have been realigned,

1274
01:07:40,840 --> 01:07:43,920
Speaker 7: and I am now by ten and a half, I

1275
01:07:43,960 --> 01:07:48,640
Speaker 7: am now I've been elongated.

1276
01:07:48,720 --> 01:07:49,880
Speaker 2: I've been elongated.

1277
01:07:52,840 --> 01:07:55,240
Speaker 1: I'm telling you you ain't got the lie crea.

1278
01:07:55,360 --> 01:07:57,280
Speaker 7: You know what you know when we get off, when

1279
01:07:57,280 --> 01:07:58,960
Speaker 7: we get off to that is one, I'm gonna measure

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01:07:59,000 --> 01:08:02,240
Speaker 7: my height and take a picture.

1281
01:08:02,240 --> 01:08:11,640
Speaker 4: You can stand up on this zoom. If you stand

1282
01:08:11,720 --> 01:08:13,760
Speaker 4: up on your zoom, you'll still be in this.

1283
01:08:17,000 --> 01:08:18,800
Speaker 1: All right, we gotta go.

1284
01:08:19,439 --> 01:08:22,400
Speaker 10: You're listening Morning show.

1285
01:08:24,560 --> 01:08:28,120
Speaker 1: Time now for comedy Roulette. Come on, Jay, quickly set

1286
01:08:28,160 --> 01:08:28,559
Speaker 1: this up.

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Speaker 5: You take some subjects, put them on a wheel. We

1288
01:08:31,120 --> 01:08:33,320
Speaker 5: can make it bunny and we down the three comedians.

1289
01:08:33,320 --> 01:08:35,000
Speaker 5: But we can do the damn thing, because that's what

1290
01:08:35,040 --> 01:08:38,040
Speaker 5: we do. Steve's comedian, kind of the comedian, and I'm

1291
01:08:38,080 --> 01:08:38,599
Speaker 5: a comedian.

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01:08:38,720 --> 01:08:41,360
Speaker 1: All right, Comedians, here we go. We have three new

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01:08:41,439 --> 01:08:44,599
Speaker 1: categories on the wheel today. Comedians, here we go.

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01:08:44,720 --> 01:08:55,720
Speaker 14: Things you say to women who have a mustache. Excuses

1295
01:08:55,760 --> 01:08:58,240
Speaker 14: people make who don't like to fly. I got it,

1296
01:08:58,280 --> 01:09:00,439
Speaker 14: I got it. Yeah, that's a good one.

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01:09:00,560 --> 01:09:00,920
Speaker 2: All right.

1298
01:09:01,120 --> 01:09:05,799
Speaker 14: And finally, excuses people make not to go to the gym.

1299
01:09:06,200 --> 01:09:13,600
Speaker 14: Let's been the wild crystal, let's go it been not

1300
01:09:13,720 --> 01:09:14,720
Speaker 14: laying on mustache.

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01:09:14,960 --> 01:09:18,799
Speaker 2: Mum, you do that mustache. That's a record.

1302
01:09:19,040 --> 01:09:20,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna leave you do the mustache, all right.

1303
01:09:21,160 --> 01:09:24,880
Speaker 14: Then we go excuses people make not to go to

1304
01:09:24,920 --> 01:09:26,519
Speaker 14: the gym.

1305
01:09:27,720 --> 01:09:30,559
Speaker 5: I'm gonna start it off. You go to people make

1306
01:09:30,920 --> 01:09:33,000
Speaker 5: not to go to the gym, do none of my work.

1307
01:09:33,040 --> 01:09:34,960
Speaker 5: I'll close match, so I can't go down.

1308
01:09:35,080 --> 01:09:35,240
Speaker 2: Now.

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01:09:39,920 --> 01:09:43,679
Speaker 7: You know what, man, they didn't have no parking up front.

1310
01:09:43,720 --> 01:09:45,760
Speaker 2: I just I just went on back to the house.

