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Speaker 1: Calling all my sweeties to the floor front. I'm your host,

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Speaker 1: Christopher Man and this is the Keep It Positive Sweetie Show.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the Keep It Positive Sweetie Show, the place

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Speaker 2: where we he'll grow and learn together. This week's guest

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Speaker 2: is a multi hyphen fashion designer, wellness advocate, and serial entrepreneur,

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Speaker 2: Jordan Woods. Jordan Woods has been a powerhouse in the

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Speaker 2: world of fashion, beauty and wellness, and her authenticity and

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Speaker 2: strength continues to inspire so many. She is someone who

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Speaker 2: has faced challenges head on and turn them into opportunities,

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Speaker 2: all while keeping it real and staying true to herself.

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Speaker 2: Kid's Family Jordan Woods, Jordan, thank you so much for

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Speaker 2: coming in.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for having me.

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Speaker 2: Yes, seriously, when I got the calls like absolutely.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, I'm excited.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. I appreciate it. We first met lasts about

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Speaker 1: a year ago.

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Speaker 2: I had to sing the national anthem for the Minnesota Timberwolves.

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Speaker 1: Yes, the Dallas series.

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Speaker 3: Yet actually that was a crazy series, ma'am. That was insane.

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Speaker 2: Here was the fans are like, I've never seen fans

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Speaker 2: crazier than the Minnesota fans.

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Speaker 1: Really, Oh my gosh, Well, Warriors fans are crazy.

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Speaker 3: You have to get to the Dallas game because it

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Speaker 3: was Dallas fans are crazy actually Boston Dallas Madison Square Garden.

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Speaker 2: Yes, oh yes, you've gotten to see that too. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so yeah, So those are the craziest ones that you've seen.

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Speaker 2: That's the craziest ones I've seen, yuse, I.

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Speaker 1: Haven't been to Boston yet.

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Speaker 2: I've heard about them and actual when we play Boston,

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Speaker 2: they travel there fans.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, the fans travel and the next next fans

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Speaker 3: they're everywhere Boston. From my experience, they went for the

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Speaker 3: first time and they were crazy.

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Speaker 1: They're really crazy. I could imagine.

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Speaker 3: It's intimidating girl.

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Speaker 1: So you being like a basketball players girlfriend, how is that? Like?

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Speaker 2: Do they like are they do they say stuff like

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Speaker 2: do you ever hear them talk about behind you?

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Speaker 3: Like you're like, hey, you know what sports fans are

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Speaker 3: going to be?

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Speaker 1: What it is?

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Speaker 3: It's one of those arguments never win because they're willing

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Speaker 3: to take whatever shots just to try to get under

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Speaker 3: that person's skin. So do I turn and look? Yes?

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Speaker 3: Do I react? I try not to, But when I

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Speaker 3: get to the games, I feel like a lot of people,

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Speaker 3: some people will come up to me and be like

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Speaker 3: I came here to see you or to hope to

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Speaker 3: see you, which I'm always surprised because I'm like, I

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Speaker 3: don't even know, like for what George Woods. But no,

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Speaker 3: it's really it's really fun. I try not to be

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Speaker 3: reactive because I realized it's one of those things.

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Speaker 1: You won't win that battle, you know. That's so true.

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Speaker 3: I always want to go on Twitter. I want to,

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Speaker 3: and I'm just like, let me hold back.

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Speaker 2: I'm just not Yes, we're gonna get to that someone

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Speaker 2: to talk about, like just even social media, because for me,

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Speaker 2: it's hard me not to react. And sometimes I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I got time today.

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Speaker 3: When I have too much time, I put my phone away.

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Speaker 1: Yeah smart, Yeah, because it just gets so sticky.

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Speaker 2: I feel, yes, and it will get you in trouble,

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Speaker 2: that's for sure. Your father in love is a big

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Speaker 2: fan and one of my shows. And when I came to.

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Speaker 1: The gate, he was like, I thought that was you.

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Speaker 2: So when I got to meet she said I want

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Speaker 2: to at the Jordan, I'm like, okay, let me go

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Speaker 2: meet her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. And you and your mom just first of all,

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Speaker 1: your mom looks like your sister.

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Speaker 3: No, she gets sut so she gets out all the time.

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Speaker 3: She gets up more than she doesn't get that. I

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Speaker 3: can imagine she's like the triplets, you know, and we're

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Speaker 1: It's just stunning. Seriously, thank you.

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Speaker 3: So sweets strong.

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Speaker 1: Yes, they are, they really are.

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Speaker 2: So I want to talk to you about just the

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Speaker 2: diverse career that you built from modeling, entertainment, and entrepreneurship.

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Speaker 2: You were raised in Los Angeles, California, and then you

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Speaker 2: moved to Calabasas at a young age, was how were

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Speaker 3: Honestly, I always grew up in California, and I always

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Speaker 3: grew up within like ten minutes from Calabasa.

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Speaker 1: So that's got it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, it's always kind of been in the same vicinity.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, how was that.

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Speaker 2: Growing up just like because your father worked in the industry,

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Speaker 2: how was that just growing up inside that at a

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Speaker 3: I think it creates a jaded perception of things. You

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Speaker 3: seen that, done that. Sometimes, that perception of reality of

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Speaker 3: what's real or what's not. When you take a step out,

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Speaker 3: you're like, wait, what's going on? Because but you appreciate

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Speaker 3: things differently, I think once you leave. For me, I

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Speaker 3: moved to London, I moved to New York. I lived

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Speaker 3: in different places, so I got to appreciate.

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Speaker 1: One.

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Speaker 3: I appreciate home for the weather and my lifestyle, my

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Speaker 3: family's there. But two, like I appreciate the realness of

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Speaker 3: somewhere like New York. Where LA people might smile in

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Speaker 3: your face and don't really like you, But in New York,

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Speaker 3: it's like, if I'm smiling in your face, it's because

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Speaker 3: I actually like you. But it's like I love the

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Speaker 3: lifestyle of because I feel like I'm more healthy and

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Speaker 3: it's more focused on wellness and you can be outside

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Speaker 3: and you have space, and like, you go to other

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Speaker 1: Food is too good. Listen Atlanta, Atlanta.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, the food is very flavorful of salty, fattening

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Speaker 2: and it's amazing, but we're not as heale conscious. That's

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Speaker 2: why I love, like when I go to LA or Miami,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's why I feel in La, I just I

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Speaker 3: don't know. Also it's because my family's there, but you

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Speaker 3: feeling like I had to work and just had like

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Speaker 2: Was there ever moment because you still at such a

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Speaker 3: You kind of get into the survival mode. And it

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Speaker 1: But at the same time.

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Speaker 3: My dad worked his entire life, he worked on he's

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Speaker 3: And just because you're around people who have certain things

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Speaker 3: I just always had that mindset of like, Okay, what

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Speaker 1: How am I going to make it happen?

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Speaker 3: I do have the privilege of the platforms and the

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Speaker 3: So I don't discredit that whatsoever. But I started working

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Speaker 2: I had to beg my dad to get a job

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Speaker 2: when I was fifteen. He was like, all right, you

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Speaker 2: like Crystal, you work like there's no tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, it's just in me. I have that

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well I'll go crazy if I do. If I'm

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Speaker 3: I'm like, all right, can I reorganize my closet? Like?

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Speaker 3: What can I do? Can I clean the kitchen?

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Speaker 1: Can I? I don't. I think it's just.

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Speaker 3: Like a mental health thing for me, which also could

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Speaker 3: drive you crazy if you don't have time and stillness

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So it's about finding the balance because I'm struggling. I'm

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Speaker 3: finding the balance right now, though.

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Speaker 1: Are you?

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Speaker 2: You have a lot of things going on with so

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Speaker 2: much I want you said something moving.

