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Speaker 1: All right, what's at this lift service? I'm Angela Yee,

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Speaker 1: I'm g g McGuire, I'm seven straighter. How y'all doing

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Speaker 1: take girl? And he's a beautiful ladies much beauty. I

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Speaker 1: got methorized. I forgot my whole name about to say,

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Speaker 1: I'm Michaels. I'm never round as many beautiful women before.

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Speaker 1: I like my women normally like eighty seven octeen, like regular,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm doing. That was very nice and

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Speaker 1: he's been listening. If you see his videos, he'd be

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Speaker 1: posting them Jim thirst Trap videos. Why are you one

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Speaker 1: of them? No, not not at all, not no thirst Trap.

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Speaker 1: No I'm not. It's just I like my daughter inspired

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Speaker 1: me to lose weight, So that's what it was. I was, honestly,

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Speaker 1: I'm a single father, and I was too fat to

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Speaker 1: get on the roller coaster. I've had my daughters and

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Speaker 1: she was too she just turned thirteen, so I took

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Speaker 1: her the six Flags for the first time, and I

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Speaker 1: was literally too fat to get on roller coaster because

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Speaker 1: the thing they got, they got the thing on your

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Speaker 1: chest and they got a close and they don't tell

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Speaker 1: you too fair. They just look at you and be

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Speaker 1: like sir, to get has to close. Do you understand

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Speaker 1: it's like seven roller coases behind you, everybody, man, you

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Speaker 1: got to get off. My daughter was just like so embarrassed,

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Speaker 1: you know, because she had to ride by herself. And

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Speaker 1: I was like, you enjoyed it your first time. She

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Speaker 1: was like, it's cool, we can go home. And then

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Speaker 1: they got this thing. I don't know if you've been

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Speaker 1: a six flag. I had this thing where you walk

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Speaker 1: at my Yeah. Yeah, I was like, you really address

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Speaker 1: you like I did that, but you're so big. I

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Speaker 1: told you not to eat tweakies with cheese and and

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Speaker 1: all sales. That was just so actually that inspired it.

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Speaker 1: And then what I did was I lost enough weight

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Speaker 1: and I promised that I would lose weight to get

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Speaker 1: on the roller coaster the game before the season the clothes,

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Speaker 1: and that's what started the whole thing right back here. Yea,

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Speaker 1: So talk about that process though, like, how has that

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Speaker 1: affected other areas of your life? Um, it actually turned

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Speaker 1: a lot of things around. I didn't know that I

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Speaker 1: thought I was fine until I actually realized I lost

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Speaker 1: the way and people was like, oh my god, I'm

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Speaker 1: so glad you lost weight. Man, you look hard. When

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Speaker 1: I was like, what, I didn't know. I didn't know

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Speaker 1: that people used to call me ship underneath my breath

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Speaker 1: and oh my god, I didn't know people calling me

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Speaker 1: hit Michaels. I had no idea because you don't really

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Speaker 1: tell you how they feel about it to the lose weight,

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Speaker 1: because then they feel the conference like my god, you

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Speaker 1: were big. You were huge, Like I was ready that big.

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Speaker 1: So um. It's just opened up a lot of doors

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Speaker 1: and health wise because I'm diabetic, and it made it

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Speaker 1: it back and showing people to change their mental to

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Speaker 1: get the health together. And that's what I do on

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Speaker 1: my page, inspired people that you could do it too,

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Speaker 1: And that's what it's all about, because if I can

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Speaker 1: do it, And like when I tell you Taco Bell,

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Speaker 1: Burt King, there's all my Instagram friends, they hit me

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Speaker 1: up like, well you've been at So it's just it's

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Speaker 1: just been really dope and I've just been, you know,

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Speaker 1: really trying to help people. And I send them trainers.

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Speaker 1: Anybody asked me, I send nutrition. It's just you know,

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Speaker 1: getting people in the right mindset to live healthy. Now

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Speaker 1: that person don't know I've heard that, yes, or does

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Speaker 1: it appear bigger it actually gets bigg I just don't

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Speaker 1: But it is lip server, So why not is that realized?

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Speaker 1: Of course? Of course, maybe it just looks bigger because

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Speaker 1: everything else is small. No, what happens is back in

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Speaker 1: the day, like I didn't know. Like when girls sometimes scream,

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Speaker 1: it don't be because you're pleasure. It is because your

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Speaker 1: stomach be on the clip. I didn't know that. I'm

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Speaker 1: thinking I'm chilling it, but they're like, oh, I didn't

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Speaker 1: realize the difference beforehand. So how much weight did you lose?

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Speaker 1: I used to be three thirty, so I went from

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Speaker 1: three thirty. The lowest I got was one seventy five,

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Speaker 1: and right now I'm two five. You lost the whole person.

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Speaker 1: That Wow, that's admirable. Thank you. What has been been

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Speaker 1: a fun journey. So it's not even stressful, Like I

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Speaker 1: enjoyed my life, So what do you do to lose it?

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Speaker 1: Like first, I started changing my mind state, getting my

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Speaker 1: mental that you know, I still eat the things that

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Speaker 1: It would just goes to gym. Cons they go to

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Speaker 1: Like doing things on the empty stomach so you can

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Speaker 1: actually burn the calories that if you're bigger, that will

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Speaker 1: help you. So what about eating because I heard just

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Speaker 1: thirty minutes, just thirty minutes of cardio, and you will

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Speaker 1: say so thing because I have a slow metabolism, So

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Speaker 1: it starts my metabolism, putting me in the right mind

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Speaker 1: state and whatever negativity I had my body and my

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Speaker 1: spirit in my mind. I started with that, read my Bible,

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Speaker 1: run for thirty minutes, and then my day starts clear.

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Speaker 1: What about confidence? How does it help your confidence? I'm

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Speaker 1: still ask your person, so you know my body to me,

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Speaker 1: I still look the same, So it doesn't you know it.

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Speaker 1: I will always be myself regardless of like this doesn't

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Speaker 1: go to my it's just like, oh, thank you. It

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Speaker 1: just changed. You just feel better everybody, everybody from like

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Speaker 1: And give me some the girls is on your head lady.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, it just it just changed. I didn't notice

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Speaker 1: ever dated a guy who was like bigger, who kind

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Speaker 1: It just doesn't matter. So it's like, you know, if

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Speaker 1: I think whatever makes me feel good gonna make me

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Speaker 1: I think what was the question you threw me all

424
00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:27,280
Speaker 1: the way up about like women pursuing you and being aggressive?

425
00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:29,960
Speaker 1: In that way, like like that sexy. I think every

426
00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:32,200
Speaker 1: man likes that. I think that is so to see

427
00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:33,800
Speaker 1: a woman and knows what she wants, because a lot

428
00:21:33,840 --> 00:21:36,200
Speaker 1: of women are indecisive in between. Like when you see

429
00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:38,119
Speaker 1: a woman and knows what she wants and she goes that,

430
00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:40,359
Speaker 1: that is nothing more sexy. And try to do that.

431
00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:41,920
Speaker 1: And if a woman take me out and let you

432
00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:43,680
Speaker 1: know at the internet, you buy me dinner, I will

433
00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:45,720
Speaker 1: put the tip in. That's all I'm trying to say

434
00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:52,200
Speaker 1: right now. But I think that's great. I think every

435
00:21:52,280 --> 00:21:54,719
Speaker 1: man would like that because I think at least I mean,

436
00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:56,720
Speaker 1: I don't think that we should be afraid to spark

437
00:21:56,840 --> 00:22:00,639
Speaker 1: the conversation. Sometimes you see somebody just want us. You

438
00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:02,920
Speaker 1: just never know, you know what I mean. It's no

439
00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:06,239
Speaker 1: different than I look at, you know, seeing somebody. If

440
00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:07,600
Speaker 1: I see a woman standing there and I want to

441
00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:09,119
Speaker 1: have a concert, I think, yeah, outfit, this s fly,

442
00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:11,760
Speaker 1: whatever it's we're gonna. I'm gonna spark a conversation out

443
00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:14,000
Speaker 1: a conversation with you. Same thing with a guy if

444
00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:16,040
Speaker 1: I see him and I'm attracted to him, I just think,

445
00:22:16,560 --> 00:22:18,320
Speaker 1: you know, how are you, how's your day? How do

446
00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:20,320
Speaker 1: you feel you feel an energy. If it's a real

447
00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:23,960
Speaker 1: energy that you know you, I expect then for you

448
00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:25,639
Speaker 1: to take the lead and make it turn into what

449
00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:27,960
Speaker 1: it's gonna turn into. But I don't pick up the

450
00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:30,520
Speaker 1: signs that I'm getting, you know. But I don't have

451
00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:32,840
Speaker 1: a problem to like be like, oh have you always

452
00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:37,879
Speaker 1: been that confident? Um? You know what? No, because I started,

453
00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:40,800
Speaker 1: I placed it in a different space. Like like I said,

454
00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:43,960
Speaker 1: I don't look at it as like necessarily approaching a man.

455
00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:46,080
Speaker 1: I look at it like he's a person, Like I'm

456
00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:48,760
Speaker 1: a person. It's a conversation that I'm interested in something

457
00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:51,560
Speaker 1: about that person that I'm seeing this drawing me to

458
00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:53,960
Speaker 1: that person. I want to know something about them. So

459
00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:56,120
Speaker 1: whether it's a man or a woman, obviously I don't

460
00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:58,359
Speaker 1: you know, I don't deal with women, don't date women.

461
00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:01,159
Speaker 1: But if there's a man that i'm a acted too, Um,

462
00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:03,720
Speaker 1: it just I don't allow the fact that he's a

463
00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:07,720
Speaker 1: man to stop me from having that initial conversation. You know,

464
00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:12,000
Speaker 1: so I'll be like what how are you? And you know,

465
00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:15,360
Speaker 1: guys are so not used to that that I'm sure

466
00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:18,680
Speaker 1: every time they probably don't miss the signals that you're

467
00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:22,480
Speaker 1: throwing because just the fact that you said hello is like, yeah,

468
00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:24,680
Speaker 1: it's not as scary as people trying to make it

469
00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:26,520
Speaker 1: out to be. A lot of times, I think a

470
00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:30,040
Speaker 1: lot of And I've had male friends, We've had this conversation.

