WEBVTT - INTERVIEW: Rome & Jess Hilarious Unpack Their Co-Parenting Relationship 0:00:00.440 --> 0:00:04.000 Wake that ass up in the morning. Breakfast Club. 0:00:05.240 --> 0:00:09.160 Morning, everybody is thevej Envy Jess, Hilarious, Charlamagne and the guy. 0:00:09.240 --> 0:00:11.639 We are the Breakfast Club. We got a special guest 0:00:11.680 --> 0:00:12.280 in the belt. 0:00:12.080 --> 0:00:15.520 Because today is National co Parenting Day. Yes, so we 0:00:15.680 --> 0:00:18.360 had to bring in a man who I feel like 0:00:18.480 --> 0:00:20.480 him and just have one of the best co parenting 0:00:20.520 --> 0:00:21.919 relationships I've ever seen. 0:00:22.800 --> 0:00:26.320 Room is here, Room is here. I got already use 0:00:26.360 --> 0:00:27.120 of you. 0:00:27.120 --> 0:00:28.120 You got it already. 0:00:28.160 --> 0:00:29.840 I got in trouble cause of you already. Wow. 0:00:30.680 --> 0:00:33.239 Just say, I want to know who gave Room some 0:00:33.320 --> 0:00:35.279 liquor exploi And I was like. 0:00:35.240 --> 0:00:36.519 I didn't give it to it. I just told him 0:00:36.520 --> 0:00:39.040 where the ball was. Yeh, I said help yourself, help yourself, 0:00:40.520 --> 0:00:41.120 and you said it. 0:00:41.080 --> 0:00:43.440 Was You said it was apple juice. And so I 0:00:43.479 --> 0:00:44.600 was about to take a step and I was. 0:00:44.600 --> 0:00:47.640 Like, you know what, apple juice, I just ain't thank you. 0:00:47.720 --> 0:00:49.640 Was gonna pick the cup up you. 0:00:49.920 --> 0:00:53.240 And just have the best co parenting situation I've ever witnessed. 0:00:53.240 --> 0:00:54.240 How did y'all get to this point? 0:00:54.240 --> 0:00:56.400 Brough and she thinks she my mother first and foremost. 0:00:56.840 --> 0:01:02.200 But it took Tom. It took Tom. I felt like 0:01:02.440 --> 0:01:05.440 when you take the feelings out of it, and you 0:01:05.840 --> 0:01:09.360 realize that the child is the most important part of 0:01:09.400 --> 0:01:11.679 the relationship because it's still a reallyship. Whether you're intimate 0:01:11.760 --> 0:01:17.160 or not. You can do magical things, magical things. And 0:01:17.200 --> 0:01:19.480 I think that me being a dad that I was 0:01:19.560 --> 0:01:23.319 and that I am still today, I wanted that. I 0:01:23.360 --> 0:01:25.240 felt like if we wasn't gonna be together, it was 0:01:25.280 --> 0:01:28.479 no need for us to beef. We've created over time. 0:01:30.000 --> 0:01:32.720 Whereas now she's my best friend, She's my safe space. 0:01:32.760 --> 0:01:34.520 I feel like, you know, I convent to her because 0:01:34.520 --> 0:01:37.880 sometimes all the time I need it, But I feel 0:01:37.880 --> 0:01:40.959 like when I was pouring into these other women, they 0:01:41.000 --> 0:01:41.920 would use it against me. 0:01:42.400 --> 0:01:42.959 Mm hmmm. 0:01:43.040 --> 0:01:46.720 Whereas though now and now that she's pregnant, I don't 0:01:46.760 --> 0:01:49.960 really call her and say certain things because I know 0:01:49.960 --> 0:01:51.559 she's going through certain things mentally now. 0:01:51.640 --> 0:01:54.560 So justice is always in my safe space. 0:01:54.600 --> 0:01:56.800 Though, so it's like she's always been a person that 0:01:56.840 --> 0:02:00.000 I go to a call, give me advice, some advice, 0:02:00.040 --> 0:02:03.120 sound take, but just to hear, but just to hear 0:02:03.160 --> 0:02:05.680 her give it to you, just to know that she care, because. 