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Speaker 1: I found out this week that I missed a friend

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Speaker 1: of mine having a whole ass baby what I mean, Okay,

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Speaker 1: so are they really a friend or well, I'm wonder

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Speaker 1: how good of a friend I So this woman is, well,

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Speaker 1: she's she's one of my like a doctor that I

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Speaker 1: go to, like, she's a dermatologist. And we became friends

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Speaker 1: that way because I just cold went in there one

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Speaker 1: day to get my everything checked out, and boy did

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Speaker 1: they check I mean magnifying glass in hand, and I

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Speaker 1: hadn't been in a while, and I was a little

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Speaker 1: surprised at you know, where we were looking. We were

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Speaker 1: looking everywhere. We were looking places I've never seen, which

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Speaker 1: is what they're supposed to do, I guess. But anyway,

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Speaker 1: and then like halfway through this thing, she's like, hey,

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Speaker 1: are those waiting by the phone's reel? And I'm like, lady,

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Speaker 1: you got a magnifying glass in your hand and you're

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Speaker 1: looking at every anyway. I'm like, my god, the true

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Speaker 1: stories I do, the whole spheel, the whole thing. She's like, God,

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Speaker 1: those things are crazy. Anyway, So I don't know, I

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Speaker 1: guess we started like talking and something, and then somehow

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Speaker 1: we kind of became like friendly, and so I don't

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Speaker 1: even know if this is like are you allowed to

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Speaker 1: be friends with your doctor? I hope so you should

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Speaker 1: think so, I think so. I mean it's not like

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Speaker 1: anyway so much. She's a married lady and stuff. She's

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Speaker 1: very pretty. But part of me is like, you know,

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Speaker 1: I'm the fairest fair here, take it all off, let's

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Speaker 1: see what we're work. I mean, you've seen mine, let

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Speaker 1: me see yours, you know, just just so we're on

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Speaker 1: an even playing field here. And I don't even mean

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Speaker 1: that's actually I just mean like this is an unfair

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Speaker 1: advantage across the table here. You've seen mine, I haven't

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Speaker 1: seen yours. It's not fair, you know what I mean. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't think she's gonna go for that, but anyway,

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Speaker 1: so yeah, we became like friends, and then we've had

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Speaker 1: a couple of times and I don't know, like just

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Speaker 1: in social various people anyway, So I saw her maybe

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Speaker 1: ten months ago and she would get ready for a trip,

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Speaker 1: a long trip, and then she went away, and then

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Speaker 1: like we're Instagram friends and so you know, you know,

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Speaker 1: like I feel like a lot of people these days,

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Speaker 1: we keep up with them on social like it's sadly,

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Speaker 1: it seems like it's almost as good as talking to them,

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Speaker 1: but we don't have to talk to them because we

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Speaker 1: know what they're doing because we see it on the thing,

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Speaker 1: Like I heard from a lot of people yesterday who

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Speaker 1: I haven't heard from it a long time, but I

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Speaker 1: somehow work. I was caught up on their lives because

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Speaker 1: of that. Anyway, So she messaged me about something this

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Speaker 1: week last week, and I was like, oh, hey, you know,

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Speaker 1: how are things We got to catch up. I want

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Speaker 1: to hear about your trip, which I which I just

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Speaker 1: realized now was eight months ago, Like I just it

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Speaker 1: just time had gone by that. I guess it's winter

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Speaker 1: and whatever it's time goes my fast. And so she's like, oh,

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Speaker 1: you know, just been you know, mess with little mess

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Speaker 1: over here and I'm like what, And then a picture

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Speaker 1: pops up of a baby. I'm like, who had a baby?

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Speaker 1: She goes me like what? She goes what, I was

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Speaker 1: pregnant when I saw you less, but I didn't tell anyone.

