1 00:00:00,720 --> 00:00:04,800 Speaker 1: The Michael Barry Show, Mattress Mac Jim mackeveil making a 2 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:08,720 Speaker 1: movie about him right now. He's a Houston icon. The 3 00:00:08,800 --> 00:00:14,120 Speaker 1: amount of service, money, hospitality that he has provided over 4 00:00:14,160 --> 00:00:18,920 Speaker 1: the years for those in need is truly incredible. He's 5 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 1: opened his doors to all the Hurricane Harvey victims. Who 6 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 1: can forget that he loves Houston. That's why we coined 7 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 1: the phrase Mac Gives Back, and we encourage others to 8 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:33,720 Speaker 1: use it. Mac also has an incredible business mind. Nobody 9 00:00:33,760 --> 00:00:37,160 Speaker 1: markets their business better than Mac back. In twenty nineteen, 10 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:40,479 Speaker 1: he gave a speech at the Advertising Education Foundation of 11 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:45,639 Speaker 1: Houston Scholarship luncheon. He would share his ten tips for success. 12 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 1: Maybe you have kids home from college for the holidays. 13 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:51,160 Speaker 2: This is a. 14 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:55,520 Speaker 1: Great message for anyone, but especially young people getting ready 15 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 1: to go out and begin their careers. Share this with 16 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:02,600 Speaker 1: the young people in your life. I think it's fantastic advice. 17 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:06,679 Speaker 2: I came to talk about. I came to talk to 18 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:12,080 Speaker 2: the students and give you my Mattress Max ten rules 19 00:01:12,120 --> 00:01:16,560 Speaker 2: for a successful life. Some of the same as last time, 20 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:19,759 Speaker 2: some are new and anyway, here goes number one. Find 21 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 2: a job you love to do and never have to 22 00:01:21,440 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 2: work a day in your life. I think it's real 23 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:30,959 Speaker 2: important that you don't go into marketing or accounting or 24 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:34,959 Speaker 2: become a lawyer or a doctor because your parents want 25 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 2: you to do it. I think you need to do 26 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:40,319 Speaker 2: what you want to do. I think you need to 27 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 2: do what gets you excited in the morning and you 28 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:44,120 Speaker 2: want to get out of bed and you can't wait 29 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 2: to get to work. I will tell you a story 30 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 2: about some of my history. I gamble a lot, and 31 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 2: I'm involved in the racehorse business. I became a millionaire 32 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:01,080 Speaker 2: in the racehorse business. The only problem is I started 33 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 2: out as a damn billionaire. But that's another story. So 34 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 2: a couple of years ago, I was trying to figure 35 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:09,560 Speaker 2: out how to make these damn horses run faster, and 36 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 2: I came across this story about this woman named Temple Grandon. 37 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 2: And Temple Granded is the world's authority on animal welfare 38 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:22,800 Speaker 2: and she is a savant. So anyway, I got to 39 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 2: know Temple and I got to know her story. Here 40 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 2: was a woman that she was born to a wealthy 41 00:02:30,320 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 2: family in Boston, and her mother was concerned because after 42 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 2: three years of age, she didn't speak a word. Temple 43 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:45,520 Speaker 2: has full blown off the charts autism and Asperger's, but 44 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:48,600 Speaker 2: her mother wasn't giving into the diagnosis of this child 45 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 2: will never amount to anything, you know. Her mother was 46 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 2: like everybody in the audience here today, not a buyer, 47 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 2: but a seller. And so her mother got her lots 48 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 2: of help. And her mother spent countless hours working with 49 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:02,359 Speaker 2: Little Temple trying to make it to where she could 50 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:05,640 Speaker 2: function in society. She would never be normal, but she 51 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 2: was going to help Temple use that disability as an ability. 52 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 2: And her mother and their father would have dinner parties 53 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:16,679 Speaker 2: at their home all the time, and Little Temple, being 54 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:20,120 Speaker 2: full of blown autistic, was terribly shy. Her mother made 55 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 2: her put on her fancy dress and go introduce herself 56 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 2: to every person at the dinner party. Every time they 57 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 2: had a dinner party. Made her get out of her 58 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:31,359 Speaker 2: comfort zone. And that's something I want to encourage you 59 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:33,080 Speaker 2: students to do. Get out of your comfort zone all 60 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 2: the time. Remember a tame time for Little Temple to 61 