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Speaker 1: You went to London? Where else do you? New York

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Speaker 1: and New York? So what was it? Like? What prompt

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Speaker 3: Yeah? So when I turned eighteen, like a month after

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Speaker 3: it wasn't even something I was really looking to pursue.

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Speaker 3: It kind of found me. My agent at the time

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Speaker 3: I thought it was a fraud. So I was like, Mom,

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Speaker 3: didn't go to college, but for me, those life experiences

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Speaker 3: one day, just because I always had this dream of

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Speaker 3: going to Stanford.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I just visited Stanford.

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Speaker 3: How did you like it?

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Speaker 1: I didn't even get to it. I haven't even been

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Speaker 1: there yet. Oh, the campus is stunning. I actually went

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Speaker 1: with Essay latter. We went to the center and learned

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Speaker 3: Oh, I need to go there.

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Speaker 1: No, it was the campus is stunned. What did you learn?

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Speaker 1: I learned so much.

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Speaker 2: I learned about the things that we're doing right now, like,

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Speaker 2: in particular, can help us not have dementia later?

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Speaker 1: Can either?

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Speaker 3: I need that because I can't even remember what I

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Speaker 3: they give you any like tips? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: They did.

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Speaker 2: They said there's a few things that helped when they

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Speaker 2: did studies on people that had dementia and didn't have it.

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Speaker 1: Was their diet.

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Speaker 2: A lot of them who didn't have it had a

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Speaker 2: vegan diet or plant based diet. They had a sense

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Speaker 3: And it's like such simple fundamentals could change your mind everything.

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Speaker 2: And even just having good community like your friends and the

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Speaker 1: Because a lot of people start to lose their mom

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that actually brought us together and brought us a

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Speaker 1: Well as well. Yeah that is beautiful. I just love

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Speaker 3: still together or it. And then right when.

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Speaker 2: COVID was set, it was one of those things where

442
00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:38,679
Speaker 2: like we were because we are so used to our

443
00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:40,960
Speaker 2: day to day it made us sit down, you know,

444
00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:42,720
Speaker 2: and face whatever it was that we.

445
00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:44,080
Speaker 1: Were suppressing all those years.

446
00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:47,480
Speaker 2: So COVID was like a really good healing time for

447
00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:49,200
Speaker 2: a lot of people. I think that was the time

448
00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:53,479
Speaker 2: that our community, the African American community, really like started

449
00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:55,879
Speaker 2: taking therapy serious because we had to sit with our

450
00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:58,280
Speaker 2: demons and we were like, wait, I have been pushing

451
00:21:58,320 --> 00:22:01,080
Speaker 2: through life and not really dealing with the things that

452
00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:02,040
Speaker 2: I need to deal with.

453
00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:04,280
Speaker 3: And when you can be outside and you can be

454
00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:07,439
Speaker 3: that party friend or with those and then when you

455
00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:09,479
Speaker 3: have to sit still and you're like, no one is

456
00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:10,160
Speaker 3: calling me.

457
00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:12,520
Speaker 1: Oh Jordan.

458
00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:17,480
Speaker 3: Everything became super real for a lot of people, and

459
00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:20,480
Speaker 3: it was a super healing time, but it was also

460
00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:22,879
Speaker 3: a very dark time for a lot of people.

461
00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:24,760
Speaker 1: Very yeah, a lot of people.

462
00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:28,920
Speaker 3: You know, no one could really work in that time.

463
00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:32,760
Speaker 2: No could work, and like people were losing family members

464
00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:35,679
Speaker 2: less and right, like we forget about like because it's

465
00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:39,040
Speaker 2: we got through it, and then now the COVID is like, oh,

466
00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:41,240
Speaker 2: it's just a cold, you know. But like at one point,

467
00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:43,360
Speaker 2: like people were really losing their lives.

468
00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:47,400
Speaker 3: And I'm sure people still are. It's just became more

469
00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:50,960
Speaker 3: normalized now because we've gone through it now for so

470
00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:51,840
Speaker 3: many years.

471
00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:55,000
Speaker 2: Isn't that crazy? How like that was so traumatic can

472
00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:56,040
Speaker 2: become normalized?

473
00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:59,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, And the world it wasn't just affecting us, it

474
00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:03,639
Speaker 3: was acting the entire world, like different countries, We're also

475
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:05,000
Speaker 3: everyone was shut down.

476
00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:06,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just crazy.

477
00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:11,199
Speaker 3: We've lived through too many like first time things.

478
00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:14,200
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm tired I'm tired girl. Then I don't want

479
00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:15,520
Speaker 1: to be afraid. I don't want to be in these

480
00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:17,919
Speaker 1: history books for this, right, Like I live through that.

481
00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:20,239
Speaker 1: I live through that and this, this and this.

482
00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:23,640
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm sure our ancestors feel the same way,

483
00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:26,199
Speaker 3: but I'm like, it feels like we're living through a

484
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:30,640
Speaker 3: lot of first time things in the aftermath of COVID

485
00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:34,160
Speaker 3: and people's trauma and grief. It's still we still haven't

486
00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:35,760
Speaker 3: even confronted all of that.

487
00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:38,920
Speaker 1: We have not, we have not. That is so true.

488
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:42,600
Speaker 1: You talked about not always being the most confident, and

489
00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:43,000
Speaker 1: I was.

490
00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:44,720
Speaker 2: When I was driving here, I was thinking about you,

491
00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:48,400
Speaker 2: because you, first of all, the body, Addy, Yaddy.

492
00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:51,560
Speaker 3: I have to work hard for this. I'm not one

493
00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:55,159
Speaker 3: of those genetically boring people that just could eat whatever.

494
00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:57,040
Speaker 3: Like if I want to look a certain way, I

495
00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:58,440
Speaker 3: have to put in the work.

496
00:23:58,680 --> 00:24:00,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want because you I grew up in Hollywood,

497
00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:04,200
Speaker 2: which is just a naturally vain city where everybody's skinny,

498
00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:06,360
Speaker 2: and like all the things were, there are times where

499
00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:08,840
Speaker 2: you went through body dys morphia and like, man, I

500
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:11,960
Speaker 2: need to be skinnier or like bingeia just to like try.

501
00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:14,000
Speaker 1: To be skinnier. Or was it something you were just

502
00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:16,400
Speaker 1: like I'm gonna have this is what it is.

503
00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:21,359
Speaker 3: I think I still have body dysmorphia, really not in

504
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:23,320
Speaker 3: a sense of like I feel like we always want

505
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:26,240
Speaker 3: what we don't have. It's like, oh, I lost this weight,

506
00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 3: but now I want my skin to be tighter, or

507
00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 3: I want my ads to be this, or I want

508
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:32,439
Speaker 3: it like or why do I have all these stretch

509
00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:34,920
Speaker 3: marks of this? And it's like that's where you have

510
00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:38,000
Speaker 3: to Like I said, your individuality is your greatest gift,

511
00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:41,040
Speaker 3: but like paparazzi, I don't want you to catch me

512
00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:44,240
Speaker 3: on the beach like bending down like you know. It's

513
00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:48,479
Speaker 3: just there's always something that we pick apart ourselves. So

514
00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:53,440
Speaker 3: I'm trying to be better at being more graceful with myself.

515
00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:55,720
Speaker 3: I think that's something I keep going to is having

516
00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:59,600
Speaker 3: grace and stuff. So we have to also treat ourselves

517
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:04,080
Speaker 3: with that same level of respect. Yes, and we wouldn't

518
00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:06,440
Speaker 3: talk about other people the way we talk about ourselves,

519
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:09,280
Speaker 3: so we shouldn't be talking about ourselves in that way

520
00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:13,200
Speaker 3: as well. But it's we're women. I feel like there's

521
00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:15,280
Speaker 3: always going to be something, whether it's I want my

522
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:17,639
Speaker 3: hair to be longer, my boobs to be higher, my

523
00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 3: has to be big. I don't know, it's.