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01:09:45,800 --> 01:09:48,639
Speaker 7: Man, I can't park way back then.

1312
01:09:49,240 --> 01:09:54,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's that defeats the purpose. Excuse people make not

1313
01:09:54,479 --> 01:09:57,920
Speaker 4: to go to the gym. Yes, yeah, the reason I

1314
01:09:57,960 --> 01:10:02,679
Speaker 4: don't go down to the gym, I ain't fatty him not.

1315
01:10:02,800 --> 01:10:04,000
Speaker 1: Hearing the fact.

1316
01:10:06,439 --> 01:10:08,080
Speaker 2: That.

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01:10:07,840 --> 01:10:09,479
Speaker 11: But I ain't that that.

1318
01:10:09,600 --> 01:10:12,360
Speaker 5: I ain't going down that excuses people make not to

1319
01:10:12,400 --> 01:10:14,600
Speaker 5: go to the gym. I don't like the sweat in

1320
01:10:14,600 --> 01:10:16,760
Speaker 5: front of other people. It's just not dead for me

1321
01:10:16,840 --> 01:10:19,120
Speaker 5: to do that. So I'm not gonna go to the gym.

1322
01:10:19,800 --> 01:10:24,559
Speaker 7: It's you're not gonna do you know what. I would

1323
01:10:24,640 --> 01:10:28,280
Speaker 7: have went, but I got that jock thing going on,

1324
01:10:28,360 --> 01:10:35,360
Speaker 7: and I just experience it's too much on me right now.

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01:10:35,400 --> 01:10:37,040
Speaker 7: I just I don't have to go later. I just

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01:10:37,120 --> 01:10:40,240
Speaker 7: wait there. I put some I can.

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Speaker 2: Not to go to the gym. It's thing.

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Speaker 5: Excuse me people make not to go to the gym.

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01:10:55,080 --> 01:10:57,960
Speaker 5: I want to work out on that lifted that, but

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Speaker 5: that my liptical that I want, but I don't know

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Speaker 5: how to announce it. So I ain't gonna go downing.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's not.

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Speaker 2: Come on, you know what.

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Speaker 7: I was trying to lose some weight, and then I

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01:11:18,200 --> 01:11:23,439
Speaker 7: started realizing that I just I just like being fat.

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Speaker 7: I just ain't going I'm cool with me, you know.

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01:11:29,400 --> 01:11:34,760
Speaker 4: Yeah for people excuses people may not going to the gym.

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01:11:35,080 --> 01:11:38,519
Speaker 4: All the trainers down there, they fit and trim, how

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Speaker 4: they know what to do.

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Speaker 2: For somebody like me.

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Speaker 5: I can't relate excuses people make not to go to

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Speaker 5: the gym. When I go inside the place where people

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Speaker 5: work out, my asthma kicks up. So I can't go

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01:11:56,720 --> 01:11:57,160
Speaker 5: down now.

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01:11:57,200 --> 01:11:59,280
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna know that's me that's me.

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Speaker 2: Let's me ja.

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01:12:04,160 --> 01:12:07,599
Speaker 7: I was gonna go. I was gonna go, but I

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01:12:07,640 --> 01:12:11,840
Speaker 7: wanted to go to the steam room. But but they

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Speaker 7: be naked in there. I don't know that, ain't I

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01:12:17,280 --> 01:12:19,799
Speaker 7: can't my neckad ain't ready for they naked.

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Speaker 2: I'm not good. Excuse me? People make to not go

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01:12:26,640 --> 01:12:30,759
Speaker 2: to the gym. They don't have no hand sanitis in there.

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Speaker 7: To do.

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01:12:34,080 --> 01:12:36,479
Speaker 2: I didn't see none the last time I was there.

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Speaker 11: Excuses people make not to go to the gym.

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Speaker 5: I just don't feel comfortable putting a towel on my

1357
01:12:44,840 --> 01:12:46,719
Speaker 5: butt that's been on somebody else.

