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Speaker 1: Show is on? You're new to the show.

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Speaker 2: I made it ninety minutes at a bachelor party in Nashville.

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Speaker 1: Literally the first ninety minutes.

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Speaker 3: It's iconic.

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Speaker 1: Ninety minutes. I love that story. That's it. Ninety minutes.

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Speaker 3: And you got a new hotel, rit didn't you?

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Speaker 1: Uh huh?

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Speaker 2: I landed. It was with Friday. I had to come

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Speaker 2: back to Saturday. And I landed, and I drive myself

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Speaker 2: out of my hotel and I went. I met the

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Speaker 2: guys at the bar. They were already there and we

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Speaker 2: were having a good old time. And then a bachelorette

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Speaker 2: party from Chicago walks in a fritt I bought a

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Speaker 2: bottle of fireball and we finished it, and then that's it.

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Speaker 1: That was it for me. I think I was there

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Speaker 1: from three to four thirty.

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Speaker 2: I then stumble out to the front of the bar

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Speaker 2: and tell the cab driver, because there were cabs. This

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Speaker 2: was before uber, I said take me to my hotel,

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Speaker 2: as if he knew where, and he said, well, sir,

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Speaker 2: I don't know where that is. I said, Jim, then

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Speaker 2: just take me to a hotel, so he did. I

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Speaker 2: then proceeded to check into that hotel and I woke

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Speaker 2: up the next morning in that hotel, and I then

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Speaker 2: it's a miracle that I'm alive, to be honest with you.

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Speaker 2: A twenty nine year old female is in morality Monday

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Speaker 2: in the arena today, she said, I was supposed to

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Speaker 2: get married last year, but my fiance and I ended

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Speaker 2: up breaking things off a few months before the wedding.

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Speaker 2: It was mutual, no drama, just a realization that we

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Speaker 2: weren't compatible long term. The thing is, I'd already bought

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Speaker 2: my wedding dress custom made. It cost me nearly four

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Speaker 2: thousand dollars. I know that's a lot. I paid for

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Speaker 2: it entirely myself, and it meant a lot to me.

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Speaker 2: After the breakup, I packed it up and put it

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Speaker 2: in storage. Haven't been ready to sell it or do

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Speaker 2: anything with it. It's emotional. And here's where it gets messy.

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Speaker 2: My younger sister, who is twenty four, so she's twenty nine.

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Speaker 2: Sister's twenty four, recently got engaged. We're not super closed,

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Speaker 2: kind of different people, and she's always been a bit entitled, honestly.

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Speaker 2: She came over a few weeks ago, saw the dress

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Speaker 2: when we were organizing my storage closet and asked if

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Speaker 2: she could have it for her wedding. I kind of

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Speaker 2: laughed and said, oh, no, that's mine. She had annoyed

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Speaker 2: and said, but you're not even getting married. You're gonna

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Speaker 2: told her again, no, it's personal to me, and even

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Speaker 2: though I'm not using it now, I'm not giving it away.

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Speaker 2: She asked if she could buy it at a discount,

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Speaker 2: and I said I wasn't ready to sell it, and

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Speaker 2: now involved and she thinks I should give it to

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Speaker 2: her as a gesture of sisterly and because it's going

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Speaker 2: only asking because she doesn't want to pay for one herself,

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Speaker 2: and she's not exactly struggling financially. So now I have

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Speaker 2: my sister and my mom acting like I'm heartless and

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Speaker 2: petty for not handing it over. But it feels like

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Speaker 2: a boundary that I want to keep her dress. She

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Speaker 2: didn't have to give a tame by end of story,

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Speaker 2: next anything else, I mean, it probably is going to

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Speaker 2: go to waste. I mean, not that she's never going

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Speaker 2: to get married, but if she does, will she use

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Speaker 4: Maybe she might or change her mind and pick something else, but.

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Speaker 2: The dress, I assume you know, she had the vision

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Speaker 2: of the dress. The dress doesn't dependent on the person

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Speaker 2: that she's marrying. But when she was having this dress

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Speaker 2: marrying someone who she's now not marrying. So is that

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Speaker 2: the dress she's gonna want to wear when she marries

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Speaker 2: someone else someday? I don't know, right, but it's her dress,

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Speaker 2: she paid for it, it's her She doesn't have to

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Speaker 4: No, it could rot in the box all at once, Like, no,

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Speaker 4: you're not entitled to it.

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Speaker 5: The sister is a weirdo opinion, because out of all

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Speaker 5: the dresses in America or where or wherever they reside,

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Speaker 5: you want the dresses in my closet with my hurt,

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Speaker 5: pain and tears attached to you are weird?

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Speaker 1: Why don't you put me in that position exactly?

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Speaker 2: Like you know that I intended to wear that dress

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Speaker 2: to get married to someone, and now it's like, well

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Speaker 2: I want it, so I should have it, And then

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Speaker 2: for the mom to get involved and be like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: she's weird too. Eight five three five Jason, I feel

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Speaker 2: like you would just give it to her.

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Speaker 1: I mean that's because that's you think she's entitled to it.

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Speaker 6: But if someone, I mean, if someone wanted anything from me,

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Speaker 6: I probably would just give it to them. But like, yeah,

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Speaker 6: I don't think it's weird that she feels that she's

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Speaker 6: entitled to a dress, Like that's crazy wild.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's her dress, it's her style, it's her dress design.

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Speaker 2: So if she does get married to day, maybe she

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Speaker 2: will wear it. Because the dress is not necessarily attached

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Speaker 2: to the person, you know, it was her vision I

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Speaker 2: mean attached to her, but not to the person she

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Speaker 2: was marrying.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Right, Like, so while the memory is there, if she

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Speaker 2: gets married the next few years and the dress still

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Speaker 2: fits her and looks, I mean that's you know you have.

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Speaker 2: The way I understand it is that women typically, you guys,

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Speaker 2: have a vision for your wedding day that isn't necessarily

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Speaker 2: hinged to the person that you're marrying, because you developed

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Speaker 2: this as like a child, right Like, as you grow

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Speaker 2: up and watch movies and go to other people's weddings

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Speaker 2: and stuff, you're like, oh, I want to wedd but

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Speaker 2: you don't even know who you're gonna marry yet Oftentimes

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Speaker 2: when you envision what it is that you want. Calen's

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Speaker 2: had this this TP forest thing since she met anybody.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's dated.

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Speaker 2: Several people since she had the TP forest revelation.

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Speaker 1: Why do you have?

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Speaker 2: I mean it's fair, right, I mean I've known you

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Speaker 2: for almost ten years and you've dated many people, but

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Speaker 2: you've always had the forest TP wedding revelation.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know if I do it anymore.

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Speaker 3: It feels like a little played out at this point.

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Speaker 2: But because you've been speaking too publicly about it. That's

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Speaker 2: the thing you've been telling everyone you want the forest

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Speaker 2: TP wedding, and everyone's doing it. It's the reason why

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Speaker 2: you got to keep your dress locked up that you've

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Speaker 2: already had made. Yeah. Oh yeah, because you wouldn't anyone

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Speaker 2: to see, especially your sister.

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Speaker 3: Yeah no, she's not wearing that, you know, because.

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Speaker 2: I know you have like a sort of a mixed

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Speaker 2: concept of whether you want to actually be married or not. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: So it's like, you know, you got to keep that

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Speaker 2: for yourself. Okay, Let's say you did have a dress

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Speaker 2: for some reason from another previous relationship, and your sister

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Speaker 2: came to you and said, I want that. It was

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Speaker 2: custom made for you. It is your vision. You're going

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Speaker 2: to give it to her.

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Speaker 7: No, I feel like a wedding I mean, there's not

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Speaker 7: a lot I wouldn't do for her, as you know,

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Speaker 7: but I feel like a wedding dress is so personal.

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Speaker 3: First of all, she's five nine and I'm like barely

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Speaker 1: So it would be cropped rights on.

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Speaker 3: Her, like you know, her ankles would be out.

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Speaker 7: But no, I think it's deeply personal and I would

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Speaker 7: get very upset with people telling me like how I

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Speaker 7: need to handle something that I paid for with my

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Speaker 7: own money, that I made to fit my body like

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Speaker 7: it's weirdo energy like Keiki said. So no, it's a

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Speaker 7: no for me dog. But I'll go with you, like

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Speaker 7: I'll help you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you'll move out of your house for

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Speaker 2: six months so she can man and you'll live on

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Speaker 2: the street.

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Speaker 7: But as far as the wedding dress is concerned, no, no.

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Speaker 1: I mean it's oldest child syndrome. Let me see this.

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Speaker 1: What does that mean? I'm the oldest child?

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Speaker 8: What are they tell me?

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Speaker 1: The babies get everything literally and figuratively. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I mean yeah, yeah, yeah, I could.

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Speaker 2: See something like this happening in my house too, But

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Speaker 2: I wonder what my mom would do.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Fighting over dress, yeah, I mean, I've been a custom

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Speaker 2: made wedding dress from many years ago. I've been thinking about,

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Speaker 2: you know, just whenever that time comes. I've had this

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Speaker 2: vision and the vision is not going to change. It's

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Speaker 2: a beautiful dress.

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Speaker 3: We would you do?

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Speaker 9: Well?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, long train obviously right white if whitest can be,

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Speaker 2: you know, because that's what I.

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Speaker 1: I know what you're talking about.

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Speaker 2: I've been to many I've been to weddings and people

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Speaker 2: that I slept with and they were wearing white. Okay, okay, okay,

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Speaker 2: they're walking down the I don't know.

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Speaker 3: You're not pure, missy.

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Speaker 1: You can't try. But of course I didn't say that

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Speaker 4: Good.

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Speaker 2: I was tempted to. I was tempted to. She walked

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Speaker 2: down the aisle with her fiance standing up there. You know,

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Speaker 2: a husband to be who doesn't know that we hooked up.

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Speaker 10: I know, I know.

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Speaker 2: Messed up, wouldn't it. Yes, Yeah, I don't know. I

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Speaker 2: don't know if in my family that I would see.

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Speaker 2: My sister gets everything she wants, uh for the most part,

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Speaker 2: But I wouldn't say that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I guess so.

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Speaker 2: But my mom's not. I think she likes me better.

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Speaker 2: So there's that.

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Speaker 3: That's nice.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, no, but my is my sister stuff because

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Speaker 2: it's for the kids. Like everything she's doing, let's be honest,

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Speaker 2: everything my mom loves my sister. But everything she's doing

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Speaker 2: these days is leverage to get in with the kids.

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Speaker 1: That's what it is.

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Speaker 2: And like the more accents she gets, the more stuff

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Speaker 2: shows up on my sister's front door, the less action

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Speaker 2: she gets, the less stuff shows up on my sister's

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Speaker 2: front door.

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Speaker 1: That's how it works. Lexi.

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Speaker 11: Hi, Hi, how are you guys?

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Speaker 1: Hey? Good morning, so.

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Speaker 2: MORALEI Monday on a Wednesday, Big sister has a custom

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Speaker 2: wedding dress. Little sister saw it and said, and when

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Speaker 2: big sister's not getting married anymore, Little sister saw it

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Speaker 2: and said, give me that, And she said no, And

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Speaker 2: That's right, Lexie. You're only gonna do it maybe two

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Speaker 4: Yeah, people get really mad about that, and I get it,

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Speaker 4: For me, it's like I don't get mad at that

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Speaker 3: Well, car and a baby. I feel like a baby

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Speaker 1: He has a daughter named Gigi.

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Speaker 2: Do like I always wanted a pet cruiser and then

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Speaker 1: Now I can't have a pet cruiser anymore. I'm so mad.

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Speaker 1: I wanted was a pet cruise.

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Speaker 2: All I wanted was a Mini Cooper and then one

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Speaker 1: It is the Fred Show.

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Speaker 2: Good morning, thanks for having us on the radio, on

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Speaker 2: the iHeart app live and anytime search for The freend

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Speaker 1: I may have seen him my TikTok yesterday.

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Speaker 2: Not to be confused with the show's TikTok, because I

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Speaker 2: not again. And I was selling it back then. By

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Speaker 6: I saw those dms yesterday and I was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: At that, I should I should go and block him.

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Speaker 2: Somebody I guess hacked my ex and and it was

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Speaker 1: I don't. And then so my TikTok is Fred Show Radio.

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Speaker 2: The Show's TikTok is the Fred Show TikTok, not to

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Speaker 3: We got to get over that.

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Speaker 2: Reading the damn let him, let him think I'm stupid.

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Speaker 3: Let me make a TikTok.

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, thank you for the them, and let me Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm almost down with them, by the way, you read fast.

