1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:04,120 Speaker 1: Wait, you matched with them too. It's one more thing, I'm. 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:08,360 Speaker 2: Strong Andy, one more thing, like the sound of that. 3 00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:14,480 Speaker 3: But before we go wherever, that is, first a long 4 00:00:14,680 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 3: distance dedication to the dumb asses on college campuses who 5 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:22,919 Speaker 3: are claiming, for instance, like the uc of UC Davis 6 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:26,760 Speaker 3: University of clowns at Davis. What are they calling themselves? 7 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 3: Do we have that in front of us? I mean 8 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:30,520 Speaker 3: it's there. They're interchangeable. I mean that's kind of the 9 00:00:30,520 --> 00:00:32,960 Speaker 3: point of what we're going to talk about. But I 10 00:00:33,440 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 3: know Katie had that earlier. 11 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, students with the Davis Popular University for the Liberation 12 00:00:39,960 --> 00:00:40,919 Speaker 4: of Palestine. 13 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:47,200 Speaker 3: This goes out to you, you dumb ass kids. Money, Python, classic. 14 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 1: Tos lot Spleens got me nuts. 15 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:51,280 Speaker 5: I haven't got a nuts. 16 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:52,560 Speaker 2: Sorry, I've got Reren's. 17 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:57,639 Speaker 5: Livers badges Spleens, No, don't want that Roman rubbish. 18 00:00:57,800 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 2: Why didn't you sell proper food food? 19 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:04,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, those rich imperialist tippits don't blame me. 20 00:01:04,240 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 2: I didn't ask to sell this stuff, all. 21 00:01:06,920 --> 00:01:11,679 Speaker 5: Right, bagabouts noses I die to too, Thanks rich? Are 22 00:01:11,680 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 5: you the Judean People's Front of what Judean people frank 23 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 5: for the People's Front of Judea Judean people, Frank wankers. 24 00:01:26,240 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 5: Can I join your group now? 25 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 2: Piss off? I didn't want to sell this stuff. It's 26 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:31,479 Speaker 2: only a job. 27 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:33,320 Speaker 5: I hate the Romans as much as anybody. 28 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 2: Are you sure? 29 00:01:36,959 --> 00:01:40,680 Speaker 5: Oh? Dead Shore, I hate the Romans already. Listen, if 30 00:01:40,720 --> 00:01:44,560 Speaker 5: you wanted to join a PFJ, you'd have to really 31 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 5: hate the Romans. I do. Oh yeah, how much a lot? Right? 32 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 4: You're in Listen. 33 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 5: The only people we ate more than the Romans and 34 00:01:58,080 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 5: the Judean people, people from and the papers Front of Judaea, 35 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:10,920 Speaker 5: the People's foots of Judea splitters. We're the People's Front 36 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:15,240 Speaker 5: of Judea. Oh I thought we were the popular Front, 37 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:16,679 Speaker 5: People's Front. 38 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 2: Whatever happened to the puppular Front. He's over there, He's 39 00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 2: over there. Yeah, he's over there. Revolutionary. That is kind 40 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 2: of the way it goes, isn't it. Hey? 41 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 5: Yeah? 42 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 2: Yea, all right, So Katie. 43 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 5: What do? 44 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:37,640 Speaker 2: What's you? It's on your mind? 45 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:41,119 Speaker 1: My mind was blown this weekend. 46 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 4: I was at an event with several women who are 47 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:49,960 Speaker 4: in their mid twenties, and we were discussing the dating 48 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:53,560 Speaker 4: realm for them right now, because they were all just saying, 49 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:54,919 Speaker 4: it sucks. 50 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 1: It's awful out here. 51 00:02:56,960 --> 00:02:59,840 Speaker 4: And there's an app that they're all using called Hinge, 52 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:01,320 Speaker 4: and is that. 53 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 2: Sort of it. 54 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 4: It's similar to like an Instagram, you know, you have 55 00:03:04,760 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 4: your pictures, your captions and your little facts about you 56 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 4: and then. 57 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 2: How long is how long has hinge been hot? 58 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 4: I I don't know, but they've made Tinder sound ancient, 59 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 4: which was hilarious to me. 60 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 2: All Right, so these places like popular bars probably it's 61 00:03:17,960 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 2: very similar, like that bar's popular for a while, a 62 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:22,360 Speaker 2: year or two or a summer. Yeah, and then if 63 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 2: you want to meet someone and you got to gover 64 00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 2: to that bar for whatever reason. But anyway, so hinge. 