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Speaker 3: the song sung by wild barbaric birds, golding, massive jungle herds, juggernuts,

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Speaker 3: Hey, welcome to the Black Ouatis podcast, your host.

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Speaker 2: Rod and uh, you've.

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Speaker 3: Seen black panther yet? That's the universal black greeting for

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, we had a call. Did you enjoy

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Speaker 3: This is why we can't have nice things sho, He

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Speaker 3: This when we had our girl kokwe of the Molecules

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Speaker 3: less Melanie Great teaching is also a former representation that's

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Speaker 3: highly undervalued. Elizabeth says, great show guys, tvg DOT is

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Speaker 3: Thank you, Elizabeth, Thank you appreciate it.

438
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Speaker 2: It's time didn't just to say that. Thank you.

439
00:20:57,080 --> 00:21:00,240
Speaker 3: Sugar Pop says, please find that white people cover that

440
00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:02,960
Speaker 3: little pump song for your next white People news segment,

441
00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:05,280
Speaker 3: please and thank you. I don't even know how you

442
00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:09,119
Speaker 3: would find that shit that. I'll see what I can do.

443
00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:11,720
Speaker 3: Sim Simmer says, I had the flu and y'all have

444
00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:14,960
Speaker 3: tried to kill me several times this episode. When Karen

445
00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:17,879
Speaker 3: said stay white woman and die and Rod cracked up,

446
00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:21,000
Speaker 3: I had a coughing fit and had the pause episode

447
00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:26,520
Speaker 3: Lulu limit pants and Orange folded. Those jokes nearly killed me.

448
00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:28,480
Speaker 3: I have been so angry at the principal and I

449
00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:31,560
Speaker 3: so needed that lad to ease the pressure. Absolutely love

450
00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:35,120
Speaker 3: having Kochie on the show. I have been following her

451
00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:38,960
Speaker 3: on Twitter since twelve days and she is brilliant and delightful.

452
00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:42,040
Speaker 2: And she really is y'all. Yeah, she was fun. She

453
00:21:42,520 --> 00:21:44,560
Speaker 2: didn't even really quit us that show.

454
00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:47,160
Speaker 1: So I'm surprised. We normally get a few.

455
00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:50,119
Speaker 3: Quicks ms one, Ko says, and that little Pump character

456
00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:52,679
Speaker 3: is not black, but he quickly blamed the blacks for

457
00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:55,119
Speaker 3: robbing him, but people give him a pass though, shaking

458
00:21:55,119 --> 00:21:55,480
Speaker 3: my head.

459
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Speaker 2: I don't know anything about that.

460
00:21:57,080 --> 00:22:01,720
Speaker 3: Dude, he said, and I don't want to. Sometimes, by

461
00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:03,400
Speaker 3: the way, this happens all the time on social media.

462
00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:05,440
Speaker 3: Sometimes somebody will see me something, I'll be like, yeah,

463
00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:07,240
Speaker 3: I don't care. I didn't want to know about this,

464
00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:09,480
Speaker 3: and I'm gonna just know it, like I don't be

465
00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:10,960
Speaker 3: rude to it, but I'll just be like, I'm not

466
00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:13,480
Speaker 3: even clicking on this shit because it ain't worth it.

467
00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:15,720
Speaker 3: Y'all about to ruin the joke or the imagery or

468
00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:18,280
Speaker 3: whatever the illusion is behind the joke with the seriousness

469
00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:20,679
Speaker 3: of it, Like, Okay, that dude's a colonizer.

470
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Speaker 2: Cool, like moving on.

471
00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:26,080
Speaker 3: Even he says, hearing about that principle is no surprise.

472
00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:27,480
Speaker 3: I have a friend who used to be a vice

473
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Speaker 3: principal for a charter school in New York, and she

474
00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:32,480
Speaker 3: said that the principal, who was a white woman, seemed

475
00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:34,119
Speaker 3: to take the light on calling the police on the

476
00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:37,159
Speaker 3: kids for the slightest infraction. Not everyone was meant to

477
00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:38,920
Speaker 3: be an educator, And just because the school isn't in

478
00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:42,680
Speaker 3: the South, it doesn't mean the children are subject to racism.

479
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:44,480
Speaker 3: The poet was, do you think some people on the

480
00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:49,280
Speaker 3: left were duped by Russia's social media propaganda, because you know,

481
00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:53,800
Speaker 3: it came out that it wasn't just the Trump stuff.

482
00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:56,119
Speaker 3: They were kind of stoking the quote unquote both sides,

483
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Speaker 3: especially the extremes and.

484
00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:01,360
Speaker 2: Out of the Bernie Sanders.

485
00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:04,240
Speaker 3: Ship was uh supported from Russia's A lot of the

486
00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:10,480
Speaker 3: Hillary slander came from Russian propaganda. And my thing is,

487
00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:13,520
Speaker 3: everyone always looks at the Trump voters like, when are

488
00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:15,800
Speaker 3: y'all gonna finally wake up in the middle. I realize

489
00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:20,200
Speaker 3: Russia duped you, and they duped the GOP into supporting them,

490
00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:25,359
Speaker 3: And if y'all, y'all need to go ahead and and

491
00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:27,560
Speaker 3: and admit it, and then we can.

492
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Speaker 1: What and then what like nobody's gonna change their votes

493
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Speaker 1: and then what right?

494
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Speaker 3: But that's that's kind of the But I've heard that

495
00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:36,600
Speaker 3: a lot though, though, like, and then if y'all admit this,

496
00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:40,960
Speaker 3: then we can finally have a reckoning of what's what's

497
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Speaker 3: really going on.

498
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Speaker 1: But it doesn't work like that.

499
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Speaker 3: But I feel you, but but but but the Trump

500
00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:50,479
Speaker 3: people don't really back down from it, and everybody goes

501
00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:52,560
Speaker 3: So that's because that Trump people, they're stupid.

502
00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:57,760
Speaker 2: But my thing is, especially as of now, you know,

503
00:23:58,400 --> 00:23:59,600
Speaker 2: feel a bit vindicated.

504
00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:03,280
Speaker 3: But now we know that the fucking Russian people was

505
00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:05,679
Speaker 3: also manipulating a lot of people that were on the

506
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:11,120
Speaker 3: spectrum of they're both the same Jill Stein, Bernie, I'm

507
00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:15,600
Speaker 3: not gonna vote protest, vote those things. I don't expect

508
00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:19,480
Speaker 3: any of the fucking people on the left that that

509
00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,200
Speaker 3: failed for that shit to admit they failed for that shit.

510
00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:23,439
Speaker 3: I just don't expect them to.

511
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Speaker 1: You know.

512
00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:26,040
Speaker 2: I saw a couple of people on my page that

513
00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:28,000
Speaker 2: kind of said it. But even with.

514
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Speaker 3: Them, they were more sensible. I remember when they were like, yeah,

515
00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:35,200
Speaker 3: I actually I'm voting for Hillary just because I don't

516
00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 3: want Trump to win. I remember the people that were

517
00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:40,119
Speaker 3: kind of admitting it. It's like, well, you already had

518
00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:42,720
Speaker 3: kind of come around, though. I'm talking about people that

519
00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:45,439
Speaker 3: went down with the ship of I'm not voting and

520
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:46,000
Speaker 3: I don't give a.

521
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:48,720
Speaker 2: Fuck, we're gonna get a revolution. Where are they now?

522
00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:51,760
Speaker 2: You know? Are they are they going reading this shit?

523
00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:53,040
Speaker 2: Going damn? That kind of was me?

524
00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:55,440
Speaker 3: Are they just like fuck it, I'm too smart, I'm

525
00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 3: the most brilliant person. You guys are sheep and I'm not.

526
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:03,639
Speaker 3: You know, people call Hillary voters, especially black people's sheep. Well,

527
00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:05,399
Speaker 3: Russia wasn't telling me how to vote, though.

528
00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:08,199
Speaker 2: Dog, So who the sheep? You know me?

529
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:12,399
Speaker 3: Or you like a foreign power wants to destabilize up

530
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:15,800
Speaker 3: democracy and they're like, yeah, you're a sheep for trying

531
00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:18,080
Speaker 3: for not being okay with that, like whatever.

532
00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:22,400
Speaker 2: Man, anyway, yes they fail for it, or no, they wouldn't.

533
00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:22,919
Speaker 2: They wouldn't.

534
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:25,040
Speaker 3: They would have felt that way no matter what. So

535
00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:29,760
Speaker 3: basically they weren't like duped. They they would have always

536
00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:32,080
Speaker 3: kind of done whatever they were gonna do with their vote.

537
00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:34,400
Speaker 3: It had nothing to do with Russia. Thirty percent think

538
00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:40,360
Speaker 3: that that, hey, them people was gonna like support Bernie

539
00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:43,320
Speaker 3: or throw their vote away to Jill Stin or whatever

540
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:47,800
Speaker 3: the fuck anyway, period or seventy percent of our audience

541
00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:49,919
Speaker 3: says they think that those people kind of fail for

542
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:57,160
Speaker 3: it. It's a mixture, well seventy thirty. So yeah, Lakita says,

543
00:25:57,400 --> 00:25:59,199
Speaker 3: I had people around me trying to prove to me

544
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:02,040
Speaker 3: that Hillary was a murr and shit, yeah, all people

545
00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 3: who had Facebook.

546
00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:03,520
Speaker 2: I don't.

547
00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:05,440
Speaker 3: By the way, I started to feel like an anomaly

548
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:08,000
Speaker 3: in the hood. I found myself saying things like Hillary

549
00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:09,600
Speaker 3: is shown her work and Obama endorsed her.

550
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:11,800
Speaker 2: I had a friend who didn't vote at all. Yo.

551
00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:13,280
Speaker 2: The biggest impact that I.

552
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:15,320
Speaker 3: Think a lot of that propaganda had on the election

553
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:19,359
Speaker 3: is that black people could not be proud supporters of

554
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:23,359
Speaker 3: Hillary Clinton, right, And I don't have a problem with

555
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:26,439
Speaker 3: people who just genuinely were like, I don't feel proud

556
00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:29,639
Speaker 3: of supporting this woman. I like, if you genuinely felt

557
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:31,280
Speaker 3: that way, and it just you would have felt that

558
00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:32,960
Speaker 3: way no matter what, because I was very mad to

559
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:38,120
Speaker 3: vote myself, you know, but there had there were people

560
00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:41,160
Speaker 3: that worked on her campaign black women. There were people

561
00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:44,639
Speaker 3: that advise her campaign black women. There were people that

562
00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:49,480
Speaker 3: you know, had that that allied themselves with her campaign,

563
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:52,960
Speaker 3: that were other politicians and shit, and even they couldn't

564
00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:54,560
Speaker 3: really truly come out and be like, this is a

565
00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:59,520
Speaker 3: historical candidate, the most qualified person to run this office,

566
00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:02,480
Speaker 3: and it's a woman, and I should be able to

567
00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:05,520
Speaker 3: say I'm proud of her and I want her to win.

568
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:06,160
Speaker 2: Correct.

569
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:09,199
Speaker 3: But it's like everyone had to make a concession, and

570
00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:12,639
Speaker 3: it just tells you how big the fucking gag was

571
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 3: on everyone that everyone had to do the Well, listen,

572
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 3: I'm not saying that this was good.

573
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:18,200
Speaker 2: That was good.

574
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 3: People that support Trump just come out I like Trump,

575
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:23,280
Speaker 3: well he did this that, and the other well look

576
00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:25,800
Speaker 3: like he did that, but they don't have nothing to

577
00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:27,760
Speaker 3: do with this. And then they start telling you why

578
00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:29,359
Speaker 3: they don't like Hillary and that's it, you know, So

579
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:34,040
Speaker 3: like it was, it was kind of a different tenor

580
00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:36,880
Speaker 3: to the whole election in my opinion, Like I've never

581
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:39,240
Speaker 3: seen an election of the ones I've lived through.

582
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:41,080
Speaker 2: That's my first time seeing.

583
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:43,680
Speaker 3: It that way where people had to be like yeah,

584
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 3: but I mean yeah, okay, you know, for a candidate

585
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:51,440
Speaker 3: that was obviously qualified compared to a very unqualified candidate.

586
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:54,600
Speaker 3: So I feel like they kind of won the pr

587
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:59,399
Speaker 3: game before it even got started. By the way, I

588
00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:01,399
Speaker 3: started to feel like anominally in the hood myself that

589
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 3: I had a friend who didn't vote it all had

590
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:07,879
Speaker 3: the fuck. All I knew was that my friends who

591
00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:10,080
Speaker 3: had Facebook sounded crazy. The night of the election, I

592
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:12,399
Speaker 3: simultaneously thought, y'all did this, and the only good that

593
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:14,920
Speaker 3: could come from this is the activation that will cause

594
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:17,360
Speaker 3: cue the song We're not gonna take it. The activation

595
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:19,800
Speaker 3: swelled my heart, even though it can't last because people

596
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:20,320
Speaker 3: get tired.

597
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:22,720
Speaker 2: Wait, did I can see a question? Yes, Liz fell

598
00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:27,919
Speaker 2: forward too. Yeah, I don't know. It's just sad to me,

599
00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:29,320
Speaker 2: It's more sad than anything.

600
00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:32,520
Speaker 1: Excuse me, right, Yes, sad and very disappointing.

601
00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:34,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I just don't expect people to admit it

602
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 3: no matter what happened. So anyway, sixteen to twenty one,

603
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:43,040
Speaker 3: the Nuance of Black Panther had an episode and the

604
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:44,760
Speaker 3: end we kind of spoiled it for Black Panther.

605
00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:47,840
Speaker 2: Uh, we talked spoilers, and shit, it's been a week.

606
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:50,360
Speaker 3: I don't know what the fuck the I did the

607
00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:54,080
Speaker 3: spoiler limited for people. But these these comments we got,

608
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:56,080
Speaker 3: eleven of them may have spoilers in them. So, like

609
00:28:56,320 --> 00:29:00,000
Speaker 3: you warned, Desiree says, I'm living in Japan. It's pure

610
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:02,440
Speaker 3: hell when you don't want to be spoiled. Movies usually

611
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 3: come out Japan anywhere from weeks to months after the

612
00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:07,360
Speaker 3: US release, so I have muted literally every character name

613
00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 3: I can think of, Wakanda, Black Panther, everything. I always

614
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 3: have to do this when the internet gets excited, saying

615
00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:14,800
Speaker 3: with podcasts, I read the description, so I don't I

616
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:16,720
Speaker 3: know I got to say this episode for another time

617
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:19,600
Speaker 3: or skip ahead or something. While I most definitely will

618
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:21,800
Speaker 3: complain about being spoiled, I'm not a weirdo, so I

619
00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 3: don't demand that people talk about stuff I want them to.

620
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 3: I don't like when people do it to me, so

621
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:27,800
Speaker 3: I don't do it to other folks, but you can

622
00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:30,240
Speaker 3: be damn sure. My mute list is ridiculous right now.

623
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 3: I can't see this movie until March first. Shit at

624
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:36,560
Speaker 3: the Black History and I miraculously remained unspoiled.

625
00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:38,400
Speaker 2: Only spoilers.

626
00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:40,280
Speaker 3: I've seen our names so far, and the rest are

627
00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 3: jokes that I don't understand because they have no context to.

628
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:49,000
Speaker 1: Me, hacuse me? And what's been funny, and social media

629
00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:52,000
Speaker 1: has even particularly Twitter has even made a running joke

630
00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 1: about how you drop shit and nobody knows the context,

631
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:59,320
Speaker 1: and those means have been hilarious because if you get

632
00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:01,560
Speaker 1: the context, you'll start laughing. You don't get the kind

633
00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:03,680
Speaker 1: of you be like, what the fuck they got them

634
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 1: old man sandals out there? And you know, so it

635
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:08,880
Speaker 1: has been actually hilarious. You made me think about that with.

636
00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:10,360
Speaker 2: The coming Baby. Yeah.

637
00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 3: I think it's the the hashtags spoiled Black Panther without something, so.

638
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:20,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, talk about when yeah, yeah, talking about when you

639
00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:23,520
Speaker 1: drop when you drop a line out spoiling there's something.

640
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:27,440
Speaker 3: That Black Panther spoiler without spoiling or something like that. Anyway, Oh, no,

641
00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:30,840
Speaker 3: Black Panthers spoil out of context. I think yesterday it anyway,

642
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:34,160
Speaker 3: I'm in trying uh Nord Dynamite says I'm in China,

643
00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:36,080
Speaker 3: and we don't get it till March night. So considering

644
00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:39,520
Speaker 3: yourself lucky Conda, good God, I think pretty smart, says

645
00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:42,680
Speaker 3: America loves ignore the overlap between law enforcement and racist

646
00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:45,280
Speaker 3: They are starting to see the overlap between abusive women

647
00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:47,920
Speaker 3: in law enforcement. It will be six years of Sundays

648
00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:50,400
Speaker 3: before they accept that we can't infiltrate a lot of

649
00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:53,080
Speaker 3: these race based terrorist groups because they're investigators, are members

650
00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:56,120
Speaker 3: of the groups they're supposed to investigate. Correct with regard

651
00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:58,520
Speaker 3: to not being seated at that spot, follow your intuition,

652
00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 3: society does a wonderful job of getting us a second guess.

653
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:01,520
Speaker 2: Intuition.

654
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:05,120
Speaker 3: I don't mean the ways in which fear causes unrealistic reactions.

655
00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 3: Female colonize, clutching their persons when the wakanda wakinda gets

656
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 3: in the elevator. I mean having a feeling you're being

657
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:14,720
Speaker 3: lied to without any hard evidence. Racists know exactly what

658
00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:18,160
Speaker 3: they're doing, because most better, most know better than to

659
00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 3: come out and say no, what KNDA is your money?

660
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:22,880
Speaker 3: And vi braining ain't want to hear Is it me

661
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 3: or is my brainer just another example of the lack

662
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 3: of creativity of colonizers. They create a shield for one man,

663
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:32,760
Speaker 3: otherwise only weaponizing it. Yet Wakanda has it in fabrics, medicine,

664
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 3: et cetera. You made an observation, not a criticism. Everyone

665
00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 3: doesn't understand words.

666
00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:41,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, it's just weird because I don't know.

667
00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:47,040
Speaker 3: I definitely felt some type of feeling that maybe that

668
00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:49,600
Speaker 3: shit was racist. But at the same time, I just

669
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:53,800
Speaker 3: part of it is I don't want to react, you know,

670
00:31:55,480 --> 00:31:57,520
Speaker 3: so I just didn't want to be that person.

671
00:31:57,560 --> 00:32:00,120
Speaker 2: And what a lot of people don't talk about is how.

672
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:07,520
Speaker 3: Even if you react to it, you're kind of it's

673
00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:08,640
Speaker 3: still ruining your night.

674
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:11,440
Speaker 2: It's still affecting you. You know, maybe you feel.

675
00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:13,640
Speaker 3: Some sort of justice of I call this person out.

676
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:16,240
Speaker 3: But my thing is like if I feel like you're

677
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:21,160
Speaker 3: being if I feel like you're being racist or something,

678
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:23,760
Speaker 3: then my immediately my first thought is like I don't

679
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:27,480
Speaker 3: want to eat here anyway, right right right, Like I'm

680
00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 3: not sitting at the kind of wool words like you're

681
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:31,480
Speaker 3: gonna serve me, I'm sitting up here, like why the

682
00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:32,840
Speaker 3: fuck I want to eat racist.

683
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:35,200
Speaker 1: Food, right, you don't want my money? Yeah, Because like

684
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:38,200
Speaker 1: I said, is you know, both of those restaurants, whenever

685
00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:40,480
Speaker 1: they come up, I have this, I'm a second guess

686
00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:42,840
Speaker 1: it twice, Like do I really want to go again?

687
00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:44,160
Speaker 2: Yeah?

688
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 3: So I don't know, I think yeah, Like I'm not

689
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 3: trying to to to to excuse it, is what I'm saying.

690
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:57,760
Speaker 3: Don't think that I'm saying it was okay. I'm just

691
00:32:57,800 --> 00:33:00,440
Speaker 3: saying like in that moment, I'm just in there in

692
00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:03,800
Speaker 3: my fucking like I'm rooming for everybody black shirt, Like,

693
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:06,720
Speaker 3: do I really feel like dealing with this?

694
00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:07,520
Speaker 2: Yeah?

695
00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:10,280
Speaker 1: My fro was all puffed out in my ear un

696
00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 1: African ear rings and whatever the hell I had on.

697
00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:14,280
Speaker 1: Like we was all in there.

698
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:16,440
Speaker 2: I'm black, y'all, I'm black, y'all.

699
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:18,000
Speaker 1: I'm black, and I'm black y'all.

700
00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:19,600
Speaker 2: That's all she's seen. We walk through the door.

701
00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, we've gone to that place before, just not dressed

702
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 3: that way. Never had a problem getting a seat or anything.

703
00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:28,800
Speaker 3: You know, We've gone at different times of the day.

704
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:32,040
Speaker 3: I don't you know, But the whole point was, you know,

705
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 3: as far as OS concerned, everything about that place is ruined.

706
00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:36,880
Speaker 2: That for the moment.

707
00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:39,520
Speaker 3: So, uh, I think, as far says, came back to say,

708
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 3: I'm noticing the trend. A lot of people who would

709
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:44,000
Speaker 3: rather be killed Marker have an underline belief that there

710
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:46,280
Speaker 3: are only two choices, colonized or the colonized.

711
00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:49,120
Speaker 1: Correct, So they have no problem with him with his.

712
00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:50,760
Speaker 2: Long game of colonizing the world.

713
00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:52,840
Speaker 3: But they have to there have to, but there have

714
00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 3: to be several additional options. What I've suggested it, Uh,

715
00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:59,880
Speaker 3: they want no parts of it. Coincidentally, they're all being.

716
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 1: Right right, mm hmm, don't say yeah.

717
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:10,160
Speaker 3: I think also a big part of that is that

718
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:14,439
Speaker 3: people not paying attention to the kill because I've even

719
00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:17,840
Speaker 3: seen people who were trying to like admonished the 'challa,

720
00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 3: ad it monus kill Manger, and they'll say, well to'challa

721
00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:26,200
Speaker 3: only listened to kill Manga after they have fault, and

722
00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:27,479
Speaker 3: I was like, he didn't listen to them.

723
00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:30,080
Speaker 2: You listening to the kid. None of that ship was

724
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 2: kill Marga's idea. All that shit was.

725
00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:34,680
Speaker 3: The kid literally tells you in the beginning of the film,

726
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:36,040
Speaker 3: this what the fuck you need to do?