524
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:21,240
Speaker 1: All the things. It's everything.

525
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:23,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm seriously like I'm the type of person like

526
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:26,320
Speaker 2: I want a nose job, Like no, yes, I'm gonna

527
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:26,560
Speaker 2: do it.

528
00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:27,359
Speaker 1: No, help me out of it.

529
00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:29,520
Speaker 3: Don't please don't do that.

530
00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:32,320
Speaker 1: Well, I don't want it. Like that's like one.

531
00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:35,399
Speaker 3: Of the only surgeries that I'm like, so so so

532
00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:39,600
Speaker 3: scared you have anyone doing that because I don't know.

533
00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 3: I feel like they just it's like your face.

534
00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:46,359
Speaker 1: It is your face. I know, it's just like your nose. No,

535
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:47,760
Speaker 1: it's great contouring right now.

536
00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:52,719
Speaker 3: No, don't look. I want to be supportive because I

537
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:55,399
Speaker 3: like to support my girls and anything they want to do.

538
00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:57,960
Speaker 3: And if it doesn't make you feel good, then you

539
00:25:58,000 --> 00:25:59,520
Speaker 3: know what do it.

540
00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 1: But I really don't think that, you know, I appreciate it.

541
00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:05,760
Speaker 1: I was a little next to you want like a

542
00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:08,160
Speaker 1: little lift. You know. It's a few things like.

543
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:10,920
Speaker 3: I've been seeing some people recently, I'm like, what are

544
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:11,719
Speaker 3: they doing?

545
00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:15,720
Speaker 1: No, seriously, is it like a mini facelift? Yeah, it's

546
00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:19,360
Speaker 1: giving face. I don't know, they look good, they look

547
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:21,359
Speaker 1: really good. Yeah, Like, who y'all going to.

548
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:23,920
Speaker 3: I just want to know for my personal research.

549
00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, exactly, maybe one day I need this exactly.

550
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:30,719
Speaker 1: That is hysterical.

551
00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:34,280
Speaker 2: So I want to ask you, so, if there's any

552
00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 2: young entrepreneurs watching, what are some tips that you would

553
00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:39,399
Speaker 2: give them who want to get into the business.

554
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:41,399
Speaker 1: Because you have so many businesses.

555
00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:43,919
Speaker 2: Let's talk about that too. You have the Talks here

556
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 2: bucket that I'm so excited about that.

557
00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:48,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're welcome to company.

558
00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:49,000
Speaker 1: Thank you.

559
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:53,160
Speaker 3: I think you'll love it. Yeah, So I am just franchising.

560
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 3: I'm franchising the Talks. It's something that I went to

561
00:26:56,880 --> 00:26:59,640
Speaker 3: in LA. They haven't actually in New York as well,

562
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:01,440
Speaker 3: but I was one of the first people going there

563
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 3: in LA when they open. And it is an overall

564
00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:12,679
Speaker 3: treatment that focuses on lymphatic drainage, body sculpting, deep box,

565
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 3: and digestive whatever digestive issues you have going on. It

566
00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:20,959
Speaker 3: helps kind of move things around, It helps the circulation,

567
00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:26,240
Speaker 3: water retention, and so it's kind of for me, it's

568
00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:28,679
Speaker 3: like a treatment that I truly believe in. And I

569
00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:31,280
Speaker 3: feel like my best friend lives here. She went to college,

570
00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:34,159
Speaker 3: she went to Spelman. It's a city that also my

571
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:36,960
Speaker 3: dad works here. He did a lot of shows here,

572
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:39,439
Speaker 3: and he always loved Buckhead and he always was like,

573
00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:41,880
Speaker 3: you got to come move here, you got to come

574
00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:43,920
Speaker 3: see it like you would love it. I never got

575
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:47,240
Speaker 3: to see it when he was here. So it was

576
00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:49,720
Speaker 3: the city that one I love, but too I felt

577
00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:52,439
Speaker 3: like it didn't have anything like it, and so I

578
00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:56,879
Speaker 3: wanted to bring kind of my vibe in La to Atlanta.

579
00:27:57,720 --> 00:27:58,200
Speaker 1: Thank you.

580
00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:01,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, And it's I think the girls and the guys.

581
00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:03,879
Speaker 3: It's not just for girls. It's for whoever wants it.

582
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:07,680
Speaker 3: But I think everyone will really enjoy it because something

583
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:09,760
Speaker 3: that I believe in, so I feel like other people.

584
00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:12,400
Speaker 2: So I'm really big in wellness and like I think

585
00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:14,560
Speaker 2: also to being in front of the camera all the time,

586
00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:17,480
Speaker 2: you want to take care of your body and just overall,

587
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:20,280
Speaker 2: but like I see where my water sits like oh.

588
00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:23,959
Speaker 3: The same like flying traveling, yes, yeah, yeah, you just

589
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:27,120
Speaker 3: get swollen and you don't even realize sometimes how much

590
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:29,440
Speaker 3: water you're retaining. And then like I'll get my arms

591
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:31,119
Speaker 3: worked on from being on your phone.

592
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 1: Even why do you think about this?

593
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:34,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I'm like, oh, my arms are so puffy

594
00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 3: and they'll like do the treatment. Wow.

595
00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:39,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, do they have like memberships or is it?

596
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:41,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, so there's gonna be a founding membership, so it's

597
00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:43,680
Speaker 3: only available to the first hundred people.

598
00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 1: It's not you. Yeah, so first.

599
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:48,560
Speaker 3: Hundred people you get the founding membership, you get amazing

600
00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:51,719
Speaker 3: discounsel and on every treatment you get free facial. On

601
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 3: your birthday, you get ten percent off products. There's a

602
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:57,360
Speaker 3: bunch of products. There are a lot of cool different

603
00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 3: like face tape, mouth tape, face sculpting product, there's so

604
00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:02,560
Speaker 3: many different products.

605
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:03,280
Speaker 1: I love it.

606
00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:11,000
Speaker 3: And then you get complimentary upgrades if it's available. I

607
00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:13,480
Speaker 3: don't know I would become a member just because I'm

608
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:17,760
Speaker 3: not trying to sell it. But it's like very discounted

609
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:19,200
Speaker 3: pricing when you become an.

610
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:21,560
Speaker 1: Omber where it's like worth it right exactly. Yeah, I'm

611
00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 1: a laser.

612
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:23,960
Speaker 2: The place I get laser is like when you pay

613
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 2: the membership, the discounts like every time you go is

614
00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:27,360
Speaker 2: like nothing.

615
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:27,800
Speaker 1: Yeah.

616
00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:31,760
Speaker 3: So if the treatment's like two fifty, it's one yep,

617
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:33,400
Speaker 3: So it's had and pays for itself.

618
00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 1: It does. Yeah, I love it.

619
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:37,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think you'll really like it.

620
00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:39,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I'm excited about it. And then you have

621
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:41,240
Speaker 2: first place I.

622
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:45,040
Speaker 3: Do, but first place that was like a passion when

623
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:48,480
Speaker 3: I went on my fitness journey when my dad passed.

624
00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:51,440
Speaker 3: It's when I was like, fitness became my therapy and

625
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:54,680
Speaker 3: I feel like it saved me. And I realized that

626
00:29:54,720 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 3: the fitness community could be very intimidating and a lot

627
00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:00,400
Speaker 3: of people don't know where to start, especially people. You

628
00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:02,680
Speaker 3: watch these people who have like a six pack and

629
00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 3: an eight pack in this and you're like, Okay, this

630
00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:09,800
Speaker 3: is not relatable. So I wanted to just create something

631
00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:15,040
Speaker 3: that people felt was accessible, easy to go to. There

632
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:17,400
Speaker 3: wasn't a lot of pressure, but you can get those

633
00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:23,720
Speaker 3: results without doing some crazy, insane workout right. Sometimes working

634
00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:26,840
Speaker 3: out the simplicity of it actually gets you there sooner

635
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:30,680
Speaker 3: than crashing out. It really hard for four days and

636
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:36,600
Speaker 3: then you can't walk for So consistency is more important

637
00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:40,080
Speaker 3: than intensity.

