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Speaker 1: Five rooking jubils. Second Date Today's second date update? Is

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Speaker 1: it one of those where we have to wonder what

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Speaker 1: happened and what went wrong on a date? We know,

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Speaker 1: we kind of know what the problem is here, Todd?

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Speaker 1: How you doing? Man? I'm good? How are you getting good?

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Speaker 1: Todd emailed us about a girl named Stephanie that he

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Speaker 1: went out on a date with. Before we talk about

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Speaker 1: what the issue you're having is, let's talk a little

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Speaker 1: bit more about Stephanie. Tell us about her in the date.

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Speaker 1: We actually met on Facebook. She's a friend of a

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Speaker 1: friend and I messaged her and you know, we passed

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Speaker 1: a few emails back and forth, and then decided to

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Speaker 1: go out and took her out to a really nice

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Speaker 1: dinner and we had a great time. She's gorgeous. Hey,

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Speaker 1: Todd talked to her and that sultry voice, a voice

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Speaker 1: I'm like, hello, Todd even Facebook me, Oh wait, I'm married?

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Speaker 1: Are you as hot as your voice? What are you

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Speaker 1: doing after work? Brook? I could give you a chance

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Speaker 1: to find out you stop that, Todd. I'm a married woman.

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Speaker 1: But man, is this that doesn't that doesn't make any difference? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: in that voice, I don't know that it does. I

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Speaker 1: think you may be right right now, this is about

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Speaker 1: you and Stephanie, not you and Brooke right now that

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Speaker 1: we can do a second day update on you guys later.

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Speaker 1: But what happened at the end of the day, she

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Speaker 1: was moved too fast. Like she was talking about her

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Speaker 1: family and wanting, you know, looking forward to like introducing

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Speaker 1: me to them. And she even mentioned things like, you know,

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Speaker 1: it'll be really fun to go on trips with you,

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Speaker 1: and like that's cool and everything. But I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's a little much for a first date. That would

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Speaker 1: kind of scare most dudes. I mean, to give hers

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Speaker 1: a chance. Was there a conversation that led up to

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Speaker 1: it that maybe, I mean, we were talking about, you know,

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Speaker 1: places that we had been in the world and everything

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Speaker 1: like that. Like the night had obviously gone great, she

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Speaker 1: had an amazing time. Um, you know, I think she

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Speaker 1: just got carried away, which is totally understandable because it

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Speaker 1: happens pretty much all the time when oh my good, Okay,

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Speaker 1: now you're humility is not one of your issues. That's

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Speaker 1: kind of my curse. I take a woman out and

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Speaker 1: she wants to get married right away. I had to

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Speaker 1: turn down this bank teller the other day. Check. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean I you listen, as you guys can tell,

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Speaker 1: I was just being completely honest. That's just the way

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Speaker 1: that I am. And I said, listen, you know, I

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Speaker 1: think that you're really really great. She is. She's super hot,

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Speaker 1: and she's smart and funny and everything. But I'm just

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Speaker 1: interested in, like, you know, maybe friends with benefits. I

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Speaker 1: want to see this girl again for sure. But wait,

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Speaker 1: you just want to hook up with her and get

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Speaker 1: her You want to like slow things down and maybe

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Speaker 1: get a relationship with her. No, no, no, no no, no

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Speaker 1: no I'm not I mean, all right, now do that

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Speaker 1: at all. I'm just straight up interested in hooking up

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Speaker 1: on occasion. Why do you care that she's smart? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's always nice to be able to have some sort

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Speaker 1: of converse station after or she can read basic street

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Speaker 1: signs and stuff when they're going on dates. She knows

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Speaker 1: how to read an exit sign from the bedroom door.

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Speaker 1: So you really need you know, I say, Todd. She

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Speaker 1: sounds like she read the red flags right and that

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Speaker 1: she was obviously looking for more than you are. I

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Speaker 1: just kind of want to give her a second chance

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Speaker 1: to have another taste because it was it was pretty sweet.

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Speaker 1: So does that. So does that mean that you guys

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Speaker 1: did hook up on your date? We have chemistry. I'm

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Speaker 1: just going to say that much. Can I just ask?

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Speaker 1: Did you tell her beforehand that you only want to

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Speaker 1: be friends with benefits before you hooked up? That's an

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Speaker 1: honest thing to say. Yeah, I mean I told her

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Speaker 1: that after after we of course, Yeah, you're not going

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Speaker 1: to say that beforehand to France together? After do you

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Speaker 1: want you want to just basically convince her that she

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Speaker 1: should be your friend with benefits? I mean, swithen, Jebil.

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Speaker 1: I'm reaching out you specifically because I feel like you

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Speaker 1: with the ladies and oh yeah, yeah, how is this

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Speaker 1: totally crushes your ego. Look, it's not an ego. I'm

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Speaker 1: just being honest. Oh sorry, I know you can still

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Speaker 1: invite you to go somewhere and you'd be like, Okay.

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Speaker 1: His voice was sexy until I heard the actual words

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Speaker 1: coming out of his mouth. That was the problem, all right,

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Speaker 1: Todd We're gonna play a song, come back, call her

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Speaker 1: and get your second date update. All right, oh, all right,

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Speaker 1: hang up brooking jubil in the morning date. I'm excited

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Speaker 1: to actually fight for something that I believe, even for

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Speaker 1: once on this show. What is that? Friends with Benefits?