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Speaker 2: So yesterday it was to reveal my latest lego creation,

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Speaker 2: Jason is on a Lego journey as well. You just

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I need to say these coins because Legos are

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Speaker 6: not cheap. No kind of an expensive hobby. And I

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Speaker 1: No, No, don't worry. You know what I'm gonna and Cameln.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna get her going on Lego. I'm gonna go

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna get you guys some Legos. I was going

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Speaker 2: I got Kiki a new hand mirror yesterday. It's on

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Speaker 2: It's also bad luck, but I want to make it

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Speaker 2: know what to get you. I did just get your

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Speaker 3: Thank you for that.

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Speaker 1: By my sister told me to get it for you.

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Speaker 3: You know how excited I was when I saw that,

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Speaker 1: Water table? Is that what I've want? She has no.

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Speaker 2: There's like a firework and play that. That was the

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Speaker 2: He's going to come over and play with the water table.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what you go hose up to it

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Speaker 1: Is that I think that's what it is.

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Speaker 3: We're going to find out.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: We put it together. I'm so excited to thank you.

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Speaker 2: which again range of emotions as I as I reveal

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Speaker 2: build Fred. I'm like, I didn't invent it, Like I

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Speaker 3: It's really cool.

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Speaker 1: I also have to make a confession.

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Speaker 3: Oh did you cheat?

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, I did not.

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Speaker 2: I did not. I will say this, there's and no

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Speaker 2: What I didn't do was I I didn't count enough,

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Speaker 2: I took the whole thing apart and put it all

442
00:17:50,160 --> 00:17:53,280
Speaker 2: back together in the dark, and I got it all perfect,

443
00:17:53,400 --> 00:17:55,840
Speaker 2: except there was just one piece that just didn't fit.

444
00:17:55,920 --> 00:17:58,720
Speaker 2: It just didn't go. And I was like, no, for

445
00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:01,399
Speaker 2: I'm not doing this again. So I glute it. I

446
00:18:01,400 --> 00:18:04,520
Speaker 2: don't know if it counts, it counts, And look, I'll

447
00:18:04,560 --> 00:18:06,520
Speaker 2: tell you what I will give you. I will give

448
00:18:06,560 --> 00:18:08,439
Speaker 2: you this. I'll bring it in if you can find

449
00:18:08,480 --> 00:18:11,560
Speaker 2: where it is. You can't because it was flawlessly.

450
00:18:11,119 --> 00:18:12,240
Speaker 3: You know on the inside.

451
00:18:12,400 --> 00:18:17,520
Speaker 2: Don't care, and don't do this, don't don't do this.

452
00:18:17,760 --> 00:18:20,720
Speaker 2: Don't do this. It looks the thing looks flawless. Okay, No,

453
00:18:20,960 --> 00:18:23,960
Speaker 2: it's not perfect. It is no, no, but it is perfect.

454
00:18:24,040 --> 00:18:25,840
Speaker 2: Now you can't you won't find you'll never have it.

455
00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:28,720
Speaker 2: Nobody will ever know. But you know, and that's the

456
00:18:28,720 --> 00:18:29,160
Speaker 2: worst part.

457
00:18:29,160 --> 00:18:31,879
Speaker 1: And I don't care anymore. Part I let it go.

458
00:18:32,280 --> 00:18:32,679
Speaker 1: Let it go.

459
00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:35,000
Speaker 3: So okay, see you love them, I love them.

460
00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:39,040
Speaker 2: Let them, let them hate on my lego, let them

461
00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:40,880
Speaker 2: hate on my lego Bill. And I'll tell you right now,

462
00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:43,800
Speaker 2: if I hadn't just come clean and admitted that to you,

463
00:18:43,840 --> 00:18:45,000
Speaker 2: he would never know.

464
00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:47,080
Speaker 1: But I was. I was in a moment of desperation.

465
00:18:47,200 --> 00:18:49,600
Speaker 1: It was like one in the morning.

466
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Speaker 2: I'm like standing in the darkness school night shaking because

467
00:18:53,000 --> 00:18:56,000
Speaker 2: I couldn't rest until my lego build was right. And

468
00:18:56,040 --> 00:18:58,399
Speaker 2: I was like, no, I'm not doing this again. So

469
00:18:58,480 --> 00:19:01,360
Speaker 2: I just stuck it where it needed to go. Man,

470
00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:05,520
Speaker 2: looks perfect. But I'll never understand what the tiktoks that

471
00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:07,480
Speaker 2: people want to watch, the tiktoks that people don't want

472
00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:10,520
Speaker 2: to watch, I'll never understand because again, that thing, you know,

473
00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:14,200
Speaker 2: thousands of people watch that I've posted actual videos and

474
00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:16,520
Speaker 2: animal rescues and flying and things I think people would

475
00:19:16,560 --> 00:19:19,160
Speaker 2: care about. Kiki helped me put one together. I sat

476
00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:22,240
Speaker 2: and edited one like a big boy, and nobody really

477
00:19:22,320 --> 00:19:24,280
Speaker 2: watched it. And then I go do this Lego thing

478
00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:26,840
Speaker 2: and I cannot believe the number of people that are like,

479
00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:29,679
Speaker 2: I'm forty years old and I do legos too. But

480
00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:32,159
Speaker 2: there's there's there's a points of this. First of all,

481
00:19:32,200 --> 00:19:34,040
Speaker 2: it's to make I'd like to make an announcement of

482
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Speaker 2: my next build.

483
00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:37,640
Speaker 1: And I've acquired it's on the way.

484
00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:42,080
Speaker 2: It's vibe friend. Yes, yes, yes, hi. Everyone, would you

485
00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:43,720
Speaker 2: like to ask me? Well, first of all, announce the

486
00:19:43,760 --> 00:19:46,720
Speaker 2: build and then I'll take questions. But I've ordered and

487
00:19:46,800 --> 00:19:49,720
Speaker 2: acquired and and it is in root the next Lego

488
00:19:49,760 --> 00:19:51,760
Speaker 2: build for your boy, and it is the back to

489
00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:56,960
Speaker 2: the Future delorem. Oh my god, uh huh that's right? Yeah, yes,

490
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Speaker 2: Kalyn Kalen from the Yeah Klein is it? Are you

491
00:20:00,960 --> 00:20:03,520
Speaker 2: from the A P because you're not allowed any Are

492
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Speaker 2: you from CNN?

493
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Speaker 6: Are you cos?

494
00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:06,480
Speaker 1: Yeah?

495
00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:06,800
Speaker 9: No?

496
00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:10,040
Speaker 1: Actually, are you come here please? I'd like to do

497
00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:12,400
Speaker 1: on one on one with her.

498
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Speaker 3: Is it true that your last piece isn't fully complete?

499
00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:19,000
Speaker 3: And how do you feel moving on to your next piece?

500
00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:21,400
Speaker 9: Yeah?

501
00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:24,240
Speaker 1: You know what, go full press secretary right now, be

502
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Speaker 1: like next, I'm putting terrify you.

503
00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:29,359
Speaker 2: I put a four thousand percent terrify you.

504
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm city executive order.

505
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Speaker 2: I would just I would look, I'd like to address that.

506
00:20:34,960 --> 00:20:36,600
Speaker 2: And it's not a rumor. I know what you're trying

507
00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:39,679
Speaker 2: to do. Uh, Caitlin Clark from Detroit. I know what

508
00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:42,000
Speaker 2: you're I know what you're trying to do. And I

509
00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:43,800
Speaker 2: already came clean on this. I've said what I had

510
00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:45,320
Speaker 2: to say. I did what I did, I said what

511
00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:47,399
Speaker 2: I said, and I've made all the statements about this

512
00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:49,720
Speaker 2: I'm going to make. So that's sad. Anything else any

513
00:20:49,760 --> 00:20:50,280
Speaker 2: other questions.

514
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Speaker 3: You put this together. I'm looking at you. Yeah, you

515
00:20:53,600 --> 00:20:54,360
Speaker 3: put this together.

516
00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:56,560
Speaker 1: I know. But here's the thing.

517
00:20:56,840 --> 00:20:58,840
Speaker 2: Hold on, do you see where the screen is, like

518
00:20:58,920 --> 00:21:02,359
Speaker 2: like where the fake screen is in the Lego screen? Okay,

519
00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:08,120
Speaker 2: oh my god, what don't feed your boyfriend the acids

520
00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:13,800
Speaker 2: posit you mind your business.

521
00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:14,840
Speaker 1: You know what I'm gonna do.

522
00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:17,080
Speaker 2: I'm gonna put together a little Lego container for him.

523
00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:20,840
Speaker 2: You need to for its depositories.

524
00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:22,480
Speaker 1: Yeah.

525
00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:25,119
Speaker 2: No, where the screen is though, Like you have to

526
00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:27,800
Speaker 2: be a mechanical engineer to assemble that, like it took

527
00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:31,160
Speaker 2: like three or four hours because everything moves and there's

528
00:21:31,200 --> 00:21:35,600
Speaker 2: there are little gears and levers and there's a light

529
00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:38,320
Speaker 2: but like all and then there's a Okay, so I

530
00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:40,040
Speaker 2: think I may have said this before, but there's a chain.

531
00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:43,199
Speaker 2: There are chains that make that move behind it. You

532
00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:46,920
Speaker 2: can't see it inside the build. They don't send you chains,

533
00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:49,680
Speaker 2: they send you links. You have to put the chain

534
00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:52,760
Speaker 2: to everything. There's nothing comes assembled. You have to put

535
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Speaker 2: everything together.

536
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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I'm in stem.

537
00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:58,359
Speaker 4: It makes you wonder if if something's wrong with me,

538
00:21:58,440 --> 00:22:00,760
Speaker 4: because you guys seem like you guys have the want,

539
00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:03,919
Speaker 4: the will the patients to do this. This doesn't excite me,

540
00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:06,200
Speaker 4: like actually got mad looking It's okay.

541
00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:09,280
Speaker 2: That it doesn't exciting mad kids. But see now that

542
00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:12,600
Speaker 2: I was, I was educated about this. That's not for kids. Like, yeah,

543
00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:15,240
Speaker 2: I guess the black one. The black boxes, I guess

544
00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:18,040
Speaker 2: are not intended for children. Oh okay, my friend TJ

545
00:22:18,119 --> 00:22:20,879
Speaker 2: told me about this because I guess, you know, like

546
00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:22,000
Speaker 2: my niece couldn't do that.

547
00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:22,959
Speaker 3: I couldn't do this.

548
00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:23,879
Speaker 4: I'm not evening funny.

549
00:22:24,320 --> 00:22:25,240
Speaker 1: You could though, you could?

550
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Speaker 4: You guys same doing the whole thing together, like I

551
00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:30,000
Speaker 4: can't do this.

552
00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:33,080
Speaker 6: I thrive on a good set of instructions and being

553
00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:36,880
Speaker 6: able to fall like that gives me comfort. The fact

554
00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:38,359
Speaker 6: that you get like a book and you get to

555
00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:40,840
Speaker 6: go step by step, like flip the page, like that's

556
00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:41,680
Speaker 6: everything I could watch.

557
00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:43,639
Speaker 2: But there I have a few I have layers of

558
00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:46,240
Speaker 2: issues with this, and again I'm still doing it, but like, okay,

559
00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:49,080
Speaker 2: so that thing had fourteen came with fourteen bags of legos,

560
00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:52,600
Speaker 2: and then like sometimes inside the bag or other bags

561
00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:55,959
Speaker 2: of smaller legos, but they're all mixed up, right, so

562
00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:58,600
Speaker 2: you I use plates and I wind up pouring the

563
00:22:58,680 --> 00:23:01,320
Speaker 2: pieces on each bag on the plate.

564
00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:04,360
Speaker 1: But then you have to like you still have to.

