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Speaker 1: is the Strawberry Letter. Thanks neph subject, will my man

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Speaker 1: choose me for the holidays? Dear Stephen Shirley. I am

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Speaker 1: a thirty year old, beautiful and successful woman and I'm

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Speaker 1: in love with a forty four year old, well educated

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Speaker 1: hunk that swept me off my feet. When I met him.

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Speaker 1: He told me that he was seeing someone in a

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Speaker 1: long distance relationship, but I still started dating this man

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Speaker 1: despite the news. After six months of dating, I did

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Speaker 1: some research and found out that he proposed to this

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Speaker 1: woman and she has set a wedding date. I never

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Speaker 1: confronted him about it, but it tore me apart emotionally.

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Speaker 1: I figured if I started an argument about it, I

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Speaker 1: I have kept the news to myself. I'm trying my

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Speaker 1: leave her. I know the old saying if he cheats

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Speaker 1: on her, he'll cheat on you. But I believe in

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Speaker 1: love and I know we have something special. The loving

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Speaker 1: wedding invitations. The holidays are coming up and I don't

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Speaker 1: the essence. How do I tell this man that I

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Speaker 1: am in love with him and will take any and

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Speaker 1: It's totally possible to be in love with two people

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Speaker 1: at the same time, so he's probably struggling internally with

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Speaker 1: who he should be with. Maybe if I tell his

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Speaker 1: him and go away. It may make him mad, but

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Speaker 1: in the end, he will still have me, and I

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Speaker 1: know we can be happy together. I'm head over heels

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Speaker 1: for this man, and I'm planning to invite him to

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Speaker 1: Thanksgiving dinner so my family can meet him. How shall

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Speaker 1: I handle How should I handle this love triangle? Do

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Speaker 1: you hear yourself? Do you hear yourself? Because listen closely.

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Speaker 1: This is this is the sound of desperation, all right,

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Speaker 1: this is the sound of delusion in this letter. So

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Speaker 1: I want you to hear yourself. You are so short

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Speaker 1: changing yourself in this relationship. You are number two. That's it,

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Speaker 1: that's all. You are the side peace. And you're okay

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Speaker 1: with that. I think you're really okay with it because

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Speaker 1: he told you his status when you, guys, you know,

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Speaker 1: long distance relationship. You even researched it, you did your

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Speaker 1: research and your words. You still dated him despite the news.

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Speaker 1: You started dating him. And that's the problem. I mean, really,

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Speaker 1: what is his incentive to leave his fiance and get

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Speaker 1: he would have waited to propose to her. I mean,

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Speaker 1: you know, you did all the research. You know, maybe

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Speaker 1: I gotta tell you, please, don't bother inviting him to

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Speaker 1: there for Thanksgiving because they're planning a wedding, they're getting married.

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Speaker 1: You are the side piece, all right, Steve, Well, I

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Speaker 1: don't know what Shirley's done a really excellent job with this.

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Speaker 1: a different way. So here we go. Well, my man,

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Speaker 1: simply because number twos don't get holidays. You don't get Christmas,

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Speaker 1: number twos. When I met him, he told me he

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Speaker 1: The fiance is already winning. She the fiance. Six months

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Speaker 1: When he asked her, she just put this date on Facebook.

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Speaker 1: He asked the woman to marry him. Has he asked you?

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Speaker 1: Has he mentioned marriage to you? He said nothing? By no,

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Speaker 1: Six months later you did some research, that's social media.

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you know because number twos don't get holidays.

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Speaker 1: the old thing. If he cheats on her head, cheat

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Speaker 1: Then here's another line. We are always together when he's

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Speaker 1: They don't get holidays, Sweetie. I'm sorry, and I don't

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Speaker 1: this is over Because I'm finn to move this woman

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Speaker 1: Steve had more to add to this Strawberry Letter, writes Steve.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna do a little bit more. Let's let this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Steve, you said you had some

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Speaker 1: more to add to the Strawberry Letter subject, why my

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Speaker 1: has set a wedding date with he proposed to this woman. Now,

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Speaker 1: saying if he cheats on her, here cheat on you.

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Speaker 1: But I believe in love. Now that she's talking about

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Speaker 1: the man, take on some amazing trips all across the world.

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Speaker 1: The girl had been in San Diego, and now she

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Speaker 1: don't want to go there, No damn way, because it's crazy.

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Speaker 1: Now anyway, how do I wear him over before the

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Speaker 1: fiance orders to wed an invitation? Holidays is coming up.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to spend him with him, so times

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Speaker 1: know we can be happy together. Pump your brakes a

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Speaker 1: little girl. You've obviously never gone to a woman to

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Speaker 1: none whatsoever. And it is due. So long as you

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Speaker 1: know that, good luck. I'm planning on inviting him to Thanksgiving.

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Speaker 1: Don't do that, that man. Don't do that. When turkey

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Speaker 1: when it thanks Giving up Thanksgiving after the moment, Thanksgiving,

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Speaker 1: the day after the moment, they can't have thanks He

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Speaker 1: ain't said nothing to you about I like my Thanksgiving

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Speaker 1: on Thanksgiving. You if you do, Wesdy, you don't have

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Speaker 1: no turkey though. All right, listen, coming up, we're gonna

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Speaker 1: talk about breaking up. It's all ties in together. We'll

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Speaker 1: do that right after this. You're listening to this morning show.