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Speaker 1: But I just don't go with you when I'm with

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Speaker 1: you when you I like that one. Allright, guys, thank you.

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Speaker 14: Coming up next, we got music, more fun, more foolish

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01:13:00,640 --> 01:13:02,639
Speaker 14: at twenty minutes after the hour.

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Speaker 10: You're listening hard morning show.

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Speaker 1: Well, naturally, we turned to all sorts of products, from

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Speaker 1: melatonin to weighted blankets to specialties. When we're trying to

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Speaker 1: fall asleep right and get a better quality of sleep. Well,

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Speaker 1: if you're the person that likes to overdress for bed,

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Speaker 1: you might be lessening your chances of getting a good

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Speaker 1: night's sleep. The best and most simple way to encourage

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01:13:27,640 --> 01:13:32,160
Speaker 1: a RESTful eight hours or however long you can sleep, well,

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Speaker 1: the best way to do that is just to sleep naked,

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01:13:35,920 --> 01:13:38,599
Speaker 1: all right in your birthday suit.

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Speaker 7: I've been telling you this is for you, nephew. Yeah,

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01:13:41,800 --> 01:13:44,680
Speaker 7: but no listen though, that waited blanket though. You got

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01:13:44,720 --> 01:13:46,200
Speaker 7: to be careful because you can get your butt up

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01:13:46,240 --> 01:13:47,759
Speaker 7: under in and can't get off Monday.

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Speaker 2: I've done that before. It's one on them that's too heavy.

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Speaker 2: Wait a blanket.

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Speaker 4: It's like, yeah, that's the real little people talking. I

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Speaker 4: get out Monday today on blank.

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Speaker 1: Sometime. Yeah, it says, yeah. It says sleeping naked helps

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01:14:25,439 --> 01:14:28,759
Speaker 1: to lower your body's core temperature and regulate its rhythm,

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01:14:29,200 --> 01:14:33,360
Speaker 1: making it easier to fall asleep faster, to stay sleep longer,

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01:14:33,800 --> 01:14:36,840
Speaker 1: and to enjoy all the fruitful rewards.

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Speaker 2: So there you go.

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Speaker 1: Okay, might be onto something, nephew. All right, we'll have

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Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at

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Speaker 1: thirty three minutes after we'll play a round of would

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Speaker 1: you rather? Right after this, you're listening Harvey Morning Show.

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01:14:54,760 --> 01:14:58,120
Speaker 1: It is time now for a round of would you rather?

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01:14:58,720 --> 01:15:03,240
Speaker 1: Would you rather have sex while blindfolded? Or have sex

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01:15:03,360 --> 01:15:04,680
Speaker 1: wild handcuffed.

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01:15:05,040 --> 01:15:10,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, he has no way I'm getting handcuffed. I got

1393
01:15:10,960 --> 01:15:13,559
Speaker 4: closed my eyes amount of time anyway, that time.

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01:15:15,120 --> 01:15:15,479
Speaker 2: Bother you.

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Speaker 1: That's normal, nephew.

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Speaker 7: We want to do I need to see what I'm

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01:15:23,320 --> 01:15:27,280
Speaker 7: dealing with. I can't just I don't want to. I

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01:15:27,360 --> 01:15:28,960
Speaker 7: got to see what I'm talking about. I don't want

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Speaker 7: the surprise.

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01:15:29,640 --> 01:15:33,719
Speaker 1: But you're just gonna be looking though you can't touge.

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01:15:36,400 --> 01:15:38,640
Speaker 2: I can't come cool at least I can see it.

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01:15:38,720 --> 01:15:41,760
Speaker 2: Though I can see it, I got to do it.

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01:15:41,880 --> 01:15:43,200
Speaker 2: Just stop certain things.

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01:15:48,160 --> 01:15:54,960
Speaker 1: I'm all right, all right? Would you rather a screaming

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01:15:55,120 --> 01:15:59,080
Speaker 1: lady as your ringer or belching sounds as your ringer?