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Speaker 1: I didn't really know. And then I guess she doesn't

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Speaker 1: post a lot about it because I don't. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't have to. She was private about it, so

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Speaker 1: she didn't post about it. I didn't see her. She

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Speaker 1: has a baby. I missed the whole thing. I didn't

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Speaker 1: know she was pregnant. I didn't know she had the baby.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know what baby existed, you know. So I

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Speaker 1: got send the gift over there now, But it's like

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Speaker 1: I missed a whole ass baby, Like how do you

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Speaker 1: do that? I mean, I know it's not hard to

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Speaker 1: go eight months without talking to someone. I mean we're friends.

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Speaker 1: We're not best friends, right, you know, she's married, she's

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Speaker 1: got her life and work and I have mine or whatever.

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Speaker 1: But have you ever had this happen? Have you ever

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Speaker 1: like snapped in this like I don't know, like how

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Speaker 1: you doing with? How are you and so and so doing?

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Speaker 1: Oh we got divorced? Right? Like why my friend? Or

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Speaker 1: something like why you got divorced? When did that happen?

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Speaker 1: I mean I've had that happen before. White catch up

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Speaker 1: with someone and I'm like, hey, man, how's Sean doing well?

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Speaker 1: Sheterd on me with his assistant and then it changed

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Speaker 1: the on me and I was sitting on the door.

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Speaker 1: It's like, uh, what, I don't know if you guys?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like an awful, awful person, don't.

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Speaker 2: Feel awful you didn't know, and because she was private too.

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Speaker 2: On top of that, But you know how I get

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Speaker 2: about my friends, right, there's levels or there's categorization there.

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Speaker 1: This is where I'll agree with Polya.

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Speaker 2: Yes, because you guys aren't besties, right, I don't even

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Speaker 2: know what level of friendship you guys really have to me.

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Speaker 1: You guys are just like acquaintances.

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Speaker 2: When I see you, I see you, I'll say hi

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Speaker 2: when the time happens. You get what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: No, I think there's like care there, right, but we

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Speaker 1: don't know. I mean, I guess I didn't go out.

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Speaker 1: You guys don't share life events. It doesn't feel like

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Speaker 1: for me. I guess I would have been really sort

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Speaker 1: of engaged in that if I had known. And I

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Speaker 1: think the only way I would have known is if

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Speaker 1: she'd posted a picture of it, which she didn't, for

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Speaker 1: you know, to keep it private reasons. Yeah, And so

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Speaker 1: it's like, I guess what I'm saying is I we're

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Speaker 1: all relying on social media too much to know what

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Speaker 1: the hell people in our lives are doing. And if

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Speaker 1: it doesn't happen on social media, then I don't think

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Speaker 1: it happened. Fact, I don't know if this baby's real. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I think I need to see it. I think this

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Speaker 1: is all just a ruse of some kind. I can't

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Speaker 1: believe I missed a whole ass baby, and I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I guess I thought I was hoping one of you

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Speaker 1: would say, oh, yeah, that happened to me once. What

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Speaker 1: I But no, apparently not. So I need to be

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Speaker 1: a better friend, is what we've learned. And and you've

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Speaker 1: never missed a whole ass anything.

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Speaker 2: I'm not opposite, Like I I corner people when I

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Speaker 2: just suspect that they're pregnant and they don't want.

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Speaker 3: To tell people yet, Like I just have a sense,

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Speaker 3: like I'm just like, I know you're pregnant, and my friends.

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Speaker 1: Are like, up, but you're not supposed to do that, right, Well,

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Speaker 1: I mean my friends like are like, yeah, I am,

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Speaker 1: don't tell anyone. I can just tell Ruvio you're pregnant,

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Speaker 1: aren't you? No? Oh you're not me?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you know you're you know you're pregnant me No, yeah, okay,

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Speaker 3: if someone pregnant, you.

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Speaker 1: Don't post anything.

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Speaker 3: I saw some baby.

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Speaker 1: You hand me a baby. Hey, it's mine. It happened