1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:02,680 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I almost called that burb one record 2 00:00:05,600 --> 00:00:15,360 Speaker 1: Welcome to the edge, everybody. Well, this is ironic, isn't it. 3 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:18,800 Speaker 1: We're not even in person, And after a week of 4 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 1: ranting about people needing to get the vaccine, we were 5 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 1: exposed to COVID. Oh my god, get the fucking vaccine already. 6 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:37,240 Speaker 1: Isn't it ironic? Or if you don't, just stay fucking home, 7 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 1: like I mean, okay, can we just tell the story 8 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:42,480 Speaker 1: about what happened? Because I find this to be such 9 00:00:42,520 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 1: a like of course it did, like, of course, this 10 00:00:46,479 --> 00:00:48,519 Speaker 1: is what happened. Do you want to go or do 11 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:50,000 Speaker 1: you want me to go? I'll let you take the 12 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 1: lead on that. So you know, Chip and I, uh, 13 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 1: First of all, often pre record and then often like 14 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 1: things will be happening and we don't really know. So 15 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:05,119 Speaker 1: we decided we were going to do the topic of 16 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 1: talking about vaccines. Little did we know that while we 17 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:16,120 Speaker 1: were recording, we had been exposed to COVID from a 18 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 1: non vaccine to person. I mean, the irony is so 19 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 1: it's just hilarious to me, like I just can't yeah, 20 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 1: I mean that it happened. Still, it's I mean, thankfully, 21 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 1: And I'll jump ahead a little bit. Thankfully, neither of 22 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 1: us have COVID, correct, But this person that exposed us 23 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:40,399 Speaker 1: all to it was was someone we did not know. 24 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 1: It was someone that a friend of ours is dealt 25 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:49,240 Speaker 1: dating for now until we can finish that. But he 26 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:53,280 Speaker 1: was apparently experiencing symptoms and nobody mentioned it to us. 27 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:55,800 Speaker 1: Brought him up to hang out, like meet all of 28 00:01:55,800 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: her friends, and now three of her friends COVID. Yeah, 29 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 1: by the way, vaccinated friends. Well one yeah, yeah, well 30 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 1: she herself. I guess I'm counting as the three. She's back, Oh, 31 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:14,639 Speaker 1: you're right, you're right, you're right. You got it. Um 32 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:16,520 Speaker 1: our vaccinated friend got it. And then we have a 33 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 1: friend that was not vaccinated. And hopefully he's going to 34 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:21,840 Speaker 1: learn his lesson. I mean, I hope, so, I hope. So, 35 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm hopeful that it won't be terrible for him. Yeah, 36 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 1: he's so positive. So I think hopefully these cases are 37 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:33,560 Speaker 1: supposed to be a little less gruesome, and I mean, 38 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:35,440 Speaker 1: you're supposed to be a little more immune than the 39 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 1: rest of us to getting it. But apparently this delta 40 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:44,600 Speaker 1: variant is a real bit delta delta and you know, 41 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:48,320 Speaker 1: like obviously I have had a COVID test um now 42 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 1: every day for last like since we found out, because 43 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:56,000 Speaker 1: I also realized like I had gone to work, you know, 44 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:58,080 Speaker 1: and I'm wearing a mask at work again, and you know, 45 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:00,240 Speaker 1: I'm doing the things that I can, but it you 46 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 1: don't really think about it. Like I've been around my 47 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 1: boyfriend's kids, you know, like there's all these things that 48 00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 1: I just started being like, oh my god, because I 49 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 1: was just not even mentioned to me. And I think 50 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:12,640 Speaker 1: the part that you and I are the most frustrated 51 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 1: about is the person had symptoms such as a cough, 52 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 1: cold symptoms, had been in a large group of people 53 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 1: the weekend before, like all of the things. Oh and 54 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:29,359 Speaker 1: also not vaccinated. So all of the things that we've 55 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 1: ended up finding out. We're just extremely frustrating because they 56 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 1: feel like this is the problem people like if you're 57 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:41,880 Speaker 1: only thinking about yourself and not being thoughtful about what 58 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 1: you could have or just being careful and cautious, it 59 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:50,280 Speaker 1: starts spreading like rapid fire. Yeah, it's really really easy 60 00:03:50,320 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 1: to spread. And you know, I had gone to see 61 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:58,840 Speaker 1: my parents and I was around my some other family members. 62 00:03:58,920 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 1: My parents sent got irecks and ate. But my sister 63 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 1: is not I was around her like I was around 64 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:06,600 Speaker 1: a bunch of kids. You know. It's Um, it's just 65 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 1: I just think it's so completely irresponsible of people to 66 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 1: act this way, and it's unfair, you know. It's like, 67 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 1: this is a health issue, well political issue. So so 68 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:20,160 Speaker 1: the couple of arguments that I know we're going to 69 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 1: get and the ones that I've actually heard people say 70 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:24,720 Speaker 1: is you know, it's like the flu, We're gonna have 71 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:27,479 Speaker 1: to start living with it, which I agree. However, we're 72 00:04:27,480 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 1: not there yet, so I think that's saying something like 73 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:35,960 Speaker 1: that is a problem. And the thing that I've learned 74 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 1: because of my massive amount of COVID test the last week, UM, 75 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 1: is that according to all the guys, like I did 76 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:49,160 Speaker 1: the PCR, which is the very intense early detection and 77 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 1: also apparently the most accurate you know, and all of 78 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 1: these things people can debate and are changing and whatever. Um, 79 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:58,480 Speaker 1: I've done multiple different kinds of tests or since we 80 00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 1: found out, and UM, the guy told me the delta 81 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 1: variant is the strongest at breaking through the vaccine that 82 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 1: they've seen. It's wild. And again, like we said, we've 83 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 1: had two friends who were vaccinated, but they were in 84 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 1: such close contamination proximity that um, they ended up getting it. 85 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 1: Then also he said that numbers and hospitals are going 86 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:23,920 Speaker 1: crazy again and so they're filling up. He told me 87 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:26,919 Speaker 1: that because of what he's seeing with how much the 88 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:30,240 Speaker 1: cases are going up so quickly, Um, his wife and 89 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 1: him are not even going to restaurants anymore. They're like 90 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:37,960 Speaker 1: going back into full isolation. And that was really interesting 91 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:40,640 Speaker 1: because you know, like I've still been operating in some 92 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 1: ways of just not doing masks, and so I don't know, 93 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 1: I'm just like, I guess we need to be seriously 94 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:51,360 Speaker 1: thinking about even if you're vaccinated, being a little more 95 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:54,719 Speaker 1: cautious because it is no joke. And I'm afraid we're 96 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:58,839 Speaker 1: headed for another shutdown if we don't get another. I mean, 97 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 1: I I honestly don't know that our country can take that, 98 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 1: Like I think, you know, both financially and politically. I 99 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 1: feel like we could end up in a civil war 100 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:09,200 Speaker 1: if that were the case. So I do I agree 101 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:10,920 Speaker 1: with you. I think that like we're gonna have to 102 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 1: learn to live with this, But I think learning to 103 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:15,800 Speaker 1: live with this is going to take some concessions from everybody. 