0:02:05.800 --> 0:02:06.880 I don't really have nobody. 0:02:06.960 --> 0:02:08.400 How did y'all, how did y'all meet How did you 0:02:08.440 --> 0:02:10.600 meet Jess And how did y'all start dating? 0:02:10.680 --> 0:02:13.040 Back then, when it was like, oh, this is this. 0:02:12.960 --> 0:02:13.880 Is something I want to know that. 0:02:13.960 --> 0:02:15.399 It's crazy because we grew the smile. 0:02:15.600 --> 0:02:18.400 He's starting to smile because we grew up in the 0:02:18.400 --> 0:02:18.920 same church. 0:02:19.400 --> 0:02:20.240 But we didn't know. 0:02:21.040 --> 0:02:24.680 We didn't know my mom. My mom was alive, my 0:02:24.680 --> 0:02:27.040 mom down. I was ten, my mom was alive. We 0:02:27.080 --> 0:02:28.000 went to the same church. 0:02:28.240 --> 0:02:28.919 My mom died. 0:02:29.000 --> 0:02:32.239 My father like really took me away from everybody. So 0:02:32.360 --> 0:02:36.079 now it was like fast forward. I'm like seventeen. It's 0:02:36.120 --> 0:02:40.760 Facebook and it's after my Space Facebook, and she came 0:02:40.800 --> 0:02:44.079 across my timeline and I was like, okay, so I 0:02:44.440 --> 0:02:47.360 did a dot dot dot and I put a basketball 0:02:47.440 --> 0:02:48.000 in Moji. 0:02:48.760 --> 0:02:51.040 You thought she was a w just shut up. 0:02:53.919 --> 0:02:56.440 Playing with you. She bid on it ta okay. 0:02:56.639 --> 0:02:59.520 She she was like what I forgot what she said, 0:02:59.560 --> 0:03:02.120 but I was like, I was just I think. 0:03:02.160 --> 0:03:03.760 I was like, I'm just coming to get my ball, 0:03:03.800 --> 0:03:05.000 coming to get with mine something. 0:03:05.040 --> 0:03:07.639 I said, what and why the basketball room? I need 0:03:07.639 --> 0:03:11.160 to know I've seen it somewhere. Basketball. No, I seen 0:03:11.240 --> 0:03:11.919 somebody do. 0:03:11.960 --> 0:03:17.720 That, Like I don't know what I seen basketball. 0:03:19.560 --> 0:03:20.800 So I'm like I don't know. 0:03:20.840 --> 0:03:22.600 I just I did it because I thought it was 0:03:22.639 --> 0:03:24.280 it was corny, but I thought it was you know. 0:03:24.320 --> 0:03:25.799 But it worked. It got our attention. What do you 0:03:25.840 --> 0:03:27.200 think just when you saw the basketball? 0:03:27.480 --> 0:03:30.359 I just I said what they Okay? I just typed 0:03:30.360 --> 0:03:32.720 that back and like he said, it was my ball. 0:03:33.040 --> 0:03:35.800 It's my ball and I'm coming to get I'm coming 0:03:35.800 --> 0:03:37.440 to get it or something like that, I'm coming to get 0:03:37.480 --> 0:03:40.480 with mine. And I was like, okay, what's that. I 0:03:40.680 --> 0:03:42.000 knew what I was giving, what it. 0:03:41.880 --> 0:03:45.040 Was about it, but it worked. It worked. 0:03:45.080 --> 0:03:47.280 So you started talking, Where was your first date? What 0:03:47.400 --> 0:03:48.880 was your first When you started first talking? 0:03:49.000 --> 0:03:49.760 What was your honest? 0:03:51.760 --> 0:03:52.920 Man, Jasica did a lot. 0:03:53.720 --> 0:03:57.080 I'm gonna say this before a lot of these young 0:03:57.160 --> 0:03:58.440 guys became Jody. 0:03:58.440 --> 0:04:06.600 I was Jody, and our first date, big date, I'm 0:04:06.600 --> 0:04:10.360 gonna say it was six Flags. Okay, okay, all right. 