WEBVTT - Ep 143 IVF, Part 1: Infertility

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<v Speaker 1>On my thirty fifth birthday. After talks with my husband

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<v Speaker 1>and deciding we were ready to start a family, I

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<v Speaker 1>stopped taking my birth control pills. After a year, I

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<v Speaker 1>had not gotten pregnant, so we met with a fertility

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<v Speaker 1>specialist who had me undergo a lot of different kinds

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<v Speaker 1>of tests, some that were really painful and evasive, and

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<v Speaker 1>he determined that I have polycystic ovary syndrome but found

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<v Speaker 1>no other underlying issues. Pcos can make it difficult to

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<v Speaker 1>get pregnant naturally, so my doctor recommended I try entry

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<v Speaker 1>uterine insemination. I ended up doing four iuis with him,

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<v Speaker 1>none of which resulted in a pregnancy. Before I started

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<v Speaker 1>seeing a new doctor who recommended I move on to IVF.

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<v Speaker 1>My egg retrieval resulted in five healthy embryos that we

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<v Speaker 1>had frozen, and since then I have undergone three embryo transfers,

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<v Speaker 1>but none of them resulted in a pregnancy either. I've

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<v Speaker 1>done genetic testing, countless rounds of blood work and ultrasounds,

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<v Speaker 1>a mock transfer cycle, a hissteroscopy, an HSG scan. I

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<v Speaker 1>stopped eating gluten, dairy, and sugar. I do monthly ovulation tracking,

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<v Speaker 1>have regular acupuncture and meditation. Sessions made my fertility a

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<v Speaker 1>full time job, and still I have no answers. I

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<v Speaker 1>just turned thirty nine, and I'm always wondering why not me.

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<v Speaker 1>My friends are all having kids and growing their families

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<v Speaker 1>exactly as they had planned. Well, I'm just spinning my wheels.

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<v Speaker 1>There's so much I wish i'd known about fertility when

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<v Speaker 1>I was younger. None of my female relatives had fertility issues,

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<v Speaker 1>and I always had totally normal results at my annual

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<v Speaker 1>exams with my gynecologist. Plus my PCOS symptoms were masked

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<v Speaker 1>by the pill, so I just had no idea that

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<v Speaker 1>I would ever end up with unexplained infertility. I always

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<v Speaker 1>assumed that if I had trouble getting pregnant, especially since

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't start trying until I was thirty five, which

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<v Speaker 1>is considered geriatric in the medical world, that IVP would

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<v Speaker 1>be a safety net that it would definitely work. My

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<v Speaker 1>last embryo transfer was over a year ago, and while

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<v Speaker 1>I have two perfect embryos still sitting frozen and ready beus,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been too scared to try again, going through the appointments,

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<v Speaker 1>the injections, dealing with the effects of the hormones, holding

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<v Speaker 1>onto hope, and telling myself this time will work. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just not sure I'm strong enough to go through it all.

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<v Speaker 2>Again, thank you so much for sharing your story with us,

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<v Speaker 2>and a huge thank you to everyone who reached out

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<v Speaker 2>and shared their stories with us. You'll hear more first

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<v Speaker 2>hand accounts later in this episode and in the next

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<v Speaker 2>couple of episodes that we'll be doing on this topic.

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<v Speaker 2>And there were so like we were truly overwhelmed in

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<v Speaker 2>the best possible way by the sheer volume of responses

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<v Speaker 2>that we got. Like I never expected it. It was incredible.

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<v Speaker 2>So thank you to each and every one of you

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<v Speaker 2>who sent in your stories. We appreciate you so so,

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<v Speaker 2>so so much.

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<v Speaker 3>We really do.

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<v Speaker 4>It was incredible. It was a privilege to get to

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<v Speaker 4>read through all of your stories, and thank you so

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<v Speaker 4>much to everyone who wrote in, and we tried to

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<v Speaker 4>include as many people as we possibly could, so you're

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<v Speaker 4>going to hear a lot more first hand accounts throughout

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<v Speaker 4>this episode in our next couple episodes. So thank you

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<v Speaker 4>all so much.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, Hi, I'm erin Welsh.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm Erin Ollman Updyke.

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<v Speaker 2>And this is this podcast will kill you.

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<v Speaker 3>Welcome to the first of three Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Episodes we said in our social media posts that were

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<v Speaker 2>going to do a two parter, and then as we

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<v Speaker 2>started to like plan what that two parter would look like,

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<v Speaker 2>we realized very quickly that this could not only be

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<v Speaker 2>just two parts, that it needed to be at least three,

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<v Speaker 2>if not many, many many more. We're stopping at three.

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, it's it's going to be a lot, but

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<v Speaker 4>we are really really excited about it.

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<v Speaker 3>So buckle up. Three weeks up.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, this is do I even need to say

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<v Speaker 2>that this is such a huge topic. It just is

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<v Speaker 2>such a huge topic. We always say this, but this

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<v Speaker 2>time we're really showing you that we mean it by

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<v Speaker 2>dividing it into three episodes. And so just to give

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<v Speaker 2>you an overview of what each of these episodes is

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<v Speaker 2>going to include. The first episode, this one today, is

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<v Speaker 2>going to focus primarily on infertility. So I'll be talking

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<v Speaker 2>about the concept of infertility as it has changed over time,

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<v Speaker 2>leading up to the development of assisted reproductive technologies in

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<v Speaker 2>the twentieth century. And Aaron will go into what to

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<v Speaker 2>expect if you go in for a fertility exam and

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<v Speaker 2>how fertility is assessed.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and then our second episode will be mostly IVF focused,

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<v Speaker 4>So what is IVF, how was it developed, what steps

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<v Speaker 4>had to happen for it to be developed, how does

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<v Speaker 4>this technology actually work, and what does a typical cycle,

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<v Speaker 4>if there is such a thing of IVF, actually look like.

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<v Speaker 3>And then our final.

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<v Speaker 4>Episode will explore IVF as it has grown in terms

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<v Speaker 4>of both industry and innovation, from some ethically murky areas

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<v Speaker 4>to some pretty incredible new technologies.

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<v Speaker 2>Even with three whole episodes, there are things that we're

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<v Speaker 2>not going to be able to cover in depth or

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<v Speaker 2>that will miss entirely, and frankly, that would probably happen

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<v Speaker 2>even if we did an entire series on IVF, And

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<v Speaker 2>as always we will put links to sources where you

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<v Speaker 2>can find more info should you want it. But overall,

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<v Speaker 2>our goals for these episodes are number one, to explain

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<v Speaker 2>what IVF is and how it works. Number two, talk

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<v Speaker 2>about other forms of art assisted reproductive technologies. Number three

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<v Speaker 2>present an overview of how IVF technology was developed, and

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<v Speaker 2>for briefly discuss some of the ethical issues that have

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<v Speaker 2>arisen with art in terms of access regulation and as

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<v Speaker 2>an industry.

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<v Speaker 4>And this is suffice to say a very complex and

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<v Speaker 4>very multi dimensional topic, and there are a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>people out there with really strong feelings about it. Our

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<v Speaker 4>intent is not to add to that noise by sharing

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<v Speaker 4>whatever our individual thoughts that we might have about infertility

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<v Speaker 4>and IVF, but simply to just share all of the

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<v Speaker 4>incredible information that we have learned in the.

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<v Speaker 3>Course of this research.

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<v Speaker 4>So hopefully we do an okay job. But of course,

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<v Speaker 4>before we get into that, it is quarantiny time.

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<v Speaker 2>It is Aaron. What are we drinking this week?

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<v Speaker 3>We're drinking a work of art. Good one. It's a

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<v Speaker 3>good one. It's a little inside joke there.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, and by the way, this is what we'll be

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<v Speaker 2>drinking for this week and the next two episodes on

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<v Speaker 2>this yeah. Classic, yeah, and in a work of art,

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<v Speaker 2>tell me what's in it? What are the delicious ingredients?

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<v Speaker 4>It's kind of essentially like a cucumber gimlet. So we've

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<v Speaker 4>got gin, we've got lime juice, we've got cucumber, We've

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<v Speaker 4>got some simple syrup. You can throw some sparkling water

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<v Speaker 4>in there if you like. It's really refreshing, really tasty.

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<v Speaker 4>And we'll post the full recipe for that quarantini as

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<v Speaker 4>well as the non alcoholic clas Ceba rita on our website.

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<v Speaker 4>This podcast will kill You dot com and all of

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<v Speaker 4>our social media channels.

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<v Speaker 2>We will On our website this podcast will kill You

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<v Speaker 2>dot com, you can find all sorts of cool things,

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<v Speaker 2>I think all the sources, just all the things. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>take a peek, see what you can find. Tell me

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<v Speaker 2>what I'm forgetting.

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<v Speaker 3>You didn't forget anything. I actually that I noticed. I

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<v Speaker 3>thought that it was great, wonderful.

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<v Speaker 2>Then check done done. Should we get started?

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<v Speaker 3>I think that we should. I really think that we should.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's just take a quick break and then I'll get

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<v Speaker 2>started because we're doing all of these episodes a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit out of order where I go first and then.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't wait.

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<v Speaker 6>So my husband and I we started trying to get

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<v Speaker 6>pregnant as soon as we got married. I already had

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<v Speaker 6>my eldest son from a previous relationship, but we were

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<v Speaker 6>desperate to carry on and grow our family. We tried,

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<v Speaker 6>and after trying for a year, we decided to have

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<v Speaker 6>some investigations. We went to the doctor and it turned

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<v Speaker 6>out that my husband had low sperm counts and low

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<v Speaker 6>sperm motility, and so we were told that the only

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<v Speaker 6>real option was to have IVF. We found a clinic

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<v Speaker 6>that we liked, and we also decided to do egg

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<v Speaker 6>donation alongside our IVF treatment. So what that meant is

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<v Speaker 6>that I donated half of the eggs that were harvested

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<v Speaker 6>during the treatment to another couple, So we got nine

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<v Speaker 6>eggs when they went in to collect them, so we

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<v Speaker 6>gave five to the other couple and we had four ourselves.

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<v Speaker 6>The procedure needed ixy as well, which is where this

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<v Speaker 6>sperm is actually injected directly into the egg, so all

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<v Speaker 6>four eggs were fertilized and then it was a very

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<v Speaker 6>anxious weight call in the lab every day to see

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<v Speaker 6>if our embryos had been dividing and developing. And then

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<v Speaker 6>three days later, we chose while the doctors chose the

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<v Speaker 6>two embryos to transfer back into my uterus. It was

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<v Speaker 6>a very nerve wracking day, but we did it. We

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<v Speaker 6>went home and then it was a two week wait

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<v Speaker 6>to find out if it had worked and if I

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<v Speaker 6>was pregnant. We happened to go away for the weekend.

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<v Speaker 6>It was our wedding anniversary, and just by some coincidence,

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<v Speaker 6>we were staying at our same hotel we spent our

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<v Speaker 6>wedding night, and we ended up in the same room

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<v Speaker 6>we spent our wedding night, and that's where I did

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<v Speaker 6>a pregnancy test and we got a positive result. Then

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<v Speaker 6>six weeks later we saw their little heartbeats and we

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<v Speaker 6>found out it was twins. And then those twins are

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<v Speaker 6>now twelve. I also found out that the couple that

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<v Speaker 6>I donated my eggs too, they had a little girl

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<v Speaker 6>as well, so their pregnancy was also successful. So really

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<v Speaker 6>case scenario everyhoe.

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<v Speaker 5>Hi, my name's Maddie.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm twenty eight and my husband and I are currently

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<v Speaker 7>undergoing IVF in the hopes of having our first baby.

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<v Speaker 7>We got married young seven years ago and we weren't

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<v Speaker 7>really in a rush to start a family, but we

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<v Speaker 7>did decide to start trying about two and a half

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<v Speaker 7>years ago. We're trying for about a year, and during

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<v Speaker 7>that time I noticed that my already painful periods were

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<v Speaker 7>now becoming even more difficult to manage, and I also

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<v Speaker 7>noticed some urinary and.

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<v Speaker 5>Bout problems that were quite concerning.

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<v Speaker 7>It took that year of trying to finally get a

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<v Speaker 7>referral to a gynecologist, and within the first ten minutes

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<v Speaker 7>of meeting her, she was pretty convinced that I had

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<v Speaker 7>endometriosis and wanted me in surgery in two weeks. Two

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<v Speaker 7>weeks later, I had a laproscopy and a histroscopy, and

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<v Speaker 7>my surgeon had found stage four endometriosis affecting my uterus, ovaries,

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<v Speaker 7>fallopian tubes, about and bladder, but thankfully she managed to

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<v Speaker 7>remove majority of it and kind of said that for

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<v Speaker 7>the next six month I'd probably be my most fertile,

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<v Speaker 7>and that she'd be quite surprised if I hadn't naturally

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<v Speaker 7>fallen pregnant. And in that six months those boo and

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<v Speaker 7>urinary problems had subsided, and so too did the period pain,

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<v Speaker 7>so we were quite hopeful. Fast forward six months and

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<v Speaker 7>still nothing was happening, so we requested a referral to

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<v Speaker 7>a fertility specialist and she informed us that my husband

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<v Speaker 7>had a low sperm count. His count was roughly one

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<v Speaker 7>and a half million sperm per meal and the normal

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<v Speaker 7>reference point is fifteen million per meal, so she actually

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<v Speaker 7>recommended IXY over IVF to ensure a good fertilization rate.