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01:16:00,120 --> 01:16:01,759
Speaker 1: Screaming lady or belching sound?

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01:16:03,240 --> 01:16:08,120
Speaker 2: I better go with me because I'm married. Yes, you

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01:16:08,320 --> 01:16:12,439
Speaker 2: are better go with the Belgian. Yeah, I don't want

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01:16:12,479 --> 01:16:14,519
Speaker 2: nobody hollow when you call me. I thought I wanted

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01:16:14,560 --> 01:16:15,000
Speaker 2: to be real.

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01:16:15,120 --> 01:16:25,439
Speaker 4: Quest just wanted to holler because I'm black. What I'm

1412
01:16:25,479 --> 01:16:27,080
Speaker 4: going with be because I'm black.

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01:16:27,840 --> 01:16:31,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't want to go to this white lady

1414
01:16:31,560 --> 01:16:36,719
Speaker 2: hollering every time my damn fall. He has a hostage,

1415
01:16:36,720 --> 01:16:40,360
Speaker 2: I swear to got him, all right?

1416
01:16:40,400 --> 01:16:44,200
Speaker 1: Would you rather accidentally text a new picture to someone

1417
01:16:44,400 --> 01:16:47,519
Speaker 1: or would you rather butt dial someone during sex?

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01:16:49,960 --> 01:16:53,320
Speaker 2: But you can't pull that picture back.

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01:16:53,400 --> 01:16:53,960
Speaker 4: Let's just do that.

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01:16:55,600 --> 01:16:57,240
Speaker 13: See if you stay on the phone, if you hear me,

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01:16:57,320 --> 01:17:00,040
Speaker 13: it's something wrong with you. You could have been I

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01:17:00,200 --> 01:17:00,519
Speaker 13: got your.

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01:17:00,479 --> 01:17:04,679
Speaker 2: Damn good point.

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01:17:04,760 --> 01:17:07,320
Speaker 10: J right, Junior that part.

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01:17:08,080 --> 01:17:13,880
Speaker 2: Yes, you can't have that picture? Get out there?

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01:17:13,960 --> 01:17:14,000
Speaker 16: Like?

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01:17:15,880 --> 01:17:16,240
Speaker 2: All right?

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01:17:16,320 --> 01:17:19,759
Speaker 1: Would you rather talk like Shaq or talk like Charles

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01:17:19,840 --> 01:17:25,120
Speaker 1: Barkley Man good Man?

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01:17:26,360 --> 01:17:30,880
Speaker 2: Shack is the way he talked. I'm going with Shack.

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01:17:31,200 --> 01:17:33,800
Speaker 2: It's smooth. I think I walking too high for me.

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01:17:33,880 --> 01:17:39,120
Speaker 13: I can't reach you, Yes, I know, but but Charles

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01:17:39,120 --> 01:17:40,559
Speaker 13: don't be he says something crazy, you know.

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01:17:40,640 --> 01:17:44,200
Speaker 1: You know first for the poem, Kob Koby want see

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01:17:44,280 --> 01:17:44,960
Speaker 1: what you're missing?

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01:17:45,280 --> 01:17:47,200
Speaker 13: All that right there? But Shak be deep and you

1437
01:17:47,240 --> 01:17:48,040
Speaker 13: don't have to worry about it.

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01:17:48,240 --> 01:17:49,800
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm doing right.

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01:17:50,880 --> 01:17:53,599
Speaker 1: What are they saying? Either one of them, no matter.

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01:17:55,160 --> 01:17:59,200
Speaker 2: Both of them? Rich? That got a lot of But

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01:17:59,360 --> 01:18:01,000
Speaker 2: I will go with Shack Rich though.

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01:18:01,720 --> 01:18:01,880
Speaker 7: Yeah.

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01:18:03,160 --> 01:18:06,000
Speaker 1: All right, that's today's roundup? Would you rather?