471
00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:32,720
Speaker 1: I had a male friend that, um, you know, that

472
00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:34,879
Speaker 1: was wanted to talk to one of my my friends

473
00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:37,280
Speaker 1: and I didn't quite know how, And I'm just like,

474
00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:40,879
Speaker 1: just first of all, just say hello, right, Just just

475
00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:43,879
Speaker 1: say hi, Like, just say hi, and and you know,

476
00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:46,440
Speaker 1: if the person is a decent person, you're gonna catch

477
00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:48,439
Speaker 1: about it. If it's supposed to turn into anything ever

478
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:50,720
Speaker 1: than it will. But just don't be afraid to spark

479
00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:53,359
Speaker 1: that conversation. You know. Now, have you ever felt used

480
00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:56,440
Speaker 1: in a relationship, like somebody you were talking to, Because

481
00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:59,040
Speaker 1: I was thinking about, like watching everything that's been happening

482
00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:03,159
Speaker 1: with say, Brittany Renter and PJ Washington, Right, so they

483
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:06,600
Speaker 1: had a kid together, and people are saying now because

484
00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:08,920
Speaker 1: she was talking about getting with the ball player, and

485
00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:11,280
Speaker 1: so there are people are saying and it's seeming like

486
00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:12,800
Speaker 1: it because it feels like she's saying it too, that

487
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 1: she used him, you know, for that money, had the baby,

488
00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:18,359
Speaker 1: and now she's like Okay, you know who wants to

489
00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:21,399
Speaker 1: be a stepdaddy? Like what's up next? Have you ever

490
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:24,560
Speaker 1: felt like you were in a relationship and you got used? Um?

491
00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:27,360
Speaker 1: I felt like they were trying to I did feel

492
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:29,200
Speaker 1: like that, like a relationship I was, and that we

493
00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:31,600
Speaker 1: were only together for eleven months, and it was like, okay,

494
00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:33,600
Speaker 1: we've been together eleven months, let's trying to have a baby.

495
00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:38,600
Speaker 1: M hmm excuse me, Yeah, no, sorry about the son.

496
00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:40,639
Speaker 1: You're barking up the wrong tree. We should And it

497
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:42,720
Speaker 1: was an ultimatum thing, you know what I mean? And

498
00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:45,520
Speaker 1: women do that to the men. I feel like it

499
00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:52,200
Speaker 1: because when we say he's intentional about what he wants,

500
00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:55,480
Speaker 1: like if he's ready to have a child, and he's like, look,

501
00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:57,760
Speaker 1: this is what I want and it's not what you want,

502
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:01,320
Speaker 1: but you want people to know. That's kind of honest.

503
00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:05,359
Speaker 1: It's honest, and and had um put it if there

504
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:08,600
Speaker 1: were other factors that like, because you know, let's talk

505
00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:12,640
Speaker 1: about let's go and let's go come on, proposed marriage,

506
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:15,239
Speaker 1: then baby at least that you just want to make

507
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:18,000
Speaker 1: a baby mama, because he's been together. Yeah, And and

508
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 1: there was there were other yes, that part and it

509
00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:22,400
Speaker 1: was other factors, at least for me in the way.

510
00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:24,720
Speaker 1: So I'm like it, just let me know that, Like,

511
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:27,800
Speaker 1: your mind is someplace else. We're not on the same page.

512
00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:30,479
Speaker 1: Your mind as thinking. It's something that's not writing, it's

513
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:32,480
Speaker 1: not calculator, not adding up. That don't make no sense

514
00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:34,600
Speaker 1: to Did you have other kids? No? He had no

515
00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:39,040
Speaker 1: other kids? No, But um, I'm like, yeah, not son. No,

516
00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:41,040
Speaker 1: it wasn't the time because I have a friend who

517
00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:43,359
Speaker 1: is very like she wants to have a baby really badly.

518
00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:46,200
Speaker 1: And when she starts sitting a guy, like she tells

519
00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:49,520
Speaker 1: him early on, She's like, like, this is what I want.

520
00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:50,960
Speaker 1: I want to have a child. If this is not

521
00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:54,000
Speaker 1: what you want, then let's know now, so I know

522
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:56,480
Speaker 1: how seriousness can be. I'm not mad at that though,

523
00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:59,720
Speaker 1: but you lead with that, you know. I think that

524
00:25:59,880 --> 00:26:01,760
Speaker 1: was like when is it too early to say that too?

525
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:04,640
Speaker 1: No women said that on first day. They that since

526
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:12,280
Speaker 1: COVID people out, they say, I'm first, you're getting appetizing

527
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 1: by the way I would like to have But that's

528
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 1: on the apps now. Bumble tend to all that stuff

529
00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:20,320
Speaker 1: in there that they put that out there from the

530
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:23,240
Speaker 1: gate that I think COVID has changed everything, and everybody

531
00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 1: like said exactly what they want to go and like

532
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:26,920
Speaker 1: putting it out there like this is what I want.

533
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:29,800
Speaker 1: If you ain't wait it, I'm swite. It's not gonna

534
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:31,919
Speaker 1: be on the first day though, right, it's on the profile.

535
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:36,639
Speaker 1: Not for me that the profile. They gradually comes up

536
00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:39,199
Speaker 1: and come, you know, as some time passes, it comes up.

537
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:40,840
Speaker 1: Oh you know, do you think you want to have

538
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:44,240
Speaker 1: kids when they did? I just don't, you know. But

539
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:46,240
Speaker 1: if he's like, oh, by the way, I have her, peace,

540
00:26:46,880 --> 00:26:51,359
Speaker 1: bitch with me. Listen, like me to one of the

541
00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:59,879
Speaker 1: three perfect You can't get in double k listening here.

542
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:03,119
Speaker 1: I mean one out of three people have it. This

543
00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:06,119
Speaker 1: is true, That's very true. I mean, listen, get to

544
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:08,520
Speaker 1: us to take care of yourself. All that good. Get

545
00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 1: to dormant for three years, but not son, like not

546
00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:16,440
Speaker 1: God bless you, and take care of yourself. Be safe.

547
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:19,679
Speaker 1: But you don't want to be ushered into it. I understand. Oh,

548
00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 1: but he's gonna do it now. He's a Vegas. By

549
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:29,639
Speaker 1: the way, I want to go see that ghost. What

550
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 1: we're doing. That's a good day. That's a day day. Yes,

551
00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:35,679
Speaker 1: that's a good as I think. I agree. I might

552
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:42,880
Speaker 1: USh your fan it's mused to be bumping what. I'm

553
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:50,160
Speaker 1: sure it's really a good entertainer thought I got trouble

554
00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:52,120
Speaker 1: a wild out for those type of jokes. Com remember

555
00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 1: I was. We did this joke called wild Out called

556
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:56,359
Speaker 1: plete the fifth. We asked Nick questions. Nick was in

557
00:27:56,359 --> 00:28:01,800
Speaker 1: the ChIL Nick, so you had sex with Chili? Would

558
00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:04,720
Speaker 1: you say your favorite usher song? Is you got it bad?

559
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:12,000
Speaker 1: Or let it burn? And it was so bad my friend?

560
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:24,280
Speaker 1: You know, super jokes make themselves, but like I still

561
00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:29,399
Speaker 1: want to go to that. I'm hand for him all

562
00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:31,320
Speaker 1: the way. What's the best first date You've ever had?

563
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:36,840
Speaker 1: The best first date I ever had? This could be it?

564
00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:40,400
Speaker 1: Can I take combinations from different days that that moments

565
00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 1: just one Okay, there's only one best. It's only one best.

566
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:47,960
Speaker 1: It's very simple, but it was a good simple And

567
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:49,920
Speaker 1: then I think it became because it came off the

568
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:53,040
Speaker 1: hims with me being extremely tired and I'm a person

569
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:55,200
Speaker 1: like me on my own, I like to hop in

570
00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:57,680
Speaker 1: my car, like to go for drives, and that's my zin.

571
00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:00,240
Speaker 1: So it's just one particular day, me and s guy,

572
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 1: I was daying. We hopped in this car Fireras car.

573
00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:07,400
Speaker 1: We drove until we just could not drive anymore, and

574
00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 1: it was a beautiful scenery. We found a fire as restaurant,

575
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:14,560
Speaker 1: buy some water, We chilled, We talked. He ate a

576
00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 1: ship ton of edibles. I smoked the ship ton of weed.

577
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 1: We talked about everything under the sun. And it was

578
00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 1: more so the connection. For me. I've had other days

579
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:24,120
Speaker 1: where I'm going to really great restaurants. I've gone to

580
00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 1: different places and that sur vibe too, But for me,

581
00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:30,960
Speaker 1: great dates have everything to do with the connection, in

582
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:33,720
Speaker 1: the communication, and like the vibe and you know, a

583
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 1: little bit of what you like and a little bit

584
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 1: of what I like, and let's use that together. So

585
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 1: for me, that was a fire us day. Now, what

586
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:41,920
Speaker 1: about you, rip, I want to know, from a man's perspective,

587
00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:44,360
Speaker 1: what's the best first day you ever had. Yeah, it's

588
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 1: gonna sound corny, but my best first day honestly my door.

589
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:49,080
Speaker 1: I do this daddy door today by teaching my daughter

590
00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:51,600
Speaker 1: how people should treat her. So I did that, and

591
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 1: like I took her out and like she got dressed

592
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 1: because I want to make e specially. We had the

593
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 1: little police at Score and I took it. We went

594
00:29:56,800 --> 00:29:58,960
Speaker 1: to like the little um Prime we went to Prime

595
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:00,200
Speaker 1: and eight and I think that was a and time.

596
00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:01,880
Speaker 1: She's like, Daddy, I always want to be treated like this,

597
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:06,560
Speaker 1: and that was that was and she was like, we

598
00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 1: all get dress. So I think that was dope. Let's

599
00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:12,120
Speaker 1: about the romantic date us. That was cute. And I

600
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 1: was just like I was the first day that came

601
00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:15,480
Speaker 1: around when you said, I was just like my daughter

602
00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:19,000
Speaker 1: giving that back to me, Like I live up to that.

603
00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:21,800
Speaker 1: You know, eighteen years old. He can't take it the

604
00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:26,400
Speaker 1: prime yet. Yeah, that part like, let's sen here, but

605
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:31,840
Speaker 1: let's see romantically. Let's see best first day romantically because

606
00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:34,760
Speaker 1: we heard sevens and so that was all about the thoughtfulness.

607
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:38,000
Speaker 1: I know. We went home and it was a whole

608
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:42,440
Speaker 1: vibe after that, but it was it was vibe, but

609
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:45,880
Speaker 1: it was like, yeah, let's let's set that space like that.

610
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 1: So that's not from a man's point of view. I

611
00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:50,200
Speaker 1: want to hear what you have. That sounds amazing. I

612
00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:52,760
Speaker 1: mean I was like, yeah, that's perfect. Just weed and driving.