727
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:36,959
Speaker 2: That's it.

728
00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:40,680
Speaker 3: Our t chick said, I mean, our tic chick says

729
00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:43,920
Speaker 3: this was such a great discussion of your views. At

730
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:45,520
Speaker 3: the ment, I considered it. They put it out of

731
00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 3: my mind for whatever reason. However, I'm watching a video

732
00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:50,960
Speaker 3: Coogler breakdown that casino fight scene. I have a misrespect

733
00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:52,760
Speaker 3: for their amoutter of thought he put into this movie.

734
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:54,960
Speaker 2: You're doing exactly what he wants. That struck me.

735
00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:57,399
Speaker 3: What struck me about the movie was a subtle noze

736
00:34:57,400 --> 00:35:00,880
Speaker 3: the white privilege at the casino clause. Ratchet walk right

737
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 3: through the metal detect the heavily armed come out, but

738
00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 3: the Wakandans were I suspiciously. Also at the CIA black sided,

739
00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:09,720
Speaker 3: random white woman gave a derisive look to a Ka

740
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:13,440
Speaker 3: Koye and ta'challa. Here's a link to coolst video to

741
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:15,440
Speaker 3: watch a share later. Yeah, I seen that video.

742
00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:17,799
Speaker 2: That was cool. Yeah, I've seen that white woman.

743
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:19,680
Speaker 1: She was in the background, but I was like, yeah,

744
00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:20,920
Speaker 1: she looking at them that hard.

745
00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 3: Yeah at the video she said, I'm talking about. I

746
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 3: seen the video of the YouTube link you sent in

747
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:28,879
Speaker 3: this Coogler. It's ten minute video him breaking down the fighting,

748
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:29,680
Speaker 3: the casino scene.

749
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:30,200
Speaker 2: It's dope.

750
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:33,560
Speaker 3: Falcons Steven says, I don't understand people get mad about

751
00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:35,719
Speaker 3: spoilers I knew to stay on social media until I

752
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:38,480
Speaker 3: saw the movie, so from Friday to Sunday, I avoided Twitter, only.

753
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:40,040
Speaker 2: Made peaks at Facebook.

754
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:42,080
Speaker 3: Even that was a mistake because I saw two posts

755
00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 3: that weren't necessarily spoilers, but made it so I didn't

756
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:46,120
Speaker 3: enjoy the lines in the movies as much as I

757
00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 3: would have.

758
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:49,640
Speaker 2: I didn't see the post. Similarly, I stay on social.

759
00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:52,279
Speaker 3: Media during TG I t at any other group watch

760
00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:55,960
Speaker 3: show because I only watched Sports Live. Yeah you want

761
00:35:55,960 --> 00:36:01,000
Speaker 3: know it's funny. We went to Seattle to see UH

762
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:06,719
Speaker 3: to be in UH that podcorn. We couldn't watch Walking Dead.

763
00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:09,840
Speaker 3: We were also three hours behind everybody who was watching

764
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:12,680
Speaker 3: and walking down the East Coast. I didn't get spoiled

765
00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:14,840
Speaker 3: because I just turned my fucking shit off and was like,

766
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:17,160
Speaker 3: I'm not looking at this, you know what I mean?

767
00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:19,600
Speaker 3: And this is a course of even bigger event. But

768
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:22,480
Speaker 3: the point being like you have to take some personal

769
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:24,680
Speaker 3: level of responsibility because you know you're taking a risk

770
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:27,240
Speaker 3: every time you log on social media and being upset

771
00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:29,440
Speaker 3: at people for being humans and wanting to be excited

772
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:33,400
Speaker 3: and talk about the things that that moved them, Like

773
00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:35,640
Speaker 3: fuck you, you know what I mean?

774
00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:36,799
Speaker 2: To a certain thing.

775
00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:40,600
Speaker 3: Like someone told me yesterday like spoiler some of us

776
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:42,799
Speaker 3: is broke as fuck, and it's been and we haven't

777
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:44,600
Speaker 3: seen the movie. I was like, I don't know, it's

778
00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:47,560
Speaker 3: been over a week and I'm gonna talk you know what, Block,

779
00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:49,799
Speaker 3: You'll never see a spoiler for me again. Fuck it,

780
00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:53,480
Speaker 3: like it's just not worth fighting about. Dog Like, sorry

781
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:56,319
Speaker 3: that you haven't seen it yet, but if you, if

782
00:36:56,360 --> 00:36:58,720
Speaker 3: you're really looking at all of Twitter, like I expect

783
00:36:58,760 --> 00:36:59,680
Speaker 3: y'all to cater to me.

784
00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:01,520
Speaker 2: That's not how people work.

785
00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:04,160
Speaker 3: And I took that risk every time I watch something

786
00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:06,759
Speaker 3: that could get spoiled and I've dealt with it, and

787
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:08,720
Speaker 3: you know what else, I don't do bitch and complain

788
00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:10,840
Speaker 3: go on people's mentions about it. It's just it's not

789
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:15,600
Speaker 3: a big deal. Falcons Dever says, Also, I'm so upset

790
00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:17,120
Speaker 3: you guys had to endo that racism. Might have to

791
00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:18,920
Speaker 3: go and see Black Panther. It's like you come away

792
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 3: from the beauty of a Conda back to reality as America.

793
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:25,040
Speaker 3: Come on, That's why the movie is so resonates with

794
00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:27,480
Speaker 3: people so much, because it's actual black escapism.

795
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:29,040
Speaker 1: Yes it is.

796
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:32,080
Speaker 3: I'm plan to go back to the Beauty with Conda

797
00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:34,200
Speaker 3: this weekend. The man has had his foot on my

798
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:37,239
Speaker 3: neck all this week. I need to get away. Ah yeah,

799
00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:38,240
Speaker 3: I've seen it three times.

800
00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:39,160
Speaker 2: So far, so good.

801
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:42,799
Speaker 3: Prop Curry says, I've been Lush a Lush fair for

802
00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:45,120
Speaker 3: a while because of the kinds of organizations they support

803
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:49,920
Speaker 3: with charity pot. This new trans initiative is fabulous just

804
00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:52,680
Speaker 3: because I mean, just became even more loyal customer. Thanks

805
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 3: for sharing.

806
00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:57,040
Speaker 1: I don't know problem and it is a wonderful product.

807
00:37:57,280 --> 00:38:00,759
Speaker 3: Lush is great and we finally got some good news,

808
00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:02,040
Speaker 3: you know what I mean.

809
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:04,680
Speaker 2: And I put it in the LGBTQ, so it.

810
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 1: Was the reason the party.

811
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:10,759
Speaker 2: Kyle says, I agree with you guys. This movie was

812
00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:11,359
Speaker 2: deep as hell.

813
00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 3: I love how the movie criticized the conn of forwarding resources.

814
00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 3: Simply put, this is a master class and adding layer's

815
00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:17,920
Speaker 3: in depth to your movie.

816
00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:19,840
Speaker 2: If I were a film student, I would watch this

817
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:20,439
Speaker 2: over and over.

818
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:21,479
Speaker 1: Yeah.

819
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:24,400
Speaker 2: The other thing I've noticed after the third time watching.

820
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:27,200
Speaker 3: It, they also just cut out all excess like right

821
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:30,480
Speaker 3: like I heard it. With the original run time was

822
00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:33,600
Speaker 3: four hours or so, like almost four hours. You can

823
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:36,040
Speaker 3: tell they just cut out everything that would possibly slow

824
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 3: the movie down everything, Like there was a scene where

825
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:42,960
Speaker 3: Koye is supposed to be talking to her love and

826
00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:44,920
Speaker 3: they're supposed to be debating this kill market shit, and

827
00:38:44,960 --> 00:38:48,200
Speaker 3: they just took it out, like they've done interviews.

828
00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:48,319
Speaker 2: They've talked about it.

829
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:49,560
Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, we just took it out because it

830
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:53,319
Speaker 3: slows the movie down and then it's ramping up to

831
00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:53,759
Speaker 3: the end.

832
00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:56,799
Speaker 2: And I was thinking, like most movies leave that.

833
00:38:56,800 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 1: In writing, you could kind of tell the conversation with

834
00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:03,719
Speaker 1: actually happened, because you know, he made a comment and

835
00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 1: she just looked at him and not trying funny. That

836
00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:09,080
Speaker 1: was enough for me to go, oh, nigga, she don't

837
00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:12,759
Speaker 1: agree with you, and then we moved on. Versus you

838
00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:15,040
Speaker 1: could say, okay, I could have seen them having a

839
00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:16,600
Speaker 1: debate and that would have been her look at the

840
00:39:16,680 --> 00:39:17,200
Speaker 1: end of their.

841
00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:18,520
Speaker 2: Conversation, right.

842
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:22,520
Speaker 3: So I just thought that was kind of interesting because

843
00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:24,200
Speaker 3: you can I can't wait to get the Blu ray

844
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:26,239
Speaker 3: and see what all it cut out, because you can

845
00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 3: just tell certain stuff is in there. But they must

846
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:32,120
Speaker 3: have said nah that like we don't need to take

847
00:39:32,120 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 3: it that far.

848
00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:35,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, And also you can tell that they took a

849
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:39,080
Speaker 1: lot of shit out because people fail to realize Black

850
00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:42,960
Speaker 1: women's faces can speak a thousand words by themselves, like

851
00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 1: the way eyes are cut, the way lips frown up,

852
00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 1: the way eyebrows go up or down. A frown can

853
00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:52,680
Speaker 1: speak a zillion words. You go, okay, I know how

854
00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:56,480
Speaker 1: you feel. Let's move on. So ain't nothing. You don't

855
00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 1: got to say no words.

856
00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:02,560
Speaker 3: I just picture the editing room now, like, all right,

857
00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:05,120
Speaker 3: we got this scene where Akoye talks to.

858
00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:10,440
Speaker 2: Talks to what's his name, Wabaki or whatever his name?

859
00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:10,759
Speaker 6: Uh?

860
00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:13,960
Speaker 2: Oh not? Why can't I remember his name now? W Kiwi?

861
00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:17,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, when he talks to him, and we okay, just

862
00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:19,399
Speaker 3: cut that out and have her just cut this part

863
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:21,960
Speaker 3: where she looks at him during the meeting, which.

864
00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:24,840
Speaker 2: Is it says that she's talked to that nigga, like okay, cool.

865
00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:27,080
Speaker 1: It's saying she disagrees. All right, let's let's truck it.

866
00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:27,640
Speaker 2: Let's move on.

867
00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:30,400
Speaker 3: Amani says, it's always funny to hear people praise the

868
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:32,719
Speaker 3: work of art for his depth of thought and then

869
00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:36,400
Speaker 3: getting mad when people engage with it critically. It really

870
00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:41,680
Speaker 3: is really like, that's the thing. I have certain things.

871
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:44,520
Speaker 3: I think it was Leshanda, who are the doctor who

872
00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:48,200
Speaker 3: I saw on Facebook, who described it perfectly at how

873
00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:51,239
Speaker 3: I feel. Sometimes sometimes I look at something I get

874
00:40:51,239 --> 00:40:53,560
Speaker 3: what I get from it. I'd actually say most of

875
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:55,759
Speaker 3: the time, actually I get what I get from it,

876
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 3: and I actually don't want to talk to nobody about it, right.

877
00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:00,880
Speaker 3: I don't need you to come in and true with

878
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:02,720
Speaker 3: your opinion. I don't need you to try to explain

879
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:05,480
Speaker 3: it to me. I don't need you to criticize it

880
00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:08,239
Speaker 3: and tell me how it's not perfect or whatever. I'm

881
00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:10,919
Speaker 3: capable of reaching, capable of reaching those conclusions on my own.

882
00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:14,840
Speaker 3: But sometimes escapism for some of us is literally escapism.

883
00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:17,800
Speaker 3: We don't want to then talk about the real world

884
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:19,160
Speaker 3: and how this reflects everything.

885
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:22,040
Speaker 2: Nope, I understand that, and more often than.

886
00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:26,160
Speaker 3: Not, that's how I feel this movie. And that doesn't

887
00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:28,160
Speaker 3: mean that I don't think deep thoughts about it and stuff.

888
00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:31,839
Speaker 2: It doesn't mean that I don't even consider what you said. Yeah,

889
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:33,399
Speaker 2: I'm not even talking about that part.

890
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:36,200
Speaker 3: I'm saying, just before we get to what other people say,

891
00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:38,920
Speaker 3: I'm saying within myself.

892
00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:40,200
Speaker 2: A lot of times, I'm like, oh, I.

893
00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 3: Noticed this thing, and I know it's that thing, and

894
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:43,960
Speaker 3: I see how people give you this that way, but

895
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:46,920
Speaker 3: I also don't feel like talking about it. It's okay.

896
00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 3: I don't have a responsibility. I don't owe it to

897
00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:51,560
Speaker 3: anybody to give them a discussion. No, I'm just a

898
00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:54,719
Speaker 3: human being. Sometimes people hit me up with like, hey man,

899
00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:56,400
Speaker 3: I saw this thing, what about that? It's like, you

900
00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:58,320
Speaker 3: don't got to hit me up with that, fam We're good,

901
00:41:58,520 --> 00:42:02,400
Speaker 3: you know, Like, ain't no shade to you at all, Like,

902
00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:05,480
Speaker 3: completely understand your point of view, dog, But I just

903
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 3: personally don't even want to, like have to debate something

904
00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:08,720
Speaker 3: that I enjoyed.

905
00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:10,200
Speaker 2: I just enjoyed it and that's it.

906
00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:15,080
Speaker 3: And I understand that this is a movie that I

907
00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:17,799
Speaker 3: did feel like talking about the depths of it, but

908
00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:21,439
Speaker 3: not necessarily engaging in a lot or back and forth

909
00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:24,759
Speaker 3: about it. If someone viewed it differently, I understand, and

910
00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:27,720
Speaker 3: I left it at that. But I put my opinion

911
00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:29,480
Speaker 3: out there and just leave it like this is how

912
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:32,560
Speaker 3: I felt about this, you know. And so it's like

913
00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:36,319
Speaker 3: a fine line because you can there are certain things

914
00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:38,239
Speaker 3: where I don't care and there are certain things where

915
00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:40,160
Speaker 3: I do, and nobody knows until I say so.

916
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:40,760
Speaker 1: Correct.

917
00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:43,839
Speaker 2: So I don't begrudge anybody for feeling a certain way.

918
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:49,759
Speaker 3: But it is odd when people get so upset that

919
00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:54,560
Speaker 3: other people are engaging a work of art critically because

920
00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:56,759
Speaker 3: it's like that was the purpose of the work of art.

921
00:42:56,800 --> 00:42:59,120
Speaker 3: You don't have to agree with the criticisms, and you

922
00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:01,160
Speaker 3: can feel like shit is a reach. There's people that

923
00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:03,480
Speaker 3: I saw reaching all over Black Panther to make points

924
00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:06,280
Speaker 3: that pretty much had nothing to do with the movie, correct,

925
00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:09,399
Speaker 3: And that's subjective. For me, I'm like, that's a reach.

926
00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:12,360
Speaker 3: Maybe somebody else reased the piece and nigger exactly, but

927
00:43:12,680 --> 00:43:14,520
Speaker 3: for me, a lot of it was a reach, you know.

928
00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:16,680
Speaker 3: But I just chose not to engage with those people,

929
00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:21,359
Speaker 3: right because they're entitled to their opinion. Almost the movie

930
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:23,200
Speaker 3: almost went out of his way to highlight the difference

931
00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:25,200
Speaker 3: between wanting to invert the order and become the new

932
00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:29,200
Speaker 3: oppressor versus a revolutionized I mean a revolution based in liberation.

933
00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:29,799
Speaker 2: Two.

934
00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:31,880
Speaker 3: Often black men stop at the first step and ignore

935
00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:34,000
Speaker 3: black women who are already on the second. But the

936
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:36,600
Speaker 3: fact so many people are fighting against the obvious message

937
00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:39,239
Speaker 3: his hit dogs, Soler and Rod talked about the time

938
00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:41,360
Speaker 3: that goes overlook. Winston Duke, the act who played on

939
00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:45,400
Speaker 3: Baku was has been acting for about a decade, but

940
00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:47,680
Speaker 3: this is his first movie he's been in. How long

941
00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:50,239
Speaker 3: did it take before Hollywood discovered Sterling K. Brown after

942
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:53,040
Speaker 3: that OJ series? Look at how Brian Tyree, Henry blew

943
00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:56,040
Speaker 3: up at the Paperboy, or Loorel and Tiffany Haddish.

944
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:58,520
Speaker 2: When we get a win like this, we all win.

945
00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:01,040
Speaker 3: But nah, I'm sure Google should have just stayed making

946
00:44:01,080 --> 00:44:03,799
Speaker 3: indie movies and not opening more doors for himself than

947
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:05,360
Speaker 3: anyone else he's been.

948
00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:06,960
Speaker 2: Putting on right.

949
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:10,000
Speaker 3: Bill Manti says, loved your guys commentary on Black Panther.

950
00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:11,719
Speaker 3: I've now seen the movie twice and I already can't

951
00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:13,960
Speaker 3: wait to go see it again. Nothing drove home the

952
00:44:14,000 --> 00:44:16,360
Speaker 3: movie's important to me more than seeing one of my

953
00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:18,799
Speaker 3: closest cousins say that what it meant to her seeing

954
00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:21,520
Speaker 3: dark skinned black women be so central in a major movie,

955
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:23,680
Speaker 3: as well as my grandma, who was eighty saying the

956
00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:25,800
Speaker 3: same thing after I took her to see it yesterday.

957
00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:28,680
Speaker 3: Me and my grandma also talked about the contrast between

958
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:30,640
Speaker 3: how to Child and Kill Margat treated women as you

959
00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:33,680
Speaker 3: guys did. I'll admit I was sympathized with Kill Margaret's

960
00:44:33,680 --> 00:44:35,080
Speaker 3: pain all the way to the very end of the

961
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:37,279
Speaker 3: movie the first time I saw it, even while still

962
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:38,920
Speaker 3: rooting for the child to take back is right for

963
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:41,680
Speaker 3: places the King of Wakonda. As Rod said, the best

964
00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 3: villains have great sympathetic stories that lead to their awfulness.

965
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:47,800
Speaker 2: With Eric, I think that the key.

966
00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:50,399
Speaker 3: Point to me is, yes, it's really fucked up how

967
00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:52,840
Speaker 3: they did you, and at the same time, you still

968
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:54,839
Speaker 3: gotta go because we don't want you to create more

969
00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:57,080
Speaker 3: niggas like you in the future, and we can learn

970
00:44:57,120 --> 00:44:59,640
Speaker 3: from the mistakes made that lead to led to how

971
00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:02,320
Speaker 3: toxic you ever come love The discussion is one of

972
00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:05,439
Speaker 3: the many reasons why she'll continue supporting you guys. Yo, Bill,

973
00:45:05,520 --> 00:45:07,399
Speaker 3: The thing I thought was the other thing I thought

974
00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:11,760
Speaker 3: it was funny. MSUs Spann said on Facebook. He was like, oh,

975
00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:14,279
Speaker 3: you know, kill Margaret was gonna send them weapons to

976
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:17,000
Speaker 3: uh to uh Setti.

977
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:18,120
Speaker 2: And Umar Johnson.

978
00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:24,200
Speaker 3: I was like, exactly, exactly, y'all think signing up with

979
00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:26,200
Speaker 3: this nigga, it's not the people y'all think.

980
00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:28,759
Speaker 1: You not the revolutionary people out there.

981
00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:30,960
Speaker 3: He not sending the Vibranian weapons to the to the

982
00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:35,560
Speaker 3: Black Lives Matter uh Quel black bem led revolution.

983
00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:36,960
Speaker 2: Said they ain't gonna get them weapons.

984
00:45:36,960 --> 00:45:38,840
Speaker 1: These ships is going straight to the ashes in.

985
00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:40,160
Speaker 2: The hotels, funk out of here.

986
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:44,360
Speaker 3: Oh but yeah, it was revolutionary in many ways.

987
00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:47,080
Speaker 2: And like I said, I hate.

988
00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:50,160
Speaker 3: To I'm not trying to demean or belittle or reduce

989
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:53,600
Speaker 3: Lapita Nago because obviously the kid was a great character,

990
00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:56,759
Speaker 3: but also how the fuck she been around this long?

991
00:45:56,800 --> 00:45:58,120
Speaker 3: And this is our first movie where we got to

992
00:45:58,160 --> 00:46:00,479
Speaker 3: just be like, what a beautiful woman come along?

993
00:46:00,680 --> 00:46:02,759
Speaker 2: You know, dark skin black women just don't get that.

994
00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:04,480
Speaker 3: Like I'm trying to think of the last movie I

995
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:06,439
Speaker 3: saw with a dark skinned black woman as a love

996
00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:09,760
Speaker 3: interest that wasn't also about quote unquote the struggle.

997
00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:10,320
Speaker 1: Come along?

998
00:46:10,960 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 2: You know, Like, so I'm gonna enjoy this moment, you

999
00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:14,239
Speaker 2: know what I mean.

1000
00:46:14,280 --> 00:46:16,839
Speaker 3: If people feel uncomfortable with it, they just gotta be uncomfortable.

1001
00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:19,040
Speaker 3: But you know, I enjoyed a movie where I got

1002
00:46:19,040 --> 00:46:21,600
Speaker 3: to be like, killoped fine ass every time that she

1003
00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:24,439
Speaker 3: came on screen, you know, in addition to being dope

1004
00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:26,719
Speaker 3: as fuck, but in a room full of dope, fine

1005
00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:30,880
Speaker 3: ass black people everywhere. You know, even he says, I'm

1006
00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:33,319
Speaker 3: sure you already know what Black Panther as a movie

1007
00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:34,840
Speaker 3: meant to me because it meant the same for a

1008
00:46:34,880 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 3: lot of black people around the world. I was never

1009
00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:38,640
Speaker 3: really in the comic books growing up, but I like

1010
00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:40,879
Speaker 3: comic book shows like The super Friends and Wonder Woman

1011
00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:42,720
Speaker 3: and Spider Man and even Incredible Hope.

1012
00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:44,640
Speaker 2: My only hero was wonder Woman, really, and.

1013
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:46,600
Speaker 3: When the X Men cartoons came out and Storm was

1014
00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:49,319
Speaker 3: my girl, but it wasn't but it still wasn't enough.

1015
00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:51,480
Speaker 3: Black Panther was like a breath of fresh air. Not

1016
00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:55,440
Speaker 3: only did it feel like my existence was validated. Not

1017
00:46:55,560 --> 00:46:57,920
Speaker 3: only that, but it felt like my existence was validated.