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<v Speaker 7>October last year, I had my first egg retrieval and

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<v Speaker 7>I was really lucky and had a really positive experience.

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<v Speaker 7>I wasn't shy of the needles, being a healthcare worker,

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<v Speaker 7>and I had a really good result. We retrieved twenty

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<v Speaker 7>eggs and ten were actually mature enough to fertilize. Nine

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<v Speaker 7>did fertilize overnight, and by day five I had six

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<v Speaker 7>really high quality blastocites. We ended up doing a fresh

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<v Speaker 7>transfer with one of them and froze the rest, and

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<v Speaker 7>unfortunately that transfer failed, and since then we've done a

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<v Speaker 7>further too frozen embryo transfers that have unfortunately also failed.

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<v Speaker 7>I've actually just done my second historiscopy in just over

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<v Speaker 7>twelve months to see if there's some kind of issue

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<v Speaker 7>local to my uterus that might be preventing implantation, and

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<v Speaker 7>I've also done multiple blood tests to rule out other

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<v Speaker 7>issues such.

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<v Speaker 5>As immune or clotting disorders.

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<v Speaker 7>We are actually hoping to do another transfer within the

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<v Speaker 7>next month or two, and we remain really hopeful. We

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<v Speaker 7>both say this is one of the hardest journeys we've

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<v Speaker 7>ever been through, and we're very aware that there are

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<v Speaker 7>people who have been on even longer, more painful journeys

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<v Speaker 7>than us. Every day is a battle, and every failed

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<v Speaker 7>cycle is a full cycle of grief. But we're so

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<v Speaker 7>grateful we have the means to do this, and at

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<v Speaker 7>a time where science is learning more and more every

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<v Speaker 7>day about infertility and how to overcome it, and hopefully

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<v Speaker 7>one day we'll get our little baby.

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<v Speaker 2>It seems to me like every few months there's a

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<v Speaker 2>headline that declares, in somewhat alarmist tones, infertility is on

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<v Speaker 2>the rise?

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<v Speaker 3>Is it?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it? The short answer is no, and I know

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<v Speaker 2>that you'll give the longer answer later in the episode Erin,

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<v Speaker 2>but most research shows that actually global infertility has changed

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<v Speaker 2>very little over the past few decades, if at all.

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<v Speaker 2>I think the more accurate headline would be headlines about

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<v Speaker 2>infertility being on the rise. Are on the rise, And

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<v Speaker 2>I'll get into more of the possible reasons for that

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<v Speaker 2>a little later on, But I wanted to start with

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<v Speaker 2>these headlines because I think they provide an opportunity for

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<v Speaker 2>us to think about what infertility can mean for us today,

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<v Speaker 2>and how those definitions are fluid across space, across time,

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<v Speaker 2>and across intent. There's the medical definition of infertility, which

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<v Speaker 2>the WHO says is twelve months of regular unprotected sex

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<v Speaker 2>without pregnancy, and that definition actually has been like the

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<v Speaker 2>medical definition has been revised over the years. There's primary

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<v Speaker 2>infertility it's like no pregnancy ever, and secondary infertility at

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<v Speaker 2>least one pregnancy previously. And then there's what insurance companies

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<v Speaker 2>will consider to be infertility, which changes what they're willing

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<v Speaker 2>to cover for fertility treatment. There's how infertility is used

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<v Speaker 2>politically as a scare tactic to reinforce gender roles. There's

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<v Speaker 2>fertility rate, which some headlines conflate with infertility rate, so

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like the average woman in twenty twenty four

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<v Speaker 2>is giving birth to fewer kids than in the nineteen fifties,

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<v Speaker 2>so infertility must be on the rise, that's not, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>something having like two.

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<v Speaker 4>Whole pages that I had to cut down just about that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's very very very different. Yes, yes, infertility. The concept

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<v Speaker 2>of infertility varies also across cultures. So for instance, there

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<v Speaker 2>are some cultures that consider someone to be infertile if

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<v Speaker 2>they haven't given birth to a boy yet. Is it

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<v Speaker 2>a snapshot measure or a lifetime measure? If you become

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<v Speaker 2>pregnant after two years, three years, five years, seven years

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<v Speaker 2>of trying does that still count? Like does infertility apply

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<v Speaker 2>to couples or to individuals? Does intent matter? If someone

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<v Speaker 2>cannot become pregnant due to a medical issue, but they

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<v Speaker 2>have never intended to become pregnant, does that count as infertility?

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<v Speaker 2>Along those same lines, if someone never seeks treatment for

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<v Speaker 2>infertility because of lack of access, personal beliefs, other reasons,

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<v Speaker 2>are they counted in these measures of infertility? Will their

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<v Speaker 2>voice be heard? The bottom line is that infertility can

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<v Speaker 2>mean many different things to many different people, and it

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<v Speaker 2>can be difficult to get a handle on where these

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<v Speaker 2>modern measures of infertility are coming from, who they are capturing,

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<v Speaker 2>and who they are failing to capture. This is one

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<v Speaker 2>reason why we should scrutinize headlines claiming a rise in

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<v Speaker 2>infertility rates, first of all, compared to when the data

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<v Speaker 2>that go into modern measures of infertility are incredibly messy,

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<v Speaker 2>let alone estimates from the early twentieth century or before,

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<v Speaker 2>when infertility was even more shrouded in silence than it

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<v Speaker 2>is today. Secondly, these headlines tend to ramp up during

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<v Speaker 2>periods of backlash against progressive movements like women's liberation in

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<v Speaker 2>the nineteen seventies, which was followed by claims that the

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<v Speaker 2>traditional nuclear family was at risk because career hungry women

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<v Speaker 2>were waiting too long to have kids. And then this

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<v Speaker 2>called for a return to a traditional working husband's stay

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<v Speaker 2>at home mom arrangement. And it's you know, we're seeing

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<v Speaker 2>echoes of that today with this tradwife trend and all

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<v Speaker 2>of the birth controlled disinformation that's circulating around social media lately. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>And the last thing I'll say about these headlines is

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<v Speaker 2>that right alongside them are reports of out of control

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<v Speaker 2>global population growth, which shows that it's not about infertility overall,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's rather concern over who is having babies and

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<v Speaker 2>who isn't. If infertility in its bio medical definition is

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<v Speaker 2>truly on the rise globally or regionally or within populations,

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<v Speaker 2>we should investigate why that is. Just because infertility is

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<v Speaker 2>hard to measure, it doesn't mean that we shouldn't try.

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<v Speaker 2>And if we want to do that, we have to

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<v Speaker 2>take in all of the various meanings of infertility, what

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<v Speaker 2>it means to people measuring it, what it means to

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<v Speaker 2>people experiencing it, what it means to people treating it,

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<v Speaker 2>and how those meanings change over space and time. For

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<v Speaker 2>a truly amazing overview of this subject. I highly recommend

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<v Speaker 2>that Paul Grave Handbook of Infertility in History, edited by

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<v Speaker 2>Gail Davis and Tracy Lofgren, which was my main resource

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<v Speaker 2>for this first episode. It's a wonderful collection of essays

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<v Speaker 2>and chapters and works that I really just all across

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<v Speaker 2>the board. I mean, I was like completely overwhelmed, but

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<v Speaker 2>I loved it. So I want to first take a

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<v Speaker 2>step back and consider what it means to look for

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<v Speaker 2>traces of infertility throughout history. Humans have experienced infertility forever,

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<v Speaker 2>but infertility doesn't leave marks on the bone, and it

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't get logged in yearly mortality rates or disease tallies.

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<v Speaker 2>With the exception of the last century or so, it

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<v Speaker 2>is rarely openly discussed by those who are experiencing it,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe because they didn't know how to read or write,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe because their writings were not seen as important for preservation,

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<v Speaker 2>or maybe because shame or pain kept them from including

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<v Speaker 2>it in their writings. There do exist some examples of

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<v Speaker 2>letters or diaries where women have described their feelings about

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<v Speaker 2>not being able to have children or not being able

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<v Speaker 2>to have additional children. Secondary infertility is even more difficult

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<v Speaker 2>to spot in history, but these writings are fairly rare.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm going to read you a quote from Henriette

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<v Speaker 2>Obermuller Vena Dat, writing in her autobiography in eighteen seventy quote.

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<v Speaker 2>I bought books, I talked to women's doctors. I decided

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<v Speaker 2>to do everything they told me to. I saw the midwife,

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<v Speaker 2>I was told this and that. I heard that there

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<v Speaker 2>was a recipe, but that it might kill me. I

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<v Speaker 2>wouldn't have minded. If only I could have become a mother,

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<v Speaker 2>if only I could have born Gustave a child. I

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<v Speaker 2>was so certain it was my fault.

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<v Speaker 6>End quote.

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<v Speaker 2>Infertility or difficulty conceiving shows up in pagan mythologies with

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<v Speaker 2>goddesses of fertility, and plays in religious texts like the Bible,

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<v Speaker 2>in epic poems. In works of art. We see traces

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<v Speaker 2>of infertility in instances of royal succession, like where a

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<v Speaker 2>male heir is not produced, but for the most part

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<v Speaker 2>in those stories it stays more of an historical plot

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<v Speaker 2>point rather than the lived experience being important on its own,

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<v Speaker 2>probably keeping infertility partially shrouded in silence. Theat history is

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<v Speaker 2>its affiliation with sex, which has always been pretty taboo

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<v Speaker 2>in Western culture. Especially sex without procreation, as well as

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<v Speaker 2>the fact that bearing children has been the expectation, the

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<v Speaker 2>norm throughout all of history, and when that didn't happen,

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<v Speaker 2>it was a noticed and be tinged with shame, indicative

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<v Speaker 2>of a problem. Finally, infertility has mostly been seen as

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<v Speaker 2>a woman's issue, thus not as important for documenting. Who

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<v Speaker 2>is doing the writing after all, who is actually deciding

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<v Speaker 2>what is important in history, you know, and what should

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<v Speaker 2>be preserved or not? Would they have viewed a woman's

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<v Speaker 2>infertility as relevant to the historical record or just to

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<v Speaker 2>whatever story they're telling. As Davis and Lochrin, the editors

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<v Speaker 2>of this book put it, quote, these problems are magnified

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<v Speaker 2>when tackling infertility experiential state that exists as an absence,

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<v Speaker 2>the failure to engender pregnancy that plays out on the

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<v Speaker 2>bodies of women, a historically marginalized group, and that, it seems,

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<v Speaker 2>often further stigmatizes its subjects, thus rendering them inarticulate or

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<v Speaker 2>silent end quote. Where we see the most references to infertility,

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<v Speaker 2>or maybe more precisely, involuntary childlessness is in medical writings

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<v Speaker 2>with hypotheses as to why someone is not able to

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<v Speaker 2>become pregnant or treatment handbooks to target different perceived causes

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<v Speaker 2>of involuntary childlessness, ranging from the biological, to the psychological

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<v Speaker 2>to the spiritual. Today, if someone goes in for fertility testing,

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<v Speaker 2>doctors will try to pinpoint the precise issue and come

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<v Speaker 2>up with treatment based on that. But we know a

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<v Speaker 2>whole lot more now about reproductive science than, for instance,

0:24:54.880 --> 0:24:59.119
<v Speaker 2>ancient Greek physicians, who largely viewed reproduction in like plant

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<v Speaker 2>soil terms. The man provides the seed semen the active

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<v Speaker 2>dynamic material, and the woman provides the substrate, the soil

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<v Speaker 2>the menstrual blood in which the seed is planted. And

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<v Speaker 2>this agricultural metaphor reinforced the role of the man as

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<v Speaker 2>the active partner and the woman as passive, which still

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<v Speaker 2>finds its way into the way we talk about some

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<v Speaker 2>of these aspects of fertility or reproduction. The sperm invading

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<v Speaker 2>the egg, you know, like this very much active role

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<v Speaker 2>and then passive role. And it also explains why the

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<v Speaker 2>terms fertile, barren, and seed are associated with producing offspring.

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<v Speaker 3>I never in a million years would have thought about that.

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<v Speaker 2>There is like so much about agriculture and reproduction in

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<v Speaker 2>ancient Greece and it makes sense, I mean, it's yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And also what kind of makes sense along these same

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<v Speaker 2>lines is treatment. So in ancient Greece, a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>the treatments for improving conception, and this extended all the

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<v Speaker 2>way to medieval times. They tend to center around either

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<v Speaker 2>balancing out the humors, of course, or prescribing recipes that

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<v Speaker 2>included ingredients associated with fertility, like the sexual organs of animals,

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<v Speaker 2>of certain animals in particular, plants that produce a whole

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<v Speaker 2>lot of seeds, or animal dung which was used to

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<v Speaker 2>fertilized fields for planting crops.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh.