638
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:43,240
Speaker 1: Yes, I like that, that's the quote. Yeah, so it's

639
00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:43,800
Speaker 1: more important.

640
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:49,320
Speaker 3: I would say. It just is an easy, accessible thing

641
00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 3: that you can have on your fingertips. So I wanted

642
00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 3: to create that for people who might be in the

643
00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:56,120
Speaker 3: same position to me as me, or may be intimidated

644
00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 3: by the whole fitness community. Yeah, and there's a lot

645
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:01,320
Speaker 3: of stuff. You just you at home in your living room.

646
00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:04,320
Speaker 2: I love that because for me, like I love working out,

647
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 2: but with my work schedule, like when we're filming sixteen

648
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:09,160
Speaker 2: hour days, like I'm not going to work it out,

649
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:11,800
Speaker 2: I know, you know, So like the consistency is it?

650
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 3: Like do you sleep or do you work out?

651
00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:16,720
Speaker 2: I had to like tell us even like sleep or study.

652
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:17,920
Speaker 2: Like there's times where I'm like.

653
00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:19,720
Speaker 3: Just go to you have to sleep. Yeah, you got

654
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:22,400
Speaker 3: to go because you can't be fresh for the next day.

655
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:25,200
Speaker 1: You could not. That is so true. I love that.

656
00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:30,320
Speaker 2: You have had public relationships and friendships. How do you

657
00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:34,320
Speaker 2: manage that living your life in the spotlight? Like is

658
00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 2: it you or do you have you like kind of

659
00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:37,520
Speaker 2: learned how to maneuver.

660
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:42,440
Speaker 3: I just I'm not in an overshare on the internet anymore.

661
00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I.

662
00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:48,160
Speaker 3: Wish that I actually shared more because people don't actually

663
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:50,040
Speaker 3: know what I do on a day to day basis,

664
00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:51,560
Speaker 3: and a lot of people are like, what does she

665
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 3: even do? But the people that know me know I'm

666
00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:57,960
Speaker 3: always doing something. So I kind of want to find

667
00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:00,240
Speaker 3: the balance, but I don't.

668
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:00,320
Speaker 1: I don't know.

669
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:03,640
Speaker 3: I applaud anyone that's really good on social media and

670
00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:07,360
Speaker 3: day in the life and doing this one. I'm kind

671
00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:10,000
Speaker 3: of scared of people knowing my day to day moves,

672
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:14,000
Speaker 3: just because now I live in New York and it's

673
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:16,680
Speaker 3: a new environment and I'm still getting used to it.

674
00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:19,680
Speaker 3: So if I'm posting that I go to the gym

675
00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:23,080
Speaker 3: at just making up a time twelve o'clock every day,

676
00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:28,160
Speaker 3: it's easy to know what gym where what. So I

677
00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:31,960
Speaker 3: try to be more private for safety, but also I

678
00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:37,160
Speaker 3: feel like for me, I went through a time where

679
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 3: I was so outgoing and so to everyone, and then

680
00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:42,480
Speaker 3: I also went through time where I was in such

681
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:46,600
Speaker 3: a dark place that I didn't really like know how

682
00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:49,880
Speaker 3: to be myself anymore. Yeah, So I'm like trying to

683
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:57,760
Speaker 3: find that balance of like sharing without feeling too judge

684
00:32:58,080 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 3: in a way.

685
00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 1: Let's talk about it, because I, yeah, I do the

686
00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:02,160
Speaker 1: same thing.

687
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:05,160
Speaker 3: It doesn't feel natural anymore. It used to feel natural.

688
00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 3: And then, like obviously, I went through a bunch of

689
00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:09,600
Speaker 3: different things and a lot of different things on the

690
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:12,719
Speaker 3: internet and being bullied and stuff, and then I just

691
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:16,000
Speaker 3: kind of stopped sharing. Like on Twitter, I used to

692
00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:19,480
Speaker 3: tweet all the time. Yeah, my tweets are like have

693
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 3: a great day, now it's like, oh, congrats carl On,

694
00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:25,880
Speaker 3: like whatever he accolade he has on the court, or

695
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:28,800
Speaker 3: like happy holidays. But that's all people are getting from me,

696
00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:31,960
Speaker 3: And it used to be so much more, And nobody's

697
00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 3: telling me to not do it, or if I post something,

698
00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:36,520
Speaker 3: I'm not saying everyone's going to jump on me. It's

699
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:41,000
Speaker 3: just my personal trauma and experience kind of created.

700
00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:43,080
Speaker 1: That block it. Yeah, absolutely where.

701
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:45,240
Speaker 3: I want to share more and I want but then

702
00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:47,680
Speaker 3: I just like overthink it and then then I like

703
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:50,200
Speaker 3: draft it and I don't post.

704
00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 1: No, for sure, I get it. I get it.

705
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:55,600
Speaker 2: In those moments where you were feeling the cyber bullying

706
00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:59,360
Speaker 2: and the attacks, what take us through that time and

707
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:00,960
Speaker 2: what it was like and how did you get out

708
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:01,200
Speaker 2: of it?

709
00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:03,320
Speaker 1: Because I know that was a really dark time for you.

710
00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:05,880
Speaker 1: How did I get out of that?

711
00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:09,279
Speaker 3: I mean I still deal with that to this day,

712
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:13,239
Speaker 3: not on that level. Yeah, I mean it is what

713
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:14,879
Speaker 3: it is. I feel like the Internet is a place

714
00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 3: where people don't forget or they don't let things go,

715
00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:25,080
Speaker 3: which is fine. Yeah, I think just really realizing in

716
00:34:25,160 --> 00:34:29,239
Speaker 3: life is important to you and what's not important. Most

717
00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:32,120
Speaker 3: of the time, people are projecting their own insecurities on

718
00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 3: social media or their life. So it's kind of just like,

719
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:37,319
Speaker 3: take it with a grain of salt, don't take it

720
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:42,239
Speaker 3: too serious. I would say, none of those people have

721
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:45,160
Speaker 3: come up to me in persons to say anything, so

722
00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:48,320
Speaker 3: it's like that's a whole different beast. But on the Internet,

723
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:51,120
Speaker 3: I'm like, Okay, I don't really take it too serious.

724
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:53,320
Speaker 3: In days that I feel like are harder than others,

725
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:57,360
Speaker 3: I'm like, let me put my phone away for a while.

726
00:34:57,400 --> 00:35:00,400
Speaker 1: I deleted everything off of my phone because it makes

727
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:01,440
Speaker 1: you just want to shut down.

728
00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was just like, you know what, I'm not

729
00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:05,560
Speaker 3: even gonna look at this because you go on Twitter

730
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:08,959
Speaker 3: and you can't, like cater what you're going to see.

731
00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:11,080
Speaker 3: You can't you just go in there and you're like,

732
00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:13,000
Speaker 3: I see this. I didn't want to see that. I

733
00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:15,880
Speaker 3: clicked on this video. I wish I could take my

734
00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:21,960
Speaker 3: eyes out now. But no, it's fine. There's also a

735
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:26,520
Speaker 3: lot of beauty in the Internet and a lot of accessibility,

736
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:32,680
Speaker 3: and now it's the ultimate marketing tool. And I learned

737
00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:35,279
Speaker 3: so much on the Internet and from random people, I

738
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 3: don't know, more than I learned in school sometimes, So

739
00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:40,440
Speaker 3: there is a lot of power in the Internet. But

740
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:44,200
Speaker 3: the downside is that you can't really control what you see.