104 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:17,839 Speaker 1: I personally have started wearing a mask when I go 105 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 1: back when I'm in the grocery store and I'm in 106 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:24,120 Speaker 1: places that are like crowded people aside from you know, 107 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:27,520 Speaker 1: if I'm like when I walk into a bar or something, 108 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 1: you know, like but I'm not like mingling in the bar. 109 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 1: I usually walk right to my table. So anyway, um, 110 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 1: you know, I do. I think it's like we're gonna 111 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:39,840 Speaker 1: have We're gonna see some stuff revert. But I think 112 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 1: it's gonna be impossible for us to like go into 113 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 1: a full on lockdown again. I just don't think it's 114 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 1: gonna happen. I think people will do it. Yeah, it's 115 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:50,680 Speaker 1: gonna have to be a choice on Like like I'm saying, 116 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 1: like people are having to make concessions, Like it sounds 117 00:06:53,839 --> 00:06:56,520 Speaker 1: that sounds pointed at the non vaxed. I mean, like 118 00:06:56,720 --> 00:06:58,680 Speaker 1: us vaccinated people are gonna have to make concessions to 119 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 1: like choosing, and what's that gonna do. That's gonna hurt 120 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:04,280 Speaker 1: the restaurant industry because they're gonna lose revenue when it's 121 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:06,159 Speaker 1: they're not gonna be able to afford to everybody. And 122 00:07:06,200 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 1: it's just like this nasty cycle that we're allowing to 123 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:12,760 Speaker 1: continue because we're just not being smart. Well, it's sort 124 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:14,240 Speaker 1: of like when we talked about last week, I'm so 125 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:17,600 Speaker 1: worried about touring stopping again, Like I just like, please 126 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 1: don't do this to us. I can't do it. Um. 127 00:07:20,080 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 1: But another bit of information I got from the guy 128 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 1: that has been giving me COVID test is that you know, 129 00:07:26,880 --> 00:07:28,960 Speaker 1: the vaccine, because I was like, I mean, so, I mean, 130 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 1: how much are people right about this vaccine being pointless? 131 00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:35,040 Speaker 1: It's like if you can still get it, you know, 132 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:37,960 Speaker 1: like why do people go get it when their argument 133 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:40,240 Speaker 1: is going to be that there's not enough research about it, 134 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 1: it's new, it's all those things. And he was like, 135 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:46,720 Speaker 1: it is proven that people with the vaccine are less 136 00:07:46,760 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 1: likely to get it. For one, like it makes it harder. 137 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 1: It can happen, obviously, but it's less likely. They're also 138 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:57,240 Speaker 1: less likely to spread it if they do get it. UM. 139 00:07:57,480 --> 00:07:59,240 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's because it doesn't get us 140 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 1: strong in your body the virus itself, for what the 141 00:08:02,040 --> 00:08:05,240 Speaker 1: reasoning behind that is. Um. Then he also said that 142 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 1: they're just not getting as sick in general, so like 143 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:12,600 Speaker 1: they're not typically the ones ending up in the hospital 144 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:16,480 Speaker 1: or with these massive cases, and you know, terribly when 145 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:19,520 Speaker 1: people die and stuff like that, the percentages of that 146 00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 1: happening in vaccinated people is very low, and so it's 147 00:08:23,600 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 1: not the end all, be y'all, like this is going 148 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 1: to fix this forever and this is gonna go away, 149 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:31,280 Speaker 1: Like COVID's not going away, right, Like this is something 150 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:33,040 Speaker 1: we're gonna have to learn to live with. But if 151 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:36,680 Speaker 1: we can slow the rate of its spreading, we've got 152 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 1: to do it. Like it is not done. And as 153 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:42,040 Speaker 1: much as I want it to be, and as much 154 00:08:42,080 --> 00:08:45,240 Speaker 1: as I think we all are so fearful of isolation, 155 00:08:45,320 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 1: we have to be realistic here. Well, and I think too, 156 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:50,839 Speaker 1: it's like there's obviously going to be exceptions to all 157 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:52,959 Speaker 1: the rules, you know, like you can still get the 158 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 1: flu if you get the flu shot. But it's it's 159 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 1: the same thing. It's like meant to protect you from 160 00:08:57,080 --> 00:09:00,719 Speaker 1: it being severe illness and to races your chance of 161 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:03,080 Speaker 1: getting it and spreading it, you know. But I think 162 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:07,000 Speaker 1: the thing that it's like really troubling is that like 163 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:10,240 Speaker 1: these people that I mean, the statistics are clear, like 164 00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:14,240 Speaker 1: plus percent of the people that are going in the 165 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:18,600 Speaker 1: hospital and dying from this strain are unvaccinated, Like that 166 00:09:18,760 --> 00:09:22,320 Speaker 1: is just data and it's clear all of the hospital 167 00:09:22,360 --> 00:09:24,680 Speaker 1: beds that are being taken up by these people because 168 00:09:24,679 --> 00:09:29,320 Speaker 1: they're making a choice, um, are causing people to die 169 00:09:29,400 --> 00:09:31,920 Speaker 1: from other things. You know, the state of Louisiana had 170 00:09:31,960 --> 00:09:35,280 Speaker 1: three people die from gunchhot wounds because the hospitals couldn't 171 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:39,600 Speaker 1: couldn't attend to them. Um And we're going to see 172 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:41,719 Speaker 1: that across everything. You get into car accident, there's no 173 00:09:41,800 --> 00:09:44,000 Speaker 1: hospital bed for you, and it's severe. You might not 174 00:09:44,080 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 1: survive that car accident when you could have, um so, 175 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:51,679 Speaker 1: and not to mention, it's like our medical community haven't. 176 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:54,199 Speaker 1: Don't they get a break at some point? Like these 177 00:09:54,240 --> 00:10:00,240 Speaker 1: people have been working NonStop since you know, January. No, 178 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:03,839 Speaker 1: um So, it's I think it's just about like it's 179 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 1: a respect issue that we're dealing with and like thinking 180 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:10,439 Speaker 1: about other people and um, you know it's I don't 181 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:12,200 Speaker 1: want to have to wear a mask. I don't want 182 00:10:12,200 --> 00:10:15,839 Speaker 1: to have to do these things, but I'll fucking do them. Yeah, 183 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:19,240 Speaker 1: you know, it's I don't feel like it's infringing upon 184 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:23,080 Speaker 1: my rights. Like it's it's no different than like, you know, 185 00:10:23,600 --> 00:10:27,120 Speaker 1: asking you not to drink and drive right drunk as 186 00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:29,839 Speaker 1: you fucking want but don't get in the car and 187 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:34,559 Speaker 1: calls and put me in potential potential harm way harm. Well, 188 00:10:34,559 --> 00:10:36,720 Speaker 1: I think, you know, you bring up their respect thing. 189 00:10:36,760 --> 00:10:39,280 Speaker 1: And I will say, for me personally, that was what 190 00:10:39,400 --> 00:10:42,679 Speaker 1: pissed me off so much with this dude, because apparently 191 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:45,760 Speaker 1: he had been sick for like three days. It wasn't 192 00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:48,199 Speaker 1: like he just came down with a slight sore throat 193 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 1: and like, listen, COVID symptoms start typically as a cult. 194 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:54,560 Speaker 1: And when I actually got it, remember I told you, 195 00:10:54,600 --> 00:10:55,679 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, I thought I had 196 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:58,360 Speaker 1: food poisoning and then I went to work. And it's 197 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:01,160 Speaker 1: like that's one part of the reason it's really important 198 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 1: to inform yourself on symptoms, like because they're all over 199 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 1: the board and they're different for everybody. So if you're 200 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:12,840 Speaker 1: educated on them, maybe you like makes sense of them quicker. Um. 201 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:15,400 Speaker 1: But it is weird because it's like, you know, you 202 00:11:15,400 --> 00:11:17,480 Speaker 1: could have allergies right now and you're like, oh God, 203 00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:20,120 Speaker 1: do I have COVID or your stomach turns a little 204 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 1: bit and you're like, oh ship, Like I got my 205 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 1: period and I was like, oh my god, I think 206 00:11:25,679 --> 00:11:29,000 Speaker 1: everything's COVID at this point. So the second anything that's off, 207 00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh here, here we go. But you also 208 00:11:32,040 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 1: probably make like you wouldn't go out to a bar 209 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:36,559 Speaker 1: if you've been feeling sick for three days and I've 210 00:11:36,800 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 1: gotten tested yet like that. That's the difference between caring 211 00:11:40,800 --> 00:11:43,640 Speaker 1: about other people and being responsible to me and then 212 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 1: also like just being flagrant, especially with other people's health, 213 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:50,640 Speaker 1: or say to the group, hey, y'all, I haven't been 214 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:53,959 Speaker 1: feeling that great. Um, I just have these are my symptoms, 215 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 1: and you all still cool if I come and then 216 00:11:55,480 --> 00:11:57,960 Speaker 1: let them decide, because as sure as all would have 217 00:11:57,960 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 1: been like Annah like on my Misha another town bro, 218 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:04,199 Speaker 1: don't care, right, or you could have then made the 219 00:12:04,280 --> 00:12:07,040 Speaker 1: choice to not come at all, to say I just 220 00:12:07,040 --> 00:12:10,880 Speaker 1: wouldn't have gone. So anyway, that was the part that 221 00:12:10,920 --> 00:12:14,680 Speaker 1: we felt like wait what because they got the diagnosis 222 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:18,920 Speaker 1: like five days after symptoms started, and we're like, oh ha, 223 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:21,320 Speaker 1: it turns out it was COVID. We thought he just 224 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:25,720 Speaker 1: had a cold. Yeah, okay, this is like, this isn't funny. 