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Speaker 1: second date of Day. Charity events are great places to

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Speaker 1: him anyway. That's where Tim, who's on the phone with

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Speaker 1: Apparently he met her at some sort of church charity

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Speaker 1: This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: Like the radio show. Yeah, exactly like the radio show.

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Speaker 1: I mean you, of course, very very very good answer. Actually, Alison,

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Speaker 1: It was a really scary dream. I haven't had a

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Speaker 1: maybe I don't know how that's protecting her. Tim stabbing

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Speaker 1: we spent about ten eleven hours together in real life,

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Speaker 1: He just seems so nice. I mean, like, how many

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Speaker 1: better to listen to your gut, Allison, trust me. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I just I had a dream. It freaked me out.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to date you. It's that simple. Now.

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Speaker 1: Oh all right? Hey, Tim, are you still there? Yeah? Tim,

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