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:39,640 Speaker 2: go to high school. Her mother insisted she go to 62 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 2: this boarding school. She didn't want to go away from 63 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 2: her mother. She was shy, introversed, and autistic, but she 64 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:50,280 Speaker 2: did and they put her in charge of the horse barn. 65 00:03:50,320 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 2: There was eight horse stalls there and she had to 66 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 2: clean out and muck the stalls every day. She didn't 67 00:03:56,800 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 2: want to do that, but she did it, and then 68 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:02,720 Speaker 2: she soon found out she fell in love with these animals, 69 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:07,880 Speaker 2: these horses. Then when her mother, when Temple came to 70 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 2: be eighteen years old, she was going off to college. 71 00:04:11,640 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 2: Her mother said, you're going to go to your aunt's 72 00:04:13,320 --> 00:04:16,839 Speaker 2: cattle ranch in Arizona, and she fell in love with cattle. 73 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 2: They raised cattle and sold them to the feed lots, 74 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:25,240 Speaker 2: and this woman would get down in the cattle shoots 75 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 2: and see from the ground level like a cowboyd because 76 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 2: she sees the world through a different lens. So fast forward. 77 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 2: Temple grand And went on to get a PhD in 78 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 2: Animal husband dry from Colorado State University. And now she's 79 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 2: seventy two or seventy three years old. She's done more 80 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 2: for animal welfare than anybody in human history. She's done 81 00:04:52,320 --> 00:04:54,880 Speaker 2: more for animal welfare than anybody in human history that 82 00:04:54,920 --> 00:05:00,480 Speaker 2: goes back eight hundred thousand years. And she's also one 83 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:03,679 Speaker 2: of the world's experts on autism and aspergers and speaks 84 00:05:03,760 --> 00:05:09,000 Speaker 2: all over the world on those subjects. She gets paid 85 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:12,360 Speaker 2: enormous sums for her speeches, and every dying from her 86 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:15,279 Speaker 2: speeches go to fund the scholarships for her students at 87 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:19,840 Speaker 2: Colorado State. And she loves going to work every day. 88 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:24,320 Speaker 2: Her and I were talking about jobs, and she said, 89 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:29,039 Speaker 2: I would encourage every child out there to try five, ten, fifteen, 90 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:31,720 Speaker 2: twenty different jobs. If you want to go in the 91 00:05:31,720 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 2: marketing field, try lots of different marketing opportunities, lots of 92 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:38,520 Speaker 2: different jobs in the same agency or different agencies, and 93 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:40,280 Speaker 2: find the one you love. You never have to work 94 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:43,040 Speaker 2: a day in your life. Find a job you love 95 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 2: to do. You'll never have to work a day in 96 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 2: your life. And you say, well, what if I experience 97 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 2: prejudiced and bad treatment when I go out there, get 98 00:05:57,360 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 2: over it. When Temple Grandam was going into those feed 99 00:06:01,040 --> 00:06:03,840 Speaker 2: lots when she was a new PhD. And this was 100 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 2: back forty years ago in the nineteen sixties, she had 101 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:08,719 Speaker 2: to dress up as a man to get in the 102 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:14,279 Speaker 2: feed lot, and she changed it. Forever, find a job 103 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:15,480 Speaker 2: you love to do it you'll never have to work 104 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:17,120 Speaker 2: a day in your life. That's my number one piece 105 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 2: of advice. And if going to work doesn't excite you more, 106 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 2: than your favorite activity, find a new job. Number two, 107 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 2: Realize that work is life's greatest therapy. Human beings were made. 108 00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:35,840 Speaker 2: We're put on this earth to live, work, play, and 109 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:39,960 Speaker 2: die in groups. We were made to live, work, play, 110 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 2: and die in groups. Work is life's greatest therapy. I 111 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 2: have a wonderful little child. Her name is Elizabeth. When 112 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 2: she was thirteen years old, her mother and my wife, Linda, 113 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:54,200 Speaker 2: came to me said something terribly wrong with Elizabeth. I said, 114 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 2: what is it? She said, She's got this weird disease 115 00:06:56,560 --> 00:06:58,680 Speaker 2: where she washes her hands four or five hundred times 116 00:06:58,680 --> 00:07:02,120 Speaker 2: a day, and she does all these strange rituals and compulsions, 117 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:05,040 Speaker 2: and she's lost thirty pounds, which she didn't have a 118 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:07,359 Speaker 2: loser begin with. She's afraid to go back to the 119 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:10,160 Speaker 2: public school of Westfield High School she goes to. And 120 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 2: her