225 00:12:26,080 --> 00:12:31,760 Speaker 1: It's not it's not funny at all. Anyway. We could 226 00:12:31,760 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 1: talk about this forever. So you're trying to keep us 227 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:36,200 Speaker 1: out of trouble. I see what's happening right now. Well, no, 228 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:38,600 Speaker 1: it's just like it's the world we live in, you know. 229 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:42,280 Speaker 1: So I've been real, I've been real hyped up about it, 230 00:12:42,360 --> 00:12:45,120 Speaker 1: just because of how I felt like we were disrespected. 231 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 1: But I do want to switch topics, not switch topics, 232 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:50,199 Speaker 1: switch lanes a little bit and read an email from 233 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:51,680 Speaker 1: a listener we got. We got a ton of emails 234 00:12:51,760 --> 00:12:55,720 Speaker 1: last week about the vaccines. I appreciate you guys feedback. Um, 235 00:12:56,120 --> 00:12:58,720 Speaker 1: I'm not saying this. Most people that I got emails 236 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:01,400 Speaker 1: for I did actually did not get one email from 237 00:13:01,440 --> 00:13:07,679 Speaker 1: someone who, um disagreed with what Yeah. Um, I saw 238 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:10,720 Speaker 1: a few like Instagram stories where people like, we're really 239 00:13:10,760 --> 00:13:12,960 Speaker 1: happy that we had spoken up. So yeah, well, I 240 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:16,240 Speaker 1: think everyone's appreciates how scary it can be right now 241 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:19,200 Speaker 1: in this culture to say an opinion of any kind. 242 00:13:19,360 --> 00:13:22,080 Speaker 1: So I do appreciate you guys affirming us. And maybe 243 00:13:22,120 --> 00:13:25,199 Speaker 1: we got no no other sides of it, because people 244 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:27,000 Speaker 1: know where we stand at this point. So I don't know, 245 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:30,400 Speaker 1: but I hope that we're all still trying to be 246 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:34,920 Speaker 1: a little bit kind and considerate of what people's sides 247 00:13:34,960 --> 00:13:36,640 Speaker 1: are and what they're actually trying to say. And not 248 00:13:36,720 --> 00:13:38,840 Speaker 1: attack each other and all those things. But anyway, this 249 00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:41,320 Speaker 1: comes from Carrie. She said, Hi, Kelly and Chip, I 250 00:13:41,320 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 1: really enjoyed the latest podcast on the vaccine. I wanted 251 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:46,720 Speaker 1: to share that my fiance and are fully vaccinated with 252 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 1: FISER and I've made it as this long without contracting COVID, 253 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:53,760 Speaker 1: only to both have breakthrough cases this week thanks to 254 00:13:53,800 --> 00:13:56,120 Speaker 1: the vaccine, and we feel great. Him losing his taste 255 00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:58,120 Speaker 1: and smell was our only clue to go get tested. 256 00:13:58,600 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 1: I had been on a girl's weekend and of course 257 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:02,439 Speaker 1: had to let them all know. One of the girls 258 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:05,240 Speaker 1: was not vaccinated, and the guilt I had about possibly 259 00:14:05,280 --> 00:14:07,760 Speaker 1: infecting her has been awful. I know it was her 260 00:14:07,840 --> 00:14:09,680 Speaker 1: choice to not vaccinate as well as to go on 261 00:14:09,679 --> 00:14:12,680 Speaker 1: the trip, but the possibility of her getting very sick 262 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:15,839 Speaker 1: has been so stressful. Luckily, everyone we saw before we 263 00:14:15,920 --> 00:14:18,600 Speaker 1: knew we were positive has tested negative. I just wanted 264 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:21,240 Speaker 1: to share that these breakthrough cases are happening and most 265 00:14:21,240 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 1: of us who are vaccinated will never know we have it. 266 00:14:23,800 --> 00:14:26,520 Speaker 1: That should be scary to those who are not currently protected. 267 00:14:26,840 --> 00:14:29,360 Speaker 1: It's also why we should all be a mask. Unfortunately, 268 00:14:29,400 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 1: until the vaccinations go up and numbers go down love 269 00:14:32,320 --> 00:14:36,440 Speaker 1: listening to y'all carry. Yeah, I mean it's sort of 270 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:38,880 Speaker 1: it's sort of plays kind of right into the story 271 00:14:38,920 --> 00:14:44,360 Speaker 1: that we told, you know, like you know, I I've 272 00:14:44,440 --> 00:14:47,160 Speaker 1: said it, like my I would not have missed my 273 00:14:47,240 --> 00:14:50,320 Speaker 1: niece's thirteenth birthday party for the world, And so I 274 00:14:50,400 --> 00:14:53,200 Speaker 1: knew I was going into it with my sister who 275 00:14:53,200 --> 00:14:56,920 Speaker 1: was unvaccinated, and you know, I assumed some of her 276 00:14:56,960 --> 00:15:01,960 Speaker 1: friends probably were UM, but none of them were experiencing 277 00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:06,720 Speaker 1: any sort of UM symptoms. So I felt pretty safe 278 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:11,280 Speaker 1: UM going into that situation. But if if they had 279 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:13,960 Speaker 1: told me that if my sister had as much of 280 00:15:14,000 --> 00:15:17,480 Speaker 1: a sneeze, I wouldn't have gone, you know, I wouldn't so, 281 00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:19,280 Speaker 1: and I want to ask my parents to do the 282 00:15:19,320 --> 00:15:22,840 Speaker 1: same thing, right, yeah, I mean, like this girl send 283 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:25,560 Speaker 1: the email. The unfortunate part is that some of the 284 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:28,760 Speaker 1: vaccinated vaccinated people are just not going to show symptoms anymore. 285 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:31,520 Speaker 1: And so like, let's all try to take care of 286 00:15:31,520 --> 00:15:35,360 Speaker 1: each other here, because it seems like the vaccine is 287 00:15:35,400 --> 00:15:39,280 Speaker 1: helping alleviate some of the symptoms and the harshness of 288 00:15:39,400 --> 00:15:43,200 Speaker 1: even the delta variant for some of us UM. But 289 00:15:43,280 --> 00:15:46,520 Speaker 1: that doesn't mean that makes this go away, and we're 290 00:15:46,520 --> 00:15:48,320 Speaker 1: not going to spread it too. I think it's just 291 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:51,200 Speaker 1: at such a lower rate. Um it went in doubt, 292 00:15:51,240 --> 00:15:54,840 Speaker 1: go get tested. Like I unfortunately have spent a fortune 293 00:15:55,480 --> 00:15:57,200 Speaker 1: the last week, and I know that's a luxury to 294 00:15:57,200 --> 00:15:59,240 Speaker 1: be able to do that, but this is sort of 295 00:15:59,240 --> 00:16:01,360 Speaker 1: one of those things that right now. I mean, it's 296 00:16:01,360 --> 00:16:03,360 Speaker 1: not like I just want to throw money at this either, 297 00:16:03,600 --> 00:16:09,520 Speaker 1: but if I'm choosing to still go to work or like, 298 00:16:10,120 --> 00:16:13,560 Speaker 1: you know, be with people in general, I just feel 299 00:16:13,600 --> 00:16:16,400 Speaker 1: like if I knew my situation, the responsible thing I 300 00:16:16,440 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 1: needed to do was really be sure that I don't 301 00:16:19,720 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 1: have it, you know, before I expose anyone else. And 302 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:25,960 Speaker 1: so yeah, it's been I mean a lot of money, 303 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:29,040 Speaker 1: but it's been worth it to me and especially just 304 00:16:29,080 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 1: for peace of mind in general, you know. Yeah, And 305 00:16:31,520 --> 00:16:33,640 Speaker 1: and there are some options now look, I mean I 306 00:16:33,640 --> 00:16:37,720 Speaker 1: think the efficacy is um you know, they're probably not 307 00:16:37,800 --> 00:16:41,880 Speaker 1: as trust uh, probably not as reliable it's probably the 308 00:16:41,960 --> 00:16:44,720 Speaker 1: right word, but you can It's called been max or 309 00:16:44,800 --> 00:16:48,200 Speaker 1: B max x B I N A X is. The 310 00:16:48,240 --> 00:16:50,840 Speaker 1: recom is a recommended test that you can buy. It's 311 00:16:50,880 --> 00:16:53,880 Speaker 1: like twenty four dollars. You get two tests. You can 312 00:16:53,920 --> 00:16:56,440 Speaker 1: buy them at I've seen them at the grocery store 313 00:16:56,600 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 1: in the pharmacy department. I've seen them at pharmacies, and um, 314 00:17:00,840 --> 00:17:02,960 Speaker 1: I think there at least a good indicator. You can 315 00:17:02,960 --> 00:17:05,959 Speaker 1: get them on Amazon. You can order them from you know, 316 00:17:06,200 --> 00:17:10,520 Speaker 1: CBS or Walgreens. Um And, I do think you know 317 00:17:10,600 --> 00:17:13,399 Speaker 1: so that like you're not being an alarmist and spending 318 00:17:14,840 --> 00:17:17,800 Speaker 1: dollars every time you have a sniffle. It's a good 319 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:20,880 Speaker 1: It's a good place to start. Well, I will say, 320 00:17:20,920 --> 00:17:24,320 Speaker 1: I don't think that those show like if you're not 321 00:17:24,400 --> 00:17:27,800 Speaker 1: having symptoms, it might not show up yet, Like it's 322 00:17:27,840 --> 00:17:30,760 Speaker 1: a slower the virus has to be fully in your body, 323 00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:35,160 Speaker 1: but if you're having symptoms, it typically can show you. 324 00:17:35,280 --> 00:17:37,000 Speaker 1: So that would be a good thing to just have 325 00:17:37,160 --> 00:17:40,919 Speaker 1: at your house for the times when maybe you can't. 326 00:17:41,040 --> 00:17:43,920 Speaker 1: Um are you just are like, oh god, I haven't 327 00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:45,240 Speaker 1: been feeling good for a couple of days. I should 328 00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:47,040 Speaker 1: probably do this before I go anywhere else. You know 329 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:50,080 Speaker 1: that kind of thing. Um Because all of our friends 330 00:17:50,080 --> 00:17:54,680 Speaker 1: who had COVID did test positive on that test specifically, 331 00:17:54,920 --> 00:17:59,399 Speaker 1: So yeah, anyway, um And I kept testing negative on that, 332 00:17:59,440 --> 00:18:01,520 Speaker 1: but then I was like, you know what I need to. 333 00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:07,000 Speaker 1: I need the real deal just to be sure. Um. Anyway, 334 00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:12,000 Speaker 1: I hope that people just get vaccine. And if you 335 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:13,679 Speaker 1: want to listen to our conversation last week on how 336 00:18:13,680 --> 00:18:16,320 Speaker 1: we feel about that. Uh, it was up last week 337 00:18:16,359 --> 00:18:22,560 Speaker 1: on the Edge and Chip got very animated. Actually I 338 00:18:22,680 --> 00:18:27,359 Speaker 1: was angry. I mean I'm still a little angry, Like 339 00:18:27,400 --> 00:18:30,159 Speaker 1: I just think it's so dumb. So yeah, well I 340 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:34,280 Speaker 1: got pissed when we figured out the situation. Well did 341 00:18:34,280 --> 00:18:36,199 Speaker 1: you see the thing that I posted today? It was 342 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:37,960 Speaker 1: like this, or maybe it was last night, I can't remember. 