0:04:11.600 --> 0:04:14.560 I never had a birth certificate that my mom died. 0:04:15.440 --> 0:04:15.960 It was here. 0:04:16.680 --> 0:04:18.320 My dad didn't want to come ahead to get it. 0:04:18.440 --> 0:04:21.360 There because he was born in I was going to 0:04:21.400 --> 0:04:24.039 stat Island, so my dad didn't want to get it. 0:04:24.040 --> 0:04:25.680 So for a long time I just had a college 0:04:25.680 --> 0:04:28.120 I d I was driving on a college I d 0:04:28.320 --> 0:04:30.960 but Jessica, it was the. 0:04:31.320 --> 0:04:34.640 Simplest one to let me drive with no ID. I 0:04:34.640 --> 0:04:35.520 meant with no license. 0:04:35.800 --> 0:04:36.280 You know, I was. 0:04:36.360 --> 0:04:38.760 I was responsible though, so I used to work at 0:04:38.760 --> 0:04:41.839 the car wash. I used to clean it, shine it up, 0:04:41.960 --> 0:04:44.160 jealum atizing old nine yards. 0:04:44.360 --> 0:04:45.960 But our first date was six Flags. 0:04:46.000 --> 0:04:48.120 That morning I went and would get my permit. 0:04:48.160 --> 0:04:50.920 Before we left for six Flags. But I felt I. 0:04:50.880 --> 0:04:52.359 Went in there with my high horses. That's why I 0:04:52.360 --> 0:04:57.320 felt at first big written. It was written, but it 0:04:57.320 --> 0:04:59.599 was a computer written. Get written. 0:04:59.600 --> 0:05:02.720 That's difficult from I failed the one where it said 0:05:02.800 --> 0:05:04.440 put on your high bings or your low bings when 0:05:04.440 --> 0:05:06.560 it's when it's like when it's raining or something like that, 0:05:06.680 --> 0:05:08.279 or when it's the ground most slippery. 0:05:08.480 --> 0:05:11.440 Did you have shades on when you No, I ain't 0:05:11.440 --> 0:05:12.560 really wear shades like that. 0:05:13.360 --> 0:05:16.159 I did, But there was another you know, yeah, but 0:05:17.279 --> 0:05:18.640 first big date, six Flags. 0:05:18.760 --> 0:05:20.719 But before that we did a lot of other things. 0:05:20.760 --> 0:05:22.760 But after that it was we did a lot like 0:05:22.839 --> 0:05:27.080 she introduced me to a lot. Actually we both was 0:05:27.120 --> 0:05:30.680 the same age, but she helped make me become well, 0:05:31.279 --> 0:05:33.880 got me, you're becoming a man, coming to man. 0:05:33.920 --> 0:05:34.320 And then. 0:05:35.880 --> 0:05:37.240 Yeah, then boom just. 0:05:37.279 --> 0:05:40.440 Always says that you are you were overprotective, make sure 0:05:40.480 --> 0:05:40.960 she was good. 0:05:41.480 --> 0:05:43.719 But she always said you can't fight. Oh my god, 0:05:44.160 --> 0:05:44.960 she never seen me fight. 0:05:47.040 --> 0:05:47.920 We fought. 0:05:48.000 --> 0:05:49.479 I got that from. 0:05:51.600 --> 0:05:53.480 Of course, I'm not going to fight her. Bro Oh 0:05:53.520 --> 0:05:57.559 it's crazy because I just got a picture from the window. 0:05:57.600 --> 0:06:01.360 You bust the minds man, no one window? 0:06:01.360 --> 0:06:01.919 What I fish? 0:06:02.320 --> 0:06:03.440 What what happened? 0:06:03.440 --> 0:06:04.680 Oh, you can't be herd And if she could break 0:06:04.680 --> 0:06:06.320 a window from a fist out trying to. 0:06:06.279 --> 0:06:09.159 Fight, what happened? Wrong to take a slip thinking about that? 0:06:14.480 --> 0:06:14.760 All right? 0:06:14.880 --> 0:06:15.440 I was just talking. 0:06:15.520 --> 0:06:17.159 I was just in North Carolina this weekend. 