1018
00:46:58,080 --> 00:46:59,759
Speaker 3: There were several times in the movie where I had

1019
00:46:59,800 --> 00:47:01,560
Speaker 3: here in my eyes. And the best part is knowing

1020
00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:03,960
Speaker 3: the babies had this beautiful movie to look up to.

1021
00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:06,279
Speaker 3: When I was a kid and we play superheroes, I

1022
00:47:06,280 --> 00:47:08,160
Speaker 3: always had to either be Wonder Woman or the girl

1023
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:08,759
Speaker 3: Wonder Twin.

1024
00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:11,440
Speaker 2: And the Wonder Twin sucked, didn't they?

1025
00:47:11,719 --> 00:47:14,120
Speaker 3: Well, at least the Boy Twin now, yeah, the Boy

1026
00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:16,160
Speaker 3: Twin just turned the water and ice.

1027
00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:17,759
Speaker 2: And shit right now.

1028
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:20,000
Speaker 3: I wonder if that's all they can animate? Like, is

1029
00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:21,520
Speaker 3: that the way they doing that in the comics too?

1030
00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:22,319
Speaker 2: I don't remember them.

1031
00:47:22,239 --> 00:47:24,800
Speaker 1: In the comics guarantee you the technology, But I don't know.

1032
00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:26,879
Speaker 1: The cartoons came first with the comic come first. Comic

1033
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:29,120
Speaker 1: came first because sometimes things go out of order. But

1034
00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:31,319
Speaker 1: it's one of those things where that that time that

1035
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:32,719
Speaker 1: might have been like, well this is do all we

1036
00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:33,200
Speaker 1: could think of.

1037
00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:35,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, she'd be like he was like one of the

1038
00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:39,040
Speaker 3: twin powers activate shed like shape of a hawk, and

1039
00:47:39,080 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 3: then he'd be like shape of a bucket of ice.

1040
00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:45,520
Speaker 2: I'm like, what the fuck? What you got the whack powers?

1041
00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 7: Bro?

1042
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:49,160
Speaker 3: Now when little black kids get to the Black Panther

1043
00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:52,520
Speaker 3: killed Margo Koye and the kids. Sure, I'm I know

1044
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:55,560
Speaker 3: it's nobody's naming Wakabi as somebody that people want to be,

1045
00:47:56,120 --> 00:47:59,480
Speaker 3: although that the Wakabi tribe them Niggas did have some

1046
00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 3: dope ad as like capes whatever those were.

1047
00:48:02,719 --> 00:48:04,760
Speaker 1: Come on, you know what. I kept wondering too because

1048
00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:06,600
Speaker 1: it looks so hot. I was like, why is they

1049
00:48:06,640 --> 00:48:09,560
Speaker 1: wrapped up in them and them uh thuggies? You know,

1050
00:48:09,600 --> 00:48:11,480
Speaker 1: because I like to be wrapped up like that. But

1051
00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:13,319
Speaker 1: I was like, it's so hot. Why they But I

1052
00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:16,000
Speaker 1: was like, oh, it's a shield, I understand.

1053
00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:18,560
Speaker 3: But they also looked the dopest when they did the

1054
00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:21,080
Speaker 3: at the Waterfowl, they did the show the bouncing thing

1055
00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:24,279
Speaker 3: with them capes on that looks yes. I'm laughing at

1056
00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:26,120
Speaker 3: the thought of people not wanting to be Agent Ross.

1057
00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:29,200
Speaker 3: Even though little white kids won't want to be Agent Ross,

1058
00:48:29,400 --> 00:48:30,880
Speaker 3: they're all gonna want to be T'Challa.

1059
00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:33,560
Speaker 2: Maybe they can be kill Manga. I don't know, Come

1060
00:48:33,640 --> 00:48:34,640
Speaker 2: let us have a mixtape.

1061
00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:37,360
Speaker 1: Come on, and they was joking, but I want that

1062
00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:39,040
Speaker 1: mixtape too. I wont know what the fuck is. I

1063
00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:40,960
Speaker 1: bet it's flames on the lower y'all joking.

1064
00:48:41,120 --> 00:48:43,320
Speaker 2: I wonder if anybody's gonna be Uhbaku.

1065
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:47,040
Speaker 3: I think I all dress up as Inbaku and then

1066
00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:49,800
Speaker 3: have a friend, a white person dressed up as Agent Ross,

1067
00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:51,839
Speaker 3: and then to spend all of the Halloween party being

1068
00:48:51,960 --> 00:48:54,880
Speaker 3: like you cannot talk.

1069
00:48:55,000 --> 00:48:58,839
Speaker 2: Over and over to him. There's gonna be a lot

1070
00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:02,400
Speaker 2: of thembaccus. That being said, I really.

1071
00:49:02,200 --> 00:49:04,640
Speaker 1: Appreciate carrying some fake snow that he shakes around.

1072
00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:07,760
Speaker 3: That being said, I really appreciate your respective about kill Margaret.

1073
00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:09,280
Speaker 3: I thought I was the only one who was losing

1074
00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:11,480
Speaker 3: my mind about him as a character, because so many

1075
00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:13,640
Speaker 3: people were saying kill Marker should have been the king,

1076
00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:16,640
Speaker 3: and I was like, what, Sure he had some valid points,

1077
00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:18,319
Speaker 3: but kill Manga was not a good guy. I felt

1078
00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:20,920
Speaker 3: sympathetic for him as a child, but when he was

1079
00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:26,360
Speaker 3: an adult, pure trash. Yo, that's brilliant filmmaking. Coogler entered

1080
00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:30,760
Speaker 3: posing the child and Michael B. Jordan in that scene

1081
00:49:31,680 --> 00:49:36,080
Speaker 3: so fucking smart. It's so smart because it's right when

1082
00:49:36,120 --> 00:49:38,799
Speaker 3: you're losing sympathy for the dude, like, yo, fuck this dude,

1083
00:49:39,239 --> 00:49:41,160
Speaker 3: and then you go back to he's just a hurt

1084
00:49:41,200 --> 00:49:44,680
Speaker 3: little boy and you're like, I wish a nigga would

1085
00:49:44,680 --> 00:49:48,640
Speaker 3: have invented a time machine went back and hugged this motherfucker.

1086
00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:51,880
Speaker 1: I was like, baby, can I adopt you? What is

1087
00:49:52,040 --> 00:49:54,200
Speaker 1: happening here? I don't want you to beat his ass?

1088
00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:55,759
Speaker 1: She ass nigga has some lotion.

1089
00:49:55,640 --> 00:49:58,200
Speaker 3: Baby, right, like he didn't have to be this way,

1090
00:49:58,239 --> 00:50:00,880
Speaker 3: And I felt like there was a sympathy there. But

1091
00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:03,800
Speaker 3: like with all human beings, there comes a time where

1092
00:50:04,040 --> 00:50:06,440
Speaker 3: it's like the little kid that's injured inside of you,

1093
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:09,680
Speaker 3: that's making you ask out in a certain way, you're

1094
00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:12,520
Speaker 3: not responsible for those actions as an adult, and nobody,

1095
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:14,840
Speaker 3: nobody can sit up here and carry that water for you.

1096
00:50:15,040 --> 00:50:15,400
Speaker 1: M M.

1097
00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:19,680
Speaker 3: Sure he has the valet points is not a good god,

1098
00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:23,120
Speaker 3: pure trash. He took too much delight and it's violence

1099
00:50:23,160 --> 00:50:25,279
Speaker 3: against women. And I'm glad you pointed that out.

1100
00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:29,600
Speaker 2: Yo. It's because the movie was so obviously like we want.

1101
00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:32,360
Speaker 3: You to understand that this dude is killing these women

1102
00:50:32,440 --> 00:50:35,719
Speaker 3: and enjoying it. And it's a stark fucking contrast to

1103
00:50:35,800 --> 00:50:39,400
Speaker 3: the entire Wakandon culture. Like the idea of that not

1104
00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:41,600
Speaker 3: being important bothers the fuck out of me, Like I

1105
00:50:41,600 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 3: don't even want to talk.

1106
00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:45,160
Speaker 2: To people who can't go, Like, well, clearly.

1107
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:47,120
Speaker 3: That's significant because I don't even feel like that's such

1108
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:50,279
Speaker 3: a like nuance. Like I really had to like watch

1109
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:53,440
Speaker 3: it a few times to understand, like, nah, it was clear,

1110
00:50:53,600 --> 00:50:58,120
Speaker 3: like this nigga is completely antithetical to that culture. It

1111
00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:01,399
Speaker 3: wasn't just about him being like, oh, he's a bad guy,

1112
00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:02,240
Speaker 3: what are you respect?

1113
00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:04,800
Speaker 2: I'm like, no, it's he wants to leave these people.

1114
00:51:04,880 --> 00:51:07,359
Speaker 3: And part of that is, you know, some of them

1115
00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:09,319
Speaker 3: trying to line up with him, and then you see like,

1116
00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:13,080
Speaker 3: oh it's impossible to line up with his right, you know,

1117
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:17,560
Speaker 3: like like the absence of like when his father says

1118
00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:19,799
Speaker 3: you know I failed you and I should have took

1119
00:51:19,800 --> 00:51:22,680
Speaker 3: you home. Like it's like, yeah, the absence of that

1120
00:51:22,880 --> 00:51:26,319
Speaker 3: is directly. It's not just his I'm gonna take over

1121
00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:27,280
Speaker 3: and colonize people.

1122
00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:30,680
Speaker 2: It's more than that. He just has no respect.

1123
00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:31,000
Speaker 1: You know.

1124
00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:33,879
Speaker 3: Even his father had respect for the king and those

1125
00:51:33,880 --> 00:51:36,080
Speaker 3: fucking Dori Miller Jay.

1126
00:51:36,480 --> 00:51:38,600
Speaker 1: He did because he was like when they not, he

1127
00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:41,520
Speaker 1: was like, they ain't gonna knock again. Dogs, You've been

1128
00:51:41,560 --> 00:51:43,239
Speaker 1: open up that fucking door, right.

1129
00:51:43,520 --> 00:51:45,280
Speaker 2: They don't knock, they won't knock again.

1130
00:51:45,560 --> 00:51:48,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, like next time that dog gonna come down and

1131
00:51:48,800 --> 00:51:50,640
Speaker 1: there's gonna be a scene up in this bitch.

1132
00:51:50,480 --> 00:51:52,640
Speaker 2: Shout out to uncle James though, come on.

1133
00:51:55,120 --> 00:51:55,319
Speaker 1: Uh.

1134
00:51:55,360 --> 00:51:57,439
Speaker 3: Anyway, the movie was life and I'm planning on seeing

1135
00:51:57,440 --> 00:52:00,440
Speaker 3: it again this week. Marvel could have all of my money.

1136
00:52:00,640 --> 00:52:04,239
Speaker 2: You see. Uh what would Jr. Said about him? That

1137
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:04,920
Speaker 2: was hilarious.

1138
00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:06,520
Speaker 1: That's what we said he gonna be. He said he

1139
00:52:06,560 --> 00:52:08,200
Speaker 1: gonna just up in here and walk around with grape

1140
00:52:08,239 --> 00:52:11,480
Speaker 1: soda for Halloween. Yes, grape soda.

1141
00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:13,760
Speaker 2: And by him she means zuri. Uh.

1142
00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:17,960
Speaker 3: In the movie, Oh my bad, Poe was will you

1143
00:52:18,040 --> 00:52:20,200
Speaker 3: use any of the home hacks we read this episode?

1144
00:52:20,239 --> 00:52:21,440
Speaker 2: We had those home hacks.

1145
00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:23,840
Speaker 3: You know, get you a bucket of clean and stuff,

1146
00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:26,440
Speaker 3: put put trash bags in the bottom of your trash container,

1147
00:52:26,560 --> 00:52:27,080
Speaker 3: stuff like that.

1148
00:52:27,760 --> 00:52:29,680
Speaker 2: Uh. Sixty five percent said yes.

1149
00:52:29,480 --> 00:52:32,600
Speaker 3: They will use some of them, zero percent said all

1150
00:52:32,640 --> 00:52:35,120
Speaker 3: of them, and thirty five percent said nah, I'm good.

1151
00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:36,680
Speaker 2: That's cause you got dirty ass house.

1152
00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:40,440
Speaker 3: Charles says, I learned the extra trash bags in the

1153
00:52:40,440 --> 00:52:44,239
Speaker 3: garbage Uh trick and trick by watching Janitor's work.

1154
00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:47,399
Speaker 2: The trick with the pillowcas. It sounds like a good one. Yep.

1155
00:52:48,239 --> 00:52:50,200
Speaker 2: I thought there was some pretty good hacks me too.

1156
00:52:53,880 --> 00:52:58,879
Speaker 3: Vibranium Vibrators was episode sixteen twenty two.

1157
00:52:59,360 --> 00:53:01,560
Speaker 2: Was just me and and talking with Condon.

1158
00:53:01,320 --> 00:53:08,000
Speaker 3: Thoughts, So let me get to the actual episode. But yeah,

1159
00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:10,960
Speaker 3: on this one, we talked about America's being a two

1160
00:53:11,040 --> 00:53:12,440
Speaker 3: unhaalthy for the military.

1161
00:53:12,880 --> 00:53:14,360
Speaker 2: Dude got shot by an arrow.

1162
00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:18,160
Speaker 3: Hobby Lobby was having some old issues with a viral challenge,

1163
00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:23,120
Speaker 3: so Dean says, I went off when I saw the

1164
00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:24,600
Speaker 3: picks from the hobby Lobby challenge.

1165
00:53:24,640 --> 00:53:26,879
Speaker 2: I love it and I'm here for it. Shit.

1166
00:53:27,040 --> 00:53:29,480
Speaker 3: If I'm I'm graduating in December, I might need to

1167
00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:31,759
Speaker 3: jump on this before they move the flowers behind the

1168
00:53:31,760 --> 00:53:32,520
Speaker 3: register or something.

1169
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:34,480
Speaker 1: I know they don'na like no flowers up. People gonna

1170
00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:35,799
Speaker 1: go back there, and I'm like, nah, you got to.

1171
00:53:35,840 --> 00:53:37,160
Speaker 2: Ask for these, right See.

1172
00:53:37,200 --> 00:53:38,719
Speaker 3: As soon as you get your cap and gown, put

1173
00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:40,640
Speaker 3: it on, go in there and take some pictures. Come on,

1174
00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:44,719
Speaker 3: save your money, send it out to all I've been photographers.

1175
00:53:44,160 --> 00:53:47,080
Speaker 1: Be out of work now, come on right right cause

1176
00:53:47,120 --> 00:53:50,359
Speaker 1: you know nowadays you can go buy you know, high

1177
00:53:50,440 --> 00:53:53,279
Speaker 1: quality cameras and don't have to spend all that money

1178
00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:55,560
Speaker 1: like the one we seen where he was actually taking

1179
00:53:55,560 --> 00:53:57,680
Speaker 1: a picture of her and learn how to use your camera,

1180
00:53:57,800 --> 00:54:00,399
Speaker 1: like that's me and you better. A lot of people

1181
00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:01,880
Speaker 1: gonna do what they gonna They gonna tell you that

1182
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:04,560
Speaker 1: they are taking their picture from Wakanda m hm.

1183
00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:09,520
Speaker 2: So yeah. We got some comments on the poll, which

1184
00:54:09,560 --> 00:54:12,520
Speaker 2: was have you ever done a din and dash?

1185
00:54:12,640 --> 00:54:15,280
Speaker 3: Yes or no? Twelve percent said yes, eighty eight percent

1186
00:54:15,320 --> 00:54:18,719
Speaker 3: said no. I appreciate y'all's honesty, though twelve percent. Charles says,

1187
00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:20,400
Speaker 3: having worked minium wage jobs in my youth, I have

1188
00:54:20,480 --> 00:54:22,640
Speaker 3: a real understanding how close to the edge people are

1189
00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:24,840
Speaker 3: who work such jobs and service make less than minimum

1190
00:54:24,880 --> 00:54:27,279
Speaker 3: wage plus tips. I can never take advantage of them

1191
00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:29,440
Speaker 3: like that. Yeah, I've never done it, but I've also

1192
00:54:31,520 --> 00:54:33,120
Speaker 3: I've never been in.

1193
00:54:33,080 --> 00:54:36,440
Speaker 2: A situation where I felt that I would have to

1194
00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:39,040
Speaker 2: do it correct. But I also have never done it.

1195
00:54:39,080 --> 00:54:42,120
Speaker 3: And I have been broke before, like in college and shit,

1196
00:54:42,840 --> 00:54:44,480
Speaker 3: and I still wouldn't have done it.

1197
00:54:44,480 --> 00:54:44,680
Speaker 2: Then.

1198
00:54:45,200 --> 00:54:47,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, for us, a lot of times if we didn't

1199
00:54:47,719 --> 00:54:49,680
Speaker 1: have the tip, you know, we were like, well we

1200
00:54:49,800 --> 00:54:51,279
Speaker 1: just go somewhere, well you don't have to deal.

1201
00:54:51,520 --> 00:54:51,719
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1202
00:54:51,760 --> 00:54:53,879
Speaker 3: Only one time in my life though, I remember going

1203
00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:56,759
Speaker 3: somewhere where I fucked up the tip, and that was

1204
00:54:56,800 --> 00:55:00,000
Speaker 3: because I fucked up my math. It wasn't even purpose

1205
00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:02,759
Speaker 3: full like they did a bad job. I literally was like,

1206
00:55:03,040 --> 00:55:04,600
Speaker 3: we don't have enough money. I had to go out

1207
00:55:04,640 --> 00:55:07,040
Speaker 3: to the car lift for change. It was at a

1208
00:55:07,040 --> 00:55:09,440
Speaker 3: piece of hood. I remember that shit, and like I

1209
00:55:09,560 --> 00:55:11,440
Speaker 3: just had enough just to cover it. And I felt

1210
00:55:11,440 --> 00:55:14,640
Speaker 3: so bad because I you know, I feel like if

1211
00:55:14,719 --> 00:55:16,360
Speaker 3: you go out to eat at a place where you

1212
00:55:16,400 --> 00:55:20,359
Speaker 3: know people are going to do this extra work, just

1213
00:55:20,440 --> 00:55:22,880
Speaker 3: you know, you gotta deal with this, you know, like

1214
00:55:22,920 --> 00:55:25,560
Speaker 3: you gotta pay that tip. Doug He says, I'm not

1215
00:55:25,560 --> 00:55:27,720
Speaker 3: sure this counts, but I voted yes. Back in college

1216
00:55:27,960 --> 00:55:30,640
Speaker 3: I was with colleagues for a summer work program in Boston.

1217
00:55:30,680 --> 00:55:32,480
Speaker 3: While we were eating, the giant roaches called on the

1218
00:55:32,480 --> 00:55:34,960
Speaker 3: wall next to us. Everyone at the table started pan against,

1219
00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:36,360
Speaker 3: so I went and got the manager. He told me

1220
00:55:36,400 --> 00:55:38,920
Speaker 3: that just means someone left the back door open. There

1221
00:55:38,960 --> 00:55:41,120
Speaker 3: was nothing he could do, so I told everyone that

1222
00:55:41,160 --> 00:55:42,959
Speaker 3: we were EASi leaving five dollars on the table getting

1223
00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:44,680
Speaker 3: the hell out of there. The magic came to us

1224
00:55:44,719 --> 00:55:46,560
Speaker 3: as we were leaving and told him to ask the

1225
00:55:46,640 --> 00:55:49,400
Speaker 3: roaches for the rest of the bill. Yeah, Doug, that's

1226
00:55:49,520 --> 00:55:51,919
Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like that counts, but not. It's

1227
00:55:51,960 --> 00:55:54,640
Speaker 3: not the same as a dining dash, but it definitely

1228
00:55:54,719 --> 00:55:57,759
Speaker 3: count because y'all didn't pay for y'all shit. But I understand,

1229
00:55:58,560 --> 00:56:00,719
Speaker 3: you know what a big has a roach on the

1230
00:56:00,760 --> 00:56:04,239
Speaker 3: wall like uh, you know, as funny as uh, it

1231
00:56:04,320 --> 00:56:07,000
Speaker 3: must be roaches like everywhere in a restaurant or somewhere

1232
00:56:07,040 --> 00:56:10,399
Speaker 3: in a restaurant, like all that food, the trash.

1233
00:56:10,080 --> 00:56:12,440
Speaker 1: And shit, and you're dealing with people and a lot

1234
00:56:12,480 --> 00:56:16,160
Speaker 1: of restaurants. Very few restaurants do the proper thing. Which actually,

1235
00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:19,160
Speaker 1: if you not twenty four hours with y'all closed, I've

1236
00:56:19,239 --> 00:56:21,560
Speaker 1: worked that place that did this when you close that Actually,

1237
00:56:21,600 --> 00:56:23,680
Speaker 1: at least once a month or once every few months,

1238
00:56:23,719 --> 00:56:26,279
Speaker 1: they have like a cleaning crew that lily comes in

1239
00:56:26,360 --> 00:56:29,520
Speaker 1: and they literally scrubbed the whole restaurant. Damn. Like if

1240
00:56:29,560 --> 00:56:31,560
Speaker 1: they don't do that every because Yo, the people that

1241
00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:32,960
Speaker 1: you pay the work, they ain't gonna do that shit.

1242
00:56:33,000 --> 00:56:35,160
Speaker 1: They're ready to go fucking go home. They ain't got

1243
00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:37,319
Speaker 1: the time. You pay me two dollar thirties in an hour,

1244
00:56:37,360 --> 00:56:39,080
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be your deep cleaning. So they gonna

1245
00:56:39,120 --> 00:56:41,360
Speaker 1: only do but so much. You're like, you pay somebody

1246
00:56:41,480 --> 00:56:43,960
Speaker 1: to clean the carpet, you pay somebody you know to

1247
00:56:44,040 --> 00:56:46,200
Speaker 1: move shit and get behind the frigerator. Like most restaurants

1248
00:56:46,200 --> 00:56:48,479
Speaker 1: aren't gonna pay that fee. But if you don't do that, yeah,

1249
00:56:48,480 --> 00:56:50,399
Speaker 1: you're gonna have bugs. Uh.

