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Speaker 1: second date of Day. Charity events are great places to
Speaker 1: meet people when you're volunteering there. I've met the last
Speaker 1: couple of girls that I've gone on dates with at
Speaker 1: charity events when I was volunteering at a couple of
Speaker 1: senior citizens homes. Stuff there, And let me tell you,
Speaker 1: those ladies are just sweethearts, girlfriend and experiences. I love
Speaker 1: him anyway. That's where Tim, who's on the phone with
Speaker 1: us today, met the girl that he wants to call him.
Speaker 1: Apparently he met her at some sort of church charity
Speaker 1: event him. Yeah, I was down there. I was basically
Speaker 1: doing the heavy listing, doing all the folding chairs and
Speaker 1: some of the tables. Okay, and did you plan I
Speaker 1: mean some guys go to charity events with the intention
Speaker 1: of meeting a girl, or were you actually doing something
Speaker 1: out of the kindness of your heart? Well, I mean
Speaker 1: I was there. I stay in pretty good shape, so
Speaker 1: I'm pretty physically fit, so I was there to do
Speaker 1: chairs and tables. But that being say, so you use
Speaker 1: the charity event as a way to work out, Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, it's not my workout. I workout in the morning,
Speaker 1: you know. But I was doing it a favor, you know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but my bonders were open, My binders were open. I mean,
Speaker 1: if there's a girl there, I'm gonna meet her. I
Speaker 1: still don't really have an answer to the question other
Speaker 1: than the fact that you just wanted to brag about
Speaker 1: how in shape you were. Were you there to meet
Speaker 1: women or were you there to help with the charity
Speaker 1: and then you happened to meet a woman the second
Speaker 1: one second, Okay, what is her name? Her name is Alison?
Speaker 1: Alison all right, and how did you meet Alison? Did
Speaker 1: she walk up to him? I was like, oh, wow,
Speaker 1: don't look at all the heavy lifting you. I've never
Speaker 1: seen a man left seventeen chairs at once. I can't
Speaker 1: do seventeen. I did do seventeen. But she was directed.
Speaker 1: She was staying by the chairs, and then I'd come
Speaker 1: over picked a couple up, and then she, you know,
Speaker 1: she'd tell me where to go. She'd say, I put
Speaker 1: those thought over there. So she was directing where to
Speaker 1: put the chairs and things like that. Did you ask
Speaker 1: her out or did she ask you out? I'd say
Speaker 1: that's open to interpretation. But she was doing a lot
Speaker 1: of direct eye contacts. So I took that as an
Speaker 1: opportunity to, you know, say we should you know, we
Speaker 1: should catch up sometime. Okay, because whenever a woman looks
Speaker 1: at you, it's basically like her asking you out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she made direct eye contact, and because you're dude, you
Speaker 1: were like, I need to ask her out. And then
Speaker 1: you asked her out. Well, I've set you up for
Speaker 1: hanging out sometimes, so yeah, I guess so just asking
Speaker 1: her out, that's exactly what you did. Of romantic words,
Speaker 1: What did you guys do when you actually went out, Well,
Speaker 1: she invited me over after the charity event. Oh nice. Wow,
Speaker 1: she must have really wanted to thank you for your word.
Speaker 1: What if she just wanted to make some lunch and
Speaker 1: talk to him like that is a possibility here. I
Speaker 1: don't know if she also made eye contact. Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1: I mean by that time, it was pretty late, so
Speaker 1: she said, you know, you just come over and chill
Speaker 1: out and you know, take a I would off. I've
Speaker 1: been on my feet all day, so I said, all right,
Speaker 1: you know, maybe watch a movie or something. Did you
Speaker 1: feel like that was an invite to come back to
Speaker 1: do more than watch a movie, because I would have.
Speaker 1: Of course you would have. I think almost any dude
Speaker 1: would have. Yeah, I will say a movie is usually
Speaker 1: code for other things. I think it crossed my mind,
Speaker 1: but I just trying to put one foot in front
Speaker 1: of the other. I don't want to get too far ahead,
Speaker 1: so I just said, okay, you know, I was just interested,
Speaker 1: really kind of hanging out and talking and getting to
Speaker 1: know her a bit better. And that's your date, right,
Speaker 1: Your date was just when you guys went back to
Speaker 1: her house to watch the movie. Yeah, that's correct. Okay.