343 00:18:37,960 --> 00:18:40,480 Speaker 1: It's like die rapping about like get your head out 344 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:43,639 Speaker 1: your ass and there's a line that there's there's a 345 00:18:43,680 --> 00:18:46,240 Speaker 1: line in it. It's like, you know, you're not important 346 00:18:46,320 --> 00:18:48,280 Speaker 1: enough to be my car tip or something like that. 347 00:18:51,400 --> 00:18:54,159 Speaker 1: Get off yourself, Come on, buddy, like they want to 348 00:18:54,200 --> 00:18:58,639 Speaker 1: track your ass. Nobody cares. Okay, cares what you're ap 349 00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:10,800 Speaker 1: to Susan it killed thing? Oh my god, Okay, enough 350 00:19:10,920 --> 00:19:13,600 Speaker 1: enough enough. That was very serious. But it is what's 351 00:19:13,600 --> 00:19:15,720 Speaker 1: happening our culture right now. So I think we've gotta 352 00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:22,040 Speaker 1: pay attention. Let's get to the real topic. Getipha, I'm 353 00:19:22,040 --> 00:19:24,280 Speaker 1: gonna learn something to that. So I gotta tell you. 354 00:19:24,320 --> 00:19:27,040 Speaker 1: So I had the funniest conversation with a group of 355 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:30,320 Speaker 1: our friends. Um, and you know, one of our friends 356 00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:33,320 Speaker 1: is outdating, and he was just talking about how it 357 00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:37,520 Speaker 1: can be really difficult to start conversations and like also 358 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:39,920 Speaker 1: after this isolation period, he's like, I feel like I'm 359 00:19:39,920 --> 00:19:43,359 Speaker 1: out of practice, Like how do you even approach a 360 00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:46,480 Speaker 1: person at this point? Um, until we started kind of 361 00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:50,000 Speaker 1: talking about pickup lines. And I actually never thought about 362 00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:52,280 Speaker 1: this until I was listening to him talk. But like 363 00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:55,800 Speaker 1: there's so much pressure on dudes in general for that 364 00:19:55,920 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 1: initial interaction, like we kind of get a pass and 365 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:03,119 Speaker 1: some ways on that level. And so I started thinking 366 00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:06,240 Speaker 1: about just like what does that feel like? Like what 367 00:20:06,280 --> 00:20:08,040 Speaker 1: do you feel like in a bar or something? Are 368 00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:09,760 Speaker 1: you like, oh my god, oh my god, I have 369 00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:11,359 Speaker 1: to go. I want to go talk to this person. 370 00:20:11,560 --> 00:20:14,520 Speaker 1: But I do not feel comfortable. I mean I am 371 00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:17,399 Speaker 1: literally the worst. I think I have zero I have 372 00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:20,160 Speaker 1: no game. You know. It's like, well, I honestly think too. 373 00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:22,360 Speaker 1: It's because like in my mind, I put the cart 374 00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:25,480 Speaker 1: before the horse, Like I'm like I'm already like I'm 375 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:28,520 Speaker 1: gonna marry this person. And it's like I have about 376 00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:30,760 Speaker 1: this person except for that I'm I'm attracted to what 377 00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:34,280 Speaker 1: they look like, you know. So it's like you literally 378 00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:37,400 Speaker 1: could like go say hi and they not even speak English, 379 00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:41,520 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, or they're taken or okay, 380 00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:44,159 Speaker 1: they're single, yeah, or in my case, it could be 381 00:20:44,200 --> 00:20:49,480 Speaker 1: a straight guy that's there with my girlfriends. Like I, Um, 382 00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:52,359 Speaker 1: I'm terrible at it because I also have this incredible 383 00:20:52,400 --> 00:20:54,280 Speaker 1: fear of rejection, which I think most of us do. 384 00:20:54,920 --> 00:20:56,480 Speaker 1: I just I just let it get the best of me. 385 00:20:56,560 --> 00:21:00,560 Speaker 1: But like that first line is, you know, I've said 386 00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:02,560 Speaker 1: I've sit back and help, somebody will come to me. 387 00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:07,000 Speaker 1: Tactic does not work. That work. It does not work. 388 00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:11,360 Speaker 1: I firsthand, Like, it just doesn't. I'm just kidding. Well, 389 00:21:11,400 --> 00:21:13,399 Speaker 1: I mean it does, but it's always the people that 390 00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:15,879 Speaker 1: I would never date, right right, I mean, And then 391 00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:18,360 Speaker 1: I'm like, if that motherfucker's got the balls to come 392 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:20,560 Speaker 1: say hi to me, I should. That should give me 393 00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:23,720 Speaker 1: the the courage to go do it to who I 394 00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:27,080 Speaker 1: want to say hi too, But I just don't. I don't, Like, 395 00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:30,480 Speaker 1: I'm my my safety zone is just hanging out there 396 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:33,600 Speaker 1: with my friends. I mean, it is so hard to 397 00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:36,480 Speaker 1: think about that first line, because talk about make or break, 398 00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:39,359 Speaker 1: it's like if you walk up to somebody and you 399 00:21:39,440 --> 00:21:42,560 Speaker 1: come out do she like you're done? You never really 400 00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:45,159 Speaker 1: go back from that, you know what I mean. And 401 00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:47,080 Speaker 1: you can't assume that everyone has the same sense of 402 00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:53,040 Speaker 1: humor as you. There's so many like factors that, yeah, 403 00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:54,600 Speaker 1: I mean, that's what you want. So if you bomb 404 00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:56,880 Speaker 1: with them, it's probably good because then you don't get 405 00:21:56,920 --> 00:22:00,159 Speaker 1: led down some path it's not gonna work. But well, 406 00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:02,680 Speaker 1: I found this article on Cosmo because I do want 407 00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:04,440 Speaker 1: to well, I want to talk about one more thing first, 408 00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:09,359 Speaker 1: So I posted this this video that was on CBS 409 00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:12,119 Speaker 1: Good or CBS Sunday. Is that what it's called. I 410 00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:14,800 Speaker 1: don't know. The one with Yeah, the one with Gail King, 411 00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:17,800 Speaker 1: you know, Oprah's best friend and I love her too. 412 00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:21,160 Speaker 1: But she was interviewing Garth Brooks, who is a bit 413 00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:23,960 Speaker 1: odd to say the least. I'm a huge fan to 414 00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:28,560 Speaker 1: be quite honest, um, but he's just strange, dude, Maybe 415 00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:31,480 Speaker 1: I don't know in interviews, and so he was talking, 416 00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:36,560 Speaker 1: I'm assuming about Tricia Yearwood and he says that sometimes 417 00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:39,960 Speaker 1: they'll go in from being on the being in a 418 00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:42,560 Speaker 1: work mood or something, and she's doing something and she's 419 00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:45,720 Speaker 1: so creative, but she's in the studio and she's sweaty, 420 00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:49,000 Speaker 1: and she's like comes in and she's got this sent 421 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:52,240 Speaker 1: and he like goes into detail about that, right, and 422 00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:54,560 Speaker 1: then she goes, oh my gosh, that that is just 423 00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:58,639 Speaker 1: like the sweetest thing that you're so you're recognizing what 424 00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:02,560 Speaker 1: that scent is. And she goes, what would you describe 425 00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:05,760 Speaker 1: that scent as? And he pauses and he takes a 426 00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:10,160 Speaker 1: deep breath and he goes the scent that nothing is impossible. 427 00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:17,080 Speaker 1: It's so the scent that with her nothing is impossible 428 00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:19,639 Speaker 1: or something like that, the scent of nothing being impossible. 429 00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:21,399 Speaker 1: So our friend was like, oh my god, is that 430 00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:24,199 Speaker 1: my new pickup line? Like you smell hey girl, you 431 00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:27,720 Speaker 1: smell like nothing is impossible. I go, oh my god, 432 00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:30,440 Speaker 1: if you want to creep out every girl in Nashville. 433 00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:34,440 Speaker 1: But anyway, he told me of another one that was, um, 434 00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:38,560 Speaker 1: when you walk up to somebody and you you smooth 435 00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:41,800 Speaker 1: the side of their shirt and you're like, no, no, no, no, 436 00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:43,399 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm getting it wrong. And see how bad 437 00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:46,280 Speaker 1: I would be a pickup line. You walk up, walk up, 438 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:48,960 Speaker 1: and you're like your shirt smells like nothing's impossible, and 439 00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:53,719 Speaker 1: like what you're like, wait, what know? You walk up 440 00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:56,120 Speaker 1: to the girl and you go, hey, hey girl, don't 441 00:23:56,119 --> 00:23:57,920 Speaker 1: ever say that to a girl. Brother, that's the words. 442 00:23:58,240 --> 00:24:01,119 Speaker 1: Just be like hey, did you feel material on my shirt? 443 00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:04,679 Speaker 1: And then they're like what can you go? Just feel it? 444 00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:06,640 Speaker 1: Just feel it? And then they feel it and they're 445 00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:09,200 Speaker 1: like what and you go it feels like boyfriend, material, 446 00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:15,240 Speaker 1: doesn't it? But but I'll be here all night? Then 447 00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:18,760 Speaker 1: oh my god? Well here, I mean, we're all skipping 448 00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:20,800 Speaker 1: ahead a little bit because I feel like, also, well, 449 00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:22,439 Speaker 1: I also feel like we need to address like that 450 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:24,880 Speaker 1: there is dating online as well. There's not just in 451 00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:28,320 Speaker 1: the flesh. So it's like this this also applies to 452 00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:31,120 Speaker 1: like when you want to just say hello to somebody 453 00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:36,040 Speaker 1: and you know, like paying them on an app that appen. 