1250
00:56:50,440 --> 00:56:52,800
Speaker 3: But it's funny though, because like if you see a bug,

1251
00:56:52,840 --> 00:56:56,840
Speaker 3: it's like fuck this, I can't eat anything. But I

1252
00:56:57,400 --> 00:57:00,440
Speaker 3: assume buzz must be everywhere. I mean roach much, I

1253
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:02,800
Speaker 3: mean not roaches, but restaurants must take a lot of

1254
00:57:02,840 --> 00:57:05,239
Speaker 3: precautions to keep bugs out of the ship. But you

1255
00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:08,640
Speaker 3: have to, you know, there's there's food and all kinds

1256
00:57:08,640 --> 00:57:12,080
Speaker 3: of shit involved. But yeah, I definitely couldn't be somewhere

1257
00:57:12,120 --> 00:57:14,040
Speaker 3: where I saw a roaching went, I'm gonna just finish

1258
00:57:14,080 --> 00:57:14,480
Speaker 3: this food.

1259
00:57:14,960 --> 00:57:16,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, but you know what, for some people,

1260
00:57:17,040 --> 00:57:20,280
Speaker 1: it depend on the food. They might go, yeah, I

1261
00:57:20,360 --> 00:57:22,160
Speaker 1: say this, but damn this is good.

1262
00:57:22,720 --> 00:57:22,959
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1263
00:57:23,040 --> 00:57:28,440
Speaker 3: I think I I think there's certain restaurants where if

1264
00:57:28,440 --> 00:57:31,600
Speaker 3: I saw a roach, I would be like, I knew

1265
00:57:31,680 --> 00:57:32,800
Speaker 3: this before I came here.

1266
00:57:32,920 --> 00:57:36,880
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, like especially you eat like you know, like

1267
00:57:36,920 --> 00:57:39,120
Speaker 1: I know they's had this fish fries spot.

1268
00:57:39,280 --> 00:57:42,600
Speaker 3: Oh my god, y'all it was this fish fries spot.

1269
00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:45,520
Speaker 3: I couldn't uh Like, you always had to have like

1270
00:57:45,560 --> 00:57:46,960
Speaker 3: ten dollars to eat there, so you know, I was

1271
00:57:47,000 --> 00:57:47,400
Speaker 3: in college.

1272
00:57:47,400 --> 00:57:49,480
Speaker 2: I didn't always have the money to eat there, but

1273
00:57:50,120 --> 00:57:51,200
Speaker 2: it was so fucking good.

1274
00:57:51,280 --> 00:57:53,120
Speaker 3: But if I would have seen a roach, I would

1275
00:57:53,120 --> 00:57:54,720
Speaker 3: have just had to be like, well, I've seen a

1276
00:57:54,800 --> 00:57:56,280
Speaker 3: roach and I'm gonna finish this fish plate.

1277
00:57:56,840 --> 00:57:58,520
Speaker 2: So you know, I've been there.

1278
00:57:58,600 --> 00:58:01,120
Speaker 3: But there's a lot of places that you know, if

1279
00:58:01,160 --> 00:58:02,800
Speaker 3: I if I saw a roach at this one in

1280
00:58:02,840 --> 00:58:06,160
Speaker 3: my life, I have enough means that I would be like, no,

1281
00:58:06,560 --> 00:58:09,680
Speaker 3: not today, I'm not this is not We'll try this

1282
00:58:09,720 --> 00:58:11,280
Speaker 3: again another day, right.

1283
00:58:11,280 --> 00:58:13,640
Speaker 1: You know, And I'm like, hey, if I'm paying, if

1284
00:58:13,640 --> 00:58:16,120
Speaker 1: I'm paying X amount of moneys for my meal, nah,

1285
00:58:16,160 --> 00:58:16,560
Speaker 1: I'm going.

1286
00:58:17,000 --> 00:58:17,680
Speaker 2: What's funny? Though?

1287
00:58:17,680 --> 00:58:19,440
Speaker 3: It was like a fly could get in the restaurant

1288
00:58:19,600 --> 00:58:22,120
Speaker 3: and just like be hitting that window all day and

1289
00:58:22,160 --> 00:58:26,200
Speaker 3: we'd be fine. It's only roaches Like flies just get

1290
00:58:26,200 --> 00:58:27,760
Speaker 3: to do whatever the thing is.

1291
00:58:27,960 --> 00:58:31,200
Speaker 1: You normally see one fly, you see a roache, you go, oh,

1292
00:58:31,240 --> 00:58:33,760
Speaker 1: your buddies is around the corner somewhere. It ain't just

1293
00:58:33,840 --> 00:58:34,480
Speaker 1: one of y'all.

1294
00:58:34,560 --> 00:58:36,560
Speaker 2: It depends. It could be like a water bug. Roach.

1295
00:58:36,600 --> 00:58:39,200
Speaker 3: Them motherfuckers fly solo. They don't even they don't even

1296
00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:39,880
Speaker 3: have cruise.

1297
00:58:41,200 --> 00:58:44,160
Speaker 1: The ones with cruise, okay, thee them ones scare of

1298
00:58:44,160 --> 00:58:45,080
Speaker 1: the fun. They're the ones that fly.

1299
00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:49,400
Speaker 3: The big ones. Yeah, the big ones them.

1300
00:58:48,280 --> 00:58:50,480
Speaker 1: Can kiss my ass. Man. I remember one time I

1301
00:58:50,600 --> 00:58:52,600
Speaker 1: seen one and I didn't know what the fuck it was,

1302
00:58:53,240 --> 00:58:56,000
Speaker 1: and uh he I seen no, man, I was, what

1303
00:58:56,040 --> 00:58:58,200
Speaker 1: the fuck is that? Then I went to go spray

1304
00:58:58,280 --> 00:59:00,840
Speaker 1: them and he flew. I think I the whole cann

1305
00:59:00,840 --> 00:59:02,600
Speaker 1: of rate on his ass. I was like, almost, you

1306
00:59:02,640 --> 00:59:03,760
Speaker 1: got to fuck us?

1307
00:59:03,800 --> 00:59:04,280
Speaker 6: Fly? No?

1308
00:59:05,000 --> 00:59:08,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, nothing, uh nothing mess you up? Do you need this? Nothing?

1309
00:59:08,560 --> 00:59:09,760
Speaker 2: Mess you up? Quicker than that?

1310
00:59:10,360 --> 00:59:14,919
Speaker 3: A flying roach that'll change your whole life, all right.

1311
00:59:15,200 --> 00:59:18,200
Speaker 3: Huh So then rock Star says, I done Dona dash

1312
00:59:18,320 --> 00:59:20,840
Speaker 3: and as a teenager once I made a college I

1313
00:59:20,840 --> 00:59:23,080
Speaker 3: stopped one time during well, that's also when you can

1314
00:59:23,080 --> 00:59:25,440
Speaker 3: get arrested for it and be on your permanent record.

1315
00:59:25,640 --> 00:59:28,080
Speaker 3: One time, during prime reakend, about three friends of mine,

1316
00:59:28,160 --> 00:59:30,360
Speaker 3: I decided we were keeping our money against some extra weed.

1317
00:59:30,680 --> 00:59:32,320
Speaker 3: So I told my friends at the table, I'm gonna

1318
00:59:32,400 --> 00:59:34,760
Speaker 3: leave first and start the car. I will leave my

1319
00:59:34,800 --> 00:59:36,360
Speaker 3: sweater at the table to make it seem like I'm

1320
00:59:36,360 --> 00:59:38,160
Speaker 3: coming back. I told one of my buddies to grab

1321
00:59:38,200 --> 00:59:39,720
Speaker 3: the sweat as they left. Keep in mind is one

1322
00:59:39,720 --> 00:59:41,960
Speaker 3: of my new fits for the weekend of festivities. I

1323
00:59:42,480 --> 00:59:45,280
Speaker 3: leave his playing, pull the car around front. Everybody comes

1324
00:59:45,360 --> 00:59:46,840
Speaker 3: running to the car. We drive off a hop on

1325
00:59:46,880 --> 00:59:48,880
Speaker 3: a freeway on our way to the weed man. Everybody's

1326
00:59:48,920 --> 00:59:51,320
Speaker 3: laughing and up the party. I asked my friend, where's

1327
00:59:51,320 --> 00:59:54,320
Speaker 3: my fat Alburt fuoboo sweater? Everybody is sitting there looking stupid.

1328
00:59:54,360 --> 00:59:56,760
Speaker 3: I yelled at my friend, so tough. Since I paid

1329
00:59:56,760 --> 00:59:59,000
Speaker 3: too much for a sweater that was only going to

1330
00:59:59,080 --> 01:00:01,479
Speaker 3: be in style for a couple, I turned my car around,

1331
01:00:01,560 --> 01:00:04,400
Speaker 3: went back to Denny's against my friend's wishes. But I

1332
01:00:04,480 --> 01:00:06,240
Speaker 3: was gonna get my sweater back one way or another. I

1333
01:00:06,240 --> 01:00:08,240
Speaker 3: walked into Denny's or what you says you're looking for this,

1334
01:00:08,760 --> 01:00:10,000
Speaker 3: raised up my sweater in hand.

1335
01:00:10,000 --> 01:00:10,560
Speaker 2: We made a deal.

1336
01:00:10,560 --> 01:00:12,560
Speaker 3: I paid for my food, got my food with sweater back.

1337
01:00:12,840 --> 01:00:14,800
Speaker 3: This is one of the last Dona dashes that I did.

1338
01:00:14,840 --> 01:00:17,720
Speaker 3: But I got several more stories about Donna dashes. Oh yeah,

1339
01:00:17,760 --> 01:00:19,520
Speaker 3: we still got the weed with the rest of the

1340
01:00:19,520 --> 01:00:24,280
Speaker 3: money that wasn't used on Denny's. Damn, that's wild. That's

1341
01:00:24,280 --> 01:00:26,880
Speaker 3: that ship backfire on you fast as fuck. And I'm

1342
01:00:26,880 --> 01:00:28,760
Speaker 3: worried if they gonna seat me because of I'm being

1343
01:00:28,800 --> 01:00:32,320
Speaker 3: too black. You canna hit Dona dashing must be nice,

1344
01:00:32,480 --> 01:00:33,080
Speaker 3: I know, and.

1345
01:00:33,080 --> 01:00:36,800
Speaker 1: I guess I'm I have. I'm wanting them punks to

1346
01:00:36,880 --> 01:00:39,919
Speaker 1: being taught at a very young age that police will

1347
01:00:39,960 --> 01:00:41,919
Speaker 1: haul your black ass to jail. So I'm like, nah,

1348
01:00:42,000 --> 01:00:46,040
Speaker 1: I'm doing pay the bill, don't you din and dash?

1349
01:00:46,280 --> 01:00:48,400
Speaker 1: You leave, I pay your bill and cut you out

1350
01:00:48,440 --> 01:00:50,240
Speaker 1: next time I see your black ass if you do.

1351
01:00:50,240 --> 01:00:55,560
Speaker 3: That, uh, eve E says for episode sixteen twenty three,

1352
01:00:55,640 --> 01:00:59,720
Speaker 3: Natalie Portman feminism TM Roddy can't. Oh wait, what am

1353
01:00:59,720 --> 01:01:02,000
Speaker 3: I doing? I'm sorry, let me scroll down. Actually wasn't

1354
01:01:02,040 --> 01:01:05,640
Speaker 3: Eve Richard goes first. I hope Black Panther annihilates Annihilation

1355
01:01:05,720 --> 01:01:09,800
Speaker 3: this weekend. Yeah, man it will All was on the

1356
01:01:09,800 --> 01:01:11,280
Speaker 3: fence about seeing that fucking movie.

1357
01:01:11,280 --> 01:01:11,440
Speaker 6: Man.

1358
01:01:11,520 --> 01:01:14,040
Speaker 3: Tessa Thompson's in there too, which is another reason I

1359
01:01:14,080 --> 01:01:17,720
Speaker 3: want to see it. But that interview, in that importment, man,

1360
01:01:17,960 --> 01:01:19,880
Speaker 3: it just lefs such It felt like the Matt Damon

1361
01:01:19,920 --> 01:01:20,560
Speaker 3: shit where.

1362
01:01:20,640 --> 01:01:22,080
Speaker 1: Kept a nasty taste in my mouth.

1363
01:01:22,160 --> 01:01:22,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was.

1364
01:01:22,560 --> 01:01:24,800
Speaker 3: It's like, I'm not trying to boycott you. I don't

1365
01:01:24,800 --> 01:01:26,240
Speaker 3: want nothing to happen to you. I ain't gonna start

1366
01:01:26,320 --> 01:01:28,800
Speaker 3: no hashtag. I'm not quote unquote canceling you.

1367
01:01:28,840 --> 01:01:31,760
Speaker 2: But reading that shit, I'm just like, but why take

1368
01:01:31,760 --> 01:01:32,480
Speaker 2: the road, Like.

1369
01:01:32,440 --> 01:01:34,960
Speaker 3: Why do you even pretend to be on board? I

1370
01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:36,919
Speaker 3: almost would rather you just be like, man, I don't

1371
01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:39,960
Speaker 3: care about that shit. Like, honestly, I would rather a

1372
01:01:39,960 --> 01:01:42,160
Speaker 3: white person that's going to take one of these race

1373
01:01:42,240 --> 01:01:44,760
Speaker 3: bent roles just come out and be like, man, I

1374
01:01:44,760 --> 01:01:47,680
Speaker 3: didn't know and I don't care. It's not a big

1375
01:01:47,720 --> 01:01:50,920
Speaker 3: deal to me anyway, moving on, But they want it

1376
01:01:50,960 --> 01:01:53,200
Speaker 3: both ways, and like I care, so deeply for the

1377
01:01:53,240 --> 01:01:55,479
Speaker 3: minoritiests and I hope they all done.

1378
01:01:55,560 --> 01:01:56,400
Speaker 2: It is so wrong.

1379
01:01:57,000 --> 01:02:00,000
Speaker 3: Anyway, I took the roll and I will be playing

1380
01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:03,439
Speaker 3: the Native American money woman in this movie. My name

1381
01:02:03,600 --> 01:02:06,560
Speaker 3: is gonna be Jane Warhawk. And I'm like, you knew

1382
01:02:06,560 --> 01:02:12,840
Speaker 3: this was you knew this was fucked up? Uh anyway, uh,

1383
01:02:12,440 --> 01:02:15,640
Speaker 3: Brooklyn shoe Ba says in regards to Cinemac not allowed

1384
01:02:15,720 --> 01:02:17,200
Speaker 3: Cinemak not allowing.

1385
01:02:16,840 --> 01:02:18,040
Speaker 2: Big bags into the theater.

1386
01:02:18,360 --> 01:02:20,360
Speaker 3: To be fair, I did not carry a big bag

1387
01:02:20,600 --> 01:02:22,600
Speaker 3: when I took my daughters to see Black Panther last

1388
01:02:22,600 --> 01:02:23,080
Speaker 3: Friday night.

1389
01:02:23,120 --> 01:02:24,840
Speaker 2: We tried to finish the pop Eye shaking before we

1390
01:02:24,880 --> 01:02:25,479
Speaker 2: go to the theater.

1391
01:02:25,800 --> 01:02:28,040
Speaker 3: But my oldest daughter is a slow eater, so I

1392
01:02:28,040 --> 01:02:30,680
Speaker 3: pushed the box container, her three tenders and a biscuit

1393
01:02:30,760 --> 01:02:31,160
Speaker 3: into the.

1394
01:02:31,120 --> 01:02:32,440
Speaker 2: Inside pocket of my trench coat.

1395
01:02:33,640 --> 01:02:34,040
Speaker 1: Mm hmm.

1396
01:02:35,400 --> 01:02:36,720
Speaker 3: There's a lot of pressure when you as a kid,

1397
01:02:36,840 --> 01:02:39,160
Speaker 3: y'all try to sneak something to the theater, right because

1398
01:02:39,200 --> 01:02:40,560
Speaker 3: you gotta eat that shit fast?

1399
01:02:40,800 --> 01:02:42,200
Speaker 2: You better. Uh.

1400
01:02:42,200 --> 01:02:44,080
Speaker 3: So I pushed the boss contain and my three tenders

1401
01:02:44,080 --> 01:02:46,240
Speaker 3: and a biscuit into the inside pocket and my trench coat.

1402
01:02:46,440 --> 01:02:48,200
Speaker 2: But I did buy the collectible Black.

1403
01:02:48,000 --> 01:02:51,360
Speaker 3: Panther, popcorn, bucket and soda, so it was even right oil.

1404
01:02:51,760 --> 01:02:52,640
Speaker 2: I'll say this too.

1405
01:02:54,920 --> 01:03:00,280
Speaker 3: The the the theater must be pissed at people's get

1406
01:03:00,280 --> 01:03:03,400
Speaker 3: food in at this point, and I can't really blame them.

1407
01:03:03,880 --> 01:03:07,400
Speaker 3: I mean, yes, the price. No, I'm talking about the theater, okay,

1408
01:03:07,440 --> 01:03:10,440
Speaker 3: not the people. Of course, it's over priced. I understand

1409
01:03:10,480 --> 01:03:14,320
Speaker 3: that point, right, people like I ain't paying okay, but

1410
01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:17,520
Speaker 3: now they offer so much variety at some of these

1411
01:03:17,520 --> 01:03:18,280
Speaker 3: fucking places.

1412
01:03:18,040 --> 01:03:19,960
Speaker 1: It's like a goddamn restaurant, right, some of them like

1413
01:03:19,960 --> 01:03:22,000
Speaker 1: a fucking McDonald's. Would you like a pizza? Would you

1414
01:03:22,040 --> 01:03:22,400
Speaker 1: like chicken?

1415
01:03:22,440 --> 01:03:22,560
Speaker 6: Oh?

1416
01:03:22,600 --> 01:03:23,720
Speaker 1: You want French fries with da?

1417
01:03:24,320 --> 01:03:24,520
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1418
01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:28,520
Speaker 3: It's like I would like a soda and would you

1419
01:03:28,560 --> 01:03:31,680
Speaker 3: like some Artisa on pizza? I'm like, what the fuck is?

1420
01:03:33,280 --> 01:03:35,160
Speaker 3: How long is that gonna take? Like you order some

1421
01:03:35,200 --> 01:03:37,120
Speaker 3: food and then they'd be like, now go wait over

1422
01:03:37,200 --> 01:03:39,200
Speaker 3: in the lobby area you Like, I thought I was

1423
01:03:39,280 --> 01:03:40,240
Speaker 3: just pizza popcorn.

1424
01:03:40,320 --> 01:03:42,600
Speaker 2: It used to be a simple transaction, nachos.

1425
01:03:42,640 --> 01:03:44,560
Speaker 3: What can I get the fastest, y'all, keep the cheese

1426
01:03:44,600 --> 01:03:46,240
Speaker 3: and a warm and drawer, let's go.

1427
01:03:46,200 --> 01:03:49,160
Speaker 1: I know, a salsa pizza popcorn again, And that was it.

1428
01:03:49,600 --> 01:03:49,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1429
01:03:49,880 --> 01:03:52,160
Speaker 3: Now, these motherfuckers in there were like, sir, would you

1430
01:03:52,240 --> 01:03:55,920
Speaker 3: like buttermilk chicken tenders? I'm like, yes, but that's a

1431
01:03:55,920 --> 01:03:58,040
Speaker 3: lot of pressure on you a ride. You know, I

1432
01:03:58,080 --> 01:03:59,480
Speaker 3: got five minutes to this movie start.

1433
01:03:59,520 --> 01:04:01,560
Speaker 2: How you gonna take that right or either?

1434
01:04:01,600 --> 01:04:03,720
Speaker 1: You know? Now a lot of amc They was like, yes,

1435
01:04:03,760 --> 01:04:05,919
Speaker 1: would you like I'm more teeny with that? But what

1436
01:04:06,000 --> 01:04:06,520
Speaker 1: I drink?

1437
01:04:06,800 --> 01:04:07,040
Speaker 2: Right?

1438
01:04:07,800 --> 01:04:07,920
Speaker 1: Uh?

1439
01:04:08,200 --> 01:04:08,680
Speaker 2: Anyway?

1440
01:04:09,160 --> 01:04:12,360
Speaker 3: Uh, we didn't have special drinks for the movies, and shit,

1441
01:04:12,560 --> 01:04:13,200
Speaker 3: yeah they do.

1442
01:04:13,480 --> 01:04:16,280
Speaker 2: Would you like a kill marga and coke? Or would

1443
01:04:16,320 --> 01:04:18,960
Speaker 2: you like a too chocolate shake?

1444
01:04:19,320 --> 01:04:19,400
Speaker 1: Like?

1445
01:04:19,680 --> 01:04:20,200
Speaker 2: I don't know?

1446
01:04:21,200 --> 01:04:23,200
Speaker 3: Uh, I'm telling you riding care and I'm still riding

1447
01:04:23,200 --> 01:04:24,840
Speaker 3: the high black pants. I was riding on the train.

1448
01:04:24,920 --> 01:04:27,160
Speaker 3: I saw a young black woman with her face made

1449
01:04:27,240 --> 01:04:29,640
Speaker 3: up like Sherry and wearing a black beret.

1450
01:04:29,920 --> 01:04:30,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1451
01:04:30,160 --> 01:04:32,040
Speaker 3: My niece and my mom went to the theater and

1452
01:04:32,080 --> 01:04:35,080
Speaker 3: they were dressed like Sheerry. Uh and it was adorable.

1453
01:04:35,920 --> 01:04:38,240
Speaker 3: As I exited the train, I said, well kind of forever.

1454
01:04:38,440 --> 01:04:41,160
Speaker 3: She gave me the universal Black People nod. Yesterday I

1455
01:04:41,200 --> 01:04:44,160
Speaker 3: was walking past the hotel and Manhattan. The doorman was

1456
01:04:44,200 --> 01:04:46,600
Speaker 3: crossed his arms across his chest and bowing to everybody

1457
01:04:46,640 --> 01:04:48,000
Speaker 3: that passed the hotel streats show.

1458
01:04:48,200 --> 01:04:50,600
Speaker 2: Come on, they were ignoring him. Guess the race.

1459
01:04:50,760 --> 01:04:52,960
Speaker 3: As I passed my daughter, I stopped, crossed my arms

1460
01:04:52,960 --> 01:04:55,680
Speaker 3: and shot at Wakanda forever. My man nearly fell over.

1461
01:04:55,760 --> 01:04:58,760
Speaker 3: We dapped hard, gave bro hugs, and were just so

1462
01:04:58,800 --> 01:05:01,880
Speaker 3: happy to make that connection. Oh yeah. At the basketball court,

1463
01:05:01,960 --> 01:05:04,520
Speaker 3: I asked everybody how they seen it, and then we

1464
01:05:04,600 --> 01:05:06,400
Speaker 3: do the dap, and if they haven't seen it, we

1465
01:05:06,440 --> 01:05:09,920
Speaker 3: still might do the dap, but uh, you know, everybody

1466
01:05:10,000 --> 01:05:12,280
Speaker 3: like all. And then when we were playing basketball, like

1467
01:05:12,720 --> 01:05:14,640
Speaker 3: if I hit a shot, I'm like, well kind up whatever,

1468
01:05:15,280 --> 01:05:18,480
Speaker 3: like shit like that. So it was so much fun.