0:06:17.400 --> 0:06:20.080 I was just just talking about this, like how my 0:06:20.080 --> 0:06:23.880 step brothers was like corny and ship right my step like, Jessica, 0:06:23.920 --> 0:06:28.080 pull up, mind you ate together, Jessica pulls up. I 0:06:28.120 --> 0:06:30.719 had a girl in the house. So my brother like 0:06:31.000 --> 0:06:33.720 he come to the top of the steps, like just 0:06:33.800 --> 0:06:34.160 at the door. 0:06:34.160 --> 0:06:37.440 I'm like, all right, here I come the nigga. Don't 0:06:37.440 --> 0:06:39.240 even wait for me to come. He let her in. 0:06:39.320 --> 0:06:42.000 He let her in. Oh boy, I walked right past 0:06:42.080 --> 0:06:43.600 him and his friends with the girl. 0:06:44.960 --> 0:06:51.800 Jessica get in the steps. 0:06:48.720 --> 0:06:51.040 Right, she wrote, But what did I see? When I 0:06:51.040 --> 0:06:52.760 walked down the steps, Jerne, you didn't see. 0:06:53.160 --> 0:06:54.719 And then she tries to fassage this story. 0:06:55.480 --> 0:07:00.160 Ashton, I had a portable rocking bassing that we could 0:07:00.160 --> 0:07:02.400 put it in the trunk, send it to her, bring it back. 0:07:02.560 --> 0:07:04.920 Ashton was in a portable rocking joint. Me and the 0:07:05.000 --> 0:07:07.880 girl was on on the bed. I had on basketball 0:07:07.880 --> 0:07:09.440 short she had on her uniform pants. 0:07:09.840 --> 0:07:17.680 She's gonna say she's been saying this was the middle CEO. Correct, 0:07:17.760 --> 0:07:18.679 she's a correctional officer. 0:07:19.320 --> 0:07:22.120 So like she's sitting she facing me, but her legs 0:07:22.120 --> 0:07:24.240 is like you know how that goes? Just coud come 0:07:24.280 --> 0:07:25.680 down and say she keeps She gonna say, oh, we 0:07:25.680 --> 0:07:29.680 was naked. We was not naked. If it had been happening, I. 0:07:29.640 --> 0:07:30.280 Don't get naked. 0:07:30.320 --> 0:07:31.200 And when she topped it. 0:07:31.240 --> 0:07:34.239 Up, Oh my gosh. 0:07:34.360 --> 0:07:37.040 She's never gonna tells anyway, she banged the girl. You 0:07:37.040 --> 0:07:39.200 beat up the girl. She didn't beat up bang popped 0:07:39.280 --> 0:07:39.760 us and I. 0:07:39.680 --> 0:07:43.360 Picked up and walked up and throw outside. 0:07:43.680 --> 0:07:44.520 You could never lift me. 0:07:44.840 --> 0:07:47.760 You never see what I'm saying. She never wants to. 0:07:47.920 --> 0:07:50.320 She never wants to admit the truth. On the field. 0:07:50.320 --> 0:07:51.240 Couldn't fight, No. 0:07:51.440 --> 0:07:55.000 I ain't noight or not, but she had the one 0:07:55.040 --> 0:07:58.000 time and then she she put on her uniform and 0:07:58.080 --> 0:08:00.440 went unless went upstairs. 0:08:01.320 --> 0:08:03.320 I promise you, I wish it was the. 0:08:03.280 --> 0:08:06.640 Cat started fighting that that. No, my son was not 0:08:06.880 --> 0:08:09.560 in no portable nothing. He was on the floor on 0:08:09.600 --> 0:08:11.840 a blanket, and the cat was looking at him like 0:08:11.880 --> 0:08:12.640 he wanted. 0:08:12.360 --> 0:08:18.080 To eat him under the carpet. 0:08:18.160 --> 0:08:19.760 So I will never lay my I wouldn't even lay 0:08:19.800 --> 0:08:20.239 on the floor. 0:08:21.400 --> 0:08:22.640 So I was my son on the floor. 