65 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 1: So but they all had. 66 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 4: Their phones out with their Hinge apps and you know, 67 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 4: shown them around and then one of the girls goes, oh, 68 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 4: I just matched with we'll say, his name's John, and 69 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 4: she shows John to the group, and another girl that 70 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:42,040 Speaker 4: I was sitting next to got really quiet and everybody 71 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 4: kind of looked over at her, and it turned out 72 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:45,800 Speaker 4: that she had matched with John and they had already 73 00:03:45,800 --> 00:03:48,160 Speaker 4: gotten to know each other. So now there's this weird 74 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 4: well did you did you like go out with them 75 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 4: in person? And they have this whole set of rules 76 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 4: and the girls were telling me that this happens all 77 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 4: the time. They'll match with a guy, they'll start talking 78 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 4: to him, and then they'll find out that this same 79 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 4: guy is also talking to a friend of theirs. 80 00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, I've found from people I know that do 81 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 2: a lot of online dating, like among the more attractive crowd, 82 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:12,600 Speaker 2: it's a very small world. And they you know, because 83 00:04:12,680 --> 00:04:16,640 Speaker 2: if you're a good looking guy, everybody chooses you. If 84 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 2: you're a really good looking guy, everybody, so of course 85 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 2: there's going to be a lot of overlap, and then 86 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:23,240 Speaker 2: you just go from one to one to one to one. 87 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:26,039 Speaker 1: I guess I don't know. 88 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:28,479 Speaker 4: I was just sitting there looking at them with my 89 00:04:28,720 --> 00:04:31,920 Speaker 4: jaw like dislocated because I'm going, no, wonder you guys 90 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:33,840 Speaker 4: don't want to do this, because I just watched it 91 00:04:33,839 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 4: happen in live time. She got really excited about this guy, 92 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 4: and then her heart got broken thirty seconds after finding 93 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:42,359 Speaker 4: out that her friend had already matched with him and 94 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:43,800 Speaker 4: they had interacted somehow. 95 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 2: Well, like everything else in life, the sort of thing 96 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 2: that would have played out maybe over a summer years ago, 97 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:51,920 Speaker 2: played out over forty five seconds. 98 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 4: Yes, it was unbelievable. I felt I feel for them. Now, 99 00:04:56,360 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 4: I get it. That was I don't know there. 100 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 3: Was some sort of unwritten code of claim jumping that 101 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 3: they are video chatted with them. How about in person? 102 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, so you have if you messaged, did you guys 103 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:18,200 Speaker 4: exchange numbers? Have you talked on the phone, or have 104 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:22,040 Speaker 4: you met up in person? There's like a whole rule thing. 105 00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 2: My observation from the outside, I've never done any online dating, 106 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:27,480 Speaker 2: but I've heard a lot of it from other people. 107 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 2: Everybody's fooling themselves. I think that they think this particular guy, now, 108 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:38,720 Speaker 2: the last ten good looking guys, we're just trying to 109 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 2: get laid. But this particular good looking guy is not 110 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 2: meet trying to meet every chick on here to have 111 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 2: a physical short term thing. He's different, and they hope 112 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:52,800 Speaker 2: the next one is different every single time. And on 113 00:05:52,839 --> 00:05:55,800 Speaker 2: the other end of it, they hope this particular chick 114 00:05:55,880 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 2: is just not trying to get a really nice meal 115 00:05:59,080 --> 00:06:02,839 Speaker 2: or a gift out of me in exchange for whatever. 116 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 2: She's different. She doesn't go from guy to guy to 117 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 2: guy to guy with great dining experience or going to 118 00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 2: a concert or whatever. And they all just turned hoping 119 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 2: that the next one is different. That's what I've observed. Wow, 120 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:18,480 Speaker 2: but if you're on the attractive and I don't know 121 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 2: what the percentage is, top twenty percent or whatever, you 122 00:06:20,960 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 2: can endlessly have sex as a dude and get taken 123 00:06:23,800 --> 00:06:26,200 Speaker 2: out to really nice places as a girl, it seems 124 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 2: from my observation. And that's just the modern world. 