mother said, I just don't know what him to do. 121 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 2: So we took Elizabeth and several North Houston area psychiatrists 122 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:18,040 Speaker 2: and they all said they'd never seen such a severe 123 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:24,280 Speaker 2: case before of obsessive compulsive disorder named Howard Hughes disease 124 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:31,280 Speaker 2: after a famous Houstonian, and several of these doctors set 125 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:33,680 Speaker 2: in front of that child. The best thing y'all can 126 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:35,160 Speaker 2: do is put her in a mental institution for the 127 00:07:35,200 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 2: rest of her life. They said that in front of 128 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:40,960 Speaker 2: my little child. We know her mother and I weren't 129 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 2: buying that stuff. And so we searched the world trying 130 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 2: to find a place for this child to get better, 131 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:50,040 Speaker 2: and we finally found the minigre Clinican Topeak at Kansas 132 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 2: one day, and we took her up there and put 133 00:07:52,280 --> 00:07:55,000 Speaker 2: her in that mental health institute that Cole snowy February 134 00:07:55,080 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 2: day there in Kansas, and now all of her nightmares 135 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:02,120 Speaker 2: were coming true. We were putting her into mental health 136 00:08:02,160 --> 00:08:04,120 Speaker 2: instituit for the rest of your life. That's what she thought. 137 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 2: That was her perception, her reality. Nothing could have been 138 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:10,640 Speaker 2: further than truth. That's what she thought. As we left 139 00:08:10,680 --> 00:08:12,480 Speaker 2: there that day, her little face was pushed up against 140 00:08:12,480 --> 00:08:14,800 Speaker 2: the plate glass wall, screaming at her mother mind, please 141 00:08:14,840 --> 00:08:16,400 Speaker 2: don't leave me here, because you were going to leave 142 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 2: her that mentalisteuse for the rest of her life. And 143 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 2: she sat down on a couch and she cried and 144 00:08:21,480 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 2: she vomited, and this little girl came and put her 145 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 2: arm around her. Stood it's okay, I felt the same 146 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:28,920 Speaker 2: way when I first got here. I'm leaving in three weeks, 147 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 2: and this place saved my life. Elizabeth got out of Minnegar, 148 00:08:32,040 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 2: came back to Houston and re enrolled at Westfield High School, 149 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:39,040 Speaker 2: and she was doing well. Then she had another relapse 150 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 2: and went back to Minegar, which at that time had 151 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:44,240 Speaker 2: moved to Houston. Because you see, mental illness is a 152 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:47,960 Speaker 2: cruel disease. No one knows who it may strike her. 153 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:51,880 Speaker 2: Why mental illness never goes away, It lasts forever. My 154 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:54,080 Speaker 2: child will always be walking on the edge of a cliff. 155 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:57,599 Speaker 2: I cannot keep her from falling. She went back to 156 00:08:57,679 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 2: Minegar for another eight weeks and got back out, and 157 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:06,520 Speaker 2: then she had started helping other people with mental illnesses. 158 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:09,760 Speaker 2: And you just found through doing this work, it gave 159 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:12,240 Speaker 2: her therapy. So her work became her therapy, and her 160 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:15,560 Speaker 2: work became her therapy. And now this child who they 161 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:18,640 Speaker 2: said said would never finish high school, who they said 162 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:20,520 Speaker 2: we should lock in a mental institution for the rest 163 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:23,120 Speaker 2: of her life. She has a PhD from the University 164 00:09:23,160 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 2: of Houston and she is a professor at the Bailey 165 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 2: College of Medicine. So she continues on the road to 166 00:09:28,880 --> 00:09:38,679 Speaker 2: success because work is life's greatest therapy. You want to 167 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 2: feel better about yourself, Go delight a customer, right, Go 168 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:49,920 Speaker 2: take care of a patient. Go make somebody's day. Human 169 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:56,720 Speaker 2: beings were made to work. Next Mattress mac success tip. 170 00:09:58,440 --> 00:10:00,360 Speaker 2: This is one of my favorites. Get ready your sense 171 00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 2: of entitlement. We should be grateful for everything and the 172 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:06,679 Speaker 2: title to nothing. I got those kids that work for me, 173 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:08,600 Speaker 2: several of them. They are now legal, but they they 174 00:10:08,600 --> 00:10:13,080 Speaker 2: swam the river coming here from Mexico, and they went 175 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 2: through the forest and the snakes were everywhere trying to 176 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:19,120 Speaker 2: get here. One of them told me he never had 177 00:10:19,160 --> 00:10:20,679 Speaker 2: meet when he was a child. The only way they 178 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 2: had meet in his village was when a cow fell 179 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:24,560 