565
00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:10,439
Speaker 2: Find the pieces among the It's layers of anxiety, and

566
00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:12,520
Speaker 2: a lot of times there's similar shape, so you have

567
00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:14,159
Speaker 2: to look and say, okay, I need this piece. So

568
00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:16,680
Speaker 2: first I have to find the pieces in this madness

569
00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:19,520
Speaker 2: of hundreds of pieces, and then I have to organize them,

570
00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:21,159
Speaker 2: and then I have to put it together, and I

571
00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:22,679
Speaker 2: have to make sure I got the right pieces in

572
00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:26,200
Speaker 2: the right places. It's a lot. I don't know why

573
00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:29,000
Speaker 2: I'm enjoying this. I'm not sure if I am, but

574
00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:31,440
Speaker 2: there was a point to this and it took twenty

575
00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:35,960
Speaker 2: minutes to get there. But whatever, what are you? Because

576
00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:38,160
Speaker 2: this came up yesterday too. Is a lot of adults

577
00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:42,600
Speaker 2: in the comments on TikTok on Fred Show Radio saying

578
00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:46,359
Speaker 2: that now that they have adult money, they're buying more

579
00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:49,119
Speaker 2: Legos than ever before because they got adult money and

580
00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:51,119
Speaker 2: they're loving this. You got grown up money, you know,

581
00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:52,600
Speaker 2: when you were a kid you could. I mean these

582
00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:55,680
Speaker 2: Lego sets that was two hundred bucks, the Concord was

583
00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:58,720
Speaker 2: two hundred bucks, the McLaren was two hundred dollars. And

584
00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:00,840
Speaker 2: if you're putting these things together every few days, I

585
00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:03,880
Speaker 2: mean that's expense. You talk if it's expensive. Yeah, I

586
00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:06,320
Speaker 2: own eight hundred dollars in Legos. Now, Like, what am

587
00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:09,639
Speaker 2: I gonna do with these things? I know I realize that,

588
00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:11,919
Speaker 2: but I couldn't afford that as a kid. I mean,

589
00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:13,879
Speaker 2: that's a kid I would have gotten. I would have

590
00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:16,000
Speaker 2: gotten a set for my birthday and I would have

591
00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:18,520
Speaker 2: gotten a set for Christmas maybe. And when I was

592
00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:20,280
Speaker 2: a kid, we didn't have sets like this. It was

593
00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:21,919
Speaker 2: just big buckets of Legos and you had to make

594
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:26,000
Speaker 2: it up yourself. Yeah, but I'm wondering what are you doing?

595
00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:28,280
Speaker 2: It doesn't have to be Legos? What are you doing

596
00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:31,159
Speaker 2: with your grown up money now? Because it's kind of

597
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:34,320
Speaker 2: a it's kind of amazing that I can. I I'm

598
00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:36,920
Speaker 2: bragging now I can walk into it. I don't have kids,

599
00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:38,600
Speaker 2: I don't have to put you in through college. I

600
00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:40,480
Speaker 2: only have to take care of myself. You know, I

601
00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:42,879
Speaker 2: make several dollars an hour. I could walk into a

602
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:44,760
Speaker 2: Lego store buy whatever. I'm not any I'm not as

603
00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:46,480
Speaker 2: much as I want, But I could walk into a

604
00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 2: Lego set. I'm bragging, and I can pick out a

605
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:52,520
Speaker 2: Lego set and buy it and not feel bad about it. True,

606
00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:54,720
Speaker 2: but that's something you can only do if you have

607
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 2: a job and you're a grown up. Yeah you know

608
00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:58,320
Speaker 2: what I mean. So, like, what what do you find

609
00:24:58,359 --> 00:25:00,639
Speaker 2: yourself doing with your grown up money? Is it Legos?

610
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:02,640
Speaker 2: Is it models? Is it makeup?

611
00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:03,119
Speaker 1: Is it?

612
00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:03,679
Speaker 9: Like?

613
00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:04,120
Speaker 1: You know what?

614
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:07,040
Speaker 2: I got grown up money. I'm buying that because I can.

615
00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:09,560
Speaker 2: But like, as a grown up being able to walk

616
00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:12,720
Speaker 2: into an equivalent of a toy store and just it's

617
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:14,440
Speaker 2: like when you were a kid, Remember you'd walk into

618
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:16,480
Speaker 2: a toy store when they had them, and you would

619
00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:18,840
Speaker 2: be like, I want everything, and your mom's like, you

620
00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 2: can have one thing, or you can't have anything. Most

621
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:23,600
Speaker 2: of the time it was that well now, even a

622
00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:25,520
Speaker 2: grocery store, remember the grocery store. You'd walk into you

623
00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:27,919
Speaker 2: I want that cereal, and your mom would be like,

624
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:29,639
Speaker 2: you can't have that. We're not buying that. We have

625
00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 2: cereal at home. You know, you got to eat the

626
00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:35,800
Speaker 2: cereal that you got first. Now, if I want, and

627
00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:37,840
Speaker 2: I realized it's like a twelve dollars investment, you know,

628
00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:40,640
Speaker 2: cereal is expensive. But if I want, if I want

629
00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:42,520
Speaker 2: that box of cereal, I can have it because I'm

630
00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:44,399
Speaker 2: a grown up. I made that money. What do you

631
00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:46,480
Speaker 2: find yourself doing with your grown up money?

632
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:47,639
Speaker 3: Makeup? And food?

633
00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:50,479
Speaker 5: For sure, Like I think about it every day. Like

634
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:52,880
Speaker 5: when I was a kid, you didn't have McDonald's money.

635
00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:54,800
Speaker 5: You had to go home make spaghetti or whatever was

636
00:25:54,960 --> 00:25:56,439
Speaker 5: ye the dinner plan for the Like.

637
00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 2: I want a cheeseburger, and Mom's like, we have we

638
00:25:58,080 --> 00:25:59,960
Speaker 2: can make that at home. Like, no, we can't make

639
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:01,440
Speaker 2: mcdonald'scheeseburger at home.

640
00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:02,359
Speaker 1: It's not the same.

641
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:05,080
Speaker 5: So now as an adult, like whatever, whatever I want,

642
00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:07,320
Speaker 5: whatever restaurant I want to try. I can try whatever

643
00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:10,720
Speaker 5: makeup products I want, fashion Nova like it's bad.

644
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:12,760
Speaker 6: Or whatever you want at the grocery store, because how

645
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:14,320
Speaker 6: many times you asked for something.

646
00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:17,080
Speaker 1: I want a jar of nutella yesterday, nothing to put

647
00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:20,560
Speaker 1: it on. I'm just eating it with a spooney because cares.

648
00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:23,399
Speaker 2: And yes, because you get up at three in the morning,

649
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:25,080
Speaker 2: and if you want the jar on nutella, you can

650
00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:25,439
Speaker 2: have it.

651
00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 6: I want to face dive into that when I get

652
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 6: home from work.

653
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:29,479
Speaker 1: That's what I'm gonna do.

654
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:31,119
Speaker 3: I want to iced coffee. I'm getting it.

655
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Speaker 1: That's what I say.

656
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 4: I can make my mine at home. But three o'clock hits,

657
00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:37,159
Speaker 4: I'm running Duncan. Yeah, I'm taking the baby in a stroller.

658
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Speaker 4: We're going to Duncan.

659
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Speaker 3: Molina runs on run on a.

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Speaker 2: Matter of whether you have a lot of money or don't.

661
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Speaker 2: This is simply a matter of if I choose it,

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Speaker 2: I can do it because I'm a grown up and

663
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Speaker 2: I have grown up money. And I noticed for a

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Speaker 2: lot of people it was Legos. But there are people

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Speaker 2: in my comments going, hey, I am a grown up

666
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Speaker 2: and I can buy any Lego I want, and I

667
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Speaker 2: do it, and I don't care, and it's a very

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Speaker 2: liberating feeling.

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Speaker 1: But this is a whole thing. I mean, there was

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Speaker 1: a whole article about it.

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Speaker 2: Trading cards, auto kids, clay, sculpting miniatures, Legos, Legos, one

672
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Speaker 2: of you sent me this. I think it was you,

673
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Speaker 2: maybe Caitlin or no, my sister Lego's run a cover

674
00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:13,320
Speaker 2: of Time magazine. M hm, yeah, she's there's a movement.

675
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Speaker 2: There's a move going on. Hey, Victory girl, Hello, what

676
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Speaker 2: are you spending your growing up money on?

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Speaker 1: Victor?

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Speaker 13: So it's been about I was twenty plus years and

679
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Speaker 13: the last time I collected Pokemon cards.

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Speaker 9: Uh.

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Speaker 13: That's the thing I got back into actually at the

682
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Speaker 13: end of last year.

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Speaker 1: Pokemon cards.

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Speaker 2: All right, So where do you go to like a

685
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Speaker 2: are you one of these two that goes like the

686
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Speaker 2: Walmart and like digs around trying to find them, or

687
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Speaker 2: do you go to a sports card store?

688
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Speaker 1: What do you do?

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Speaker 13: So now it's actually kind of difficult to go to

690
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Speaker 13: like sports cards are like collectible stores because everything's marked up. Unfortunately,

691
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Speaker 13: there's a lot of scalpers right now. I don't know

692
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Speaker 13: if you've seen like the videos with the Costco where.

693
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Speaker 2: People are like kind of lining it and yeah.

694
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Speaker 13: Yeah, now, there's thingfuitely, there's like Facebook groups that you know,

695
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Speaker 13: let people know when the drops that target Walmart Costco.

696
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Speaker 13: So been using those routes thankfully to be able to

697
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Speaker 13: get some product because any news has to come out.

698
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Speaker 13: It's kind of impossible to be able to get stuff

699
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Speaker 13: on the day of or even game stop right now.

700
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Speaker 13: They're kind of limited on.

701
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Speaker 1: The stock too. What's what's your best pull, Victor?

702
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Speaker 13: I actually got a hyper rich harzard from a so

703
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:23,520
Speaker 13: called the Ocitian Flames.

704
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Speaker 1: What's your worth? How much it worth?

705
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Speaker 13: So unfortunately that card is only about twenty two bucks.

706
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Speaker 13: I do have one card that's I think gritted as

707
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 13: a PSA ten right now. It's a couple hundred dollars.

708
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Speaker 1: What is the Dragonaire?

709
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:41,080
Speaker 13: Yeah, the Dragonnaire secret illustration there.

710
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Speaker 2: But you haven't spend forty dollars to get it, so yeah.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, I mean yeah at this point, I mean I

712
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Speaker 13: started collecting maybe like in September of last year, and

713
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Speaker 13: I busily spent around the amount that you have on

714
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Speaker 13: legos right now.

715
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Speaker 2: So I'm telling me you got that growing up money, Victor.

716
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Speaker 2: Thank you man, have a great day.

717
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Speaker 1: I love you guys.

718
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Speaker 13: I'm one of the thirteen.

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Speaker 2: By the way, make you take that Hannah hy Hello, Hey,

720
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Speaker 2: how Anna, good morning. How are you spending your grown

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Speaker 2: up money?

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Speaker 14: This is really kind of like silly, but basically donuts

723
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Speaker 14: because in high school this was more than ten years ago. Yeah,

724
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Speaker 14: I know, it's just donuts, but I went to religious

725
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Speaker 14: high school and every Tuesday we had something called Tuesdays

726
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 14: with Joe like coffee, and they would be like, you

727
00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 14: can either spend your like period before class started doing nothing,

728
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Speaker 14: or you can come to this religious sermon because we

729
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Speaker 14: have donuts and coffee, and I never got sweets at

730
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Speaker 14: home ever, so I would always go with just for

731
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Speaker 14: the donuts, and I would try to sneak out if

732
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Speaker 14: I could send a don't day, but I would try

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Speaker 14: to sneak out with the donut. And then a senior year, we.

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Speaker 10: Had a Jewish philosophy class and the teacher was like,

735
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Speaker 10: draw a picture of what you want your life to

736
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Speaker 10: look like in ten years, and I literally drew myself

737
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Speaker 10: with a husband and baby, of course, and donuts and

738
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Speaker 10: donut that was that's all I want.

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Speaker 2: Like, no one's going to make me attend any sort

740
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Speaker 2: of thing. I'm going to get my own donuts. On

741
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Speaker 2: my own terms.

742
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Speaker 10: Yes, I and I so I love donuts, and it's

743
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Speaker 10: it's so like childish.

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Speaker 1: I guess, Oh no, it's not. You do you, Hannah.

745
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Speaker 1: You're grown up now. Thank you. Have a good day,

746
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Speaker 1: you too.

747
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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's like when I was a kid in the

748
00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:28,600
Speaker 2: sports card stuff and I'd mow the lawn for two

749
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Speaker 2: weeks and I could go get like two packs or something.

750
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Speaker 2: Now I got a little bit of grown up money

751
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Speaker 2: if I wanted to, And I don't need to be

752
00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:37,040
Speaker 2: getting back into sports card collecting because I'll go in

753
00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:38,920
Speaker 2: there and I'll spend grown up money on this stuff

754
00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:41,640
Speaker 2: and it'll get out of hand because then I'll be like, oh,

755
00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:43,240
Speaker 2: if I keep buying, then I'll this.

756
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Speaker 1: Is what they want.

757
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Speaker 2: Yeah, people are saying I spend money on monthly massages

758
00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:50,840
Speaker 2: legos already plural NOAs whatever. Oh yeah, but it's like

759
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:53,040
Speaker 2: everything else in the Midwest, Okay.

760
00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:53,560
Speaker 3: You got to add the ass.