741
00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's so true. I hate that expore page because

742
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:49,480
Speaker 1: I'll see something like this is not why we.

743
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:54,920
Speaker 3: Need to keep it positive, sweetie social media platform Ashana.

744
00:35:55,160 --> 00:36:00,279
Speaker 1: Lest I like it. Yeah.

745
00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:03,440
Speaker 2: We were just filming and we had a scene where

746
00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:05,040
Speaker 2: some of our girls said something.

747
00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 1: I was like, I went like this like and I

748
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:08,160
Speaker 1: was like, what the key is we doing?

749
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:13,200
Speaker 3: But my sister came home like, I'm like, what is this?

750
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:16,400
Speaker 1: What is it? Okay?

751
00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:20,040
Speaker 3: And now all of a sudden, I'm like, right, exactly.

752
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:23,840
Speaker 3: It catches on quick quick. Yes, my sister says the

753
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:26,439
Speaker 3: craziest stuff sometimes I don't understand. In a week later,

754
00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:27,279
Speaker 3: I'm saying.

755
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:30,719
Speaker 1: I bet she keeps you like updated on all that.

756
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:32,880
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm like, Jody, is this cute? Like tell me.

757
00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:35,600
Speaker 3: She's like, you need to pop in more on Instagram.

758
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:36,520
Speaker 1: You need to do that.

759
00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 3: I'm like, joy, this is just not me anymore. I

760
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:39,480
Speaker 3: don't know.

761
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:44,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, you evolved, yeah, evolving, And I know for me,

762
00:36:44,640 --> 00:36:47,719
Speaker 4: I have I feel a sense of responsibility when it

763
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 4: comes to the people that follow me and even just like.

764
00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:54,360
Speaker 2: What I'm putting out there, do you are you like

765
00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 2: cautious as well, like what you post because you know

766
00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:59,120
Speaker 2: the impact and especially the young women that we have

767
00:36:59,160 --> 00:36:59,799
Speaker 2: an impact on.

768
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:03,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would say I try to not take it

769
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:07,400
Speaker 3: too serious with still being mindful because you know, I

770
00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:09,839
Speaker 3: do have a sister that's almost ten years younger than

771
00:37:09,880 --> 00:37:12,000
Speaker 3: me that I want to look up to me and

772
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:15,200
Speaker 3: her friends and her they all come to me for advice. Yeah,

773
00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:17,880
Speaker 3: because I've been through a lot of different scenarios and

774
00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:24,319
Speaker 3: things and relationships or you name it. But also I

775
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:31,680
Speaker 3: feel like it's important to not take it too serious. Yeah,

776
00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:35,360
Speaker 3: like still show people you can have a good time

777
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:39,640
Speaker 3: and be cute and love your body and post. But

778
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:42,799
Speaker 3: I think it's like a responsibility but also just a

779
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:46,840
Speaker 3: personal thing where I just I don't know, I can't

780
00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:50,480
Speaker 3: bring myself to post certain things anymore. I don't even

781
00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:52,880
Speaker 3: know what change. I'm like, I don't want to be

782
00:37:52,960 --> 00:37:58,200
Speaker 3: this girl, like I was always the youngest one. Now

783
00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:03,920
Speaker 3: I'm twenty seven, but I still ime flew. I was

784
00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:08,279
Speaker 3: just twenty one, right, and then COVID happened, and I

785
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:09,440
Speaker 3: just feel like we were robbed a.

786
00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:15,880
Speaker 1: So much time. Yes, no, seriously, that was so much time. Yeah.

787
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:17,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, And like that's all my twenties, most of my

788
00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:22,120
Speaker 3: youngest twenties and during that time. Yeah, but I mean

789
00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:25,200
Speaker 3: life is life is beautiful.

790
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:27,480
Speaker 1: It is it is. Take me on.

791
00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:31,400
Speaker 2: Just the day to day, like what is a day

792
00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:33,520
Speaker 2: in the Lifelike with Jordan's Woods.

793
00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 3: The day in the life normally starts with waking up,

794
00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 3: snoozing my alarm four times, finally getting us. I'm like,

795
00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:45,759
Speaker 3: let me set this at seven, So if I have

796
00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:49,280
Speaker 3: to leave it at like eight point thirty, I could snooze, yes,

797
00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 3: because like I don't sleep, So I'll go to sleep

798
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:55,520
Speaker 3: at like three and still go to work out at eight. Wow,

799
00:38:57,000 --> 00:39:01,759
Speaker 3: So go work out now, I'll come back showered. Then

800
00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:05,440
Speaker 3: I probably have to hop on some meeting, zoom emails, whatever,

801
00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:08,520
Speaker 3: because between the talks and then my What's by Jordan

802
00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:12,319
Speaker 3: stuff that I'm working on, it's a lot and a

803
00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:15,880
Speaker 3: lot of people have a lot of employees and stuff.

804
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:17,239
Speaker 3: I kind of do a lot of stuff on my

805
00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:20,920
Speaker 3: own because it keeps that control as well as like

806
00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:23,680
Speaker 3: I've had partners in the past where I feel like

807
00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:25,640
Speaker 3: things didn't go as planned. So I try to do

808
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:28,959
Speaker 3: it all myself. But that requires a lot more time.

809
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:32,719
Speaker 3: It does so right now since we're kind of doing

810
00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:36,000
Speaker 3: a big launch with What's by Jordan, we're venturing into

811
00:39:36,239 --> 00:39:41,520
Speaker 3: a new kind of space, which I don't think I

812
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 3: really have said that to anyone, is that we're working

813
00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:44,760
Speaker 3: on footwear.

814
00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 2: Oh I'm excited because yeah, is you're actually your whole wardrobe.

815
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:53,680
Speaker 3: I am not wearing my own shoes right now, just

816
00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:57,560
Speaker 3: because I only have prototypes right now. I wasn't loving

817
00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 3: how I was sitting, so I am not and say

818
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:03,399
Speaker 3: it's not It's good that I'm not wearing my own stuck.

819
00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:06,319
Speaker 3: It's okay, but but you're getting to write I am

820
00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:08,640
Speaker 3: getting it right. The other day, I like wore it

821
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:10,640
Speaker 3: out just to see it, and I was like, nah,

822
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:14,040
Speaker 3: I'm not but we're so close. But for me, it's

823
00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:16,560
Speaker 3: like shopping. Maybe I don't know if you have this

824
00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:19,000
Speaker 3: issue or not, but you can like go to buy

825
00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:22,000
Speaker 3: these different shoes or like shark boots or whatever, and

826
00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:24,799
Speaker 3: you're like, this is not made for people.

827
00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:27,480
Speaker 1: With cats, legs, anything or anything.

828
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:30,400
Speaker 3: And I felt like that was a problem for me.

829
00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:34,359
Speaker 3: So I wanted to create a range of footwear that

830
00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:37,360
Speaker 3: kind of solved that issue where it was versatile for

831
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:41,480
Speaker 3: people of all cat sizes in size sizes, so.

832
00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:44,360
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they don't like this?

833
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:50,080
Speaker 3: Who who is this fitting? So I have been working

834
00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:53,320
Speaker 3: on that and I'm really excited because they're really fire.

835
00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:58,160
Speaker 3: And my goal is to have them at a very

836
00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:02,280
Speaker 3: affordable rate and accessible because I feel like then people

837
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:05,879
Speaker 3: are putting things out and I'm like, who's spending one

838
00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 3: thousand dollars for these? In real life, we're not in

839
00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:15,120
Speaker 3: that type of we're here, we're not also we all,

840
00:41:15,520 --> 00:41:19,240
Speaker 3: whether you're an influencer, celebrity, or just a normal person.