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<v Speaker 3>Gross, but logical in a way.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes. And while many of these treatments were geared just

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<v Speaker 2>towards women, some involved both a husband and a wife,

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<v Speaker 2>and a small handful were just for men. Recipe books

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<v Speaker 2>from medieval England sometimes included tests meant to show the

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<v Speaker 2>source of the infertility. Is it from the husband? Is

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<v Speaker 2>it from the wife? For example, quote the man and

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<v Speaker 2>woman should each urinate into a pot of brand and

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<v Speaker 2>the pot were then left to stand for a period

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<v Speaker 2>of seven, ten or fourteen nights. At the end of

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<v Speaker 2>this time, if the fault lay in one partner, then

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<v Speaker 2>the pot containing his or her urine would stink or

0:27:11.760 --> 0:27:17.320
<v Speaker 2>contain worms. But if neither pot contained worms, then may

0:27:17.440 --> 0:27:20.280
<v Speaker 2>men help them to have a child through medicines.

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<v Speaker 3>End quote yea yeaiyii wow.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean is there something to that? I don't think so,

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<v Speaker 2>but it is very interesting. What worms?

0:27:33.400 --> 0:27:34.120
<v Speaker 3>What worm?

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<v Speaker 2>What worms? I'm so curious a.

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<v Speaker 3>Cup of brand and urine.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't even know what to say.

0:27:42.080 --> 0:27:46.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you don't have to say. I don't know, speechless.

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<v Speaker 2>And of course these books would not have been the

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<v Speaker 2>only sources of information about pregnancy and conceiving. We have

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<v Speaker 2>no way of knowing how much knowledge was exchanged between

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<v Speaker 2>women or between men, and never written down. These treatments

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<v Speaker 2>and tests followed the logic of what was then thought

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<v Speaker 2>to lead to pregnancy, which, by the way, just as

0:28:08.359 --> 0:28:11.159
<v Speaker 2>a reminder, not like you need the reminding, but I

0:28:11.160 --> 0:28:14.960
<v Speaker 2>mean we all need the reminder. You couldn't go out

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<v Speaker 2>and get a test to tell you within a matter

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<v Speaker 2>of weeks that you were pregnant. You had to wait

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<v Speaker 2>like a long time.

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<v Speaker 3>Very long time.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think it also forces us to consider how

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<v Speaker 2>much our current definition of infertility depends on our biomedical

0:28:31.480 --> 0:28:35.359
<v Speaker 2>understanding of reproduction. Which we really only gained in the

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<v Speaker 2>twentieth century. I feel like historically infertility was an absence

0:28:40.320 --> 0:28:44.520
<v Speaker 2>of something, and then it grew into more refined definitions

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<v Speaker 2>of Oh, it is a presence of this issue, It

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<v Speaker 2>is a presence of this issue, all of these different things.

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<v Speaker 2>And also, I mean, of course, I want to acknowledge

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<v Speaker 2>that unexplained infertility makes up a huge proportion of infertility cases,

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<v Speaker 2>or people who seek infertility.

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<v Speaker 3>Will get there, We will get there.

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<v Speaker 2>The word infertility came to prominence in the late nineteen seventies,

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<v Speaker 2>replacing the terms barren and sterile. People knew you.

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<v Speaker 3>Say sorry, sorry sorry sor yeah you're saying nineteen seventies.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's what I read that. It was like, I

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<v Speaker 2>think that infertility had been used, it had been a term,

0:29:20.760 --> 0:29:24.520
<v Speaker 2>but it really I think replaced the other two around

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<v Speaker 2>that time.

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<v Speaker 3>That makes sense, That makes sense.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, people knew what sperm and eggs were since the

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<v Speaker 2>seventeenth century, but it wasn't until the late eighteen hundreds

0:29:34.000 --> 0:29:36.960
<v Speaker 2>that scientists figured out how they work together.

0:29:37.640 --> 0:29:37.960
<v Speaker 3>Cool.

0:29:38.560 --> 0:29:40.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's an entire story.

0:29:40.680 --> 0:29:46.800
<v Speaker 4>It's also so so that's so much earlier than I expected. Somehow,

0:29:46.840 --> 0:29:49.960
<v Speaker 4>like it's it isn't that it is the eighteen eighties.

0:29:50.480 --> 0:29:53.760
<v Speaker 2>Wow, Yeah, like the late eighteen hundreds. I don't know

0:29:53.800 --> 0:29:56.320
<v Speaker 2>why it struck me as late, because I feel like

0:29:56.360 --> 0:29:59.240
<v Speaker 2>if they had known what they both were, But I

0:29:59.240 --> 0:30:01.520
<v Speaker 2>think it was more to like the role that each

0:30:01.560 --> 0:30:06.160
<v Speaker 2>of them played. But even still, sperm and eggs are

0:30:06.200 --> 0:30:10.200
<v Speaker 2>just one piece of the puzzle. For much of human history,

0:30:10.240 --> 0:30:13.880
<v Speaker 2>the nitty gritty of human reproduction remained more or less

0:30:13.880 --> 0:30:17.960
<v Speaker 2>a mystery, and where there's room for doubt or uncertainty,

0:30:18.400 --> 0:30:23.160
<v Speaker 2>there's often room for blame. Women historically and even today,

0:30:23.360 --> 0:30:25.760
<v Speaker 2>tend to shoulder more of the blame when it comes

0:30:25.760 --> 0:30:29.840
<v Speaker 2>to difficulty conceiving, and it's not uncommon to hear modern

0:30:29.880 --> 0:30:33.640
<v Speaker 2>stories where a straight couple goes through fertility testing. The

0:30:33.680 --> 0:30:36.800
<v Speaker 2>doctors find a potential contributing factor in the woman, they

0:30:36.800 --> 0:30:40.400
<v Speaker 2>take steps to treat that, and then months or years

0:30:40.440 --> 0:30:43.960
<v Speaker 2>down the line, finally like still nothing's happening, and they

0:30:44.040 --> 0:30:49.720
<v Speaker 2>finally test the man and find additional issues. In this

0:30:50.000 --> 0:30:54.200
<v Speaker 2>Palgrave Handbook of infertility book, I came across the story

0:30:54.280 --> 0:30:56.800
<v Speaker 2>of a woman who, quote, over a two year period

0:30:56.800 --> 0:31:01.040
<v Speaker 2>in the late nineteen forties, underwent two dilation and curati operations,

0:31:01.160 --> 0:31:06.320
<v Speaker 2>a tubal insulflation, a selpindrogram, an endometrial biopsy, and a

0:31:06.360 --> 0:31:10.920
<v Speaker 2>host of injections, courses of tablets and douches before her husband,

0:31:11.000 --> 0:31:16.200
<v Speaker 2>Seamen was tested and found to contain no spermatozoa end

0:31:16.280 --> 0:31:22.000
<v Speaker 2>quote wow wow, So yeah. We can see this blame

0:31:22.040 --> 0:31:25.400
<v Speaker 2>with many royal families, where women were seen as responsible

0:31:25.440 --> 0:31:28.240
<v Speaker 2>for producing an air and a spare, as well as

0:31:28.240 --> 0:31:32.520
<v Speaker 2>other children for forming political alliances. If a woman failed

0:31:32.520 --> 0:31:35.360
<v Speaker 2>to fulfill her royal and marital duties in that way,

0:31:35.760 --> 0:31:38.320
<v Speaker 2>at the least, she was frowned upon. At the most

0:31:38.720 --> 0:31:42.240
<v Speaker 2>she was disposed of, as Henry the Eighth famously did

0:31:42.280 --> 0:31:45.720
<v Speaker 2>to several wives, even though scholars think that he was

0:31:46.040 --> 0:31:48.880
<v Speaker 2>probably the common denominator and that it was actually quite

0:31:48.920 --> 0:31:52.160
<v Speaker 2>common because at the time forty percent of Tudor marriages

0:31:52.200 --> 0:31:57.080
<v Speaker 2>had no children. Really really, that's what at least historical

0:31:57.080 --> 0:32:02.440
<v Speaker 2>calculations estimate. A marriage without children could be seen as

0:32:02.440 --> 0:32:07.080
<v Speaker 2>a sign of God's disapproval or later on unpatriotic, because

0:32:07.120 --> 0:32:11.280
<v Speaker 2>a thriving population was important for military and economic strength.

0:32:12.160 --> 0:32:13.920
<v Speaker 2>But of course there's the caveat that I had.

0:32:13.840 --> 0:32:17.400
<v Speaker 4>To be the right people reproducing right I mean, honestly,

0:32:17.440 --> 0:32:20.320
<v Speaker 4>that's still the vibe from all of the articles today

0:32:20.440 --> 0:32:23.880
<v Speaker 4>about fertility rates or infertility rates, like, that's the vibe.

0:32:24.080 --> 0:32:28.960
<v Speaker 2>It is the yep, it is yep, it is eugenic,

0:32:29.000 --> 0:32:37.360
<v Speaker 2>y eugenic adjacent. For centuries, women have been scrutinized for everything,

0:32:37.520 --> 0:32:42.120
<v Speaker 2>their behavior, their bearing, their morality, their personality, their indulgences,

0:32:42.200 --> 0:32:47.120
<v Speaker 2>their activity, their education, and especially their bodies to fat,

0:32:47.320 --> 0:32:51.400
<v Speaker 2>too thin, too tall, to short, whatever it is, it

0:32:51.440 --> 0:32:54.520
<v Speaker 2>was their fault. In the nineteenth century, it was thought

0:32:54.560 --> 0:32:57.520
<v Speaker 2>that the more passionate the woman, the more likely she

0:32:57.560 --> 0:33:02.120
<v Speaker 2>would be infertile, ending in an orgasm for a woman

0:33:02.360 --> 0:33:05.600
<v Speaker 2>was thought to be less conducive to child bearing. Ah,

0:33:06.840 --> 0:33:09.600
<v Speaker 2>one of the more depressing things I've I've read.

0:33:09.800 --> 0:33:13.240
<v Speaker 3>It's also not accurate scientifically, let me tell you.

0:33:13.560 --> 0:33:20.000
<v Speaker 2>Oh fascinating, Okay, The moral and medical explanations of infertility

0:33:20.240 --> 0:33:24.480
<v Speaker 2>blended together. By the late eighteen hundreds. The causative agents

0:33:24.520 --> 0:33:28.840
<v Speaker 2>of gonorrhea and syphilis and their effects on fertility were recognized,

0:33:29.360 --> 0:33:33.840
<v Speaker 2>but in general, physicians believed that women's reproductive biology was

0:33:33.920 --> 0:33:37.680
<v Speaker 2>more complex, and so women were more likely to experience

0:33:37.760 --> 0:33:43.520
<v Speaker 2>complications from these infections compared to men. One physician R. A.

0:33:43.680 --> 0:33:47.400
<v Speaker 2>Gibbons said in a nineteen ten address to the Medical

0:33:47.440 --> 0:33:51.600
<v Speaker 2>Graduates College that quote, in many cases of sterility about

0:33:51.600 --> 0:33:55.600
<v Speaker 2>which you will be consulted, it is undoubtedly the fault

0:33:55.720 --> 0:33:56.320
<v Speaker 2>of the woman.

0:33:57.000 --> 0:34:00.120
<v Speaker 3>End quote.

0:34:00.240 --> 0:34:04.720
<v Speaker 2>Ninety six book titled Sterility by Robert Bell begins with quote,

0:34:04.960 --> 0:34:08.480
<v Speaker 2>in considering the important subject of sterility in the female,

0:34:08.840 --> 0:34:12.879
<v Speaker 2>we must not forget the fact that occasionally impotency may

0:34:13.000 --> 0:34:17.360
<v Speaker 2>exist in the male. This is of such rare occurrence, however,

0:34:17.440 --> 0:34:21.600
<v Speaker 2>that it may be looked upon almost as phenomenal. Moreover,

0:34:21.680 --> 0:34:24.160
<v Speaker 2>when it does occur, it can generally be traced to

0:34:24.200 --> 0:34:27.520
<v Speaker 2>the effects of some previous gone a real or syphilitic attack.

0:34:28.040 --> 0:34:28.640
<v Speaker 6>End quote.

0:34:29.560 --> 0:34:33.560
<v Speaker 3>Wow, yeah, it's just so blatant.

0:34:34.200 --> 0:34:38.080
<v Speaker 4>It's also so interesting the use of different words, right,

0:34:38.320 --> 0:34:42.200
<v Speaker 4>like sterility versus impotence. Like, it's very interesting.

0:34:43.440 --> 0:34:46.680
<v Speaker 2>It is. It is. And I don't know, like if

0:34:46.680 --> 0:34:49.840
<v Speaker 2>the definitions have I mean, I'm assuming that they have changed,

0:34:50.080 --> 0:34:53.200
<v Speaker 2>or like the umbrella has changed. Yeah, I don't know.

0:34:53.600 --> 0:34:56.839
<v Speaker 3>It's interesting. They all just have such like weight to them,

0:34:56.920 --> 0:34:58.640
<v Speaker 3>no matter what, like on both sides.