761
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Speaker 7: For me, it's concerts like I always like eve starting

762
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Speaker 7: young middle school, which like obviously sheet, my mom didn't

763
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Speaker 7: want me to go to concerts a lung, so I

764
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:02,240
Speaker 7: would always have to find someone to take me, or

765
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Speaker 7: if the concert wasn't like appropriate like my dad was

766
00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:07,120
Speaker 7: going to take me to and I'm an anger management tour,

767
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Speaker 7: like shocking, and my mom said no, and I'm still

768
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Speaker 7: mad at her, and like now no matter what concert, like,

769
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Speaker 7: I can go. I can say the whole time, doesn't

770
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Speaker 7: matter if I'm tired the next day, nobody's telling me

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Speaker 7: I can't go.

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Speaker 1: Okay okay.

773
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Speaker 2: Someone says they have two thousand dollars worth of yo yos.

774
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Speaker 1: Ooh yeah, I light up yo yo yo. Remember those?

775
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Speaker 2: A lot of legos, a lot of video games, A

776
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Speaker 2: lot of people spending a ton of money on video

777
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:37,479
Speaker 2: games because they can. When you were a kid, it's like,

778
00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:39,120
Speaker 2: you know, you might get a game here and there,

779
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:43,200
Speaker 2: maybe if you were lucky, holiday, birthday whatever. Now it's like, yeah, really,

780
00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 2: i'd get it now. Hey, Riba, you're with me in

781
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Speaker 2: that team Lego.

782
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Speaker 15: Hey Brad, yes, I am.

783
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Speaker 1: And you.

784
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Speaker 2: What is your latest build, Riba? Since we're talking in

785
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Speaker 2: that you know, since you and I are on the

786
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Speaker 2: same team.

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Speaker 15: My daughter built a big, huge Hogwarts castle, the big

788
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Speaker 15: four thousand piece. I think it was four or seven thousand.

789
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Speaker 15: It's the big newest line.

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Speaker 1: See that does look cool.

791
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Speaker 2: I just don't really think about anything about it, Hogwarts,

792
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Speaker 2: I don't know it looks and plus what am I

793
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Speaker 2: gonna I don't know why I'm gonna put these things.

794
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Speaker 1: That's the other thing.

795
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Speaker 2: Because I thought about I'd buy them and I put

796
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Speaker 2: them together, and then I would like donate them. The

797
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Speaker 2: problem with that is I don't think kids want pre

798
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Speaker 2: assembled legos, right exactly.

799
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Speaker 15: I have a whole room of Harry Potter Legos that

800
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Speaker 15: nobody wants.

801
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Speaker 2: There, you go, I don't know what I would. They

802
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:30,760
Speaker 2: look so cool, but I don't know anything about it.

803
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Speaker 2: I have no context. I only read the first book

804
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:33,960
Speaker 2: and I don't even know what's happening.

805
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Speaker 3: Hogwarts had to be hard, though, that's intricate.

806
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Speaker 15: They're all very very they're very, very very hard. And

807
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Speaker 15: she started when she was like thirteen years old, when

808
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Speaker 15: they very first came out.

809
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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's a.

810
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Speaker 15: Good kid, and she's on the honor roll, and I

811
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Speaker 15: would rather her spend her money on and spend our

812
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Speaker 15: money on that kind of stuff versus drugs.

813
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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, no, I think that's a great compromise.

814
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Speaker 3: Legos.

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00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:03,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you, Reva, have a good day. No, I mean,

816
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Speaker 2: I'll tell you what, that's a great parenting technique for

817
00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:08,120
Speaker 2: Gigi and for Polly. And how about we just say,

818
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Speaker 2: I'll tell you what. I'll give you two hundred dollars

819
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Speaker 2: a month to spend on legos if you'd like, as

820
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Speaker 2: long as you don't spend it on black Tar heroin.

821
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Speaker 2: You have two choices, black to our Heroin and legos,

822
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Speaker 2: and if you pick Black to Our Heroin, you don't

823
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Speaker 2: get the money.

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Speaker 1: I think that's fair, Hey.

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Speaker 2: Michelle, Yes, Michelle, your husband spends his big boy growing

826
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Speaker 2: up money.

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Speaker 16: On a train layout.

828
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Speaker 2: He has a train layout. How do you know he's

829
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Speaker 2: not going to cheat on you. That's how he's got

830
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Speaker 2: a train layout in his house.

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Speaker 17: Fifteen by five train layout.

832
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Speaker 1: And so let me guess.

833
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Speaker 2: He's got to have the tracks and little stations, and

834
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Speaker 2: he has to have the whole like, you know, a

835
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Speaker 2: little stores, and he has to have the whole community.

836
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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 17: Yes, I made a situation with him. He took my

838
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Speaker 17: hot chop down to put the train layout. So I said,

839
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Speaker 17: let me decorate the train layout, see.

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Speaker 2: The whole thing. I've seen this on TikTok too. It's

841
00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 2: very addicting because it's not just a train on the track.

842
00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:06,719
Speaker 2: Now you've got to build the whole like the world

843
00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:11,160
Speaker 2: around it, hills and landscape and buildings and cities and

844
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Speaker 2: hospitals and stations and oh yeah, you can get really

845
00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:15,640
Speaker 2: into this.

846
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Speaker 1: Don't get me started.

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Speaker 12: Thank you.

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Speaker 17: The one building, it can be hundreds of dollars for trains,

849
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Speaker 17: thousands of dollars.

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Speaker 12: It's crazy.

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Speaker 1: Yep, there you go. Thank you having the day, Michelle.

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Speaker 3: Thank you too.

853
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Speaker 2: What is it?

854
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Speaker 1: Don't? What is it same? I don't.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh, it's a person's argument with me about Lego.

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Speaker 7: Oh good, this is like what I wanted to get

857
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Speaker 7: my metal detector again, because I had fond memories when

858
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Speaker 7: I was little and you guys made fun of.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, right, it's so similar.

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Speaker 16: It is.

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Speaker 7: I played with the metal detection when I was little

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Speaker 7: on the beach, and I want one now, well.

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Speaker 2: You know you should get One's roasted me. No, you

864
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Speaker 2: should get one. Big Lego money, big big metal detector money,

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Speaker 2: big money treasure. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: You're right when you're.

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Speaker 2: Right, when you find when you find that coin that

868
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Speaker 2: everyone's been looking for, you know, and you can retire,

869
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Speaker 2: you know what. I hope. So I hope I'm laughing

870
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Speaker 2: one day when you're like, hey, fred, I retired because

871
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Speaker 2: I was out on North Avenue Beach with my metal

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00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 2: detector and my big white hat, yeah, you know, and

873
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:20,279
Speaker 2: then my white nose because I put that stuff on

874
00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:21,800
Speaker 2: my nose so that it wouldn't burn. You know what

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Speaker 2: I'm talking about. I was not walking around a metal detector.

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Speaker 2: It's a good thing. You have a boyfriend now, so

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Speaker 2: all of a sudden you're like, metal detectors are cool.

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Speaker 2: It's the Fread Show and it's our holiday wish with

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Speaker 2: Amy wither Right and one hundred truck Crack. He said,

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Speaker 2: been super emotional so far this year. We're getting text

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Speaker 2: every morning from people saying that, you know, they're crying

884
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Speaker 2: in their in their cars and their way to work,

885
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Speaker 2: which is not the point. I think it's happy tears. Amy,

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Speaker 2: But so far three days, almost twenty thousand dollars for

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Speaker 2: people who could really use some extra help this holiday

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Speaker 2: season from you and one one hundred truck Wreck, which

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Speaker 2: is amazing. It's good stuff.

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Speaker 16: It's the best time of year and this is the

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Speaker 16: time that you know, we are so fortunate. We've done

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Speaker 16: so well business. My family's healthy, and you just got

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Speaker 16: to find room in your heart and room in your

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Speaker 16: pocket to help other people and put a smile on

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Speaker 16: their face no matter what the circumstances are. So I

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Speaker 16: know we have Angel with us next, and Angel's trying

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Speaker 16: to be it sounds like an entrepreneur.

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Speaker 1: Right up, my Alan?

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Speaker 2: Yeah Angel, Hi, Angel, how are you hi? I'm good, Angel,

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Speaker 2: Welcome about Amy wither right is here for one one

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Speaker 2: hundred truck wreck and that can only mean good things,

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Speaker 2: that's right. And you're trying to be Amy was saying,

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Speaker 2: you're trying to be an entrepreneur. You're trying to be

904
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Speaker 2: on Shark Tank or something like. You're working on the

905
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Speaker 2: next big idea.

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Speaker 3: Right, h Well, there would be a dream come true

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Speaker 3: for sure.

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Speaker 1: Well let me read this note that you sent to

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Speaker 1: us if you don't mind. Is that okay? Angel?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? No, sure, It says, dear friend, show on Amy.

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Speaker 2: My holiday wish is for a fast running desk top computer.

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Speaker 2: I'm a single mom with a lot of health issues

913
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Speaker 2: that caused me to go to the doctor and hospital often,

914
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Speaker 2: which means I need to work from home, and this

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Speaker 2: is why I started my small business. Unfortunately, the computer

916
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Speaker 2: that we had started on fire.

917
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Speaker 3: Whoa wow, Wow, it started smoking.

918
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Speaker 2: So that's yeah, go ahead and unplug that. But that's

919
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Speaker 2: why this year my holiday wish is for a computer.

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00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:30,360
Speaker 2: My business is the only way that I can support

921
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Speaker 2: us right now, and my little ones also need a

922
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Speaker 2: computer for their homework and many other things. So please help.

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Speaker 2: I can't support my family without one. We'd be forever grateful. Amy,

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Speaker 2: I have a feeling you can do that.

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Speaker 16: Yeah, And I know a little bit about computers because

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Speaker 16: we have a ton of them, too many of them.

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Speaker 1: I think I.

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Speaker 16: Carried two to three with me at all times because Fred,

929
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Speaker 16: you never know when the damn thing's going to work.

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Speaker 16: I don't know about you, Angel, but mine are intermittent.

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Speaker 2: Well apparently you never know what it's going to start

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Speaker 2: smoking exactly exactly.

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Speaker 16: So Angel, we got to get you a good computer.

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Speaker 16: So I'm thinking about a couple of things. I'm thinking.

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Speaker 16: First off, one eight hundred truck, Right, we can buy

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Speaker 16: you that new computer. But you said you've got you've

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Speaker 16: got kids that may need a computer too, So how

938
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Speaker 16: many kids do you have?

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Speaker 1: I have three, three.

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Speaker 16: And I bet they only computers for school or wherever

941
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Speaker 16: else they got going on.

942
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Speaker 1: Right, the old that's all they do is electronic learning.

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Speaker 16: These all right, So this is what we're going to do.

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Speaker 16: One eight hundred truck rights. We're going to give you

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Speaker 16: twenty five hundred dollars to buy you a new computer.

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Speaker 9: Okay, oh my god, thank you.

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Speaker 1: I don't Oh, she's not done. She's not done. Angel.

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Speaker 16: And then secondly, Angel, we always have computers that are

949
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Speaker 16: only three years old. Every three years, we recycle all

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Speaker 16: of our computers at work. So I'm going to peel

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Speaker 16: off three of those computers that are only three years old,

952
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Speaker 16: and we're going to give those to your family so your.

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Speaker 1: Kids can use them. How about that?

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Speaker 12: Wow?

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Speaker 1: Thank you?

956
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Speaker 2: Wow, you guys, you're gonna do it so mud So

957
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Speaker 2: your business is no longer smoking computers, so any of them.

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Speaker 2: So that's good. So you can get back to work.

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Speaker 2: Your kids will have what they need for school and

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Speaker 2: to entertain themselves and all that stuff.

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Speaker 1: And there.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure they're gonna love it. For the holidays, they're

963
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Speaker 2: gonna think it's amazing.

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Speaker 1: That is so amazing.

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Speaker 16: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: You really don't know how much.

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Speaker 15: This means me.

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Speaker 2: Now, when you're a little small business turns into like

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Speaker 2: the next big business, you know, don't forget about Kiky Paulina,

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Speaker 2: Jason Carroen. Okay, you know.

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Speaker 1: No, I promise I won't forget you either.

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Speaker 2: Amy, what about me? Don't forget about Amy either. But hey,

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Speaker 2: I I hope you have an amazing holiday.

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Speaker 1: Angel.

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Speaker 2: I hope this helps out a little bit. I'm so

976
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Speaker 2: glad that you told us your story. And and hang

977
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:49,360
Speaker 2: on one second, we'll make sure we have all the

978
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Speaker 2: info will get you to these computers. And of course,

979
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Speaker 2: thanks to Amy Amy with her right one eight hundred

980
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Speaker 2: truck wreck for hooking it up.