1469
01:05:20,760 --> 01:05:24,960
Speaker 3: Uh he's uh anyway, he said I made this day.

1470
01:05:25,040 --> 01:05:26,960
Speaker 3: I told my daughter that I was that I was

1471
01:05:27,000 --> 01:05:28,560
Speaker 3: an amazing and he told my daughter that I was

1472
01:05:28,600 --> 01:05:30,960
Speaker 3: an amazing woman. My heart is still smiling as my

1473
01:05:31,080 --> 01:05:35,560
Speaker 3: daughter's uh side. Black Panther helped black people make new friends.

1474
01:05:36,040 --> 01:05:39,760
Speaker 3: Uh it's my daughter saw yeah llll. She then joked

1475
01:05:39,760 --> 01:05:41,640
Speaker 3: that I could stand in the middle of nowhere, shot

1476
01:05:41,640 --> 01:05:43,920
Speaker 3: with kind of forever and a black person would just

1477
01:05:43,960 --> 01:05:46,840
Speaker 3: parachute in to dap me up because I was that powerful.

1478
01:05:47,400 --> 01:05:50,360
Speaker 3: Somebody go find you even, he says, I last so

1479
01:05:50,440 --> 01:05:53,680
Speaker 3: hard about the KFC running out of chicken uh in

1480
01:05:53,720 --> 01:05:55,720
Speaker 3: the UK, because it reminded me of the time when

1481
01:05:55,800 --> 01:05:58,360
Speaker 3: KFC started serving grilled chicken and Oprah gave everybody in

1482
01:05:58,440 --> 01:06:01,040
Speaker 3: America access to q pons for each chicken dinner and

1483
01:06:01,080 --> 01:06:02,120
Speaker 3: they ran out of chicken.

1484
01:06:02,440 --> 01:06:06,120
Speaker 2: Oh, I remember that people were losing that damn minds.

1485
01:06:06,200 --> 01:06:09,040
Speaker 3: There were several new stories, UH news stories about it,

1486
01:06:09,080 --> 01:06:11,040
Speaker 3: and of course they interviewed a bunch of black people

1487
01:06:11,280 --> 01:06:12,600
Speaker 3: the buffoonery.

1488
01:06:12,040 --> 01:06:14,480
Speaker 2: And those interviews were over the top. Oh. We covered

1489
01:06:14,480 --> 01:06:16,080
Speaker 2: that on the show. We played them interviews too.

1490
01:06:16,400 --> 01:06:17,600
Speaker 1: They was not happy.

1491
01:06:17,720 --> 01:06:19,480
Speaker 2: They were driving out to the middle of nowhere for

1492
01:06:19,520 --> 01:06:20,280
Speaker 2: that chicken too.

1493
01:06:20,920 --> 01:06:23,360
Speaker 1: And I keep thinking them little places in the hicktown,

1494
01:06:23,480 --> 01:06:28,600
Speaker 1: boomtown nowhere, you you fucking up their lunch rush.

1495
01:06:29,040 --> 01:06:31,720
Speaker 3: Like all the way out here in Wadesboro, North Carolina,

1496
01:06:32,200 --> 01:06:35,400
Speaker 3: people are lying around the block for CAFCA grilled chicken.

1497
01:06:35,640 --> 01:06:35,880
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1498
01:06:35,920 --> 01:06:37,400
Speaker 1: Man, I drove all the way out here and they

1499
01:06:37,440 --> 01:06:38,800
Speaker 1: ain't got no chicken ringing.

1500
01:06:39,120 --> 01:06:40,840
Speaker 2: I'm like, damn, I drove all.

1501
01:06:40,760 --> 01:06:43,800
Speaker 1: Away from Marsville, North Carolina to come out here. I

1502
01:06:43,920 --> 01:06:46,240
Speaker 1: drove all the way out here from Kingston, North Carolina,

1503
01:06:46,280 --> 01:06:48,320
Speaker 1: to get to come out here. I came out here.

1504
01:06:48,320 --> 01:06:49,800
Speaker 1: I ain't know I was gonna have to be waiting

1505
01:06:49,840 --> 01:06:50,880
Speaker 1: down seventy four.

1506
01:06:51,120 --> 01:06:54,120
Speaker 3: For four dollars worth of grilled chicken from CAFC even

1507
01:06:54,480 --> 01:06:57,480
Speaker 3: come on, couldn't be your boy. And I keep thinking

1508
01:06:57,520 --> 01:07:00,080
Speaker 3: about the British people with their proper English accidents in

1509
01:07:00,160 --> 01:07:00,760
Speaker 3: the damn food.

1510
01:07:00,840 --> 01:07:03,560
Speaker 2: They were the best, you know what, That's what made it.

1511
01:07:03,640 --> 01:07:05,200
Speaker 2: That little girl. I forgot what she said.

1512
01:07:05,200 --> 01:07:09,959
Speaker 3: She's something like, I'm sad, I'm something and I'm disappointed.

1513
01:07:11,720 --> 01:07:14,640
Speaker 2: She was mad as ship. I gotta find that clip.

1514
01:07:14,640 --> 01:07:16,800
Speaker 3: I'm gonna put that that gotta go into the drops

1515
01:07:16,840 --> 01:07:18,320
Speaker 3: because that was so perfect.

1516
01:07:18,680 --> 01:07:20,520
Speaker 2: She said, I'm.

1517
01:07:20,480 --> 01:07:24,560
Speaker 3: Sad, I'm angry and I'm disappointed.

1518
01:07:24,720 --> 01:07:28,800
Speaker 1: I said, damn, little girl, not here for the bullshit.

1519
01:07:29,160 --> 01:07:36,600
Speaker 2: She is not. She was not with them that cancy.

1520
01:07:37,040 --> 01:07:40,920
Speaker 2: Oh man, we've all been that kid, asked for cinemak.

1521
01:07:41,000 --> 01:07:43,880
Speaker 2: Not allowed big bags anymore. They that's another laugh.

1522
01:07:43,920 --> 01:07:46,560
Speaker 3: That's not gonna stop anyone from bringing big snacks into

1523
01:07:46,600 --> 01:07:47,000
Speaker 3: the theater.

1524
01:07:47,520 --> 01:07:53,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm being there like Papa from from a shy with.

1525
01:07:52,920 --> 01:07:55,880
Speaker 3: A with a big snack bag of family size chips

1526
01:07:55,880 --> 01:07:56,600
Speaker 3: in my backpack.

1527
01:07:57,320 --> 01:07:59,120
Speaker 2: I'm the queen of sneaking food to the theater.

1528
01:07:59,200 --> 01:08:02,120
Speaker 3: I brought he Tom Chipotle, one for me and one

1529
01:08:02,120 --> 01:08:05,840
Speaker 3: for my husband, a bottle of water, and some candy.

1530
01:08:05,920 --> 01:08:08,680
Speaker 3: Over the years, I've taken in Wendy's, Taco Bell, Panaro,

1531
01:08:08,760 --> 01:08:12,560
Speaker 3: Chinese food, Oh Good, a shrimp, then Er Pizza, and

1532
01:08:12,680 --> 01:08:16,280
Speaker 3: friend and Friendship fried Chicken. I am undefeated and those

1533
01:08:16,280 --> 01:08:17,559
Speaker 3: colonizers can't stop me.

1534
01:08:17,880 --> 01:08:21,320
Speaker 2: What kind of forever I feel? Mom? Yeah, I do.

1535
01:08:21,560 --> 01:08:21,720
Speaker 1: Uh.

1536
01:08:22,360 --> 01:08:24,720
Speaker 2: I would sneak in more. But Karen's is just not

1537
01:08:24,880 --> 01:08:26,680
Speaker 2: a good accomplished so I am not.

1538
01:08:26,920 --> 01:08:28,320
Speaker 1: I am not good at this.

1539
01:08:28,880 --> 01:08:30,920
Speaker 2: She she thinks we're gonna go to prison or some ship.

1540
01:08:31,800 --> 01:08:33,479
Speaker 3: Like, they ain't gonna do shit they catch you. We

1541
01:08:33,600 --> 01:08:35,960
Speaker 3: just gonna look at them like and niggas. The most

1542
01:08:36,000 --> 01:08:37,680
Speaker 3: of you gotta do is go back outside, play in

1543
01:08:37,680 --> 01:08:41,519
Speaker 3: the car. But Karen's you can't do no crimes or Karen.

1544
01:08:42,080 --> 01:08:44,320
Speaker 1: I tell people, I am not the one to do crime.

1545
01:08:44,439 --> 01:08:47,120
Speaker 1: We are if they catch my black ass, we all

1546
01:08:47,160 --> 01:08:49,960
Speaker 1: getting caught, we all showing up at your house. I'm

1547
01:08:49,960 --> 01:08:52,240
Speaker 1: gonna they're gonna flash that light on me. I am

1548
01:08:52,320 --> 01:08:54,360
Speaker 1: singing on y'all, black ass. That's why I'm like, I

1549
01:08:54,400 --> 01:08:57,679
Speaker 1: am good with the crimes, dog, I'm not. It's it's

1550
01:08:57,920 --> 01:08:59,920
Speaker 1: it's tough not to go to jail for shit you ain't,

1551
01:09:00,240 --> 01:09:01,840
Speaker 1: so I'm not doing shit to go to jail.

1552
01:09:04,920 --> 01:09:07,160
Speaker 3: And the poe was when Trump passed new gun control

1553
01:09:07,520 --> 01:09:08,479
Speaker 3: control laws.

1554
01:09:08,720 --> 01:09:10,679
Speaker 2: Four percent of the audience said yes, he will pass

1555
01:09:10,720 --> 01:09:11,400
Speaker 2: some new laws.

1556
01:09:12,479 --> 01:09:14,640
Speaker 3: Twelve point five percent say he will try, but he

1557
01:09:14,680 --> 01:09:17,280
Speaker 3: will fail. At eighty three percent think he won't even

1558
01:09:17,320 --> 01:09:21,439
Speaker 3: try to pass any laws for gun control. Uh, it'll

1559
01:09:21,439 --> 01:09:23,800
Speaker 3: be interesting because they are having all these meetings and shit,

1560
01:09:24,040 --> 01:09:28,519
Speaker 3: and not to be too crashed, but these are white

1561
01:09:28,600 --> 01:09:33,519
Speaker 3: kids with money, so a lot a lot more people

1562
01:09:33,560 --> 01:09:37,720
Speaker 3: seem to be sympathetic, and they're old enough to be activated,

1563
01:09:37,840 --> 01:09:41,400
Speaker 3: like they're activists. They care, they're speaking for themselves. Some

1564
01:09:41,439 --> 01:09:43,360
Speaker 3: of them got the meet with the president. Other ones

1565
01:09:43,360 --> 01:09:46,559
Speaker 3: that're just getting on TV and being interviewed every five

1566
01:09:46,600 --> 01:09:48,760
Speaker 3: minutes and shit, compared to you know a lot of

1567
01:09:48,840 --> 01:09:54,000
Speaker 3: kids that never really got that. So it's gonna be

1568
01:09:54,040 --> 01:09:55,719
Speaker 3: interesting to see how this plays out.

1569
01:09:57,200 --> 01:10:01,519
Speaker 1: I think several ways about this. I think for me,

1570
01:10:02,960 --> 01:10:06,599
Speaker 1: I'm glad that they've been activated. I'm glad that they're

1571
01:10:06,640 --> 01:10:10,200
Speaker 1: speaking out. I'm glad that they're forcing these changes, you know,

1572
01:10:10,360 --> 01:10:14,719
Speaker 1: enforcing people to listen. But the only time will tell,

1573
01:10:15,680 --> 01:10:19,800
Speaker 1: because they're angry and they're mad. As time goes on,

1574
01:10:20,560 --> 01:10:24,080
Speaker 1: we will see if this intensity will keep up, you know,

1575
01:10:24,320 --> 01:10:27,360
Speaker 1: because I understand why people get mad, because there's a

1576
01:10:27,400 --> 01:10:30,599
Speaker 1: lot of brown people and black people that have been saying, hey,

1577
01:10:30,640 --> 01:10:33,840
Speaker 1: we've been out here bad about this shit forever. But

1578
01:10:33,880 --> 01:10:36,240
Speaker 1: the only reason why, not the only reason why, but

1579
01:10:36,280 --> 01:10:37,720
Speaker 1: for some of them, the only reason why you even

1580
01:10:37,760 --> 01:10:39,679
Speaker 1: spoke up because it's your friends and your family members.

1581
01:10:39,720 --> 01:10:41,519
Speaker 1: When you thought it was happening to the kids in

1582
01:10:41,600 --> 01:10:44,080
Speaker 1: Chicago in their public school system, you did not give

1583
01:10:44,120 --> 01:10:46,400
Speaker 1: a fuck. So you know, that makes a lot of

1584
01:10:46,439 --> 01:10:48,760
Speaker 1: people mad because they always happen to y'all. But you

1585
01:10:48,840 --> 01:10:51,840
Speaker 1: think about it, that money ain't gonna mad on certain shit.

1586
01:10:51,920 --> 01:10:53,680
Speaker 1: You see, them kids was down there and they was like,

1587
01:10:53,880 --> 01:10:56,120
Speaker 1: you know what, no, And they voted, and they took

1588
01:10:56,120 --> 01:10:58,120
Speaker 1: their black They took their asses back where the fuck

1589
01:10:58,160 --> 01:10:59,519
Speaker 1: that came from. They gonna look them in there. I

1590
01:10:59,520 --> 01:11:01,519
Speaker 1: ain't gona know, like they tell everybody else.

1591
01:11:01,960 --> 01:11:03,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, America love guns too much.

1592
01:11:04,520 --> 01:11:06,760
Speaker 1: They don't care about your money and wealth and influence and.

1593
01:11:06,760 --> 01:11:09,599
Speaker 3: Our you have a heart, but they also love these Look,

1594
01:11:09,760 --> 01:11:11,360
Speaker 3: these white kids have a privilege that a lot of

1595
01:11:11,439 --> 01:11:14,519
Speaker 3: kids don't have like black kids have been Uh the

1596
01:11:14,680 --> 01:11:18,200
Speaker 3: anti gun protested ship before this, but nobody gave a fuck.

1597
01:11:18,320 --> 01:11:20,360
Speaker 3: They weren't getting on TV and getting interviewed about it,

1598
01:11:20,400 --> 01:11:24,360
Speaker 3: you know, So it's kind of a perfect storm. Uh,

1599
01:11:25,040 --> 01:11:26,800
Speaker 3: we have two voicemails. Let me see if I can

1600
01:11:26,800 --> 01:11:35,000
Speaker 3: play them on Skype. Okay, I think that's a missed ole.

1601
01:11:35,240 --> 01:11:37,320
Speaker 3: All right, cool, Well, thank you for your missed out

1602
01:11:37,360 --> 01:11:38,080
Speaker 3: and known person.

1603
01:11:39,680 --> 01:11:49,080
Speaker 2: I'll see you can get this one. This was from yesterday.

1604
01:11:49,000 --> 01:11:56,840
Speaker 7: The number I can because you have a sick So

1605
01:11:57,360 --> 01:12:02,439
Speaker 7: I'm assuming that's all. Did have us all ways know

1606
01:12:02,560 --> 01:12:02,960
Speaker 7: each other?

1607
01:12:03,200 --> 01:12:06,400
Speaker 4: So could you get in contact with the Dubai can

1608
01:12:06,600 --> 01:12:09,920
Speaker 4: for me tell them to come down the mountain so

1609
01:12:10,040 --> 01:12:16,880
Speaker 4: I can introduce myself. Hey, Ron, cancers is mem I

1610
01:12:16,920 --> 01:12:18,800
Speaker 4: finally got to see black cancer Wednesday.

1611
01:12:19,600 --> 01:12:23,519
Speaker 7: Me and my daughter were doing much better. We're still

1612
01:12:23,520 --> 01:12:26,680
Speaker 7: trying to kick these coughs because the flu gave us,

1613
01:12:26,720 --> 01:12:28,400
Speaker 7: but we're not contagious anymore.

1614
01:12:28,479 --> 01:12:29,200
Speaker 2: So that was good.

1615
01:12:29,280 --> 01:12:32,439
Speaker 7: I was getting desperate by Monday and I was thinking,

1616
01:12:32,720 --> 01:12:35,040
Speaker 7: just forget everybody. I'm just gonna spread my germs. I

1617
01:12:35,080 --> 01:12:37,120
Speaker 7: really want to do this movie, but of course I

1618
01:12:37,160 --> 01:12:41,120
Speaker 7: didn't do that, so I just I deactivated my Facebook

1619
01:12:41,400 --> 01:12:44,400
Speaker 7: and I just stayed off on Instagram. It just because

1620
01:12:44,520 --> 01:12:47,200
Speaker 7: like I just felt it in my in the wind

1621
01:12:47,280 --> 01:12:49,000
Speaker 7: that I was like, I don't think people can hold

1622
01:12:49,040 --> 01:12:51,919
Speaker 7: on but not spoiling this movie. So I'm just gonna.

1623
01:12:52,200 --> 01:12:53,360
Speaker 2: Stay off of social media.

1624
01:12:54,040 --> 01:12:56,720
Speaker 7: But yeah, so I made it to Wednesday, no spoilers,

1625
01:12:57,120 --> 01:12:59,559
Speaker 7: and it was great. So I'm finally like catching up

1626
01:13:00,240 --> 01:13:03,080
Speaker 7: on episodes and other content that have to do his

1627
01:13:03,160 --> 01:13:07,719
Speaker 7: Box Panther, and I really enjoyed listening to you guys

1628
01:13:07,800 --> 01:13:12,400
Speaker 7: talks about it. Yep, but that was it.

1629
01:13:13,400 --> 01:13:14,320
Speaker 2: I love you guys.

1630
01:13:14,640 --> 01:13:17,960
Speaker 7: I'm about to see it again today today it's Friday.

1631
01:13:18,000 --> 01:13:22,600
Speaker 7: We're gonna take my uncle to go see it with us.

1632
01:13:22,840 --> 01:13:24,280
Speaker 7: Because when we went.

1633
01:13:24,160 --> 01:13:27,160
Speaker 4: To in the theater Wednesday and my husband he had

1634
01:13:27,200 --> 01:13:28,679
Speaker 4: told this other old black man.

1635
01:13:28,560 --> 01:13:30,519
Speaker 7: Who was the theater with us, He's like, oh, yeah,

1636
01:13:30,600 --> 01:13:33,320
Speaker 7: this is my fourth time. He's like four time. He

1637
01:13:33,479 --> 01:13:36,200
Speaker 7: looked all shocked and was like, yeah, it's like it's amazing.

1638
01:13:36,520 --> 01:13:37,240
Speaker 2: I love this movie.

1639
01:13:37,479 --> 01:13:38,479
Speaker 1: I love this movie house.

1640
01:13:38,600 --> 01:13:41,800
Speaker 7: I'm buck Baday, youre like only ten people were like

1641
01:13:41,840 --> 01:13:44,559
Speaker 7: in a theater. Okay, love you guys, bye bye, oh.

1642
01:13:44,800 --> 01:13:45,840
Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you Yo.

1643
01:13:45,880 --> 01:13:48,040
Speaker 1: Mama and them going to see this game again this

1644
01:13:48,120 --> 01:13:50,200
Speaker 1: weekend with some of her brothers and sisters who hadn't

1645
01:13:50,200 --> 01:13:52,439
Speaker 1: seen today, all got together. I was like, you're gonna

1646
01:13:52,439 --> 01:13:54,320
Speaker 1: see it again? She was like, yeah. We got a

1647
01:13:54,360 --> 01:13:56,120
Speaker 1: group text and some of them hadn't seen it. Jens,

1648
01:13:56,120 --> 01:13:57,479
Speaker 1: so she said, we're going again today.

1649
01:13:57,760 --> 01:14:01,400
Speaker 3: Look, I've been three times. It's so fucking good, Like

1650
01:14:02,240 --> 01:14:03,240
Speaker 3: I can't wait to own it.

1651
01:14:03,200 --> 01:14:04,439
Speaker 2: On Blu Ray. It's so good.

1652
01:14:04,840 --> 01:14:07,000
Speaker 3: I feel like there's only two types of time I

1653
01:14:07,040 --> 01:14:10,840
Speaker 3: have right now, time watching Black Panther and wasted time.

1654
01:14:10,960 --> 01:14:11,320
Speaker 2: Okay.

1655
01:14:13,760 --> 01:14:16,080
Speaker 3: Actually been going back and revisiting some of the MCU

1656
01:14:16,200 --> 01:14:21,760
Speaker 3: movies and shit s on my voodoo app, and I've

1657
01:14:21,760 --> 01:14:24,080
Speaker 3: just been watching some of some of those movies and

1658
01:14:24,080 --> 01:14:26,840
Speaker 3: stuff and thinking of, you know, putting it out in

1659
01:14:26,880 --> 01:14:28,960
Speaker 3: the context, and it just makes it so much more

1660
01:14:29,000 --> 01:14:31,599
Speaker 3: masterful how they did it, you know, everything they did

1661
01:14:31,680 --> 01:14:32,000
Speaker 3: was just.

1662
01:14:31,880 --> 01:14:36,000
Speaker 2: So well thought out. Great job, everybody. We got some emails.

1663
01:14:36,120 --> 01:14:38,280
Speaker 3: Rachel says, Hey, Rod and Karen, So I'm not sure

1664
01:14:38,360 --> 01:14:40,040
Speaker 3: what episode it was, but I wanted to write you

1665
01:14:40,080 --> 01:14:43,160
Speaker 3: about my experience with your experience with the probably racist

1666
01:14:43,160 --> 01:14:45,479
Speaker 3: woman not seeing you at that restaurant, first of all,

1667
01:14:45,600 --> 01:14:47,320
Speaker 3: is a by woman. I know the feeling the paranoia

1668
01:14:47,360 --> 01:14:49,920
Speaker 3: that can come from not knowing for sure why you've

1669
01:14:49,920 --> 01:14:53,200
Speaker 3: been You're being mistreated, right, but given that we live

1670
01:14:53,200 --> 01:14:55,320
Speaker 3: in such a racist society, even that if that woman

1671
01:14:55,439 --> 01:14:58,240
Speaker 3: wasn't being racist, I don't think it actually being paranoid

1672
01:14:58,240 --> 01:15:00,400
Speaker 3: to as soon as she was. My main the reason

1673
01:15:00,439 --> 01:15:02,320
Speaker 3: for writing, though, is to ask you, what can white

1674
01:15:02,320 --> 01:15:05,680
Speaker 3: people trying to be good allies like me doing a

1675
01:15:05,720 --> 01:15:08,160
Speaker 3: situation where they recognized that that actions could.