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Speaker 1: I'm about to help Todd out with a girl named

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Speaker 1: Stephanie who he hooked up with on a date. She's

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Speaker 1: not calling him back. He was truthful with her after

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Speaker 1: they hooked up and said, hey, I don't want a relationship,

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Speaker 1: but we can continue to do this, and she hasn't

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Speaker 1: called him since. Todd, are you ready to give her

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Speaker 1: Of course I like her. That's why I'm reaching out

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Speaker 1: to her. Because you want to be friends with benefits

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Speaker 1: and not be serious about a girl doesn't mean you

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Speaker 1: don't like them. Yeah, but it doesn't. Right. No, I'm

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Speaker 1: not thinking about the future. I'm thinking about the president, right, Okay.

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Speaker 1: There's just a part of them you like much more

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Speaker 1: than anything else going on. Yeah, it's going to end

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Speaker 1: in the end. Okay, Todd, I'm gonna call her right now? Right? Great? Hello? Hi,

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Speaker 1: Can I speak to Stephanie? Please? Hey, Stephanie, how are you?

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Speaker 1: This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: I'm moving ninety two point five. No, I'm not. What's up?

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Speaker 1: Not much? What's up with you? Oh? You know, hang

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Speaker 1: it out? You were wondering why I might be calling you? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Well have you heard the second date up? What's that

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Speaker 1: concert tickets? Yeah? I don't have any of those, unfortunately,

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Speaker 1: but what I do have is an opportunity for you

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Speaker 1: to be reconnected with an old flame. Interesting, Stephanie, you

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Speaker 1: recently went out on a date with a guy named Todd,

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Speaker 1: and did you enjoy going out with Todd? Well, that's hard.

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Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, Todd was kind of a player. Do

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Speaker 1: you think he was a player? Oh? Yeah, I mean

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Speaker 1: self admitted. How did he admit that he was a

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Speaker 1: player to you? I mean we had a really good

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Speaker 1: at the end he was just like, so, doble, I'm

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Speaker 1: not looking for anything serious. You know, it's just on

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Speaker 1: cue the whole tap dance. You know, that doesn't mean

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Speaker 1: that he's that doesn't mean he's a player. Stephania could

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Speaker 1: mean that he's busy, doesn't have time for a relationship.

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Speaker 1: He really likes you. Well, that's cute, Stephanie. Todd emailed

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Speaker 1: us about you, and he wanted us to contact you

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Speaker 1: because he didn't have time. But he has time to

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Speaker 1: hiring an assistant basically. Yeah, so he but he wants

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Speaker 1: a second chance to go out with you. Todd was great.

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Speaker 1: How did I had chemistry? Todd and I had sparked

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Speaker 1: and I'm just like turned off? You turned off by him? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean they hurt my feelings. I really opened up

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Speaker 1: mean yeah, at this point, I'd like to let you

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Speaker 1: has been listening this whole time. Todd say hi to

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Speaker 1: Stephanie has Hi. God, I'm sorry that it's come to this,

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Speaker 1: but you didn't really leave me any choice. So what's

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Speaker 1: the dealer? Are we gonna try this again? Or what? Oh?

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Speaker 1: So what again? Like? I don't I just go out

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Speaker 1: and have a good time, A good time cute? I

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Speaker 1: don't know dude, you do know, No, you do. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna agree with Todd on this based off

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Speaker 1: the way that you laughed when you first said, Hi,

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Speaker 1: it's in there. You want to go out with him again,

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Speaker 1: don't you, Stephanie. I'm mad at him, she does. I'll

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Speaker 1: fix that, Stephanie. At least he was honest with you

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Speaker 1: on the whole, like usually even yet it's not. But still,

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Speaker 1: you don't have to say that. I'm sorry, but I'm

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Speaker 1: a catch. You're what I have? A catch? Like that?

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Speaker 1: We actually want to date me, Todd. There's like real

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Speaker 1: like a lonely night. I mean, listen, I'm busy. I

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Speaker 1: know that you had a blast. I'm just thinking that

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Speaker 1: we could go out and do that again. Ruling out

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Speaker 1: the possibility of something happening in the future, but like,

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Speaker 1: let's just stay present, Stephanie. You guys could be like

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Speaker 1: one of those professional power couples you see in the movies.

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Speaker 1: Like you both got your careers, you're headed on the

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Speaker 1: news because all this guy is saying is he doesn't

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Speaker 1: Did you have a good time with me, steph I

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Speaker 1: had a great time, So what's the problem. Let's go

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Speaker 1: we'll pay for it. We'll pay for you guys to

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Speaker 1: go out on a second date. Will you out with

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Speaker 1: Todd again? You're so strong at the beginning of this.

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Speaker 1: We'll give you another chance. Yes, they're not going to

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Speaker 1: be in a relationship. Why are we bothering paying for

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Speaker 1: the dinner. Let's just pay for them to go to motel.

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Speaker 1: If you go out with him again, that's fine. But

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Speaker 1: just don't have any expectations of this guy. Okay. I

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Speaker 1: feel like you're lying. Is getting ready to have a

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Speaker 1: good time, because that's what's going to happen. I'm excited

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Speaker 1: for you guys to congratulations you got your second date. Stephanie.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna call you. You You better pick up Okay, Stephanie,

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Speaker 1: are you excited at all to go out with Todd again? Yes,

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Speaker 1: but you know there's yes, I'm excited. You just you

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Speaker 1: just be honest with her, Todd. Okay, break you guys,

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Speaker 1: kind of honest with me. How how Stephanie dimension is

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Speaker 1: really cute? Jupil in the morning. I've never seen a