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Speaker 16: Got that holiday wish.

982
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Speaker 14: I like when you get mad.

983
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Speaker 3: I guess I'm pretty glad that's your alone. You said

984
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Speaker 3: she's showed to me.

985
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Speaker 14: I mean, I don't.

986
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Speaker 3: See what she sees, so maybe it's because I'm moving up.

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Speaker 1: Colone. God, God, please to your kids.

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Speaker 7: I need to tell them that they if they were

989
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Speaker 7: really bad, I would rip up their birth certificate and

990
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Speaker 7: they will have ceased to exist.

991
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Speaker 1: Whoa whoa, whoa.

992
00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:48,920
Speaker 2: How Fred's show is I should asks number one customer

993
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Speaker 2: in the world.

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Speaker 1: I believe that I might be. It is possible.

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Speaker 3: They should have like.

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Speaker 7: A top ten percent where you guys get like merched

997
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Speaker 7: like a tracksuit or something.

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Speaker 2: Can you go to Chipotle enough and you get that

999
00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:02,200
Speaker 2: golden Chipotle card. I feel the tracksuit would be an order, yeah,

1000
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Speaker 2: because that would be the kind of thing I wear.

1001
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Speaker 2: When I ordered door Nest four times a day, I

1002
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Speaker 2: wonder what my record. I think my record is probably

1003
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Speaker 2: five in a dive. Well, what are you doing?

1004
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Speaker 1: Like, okay over there, Well, okay, maybe I ordered breakfast.

1005
00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:21,360
Speaker 8: Well, let's not shame him. Let's not shame Maybe I

1006
00:41:21,440 --> 00:41:23,959
Speaker 8: ordered breakfast. That sounds I don't have to cook. Maybe

1007
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Speaker 8: I ordered lunch. This is not all the time. This

1008
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Speaker 8: is my record. This is like this happened one maybe

1009
00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:31,719
Speaker 8: one day. Maybe I got some lunch, and then I

1010
00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:34,320
Speaker 8: think maybe I ordered dinner, and and then I wanted

1011
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Speaker 8: a beverage, but the beverage wasn't available at the dinner place,

1012
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Speaker 8: so I combined the order, which I guess is technically

1013
00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:43,600
Speaker 8: one order, but sometimes they send two people to do that.

1014
00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:45,200
Speaker 1: They should be more efficient.

1015
00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:47,560
Speaker 2: They should figure out a way that like if you

1016
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Speaker 2: order more than one thing on your order, that but whatever, right,

1017
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Speaker 2: and then it's possible. But later in the day, I

1018
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:57,160
Speaker 2: thought maybe dessert was an order. Yeah, somebody slipped me

1019
00:41:57,320 --> 00:41:59,480
Speaker 2: a THHG gummy. It's or maybe they had slipped me

1020
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Speaker 2: the THHG me from the beginning.

1021
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Speaker 1: It's possible we've.

1022
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Speaker 2: Ever been left waiting by the phone.

1023
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Speaker 1: It's the Fred Shell.

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Speaker 2: Hey Abby, good morning, welcome to the show.

1025
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:09,120
Speaker 1: How are you.

1026
00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:11,799
Speaker 12: I'm good, guys, how are you doing great?

1027
00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:13,279
Speaker 1: Welcome to waiting by the phone.

1028
00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:14,960
Speaker 2: So we're trying to figure out what happened with this

1029
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:17,440
Speaker 2: guy Patrick, and we got to have the backstory.

1030
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:18,719
Speaker 1: So how did you meet?

1031
00:42:18,960 --> 00:42:21,560
Speaker 2: Tell us about any dates you've been on and uh

1032
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:23,640
Speaker 2: and how those went, and then where things are now?

1033
00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:24,400
Speaker 15: All right?

1034
00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:28,399
Speaker 12: So first I met Patrick at a Saint Patrick's safe

1035
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:35,120
Speaker 12: party the irony there, and we just we just talked

1036
00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:40,720
Speaker 12: for like hours. We both have kids, and we bonded

1037
00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:44,799
Speaker 12: over that, like we're both single parents, you know, just

1038
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:48,480
Speaker 12: talking about like the funny stories that our that our kids,

1039
00:42:48,520 --> 00:42:53,120
Speaker 12: you know, do, So we just like really clicked right away.

1040
00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:57,200
Speaker 12: It was like instant connection. Then we like the more

1041
00:42:57,239 --> 00:42:59,160
Speaker 12: we talk, like he was asking, like, you know, where

1042
00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:01,359
Speaker 12: about I live. We found out that we lived pretty

1043
00:43:01,360 --> 00:43:04,959
Speaker 12: close to each other, and he asked for my number

1044
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:06,880
Speaker 12: before he left, which was like, you know, I was

1045
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:08,920
Speaker 12: excited because like I thought he was really cute, and

1046
00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:12,600
Speaker 12: we feel like I felt like there was definitely connection there.

1047
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:16,280
Speaker 12: So we had been kind of texting back and forth

1048
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 12: after he got my number, and then a few days

1049
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:22,879
Speaker 12: later it was a really nice day and Patrick was like, hey,

1050
00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:24,600
Speaker 12: you know, like I'm going to take my son to

1051
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:27,879
Speaker 12: the park, which was not too far from my house

1052
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:29,400
Speaker 12: because I said it was pretty close to his and

1053
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 12: like I said, we lived pretty close. And he was like, hey,

1054
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:34,480
Speaker 12: do you like want to come and join. It's like

1055
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:36,799
Speaker 12: I felt comfortable because it's like a big thing, like

1056
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 12: introducing your children to any other adult that you had,

1057
00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:43,040
Speaker 12: Like even if he's like not my boyfriend, it's just

1058
00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:47,480
Speaker 12: a lot to introduce to anybody coming into our lives.

1059
00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:49,680
Speaker 12: So I really appreciated him saying like if I felt

1060
00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:53,759
Speaker 12: comfortable like bringing my kids over, so I grant So

1061
00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:56,279
Speaker 12: I have two daughters, and I said sure, you know what,

1062
00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:59,200
Speaker 12: like what why not? You know, it's it's innocent, It's

1063
00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:01,160
Speaker 12: not a day. I was just kind of meeting up

1064
00:44:01,200 --> 00:44:03,880
Speaker 12: and kind of getting to know us better, and you know,

1065
00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:06,040
Speaker 12: we had like a real like it was a really

1066
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:07,800
Speaker 12: it was really nice to see him again. We tried

1067
00:44:08,200 --> 00:44:10,320
Speaker 12: a lot, the kids had a lot of fun playing.

1068
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:14,800
Speaker 12: But after that, like I never heard from him again,

1069
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:17,279
Speaker 12: Like it was very weird, Like he didn't like I

1070
00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:19,640
Speaker 12: turned him a text afterwards, they said, hey, like, you know,

1071
00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:22,200
Speaker 12: thanks for inviting us, we had a great time, you know,

1072
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:24,880
Speaker 12: talk to you soon or like love to see you again,

1073
00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:28,080
Speaker 12: you know, let me know. And it was just cricket.

1074
00:44:28,200 --> 00:44:30,160
Speaker 12: So I just don't know, like what happened if I

1075
00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:32,879
Speaker 12: said something, you know, it's just I'm just sitting here

1076
00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:34,279
Speaker 12: trying to figure it out.

1077
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:36,440
Speaker 2: Yeah that's interesting because you guys, you did meet in

1078
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:38,799
Speaker 2: the wild per se, you met in person, so this

1079
00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:41,400
Speaker 2: guy wasn't a total stranger, and you have kids and

1080
00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:44,239
Speaker 2: he has kids, so you know, getting them together and

1081
00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:46,160
Speaker 2: figuring out, you know, if they're going to get along

1082
00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 2: and stuff. I suppose I've seen a sense enough and

1083
00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:51,239
Speaker 2: since things went well in your opinion, then it's like, well,

1084
00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:53,719
Speaker 2: wait a minute, Uh, what's going on?

1085
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:55,200
Speaker 1: Why wouldn't this guy call me again?

1086
00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:57,279
Speaker 12: Yeah, it was just very strange, Like I feel like

1087
00:44:57,400 --> 00:45:01,040
Speaker 12: both interactions, like the first and second, you know, like

1088
00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:03,799
Speaker 12: you know, hanging out, we're fine, like total you know,

1089
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:06,719
Speaker 12: innocent but fine, and you know, there was no awkwardness

1090
00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:10,000
Speaker 12: at all, so I'm just I'm kind of stumped of

1091
00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:11,200
Speaker 12: what could have happened.

1092
00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:14,080
Speaker 2: Okay, well, let's call this guy Patrick, see if we

1093
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:15,920
Speaker 2: can get him on the phone. We'll ask these questions

1094
00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:17,400
Speaker 2: for you. You'll be on the phone, of course, at the

1095
00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:19,520
Speaker 2: same time. At some point you're welcome to jump in

1096
00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:21,160
Speaker 2: after we get you some info. And the hope is

1097
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:23,440
Speaker 2: always is that we can figure out what happened or

1098
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:25,959
Speaker 2: what's going on, set you guys up on another date,

1099
00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:26,920
Speaker 2: and we'll pay for that.

1100
00:45:26,960 --> 00:45:28,279
Speaker 12: All right, I'm good.

1101
00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:31,359
Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, I mean, let's call Patrick. You guys met

1102
00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:33,720
Speaker 2: at the Saint Patrick's party. You talked for a long time.

1103
00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:36,680
Speaker 2: You thought it went really well. You bonded over the

1104
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:39,000
Speaker 2: fact that you both are single parents and you have kids,

1105
00:45:39,040 --> 00:45:42,319
Speaker 2: and so you decided collectively to get together at a

1106
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:43,960
Speaker 2: park or playground or whatever.

1107
00:45:43,719 --> 00:45:44,360
Speaker 1: With the kids.

1108
00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:46,719
Speaker 2: And it wasn't really a date per se, but you know,

1109
00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:48,279
Speaker 2: the kids got to meet each other and you guys

1110
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:49,879
Speaker 2: got to talk some more, and you thought everything went

1111
00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:53,319
Speaker 2: really well. Except you have not heard from Patrick since then,

1112
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:55,440
Speaker 2: and you want to know why exactly.

1113
00:45:55,560 --> 00:45:58,080
Speaker 12: So I'm just kind of racking my brain what's happening.

1114
00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:02,840
Speaker 12: So I I don't know like, at this point, I

1115
00:46:03,160 --> 00:46:03,759
Speaker 12: need some help.

1116
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:07,279
Speaker 2: I need some Look at mom multitasking over there. I

1117
00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:10,120
Speaker 2: got the kids in the background. They'll try to figure out. Yeah,

1118
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:12,320
Speaker 2: you know, I mean you got needs, gir I understand.

1119
00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:15,239
Speaker 2: Let's call this guy now. Good luck, Abby, thank you.

1120
00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:27,520
Speaker 1: Hello. Hi is this Patrick?

1121
00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:28,319
Speaker 12: Yes?

1122
00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:30,919
Speaker 1: This is hey Patrick. Good morning. My name is Fred.

1123
00:46:30,920 --> 00:46:33,120
Speaker 2: I'm calling for the Fred's Show, the morning radio show,

1124
00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:34,360
Speaker 2: and I have to tell you that we are on

1125
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:37,240
Speaker 2: the radio right now, and I would need your permission

1126
00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:38,200
Speaker 2: to continue with the call.

1127
00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:40,120
Speaker 1: Is uh? Is it coo if we talk for just

1128
00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 1: a second.

1129
00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:43,680
Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, that's that's fine.

1130
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, thank you for calling on behalf of a

1131
00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:47,360
Speaker 2: woman who reached out to us. Her name is Abby.

1132
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:49,520
Speaker 2: I guess you guys met it at a party recently

1133
00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:51,839
Speaker 2: and went on a date. I guess it was kind

1134
00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:53,920
Speaker 2: of more of like like an outing with your kids.

1135
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:54,800
Speaker 2: Do you remember this woman?

1136
00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:57,320
Speaker 9: Uh? Yeah, yeah, I remember Abby.

1137
00:46:57,400 --> 00:47:00,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, So what happened because she we just talked

1138
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 2: to her a second ago and she was talking about

1139
00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:03,200
Speaker 2: how she met you at the party and you guys

1140
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:06,600
Speaker 2: bonded over being parents and and you know, she thought

1141
00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 2: everything went great. You guys apparently decided to meet up

1142
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:12,360
Speaker 2: with your kids, and she hasn't heard from you since.

1143
00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:14,200
Speaker 1: So what what happened?