125 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:32,520 Speaker 1: This all sounds just horrible. 126 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:36,159 Speaker 3: Whatever happened to the old ways of meeting people like 127 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:39,000 Speaker 3: get the county drunk tank late on a Saturday. 128 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 2: Well, and I was actually reading about this the other 129 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 2: day that the most relationships, most long lasting relationships, happened 130 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 2: through somebody. You would have a way of knowing them 131 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:55,360 Speaker 2: already through a friend or work or something like that, 132 00:06:55,920 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 2: as opposed to you see a picture of them. I mean, okay, 133 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 2: how long would it take to get to know somebody? 134 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 2: I mean, because they're basically they're blind dates without the 135 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:07,719 Speaker 2: blind part. You've seen them, but you got zero actual 136 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:08,800 Speaker 2: information about them. 137 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 3: And given the filters and everything these days, it's more 138 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:13,480 Speaker 3: or less a blind date. 139 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. 140 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's worse than a blind date, because I mean 141 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 3: I could have a friend described oh yeah, it's my 142 00:07:19,080 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 3: sister's best friend and she said she's into this, that 143 00:07:21,320 --> 00:07:23,440 Speaker 3: and the other she's really sweet, got a great sense 144 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 3: youme blah blah blah blah, but you just haven't seen 145 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:26,200 Speaker 3: her yet. 146 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:29,200 Speaker 2: And I can also see we were talking on the 147 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 2: radio show, the Armstrong and Getty Radio Show, and if 148 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:33,440 Speaker 2: you ever miss an hour, you should get the podcast 149 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:36,080 Speaker 2: Armstrong and Getty on demand. I also know from talking 150 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 2: to people who do this, is that nobody's got the 151 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 2: patience for that to unfold. And I understand in the 152 00:07:41,360 --> 00:07:45,160 Speaker 2: modern world. Plus, if you're lonely, you know you don't 153 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:49,640 Speaker 2: want to wait, but you know, not that many years 154 00:07:49,640 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 2: ago you would have had to wait for it. And 155 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 2: it might be late summer before you meet somebody in 156 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:59,040 Speaker 2: the backyard barbecue or church or wherever you're going to 157 00:07:59,080 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 2: meet somebody. But people want to have somebody to go 158 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 2: out with this weekend, and so you're not willing to 159 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:07,480 Speaker 2: let it unfold in that slow way that it used 160 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:10,720 Speaker 2: to unfold, and nobody is. And so if you need 161 00:08:10,760 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 2: to have a date Friday, and I mean it's Tuesday 162 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 2: now when we're recording this, you need to have a 163 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:16,400 Speaker 2: date Friday. And I know there are millions of people 164 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 2: in this situation you're going to go out with somebody Friday, 165 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 2: Well you got to you gotta pick fast. 166 00:08:22,320 --> 00:08:24,320 Speaker 3: Just reminds me of so many aspects of the Internet 167 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 3: world that were connected in a way that makes us 168 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 3: disconnected because you've got access to meet people twenty four 169 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:35,079 Speaker 3: to seven, and nobody's coupling, nobody's having babies. 170 00:08:35,840 --> 00:08:38,840 Speaker 2: Right, so what are we doing? I think the choices 171 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 2: probably change things too, if things unfold very slowly and 172 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:48,120 Speaker 2: you know you're going to have realistically two or three 173 00:08:48,240 --> 00:08:53,400 Speaker 2: opportunities to actually date somebody over a year, maybe as 174 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:56,959 Speaker 2: opposed to yeah, you're all right, but I got somebody 175 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 2: I'm going out with tomorrow night. We're five people that 176 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 2: have already text to me today that I might go 177 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 2: out with. You just got so many choices. You're so much. 178 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 3: I really really like you, but I've got five other choices. 179 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:10,000 Speaker 3: So you know you'd enjoy the back burner. I'll get 180 00:09:10,040 --> 00:09:10,880 Speaker 3: back to you sometimes. 