841
00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:22,160
Speaker 3: Once you post it on Instagram, you're like, Okay, I'm

842
00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:24,239
Speaker 3: not gonna I'm not trying to wear this again. Like

843
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:26,960
Speaker 3: I want you to have the ability to buy one.

844
00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:28,480
Speaker 3: And if you're like, okay, now I want to buy

845
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:30,880
Speaker 3: the next one, you don't have to think about it

846
00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:31,880
Speaker 3: too too.

847
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:32,160
Speaker 1: Hey.

848
00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, so that's my goal.

849
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 2: Are you like them being accessible, design of it to

850
00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:39,399
Speaker 2: and being creative with it?

851
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 3: Yeah? With everything?

852
00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:42,120
Speaker 1: I love it.

853
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:44,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, And so a lot of people like the white

854
00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:47,799
Speaker 3: label their stuff and I'm just I'm doing everything and

855
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:51,600
Speaker 3: it's from scribe. So it's taking time and people on

856
00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:54,279
Speaker 3: social media like you forgot about what's But Jordan, I

857
00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 3: have this one fan who is like she wants me

858
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 3: to be the best, so I appreciate that, but like

859
00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:04,840
Speaker 3: she is so hard on me. She's like, are you

860
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:07,480
Speaker 3: going to be lazy this year or are you I'm like,

861
00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:12,200
Speaker 3: I've been in the kitchen, bro I can work. But

862
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:15,840
Speaker 3: it's fine. It's fine. It's just funny that people's perception.

863
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:19,920
Speaker 3: But it all takes a lot of time. But now

864
00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:22,720
Speaker 3: we're like full force. The talks is coming, the shoes

865
00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:25,920
Speaker 3: are coming. It's all so right now. It's really chaotic.

866
00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:28,200
Speaker 1: That's where you're saying you have a hard time balancing

867
00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 1: it all.

868
00:42:28,800 --> 00:42:32,560
Speaker 3: Yes, and I know back to I'm just talking, talking, talking,

869
00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:34,160
Speaker 3: but you were saying day in the life. So it

870
00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:37,960
Speaker 3: consists of like between that that working out and then

871
00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:40,359
Speaker 3: if Carl has a game or something, I'm like, okay,

872
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:42,279
Speaker 3: I have until six o'clock. Then I gotta get ready

873
00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:43,759
Speaker 3: and I gotta do this, and then do it all

874
00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:45,400
Speaker 3: again the next day.

875
00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:47,600
Speaker 2: And then I see you, like, do your own makeup

876
00:42:47,680 --> 00:42:48,760
Speaker 2: sometimes before the games?

877
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:52,040
Speaker 3: Like, oh I do, yeah, every time You're like, I

878
00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:53,960
Speaker 3: didn't do my own makeup today. I have a girl

879
00:42:54,040 --> 00:42:56,719
Speaker 3: here that I like, okay, But every other most of

880
00:42:56,800 --> 00:42:58,000
Speaker 3: the time, I do my own makeup.

881
00:42:58,040 --> 00:42:58,480
Speaker 1: For everything.

882
00:42:58,520 --> 00:43:01,719
Speaker 2: It looks so good, always look beautiful, but the fact

883
00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:03,799
Speaker 2: that like throughout you're doing all that throughout the day

884
00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:04,560
Speaker 2: and then it still take.

885
00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:06,520
Speaker 3: Time, and I like get dressed in ten minutes. I

886
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:09,239
Speaker 3: don't know what I'm wearing. I never know what I'm

887
00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:09,640
Speaker 3: gonna wear.

888
00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:11,120
Speaker 1: This morning, I was like, I.

889
00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:15,240
Speaker 3: Had two options. I packed for this trip twenty minutes

890
00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:17,360
Speaker 3: before I had to leave. Oh wow, so I just

891
00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:18,839
Speaker 3: threw some stuff in my back.

892
00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:21,279
Speaker 1: I feel like we're like twins. No, I literally do that,

893
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:23,279
Speaker 1: Like do you we need to get it together? No,

894
00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:25,960
Speaker 1: before a flight, I will pack like I just didn't

895
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 1: warn it. Like that's me.

896
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:30,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like I had I'm tired, I'll do this tomorrow.

897
00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:34,160
Speaker 3: But I'm trying to be better. I'm trying to be better,

898
00:43:34,239 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 3: but sometimes life is unforeseen.

899
00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:37,759
Speaker 1: It is.

900
00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:39,880
Speaker 2: And we were almost twins today because I actually almost

901
00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:41,480
Speaker 2: wore Shanna you know that.

902
00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:43,800
Speaker 1: I don't know what, but I have a cropped trench

903
00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:44,239
Speaker 1: just like that.

904
00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:46,160
Speaker 2: It was laid out and I was like, oh, I

905
00:43:46,160 --> 00:43:48,359
Speaker 2: could wear this, and then I grab this, but we

906
00:43:48,400 --> 00:43:50,040
Speaker 2: literally were no twins.

907
00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:54,759
Speaker 3: It's just I feel like a lot more people could

908
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:58,080
Speaker 3: relate to a lot of stuff that we're talking about too. Sure,

909
00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 3: it all seems clamorous, but like I'm telling you, if

910
00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:03,920
Speaker 3: you followed me on a day, maybe my surroundings are a

911
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:07,480
Speaker 3: little bit glamorous and stuff. But I'm like, not as

912
00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:08,719
Speaker 3: spoogy as people think.

913
00:44:09,040 --> 00:44:11,160
Speaker 2: It's saying me neither, Like my friends will tell you.

914
00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:13,800
Speaker 2: For a year, I walked around with my reading glasses.

915
00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:16,760
Speaker 2: They had a safety pan hold them together because I

916
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:17,319
Speaker 2: stepped on.

917
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:19,200
Speaker 3: Them one morning, like these are my favorite ones.

918
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:21,120
Speaker 2: Listen, and like literally I had a safety pan on

919
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:22,920
Speaker 2: because I stepped on and broke the arm off, and

920
00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:24,680
Speaker 2: I was like, shoot, I'll have time to go to

921
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 2: the adopt to get another pair.

922
00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:28,600
Speaker 1: So I just like fixed the naked work. So I

923
00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:30,239
Speaker 1: finally got a new glass. They're like, no, bring the

924
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:30,800
Speaker 1: other ones.

925
00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:34,239
Speaker 3: It's stylish. You could create a trend. But if people

926
00:44:34,360 --> 00:44:36,239
Speaker 3: saw me on the day, they're like this girl, They're like,

927
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:38,680
Speaker 3: you could afford another pair of glasses.

928
00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:41,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, this keeps me grounded.

929
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:44,799
Speaker 3: No, I know, it's just you have the things that you.

930
00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:47,200
Speaker 1: Like, and you have your things. I do for sure,

931
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:50,960
Speaker 1: that is for sure. I want to play a quick

932
00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:56,120
Speaker 1: game with you. Let's see we already talking. We got

933
00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:56,960
Speaker 1: the roule its.

934
00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:02,759
Speaker 2: Okay, so this is is just a few few questions. Okay,

935
00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:05,759
Speaker 2: you're known for your sense of style. So what is

936
00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:08,640
Speaker 2: your go to outfit or fashion piece that makes you

937
00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:10,080
Speaker 2: confident every single time?

938
00:45:11,400 --> 00:45:17,760
Speaker 3: Ooh, I'm all in the accessories. So like a good

939
00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:21,200
Speaker 3: pair of shoes or a bag your bad gang, Baby,

940
00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:24,799
Speaker 3: it's a bag in shoes. If I could be wearing Uni,

941
00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:28,720
Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't what could I be wearing.

942
00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:31,480
Speaker 3: My clothes could be from Target all I know. But

943
00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:33,240
Speaker 3: as long as the shoes in the bags?