1144
00:47:14,520 --> 00:47:17,080
Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, I was I was going to take my

1145
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:19,680
Speaker 9: son out to a park and just called her up

1146
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:22,880
Speaker 9: to see if she wanted to join, you know, nothing serious,

1147
00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:26,640
Speaker 9: but yeah, we met up. She's she was great, you know,

1148
00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:30,879
Speaker 9: I mean she's really fun to be around. Honestly, her

1149
00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:35,120
Speaker 9: her two kids were just paris.

1150
00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:38,240
Speaker 1: That's kind of my opinion.

1151
00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:44,239
Speaker 9: Kid. Yeah, well just in the in the way that

1152
00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:47,759
Speaker 9: they terrorized my son, and I guess me, I do

1153
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:50,319
Speaker 9: want to say though, you know, I'm I'm a dad,

1154
00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:52,960
Speaker 9: I'm a single dad. I understand how kids can be.

1155
00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:56,680
Speaker 9: But her, her two kids were just next level. I

1156
00:47:56,760 --> 00:47:59,960
Speaker 9: mean they they spent most of the afternoon just double

1157
00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:03,920
Speaker 9: team in on my son, taking his toys, pushing him.

1158
00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:06,560
Speaker 1: One of her daughters sneezed.

1159
00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:07,960
Speaker 9: At one point, you know, I said, God, bless you,

1160
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:10,360
Speaker 9: and she just made a bee line straight for me

1161
00:48:11,080 --> 00:48:13,319
Speaker 9: and wiped her nose and just wiped it all over

1162
00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:14,040
Speaker 9: my jeans.

1163
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:15,640
Speaker 1: You know, we kind of laughed.

1164
00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:17,960
Speaker 9: But I was thinking, this is this is freely out

1165
00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:20,000
Speaker 9: of line, and so I tried to get him to

1166
00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:22,520
Speaker 9: play some games. They just didn't want to listen to me.

1167
00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:23,840
Speaker 9: One of them just straight up told me I was

1168
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:31,840
Speaker 9: ugly and then just running like okay. I mean that

1169
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:34,480
Speaker 9: hurts the ego a little bit, and I'm like, all right, whatever.

1170
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:39,160
Speaker 9: But you know the worst part of it. They they're biers.

1171
00:48:39,320 --> 00:48:42,600
Speaker 9: Both of her kids bite like one of them literally

1172
00:48:42,600 --> 00:48:43,920
Speaker 9: bit me. I don't know if you've ever been bit

1173
00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:47,000
Speaker 9: by a kid, but that hurts.

1174
00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 2: I'm sorry to laugh, but I mean, okay, so yeah,

1175
00:48:50,840 --> 00:48:53,160
Speaker 2: coving germs on you, they're biting you, they're calling you ugly,

1176
00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:56,520
Speaker 2: they're roasting you. And what is during all of this?

1177
00:48:56,640 --> 00:48:58,840
Speaker 2: Like what what is she just watching this and laughing?

1178
00:48:58,880 --> 00:48:59,640
Speaker 2: Is she enabling it?

1179
00:48:59,680 --> 00:48:59,840
Speaker 13: Is she?

1180
00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:02,640
Speaker 1: Is she trying to correct them? I mean, what's happening?

1181
00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:05,759
Speaker 9: What is her? Well, no, she wasn't trying to correct them.

1182
00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:08,319
Speaker 9: I don't know that she was enabling other than just

1183
00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:11,439
Speaker 9: not stepping in. But it just seemed like they ran

1184
00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:15,880
Speaker 9: the show. I could tell that there's probably no consequences

1185
00:49:15,920 --> 00:49:18,480
Speaker 9: at home, you know, if they get in trouble. It

1186
00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:21,799
Speaker 9: just felt like they were in charge. So I don't know,

1187
00:49:21,840 --> 00:49:23,480
Speaker 9: it was it was just a lot for me for

1188
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:26,680
Speaker 9: an afternoon. She never really told them to stop, and

1189
00:49:27,040 --> 00:49:29,040
Speaker 9: I didn't really feel like it was my place to

1190
00:49:29,080 --> 00:49:30,839
Speaker 9: do that, So I thought I'll just remove myself from

1191
00:49:30,840 --> 00:49:32,880
Speaker 9: the situation after this afternoon, we can kind of be

1192
00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:33,399
Speaker 9: done with it.

1193
00:49:33,600 --> 00:49:35,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would like that much either. But let me

1194
00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:37,920
Speaker 2: bring Abby in. I forgot you mentioned that Abby is here. Abby,

1195
00:49:38,480 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 2: you didn't say so was that your kids were biting

1196
00:49:40,640 --> 00:49:41,040
Speaker 2: this man?

1197
00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:45,920
Speaker 12: Okay, so my two year old guz like we are

1198
00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 12: working on it. I told her to apologize. Like, first

1199
00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:55,000
Speaker 12: of all, Terris is like really extreme and like I

1200
00:49:55,040 --> 00:49:57,720
Speaker 12: really don't like that word, especially associated with my children.

1201
00:49:57,840 --> 00:50:01,600
Speaker 12: So I really hate that, Like that's just for me,

1202
00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:03,480
Speaker 12: Like if he's turned off by me, that's fine. Like

1203
00:50:03,719 --> 00:50:05,920
Speaker 12: him using that word to describe my children, that's a

1204
00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:09,960
Speaker 12: huge turnoff by for him, like for me towards him,

1205
00:50:10,239 --> 00:50:13,879
Speaker 12: they are not. They obviously were like a little more

1206
00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:17,080
Speaker 12: on the excited side, obviously to like meet you people

1207
00:50:17,239 --> 00:50:19,160
Speaker 12: meet a new kids. Like they weren't ganging up on

1208
00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:22,440
Speaker 12: his son. I did try to interject, there's just so

1209
00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:25,160
Speaker 12: much like it's hard to be a single parent, like

1210
00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:27,600
Speaker 12: you know, like it's kind of hard since he like

1211
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:30,480
Speaker 12: I divoted some issues like with my acts, like I

1212
00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:34,719
Speaker 12: don't have much of support from my child's father, so

1213
00:50:34,760 --> 00:50:37,359
Speaker 12: it's me doing it all. So it's like really hard

1214
00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:41,200
Speaker 12: that he's like glassing me as a mother. It's just

1215
00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:44,600
Speaker 12: very hurtful because I was trying, so like he's kind

1216
00:50:44,640 --> 00:50:46,400
Speaker 12: of going to the stream. But I did nothing.

1217
00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:48,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean my mom, my sister, and I were

1218
00:50:48,880 --> 00:50:51,080
Speaker 2: raised by my mom primarily, and she was a single

1219
00:50:51,080 --> 00:50:55,200
Speaker 2: parent for a while. And and I commiserate with what

1220
00:50:55,200 --> 00:50:58,960
Speaker 2: you're saying. I think, though you know your kids can

1221
00:50:59,080 --> 00:51:01,600
Speaker 2: act up. But just from my perspective, if it were

1222
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:03,960
Speaker 2: me and I'm patrick, I guess what I would have

1223
00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:06,000
Speaker 2: been looking for is less about what a two year

1224
00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:10,480
Speaker 2: old's doing and more about maybe what you're doing about it.

1225
00:51:10,560 --> 00:51:13,400
Speaker 2: Because he certainly couldn't discipline the kids. That would have

1226
00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:14,279
Speaker 2: been a chance.

1227
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:17,200
Speaker 12: But that's what I'm saying. So you're listening to what

1228
00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:19,600
Speaker 12: he's saying that I didn't my child, friend, Well.

1229
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:23,160
Speaker 2: I'm asking you if, okay, I'm not criticizing you, I

1230
00:51:23,200 --> 00:51:25,359
Speaker 2: started do something out by not criticizing you, but I'm

1231
00:51:25,360 --> 00:51:27,239
Speaker 2: saying if I but I had.

1232
00:51:27,120 --> 00:51:31,200
Speaker 12: Already I had already explained that when she did go

1233
00:51:31,320 --> 00:51:34,319
Speaker 12: to bite him, I put her aside and said, you

1234
00:51:34,360 --> 00:51:36,640
Speaker 12: cannot be doing that and you need to apologize.

1235
00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:38,640
Speaker 1: Is that what happened? Patrick? Did? She did?

1236
00:51:38,680 --> 00:51:41,120
Speaker 2: She was Are you not giving her enough credit for

1237
00:51:41,160 --> 00:51:42,600
Speaker 2: her trying to manage her kids?

1238
00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:45,399
Speaker 9: Well, no, no, she did step in. I mean it's

1239
00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:47,800
Speaker 9: not like she didn't do anything. It's just that I

1240
00:51:48,600 --> 00:51:52,800
Speaker 9: didn't see necessarily the results coming out of her telling

1241
00:51:52,800 --> 00:51:55,200
Speaker 9: her kids what to do. I mean, it's not like

1242
00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:57,960
Speaker 9: they just continue doing it. They would stop, but then

1243
00:51:58,000 --> 00:52:01,000
Speaker 9: it would they would back up. So and again I

1244
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:04,800
Speaker 9: have support for her for single moms, and and I

1245
00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:07,560
Speaker 9: do apologize for using the word terrorists. That may have

1246
00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:09,600
Speaker 9: been a little harsh. That's not necessarily what I meant.

1247
00:52:09,600 --> 00:52:12,200
Speaker 9: It just it was a lot for me and my boy.

1248
00:52:12,400 --> 00:52:14,400
Speaker 9: We're just not used to that kind of energy. So

1249
00:52:14,480 --> 00:52:15,239
Speaker 9: it was just a lot.

1250
00:52:15,640 --> 00:52:18,080
Speaker 12: And that's fine. But like also, I feel like he's

1251
00:52:18,120 --> 00:52:20,239
Speaker 12: trying to come off at like their boat says like

1252
00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:22,719
Speaker 12: his son, Yes, his son has behaved, but his son also,

1253
00:52:22,800 --> 00:52:29,120
Speaker 12: like through stand at my daughter's a few times they

1254
00:52:29,160 --> 00:52:32,640
Speaker 12: weren't biting the child like by like I said, only

1255
00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:35,040
Speaker 12: my two year old bit him. And like again, I

1256
00:52:35,600 --> 00:52:39,000
Speaker 12: disciplined and we're working on it. Like she's too, So

1257
00:52:39,120 --> 00:52:42,480
Speaker 12: like maybe she got scared, you know, like we're trying

1258
00:52:42,600 --> 00:52:44,680
Speaker 12: to communicate with her, We're trying to explain that that's

1259
00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:47,640
Speaker 12: not okay. Sometimes her older sister will get upset and

1260
00:52:47,640 --> 00:52:50,000
Speaker 12: bite her back, but other my older daughter does not

1261
00:52:50,360 --> 00:52:53,520
Speaker 12: bite other people. Like it's a it's a sibling thing

1262
00:52:53,600 --> 00:52:56,200
Speaker 12: between them that like we're trying to work on. So

1263
00:52:56,360 --> 00:52:58,279
Speaker 12: the fact that like it's all coming down on me,

1264
00:52:58,440 --> 00:53:01,320
Speaker 12: it's just like really hard, Like I'm trying my best,

1265
00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:05,040
Speaker 12: and I know he's trying his best, like I would

1266
00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:07,279
Speaker 12: never have used that, Like, you know, he's feeling that

1267
00:53:07,320 --> 00:53:09,359
Speaker 12: he didn't disciplined his son enough or that his son

1268
00:53:09,440 --> 00:53:12,880
Speaker 12: was doing things like I give everybody like I give everybody,

1269
00:53:12,920 --> 00:53:15,239
Speaker 12: like a great assault. I give everybody like you know,

1270
00:53:16,680 --> 00:53:19,200
Speaker 12: I feel for I feel for every single parent out

1271
00:53:19,239 --> 00:53:21,480
Speaker 12: there trying the best to catch Yeah, we always for you.

1272
00:53:22,040 --> 00:53:23,920
Speaker 5: We are not trying to criticize you. We are not

1273
00:53:24,000 --> 00:53:26,279
Speaker 5: trying to criticize you at all. But I think we

1274
00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:28,239
Speaker 5: have to respect his decision to not want to be

1275
00:53:28,280 --> 00:53:29,400
Speaker 5: a part of that right now.

1276
00:53:29,600 --> 00:53:31,040
Speaker 2: It was a lot for him, and.

1277
00:53:31,000 --> 00:53:33,000
Speaker 3: We can you can admit that, right, fine, you can

1278
00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:33,840
Speaker 3: admit that part.