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01:18:06,120 --> 01:18:06,559
Speaker 11: Coming up?

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01:18:06,920 --> 01:18:09,320
Speaker 1: At forty nine minutes after the hour, we'll close out

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01:18:09,320 --> 01:18:12,000
Speaker 1: the show with their last break and some closing remarks

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01:18:12,040 --> 01:18:14,240
Speaker 1: from the One and Only Steve Harvey right after this.

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01:18:15,160 --> 01:18:17,080
Speaker 1: You're listening Steve.

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01:18:16,920 --> 01:18:17,840
Speaker 10: Harvey Morning Show.

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01:18:18,400 --> 01:18:20,920
Speaker 1: All right, Steve, here we are, last break of the day.

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01:18:21,320 --> 01:18:22,240
Speaker 1: It's been a good day.

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01:18:22,800 --> 01:18:23,040
Speaker 2: Wow.

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01:18:23,600 --> 01:18:24,400
Speaker 10: A lot of things.

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01:18:24,600 --> 01:18:28,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, a lot of things we talked about today. All right, Steve,

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01:18:28,479 --> 01:18:30,320
Speaker 1: time for you to take us home with some words

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01:18:30,360 --> 01:18:32,679
Speaker 1: of wisdom. Closing remarks. Take it away.

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Speaker 4: Well, my remarks today all in the light of encouraging everybody.

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01:18:41,960 --> 01:18:45,040
Speaker 4: And I've decided to refresh all of my remarks in

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01:18:45,120 --> 01:18:49,560
Speaker 4: the morning and in closing because it's it's time to

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01:18:49,640 --> 01:18:54,600
Speaker 4: get a new commitment that I've got to make, and

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01:18:54,760 --> 01:18:57,360
Speaker 4: one of them is to encourage as many people as

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01:18:57,439 --> 01:19:03,120
Speaker 4: I can. I don't have to do this, but I

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01:19:03,320 --> 01:19:06,560
Speaker 4: have to do this, you know what I'm saying. I

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01:19:06,640 --> 01:19:08,679
Speaker 4: don't have to do it because people can say, well, Steve,

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01:19:08,760 --> 01:19:11,400
Speaker 4: you know, going about your beers and man, don't worry

1466
01:19:11,439 --> 01:19:11,760
Speaker 4: about that.

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01:19:12,479 --> 01:19:14,280
Speaker 2: I can't do that. I can't.

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01:19:15,000 --> 01:19:17,479
Speaker 4: I have to do what's put on my heart to do.

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01:19:18,439 --> 01:19:21,439
Speaker 4: And I may not be as effective as a lot

1470
01:19:21,520 --> 01:19:24,439
Speaker 4: of people. You know, I'm definitely not the most eloquent

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01:19:24,520 --> 01:19:28,880
Speaker 4: speaker of all. I promise you I'm not, but I

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01:19:29,000 --> 01:19:33,080
Speaker 4: have a unique way of sharing my experiences, and it's

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01:19:33,240 --> 01:19:35,799
Speaker 4: my only hope is not for you to think anything

1474
01:19:36,000 --> 01:19:39,000
Speaker 4: of me, but to see if you can see yourself

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01:19:39,120 --> 01:19:42,120
Speaker 4: in anything that I'm saying and maybe use some of

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01:19:42,200 --> 01:19:44,360
Speaker 4: the tools I've used and some of the thoughts I've

1477
01:19:44,439 --> 01:19:47,559
Speaker 4: used to get me through some really really challenging moments

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01:19:47,600 --> 01:19:49,680
Speaker 4: in my life. And I want to talk to you

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01:19:49,760 --> 01:19:55,920
Speaker 4: about planning today. As you plan out your life, you

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01:19:56,080 --> 01:19:59,960
Speaker 4: plan out your week, you set your goals, your dream

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01:20:00,280 --> 01:20:03,840
Speaker 4: your aspirations. You have this plan in place, I want

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01:20:03,880 --> 01:20:06,640
Speaker 4: you to do one thing, if you haven't already doing it.