Speaker 2: off the cliff, and then they would harvest the cow 180 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:27,600 Speaker 2: if they didn't get to it too late. With those 181 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:30,080 Speaker 2: fortunate people in the world live in the United States, 182 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:32,760 Speaker 2: my end of the free, home of the brave, land 183 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 2: of opportunities for all of us. I didn't have any 184 00:10:37,040 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 2: money when I got to Houston, and as Bill said, 185 00:10:42,280 --> 00:10:44,120 Speaker 2: the odds of me making it were about ten million 186 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:47,199 Speaker 2: to one. But you know, my wife and I had 187 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:51,960 Speaker 2: a great, big, unfair advantage, and that unfair advantage was 188 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:55,040 Speaker 2: called desire. You can do anything you want to do 189 00:10:55,080 --> 00:10:57,040 Speaker 2: in the great free enterprise system if you wanted to 190 00:10:57,080 --> 00:11:01,760 Speaker 2: do it bad enough. We're not living in venezuel we 191 00:11:01,800 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 2: don't have power out it, we don't have grocery stores, 192 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:05,959 Speaker 2: no grocery in them. We're in the greatest country in 193 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:08,120 Speaker 2: the world, and we all have an opportunity every day 194 00:11:08,120 --> 00:11:10,280 Speaker 2: to go out there and make customers lives better, make 195 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 2: our own lives better, and get better together. In other words, 196 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:19,319 Speaker 2: quit whining and do something about it. Avail yourself of 197 00:11:19,440 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 2: continuous education. Education is the greatest gift I know of 198 00:11:23,720 --> 00:11:25,360 Speaker 2: it. It's the only thing I know of. You can take 199 00:11:25,400 --> 00:11:27,720 Speaker 2: all you want. There's always plenty left for everybody else. 200 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 2: There's always plenty left for everybody else. I'm sixty eight 201 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:35,560 Speaker 2: years old and I try to educate myself every day. 202 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:38,320 Speaker 2: I run on a treadmill every night because I'm too 203 00:11:38,360 --> 00:11:42,080 Speaker 2: old to run outside. But I watch these videos. I'm 204 00:11:42,080 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 2: watching this incredible video the other day between a Catholic 205 00:11:45,320 --> 00:11:48,439 Speaker 2: bishop and a Jewish rabbi. They were talking and a 206 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:51,640 Speaker 2: Jewish rabbi told this story. I'm continuing to educate myself 207 00:11:51,679 --> 00:11:56,719 Speaker 2: at age sixty eight. He told this story about this 208 00:11:57,720 --> 00:12:00,840 Speaker 2: young kid who was eight years old in Germany during 209 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:05,480 Speaker 2: the Holocaust. He was Jewish. All they had to eat 210 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 2: in the family's household was margarine, and it came time 211 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 2: for a Jewish holiday and his father lit the candle 212 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:18,800 Speaker 2: with the margarine they had left, and the kids screamed 213 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:20,680 Speaker 2: at his father, So that's all we have to eat. 214 00:12:20,720 --> 00:12:23,160 Speaker 2: How could you possibly do that? And the father said, 215 00:12:23,160 --> 00:12:26,440 Speaker 2: my son, I have learned that human beings can go 216 00:12:26,520 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 2: for three weeks without food, three days without water, but 217 00:12:33,679 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 2: they can't go for three minutes without hope. That child 218 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:45,080 Speaker 2: went on to survive eighteen concentration camps. Eighteen concentration camps 219 00:12:45,240 --> 00:12:49,120 Speaker 2: lived to one hundred and one years old. We can 220 00:12:49,160 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 2: all educate ourselves every day to inspire ourselves to do better, 221 00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:56,720 Speaker 2: to do more for ourselves, for our clients, for our families, 222 00:12:56,760 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 2: for our community, to make the world a better place 223 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:06,480 Speaker 2: through continuing education. Number five, prepare for setbacks. I see 224 00:13:06,480 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 2: all this stuff on media now about not being a 225 00:13:09,800 --> 00:13:11,679 Speaker 2: bully and learning how to be fair and all this, 226 00:13:11,760 --> 00:13:16,480 Speaker 2: and that's good stuff, but you know what, life ain't fair. 227 00:13:18,120 --> 00:13:21,040 Speaker 2: Life ain't fair. And nobody said it was gonna be fun, easier, fair, 228 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:23,440 Speaker 2: and I can promise all you graduates here today, they're 229 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:27,200 Speaker 2: gonna knock you down a lot. My model is real simple. 230 00:13:27,240 --> 00:13:31,120 Speaker 2: Fall seven, Rise eighty eight. They're gonna knock you down 231 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:37,000 Speaker 2: a lot. Prepare for setbacks. One thing this country used 232 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:40,520 Speaker 2: to pride itself on was overcoming adversity. Pride yourself on 233 00:13:40,559 --> 00:13:44,520 Speaker 2: overcoming adversity. Pride yourself on being anti fragile, on being 234 00:13:44,559 --> 00:13:49,120 Speaker 2: the most resilient person on the planet. Prepare for setbacks 235 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:51,920 Speaker 2: and look forward to those setbacks and charge into the fire. 236 00:13:51,960 --> 00:13:54,960 Speaker 2: Don't run away from it. Number six. You got to 237 00:13:54,960 --> 00:14:00,280 Speaker 2: innovate or evaporate. My mentor w Edwards Dimming said change 238 00:14:00,320 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 2: is not necessary. Survival is not mandatory. He said, change 