613
00:30:53,760 --> 00:31:00,320
Speaker 1: You weren't there. We want to know about yours everything.

614
00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:06,840
Speaker 1: Give me a little toll roll card to drop you around.

615
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:20,040
Speaker 1: What do you see me do? Uh, medicine league, everything,

616
00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 1: ain't legal. Every stau rolled up. I guess my best

617
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:26,040
Speaker 1: romantic day would be. Um, I always want to just

618
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:27,840
Speaker 1: girl for a very long time. And she finally said yes,

619
00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:31,720
Speaker 1: and we went out and I remember everything that she

620
00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:33,480
Speaker 1: had liked it from us talking and so we finally

621
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:35,640
Speaker 1: one and she remembered everything that I liked. So it

622
00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:38,520
Speaker 1: was just the chemistry between those two things. Like I

623
00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 1: ordered and went to the bathroom and she had already

624
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 1: my favorite dessert and I was like, wow, she remembered that,

625
00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:46,280
Speaker 1: what's your favorite dessert? Uh, so weird. I like this,

626
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:49,080
Speaker 1: Like to remember Hostess makes these like orange cupcakes, like

627
00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:51,800
Speaker 1: the little orange cupcake thing from Hostess, like they used

628
00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 1: to be and used to coming to packing out of

629
00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:57,400
Speaker 1: packets like a dollar ninety five and still the same side.

630
00:31:58,000 --> 00:31:59,720
Speaker 1: So she actually had that. She had the way to

631
00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:01,480
Speaker 1: bring it out on the plate. I thought that was

632
00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:04,320
Speaker 1: the sexiest because she remembered that, because that's like my

633
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:07,960
Speaker 1: only ahead of time, that's the only sweet. I like that.

634
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 1: It was amazing And after that so we didn't really drive.

635
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:15,080
Speaker 1: We was on the train. The train to the last stop.

636
00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 1: Its beautiful, everybody we got off. Those are the fun times,

637
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:31,440
Speaker 1: So like I'm not gonna lie. Some of the best

638
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 1: days have been like those broke dates when you were younger.

639
00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 1: Come on, man, because it's all about the vibe and

640
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:40,280
Speaker 1: not about like how much it's spin or where were

641
00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:42,640
Speaker 1: eating dinner or what kind of bottle you buying or

642
00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:44,680
Speaker 1: if we're going to the club, but like whatever, all

643
00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 1: of this extra ship that's we happened, and like people

644
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 1: forget the foundation of its really like communicating and getting

645
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:52,880
Speaker 1: to know that you know the other person and really

646
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:56,560
Speaker 1: starting off at that point and not to be expected,

647
00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:59,040
Speaker 1: and especially these days with like social media, y'all know,

648
00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:01,160
Speaker 1: the whole two your day thing and the show in

649
00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:02,840
Speaker 1: the receipt and all of that is going on, Like

650
00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:08,480
Speaker 1: buying bags on the first date for this watch was

651
00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:09,960
Speaker 1: both from me on the first date, and I only

652
00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:12,880
Speaker 1: thought that I got it like two days after. Wait,

653
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 1: how did two dine? Somebody bus you a Rolex? Yeah

654
00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:23,280
Speaker 1: now now now mind you, it's a jewelry store Rolex, right,

655
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:25,200
Speaker 1: So it was like these ain't Rolex diamonds with the

656
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:28,760
Speaker 1: done of that, but it was free, it was it

657
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:31,240
Speaker 1: was sweet, it was a gift. It was a gift, damn.

658
00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:34,080
Speaker 1: And I talked to him maybe like two or three

659
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 1: days to continue speaking to him. That was a little

660
00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:40,960
Speaker 1: bit question. Well, I wasn't. I was intrigued to see

661
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:44,520
Speaker 1: what was next. Like we had Rolex on the first day, right,

662
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 1: only talked to him for a couple of times and then, Um,

663
00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:55,280
Speaker 1: it was almost as if he felt like I owed

664
00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:58,200
Speaker 1: him to like chase him, you know, like he kind

665
00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:00,040
Speaker 1: of wanted me to like. I guess he thought like

666
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:02,240
Speaker 1: this was gonna make me like fall in love with

667
00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:06,680
Speaker 1: him or like be upset with him. No, Um, no,

668
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:11,439
Speaker 1: because I changed my number and did well, I cut

669
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:17,440
Speaker 1: that phone off. That but it was but it was

670
00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:24,880
Speaker 1: spoken to each other. But I did the subscribers that

671
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,560
Speaker 1: roll Lex back dog if he didn't ask me back

672
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:31,279
Speaker 1: when you give it back? No, it was a gift ship.

673
00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:34,640
Speaker 1: It was a gift probably with a kept of expectation.

674
00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:36,960
Speaker 1: He probably didn't guess what guess what I did. After

675
00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:40,840
Speaker 1: after we left the jeweler, I went to the airport.

676
00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:43,680
Speaker 1: I was on my way to the airport since we

677
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:45,759
Speaker 1: met for lunch and ended up at the jewelry store.

678
00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:48,040
Speaker 1: I had my lugge and everything, and I went to

679
00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:59,719
Speaker 1: the airport. That's cute day, It's cute, Yeah, to your church.

680
00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:05,120
Speaker 1: That's how you always get out of that. He'd be like,

681
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:10,840
Speaker 1: have a safe alright, call you later. Let me wind

682
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:16,359
Speaker 1: this up. What's the best gift you ever got? Ripped

683
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:19,279
Speaker 1: as a man um, I mean, man, we get the

684
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:22,840
Speaker 1: marvelous gifts. I've never got anything, don't think. Man. We

685
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:24,839
Speaker 1: always look at like we got to give the face

686
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:32,600
Speaker 1: that pussy. Merry Christmas stuff you can always get. Why

687
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:34,160
Speaker 1: do women feel that that's a gift? Though? I want

688
00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:37,400
Speaker 1: to know why do women feel like pussy is the gift? Well?

689
00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:42,000
Speaker 1: GJ has new pussy, so that is a gift new. Yeah,

690
00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 1: Well we talked about this on the last about it

691
00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:46,920
Speaker 1: on the last episode. But she did rejuvenate her pussy.

692
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:51,960
Speaker 1: How was that smart? Because guys can't rejuvenate their dick. No,

693
00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 1: but that's smart. That's a very smart thing. Because my

694
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:56,800
Speaker 1: aunt she had a whole bunch of plast surgery and

695
00:35:56,840 --> 00:35:58,520
Speaker 1: she had a te and she like six she got

696
00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:00,400
Speaker 1: it done there like sixty, So now she looked like

697
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:02,920
Speaker 1: a forty old. But then I was like, you painted

698
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:04,440
Speaker 1: the car, but you didn't fix the engine. So you

699
00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:06,440
Speaker 1: got a forty your faith, but you need to fix transmission.

700
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:11,040
Speaker 1: Why don't you get pussy. That's not because she's sixty.

701
00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:13,319
Speaker 1: I was like, it's confused, man, We're like, oh my god.

702
00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:16,759
Speaker 1: She looked so forty, like no, this pussy you know

703
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:22,800
Speaker 1: what a rp Okay? Well, how was it though? So?

704
00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 1: So I did a laser rejuvenation UM two years ago

705
00:36:26,320 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 1: and just about a couple of days, not even a week,

706
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:32,799
Speaker 1: maybe three days ago, I did a touch up session. Um.

707
00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:36,439
Speaker 1: So the it's a probe that goes inside and there's

708
00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 1: a laser and it, you know, just tightens the vagina. Um.

709
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 1: I had a slight bit of um incontinence a k A.

710
00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 1: I was peeing a little bit when I coughed, their

711
00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:47,719
Speaker 1: sneezed or laugh too hard. Um. And I learned that

712
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:49,680
Speaker 1: this was something that couldn't help with that issue. So

713
00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 1: the first time, um, but it did work. Um My

714
00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:58,320
Speaker 1: pressure went down to under two hundred, which had considered virgins.

715
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:01,880
Speaker 1: It gotta get grit, yeah, and then beau and in

716
00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:05,200
Speaker 1: return you are more roused and you are weather and

717
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 1: you enjoy sex more. Um So when I did it

718
00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:10,840
Speaker 1: this last time, the goal is each session is to

719
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 1: get your pressure to come down by at least a

720
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:15,719
Speaker 1: hundred points. And this time when I did it, my

721
00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:23,239
Speaker 1: pressure went down a hundred and twelve points. Yeah. So yeah, yeah, yeah,

722
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:33,080
Speaker 1: because it's only been three days. That's what from you

723
00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:36,120
Speaker 1: know that we're that was around the same time that

724
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:39,000
Speaker 1: I did it. That time to work, Yeah, I have

725
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:41,359
Speaker 1: to watch the same time. But no, we never did nothing.

726
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:44,319
Speaker 1: But yeah, so I have a new guy. Um, I'm

727
00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 1: in a new relationship, and um, I have not seen

728
00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:49,520
Speaker 1: him since I got that done, so I haven't So

729
00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:53,279
Speaker 1: it's just like a monogamous. It's my man relationship, nobody else.

730
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:55,239
Speaker 1: I'm in love andel So I mean I don't know

731
00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 1: because you know, people have to have that conversation. Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes,

732
00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:02,040
Speaker 1: yeah so that's beau. So new relationship can't get a

733
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:07,359
Speaker 1: whole new relations that's what relationship it's been. Um, we've

734
00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:10,840
Speaker 1: been seeing each other this whole year since January, but

735
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:14,400
Speaker 1: it really didn't get serious until around April. So, I

736
00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:17,799
Speaker 1: mean we've had plenty of sex, but I'm really waiting

737
00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:19,880
Speaker 1: to see what his reaction is going to be. You

738
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:29,520
Speaker 1: can't wait. He's been playing with her hands whole gift

739
00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:37,480
Speaker 1: for pussy that counts, don't don't happy birthday. No, that's

740
00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:41,440
Speaker 1: the same point. I can see through that. So what

741
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:44,000
Speaker 1: is the best gift you ever got? Though it ain't new,

742
00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 1: not like that, it's tighter that what happy birthday to you?