181 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 5: Maybe. 182 00:09:11,200 --> 00:09:14,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, like the menu at the cheesecake factory. Too many options, 183 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 2: that's exactly right, too many options. We used to call 184 00:09:17,280 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 2: it blockbuster video disease or something black when blockbuster thing, 185 00:09:20,400 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 2: but like you want to watch a movie, you go 186 00:09:22,160 --> 00:09:24,800 Speaker 2: to the place and there's just all these choices and 187 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:27,040 Speaker 2: you end up walking out without a movie like, none 188 00:09:27,080 --> 00:09:27,960 Speaker 2: of these look good to me. 189 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:31,719 Speaker 1: I drove my dad so nuts so many times that we. 190 00:09:31,720 --> 00:09:35,080 Speaker 2: Left it right, just sayce with all these choices and 191 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:36,480 Speaker 2: f I mean, none of them seem good. I think 192 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:40,199 Speaker 2: that's exactly the phenomenon with the I got five women 193 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 2: attractive enough for me I could date this week. Why 194 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:46,480 Speaker 2: would I choose you or care about you? Yeah, it's horrible. 195 00:09:46,520 --> 00:09:50,520 Speaker 2: I felt for him. I do too. I think you 196 00:09:50,559 --> 00:09:52,640 Speaker 2: know where do I get off. I've not had any 197 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:55,720 Speaker 2: long term success in love, but God, it's an odd 198 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 2: path to go down. I don't know very many people 199 00:09:57,800 --> 00:10:01,040 Speaker 2: that like it, and there's pole that shows that people 200 00:10:01,040 --> 00:10:02,880 Speaker 2: are hating it. Mormon. Didn't you have that story the 201 00:10:02,920 --> 00:10:06,080 Speaker 2: other day, Joe, that people were souring on the somebody 202 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:08,760 Speaker 2: had this story. People are souring on the online dating 203 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 2: thing ol old as they call it in the Reddit forums. 204 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 2: People are not satisfied with the direction it's going. 205 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:19,320 Speaker 4: So I have many of friends who have online data, 206 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 4: and I have never heard one of them say they 207 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 4: were enjoying themselves and going through the process. 208 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:28,520 Speaker 2: That's interesting, that is really revealing. Yeah, maybe it'll run 209 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:31,320 Speaker 2: its course. I suppose that's possible and people go back 210 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 2: to the old way, although again I don't know if 211 00:10:33,240 --> 00:10:34,760 Speaker 2: people will go back to having the patients. 212 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:36,640 Speaker 1: Ay, speed dating's coming back. 213 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:38,720 Speaker 2: I think you're gonna say, maybe. 214 00:10:38,480 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 3: That was the article you're thinking of, because I remember 215 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:42,360 Speaker 3: there are all sorts of speed dating theme nights, and 216 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 3: those are getting hot again because people are like, no, 217 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:46,959 Speaker 3: I want to talk to somebody in the same room 218 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:50,120 Speaker 3: and see if there's any chemistry. Maybe it could be 219 00:10:50,160 --> 00:10:54,120 Speaker 3: there is moving on from these technological miracles after we 220 00:10:54,200 --> 00:10:56,120 Speaker 3: try them for a while and realize they suck. 221 00:10:56,559 --> 00:10:59,000 Speaker 2: That might be a good compromise. I need. I want 222 00:10:59,000 --> 00:11:01,240 Speaker 2: to meet somebody now. I don't want to wait months 223 00:11:01,280 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 2: for it to accidentally happen, but I don't want to 224 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:07,240 Speaker 2: do it through the Uh, yeah, you're right about that. 225 00:11:07,280 --> 00:11:09,800 Speaker 2: I've not had this experience, but I have heard about them. 226 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:12,600 Speaker 2: The it's practically a blind dating that they look so 227 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:16,640 Speaker 2: different from the picture. Got that fishing that's got to 228 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:19,720 Speaker 2: be rough. How long you have to sit there and 229 00:11:19,760 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 2: wrap your head around I yues. I can see how 230 00:11:23,480 --> 00:11:27,320 Speaker 2: that would be you if you kind of slimmed down 231 00:11:27,360 --> 00:11:35,400 Speaker 2: your face and cleared up your skin, straighten your teeth advice. 232 00:11:35,480 --> 00:11:40,160 Speaker 6: You know, uh, all my data, all my dating was 233 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:43,240 Speaker 6: old fashioned in person. You know, you just you go 234 00:11:43,400 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 6: up to them, you ask them out, and they either 235 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 6: say yes or no. You know, no guts, no glory. 236 00:11:47,960 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 2: I've done that too. But you do have to be 237 00:11:49,440 --> 00:11:51,200 Speaker 2: a lot more patient. You have to be willing to 238 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:55,040 Speaker 2: let weeks go by where you know you might not 239 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:58,199 Speaker 2: have an encounter, and most people aren't willing to wait. 240 00:11:58,240 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 2: I guess, well, I guess that's it.