WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Man of My Dreams

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<v Speaker 1>second date of Day. Charity events are great places to

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<v Speaker 1>meet people when you're volunteering there. I've met the last

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<v Speaker 1>couple of girls that I've gone on dates with at

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<v Speaker 1>charity events when I was volunteering at a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>senior citizens homes. Stuff there, And let me tell you,

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<v Speaker 1>those ladies are just sweethearts, girlfriend and experiences. I love

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<v Speaker 1>him anyway. That's where Tim, who's on the phone with

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<v Speaker 1>us today, met the girl that he wants to call him.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently he met her at some sort of church charity

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<v Speaker 1>event him. Yeah, I was down there. I was basically

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<v Speaker 1>doing the heavy listing, doing all the folding chairs and

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<v Speaker 1>some of the tables. Okay, and did you plan I

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<v Speaker 1>mean some guys go to charity events with the intention

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<v Speaker 1>of meeting a girl, or were you actually doing something

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<v Speaker 1>out of the kindness of your heart? Well, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I was there. I stay in pretty good shape, so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty physically fit, so I was there to do

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<v Speaker 1>chairs and tables. But that being say, so you use

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<v Speaker 1>the charity event as a way to work out, Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's not my workout. I workout in the morning,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. But I was doing it a favor, you know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but my bonders were open, My binders were open. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if there's a girl there, I'm gonna meet her. I

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<v Speaker 1>still don't really have an answer to the question other

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<v Speaker 1>than the fact that you just wanted to brag about

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<v Speaker 1>how in shape you were. Were you there to meet

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<v Speaker 1>women or were you there to help with the charity

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<v Speaker 1>and then you happened to meet a woman the second

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<v Speaker 1>one second, Okay, what is her name? Her name is Alison?

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<v Speaker 1>Alison all right, and how did you meet Alison? Did

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<v Speaker 1>she walk up to him? I was like, oh, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>don't look at all the heavy lifting you. I've never

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<v Speaker 1>seen a man left seventeen chairs at once. I can't

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<v Speaker 1>do seventeen. I did do seventeen. But she was directed.

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<v Speaker 1>She was staying by the chairs, and then I'd come

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<v Speaker 1>over picked a couple up, and then she, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>she'd tell me where to go. She'd say, I put

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<v Speaker 1>those thought over there. So she was directing where to

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<v Speaker 1>put the chairs and things like that. Did you ask

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<v Speaker 1>her out or did she ask you out? I'd say

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<v Speaker 1>that's open to interpretation. But she was doing a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of direct eye contacts. So I took that as an

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<v Speaker 1>opportunity to, you know, say we should you know, we

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<v Speaker 1>should catch up sometime. Okay, because whenever a woman looks

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<v Speaker 1>at you, it's basically like her asking you out. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she made direct eye contact, and because you're dude, you

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<v Speaker 1>were like, I need to ask her out. And then

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<v Speaker 1>you asked her out. Well, I've set you up for

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<v Speaker 1>hanging out sometimes, so yeah, I guess so just asking

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<v Speaker 1>her out, that's exactly what you did. Of romantic words,

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<v Speaker 1>What did you guys do when you actually went out, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>she invited me over after the charity event. Oh nice. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>she must have really wanted to thank you for your word.

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<v Speaker 1>What if she just wanted to make some lunch and

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<v Speaker 1>talk to him like that is a possibility here. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if she also made eye contact. Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean by that time, it was pretty late, so

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<v Speaker 1>she said, you know, you just come over and chill

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<v Speaker 1>out and you know, take a I would off. I've

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<v Speaker 1>been on my feet all day, so I said, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, maybe watch a movie or something. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>feel like that was an invite to come back to

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<v Speaker 1>do more than watch a movie, because I would have.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course you would have. I think almost any dude

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<v Speaker 1>would have. Yeah, I will say a movie is usually

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<v Speaker 1>code for other things. I think it crossed my mind,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just trying to put one foot in front

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<v Speaker 1>of the other. I don't want to get too far ahead,

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<v Speaker 1>so I just said, okay, you know, I was just interested,

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<v Speaker 1>really kind of hanging out and talking and getting to

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<v Speaker 1>know her a bit better. And that's your date, right,

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<v Speaker 1>Your date was just when you guys went back to

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<v Speaker 1>her house to watch the movie. Yeah, that's correct. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And did you guys kiss anything romantic happen? Well, we,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean the closest we got any romances. Kind towards

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the movie, it was getting late. I

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<v Speaker 1>said I gotta go, and she said, well, you could

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<v Speaker 1>sleep here if you want. And I said okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>she said no funny business. I said, unexpected. And then

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<v Speaker 1>we fell asleep on the couch. Were holding hand when

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<v Speaker 1>we fell asleep. All right, that's a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>hand holding. Nice. I hope you were protected. I hope

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<v Speaker 1>you wore gloves. Yeah, were protected? All right? Good? Good?