0:08:22.840 --> 0:08:25.840 My son was in a portable bassinet. Okay, y'all were 0:08:25.920 --> 0:08:30.160 arguing about this for eleven. Tell you she was drunk 0:08:30.160 --> 0:08:30.720 out of her mind. 0:08:30.720 --> 0:08:31.560 And I'm trying to figure out. 0:08:32.080 --> 0:08:32.880 I was just getting off for. 0:08:32.920 --> 0:08:37.840 Work, hadn't God, you did not just get off where 0:08:37.840 --> 0:08:38.920 he was fired at that time. 0:08:39.000 --> 0:08:42.160 So I got fired right after that. I was working 0:08:42.160 --> 0:08:47.800 at McDonald's. That's when I was stealing. And then if 0:08:47.800 --> 0:08:49.240 I was drinking, okay, I was drinking on the joe, 0:08:49.240 --> 0:08:51.640 but I was at work. So and then I came 0:08:51.679 --> 0:08:53.920 to get my son, and it did not come. 0:08:53.800 --> 0:08:56.079 Get your son because it was my weekend. So what 0:08:56.160 --> 0:08:57.480 I was getting till Monday from. 0:08:57.440 --> 0:08:58.520 Day kid, why would you coming? 0:08:58.559 --> 0:09:00.600 No, he was coming to be nosy, I didn't have 0:09:00.600 --> 0:09:01.000 to come to me. 0:09:01.640 --> 0:09:03.439 She was looking for the passing your water. If you 0:09:03.880 --> 0:09:12.560 get cousin, she because go home. Eleven years years old. 0:09:12.600 --> 0:09:15.200 Man, that's my god. How did you break the woman 0:09:15.440 --> 0:09:19.240 that should her hands? You walked out? No, I threw 0:09:19.360 --> 0:09:19.880 ass out. 0:09:20.320 --> 0:09:23.120 You're not that she was not that strong. 0:09:23.480 --> 0:09:26.000 You did not. Yeah, I mean I had you and 0:09:26.040 --> 0:09:29.560 it was steps right there. 0:09:29.920 --> 0:09:32.040 Could never ever eaten right now, could not do that. 0:09:32.360 --> 0:09:36.240 You need the window. I was just really really because. 0:09:36.000 --> 0:09:38.520 He wouldn't give me my son. She's give me my son. 0:09:38.559 --> 0:09:39.240 You called the police. 0:09:39.720 --> 0:09:41.760 Say, I didn't call the police, called the police, never 0:09:41.800 --> 0:09:46.240 called the police. Yeah, I didn't call the police. 0:09:47.640 --> 0:09:51.280 Listen, very everybody here is well, I'm. 0:09:51.120 --> 0:09:54.440 From the jail is right there, right around the corner. 0:09:54.480 --> 0:09:56.760 You can walk. It's the women. The commotion he walk to. 0:09:57.320 --> 0:09:58.160 I don't know how they came. 0:09:58.480 --> 0:10:00.600 I thought my stepmother called my god call one. 0:10:00.800 --> 0:10:02.520 It was my step mother house, my god mother house. 0:10:02.520 --> 0:10:03.880 Somebody called because I ain't called the police. 0:10:04.000 --> 0:10:07.719 My phone was cracked because you cracked the phone. 0:10:07.760 --> 0:10:09.560 The phone, but he can still everybody in the house 0:10:09.600 --> 0:10:12.400 had the phone. He called my He called the police 0:10:12.440 --> 0:10:15.079 on me, and then going and then when the police came, 0:10:15.880 --> 0:10:18.000 I was I just sat in my car. I was mad. 0:10:18.040 --> 0:10:19.160 I was like, no, I can't move here to get 0:10:19.160 --> 0:10:21.200 my son. And Nicole did tell me your come on 0:10:21.240 --> 0:10:22.560 this pull off. He's not giving you the baby. He 0:10:22.640 --> 0:10:24.520 not giving you the baby. I was like, all right, cool, 0:10:24.559 --> 0:10:26.840 but I was mad, so I didn't pull off police 0:10:26.880 --> 0:10:30.080 paddy wagon and pulled up and got out, and you 0:10:30.240 --> 0:10:41.559 was like, she right, there. 0:10:36.720 --> 0:10:37.600 Was I trying to get you? 0:10:37.679 --> 0:10:39.200 How did I try to get you locked up when 0:10:39.200 --> 0:10:41.600 I'm the same one call trying to bail you out 0:10:41.600 --> 0:10:42.240 with no money. 