0:34:58.920 --> 0:35:06.040
<v Speaker 2>Yes, Yeah, this attitude, this belief that women were more

0:35:06.120 --> 0:35:09.840
<v Speaker 2>to blame for any sort of issues of infertility in

0:35:09.960 --> 0:35:14.239
<v Speaker 2>a couple. This became a self fulfilling prophecy because if

0:35:14.239 --> 0:35:17.880
<v Speaker 2>physicians were taught that male infertility was rare, then they

0:35:17.880 --> 0:35:21.200
<v Speaker 2>were less likely to examine the husband of a couple

0:35:21.320 --> 0:35:26.319
<v Speaker 2>having difficulty conceiving because also, I say husband, because for

0:35:26.400 --> 0:35:28.520
<v Speaker 2>the most part in this period of time, the only

0:35:28.560 --> 0:35:31.080
<v Speaker 2>people who were seeking, or the vast majority of people

0:35:31.080 --> 0:35:34.520
<v Speaker 2>who were seeking and would be seen by physicians, had

0:35:34.560 --> 0:35:37.040
<v Speaker 2>to be a married couple. There was that sort of

0:35:37.120 --> 0:35:43.279
<v Speaker 2>morality component to it. Some physicians did recognize that it

0:35:43.400 --> 0:35:47.080
<v Speaker 2>wasn't necessarily the wife's fault, the woman's fault with eugenic

0:35:47.160 --> 0:35:50.919
<v Speaker 2>y undertones. So quote A great many women are, through

0:35:50.960 --> 0:35:54.640
<v Speaker 2>no fault of their own, incapable of becoming mothers. The

0:35:54.719 --> 0:35:57.319
<v Speaker 2>reason for this is that they have been infected by

0:35:57.400 --> 0:36:00.640
<v Speaker 2>venereal disease, which is the great foe to the reproduction

0:36:00.760 --> 0:36:04.120
<v Speaker 2>of the race. The husband has infected his wife and

0:36:04.160 --> 0:36:06.799
<v Speaker 2>thus robbed her of the power of maternity.

0:36:07.200 --> 0:36:07.760
<v Speaker 6>End quote.

0:36:08.360 --> 0:36:12.440
<v Speaker 3>It's so interesting erin Yeah, there's Oh, there's just so

0:36:12.560 --> 0:36:16.560
<v Speaker 3>many layers of like connotations and assumptions that go into

0:36:16.880 --> 0:36:18.239
<v Speaker 3>like a sentence like that.

0:36:18.680 --> 0:36:22.239
<v Speaker 2>I know, I know there are directions like where is

0:36:22.239 --> 0:36:25.919
<v Speaker 2>the blame going? Who was the active? Who was who

0:36:26.000 --> 0:36:29.040
<v Speaker 2>was the Yeah? The subjectives yeah.

0:36:29.000 --> 0:36:30.799
<v Speaker 3>Robbed her like everything about.

0:36:30.520 --> 0:36:36.520
<v Speaker 2>It, the word choices yeah, yeah yeah. And we've got

0:36:36.560 --> 0:36:40.239
<v Speaker 2>more because just for ice, we do just wait for it.

0:36:40.960 --> 0:36:44.200
<v Speaker 2>The development of testing and treatment for STIs in the

0:36:44.239 --> 0:36:48.879
<v Speaker 2>early twentieth century helped to reduce infertility associated with those infections,

0:36:49.360 --> 0:36:53.959
<v Speaker 2>but it didn't remove the language of blame. The psychogenic

0:36:54.080 --> 0:36:57.800
<v Speaker 2>model of infertility rose to prominence in the nineteen thirties,

0:36:58.760 --> 0:37:03.680
<v Speaker 2>basically this idea that certain women brought on their infertility

0:37:03.800 --> 0:37:06.920
<v Speaker 2>by not adapting to established gender roles.

0:37:07.280 --> 0:37:09.360
<v Speaker 3>Can I just guess that Freud had something to do

0:37:09.400 --> 0:37:09.600
<v Speaker 3>with this?

0:37:09.840 --> 0:37:17.879
<v Speaker 2>Yes on the Dot? Got it of Yes, Yeah. It's

0:37:17.920 --> 0:37:22.400
<v Speaker 2>been called a quote psychic conflict flying under a gynecologic

0:37:22.520 --> 0:37:29.760
<v Speaker 2>flag end quote. Go Ross, it's awful Ross. Yeah. Okay,

0:37:29.800 --> 0:37:32.360
<v Speaker 2>So I'm going to read you a quote from Freud's

0:37:33.000 --> 0:37:40.360
<v Speaker 2>colleague Helene Deutsch. I also quoted her in our menopause episode. Quote,

0:37:41.440 --> 0:37:45.480
<v Speaker 2>has her fear of the reproduction function proved stronger than

0:37:45.520 --> 0:37:48.160
<v Speaker 2>her wish to be a mother? Is she still so

0:37:48.280 --> 0:37:52.280
<v Speaker 2>much a child that she cannot emotionally and consciously decide

0:37:52.320 --> 0:37:55.840
<v Speaker 2>to assume the responsible role of mother. Is she so

0:37:56.000 --> 0:38:00.800
<v Speaker 2>much absorbed emotionally in other life tasks that she fears motherhood?

0:38:01.440 --> 0:38:06.000
<v Speaker 2>And above all, has the sterile woman overcome the narcissistic

0:38:06.320 --> 0:38:11.560
<v Speaker 2>mortification of her inferiority as a woman to such an

0:38:11.600 --> 0:38:14.799
<v Speaker 2>extent that she is willing to give the child as

0:38:14.880 --> 0:38:17.319
<v Speaker 2>object full maternal love?

0:38:18.200 --> 0:38:24.000
<v Speaker 3>End quote? Oh, the rage of coursing through me.

0:38:26.600 --> 0:38:33.040
<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, I know, I know, yep, yep, yeah, Like.

0:38:35.239 --> 0:38:42.080
<v Speaker 3>I don't even have like, I.

0:38:39.239 --> 0:38:43.880
<v Speaker 4>It's amazing that that was not very long ago.

0:38:44.760 --> 0:38:48.080
<v Speaker 3>Yes, that was less than one hundred years ago.

0:38:49.200 --> 0:38:51.279
<v Speaker 2>I mean less than a hundred years ago. And then

0:38:51.440 --> 0:38:55.640
<v Speaker 2>sort of like we've talked about the time that it

0:38:55.719 --> 0:39:00.960
<v Speaker 2>takes for something to leave this tradition. I mean, Freud

0:39:00.960 --> 0:39:03.000
<v Speaker 2>had was so influential.

0:39:02.680 --> 0:39:08.239
<v Speaker 4>So influential, like still to this day influential. Yeah, and

0:39:08.280 --> 0:39:11.520
<v Speaker 4>you can't like separate that kind of thing out from

0:39:11.560 --> 0:39:14.160
<v Speaker 4>all of the other ideas, Like, sorry, okay, this is

0:39:14.200 --> 0:39:15.400
<v Speaker 4>not an episode about Freud.

0:39:15.800 --> 0:39:19.640
<v Speaker 2>I know, maybe someday now, I don't know if I'm

0:39:19.800 --> 0:39:23.239
<v Speaker 2>I don't know if I'm prepared to do that. But

0:39:24.920 --> 0:39:29.759
<v Speaker 2>also people sometimes blamed infertility in men on their quote

0:39:29.840 --> 0:39:33.680
<v Speaker 2>unquote domineering and controlling mothers. So it was just like

0:39:33.800 --> 0:39:38.759
<v Speaker 2>always you know, just you know, we're not surprised, just disappointed.

0:39:39.239 --> 0:39:42.319
<v Speaker 4>You can blame a mother for infertility. That's just like

0:39:42.840 --> 0:39:44.239
<v Speaker 4>that's taken a cake, right.

0:39:44.320 --> 0:39:49.160
<v Speaker 2>I mean, yep, yep across the board. Though, you know,

0:39:49.200 --> 0:39:52.640
<v Speaker 2>I do think it's important to note that infertility for

0:39:52.680 --> 0:39:56.600
<v Speaker 2>both men and women was and continued to be highly

0:39:56.640 --> 0:40:01.000
<v Speaker 2>stigmatized and full of blame language. And there's no doubt

0:40:01.040 --> 0:40:05.520
<v Speaker 2>that shame also silenced men writing about their fertility issues.

0:40:05.640 --> 0:40:08.960
<v Speaker 2>A history of male infertility seems even more difficult to

0:40:09.000 --> 0:40:12.200
<v Speaker 2>get a handle on in some degree. And although the

0:40:12.200 --> 0:40:15.880
<v Speaker 2>psychogenic model of infertility fell out of favor in subsequent

0:40:15.920 --> 0:40:19.880
<v Speaker 2>decades as we learned more about how human reproduction works,

0:40:20.320 --> 0:40:24.520
<v Speaker 2>it still lingers in some ways, like the advice that

0:40:24.880 --> 0:40:29.319
<v Speaker 2>you will come across, Oh you're just too stressed, try

0:40:29.320 --> 0:40:32.719
<v Speaker 2>to relax and then you'll get pregnant, or you just

0:40:32.760 --> 0:40:35.880
<v Speaker 2>don't want it enough. Maybe it's your body's way of

0:40:35.920 --> 0:40:39.480
<v Speaker 2>saying this wasn't meant to be. All of these types

0:40:39.520 --> 0:40:43.920
<v Speaker 2>of things have echoes of the psychogenic model, but the

0:40:43.920 --> 0:40:49.520
<v Speaker 2>more positive legacy is that the recognition that Experiencing infertility

0:40:49.560 --> 0:40:53.680
<v Speaker 2>and going through fertility treatments can have profound impacts on

0:40:53.760 --> 0:40:58.160
<v Speaker 2>mental health, revealing a need for mental health professionals infertility

0:40:58.160 --> 0:41:03.040
<v Speaker 2>clinics not as gatekeepers for who is deserving of fertility treatment,

0:41:03.040 --> 0:41:05.600
<v Speaker 2>which is kind of what they started out as in

0:41:05.640 --> 0:41:10.239
<v Speaker 2>some degree, but as support. The twentieth century, which i'll

0:41:10.280 --> 0:41:14.239
<v Speaker 2>talk much more about next episode, dramatically changed not only

0:41:14.239 --> 0:41:17.319
<v Speaker 2>the way that infertility was studied or treated, but also

0:41:17.360 --> 0:41:20.680
<v Speaker 2>the way it was experienced, which I haven't really talked about,

0:41:21.000 --> 0:41:24.239
<v Speaker 2>in part because it's so big, it's so personal, it's

0:41:24.280 --> 0:41:29.719
<v Speaker 2>not at all universal or generalizable. As our understanding of

0:41:29.800 --> 0:41:34.360
<v Speaker 2>human reproduction grew, and as technologies like IVF developed in

0:41:34.360 --> 0:41:37.520
<v Speaker 2>the late nineteen seventies, as these opened the door to

0:41:37.600 --> 0:41:44.839
<v Speaker 2>new possibilities, infertility became something to overcome through science, but

0:41:44.960 --> 0:41:49.520
<v Speaker 2>not for everyone. Stigma, silence, or a lack of access

0:41:49.600 --> 0:41:53.000
<v Speaker 2>prevent people from seeking treatments in the first place, and

0:41:53.040 --> 0:41:57.000
<v Speaker 2>the treatments aren't always successful or the cause of the

0:41:57.000 --> 0:42:02.839
<v Speaker 2>infertility remains unexplained. In some ways. The improvements in reproductive

0:42:02.840 --> 0:42:07.640
<v Speaker 2>technology have given us this illusion of complete control over

0:42:07.760 --> 0:42:12.319
<v Speaker 2>our fertility, and many modern narratives of infertility tend to

0:42:12.440 --> 0:42:16.440
<v Speaker 2>reinforce that control by highlighting stories where there's a beginning,

0:42:16.840 --> 0:42:20.560
<v Speaker 2>a middle, and a happy ending, either through pregnancy and

0:42:20.680 --> 0:42:25.040
<v Speaker 2>birth of an IVF baby, or adoption or surrogacy or

0:42:25.040 --> 0:42:28.719
<v Speaker 2>something similar, something that's like and then here is the

0:42:28.800 --> 0:42:32.799
<v Speaker 2>happy ending that everyone expects. The stories of people in

0:42:32.840 --> 0:42:36.080
<v Speaker 2>the middle of IVF or who have tried IVF but

0:42:36.160 --> 0:42:39.239
<v Speaker 2>have not gotten pregnant or delivered a baby. These are

0:42:39.320 --> 0:42:44.400
<v Speaker 2>less common stories, which can add to the silence surrounding infertility,

0:42:44.520 --> 0:42:49.120
<v Speaker 2>perpetuating the myth that fertility is a universal or universally

0:42:49.160 --> 0:42:55.399
<v Speaker 2>desired experience. The idea of having it all plays into this,

0:42:55.719 --> 0:42:59.680
<v Speaker 2>suggesting that if you don't have kids, whether that's voluntary

0:42:59.800 --> 0:43:04.040
<v Speaker 2>or involuntary, you're missing something. You can't have it all.

0:43:05.120 --> 0:43:07.160
<v Speaker 2>We could do a whole episode on the problem with

0:43:07.200 --> 0:43:10.280
<v Speaker 2>the phrase having it all it's one of my least

0:43:11.120 --> 0:43:15.919
<v Speaker 2>liked phrases, or doing it all. But silence can also

0:43:16.040 --> 0:43:21.360
<v Speaker 2>be protective, preventing intrusive questions or platitudes like maybe this

0:43:21.520 --> 0:43:24.160
<v Speaker 2>is the way it's meant to be for you. And

0:43:24.320 --> 0:43:27.560
<v Speaker 2>these days, with the advent of contraceptives that in general

0:43:27.600 --> 0:43:30.919
<v Speaker 2>allow us to have more control over reproduction. We can

0:43:30.960 --> 0:43:34.279
<v Speaker 2>better control our own narrative, whether we want to tell

0:43:34.320 --> 0:43:37.560
<v Speaker 2>anyone or whether we want to keep it private. Sharing

0:43:37.600 --> 0:43:42.360
<v Speaker 2>stories of infertility or hearing those stories can reawaken painful feelings,

0:43:42.880 --> 0:43:45.960
<v Speaker 2>or it can create a sense of community, or both,

0:43:46.280 --> 0:43:49.960
<v Speaker 2>or neither, or something else. There's no simple answer or

0:43:50.040 --> 0:43:54.879
<v Speaker 2>universal experience. And the same applies to the concept of infertility.