743
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:53,719
Speaker 1: Like that's beautiful? That is so you can't tell us,

744
00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 1: like what if somebody I don't think I don't think

745
00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:56,560
Speaker 1: I've ever got a gift that I was like that

746
00:38:57,200 --> 00:39:02,799
Speaker 1: somebody that's really dope? Like I mean ties, Uh, girls

747
00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:05,799
Speaker 1: don't really ties ties? What a girl's bout you? Normally

748
00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:08,680
Speaker 1: shirts from Sears when they was back open. Uh the

749
00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:12,919
Speaker 1: free one, yeah, Burl the co factory give certificates max

750
00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:17,279
Speaker 1: Polo us Polo Association shirts. Guys don't really get let

751
00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:19,359
Speaker 1: me actually when if y'all bought the god don't give

752
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 1: what if you bought the guys I do? I give

753
00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:25,319
Speaker 1: my presents? Yeah, Like, what's the dope thing you have bought? Guy?

754
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:28,720
Speaker 1: Let me see the dopest I might like a Gucci

755
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:33,040
Speaker 1: sweatsuit that was really nice because I buy people stuff

756
00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:34,600
Speaker 1: that I don't feel like they would buy for themselves,

757
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:36,840
Speaker 1: but you know that they need. I get my girlfriend's

758
00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:40,760
Speaker 1: good presents too, and I give seven gives good presents.

759
00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:43,400
Speaker 1: I would say that. Yeah, so here we take care

760
00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:45,960
Speaker 1: of each other. Yeah, I think women are very can

761
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:53,080
Speaker 1: be very thoughtful. Okay, what if you bought the guy? Yeah,

762
00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:55,560
Speaker 1: I mean you know what I feel like. I'm just

763
00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:59,920
Speaker 1: always constantly paying attention to laptop. That's a good one,

764
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:03,960
Speaker 1: A useful one. I like useful presents. Yeah, I like

765
00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:06,680
Speaker 1: useful ones, and I like, um, I like ones that

766
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 1: that make them, you know, go back to a version,

767
00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:11,600
Speaker 1: like an older, younger version of themselves, Like I like that,

768
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:14,680
Speaker 1: like my one of my um one of my excess.

769
00:40:15,160 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 1: He he hadn't been home to where he grew up

770
00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:20,480
Speaker 1: at in really like in years, and he hasn't had

771
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 1: a lot of friends. Yeah, you had a lot of

772
00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:25,640
Speaker 1: friends from there. So I ended up finding like this

773
00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:29,319
Speaker 1: insane house and surprising him, and we flew back there

774
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:31,040
Speaker 1: and I had told all of his friends, brought his

775
00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:33,319
Speaker 1: friends there. We had just because you did not buy

776
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:39,560
Speaker 1: him the house. But we had the really like fire

777
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:43,759
Speaker 1: as weekend that you know. I like things that make

778
00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:47,879
Speaker 1: think of you too, Like like some glasses. Every time

779
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:49,480
Speaker 1: you put this on your face, you think of me.

780
00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:51,480
Speaker 1: And I'm not saying I told you I got it.

781
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:57,480
Speaker 1: There's this one one guy that I would say, every

782
00:40:57,520 --> 00:40:59,200
Speaker 1: time you sit this on your face, every time you

783
00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 1: put on your everything your butt, is it bad? And

784
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:05,239
Speaker 1: I think that about a lot of the gifts that

785
00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:07,359
Speaker 1: I bought my ex. Like I brought him a lot

786
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:09,399
Speaker 1: of things because he travels a lot, So I brought

787
00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:12,440
Speaker 1: him like, um, believe it on toiletry said and to

788
00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:15,840
Speaker 1: me luggage SAIDs and stuff like that. That saying. So

789
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:18,800
Speaker 1: I feel like now that we're not together, like I

790
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:21,160
Speaker 1: can wear him like the ultrasonic toothbrush. No, but I

791
00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:22,759
Speaker 1: feel like now that we're not together, like every time

792
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:24,600
Speaker 1: you brush your teeth, you think of me? Ready with that?

793
00:41:25,520 --> 00:41:27,680
Speaker 1: How do you feeling like that I bought him a

794
00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 1: vestber for his fiftieth birthday? That's that's that's yeah, that's

795
00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:40,120
Speaker 1: I mean, it's like we like what you like because

796
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:43,400
Speaker 1: every song you're gonna think, yeah, that's and you have

797
00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:46,320
Speaker 1: associated with and every time you put them shades on

798
00:41:46,400 --> 00:41:49,200
Speaker 1: every time listen, We're basically just surrounding your life with

799
00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 1: things that make you what is it too right? Because

800
00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:52,600
Speaker 1: they think about the president that we have, do we

801
00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:54,359
Speaker 1: think of the guy who gave him to us? Every time?

802
00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:56,880
Speaker 1: You know it might not even try look at my

803
00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 1: wrists at all. Yeah, No, I'll be like oh that

804
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:01,960
Speaker 1: bad match. That that's wrong. Yeah, you don't even think

805
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:04,880
Speaker 1: about who bought it for you. But okay, so new

806
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:06,680
Speaker 1: that you have a man, What about that watch? Does

807
00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:08,600
Speaker 1: he have a problem with you wearing this watch? No?

808
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:13,319
Speaker 1: I had this watch when I met him. I got

809
00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:16,439
Speaker 1: at quiet for a second. But you know, I don't

810
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:18,640
Speaker 1: even think I ever told him that body bought it.

811
00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:21,640
Speaker 1: But if he asks, I would tell him it was.

812
00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:23,920
Speaker 1: But if he's like, I'm not comfortable when he was off,

813
00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:28,160
Speaker 1: then bought me a new one. So that's why about

814
00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:37,480
Speaker 1: lace fronts for all my girls. You don't mean it's

815
00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:39,080
Speaker 1: just you know what I mean? It just looks. It

816
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:42,720
Speaker 1: looked good on your risk? Is that part not seven

817
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:44,719
Speaker 1: jock you wear? So? But that it's been a long

818
00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 1: time coming for this album because you've been like I've

819
00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:51,160
Speaker 1: been hearing about this, We've heard some singles, you know,

820
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:54,920
Speaker 1: and it's finally, finally, finally here. So let me ask you,

821
00:42:55,040 --> 00:42:57,360
Speaker 1: what are some things that you've said that when you

822
00:42:57,400 --> 00:43:00,400
Speaker 1: were drunk? Maybe that do you think you but you

823
00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:02,360
Speaker 1: say when you're drunk, or can you say things that

824
00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:04,759
Speaker 1: are totally untrue because people always say you speak the

825
00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:07,279
Speaker 1: truth when you're ti I think you honestly, I think

826
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:10,120
Speaker 1: honest I'm gona I think it's absolutely true. I think

827
00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:13,080
Speaker 1: you do mean what you say. You're under the influence

828
00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:17,760
Speaker 1: of something. It's a state of freedom you're not concerned about,

829
00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:23,000
Speaker 1: like you know, the the after effects of what you're

830
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:25,920
Speaker 1: gonna say. It's just it's all feelings. I mean. They

831
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:28,440
Speaker 1: don't call these spirits for no reason, you know what

832
00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:30,440
Speaker 1: I mean. It's a real thing. You gotta be careful

833
00:43:30,520 --> 00:43:33,360
Speaker 1: with them spirits. But they call them spirits for a reason,

834
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:35,000
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It makes you feel some

835
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:37,600
Speaker 1: type of way. But even when you think about being

836
00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:39,799
Speaker 1: under the influence of it's like we can be under

837
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:43,080
Speaker 1: the influence of way more things than this alcohol. You

838
00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 1: can be under the influence of love and lust and

839
00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:49,759
Speaker 1: heartbreak and anger and and you know it doesn't matter,

840
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:53,840
Speaker 1: like security insecurity, everything all of it. So it's like

841
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:58,360
Speaker 1: I like to tap into every last bit ofdos like

842
00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, and right truthfully, So that's

843
00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:02,200
Speaker 1: you can tell us seven this song writer, the way

844
00:44:02,239 --> 00:44:05,760
Speaker 1: she just expressed that that was really amazing and poetic.

845
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:10,680
Speaker 1: I would have downloaded that. I can see him in

846
00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:12,120
Speaker 1: his next thing. If you know, you could be under

847
00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:25,640
Speaker 1: the influence you know what that far. But have you

848
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:29,799
Speaker 1: ever said something and regretted it? Man? Yeah, I say

849
00:44:29,840 --> 00:44:32,040
Speaker 1: a lot of ship that I regret, you know what

850
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:35,719
Speaker 1: I mean. Like, that's called life, that's called living, that's

851
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:38,040
Speaker 1: called being present, that's called being in the moment. And

852
00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:39,840
Speaker 1: you know, you have a little bit you know and

853
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:41,879
Speaker 1: your system, you're gonna you're gonna say a few things

854
00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:45,880
Speaker 1: that you know. I don't regret the things that I

855
00:44:46,040 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 1: say and the things that I do when I'm in this,

856
00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:50,759
Speaker 1: they was gonna come out either way for me, you

857
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 1: know what I mean. I'm like you knowing about me.

858
00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm very you know, conversation or we're gonna

859
00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:01,200
Speaker 1: talk about it regardless. So this doesn't make me. I'm

860
00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:03,440
Speaker 1: gonna talk to you whether I'm under the influence of

861
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 1: this or not. But you know it might it might

862
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:09,279
Speaker 1: come to you. Have you ever said I love you

863
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:13,359
Speaker 1: too quick? And um? Have I ever said I love

864
00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:19,279
Speaker 1: you too quick? Hmm? Not for me, nah, Because I'm

865
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:20,920
Speaker 1: gonna tell you if I love you, I love you,

866
00:45:21,400 --> 00:45:27,400
Speaker 1: like if I love you, I love you, I love you,

867
00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:29,160
Speaker 1: I love you, I love you. That's a record actually this.

868
00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:35,480
Speaker 1: But but if I love you, Um, I don't mind me.

869
00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:37,480
Speaker 1: I'll be the first person to say it. I'll and

870
00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:40,560
Speaker 1: I'll be the second person to say it doesn't matter

871
00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:43,320
Speaker 1: to me. I think that that's what love is. What

872
00:45:43,400 --> 00:45:45,800
Speaker 1: if you say I love you, he says, thank you, bitch?

873
00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:48,600
Speaker 1: Know what do you do if a guy tells you

874
00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:51,640
Speaker 1: I love you and I forgot one you don't love

875
00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:55,279
Speaker 1: him back? Or two you know that it isn't. I've

876
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:57,520
Speaker 1: had somebody tell me they love me before and and

877
00:45:58,040 --> 00:45:59,640
Speaker 1: I love them, but not in the way that they

878
00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:05,040
Speaker 1: love me, and it was ouch. It hurt his feelings.