239 00:14:03,840 --> 00:14:07,680 Speaker 2: is not necessary. Survival is not mandatory. As Bill said, 240 00:14:07,760 --> 00:14:09,480 Speaker 2: all of us gray haired people in here that are 241 00:14:09,480 --> 00:14:12,240 Speaker 2: in media have seen lots of changes in the last 242 00:14:12,280 --> 00:14:15,960 Speaker 2: forty years, and it continues to change all the time. 243 00:14:16,400 --> 00:14:19,480 Speaker 2: But you know that's great because change brings opportunity for 244 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 2: people that embrace change. Most human beings hate change. We 245 00:14:24,440 --> 00:14:26,600 Speaker 2: hate a disruption in our routine. But the world is 246 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:30,360 Speaker 2: being disrupted every single day. My little business, brick and 247 00:14:30,440 --> 00:14:34,440 Speaker 2: mortar retail is totally disrupted by Amazon and Wayfair and 248 00:14:34,560 --> 00:14:39,320 Speaker 2: all those people. It's a challenge. We all have our challenges, 249 00:14:39,320 --> 00:14:41,360 Speaker 2: but we've got to innovative. We're going to evaporate. But 250 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:44,320 Speaker 2: the good news is challenge brings new opportunities for us 251 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:47,960 Speaker 2: to seize upon and grow. With number seven, be a 252 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:51,440 Speaker 2: people person. All you kids out there grew up in 253 00:14:51,440 --> 00:14:55,160 Speaker 2: the digital age. You probably spend twelve to fifteen hours 254 00:14:55,200 --> 00:14:58,360 Speaker 2: a day on a screen, whether it's your phone or 255 00:14:58,400 --> 00:15:04,520 Speaker 2: your iPad or your computer. All that stuff is great, 256 00:15:04,520 --> 00:15:07,960 Speaker 2: but it teaches no soft skills. You got to learn 257 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:11,320 Speaker 2: how to relate to people. The people that are most 258 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:15,840 Speaker 2: successful in this life are people persons. My advertising lady Brenda, 259 00:15:16,400 --> 00:15:19,240 Speaker 2: she's the world's greatest people person. Her husband Ed is 260 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 2: the world's greatest people person. They know everybody in this 261 00:15:22,280 --> 00:15:23,720 Speaker 2: town that they don't know them, They're going to go 262 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:28,560 Speaker 2: up and meet them. If you create a network of people, 263 00:15:28,880 --> 00:15:31,680 Speaker 2: then you have a problem in life. There's somebody you 264 00:15:31,720 --> 00:15:35,000 Speaker 2: know who can help you out again. Human beings were 265 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:38,280 Speaker 2: made to live, work, playing, dying groups. The biggest challenge 266 00:15:38,280 --> 00:15:40,160 Speaker 2: for you young peoples, get off those iPads and go 267 00:15:40,200 --> 00:15:43,400 Speaker 2: meet some people. Got to get out there and meet people. 268 00:15:43,640 --> 00:15:45,560 Speaker 2: And the more people you know, they're going to help 269 00:15:45,560 --> 00:15:50,160 Speaker 2: you advance your career, make life easier and more fun 270 00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:54,960 Speaker 2: for you. Be a people person. Number eight, Shine a 271 00:15:55,000 --> 00:15:59,680 Speaker 2: light on it. Leave a life of transparency, not of 272 00:15:59,720 --> 00:16:05,800 Speaker 2: life of opakeness. Shine a light on it, Get out front, 273 00:16:05,880 --> 00:16:08,040 Speaker 2: show what you do, what you can do, and don't 274 00:16:08,120 --> 00:16:11,800 Speaker 2: hide anything. I am a huge Catholic and the Catholic 275 00:16:11,840 --> 00:16:15,080 Speaker 2: Church has a huge problem because they're not shining a 276 00:16:15,160 --> 00:16:18,160 Speaker 2: light on it. They're covering it up. It only gets worse, 277 00:16:18,240 --> 00:16:22,560 Speaker 2: doesn't it. Shine a light on it. Light brings hope. 278 00:16:23,280 --> 00:16:28,480 Speaker 2: I have a racehorse. She was named after me. Her 279 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:34,760 Speaker 2: name is Workaholic. But anyway, she has a muscle injury 280 00:16:34,760 --> 00:16:36,280 Speaker 2: and I was talking to my sister in law who's 281 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:42,280 Speaker 2: my trainer, the other day and they use this laser 282 00:16:42,360 --> 00:16:46,040 Speaker 2: light therapy and the muscle injury is four inches below 283 00:16:46,120 --> 00:16:50,080 Speaker 2: her skin. But by shining a light on that muscle, 284 00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:54,640 Speaker 2: the muscle gets better. Shining a light on anything in 285 00:16:54,720 --> 00:16:58,920 Speaker 2: life makes things get better. Be terribly transparent in your life. 286 00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:09,600 Speaker 2: To hide transparency is good. Light is great. Number nine. 287 00:17:10,840 --> 00:17:12,720 Speaker 2: There's a woman here in Houston and all you kids 288 00:17:12,760 --> 00:17:16,159 Speaker 2: need to know about the scholarship recipients. Her name is 289 00:17:16,200 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 2: a von Strait. Sixty five years ago, A Vonn Straight. 290 00:17:21,840 --> 00:17:25,840 Speaker 2: Her father was a doctorate Methodist hospital. She gave birth 291 00:17:25,880 --> 00:17:31,320 Speaker 2: to a beautiful baby and the baby had severe Down syndrome. 292 00:17:32,680 --> 00:17:35,160 Speaker 2: Back then, the age expectancy of a child with Down 293 00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:39,959 Speaker 2: syndrome was six years old. And Vonn was told she 294 00:17:40,040 --> 00:17:43,199 Speaker 2: went to all these doctors desperately searching for hope for 295 00:17:43,240 --> 00:17:47,080 Speaker 2: a child, and they all said hopeless situation, no chance. 