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Speaker 2: I want you to put God in these plans. Man,

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01:20:11,200 --> 01:20:14,720
Speaker 2: I'm just being serious with you. You know. Look, you

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01:20:14,840 --> 01:20:18,880
Speaker 2: don't have to follow my faith. I don't push that.

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01:20:20,640 --> 01:20:23,479
Speaker 4: I don't What your faith is is what your faith is,

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01:20:23,600 --> 01:20:27,880
Speaker 4: what you call God, you call God, I'm absolutely fine

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01:20:27,960 --> 01:20:30,920
Speaker 4: with it. The name that you're attached to him is

1489
01:20:31,080 --> 01:20:35,960
Speaker 4: none of my business. It's not my call, it's yours.

1490
01:20:36,720 --> 01:20:40,519
Speaker 4: But you do have to have this relationship with God,

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01:20:41,840 --> 01:20:44,040
Speaker 4: and you can call him Jehovah, our Liah. You can

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01:20:44,320 --> 01:20:47,040
Speaker 4: anything you want to. I don't know all of them,

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01:20:47,320 --> 01:20:51,240
Speaker 4: but you could pick anyone you want. It works, if

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01:20:51,280 --> 01:20:53,200
Speaker 4: it works for you. I want you to make it

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01:20:53,320 --> 01:20:53,720
Speaker 4: work for you.

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Speaker 2: When you make your plans, when you're out there planning,

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01:20:57,640 --> 01:20:58,680
Speaker 2: put some God in it.

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Speaker 4: Now, listen to me. Try to view every day as

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01:21:03,960 --> 01:21:08,600
Speaker 4: an adventure of this plan that you've mapped out. But

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01:21:08,800 --> 01:21:12,840
Speaker 4: in this plan, when you include God and you ask

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01:21:12,960 --> 01:21:15,560
Speaker 4: him to help God and order your steps as you

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01:21:15,720 --> 01:21:18,400
Speaker 4: follow the plan, it takes a little bit of pressure

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Speaker 4: off of you.

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01:21:19,560 --> 01:21:23,400
Speaker 2: See what I've done is especially this year. I made

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01:21:23,400 --> 01:21:25,080
Speaker 2: a conscientious.

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01:21:24,400 --> 01:21:29,960
Speaker 4: Decision to say to my creator, order my steps, show

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01:21:30,040 --> 01:21:34,960
Speaker 4: me what to do. Remove all fear and moments of

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01:21:35,160 --> 01:21:38,479
Speaker 4: fret when difficulties are challenges come in front of me.

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01:21:38,760 --> 01:21:41,160
Speaker 4: When I hear the no, when I hear this what

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01:21:41,320 --> 01:21:44,240
Speaker 4: we're gonna do and it doesn't seem like it's in

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01:21:44,360 --> 01:21:48,120
Speaker 4: my best interest, I have a plan because I'm letting

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01:21:48,200 --> 01:21:50,960
Speaker 4: him drive, because I just have the belief that he

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01:21:51,000 --> 01:21:53,560
Speaker 4: didn't bring me this father to leave me. So with

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01:21:53,760 --> 01:21:57,880
Speaker 4: that in mind, I'm simply putting him in all of

1515
01:21:57,960 --> 01:22:02,479
Speaker 4: my plans, letting him guide me. So when the difficulties come,

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01:22:02,880 --> 01:22:07,680
Speaker 4: I know that he's in charge. I ask him to

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01:22:07,880 --> 01:22:12,759
Speaker 4: make me attentive, to pay attention to the flows of life,

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01:22:13,520 --> 01:22:17,240
Speaker 4: to trust that he's with me with the flows of life,

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01:22:17,520 --> 01:22:21,920
Speaker 4: that when it gets unbearable at time, to just let

1520
01:22:22,000 --> 01:22:25,640
Speaker 4: him hold me, you know, because I really do appreciate

1521
01:22:25,760 --> 01:22:29,560
Speaker 4: this day called life, that we have this life in

1522
01:22:29,640 --> 01:22:32,800
Speaker 4: the day of this day called life. I love it, man.