944
00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:37,080
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, you went to you did a reel actually

945
00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:41,000
Speaker 2: getting your ma's bag? Yes, yes, So like what's your

946
00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:42,000
Speaker 2: favorite bag right now?

947
00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 1: If you had to choose, I can't choose.

948
00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:49,959
Speaker 3: I can't. It switches like every week I'm like this week,

949
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:53,960
Speaker 3: I'm feeling this. This week, I'm feeling It's I do

950
00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:58,240
Speaker 3: have like a favorite miss bag? Well, I have a couple.

951
00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:03,359
Speaker 3: The one I saw Cardi b post it because her

952
00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:06,080
Speaker 3: daughter colored on it. I have that back. That's one

953
00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:08,960
Speaker 3: of my favorite ones. Have been hard it was cute

954
00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:12,920
Speaker 3: at least she has taste exactly, But that's one of

955
00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:13,640
Speaker 3: my favorite ones.

956
00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:14,719
Speaker 1: Okay, I love it.

957
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:16,400
Speaker 2: And what is one of your I'm interested to know

958
00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:18,280
Speaker 2: because you travel so much, what's one of your favorite

959
00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:19,000
Speaker 2: places a shop?

960
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:26,200
Speaker 3: Honestly, I kind of just go and explore all the

961
00:46:26,239 --> 00:46:30,239
Speaker 3: different like I'll just see what's around. Yeah, but like,

962
00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:33,000
Speaker 3: if I'm looking for a good basic, I actually really

963
00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:36,640
Speaker 3: like it. Ritzia, Oh my god, yeah, classic. I'm just like,

964
00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:38,319
Speaker 3: let me go get a good body suit. I know

965
00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:40,160
Speaker 3: if I go to a Ritzy, I know I'm gonna

966
00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:41,200
Speaker 3: find what I'm looking for.

967
00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:43,959
Speaker 1: So true, I love a Ritzia. If you could swap

968
00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:46,319
Speaker 1: lives with anyone for a day, who would it be

969
00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:50,440
Speaker 1: and why? I don't know, because I feel like people's

970
00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:53,360
Speaker 1: lives are not with what you think. We see a

971
00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:54,600
Speaker 1: snapshot and we're like.

972
00:46:56,200 --> 00:46:59,360
Speaker 3: Whose life do I think is just so fabulous?

973
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:00,479
Speaker 1: M hm.

974
00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:07,719
Speaker 3: Hmm. That's really tough. I'm sure though you're right though

975
00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:10,520
Speaker 3: you don't know, you don't really know, And people like

976
00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:13,920
Speaker 3: that post that they have a lot of things going on,

977
00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:16,759
Speaker 3: or like, oh they're on pj's or there's sometimes it's

978
00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:17,480
Speaker 3: so shallow.

979
00:47:18,920 --> 00:47:21,800
Speaker 1: It's like you have that, but there's no like real

980
00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:23,960
Speaker 1: love and like.

981
00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:31,120
Speaker 3: And obviously that's not the case with everyone. Yeah, I

982
00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:35,719
Speaker 3: would say, who's living on an island right now.

983
00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:37,800
Speaker 1: Well, Tyler Perry has his own island.

984
00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:41,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, so maybe Tyler Perry.

985
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:44,879
Speaker 2: All right, what's one of the what's one thing most

986
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:47,359
Speaker 2: people don't know about you that you wish they did know.

987
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:50,200
Speaker 1: It?

988
00:47:51,239 --> 00:47:54,160
Speaker 3: I would say my work ethic, Yeah, because I didn't know.

989
00:47:54,200 --> 00:47:56,480
Speaker 1: I'm listening to you talk. I'm like, this girl is brilliant.

990
00:47:57,000 --> 00:47:57,400
Speaker 1: Thank you.

991
00:47:57,719 --> 00:47:59,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, like all the things you have going on. Looking

992
00:47:59,880 --> 00:48:01,240
Speaker 2: at your Instagram would have had no idea.

993
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:03,960
Speaker 3: No one never knows, which is fine, but I do

994
00:48:04,120 --> 00:48:05,960
Speaker 3: kind of want to share that with them a little

995
00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:08,920
Speaker 3: bit more. Take them on like a day in the life.

996
00:48:08,640 --> 00:48:11,080
Speaker 2: You sure, just even you vloggers, they can see you,

997
00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:12,040
Speaker 2: like in your meetings.

998
00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:14,279
Speaker 3: I'm so bad at vlogging. I need someone to do

999
00:48:14,320 --> 00:48:16,280
Speaker 3: the blogging found the worst.

1000
00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:17,960
Speaker 1: Like I bought a little DGI camera.

1001
00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:20,719
Speaker 3: I bought that too. I used to like twice yep.

1002
00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:23,879
Speaker 3: And I'm like, see, why do I keep buying these

1003
00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:25,720
Speaker 3: cameras and I'm not going to use them.

1004
00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:28,600
Speaker 1: Exactly seem like ohyah, I'm gonna use it. Girl, I

1005
00:48:28,640 --> 00:48:28,960
Speaker 1: do not.

1006
00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:30,799
Speaker 3: Use it, or you'll start the day and then you're

1007
00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:32,239
Speaker 3: like halfway through.

1008
00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:35,320
Speaker 1: Jordan, It's like, oh, I've just missed all the good stuff.

1009
00:48:35,520 --> 00:48:38,520
Speaker 3: I'm like, great, this was what I needed to catch.

1010
00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:41,400
Speaker 2: The plus side of that is that we're being present,

1011
00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:43,360
Speaker 2: but then we're not getting the that's the thing.

1012
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:46,600
Speaker 3: I'm too present that I need someone to just document.

1013
00:48:46,719 --> 00:48:48,560
Speaker 1: That's yeah, no, for sure.

1014
00:48:49,640 --> 00:48:52,480
Speaker 2: What has been the best piece of advice you've ever received?

1015
00:48:55,520 --> 00:49:01,359
Speaker 3: Hmmm, best piece of advice? I wouldn't say it's from

1016
00:49:01,400 --> 00:49:05,000
Speaker 3: a person. I read this book, the Four Agreements, and

1017
00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:07,919
Speaker 3: I would say that kind of theory of the four

1018
00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:14,720
Speaker 3: Agreements was really great advice. Don't take anything personal, which

1019
00:49:14,960 --> 00:49:18,560
Speaker 3: is what I said before. People are projecting their insecurities.

1020
00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:23,920
Speaker 3: Be a person of your word. What's the other two.

1021
00:49:27,040 --> 00:49:29,200
Speaker 1: Can you remember? I can't remember. Do you know the

1022
00:49:29,200 --> 00:49:33,640
Speaker 1: four agreements? What the other four? Two agreements of the

1023
00:49:33,640 --> 00:49:34,400
Speaker 1: four agreements?

1024
00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:37,480
Speaker 3: But I look it up, then you'll understand.

1025
00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:42,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, So good that I read the book I read, Yes,

1026
00:49:42,560 --> 00:49:43,960
Speaker 2: they have another they have a.

1027
00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:46,440
Speaker 3: Few, but they have a fifth agreement or something like that.

1028
00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:48,520
Speaker 1: I haven't read that. Yeah, so good.

1029
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 2: And then when you have downtime, what is something that

1030
00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:53,280
Speaker 2: you like to do to unwind?

1031
00:49:55,480 --> 00:49:58,440
Speaker 3: I've been really into watching shows, and I didn't I

1032
00:49:58,520 --> 00:50:01,640
Speaker 3: wasn't a show Person four, but being in New York

1033
00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:04,960
Speaker 3: it's so cold that I'm like, yeah, there, it's like

1034
00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:07,839
Speaker 3: being in New York it's so cold. I'm like, I'm

1035
00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:12,680
Speaker 3: gonna watch a show. So I watched Sevens, which was amazing.