296 00:17:49,240 --> 00:17:53,000 Speaker 2: But Avonn wouldn't give up on her child. So Vin 297 00:17:53,040 --> 00:17:56,840 Speaker 2: went on to start the Briarwood School for children with 298 00:17:56,920 --> 00:18:00,680 Speaker 2: learning disabilities like her child with Down syndrome. And then 299 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:03,359 Speaker 2: she started Brookwood, which is a home for adults with 300 00:18:03,480 --> 00:18:09,159 Speaker 2: learning disabilities. And everybody at Brookwood, even the paraplegics, have 301 00:18:09,240 --> 00:18:11,600 Speaker 2: a full time job because von liked me believes that 302 00:18:11,720 --> 00:18:17,119 Speaker 2: life work is life's greatest therapy. And so I have 303 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:20,200 Speaker 2: an adopted child named Regina. So I was trying to 304 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:22,320 Speaker 2: get Regina into Briarwood. So I called a Vonn who 305 00:18:22,359 --> 00:18:25,879 Speaker 2: I knew, and she got Lindon Regina chance for an 306 00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:27,919 Speaker 2: interviewed at Briarwood, and they went up to Bridwood interview 307 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:31,360 Speaker 2: and Regina probably promptly kicked a fit in the lobbying 308 00:18:31,359 --> 00:18:33,760 Speaker 2: and laid on the ground, kicked and screened for forty 309 00:18:33,760 --> 00:18:38,000 Speaker 2: five minutes. Linda gathered up it was totally humiliated and 310 00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:42,320 Speaker 2: took her home. Yvon called me the next day and said, Mac, 311 00:18:42,840 --> 00:18:45,920 Speaker 2: I said, what is it, bracing for the worst? She's 312 00:18:45,920 --> 00:18:50,280 Speaker 2: a Regina has been accepted into the Briarwood School, and 313 00:18:50,320 --> 00:18:54,760 Speaker 2: I said, must have been her interviewing skills. I asked 314 00:18:54,800 --> 00:18:58,399 Speaker 2: a Van, was Regina the toughest child that they have 315 00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:00,200 Speaker 2: ever had at bar which she said, own, no, not 316 00:19:00,280 --> 00:19:02,840 Speaker 2: buy a long child. So but who is? She said? 317 00:19:02,840 --> 00:19:05,080 Speaker 2: It had to be this boy named Tracy. I said, well, 318 00:19:05,119 --> 00:19:07,600 Speaker 2: tell me about Tracy's to Tracy was in one of 319 00:19:07,600 --> 00:19:10,359 Speaker 2: my first classes. He was Inngorgible. He was horrible. He 320 00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:13,359 Speaker 2: broke up every class. He was a mess the whole time. 321 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:16,760 Speaker 2: He said, many times I want to kick Tracy out 322 00:19:16,800 --> 00:19:18,240 Speaker 2: of school, but I didn't have the nerve to do it. 323 00:19:19,560 --> 00:19:21,480 Speaker 2: She said. Back then, we had three classrooms at a 324 00:19:21,480 --> 00:19:24,760 Speaker 2: Methist church over here in West Timer. Tracy would run 325 00:19:24,760 --> 00:19:26,000 Speaker 2: out in the middle of the street trying to get 326 00:19:26,080 --> 00:19:29,439 Speaker 2: cars to hit him. She said, one day Tracy escaped 327 00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:31,200 Speaker 2: the classroom, climb up at the top of the church, 328 00:19:31,880 --> 00:19:34,040 Speaker 2: was up on the steeple forty feet above the ground, 329 00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:36,240 Speaker 2: threatening to jump off and kill himself, and the Vonn's 330 00:19:36,280 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 2: down on the ground. Her and Tracy have a standoff 331 00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:42,040 Speaker 2: for about thirty minutes, and finally she gets Tracy to 332 00:19:42,040 --> 00:19:44,800 Speaker 2: come off the steeple onder the roof. He climbs into 333 00:19:44,840 --> 00:19:46,920 Speaker 2: a tree, comes off, the tree breaks, the limb off 334 00:19:47,240 --> 00:19:50,200 Speaker 2: goes over there where Avon takes this tree. Limon sticks 335 00:19:50,200 --> 00:19:53,239 Speaker 2: it in her leg like that, blood starts shooting out 336 00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:56,520 Speaker 2: of her thigh a little. Tracy's laying on the ground. 337 00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:59,520 Speaker 2: He thinks it's really funny, and Vonn says, no matter 338 00:19:59,560 --> 00:20:01,320 Speaker 2: what you do, I'm gonna straighten you out. I'm not 339 00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:03,160 Speaker 2: gonna give up on you. I will straighten you out 340 00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:06,160 Speaker 2: before you leave here. So Tracy stayed there another three 341 00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:08,720 Speaker 2: years and got better. Then he went off to high 342 00:20:08,760 --> 00:20:12,520 Speaker 2: school and Devonne hadn't seen him since. Fast forward thirty 343 00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:16,040 Speaker 2: years later, Evon's visiting her friends at Briarwood School. She's 344 00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:19,920 Speaker 2: now the chairman Emerisus and this good looking guy comes 345 00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:21,520 Speaker 2: running down in the hallway saying, hey, miss Straight and 346 00:20:21,520 --> 00:20:23,040 Speaker 2: miss Straight and Straight. Do you remember me? Do you 347 00:20:23,080 --> 00:20:24,959 Speaker 2: remember me? She says, no, I don't remember you. Who 348 00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:28,080 Speaker 2: are you? He said, oh yeah, mis Straight, you gotta 349 00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:31,560 Speaker 2: remember me. I was your favorite student. She said, no, 350 00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:33,720 Speaker 2: who are you? She said, miss Straight, Misstraight, it's me. 351 00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:37,560 Speaker 2: It's me Tracy. Levonne thought to herself, my goodness, I'm 352 00:20:37,600 --> 00:20:41,480 Speaker 2: surprised you're still alive. She said, Tracy, you look great. 353 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:43,199 Speaker 2: He said, thank you, Miss Straight. She says, where do 354 00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:45,880 Speaker 2: you live? He said, I live in Los Angeles and 355 00:20:45,960 --> 00:20:48,000 Speaker 2: Levonne being a good text and thought that's not good. 356 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:53,080 Speaker 2: The land of fruits and nuts. She said, Tracy, do 357 00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:55,120 Speaker 2: you have a job. He said, oh yeah, Mistraight, He said, 358 00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:57,800 Speaker 2: I got a good job. She said, really, what do 359 00:20:57,840 --> 00:21:00,600 Speaker 2: you do? He said, I'm on television. It ain't my show. 360 00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:03,280 Speaker 2: She says, no, I don't watch much television. She said, 361 00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:08,080 Speaker 2: what show are on? He said, I'm on chairs. See 362 00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:10,560 Speaker 2: what do you do? He said, I'm the bartender. His 363 00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:19,359 Speaker 2: name's Woody Harrelson. Bond Straight changed the world a couple 364 00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:23,399 Speaker 2: months ago. She's ninety one years old. She had a 365 00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:29,800 