0:43:55.000 --> 0:43:58.880
<v Speaker 2>On the one hand, thinking about infertility in purely biomedical terms,

0:43:58.920 --> 0:44:03.120
<v Speaker 2>as we often do these days, reduces this multi dimensional

0:44:03.160 --> 0:44:07.560
<v Speaker 2>experience to one aspect. But on the other the understanding

0:44:07.600 --> 0:44:10.920
<v Speaker 2>that we gained throughout the twentieth century about the biological

0:44:10.960 --> 0:44:14.440
<v Speaker 2>causes of infertility has helped to reduce the stigma and

0:44:14.560 --> 0:44:18.400
<v Speaker 2>blame surrounding it, not globally but in many parts of

0:44:18.440 --> 0:44:22.360
<v Speaker 2>the world, and it has allowed so many people to

0:44:22.480 --> 0:44:26.879
<v Speaker 2>fulfill their dreams of having children. And so Aarin, I'll

0:44:26.920 --> 0:44:29.479
<v Speaker 2>now turn it over to you to tell us all

0:44:29.560 --> 0:44:32.800
<v Speaker 2>what to expect if we go in for fertility testing.

0:44:33.480 --> 0:44:37.359
<v Speaker 4>Ooh, I cannot wait to We'll take a quick break

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<v Speaker 4>and then I'll get into it.

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<v Speaker 8>Hi were the yet man's I'm Brooke and I'm Rachel,

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<v Speaker 8>and we wanted to share parts of our IVF journey,

0:44:57.680 --> 0:44:59.400
<v Speaker 8>the good, the bad, the ugly with all of you.

0:45:00.040 --> 0:45:02.680
<v Speaker 8>We started our journey in twenty twenty one. We decided

0:45:02.680 --> 0:45:04.640
<v Speaker 8>that each of us would like to carry a biological

0:45:04.719 --> 0:45:07.760
<v Speaker 8>child using the same donor sperm. I started the process

0:45:07.800 --> 0:45:11.400
<v Speaker 8>first with IUI, and after several attempts, was unsuccessful. I

0:45:11.440 --> 0:45:14.799
<v Speaker 8>then started the IVF process with follicle stimulation followed by

0:45:14.840 --> 0:45:17.759
<v Speaker 8>the egg retriple. In February of twenty twenty two, I

0:45:17.800 --> 0:45:20.680
<v Speaker 8>did a frozen instead of frush transfer because of overstimulation

0:45:20.760 --> 0:45:24.279
<v Speaker 8>during the retrieval process. In April of twenty twenty two,

0:45:24.320 --> 0:45:27.239
<v Speaker 8>I had a successful embryo transfer and implantation, followed by

0:45:27.239 --> 0:45:30.200
<v Speaker 8>a healthy baby boy born in December of twenty twenty two.

0:45:31.560 --> 0:45:33.799
<v Speaker 9>And now for the ugly part of the journey. I

0:45:33.880 --> 0:45:36.879
<v Speaker 9>started my journey shortly after Rachel did. I had two

0:45:36.920 --> 0:45:41.879
<v Speaker 9>egg retrievals because the first one only three embryos survived fertilization.

0:45:42.480 --> 0:45:45.360
<v Speaker 9>After my first two embryos failed, I had an endometrio

0:45:45.400 --> 0:45:49.719
<v Speaker 9>biopsy to test my progresstern window and test for endometrioses.

0:45:50.320 --> 0:45:52.759
<v Speaker 9>For those of you that have never had when done,

0:45:52.800 --> 0:45:56.680
<v Speaker 9>it's very painful, not a great experience at all. During

0:45:56.680 --> 0:45:59.200
<v Speaker 9>this time, Rachel became pregnant, and it was very difficult

0:45:59.200 --> 0:46:01.560
<v Speaker 9>for me because she was able to become pregnant with

0:46:01.640 --> 0:46:05.480
<v Speaker 9>the first transfer and I was continuing to have unsuccessful transfers.

0:46:06.120 --> 0:46:09.160
<v Speaker 9>It was very taxing on a relationship and my mental health,

0:46:09.400 --> 0:46:12.000
<v Speaker 9>but we kept pushing on. By this time, our son

0:46:12.160 --> 0:46:14.600
<v Speaker 9>was born and it made all the insecurities I had

0:46:14.640 --> 0:46:18.760
<v Speaker 9>about not being his birth parent disappear. On my fourth

0:46:18.800 --> 0:46:21.719
<v Speaker 9>transfer attempt, I did become pregnant. However, I started a

0:46:21.760 --> 0:46:25.120
<v Speaker 9>bleed about two weeks after. I went in for an

0:46:25.200 --> 0:46:27.520
<v Speaker 9>ultrasound and I found out I had a sub qoreanic

0:46:27.640 --> 0:46:31.960
<v Speaker 9>chematoma that was bigger than the fetus itself. But there

0:46:32.000 --> 0:46:34.080
<v Speaker 9>was still some hope because the fetus was still there

0:46:34.360 --> 0:46:37.960
<v Speaker 9>and the bleeding had stepped. However, when we went in

0:46:38.040 --> 0:46:42.600
<v Speaker 9>for the heartbeat check, it wasn't there. It was literally heartbreaking.

0:46:43.520 --> 0:46:45.359
<v Speaker 10>At that point, I was abating on whether or not

0:46:45.400 --> 0:46:48.320
<v Speaker 10>I wanted to keep trying, but we made it further

0:46:48.400 --> 0:46:50.920
<v Speaker 10>than we had previously, so there was no indication that

0:46:51.000 --> 0:46:55.080
<v Speaker 10>the next transfer wouldn't be successful. I tried one more time.

0:46:55.760 --> 0:46:58.759
<v Speaker 10>It was my fifth and final transfer, but that was

0:46:58.760 --> 0:47:02.759
<v Speaker 10>also unsuccessful. My next step would be shut to shed

0:47:02.800 --> 0:47:05.000
<v Speaker 10>down my entire immune system to see if that would help.

0:47:05.400 --> 0:47:07.279
<v Speaker 10>So I had two choices, give up on having a

0:47:07.280 --> 0:47:10.640
<v Speaker 10>biological child or see if my wife, Rachel could get

0:47:10.680 --> 0:47:14.680
<v Speaker 10>pregnant with my embryo, and after much discussion, we did

0:47:14.800 --> 0:47:17.960
<v Speaker 10>a reciprocal IVF Rachel would attempt to carry one of

0:47:17.960 --> 0:47:22.320
<v Speaker 10>my embryos. The first attempt has resulted in a chemical pregnancy.

0:47:22.840 --> 0:47:25.520
<v Speaker 10>The embryo started doing plant and then detatched for an

0:47:25.600 --> 0:47:28.719
<v Speaker 10>unknown reason. It could have been a genetic issue with

0:47:28.760 --> 0:47:32.600
<v Speaker 10>the embryo or the embryo quality itself, but they weren't sure,

0:47:33.760 --> 0:47:36.040
<v Speaker 10>so we did the same protocol and tried it again,

0:47:36.360 --> 0:47:38.080
<v Speaker 10>which was successful.

0:47:38.840 --> 0:47:41.600
<v Speaker 8>And I am now currently twenty five weeks pregnant and

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<v Speaker 8>do in August with our second son as biologically brooks child.

0:47:45.480 --> 0:47:47.640
<v Speaker 11>And I still struggle sometimes wishing that I could have

0:47:47.680 --> 0:47:50.000
<v Speaker 11>been the one who carried her second son, but for

0:47:50.040 --> 0:47:52.400
<v Speaker 11>some reason, it wasn't meant to be, and the journey

0:47:52.440 --> 0:47:54.120
<v Speaker 11>to our family wasn't an easy one, but we can

0:47:54.160 --> 0:47:55.880
<v Speaker 11>finally see the light at the end of the tunnel.

0:48:00.080 --> 0:48:04.160
<v Speaker 12>Journey to IVF was one that we never expected. Having

0:48:04.200 --> 0:48:09.160
<v Speaker 12>our first son unassisted and then being diagnosed with secondary infertility,

0:48:09.719 --> 0:48:14.560
<v Speaker 12>five long years of trying and five missed miscarriages. We

0:48:14.560 --> 0:48:18.200
<v Speaker 12>were always told it's just bad luck or it happens

0:48:18.200 --> 0:48:22.279
<v Speaker 12>to everybody, but eventually you start looking for answers, and

0:48:22.440 --> 0:48:25.759
<v Speaker 12>science really was the only way that we could bring

0:48:25.880 --> 0:48:30.239
<v Speaker 12>our miracle baby home. Through one and a half egg

0:48:30.320 --> 0:48:35.600
<v Speaker 12>retrievals due to one canceled because of poor outcomes, COVID

0:48:36.239 --> 0:48:40.960
<v Speaker 12>closed clinics, moving our two precious tested embryos to a

0:48:41.160 --> 0:48:45.640
<v Speaker 12>clinic five hours away, we finally reached a time where

0:48:45.680 --> 0:48:48.960
<v Speaker 12>we were able to transfer our embryo and have our

0:48:49.000 --> 0:48:53.480
<v Speaker 12>miracle baby. Without the science of IVF, my family would

0:48:53.560 --> 0:48:54.320
<v Speaker 12>not be what.

0:48:54.160 --> 0:48:54.960
<v Speaker 5>It is today.

0:48:55.360 --> 0:49:03.279
<v Speaker 12>But it's not without shots, tears, blood, ultrasounds, financial, emotional

0:49:03.440 --> 0:49:07.600
<v Speaker 12>and physical stress. And for anyone in the trenches, I'm

0:49:07.640 --> 0:49:11.160
<v Speaker 12>forever grateful to have you by my side and I

0:49:11.200 --> 0:49:14.759
<v Speaker 12>will always be there no matter what. To root everybody on.

0:49:15.600 --> 0:49:19.640
<v Speaker 12>IVF is not something that is easy or taken lightly,

0:49:20.120 --> 0:49:23.480
<v Speaker 12>but it is a chance to give us the dream

0:49:23.640 --> 0:49:25.000
<v Speaker 12>of expanding our family.

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<v Speaker 4>So Aarin, you started off your section, and I love

0:49:55.960 --> 0:49:59.680
<v Speaker 4>that we sometimes we just work together so well, don't we?

0:50:00.239 --> 0:50:01.239
<v Speaker 2>All the time you.

0:50:01.160 --> 0:50:04.280
<v Speaker 4>Started off your section talking about this idea of whether

0:50:04.440 --> 0:50:09.239
<v Speaker 4>or not infertility is actually on the rise, and that's

0:50:09.280 --> 0:50:13.040
<v Speaker 4>where I wanted to start too, And where I wanted

0:50:13.080 --> 0:50:18.359
<v Speaker 4>to start was really looking into what you started with,

0:50:18.400 --> 0:50:22.680
<v Speaker 4>which is what is really the difference between fertility and

0:50:22.800 --> 0:50:27.759
<v Speaker 4>infertility and how do we use that those definitions when

0:50:27.800 --> 0:50:32.360
<v Speaker 4>we're talking about how to treat infertility as a medical disease,

0:50:32.440 --> 0:50:37.480
<v Speaker 4>if that's what we're calling it. So governments, all governments

0:50:37.840 --> 0:50:40.839
<v Speaker 4>cite fertility rates like that's the data that we have.

0:50:40.920 --> 0:50:44.920
<v Speaker 4>We have data on birth rates, and yes, birth rates

0:50:45.360 --> 0:50:50.520
<v Speaker 4>have declined substantially in the US, for example, in like

0:50:50.560 --> 0:50:55.040
<v Speaker 4>thee in nineteen fifty women had close to five children

0:50:55.160 --> 0:51:00.000
<v Speaker 4>on average. And as a disclaimer, all of the language

0:51:00.200 --> 0:51:04.759
<v Speaker 4>around fertility and infertility is so incredibly heteronormative, and so

0:51:04.960 --> 0:51:07.319
<v Speaker 4>I use the term women here because that is what

0:51:07.360 --> 0:51:10.879
<v Speaker 4>all of the data sites, and we do not have

0:51:10.960 --> 0:51:14.439
<v Speaker 4>good data on the experience or the lived experience in

0:51:14.719 --> 0:51:17.799
<v Speaker 4>transgender and gender diverse individuals, not to mention the fact

0:51:17.800 --> 0:51:21.560
<v Speaker 4>that definitions of infertility don't even take into account people

0:51:21.640 --> 0:51:26.960
<v Speaker 4>who are gay or anything like that. So I apologize

0:51:27.000 --> 0:51:29.400
<v Speaker 4>in advance that that is the reality of the situation.