454 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:40,240 Speaker 1: It's just like you know, I where I where I 455 00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:43,720 Speaker 1: go wrong? It's like I just go to general I think, 456 00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:46,040 Speaker 1: and our friend Mary makes fun of me because she's, okay, 457 00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:48,439 Speaker 1: well can you give us examples of your start? I mean, 458 00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:50,680 Speaker 1: I'll just feel like, how's it going, handsome? And she's like, 459 00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:56,920 Speaker 1: oh that is sucking lame? You say, how's it going handsome. Yes, 460 00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:02,439 Speaker 1: I know it's lame. It's like, my so bad is 461 00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:06,240 Speaker 1: getting really tight right now? How's it going handsome? Also, 462 00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:10,359 Speaker 1: it's so generic too, It's like, well, that one is, 463 00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:13,359 Speaker 1: but I have to tell this specific one that this 464 00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:18,840 Speaker 1: is actually good? Is it? It's funny? I mean, this 465 00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:22,199 Speaker 1: story has lasted. I mean we're still telling it. It's 466 00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:26,720 Speaker 1: how how I mean, it's probably I'm going to skip 467 00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:28,720 Speaker 1: most of the story except for the fact that you 468 00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:31,000 Speaker 1: walked up to the bar, to the bar tender, and 469 00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:33,600 Speaker 1: you looked at him and you go, hey, where'd you 470 00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:41,280 Speaker 1: get those muscles? I can't. I can't. Oh my god. 471 00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:44,240 Speaker 1: Either people are laughing or they're like, click, we're done 472 00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:49,560 Speaker 1: with this podcast where these people are so lame. Where 473 00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:52,000 Speaker 1: did you get those muscles? Did he answer you? I 474 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:54,800 Speaker 1: don't know that. I mean honestly, I can't remember. I 475 00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:58,880 Speaker 1: was so drunk. He's like the gym where, yeah, where 476 00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:02,000 Speaker 1: you should probably go to get your own. Okay, so 477 00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:04,160 Speaker 1: you were going to try to skip ahead? What were 478 00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:06,280 Speaker 1: you going to say? No, no, no, I wasn't going 479 00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:07,760 Speaker 1: to try and skip that. I just wanted to make 480 00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:10,280 Speaker 1: sure that we like address the fact that, like there's 481 00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:13,640 Speaker 1: a struggle online to like there's even when you're like online, 482 00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:15,720 Speaker 1: if you want to make the first move, you have 483 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:19,680 Speaker 1: to come with something clever to say. And I'm I'm 484 00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:23,199 Speaker 1: really bad about like feeling like if like I stumble 485 00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:25,280 Speaker 1: upon someone that I want to say hi to, like 486 00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:28,480 Speaker 1: it's usually based on their photo, and what I should 487 00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:31,240 Speaker 1: really do is like take a step back, really read 488 00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:34,200 Speaker 1: what they have to say, and then formulate what I'm 489 00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:38,680 Speaker 1: going to say, you know. But like my experience is, 490 00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:40,359 Speaker 1: I'm I feel like I try to make it like 491 00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:43,000 Speaker 1: too close to what it would be in real life, 492 00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:44,520 Speaker 1: because in real life, it's not like you don't know 493 00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:47,399 Speaker 1: about the person. You can't be like, well, you know, 494 00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:49,560 Speaker 1: I want to that school too, you know, or whatever. 495 00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:51,680 Speaker 1: It is like you know nothing about them but what 496 00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,359 Speaker 1: you can see physically, unless they're wearing a T shirt 497 00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:56,280 Speaker 1: of a band or college or something that you can 498 00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:59,840 Speaker 1: sort of relate to. But um, you know Mary's advice 499 00:26:59,880 --> 00:27:02,720 Speaker 1: for me, it's always like, find something fucking clever to 500 00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:06,080 Speaker 1: say about what they've said, so that they can tell 501 00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:08,520 Speaker 1: that you've invested a little bit of time into them already. 502 00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:11,880 Speaker 1: What's It's always flattering? Listen, everybody loves to talk about 503 00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:15,520 Speaker 1: themselves and to feel like someone saw them right, Like, 504 00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:17,600 Speaker 1: we all want to be seen, and so if you 505 00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:21,679 Speaker 1: can find something, especially if it's like common ground, that 506 00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:23,520 Speaker 1: seems like a good approach to me. I know, like 507 00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:25,480 Speaker 1: for me, if a guy came up to me, and 508 00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:27,800 Speaker 1: or even if I was on a dating app and 509 00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:30,679 Speaker 1: they said something that I had written about instead of 510 00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:36,520 Speaker 1: being like hey, handsome, sorry, that was the person that, um, 511 00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:39,280 Speaker 1: I would be so flattered that they actually took the 512 00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:42,000 Speaker 1: time to pay a little attention to something I said, 513 00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:45,440 Speaker 1: versus like, oh, I think this person is attractive, so 514 00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:47,639 Speaker 1: let me watch out, you know what I mean. I 515 00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:50,199 Speaker 1: was reading in Cosmo because I found an article about this. 516 00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:52,280 Speaker 1: I mean, it's a very common struggle because people are 517 00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:55,200 Speaker 1: just like it's so much pressure. And also like if 518 00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:58,000 Speaker 1: you're out not on an app, you might be like 519 00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:01,520 Speaker 1: unprepared to see somebody that you want to like make 520 00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:06,320 Speaker 1: have a line with, you know. Um they said, sure, 521 00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:09,520 Speaker 1: you could always go with the standard hey with or 522 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:11,760 Speaker 1: like plus a million extra wise to show you're really 523 00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:13,600 Speaker 1: into them, But you really only get one chance to 524 00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:16,080 Speaker 1: send the first text or to say the first sentence 525 00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:18,600 Speaker 1: you really want to impress. While some made choose a 526 00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:20,960 Speaker 1: friendly route. I like to let my crushes know what's 527 00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:23,240 Speaker 1: up via a flirty pickup line right from the beginning. 528 00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:27,000 Speaker 1: So if you're like, all right, yes that let's do this, 529 00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:32,119 Speaker 1: there are okay, here are the best flirty pickup lines 530 00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,119 Speaker 1: to start, So we have a time. Do you have 531 00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:36,480 Speaker 1: this article? Did I send this to you? Um? I 532 00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:38,920 Speaker 1: know you didn't, but I have a few of my own. Okay, 533 00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:42,800 Speaker 1: some of them are really dumb and I can't imagine 534 00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:46,200 Speaker 1: ever saying this to people. Would you ever say this? 535 00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:49,080 Speaker 1: Let me? Maybe this should be our maybe our angle 536 00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:55,320 Speaker 1: should be chips News, Sluter blues A. Uh. This one 537 00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:57,600 Speaker 1: says I believe in following my dreams. Can I have 538 00:28:57,640 --> 00:29:02,360 Speaker 1: your Instagram? Um? Okay, yeah, that one doesn't make sense 539 00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:05,320 Speaker 1: to you. Didn't even laugh now, I'm just like, what 540 00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:09,960 Speaker 1: are dreams and Instagram? Like? Okay, what about this? Well? 541 00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:12,600 Speaker 1: I texted you what are your other two wishes? And 542 00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:18,840 Speaker 1: then the genie emoji? Oh my god, this one so bad. 543 00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:21,400 Speaker 1: I would die if you did this one. So aside 544 00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:23,480 Speaker 1: from taking my breath away, what do you do for 545 00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:29,880 Speaker 1: a living? Does she get paid for taking his breath away? Like? Right, 546 00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:37,560 Speaker 1: so you're already talking through. I'm just like, I'm poking holes. Okay, Um, 547 00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:40,640 Speaker 1: this is dumb too. Are you a keyboard because you're 548 00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:46,240 Speaker 1: just my tech? Got it? You don't even I was thinking. 