Speaker 1: And did you guys kiss anything romantic happen? Well, we,
Speaker 1: I mean the closest we got any romances. Kind towards
Speaker 1: the end of the movie, it was getting late. I
Speaker 1: said I gotta go, and she said, well, you could
Speaker 1: sleep here if you want. And I said okay, and
Speaker 1: she said no funny business. I said, unexpected. And then
Speaker 1: we fell asleep on the couch. Were holding hand when
Speaker 1: we fell asleep. All right, that's a little bit of
Speaker 1: hand holding. Nice. I hope you were protected. I hope
Speaker 1: you wore gloves. Yeah, were protected? All right? Good? Good?
Speaker 1: So did you sleep there all night? I did. I
Speaker 1: woke up. The sun came up. It kind of made
Speaker 1: the room all bright, and I woke up and I
Speaker 1: said good morning, and we were fully closed. I think
Speaker 1: I said let's get some coffee or something. But she
Speaker 1: just kind of like stood up and she looked at me,
Speaker 1: and then she just turned around and walked into her
Speaker 1: bedroom and closed the door. What WHOA? So she woke
Speaker 1: up and seemed angry at you? Yeah? Did she say
Speaker 1: anything about it at all? I actually thought maybe it
Speaker 1: was a game or something. Did you talk to her
Speaker 1: at all in this time? It sounds strange that you
Speaker 1: would wake up and seem angry at you for no reason.
Speaker 1: I mean, she was in her bedroom. I didn't know
Speaker 1: what to do, so I just I went into the kitchen.
Speaker 1: I waited for and I just stood around. I mean
Speaker 1: I stood around for twenty minutes of wait for it.
Speaker 1: Then and then she came out and I said, hey,
Speaker 1: let's up. I said, you know, coffee here, and she
Speaker 1: just said you need to leave right now. Oh she
Speaker 1: was still mad. She was like still angry. Yeah, she
Speaker 1: looked back she had seen a ghost or something. She
Speaker 1: was She was angry, so you know for a fact
Speaker 1: that she's not happy with you about something. She essentially
Speaker 1: kicked me out. But I have no idea why. I mean,
Speaker 1: I didn't do anything inappropriate. I was a gentleman, I
Speaker 1: always am. I never was forward or aggressive or anything.
Speaker 1: So I think there's just some confusion here or something. Okay,
Speaker 1: you're not leaving anything out of your story. You guys
Speaker 1: got to her place, fell asleep watching a movie, holding hands,
Speaker 1: and that's it. I mean, nothing else happened. I'm telling
Speaker 1: you everything. Okay. I really had no idea what was wrong.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, we're gonna play a song, come back,
Speaker 1: call her and get your second date update. All right, Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: thank you, You're welcome. Hang on it brooking jubil in
Speaker 1: the morning. All right. If you're just tuning in for
Speaker 1: the second part of today's second Date update, Tim is
Speaker 1: on the phone with us. He met a girl named Alison,
Speaker 1: had a little charity function. They ended up actually going
Speaker 1: back to her house that night because I guess it
Speaker 1: was late, and she was like, don't worry about driving,
Speaker 1: we can totally hang out, come over and watch a movie,
Speaker 1: and according to him, that's all that happened is they
Speaker 1: watched a movie. They fell asleep holding hands, woke up
Speaker 1: the next morning, and she was like angry at him
Speaker 1: for some reason, she wouldn't talk to him. She finally
Speaker 1: talked to him about twenty minutes later, after she had
Speaker 1: gone to a room and she told him to leave.
Speaker 1: That's the last that he's heard from her. All right, Tim,
Speaker 1: We're about to call her if I get her on
Speaker 1: the phone, and I asked her if something strange happened,
Speaker 1: because you swore to me that nothing else happened other
Speaker 1: than you guys fell asleep holding hands and that was it.
Speaker 1: If she tells me she woke up and you guys
Speaker 1: were still holding hands, but somehow you were in her
Speaker 1: clothes and she was in your clothes, I'm gonna hang
Speaker 1: up on you right there, because that is weird. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you got it, all right. And i'd never asked you
Speaker 1: what did you like so much about Alison before she
Speaker 1: became angry? She was really nice. I mean, she's chill
Speaker 1: and she's cool, all right, And you'd like to see
Speaker 1: her again, Yeah, I want to see her again, as
Speaker 1: long as she doesn't hate me, or at least she
Speaker 1: can explain to me why she hates me. It's always
Speaker 1: at least nice to know why somebody hates you. All right, well,
Speaker 1: I'm a dollar phone right now, get her on the
Speaker 1: phone and get your second date update. Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: all right, here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak
Speaker 1: to Alison? Please? This is hey Alison. How are you?