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01:22:33,120 --> 01:22:36,800
Speaker 4: I love waking up. I love experiencing life. I know

1524
01:22:36,920 --> 01:22:39,800
Speaker 4: it's gonna be challenging, but I like it. And I

1525
01:22:40,000 --> 01:22:42,479
Speaker 4: just know that he's with me every single step of

1526
01:22:42,520 --> 01:22:44,680
Speaker 4: the way. So when them steps that I'm taking look

1527
01:22:44,720 --> 01:22:48,160
Speaker 4: a little shaky and it looks like I'm falling and stumbling,

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01:22:48,720 --> 01:22:51,959
Speaker 4: I always know he got me because at the beginning

1529
01:22:52,040 --> 01:22:54,920
Speaker 4: of my plan, I put him in it. And I

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01:22:54,960 --> 01:22:57,559
Speaker 4: already understand, like I was talking to y'all the other day,

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01:22:58,080 --> 01:23:00,439
Speaker 4: that life is going to happen to all all of us.

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01:23:01,120 --> 01:23:05,880
Speaker 4: Your greatest plan and your greatest attempts at success and happiness,

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01:23:06,439 --> 01:23:09,760
Speaker 4: you're gonna run up into this thing called life. And

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01:23:09,960 --> 01:23:13,479
Speaker 4: life has its ebb and flows, it's peaks as valleys,

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01:23:13,479 --> 01:23:16,160
Speaker 4: as ups and downs. But y'all, we got to hang

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01:23:16,240 --> 01:23:18,040
Speaker 4: in now. I'm gonna keep saying it to you this

1537
01:23:18,200 --> 01:23:20,559
Speaker 4: year because I want you to hang in there. Man,

1538
01:23:21,400 --> 01:23:26,400
Speaker 4: stop panicking every time something go wrong. It's called life.

1539
01:23:27,960 --> 01:23:31,360
Speaker 4: Stop tripping when it don't go your way, It's called life.

1540
01:23:33,400 --> 01:23:35,120
Speaker 4: Keep talking to God.

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01:23:35,560 --> 01:23:38,479
Speaker 2: He has a plan for you. And in these plans

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Speaker 2: that are going to be tested.

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Speaker 4: See if you say you want to be successful, and

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Speaker 4: you say you want to be happy, you're gonna get

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Speaker 4: tested along the way. How bad do you want to

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Speaker 4: be successful? Seek to listen to me, Let me, let

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Speaker 4: me show you what I've learned. If your plan is

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Speaker 4: to be successful, and you strike out to become successful,

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Speaker 4: and then bad stuff happens to you, and then every

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Speaker 4: time something bad happens to you, you fold up your

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Speaker 4: tent and you go home, well.

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Speaker 2: Guess what, you didn't pass the test. So even if

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Speaker 2: God allowed you, or you got.

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Speaker 4: Successful, as soon as something happened after you become successful,

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Speaker 4: guess what you're gonna do. You're gonna fold up the

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Speaker 4: ten and go home. So why would he give you

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Speaker 4: all this success and you don't know how to take

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Speaker 4: care of it? You learn how to take care of

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Speaker 4: success by learning how to take care of the situations

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Speaker 4: that get in front of you. That's called test. You

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Speaker 4: gotta get to learn how to handle these tests. You

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Speaker 4: gotta get tested. So when you get the where you're going,

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Speaker 4: and you get the results of your hard work the test.

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Speaker 4: You pass the test so you can now hold on

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Speaker 4: to it is really that simple. I'm gonna keep talking

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Speaker 4: to you all though. Those are my remarks for today.

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