0:10:42.760 --> 0:10:44.360 I don't know why you ever thought you could build 0:10:44.360 --> 0:10:45.120 somebody out with no mindy, I. 0:10:45.080 --> 0:10:49.520 Ain't sleep that night out you have a been You 0:10:49.559 --> 0:10:51.560 ever went through a woman phone? Of course? 0:10:52.240 --> 0:10:54.280 Could you eat after that? Yes? 0:10:54.520 --> 0:10:54.840 You could? 0:10:54.880 --> 0:10:55.559 Well I couldn't. 0:10:56.320 --> 0:10:58.240 I'm comparing that to you when she went to jail. 0:10:58.320 --> 0:10:58.880 I couldn't eat. 0:10:58.960 --> 0:11:02.840 I couldn't sleep, you know, and sick. I didn't. I 0:11:02.840 --> 0:11:05.160 didn't want want jail. Why the would I call the police? 0:11:05.559 --> 0:11:06.600 So how did you push the window? 0:11:06.600 --> 0:11:07.920 That's what I had. 0:11:07.720 --> 0:11:12.280 Brought up to it, and then I just he had 0:11:12.280 --> 0:11:16.880 a Honda hand No, it was it was my first 0:11:16.880 --> 0:11:18.880 car and it just got adn't like it when I got. 0:11:18.679 --> 0:11:24.360 It because you are jealous. Now remember freedom. 0:11:24.760 --> 0:11:26.800 I had freedom once I got it very much. She 0:11:26.840 --> 0:11:28.800 couldn't call me say bring me my car back, Jody. 0:11:29.800 --> 0:11:32.800 I've never called you that. I've never call you any 0:11:33.440 --> 0:11:34.400 She took you to get the car. 0:11:34.679 --> 0:11:35.880 I ain't never seen nobody. 0:11:35.559 --> 0:11:38.440 When we when we when we got when I got 0:11:38.520 --> 0:11:38.840 the car. 0:11:39.160 --> 0:11:42.440 When I got the car, she was like, I don't 0:11:42.520 --> 0:11:43.120 like this ship. 0:11:43.200 --> 0:11:45.120 I said, yeah, so this means you re really be 0:11:45.200 --> 0:11:45.680 doing you. 0:11:45.840 --> 0:11:46.720 Because she was just doing you. 0:11:46.760 --> 0:11:49.000 He would drop me off the work and go act 0:11:49.040 --> 0:11:49.800 like he in class. 0:11:50.160 --> 0:11:53.720 I was a student then at a beach for my associates. 0:11:53.760 --> 0:11:54.080 That's I did. 0:11:54.160 --> 0:11:55.400 I went to the class because that's why you got 0:11:55.400 --> 0:11:56.760 off work two o'clock. You have to be to work 0:11:56.800 --> 0:11:58.839 six o'clock. So I was getting up five am every morning. 0:11:58.880 --> 0:11:59.559 We got your work. 0:11:59.600 --> 0:12:01.320 You got the job bout five forty five. 0:12:01.840 --> 0:12:04.920 I got out of class at one thirty, did my 0:12:04.960 --> 0:12:08.040 homework for the fifteen minutes, came the cold Spring, make Donalds, 0:12:08.040 --> 0:12:08.520 and picked you up. 0:12:08.520 --> 0:12:09.079 Then we went home. 0:12:09.120 --> 0:12:11.080 That was my routine. Money to Friday, won a lot 0:12:11.120 --> 0:12:14.960 of things. But did you hurt your hand? No? 0:12:15.040 --> 0:12:16.839 It didn't hurt till I got in jail. I ain't 0:12:16.880 --> 0:12:18.360 gonna lie when I got in jail. 0:12:18.160 --> 0:12:19.280 But it hurts. 0:12:19.400 --> 0:12:20.000 She's sobered up. 0:12:20.160 --> 0:12:22.640 This is the crazy thing. I was not that drunk. 0:12:22.960 --> 0:12:26.360 So then when I got guess who did my job? 0:12:26.800 --> 0:12:30.680 Damn gotten no gas? Who did my intake? The damn 0:12:30.760 --> 0:12:32.160 girl who was with him? 0:12:32.320 --> 0:12:33.240 The one did you punched? 0:12:33.280 --> 0:12:35.480 Yeap, yes, she went. 0:12:35.679 --> 0:12:36.520 She didn't do that? 0:12:40.800 --> 0:12:42.959 Did the same girl that I popped? 