1279
00:53:33,920 --> 00:53:36,520
Speaker 12: Totally fine, that is totally fine, I can admit that

1280
00:53:36,560 --> 00:53:38,719
Speaker 12: the whole thing is is just like be a man

1281
00:53:39,040 --> 00:53:40,840
Speaker 12: and say, you know what, I feel like this is

1282
00:53:40,880 --> 00:53:43,360
Speaker 12: not working and like, you know, like it's better.

1283
00:53:43,239 --> 00:53:45,440
Speaker 2: Off, like that's see okay, but hold on, hold on,

1284
00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:47,840
Speaker 2: I mean just one second. This is not an indictment

1285
00:53:47,840 --> 00:53:50,080
Speaker 2: on parents and parents as a whole. And I also

1286
00:53:50,160 --> 00:53:54,279
Speaker 2: understand we're talking about your children and so understandably you

1287
00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:57,440
Speaker 2: have emotion about this, and you should and that is fair.

1288
00:53:58,160 --> 00:54:01,280
Speaker 2: But that's probably why he choll not to say anything

1289
00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:05,520
Speaker 2: and just sort of fade away, because he probably didn't

1290
00:54:05,520 --> 00:54:07,480
Speaker 2: want to have to tell a woman who he just met,

1291
00:54:07,760 --> 00:54:10,640
Speaker 2: I think your kids were unruly and then get into

1292
00:54:10,680 --> 00:54:13,400
Speaker 2: this sort of conversation because I understand why you're defensive.

1293
00:54:13,480 --> 00:54:16,080
Speaker 2: I totally do, but I also think you need to

1294
00:54:16,160 --> 00:54:19,560
Speaker 2: understand from the other side that it's a difficult conversation

1295
00:54:19,640 --> 00:54:21,800
Speaker 2: to have with someone when you're talking about their kids.

1296
00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:22,520
Speaker 15: Well.

1297
00:54:22,560 --> 00:54:24,680
Speaker 12: Sure, but he didn't even have to bring up the kids.

1298
00:54:24,719 --> 00:54:26,200
Speaker 12: He could have just said, you know what, I'm just

1299
00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:28,799
Speaker 12: not feeling the vibe like I think you know, I'm

1300
00:54:28,800 --> 00:54:32,840
Speaker 12: not a relationship, you know what, honestly, like just say

1301
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:37,640
Speaker 12: something like don't leave somebody on red, like, just be respectful.

1302
00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:40,960
Speaker 12: Like I've had to end things. They're not they're uncomfortable.

1303
00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:43,360
Speaker 12: They're uncomfortable when you have to tell someone yeah, you know,

1304
00:54:43,520 --> 00:54:46,879
Speaker 12: like I'm not feeling it, or like you could. There's

1305
00:54:46,920 --> 00:54:51,600
Speaker 12: a respectful way to end things without ghosting. That's all

1306
00:54:51,640 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 12: I'm saying, Like, I just feel like I deserved a

1307
00:54:53,560 --> 00:54:55,560
Speaker 12: little bit more respect than that after I feel like

1308
00:54:55,560 --> 00:54:58,080
Speaker 12: we really did have a connection. But that's fine, that's

1309
00:54:58,200 --> 00:54:59,520
Speaker 12: I think that's I think that this.

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00:55:00,560 --> 00:55:01,399
Speaker 1: I think that's fair.

1311
00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:03,520
Speaker 2: I think that your you know, your your emotion and

1312
00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:06,600
Speaker 2: defensiveness about this is also fair. But I also think

1313
00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:09,160
Speaker 2: that it's possible that when we're talking about our own

1314
00:55:09,239 --> 00:55:11,719
Speaker 2: kids and our own families and our own especially when

1315
00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:15,240
Speaker 2: they're our own kids, that maybe you're a little blinded

1316
00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:17,759
Speaker 2: by how that experience may have been for someone else

1317
00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:21,040
Speaker 2: and why that may not be for them. I also

1318
00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:23,879
Speaker 2: understand the communication part of this. So look, no one's

1319
00:55:23,920 --> 00:55:25,960
Speaker 2: coming down on you, no one's criticizing you. It's not

1320
00:55:26,040 --> 00:55:30,400
Speaker 2: for him. He has that right that is dating. But Patrick,

1321
00:55:30,440 --> 00:55:32,120
Speaker 2: I'll ask the question, I mean, would you like to

1322
00:55:32,120 --> 00:55:34,839
Speaker 2: go out with her again? Maybe we you know, don't

1323
00:55:34,880 --> 00:55:37,920
Speaker 2: bring the kids this time. And then slowly work on

1324
00:55:37,960 --> 00:55:40,319
Speaker 2: that whole thing, you know, another time.

1325
00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:45,040
Speaker 9: You know, honestly, had we had this conversation, I may

1326
00:55:45,080 --> 00:55:47,719
Speaker 9: have understood a little more. We we kind of kept

1327
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:52,160
Speaker 9: it pretty surface. But I really dig the fire that

1328
00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:55,960
Speaker 9: she has, that she's representing standing up her kids. I

1329
00:55:56,000 --> 00:56:00,880
Speaker 9: see that she's working on it. I'm not opposed to

1330
00:56:01,880 --> 00:56:02,840
Speaker 9: going out again.

1331
00:56:02,680 --> 00:56:03,600
Speaker 1: If oh.

1332
00:56:05,760 --> 00:56:07,560
Speaker 2: This, I do not see this coming. So you have

1333
00:56:07,640 --> 00:56:09,359
Speaker 2: no problem being a human Kleenex again.

1334
00:56:10,400 --> 00:56:12,399
Speaker 9: Well, no, I don't think it's gonna be that way.

1335
00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:14,120
Speaker 9: I think I just have a bit more of an

1336
00:56:14,160 --> 00:56:17,000
Speaker 9: understanding of what she's going through, and I like her.

1337
00:56:16,920 --> 00:56:18,080
Speaker 1: Passion, all right.

1338
00:56:18,280 --> 00:56:21,200
Speaker 2: I mean, look, I'm a little surprised, but Abby, I

1339
00:56:21,360 --> 00:56:25,000
Speaker 2: I understand where you're coming from. Patrick, I didn't expect this.

1340
00:56:25,120 --> 00:56:27,600
Speaker 2: But great, So it'll be an adult date. You guys

1341
00:56:27,600 --> 00:56:30,040
Speaker 2: will go out again. We'll pay for it, and then, uh,

1342
00:56:30,120 --> 00:56:33,200
Speaker 2: you know, maybe we'll check in down the road. But Abby,

1343
00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:35,359
Speaker 2: I appreciate your perspective, and I hope that you can

1344
00:56:35,400 --> 00:56:38,319
Speaker 2: see his and maybe see where we're coming from as observers.

1345
00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:40,799
Speaker 1: And I hope you guys have a great day.

1346
00:56:41,080 --> 00:56:41,359
Speaker 9: I can.

1347
00:56:41,480 --> 00:56:44,080
Speaker 12: I mean, I appreciate it, and obviously like maybe we

1348
00:56:44,120 --> 00:56:45,839
Speaker 12: do have some stuff to talk about, so I do

1349
00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:48,920
Speaker 12: appreciate it, like Patrick being honest, I can respect the

1350
00:56:49,000 --> 00:56:52,239
Speaker 12: honesty here, so I can so hopefully, you know, if

1351
00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:53,920
Speaker 12: it doesn't work, it doesn't work. Like Patrick, you can

1352
00:56:54,000 --> 00:56:55,160
Speaker 12: be honest with me. We don't have to do this

1353
00:56:55,160 --> 00:56:56,680
Speaker 12: over the radio if it doesn't work.

1354
00:56:57,000 --> 00:57:00,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, you did kind of chew us out a little bit,

1355
00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:02,319
Speaker 2: so I'm a little afraid of I'm a little afraid.

1356
00:57:02,000 --> 00:57:02,760
Speaker 13: Of that.

1357
00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:07,920
Speaker 1: We're talking about your kids. I get it.

1358
00:57:08,480 --> 00:57:13,359
Speaker 12: Yeah, I've had a rough go and I do stand up.

1359
00:57:13,480 --> 00:57:16,240
Speaker 12: So I mean, I really wasn't trying to fight anybody's

1360
00:57:16,240 --> 00:57:17,880
Speaker 12: head off, but like when you start talking about my

1361
00:57:17,960 --> 00:57:20,240
Speaker 12: kids and me as a parent, like you know, obviously

1362
00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:23,680
Speaker 12: I'm always going to defend what I believe is right.

1363
00:57:23,880 --> 00:57:26,240
Speaker 12: So it wasn't anything that against you guys, because we

1364
00:57:26,280 --> 00:57:27,440
Speaker 12: all we all don't know each other.

1365
00:57:28,800 --> 00:57:32,280
Speaker 1: Yea, hey, I think he's a little turned on over there.

1366
00:57:32,400 --> 00:57:32,960
Speaker 1: So that's great.

1367
00:57:33,480 --> 00:57:35,320
Speaker 2: You guys go up as adults, have a great set,

1368
00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:37,160
Speaker 2: and we'll pay for it and we'll check in later

1369
00:57:37,240 --> 00:57:40,640
Speaker 2: and and good luck to both of you. It is

1370
00:57:40,640 --> 00:57:42,640
Speaker 2: the frend Show. Good morning, thanks for having us on

1371
00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:45,240
Speaker 2: the radio. On the iHeart app live and anytime search

1372
00:57:45,240 --> 00:57:46,920
Speaker 2: for the Freends show on demand. My four year old

1373
00:57:47,000 --> 00:57:51,160
Speaker 2: niece Polly needs everything exactly exactly. My sister travels with

1374
00:57:51,280 --> 00:57:54,320
Speaker 2: like it's like she's an NBA team. She comes wheeling

1375
00:57:54,360 --> 00:57:59,200
Speaker 2: in like big boxes of equipment, which tale, I mean,

1376
00:57:59,440 --> 00:58:01,920
Speaker 2: it's we got to We're gonna have the right pillows. Correct,

1377
00:58:02,040 --> 00:58:02,600
Speaker 2: We're gonna have.

1378
00:58:02,560 --> 00:58:03,760
Speaker 1: And I think they have names for him.

1379
00:58:03,840 --> 00:58:04,720
Speaker 3: It brings pillows.

1380
00:58:05,360 --> 00:58:08,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like her special pillows too. And then there

1381
00:58:08,720 --> 00:58:10,560
Speaker 2: of course we have to have certain dolls and certain

1382
00:58:10,560 --> 00:58:14,480
Speaker 2: pajamas we have. We do travel with the noise machine. Yeah,

1383
00:58:14,880 --> 00:58:17,320
Speaker 2: oh yeah, No, Honestly, it's like if you've ever seen

1384
00:58:17,320 --> 00:58:19,439
Speaker 2: a sports team come into towns for a game, it's

1385
00:58:19,440 --> 00:58:21,720
Speaker 2: my sister. The big uall truck pulls up in front

1386
00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:26,080
Speaker 2: of the house before her the advanced team. It's like

1387
00:58:26,120 --> 00:58:28,880
Speaker 2: that call her Daddy interview with Kamala Ayas where they

1388
00:58:28,880 --> 00:58:31,480
Speaker 2: had to make the set in the hotel room Las

1389
00:58:31,560 --> 00:58:32,840
Speaker 2: Vegas to make it look like the set.

1390
00:58:33,000 --> 00:58:33,600
Speaker 1: That's how we do it.

1391
00:58:33,680 --> 00:58:34,360
Speaker 3: Oh, they did that.

1392
00:58:34,440 --> 00:58:35,920
Speaker 1: So Polly walks in and it looks like she's in

1393
00:58:35,960 --> 00:58:36,480
Speaker 1: her own room.

