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Speaker 1: All right, Steve. This is from RJ on Steve BARBFM

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Speaker 1: dot com, and RJ says, about six months ago, I

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Speaker 1: ended things with my fiance. We clearly weren't on the

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Speaker 1: same page about what we wanted for our future and

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Speaker 1: with something we both agreed on. My ex was friends

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Speaker 1: with my mama, and I think my mom took the

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Speaker 1: break up harder than either of us. Just because my

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Speaker 1: ex and I are still on friendly terms, though, doesn't

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Speaker 1: mean I want to spend Christmas with her and watch

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Speaker 1: my mama try to plot and plea for us to

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Speaker 1: get back together. I'm not trying to hear that. I'm

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Speaker 1: not trying to.

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Speaker 2: Hear that at all.

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Speaker 1: Well, my mama invited us, invited her over for the holiday,

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Speaker 1: and it would be just the three of us. I

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Speaker 1: really don't want to go now, but I also don't

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Speaker 1: want to ruin my mom's holiday. I just wish she'd

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Speaker 1: be more respectful of what's been going on in my life.

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Speaker 1: Is there a right way to handle this?

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Speaker 2: Just the three of us?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 3: No, you try just the three of us?

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Speaker 2: You? Oh, that's right, you're doing mama doing so it's

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Speaker 2: just three of them over the.

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Speaker 1: House him his accent his mom. I ain't gone, so

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Speaker 1: you're not gonna go see your mama for Christmas time?

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Speaker 2: I see mama before that. I ain't going over there.

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Speaker 2: You gotta go see mama on Christmas. I gotta go

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Speaker 2: there at six o'clock in the morning. Then I got

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Speaker 2: to get out of there for that woman. Get over there?

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Speaker 1: What did you say your FaceTime?

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Speaker 2: FaceTime work shall smell good?

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Speaker 1: And then mama, look at it.

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Speaker 2: I can't go over there. What I mean?

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Speaker 3: You gotta go see your mama on Christmas? Your mama

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Speaker 3: that invited her? She coming.

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Speaker 2: Man, you finish, have a bad Christmas?

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Speaker 3: Though, bad Christmas just to get ugly at your house.

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Speaker 1: God said here in the excerp are friendly? He did

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Speaker 1: say that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well see, but they friendly. Stop saying you friendly

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Speaker 3: with your ex and you really not. If y'all was friendly,

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Speaker 3: y'all going to do Christmas at your mama's house. Why

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Speaker 3: don't you tell the truth. You don't want to see

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Speaker 3: her no more.

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Speaker 2: Now. You just broke up without hating each other and

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Speaker 2: wanting to kill each other.

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Speaker 3: That's all you did. But that don't mean you're friendly.

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Speaker 3: Stop all this friendly talk make me sick. Tell the truth.

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Speaker 3: Y'all broke up because y'all wasn't compatible and you don't

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Speaker 3: like her no more and she don't like you.

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Speaker 2: That's the truth.

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Speaker 3: Everybody, Quit trying to act like y'all a celebrity couple.

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Speaker 2: Wheel and Jada, y'all staying together.

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Speaker 3: Hell, y'all trying to be that fault break up. Okay,

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Speaker 3: it's on friendly terms. You don't want over mama house house.

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Speaker 3: That was on friendly terms. They have Christmas together?

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Speaker 1: Okay, what should he do?

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Speaker 2: Try? I don't.

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Speaker 3: Don't.

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Speaker 2: You have messed up Christmas? And that's it.

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Speaker 3: Going over to your mama's house and act friendly. You

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Speaker 3: just said y'all was friendly. Going over there and be friendly.

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Speaker 3: Take that new girl hollering that over there with you

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Speaker 3: so you can see how friendly y'all really are. Because

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Speaker 3: that's what he That's why he can't stand because he

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Speaker 3: just he'd have moved on. He got somebody else. He

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Speaker 3: ain't put that in a letter Christmas. Don't take that

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Speaker 3: new girl over there. He don't want to because he

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Speaker 3: was gonna bring this other girl.

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Speaker 2: Over in mama house. Okay, I's gonna be crowded, four people.

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Speaker 2: Just f.

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Speaker 3: We can make it if you try. Just three and high,

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Speaker 3: no time for tears, wasted waters, all that, and it

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Speaker 3: don't make no flowers grow.

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Speaker 2: That's for the lady that say, I can't say I

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Speaker 2: know that, but.

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Speaker 1: It's how you feel about the songs.

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Speaker 2: You say yes cashing it just the two of us, that.

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Speaker 1: Is, well, you should tell us, You should tell us X.

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Speaker 2: Months to go. Oh no, oh no no, remember your friend.

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