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Speaker 1: Second date up dated. Normally, when we hear about amazing

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it costs tons of money because.

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Speaker 1: The two of them just, you know, couldn't bring themselves

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: I mean at first something for me, I can squeeze

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Speaker 3: Hey, thanks for having me. I know the way you

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Speaker 3: set that up sound really extra.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, is that you sound pretty extra in dramatic for sure? Connor?

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Speaker 2: Do you not stand by Jeff's statement?

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Speaker 3: I mean, look, I mean, if I'm on this show,

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Speaker 3: I have to be at least a little bit. Normally

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Speaker 2: And grow.

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Speaker 1: Yeah exactly. So tell us about this woman who just

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Speaker 3: Her name is Renee?

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, and how'd you meet.

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Speaker 3: Her the most romantic way possible? Online? Of course?

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Speaker 3: Don't believe I love that first sight or anything like

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Speaker 1: What did you love so much about her?

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Speaker 3: I saw her picture and you know, obviously I caught

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, not a mom Okay, who was it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So I reached out and I was like, hey,

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Speaker 1: Yes, and where do we ask her out to?

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Speaker 3: I decided to take her to one of my favorite bakeries.

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Speaker 2: A first day without alcohol. I don't mean to be

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Speaker 1: It just for me, How was it for you?

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Speaker 3: I'll have you know that wine can't take the edge

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Speaker 3: off nearly as good as my favorite bakery's amazing maple bars.

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Speaker 3: So we have that going forehead.

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Speaker 1: What was it like when you first saw her? Like?

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Speaker 4: Okay, I gotta say, you know, Jeff set this up

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Speaker 4: Sounds like it's like something like Brooke and I would

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Speaker 1: to salvage it. That's our job. Yeah, we'll play a song.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, yeah, figures wrong.

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Speaker 1: We're in the middle of a second date update with Connor,

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Speaker 1: who says he doesn't really believe in love at first sight,

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Speaker 1: Because he took Rene to bakery where they make the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't afford to listeners so good. The whole

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm the same. There's optimism over here.

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Speaker 2: You know, my thought is, I don't know if you

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Speaker 4: Is that maybe just she found a couple other dudes

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Speaker 1: Mean, thanks for putting such a positive spin on this

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Speaker 2: And that's where we come in to really sell Connor.

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Speaker 1: Here we go.

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Speaker 6: I'm dialing your number right now. Hello, Hey, is this Renee?

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Speaker 1: This is she May is calling you May and I

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Speaker 1: I'd like to set it up. You're on the radio

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Speaker 2: Jeff I don't know anymore.

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Speaker 5: I don't sorry, I don't like. I don't know your show.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, comedy, we're quirky and weird. I'll just get to

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Speaker 1: it because we're doing something right now called the Second

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Speaker 1: Date Update, and we're looking to help one of our listeners, Connor,

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Speaker 1: get back in touch with you.

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Speaker 2: Have you heard our podcast or you last laughing?

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Speaker 5: Wait? Wait wait wait wait wait wait you talked to him?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Wait, he doesn't know.

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Speaker 6: He doesn't know what, don't know what.

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Speaker 5: I honestly like, I don't know what to say other

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Speaker 5: than he is the most crueless guy in the entire world,

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Speaker 5: like I love. I told all my friends about our date,

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Speaker 1: Your friends, Like, we're talking about a thirty minute coffee

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Speaker 5: It's the same, It's Connor. But maybe I'm gonna paint

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Speaker 5: and he invited me to go to a bakery. At

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Speaker 5: the name of that person?

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Speaker 2: Uh, don't tell me.

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Speaker 5: Connor.

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Speaker 2: Wait it's the same due.

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Speaker 5: So yes, I have been out with Connor, the same

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Speaker 5: Connor you're talking about, on the exact same bakery date

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Speaker 5: three and a half years ago.

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Speaker 4: Wait wait, wait, when did you realize it was the

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Speaker 5: Like when we matched? How do you not remember going

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Speaker 2: Did you go through with it? Then?