1394
00:58:36,520 --> 00:58:41,280
Speaker 2: But yeah, but really we're in Scottsdale. Yeah, yeah, no,

1395
00:58:41,360 --> 00:58:44,120
Speaker 2: it's sweet, but it's like it's like no. And then

1396
00:58:44,120 --> 00:58:46,840
Speaker 2: of course nobody can put the kid down properly because

1397
00:58:46,880 --> 00:58:49,120
Speaker 2: nobody could possibly get all the steps right, which is

1398
00:58:49,120 --> 00:58:53,280
Speaker 2: probably true because the kid has trained you, honey. And

1399
00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:55,320
Speaker 2: my sister got so mad at me when I said,

1400
00:58:55,320 --> 00:58:59,040
Speaker 2: she was really upset because I'm watching the kid tell

1401
00:58:59,120 --> 00:59:01,360
Speaker 2: her what. The four year old tell my sister what

1402
00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:04,280
Speaker 2: to do, and then my sister does it. And I said,

1403
00:59:04,360 --> 00:59:06,760
Speaker 2: you guys, this is Freudian, and my sister's a therapist,

1404
00:59:06,760 --> 00:59:09,000
Speaker 2: so she should get that. She does get that better

1405
00:59:09,040 --> 00:59:10,920
Speaker 2: than I do. But I was like, this is Freudian,

1406
00:59:11,160 --> 00:59:14,440
Speaker 2: she is raising you. And my sister is like, and

1407
00:59:14,440 --> 00:59:16,440
Speaker 2: this is what she said to me. You know, as

1408
00:59:16,480 --> 00:59:18,760
Speaker 2: a family that doesn't have any other kids, you guys

1409
00:59:18,800 --> 00:59:22,320
Speaker 2: just don't understand. So one of those things because I

1410
00:59:22,320 --> 00:59:23,560
Speaker 2: don't have a kid, so I don't know, which is

1411
00:59:23,600 --> 00:59:25,680
Speaker 2: probably true. By the way, I don't have a child,

1412
00:59:25,960 --> 00:59:28,600
Speaker 2: so I probably don't fully understand, and I don't claim to.

1413
00:59:28,880 --> 00:59:31,440
Speaker 2: But what I can see with my eyes is that

1414
00:59:31,560 --> 00:59:35,920
Speaker 2: my four year old niece runs that bitch. And I

1415
00:59:36,160 --> 00:59:38,520
Speaker 2: mean my sister, I mean, you know, the entity of

1416
00:59:38,680 --> 00:59:39,720
Speaker 2: the entity of the home.

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00:59:39,880 --> 00:59:43,040
Speaker 7: Yes, you were clarifying that I would tell yourself.

1418
00:59:43,080 --> 00:59:44,760
Speaker 3: Well, actually, don't tell her anything ever again.

1419
00:59:44,840 --> 00:59:47,600
Speaker 1: But oh I love her, but she'll she'll kill us all.

1420
00:59:47,880 --> 00:59:50,640
Speaker 7: Gently remind her that like her daughter, probably will grow

1421
00:59:50,720 --> 00:59:52,760
Speaker 7: up with sleeping issues if she has to do all

1422
00:59:52,800 --> 00:59:54,400
Speaker 7: those things to put her down, because my mom was

1423
00:59:54,440 --> 00:59:56,480
Speaker 7: like that with me, and she wasn't with Bella. And

1424
00:59:56,520 --> 00:59:58,880
Speaker 7: one of us can sleep and the other can't, like

1425
00:59:59,000 --> 01:00:00,960
Speaker 7: you know what I mean, Like, but my sister doesn't

1426
01:00:01,000 --> 01:00:01,920
Speaker 7: need a sound machine.

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01:00:01,920 --> 01:00:04,320
Speaker 3: We were talking loud like she's a good sleeper. I

1428
01:00:04,320 --> 01:00:04,680
Speaker 3: don't know.

1429
01:00:04,920 --> 01:00:07,320
Speaker 7: It worries me for Polly, because you know, when you

1430
01:00:07,320 --> 01:00:08,960
Speaker 7: don't sleep with all that stuff, you can't sleep.

1431
01:00:09,080 --> 01:00:11,680
Speaker 2: That's fair well, And look, I'm not a parent, but

1432
01:00:11,760 --> 01:00:15,440
Speaker 2: I also know that my sister's number one and Colin

1433
01:00:15,520 --> 01:00:18,280
Speaker 2: her husband, my brother in law, their number one priority

1434
01:00:18,360 --> 01:00:20,880
Speaker 2: is to make whatever the issue at hand is stop.

1435
01:00:21,200 --> 01:00:23,919
Speaker 2: The problem with that is that I don't know when

1436
01:00:23,920 --> 01:00:26,960
Speaker 2: the issues will end. And the other thing is she

1437
01:00:27,040 --> 01:00:29,440
Speaker 2: is a master manipulator, this four year old Matt love

1438
01:00:29,520 --> 01:00:32,640
Speaker 2: this little girl, but like if if she's unhappy and

1439
01:00:32,680 --> 01:00:36,200
Speaker 2: mom's there, then she needs dad. Really, Oh yeah, she's

1440
01:00:36,200 --> 01:00:38,600
Speaker 2: a daddy's girl. She wants dad. Dad has to do.

1441
01:00:39,040 --> 01:00:44,240
Speaker 4: I need dad if Dad's not there, like works at

1442
01:00:44,240 --> 01:00:44,440
Speaker 4: the bar.

1443
01:00:45,960 --> 01:00:46,840
Speaker 3: These always are.

1444
01:00:47,480 --> 01:00:50,480
Speaker 2: Win for cigarettes. And hey, like our dad's never came back.

1445
01:00:50,600 --> 01:00:54,840
Speaker 2: So I can't tell her that story. Colin doesn't smoke,

1446
01:00:54,880 --> 01:00:55,240
Speaker 2: thank god.

1447
01:00:55,240 --> 01:00:56,120
Speaker 1: But that's a good.

1448
01:00:55,960 --> 01:00:58,400
Speaker 3: Bedtime story, right, let me tell you about my dad.

1449
01:01:01,840 --> 01:01:03,680
Speaker 2: Anyway, This is anyway. I love my sister and I

1450
01:01:03,720 --> 01:01:05,760
Speaker 2: love my nieces. But it is interesting to watch because

1451
01:01:05,960 --> 01:01:06,400
Speaker 2: I get it.

1452
01:01:06,480 --> 01:01:08,840
Speaker 1: I get it. It's like you're tired. They're tired.

1453
01:01:08,960 --> 01:01:11,240
Speaker 2: The sooner that they get what they want, then the

1454
01:01:11,280 --> 01:01:12,760
Speaker 2: sooner I can get what I want, which is to

1455
01:01:12,800 --> 01:01:13,280
Speaker 2: go to sleep.

1456
01:01:13,320 --> 01:01:14,720
Speaker 1: Close my eyes, because here's the thing.

1457
01:01:14,880 --> 01:01:17,160
Speaker 2: The toddler goes to bed at you know, the baby

1458
01:01:17,240 --> 01:01:18,560
Speaker 2: she has a one year old goes to bed at

1459
01:01:18,600 --> 01:01:21,360
Speaker 2: like seven, and then the toddler goes to bed I

1460
01:01:21,400 --> 01:01:24,240
Speaker 2: think at like eight, eight thirty. But no matter what happens,

1461
01:01:24,280 --> 01:01:27,680
Speaker 2: the toddler's getting up at like six, no matter what happened, right,

1462
01:01:27,760 --> 01:01:29,360
Speaker 2: and then I don't know what time Polly gets up.

1463
01:01:29,360 --> 01:01:31,840
Speaker 2: It like it's like they're constantly working against the clock.

1464
01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:34,120
Speaker 2: Like the window is just narrower and narrower, so I

1465
01:01:34,160 --> 01:01:36,720
Speaker 2: get that part for sure, but she loves it like well.

1466
01:01:37,000 --> 01:01:40,320
Speaker 2: Occasionally I'll get her when we're all together because she

1467
01:01:40,360 --> 01:01:42,680
Speaker 2: lives in Dallas, so if we're all together someplace, occasionally

1468
01:01:42,720 --> 01:01:44,360
Speaker 2: I'll get her to go out, like to a bar,

1469
01:01:44,960 --> 01:01:46,360
Speaker 2: and then she'll have a couple of drinks. We'll be

1470
01:01:46,360 --> 01:01:48,560
Speaker 2: sitting there, it's like ten o'clock. I'll be like, hey, Amanda,

1471
01:01:49,280 --> 01:01:55,240
Speaker 2: Polly's charging as we sit here. She's gaining strength. Every

1472
01:01:55,320 --> 01:02:00,840
Speaker 2: moment you're not sleeping. Polly is gaining strength. And my

1473
01:02:00,880 --> 01:02:03,640
Speaker 2: sister we both had anxiety. My sister's like, I don't

1474
01:02:03,680 --> 01:02:05,400
Speaker 2: like this. Have another drink of Mary?

1475
01:02:05,480 --> 01:02:06,000
Speaker 3: Can keep think?

1476
01:02:06,400 --> 01:02:08,919
Speaker 2: Each minute you sit here? Oh this was the best.

1477
01:02:08,920 --> 01:02:11,400
Speaker 2: So one night we went to a concert. What's the

1478
01:02:11,440 --> 01:02:14,120
Speaker 2: band that my sister knows the drummer? This is an

1479
01:02:14,120 --> 01:02:17,280
Speaker 2: emo band from the two thousand Summerset. So my sister

1480
01:02:17,360 --> 01:02:20,000
Speaker 2: knows the drummer from a band called the Summerset. And

1481
01:02:20,280 --> 01:02:22,000
Speaker 2: we went to a concert a couple of years ago

1482
01:02:22,480 --> 01:02:24,760
Speaker 2: and she didn't have the second baby yet, so Polly

1483
01:02:24,840 --> 01:02:28,280
Speaker 2: was maybe like two, and so we're at the concert

1484
01:02:28,440 --> 01:02:30,360
Speaker 2: and they don't go on till like ten o'clock at night. Now,

1485
01:02:30,440 --> 01:02:32,560
Speaker 2: at this point, Polly's a two year old and she's

1486
01:02:32,600 --> 01:02:34,760
Speaker 2: getting up at six no matter what. It's ten o'clock

1487
01:02:34,760 --> 01:02:36,560
Speaker 2: at night. This is the latest that these two have

1488
01:02:36,600 --> 01:02:38,400
Speaker 2: been out, the three of us. Latest these two have

1489
01:02:38,480 --> 01:02:40,480
Speaker 2: been out since they had the baby. So we're at

1490
01:02:40,480 --> 01:02:43,400
Speaker 2: the concert ten o'clock. These guys go on and the

1491
01:02:43,440 --> 01:02:45,840
Speaker 2: guy gets at least singer Brian, and he gets on

1492
01:02:45,880 --> 01:02:47,480
Speaker 2: the stage and he was like, this is gonna be.

1493
01:02:47,400 --> 01:02:49,600
Speaker 1: The longest show we've ever done.

1494
01:02:50,080 --> 01:02:52,160
Speaker 2: And all my sister wanted to do was get to

1495
01:02:52,160 --> 01:02:53,600
Speaker 2: the end of the show she could see her friend

1496
01:02:54,200 --> 01:02:57,240
Speaker 2: and then leave, and like, through throughout the night, he

1497
01:02:57,360 --> 01:02:59,360
Speaker 2: just kept like, so now we're like ten forty five,

1498
01:02:59,400 --> 01:02:59,840
Speaker 2: he's like.

1499
01:03:00,200 --> 01:03:01,000
Speaker 1: Just getting started.

1500
01:03:02,520 --> 01:03:05,320
Speaker 2: And that was when I was like, hey, Amanda, Polly's charging.

1501
01:03:05,920 --> 01:03:08,040
Speaker 2: She's like, damn it. And then he's like, you know,

1502
01:03:08,520 --> 01:03:11,360
Speaker 2: eleven thirty. He's like, we got ten songs to go.

1503
01:03:12,000 --> 01:03:14,400
Speaker 2: We're gonna play the whole new album.

1504
01:03:14,800 --> 01:03:15,600
Speaker 1: We can go home.

1505
01:03:16,600 --> 01:03:19,160
Speaker 2: My sister's like, and the drummer can see us, so

1506
01:03:19,160 --> 01:03:21,960
Speaker 2: we can't leave, and you know, so it's yeah, in

1507
01:03:22,000 --> 01:03:25,520
Speaker 2: the whole time, like Amanda, she's getting stronger by the moment.

1508
01:03:26,720 --> 01:03:29,120
Speaker 1: She hated me for that Bread Show is on. Yeah,

1509
01:03:29,480 --> 01:03:41,240
Speaker 1: Bread's fun. Fact Bread learn so much guys, did you know?

1510
01:03:41,960 --> 01:03:45,680
Speaker 2: Did you know that a snail has two thousand, five

1511
01:03:45,760 --> 01:03:49,080
Speaker 2: hundred teeth? Whoa, and this is actually kind of frightening.

1512
01:03:49,320 --> 01:03:51,920
Speaker 2: Those teeth can be found on their tongue that's covered

1513
01:03:51,920 --> 01:03:55,000
Speaker 2: in ridges. Snails eat by rubbing their tongue on its

1514
01:03:55,080 --> 01:03:58,400
Speaker 2: food while the ridges cut it into tiny pieces.

1515
01:03:59,080 --> 01:04:03,360
Speaker 1: Youw, that's nasty. I think that would make a romantic

1516
01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:07,880
Speaker 1: life for a snail. Pat More Fred Shall next.