Speaker 1: This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.
Speaker 1: Like the radio show. Yeah, exactly like the radio show.
Speaker 1: How are you? I'm good? How are you? Guys? Not
Speaker 1: too bad? Thank you for asking. We're just calling listeners
Speaker 1: in the local area to see a liar what their
Speaker 1: favorite part of the show is this morning? Can you
Speaker 1: tell me what you like about the show the most? Oh?
Speaker 1: I mean you, of course, very very very good answer. Actually, Alison,
Speaker 1: any idea why I might be calling you? I have
Speaker 1: no idea. Well have you heard the second date updates before? Um?
Speaker 1: I think so. I normally listened to the phone test. Okay,
Speaker 1: Well cool, Well, you are about to be the star
Speaker 1: of a second date update because you recently went out
Speaker 1: on a date with somebody and you're not calling him back,
Speaker 1: and they want us to get a hold of you. Oh,
Speaker 1: his name is Tim. You met him at a charity
Speaker 1: function and ended up actually sleeping with him first night
Speaker 1: that you met him, which I think is no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: no no no, no, I know, No, don't worry, Allison.
Speaker 1: Tim told us that you guys didn't sleep together. He
Speaker 1: said that he did fall asleep next to you, like
Speaker 1: on the couch, holding hands while watching a movie. Though
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, this is just really weird that you guys
Speaker 1: like know all of this. I mean, it wasn't even
Speaker 1: a date. It was like I just I met him
Speaker 1: and then like we hung out right, well, we talked
Speaker 1: to him because he emailed us and asked if we
Speaker 1: could get you on the phone and find out why
Speaker 1: you why Well, he said, you seemed really upset in
Speaker 1: him the next morning, and he also wanted to see
Speaker 1: why you're not responding to any of his phone calls
Speaker 1: or text messages or anything. Did you not like think
Speaker 1: it was a date when he was coming over, like
Speaker 1: you just wanted to be his friend or something. And no,
Speaker 1: I mean, like it wasn't like an official date, but
Speaker 1: it was just like let's get to know each other.
Speaker 1: But I just I just realized that I don't think
Speaker 1: he's the one for me, and I would just rather
Speaker 1: not keep going there. According to him, and you tell
Speaker 1: me if he's lying. He said that he woke up
Speaker 1: next to you. You seem mad. You went in your room,
Speaker 1: stay there for like twenty minutes, and then when you
Speaker 1: finally came out, you told him to leave. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: probably about right. So that sounds like you're legitimately angry
Speaker 1: with the guy right now. It doesn't sound like you
Speaker 1: you hate him or anything, but what could have happened
Speaker 1: to make you so mad in the morning. I'm not
Speaker 1: I'm not angry at him. I just it's complicated. I
Speaker 1: knew he wouldn't understand, and so it was just easier
Speaker 1: to not even go there. Can you tell us so
Speaker 1: that you can give us a little bit of an understanding,
Speaker 1: and to be honest, I like, I got a sign. Um,
Speaker 1: I'm just one of the things. I just I knew
Speaker 1: sign what sort of sign? I don't expect you to understand,
Speaker 1: and I didn't expect him to understand, which is why
Speaker 1: I didn't even want to go into this. But I
Speaker 1: had a vision. What do you mean it's like a dream? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess you'd call it a dream. Um and him
Speaker 1: was in it, and he was like he was after me.
Speaker 1: He had like this huge samurai sword and he was
Speaker 1: running after me and he was like chasing me. So
Speaker 1: I was like running away. Are you seriously laughing at that?
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm sorry. It's you said, listen, we're not
Speaker 1: making fun of you for it. You even said we
Speaker 1: probably won't understand it. And I don't really understand why
Speaker 1: it would scare you enough to have a dream like
Speaker 1: that to not talk to somebody. So can you explain
Speaker 1: to me why a dream would make you feel that
Speaker 1: way in the morning. I mean, it felt like it
Speaker 1: was one of those things. It was like a sign
Speaker 1: like that God was warning me that like this wasn't
Speaker 1: a good relationship, Like could you just meet somebody and
Speaker 1: you don't really know anything about them, and then they're
Speaker 1: in your dream and they're chasing me with the samurai
Speaker 1: sword and at the end, like I woke up when
Speaker 1: he stabbed me. Yeah, but dreams made I mean dreams,
Speaker 1: I mean all sorts of weird things, Like I can
Speaker 1: sometimes just get a gut feeling with things, and I
Speaker 1: have learned to trust my gut feeling. And I woke
Speaker 1: up from that, Like, I mean, I haven't had a
Speaker 1: nightmare like that a really long time. So were you
Speaker 1: mad at him in the morning or were you scared
Speaker 1: of him? Is that why you went to your room?