1676
01:15:08,000 --> 01:15:09,080
Speaker 2: Be interpreted as racist.

1677
01:15:09,360 --> 01:15:11,679
Speaker 3: In this situation, I imagine I would have at least helped

1678
01:15:11,760 --> 01:15:13,280
Speaker 3: if it would at least help that she had made

1679
01:15:13,320 --> 01:15:17,120
Speaker 3: friendly conversation instead of avoiding eye contact, or offered to

1680
01:15:17,120 --> 01:15:18,599
Speaker 3: bring you an advertiser to the bar.

1681
01:15:18,800 --> 01:15:20,920
Speaker 2: But I'd love to hear your thoughts personally.

1682
01:15:20,960 --> 01:15:23,000
Speaker 3: I've got a lot of social anxiety issues as well

1683
01:15:23,040 --> 01:15:25,800
Speaker 3: as just being generally socially awkward and introverted, and I'm

1684
01:15:25,800 --> 01:15:27,800
Speaker 3: sure I've made people of color wonder if I was

1685
01:15:27,840 --> 01:15:30,000
Speaker 3: acting weird because of they are a race. It doesn't

1686
01:15:30,040 --> 01:15:32,400
Speaker 3: really seem believable to be like, Hey, I promise I'm

1687
01:15:32,400 --> 01:15:35,280
Speaker 3: not racist. I'm just weird without actually backing that up

1688
01:15:35,280 --> 01:15:37,160
Speaker 3: in any way. But I don't really know how I

1689
01:15:37,160 --> 01:15:39,160
Speaker 3: could do that. I feel like this one, this one

1690
01:15:39,160 --> 01:15:41,479
Speaker 3: probably doesn't have an easy solution, but I wanted to

1691
01:15:41,520 --> 01:15:43,200
Speaker 3: hear what y'all had to say about it.

1692
01:15:43,280 --> 01:15:44,960
Speaker 2: Love y'all love the show. Rachel.

1693
01:15:46,720 --> 01:15:49,519
Speaker 3: Well, so, okay, so let's assume for a second she

1694
01:15:49,600 --> 01:15:52,519
Speaker 3: wasn't being racist, because like the obvious answer that she

1695
01:15:52,600 --> 01:15:56,120
Speaker 3: probably was being racist and that's why she's staying all

1696
01:15:56,120 --> 01:15:57,880
Speaker 3: the way on the other side of the room and

1697
01:15:57,920 --> 01:16:03,599
Speaker 3: didn't make eye contact and whatnot. My guess would be

1698
01:16:03,840 --> 01:16:06,600
Speaker 3: she could have maybe updated us like come over and

1699
01:16:06,640 --> 01:16:09,120
Speaker 3: be like, hey, it's gonna probably be about another five minutes,

1700
01:16:10,240 --> 01:16:12,719
Speaker 3: you know, do y'all need anything while you're waiting something

1701
01:16:12,800 --> 01:16:16,479
Speaker 3: like that, you know, or either initially when she gave

1702
01:16:16,560 --> 01:16:18,960
Speaker 3: us a time, gave us a reason, you know, because

1703
01:16:19,080 --> 01:16:21,720
Speaker 3: we're not irrational and logically like hey you or it

1704
01:16:21,760 --> 01:16:23,200
Speaker 3: could have been like, hey, we're.

1705
01:16:23,080 --> 01:16:25,320
Speaker 1: Kind of short staff right now. We got one suver

1706
01:16:25,400 --> 01:16:28,000
Speaker 1: on the floor, you know, da da da da da,

1707
01:16:28,280 --> 01:16:29,880
Speaker 1: Just be like, I know y'all see these INMB tables.

1708
01:16:29,880 --> 01:16:32,400
Speaker 1: But let me explain to you. But it was like nothing, right,

1709
01:16:32,560 --> 01:16:35,559
Speaker 1: So what are we supposed to go off of no information? Like,

1710
01:16:35,840 --> 01:16:38,479
Speaker 1: most people are reasonable if you tell them something and

1711
01:16:38,520 --> 01:16:40,760
Speaker 1: give them a logical explanation of front. You still don't

1712
01:16:40,800 --> 01:16:42,280
Speaker 1: have people to show their ass. Don't get me wrong,

1713
01:16:42,560 --> 01:16:44,400
Speaker 1: but most people are gonna understand.

1714
01:16:45,080 --> 01:16:47,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, And that's and then the other part of this

1715
01:16:47,280 --> 01:16:49,920
Speaker 3: is that's just certain shit you can't help, right, And

1716
01:16:50,120 --> 01:16:54,840
Speaker 3: that's kind of the sadness and the tragedy of privilege

1717
01:16:54,880 --> 01:16:59,599
Speaker 3: and systemic like societal issues, is that some people are

1718
01:16:59,640 --> 01:17:02,080
Speaker 3: gonna be distrustful of you, and there's nothing you can

1719
01:17:02,120 --> 01:17:03,800
Speaker 3: do about it, and it's not your fault and it's

1720
01:17:03,840 --> 01:17:07,400
Speaker 3: not really your responsibility to try to fix that or

1721
01:17:07,439 --> 01:17:11,759
Speaker 3: to acquit yourself. It's really not And you can almost

1722
01:17:11,880 --> 01:17:14,120
Speaker 3: drive yourself mad trying to equit yourself.

1723
01:17:14,160 --> 01:17:14,519
Speaker 2: Correct.

1724
01:17:14,880 --> 01:17:18,000
Speaker 3: Some people will operate on good faith and they'll be like, yo,

1725
01:17:18,240 --> 01:17:20,920
Speaker 3: I don't think this person is racist, I don't think

1726
01:17:20,960 --> 01:17:24,280
Speaker 3: this person is whatever privilege you have, I'm going to

1727
01:17:24,479 --> 01:17:28,240
Speaker 3: just trust them and unless they do something otherwise. Some

1728
01:17:28,280 --> 01:17:30,559
Speaker 3: people are very much like I'm tired of being hurt,

1729
01:17:30,720 --> 01:17:33,360
Speaker 3: tired of being let down, and I don't give a

1730
01:17:33,400 --> 01:17:36,040
Speaker 3: fuck who you are, what you say, I'm gonna treat

1731
01:17:36,120 --> 01:17:40,559
Speaker 3: you like you're the enemy until unless I feel that

1732
01:17:40,600 --> 01:17:42,920
Speaker 3: it's proven otherwise and there's nothing you can do you

1733
01:17:42,920 --> 01:17:46,559
Speaker 3: shouldn't like, For example, me being a man, I hang

1734
01:17:46,600 --> 01:17:48,360
Speaker 3: out a lot of spaces where there's women, a lot.

1735
01:17:48,200 --> 01:17:49,920
Speaker 2: Of LGBTQ people.

1736
01:17:51,439 --> 01:17:54,320
Speaker 3: Might be my friends of mine on social media and stuff,

1737
01:17:54,560 --> 01:17:55,960
Speaker 3: or you know, they listen to.

1738
01:17:55,880 --> 01:17:56,839
Speaker 2: The show and whatnot.

1739
01:17:57,520 --> 01:18:01,080
Speaker 3: I never try to put form if you know what

1740
01:18:01,120 --> 01:18:03,599
Speaker 3: I'm saying, like, I never felt like, let me go

1741
01:18:03,680 --> 01:18:07,080
Speaker 3: find a way to show you ah am safe, you know,

1742
01:18:07,120 --> 01:18:08,840
Speaker 3: And when people write the show when we had a

1743
01:18:08,880 --> 01:18:11,439
Speaker 3: Facebook group, I would tell them it's not necessarily a

1744
01:18:11,479 --> 01:18:13,240
Speaker 3: safe face. And I don't want people to call it

1745
01:18:13,320 --> 01:18:15,559
Speaker 3: that because I think people that call it shit like

1746
01:18:15,600 --> 01:18:19,680
Speaker 3: that are the ultimate like egotistical control freaks, because you

1747
01:18:19,680 --> 01:18:22,639
Speaker 3: can't control human beings, and once it becomes so many people,

1748
01:18:22,720 --> 01:18:25,759
Speaker 3: people are toxic and people are soxic to different people

1749
01:18:25,800 --> 01:18:29,000
Speaker 3: in different groups for different reasons. The most you can

1750
01:18:29,040 --> 01:18:31,040
Speaker 3: do is try to be like, hey, we're not gonna

1751
01:18:31,040 --> 01:18:31,559
Speaker 3: allow this.

1752
01:18:32,000 --> 01:18:33,880
Speaker 2: Hey don't say that.

1753
01:18:33,720 --> 01:18:36,000
Speaker 3: That's the most you really can do, I mean not

1754
01:18:36,160 --> 01:18:38,599
Speaker 3: you throw the motherfuckers in jail in the Facebook group, right, right,

1755
01:18:38,880 --> 01:18:41,040
Speaker 3: So you know you might can kick somebody out for

1756
01:18:41,520 --> 01:18:43,840
Speaker 3: violating the rule, but you can't really guarantee that it

1757
01:18:43,880 --> 01:18:46,360
Speaker 3: would never happen in the first place, which is to

1758
01:18:46,439 --> 01:18:50,599
Speaker 3: me what you know, part of the illusion of like

1759
01:18:50,640 --> 01:18:53,400
Speaker 3: the safety is like, I'll make sure this doesn't happen.

1760
01:18:53,520 --> 01:18:55,680
Speaker 2: Nah, I'm gonna be reacting.

1761
01:18:55,200 --> 01:18:58,600
Speaker 3: To it, and I don't have all the answers. Sometimes

1762
01:18:58,640 --> 01:19:01,320
Speaker 3: my authentic reaction is what you have and what you get.

1763
01:19:01,600 --> 01:19:07,400
Speaker 3: Sometimes I can't see certain things unless someone unless I

1764
01:19:07,439 --> 01:19:10,280
Speaker 3: have seen it explained or read it or something like that,

1765
01:19:10,600 --> 01:19:12,640
Speaker 3: And even then I'm not always still sure what the

1766
01:19:12,720 --> 01:19:16,760
Speaker 3: right answer is, you know, when it comes to like

1767
01:19:18,040 --> 01:19:20,200
Speaker 3: women in my life and shit like that, Like there's

1768
01:19:20,240 --> 01:19:24,120
Speaker 3: some women I can tell from jump they're looking for

1769
01:19:24,160 --> 01:19:27,840
Speaker 3: a reason to mistrust me from from jump, but it's

1770
01:19:27,880 --> 01:19:30,800
Speaker 3: because of their lived experience of a lot of untrustworthy

1771
01:19:30,800 --> 01:19:34,599
Speaker 3: ass niggas fucking them over. So I'm not gonna live

1772
01:19:34,640 --> 01:19:36,960
Speaker 3: my life to prove I'm not like the next nigga.

1773
01:19:37,000 --> 01:19:37,799
Speaker 2: That's just stupid.

1774
01:19:38,120 --> 01:19:41,320
Speaker 3: I can only live my life with the fucking morality

1775
01:19:41,400 --> 01:19:42,680
Speaker 3: and the convictions that I have.

1776
01:19:43,160 --> 01:19:44,760
Speaker 2: Some people will gravitate towards it.

1777
01:19:45,120 --> 01:19:48,519
Speaker 3: Some people will loosen up and feel like, Okay, this

1778
01:19:48,600 --> 01:19:51,280
Speaker 3: dude isn't ever gonna be like and now that I

1779
01:19:51,280 --> 01:19:53,320
Speaker 3: got you alone, let me pull my dick out of something.

1780
01:19:53,360 --> 01:19:55,000
Speaker 2: Some weird shit right there.

1781
01:19:55,280 --> 01:19:57,800
Speaker 3: But we read articles about men that do shit like

1782
01:19:57,800 --> 01:20:00,040
Speaker 3: that all day every day. The most I can and

1783
01:20:00,200 --> 01:20:02,880
Speaker 3: really do is try to be understanding of the perspective

1784
01:20:02,920 --> 01:20:07,400
Speaker 3: that somebody would have that would view me as a threat, right,

1785
01:20:07,680 --> 01:20:07,880
Speaker 3: you know.

1786
01:20:08,120 --> 01:20:10,679
Speaker 2: And and that's as a black man.

1787
01:20:10,800 --> 01:20:15,799
Speaker 3: That's a difficult thing to constantly stay aware of because

1788
01:20:15,840 --> 01:20:20,120
Speaker 3: part of the way that America oppresses Black men specifically

1789
01:20:20,360 --> 01:20:22,639
Speaker 3: is that we are considered a threat when we aren't.

1790
01:20:23,400 --> 01:20:28,439
Speaker 3: But I have to accept that to certain two LGBTQ people,

1791
01:20:28,600 --> 01:20:33,479
Speaker 3: to women, to certain children, sometimes they may see me

1792
01:20:34,360 --> 01:20:36,519
Speaker 3: as the potential for a threat that I feel that

1793
01:20:36,560 --> 01:20:39,479
Speaker 3: I'm not. And the niggas that are threats, they don't

1794
01:20:39,520 --> 01:20:41,280
Speaker 3: take the time out to be like, I'm gonna wear

1795
01:20:41,320 --> 01:20:42,080
Speaker 3: a threat T shirt.

1796
01:20:42,760 --> 01:20:44,200
Speaker 1: You don't can you can't tell the difference.

1797
01:20:44,400 --> 01:20:46,680
Speaker 3: So I have to understand and have some empathy for

1798
01:20:46,720 --> 01:20:49,200
Speaker 3: the fact that, hey, it might look like.

1799
01:20:49,240 --> 01:20:52,599
Speaker 2: My neighbor not waving at me even though we live

1800
01:20:52,680 --> 01:20:53,080
Speaker 2: next door.

1801
01:20:53,120 --> 01:20:56,920
Speaker 3: To each other for years, and you know, I can

1802
01:20:57,000 --> 01:21:00,720
Speaker 3: tell she gets out her card before after I get

1803
01:21:00,760 --> 01:21:04,120
Speaker 3: out my car and go in the house, like I

1804
01:21:04,240 --> 01:21:06,720
Speaker 3: just you know, could be racist, Could be that she

1805
01:21:06,880 --> 01:21:09,920
Speaker 3: just is looking out for her own safety and feels

1806
01:21:09,920 --> 01:21:11,880
Speaker 3: a certain way about men and shit, I don't know,

1807
01:21:12,560 --> 01:21:14,040
Speaker 3: you know, I don't know if she had a man

1808
01:21:14,120 --> 01:21:16,240
Speaker 3: stalk her in the past. I don't know she's been threatened.

1809
01:21:16,520 --> 01:21:18,439
Speaker 3: I don't know if she's been physically abused. I don't

1810
01:21:18,439 --> 01:21:20,599
Speaker 3: know she's sexually assault that. I don't know that shit.

1811
01:21:21,080 --> 01:21:24,439
Speaker 3: So to a certain extent, I have to just accept

1812
01:21:24,439 --> 01:21:26,559
Speaker 3: that I don't have any control over these things, and

1813
01:21:26,600 --> 01:21:28,040
Speaker 3: people see what they want to see.

1814
01:21:28,439 --> 01:21:31,680
Speaker 2: You know. The longer we do this show and the.

1815
01:21:31,640 --> 01:21:35,000
Speaker 3: More popular it gets, the more I recognize I'm gonna

1816
01:21:35,040 --> 01:21:37,800
Speaker 3: have to accept that some people's right to be wrong

1817
01:21:37,840 --> 01:21:40,080
Speaker 3: about me. It's just their right to be wrong about me,

1818
01:21:40,080 --> 01:21:41,080
Speaker 3: and it ain't my business.

1819
01:21:42,000 --> 01:21:42,200
Speaker 2: You know.

1820
01:21:42,240 --> 01:21:46,639
Speaker 3: I constantly tell people about like some shit ain't my business,

1821
01:21:46,760 --> 01:21:49,040
Speaker 3: and I try to stay out of it, you know.

1822
01:21:49,600 --> 01:21:53,400
Speaker 3: So I try to handle what I know and act

1823
01:21:53,479 --> 01:21:55,880
Speaker 3: on that information, but I try not to hop in

1824
01:21:55,920 --> 01:21:58,880
Speaker 3: shit that's not my business, and it's really not that

1825
01:21:58,920 --> 01:21:59,759
Speaker 3: woman's business.

1826
01:21:59,760 --> 01:22:02,840
Speaker 2: If I think her establishment or her.

1827
01:22:02,840 --> 01:22:06,479
Speaker 3: Policy might be racist, it's it's like there's really nothing

1828
01:22:06,479 --> 01:22:07,960
Speaker 3: she can do about it, and I don't want her

1829
01:22:08,000 --> 01:22:10,559
Speaker 3: to feel obligated to like treat me differently because I'm

1830
01:22:10,560 --> 01:22:11,400
Speaker 3: black or whatever.

1831
01:22:11,920 --> 01:22:14,240
Speaker 2: You know. It felt racist.

1832
01:22:14,240 --> 01:22:16,320
Speaker 3: But it's the same reason I didn't write the yelp

1833
01:22:16,360 --> 01:22:20,080
Speaker 3: review that like Karen wanted to write. It's the reason

1834
01:22:20,120 --> 01:22:22,360
Speaker 3: I didn't feel like going back up there. It was

1835
01:22:22,439 --> 01:22:24,680
Speaker 3: just kind of this we'll come out of Wakonda, were

1836
01:22:24,720 --> 01:22:28,240
Speaker 3: back to America, you know, type of moment. So but

1837
01:22:28,240 --> 01:22:32,000
Speaker 3: but yeah, I would not waste I don't waste any

1838
01:22:32,000 --> 01:22:37,600
Speaker 3: time trying to prove I'm something that people think I am.

1839
01:22:37,600 --> 01:22:39,200
Speaker 3: That I'm not something that people think I am what

1840
01:22:39,280 --> 01:22:41,719
Speaker 3: it's negative because it's just you can't convince those people,

1841
01:22:42,320 --> 01:22:45,160
Speaker 3: you know. And I don't mean that to tell somebody like,

1842
01:22:45,200 --> 01:22:47,920
Speaker 3: don't even try to be not racist. I'm saying, be

1843
01:22:48,120 --> 01:22:52,160
Speaker 3: not racist, and your actions will show that you aren't.

1844
01:22:53,280 --> 01:22:54,720
Speaker 1: Your actions will show.

1845
01:22:54,640 --> 01:22:57,960
Speaker 3: But not every not every interaction is an opportunity to

1846
01:22:58,000 --> 01:23:00,320
Speaker 3: prove you're not racist. And honestly, don't white those kind

1847
01:23:00,360 --> 01:23:02,840
Speaker 3: of white people can be a bit exhausting. Come on,

1848
01:23:03,479 --> 01:23:05,680
Speaker 3: when they spend every fucking moment trying to convince you

1849
01:23:05,720 --> 01:23:06,599
Speaker 3: how not racist they are.

1850
01:23:06,640 --> 01:23:09,280
Speaker 2: It's like, dog, just be you, just be natural, Like.

1851
01:23:09,400 --> 01:23:12,040
Speaker 1: Just like right, just be natural. You don't, you know,

1852
01:23:12,080 --> 01:23:14,400
Speaker 1: you don't have to wear a I'm not racist t shirt?

1853
01:23:14,520 --> 01:23:17,479
Speaker 1: You know, because most black people, the brown people, just

1854
01:23:17,520 --> 01:23:20,439
Speaker 1: want to be treated with respect, period. Like that, right

1855
01:23:20,479 --> 01:23:23,439
Speaker 1: there is the bare minimal, right and once you do that,

1856
01:23:23,720 --> 01:23:26,640
Speaker 1: you most people will let their guards down, you know,

1857
01:23:26,720 --> 01:23:27,960
Speaker 1: and won't be as defensive.

1858
01:23:28,400 --> 01:23:28,599
Speaker 2: Dog.

1859
01:23:28,800 --> 01:23:33,000
Speaker 3: I've been in a situation where like if I'm the

1860
01:23:33,080 --> 01:23:36,280
Speaker 3: other day, I was coming in the house from playing basketball,

1861
01:23:36,760 --> 01:23:40,320
Speaker 3: my neighbor who lives upstairs is coming downstairs for something.

1862
01:23:40,360 --> 01:23:43,599
Speaker 3: I don't know what for exactly, and I think she's

1863
01:23:43,640 --> 01:23:46,080
Speaker 3: like works out a lot or whatever. And she's walking

1864
01:23:46,120 --> 01:23:50,160
Speaker 3: down the stairs and like some tights and like just

1865
01:23:50,200 --> 01:23:51,880
Speaker 3: like like a bra, like I don't even know if

1866
01:23:51,880 --> 01:23:53,800
Speaker 3: it's a sports bra. It's like just a bra, right,

1867
01:23:53,920 --> 01:23:55,760
Speaker 3: maybe like a bathing suit top. I don't know where.

1868
01:23:56,520 --> 01:23:59,760
Speaker 3: But we obviously she wasn't expecting to see it, like

1869
01:23:59,800 --> 01:24:01,160
Speaker 3: she was just going out to a car and then

1870
01:24:01,160 --> 01:24:03,760
Speaker 3: coming right back. She didn't like she was expecting to

1871
01:24:03,760 --> 01:24:05,680
Speaker 3: see me, and I damn sure wasn't expecting to look

1872
01:24:05,720 --> 01:24:07,719
Speaker 3: up to see some titties coming around the fucking hallway,

1873
01:24:07,800 --> 01:24:10,320
Speaker 3: either may eye contact.

1874
01:24:10,760 --> 01:24:12,519
Speaker 2: I immediately just looked down like.

1875
01:24:12,560 --> 01:24:15,160
Speaker 3: Okay, like I don't know, Like I don't mean to

1876
01:24:15,200 --> 01:24:17,720
Speaker 3: be you know, I don't want you to feel like

1877
01:24:17,760 --> 01:24:19,960
Speaker 3: I looked up and was like, cut her, damn some titties,

1878
01:24:20,240 --> 01:24:23,000
Speaker 3: you know, like that'll make you uncomfortable. We live in

1879
01:24:23,040 --> 01:24:25,280
Speaker 3: the same area. I don't want to go through this

1880
01:24:25,320 --> 01:24:27,639
Speaker 3: every time. You know, next time you see me, it's

1881
01:24:27,760 --> 01:24:28,839
Speaker 3: the nigga that's stared.