1036
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:13,799
Speaker 1: I haven't watching it.

1037
00:50:14,000 --> 00:50:19,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, White Lotus right now. Yes, I actually watched Beauty

1038
00:50:19,280 --> 00:50:23,320
Speaker 3: in Black crazy, crazy, crazy. I didn't watch the second

1039
00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:25,640
Speaker 3: seron and yet, but that was crazy.

1040
00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:26,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, I.

1041
00:50:26,360 --> 00:50:31,840
Speaker 3: Wasn't expecting any of this. What else did I watch?

1042
00:50:32,680 --> 00:50:34,960
Speaker 3: I watched Game of Thrones for the first time this

1043
00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:37,960
Speaker 3: past year. You just got on it. Yeah, I can't

1044
00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:40,919
Speaker 3: even like season three and was cooked. I just got

1045
00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:43,520
Speaker 3: on it. It took me six months to finish, but

1046
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:47,640
Speaker 3: it was so good. I finished a couple months ago. Yeah,

1047
00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:50,320
Speaker 3: I don't know. It's just been watching all different types

1048
00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:51,160
Speaker 3: of shows.

1049
00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:52,800
Speaker 1: What I can't thinking of Sterling?

1050
00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:59,000
Speaker 3: Okay, Paradise, Baby, How could I forget Paradise? That was

1051
00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:03,920
Speaker 3: one of my favorite. I watched this here the second season.

1052
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:05,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, so happy that got renewed.

1053
00:51:05,560 --> 00:51:08,400
Speaker 3: No, he's so good. He's such a good person. I

1054
00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:11,480
Speaker 3: feel like I watched the interviews with him and they

1055
00:51:11,560 --> 00:51:12,800
Speaker 3: give such good energy.

1056
00:51:12,880 --> 00:51:16,279
Speaker 1: Yes, God, yeah, I love them. I love that.

1057
00:51:19,120 --> 00:51:21,520
Speaker 2: Okay, before we close out, we have what is called

1058
00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:22,600
Speaker 2: positive outcomes.

1059
00:51:22,680 --> 00:51:24,520
Speaker 1: That's where our listeners write into us and we give

1060
00:51:24,560 --> 00:51:25,120
Speaker 1: them advice.

1061
00:51:25,440 --> 00:51:29,400
Speaker 2: Okay, So this one is from Shary Holder and Sherry says,

1062
00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:33,080
Speaker 2: what strategies can I employ to enhance self confidence and

1063
00:51:33,160 --> 00:51:37,120
Speaker 2: redirect my focus towards personal development and self improvement in

1064
00:51:37,160 --> 00:51:42,520
Speaker 2: my career path? Well, Sherry, I would say, first for

1065
00:51:42,680 --> 00:51:44,839
Speaker 2: me when it comes to like self improvement and when

1066
00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:47,000
Speaker 2: it comes to even just my business, and what I'm

1067
00:51:47,040 --> 00:51:49,160
Speaker 2: trying to do is how I start the day, like

1068
00:51:49,200 --> 00:51:52,480
Speaker 2: you talked about like your morning routine, having some type

1069
00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:54,600
Speaker 2: of like system in place. How you start the day

1070
00:51:54,640 --> 00:51:56,040
Speaker 2: is how you're going to finish it just kind of

1071
00:51:56,080 --> 00:51:59,520
Speaker 2: flows throughout the rest of the day. When it comes

1072
00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:01,920
Speaker 2: to business, if you didn't go to school for it,

1073
00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:04,480
Speaker 2: I would get books so that you can educate yourself,

1074
00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:07,600
Speaker 2: especially on whatever it is that your career path is.

1075
00:52:09,160 --> 00:52:11,839
Speaker 1: And I would also what I've been.

1076
00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:14,280
Speaker 2: Doing is studying the people that are successful in the area.

1077
00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:17,799
Speaker 2: So like I'm huge on Emmigre, Like this woman is

1078
00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:21,400
Speaker 2: just the most Oh yeah, she's amazing. She's so powerful

1079
00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:23,920
Speaker 2: and just her energy and just she's a mom she's

1080
00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:26,560
Speaker 2: a wife, she's a businesswoman all the things, and she's someone.

1081
00:52:26,360 --> 00:52:28,200
Speaker 3: If I thought I had a lot of stuff to do.

1082
00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:31,800
Speaker 1: Babe, that woman is busy, like so I was. I

1083
00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:32,360
Speaker 1: would study.

1084
00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:34,400
Speaker 2: She even posts like the books that she read to

1085
00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:37,120
Speaker 2: like have a better understanding. So I kind of just

1086
00:52:37,160 --> 00:52:38,680
Speaker 2: like follow out to people I read in one of

1087
00:52:38,719 --> 00:52:42,480
Speaker 2: the books that she had recommended was don't try to

1088
00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:46,200
Speaker 2: reinvent the wheel. Like it's whatever's working. It works, So

1089
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:48,640
Speaker 2: take that and then add your own little spin on it.

1090
00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:50,560
Speaker 1: But you don't have to. I got to figure out

1091
00:52:50,560 --> 00:52:52,480
Speaker 1: a whole new way to do this. Yeah, that's what

1092
00:52:52,520 --> 00:52:54,000
Speaker 1: I would do. Definitely.

1093
00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:56,759
Speaker 3: I would say set your intentions, like you said, it

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Speaker 3: goes hand in hand with creating my everroutine schedule, and

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Speaker 3: then set goals, short term goals and long term goals,

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Speaker 3: because sometimes you can get really overwhelmed by having like, oh,

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Speaker 3: I want to be a billionaire, but you don't have

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Speaker 3: a strategy or a short term goal to get there.

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Speaker 3: We all want to be a billionaire. So I would say, like,

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Speaker 3: set daily goals, set weekly goals, and then set monthly goals,

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Speaker 3: and then you'll have yearly goals or five year goals.

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Speaker 1: Whatever it is.

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Speaker 3: But like for me, I start with how can I

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Speaker 3: be better today? And then how can that transcend to

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Speaker 3: the next week and then the following week, whether it's

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Speaker 3: like all right, I really need to drink more water.

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Speaker 3: So now each day I'm gonna hit this mark, I'm

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Speaker 3: going to show up for myself. I'm going to do this,

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Speaker 3: and then slowly becomes a routine, it becomes a part

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Speaker 3: of you, and then you can just keep getting better, growing, expanding,

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Speaker 3: whether that's business, life, love whatever.

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Speaker 1: I love it. Yeah, thank you, Jordan, thank you. This

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Speaker 1: has been amazing.

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Speaker 2: I'm so glad we got to sit down and yes,

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Speaker 2: I know that I learned a lot more about you.

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Speaker 2: So proud of everything you've accomplished and everything that you've overcome.

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Speaker 1: You are glowing, shining and doing the thing. No, you're

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Speaker 1: doing it, hy thank you.

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Speaker 2: A friend of mine, Sean Finney, I used to always say, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to do these, just South saying I'm trying

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Speaker 2: you're doing it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And I was like, okay, tip back to what

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Speaker 3: I'm doing it.

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Speaker 1: That's it. Yeah, you are doing it, you know, so, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're doing it. Thank you, welcome, Thank you so much.

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Speaker 3: Thank you I'll see it.

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Speaker 2: And guys, that was a great conversation and a beautiful

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Speaker 2: reminder to never confine yourself to a box, chase every

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Speaker 2: dream and explore all of your talents. Thank you, guys

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Speaker 2: so much for tuning into another episode of the Keep

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Speaker 2: It Positive Sweetie Show. Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review,

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Speaker 2: and share this episode with someone who could use a

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Speaker 2: little positivity today. And it's always stay blessed, stay encouraged,

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Speaker 2: and remember to keep it positive, Sweetie.

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Speaker 1: I'll see you guys next time.

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