879
00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:08,719
Speaker 1: I knew that, but um, I can't do nothing about that.

880
00:46:09,280 --> 00:46:11,279
Speaker 1: I had a guy tell me I love you and

881
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:14,400
Speaker 1: we were like hanging up the phone and he was like, oh, no,

882
00:46:14,520 --> 00:46:16,120
Speaker 1: I'll talk to you later, okay, bye, I love you.

883
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 1: And I was like I didn't hear anything. I was

884
00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:23,919
Speaker 1: like don't. He's like, yes, I do. And I'm like, how,

885
00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:26,520
Speaker 1: like you don't love me? And he's like, not like

886
00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:28,160
Speaker 1: in love, but like I love you as a friend.

887
00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:31,240
Speaker 1: I'm like, even, dad, no, you don't like your actions

888
00:46:31,280 --> 00:46:34,319
Speaker 1: doesn't say that, so I can't like, no, you don't

889
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:36,799
Speaker 1: and he's like okay, and he never said it again.

890
00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:42,160
Speaker 1: People love be according to what they've experienced. Like people

891
00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:44,560
Speaker 1: have a different definition of love, and they had like

892
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:46,959
Speaker 1: according to how they were brought up, how they were ready,

893
00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:48,920
Speaker 1: whatever the funk they've been through, how much, how many

894
00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:51,839
Speaker 1: people hurt them. They have their own definition of love.

895
00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:55,279
Speaker 1: So sometimes a motherfucker may think they really love you,

896
00:46:56,239 --> 00:46:59,160
Speaker 1: and I love that Anthony, who's doing all that? It's shaking,

897
00:46:59,200 --> 00:47:07,520
Speaker 1: it's agree you know. Maybe have you ever been in love?

898
00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:10,080
Speaker 1: Of course, of course a ton of times. And I

899
00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:13,200
Speaker 1: don't even think that ton of times. And I realized

900
00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:14,759
Speaker 1: once I give them money, don't let me back but

901
00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:20,360
Speaker 1: money on it. But I've been a love. Uh. In

902
00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:22,600
Speaker 1: love is a big difference, like she said, um, And

903
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:25,080
Speaker 1: my main thing is when I realized with love, I

904
00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:27,000
Speaker 1: tell somebody I love him, is I really love them?

905
00:47:27,360 --> 00:47:29,960
Speaker 1: In love with them? And a lot of times people

906
00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:31,239
Speaker 1: tell me a girl, but like I love you. Be like,

907
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:33,640
Speaker 1: so what do you love them about me? And he's like, oh, well,

908
00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 1: I love the fact that that, uh that you know

909
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:40,279
Speaker 1: you're cool and you find yourself you know me? What

910
00:47:40,360 --> 00:47:41,799
Speaker 1: about me? Do you love someone? To tell you? It's

911
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:43,160
Speaker 1: because I love this. I love the way you think.

912
00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:44,319
Speaker 1: I love the way you take care of your kids.

913
00:47:44,320 --> 00:47:45,319
Speaker 1: I love the way you get up in the more.

914
00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:47,560
Speaker 1: I love the way you love God. I love the

915
00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:49,480
Speaker 1: inspiration that you do. I love what you want to

916
00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:51,759
Speaker 1: become and who you are. Told those things matter to

917
00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:53,440
Speaker 1: me when you can't describe it and you just say

918
00:47:53,480 --> 00:47:55,000
Speaker 1: it's just the word, so you can. Oh, And I

919
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:56,520
Speaker 1: tell my daughter all time, like you can feed thero

920
00:47:56,560 --> 00:47:58,040
Speaker 1: when the guy tells you love you asking what what

921
00:47:58,160 --> 00:47:59,640
Speaker 1: do you love about me? Do you even know me?

922
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:04,960
Speaker 1: What's my favorite color? What's my shoes side? What you

923
00:48:05,040 --> 00:48:07,360
Speaker 1: love about that's like the girl to tell me what

924
00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:13,960
Speaker 1: you're like? You ask many will be perplected. But I

925
00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:19,399
Speaker 1: love that you got that one. Ain't vagina to push down? Yeah,

926
00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:28,600
Speaker 1: I'm actually I'm actually at one ninety two. Like I'm right,

927
00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:35,320
Speaker 1: I'm right out there right. Have you ever fallen in

928
00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:38,160
Speaker 1: love from from sex? It's a good thing, like have

929
00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:39,960
Speaker 1: your bad sex. It was so good that you were like,

930
00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:42,160
Speaker 1: I think I love her, of course, I think every

931
00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:44,520
Speaker 1: guy has had that. Really you get you're both smiling,

932
00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:52,000
Speaker 1: and you'll know you'll all experienced that. I think everybody.

933
00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:54,600
Speaker 1: I think y'all just know, y'all have that power over God.

934
00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:56,640
Speaker 1: And that's why y'all. I think that's why y'a don't

935
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:58,799
Speaker 1: let everything out on the first night, y'all gradually. Why

936
00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:01,160
Speaker 1: is that y'all gradually the stuffy'all do you don't ever

937
00:49:01,239 --> 00:49:03,640
Speaker 1: let it all holes bar the first night. Gods, whatever

938
00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 1: we got, we give it, We give it all we

939
00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:07,239
Speaker 1: got the first night. You're gonna get everything that we do.

940
00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:11,920
Speaker 1: Werew it up. But you've got to establish that whoa Okay,

941
00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:14,879
Speaker 1: you gotta establish that trust too, right, because like you're

942
00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:18,239
Speaker 1: doing something ability. Yeah you go. We gotta make sure

943
00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:21,840
Speaker 1: you worked that schooling out all of our business on

944
00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:25,080
Speaker 1: the second time very time, you know. But that confuses

945
00:49:25,160 --> 00:49:27,400
Speaker 1: this guy sometimes, especially if we like separate and then

946
00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:29,040
Speaker 1: get back together and you got all these new tricks.

947
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:32,239
Speaker 1: If you take this on the first day, is it

948
00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:34,160
Speaker 1: going to be the best date ever? You gotta kind

949
00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:36,160
Speaker 1: of set the bar not too high because then we

950
00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:38,239
Speaker 1: know you get the guy to call you back immediately.

951
00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:39,840
Speaker 1: If you give me all you guys first time, like

952
00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:44,600
Speaker 1: you ain't leadership werena and then about to because I

953
00:49:44,640 --> 00:49:51,480
Speaker 1: want each until I think it's about like even if

954
00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:53,000
Speaker 1: you give it you're all on the first because, like

955
00:49:53,040 --> 00:49:55,480
Speaker 1: I always say to each his own and energy is

956
00:49:55,520 --> 00:49:58,440
Speaker 1: a real thing. So let's just say it is. You

957
00:49:58,520 --> 00:50:00,960
Speaker 1: give it all your first I know you don't everything

958
00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:03,800
Speaker 1: after your first, and everything with every every experience you

959
00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:06,800
Speaker 1: have that you're adding on to a new experience, be

960
00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:10,879
Speaker 1: fucking experimental, try shit, do shit. Don't be afraid. Figure

961
00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:13,000
Speaker 1: out the things that makes that woman tick, like what

962
00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:16,319
Speaker 1: makes her tick, what does she get into, and vice versa.

963
00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:18,800
Speaker 1: Like I think it's like I said, it's a conversation.

964
00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:22,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have a little fun with it. And I

965
00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:24,359
Speaker 1: think we don't know each other well enough the first

966
00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:27,640
Speaker 1: time to you don't even know because everybody likes different things,

967
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:29,560
Speaker 1: and you can't assume that the ship that the last

968
00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:31,719
Speaker 1: guy like, the new guy is gonna like. So it

969
00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:34,279
Speaker 1: does take a certain amount of time because this guy

970
00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:39,239
Speaker 1: might want his nipple suck, but that guy didn't like it. Yeah,

971
00:50:39,520 --> 00:50:42,239
Speaker 1: this God, you don't know. It's somebody like I haven't.

972
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:44,680
Speaker 1: I haven't done that. You haven't done ana or licking

973
00:50:44,680 --> 00:50:50,319
Speaker 1: booty holes? I haven't. She definitely had. You could tell

974
00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:59,680
Speaker 1: it was nice. Okay, now said, let me ask you

975
00:50:59,760 --> 00:51:01,800
Speaker 1: this first of all, y'all know I love seven this

976
00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:03,759
Speaker 1: is like my love you. I love seven. This is

977
00:51:03,800 --> 00:51:06,120
Speaker 1: my girl right here. So let's say you're about to

978
00:51:06,200 --> 00:51:08,799
Speaker 1: go out, right, but you have like your makeup down here,

979
00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:12,759
Speaker 1: down looking amazing, and guy wants a quickie. Okay, oh

980
00:51:13,080 --> 00:51:16,160
Speaker 1: and it's like my nigga, Yeah, I was going down.

981
00:51:16,760 --> 00:51:18,919
Speaker 1: But what if he comes on your face a little?

982
00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:20,319
Speaker 1: Are you mad? First of all, I don't mess up

983
00:51:20,360 --> 00:51:22,160
Speaker 1: my beat, my glamor, and I will both kill you.

984
00:51:22,239 --> 00:51:24,520
Speaker 1: Don't do that, especially now if you're about to go out.

985
00:51:24,600 --> 00:51:30,080
Speaker 1: Don't do that. You know what to do in that case.

986
00:51:30,400 --> 00:51:32,600
Speaker 1: What you're not hands up against the wall? Come on,

987
00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:38,399
Speaker 1: you know you figure it out whatever your circumstance, isn't

988
00:51:38,440 --> 00:51:41,600
Speaker 1: you figuring out? You're making work? You know, you know

989
00:51:41,960 --> 00:51:44,600
Speaker 1: what you Now, let's just say he has sex. What

990
00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:46,279
Speaker 1: do you do? Because now you got to go out,

991
00:51:46,360 --> 00:51:49,759
Speaker 1: but you just had sex. Where are we at home?

992
00:51:50,239 --> 00:51:52,839
Speaker 1: But you're late? I'm at home, but I'll let him.

993
00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:54,600
Speaker 1: Still we're about to be molate because I'm about to

994
00:51:54,640 --> 00:51:59,920
Speaker 1: hop back in the show. That part you take me,

995
00:52:00,239 --> 00:52:02,640
Speaker 1: let's take this. No, No, you're taking me with you

996
00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:06,920
Speaker 1: like something about your inside this men, that's what it is.