0:51:29.520 --> 0:51:31.520
<v Speaker 4>But when I say women talking about people with the

0:51:31.600 --> 0:51:36.520
<v Speaker 4>uterus here. So on average women had five children in

0:51:36.719 --> 0:51:37.560
<v Speaker 4>nineteen fifty.

0:51:37.960 --> 0:51:39.399
<v Speaker 3>By twenty twenty two, the.

0:51:39.320 --> 0:51:41.760
<v Speaker 4>Birth rate in the US is about one point six

0:51:42.120 --> 0:51:47.839
<v Speaker 4>births per woman, So obviously that's a statistic. So that's

0:51:47.880 --> 0:51:50.520
<v Speaker 4>a huge decline in the total fertility rate. And it's

0:51:50.520 --> 0:51:53.560
<v Speaker 4>not just the US. The global fertility rate has more

0:51:53.560 --> 0:51:57.000
<v Speaker 4>than had from again close to five four point eight

0:51:57.120 --> 0:52:00.000
<v Speaker 4>in nineteen fifty to two point two three in twenty

0:52:01.760 --> 0:52:08.120
<v Speaker 4>But much of this decline is quite intentional, and some

0:52:08.280 --> 0:52:12.759
<v Speaker 4>of it is a very good thing, because some of

0:52:13.120 --> 0:52:15.880
<v Speaker 4>the statistics when you look at what has been on

0:52:15.920 --> 0:52:20.000
<v Speaker 4>the decline year over year, is things like birth among

0:52:20.080 --> 0:52:25.560
<v Speaker 4>those age fifteen to nineteen children, babies, having babies has

0:52:25.600 --> 0:52:26.480
<v Speaker 4>been on the decline.

0:52:27.040 --> 0:52:27.760
<v Speaker 3>That's good.

0:52:28.719 --> 0:52:32.279
<v Speaker 4>It's also the increase in the availability of contraception and

0:52:32.320 --> 0:52:35.920
<v Speaker 4>the ability for people to decide to either delay or

0:52:36.120 --> 0:52:39.839
<v Speaker 4>forego altogether childbearing if that's what they decide, and that

0:52:40.000 --> 0:52:44.880
<v Speaker 4>wasn't always possible. So has this also led to an

0:52:44.960 --> 0:52:50.239
<v Speaker 4>increase in infertility? In everything that I was reading, I

0:52:50.239 --> 0:52:53.080
<v Speaker 4>didn't find any data to show that the things that

0:52:53.120 --> 0:52:57.239
<v Speaker 4>we're going to talk about that cause infertility, the underlying

0:52:57.400 --> 0:53:00.319
<v Speaker 4>things that can cause it to be difficult or close

0:53:00.320 --> 0:53:04.799
<v Speaker 4>to impossible to conceive without medical intervention don't seem to

0:53:04.840 --> 0:53:09.040
<v Speaker 4>be on the rise. And what's interesting is that nowhere

0:53:09.080 --> 0:53:12.680
<v Speaker 4>in the reports that I read about fertility statistics do

0:53:12.719 --> 0:53:15.920
<v Speaker 4>they say that the infertility rate has increased. But that

0:53:16.080 --> 0:53:19.920
<v Speaker 4>is absolutely the takeaway of a ton of websites and

0:53:20.000 --> 0:53:25.959
<v Speaker 4>news articles that take data from these fertility statistics. Now,

0:53:26.000 --> 0:53:30.200
<v Speaker 4>what is true is that the demands for assisted reproductive technologies,

0:53:30.239 --> 0:53:35.400
<v Speaker 4>including IVF, have increased, though in some cases they've started

0:53:35.440 --> 0:53:37.960
<v Speaker 4>to level off and in some countries they're still continuing

0:53:38.000 --> 0:53:41.600
<v Speaker 4>to rise. But that still doesn't mean that we can

0:53:41.640 --> 0:53:47.879
<v Speaker 4>conflate those two things, fertility and infertility. And I think

0:53:47.920 --> 0:53:51.520
<v Speaker 4>that's one of the things that's really tricky when we

0:53:52.080 --> 0:53:56.680
<v Speaker 4>in medicine, as we do in medicine, define and view

0:53:56.880 --> 0:54:02.799
<v Speaker 4>infertility as a disease, as this medical phenomenon, because some

0:54:02.880 --> 0:54:07.600
<v Speaker 4>of this decline infertility rates might be due to things

0:54:07.760 --> 0:54:10.920
<v Speaker 4>like an overall increase in the age at first birth,

0:54:11.440 --> 0:54:15.120
<v Speaker 4>which has been increasing, and we know that and I'll

0:54:15.120 --> 0:54:18.720
<v Speaker 4>talk more about this. The age of your eggs.

0:54:18.400 --> 0:54:22.280
<v Speaker 3>Specifically, and also the age of the sperm.

0:54:22.320 --> 0:54:28.000
<v Speaker 4>Our major driving forces behind what we conceptualize as infertility,

0:54:29.080 --> 0:54:34.520
<v Speaker 4>but it still all depends on what somebody's experience is

0:54:34.800 --> 0:54:38.319
<v Speaker 4>of it. So anyways, let's get a little bit more

0:54:38.400 --> 0:54:42.520
<v Speaker 4>into the details of how medicine defines infertility and what

0:54:42.760 --> 0:54:47.680
<v Speaker 4>happens if somebody wants to become pregnant and hasn't. So

0:54:47.760 --> 0:54:50.440
<v Speaker 4>you mentioned it at the top erin the medical definition

0:54:50.520 --> 0:54:53.920
<v Speaker 4>of infertility today, though it still depends a little bit

0:54:54.000 --> 0:54:57.680
<v Speaker 4>on what society is writing it. Per the who is

0:54:57.760 --> 0:55:00.920
<v Speaker 4>the inability to achieve a pregnant and if that is

0:55:01.000 --> 0:55:06.400
<v Speaker 4>desired after twelve months of regular unprotected sexual intercourse, again

0:55:06.760 --> 0:55:10.080
<v Speaker 4>heteronormative as heck, but that's where we are. This is

0:55:10.120 --> 0:55:13.920
<v Speaker 4>a medical definition, and per the World Health Organization and

0:55:14.080 --> 0:55:18.520
<v Speaker 4>so many societies, it is seen as a disease of

0:55:18.600 --> 0:55:22.720
<v Speaker 4>either the female or the male reproductive tract or both.

0:55:23.920 --> 0:55:28.960
<v Speaker 4>And so that is the point, twelve months of unprotected

0:55:29.000 --> 0:55:32.919
<v Speaker 4>sex without a pregnancy. That's usually the point at which

0:55:32.960 --> 0:55:37.279
<v Speaker 4>an investigation into what the cause of infertility is would begin.

0:55:38.719 --> 0:55:41.680
<v Speaker 4>So a question that people often have, because it's a

0:55:41.719 --> 0:55:46.359
<v Speaker 4>logical question, is like why twelve months? And in part

0:55:46.440 --> 0:55:49.800
<v Speaker 4>it's because of just the odds. So if you look

0:55:50.160 --> 0:55:56.920
<v Speaker 4>on large population scales. Most sources estimate that conception rates

0:55:57.000 --> 0:56:00.960
<v Speaker 4>in the first month of attempting to get pregnant are

0:56:01.040 --> 0:56:05.000
<v Speaker 4>about thirty percent. So the first month thirty percent. Then

0:56:05.080 --> 0:56:08.000
<v Speaker 4>if we look out at six months, the cumulative conception

0:56:08.080 --> 0:56:11.440
<v Speaker 4>rate at six months is about seventy five percent. And

0:56:11.480 --> 0:56:13.640
<v Speaker 4>then if you go to twelve months, it's about ninety

0:56:13.640 --> 0:56:16.880
<v Speaker 4>percent of couples that are trying to conceive will have

0:56:17.000 --> 0:56:20.000
<v Speaker 4>conceived in twelve months. So that's the main way that

0:56:20.040 --> 0:56:20.560
<v Speaker 4>we get there.

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<v Speaker 3>I have what's interesting? Do you have a question?

0:56:24.000 --> 0:56:26.200
<v Speaker 2>I do because I feel like it plays into this too.

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<v Speaker 2>What is regular sex? Is there a definition by the who? Yeah,

0:56:30.920 --> 0:56:34.920
<v Speaker 2>I hope that you are going to ask such a

0:56:34.920 --> 0:56:35.480
<v Speaker 2>good question.

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<v Speaker 4>Let me scroll down to the bottom where I have

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<v Speaker 4>my fun facts section.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh nice?

0:56:40.880 --> 0:56:45.080
<v Speaker 3>How often do you have to have sex penis and

0:56:45.080 --> 0:56:45.560
<v Speaker 3>a vagina?

0:56:45.640 --> 0:56:48.239
<v Speaker 4>Sex has to happen ideally one to two times a

0:56:48.280 --> 0:56:53.399
<v Speaker 4>week at a minimum to be considered regular. And what's

0:56:53.440 --> 0:56:57.360
<v Speaker 4>also important is that the timing is actually really important

0:56:57.440 --> 0:57:01.399
<v Speaker 4>because the egg only lives in the female reproductive tract

0:57:01.400 --> 0:57:04.239
<v Speaker 4>for about twenty four hours, but the sperm lives for

0:57:04.320 --> 0:57:08.240
<v Speaker 4>up to five days. So the fertile window really starts

0:57:08.280 --> 0:57:13.680
<v Speaker 4>about six days before ovulation, peaks about two days before ovulation,

0:57:14.080 --> 0:57:17.640
<v Speaker 4>and then is done essentially by the time that ovulation happens,

0:57:18.000 --> 0:57:20.120
<v Speaker 4>because the sperm also need time to swim all the.

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<v Speaker 3>Way up to the Philippian team.

0:57:21.880 --> 0:57:26.200
<v Speaker 4>Okay, God, so that's also a lot if you are

0:57:26.560 --> 0:57:29.760
<v Speaker 4>busy and trying to do this for a very long time,

0:57:30.000 --> 0:57:36.640
<v Speaker 4>just just saying okay, so yes, that is that's what

0:57:36.880 --> 0:57:42.040
<v Speaker 4>is considered regular enough sex. What's interesting about this timing

0:57:42.160 --> 0:57:45.160
<v Speaker 4>of twelve months is that if you were to follow

0:57:45.200 --> 0:57:48.960
<v Speaker 4>again on a population level, couples who haven't conceived at

0:57:49.000 --> 0:57:53.440
<v Speaker 4>that twelve months for another twelve months, fifty percent of

0:57:53.480 --> 0:57:57.560
<v Speaker 4>those couples would conceive in that next twelve months within

0:57:57.600 --> 0:58:01.200
<v Speaker 4>two years, so the cumulative can option rate increases to

0:58:01.240 --> 0:58:04.320
<v Speaker 4>about ninety five percent at two years.

0:58:04.600 --> 0:58:04.960
<v Speaker 5>Okay.

0:58:06.000 --> 0:58:11.480
<v Speaker 4>Now this changes significantly with age, especially with the age

0:58:11.560 --> 0:58:14.400
<v Speaker 4>of the person with the uterus or the woman, and

0:58:14.480 --> 0:58:17.120
<v Speaker 4>we talked about this a little bit in our menopause episode.

0:58:17.280 --> 0:58:19.360
<v Speaker 4>Those of us who ovulate are born with only a

0:58:19.400 --> 0:58:21.680
<v Speaker 4>certain number of eggs, and at some point in our

0:58:21.680 --> 0:58:26.240
<v Speaker 4>reproductive lives, those eggs either are fewer and farther between,

0:58:26.760 --> 0:58:29.600
<v Speaker 4>or are of lower quality in a way that impacts

0:58:29.640 --> 0:58:33.480
<v Speaker 4>the chances of pregnancy. In most of the medical community,

0:58:34.040 --> 0:58:38.200
<v Speaker 4>this starts at around age thirty five. Realistically it starts

0:58:38.200 --> 0:58:42.360
<v Speaker 4>to decline a little bit before that, but between ages

0:58:42.440 --> 0:58:46.960
<v Speaker 4>thirty five and thirty nine, the spontaneous conception rate at

0:58:46.960 --> 0:58:50.800
<v Speaker 4>that one year mark is actually only sixty percent compared

0:58:50.840 --> 0:58:53.920
<v Speaker 4>to ninety percent if you're younger than thirty five, and

0:58:54.040 --> 0:58:56.080
<v Speaker 4>at two years it's eighty five percent.

0:58:56.960 --> 0:58:57.200
<v Speaker 3>Okay.

0:58:57.320 --> 0:59:00.400
<v Speaker 4>Now, male fertility also declines with age, but it gets

0:59:00.600 --> 0:59:03.680
<v Speaker 4>far less attention because we don't understand it as well

0:59:03.720 --> 0:59:08.000
<v Speaker 4>and nobody talks about it. But for that reason, somebody

0:59:08.000 --> 0:59:11.120
<v Speaker 4>who is thirty five or older would often start, or

0:59:11.160 --> 0:59:15.240
<v Speaker 4>it's recommended that they start this infertility evaluation at six

0:59:15.280 --> 0:59:18.520
<v Speaker 4>months of trying to conceive and not conceiving, rather than

0:59:18.560 --> 0:59:19.480
<v Speaker 4>waiting the whole year.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So what does that actually look like?