Speaker 1: It was a really scary dream. I haven't had a
Speaker 1: dream like that in a while. And it's not like, oh,
Speaker 1: I had a nightmare company like he was the one
Speaker 1: who was a nightmare and I just I needed some space.
Speaker 1: But did he do anything at all in the awake
Speaker 1: world that was an indication of him being mean? No?
Speaker 1: But I mean, you hear those stories of people who
Speaker 1: seemed to be really nice and then end up crazy,
Speaker 1: and I feel Allison, I talked to him a little bit.
Speaker 1: He sounds like a weirdo. I think maybe your gut
Speaker 1: was I think your gut was right on that one.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you, I support you, Okay. I don't
Speaker 1: feel like you're taking this very seriously. I'm taking Listen,
Speaker 1: this is the way that you feel. I might not
Speaker 1: understand it because a dream has never scared me so
Speaker 1: much to not talk to somebody. But if that's the
Speaker 1: way you feel, that's important, okay. And it's scared you
Speaker 1: enough to not talk to him again. I'm just trying
Speaker 1: to get some clarification. Okay, Yeah, that's why I didn't
Speaker 1: call him, so you can tell him and okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: would you like to talk to him about it? No,
Speaker 1: I mean that's why I haven't called him back or
Speaker 1: responded to his text. I think it's better for you
Speaker 1: to stop talk. Okay, Well, he is on the other line.
Speaker 1: I would like to talk to you. Wait what Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: Tim is actually listening on the other line right now. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm here. Oh, this is so awkward. Yeah, it is
Speaker 1: a awkward. I mean, I'm paying for a crime that
Speaker 1: I didn't commit. I mean, come on, what if I
Speaker 1: was trying to prepicture in the dream? Do you think
Speaker 1: of it that way? You stabbed me? That is yeah,
Speaker 1: maybe I don't know how that's protecting her. Tim stabbing
Speaker 1: her with was it a samurai sword? He said it
Speaker 1: was a samurai sword. This is ridiculous. There's some unfair
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I'm sure you're a great guy
Speaker 1: for you probably wouldn't actually stab anybody. But I just
Speaker 1: there's the reason I didn't call you back. Okay. Hold on,
Speaker 1: we spent about ten eleven hours together in real life,
Speaker 1: in real time, and we had a great, great time.
Speaker 1: Then you have, like, probably I don't know, a twenty
Speaker 1: to twenty five minute dream about me running around with
Speaker 1: some sword, and you're going to take twenty five minutes
Speaker 1: of dream world versus eleven hours of real time. I mean,
Speaker 1: you got to give me a chance. True, it wasn't
Speaker 1: just a dream, chin, I think that there was something
Speaker 1: prophetic to it. There was something. I feel like it
Speaker 1: was a sign. It's not just a scary dream. I
Speaker 1: feel like it means that we're not supposed to be together.
Speaker 1: He just seems so nice. I mean, like, how many
Speaker 1: guys will just hold your hand while you fall asleep
Speaker 1: and not try anything. That's exactly what people say about
Speaker 1: guys who will stab you with the Samurai forward. It's
Speaker 1: better to listen to your gut, Allison, trust me. Okay,
Speaker 1: you don't want to be another statistic. And how about
Speaker 1: did is there someone else in your wife trying to
Speaker 1: hurt you? Because I can help you with that. There
Speaker 1: is nobody. I'm not some like traumatized little girl. Okay,
Speaker 1: I just I had a dream. It freaked me out.
Speaker 1: I don't want to date you. It's that simple. Now.
Speaker 1: That brings me to my question Alison, would you like
Speaker 1: to go on a second day? Okay, you didn't even
Speaker 1: let me finish. I was going to offer to pay
Speaker 1: for it. What if it's a nice Asian restaurant, Chinese
Speaker 1: or Japanese, something like that. You know, you guys have
Speaker 1: already made fun of me and nothing that I gotta go? Okay,
Speaker 1: Oh all right? Hey, Tim, are you still there? Yeah? Tim,
Speaker 1: stop stabbing girls with samurai swords in their sleep. Man,