0:12:43.000 --> 0:12:43.160 Y'all? 0:12:43.320 --> 0:12:45.520 She did it, but she didn't say nothing because she 0:12:45.559 --> 0:12:50.079 couldn't be caught up in nothing like that got fired. Yeah, 0:12:50.160 --> 0:12:51.840 I straight sold on her, like yeah, because I was like, 0:12:51.920 --> 0:12:56.959 so you absolutely at Wow, how could you actually want 0:12:56.960 --> 0:12:59.280 to fuck with a nigga who laid his baby and 0:12:59.320 --> 0:13:02.800 the cats on the on the carpet she got. 0:13:02.960 --> 0:13:06.120 I ain't mad at that on that very much because 0:13:06.160 --> 0:13:07.560 you don't know what she could have tried to do 0:13:07.640 --> 0:13:09.640 to you in that situation, so you gotta put everything 0:13:09.679 --> 0:13:09.839 on it. 0:13:10.080 --> 0:13:12.840 I was like, it was ghetto will be gotten, and 0:13:12.880 --> 0:13:13.560 that's what it was. 0:13:13.880 --> 0:13:16.240 So now when you hear this story and you say 0:13:16.280 --> 0:13:19.360 to yourself, why they there on National co Parent Day 0:13:19.440 --> 0:13:21.839 because they are like the best of friends. Now they 0:13:21.880 --> 0:13:23.800 call each other. Jeff called you her brother. How do 0:13:23.840 --> 0:13:24.600 you feel about that? 0:13:25.400 --> 0:13:27.040 How did y'all get there? Do you look at her 0:13:27.080 --> 0:13:30.000 like your sister? You said, mama, I was gonna. 0:13:29.760 --> 0:13:32.480 Say what she said, created that like my mother, Like 0:13:32.480 --> 0:13:34.320 when we are the town and she got like my mother. 0:13:34.559 --> 0:13:37.959 No, I ain't gonna disclose too much, but she thinks 0:13:37.960 --> 0:13:38.720 my mother. No. 0:13:38.880 --> 0:13:41.640 I just know she likes to control, like she know 0:13:41.679 --> 0:13:44.000 how I am though like me and alone. I think 0:13:44.240 --> 0:13:47.720 part of that controlling pause, like o'kay b be twenty 0:13:47.800 --> 0:13:48.400 of us. 0:13:48.920 --> 0:13:50.959 I don't want to be with child, So guess what 0:13:51.000 --> 0:13:51.440 I'm gonna do. 0:13:51.520 --> 0:13:53.679 He can go out of town with these twenty people 0:13:53.760 --> 0:13:54.640 and then be like all right. 0:13:54.720 --> 0:13:57.000 I'm like, no, we could be all on sprinting. What's 0:13:57.040 --> 0:14:00.120 going on now on sprint or whatever state we go to. Bro, 0:14:00.120 --> 0:14:03.040 I'm won't even gonna go with a rental or slingshot 0:14:03.120 --> 0:14:04.480 or something better not be raining. 0:14:05.040 --> 0:14:06.400 But I think that that. 0:14:06.360 --> 0:14:11.680 Controlling part comes in just because she cares, and sometimes 0:14:11.760 --> 0:14:15.280 especially when I'm under the influence, I've done dumbass ship. 0:14:16.960 --> 0:14:19.880 So as good as you know that you I don't 0:14:19.880 --> 0:14:21.200 know if you heard just assist in the back. 0:14:23.120 --> 0:14:25.520 Everybody like you know, everybody knows, but I hold myself 0:14:25.520 --> 0:14:26.560 accountable that mind you. 0:14:26.640 --> 0:14:28.320 Now, I ain't gonna say you I learned from Oneman six. 0:14:28.480 --> 0:14:30.320 I did the dumbas ship over and over again. 0:14:31.040 --> 0:14:33.280 But I think in that aspect, that's when the mother 0:14:33.640 --> 0:14:36.760 of the mother with the v coming but the brother 0:14:36.960 --> 0:14:39.560 calling me brother, and sisters were like, honestly without the 0:14:39.680 --> 0:14:40.200 child like. 0:14:40.400 --> 0:14:41.680 It it's there. 