Speaker 2: fell and hit her head, had massive bleeding in her brain, 366 00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:35,760 Speaker 2: lost all of her memory for eighteen hours. She willed 367 00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:38,879 Speaker 2: her memory back. In eighteen hours, she willed it back. 368 00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:42,240 Speaker 2: She was at the hospital. I told her to say 369 00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:45,800 Speaker 2: for four or five days. After she willed her memory back, 370 00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:51,879 Speaker 2: she said, I have an appointment at Brooklynd with a 371 00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:53,960 Speaker 2: big donor. I'm out of here. Put her clothes on, 372 00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:59,240 Speaker 2: drove herself out there at ninety one years old. A 373 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:04,879 Speaker 2: life force for good. Become a life force for good 374 00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:08,560 Speaker 2: with your life. Don't just make a lot of money, 375 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:13,520 Speaker 2: make a lot of difference. Number ten, Why are we here? 376 00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:19,879 Speaker 2: I will take you back to September second, nineteen forty 377 00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:29,879 Speaker 2: four United States Navy aircraft carrier San Jacinto. It was 378 00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:38,280 Speaker 2: a beautiful Saturday. The youngest ever nable pilot at age nineteen, 379 00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:41,879 Speaker 2: had a mission. He and his two crewmates were to 380 00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:45,639 Speaker 2: fly off the USS Sanja Cno in their Avenger airplane 381 00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:50,280 Speaker 2: and fly to Chichijima Island and bomb the radio tower 382 00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:55,720 Speaker 2: on that island. As he neared the island where that 383 00:22:55,840 --> 00:23:00,560 Speaker 2: radio tower was, the air filled with anti aircraft bombs 384 00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:05,920 Speaker 2: bursting all around his airplane. The flag was unbelievable as 385 00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:07,760 Speaker 2: he got close, for his plane was hit by one 386 00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:10,640 Speaker 2: of those bombs, and he thought to himself, my God, 387 00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:15,479 Speaker 2: were gonna go down. Undatted, he continued on his mission. 388 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:19,359 Speaker 2: They dropped the bombs over the radio tower and damaged 389 00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:21,640 Speaker 2: part of the radio tower. Then they roared off to sea. 390 00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:27,159 Speaker 2: Now the smoke and fire were filling the airplane and 391 00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:29,200 Speaker 2: his radio wouldn't work. He couldn't talk to the two 392 00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:33,120 Speaker 2: crewman in the back, but he turned the airplane upside 393 00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:36,000 Speaker 2: down and screamed for his two crewman to hit the silk. 394 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:41,200 Speaker 2: Hit the silk as a Navy term for bailout. He 395 00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:44,320 Speaker 2: assumed they had bailed out. He righted the airplane kept flying. 396 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:52,320 Speaker 2: Then the flames became uncontrollable. He parachuted himself out. As 397 00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:54,399 Speaker 2: he ejected from the airplane, the force the wind was 398 00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 2: so strong pushed him back and his head hit the 399 00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:02,760 Speaker 2: tail of the airplane. Giant gash on his head pulled 400 00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:04,199 Speaker 2: one of the rip cords, half of the hair at 401 00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:07,000 Speaker 2: parachute opened forgot to pull the other rip cord. He 402 00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:09,639 Speaker 2: hit the Pacific Ocean, plunged down twenty or thirty feet 403 00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:14,800 Speaker 2: into the sea, ingesting seawater all the way down. Finally 404 00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:16,480 Speaker 2: fought his way to the surface, and all he was 405 00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:20,080 Speaker 2: concerned was where are my crewmates? And he couldn't see 406 00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:25,000 Speaker 2: his crewmates. Then one of the he looked up in 407 00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:28,639 Speaker 2: the sky above him. It was Japanese and American planes 408 00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:32,720 Speaker 2: in a firefight, and he found a there was a 409 00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:35,520 Speaker 2: raft somebody had dropped about fifty yards where he was. 410 00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:39,440 Speaker 2: So he swam to the raft, climbed on the raft, 411 00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:43,680 Speaker 2: and the raft had no oars. The current from Pacific 412 00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:46,439 Speaker 2: was pushing him toward this Japanese controlled island that was 413 00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:51,240 Speaker 2: famous for cannibalism. So he was laying in the raft, 414 00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:55,320 Speaker 2: peddling with his arms, all the while vomiting over the side, 415 00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:59,720 Speaker 2: sick from ingesting the seawater. And he did this for 416 00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:05,840 Speaker 2: two hours. Then a periscope stuck its way through the 417 00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:08,920 Speaker 2: top of the Pacific Ocean. They thank god, it was 418 00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:13,040 Speaker 2: an American submarine and they rescued George Herbert walker Bush. What 419 00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:15,159 Speaker 2: he