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<v Speaker 4>What can one expect if you are trying to get pregnant,

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<v Speaker 4>you haven't gotten pregnant, and you go to your doctor's

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<v Speaker 4>office for an infertility evaluation. Obviously this is going to

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<v Speaker 4>look different at every single healthcare facility in every single country.

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<v Speaker 3>But what I'm going to kind.

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<v Speaker 4>Of focus on is what the very general evaluations are

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<v Speaker 4>going to be focusing on how we're going to try

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<v Speaker 4>and pinpoint what a cause of this inability to conceive

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<v Speaker 4>is and then get into what those causes are and

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<v Speaker 4>then what the options are for how we treat it,

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<v Speaker 4>because while we intended this as a study of just

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<v Speaker 4>like IVF, IVF is not often the first step depending

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<v Speaker 4>on what the underlying cause of that infertility is.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm really curious about this decision tree process.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's it's really complicated, but it's really interesting. So

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<v Speaker 4>at that twelvemonth or six month mark, depending on your age,

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<v Speaker 4>the initial doctor's office visits, this is probably gonna be

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<v Speaker 4>pretty boring. You're gonna be answering a million questions about

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<v Speaker 4>your personal life, about your medical history, etc. Most often,

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<v Speaker 4>probably because of all the things you talked about, Aaron,

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<v Speaker 4>about the history of how we view infertility as a

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<v Speaker 4>female problem. It's usually the female partner who shows up

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<v Speaker 4>first to the doctor. But all of the literature says

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<v Speaker 4>this should be an evaluation of the couple. It should

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<v Speaker 4>never just be an evaluation of one partner. If there's

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<v Speaker 4>a two partner scenario, which in all of the texts

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<v Speaker 4>that's the assumption, and then the next step that's going

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<v Speaker 4>to happen after this kind of history gathering to see

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<v Speaker 4>if there's any clues as to what the problem could be.

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<v Speaker 4>There'll be a bunch of blood tests and probably some

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<v Speaker 4>imaging studies for the female and a semen analysis and

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<v Speaker 4>maybe some blood work, but honestly often not even blood

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<v Speaker 4>work for the male.

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<v Speaker 2>What would the blood work show, great question.

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<v Speaker 4>So for women, the blood work is going to assess

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<v Speaker 4>a few different things, probably some measure of ovarian reserve,

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<v Speaker 4>so you're going to be checking some hormone and there's

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<v Speaker 4>a few different that people might check to assess your

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<v Speaker 4>ovarian reserve, how many eggs.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you have left.

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<v Speaker 4>They'll also check other hormones to see if there's a

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<v Speaker 4>reason that you might not be ovulating as much as

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<v Speaker 4>we might expect or on a regular a basis. That

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<v Speaker 4>goes along with some of the menstrual history that you're

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<v Speaker 4>going to ask about what someone's cycles are like, and

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<v Speaker 4>checking on things like thyroid hormone, prolactin hormone, these other

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<v Speaker 4>things that if they're out of whack, can contribute to

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<v Speaker 4>ovulation issues.

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<v Speaker 2>In the men.

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<v Speaker 4>You could have similar things be checked, but it's really

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<v Speaker 4>going to depend on like how far down the rabbit

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<v Speaker 4>hole you end up going, or if a cause is

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<v Speaker 4>identified prior to that. The blood work for men is

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<v Speaker 4>not as straightforward or as algorithmized, I guess, okay, as

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<v Speaker 4>it is unless you find something and then you might

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<v Speaker 4>chase it down, if that makes sense.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I had no idea that you could get a

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<v Speaker 2>feel for ovarian reserve with a blood test. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, there's a few different things you can check.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, okay, cool.

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<v Speaker 4>It's really important too. But anyways, I could go on,

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<v Speaker 4>I won't. So then the imaging studies that you're going

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<v Speaker 4>to get might be things like ultrasounds, just to assess

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<v Speaker 4>the structure of the uterus see if there's things like

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<v Speaker 4>fibroids or or something that could be contributing. They might

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<v Speaker 4>also do what's called a histroosyl pingagram, which you mentioned

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<v Speaker 4>a little bit Aaron as well in one of your quotes,

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<v Speaker 4>And this is quite a painful procedure from my understanding,

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<v Speaker 4>but it's very good for looking at the entire shape

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<v Speaker 4>of the uterus itself and to see if there's any

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<v Speaker 4>blockage of tubes or other abnormalities of the uterine cavity

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<v Speaker 4>that could be contributing, and in some cases people might

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<v Speaker 4>end up even undergoing exploratory surgeries depending on again what

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<v Speaker 4>they find on all of these initial evaluations. Interesting again,

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<v Speaker 4>for the men, you look at the sperm and you

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<v Speaker 4>see how many there are, you see what the shape

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<v Speaker 4>of them are, and you see how well they move.

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<v Speaker 4>So you're also looking at things like motility. Now there

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<v Speaker 4>might be more depending on what you find, but that's

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<v Speaker 4>kind of the first start, and it gets you to

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of these different causes of infertility. So let's

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<v Speaker 4>get into what these are. If we look super broadly,

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<v Speaker 4>like really really broad, there's kind of three huge categories.

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<v Speaker 4>It could be male factor infertility, it could be female

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<v Speaker 4>factor infertility, could be both and that happens, or it

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<v Speaker 4>could be unexplained infertility, and we'll get there. So at

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<v Speaker 4>its core, if we're looking at male factor infertility first,

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<v Speaker 4>at its core, this is going to be an issue

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<v Speaker 4>with sperm, either amount of sperm or the effectiveness of

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<v Speaker 4>those sperm. So this could be an issue with spermatogenesis.

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<v Speaker 4>So either you're not making enough sperm, or you're making

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<v Speaker 4>sperm that are morphologically abnormal.

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<v Speaker 3>In some way.

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<v Speaker 4>Either they can't move as well, they have some kind

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<v Speaker 4>of DNA issue. There's a lot of possibilities. Issues with

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<v Speaker 4>spermatogenesis are the most common, but there's tons of other

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<v Speaker 4>things that could be going on as well. You can

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<v Speaker 4>have issues with sperm transport, either because of blockage of

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<v Speaker 4>not being able to make it down the vast deference

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<v Speaker 4>to be ejaculated, or because like in our cystic fibrosis

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<v Speaker 4>episode we talked about just like the absence of ccilia

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<v Speaker 4>being able to help the sperm be transported. And you

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<v Speaker 4>can also have hormonal or endocrine disorders that affect sperm production.

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<v Speaker 4>Those are kind of the three biggest categories that contribute

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<v Speaker 4>to male factor infertility. When we look at female factor infertility,

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<v Speaker 4>the way that I think of it is it's most

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<v Speaker 4>easy to split it up by like organ or area

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<v Speaker 4>of the body. So you can have issues with your ovaries,

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<v Speaker 4>either you have irregular or non ovulatory cycles. We see

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<v Speaker 4>this in things like PCOS or other hormonal disruptions, maybe

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<v Speaker 4>thyroid disorder or prolactin, or issues with the ovaries from

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<v Speaker 4>ocite aging or depletion, either because the eggs themselves are

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<v Speaker 4>of life or quality because of age, or there's just

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<v Speaker 4>not as many eggs to be ovulated. But you can

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<v Speaker 4>also have blockage of the floapian tubes, and this is

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<v Speaker 4>most commonly caused by things like pelvic inflammatory disease or

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<v Speaker 4>severe endometriosis. You can then have problems with the uterus

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<v Speaker 4>itself that might impair implantation. This could be structural things

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<v Speaker 4>like fibroids or acceptate uterus like me or or an

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<v Speaker 4>insufficient lining of the uterus. You can also have cervical factors,

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<v Speaker 4>either from previous trauma to the cervix or a reduced

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<v Speaker 4>cervical mucus that impairs sperm transport. Then there's even more

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<v Speaker 4>rare causes like autoimmune diseases. There is a very very

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<v Speaker 4>long list of possible causes. Then, for both men and women,

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<v Speaker 4>you could have karyotype abnormalities. Right, you might have certain

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<v Speaker 4>genetic disorders that just make it really difficult to either

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<v Speaker 4>get pregnant in the first place, or a cause of

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<v Speaker 4>recurrent miscarriage could be a karyotype abnormalities. That means abnormalities

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<v Speaker 4>in your chromosome that are small enough that they usually

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<v Speaker 4>don't affect you, but it does affect the egg or

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<v Speaker 4>the sperm that you're trying to produce. And then there's

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<v Speaker 4>unexplained infertility, which is exactly as dissatisfying as it sounds,

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<v Speaker 4>because what it means is that you have done all

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<v Speaker 4>of this work up, you have gone through all of

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<v Speaker 4>these tests, all of this blood work, and we didn't

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<v Speaker 4>find anything, and you're still not pregnant and you want

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<v Speaker 4>to be.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a question about unexplained infertility. How has that

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<v Speaker 2>term shrunk over time? Like how has it you know,

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<v Speaker 2>are there still things that were exploring that, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>it could be this, and it's just like finding the

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<v Speaker 2>right tests or develop in the right tests or you

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<v Speaker 2>know what.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, Yeah, I do, I do. It's a really

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<v Speaker 4>good question. I don't know is the short answer classic.

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<v Speaker 4>But it's such an interesting question because from what I read,

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<v Speaker 4>the thought behind unexplained infertility is that it isn't one thing.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a bunch of little things that might contribute to

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<v Speaker 4>relatively like a relative subfertility. And the idea of subfertility

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<v Speaker 4>is something that like I thought about writing a lot

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<v Speaker 4>about and then I didn't because who boy. But anyways,

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<v Speaker 4>it's like it's a bunch of different things that might

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<v Speaker 4>cause it to be a little bit harder or take

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<v Speaker 4>a little bit longer to achieve a pregnancy, but all

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<v Speaker 4>combined together, right, So like maybe you have slightly on

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<v Speaker 4>the low side of a sperm count, and maybe you

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<v Speaker 4>have a slightly less receptive endometrium, and maybe you have

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<v Speaker 4>slightly hostile cervical mucus something that is that the term

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<v Speaker 4>it's a term. I don't know that it's a good one,

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<v Speaker 4>but right, like, maybe you have a little bit of

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of things, right, or maybe you have pcos

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<v Speaker 4>so you're ovulating but not on a very regular cycle,

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<v Speaker 4>and then your partner also has like a little bit

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<v Speaker 4>of a low sperm count or something. But again those

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<v Speaker 4>you would think that, Okay, well we've identified some causes.

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<v Speaker 5>Right.

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<v Speaker 4>So that's why it's really I think frustrating, is that

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<v Speaker 4>there still is this unexplained infertility that in most estimates

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<v Speaker 4>that I read, accounts for anywhere from ten to twenty

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<v Speaker 4>percent of cases of infertility, which is huge, right, And

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<v Speaker 4>so like, ah, I just can imagine it's so painful,

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<v Speaker 4>right to not have any answer.

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<v Speaker 2>Deeply frustrating and unsatisfying. And so is this is that

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<v Speaker 2>like a formal is there a point at which there's

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<v Speaker 2>just like, well, we've done everything, so it's unexplained infertility

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<v Speaker 2>and then that's like the diagnosis on the chart whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>So it is definitely a diagnosis that gets put on

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<v Speaker 4>a chart. The question of how much of a workup

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<v Speaker 4>has been done before that is the label that gets

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<v Speaker 4>put on is probably going to vary depending on where

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<v Speaker 4>you are. So I can't answer the like, what is

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<v Speaker 4>that point, okay, because it's going to depend on where

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<v Speaker 4>you are and what resources you have too, right, because

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<v Speaker 4>some of these tests are not exactly easy and you

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<v Speaker 4>have to have access to a specialist to be able

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<v Speaker 4>to do it. And so maybe there is for some

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<v Speaker 4>people an answer, but they just can't get it because

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<v Speaker 4>they don't have access to what they need to get

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<v Speaker 4>that answer.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Yeah, it's a good question.

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<v Speaker 4>But so once you've gone through all of this work

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<v Speaker 4>up and maybe you have found a cause or maybe

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<v Speaker 4>you haven't, the options for treatment that are available to

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<v Speaker 4>you are going to depend on a lot of different things.

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<v Speaker 2>They're going to.

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<v Speaker 4>Depend in part on what if any identified cause of

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<v Speaker 4>infertility there is, and hopefully anything that was found that's

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<v Speaker 4>correctable is corrected, and in some cases that might be

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<v Speaker 4>all that you need. Right if there's a thyroid condition,

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<v Speaker 4>then if you can correct that, perhaps that's the only

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<v Speaker 4>kind of thing that you would need and that wouldn't

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<v Speaker 4>necessarily fall into medically assisted reproduction MAR or ART. And

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<v Speaker 4>we'll get into that specific definition in a minute, but

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<v Speaker 4>that couple would still meet the criteria for diagnosis of infertility,

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<v Speaker 4>which I think is important. Okay, yes, But the other thing,

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<v Speaker 4>in addition to what the cause of infertility is in

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<v Speaker 4>terms of what the next steps are going to be

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<v Speaker 4>will very much depend on what your access is like

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<v Speaker 4>and what your finances are like. And that's true here

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<v Speaker 4>in the US, but also everywhere. Access to all forms

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<v Speaker 4>of assisted reproductive technologies is absolutely incredibly unequal because it's

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<v Speaker 4>incredibly expensive everywhere, not just in the US. So what

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<v Speaker 4>are some of these different options. One of the first

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<v Speaker 4>is ovulation induction, and this is something that can be

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<v Speaker 4>done with either oral medicines or sometimes injectable medications. And

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<v Speaker 4>it's what it sounds like. It's inducing ovulation in someone

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<v Speaker 4>who isn't ovulating or who's not ovulating on a regular schedule.