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<v Speaker 1>So did you sleep there all night? I did. I

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<v Speaker 1>woke up. The sun came up. It kind of made

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<v Speaker 1>the room all bright, and I woke up and I

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<v Speaker 1>said good morning, and we were fully closed. I think

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<v Speaker 1>I said let's get some coffee or something. But she

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of like stood up and she looked at me,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she just turned around and walked into her

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<v Speaker 1>bedroom and closed the door. What WHOA? So she woke

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<v Speaker 1>up and seemed angry at you? Yeah? Did she say

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<v Speaker 1>anything about it at all? I actually thought maybe it

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<v Speaker 1>was a game or something. Did you talk to her

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<v Speaker 1>at all in this time? It sounds strange that you

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<v Speaker 1>would wake up and seem angry at you for no reason.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she was in her bedroom. I didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>what to do, so I just I went into the kitchen.

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<v Speaker 1>I waited for and I just stood around. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I stood around for twenty minutes of wait for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Then and then she came out and I said, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>let's up. I said, you know, coffee here, and she

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<v Speaker 1>just said you need to leave right now. Oh she

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<v Speaker 1>was still mad. She was like still angry. Yeah, she

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<v Speaker 1>looked back she had seen a ghost or something. She

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<v Speaker 1>was She was angry, so you know for a fact

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<v Speaker 1>that she's not happy with you about something. She essentially

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<v Speaker 1>kicked me out. But I have no idea why. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't do anything inappropriate. I was a gentleman, I

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<v Speaker 1>always am. I never was forward or aggressive or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think there's just some confusion here or something. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not leaving anything out of your story. You guys

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<v Speaker 1>got to her place, fell asleep watching a movie, holding hands,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's it. I mean, nothing else happened. I'm telling

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<v Speaker 1>you everything. Okay. I really had no idea what was wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, we're gonna play a song, come back,

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<v Speaker 1>call her and get your second date update. All right, Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, You're welcome. Hang on it brooking jubil in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. All right. If you're just tuning in for

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<v Speaker 1>the second part of today's second Date update, Tim is

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone with us. He met a girl named Alison,

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<v Speaker 1>had a little charity function. They ended up actually going

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<v Speaker 1>back to her house that night because I guess it

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<v Speaker 1>was late, and she was like, don't worry about driving,

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<v Speaker 1>we can totally hang out, come over and watch a movie,

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<v Speaker 1>and according to him, that's all that happened is they

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<v Speaker 1>watched a movie. They fell asleep holding hands, woke up

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<v Speaker 1>the next morning, and she was like angry at him

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<v Speaker 1>for some reason, she wouldn't talk to him. She finally

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<v Speaker 1>talked to him about twenty minutes later, after she had

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<v Speaker 1>gone to a room and she told him to leave.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the last that he's heard from her. All right, Tim,

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<v Speaker 1>We're about to call her if I get her on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone, and I asked her if something strange happened,

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<v Speaker 1>because you swore to me that nothing else happened other

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<v Speaker 1>than you guys fell asleep holding hands and that was it.

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<v Speaker 1>If she tells me she woke up and you guys

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<v Speaker 1>were still holding hands, but somehow you were in her

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<v Speaker 1>clothes and she was in your clothes, I'm gonna hang

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<v Speaker 1>up on you right there, because that is weird. Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you got it, all right. And i'd never asked you

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<v Speaker 1>what did you like so much about Alison before she

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<v Speaker 1>became angry? She was really nice. I mean, she's chill

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<v Speaker 1>and she's cool, all right, And you'd like to see

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<v Speaker 1>her again, Yeah, I want to see her again, as

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<v Speaker 1>long as she doesn't hate me, or at least she

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<v Speaker 1>can explain to me why she hates me. It's always