got on the submarine. All he wanted to know 420 00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:18,240 Speaker 2: was where are my two crewmates? Where are they at? 421 00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:21,440 Speaker 2: And he was told that they were lost at sea, 422 00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:29,200 Speaker 2: and he was devastated, devastated for the next seventy four 423 00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:33,960 Speaker 2: years of his life. For the next seventy four years 424 00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:36,480 Speaker 2: of his life, George Herbert walker Bush got up every 425 00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:41,719 Speaker 2: morning and said two words. He said, why me? He 426 00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:45,160 Speaker 2: said why me? He said, why am I lucky enough 427 00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:47,600 Speaker 2: should be alive when my crewmates are dead and so 428 00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:50,520 Speaker 2: many people on that USS San Jacinto with me are dead, 429 00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:55,119 Speaker 2: and thousands of Allied soldiers are dead? Why me? He said? 430 00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:56,960 Speaker 2: Why me? Why am I lucky enough to have a 431 00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:59,439 Speaker 2: loving and supporting God? Why am I lucky enough to 432 00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:02,280 Speaker 2: have a loving, supporting family. Why am I lucky enough 433 00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:05,040 Speaker 2: to live in Midland, Texas to have the opportunity to 434 00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:09,160 Speaker 2: be an oil man? Are living Houston have the opportunity 435 00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:11,439 Speaker 2: to be an oil man and then a politician? Why me? 436 00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:14,560 Speaker 2: And every day of his life for the next seventy 437 00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:16,840 Speaker 2: four years of his life was dedicated to doing one thing, 438 00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:22,520 Speaker 2: living up and earning the right to be alive. When 439 00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:27,600 Speaker 2: his two crewmates were dead, the Eagles did a song 440 00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:29,600 Speaker 2: after nine to eleven. It was called There's a hole 441 00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:33,840 Speaker 2: in the world tonight. There's a hole in the world tonight. 442 00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:36,560 Speaker 2: There's still a hole in Houston. After losing George and 443 00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:40,600 Speaker 2: Barbara Bush last year, never once did he ever whind 444 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:44,159 Speaker 2: or complain. Even when he lost the presidence of the 445 00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:46,639 Speaker 2: United States to Bill Clinton, he didn't whind. He didn't complain. 446 00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:53,439 Speaker 2: He just did his duty a life worth living. And 447 00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:55,840 Speaker 2: how often do people like me say why me when 448 00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:59,080 Speaker 2: we had a bad day at work? Why me? When 449 00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:00,800 Speaker 2: we don't make that say you know, why me when 450 00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:04,639 Speaker 2: we gets caught in traffic? George Herbert Walker Bush and 451 00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:08,880 Speaker 2: never complained today in his life? Why are we here? 452 00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:13,560 Speaker 2: Life is not about you and me. Life is about 453 00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:20,720 Speaker 2: helping others. And I added the bonus eleven point to 454 00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:25,879 Speaker 2: Steve Jobs after thought, I encourage all you graduates to 455 00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:31,840 Speaker 2: do here today. Do something radical with your life. Do 456 00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:35,679 Speaker 2: something radical with your life. Don't play it so damn safe, 457 00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:40,840 Speaker 2: don't be so conservative. Go for it, go for it. 458 00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:45,679 Speaker 2: You know, in early first and second century beat AD, 459 00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:51,520 Speaker 2: the Christian Church developed because those Christians were radical and 460 00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:54,199 Speaker 2: their song and you'll know we are Christians, buy our 461 00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:56,960 Speaker 2: love by our love. They did radical things all the time. 462 00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:00,000 Speaker 2: So I'm planning on doing something rative with my life 463 00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:02,800 Speaker 2: life before I leave here. So when I go up 464 00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:06,399 Speaker 2: there and see the Creator, he'll say you lived a 465 00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:11,000 Speaker 2: good life, and you try to market some degree of 466 00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:14,400 Speaker 2: decency to the people. I think that's what we all 467 00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:16,680 Speaker 2: should do, is go out there to have a great 468 00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:18,720 Speaker 2: life and make a lot of money, but more importantly, 469 00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:21,040 Speaker 2: like George Herbert Walker Bush and did, and like Barbara 470 00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:24,640 Speaker 2: Bush did, we should make a difference. Thanks very much. 471 00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:29,000 Speaker 1: Your life to Michael Berry Show and Podcast. Please tell 472 00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:33,160 Speaker 1: one friend, and if you're so inclined, write a nice 473 00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:38,120 Speaker 1: review of our podcast. 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