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Speaker 4: If you knew you had already been on a date

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Speaker 5: Because I genuinely thought it was a joke and that

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Speaker 1: Oh you thought he was setting you up to.

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Speaker 2: Be like okay, because you thought he remembered too.

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Speaker 5: I just went along with it.

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Speaker 1: It was the second time, at least better both dates.

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Speaker 5: It was the exact same conversation, Like, I already know

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Speaker 5: his favorite book, it's Laughter House five, It's a favorite movie,

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Speaker 5: Sean of the Dead.

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Speaker 2: You have a good memory.

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Speaker 5: I even know also about his five year plan to

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Speaker 5: a half years.

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Speaker 1: Ago, master, though he's got a year to half left.

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Speaker 5: Oh one more thing. The first time that we did

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Speaker 4: Three years ago he ghosted you, and this time he has.

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Speaker 4: I mean, he's describing you as like this amazing woman

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and don't just take it from us. Connor is

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Speaker 3: You're joking. This can't be real.

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Speaker 5: There's Connor, Connor, how many women have you taken to

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Speaker 5: that bakery over the years, like three hundred four hundred?

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Speaker 3: Like, oh my gosh, look it's not that many, but

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Speaker 3: it's my favorite first date spot.

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Speaker 5: I wait, but you even made the same joke, Like

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Speaker 5: me back for that maple board joke? You?

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Speaker 1: Connor? You don't remember her at all.

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Speaker 3: Look, I told you I knew she seven familiar. I

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Speaker 5: Means familiarity and like, actually, like our first date, we

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 3: I hate to ask this, but are you sure it

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Speaker 2: Connor is.

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Speaker 5: One hundred percent positive?

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Speaker 1: Connor? Is that your favorite movie?

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Speaker 4: Bro?

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Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, joke, it's not even a good joke.

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Speaker 4: This is when you start apologizing, buddy, Like she's mad

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Speaker 4: you ghosted her the first.

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Speaker 2: Time, and then you didn't even remember her the second time.

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Speaker 2: Like it's kind of insult to injury.

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Speaker 3: I mean, look, I'm not trying to make it excuses

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Speaker 3: a long time. I've matured a lot since then, and

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Speaker 3: I'm sure a lot of people have. I'm older, I'm wiser.

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Speaker 3: I apologize since very much. So, look I noticed you.

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Speaker 3: I'm so sorry. I was clearly an idiot then, I'm

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Speaker 3: clearly an idiot now.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: But the fact that he had the wherewithal to reach

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Speaker 1: shows the personal growth that he's made in that time.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it was an honest mistake.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I know, I get that. I'm just I'm kind

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Speaker 1: Like, I'm I think you're being a little bit too

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Speaker 1: judgmental because you're hungry and what you need is another man,

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Speaker 1: I think, So I think you could get another mouth.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna see what a great guy Connor is. And

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Speaker 1: we'd like to put that maple bar in there and

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Speaker 1: send you on another date.

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Speaker 4: I'll just say, Renee, I am terrible remembering faces.

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Speaker 5: And yeah, but it was It's not even about that.

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Speaker 5: It was the exact same date. It was the exact

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Speaker 5: same conversation.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. But it's like a movie that you love so

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Speaker 1: much you just want to watch it over.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. It's actually nothing like that, though.

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Speaker 1: And I still think you should give another shot, and

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Speaker 1: this time you can do a totally different place, a

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Speaker 1: whole new conversation. He'll ask about your favorite exercise activity, Connor.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, all right, there you go.

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Speaker 2: Not a really strong argument.

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Speaker 1: It's a yes from Connor. Renee, what do you say?

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Speaker 5: I wish you nothing but the best, Connor. But like

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Speaker 5: I'm I don't want to ghost you the way you

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Speaker 5: ghosted me. So I'm just going to tell you straight

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Speaker 5: up that I'm not interested.

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Speaker 3: Okay, dude, I mean, hopefully three and a half years

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Speaker 3: from now, she'll forget about this. We can try again.

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Speaker 1: Set alarm, buddy, You'll be in here for you. It's

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Speaker 1: brooking Jeffrey in the morning.