997
00:52:07,840 --> 00:52:11,880
Speaker 1: You like me and her he's like the men. I

998
00:52:12,000 --> 00:52:14,239
Speaker 1: like that. I like the me and you had a

999
00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:19,040
Speaker 1: girl square. It's all touch. I am of course that

1000
00:52:19,160 --> 00:52:21,359
Speaker 1: is not happen. It's weird like, but then you get

1001
00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:23,719
Speaker 1: used to it and you'd be like, yes, miss the

1002
00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:26,239
Speaker 1: question she said, do you ever had a girl squirt? Like, yeah,

1003
00:52:26,320 --> 00:52:27,840
Speaker 1: that is like when it first happened, but then you

1004
00:52:27,920 --> 00:52:29,719
Speaker 1: look forward every time I try to get that same thing.

1005
00:52:29,840 --> 00:52:31,879
Speaker 1: But I realized not every girl do it all the time.

1006
00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:34,440
Speaker 1: But I would say nine percent of women get it

1007
00:52:34,520 --> 00:52:36,480
Speaker 1: if you really work hard and get that. But it's

1008
00:52:36,480 --> 00:52:38,200
Speaker 1: amazing when the first time, and I was scared, like

1009
00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:40,200
Speaker 1: this bit pid on me. I know, she's just knocking

1010
00:52:40,280 --> 00:52:44,440
Speaker 1: to my house, my mama. She's but like you because

1011
00:52:44,440 --> 00:52:45,759
Speaker 1: when it first ever, you don't know what it is.

1012
00:52:45,840 --> 00:52:47,440
Speaker 1: You're like, it just comes up and it's all in

1013
00:52:47,520 --> 00:52:50,319
Speaker 1: your face and you're like, she like take it, take

1014
00:52:50,360 --> 00:52:52,399
Speaker 1: and then but I think that's sexy. I think it's

1015
00:52:52,440 --> 00:52:54,400
Speaker 1: nothing sexy. Do when one of the squirts and I

1016
00:52:54,440 --> 00:52:56,239
Speaker 1: go with your talent, I'll let you sleep in it.

1017
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:59,640
Speaker 1: Sometimes I let you sleep in so you don't sleep it.

1018
00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:02,279
Speaker 1: See that now you know he's sleeping it. I can

1019
00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:11,400
Speaker 1: tell you right there. I think he'd be like, what

1020
00:53:11,520 --> 00:53:13,400
Speaker 1: are the sexy things? Did you have a playlist? Like

1021
00:53:13,480 --> 00:53:16,359
Speaker 1: do you put on music? Uh? No, I don't really

1022
00:53:16,400 --> 00:53:19,480
Speaker 1: have a playlist. I'm a Pandora subcribe you suhoually listen

1023
00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:23,440
Speaker 1: to the seventh new album. Really should definitely want that.

1024
00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:25,520
Speaker 1: What's the baby making song on there? You said you

1025
00:53:25,600 --> 00:53:30,640
Speaker 1: think so? One of the baby making songs, it's a few.

1026
00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:34,600
Speaker 1: One of them is called change My Mind, which I love,

1027
00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:39,600
Speaker 1: is produced by business Boy and Real Talk Drunk and

1028
00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:41,840
Speaker 1: Word Sober Thoughts. I wrote it one night. I was

1029
00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:44,800
Speaker 1: in the studios by myself and me and my engineer

1030
00:53:44,920 --> 00:53:48,640
Speaker 1: just working and I don't know how many shots I

1031
00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:51,760
Speaker 1: had that night, I really don't, but I was missing

1032
00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:56,400
Speaker 1: a certain somebody and I thought about just moments that

1033
00:53:56,640 --> 00:54:01,600
Speaker 1: we had where you know, you ever have the type

1034
00:54:01,640 --> 00:54:09,200
Speaker 1: of connection with somebody where it's like it's risky but

1035
00:54:09,320 --> 00:54:13,520
Speaker 1: it's sexy, but it's it's I can't explain it. And

1036
00:54:13,640 --> 00:54:18,759
Speaker 1: I thought about the way that like he literally made

1037
00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:21,839
Speaker 1: me feel as if I know that there are things

1038
00:54:21,920 --> 00:54:23,560
Speaker 1: that I like, and I know that there are things

1039
00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:26,400
Speaker 1: that I never tried, but he made he made me

1040
00:54:26,480 --> 00:54:28,680
Speaker 1: feel like, you know what I just might let you

1041
00:54:28,840 --> 00:54:31,560
Speaker 1: change my mind about a few things. And so that's

1042
00:54:31,600 --> 00:54:33,840
Speaker 1: where the space that a record came from. Change my

1043
00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:36,920
Speaker 1: mind as a very sexy record, because I think that

1044
00:54:37,120 --> 00:54:40,359
Speaker 1: every woman, when they're comfortable, and every man too, when

1045
00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:43,440
Speaker 1: they're comfortable, you feel safe. And I think that that

1046
00:54:43,640 --> 00:54:45,839
Speaker 1: is the honestly feel like the name of the game

1047
00:54:45,880 --> 00:54:48,800
Speaker 1: when it comes to like like sex and and and

1048
00:54:48,920 --> 00:54:51,800
Speaker 1: being in that space with somebody is about feeling like

1049
00:54:51,880 --> 00:54:54,840
Speaker 1: you can be your most free self. And change my

1050
00:54:54,920 --> 00:54:56,759
Speaker 1: mind is about that. It says I might let you

1051
00:54:56,880 --> 00:54:59,320
Speaker 1: change my mind, like, so you should have to be

1052
00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:02,440
Speaker 1: feeling her feels That's what I'm talking about, because I

1053
00:55:02,480 --> 00:55:03,680
Speaker 1: gonna play that and send this to every girl I

1054
00:55:03,680 --> 00:55:05,080
Speaker 1: ever met. You need to change your mind because this

1055
00:55:05,120 --> 00:55:08,840
Speaker 1: is what's happening. No, it's not about you need to.

1056
00:55:09,080 --> 00:55:12,879
Speaker 1: It's she said I might let you, so you can't change.

1057
00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:18,280
Speaker 1: It's her choice. But you're the motivation. You're the motivation.

1058
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:20,959
Speaker 1: You're going to determine how comfortable she feels. You're gonna

1059
00:55:20,960 --> 00:55:23,960
Speaker 1: determine how far she goes. You're gonna and not say

1060
00:55:24,040 --> 00:55:27,120
Speaker 1: determine that she'll make the decision, but you have you

1061
00:55:27,800 --> 00:55:30,080
Speaker 1: have to set it up. I'm going to share a

1062
00:55:30,120 --> 00:55:33,279
Speaker 1: little to say I'm comfortable enough, I might let you

1063
00:55:33,400 --> 00:55:35,080
Speaker 1: change my mind. So this is why I love that

1064
00:55:35,160 --> 00:55:37,640
Speaker 1: Seven rights her own music and rites for other artists too,

1065
00:55:38,080 --> 00:55:40,360
Speaker 1: because it's so much more powerful when you hear like

1066
00:55:40,480 --> 00:55:42,320
Speaker 1: her real life stories and then you listen to the

1067
00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:44,640
Speaker 1: song and you know she wrote that and there's a

1068
00:55:44,719 --> 00:55:47,200
Speaker 1: reason for some reason, and there's a story behind it.

1069
00:55:47,640 --> 00:55:49,399
Speaker 1: And you know what, I will say this, like, you're

1070
00:55:49,520 --> 00:55:51,600
Speaker 1: so much more open now. I think about when you

1071
00:55:51,680 --> 00:55:55,160
Speaker 1: first came into this music business and this game, and

1072
00:55:55,320 --> 00:55:57,480
Speaker 1: like how I think at times you felt like you

1073
00:55:57,560 --> 00:56:00,399
Speaker 1: really had to hold back absolutely, you know, hold back

1074
00:56:00,480 --> 00:56:04,160
Speaker 1: like your own sensuality and who you were as a person,

1075
00:56:04,400 --> 00:56:06,759
Speaker 1: just to make it more like PG. And now I

1076
00:56:06,920 --> 00:56:08,600
Speaker 1: just feel like Seven is like this is who the

1077
00:56:08,680 --> 00:56:11,080
Speaker 1: funk I am? Yeah, it's like, you know, it's I

1078
00:56:11,120 --> 00:56:13,440
Speaker 1: think it's the evolution of a woman period. Like we

1079
00:56:13,560 --> 00:56:16,440
Speaker 1: go through stages and stages and phases where you know,

1080
00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:18,359
Speaker 1: we got to get to the place to where we've

1081
00:56:18,680 --> 00:56:20,800
Speaker 1: I feel amazing in this skin that I'm man, it

1082
00:56:20,880 --> 00:56:23,759
Speaker 1: feels great. Same with you. You can see it, Same

1083
00:56:23,840 --> 00:56:25,759
Speaker 1: with you, you can see you can feel it. So

1084
00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:28,480
Speaker 1: it's like once you get to that place and then

1085
00:56:28,600 --> 00:56:31,520
Speaker 1: to add the cherry on top, you know, you you

1086
00:56:31,680 --> 00:56:35,400
Speaker 1: add someone, you know, whatever, you whatever your taste is,

1087
00:56:35,480 --> 00:56:37,600
Speaker 1: whether you like women, you like men, but you add

1088
00:56:37,640 --> 00:56:41,160
Speaker 1: with your taste is it's like that's all. It's just

1089
00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:43,920
Speaker 1: a whole other bag. You know, it's a little space.

1090
00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:47,560
Speaker 1: So you know you like women? Who like women? Is

1091
00:56:47,600 --> 00:56:50,200
Speaker 1: that your thing too? I like women, like, that's beautiful.

1092
00:56:50,200 --> 00:56:52,160
Speaker 1: I've never really experienced with woen like women. You never

1093
00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:54,160
Speaker 1: had a three soon? No, I'm black, women like don't don't.

1094
00:56:54,840 --> 00:56:57,600
Speaker 1: So I've never had a woman to bring her to now,

1095
00:56:57,640 --> 00:57:00,239
Speaker 1: I never had that. Almost have a three soon? A

1096
00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:03,400
Speaker 1: couple almost over? So what happened when we're wrong? They

1097
00:57:03,560 --> 00:57:11,640
Speaker 1: was not weird? I suggested it, and I'm almost happened,

1098
00:57:11,840 --> 00:57:19,440
Speaker 1: almost happened, dressed up for it. But yeah, that's a shame. No,

1099
00:57:19,600 --> 00:57:21,800
Speaker 1: I never had that. So you ever had blue balls?