549 00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:49,080 Speaker 1: I was thinking keyboard like music instrument. I mean, you 550 00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:51,480 Speaker 1: literally don't react, and so that makes me think these 551 00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:54,440 Speaker 1: are all terrible. I mean they kind of are like 552 00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:56,400 Speaker 1: if someone said any of these to me, I would 553 00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:58,880 Speaker 1: look at them like, I know this is an a 554 00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:02,720 Speaker 1: visual platform, but I'm like, I mean he's making he's 555 00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:04,760 Speaker 1: making the eye roll of I would have been like 556 00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:10,280 Speaker 1: this and just turned around. Yeah right, I'm not a 557 00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:13,640 Speaker 1: bitchy Oh my god, yeah right, you'd be like, okay, 558 00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:19,520 Speaker 1: I'd be like you feel like and then I would 559 00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:23,320 Speaker 1: send all of us X It's like hell he said. 560 00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:25,440 Speaker 1: Or you'd give him a hand job under the table. 561 00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:29,120 Speaker 1: Who are you happy? Now? I'll get out of here. 562 00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:34,040 Speaker 1: Do you get what you wanted? Um? Nice little handy? Okay? 563 00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:35,960 Speaker 1: Do you have Do you have a name? You want 564 00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:37,760 Speaker 1: me to save you as in my phone? Or should 565 00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:43,800 Speaker 1: I just put in quotes mine? That's creepy. Also, girls 566 00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:47,440 Speaker 1: would not like that these days. That is like not 567 00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:51,360 Speaker 1: not a woman empowerment move my yours, bitch, um, okay, 568 00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:54,080 Speaker 1: can I save you on my phone? As future? L 569 00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:58,720 Speaker 1: O M L What does that mean? L M L 570 00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:05,000 Speaker 1: l O love of my life? Nailed it? See, I mean, 571 00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:08,240 Speaker 1: but like the fact that you have to think about it, like, yeah, 572 00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:10,360 Speaker 1: I read, can I read a few that I think 573 00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:13,440 Speaker 1: are better? But still corny? You hate mine? Let's see 574 00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:17,720 Speaker 1: what's happening. Like this one's from Elite Singles dot com. 575 00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:20,800 Speaker 1: So these are some what they're elite, so they're probably better. 576 00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:23,320 Speaker 1: They're probably better, you know, Um, yeah, I don't know 577 00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:29,040 Speaker 1: if you have access to this website, but so like 578 00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:31,520 Speaker 1: you could say, is there something wrong with my phone? 579 00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:35,120 Speaker 1: It doesn't have your phone number in it? That's cute. 580 00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:38,040 Speaker 1: I mean, right, that's a good one. Actually, this one's 581 00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:40,120 Speaker 1: a little creepy. Hey, I'm new in town. Could you 582 00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:43,840 Speaker 1: give me directions to your apartment? Grows to what stock me? 583 00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:47,200 Speaker 1: Do even know your name? Yeah, let's start. I'm gonna 584 00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:51,280 Speaker 1: start reacting like I'm okay, okay, hey is your name Google? 585 00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:55,360 Speaker 1: Because you've got everything I'm searching for. That's so douchy 586 00:31:55,520 --> 00:32:00,880 Speaker 1: walk away from me. Oh my god, this is a growth. 587 00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:03,440 Speaker 1: Have you been to the doctor lately? Because I think 588 00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:06,440 Speaker 1: you're lacking some vitamin me. I thought you're about to 589 00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:13,920 Speaker 1: say vitamin D and I was about putting it out there. Okay, 590 00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:16,360 Speaker 1: this one's corny. Hey, my name's Microsoft. Can I crash 591 00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:25,880 Speaker 1: at your place tonight? Let give up? Um? Are you 592 00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:32,680 Speaker 1: a phone charger? Because without you i'd die an Yeah. 593 00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:36,320 Speaker 1: It's like, do you like raisins? You're like no. How 594 00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:40,600 Speaker 1: do you feel about a date? I kind of like 595 00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:42,840 Speaker 1: that one. If it was like if the guy was 596 00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:45,280 Speaker 1: cute and the delivery was good, I think that one 597 00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:48,240 Speaker 1: might get me. How about this one's actually kind of cute, 598 00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:51,680 Speaker 1: so um, yeah, and it's all about the delivery. I 599 00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:54,360 Speaker 1: think for both of these because they actually require responses. 600 00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:56,800 Speaker 1: So you walk up to someone and you say, sorry, 601 00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:59,080 Speaker 1: but you owe me a drink, and then they'll be 602 00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:01,960 Speaker 1: like why and you say, because when I looked at you, 603 00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:06,880 Speaker 1: I dropped mine. That's cute. That's cute for the only 604 00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:08,920 Speaker 1: thing would be like, how many girls did that? Guys 605 00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:10,600 Speaker 1: say that to you would go right? I mean, look, 606 00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:15,120 Speaker 1: I think any sort of pickup line I would be like, oh, 607 00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:17,680 Speaker 1: how yeah, It's like it feels prepared, you know. That's 608 00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:20,440 Speaker 1: why I think it's just like the fact that those 609 00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:24,160 Speaker 1: are all listed as funny, and then they've got a 610 00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:28,120 Speaker 1: cheesy pickup line. What about you're pretty and I'm cute 611 00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:33,440 Speaker 1: Together we make pretty cute. Dumb dumb um? What about 612 00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:35,080 Speaker 1: this one? I'd like to take you to the movies, 613 00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:37,040 Speaker 1: but they don't let you bring in your own snacks? 614 00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:41,720 Speaker 1: Popcorn emoji? Really get the funk out of my face? No, 615 00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:44,800 Speaker 1: that's a text because you just add the emoji, Like 616 00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:47,560 Speaker 1: it's like you're already in conversation. Maybe you like have 617 00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:49,560 Speaker 1: buddied up with this person a little bit and you're like, hey, 618 00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:51,360 Speaker 1: I'd really like to take you in in the movies butt 619 00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:54,200 Speaker 1: or that could be a like a dating app. No, 620 00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:58,160 Speaker 1: it's so cheesy. I would I would literally skive out 621 00:33:58,200 --> 00:33:59,640 Speaker 1: on any of these lines. So I don't know why 622 00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:03,560 Speaker 1: I'm act like they're so great. Yeah, I just like, 623 00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:06,640 Speaker 1: maybe I just hate pickup ones in general, Like they're 624 00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:10,080 Speaker 1: so terrible. I'd say, God bless you. But it looks 625 00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:15,640 Speaker 1: like he already did. Oh mic drop walk away. Oh 626 00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:18,279 Speaker 1: here's here's a corny one. You dropped some ice on 627 00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:19,960 Speaker 1: the floor and you stomp on You say now that 628 00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:23,200 Speaker 1: the ice broke, the ice is broken. What's your name? Okay? 629 00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:26,880 Speaker 1: That's actually pretty good. Yeah, because they'd be like, what 630 00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:29,960 Speaker 1: is this guy doing? But it still feels like it 631 00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:34,400 Speaker 1: would be rehearsed. Mm hmm. Excuse me, do you have 632 00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:38,359 Speaker 1: a band aid? Because I scraped my money falling for you? Dumb? 633 00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:40,640 Speaker 1: How could you fall for somebody you don't know? I 634 00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:45,919 Speaker 1: don't know, I mean somebody's are so Oh I think 635 00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:49,880 Speaker 1: I found the article you're on. Are you alone? Because 636 00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:55,480 Speaker 1: you've got my interest? I mean, here's one that I 637 00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:59,240 Speaker 1: think could work, Like, hey, what's your what's your favorite drink? 638 00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:02,399 Speaker 1: You just walk up to someone and be like, what's 639 00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:06,400 Speaker 1: your favorite? You buy it for him? This is literally 640 00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:08,800 Speaker 1: after you go. My friends tell me I'm too basic 641 00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:21,080 Speaker 1: with my life. Oh god, are you a camera? Because 642 00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:23,279 Speaker 1: every time I look at you, I smile. I think 643 00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:29,640 Speaker 1: my delivery is it's crazy. Yeah, you're like file. Oh 644 00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:32,160 Speaker 1: I'm new to town. Oh look that one and I 645 00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:34,480 Speaker 1: already read that one and it's something different. Look number 646 00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:38,319 Speaker 1: fifty seven saw I wanna on a website called Man 647 00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:40,839 Speaker 1: of Many dot com and it's got like a whole 648 00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:44,360 Speaker 1: list of like great tinder pickup lines. Seven is just 649 00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:49,040 Speaker 1: a blank line. There's nothing there, So what's the line? 650 00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:52,320 Speaker 1: I don't know. It's just blank. So that to that, 651 00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:54,880 Speaker 1: to me is the best pickup line there is there is, 652 00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:58,600 Speaker 1: you know, pickup line. I hope you're I hope you 653 00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:03,879 Speaker 1: know CPR because you're taking my breath away. Aside from 654 00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:06,240 Speaker 1: this is the same kind of thing. Aside from being sexy, 655 00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:09,759 Speaker 1: what do you do for a living girl? If you 656 00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:13,200 Speaker 1: were words on a page, you'd be fine print. Oh 657 00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:16,640 Speaker 1: here's one. Roses are red, your cute as a duck. 658 00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:18,400 Speaker 1: Let's go on a date and then we can cuddle. 