1882
01:24:28,600 --> 01:24:29,320
Speaker 2: At my titties.

1883
01:24:29,479 --> 01:24:31,880
Speaker 3: Now that it's so unreasonable that somebody walking around some

1884
01:24:31,960 --> 01:24:35,240
Speaker 3: titties hanging out, that any person, man, woman, or child

1885
01:24:35,360 --> 01:24:37,280
Speaker 3: might look up and be like, oh, goddamn, some titties.

1886
01:24:37,720 --> 01:24:40,160
Speaker 3: I'm not saying that's unreasonable, but in my mind, all

1887
01:24:40,280 --> 01:24:42,679
Speaker 3: that shit happened in the blink of a second, and

1888
01:24:43,360 --> 01:24:45,600
Speaker 3: maybe that makes an impact, and she next time she

1889
01:24:45,640 --> 01:24:48,000
Speaker 3: sees this, like, oh cool, the dude that understood I

1890
01:24:48,040 --> 01:24:50,879
Speaker 3: didn't want my titties stared at coming down the stairs,

1891
01:24:50,960 --> 01:24:54,080
Speaker 3: or maybe she didn't even notice, or maybe she fucking said.

1892
01:24:53,960 --> 01:24:55,759
Speaker 2: I seen him look at my titties for a second.

1893
01:24:55,960 --> 01:24:58,599
Speaker 2: This motherfucker. I don't know, you know what I'm saying.

1894
01:24:58,600 --> 01:25:01,120
Speaker 2: I don't get to control that control what I do.

1895
01:25:01,479 --> 01:25:04,519
Speaker 3: And what I decided to do is to say hey,

1896
01:25:04,920 --> 01:25:07,240
Speaker 3: then immediately look down like, oh, what's this on the

1897
01:25:07,240 --> 01:25:08,000
Speaker 3: ground in front of me?

1898
01:25:08,360 --> 01:25:10,360
Speaker 2: Let me walk to my house, right, Like, come on.

1899
01:25:10,600 --> 01:25:12,320
Speaker 3: I feel like that's kind of a space when you

1900
01:25:12,320 --> 01:25:14,680
Speaker 3: have privilege where you're not gonna be sure, You're not

1901
01:25:14,680 --> 01:25:16,840
Speaker 3: gonna know what's in their head. You just got to

1902
01:25:16,880 --> 01:25:19,160
Speaker 3: control your own actions and live your own convictions. So

1903
01:25:20,240 --> 01:25:22,160
Speaker 3: that's what I would say. I hope, you know, if

1904
01:25:22,160 --> 01:25:24,679
Speaker 3: that white woman wasn't racist and that was just a policy,

1905
01:25:25,840 --> 01:25:28,160
Speaker 3: I'll never know, you know, maybe next time I'll come

1906
01:25:28,160 --> 01:25:30,080
Speaker 3: in there, if I ever go back, I'll ask and

1907
01:25:30,120 --> 01:25:31,200
Speaker 3: be like, hey, so what's.

1908
01:25:31,040 --> 01:25:31,599
Speaker 2: To deal with this?

1909
01:25:32,200 --> 01:25:32,400
Speaker 1: You know?

1910
01:25:32,800 --> 01:25:37,320
Speaker 2: But in general, I don't know, felt racist. But that's it.

1911
01:25:37,439 --> 01:25:38,000
Speaker 2: That's the pair.

1912
01:25:38,160 --> 01:25:40,679
Speaker 3: I wanted to say that example on the show because

1913
01:25:40,680 --> 01:25:44,759
Speaker 3: that's the paranoia that we live with as black people

1914
01:25:44,760 --> 01:25:49,400
Speaker 3: in America. And it's the plausible deniability that someone could

1915
01:25:49,720 --> 01:25:52,120
Speaker 3: consciously be like I don't want black people eating here.

1916
01:25:53,640 --> 01:25:56,920
Speaker 1: And do that to us, right, And the thing is,

1917
01:25:56,960 --> 01:26:00,880
Speaker 1: because racism is so subtle, small action that can be

1918
01:26:01,040 --> 01:26:04,760
Speaker 1: denied is how it's out and open now, you know,

1919
01:26:05,040 --> 01:26:07,280
Speaker 1: and for the fact that, like Roger said, that's something

1920
01:26:07,320 --> 01:26:09,840
Speaker 1: that she could come and give all kinds of excuses

1921
01:26:09,880 --> 01:26:13,439
Speaker 1: and the average person who was not there or don't

1922
01:26:13,520 --> 01:26:16,200
Speaker 1: understand or didn't see it and don't know the subtle

1923
01:26:16,240 --> 01:26:18,640
Speaker 1: ways the racism can present it go okay and just

1924
01:26:18,680 --> 01:26:19,519
Speaker 1: ignored the complaint.

1925
01:26:19,680 --> 01:26:21,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, now, just look like a crazy person. If I

1926
01:26:22,080 --> 01:26:24,639
Speaker 3: explained this to somebody, Well, what did she do? Well,

1927
01:26:24,720 --> 01:26:26,559
Speaker 3: she said it would be fifteen twenty minutes to wait. Well,

1928
01:26:26,560 --> 01:26:28,519
Speaker 3: how do you know it wasn't fifteen twenty minutes. Well

1929
01:26:28,520 --> 01:26:30,760
Speaker 3: they sat to people in front of us, did they

1930
01:26:30,800 --> 01:26:33,280
Speaker 3: were those people? Maybe they waited to fifteen to twenty minutes? Well,

1931
01:26:33,280 --> 01:26:35,439
Speaker 3: I guess I don't know how long those people were there. Like,

1932
01:26:35,479 --> 01:26:38,240
Speaker 3: and now it becomes our whole thing where you know,

1933
01:26:38,600 --> 01:26:41,200
Speaker 3: it's just it's no fun and I came out to

1934
01:26:41,240 --> 01:26:41,960
Speaker 3: eat to have fun.

1935
01:26:42,160 --> 01:26:44,280
Speaker 2: So all right.

1936
01:26:44,640 --> 01:26:49,240
Speaker 3: H next email this from Crystal. Hey new listener and

1937
01:26:49,320 --> 01:26:51,280
Speaker 3: I love your show. Hey Ridy Karen, I'm a Newish

1938
01:26:51,280 --> 01:26:53,800
Speaker 3: listener to the show and just started listening a few

1939
01:26:53,800 --> 01:26:54,280
Speaker 3: months ago.

1940
01:26:54,360 --> 01:26:55,320
Speaker 2: Your show makes.

1941
01:26:55,160 --> 01:26:58,000
Speaker 3: Work so much more bearable at the movement for work

1942
01:26:58,120 --> 01:27:01,080
Speaker 3: from a work vibe that I loved to one that

1943
01:27:01,200 --> 01:27:04,559
Speaker 3: I tolerated but had my work buddies, to one where

1944
01:27:04,600 --> 01:27:07,080
Speaker 3: I'm the only black face or even a young face.

1945
01:27:07,160 --> 01:27:09,680
Speaker 3: I often feel isolated and lonely at work, and I

1946
01:27:09,720 --> 01:27:12,320
Speaker 3: have a one hour commute to boot. However, listening to

1947
01:27:12,400 --> 01:27:15,679
Speaker 3: you and Karen's infectious voice often has me anticipating lunch

1948
01:27:16,080 --> 01:27:17,840
Speaker 3: or leaving so I can finish listening to the show.

1949
01:27:18,320 --> 01:27:21,000
Speaker 3: I initially started listening after hearing your take on the

1950
01:27:21,040 --> 01:27:25,080
Speaker 3: PBS Vietnam documentary and thought, Wow, this show is so awesome.

1951
01:27:25,320 --> 01:27:28,280
Speaker 3: As a gen X millennial or whatever our generation is,

1952
01:27:28,720 --> 01:27:30,320
Speaker 3: I filled my age.

1953
01:27:30,000 --> 01:27:30,720
Speaker 2: Catching up to me.

1954
01:27:30,760 --> 01:27:32,760
Speaker 3: I'm thirty seven years old and I'm just learning how

1955
01:27:32,800 --> 01:27:36,519
Speaker 3: to use podcasts. Yeah, mainly out of necessity due to

1956
01:27:36,520 --> 01:27:39,240
Speaker 3: my new long commute since we moved to Florida. It

1957
01:27:39,320 --> 01:27:41,639
Speaker 3: was a hard trying to find podcasts that I felt

1958
01:27:41,640 --> 01:27:43,760
Speaker 3: catered to my unique age group. Some I felt were

1959
01:27:43,800 --> 01:27:46,599
Speaker 3: too young or like with early twenty somethings. And then

1960
01:27:46,640 --> 01:27:49,120
Speaker 3: I found the Read and I binged on that and

1961
01:27:49,200 --> 01:27:52,080
Speaker 3: my quest of black pop culture started. I stumbled on

1962
01:27:52,120 --> 01:27:54,200
Speaker 3: your show during the long search of my iPhone and

1963
01:27:54,240 --> 01:27:56,280
Speaker 3: felt I finally found what I was looking for.

1964
01:27:56,400 --> 01:28:00,240
Speaker 2: So anyways, thank you, thank you. That's so nice.

1965
01:28:00,360 --> 01:28:03,280
Speaker 3: Yes, Roder often here you mentioned you're an introvert, and

1966
01:28:03,320 --> 01:28:05,960
Speaker 3: I'm guessing Karen as an extrovert. It's funny because I'm

1967
01:28:05,960 --> 01:28:08,720
Speaker 3: the introvert in my relationship and my boyfriend is the extrovert.

1968
01:28:08,920 --> 01:28:09,679
Speaker 2: I brought him.

1969
01:28:11,080 --> 01:28:15,320
Speaker 3: I brought him about my way about the technological train loll.

1970
01:28:15,400 --> 01:28:17,880
Speaker 3: Even though he works in it and loves your podcast too,

1971
01:28:18,200 --> 01:28:21,800
Speaker 3: he too is an agnostic slash atheist, although he grew

1972
01:28:21,880 --> 01:28:24,200
Speaker 3: up Catholic. Anyways, this is getting along, so let me

1973
01:28:24,200 --> 01:28:27,320
Speaker 3: get to the point. He is the extrovert of our relationship.

1974
01:28:26,800 --> 01:28:29,000
Speaker 2: And being with him. I'm often fascinated by the extrovert

1975
01:28:29,080 --> 01:28:31,519
Speaker 2: introvert relationships. It causes issue.

1976
01:28:31,640 --> 01:28:36,000
Speaker 3: It caused issues in a relationship initially, but after actually

1977
01:28:36,080 --> 01:28:39,160
Speaker 3: sitting down to discuss our differences and that it doesn't

1978
01:28:39,200 --> 01:28:41,639
Speaker 3: mean you are right or I'm wrong. We simply see

1979
01:28:41,680 --> 01:28:44,080
Speaker 3: things differently. This is a business based on one of

1980
01:28:44,080 --> 01:28:46,160
Speaker 3: your more recent podcasts where you mentioned the list of

1981
01:28:46,200 --> 01:28:49,040
Speaker 3: things that people in happy relationships do. Although I am

1982
01:28:49,080 --> 01:28:52,720
Speaker 3: an introvert, I typically love going out the clubs, bars.

1983
01:28:52,479 --> 01:28:53,000
Speaker 2: And loudest.

1984
01:28:53,040 --> 01:28:55,920
Speaker 3: But then when I get there with my friends or

1985
01:28:56,000 --> 01:28:58,799
Speaker 3: even him, and wonder, what the fuck was I thinking?

1986
01:28:59,200 --> 01:29:01,320
Speaker 3: Let me take a few shots because I must have

1987
01:29:01,360 --> 01:29:01,839
Speaker 3: been insane.

1988
01:29:01,840 --> 01:29:03,960
Speaker 2: I agree to us. Lol, I have going.

1989
01:29:04,360 --> 01:29:06,600
Speaker 3: I love going. I think that's natural. I think a

1990
01:29:06,640 --> 01:29:07,840
Speaker 3: lot of people go to the club and they have

1991
01:29:07,920 --> 01:29:09,080
Speaker 3: to drink because.

1992
01:29:08,760 --> 01:29:12,000
Speaker 2: Of that type of shit a lot.

1993
01:29:12,120 --> 01:29:13,559
Speaker 3: I think a lot of drinking that clubs and shit

1994
01:29:13,640 --> 01:29:16,160
Speaker 3: is just coping. We have to quote unquote delucing up.

1995
01:29:16,560 --> 01:29:17,320
Speaker 2: I love going on.

1996
01:29:17,320 --> 01:29:21,000
Speaker 3: Vacation themed parks like Disney and sight seeing. I'm always

1997
01:29:21,000 --> 01:29:23,080
Speaker 3: trying to find events to go to. I typically drag

1998
01:29:23,160 --> 01:29:25,400
Speaker 3: my mom and our four year old daughter along for

1999
01:29:25,479 --> 01:29:27,400
Speaker 3: their adventure. He, on the other hand, offers to stay

2000
01:29:27,439 --> 01:29:29,800
Speaker 3: in the house and often ask why do we have

2001
01:29:29,880 --> 01:29:32,760
Speaker 3: to do this. It's so fascinating the dynamics of the

2002
01:29:32,800 --> 01:29:35,479
Speaker 3: introvert extra relationship. He's like, you ride and that he

2003
01:29:35,520 --> 01:29:38,360
Speaker 3: barely wants to do anything for birthdays while I smiling

2004
01:29:38,360 --> 01:29:41,439
Speaker 3: and such. However, I only enjoyed these activities with one

2005
01:29:41,479 --> 01:29:44,520
Speaker 3: other person. If you place me in a room of strangers,

2006
01:29:44,560 --> 01:29:46,599
Speaker 3: I get anxiety and think about how would a normal

2007
01:29:46,600 --> 01:29:47,160
Speaker 3: person act.

2008
01:29:47,840 --> 01:29:50,639
Speaker 2: I know that feeling talk about the weather.

2009
01:29:50,880 --> 01:29:52,800
Speaker 3: No, that's stupid. Ask what they do for a living. No,

2010
01:29:52,920 --> 01:29:55,320
Speaker 3: that's too intrusive. Wait, stop being aware though, Look at

2011
01:29:55,320 --> 01:29:58,000
Speaker 3: your phone so you look normal, while here's a natural

2012
01:29:58,040 --> 01:29:59,920
Speaker 3: with strangers and we'll get on the floor and dance

2013
01:30:00,600 --> 01:30:03,280
Speaker 3: doing the cha cha while I'm sitting at the table

2014
01:30:03,280 --> 01:30:05,920
Speaker 3: in the corner of my permanent bitch face plaster because

2015
01:30:05,960 --> 01:30:07,120
Speaker 3: I forget to fake.

2016
01:30:07,200 --> 01:30:08,679
Speaker 2: I'm happy to be here face.

2017
01:30:09,040 --> 01:30:10,840
Speaker 3: He's trying to get me to dance, and I'm too

2018
01:30:10,880 --> 01:30:13,080
Speaker 3: worried about my nine rhythm and getting my black car

2019
01:30:13,120 --> 01:30:14,519
Speaker 3: revoke because I'm counting on the.

2020
01:30:14,479 --> 01:30:15,240
Speaker 2: Ones the threes.

2021
01:30:15,520 --> 01:30:18,880
Speaker 3: As Karen says I after being together for so long,

2022
01:30:18,960 --> 01:30:21,439
Speaker 3: he knows when I'm in perilel Typically, we'll try to

2023
01:30:21,439 --> 01:30:23,960
Speaker 3: break the ice with the strangers, as he knows. My

2024
01:30:24,200 --> 01:30:27,720
Speaker 3: comfort subjects are anything healthcare work related, because I'm a

2025
01:30:27,720 --> 01:30:30,759
Speaker 3: nerd and a pharmacist and that will get me talking NonStop.

2026
01:30:30,960 --> 01:30:34,240
Speaker 3: Loll Anyways, all just to ask, did the differences between

2027
01:30:34,280 --> 01:30:36,120
Speaker 3: you and Karen is to cause issues or was it

2028
01:30:36,160 --> 01:30:36,679
Speaker 3: perfect fit?

2029
01:30:36,760 --> 01:30:40,080
Speaker 2: Thanks again for all you do, glam Chick ninety nine.

2030
01:30:42,960 --> 01:30:48,639
Speaker 3: Hmmm, I don't feel like it necessarily did, but we

2031
01:30:48,640 --> 01:30:49,160
Speaker 3: were we.

2032
01:30:49,160 --> 01:30:51,799
Speaker 2: Got together at a very young age. We're very.

2033
01:30:53,880 --> 01:30:56,760
Speaker 3: Lucky in that way, and I think we also kind

2034
01:30:56,760 --> 01:31:00,479
Speaker 3: of form patterns and habits younger, so that I think

2035
01:31:00,600 --> 01:31:02,920
Speaker 3: at a time where it would have been like very

2036
01:31:03,960 --> 01:31:06,200
Speaker 3: like say, if we would have met at twenty five,

2037
01:31:06,400 --> 01:31:09,000
Speaker 3: we probably would have been having totally different types of lives.

2038
01:31:10,160 --> 01:31:12,840
Speaker 3: You just kind of get used to somebody's rhythm at

2039
01:31:12,920 --> 01:31:17,240
Speaker 3: a certain age, and I think, you know, you get

2040
01:31:17,320 --> 01:31:19,200
Speaker 3: used to that. You know, like we go out and

2041
01:31:19,240 --> 01:31:21,160
Speaker 3: we go to some event where there's gonna be dancing

2042
01:31:21,160 --> 01:31:23,160
Speaker 3: and stuff. Cam will probably dance, but I wouldn't.

2043
01:31:23,240 --> 01:31:26,840
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah. And it's also, like I said,

2044
01:31:26,920 --> 01:31:31,560
Speaker 1: we have different personalities, but I can from an extrovert perspective.

2045
01:31:32,680 --> 01:31:36,680
Speaker 1: I had to understand his introvert perspective because people that

2046
01:31:36,680 --> 01:31:40,160
Speaker 1: are extroverts are like, oh, fuck you, and not fuck

2047
01:31:40,200 --> 01:31:42,439
Speaker 1: you as fuck you, but like, these are the things

2048
01:31:42,439 --> 01:31:44,720
Speaker 1: that I want to do, So I'm gonna get out

2049
01:31:44,720 --> 01:31:45,400
Speaker 1: here and dance.

2050
01:31:45,880 --> 01:31:47,280
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do these things.

2051
01:31:47,560 --> 01:31:51,720
Speaker 1: And sometimes they can almost actually disregard the feelings of

2052
01:31:51,760 --> 01:31:54,559
Speaker 1: an introvert, but their feelings matter too. And for a

2053
01:31:54,560 --> 01:31:57,240
Speaker 1: lot of extroverts, that's you're like, oh man, you always

2054
01:31:57,360 --> 01:31:58,960
Speaker 1: ruin and shit, I want to do some stuff, then

2055
01:31:59,000 --> 01:32:01,120
Speaker 1: I gotta look at your blacks and you want to

2056
01:32:01,120 --> 01:32:02,840
Speaker 1: stay at the walls and you don't. You know, a

2057
01:32:02,840 --> 01:32:05,799
Speaker 1: lot of times it costs is conflict with a conflict.

2058
01:32:05,800 --> 01:32:07,599
Speaker 1: A lot of times don't actually need to be there.

2059
01:32:07,640 --> 01:32:10,000
Speaker 1: It's just a difference in the personalities, and you need

2060
01:32:10,040 --> 01:32:13,160
Speaker 1: to be understanding to your mate. And people that are

2061
01:32:13,160 --> 01:32:15,000
Speaker 1: introversal are looking like every time we go out, I

2062
01:32:15,000 --> 01:32:16,800
Speaker 1: gotta I gotta deal with you dance and I gotta

2063
01:32:16,800 --> 01:32:18,600
Speaker 1: deal with you leaving me alone, like I got to

2064
01:32:18,600 --> 01:32:21,240
Speaker 1: sit here looking And it's just a difference in the personalities.

2065
01:32:22,400 --> 01:32:25,040
Speaker 1: And a relationship is a balance. So we've learned how

2066
01:32:25,040 --> 01:32:26,599
Speaker 1: to kind of balance each other out, Like when we

2067
01:32:26,640 --> 01:32:30,920
Speaker 1: go do things. It's particularly when we travel. We both

2068
01:32:31,000 --> 01:32:35,160
Speaker 1: understand we're both gonna respond completely different differently. I understand

2069
01:32:35,160 --> 01:32:37,120
Speaker 1: if we go do something, we actually need to come

2070
01:32:37,200 --> 01:32:37,759
Speaker 1: back and rest.

2071
01:32:38,120 --> 01:32:38,320
Speaker 2: You know.

2072
01:32:38,439 --> 01:32:40,240
Speaker 1: I'm like, go go go go, go, go, go, go, go, go,

2073
01:32:40,240 --> 01:32:42,080
Speaker 1: go go go the whole time. But that's because that's

2074
01:32:42,120 --> 01:32:44,719
Speaker 1: my personality. But I says, Okay, I've done this event,

2075
01:32:45,160 --> 01:32:47,599
Speaker 1: I've had enough, and let's go back and let's resk.

2076
01:32:47,640 --> 01:32:49,559
Speaker 1: A lot of times I actually need the rest too,

2077
01:32:49,840 --> 01:32:52,360
Speaker 1: But because my personality always want me to go, go, go,

2078
01:32:52,360 --> 01:32:54,960
Speaker 1: go go, I had to learn, Okay, this rest actually

2079
01:32:55,000 --> 01:32:58,880
Speaker 1: benefits both parties and it's not that bad actually going

2080
01:32:58,960 --> 01:33:00,720
Speaker 1: you know what, you were right, And I think a

2081
01:33:00,720 --> 01:33:03,639
Speaker 1: lot of times, particular when people see each other when

2082
01:33:03,680 --> 01:33:06,400
Speaker 1: they get together as they get older, a lot of

2083
01:33:06,400 --> 01:33:08,839
Speaker 1: people think they're right all the time when you're alone,

2084
01:33:09,160 --> 01:33:11,080
Speaker 1: not alone as far as like, when you're not in

2085
01:33:11,080 --> 01:33:14,600
Speaker 1: a relationship, you don't have to consult of people's feelings,

2086
01:33:14,720 --> 01:33:18,280
Speaker 1: people's emotions, how they feel. You don't have this emotional

2087
01:33:18,320 --> 01:33:20,439
Speaker 1: attachment to them, so you can just do what you

2088
01:33:20,479 --> 01:33:23,080
Speaker 1: want to do. You don't have any responsibility to this person,

2089
01:33:23,120 --> 01:33:25,360
Speaker 1: but when you do, you have to consider those things.