1100
00:57:22,280 --> 00:57:24,480
Speaker 1: Of course? Of course we get blue balls of course

1101
00:57:24,480 --> 00:57:26,959
Speaker 1: all the time, because all the time, of course, because

1102
00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:29,880
Speaker 1: like guys, we think when first of all, y'all are beautiful,

1103
00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:32,560
Speaker 1: so weeks we expect like, oh my god, she likes

1104
00:57:32,600 --> 00:57:33,800
Speaker 1: me too, and you'd be like, no, I see you

1105
00:57:33,880 --> 00:57:36,080
Speaker 1: more than from you. But oh god, it okay, Well,

1106
00:57:36,280 --> 00:57:37,600
Speaker 1: thank you for thinking on me. Be four in the

1107
00:57:37,680 --> 00:57:39,600
Speaker 1: morning and let you know I'm your big brother. I

1108
00:57:39,640 --> 00:57:43,440
Speaker 1: appreciate that. Let me let me watch you go inside

1109
00:57:43,480 --> 00:57:46,080
Speaker 1: the house and shut the door, and you get blue

1110
00:57:46,120 --> 00:57:48,840
Speaker 1: balls from that. I think, of course all guys get

1111
00:57:48,840 --> 00:57:52,040
Speaker 1: blue balls, yes, because y'all come out. Think about a

1112
00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:54,560
Speaker 1: look at y'all come out looking super sexy, some nothing,

1113
00:57:54,640 --> 00:57:57,640
Speaker 1: super good, spending hours the lace front, the jail everything.

1114
00:57:57,920 --> 00:57:59,280
Speaker 1: Now they've got the way trained on, so you can't

1115
00:57:59,280 --> 00:58:01,040
Speaker 1: really hug them because you can feel like a bulletproof

1116
00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:03,360
Speaker 1: and they got everything on, and you're just like, you

1117
00:58:03,440 --> 00:58:10,280
Speaker 1: know what, I can't wait to get you. But yeah,

1118
00:58:11,280 --> 00:58:14,040
Speaker 1: women don't get blue balls. You never got balls. We

1119
00:58:14,280 --> 00:58:21,160
Speaker 1: definitely don't have balls something but today's side. But you

1120
00:58:21,320 --> 00:58:23,040
Speaker 1: never got let down. What guy told you know, you

1121
00:58:23,160 --> 00:58:26,320
Speaker 1: never had to happen. Guys that really say no looking

1122
00:58:26,320 --> 00:58:28,000
Speaker 1: at y'all never had an experience what it's like, I

1123
00:58:28,120 --> 00:58:32,840
Speaker 1: want to wait says no. But I do expect when

1124
00:58:32,920 --> 00:58:36,440
Speaker 1: guys like don't try right away. Honestly, I love when

1125
00:58:36,440 --> 00:58:39,280
Speaker 1: they don't try. I told you, I was like, no,

1126
00:58:39,400 --> 00:58:41,880
Speaker 1: I'm good. I've never had a guy tell my cousin

1127
00:58:42,400 --> 00:58:45,160
Speaker 1: tell me no, like like you're like you're like, I

1128
00:58:45,200 --> 00:58:51,160
Speaker 1: see like Auntie, I don't really hell no, I would

1129
00:58:51,280 --> 00:58:53,520
Speaker 1: take would you be like, would you respect it? Would

1130
00:58:53,520 --> 00:58:56,920
Speaker 1: you be like you'd be like, first of all, where

1131
00:58:56,960 --> 00:58:59,000
Speaker 1: they even get to that place where guy's telling me no,

1132
00:58:59,520 --> 00:59:02,880
Speaker 1: that means not ignore like four million red flags right away,

1133
00:59:03,240 --> 00:59:05,919
Speaker 1: and that's just not good happened. So you're not gonna

1134
00:59:05,920 --> 00:59:07,360
Speaker 1: get to a place where you ever tell me now

1135
00:59:07,360 --> 00:59:10,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna peep that way. But it's good when guys

1136
00:59:10,280 --> 00:59:12,560
Speaker 1: don't go to her like that's so dope. When they

1137
00:59:12,680 --> 00:59:14,800
Speaker 1: like take you out, they don't try to come inside

1138
00:59:14,840 --> 00:59:18,280
Speaker 1: the house, they're not doing too much. They call you

1139
00:59:18,440 --> 00:59:20,479
Speaker 1: and they really like, for real, date you and don't

1140
00:59:20,840 --> 00:59:24,520
Speaker 1: try to be slick. Yeah, that's real. That's like amazing.

1141
00:59:24,680 --> 00:59:27,160
Speaker 1: My relationship that I'm in now started out like that.

1142
00:59:27,400 --> 00:59:29,480
Speaker 1: Like he spent a lot of time just like hanging out.

1143
00:59:29,600 --> 00:59:31,960
Speaker 1: He never tried me. It was actually me that like

1144
00:59:32,280 --> 00:59:36,080
Speaker 1: initiated our first time happens that we're gonna sunk away. Yeah,

1145
00:59:36,880 --> 00:59:39,720
Speaker 1: I feel like that's how it should be though, I mean, listen,

1146
00:59:39,720 --> 00:59:42,160
Speaker 1: I mean I'm a woman, I'm an advocate advocate for us.

1147
00:59:42,560 --> 00:59:45,520
Speaker 1: We should always be in control. Sorry always, but we

1148
00:59:45,560 --> 00:59:48,240
Speaker 1: should always be in control. Like you know, we know

1149
00:59:48,360 --> 00:59:50,920
Speaker 1: what it is that we want, but it's a it's

1150
00:59:50,960 --> 00:59:53,360
Speaker 1: a collaborative vibe thing, you know what I mean, Like

1151
00:59:53,760 --> 00:59:56,800
Speaker 1: like I said, make us feel good. We know working

1152
00:59:56,880 --> 00:59:59,960
Speaker 1: with someone goes but you know I has a wrote

1153
01:00:00,080 --> 01:00:08,320
Speaker 1: lex but listen seven are you gonna go on tour

1154
01:00:08,480 --> 01:00:11,720
Speaker 1: or what's happening? Yes? So TO will be next year

1155
01:00:11,880 --> 01:00:14,680
Speaker 1: towards next year. This year, it's just all about you know,

1156
01:00:14,720 --> 01:00:16,640
Speaker 1: it's been a little minute. You know, it's I gave

1157
01:00:17,040 --> 01:00:19,520
Speaker 1: fans music and um, it had a lot to do.

1158
01:00:19,600 --> 01:00:21,320
Speaker 1: I had to, I say all the time, I live

1159
01:00:21,400 --> 01:00:24,080
Speaker 1: my life before I write that. It's very very important.

1160
01:00:24,480 --> 01:00:25,960
Speaker 1: So I had to live my life. I had to

1161
01:00:26,320 --> 01:00:30,240
Speaker 1: you know, deal with with family things, deal with um,

1162
01:00:30,560 --> 01:00:33,000
Speaker 1: you know, going from being independent to being you know,

1163
01:00:33,120 --> 01:00:34,760
Speaker 1: I mean going to be at a label to being

1164
01:00:34,800 --> 01:00:39,120
Speaker 1: independent and learning so much and then on top of that,

1165
01:00:39,240 --> 01:00:42,200
Speaker 1: it's just like just as a woman like I just

1166
01:00:42,960 --> 01:00:46,080
Speaker 1: I feel so powerful. It's kind of scary at the moment,

1167
01:00:46,560 --> 01:00:49,000
Speaker 1: but it's new and it feels great and it's um,

1168
01:00:49,400 --> 01:00:51,640
Speaker 1: it's been a learning on myself and so you know,

1169
01:00:52,000 --> 01:00:55,120
Speaker 1: I'm here for every last bit of it. And first

1170
01:00:55,120 --> 01:00:56,800
Speaker 1: of all, I can't deal with the smiles over here.

1171
01:00:58,440 --> 01:01:10,080
Speaker 1: He was over here filming you like sober thoughts? Yes,

1172
01:01:10,200 --> 01:01:11,920
Speaker 1: I love it listening to her. Now, what about you?

1173
01:01:12,240 --> 01:01:15,480
Speaker 1: What's happening? You know you've been doing your acting teams. Yeah,

1174
01:01:15,480 --> 01:01:17,760
Speaker 1: I've been blessed to the whole thing. You know, Uh,

1175
01:01:18,080 --> 01:01:19,600
Speaker 1: to just keep moving. I was one of the first

1176
01:01:19,640 --> 01:01:21,880
Speaker 1: comedians out because my name is actually I know everybody

1177
01:01:21,880 --> 01:01:23,600
Speaker 1: coming rip Michaels, but if you look at it's actually

1178
01:01:23,680 --> 01:01:28,760
Speaker 1: ripped Mike Heels. It's yes, because where I came into

1179
01:01:28,800 --> 01:01:30,960
Speaker 1: comedy because I would realized I had the ability my

1180
01:01:31,120 --> 01:01:33,200
Speaker 1: grandmother died. I realized the actibility to make people laugh.

1181
01:01:33,360 --> 01:01:34,720
Speaker 1: So I used my laughter and I make a lot

1182
01:01:34,720 --> 01:01:36,880
Speaker 1: of jokes to make people feel better. Because a lot

1183
01:01:36,880 --> 01:01:38,440
Speaker 1: of people to come to my shows, they have a

1184
01:01:38,480 --> 01:01:41,160
Speaker 1: lot going on, have all kinds of different things. People

1185
01:01:41,160 --> 01:01:42,920
Speaker 1: don't suspended life. You just got out of jail. So

1186
01:01:43,040 --> 01:01:45,240
Speaker 1: always if I can just take a little bit of

1187
01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:47,320
Speaker 1: that away and just take you to another place, and

1188
01:01:47,400 --> 01:01:49,160
Speaker 1: that's where my name is, and it makes you feel

1189
01:01:49,200 --> 01:01:51,400
Speaker 1: better too, That's what That's what energizes me. That's what

1190
01:01:51,520 --> 01:01:53,440
Speaker 1: keeps me moving. That's why I do comedy. So when

1191
01:01:53,480 --> 01:01:55,040
Speaker 1: the whole pandemic happened, I was one of the first

1192
01:01:55,040 --> 01:01:57,040
Speaker 1: comedies to go out and de raid. Everybody seems like

1193
01:01:57,040 --> 01:01:59,640
Speaker 1: you're doing comedy. I'm like, this is my job. Not

1194
01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:01,800
Speaker 1: it's not a first responder, but if you got a

1195
01:02:01,880 --> 01:02:04,000
Speaker 1: stage and I could do it, I to every comedy