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<v Speaker 1>at least nice to know why somebody hates you. All right, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a dollar phone right now, get her on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and get your second date update. Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak

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<v Speaker 1>to Alison? Please? This is hey Alison. How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Like the radio show. Yeah, exactly like the radio show.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? I'm good? How are you? Guys? Not

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<v Speaker 1>too bad? Thank you for asking. We're just calling listeners

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<v Speaker 1>in the local area to see a liar what their

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<v Speaker 1>favorite part of the show is this morning? Can you

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<v Speaker 1>tell me what you like about the show the most? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you, of course, very very very good answer. Actually, Alison,

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<v Speaker 1>any idea why I might be calling you? I have

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<v Speaker 1>no idea. Well have you heard the second date updates before? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>I think so. I normally listened to the phone test. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Well cool, Well, you are about to be the star

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<v Speaker 1>of a second date update because you recently went out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with somebody and you're not calling him back,

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<v Speaker 1>and they want us to get a hold of you. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>his name is Tim. You met him at a charity

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<v Speaker 1>function and ended up actually sleeping with him first night

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<v Speaker 1>that you met him, which I think is no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>no no no, no, I know, No, don't worry, Allison.

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<v Speaker 1>Tim told us that you guys didn't sleep together. He

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<v Speaker 1>said that he did fall asleep next to you, like

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<v Speaker 1>on the couch, holding hands while watching a movie. Though

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, this is just really weird that you guys

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<v Speaker 1>like know all of this. I mean, it wasn't even

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<v Speaker 1>a date. It was like I just I met him

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<v Speaker 1>and then like we hung out right, well, we talked

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<v Speaker 1>to him because he emailed us and asked if we

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<v Speaker 1>could get you on the phone and find out why

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<v Speaker 1>you why Well, he said, you seemed really upset in

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<v Speaker 1>him the next morning, and he also wanted to see

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<v Speaker 1>why you're not responding to any of his phone calls

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<v Speaker 1>or text messages or anything. Did you not like think

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<v Speaker 1>it was a date when he was coming over, like

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<v Speaker 1>you just wanted to be his friend or something. And no,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like it wasn't like an official date, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was just like let's get to know each other.

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<v Speaker 1>But I just I just realized that I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>he's the one for me, and I would just rather

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<v Speaker 1>not keep going there. According to him, and you tell

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<v Speaker 1>me if he's lying. He said that he woke up

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<v Speaker 1>next to you. You seem mad. You went in your room,

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<v Speaker 1>stay there for like twenty minutes, and then when you

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<v Speaker 1>finally came out, you told him to leave. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>probably about right. So that sounds like you're legitimately angry

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<v Speaker 1>with the guy right now. It doesn't sound like you

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<v Speaker 1>you hate him or anything, but what could have happened

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<v Speaker 1>to make you so mad in the morning. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not angry at him. I just it's complicated. I

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<v Speaker 1>knew he wouldn't understand, and so it was just easier

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<v Speaker 1>to not even go there. Can you tell us so

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<v Speaker 1>that you can give us a little bit of an understanding,

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<v Speaker 1>and to be honest, I like, I got a sign. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just one of the things. I just I knew

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<v Speaker 1>sign what sort of sign? I don't expect you to understand,

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<v Speaker 1>and I didn't expect him to understand, which is why

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even want to go into this. But I

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<v Speaker 1>had a vision. What do you mean it's like a dream? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess you'd call it a dream. Um and him

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<v Speaker 1>was in it, and he was like he was after me.

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<v Speaker 1>He had like this huge samurai sword and he was

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<v Speaker 1>running after me and he was like chasing me. So

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<v Speaker 1>I was like running away. Are you seriously laughing at that?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, I'm sorry. It's you said, listen, we're not

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<v Speaker 1>making fun of you for it. You even said we

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<v Speaker 1>probably won't understand it. And I don't really understand why

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<v Speaker 1>it would scare you enough to have a dream like

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<v Speaker 1>that to not talk to somebody. So can you explain

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<v Speaker 1>to me why a dream would make you feel that

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<v Speaker 1>way in the morning. I mean, it felt like it

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<v Speaker 1>was one of those things. It was like a sign

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<v Speaker 1>like that God was warning me that like this wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>a good relationship, Like could you just meet somebody and

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<v Speaker 1>you don't really know anything about them, and then they're

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<v Speaker 1>in your dream and they're chasing me with the samurai

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<v Speaker 1>sword and at the end, like I woke up when

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<v Speaker 1>he stabbed me. Yeah, but dreams made I mean dreams,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean all sorts of weird things, Like I can

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes just get a gut feeling with things, and I

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<v Speaker 1>have learned to trust my gut feeling. And I woke

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<v Speaker 1>up from that, Like, I mean, I haven't had a

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<v Speaker 1>nightmare like that a really long time. So were you

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<v Speaker 1>mad at him in the morning or were you scared

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<v Speaker 1>of him? Is that why you went to your room?