2090
01:33:25,439 --> 01:33:28,920
Speaker 1: And I think that we're both learning. And also I

2091
01:33:28,960 --> 01:33:31,360
Speaker 1: think I've kind of pulled Roger out of that and

2092
01:33:31,439 --> 01:33:33,600
Speaker 1: to say, oh, it's okay to do certain things. You

2093
01:33:33,640 --> 01:33:36,360
Speaker 1: don't have to actually be a flower on the wall

2094
01:33:36,479 --> 01:33:37,520
Speaker 1: for everything.

2095
01:33:38,880 --> 01:33:39,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think.

2096
01:33:39,680 --> 01:33:41,719
Speaker 3: Well, see, the other thing is a lot of people

2097
01:33:41,760 --> 01:33:46,760
Speaker 3: think of introversion as social awkwardness. I'm not socially no,

2098
01:33:46,840 --> 01:33:48,880
Speaker 3: you're not. I talk like I talk to people.

2099
01:33:48,920 --> 01:33:51,120
Speaker 2: I'm funny. People like me people love.

2100
01:33:51,360 --> 01:33:55,559
Speaker 3: Like if it is a situation where they're small talk happening,

2101
01:33:55,640 --> 01:33:58,439
Speaker 3: people normally gravitate towards me because I'm not talking about

2102
01:33:58,439 --> 01:34:01,519
Speaker 3: the same shit everybody's talking about, so like it's not

2103
01:34:01,560 --> 01:34:05,080
Speaker 3: necessarily that, but it's just like the it does drain

2104
01:34:05,200 --> 01:34:07,000
Speaker 3: me to be around a lot of people and shit,

2105
01:34:07,200 --> 01:34:09,680
Speaker 3: Like it just is what it is, and like I

2106
01:34:09,720 --> 01:34:12,080
Speaker 3: accept that. And I like to recharge my batteries. I

2107
01:34:12,160 --> 01:34:14,400
Speaker 3: like to be charged up before I go to places.

2108
01:34:14,439 --> 01:34:16,479
Speaker 3: I like to gear up, and I think the more

2109
01:34:16,520 --> 01:34:18,519
Speaker 3: time I have to do that, the better it is

2110
01:34:18,560 --> 01:34:21,840
Speaker 3: when I go out. But and I'm not the kind

2111
01:34:21,880 --> 01:34:24,200
Speaker 3: of person that's like, oh man, I was gonna have

2112
01:34:24,240 --> 01:34:25,559
Speaker 3: a bad time, but I kind around.

2113
01:34:25,360 --> 01:34:27,360
Speaker 2: All these people, and these people made me have a

2114
01:34:27,360 --> 01:34:27,920
Speaker 2: good time.

2115
01:34:28,040 --> 01:34:30,839
Speaker 3: It's kind of the opposite where it's like I knew

2116
01:34:31,040 --> 01:34:32,679
Speaker 3: I wanted to have a good time, so I took

2117
01:34:32,720 --> 01:34:34,479
Speaker 3: the time to rest and prepare myself so that I

2118
01:34:34,520 --> 01:34:36,840
Speaker 3: could show up and just have be my best self.

2119
01:34:37,080 --> 01:34:38,960
Speaker 3: We're ready to break hold on, we're coming right back.

2120
01:34:39,040 --> 01:34:41,559
Speaker 3: Let me go to the next session real quick. Guys

2121
01:34:42,400 --> 01:34:43,479
Speaker 3: shouldn't take but a second.

2122
01:34:43,520 --> 01:34:45,960
Speaker 1: No problem safer between him and me. A lot of

2123
01:34:45,960 --> 01:34:48,680
Speaker 1: times people charged me up like we're completely different. So,

2124
01:34:49,200 --> 01:34:52,240
Speaker 1: you know, like when we went to what was a

2125
01:34:52,280 --> 01:34:55,519
Speaker 1: negro con, like came back from that and we knew

2126
01:34:55,520 --> 01:34:57,880
Speaker 1: we were opposites, but that's when we realized we were

2127
01:34:57,920 --> 01:35:00,320
Speaker 1: the complete opposite because I can say on the way back, gad,

2128
01:35:00,640 --> 01:35:03,120
Speaker 1: let's do a show, and I was completely everybody gone.

2129
01:35:03,880 --> 01:35:06,240
Speaker 1: All the energy that I had been on one hundred

2130
01:35:06,280 --> 01:35:09,920
Speaker 1: had left me. So I was like, nobody's here, and

2131
01:35:09,960 --> 01:35:12,200
Speaker 1: then I need the time to recover, because introvers and

2132
01:35:12,280 --> 01:35:14,679
Speaker 1: extroverts both need time to recover, just at different times.

2133
01:35:14,880 --> 01:35:17,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, And like I said, it's like like you said

2134
01:35:17,360 --> 01:35:19,400
Speaker 3: in your email me, there's no right or wrong to

2135
01:35:19,479 --> 01:35:21,280
Speaker 3: It's just how people work. And the thing is best

2136
01:35:21,320 --> 01:35:24,040
Speaker 3: for people to recognize how they work. And I'm sure

2137
01:35:24,080 --> 01:35:26,720
Speaker 3: there's not extremes always. There's a lot of stuff on

2138
01:35:26,760 --> 01:35:28,960
Speaker 3: the spectrum and there's correct you know, there's been times

2139
01:35:29,000 --> 01:35:31,920
Speaker 3: where I felt more where I feel more outgoing, and

2140
01:35:31,960 --> 01:35:35,680
Speaker 3: I'll be it'll seem that I'm more extroverted. Just you know,

2141
01:35:35,880 --> 01:35:37,519
Speaker 3: I'll have times where I'm like, I am gonna talk

2142
01:35:37,560 --> 01:35:39,760
Speaker 3: to this stranger. I'm gonna stop and do that, and

2143
01:35:39,800 --> 01:35:43,040
Speaker 3: I think another thing that makes me feel that way

2144
01:35:43,400 --> 01:35:44,560
Speaker 3: is the more.

2145
01:35:44,600 --> 01:35:46,440
Speaker 2: Happier I am, and the more.

2146
01:35:47,720 --> 01:35:50,000
Speaker 3: Uh in tune with myself I am, the easier it

2147
01:35:50,040 --> 01:35:52,080
Speaker 3: is to have those moments where I'm like, you know what,

2148
01:35:52,160 --> 01:35:56,040
Speaker 3: I'm gonna like, uh, the stranger that just came up

2149
01:35:56,040 --> 01:35:57,960
Speaker 3: to me at tomorrow, Like fuck it, I'm gonna talk

2150
01:35:58,000 --> 01:36:01,880
Speaker 3: to them today, you know, so you know you have

2151
01:36:01,920 --> 01:36:03,840
Speaker 3: to deal with that. But like I said, I've never

2152
01:36:03,840 --> 01:36:06,480
Speaker 3: felt like it was an issue in our relationship necessarily.

2153
01:36:06,600 --> 01:36:10,639
Speaker 3: I think the only situations and this these still happen,

2154
01:36:10,960 --> 01:36:13,800
Speaker 3: like these don't go away. But the only situations that

2155
01:36:13,840 --> 01:36:15,880
Speaker 3: I really get like, oh my god.

2156
01:36:15,720 --> 01:36:16,320
Speaker 2: It's like.

2157
01:36:18,080 --> 01:36:20,800
Speaker 3: If I'm somewhere and I'm ready to go and Karen's like,

2158
01:36:20,920 --> 01:36:23,800
Speaker 3: I'm talking to this person, so fucked whatever you're doing,

2159
01:36:24,000 --> 01:36:25,080
Speaker 3: Like those are the only time.

2160
01:36:24,960 --> 01:36:27,040
Speaker 1: Trying to get bat about that. I ain't gonna lie.

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01:36:26,920 --> 01:36:29,240
Speaker 3: I but those are the only times that I really

2162
01:36:29,280 --> 01:36:32,519
Speaker 3: feel like no promise is made. Yeah, like like okay,

2163
01:36:32,560 --> 01:36:34,439
Speaker 3: this is some this is for the birds. You know, this,

2164
01:36:34,640 --> 01:36:37,599
Speaker 3: this extroverts shit. But and you know, and I try

2165
01:36:37,640 --> 01:36:41,160
Speaker 3: my best not to be the person that goes somewhere

2166
01:36:41,240 --> 01:36:43,439
Speaker 3: and immediately like dude, I hate everything.

2167
01:36:43,600 --> 01:36:44,400
Speaker 2: This is trash.

2168
01:36:44,479 --> 01:36:47,120
Speaker 3: Let's go, let's leave, you know, I try to keep

2169
01:36:47,120 --> 01:36:49,400
Speaker 3: from doing that because you know, that's something I have

2170
01:36:49,439 --> 01:36:52,439
Speaker 3: to watch because I've been places where I'm like, I'm

2171
01:36:52,439 --> 01:36:54,479
Speaker 3: not having a good time right away and this ship

2172
01:36:54,560 --> 01:36:56,080
Speaker 3: I didn't really want to come here, and this shit

2173
01:36:56,200 --> 01:36:58,760
Speaker 3: is whack. Let's go do something else, you know. Like

2174
01:36:59,280 --> 01:37:01,439
Speaker 3: I've been that person, and I try to not be

2175
01:37:01,600 --> 01:37:04,080
Speaker 3: that person. But it's it's a it's a it's a struggle.

2176
01:37:04,120 --> 01:37:05,000
Speaker 3: It's a fine line.

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01:37:05,200 --> 01:37:07,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's a balancing guy. Like I said, I

2178
01:37:07,720 --> 01:37:10,679
Speaker 1: try to the older, particularly older I've got, I try

2179
01:37:10,720 --> 01:37:14,280
Speaker 1: to be more aware of that and more alert of that.

2180
01:37:15,000 --> 01:37:21,320
Speaker 1: Uh and actually just knowing your mate and knowing their

2181
01:37:21,360 --> 01:37:24,200
Speaker 1: body language and things like that. But you only learn

2182
01:37:24,240 --> 01:37:24,880
Speaker 1: that over time.

2183
01:37:25,520 --> 01:37:30,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, It's just interesting because you definitely you definitely like

2184
01:37:31,040 --> 01:37:32,880
Speaker 3: it's it's it's a thing. You definitely have to have

2185
01:37:32,920 --> 01:37:35,280
Speaker 3: empathy for the other person and then correct. That's really

2186
01:37:35,320 --> 01:37:39,640
Speaker 3: the major thing, all right. Last email, nerd geek Ninja says, Hey,

2187
01:37:39,720 --> 01:37:41,840
Speaker 3: Roder Karen, hope this gets in time and.

2188
01:37:41,800 --> 01:37:43,880
Speaker 2: Y'all doing well. Just add to my voicemail.

2189
01:37:44,160 --> 01:37:46,120
Speaker 3: Black Panther was also the first time a black man

2190
01:37:46,280 --> 01:37:49,040
Speaker 3: was called a gorilla, and I didn't cringe. Man Ape

2191
01:37:49,040 --> 01:37:52,320
Speaker 3: in the comics always came off as kind of stupid, unintelligent,

2192
01:37:52,600 --> 01:37:54,479
Speaker 3: and they gave him a lot more depth in my opinion,

2193
01:37:54,560 --> 01:37:57,479
Speaker 3: and frankly, growing up reading Black Panther, I thought the

2194
01:37:57,600 --> 01:37:58,120
Speaker 3: character was.

2195
01:37:58,080 --> 01:37:58,919
Speaker 2: A little racist.

2196
01:37:59,240 --> 01:38:03,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's true, everybody did Man eight Come on? I

2197
01:38:04,640 --> 01:38:06,519
Speaker 3: teared up watching it the second time because I love

2198
01:38:06,560 --> 01:38:09,080
Speaker 3: all the female characters in his film. That fight scene

2199
01:38:09,160 --> 01:38:11,400
Speaker 3: the casinos one of my favorite parts. A Koye flying

2200
01:38:11,439 --> 01:38:14,679
Speaker 3: down those stairs like an avenging angel, and every time

2201
01:38:14,720 --> 01:38:19,080
Speaker 3: she smiled while fighting. Y'all love the move where she

2202
01:38:19,640 --> 01:38:24,000
Speaker 3: takes the staff and knocks dude on both knees, hit

2203
01:38:24,120 --> 01:38:26,479
Speaker 3: him in the nuts, then tases him with one end

2204
01:38:26,560 --> 01:38:28,519
Speaker 3: of the stick and then kicks his ass down.

2205
01:38:28,360 --> 01:38:31,320
Speaker 2: Over the flight of stairs like nigga. Oh, she was

2206
01:38:31,320 --> 01:38:31,800
Speaker 2: so bad.

2207
01:38:32,439 --> 01:38:35,000
Speaker 3: Kill margat conversation with his father had me thinking about

2208
01:38:35,040 --> 01:38:37,840
Speaker 3: how African Americans are set apart and away that other

2209
01:38:37,880 --> 01:38:41,000
Speaker 3: blacks in the dash roup, because although we are all

2210
01:38:41,040 --> 01:38:43,040
Speaker 3: touched by slavery in some way, we as a people

2211
01:38:43,120 --> 01:38:47,280
Speaker 3: have a jadedness and bitterness that sometimes seems inescapable.

2212
01:38:47,640 --> 01:38:48,240
Speaker 2: We don't know.

2213
01:38:48,200 --> 01:38:50,880
Speaker 3: Who our tribes are or where we're from in a

2214
01:38:50,920 --> 01:38:54,040
Speaker 3: specific way. We're grasping at what information we can get.

2215
01:38:54,280 --> 01:38:56,320
Speaker 3: Kill Maga was in the same was the same and

2216
01:38:56,400 --> 01:38:59,000
Speaker 3: extreme way. He didn't come with respect, the reverence for

2217
01:38:59,040 --> 01:39:00,920
Speaker 3: a coach, and he knew he was somehow part of

2218
01:39:01,080 --> 01:39:04,799
Speaker 3: but yet resented, which also makes me think about Marcus

2219
01:39:04,840 --> 01:39:07,360
Speaker 3: Garvey and the Liberal Liberia project.

2220
01:39:08,360 --> 01:39:09,759
Speaker 2: Oh, this movie is so deep.

2221
01:39:11,080 --> 01:39:13,240
Speaker 3: Like you said, there's a lot more that can be

2222
01:39:13,280 --> 01:39:16,040
Speaker 3: said and discussed about and around this film for years

2223
01:39:16,040 --> 01:39:18,679
Speaker 3: to come, and I'm really happy about that. At least

2224
01:39:18,680 --> 01:39:21,519
Speaker 3: in my circles. We've had been having some conversations, especially

2225
01:39:21,520 --> 01:39:23,240
Speaker 3: when it comes to childhood hurts.

2226
01:39:23,000 --> 01:39:25,719
Speaker 2: About blackness and Africanness. Yeah.

2227
01:39:25,760 --> 01:39:27,919
Speaker 3: Man, I didn't grow up with a lot of Africans

2228
01:39:27,920 --> 01:39:31,920
Speaker 3: and shit, so I didn't I never had the I

2229
01:39:32,000 --> 01:39:34,600
Speaker 3: just don't have some of the issues around it that

2230
01:39:34,640 --> 01:39:36,920
Speaker 3: I think a lot of people have. I think, as

2231
01:39:36,960 --> 01:39:39,400
Speaker 3: with all things, when you're a kid, if you're introduced

2232
01:39:39,400 --> 01:39:41,800
Speaker 3: to a concept, a lot of good and a lot

2233
01:39:41,840 --> 01:39:44,760
Speaker 3: of bad happens right then and there. And there's the

2234
01:39:45,479 --> 01:39:49,160
Speaker 3: African Buddhist scratchers, Africans are dirty, nasty shit coming from

2235
01:39:49,200 --> 01:39:50,720
Speaker 3: African Americans.

2236
01:39:51,120 --> 01:39:51,840
Speaker 2: And then there's the.

2237
01:39:52,280 --> 01:39:55,360
Speaker 3: You motherfuckers don't know y'all people, y'all not the same

2238
01:39:55,400 --> 01:39:58,040
Speaker 3: as me. It's y'all all are the reasons you're oppressed

2239
01:39:58,040 --> 01:40:01,679
Speaker 3: because you do it to yourself coming from African people.

2240
01:40:01,720 --> 01:40:03,040
Speaker 2: And I've never really had.

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01:40:02,880 --> 01:40:07,040
Speaker 3: To experience that with anybody, thank god, So it just,

2242
01:40:07,439 --> 01:40:11,960
Speaker 3: you know, it just always came off as kind of

2243
01:40:12,040 --> 01:40:14,840
Speaker 3: theoretical for me. You know, I hear people talk about it,

2244
01:40:14,840 --> 01:40:16,240
Speaker 3: but I didn't have to deal with it, so and

2245
01:40:16,280 --> 01:40:18,599
Speaker 3: I'm glad to have not had to be on each

2246
01:40:18,680 --> 01:40:20,600
Speaker 3: side of that trauma where I said some fucked up

2247
01:40:20,600 --> 01:40:24,000
Speaker 3: shit about African people, or had it something said fucked

2248
01:40:24,080 --> 01:40:26,080
Speaker 3: up to me from African people, because I don't need

2249
01:40:26,120 --> 01:40:29,720
Speaker 3: another fucking trauma to undo as an adult, you know.

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01:40:31,080 --> 01:40:34,559
Speaker 3: And this has been a really cool experience to see

2251
01:40:34,640 --> 01:40:38,040
Speaker 3: most people just having a good time and vibing and

2252
01:40:38,040 --> 01:40:40,280
Speaker 3: feeling the unity that was the message of this movie.

2253
01:40:40,960 --> 01:40:44,120
Speaker 3: That is beautiful and I hope people can keep that

2254
01:40:44,160 --> 01:40:49,000
Speaker 3: feeling for a long time. Like, Okay, that's all I

2255
01:40:49,040 --> 01:40:50,800
Speaker 3: wanted to add. I could talk about this movie forever,

2256
01:40:50,880 --> 01:40:51,679
Speaker 3: Love you guys of mine.

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01:40:51,720 --> 01:40:52,400
Speaker 2: Thanks a min.

2258
01:40:53,880 --> 01:40:58,080
Speaker 1: And then last thing, we got this for my man.

2259
01:40:57,960 --> 01:41:01,920
Speaker 3: Monkey Blood Corey shout out to the address label where

2260
01:41:01,920 --> 01:41:03,160
Speaker 3: he literally put monkey blood.

2261
01:41:03,200 --> 01:41:05,320
Speaker 2: Though. I was like, what the hell.

2262
01:41:08,320 --> 01:41:11,120
Speaker 3: Like if somebody racist sentence to me, the man ape sentence,

2263
01:41:12,200 --> 01:41:15,559
Speaker 3: I don't want no monkey blood, man ain't but he says,

2264
01:41:15,600 --> 01:41:18,200
Speaker 3: thanks for the show, Rod and Karen. I threw in

2265
01:41:18,400 --> 01:41:23,840
Speaker 3: another one for Justin Corey and it's uh he's a

2266
01:41:24,160 --> 01:41:27,880
Speaker 3: I guess an artist and he gave us these prints

2267
01:41:27,920 --> 01:41:30,080
Speaker 3: of Black Panthers mask.

2268
01:41:30,320 --> 01:41:32,200
Speaker 2: Let me see if you guys can see it? Can

2269
01:41:32,240 --> 01:41:32,640
Speaker 2: I see it?

2270
01:41:34,880 --> 01:41:37,559
Speaker 3: And he gave one from me Justin and Karen. So

2271
01:41:37,720 --> 01:41:40,240
Speaker 3: thank you so much, man, this is these are super dope.

2272
01:41:41,720 --> 01:41:45,599
Speaker 3: See if I can frame these or something. Uh, but yeah,

2273
01:41:45,640 --> 01:41:47,759
Speaker 3: thank you man. He also put his card in here.

2274
01:41:48,360 --> 01:41:53,040
Speaker 3: He does tattoos monkey Blood tattoo at gmail dot com.

2275
01:41:53,320 --> 01:41:56,599
Speaker 2: Uh so yeah, that's that's dope man. If you need

2276
01:41:56,640 --> 01:41:59,000
Speaker 2: some tattoos, hit him up.

2277
01:41:59,040 --> 01:41:59,280
Speaker 4: Man.

2278
01:41:59,560 --> 01:42:02,360
Speaker 2: So appreciate you, bruh, and we will.

2279
01:42:02,720 --> 01:42:03,960
Speaker 3: Like I said, I'm gonna look for a frame and

2280
01:42:03,960 --> 01:42:05,679
Speaker 3: see if I can put this up in here somewhere.

2281
01:42:05,680 --> 01:42:07,320
Speaker 2: Man. It's funny.

2282
01:42:09,439 --> 01:42:11,559
Speaker 3: Every time I bought Black Panther tickets, I got an

2283
01:42:11,560 --> 01:42:13,360
Speaker 3: email like you want a free Black Panther poster? You

2284
01:42:13,360 --> 01:42:15,400
Speaker 3: want a free black panther poster, and I was gonna

2285
01:42:15,400 --> 01:42:16,960
Speaker 3: get it, but I thought it looked so ugly. I

2286
01:42:16,960 --> 01:42:19,080
Speaker 3: was like, I don't like this poster. It doesn't look good.

2287
01:42:19,600 --> 01:42:22,080
Speaker 3: And uh now I'm gonna take I'm gonna buy a

2288
01:42:22,080 --> 01:42:23,759
Speaker 3: frame for this and I'm gonna put this up instead.

2289
01:42:23,840 --> 01:42:27,640
Speaker 3: Come on, Tomorrow's guest will be Marsha Belski The Messagndry

2290
01:42:27,760 --> 01:42:29,360
Speaker 3: with Marsha and Ray Podcast.

2291
01:42:29,600 --> 01:42:32,920
Speaker 2: Oh now, yeah, I can't wait for that. She's uh,

2292
01:42:33,439 --> 01:42:34,960
Speaker 2: it should be real fun. Ten am.

2293
01:42:35,280 --> 01:42:39,000
Speaker 3: So we'll see you guys Sunday morning, all right, So

2294
01:42:39,160 --> 01:42:40,920
Speaker 3: until then, I love you.

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Speaker 1: I