0:14:41.760 --> 0:14:44.960 It's it's seem like Amazon cameras off, like you can't 0:14:45.000 --> 0:14:46.360 fake this or make this ship up. 0:14:46.400 --> 0:14:49.640 Oh yeah, Rome started that room started calling me sis first, 0:14:49.920 --> 0:14:52.560 and then I started calling him bro. I you know, 0:14:52.840 --> 0:14:55.320 I'm like, yeah, we do have like a sibling dynamic 0:14:55.400 --> 0:14:58.800 in some way. You know, he's still confides in my mom. 0:14:59.000 --> 0:15:02.600 He like, my mom is our mother. Like it's not 0:15:03.320 --> 0:15:06.000 it ain't nothing crazy, it's nothing intimate. Like seriously, I 0:15:06.080 --> 0:15:08.680 always say this, people be like, yeah, right, I can 0:15:08.800 --> 0:15:11.960 literally walk past and I don't do this. But what 0:15:11.960 --> 0:15:14.360 I'm saying, I can walk past this man nigked and 0:15:14.400 --> 0:15:16.560 he just they be like, girl, what like put that out? 0:15:16.760 --> 0:15:19.400 I'm talking about seriously, like how do y'all know. 0:15:19.520 --> 0:15:21.680 Each other's spouses or each other's boyfriend and girlfriend? Like 0:15:21.680 --> 0:15:23.640 how do you deal with his girl, And how do 0:15:23.680 --> 0:15:24.280 you deal with with. 0:15:27.680 --> 0:15:32.760 Five? I never told you always try. 0:15:33.720 --> 0:15:37.640 It's cool. Though it's cool, but this is this and 0:15:37.680 --> 0:15:39.920 now this was the friction part and we got over that. 0:15:39.960 --> 0:15:41.240 But this is the The friction part. 0:15:41.080 --> 0:15:43.800 Was mom my bendess, I'm getting hot ship, But the 0:15:43.800 --> 0:15:47.440 friction part was her getting into minds. 0:15:47.920 --> 0:15:50.400 But she's still a woman. I'm still a man. So 0:15:50.520 --> 0:15:53.360 women tend to do that. And this is not no 0:15:53.480 --> 0:15:54.040 shame to women. 0:15:54.040 --> 0:15:56.520 I don't mean no disrespect by saying it, but I 0:15:56.520 --> 0:15:58.880 think women tend to do that, especially a woman. 0:15:58.720 --> 0:16:01.520 That care about you, she said, But sometimes you make 0:16:01.560 --> 0:16:04.040 bad decisions and she's there as your sister to make 0:16:04.080 --> 0:16:08.680 sure you're good, regardless if it's relationship or whatever. 0:16:08.800 --> 0:16:12.680 Correct with me personally, I never really like I talk 0:16:12.760 --> 0:16:14.280 to her about certain things, but I never really like 0:16:14.360 --> 0:16:18.160 my family to get into no intimate situation. Yeah, because 0:16:18.200 --> 0:16:21.200 guess what, y'all feel a way about this person. However 0:16:21.240 --> 0:16:23.880 y'all want, whether it's negative or good. If I'm gonna 0:16:23.920 --> 0:16:25.440 deal with this person, I'm gonna deal with her like 0:16:26.040 --> 0:16:28.360 the female can smack shit out me yesterday. 0:16:28.800 --> 0:16:31.520 Mm hmmm, I might get over it and fucking them all. 0:16:32.840 --> 0:16:35.280 But it's like, that's why I always That's how I 0:16:35.320 --> 0:16:38.200 was always able to distinguish the two, Like when Jessica 0:16:38.200 --> 0:16:40.320 would have men when she come to me, like, I 0:16:40.360 --> 0:16:43.080 don't know, like, I ain't never pillow talking or sneak 0:16:43.120 --> 0:16:45.040 dish or nothing like I don't really care for Like, 0:16:45.080 --> 0:16:47.840 it ain't nothing a nigga have that I don't if you. 0:16:47.800 --> 0:16:49.160