1196
01:02:04,040 --> 01:02:06,120
Speaker 1: club and doing it. And so I've just been blessed

1197
01:02:06,240 --> 01:02:08,640
Speaker 1: and I just opened up my own first black owned

1198
01:02:08,640 --> 01:02:11,200
Speaker 1: comedy club. I even turned my restaurant Stars and Ball

1199
01:02:11,360 --> 01:02:13,480
Speaker 1: into a full fledged comedy club because we don't have

1200
01:02:13,600 --> 01:02:15,800
Speaker 1: that in Long Island. And I actually pay the comedians

1201
01:02:15,840 --> 01:02:17,560
Speaker 1: like they're supposed to be paid and giving them the

1202
01:02:17,720 --> 01:02:19,600
Speaker 1: entire door, not these door deals when you get seventy

1203
01:02:19,680 --> 01:02:22,240
Speaker 1: thirty and they take the entire bar and they make

1204
01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:24,919
Speaker 1: fifty thousand off the bar and don't give you any

1205
01:02:24,960 --> 01:02:26,840
Speaker 1: proceeds or any liquors. So I make sure you have

1206
01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:28,680
Speaker 1: an artist. I do that for my other artists, and

1207
01:02:28,720 --> 01:02:31,200
Speaker 1: then that turned in for me having my own show

1208
01:02:31,240 --> 01:02:33,480
Speaker 1: on NBC. So big shout out to Kevin Harp, executive

1209
01:02:33,480 --> 01:02:35,560
Speaker 1: produce my own show, Urban Eats and treats where I

1210
01:02:35,600 --> 01:02:38,200
Speaker 1: go around and I saw these black businesses and minority

1211
01:02:38,200 --> 01:02:39,880
Speaker 1: own business because I say minority a lot, because we

1212
01:02:39,960 --> 01:02:42,640
Speaker 1: all minorities and say that word a lot and enghops us.

1213
01:02:42,680 --> 01:02:44,959
Speaker 1: We don't separate ourselves like I'm black, you're white, I'm miss,

1214
01:02:44,960 --> 01:02:48,800
Speaker 1: I'm that. We're just minorities. That's what I'm saying. We

1215
01:02:48,920 --> 01:02:51,560
Speaker 1: become that. So Urban Eason treats with me just taking

1216
01:02:51,560 --> 01:02:54,200
Speaker 1: all my friends and going to all the restaurants that

1217
01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:56,000
Speaker 1: they used to go to and that they supporting the

1218
01:02:56,080 --> 01:02:59,120
Speaker 1: hood and bringing awareness to this business. Like I took Shack,

1219
01:02:59,160 --> 01:03:01,000
Speaker 1: he took me to his favorite strine and Nick Can

1220
01:03:01,200 --> 01:03:03,200
Speaker 1: took me to his favorite restaurant and and it's chopping

1221
01:03:03,280 --> 01:03:04,880
Speaker 1: up and it's funny. So I did that, and they

1222
01:03:04,960 --> 01:03:07,400
Speaker 1: picked it up for a full season sixteen episodes, and

1223
01:03:07,480 --> 01:03:09,560
Speaker 1: they're gonna ren it for another Sea comes out in October.

1224
01:03:09,880 --> 01:03:12,040
Speaker 1: And if you look at what I'm doing now, um,

1225
01:03:12,400 --> 01:03:14,760
Speaker 1: I just I'm bringing the fallback comedy in the middle

1226
01:03:14,800 --> 01:03:17,000
Speaker 1: of a pandemic. I took all my friends and I'm

1227
01:03:17,000 --> 01:03:19,600
Speaker 1: taking them to the Barclay Center and were in DC Chicago,

1228
01:03:19,680 --> 01:03:21,840
Speaker 1: and it's you know, just making people laughing. I make

1229
01:03:21,880 --> 01:03:23,360
Speaker 1: it reasonable for everybody to go. I keep I taket

1230
01:03:23,440 --> 01:03:27,000
Speaker 1: like thirty dollars so you can see me that happened here,

1231
01:03:27,120 --> 01:03:31,920
Speaker 1: not in the rest. You gotta be vaccinated or show

1232
01:03:32,400 --> 01:03:37,160
Speaker 1: a negative not negative, just show that you legally or

1233
01:03:37,520 --> 01:03:40,520
Speaker 1: uh spirit of doctor. Doctors know saying why you can't

1234
01:03:40,520 --> 01:03:42,320
Speaker 1: because a lot of people have a vaccination shop but

1235
01:03:42,360 --> 01:03:44,360
Speaker 1: they can't get it because they're allergic to the medicines

1236
01:03:44,360 --> 01:03:46,440
Speaker 1: inside of it, and a lot of because of religious leasing.

1237
01:03:46,560 --> 01:03:48,080
Speaker 1: So now they have to allow you to have that

1238
01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:50,640
Speaker 1: that doctors know that that thing from your religious reason,

1239
01:03:50,720 --> 01:03:52,640
Speaker 1: you can bring that now, So that's changing. But that's

1240
01:03:52,680 --> 01:03:54,680
Speaker 1: something positive that you know, because some people are just

1241
01:03:54,720 --> 01:03:57,760
Speaker 1: allergic to it. And you know. Now I'm the comedy producer,

1242
01:03:57,800 --> 01:04:00,640
Speaker 1: the head comedy producer for the Nick Cannon Show, writing

1243
01:04:00,680 --> 01:04:08,880
Speaker 1: all this stuff in the nearratus for that. So I'm

1244
01:04:08,920 --> 01:04:10,800
Speaker 1: trying just trying to keep, you know, providing things in

1245
01:04:11,160 --> 01:04:14,080
Speaker 1: and giving back. That's what I've been about this whole journey,

1246
01:04:14,120 --> 01:04:15,880
Speaker 1: and me giving back to everybody because I've been so

1247
01:04:16,040 --> 01:04:17,840
Speaker 1: blessed to raise my door in this business. Because we

1248
01:04:17,880 --> 01:04:19,800
Speaker 1: came New York homeless. I'm from Chicago, so we were

1249
01:04:19,880 --> 01:04:21,480
Speaker 1: leading in the streets, my daughters, all the whole thing,

1250
01:04:21,520 --> 01:04:23,480
Speaker 1: giving our flyers. So I'm at a point now where

1251
01:04:23,480 --> 01:04:25,760
Speaker 1: it's where the health, whether it's mental, whether it's with

1252
01:04:25,880 --> 01:04:28,800
Speaker 1: my business. I try to continually give back to everything,

1253
01:04:28,840 --> 01:04:30,480
Speaker 1: and I bring my friends with me and I make like,

1254
01:04:30,520 --> 01:04:32,280
Speaker 1: listen little to all, we're gonna do this show because

1255
01:04:32,280 --> 01:04:34,360
Speaker 1: I don't want to We're gonna do we all were

1256
01:04:34,360 --> 01:04:40,360
Speaker 1: gonna do this show. Didn't do it like that. That's

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Speaker 1: Paul County, don't get it twisted. But then I love shout.

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Speaker 1: I gonna see him. Uh do voll dcng fly Brandon T.

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Speaker 1: Jacks from Lot of Takeing, Speaky Hey put over thirteen commedis,

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Speaker 1: and I put rappers when I got bust the rhymes

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Speaker 1: to change gross show. So you know, it's just been

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Speaker 1: me blessing and being able to to bless people, like

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Speaker 1: even if you look at the wild now too. I

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Speaker 1: started that the entire tour, and that conversation came from

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Speaker 1: Nick Cannon. Actually we were sitting on stage and he

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Speaker 1: was watching I think was Cat Williams, and he was like,

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Speaker 1: I always wish I could sell out arenas. I was like,

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Speaker 1: well you, Nick Cannon, you can't. I don't sell out arenas.

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Speaker 1: I was like, dude, that's what your dream is. You've

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Speaker 1: looked out for me so much, you put me I

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Speaker 1: will I will create a platform for you to sell

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Speaker 1: our arenas. I will create that. And two months later

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Speaker 1: I took it to Amazon and Queens. I did it

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Speaker 1: there and we did two shows back to back, and

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Speaker 1: the agents from ICM at the time, I was like, look,

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Speaker 1: it could be a tour and they told me these

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Speaker 1: people don't matter. And I was like what And it

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Speaker 1: was like no, this is not a real audience. And

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Speaker 1: I was like, but they're paying people to hard working people.

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Speaker 1: This does not count. And I never that hurt me

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Speaker 1: so bad. The next day I went and booked all

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Speaker 1: the arenas and so I started setting out arena after

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Speaker 1: arena and d C. I broke a record and I

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Speaker 1: did two shows and one night did it seventeen thousand,

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Speaker 1: five hundred people at Capital One. I did twelve tho

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Speaker 1: at the Show Palace Arena and one night and broke

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Speaker 1: the record of having two shows and one night FBI

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Speaker 1: escort just like I have a record. I was number

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Speaker 1: two and Post Star that year. So it's just been

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Speaker 1: a blessing to be able to give it that. Somebody

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Speaker 1: tell you know, you'd be like, all right that. So

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Speaker 1: once you told me that was a rena after men

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Speaker 1: and sold out after that, I was like, you never

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Speaker 1: gonna tell me. The people amaz or don't matter because

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Speaker 1: they started here and you've probably been waiting more money

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Speaker 1: than if you would have went through them. And it

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Speaker 1: turned into this fifty city tour and selling other rings

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Speaker 1: all across the country, and it took you know, I

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Speaker 1: feel good to be able to take you know, part

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Speaker 1: of Wild Now, which is an institution that's like to

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Speaker 1: me Saturday Live. It's an institution where that's probably the

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Speaker 1: only one left where you know, a minority talent can

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Speaker 1: and the next Kevin Hearts and next Rid Michaels and

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Speaker 1: has a lot of stars and one time, one time,

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Speaker 1: one time. Yes, So listen, I'm well, congratulations on that.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. We love it. We try to come up

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Speaker 1: some more water. No, I just you know that's just

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Speaker 1: my My whole mission is like being I've been so blessed,

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Speaker 1: and I've been any really, I know we probably, but

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Speaker 1: I've just been so blessed and my whole mission since

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Speaker 1: the COVID thing I see in the mental the mental

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Speaker 1: health of people, and I see that when you look

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Speaker 1: And I'm trying to do whatever I can to help

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Speaker 1: heal that and bring whatever my platform is to to

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Speaker 1: to to to to soothe that and make people go

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't be none of this and putting in my

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Speaker 1: I love you so much. I love you to thank

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Speaker 1: you and thank you Judy for having this. It's very nice.

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