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<v Speaker 1>It was a really scary dream. I haven't had a

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<v Speaker 1>dream like that in a while. And it's not like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I had a nightmare company like he was the one

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<v Speaker 1>who was a nightmare and I just I needed some space.

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<v Speaker 1>But did he do anything at all in the awake

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<v Speaker 1>world that was an indication of him being mean? No?

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean, you hear those stories of people who

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<v Speaker 1>seemed to be really nice and then end up crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>and I feel Allison, I talked to him a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>He sounds like a weirdo. I think maybe your gut

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<v Speaker 1>was I think your gut was right on that one.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna tell you, I support you, Okay. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>feel like you're taking this very seriously. I'm taking Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the way that you feel. I might not

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<v Speaker 1>understand it because a dream has never scared me so

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<v Speaker 1>much to not talk to somebody. But if that's the

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<v Speaker 1>way you feel, that's important, okay. And it's scared you

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<v Speaker 1>enough to not talk to him again. I'm just trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get some clarification. Okay, Yeah, that's why I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>call him, so you can tell him and okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to talk to him about it? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's why I haven't called him back or

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<v Speaker 1>responded to his text. I think it's better for you

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<v Speaker 1>to stop talk. Okay, Well, he is on the other line.

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<v Speaker 1>I would like to talk to you. Wait what Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Tim is actually listening on the other line right now. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here. Oh, this is so awkward. Yeah, it is

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<v Speaker 1>a awkward. I mean, I'm paying for a crime that

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't commit. I mean, come on, what if I

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<v Speaker 1>was trying to prepicture in the dream? Do you think

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<v Speaker 1>of it that way? You stabbed me? That is yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I don't know how that's protecting her. Tim stabbing

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<v Speaker 1>her with was it a samurai sword? He said it

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<v Speaker 1>was a samurai sword. This is ridiculous. There's some unfair

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know, I'm sure you're a great guy

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<v Speaker 1>for you probably wouldn't actually stab anybody. But I just

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<v Speaker 1>there's the reason I didn't call you back. Okay. Hold on,

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<v Speaker 1>we spent about ten eleven hours together in real life,

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<v Speaker 1>in real time, and we had a great, great time.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you have, like, probably I don't know, a twenty

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<v Speaker 1>to twenty five minute dream about me running around with

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<v Speaker 1>some sword, and you're going to take twenty five minutes

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<v Speaker 1>of dream world versus eleven hours of real time. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you got to give me a chance. True, it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>just a dream, chin, I think that there was something

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<v Speaker 1>prophetic to it. There was something. I feel like it

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<v Speaker 1>was a sign. It's not just a scary dream. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like it means that we're not supposed to be together.

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<v Speaker 1>He just seems so nice. I mean, like, how many

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<v Speaker 1>guys will just hold your hand while you fall asleep

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<v Speaker 1>and not try anything. That's exactly what people say about

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<v Speaker 1>guys who will stab you with the Samurai forward. It's

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<v Speaker 1>better to listen to your gut, Allison, trust me. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to be another statistic. And how about

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<v Speaker 1>did is there someone else in your wife trying to

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<v Speaker 1>hurt you? Because I can help you with that. There

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<v Speaker 1>is nobody. I'm not some like traumatized little girl. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I just I had a dream. It freaked me out.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to date you. It's that simple. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>That brings me to my question Alison, would you like

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<v Speaker 1>to go on a second day? Okay, you didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>let me finish. I was going to offer to pay

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<v Speaker 1>for it. What if it's a nice Asian restaurant, Chinese

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<v Speaker 1>or Japanese, something like that. You know, you guys have

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<v Speaker 1>already made fun of me and nothing that I gotta go? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh all right? Hey, Tim, are you still there? Yeah? Tim,

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<v Speaker 1>stop stabbing girls with samurai swords in their sleep. Man,