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<v Speaker 4>And so this can be done with timed intercourse, so

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<v Speaker 4>like using a medicine and then just having sex when

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<v Speaker 4>you're like on the right schedule with this medicine, or

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<v Speaker 4>depending on the cause, it can also be done in

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<v Speaker 4>combination with IUI or intrauterine insemini. Intriuterine insemination involves taking

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<v Speaker 4>the sperm, washing it because did you know that if

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<v Speaker 4>you don't wash the sperm, you're going to have a

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<v Speaker 4>massive like reaction to that unwashed sperm if you inject

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<v Speaker 4>it straight into the uterus.

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<v Speaker 2>I did indeed, because it plays a role in next

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<v Speaker 2>episode and the history of development of ibs.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, I can't wait.

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<v Speaker 4>And it give me such an appreciation for my cervical

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<v Speaker 4>mucus I had to say. I was like, Wow, you're

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<v Speaker 4>protecting me so well. Anyways, so intuterine insemination is usually

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<v Speaker 4>in combination with ovulation induction, and that can use either

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<v Speaker 4>a partner sperm or it can use donor sperm. And

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<v Speaker 4>so that is one of kind of often the first

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<v Speaker 4>areas that you see this being able to be applied

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<v Speaker 4>to more than just heterosexual couples is ovulation induction with IUI,

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<v Speaker 4>and those are kind of the main options that we have,

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<v Speaker 4>and then we get into ART or assisted reproductive technology.

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<v Speaker 4>ART is the broader term and I don't know if

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<v Speaker 4>people say art or art, but I'm gonna say art.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>So this is a broad term that includes conventional IVF

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<v Speaker 4>or in vitro fertilization, which we'll talk a lot about

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<v Speaker 4>next episode. It also includes IVF with ICSI, which is

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<v Speaker 4>intra cytoplasmic sperm injection. And it also includes some other

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<v Speaker 4>acronyms like gift and jift I think, and some other

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<v Speaker 4>things that most places don't do anymore, but we're kind

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<v Speaker 4>of earlier versions of IVF.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>But in short, art means any process where we're taking

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<v Speaker 4>eggs out of the body, we're taking sperm out of

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<v Speaker 4>the body, and we're joining these up and growing an

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<v Speaker 4>embryo outside of the body and then re implanting it.

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<v Speaker 4>And that, dear listeners, is going to be the subject

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<v Speaker 4>of next week's episode.

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<v Speaker 2>Bear Okay, So someone goes in. Let's say a couple

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<v Speaker 2>goes in for fertility testing, go through all of these

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<v Speaker 2>different processes. Let's say that they do this and that.

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<v Speaker 2>What are the different characteristics of the couple, like age

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<v Speaker 2>or whatever? When when go I UI, when go IVF?

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<v Speaker 2>When do you do all these different ICSI? Like what when?

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<v Speaker 3>What why, Yeah, decisions when, why? What? How?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes? All of this?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's a good question.

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<v Speaker 4>So sometimes IVF might be the first thing that you

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<v Speaker 4>go to. Okay, IVF might be first line therapy in

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<v Speaker 4>cases like, for example, if there's bilateral tubal occlusion. Right,

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<v Speaker 4>So if you're both Philippian tubes, you go through this

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<v Speaker 4>workup and you find out that both of your Philippian

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<v Speaker 4>tubes are completely blocked, then it's either IVF or a

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<v Speaker 4>surgery to try and reconstruct those tubes. Right, So IVF

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<v Speaker 4>might be the first line in that case. A time

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<v Speaker 4>when IVF might not be the first line would be

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<v Speaker 4>if somebody has something like PCOS, for example, then you

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<v Speaker 4>might reasonably try ovulation induction either alone or with IUI,

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<v Speaker 4>And the decision there really just depends on the couple.

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<v Speaker 4>It depends on the situation. So it's not like a

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<v Speaker 4>black and white there. It's very much a gray area,

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<v Speaker 4>and there are kind of a lot of other cases

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<v Speaker 4>where you might try other things unexplained infertility. Generally, the

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<v Speaker 4>recommendation is to start with ovulation induction and IUI combined.

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<v Speaker 4>The thought again being that if there's multiple things that

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<v Speaker 4>are all contributing to cause this relative subfertility. Then if

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<v Speaker 4>we can induce ovulation and put the sperm right at

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<v Speaker 4>the top of the uterus at the right time, then

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<v Speaker 4>we have maybe the highest chance of success before we

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<v Speaker 4>jump to something as expensive and time consuming as IVF,

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<v Speaker 4>IVF with ICSI. With that, intra cytoplasmic sperm injection is

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<v Speaker 4>first line for severe male factor infertility because in many

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<v Speaker 4>cases with severe male factor that's the only way that

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<v Speaker 4>you're going to have a successful pregnancy. And depending on

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<v Speaker 4>the age of the couple, especially the age of the woman,

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<v Speaker 4>it may be that the recommendation is to go straight

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<v Speaker 4>to IVF. Also depending on how long they've been trying for,

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<v Speaker 4>So it's also the case that if a couple has

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<v Speaker 4>been trying for greater than two years or greater than

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<v Speaker 4>three years, regardless of what you find as the cause,

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<v Speaker 4>it's possible that someone would recommend IVF as the first

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<v Speaker 4>just because statistically there's such a small chance of the

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<v Speaker 4>other options being as effective, like per cycle. And similarly,

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<v Speaker 4>if the age of the female is greater than thirty

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<v Speaker 4>five or definitely greater than thirty nine. But it all

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<v Speaker 4>is just kind of depend a little bit on each

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<v Speaker 4>individual circumstance.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, Okay, okay, And.

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<v Speaker 4>Finally, of course IVF would also be a first line

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<v Speaker 4>if the underlying issue isn't this medical definition of infertility

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<v Speaker 4>that we have defined, but what is called social infertility.

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<v Speaker 7>Right.

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<v Speaker 4>If you are a lesbian couple trying to get pregnant,

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<v Speaker 4>IVF is often though not always, because ovulation induction plus

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<v Speaker 4>IUI could also be an option, but often IVF is

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<v Speaker 4>one of the first steps for things like that, or

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<v Speaker 4>for a single mom who wants to get pregnant, also

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<v Speaker 4>for somebody who has a genetic condition that they want

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<v Speaker 4>to ensure doesn't get passed down to their children, and

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<v Speaker 4>we mentioned this briefly in our Huntington's episode, but this

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<v Speaker 4>is also relevant for people or couples who are carriers

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<v Speaker 4>of things like sickle cell or cystic fibrosis. IVF can

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<v Speaker 4>often be first line for that, and it is used

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<v Speaker 4>in combination with things that we'll talk about later, and

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<v Speaker 4>that is pre implantation genetic testing for these specific disorders.

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<v Speaker 4>So there's a very wide range.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think it's it's interesting how like what IVF

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<v Speaker 2>started out in terms of like, okay, who is going

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<v Speaker 2>to be using IVF, and then how that evolved over

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<v Speaker 2>the decades afterwards, which is it's kind of as the

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<v Speaker 2>technology changed, as regulations changed and so on, which we'll

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<v Speaker 2>get into more of that, but I do have more questions.

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<v Speaker 2>So one of the questions is, so we you have

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<v Speaker 2>mentioned fertility rates globally and in the what are infertility

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<v Speaker 2>rates and like, how are those measured on a global scale?

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<v Speaker 2>What numbers go into that? Great question.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll talk about this a lot more in our last

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<v Speaker 4>episode of this series, but let's.

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<v Speaker 3>At least mention it. Globally.

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<v Speaker 4>It's estimated that one in six couples worldwide experience infertility

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<v Speaker 4>at some point in their reproductive lives. Of course, this

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<v Speaker 4>only includes this medical definition of infertility, right, Okay, so

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<v Speaker 4>globally that's looking at like fifty million or more couples.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a huge number.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's huge.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting. I have a question that's, like you talked about

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<v Speaker 2>how this is what to expect if you go in

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<v Speaker 2>for fertility testing, what is like even before that, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>let's say that you're trying for a year to become pregnant,

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<v Speaker 2>not getting pregnant, who do you do? You go to

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<v Speaker 2>your primary care and then you get a referral to

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<v Speaker 2>a like who is the person you ultimately see?

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<v Speaker 4>That is such a good question because I have a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of personal feelings about it that aren't that relevant.

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<v Speaker 4>But it is going to depend so much on where

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<v Speaker 4>you live and who you have access to and who

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<v Speaker 4>your doctor is, because the first steps of this infertility workup,

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<v Speaker 4>and even like what I would also say is so

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<v Speaker 4>important that gets overlooked is like preconception counseling if people

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<v Speaker 4>want to get pregnant, like understanding that you are most

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<v Speaker 4>fertile in those six days prior to ovulation, and like

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<v Speaker 4>the timing of intercourse. We don't get taught that in

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<v Speaker 4>high school biology class, right, We're so focused for so

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<v Speaker 4>much time on like not getting pregnant, often not always,

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<v Speaker 4>but so even that most of this initial workup is

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<v Speaker 4>very reasonable to be done by most like general practiceers

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<v Speaker 4>what they're called in most places. That being said, not

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<v Speaker 4>all physicians are trained in women's health equally and so

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<v Speaker 4>or in like reproductive health in general, because again we

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<v Speaker 4>have to look at both women's and men's health, and

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<v Speaker 4>so it's very possible that some like GP type physicians

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<v Speaker 4>wouldn't feel comfortable initiating that depending on where you are

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<v Speaker 4>depending on what you have access to, So then you

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<v Speaker 4>might be referred to an obgian who might focus just

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<v Speaker 4>on again, the female reproductive tract.

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<v Speaker 2>So it is.

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<v Speaker 4>It's part of the kind of issue with people getting

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<v Speaker 4>access to the right kinds of care is that, yes,

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<v Speaker 4>most of this evaluation can reasonably be started at least

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<v Speaker 4>in like a general practitioner's office if they feel comfortable

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<v Speaker 4>with it.

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting, Okay, I feel like Aaron. I feel like there's

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<v Speaker 2>like a thousand more questions that I like have that

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<v Speaker 2>are just kind of like lingering in my head, just

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<v Speaker 2>dancing around, but I don't know what they are. But

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<v Speaker 2>I guess this is why we're doing multiple episodes, so

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<v Speaker 2>that I can think back and then ask these again. Exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>But we're just going to keep talking.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just going to keep talking forever. But we should

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<v Speaker 2>probably wrap up this episode now, Okay, I think so.

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<v Speaker 4>I am really excited for next week to get into

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<v Speaker 4>what the heck is IVF and how did we come

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<v Speaker 4>up with it and how does it exist today?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I am excited for that, but we should do

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<v Speaker 2>the sources for this episode first. Absolutely, I have a few,

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<v Speaker 2>but I want to give a second shout out to

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<v Speaker 2>that incredible book that I've mentioned a few times now. Second, third,

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<v Speaker 2>fourth shout out the Paul Grave Handbook of Infertility and History,

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<v Speaker 2>edited by Gail Davis and Tracy Loughgrin, which that was

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<v Speaker 2>just a great It was a really interesting resource and

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<v Speaker 2>had so much like very commentary and like scholarly research

1:24:06.400 --> 1:24:08.600
<v Speaker 2>on the subject that was sort of all over the

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<v Speaker 2>place and but also really comprehensive.

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<v Speaker 4>I have to admit that my sources for these three

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<v Speaker 4>episodes are a mess, being very mixed up, fair warning.

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<v Speaker 4>But for this episode a few papers that I would

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<v Speaker 4>like to especially shout out that I found really interesting.

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<v Speaker 4>One was kind of an old paper now called the

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<v Speaker 4>ABC's of Subfertility, so interesting extent of the problem. It

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<v Speaker 4>had a lot of detail in there about infertility as

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<v Speaker 4>well the World Health Organization fact sheet on infertility, as

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<v Speaker 4>well as a textbook on reproductive medicine. And we will

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<v Speaker 4>post all of the sources from this episode and all

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<v Speaker 4>of our episodes and the next episodes on our website,

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<v Speaker 4>this podcast would Kill You dot Com under the episodes tab.

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<v Speaker 2>A huge thank you again to everyone who has shared

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<v Speaker 2>their first hand accounts with us and who have just

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<v Speaker 2>like really, it's it's been incredible and incredible privilege, like

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<v Speaker 2>you said, Aaron, to be able to you know, read

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<v Speaker 2>these hear these stories. Thank you, thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we really really appreciate it. It's so meaningful. Thank

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<v Speaker 3>you it is.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you also to Bloodmobile for providing the music for

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<v Speaker 2>this episode and all of our episodes.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you too, exactly right, and thank.

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<v Speaker 4>You to you listeners the first of three episodes. There's

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<v Speaker 4>so much more to come, but thank you for sticking

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<v Speaker 4>this one out.

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