659 00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:30,080 Speaker 1: That's my favorite wherever. Oh my god, you can't say 660 00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:34,560 Speaker 1: that as a leading line in the first conversation, maybe 661 00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:36,360 Speaker 1: as you're wrapping it up, or like it kind of 662 00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:38,719 Speaker 1: starting to win before I go. I just want to 663 00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:40,680 Speaker 1: let you know, like I read a little poem for 664 00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:44,200 Speaker 1: you that I'd like to say, roses are red, You're 665 00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:46,600 Speaker 1: cute as a duck. Let's go on a date and 666 00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:53,120 Speaker 1: then we can cuddle. Cuddle. It's so funny because I've 667 00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:56,160 Speaker 1: made up a poem this week on my Instagram. My 668 00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:59,680 Speaker 1: mom is pretty pissed at me. It was a roses 669 00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:02,439 Speaker 1: on one though, and it was I literally set trying 670 00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:05,560 Speaker 1: to figure out a fucking caption. Sometimes the caption game 671 00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:09,120 Speaker 1: is so hard, but it's like it's part of the 672 00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:11,919 Speaker 1: it's part of the Graham. It's just part of the deal. 673 00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:13,560 Speaker 1: I used to be way better at it to you, 674 00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:16,080 Speaker 1: because I would spend time really thoughtfully picking out of 675 00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:18,880 Speaker 1: caption and I got over it. But I just decided 676 00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:20,880 Speaker 1: to do it. So I said, roses are red, my 677 00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:24,960 Speaker 1: dress is nude. Captions are hard, and so is that dude. 678 00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:30,600 Speaker 1: You could have been talking about a hard body, but 679 00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:34,440 Speaker 1: I wasn't. So that's because of you. That's because of 680 00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:38,279 Speaker 1: your nude outfit. Almost that so is my So is 681 00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:40,239 Speaker 1: my dude, And I was like, oh god, he'll kill me. 682 00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:46,640 Speaker 1: So maybe anyway, I think I think it's caption gown. 683 00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:49,640 Speaker 1: We're getting off topic, but like, I think caption ng 684 00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:52,680 Speaker 1: is a art It truly is an art form. That's 685 00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:55,800 Speaker 1: why some people are influencers. Seriously, they're good at captains, 686 00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:58,719 Speaker 1: like they're not good at anything else in life. The captions, well, yeah, 687 00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:02,600 Speaker 1: maybe like or or you look at like the moist 688 00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:09,440 Speaker 1: Buddha or um or um fat Jewish. It's like anyone 689 00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:13,000 Speaker 1: can steal those memes and and post them. What makes 690 00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:15,560 Speaker 1: it truly funny is what they write about it. YEA, 691 00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:19,279 Speaker 1: so true, It's so true. It's a good Well, all 692 00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:21,080 Speaker 1: of this to say is we do feel you, guys, 693 00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:22,840 Speaker 1: paying if you're out there and really struggling in the 694 00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:25,279 Speaker 1: dating world, I would love some stories about this one. 695 00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:28,000 Speaker 1: This seems like a great listener email topic. If you've 696 00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:31,000 Speaker 1: had some funny pickup line said to you, or if 697 00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:36,040 Speaker 1: you yourself are the deliverer of great, fantastic funny pickup lines, 698 00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:38,440 Speaker 1: please shoot tomorrow way. You can email us at the 699 00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:41,560 Speaker 1: edge at velvet edge dot com. I'm on Instagram at 700 00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:46,600 Speaker 1: Velvet's Edge Chip. I've got some messages that people say 701 00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:48,560 Speaker 1: that they sing along with us now or it's in 702 00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:55,560 Speaker 1: their head r D R s h um. Yeah, if 703 00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:59,720 Speaker 1: anyone has a pickup line that worked, either on them 704 00:38:59,840 --> 00:39:02,520 Speaker 1: or for those I want to know it, and I 705 00:39:02,520 --> 00:39:07,239 Speaker 1: want to know the context of it because okay, yeah, 706 00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:09,720 Speaker 1: or like what if people got married after a cheesy 707 00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:13,520 Speaker 1: pickup line. I need to know these stories. Yeah, because 708 00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:16,080 Speaker 1: I mean, maybe I'm just sucking jaded and I need 709 00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:19,960 Speaker 1: to like say something corny. But like, honestly, if I 710 00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:22,319 Speaker 1: said any of these except for that cuddle one, to 711 00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:27,160 Speaker 1: anybody and it worked, I'd be like just kidding, not interesting. Yeah, 712 00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:28,560 Speaker 1: you wouldn't be able to do it. You know what. 713 00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:31,200 Speaker 1: I was just gonna say to you, though, You know what? 714 00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:35,040 Speaker 1: You smell like the success whatever did he said? Like 715 00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:38,360 Speaker 1: anything's possible? Like you truly are terrible at these I 716 00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:42,840 Speaker 1: feel like you smell You smell like cigarettes and regret. Listen, hey, girl, 717 00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:48,600 Speaker 1: like you smell like nothing is impossible. Okay, okay, don't 718 00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:53,320 Speaker 1: get it. Don't you forget it. I smell like sharmon. 719 00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:57,640 Speaker 1: What's that? Actually a smell like ax body spray? Okay, 720 00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:05,120 Speaker 1: A lot is impossible? Not wearing and gobana. Okay, that's 721 00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:10,800 Speaker 1: like curve. Okay, I gotta gust curb like that drug store. 722 00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:14,160 Speaker 1: Did you guys not wear curb in high school? Yes, 723 00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:17,520 Speaker 1: that's how I said it was. That's a lady spread 724 00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:20,879 Speaker 1: and gobon No, it's actually not. There's curve for men. 725 00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:25,799 Speaker 1: But oh well, whatever, nothing is impossible. Okay. Um? Do 726 00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:28,000 Speaker 1: you want to read a couple more emails from our 727 00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:30,399 Speaker 1: friends who wrote in about the vaccine. This one's called 728 00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:33,520 Speaker 1: vaccine Pray. That's from Shannon. She says, Hi, y'all, I 729 00:40:33,560 --> 00:40:36,359 Speaker 1: just wanted to give a quick, but giant thank you 730 00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:38,960 Speaker 1: for using your platform. To share the importance of getting 731 00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:41,959 Speaker 1: the vaccine. First. At first, I was like, oh man, 732 00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:44,400 Speaker 1: this isn't the normal edge type drama. But then I 733 00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:46,720 Speaker 1: realized how big of a platform you have you should 734 00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:49,480 Speaker 1: be talking about getting the vaccine. Thanks for spreading the 735 00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:52,160 Speaker 1: word to your people. I'm an elementary school counselor and 736 00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:55,160 Speaker 1: really grateful that you brought up the vulnerability that kids 737 00:40:55,200 --> 00:41:00,880 Speaker 1: are facing. Keep it Edgy, Shannon, love you, Shanna Lovia Shannon. 738 00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:03,040 Speaker 1: I am truly worried about the kids personally. I mean 739 00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:06,000 Speaker 1: there and it's just like we're like, oh, well, they're 740 00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:08,040 Speaker 1: used to wearing the mask, but it's such a bummer man, 741 00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:10,760 Speaker 1: and they're about to start school and it's like really 742 00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:14,640 Speaker 1: amping up again. It feels like pretty sad. They're gonna 743 00:41:14,640 --> 00:41:16,560 Speaker 1: need pickup lines because you weren't gonna be able to 744 00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:21,279 Speaker 1: see their faces. What would you I was literally about 745 00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:23,400 Speaker 1: to say to you, Oh yeah, what would your mask 746 00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:28,759 Speaker 1: pick up lind being there's there are some that used 747 00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:33,160 Speaker 1: to be about like, um something about like hey, I'd 748 00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:35,080 Speaker 1: love to see the bottom of your face. I mean 749 00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:38,319 Speaker 1: it's like so not sexy. It's like, hey, let's go 750 00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:41,040 Speaker 1: somewhere and show each other the bottoms of our faces. 751 00:41:41,719 --> 00:41:44,720 Speaker 1: That's like what you deal with. I forget about your pennies, 752 00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:52,879 Speaker 1: pulled down your mask one. Wow, you should start to Yeah, 753 00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:57,600 Speaker 1: let's if we ever make merch, maybe we can make 754 00:41:57,640 --> 00:42:01,799 Speaker 1: that a shirt. This one comes from Carrie and she said, 755 00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:04,319 Speaker 1: just finished this week's Edge, and I'm literally screaming at 756 00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:06,319 Speaker 1: the phone in agreement with you and Chip. I'm so 757 00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:09,200 Speaker 1: disappointed in people I gave mask or the vaccine. I 758 00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:12,120 Speaker 1: never gave Mask or the vaccine a second thought. I 759 00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:14,200 Speaker 1: took it as my part of being a good human 760 00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:16,640 Speaker 1: and doing my part. And I'm like Chip, now I'm pissed. 761 00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:24,120 Speaker 1: Great show as always anything. No, I'm just like, I'm 762 00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:28,239 Speaker 1: surprised we didn't get I'm surprised we didn't get one. No. 763 00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:31,200 Speaker 1: I love the podcast today. This comes from Harmony. I 764 00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:33,920 Speaker 1: like that you and Chip aren't afraid to tackle serious topics. 765 00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:35,880 Speaker 1: It's nice to hear from people in different states. I'm 766 00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:39,840 Speaker 1: from Colorado. Also, bum seven Piece got canceled as too, 767 00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:46,560 Speaker 1: but that ties into today's episode. Um this says is 768 00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:49,120 Speaker 1: from Christina. I just listened to your podcast about the vaccine. 769 00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:51,560 Speaker 1: I'm so fired up. Right now, I'm pregnant and doing 770 00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:54,200 Speaker 1: a few weeks. Luckily, most of my immediate family and 771 00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:57,239 Speaker 1: close friends are all vaccinated, but my sister in law 772 00:42:57,320 --> 00:42:59,920 Speaker 1: will not get it. I don't understand her reasons, as 773 00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:02,359 Speaker 1: everyone seems too scared to ask her. But she's also 774 00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:05,319 Speaker 1: has a baby. I'm so frustrated and I don't want 775 00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:08,879 Speaker 1: her around me while I'm pregnant or my baby once 776 00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:11,279 Speaker 1: he's born. But I'm feeling like I'm going to be 777 00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:14,040 Speaker 1: causing drama whenever I say it. My husband agrees with 778 00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:16,040 Speaker 1: the way that I feel, but won't stand up to 779 00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:18,640 Speaker 1: his family and set boundaries. Thank you for using your 780 00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:20,839 Speaker 1: platform to be honest and try to smack some sense 781 00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:31,520 Speaker 1: into everyone refusing. Oh it is a tough one. Um. 782 00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:34,360 Speaker 1: I got a d M from Karen fear Child. You know, 783 00:43:34,560 --> 00:43:37,520 Speaker 1: you know, she's like my biggest girl crush, and and 784 00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:39,759 Speaker 1: she was she was saying the same thing. Basically, she 785 00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:42,040 Speaker 1: was like, I'm so proud of you guys. It's so 786 00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:44,160 Speaker 1: hard to talk about, but somebody's got to do it. 787 00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:48,480 Speaker 1: So yeah, you know, I think it's like now is 788 00:43:48,520 --> 00:43:51,440 Speaker 1: really the moment and this whole thing, Like I feel 789 00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:54,680 Speaker 1: like when we had the first lockdown, like yeah, none 790 00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:57,000 Speaker 1: of us knew what we were doing, and we kind 791 00:43:57,040 --> 00:44:00,399 Speaker 1: of like figured out our pods based on like really 792 00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:02,480 Speaker 1: our needs, you know, like what we were going to 793 00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:04,600 Speaker 1: have to do on the daily and that kind of thing. 794 00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:08,680 Speaker 1: And right now I feel like people are cutting people 795 00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:10,839 Speaker 1: out of their lives over this ship because you just 796 00:44:10,920 --> 00:44:12,919 Speaker 1: have to to protect yourself and to protect the people 797 00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:15,319 Speaker 1: around you that you love. And I think sadly we're 798 00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:17,040 Speaker 1: going to see a lot of friendships end over this, 799 00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:19,400 Speaker 1: you know, I mean, right, haven't we already? This has 800 00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:22,279 Speaker 1: been such a polarizing couple of years, and I think 801 00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:25,200 Speaker 1: that it's been so divisive. We talked about that ton 802 00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:28,040 Speaker 1: on this podcast, but it's like, it's actually really sad 803 00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:32,200 Speaker 1: to me how divided we are that we cannot find 804 00:44:32,280 --> 00:44:36,239 Speaker 1: some middle ground to even just here the conversations, you know, 805 00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:40,000 Speaker 1: and have the conversations with each other. And I don't know, 806 00:44:40,080 --> 00:44:42,040 Speaker 1: I mean, you just said something about like we didn't 807 00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:43,520 Speaker 1: know what we were doing, and I don't know that 808 00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:46,480 Speaker 1: we have it all figured out, and we're not trying 809 00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:48,520 Speaker 1: to sit here and say that we do. And so 810 00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:51,560 Speaker 1: let it, let's not get that twisted ever. I just 811 00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:54,279 Speaker 1: know that I'm trying to take every step that I 812 00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:59,000 Speaker 1: possibly can to do my part and try to protect 813 00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:01,680 Speaker 1: those that I know around on me that are high risk. Um, 814 00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:03,919 Speaker 1: I also don't want to get it again. If you've 815 00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:05,880 Speaker 1: gotten it, you're like, I don't want that again, Like 816 00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:09,440 Speaker 1: that is not fun. And I survived and I feel grateful, 817 00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:12,840 Speaker 1: but it's over and it was not fun and definitely 818 00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:16,720 Speaker 1: like isolating sucks, so I don't want to do it. 819 00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:19,879 Speaker 1: To clarify my point, I think we are coming into 820 00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:22,000 Speaker 1: it with a little bit more information, Like we now 821 00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:25,000 Speaker 1: the vaccine is available. Before it wasn't, so it was 822 00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:27,560 Speaker 1: like we kind of had to just like pick the 823 00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:31,120 Speaker 1: people that like we needed we thought we were going 824 00:45:31,160 --> 00:45:32,719 Speaker 1: to need to see the most, you know, whether it 825 00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:35,040 Speaker 1: was like based on like well our kids are friends 826 00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:36,880 Speaker 1: and they go to the same school, so like a 827 00:45:36,960 --> 00:45:40,200 Speaker 1: study group or work or just single friends that like 828 00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:42,719 Speaker 1: knew they were going to need companionship through it. But 829 00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:45,680 Speaker 1: now it's like we have some data, like we know 830 00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:47,600 Speaker 1: how shitty it is to get it, we know how 831 00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:49,840 Speaker 1: we don't want it, Like we know that they're vaccines 832 00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:52,640 Speaker 1: that are available, so we can sort of choose those 833 00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:55,359 Speaker 1: groups differently this time. I think that's right. I think 834 00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:58,520 Speaker 1: that's right. Yeah, Well, you got to keep the emails coming. 835 00:45:58,560 --> 00:46:02,040 Speaker 1: We love hearing from you all. We uh, we did 836 00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:05,000 Speaker 1: a good job of delivering information again this week. And 837 00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:07,000 Speaker 1: if you don't feel like you did, you can also 838 00:46:07,080 --> 00:46:11,200 Speaker 1: messages that I'm not sure we'll read it, but I 839 00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:13,759 Speaker 1: want to know. I do to. Actually I do too. 840 00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:15,120 Speaker 1: I don't want to be that person. I want to 841 00:46:15,160 --> 00:46:17,520 Speaker 1: hear about it, and I mean, let's talk about it. 842 00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:21,400 Speaker 1: I've had friends who disagree and we've been able to 843 00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:23,480 Speaker 1: have conversations until it's the point where we're like, okay, 844 00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:27,360 Speaker 1: we should just stop talking about this. Well. Yeah. The 845 00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:29,080 Speaker 1: reason why I said I was surprised we didn't get 846 00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:31,759 Speaker 1: any negative is because I feel like the people that 847 00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:36,680 Speaker 1: like troll, they look for stuff like this, just argue 848 00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:39,040 Speaker 1: about I saw me the other day that like slayed me. 849 00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:42,200 Speaker 1: It was like, um, if you He's like, if you 850 00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:45,440 Speaker 1: really want to piss some people off, like post something 851 00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:49,280 Speaker 1: that's political, let those people like argue back and forth 852 00:46:49,320 --> 00:46:50,759 Speaker 1: for a few hours about it, like with their long 853 00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:56,840 Speaker 1: diye drives, and then just delete the post. That would literally, 854 00:46:57,120 --> 00:47:00,640 Speaker 1: I mean that's like break the internet. Just waste waste 855 00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:04,800 Speaker 1: people's time. Yes, oh my god, start doing that. Ship 856 00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:08,279 Speaker 1: all right, you guys. Email us at the Edge at 857 00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:10,319 Speaker 1: velvets sedge dot com. We'll be back next week with 858 00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:12,960 Speaker 1: an all new episode. Hit us up on Instagram at 859 00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:16,640 Speaker 1: Velvet Sedge, Chip is at chip doorsh everyone knows how 860 00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:21,160 Speaker 1: to spell it by this point. We love talking to 861 00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:23,080 Speaker 1: you guys. Thank you Agains for so much for all 862 00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:26,360 Speaker 1: the feedback last week and keep it coming. And also 863 00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:29,120 Speaker 1: while you're out this weekend and you're living on the edge, 864 00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:34,000 Speaker 1: always remember I feel like I'm getting really good at this. 865 00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:38,120 Speaker 1: You are like that was the first try. Well after 866 00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:43,560 Speaker 1: okay okay, okay okay, bye bye